How to (not) be Passive Aggressive
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ธ.ค. 2016
- Serbian Talk vs. American Talk
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Brilliant!! :))) this is how passive aggressive behaviour is developed. People should learn to communicate directly and express their emotions because no one reads minds or understand ones feelings unless are told directly. Love it!!
I live in London and people do the same as Americans. It's called "politness" or "politically correctness" yet many are having a handicap when it comes to communicate openly and from the heart.
Great! So true! I absolutely love the way you explain it!
In Serbia, we would say someone is not passively aggressive he or she is just hypocritical...
Danilo Vucurovic brilliant now we are talking
I'm half Czech and half English people in the Czech Republic don't care what people think they don't fear confrontation (well not everyone but most) and say it to your face in England there can be people like this but a lot are the complete opposite and before I moved back I didn't fear confontation after comimg back to the UK I lost my confidence through being told to hold my opinion back and keep it to myself "because it will cause problems" this also made my temper lenghen and I ended up letting people walk all over me and nowadays when I really wanna tell someone something and stand up for myself It really takes a while to pick the confidence up and to lose my shit I actually hate the fact that I've lost my confidence in conflict and gained such a shit habbit
This resonates so much with me. It happen to me too after living for 12 years in London.
Claudia Nita me too
Thanks for sharing this I was blaming it on myself and every else driving myself crazy wondering what happened to me this is exactly it that’s it
Ukrainian here, same shit happened to me after living in Sweden
Great examples.. grew up more direct but now being more passive aggressive.
Rejection in Serbia: who is your dad/uncle/aunt again? No strings no job!
Couldn't agree more! Although you will find that communication in the NYC area is still considered "direct", compared to the west coast. Here, beating around the bush is on another level :)
I love this. Funny af
Awesome video! Keep em coming! Please make longer ones for my daughter to learn how to stop being passive aggressive
Serbia sounds an awful lot like my house!
Love direct speech and straightforward, I love nice people doesn’t mean Hypocrites In some European countries and the USA some people seem, speak and act nice but damn hypocrite inside.
So basically one Is direct and blunt and the other one is sugar coating and dosen't like offending or upsetting someone.
Great video of Serbs and Americans. My dad was born in Serbia and my moms people came from Serbia. My dad related to a lot of what you spoke about. They never spoke Serbian around me and my older brother. We lived next to baba, my dads mother. He was the oldest in his family and close to his mom. Most of the time at baba house , she usually told me in Serbian equivaliant ( not sure of spelling) go home go home. Dad used to say Doberman don a lot.
Ha!!! True & funny. :-)
Funny thing is that in the end the result is the same. Im equali devastated if i dont get the job no matter how it is worded.
I was just going through this in a chapter
Unfuck your mind audiobook..
As an Iranian, I’d say Americans are far less passive than us :)))))
Couldn't agree more. Such a bad cultural trait we have... :,)
You are doing great! But may I ask why you cut scenes so much?
I love your expression, don`t you dare change it :) laughed a lot during the vid .
Peace from Poland Joyfully Brutal.
I think I would fit in well in Serbia, this is exactly how I communicate, by the way you're gorgeous.
Weird I’m a passive aggressive a$$hole..idk how that works but no one has beat my a$$ 💅🏾 I must be doing something right 😂
Luv It!
Come to England! Were direct, rude and also passive... it's awful!
I love this video. I'm from Hungary and in your comparison to the US you could easily replace Serbia with Hungary as we are also talking very directly at all times. I live in the UK and they talk the same like you said in the US.
I lived in Budapest for 4 years - I know what you mean! 😁
Team Serbia
I'm from NJ, I don't do passive aggressive. Not all of America is passive aggressive. Where in America did you live at?
NJ and NYC! And thank goodness not everyone is passive aggressive! ;)
@@joyfullybrutal774 I guess you didn't deal with many Puerto Ricans, Italians or Jewish folks from that area because usually they are not like that. Those are the largest groups in the NYC area. And they're pretty blunt. That part of the Northeast is very ethnic and we don't really waste time.
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Pozdrav iz Hrvatske.
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i kinda prefer american passive aggressive version X)
Ha ha, good point!!!!
This is so awesome.... No...this is so awesome! 😊 -American.
Your English is excellent! I would never have suspected that you were not a native speaker.
I don’t know what American parents you’ve observed.....
I think you really outta change this title 😂
You can be soothing without being passive agressive. And you can be assertive without being rude. This just seems like a cultural divergence
Oh my God laugh out loud .
I'm polish-american and I think the same thing Americans just beat around the bush it could be really annoying actually.
Suzi Hazlove it must be a Slavic thing. I have Russian friends who make the same complaint. And sometimes, they can come across as abrasive when all they are doing is being direct.
I like you because you make a lot since and because your so damned cute. Do more videos woman.
william farmer More videos coming! Thanks for the support 🤓
I feel like you’re passively aggressively ranting. I live in the states and we are some of the most DIRECT people around. I have lived in two European countries including England where they apologize for you bumping into them!?!
S S interesting! It varies between Eastern and Western Europe for sure 😉