If Being an Introvert Was a Medical Condition
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- Getting diagnosed as an introvert.
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RIP kevin
watch "if introversion was a virus" next: th-cam.com/video/gx5Z7_4n2E4/w-d-xo.html
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It’s a tragedy
Oh my-
As far as I'm concerned introversion is a medical condition. 😝😉😁
"He's too young to know..." "He's 33."
"We asked him to call a stranger... he threw up."
This is GOLD. You, sir, are amazing.
I would also throw up if I had to call someone, doesn't matter stranger or not.
@Ban Plus point you can ignore them as much as you need a good response and the will to text the person.
yup
Ugh, that's me when ever someone tries to call me 😩😩😩
“Text him instead of calling him. It will prevent flare-ups.”
I just died. So true though. 🤣
Sameeee
My stomach actually sinks when people say they‘ll call me for a chat. Why? Why would they do that to me?
True
@@LaureninGermany what a kind of monster would call you and refuse to text you. This world is so hostile..
“Constantly bombarded by people asking him why he’s so quiet.”
Every. Single. Day.
One kid once asked me if I can even TALK like BOY! Just cuz I’m not yelling in yo face right now does not mean I can’t 🤨🤯😭
😞
I used to be asked to smile or if I ever smile. Or why am I sad. So annoying.
That's still better than the "Are you angry?" 😬
@@ZurditaDinamita yeah...I was having an awful day today...but since I look like I’m about ready to kill someone, no one even asked if I was alright...
Why is it okay for people to ask me “why are you so quiet” but it’s rude for me to ask them “why are you so nosy” *double standards*
Ikr
@Zerevv that isn't fair though
I don't know if I am introvert or extrovert I like being with people but not too many so?
@@giannarwtopoulou6359 being introverted doesn't mean you don't like people, it just means you need alone time to relax/recharge, whereas extroverts need to socialise to relax/recharge
@@oranges7706 if I need people to recharge but people are rude to me what am I?
"Can I see him?" "--Mom, I've been standing here the entire time" made me burst out laughing! :D This skit is so hilarious
XSDDDDDDDDD
I thought the son was the doctor
I bet that would have made me laugh, if only TH-cam kept the comments at the bottom like they were before I wouldn't have seen this comment and that scene wouldn't have been spoiled for me
My family asks me this all the time
that's my life but I don't mention I'm there
Too bad this isn’t actually a thing; then I could get a doctor’s note to excuse my absence from social gatherings.
Can you imagine xD
oh so true!
Wish I could give you more than 1 like😂 you are soo right!
I have crippling introversion...yeah that would be a great excuse :D
Let's file a Petition for considering introversion as a disease that cannot be treated
If a doctor asked me to call a complete stranger, I'd have him evaluated.
I agree. Who does that.😜🤣
😂 The clownish part of me would probably do both
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@@hummus9118 holy mackerel!
Yeah, even the idea of calling someone I know gives me the shivers, unless it's my close family.
"He's going to remember literally every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life."
"This is tragic."
It really is!! 😭
Yeah. It's like a hell.....but the kind of hell where you don't feel like you deserved it
I got a flashback to a time as a kid I accidentally drank something that wasn't inteded to me. I guess the upside is I'll never forget what my parents old kitchen looks like....
I'm pretty sure I'm the only person who still remembers. Why must it still torment me?!?
This hit hard
So true!!! 🤣🤣🤣
This is literally me
The most hardest part of being an introvert is that sometimes your alone. And bc your alone you read books (not everyone), or watch movies, but when you finish a book or a movie when your feeling lonely is just..... *sigh*
ya just want people around you that won’t be wanting your attention 24/7. I like people that can sit in non-akaward silence with me..which is rare to find
@@luvbug_m I'm lucky to have that be my mom. We both are the same and understand each other, so when I'm lonely I can just go in and sit on the floor and we both just do our own thing in silence
Yeah, even introverts need conversation once in a while or to have company. We just get exhausted if it’s constant, we need alone time to reflect and think.
I’ve learned that the hard way, since I moved out last year living alone right before the pandemic. I was so happy at the beginning of it, sadly, because I really enjoy being alone. That the pandemic, no longer needing to go into work (remote 100%) and free of my parents and could watch or listen to music loudly or whatever I wanted was great.
But, after months I finally reached a point that things went bad, lost my job (due to pandemic), got sick, was feeling lonely and needed comfort. But no one to turn to.
Worst year of my life so far.
So anyways, don’t be like me. Make sure you make an effort to get out there. You don’t want to be alone forever.
I want to try again soon to get out there and meet people but it’s still difficult for me.
Anyways good luck fellow introverts.
I prefer animals then humans
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Yes! Comfortable silence :) I had friends like that but sadly I moved away
"My son, can I see him"
"Mom, I have been standing here this entire time"
"..."
"..."
"..."
"Alright, everything is starting to add up now"
@Tristan T. Moss Nah man, it's more like implying that he was completely invisible since they didn't even notice him standing there.
They didn't forget about his existence since he was the very topic of the conversation in the entire video /(Q^Q)/
@Tristan T. Moss Sigh
That is actually relatable my friend.
Exept for me it isn't one of my classmates (of course them but I AM the silent kid after all) but rather my previously best friend.
And it's not five years but rather seven years
Oh well, doesn't bother me as much as it used to tho
But I can completely relate
@Tristan T. Moss Oh, sorry to hear that. But are you still sometimes talking to these guys now? I know that it actually helps having at least somebody to talk to from time to time.
"Yeah"
@Tristan T. Moss This is me in school club. Fortunatelly, the members from same grade as me know that I exist. But it seems that I'm *totally* invisible to my underclassmen
Actually the worst phone call is not to a complete stranger, but to someone you run into occasionally. I find some comfort in knowing that the other person doesn't know who I am and we will never have contact again.
Yes, exactly. Plus, the occasional acquaintance will want to know why you don't call more often.
As an extreme introvert I completely agree!
Asking a friend for a ride or spend time with you.
@@tracycraft You need to get yourself one of my friends :') They just app me like, hey dude we're hanging out today I'm on my way be there in 40 minutes :') Then the hanging out results in 6 hours or staring at a wall while occasionally saying something we thought of and that's just fine :p
TRUE.
"But he's so young, he doesn't know what a hip rave club is"
"ma'am, he's 33"
But 33 is young. 33 is definitely young...... What?....bias? Nooo, never bias. I don't have any ulterior motives for making this claim 😗🎶
@@MichelleLM88 33 is old af. Just deal with the fact your 7 years away from being 40
Terminal Introversion... still better than a hip rave club or, dear god, circle introductions... 🙄😔 Guess I need one of those medical ID bracelets now. 🙋🏻♀️🤣🥲
Circle intros! 🤢😱😭😭
I never know what to say during those. It's like an out of body experience.
Extroverts in a circle introduction, "Man I wish we got to say more than TWO interesting things about ourselves... how can I narrow it down?!"
@@itsbecca While the introverts are like, 'Yes! Take as long as you want!' 🤭😂
Oh those are actually quite fun, especially if there are interesting people and you can get to know everyone better. But I admit they are quite exhausting
I’m 30. I’m haunted by memories from high school and Uni...imagine the fresh ones and oh there are tons of fresh ones. Sigh.
I'm turning 30 next month and my story is the same.
I'm still in high school and haunted by that one still thing I said to someone I got mad at
Sigh
"He is going to remember every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life."
I don't think this is exclusive to introverts
it is though
yeah, more of an anxiety thing
Yeah but think about you think about stuff like that when your alone like when your going to sleep or in the shower but intervert are mostly alone so they have wayyy more time to think about it
"I'm a terrible mother!" 😄 "Mom I've been standing here the whole time." 💀😭 Wow! That was hilarious, Frank!
👍👍💜
😂😭😭
I died.🤣 Best part of the vedio. He even had a bright orange shirt! Like how could you not see that.🤣
I choked...Literally. I was drinking something and literally had laugh/cough fit for like 2 mins.
Honestly, hard to end sketches and that was a perfect joke. lol
@@ChromaFilmTV me 2! Should've been doing my school. But I busted out laughing. 😅
"He doesn't even know what a hip rave club is! He's so young!"
"He's 33"
DISHKSUWKAH OOF
That part was so funny! 🤣
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“We asked him to make a phone call to a stranger... he threw up”
“He’s going to remember literally every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself...”
Can I see him?” “Mom I’ve been standing here this whole time...”
.... why do I feel so outed?🥸
If someone ever asked me that I’d just call the phone number that shows you your phone number
@@mctartaglia615 id built a phone from scratch then make a AI so they can talk on the phone instead
@@mctartaglia615 “At the tone, the time will be doomsday.” “Yep, I’m definitely chatting with strangers.”
Am I the only one who purposely embaresses themselves a lot for a joke and doesn't get embarrassed but then accidentally embarrasses themselves a little and will remember it for the rest of there lives?
Ugh I hate that, but since I purposely do embassing things so when I do actually embarrassing things, nobody know it was an accident
Chara what are you doing here?
I think it has something to do with the control aspect? When you embarass yourself on purpose, you control the setting, the people and HOW you embarass yourself, but otherwise, you're not prepared for whatever happens, nor how everyone else sees whatever you did
yes
Yes, you are the only person who does that. The only one. Congratulations.
That last part reminded me so much of when I almost got detention for skipping study period at school, when the teacher just didn't see that I was there reading a book.
But seriously, this is how introverts are treated sometimes. People see us as quiet and assume something's wrong with us, so they'll leave us out.
True
that's when we're seen, the other times we're totally invisible
@@alizaaksheikh Every? Idk about that, but some are able to use other skills to succeed, such as acting (like our dear FJ). 😊✌️
@@StephanieJeanne yeah i was wrong to say that, everyone can succeed
@@alizaaksheikh 😄 No worries! Just engaging in a little conversation.😊✌️💜
My life motto is “they can’t make me talk if I don’t want to”
look into selective Mutism. It's a thing
@@recoveringsoul755 I will
Haha same😂😂
you know, in music class, when I was 9 years old (25 now) I was asked to sing (some children song) in front of the class (I think the others need to do it as well-not sure), but I was SO stubborn that I just stayed silent the whole time, not opening my mouth at all, until the teacher grew frustrated and let me go back to my seat. I was so annoyed that day, I remember it till this day...
Ahh.. the struggle of introvert
@@emmjh by yourself? If its the whole group singing you can kind of fake it. That would be terrifying by yourself.
Circle introductions are the worst. "Give me a fun fact about yourself".
How do I know what a fun fact is until I know what your idea of fun is?
I'm always like, "(insert general fact about my family)" or something. You know, shift the focus that way.
I always use my trip to Kenya as a "fun" fact. It helps me to no end to have a script for situations like that. I detest meetings like that.
I always say that I'm the only person in my family who hasn't recorded music.
I’m always just like I have a gecko.. lol it’s not really a fun fact but boy do I despise introductions especially ones where they have to pick the next person to go I’m always afraid of getting picked last or picking someone who already went😑
I think the general consensus is that we try to have a backup answer
Dr: "He is going to remember literally every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life".
Me : 👁️👄👁️
I love how I can’t get offended when people ask why I’m so quiet, but when I ask people why they’re so loud I get in trouble. What the hell
Probably because they're doing all the hard lifting in the convo (coming up with things so say, responding) while you might just be siting there. Its exhausting coming up with stuff to say all the time, I don't know why people go out to parties when they have nothing to say and don't want to engage, it makes it hard on the people who are speaking. I'm not even that outgoing, right down the middle, but I always end up carrying the convos for whole groups of introverts that just sit there and wait for me to come up with a convo piece their comfortable with. Its too much hard work. I have to prep beforehand to have stuff to say.
@@skullsaintdead fair enough
@@Dakerappur Much obliged for being understanding.
Asking him to make a phone call to a stranger was definitely too much! 😱😭
IKR? There was a line, and they definitely crossed it !
Is there no decency?!
They don't think of us poor souls smh...😥
"and he's going to be constantly bombarded by people asking him why he's so quiet"
Yeah, please don't ask us that question. It's terrible 😂
Yup. I would love to see someone ask a certain Leroy Jethro Gibbs that question someday. However he shut them down would be both epic and a great teaching moment for us introverts.
Right, sometimes I do wonder if something is wrong with me lol
Especially because they make you answer. At least my mom does. Like, what am I supposed to say?? I barely know what to say in a normal conversation
I just start breathing loudly to break the ice.
My reply was always "Because I don't like talking." then went back to being quiet.
“You can make things a little easier by texting instead of calling”
I’m dead
"He's going to remember literally every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life." Thats me lol
"He is going to remember literally every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life."
I felt that...
I remember stuff from 20 years ago still.. Im 30 now
i remember a dumb thing i’ve done in 3rd grade still scarred from it
So much
I remember getting caught opening my mom's purse when I was 7, my sister thought I was stealing so she confronted me about it and kept asking me questions, I cried cause I actually couldn't handle the stress of talking to her at that time and she thought I was crying because I needed money or something, which was even more embarrassing, that memory still haunts me even tho it happened 10 years ago...
I was looking for this comment. This is the first time I really "felt that" in one of his videos.
No joking, this is actually tragic I really hope I don't stay like this my whole life.
My therapist “try a support group, they can be a great way to get support and meet people, you will feel less alone.”
Me “No, no and no.”
Haha similar experience. Not my therapist but someone else in that kind of realm kept pushing me to try a group thing. Maybe having a doctor's note for introversion would have made her accept the fact that I wasn't going to go
Same. I went to a group meeting for codipendents twice. Then I found a therapist and never went to the group again.
Oh god no.
Do you ever make plans thinking it will be so much fun, and then when the day comes think of every excuse not to go?
@@anniegarnett yup, I just want to stay home with my kitties. 🤣
But like if I could get a doctor’s note for my introversion-sorry I can’t come into work today, introversion flare up, you know how those are-my life would be complete
We used to call them Mental Health Days. Back in the Dark Ages when there was actually use-it-or-lose-it Sick Leave.
I wouldn't even be able to write that note😂 I would just feel bad that I can't do something (that something being going to work) so then I would go anyway even if I felt like throwing up. It's a terrible way to live🥲
In 8th grade, I avoided social interaction even though I'm an extrovert because I got bullied alot.
Naturally, my adviser referred me to our guidance counsellor who "diagnosed" me with introverted behaviour and I was admitted to a special needs program which made the bullying worse.
Now I'm studying to be a teacher and then plan on pursuing a career in pediatric psychology so the same bullshit doesnt happen to anyone else.
I feel very sorry for what happened to you. You didn't deserve to be treated like this. Those people who wronged you, are f#$king douchbags.
I think you might have been diagnosed autistic and never told about it
"and he's constantly bombarded with questions of why are you so quiet"
I felt that, In My heart....
Circle introductions are the absolute worst. Plus the wait while everyone else says their stuff... pain
Ikr? I always rehearse the phrase I wanna say in my head, until someone says the thing I wanted to say and I have 20 second to come up with something new and rehearse it again.
@@animatorireenie8319 I never want to tell my actual answer so I try to go with something generic 😭
I actually don't mind them, because I take comfort in knowing exactly when it is my time to speak and no one can interrupt me. The wait is still pain, though...
@@fandombucket473 Yep, same
@@theomnitorium7476 yeah, they are certainly better than introduction groups (like, you have to walk around and introduce yourself to many people)
Frank's humor game is getting off the charts good now
My husband let my son’s friend’s parent inside recently and I hid in my laundry room to avoid the awkward small talk. I thought he was going to just pull up and get his kid like he always does. I have to mentally prep to deal with those situations, you can’t just spring that shit on me out of nowhere. I’m 37 😩😅
I do the same thing lol. My husband usually opens the door and deals with people even though he’s introverted too. He’s loving this ordering online stuff so he doesn’t have to talk to fast food workers
@@carlab30 Q q
I do the same! My hubby and I have actually hidden behind the fridge while an unexpected friend tried to look through the window. So relate to your last line:
"you can’t just spring that shit on me out of nowhere!!!"
The fact that you mentioned your age made me laugh so hard. I'm 23. Nice to know we're stuck like this forever
@@crib4046 That's like a TV comedy. If only they had seen you hide.
Give an oscar to the script writer ❤
"He's going to remember every time he's even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life." Oh. _Oh._ That explains a lot. Never connected that to my introversion though, lmao-
Because it has nothing to do with introversion 😅
These introversion skits describe AuDHD to a T though
"But he's so young, he doesn't know what a hip rave club is!"
*"Ma'am he's 33"*
😂
Took her long enough to take him to the doctor to get a screening huh?😂
wonder when my mom will take me. . .
That and the “I’ve been standing here the whole time” and when momma Frank looked over confused, were so hilarious! 🤣
@@TheWhistlingBireme XD
Is that Adrian and the main charcter I forgot how to spell the name to
@@mister6599 Marinette? I think to yeah
Introverts Anonymous: a "social" group where no one talks and there are 27 fluffy cats roaming around the room.
Cat points 👍🏻🐈
Where do I sign up?
I will pass on the cats. Give me PUPPIES instead.
@@breezymango4113 Yeah, I would sign up for that.👍
I'd still be terrified to go and have panic attacks before the meetings. I prefer to just be at home. With a cat or a dog, of course. They can't judge you and don't talk.
“He’s going to remember EVERY single time he even mildly embarrasses himself”
Ha you got that right... I once embarrassed my self when I was in my room alone and I can still remember that
“He’s never going to be the kind of person who enjoys meetings where you have to go around and introduce yourself.”
Tbf I don’t think ANYONE likes those XD, introvert or not.
I hate those moments with a passion, I'll never get how people enjoy doing it. Or talking in public in general.
The Dutch love it. Or they say: *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday, *handshake* congratulations with Jan's birthday
True the whole circle lol
ngl, I still replay all my embarrassing moments in my mind. I dont even mean to, literally a memory will come back OUT OF NOWHERE
I know! I hate that.😆
Same. My brain will spiral out real quick when I have thoughts like "Remember in 4th grade when you made McKella cry and you didn't say sorry?"
@@greenraptor5766 i get flashbacks in the most inconvenient times, like right before bed or in the middle of a meeting LOL
Same, every time is a fricking torture
@@Snarl_Marx omg Im such a forgetful person BUT i will remember random things from elementary school or middle school!!
If being an introvert was a medical condition,I would be lying in my bed burning candles around me while everyone mourn for me.
Oh, no, wait! That's actually happening 😳
If being an introvert was a medical condition we’d all be living the dream because you could just get a doctors note to get out of things like presentations
@@fauxhuman0 Maybe one day it will be recognised as such and people will be more understanding over it. After all, a lot of First World War soldiers were shot for cowardice or desertion because we didn't know about shell shock or PTSD back then, but we're a lot more enlightened now
"He is so young! ... He is 33... " I died! 🤣
Please do something like this for extroverts, I beg you!
Considering the today's most asked question to introverts, “Why are you so quiet?", they'll probably gonna make introversion a medical condition in the future😂
"He's gonna remember every time he even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life".
Why u calling me out?
“We asked him to make a phone call to a stranger....
....he threw up.”
I literally spewed my coffee! 😂🤣😂
“We asked him not to use emoji’s or meems for 6 minutes. He killed himself with a butter knife.”
In fact, Introversion is slightly contagious. After my parents got married, my mom (formerly a self-proclaimed extrovert) became an introvert. We need to contact the CDC with this information.
Honestly my whole life I've been told my introvert tendencies are a personal problem and are something I need to change and it feels just like the mother's reaction to it. This is the first place I find relatable introvert content that isn't a "oh you should stop being this way" kind.
I agree wholeheartedly with your comment
@@marleneestevez9730 Me too
"He's gonna remember everytime he even mildly embarrassed himself"
Sorry I will not say that I went to space ever again
It's sad that this reminds me how some people react when their kid is diagnosed with autism, they act like it's worse than them being dead
I get that's bad, because for a child it feels like they have like a 'disease' or something. But if you think about it, the parents know their child and love them already, the label doesnt change anything for the parents in that matter. The reason parents get so upset about it, is because having autism will be a difficult struggle for their child and there's nothing the parent can do to help them with it because it is not "curable" or compensable and it's chronic. There's nothing more painfull than something or someone hurting your own child. I think thats why parents are so afraid and dramatic about their child having autism. If you were to find out your child had to have is legs amputated, you'd be freaking out too. Not because you'd look at them any differently or think they won't be able to function without being able to walk. But because they will face a lot more struggles in life than if he would have been able to walk.
@@computerbomb Well, MOST parents, some don't even deserve to be called human...
i was looking for this comment. that’s exactly what i thought of when i read the title..
“But he’s so young!”
“Mam’, he’s 33.”
😂 I mean, even if someone’s like 50yrs old, parents will almost always keep seeing them as a child or “young” lol
Now, do another one with If Being an Extrovert Was a Medical Condition, seems only fair
I'd feel attacked if this wasn't so accurate!
"No, my baby!" Awww 😂
"Circle introductions are one of the joys of life".
Me (a wholeass introvert): surprised Pikachu face. So that's why my extroverts teachers loved them 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻😂
Reading in class or going upfront to present something was LITERALLY my favorite times in school.
Ok, in church on Sunday, our bishop had us all introduce ourselves and where we were from. I tried to hide behind the piano, but he called me out on it, lol
@@itsbecca omg I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not😂😂
Yeah, my go to is “Hi, I’m Reagan. I dislike social interaction and have trust issues for no reason, so do not expect me to be talkative.”
Last time I did one I said, "I'm a high function autistic introvert, so things like this aren't my scene, and I'm quite misanthropic. I don't like people real much. Give me the company of a good honest dog over people any day." I hoped that would shut them up, but instead they applauded my honesty.
I thought everyone finds circle introductions stupid af, not just introverts
They're a good way to take information quickly and with the other people active will....but I am an entp so...I guess other e*** will have they're own reasons....
I'm an INTJ. They're okay. I think of it as intuition-feeding intelligence gathering on the people I'm likely to be working or competing with as well as an opportunity to help identify interesting introverts worth knowing and thoughtful yet effective extroverts who can maybe adopt me for the duration of whatever it is we're there for. Plain circle introductions are nowhere near as effective nor fun as 2 truths and a lie though.
in school we had to do something way worse a few times:
everyone gets a piece of paper on his back and then you have to go around and write on the paper what you like about that person that has it on their back
and when you look at your piece of paper later, pretty much everyone wrote "you're nice" or "you're always ready to help", and you know that no one knows anything about you
@@polarfuchs0x137 I swear people just looked at whatever was already there and copied it 🙄
I just try to "pass" when its my turn
This is the BEST. Especially the comment about texting instead of calling. I HATE talking on the phone!
This is literally my mom, lol.
When I was a pre-teen she used to scold me and tried to train me to be sociable by forcing me to go to gatherings and interact with strangers. She would cry when I fail or bail on her. It obviously didn’t work 🤷♀️
It's funny because some people actually consider introversion as a medical condition 😂
omg what???
Wait really? That's a new.
Why, just tell them we are like cats. We love our space, only few elected people can stand around us, we chill all day and sleep. Of course that's the stereotype.
I waS sHy tOo
My mom thinks it’s a condition. My mom is a extrovert and doesn’t understand that I would rather stay home and watch TH-cam then go out and interact with humans. She actually took me to a brain doctor several times to see if there was something wrong with me. Turns out I’m just a weird introvert and there’s nothing wrong with me
I'm an extrovert and I literally will lose sleep over, like, times in middle school when I embarrassed myself or hurt someone's feelings. I stand in solidarity.
Lmao same 😭
No we stand together
Yeah same!!!
I think that's most people and has nothing to do with introversiom
I relate 3000
“He’s going to remember every time he’s mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life”
*MOOD*
"I have been standing here the whole time" ROTFLMAO
I've been binge watching FJ for the past days and this one made me laugh the most. It deserves way more views.
Mom: “can I see him”
Son:” I’ve been standing here the whole time mom!”
Hahahahahaha eppiiiccc!
"now everything starts to sum up"
@@arianaalejandro4005 hahahahaha 😂🤣😂🤣
"i've been standing here the whole time"
i expected it, but i was still caught completely off guard :b beautiful
I don't remember selling you the movie rights to my autobiography.
Same.
Indeed
Lol
Mine either
"I asked him that, i'm a terrible mother"
Rolling outta my hospital bed!!!!
*Isn't* being an introvert a medical condition? After all, human interaction can be physically debilitating ;)
......you dirty minded-
@@adeadghost.6396 i dont get it
@@thenforgotten4330 debilitating means weakening someone or something.
Now read the comment again
@@thenforgotten4330 Think about it.... INTP
@@louisejoel Actually, as an INTP i thought it was normal to feel tired after talking to people
I tested high on the ADHD scale. The doctor told my parents not to let me isolate myself too much. But I’m also very introverted and need time alone. It’s all about that balance.
Me, too!!
When you're an introvert but your mom is an extrovert:
My mom will talk for a literal hour when she meant to take five minutes...
(This isn’t even a joke, I’ve timed it before)
I feel your pain Lionckan Warrior. That's exactly my case. Btw, cool profile name
2 days ago my moms friends came over and they talked for like 3 hours straight and I was here wondering how do people talk for that long and how do people come up with things to talk about and I realized I forgot how a conversation works
T h e p a i n
“He’s going to remember literally every time he has even mildly embarrassed himself for the rest of his life.”
Wait…that’s part of being an introvert?! That’s makes so much sense!
Them: why are you so quiet?
Me thinking: I wish you were too
He chose library
Me: That was a smart decision,it would be better if he can turn off his notifications and binge watch your videos and the Wi-Fi is necessary 👍
Society constantly tells introverts that they must work on being more sociable.
I wish we'd tell extroverts that they should just keep some things to themselves.
Right? Why do I have to be more assertive and loud? Why can't the extroverts be quieter and let us chill?
The worst thing is when you actually DO want to say something and no one will SHUT UP long enough for you to say it! They say you should wait until the other person has finished speaking, but sometimes they can be going on and on for ages and by the time you finally get the chance they've started talking about something else, or worse you've forgotten what you wanted to say!
society forces everybody to pretend they are someone else. some people even think that people who are not doing it are attention whores just because they are getting quite negative attention for it.
@@lampyrisnoctiluca9904 Especially job interviews. When they ask you things like why you want to work there you've effectively got to tell them what they want to hear, because 'I just need a job' isn't going to get you anywhere, however honest it is!
I have been known to do that. Amazing what a simple, "Okay, TMI (too much information)," will do.
Being invisible is the truest thing ever.
I am an introvert, but I'm not "quiet". Being an introvert means that you recharge with being alone, while extroverts need a lot of attention/action to function properly. I feel like a lot of ppl have social anxiety and thus think that they're an introvert.
That is the a Jungian definition of bring introverted. Other psychologists use the,words introverted and extroverted differently.
“You can make things easier by texting him instead of calling him.” 😆
Really how it feels when parents don’t understand ur social battery is minimal🤧
I think Kevin doesn't like circle introductions because he has to say, "Hi, I'm Kevin GURCHIKOV."
😂😂😂
I watched HBO's documentary Persona last night and, to my delight, Frank was the first person they featured. I wish they'd given him more screen time but it was still a lovely surprise!
Well it would actually be painful to know beforehand as a parent. As an INFJ I often think about this: “what if my future child is very introverted and has no friends in school and gets bullied for his introversion and shyness?”. Must be horrible to witness as a parent.
"Oh no!! I've asked him that. I'm a terrible mother" 😂😂😂😂
To be honest, it wouldn't be so bad if it was a medical condition... at least you can scare people away saying is contagious or something 🤷♀️
Boo! 👻
Some people would actually believe it too🤦♀️
True and atleast we can have our peace time
If it's a medical condition?
My mom,ESFP, calls us "sick girls" 'cause we always mumble to each other and laugh if that mumbling was a joke 😂🤭
Maybe one day it will be recognised as such and people will be more understanding over it. After all, a lot of First World War soldiers were shot for cowardice or desertion because we didn't know about shell shock or PTSD back then, but we're a lot more enlightened now
Tell it to me straight doc!!! Am I an introvert???
Doc: y-yes. I'm sorry.
Noooooo!
🤣😂
Circle introductions are the scarest thing of life
The last one though is totally relatable. No one notice me.
The introvert community here is thrilling.
To be fair, everyone here is anonymous until the doxxing starts
I can imagine his mom going:
"IS IT CONTAGIOUS!?"
If introversion were a medical condition, I could sue every employer looking for an "energetic outgoing person", right? *rubs hands together* Vengeance is sweet.
Having said which, the process of going to court wouldn't sit very well with introversion anyway!
@@Inkyminkyzizwoz Dang it!
His acting improves every while, he's really getting into character!
These videos are hilarious 😂 I absolutely appreciate how well the capture what a true introvert is like and shows me there are others out there like me. Keep em coming, 🤣🤣
When I was a kid, my school _literally_ analysed my behaviour and showed my findings to a psychologist bc i was “too quiet” and tend to daydream. I actually spoke quite a lot back then but mainly to my one best friend. The psychologist took this very serious and tried to make this a legit problem. Thank you Frank James for making light of this situation and something I can laugh about!! You’re the best! 😊😊😊
As long as the friend was not imaginary...😬
recommend this channel to that dumb phycologist and your school
Circle introductions are one of the tortures of life.
You got that right. I hate them.
Library. ALWAYS CHOOSE LIBRARY!! Why would anyone ever choose hip rave club?! (does that mean I need brain surgery? ) "I've been standing here the whole time" Brilliant Frank!
Do I want to know what a hip race club is!?🤣🤣🤣
@@greenraptor5766 Probably not. The only time I've ever been to one is on Playstation - and I'll give you one guess as to what state I left the place in. (Spoiler alert: it involved a lot of gunfire, a lot of bullet holes, a lot of blood, and numerous dead bodies)
"It'll prevent flare-ups!" So accurate! LoL!