I'm fully invested. This is so deeply personal. Its easy to say what to do on the outside, but i can't imagine separating from someone I've been with since 5 and who got me through some of the hardest times in my life then turned around and betrayed me but was clearly remorseful about it. Ugh.
then it's easier to say that cheating is not a deal breaker, because it's not. He was still weighing, there are stories here where the OPs lost a marriage of 15, 20, 30 years and a relationship longer than this one, and they still got their attorney the moment that their partners cheated on them. *That* is what deal breaker means. @@dianaclark3916
My problem with these reddit stories 1. Why do these stories always include details that have nothing to do with the main narrative? 2. Why does every cheating story feature the original poster stating that cheating is a deal breaker, yet they spend 75% of the story contemplating whether to divorce or not?
Man, I cannot agree more with what you've said. Despite loudly proclaiming that cheating is a deal breaker, so few men have the spirit and self-respect to live up to what they say. Simps and their whiny story disgust me.
Story 1. Op is doing too damn much. Divorce or don't. But make up your mind. A lie detector test? Stop torturing yourself. This guy is exhausting. I don't even feel sorry for him as the story continues.
That assumes she isn't making it up. As a rule of thumb if someone cheated, even if just emotionally, then they aren't trustworthy. It's upsetting but some women tend to use SA as a way to avoid responsibility; of course horrid because it just makes it harder for women who actually are SA'd to get justice/move on.
@@ARcinderI mean that’s a pretty wild statement to make. Like yeah she intended to cheat but that doesn’t change what happened to her. We can acknowledge both horrible things at once. Yes she was sexually assaulted and yes she fully intended to cheat but instead it ended in SA. It doesn’t change anything but it needs to be acknowledged
@@kay-leighlewis9322 Everyone with a brain would say she wasn't sexually assaulted. She took every step possible to progress the affair and hide it. And when asked about it she lied about details. This is like a UFC fighter claiming they were attacked after they walked in the octagon.
Why would any self-respecting man take back a cheater, especially when they start off lying saying it only happened once and then you find out its been going on for months. The worst part is if you found out they were willing to do sexual act for the affair partner that they wouldnt even think twice about doing with you
Man, I cannot agree more with what you've said. Despite loudly proclaiming that cheating is a deal breaker, so few men have the spirit and self-respect to live up to what they say. Simps and their whiny story disgust me
A lot of women cheat due to sociopaths manipulating them; it doesn't change a thing. They allowed themselves to be manipulated. Why would any married man or woman be getting so emotionally close to someone other than their spouse? Even if she trusted her boss, why would a married woman enter a married man's room in a hotel? If people took into consideration their marriages before acting these things would never happen.
@@tabicat.puccino7425 😃 My parents and their friends broke me for their pleasure since I was a toddler which has led me to freezing up frequently (though not cheating.) Regrets? I'm not my older sister. She became thirty thousand dollars richer through blackmail. Lol hahaha I lack the ice running through my veins.
Good riddance. The cheating ex who couldn't keep her legs closed and got slapped by her supervisors wife, saying that she made a mistake she didn't made a mistake she made a decision for spreading her legs for a sucker smh the woman had no moral nor self respect for herself
Kinda sounds like she got SAed (assuming anything she said true). But also some of the things she says in her timeline makes it sound like shes trying to minimise her role in the EA though. Or that shes trying to rationalise it.
and this, my friends, shows just how to not say that cheating is a deal breaker for you when it is NOT a FUCKING DEAL BREAKER if it was, OP would have contacted an attorney the moment he got out of the house the first time and not go rambling about the possibilities. he is a freaking pushover mwn, it's tiring.
What a weak pathetic idiot guy. This guy loves drama just like the cheating wife. Cry, breakdown and asks stupid questions. Instead of wasting time writing to reddit, just divorce her!
Change the title bro, she didnt cheat, she was assaulted. 😢 Then again, considering most of these videos are misogynist/incel/pickme bait, I see why you titled it that way.
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save you guys the trouble, there's no real resolution at the end. op just breaks down constantly
That's no trouble man that's real human complexity. Most of these cut and dry non human stories be bs .THIS IS A HUMAN
I'm fully invested. This is so deeply personal. Its easy to say what to do on the outside, but i can't imagine separating from someone I've been with since 5 and who got me through some of the hardest times in my life then turned around and betrayed me but was clearly remorseful about it. Ugh.
Based. Whole Saga myass. This OP just rambling like crackasaurus who lost their drug
then it's easier to say that cheating is not a deal breaker, because it's not. He was still weighing, there are stories here where the OPs lost a marriage of 15, 20, 30 years and a relationship longer than this one, and they still got their attorney the moment that their partners cheated on them. *That* is what deal breaker means. @@dianaclark3916
@@killahroundz457 yes, also people come back with updates 5 years later and true, idk you want a resolution? May I suggest netflix?
My problem with these reddit stories
1. Why do these stories always include details that have nothing to do with the main narrative?
2. Why does every cheating story feature the original poster stating that cheating is a deal breaker, yet they spend 75% of the story contemplating whether to divorce or not?
Man, I cannot agree more with what you've said. Despite loudly proclaiming that cheating is a deal breaker, so few men have the spirit and self-respect to live up to what they say. Simps and their whiny story disgust me.
You have keep in mind that a certain type of person seeks out relationship advice from Reddit. It’s kind of a soft community
@@YouArentSlick
So true
Most of these stories are karma farming. They're not meant to be taken seriously
It's because in their mind they're actually men, but when it happens they become children.
Story 1. Op is doing too damn much. Divorce or don't. But make up your mind. A lie detector test? Stop torturing yourself. This guy is exhausting. I don't even feel sorry for him as the story continues.
ok she cheated emotionally but got saed.
This. She had a freeze response and was assaulted.
That assumes she isn't making it up.
As a rule of thumb if someone cheated, even if just emotionally, then they aren't trustworthy.
It's upsetting but some women tend to use SA as a way to avoid responsibility; of course horrid because it just makes it harder for women who actually are SA'd to get justice/move on.
emotional affair bruh
@@ARcinderI mean that’s a pretty wild statement to make. Like yeah she intended to cheat but that doesn’t change what happened to her. We can acknowledge both horrible things at once. Yes she was sexually assaulted and yes she fully intended to cheat but instead it ended in SA. It doesn’t change anything but it needs to be acknowledged
@@kay-leighlewis9322 Everyone with a brain would say she wasn't sexually assaulted. She took every step possible to progress the affair and hide it. And when asked about it she lied about details. This is like a UFC fighter claiming they were attacked after they walked in the octagon.
The best part of the story is OP’s wife getting her shit rocked by her AP’s wife. 😂
Why would any self-respecting man take back a cheater, especially when they start off lying saying it only happened once and then you find out its been going on for months. The worst part is if you found out they were willing to do sexual act for the affair partner that they wouldnt even think twice about doing with you
You answered your own question there mate 'self respecting man'
Man, I cannot agree more with what you've said. Despite loudly proclaiming that cheating is a deal breaker, so few men have the spirit and self-respect to live up to what they say. Simps and their whiny story disgust me
Sounds like ops wife was manipulated
dont care
A lot of women cheat due to sociopaths manipulating them; it doesn't change a thing. They allowed themselves to be manipulated.
Why would any married man or woman be getting so emotionally close to someone other than their spouse?
Even if she trusted her boss, why would a married woman enter a married man's room in a hotel?
If people took into consideration their marriages before acting these things would never happen.
@@tabicat.puccino7425 😃 My parents and their friends broke me for their pleasure since I was a toddler which has led me to freezing up frequently (though not cheating.) Regrets? I'm not my older sister. She became thirty thousand dollars richer through blackmail. Lol hahaha I lack the ice running through my veins.
Good riddance. The cheating ex who couldn't keep her legs closed and got slapped by her supervisors wife, saying that she made a mistake she didn't made a mistake she made a decision for spreading her legs for a sucker smh the woman had no moral nor self respect for herself
Idk man. Partway through this sounds like wife was SA'd and neither of them realize.
Bro's writing that slow burn fanfiction 200K words Hurt/Comfort
She really thought she'd get away with it 😳
Kinda sounds like she got SAed (assuming anything she said true). But also some of the things she says in her timeline makes it sound like shes trying to minimise her role in the EA though. Or that shes trying to rationalise it.
this guy is acting like he had the affair, asking her out after their split
That's sounds too much like SA.
I listened to this whole long story just for it to end without any resolution??!!?!?!? I want my 1 hour and 9 minutes back!!!! This was a rip off
Big news, this dude makes it hard to feel bad for him
and this, my friends, shows just how to not say that cheating is a deal breaker for you when it is NOT a FUCKING DEAL BREAKER
if it was, OP would have contacted an attorney the moment he got out of the house the first time and not go rambling about the possibilities.
he is a freaking pushover mwn, it's tiring.
god this was trash, at least make the AI story with an ending.
What a weak pathetic idiot guy. This guy loves drama just like the cheating wife. Cry, breakdown and asks stupid questions. Instead of wasting time writing to reddit, just divorce her!
Change the title bro, she didnt cheat, she was assaulted. 😢
Then again, considering most of these videos are misogynist/incel/pickme bait, I see why you titled it that way.
I'm assuming you think that women can't do anything wrong based on your comment.