That first woman - geez - it's that kind of next-level betrayal that makes people go off the deep end and burn down the house or something. Fortunately, she had next-level presence of mind.
Don't necessarily believe the first husband that there was something going on between him and the mother. Those words may have been said out of spite. The wife offers no real tangible proof as in texts messages, screenshots, she caught them in the act,etc.The mother denies it, and so it comes down to he said she said. If the wife suspected something, then why didn't she take the time to do a little detective work. If she would try to use this as evidence in a divorce, then more likely it wouldn't stand up.
Just eww! I know a woman who had a child with her daughter’s husband. Everyone saw she was pregnant but she refused to say who the father was UNTIL after she had the baby. Mind you. Her daughter and son-in-law had been trying for years to have a child. It ripped the family apart. This shameless woman told her daughter that she isn’t the only one who should have “good things”. The son-in-law is a wealthy douche bag. The “child” will be in her 30’s now. The whole thing was just sordid.
@@arkyboy14 i don't know, because the mom could've felt she had to hide it because she knew it was so wrong. Plus she tried to take the house from her, so that shows she doesn't care much for her daughters feelings or how something can affect her own daughter
@@JCBUBBLE22Sadly a lot of moms are like this, they see the daughter as younger and replacing her and they feel the need to constantly compete with her to be “better”. It’s actually common in girl groups. I’m sure you’ve seen sisters, cousins and best friends stealing the boyfriend/husband.
@@Kaye_G Imagine being the kind of person who would even think someone would go through great lengths to do that. My “nonprofit” is a registered 501(c)(3) so, no need for the “ “. This is public information so feel free to search for yourself. And I’m sorry. Did you say nonprofits aren’t work? 😂 You obviously have no clue how much work, time, & money it costs me out of pocket for lawyer fees, to get my nonprofit registered as a 501(c)(3) public charity, to run a nonprofit, & the stipulations that come with it. Gosh, there’s always gotta be that ONE person. 😒
The fact the first story, the gal took all that betrayal and hurt and her struggles as a reason to try and help boost others so they aren't alone like she was... that's so awesome
@@lacijane1694 that was definitely an insane WTH story, I can only imagine how much more crazy it was to live it! I hope you're healing, I know for me helping others with similar issues I've dealt with in the past have helped me heal.
@@lacijane1694OMG that’s awesome. You have probably helped so many single mothers that just didn’t know where to go because they had no one. You really took a situation that is just so many levels of effed up and turned it into something so beautiful. Congratulations on your success with helping so many and may God bless you for being such an awesome human being
My real mother is a horrible person while Dad is pretty amazing. I have a lot of friends whose Moms have "adopted" me over the years. So I have a LOT of "parents" and get invited to all sorts of Thanksgivings which is pretty amazing.
I blame p*rn desensitization too. Some psychologists shared that bf/gf sleeping with parents is the kind of betrayal most popular; right there with step family members. Just absolute trash…
Totally needed that giggle today, and thank you to Charlotte for sharing great charities and initiatives ❤️ And a lovely amount for a donation! I'm sure it will go a long way for those that need it ❤️
When you exclaimed “Oh no, oh no!!” after hitting the donation button, I thought you realized it was either a scam or you donated to the wrong charity! I am happy that was not the case! Love you Charlotte! I look forward to your videos. Happy Valentine’s Day Bestie!! 😘😘
Oh my goodness! I know this woman! We donated to help build tiny homes. I was a single mom and luckily I worked two, sometimes three jobs, and was able to afford our housing, but that's always been my soft spot and I've always looked out and helped single moms. Great organization!
Happy Valentine, Ms Charlotte. I'd be more for any of these women. Even though I'm just slightly older (just a mere 72). This is very good in that I am too old to be with more than for more than one woman at a time. and for your wonderful advice.
I thought I couldn't love the Queen Charlotte anymore than I already do. But my favorite moment in this entire video was the spontaneous donation to help homeless moms.... Nearly made me cry. Well done, seriously well done.
The fact that you immediately donated so much money really just shows how much of a genuine and lovely person you are ❤ love your videos you always put a smile on my face.
*7:40** That warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. As someone that has been homeless several times with a newborn in tow,I understand the feeling of having no one and nothing. Such a sweet soul Charlotte. Happy Valentine's Day🖤*
What a way to comeback from a betrayal, starting a nonprofit so others in that same pain and helpless situation will have someone to turn to ❤️ and thank you Charlotte for donating, let's be the support we deserved in our tough times ❤️
That nonprofit to build tiny homes for single moms is so beautiful. What a beautiful thing to do. What a loving heart. She's the kind of person who makes the world turn, I love her
Yeah, I was that too for my ex-husband... we were young when we got pregnant (I was 17 almost 18 and he was 20) and I got married while pregnant... fast forward I find things and it's like a gut punch... I was so confused and lost... I stuck around for a little while to try to make it work for our daughter but he was also abusive... so I left without warning early one morning right after he left for work.
It’s always such a huge and tragic situation when this stuff happens. Horrible that you’d been roped into being approval, horrible that he ever felt that was necessary, horrible that the relationship was ever structured like this.
"bearding" has heavy misogynistic tones - your only value is to hide him. It's less awful when the man is the beard - there was a story and the male OP was totally ok with his wife being shy and sad and there's such a different power dynamic. but still pretty bad. It's only ok if they didn't really know at the time or if it's a mutual agreement.
The only reason that husband “admitted” he cheated with her mom was because she worded it as “my mom told me you’ve been cheating on me,” so he must’ve thought she already knew about the husband and the mom being together and that’s the cheating the wife knew about…so he called *himself* out. Which is hilarious. Of course he was “honest with her,” he thought he’d already been caught. Easy to be honest then 🤷🏻♀️
Nope, she Just told him, that her Mom told on him, so He was Desperate to Shift the blame and threw her under the Bus in Return, they told on eachother in Hope she will BE to busy being Mad at the other
LOL ,men do that a lot when they feel guilty, just pretend you know everything and saw everything and will come out running trying to put the blame on someone else cuz they cant deny that anymore
Let's put it like this, if it was only the husband holding the mom's hand, why would she hide it and make it out to be even worse than that, IF it was NOT more than that. Meaning it was.
Charlotte going straight to the non-profit to donate!!! I love you!!! I was homeless for awhile as a single mom after my then husband cheated. This hits home and your constant generosity is a testament of your character!!! We love the queen potato!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you. Thank you for being kind today. I was in tears after 20 seconds into the video. Been tough lately and your immediate kindness broke the flood gates. Cheaters SUCK and I appreciate you❤❤❤❤ Thank you for being kind, funny, and real. Sending so much girlie love vibes to you❤
Awww charlotte! 😢 not only will your donation of $1000 do so much, your influence is probably gonna cause so many other people to donate! You’re a great person!
My brother married a really great lady that had been married before. During her first marriage, her husband slept with both her mother and her sister. It nearly destroyed her.
@@fizzydizzystudios4768 She and my brother are both doing well. And no, she has been NC with her mother and sister for many years. They still try to find things out about her. They even came to my mom's house and tried to force their way in. Mom told them to leave or else she would call the police. They high tailed it and we haven't heard anything from them since.
How awesome of you to donate money to that non-profit!! What a sweet, kind, lovely person you are, Ms. Charlotte!! You really are the type of person that you portray on your channel!!!
Charlotte, this is why we love you! You pick apart these stories that I, personally, find so crazy at times but you also have a heart of gold! We need more people with huge hearts like you to keep this world together. You aren't afraid to show us you care! Girl, I will always watch your content, not only does it open my eyes to how people behave but you always make me laugh, my favorite way to handle the hard days is laughter! Happy Valentine's Day! 💜
Omg Charlotte I love you!! You're amazing donating. I have a friend who could really benefit from a tiny home to get away from her horrible abusive bf. ❤️ This could help so many mamas out there.
Nope when you're s/o cheats you blame both of them unless they didn't know about you. And i do have to say that the first woman is absolutely amazing. Love the idea she came up with for her no profit 👏👏
Personally, I don't blame the one not in a relationship usually. If they're single that is. Even if they do know. Don't get me wrong, they're still an absolute ass. But they also have no obligation to the cheated on. It's always 100% the fault of the cheater. It's not an mistake. it's always a choice. And they're garbage humans.
Agree. I hate this idea that when someone cheats we’re not supposed to blame affair partner. Like you said, unless that person had zero idea (which is possible but nowadays c’mon, it’s much more difficult. RESEARCH THEM!). Both are to blame. It really bothers me when people say to ONLY blame the boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife. Like they always assume when you’re mad at your the other person you’re not also mad at the partner.
@Mama_Bear524 agreed! They say things like "Oh I don't owe that person any loyalty. That's on the person cheating. I didn't make promises." Like you don't have loyalty for yourself or you know just being a decent person?
If the affair partner KNEW they weren't single, they're just as bad as a willing accomplice. They're willing to shred the innocent partner's life just to get what they want. So selfish and cruel.
Selfish yes but I wouldn’t say cruel necessarily, unless it’s someone who knew the innocent partner. They have no obligation of loyalty to that person. Sounds harsh but it’s the reason we say all’s fair in love and war. Human nature.
I think if I was married, the person who made and broke their vows to me and risked me to STDs is worse. As much as women are socialized to blame other women while coddling/absolving men though, I get why they always seek to try to make the affair partner "just as bad". Men are used to this too as they know the stats that women are more likely to stay with a cheater than they themselves would be. Of course, in this case it was her mom so I'd say it's worse.
13:46 She was double betrayed. Her man cheated on her AND he probably lied about being straight. My ex came out as trans and with all peace and love to my trans homies, but that devastated me. I felt like our entire marriage was based on a lie. And it fucked me up. Its not funny or cool.
Chsnces he may not of fully realized or accepted till then. Mine hadnt told me till maybe a month in but i dont mind him Being trans ftm. Because i love him no matter his gender
@@BunnyDoesArtThings I guess it really depends on the person. A close friend and their ex divorced because the ex came out as trans. Friend was super supportive of the transition, but ex started saying a lot of terrible things about them. Stuff that would have any other ex be called scum of the earth, but because ex is trans my friend defends them and minimizes just how awful ex was. It's really hard to listen to my friend now because they will express their bitterness and anger at what happened and then get angry at themselves for not being an ally. I really want to tell my friend that yes their ex is trans but they are also an AH. Just because you hate them as an AH doesn't make you less of an ally to the rest of the trans community.
I too cackle maniacally while doing good things because doing good things turns me into a warm and fuzzy chaos gremlin. That was a great thing you did. ❤❤
This hit home for me as well. My mom slept with my husband too. Then had the audacity to write an apology after almost a year of no contact, basically explaining that he hurt her too. Because he was using her to get back at me for leaving him.... BECAUSE HE CHEATED!!!
My mother would no longer be my mother and my husband would be far, far away. Charlotte you are amazing for the donation! I'm over here crying at work.
Found u on facebook at a very difficult chapter of my life and have been watching ur daily uploads for almost a year now. You make my days so much brighter. U make me laugh. Thankyou so much and I love u so much❤❤
Oh my GOD the first woman!!!! You are a literal queen, I can’t imagine going through this betrayal… you’re so so so strong. Sending you & your kiddo lots of love ♥️♥️ you should be proud of how you handled it.
Charlotte I love how you get the grinch smile across your face when you say “should we give her some money” you get that face everytime you’re about to be generous or petty and it’s brilliant
"I will never forget the expression on his face when he told me that." -ad immediately cuts in: "Nivea. For any face, expression, and skin type." What the hell TH-cam ads 😂
Right? That's blowing right past, "my hamster are three of her babies" and on to "A Child Called 'It' " . For those who've never heard of ACCI, it's an autobiography of a guy surviving his mother's abuse. She had 3 or 4 kids, of which he was the second youngest. For some reason when he was like 5, she decided she would torture him. Just him. The youngest kid was born after the abuse started and grew up thinking that was normal. It was just his role in the family. "Mommy loves me and Billy and Jimmy and Tommy is scum, and needs to die. Can I have some juice, please?"
I'm single but at least i have Charlotte to make me laugh. I'm so happy that she made a video for us today. Happy valentine's day Charlotte and Mike. You are adorable and make me still have hope on finding love. ❤
I’m single too but lots of great family and friends and a cat to make me happy and loved. I hope you had a Happy Valentine’s Day Dina. Greetings from Australia. 🇦🇺
@CharlotteDobre im in a cruise and in a cruise solo traveling in Saint Valentines so not going to dinner with all the couples!!! There was even a renewal of vows!! So im watching your video! So nice of you donating to that lady. That is one gaslighting mom!!! Glad shes doing better and able to help others!!!
Family members who participate in cheating, especially when they act like they are loyal to you, are absolutely the worst. People who cheat are sh*t but you can find someone else. Family is supposed to be there for you.
Wow, that first gal, how could a mom do that to her daughter ? And kudos to her for her non- profit, talk about turning a tragedy into helping others in similar situations ❤
I remember when I had this one job we were talking at work about how old we were. I was in my 30s. One of the younger women was trying to determine why I looked younger than I was. I told her I stayed out of the sun, I didn't smoke, and I slept usually 8 hours a night. I also drank water more than any other fluids. But she didn't think I looked younger because of those reasons. Then she asked if I was ever married or had kids. The answer was no. She said that was the reason I looked young. 🤣 So I don't know if being a wife and mother ages you, but she was convinced that was why. 🤷♀️
@@whimsy339 Period!! Like I'm not saying I wanna be single forever but I'm focusing on my trauma's and my mental health so when I'm fully healed I'll be ready to tackle an relationship and I'll have the strength to walk away from toxic situations plus I ain't gotta worry about sharing food or feeling like I need to look after my partner when I can be single and be bad ish while being single 😜💅🏾 I'm 20 btw but I look at least 15 or 16 still cause my mom gave me her juicy cheeks so I have an Babyface
Charlotte is absolutely the best! I’ve seen her donate on the spot when someone has a non profit or charity organization, etc. That’s a great person right there! xx Charlotte!
I'm flabbergasted by the first one. The mother was definitely the most at fault there. That's an outright betrayal. Trying to understand the mindset that lady's mother was in is impossible for me. I keep thinking of the time my friend's (now ex-) boyfriend hit on me- that made me almost the angriest I have ever been, and I am disgusted by the thought of him to this day. I think that if my daughter's husband tried to hook up with me, I would probably beat the hell out of him. I would just be so angry that he would dare try to cheat on my daughter, and to a lesser degree insulted that he would think I would do something so rotten. I think I would put him in hospital.
That's why your daughters husband would never hit on you. Guys wait for the sign and then pounce. You would never give him the sign or the ok. I think they sense who will and who wont. Its like at the bar they know who will more than likely who will go home with him and those who wont. I think the mom gave him the go ahead, cuz I don't think he would have dare come onto her. Just my opinion
I don't know what's better, the Internets drama, the wonderful reactions from Charlotte, or the great editing. As a video editor myself, I am impressed by the last, but ultimately charmed by the middle. The Internet Drama is just background for the real show.
You’re the most sweet and down-to-earth beautiful human for doing that, I’ve never seen a TH-camr just straight do that on the spot. Sending love and blessings your way ❤
I had the most ridiculous, excited reaction when Sand.Money mentioned the Midnight Diner in Charlotte, NC. 😂 Like, I know that place! I've been there! 😂
The first woman I can resonate with. I'm a single mom myself and have been homeless. Also my mom has done some cruel stuff to me. I'm happy for her to be able to overcome and she's happy!!!
I walked in on my partner of 9 years and my niece in the midst of her riding him like a bucking bronco.... (she was mid 20s and also my best friend) She got pregnant, he hung himself, my father set fire to his house on the day of my partner's funeral and died 10 days later. Needless to say our family fell apart.... Mainly because my brother and sister in law knew and didn't tell me. I lost my 💩 ... I have spoken to any of them in over a decade.
@@r.coffman1431 thank you to all for the kindness. I'm fine, it was a long time ago... Though I still have tough rage days... And I miss my big brother as we had always been very close... It is what it is 🤷♀️
This single momma appreciates you Charlotte! Have a super fun Valentines Day filled with all the love bubbles! 💞💕💓☺ and may nobody attempt to pop them!
That first woman sheesh, I feel for her, just hearing about the experience sounds horrible, imagine living it. But thank you for doiung such a nice thing and sharing her non-profit and also donating! That IS the spirit of love we need here, aggressive gremlin support. Happy Valentine's to everyone
I've been with a narcissist, narcissists often lie, often they even are compulsive liars. I hope the first husband was telling the truth and not trying to get out with the satisfaction of having hurt his ex wife even more.
I thought the same thing. It's quite possible that he was lying. But even so, she shouldn't have been flirting and holding hands. So at the very least she was entertaining the idea.
When she came up and said that she then took her home from her, I was 100% bought in. If she could do that, it is absolutely believable that she could have an affair with her husband. It honestly sounds like she took advantage of the whole situation and the fact that her daughter's husband was a dog anyway.
Love the story of the woman who started the houses for moms after her betrayal. ❤ It really goes to show that good things really can come from terrible situations. I teared up a little when you made the donation. 😊
What a sweet person you are Charlotte, donating to the mom's business. Not many people can do that, and from where I live it is like 10000. I'm not disclosing on where I am for my safety, but that first story was sad yet heart warming.
I have been in that situation where you find out that your husband not only cheated, but he cheated with another guy! I feel like his being bisexual was something he should have told me BEFORE we got married!!
Uh, yeah, 100%. I understand that sometimes people don’t discuss things up front because they don’t want to jinx it and then never find “the right time” but it’s irresponsible and inauthentic to lie by omission about something like that, especially when entering what is essentially, a contract of marriage, and agreement that you are on the same team from now on.
@@Cashhhhew No, but you need to know everything about your partner before you marry them. Just like the kids conversation if he wants kids and she doesn't then they shouldn't get married. Have the hard conversations about compatibility with your partner before you get married. I would be 100% fine with it, it's cool, it's fine, it's chill....but if you lie to me, then it's no longer fine. Cause then I can't trust you. Then I will be asking you to go to therapy and ask yourself why you lied to me before we get married. Cause if you can't trust your partner with that information than you shouldn't be marrying them.
Everyone should be given the choice of what they can deal with! I have no problem with LGBTQ but I do not want a man that sleeps with men or Trans women, period!
Awwwww, Charlotte! You donating to that young lady to her non-profit just sealed the case for me that you are a wonderful hooman in this horrible world where things that happened to that young lady happen to others-which to me, is downright disgusting. I'm going to support that young lady too. Happy Galentine's Day to all the women out there! Stay safe. Peace.
Believe me, as a trans widow, it’s not at all like the TV show Grace and Frankie, it’s not at all better when there’s same sex attraction, there is NOTHING good happening when your spouse comes out as anything other than they were when you first entered into that relationship. Being used as someone else’s disguise is one of the most isolating, stigmatized, traumatic events someone can endure. Reach out if you’d like to know more about how much your entire life is up-ended when your lived reality turns out to be someone else’s lie. There’s nothing glamorous or fun about being the collateral damage in someone else’s coming out. Coming out is brave. Using another human as a disguise is not.
Happy Valentine’s Day my loves! If you’re able, donate to tinyhomesformoms.com because single moms deserve love on Valentine’s Day too!
I forgot it was valentines day.
Happy Valentine's from AJ & Matt in Chicago!
Of course id be your Valentines Happy Valentines day to you and Mike ❤
I wish I could afford to donate to such an amazing cause. ❤
♥️🥰♥️ Happy Valentine’s Day ♥️🥰♥️
That first woman - geez - it's that kind of next-level betrayal that makes people go off the deep end and burn down the house or something. Fortunately, she had next-level presence of mind.
Literally what I was thinking. How can the mom not at least come clean.. Like that's your child
Don't necessarily believe the first husband that there was something going on between him and the mother. Those words may have been said out of spite. The wife offers no real tangible proof as in texts messages, screenshots, she caught them in the act,etc.The mother denies it, and so it comes down to he said she said. If the wife suspected something, then why didn't she take the time to do a little detective work. If she would try to use this as evidence in a divorce, then more likely it wouldn't stand up.
Just eww! I know a woman who had a child with her daughter’s husband. Everyone saw she was pregnant but she refused to say who the father was UNTIL after she had the baby. Mind you. Her daughter and son-in-law had been trying for years to have a child. It ripped the family apart. This shameless woman told her daughter that she isn’t the only one who should have “good things”. The son-in-law is a wealthy douche bag.
The “child” will be in her 30’s now. The whole thing was just sordid.
@@arkyboy14 i don't know, because the mom could've felt she had to hide it because she knew it was so wrong. Plus she tried to take the house from her, so that shows she doesn't care much for her daughters feelings or how something can affect her own daughter
@@JCBUBBLE22Sadly a lot of moms are like this, they see the daughter as younger and replacing her and they feel the need to constantly compete with her to be “better”. It’s actually common in girl groups. I’m sure you’ve seen sisters, cousins and best friends stealing the boyfriend/husband.
Thank you so much for the donation to my nonprofit Tiny Homes for Moms Co, Charlotte. ❤❤❤
You’re so welcome Laci! Thank you for all you do!
You're amazing ❤🎉❤
You are such a strong woman! 💪🏼
@@Kaye_G Imagine being the kind of person who would even think someone would go through great lengths to do that. My “nonprofit” is a registered 501(c)(3) so, no need for the “ “. This is public information so feel free to search for yourself.
And I’m sorry. Did you say nonprofits aren’t work? 😂 You obviously have no clue how much work, time, & money it costs me out of pocket for lawyer fees, to get my nonprofit registered as a 501(c)(3) public charity, to run a nonprofit, & the stipulations that come with it.
Gosh, there’s always gotta be that ONE person. 😒
@lacijane1694 it shows what kind of person they are, doesn't it? Vile
The fact the first story, the gal took all that betrayal and hurt and her struggles as a reason to try and help boost others so they aren't alone like she was... that's so awesome
That’s me ❤❤❤ thank you so much. It gave purpose to all the pain & helped me make sense of it all…because WTH.
@lacijane1694
Girl you are strong 💜💜💜
@@lacijane1694 that was definitely an insane WTH story, I can only imagine how much more crazy it was to live it! I hope you're healing, I know for me helping others with similar issues I've dealt with in the past have helped me heal.
I hope she sees charlottes video!
@@lacijane1694OMG that’s awesome. You have probably helped so many single mothers that just didn’t know where to go because they had no one. You really took a situation that is just so many levels of effed up and turned it into something so beautiful. Congratulations on your success with helping so many and may God bless you for being such an awesome human being
Your mom is supposed to be your closest ally. What a gigantic betrayal.
Any hope I had left for humanity just died because of that story, you can't even trust your own damn mom... I give up🤷♀️
And to drag the grandparents into it!
@@judigemini178haven't trusted my mom since I was 5😅
My real mother is a horrible person while Dad is pretty amazing. I have a lot of friends whose Moms have "adopted" me over the years. So I have a LOT of "parents" and get invited to all sorts of Thanksgivings which is pretty amazing.
The fact that it's common for parents to hook up with their children's partners is so disgusting & a whole WHOLE another lever of betrayal & gross.
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It's not common, but it is fkd up.
I blame p*rn desensitization too. Some psychologists shared that bf/gf sleeping with parents is the kind of betrayal most popular; right there with step family members. Just absolute trash…
The most surprising story I've heard was about a groom who was cheating with bride's father (her parents wasn't divorced).😮
IT IS GROSS
I love your goblin laugh "I love doing nice things!" the exact kind of chaos we need!
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That was so sweet of you to donate to her fund. 😊😊😊😊😊
@@CharlotteDobre😂😂
Totally needed that giggle today, and thank you to Charlotte for sharing great charities and initiatives ❤️
And a lovely amount for a donation! I'm sure it will go a long way for those that need it ❤️
Omfg same lmao love it
When you exclaimed “Oh no, oh no!!” after hitting the donation button, I thought you realized it was either a scam or you donated to the wrong charity! I am happy that was not the case!
Love you Charlotte! I look forward to your videos. Happy Valentine’s Day Bestie!! 😘😘
Omg same! 😰😂
Same, I heaved in a breath!
Me too!!
Saaame.
Me too!
GASPED when she donated that money. We are ALL for giving love and also getting some petty justice at the same time. QUEEN
Not me crying when she said about she builds tiny homes for mums! I'm not even a mum lol. Was just a beautiful idea.
Oh my goodness! I know this woman! We donated to help build tiny homes. I was a single mom and luckily I worked two, sometimes three jobs, and was able to afford our housing, but that's always been my soft spot and I've always looked out and helped single moms. Great organization!
When she donated that money and then wen "Oh no, oh no!" I panicked thinking it was something bad and she made a mistake xD
LOL IM SORRY
Me too 😂
Yea, I thought maybe she accidentally went to the wrong site or something
I did too! 😂
Lol same
I love CHARLOTTE so much. The fact that she immediately donated a thousand dollars without thinking twice is so amazing of her !!!!! LOVE THIS.
Happy Valentine's Day Charlotte! ❤❤❤❤
I don't know how I'm going to explain to my husband that Charlotte is my Valentine because she asked first 😂😂😂
HAPPY LOVE DAY MY VALENTINE
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Tell him, "you snooze, you lose. Sucks to suck." 😉
Happy Valentine, Ms Charlotte. I'd be more for any of these women. Even though I'm just slightly older (just a mere 72). This is very good in that I am too old to be with more than for more than one woman at a time. and for your wonderful advice.
LOL. Same.
I thought I couldn't love the Queen Charlotte anymore than I already do. But my favorite moment in this entire video was the spontaneous donation to help homeless moms.... Nearly made me cry. Well done, seriously well done.
The fact that you immediately donated so much money really just shows how much of a genuine and lovely person you are ❤ love your videos you always put a smile on my face.
*7:40** That warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. As someone that has been homeless several times with a newborn in tow,I understand the feeling of having no one and nothing. Such a sweet soul Charlotte. Happy Valentine's Day🖤*
"You lose them how you got them." Wiser words have never been spoken.
So true. If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you.
Oh Charlotte, I am crying. I am so excited that you gave to Tiny Homes for Mom, Co. Laci is such a tender hearted woman! Love that you gave!!!!
What a way to comeback from a betrayal, starting a nonprofit so others in that same pain and helpless situation will have someone to turn to ❤️ and thank you Charlotte for donating, let's be the support we deserved in our tough times ❤️
That nonprofit to build tiny homes for single moms is so beautiful. What a beautiful thing to do. What a loving heart. She's the kind of person who makes the world turn, I love her
I died hearing you say "sorrows sorrows prayers" 😂😂 nice call to Queen Charlotte... because you ARE QUEEN TO US
After 23 years of marriage and 2 children I found out he swung the other way and I was his acceptance wife for society. Very very painful.
Yeah, I was that too for my ex-husband... we were young when we got pregnant (I was 17 almost 18 and he was 20) and I got married while pregnant... fast forward I find things and it's like a gut punch... I was so confused and lost... I stuck around for a little while to try to make it work for our daughter but he was also abusive... so I left without warning early one morning right after he left for work.
It’s always such a huge and tragic situation when this stuff happens. Horrible that you’d been roped into being approval, horrible that he ever felt that was necessary, horrible that the relationship was ever structured like this.
Bless you
I hope you’re healing, lovely ❤ :( I feel like it’s almost worse somehow. It’s manipulative and immoral, toying with someone to use as a cover.
"bearding" has heavy misogynistic tones - your only value is to hide him. It's less awful when the man is the beard - there was a story and the male OP was totally ok with his wife being shy and sad and there's such a different power dynamic. but still pretty bad.
It's only ok if they didn't really know at the time or if it's a mutual agreement.
The only reason that husband “admitted” he cheated with her mom was because she worded it as “my mom told me you’ve been cheating on me,” so he must’ve thought she already knew about the husband and the mom being together and that’s the cheating the wife knew about…so he called *himself* out. Which is hilarious. Of course he was “honest with her,” he thought he’d already been caught. Easy to be honest then 🤷🏻♀️
That makes the mother denying even worst
Nope, she Just told him, that her Mom told on him, so He was Desperate to Shift the blame and threw her under the Bus in Return, they told on eachother in Hope she will BE to busy being Mad at the other
He said, "You should know what I've been doing with your mum," which implies he was saying her Mum was extra.
LOL ,men do that a lot when they feel guilty, just pretend you know everything and saw everything and will come out running trying to put the blame on someone else cuz they cant deny that anymore
Let's put it like this, if it was only the husband holding the mom's hand, why would she hide it and make it out to be even worse than that, IF it was NOT more than that. Meaning it was.
Charlotte going straight to the non-profit to donate!!! I love you!!! I was homeless for awhile as a single mom after my then husband cheated. This hits home and your constant generosity is a testament of your character!!! We love the queen potato!❤❤❤❤❤❤
I really like the way you say "ABSOLUTELY NOT ARE YO NOT EMBARESSED" fav lines and the toneee....
Thank you.
Thank you for being kind today. I was in tears after 20 seconds into the video. Been tough lately and your immediate kindness broke the flood gates. Cheaters SUCK and I appreciate you❤❤❤❤ Thank you for being kind, funny, and real. Sending so much girlie love vibes to you❤
Sending all my love to you! Chin up bestie!
@@Tea_laBlue thank you 💗
Aww Charlotte read your comment 😄 that's so lovely ❤
@jend995 I know right! She's so kind! Love her ❤️
@@SaraHollingrr-mz8rl I know me too 😄😄 if only the world was filled with Charlottes
Awww charlotte! 😢 not only will your donation of $1000 do so much, your influence is probably gonna cause so many other people to donate! You’re a great person!
Ms Char-Beast has a ❤️ of gold. 😊
My brother married a really great lady that had been married before. During her first marriage, her husband slept with both her mother and her sister. It nearly destroyed her.
I hope your brother is treating her like a queen.
@@footyfan101ful Oh, he does. And she treats him just as well.
Holy crap, I hope she’s doing well now. I also hope she’s not in contact with her mom and sister anymore
@@fizzydizzystudios4768 She and my brother are both doing well. And no, she has been NC with her mother and sister for many years. They still try to find things out about her. They even came to my mom's house and tried to force their way in. Mom told them to leave or else she would call the police. They high tailed it and we haven't heard anything from them since.
I hope the ex got his karma as well somehow.
How awesome of you to donate money to that non-profit!! What a sweet, kind, lovely person you are, Ms. Charlotte!! You really are the type of person that you portray on your channel!!!
Charlotte, this is why we love you! You pick apart these stories that I, personally, find so crazy at times but you also have a heart of gold! We need more people with huge hearts like you to keep this world together. You aren't afraid to show us you care! Girl, I will always watch your content, not only does it open my eyes to how people behave but you always make me laugh, my favorite way to handle the hard days is laughter! Happy Valentine's Day! 💜
Omg Charlotte I love you!! You're amazing donating. I have a friend who could really benefit from a tiny home to get away from her horrible abusive bf. ❤️ This could help so many mamas out there.
I’m glad I could help. What a great charity 🥺
I cried a little bit honestly, that warmed my heart 🥰🥰🥰🥰 we love you Charlotte you're an awesome human being!!!
Charlotte is amazing. I'm so proud of her. ♥️
We love Charlotte!!!! The greatest potato queen ♥️
Nope when you're s/o cheats you blame both of them unless they didn't know about you. And i do have to say that the first woman is absolutely amazing. Love the idea she came up with for her no profit 👏👏
Personally, I don't blame the one not in a relationship usually. If they're single that is. Even if they do know. Don't get me wrong, they're still an absolute ass. But they also have no obligation to the cheated on. It's always 100% the fault of the cheater. It's not an mistake. it's always a choice. And they're garbage humans.
Agree. I hate this idea that when someone cheats we’re not supposed to blame affair partner. Like you said, unless that person had zero idea (which is possible but nowadays c’mon, it’s much more difficult. RESEARCH THEM!). Both are to blame. It really bothers me when people say to ONLY blame the boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife. Like they always assume when you’re mad at your the other person you’re not also mad at the partner.
@@Mama_Bear524 absolutely
@Mama_Bear524 agreed! They say things like "Oh I don't owe that person any loyalty. That's on the person cheating. I didn't make promises." Like you don't have loyalty for yourself or you know just being a decent person?
I JUST started the video and was NOT expecting her to say "right after I had my BABY"! GRANNY YOU TRIFLING BISH 😮
You can not help but watch. Charlotte, you make scream. these stories are WOW.
If the affair partner KNEW they weren't single, they're just as bad as a willing accomplice. They're willing to shred the innocent partner's life just to get what they want. So selfish and cruel.
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Selfish yes but I wouldn’t say cruel necessarily, unless it’s someone who knew the innocent partner. They have no obligation of loyalty to that person. Sounds harsh but it’s the reason we say all’s fair in love and war. Human nature.
I think if I was married, the person who made and broke their vows to me and risked me to STDs is worse. As much as women are socialized to blame other women while coddling/absolving men though, I get why they always seek to try to make the affair partner "just as bad". Men are used to this too as they know the stats that women are more likely to stay with a cheater than they themselves would be.
Of course, in this case it was her mom so I'd say it's worse.
@@TheBaumcm they don't have any compassion towards someone they are actively hurting and know they are doing so it's definitely cruel
@@TheBaumcmthis is the most bs reply I’ve ever read. Lmao.
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She was double betrayed. Her man cheated on her AND he probably lied about being straight.
My ex came out as trans and with all peace and love to my trans homies, but that devastated me. I felt like our entire marriage was based on a lie. And it fucked me up. Its not funny or cool.
Chsnces he may not of fully realized or accepted till then. Mine hadnt told me till maybe a month in but i dont mind him
Being trans ftm. Because i love him no matter his gender
I hear that. Even if the person realizes it later, after they've committed to you, it still hurts like hell. There's no way to make that not hurt.
@@BunnyDoesArtThings I guess it really depends on the person.
A close friend and their ex divorced because the ex came out as trans. Friend was super supportive of the transition, but ex started saying a lot of terrible things about them. Stuff that would have any other ex be called scum of the earth, but because ex is trans my friend defends them and minimizes just how awful ex was.
It's really hard to listen to my friend now because they will express their bitterness and anger at what happened and then get angry at themselves for not being an ally. I really want to tell my friend that yes their ex is trans but they are also an AH. Just because you hate them as an AH doesn't make you less of an ally to the rest of the trans community.
I too cackle maniacally while doing good things because doing good things turns me into a warm and fuzzy chaos gremlin. That was a great thing you did. ❤❤
It's so amazing that you donated to her non-profit! You are so lovely. ❤
I'm fascinated with how proficient she is with the styling wand while chatting 😂
Mom cheater would never be talked to again.
The red head cracking me tf up. FOLLOWING IMMEDIATELY 😂
This hit home for me as well. My mom slept with my husband too. Then had the audacity to write an apology after almost a year of no contact, basically explaining that he hurt her too. Because he was using her to get back at me for leaving him.... BECAUSE HE CHEATED!!!
Bunch of dirtbags
My mother would no longer be my mother and my husband would be far, far away. Charlotte you are amazing for the donation! I'm over here crying at work.
Found u on facebook at a very difficult chapter of my life and have been watching ur daily uploads for almost a year now. You make my days so much brighter. U make me laugh. Thankyou so much and I love u so much❤❤
I love that you immediately donated 💖 its that kind of energy that makes me adore yah Charlotte
In the wise words of our lovely Queen Charlotte - #1. Never a flex to “bag” a cheater
#2. They gonna leave you how they found you
Charlotte you made me cry with that donation! I love you so much, dude! You’re so freakin kind and beautiful!!
Awe I love that you donated to the organization! That’s wonderful, I’m a single mom at 21 so it’s nice to see
This girl is my hero!! Turned her worst day into a way to help others ❤
Grace & Frankie!!!! That is the funniest & most well-written series!!
Oh my GOD the first woman!!!! You are a literal queen, I can’t imagine going through this betrayal… you’re so so so strong. Sending you & your kiddo lots of love ♥️♥️ you should be proud of how you handled it.
Charlotte I love how you get the grinch smile across your face when you say “should we give her some money” you get that face everytime you’re about to be generous or petty and it’s brilliant
"I will never forget the expression on his face when he told me that." -ad immediately cuts in: "Nivea. For any face, expression, and skin type." What the hell TH-cam ads 😂
I get that happening all the time, too. 😂😂
Sometimes it's hilarious, sometimes I want to punch whoever times the ad breaks. 😂😂😂🤦♀️
Lmaooo😂😂😂
CHARLOTTE!!!!!! Ofc I’ll be your valentine. How sweet of u to ask. Girl I waited sooo long for this😂
Sorrows, Sorrows, Prayers! Love it!
How the heck can parents do that to their child?!
That’s like the ultimate form of betrayal.
Right? That's blowing right past, "my hamster are three of her babies" and on to "A Child Called 'It' " . For those who've never heard of ACCI, it's an autobiography of a guy surviving his mother's abuse. She had 3 or 4 kids, of which he was the second youngest. For some reason when he was like 5, she decided she would torture him. Just him. The youngest kid was born after the abuse started and grew up thinking that was normal. It was just his role in the family.
"Mommy loves me and Billy and Jimmy and Tommy is scum, and needs to die. Can I have some juice, please?"
THANK YOU for doing that donation!! That was awesone Charlotte!! You are too cool!!!❤
I'm single but at least i have Charlotte to make me laugh. I'm so happy that she made a video for us today. Happy valentine's day Charlotte and Mike. You are adorable and make me still have hope on finding love. ❤
Chin up Dina! Sending so much love to you today!❤
@@CharlotteDobre thank you Charlotte♥️
I’m single too but lots of great family and friends and a cat to make me happy and loved. I hope you had a Happy Valentine’s Day Dina. Greetings from Australia. 🇦🇺
@@miriamiuricich6636 haha same, i love my friends, Family and my two cats! They make my Life great. Thanks for the kind words.
@CharlotteDobre im in a cruise and in a cruise solo traveling in Saint Valentines so not going to dinner with all the couples!!! There was even a renewal of vows!! So im watching your video! So nice of you donating to that lady. That is one gaslighting mom!!! Glad shes doing better and able to help others!!!
I love her so much, she reminds me of every fun person I ever known. Pretty sure I’m borderline obsessed…I’ve been binging for weeks.
Family members who participate in cheating, especially when they act like they are loyal to you, are absolutely the worst. People who cheat are sh*t but you can find someone else. Family is supposed to be there for you.
Same with best friends doing it ... Why do female friendships seem to be half rivalry???
Wow, that first gal, how could a mom do that to her daughter ? And kudos to her for her non- profit, talk about turning a tragedy into helping others in similar situations ❤
The Grindr story- I could not stop staring at his/her perfect makeup like holy h3ll. 👏🏼👏🏼 stunner.
And his hairrr😭😍😍 had me shook, so perfect💖
I wanted to watch him/her finish their hair. LOL
She's why I'm grateful that my drag Queen girlfriends taught me how to do my makeup and hair way back in the 80s when I was 15 years old. ❤❤❤👑💅🫂
Yet he was ready to fight a woman..the girl was crying because her BF is gay-nothing funny about that story, sorry!
He’s so much prettier than me. Ughhh I need maakeup and skin care tips from him
Stories like these make me happy to be single like no wonder I look young cause I don't have all that stress 😂
I remember when I had this one job we were talking at work about how old we were. I was in my 30s. One of the younger women was trying to determine why I looked younger than I was. I told her I stayed out of the sun, I didn't smoke, and I slept usually 8 hours a night. I also drank water more than any other fluids. But she didn't think I looked younger because of those reasons. Then she asked if I was ever married or had kids. The answer was no. She said that was the reason I looked young. 🤣 So I don't know if being a wife and mother ages you, but she was convinced that was why. 🤷♀️
@@whimsy339 Period!! Like I'm not saying I wanna be single forever but I'm focusing on my trauma's and my mental health so when I'm fully healed I'll be ready to tackle an relationship and I'll have the strength to walk away from toxic situations plus I ain't gotta worry about sharing food or feeling like I need to look after my partner when I can be single and be bad ish while being single 😜💅🏾 I'm 20 btw but I look at least 15 or 16 still cause my mom gave me her juicy cheeks so I have an Babyface
Charlotte is absolutely the best! I’ve seen her donate on the spot when someone has a non profit or charity organization, etc. That’s a great person right there! xx Charlotte!
Charlotte, the “how are you not embarrassed” is my absolute favorite! Love you bestie!
Aww Charlotte. You’re an absolute gem. Donating to the mom with the nonprofit made me all warm inside💜🇨🇦
I'm flabbergasted by the first one. The mother was definitely the most at fault there. That's an outright betrayal.
Trying to understand the mindset that lady's mother was in is impossible for me. I keep thinking of the time my friend's (now ex-) boyfriend hit on me- that made me almost the angriest I have ever been, and I am disgusted by the thought of him to this day.
I think that if my daughter's husband tried to hook up with me, I would probably beat the hell out of him. I would just be so angry that he would dare try to cheat on my daughter, and to a lesser degree insulted that he would think I would do something so rotten. I think I would put him in hospital.
You’re so girlboss for that!
Same here, but if it was my mom - SHE WOULD HAVE KILLED HIM💀
That's why your daughters husband would never hit on you. Guys wait for the sign and then pounce. You would never give him the sign or the ok. I think they sense who will and who wont. Its like at the bar they know who will more than likely who will go home with him and those who wont. I think the mom gave him the go ahead, cuz I don't think he would have dare come onto her. Just my opinion
I don't know what's better, the Internets drama, the wonderful reactions from Charlotte, or the great editing. As a video editor myself, I am impressed by the last, but ultimately charmed by the middle. The Internet Drama is just background for the real show.
All the above
You’re the most sweet and down-to-earth beautiful human for doing that, I’ve never seen a TH-camr just straight do that on the spot. Sending love and blessings your way ❤
The first story is like something from Dynasty 😂
Can't believe things like this actually happen
I had the most ridiculous, excited reaction when Sand.Money mentioned the Midnight Diner in Charlotte, NC. 😂 Like, I know that place! I've been there! 😂
Same!!!
The first woman I can resonate with. I'm a single mom myself and have been homeless. Also my mom has done some cruel stuff to me. I'm happy for her to be able to overcome and she's happy!!!
I'm so proud of you for being so generous! Yo Go Girl!
Charlotte you are amazing thank you for stopping to set a real example and donating to support her charity. ❤🎉
I walked in on my partner of 9 years and my niece in the midst of her riding him like a bucking bronco.... (she was mid 20s and also my best friend)
She got pregnant, he hung himself, my father set fire to his house on the day of my partner's funeral and died 10 days later.
Needless to say our family fell apart.... Mainly because my brother and sister in law knew and didn't tell me. I lost my 💩 ... I have spoken to any of them in over a decade.
Wow. Just... wow... I sincerely hope you are in a better place. I sincerely hope you are in a better place now. 😳🤗💙💙💙
This story got worse and worse. Holy sh*t.
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@@r.coffman1431 thank you to all for the kindness. I'm fine, it was a long time ago... Though I still have tough rage days... And I miss my big brother as we had always been very close... It is what it is 🤷♀️
holy hell, what........ omg....
Tearing up over you donating to the first woman! You’re the best Charlotte! ♥️♥️♥️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This single momma appreciates you Charlotte! Have a super fun Valentines Day filled with all the love bubbles! 💞💕💓☺ and may nobody attempt to pop them!
you are amazing for making an donation this circumstance strikes close to the heart you go girl
Not me crying because Charlotte is a good person! 🥰
That first woman sheesh, I feel for her, just hearing about the experience sounds horrible, imagine living it. But thank you for doiung such a nice thing and sharing her non-profit and also donating! That IS the spirit of love we need here, aggressive gremlin support. Happy Valentine's to everyone
I’m a single mom. Thank you for donating to causes that help us 🖤
I've been with a narcissist, narcissists often lie, often they even are compulsive liars. I hope the first husband was telling the truth and not trying to get out with the satisfaction of having hurt his ex wife even more.
I thought the same thing. It's quite possible that he was lying. But even so, she shouldn't have been flirting and holding hands. So at the very least she was entertaining the idea.
When she came up and said that she then took her home from her, I was 100% bought in. If she could do that, it is absolutely believable that she could have an affair with her husband. It honestly sounds like she took advantage of the whole situation and the fact that her daughter's husband was a dog anyway.
Love the story of the woman who started the houses for moms after her betrayal. ❤ It really goes to show that good things really can come from terrible situations.
I teared up a little when you made the donation. 😊
What a sweet person you are Charlotte, donating to the mom's business. Not many people can do that, and from where I live it is like 10000. I'm not disclosing on where I am for my safety, but that first story was sad yet heart warming.
I have been in that situation where you find out that your husband not only cheated, but he cheated with another guy! I feel like his being bisexual was something he should have told me BEFORE we got married!!
Uh, yeah, 100%. I understand that sometimes people don’t discuss things up front because they don’t want to jinx it and then never find “the right time” but it’s irresponsible and inauthentic to lie by omission about something like that, especially when entering what is essentially, a contract of marriage, and agreement that you are on the same team from now on.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean someone is going to become a cheater. Are you insinuating you’d not marry him just because he came forward as bisexual?
@@Cashhhhew No, but you need to know everything about your partner before you marry them. Just like the kids conversation if he wants kids and she doesn't then they shouldn't get married. Have the hard conversations about compatibility with your partner before you get married. I would be 100% fine with it, it's cool, it's fine, it's chill....but if you lie to me, then it's no longer fine. Cause then I can't trust you. Then I will be asking you to go to therapy and ask yourself why you lied to me before we get married. Cause if you can't trust your partner with that information than you shouldn't be marrying them.
@@Cashhhhewyes. If the guy came out beforehand and said he was bisexual, that is an instant breakup
Everyone should be given the choice of what they can deal with! I have no problem with LGBTQ but I do not want a man that sleeps with men or Trans women, period!
Hey ! Happy ❤ . it's fun how Charlotte can be so goofy then be so glamorous.
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The psychological problems that first poor woman will have to endure. Ultimate betrayal.
I'm living on a different continent, but can I say thank you for that donation and thank the other lady for her great work. ❤
you’re so kind Charlotte! well done to the first lady xx
I hope that donation went really far. She seems like a very down to earth and honest person. I bet that non profit is badass 🥰🥰🥰
Awwww.. your donation brought a tear to my eye... Love you!
Awwwww, Charlotte! You donating to that young lady to her non-profit just sealed the case for me that you are a wonderful hooman in this horrible world where things that happened to that young lady happen to others-which to me, is downright disgusting. I'm going to support that young lady too. Happy Galentine's Day to all the women out there! Stay safe. Peace.
Yes Charlotte, we will be your valentine. We will treat you like the queen you are!
Oh, my God😱 This first woman, was SO heartbroken by all this betrayal from her own mother... And having no-one in her support system...
Happy commercialised love day taters!!
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I so wanted to see this the whole day. Thank God someone agrees with me.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY CHARLOTTE LOVE YOUUU 💕💕
Awww, its so sweet that Charlotte donated to that lady, that was CRAZY.
Believe me, as a trans widow, it’s not at all like the TV show Grace and Frankie, it’s not at all better when there’s same sex attraction, there is NOTHING good happening when your spouse comes out as anything other than they were when you first entered into that relationship. Being used as someone else’s disguise is one of the most isolating, stigmatized, traumatic events someone can endure.
Reach out if you’d like to know more about how much your entire life is up-ended when your lived reality turns out to be someone else’s lie. There’s nothing glamorous or fun about being the collateral damage in someone else’s coming out.
Coming out is brave.
Using another human as a disguise is not.
Charlotte, you are such a pure soul!! i watch you all the time and you always make me smile
Is it just me or is this the video of amazing hair? Like seriously everyone (including Charlotte) has glorious flowing locks!
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