Bullying sucks. Insecure people going after others just to feel better is terrible. But even though the bullies are going through some stuff it doesn't excuse their actions.
Yeah but they need more help than the people being bullied at this point. It might be a family problem like their parents getting divorced or something. It really isnt their fault if you think about it. they just need therapy or something
@@123nfq Ik that it's not their fault, but it's not like they'll just stop if you're nice to them. I agree that bullies should get more help though, we need better support in our schools for that kind of thing.
I absolutely love that you’re talking about this, because the truth is no matter how you look people will bully you! It’s not okay but the best response (like you said) would be just being nice! Compliment them if you need to! It will definitely throw them off guard but at least you’re being nice!
I think when someone posts something on the internet the best thing you can do is to watch without commentimg cause they can translate every comment you post negatively.. 😕
I agree Bullying is cruel. It can destroy someones mental health or if it is physical bullying, then even also physical health. Bullying is pointless. And so is making any contact with your bullies.
No joke I’m so happy I found your channel because I love the way you talk about situations in life, Thankyou for making me look at the world in a completely different way
Bullying comes in many ways like physically, mentally, and emotionally but its true those who bully are either they are going through something or are not okay physically, mentally, or emotionally I have gone through a couple of times in the 6 grade
listening to what you're saying has really made me think, the whole "the only reason people say bad things about another is because they aren't okay with themselves" is something I've always agreed with, but it really really clicked when I actually gained a self esteem. it's such an amazing feeling once you move past that self hatred/deprecation and the bullying no longer bothers you.
preach!! ive been harassed on numerous occasions for the way i look, for ex. my asian eyes, and very thin appearance and this has really helped me view these things in a different light, THANK U SARAH!!!!
this woman makes me feel so loved ❤️. as someone who's been bullied many times for my body (leading to some sort of body dysmorphia) this gives me so much hope that one day i could learn to love my body 🥰
This is such a kind message, and it shows that you really do care and that you have been on the victim end of bullying rather than the public education system that would just preach about it and turn around and not do a thing.
I can tell that this means a lot to her. She would definitely take all of the DreamSMP members under her wing especially Karl and Tubbo I feel. You are an amazing woman keep going!!
Look, whilst I came from Tommy’s channel, and he makes completely different content, I still find your channel so entertaining. I’m glad everyone is being so supportive rather than taking the piss, but keep up the good content.
I’m so happy that you’re speaking about this, i’ve dealt with cyber bullying and i’ve did “not so nice” things to myself and i’ve gotten past that. Thank you Sarah!
I've struggled with bullying all of my childhood. In school and out. I was traumatised by it and as a kid who wore their heart on their sleeve, I was badly hurt. I sometimes became the bully but I always stopped myslef, I was surrounded by people who's family lives were much worse than mine and they didn't know how to manage it so I was always kind towards them even though what they did to me was vile, but sometimes I did snap and slap someone or something xP But now I'm wiser and I chose my friends carefully and I've luckily managed to get out of the environments that have dehumanised me and I'm healing. Thank you for those kind words ❤ Means a lot :)
hey sarah, you probably wont see this but i just wanted to say that i find your videos incredibly comforting and i love what you do, i see you as almost another parent figure in my life and it's so nice hearing your advice for problems i've faced in the past, so thank you
I've been bullied for 5 years I always blamed myself thinking I'm not good enough It gave me trama to see them in school and that I still see them daily it's good to know it's not me it's them
I absolutely love when my Sarah Simons notif comes in . You always give such good advice and has inspired me to truly be myself and better myself in terms of self confidence . You truly are a wonderful woman who deserves the world
You have some amazing things to say, and I'm glad to see those things being put on TH-cam. I think everybody should see your videos, they're very insightful.
I’ve dealt with bullying for around 6 years, and it’s hard to always keep myself together when other people make me feel bad for liking a certain thing, or for being myself. I completely agree with everything you said. Some teenagers, including little children now days are the WORST. For two years now, I haven’t really given two shits about what people tell me. This video helped alot. Thank you Mrs.Simons :)
i like to think that sarah is a wonderful parent and that she would’ve been a much greater influence than my own. when she talks about these things it really brings me down to earth and i appreciate that a lot
I feel like it's an incredibly good take to confront them with genuine concern when it's an appropriate situation for it. I got bullied a lot in high school and now I'm in college, I discovered that a lot of those kids had a toxic environment at home. At first I still was very confused because I come from a place with childhood trauma and would not ever want anyone else to go through such a thing. But I later realized that it's mostly a reflection of their own experiences, and that broke my heart a bit. That doesn't excuse their wrong doings but it does humanize them a lot more.
As someone who was bullied quite a bit when I was younger - a lot younger, around eleven or so - it was always better to respond with a calm attitude or to walk away completely instead of engaging or being rude back. There were times I responded poorly or negatively that ended with a lot of hassle, and it could have gone a lot better if I'd schooled myself or stayed calm. It's a lot harder than it sounds, but with practice, it became the norm. Glad to say I'm not being bullied anymore, but I'm sure eleven-year-old-me would have appreciated this video a lot! Great work! :)
I really love your videos, you give me really kind and funny mom vibes, like someone I can go to talk to about anything and you’d be supportive. Your videos are something I look forward to!
I love your videos. I think it can apply to other things too. People try and appease others who won't accept them anyways, but in doing that they push away the people who would accept them, which just creates more problems and more bullying.
thank you for being an inspiration. ive started my own weight loss journey this week, i am starting out small but i think ill be able to continue with it. so thank you
Yaaay she posted she make's my day❤ i have a friend that started to bully me and i think this can help me becaause i did not know how to deal with the bullying thank you!!! Hope you have a great dayyyy!!!!!!
I'm so happy you are talking about this! I have been getting bullied a lot in school to the point I started to hate myself. I still do hate myself. I always thought I was the odd one out and the thing everyone should hate. Hell, those bullies decided to out me to most of my class which are homophobic! They even told who my crush(?) was. Notice how I put a question mark? It is bcz I'm trying to discover whether it is love or just infatuation. I'm not ready to come out, I'm not ready to say that "I have a crush on this person!" and it drived me crazy and I was so in shock, I just hated the whole world. What you said just makes me feel better! Thank you Sarah!
You’re so true! Once I saw a hate comment on some video and asked them why they would say something like that and that the other person might be hurt, so I asked really Kindly and than the person also answers calm so they said that they’re sorry and deleted the hate comment. So you’re 100% right that you should just answer calm because if not it’s just gonna built up anger
i adore the way you talk about things , it’s so refreshing to hear it from someone your age (no offence!) but it’s so nice as a young person to hear a clear, thoughtout perspective :)
This made me feel much better after today, thank you :) I experience transphobia literally about everyday and often by strangers because i’m in an unaccepting household, so i can’t do a whole lot to how i look since i don’t want to make my family suspicious that i am trans. It really bugs me because i know that if i could get a few things i can’t at the moment i would hardly have to experience transphobia because i pass often to strangers with what little i can do to make myself look more masculine. So I’m at a weird inbetween of not being out to anyone but also making strangers confused, and it’s frustrating that i have to stay in this weird middle ground for the next year until i can move out. The amount of people that will use he/him on me until they learn my birth name and STRESS the “ma’am’s” and all is just really depressing.
I literally got PTSD from a period of bullying that lasted almost 9 years (3-11 years old), and my parents and I understood the concept and its cause a little too late. It's nice to know that other people have the same thoughts about bullying than us, and it's even nicer that people are willing to talk about it in a short youtube video :'''3
Thank you for the advice, I have been really nervous because I am going into 7th grade and just scared if I'm going to get bullied, because I have been bullied before and so I needed that advice. Thank you!!
I have had this thought around a week ago and came to a similar conclusion; My conclusion was not to answer them a mad answer calmly but to try to trick them with an answer that represents them how dumb they sound/look in front of me. That is kinda nasty but it works for me..! Btw thank you for making this video! You made me realize that I am not the only one in this world that thinks about this stuff the way me and you do!
As someone who went through bullying because of some rumor. I recommend just not listening to them. Bullying can seriously hurt someone. I know it can be hard at times when people are constantly bullying you but I promise you it WILL get better. Talk to someone about your problem I promise it will help. I love you guys
I used to get bullied and it was horrible! It even made me feel insecure about myself even tho the bullying ended a long time ago it still haunts me and the bullying memories wont go away so please don't bully someone.
bullying is such a bad thing, I really hate it, but I've got really used to it that I started to thank them and take it as a compliment and then just walk away not caring if they're getting angrier and angrier. And sometimes they get so mad that they start to kinda push me or beat me, but they've always got in trouble for that.
You probably get this a lot but your videos are really good, the topics you talk about are always relatable thing and you have such a good input and you've always got the right idea, thanks for always just being so great:]
I got bullied from 6 yo almost every day until I reach 17. they tell me I look like squid, I look like a girl, they torturing me with words. I start smoking to look cool when I entered college and to look manly but still getting bullied. I starting my work at office but still getting bullied. so I decide to stop caring about it and enjoy my life. it works well, my life improves, successfully quit smoking, although I am the biggest introvert, I live life happily with my family and have supportive close friends. I still have really weird fetish for coping mechanisms but my advice to anyone getting bullied, just stop react and feeling sad about it because thats what the bully want, they want you to feel insecure. drugs, alcohol or cigarettes won’t solve your problems at all, enjoy everything you do and forget about unimportant people. find someone that can give your life a better light 🥰
It’s a shame big man Tommy was bullied for TH-cam at first, look at him now! 10 mil and rising, if you’re reading this you are amazing and will do what you want some day
bullying sucks i was bullied on my entire school life (except high school years) and i was so traumatized because they bullied me for being different from the other boys but i was like 10yo how kids at the same age as me already had the head full off discrimination and i couldn't tell anyone and people that saw it stayed quiet! thanks for the video sarah (:
As a person who has been bullied since I was 5 years old, I grew up with people telling me horrible stuff and homophobic comments towards me. I had a really bad time back then, hurting myself and closing myself into my little bubble but the thing I learned is to give zero fucks about what people think because as long as a something I do makes me happy, then it's right if I keep doing it. Social media helped me a lot, I found new friends (even though they live in another country) and I love sharing my opinions even if some people don't agree with me. TO EVERYONE WHO IS BEING BULLIED: I know it's a hard time but you need to try and don't give a shit of what they think. Keep doing what you love and what makes you happy :]
My mum usually tells me to say 'okay, and? I don't see what that has to do with you?' If someone is being nasty about my weight, she has also taught me to not give 2 shits about it lmao, seeing you talk about it just gives me confirmation that, that is what I should do, so thank you
I was bullied everyday up on till I was 13 after that It slowly died down cuz I learned to manage my reactions It’s been one and half year since I last was harassed (someone found out I was Bi and decided to bully me) But i only was able to get out of the situation cuz of not reacting and getting a new class I moved once before but cuz I didn’t change my behavior it kept on I’m so glad I’ve changed but I also have felt so alone dealing with the after effects I never have gotten help for anything the help I used to get was being told to ignore the bullies and I tried but at that point it had gotten so bad that they kept going knowing I’d break at some point and I did they were horrid towards me I still struggle with many things from my past but im so glad I was able to get away from it my next goal in life is to heal from it
the worst thing is that when the bullies are the people u thought were the kindest, the people u wanna be friends with, i transferred to this catholic school they all seem kind at first but if u open ur eyes and look at them the best thing that u can do is to just dont socialize at all , they are unconsciously bullying me, they act like they're the victim
Bullying sucks. Insecure people going after others just to feel better is terrible. But even though the bullies are going through some stuff it doesn't excuse their actions.
Yeah but they need more help than the people being bullied at this point. It might be a family problem like their parents getting divorced or something. It really isnt their fault if you think about it. they just need therapy or something
@@123nfq Ik that it's not their fault, but it's not like they'll just stop if you're nice to them. I agree that bullies should get more help though, we need better support in our schools for that kind of thing.
@@maccie_dssssss4592 Yeah i know it sucks. schools dont do shit about it
@Eximo No. No, I don't think you have. (:
@Eximo bruhh
I absolutely love that you’re talking about this, because the truth is no matter how you look people will bully you! It’s not okay but the best response (like you said) would be just being nice! Compliment them if you need to! It will definitely throw them off guard but at least you’re being nice!
Yeah, sometimes if you complement them, it will throw them off but, sometimes it won’t.
@@itshamstertime2709 yeah! I just try to do at least one thing to throw them off, wether it’s complementing them of hanging out with their mum.
@@sephtis9203 nice
@@itshamstertime2709 ye
I think when someone posts something on the internet the best thing you can do is to watch without commentimg cause they can translate every comment you post negatively.. 😕
I agree Bullying is cruel.
It can destroy someones mental health or if it is physical bullying, then even also physical health.
Bullying is pointless. And so is making any contact with your bullies.
most people bully because they have problems themself so they take the anger out on other people. They might need therapy because of whatever happened
@@123nfq or just for fun.
@@azrael_pendragon yeah but most are just taking anger out on people weaker than them because they are insecure
You are so kind Mrs. Simons! Thank you for making people feel better❤️
Any one else think she should start a podcast?????
yes omg
Good idea! That would be amazing.
OMG YEESS..😍
That's an amazing idea
yesssss
No joke I’m so happy I found your channel because I love the way you talk about situations in life, Thankyou for making me look at the world in a completely different way
agreed
Agree
I agree
I agree
Facts
today's a good days ladies and gentlemen
Agreed! Always a good day when Sarah uploads!
Yes it is…
(and good people of the internet in general)
Bullying comes in many ways like physically, mentally, and emotionally but its true those who bully are either they are going through something or are not okay physically, mentally, or emotionally I have gone through a couple of times in the 6 grade
Me to man
listening to what you're saying has really made me think, the whole "the only reason people say bad things about another is because they aren't okay with themselves" is something I've always agreed with, but it really really clicked when I actually gained a self esteem. it's such an amazing feeling once you move past that self hatred/deprecation and the bullying no longer bothers you.
The 'Hello!' gave me so much serotonin! ♥️
your vibes always make me feel so safe :,)
preach!! ive been harassed on numerous occasions for the way i look, for ex. my asian eyes, and very thin appearance and this has really helped me view these things in a different light, THANK U SARAH!!!!
Well said, Sarah, it’s nice to get a different perspective on bullying by going into the reasoning behind the bullying commencing. Keep it up!
@Noah Magill I am the real myself, believe it or not.
this woman makes me feel so loved ❤️.
as someone who's been bullied many times for my body (leading to some sort of body dysmorphia) this gives me so much hope that one day i could learn to love my body 🥰
I love her already. I see where Tom gets his personality from.
This is such a kind message, and it shows that you really do care and that you have been on the victim end of bullying rather than the public education system that would just preach about it and turn around and not do a thing.
You must be such a great mother! Tommy is quite lucky you go girl!
I can tell that this means a lot to her. She would definitely take all of the DreamSMP members under her wing especially Karl and Tubbo I feel. You are an amazing woman keep going!!
Look, whilst I came from Tommy’s channel, and he makes completely different content, I still find your channel so entertaining. I’m glad everyone is being so supportive rather than taking the piss, but keep up the good content.
Her son on his youtube channel last week: "I don't get bullied, i do the bullying"
Sarah this week: *Makes a video on bullying*
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree !D
IKR THE DIFFERENCE THEYRE SO DIFFERENT BUT SIMULAR AT THE SAME TIME
lol
I was just thinking that
plot twist: after the video when she heard that, she got the belt.
I’m so happy that you’re speaking about this, i’ve dealt with cyber bullying and i’ve did “not so nice” things to myself and i’ve gotten past that. Thank you Sarah!
I've struggled with bullying all of my childhood. In school and out. I was traumatised by it and as a kid who wore their heart on their sleeve, I was badly hurt. I sometimes became the bully but I always stopped myslef, I was surrounded by people who's family lives were much worse than mine and they didn't know how to manage it so I was always kind towards them even though what they did to me was vile, but sometimes I did snap and slap someone or something xP But now I'm wiser and I chose my friends carefully and I've luckily managed to get out of the environments that have dehumanised me and I'm healing. Thank you for those kind words ❤ Means a lot :)
I'm..I'm so sorry for u..I hope ur doing great now
@@dina.s2063 I am thank you
@@aalishawithtwoas Omg yayy..I'm soo happy for u 💓
I hope u have the best life 😊
Mrs. Simons is so adorable and sweet. I love her to death and she always spreads love and confidence!
you’re an inspiration, thank yu
i love you so much! keep up the great work!! you are helping a lot of people including me, ive felt a load better watching your videos
Sarah is such a huge inspiration, I aspire to be like her one day.
hey sarah, you probably wont see this but i just wanted to say that i find your videos incredibly comforting and i love what you do, i see you as almost another parent figure in my life and it's so nice hearing your advice for problems i've faced in the past, so thank you
I've been bullied for 5 years I always blamed myself thinking I'm not good enough It gave me trama to see them in school and that I still see them daily it's good to know it's not me it's them
Thank you Mrs. Simons, this is actually really refreshing. Thank you for the advice!
I absolutely love when my Sarah Simons notif comes in . You always give such good advice and has inspired me to truly be myself and better myself in terms of self confidence . You truly are a wonderful woman who deserves the world
Awwww she's so sweett...
My heart is melting...
I love it when she says "Hello!"
It's just so happy and positive
You have some amazing things to say, and I'm glad to see those things being put on TH-cam. I think everybody should see your videos, they're very insightful.
Bullying should end.
You are so kind and I can tell this will help so many people!!
I’ve dealt with bullying for around 6 years, and it’s hard to always keep myself together when other people make me feel bad for liking a certain thing, or for being myself. I completely agree with everything you said. Some teenagers, including little children now days are the WORST. For two years now, I haven’t really given two shits about what people tell me. This video helped alot. Thank you Mrs.Simons :)
Miss Simmons is SWEARING???!!!!!!!!!!!
HOLY SHT-
this helped me out a lot thank you miss
i was bullied a few years back in school, but i still receive comments online - this is really comforting, thank you !
i like to think that sarah is a wonderful parent and that she would’ve been a much greater influence than my own. when she talks about these things it really brings me down to earth and i appreciate that a lot
I feel like it's an incredibly good take to confront them with genuine concern when it's an appropriate situation for it. I got bullied a lot in high school and now I'm in college, I discovered that a lot of those kids had a toxic environment at home. At first I still was very confused because I come from a place with childhood trauma and would not ever want anyone else to go through such a thing. But I later realized that it's mostly a reflection of their own experiences, and that broke my heart a bit. That doesn't excuse their wrong doings but it does humanize them a lot more.
WORD Sarah!! Thanks for speaking up om this! Love the energy❤️❤️❤️
As someone who was bullied quite a bit when I was younger - a lot younger, around eleven or so - it was always better to respond with a calm attitude or to walk away completely instead of engaging or being rude back. There were times I responded poorly or negatively that ended with a lot of hassle, and it could have gone a lot better if I'd schooled myself or stayed calm. It's a lot harder than it sounds, but with practice, it became the norm. Glad to say I'm not being bullied anymore, but I'm sure eleven-year-old-me would have appreciated this video a lot! Great work! :)
Awww this will really help me! Thank you for making videos! This made my day!
You are so kind Mrs. Simons! Thank you for making people feel better❤️
Woah that "hello!" woke me up, i was nearly sleeping haha
Haha yes, Reminds me of Stampy.
that hello reminds me of stampy cat
haha same
@@aprilfroyo2883 oh my god, yes
Thank you for this video. I was bullied at school and I've never thought about it in this way. I can't wait to see your next video Mrs Sarah! ❤
I really love your videos, you give me really kind and funny mom vibes, like someone I can go to talk to about anything and you’d be supportive. Your videos are something I look forward to!
I love these videos, I always feel so welcomed and comforted watching.
Thank you for your videos!! I love them and love your view on bullying. I was the same way about being verbally bullied until this past year.
It's nice to watch this channel it feels very natural just very positive I love it a lot
I love your videos. I think it can apply to other things too. People try and appease others who won't accept them anyways, but in doing that they push away the people who would accept them, which just creates more problems and more bullying.
Thank you for speaking about this! I love how your videos always give a different perspective on various topics!
thank you for being an inspiration. ive started my own weight loss journey this week, i am starting out small but i think ill be able to continue with it. so thank you
Thank you for this. Your videos are so comforting for me and I wish there were more people like you. You're so smart and give off wonderful vibes
As someone who is a victim of bullying, thank you for all of the kind words directed towards people in the same situation as me :D
Yaaay she posted she make's my day❤ i have a friend that started to bully me and i think this can help me becaause i did not know how to deal with the bullying thank you!!! Hope you have a great dayyyy!!!!!!
I'm so happy you are talking about this! I have been getting bullied a lot in school to the point I started to hate myself. I still do hate myself. I always thought I was the odd one out and the thing everyone should hate. Hell, those bullies decided to out me to most of my class which are homophobic! They even told who my crush(?) was. Notice how I put a question mark? It is bcz I'm trying to discover whether it is love or just infatuation. I'm not ready to come out, I'm not ready to say that "I have a crush on this person!" and it drived me crazy and I was so in shock, I just hated the whole world. What you said just makes me feel better! Thank you Sarah!
You’re so true! Once I saw a hate comment on some video and asked them why they would say something like that and that the other person might be hurt, so I asked really Kindly and than the person also answers calm so they said that they’re sorry and deleted the hate comment. So you’re 100% right that you should just answer calm because if not it’s just gonna built up anger
i adore the way you talk about things , it’s so refreshing to hear it from someone your age (no offence!) but it’s so nice as a young person to hear a clear, thoughtout perspective :)
her voice is so soothing
I'm actually such a massive fan of this channel
yeah, i often think about why people are bullying and feel really bad for them
I love waking up and seeing that u posted, it always brightens up my day! Thank u!
I love your take on this. Thank you for sharing😁
This made me feel much better after today, thank you :) I experience transphobia literally about everyday and often by strangers because i’m in an unaccepting household, so i can’t do a whole lot to how i look since i don’t want to make my family suspicious that i am trans. It really bugs me because i know that if i could get a few things i can’t at the moment i would hardly have to experience transphobia because i pass often to strangers with what little i can do to make myself look more masculine. So I’m at a weird inbetween of not being out to anyone but also making strangers confused, and it’s frustrating that i have to stay in this weird middle ground for the next year until i can move out. The amount of people that will use he/him on me until they learn my birth name and STRESS the “ma’am’s” and all is just really depressing.
cringe
this is very true sarah! thank you
so you saw the video in 30 sec hhahah dude you are good as you are no need to try and farm likes
@@Erikhanerskucool123 he isn’t tryna farm likes, he’s saying thanks.
Your greeting to each video is so cheery, it makes my day!
I literally got PTSD from a period of bullying that lasted almost 9 years (3-11 years old), and my parents and I understood the concept and its cause a little too late. It's nice to know that other people have the same thoughts about bullying than us, and it's even nicer that people are willing to talk about it in a short youtube video :'''3
Thank you for the advice, I have been really nervous because I am going into 7th grade and just scared if I'm going to get bullied, because I have been bullied before and so I needed that advice.
Thank you!!
Sarah is a fountain of good energy!💗
I have had this thought around a week ago and came to a similar conclusion;
My conclusion was not to answer them a mad answer calmly but to try to trick them with an answer that represents them how dumb they sound/look in front of me.
That is kinda nasty but it works for me..!
Btw thank you for making this video!
You made me realize that I am not the only one in this world that thinks about this stuff the way me and you do!
You are an inspiration Mrs, Simons!!
As someone who went through bullying because of some rumor. I recommend just not listening to them. Bullying can seriously hurt someone. I know it can be hard at times when people are constantly bullying you but I promise you it WILL get better. Talk to someone about your problem I promise it will help. I love you guys
Every time you upload it makes my day brighter :)
Sarah you're such an amazing person, you've helped me so much!
this is such a complex topic and i still can't quite get how the mind of a bully works. i think the best for now is just "kill them with kindness".
I used to get bullied and it was horrible! It even made me feel insecure about myself even tho the bullying ended a long time ago it still haunts me and the bullying memories wont go away so please don't bully someone.
this is so wholesome, you're like the mum I always wish I had
Wow. You are a really good person, your son is hilarious too! Props to you!
bullying is such a bad thing, I really hate it, but I've got really used to it that I started to thank them and take it as a compliment and then just walk away not caring if they're getting angrier and angrier. And sometimes they get so mad that they start to kinda push me or beat me, but they've always got in trouble for that.
Sarah is the most helping person in the world
Agree
You probably get this a lot but your videos are really good, the topics you talk about are always relatable thing and you have such a good input and you've always got the right idea, thanks for always just being so great:]
I never thought a teenagers mother could touch my heart the same way this women has
I got bullied from 6 yo almost every day until I reach 17. they tell me I look like squid, I look like a girl, they torturing me with words. I start smoking to look cool when I entered college and to look manly but still getting bullied. I starting my work at office but still getting bullied. so I decide to stop caring about it and enjoy my life. it works well, my life improves, successfully quit smoking, although I am the biggest introvert, I live life happily with my family and have supportive close friends. I still have really weird fetish for coping mechanisms but my advice to anyone getting bullied, just stop react and feeling sad about it because thats what the bully want, they want you to feel insecure. drugs, alcohol or cigarettes won’t solve your problems at all, enjoy everything you do and forget about unimportant people. find someone that can give your life a better light 🥰
It’s a shame big man Tommy was bullied for TH-cam at first, look at him now! 10 mil and rising, if you’re reading this you are amazing and will do what you want some day
bullying sucks i was bullied on my entire school life (except high school years) and i was so traumatized because they bullied me for being different from the other boys but i was like 10yo how kids at the same age as me already had the head full off discrimination and i couldn't tell anyone and people that saw it stayed quiet! thanks for the video sarah (:
YES!!!! Thank you I’ve been saying this forever but I never take it towards myself.
shes gonna see this and say “is that my son?” LOL
@@liv748 BRO!!! I didn’t even-*sigh*…….AHHHHHHH!!!! I honestly forgot about my pfp
Very great advice!! Thank you!
I think listening to you will make me a better person, and I like that :)
I love that you're talking about this I was told to k!|| Myself by "family" bulling just sucks overall
We love you mrs Sarah!
I had to switch schools because of bullying. Fortunately, it was the best school i went to and made some of the greatest friends.
I’ve started to try to ignore what people try to say to me, but when they say something to my friends I can’t ignore it
As a person who has been bullied since I was 5 years old, I grew up with people telling me horrible stuff and homophobic comments towards me. I had a really bad time back then, hurting myself and closing myself into my little bubble but the thing I learned is to give zero fucks about what people think because as long as a something I do makes me happy, then it's right if I keep doing it. Social media helped me a lot, I found new friends (even though they live in another country) and I love sharing my opinions even if some people don't agree with me.
TO EVERYONE WHO IS BEING BULLIED:
I know it's a hard time but you need to try and don't give a shit of what they think. Keep doing what you love and what makes you happy :]
Once again another great video! I love hearing you talk about things like this :D
Sarah thank you for the advice it really helped a lot. I hope u have a great day!💛
You are a wonderful human, Sarah. Very lovely words btw. Hope you have a lovely day.
Thank you for this youve really helped me with all your videos
My mum usually tells me to say 'okay, and? I don't see what that has to do with you?' If someone is being nasty about my weight, she has also taught me to not give 2 shits about it lmao, seeing you talk about it just gives me confirmation that, that is what I should do, so thank you
I was bullied everyday up on till I was 13 after that It slowly died down cuz I learned to manage my reactions
It’s been one and half year since I last was harassed (someone found out I was Bi and decided to bully me)
But i only was able to get out of the situation cuz of not reacting and getting a new class
I moved once before but cuz I didn’t change my behavior it kept on
I’m so glad I’ve changed but I also have felt so alone dealing with the after effects I never have gotten help for anything the help I used to get was being told to ignore the bullies and I tried but at that point it had gotten so bad that they kept going knowing I’d break at some point and I did they were horrid towards me
I still struggle with many things from my past but im so glad I was able to get away from it my next goal in life is to heal from it
the worst thing is that when the bullies are the people u thought were the kindest, the people u wanna be friends with, i transferred to this catholic school they all seem kind at first but if u open ur eyes and look at them the best thing that u can do is to just dont socialize at all , they are unconsciously bullying me, they act like they're the victim