7 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew Earlier

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  • @simonalexandero
    @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    What life lessons do you wish you had known earlier? Let me know below...

    • @runstrong65
      @runstrong65 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      To be less afraid

    • @rawgab4439
      @rawgab4439 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      OMG .....where to start ?

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rawgab4439 what’s the first that comes to mind? 😊

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@runstrong65 👏

  • @dinabaxter5393
    @dinabaxter5393 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    "So many of us are exhausted not because we are doing too much, but too little of the things that brings us joy". Wisdom right here.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you 🙏

    • @BereketZeab
      @BereketZeab 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Here Lies The Key "Things That Bring Us JOY"

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BereketZeab absolutely 👏

    • @julesjma
      @julesjma 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm there. I am so tired and SO DONE.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@julesjma time to change things 🙌

  • @lauriexwang
    @lauriexwang 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    9:07 the ability to do hard things is one of the most important skills to develop in ourselves and in our children. Love this point about how to shape our own realities with our ability to overcome challenges 🙌🙌

  • @campingwithchrissy
    @campingwithchrissy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I'm currently not doing anything that brings me joy and I feel exhausted daily! I will change that TODAY~ thank you!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Love it Chrissy! Exciting times ahead 🔥

    • @rawgab4439
      @rawgab4439 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me 2

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rawgab4439 here’s to a different path ahead 🙌

  • @Slav.Bogusz
    @Slav.Bogusz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    All of them are really great lessons. I wish I started reading earlier but I'm glad i did started.

  • @jmlouie
    @jmlouie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you for sharing the lessons. I also wish I understood earlier the benefit of short term pain for long term gain. I really like the comment about how avoiding short term pain is a great strategy for peace, but the trade off is long term happiness, which I'm assuming would also bring more internal peace as well.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad to hear they resonated and yes, long term happiness would also bring more internal peace 🙌

  • @plantpowerbuddy
    @plantpowerbuddy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you Simon. All are great lessons. My word for this year is Courage, so your comment "Breakthrough is on the other side of courage" really resonated with me. I'm taking action on some really hard stuff. It's uncomfortable. But i believe the breakthrough is coming 😊
    Another lesson for me is to truely know who I am and not rely on external validation for my identity. And to know my values and live authentically! I'm a recovering people pleaser 😉 Jue x

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A beautiful word to have as a guiding compass for our lives Jue ❤️

  • @dinabaxter5393
    @dinabaxter5393 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    These are hard hitting and powerful life lessons. Thank you so much for sharing Simon, I especially loved that beginning part of the video.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And thank you for taking the time to watch and comment. Means a lot 🙏

  • @drlalitalalita3084
    @drlalitalalita3084 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I liked the thought," If you choose to do harder things in the beginning,later in life it becomes easier"
    Do not get jealous of someone's success.
    But I have a question? How do you deal with people who get jealous and bring destruction unknowingly

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      From my experience, there will always be people who are jealous of you when you put yourself out there and achieve some level of success. The key is to understand that it is often more about them than you. You can try and raise their awareness about it through kindness, positivity and empathy but if they are not open to listening or understanding, then you must create a boundary to prevent that negative energy affecting you.

  • @frederickwillemssens1150
    @frederickwillemssens1150 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Number 1, overthinking, is my number 1 procrastinator !

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Here’s to changing that 🙌

    • @frederickwillemssens1150
      @frederickwillemssens1150 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@simonalexandero I've been wandering all over TH-cam, Udemy, Skillshare,... so many platforms for years now. Followed numerous of courses in photography, webbdesign, digital marketing,... so I know I have the knowledge to pursue an entrepreuneurship in creating content, I just keep getting stuck in that same routine of "let's follow 1 more course" because I always feel like it's never enough. I think many people can relate to this. By the way, The Shawshank Redemption is my all time favorite movie!

  • @elsenwland3192
    @elsenwland3192 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    12:23 also I learn that the lesson you need, comes as long as you need it, in the hard way! Till you learn it and than the teacher leaves.😊

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love that and so true 👏

  • @doneitel
    @doneitel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's not that life is too short, it's just that we waste so much of it. ~ Seneca, Stoic Philosopher

  • @lesley-anneshaw3708
    @lesley-anneshaw3708 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I don't wish I had learned anything earlier, I am only thankful that I have the opportunity to be here to learn now.
    Thank you for sharing with us ❤

  • @gratefulMTC
    @gratefulMTC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was also an overthinker. Now, I take action and small action is better than no action.

  • @mohlagomabale9327
    @mohlagomabale9327 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I can do this even without you! Great lesson right there. I must stop depending too much on others that it eventually discourage me.

  • @BereketZeab
    @BereketZeab 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Being Always Lost In The Maze Of Choices & Due To This Lucking Consistency Is Killing Me, I Really Feel Exhausted Mostly @50 Bad For Marriage And All Other Areas Of Life, Love Your Videos Anyway

  • @ahkee159
    @ahkee159 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you said if
    You repeat the same habits you do every day for a year will you be closer to
    Your goal or further and it really struck a cord!
    Thank you for your knowledge and value

  • @realskepticalstoic9704
    @realskepticalstoic9704 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lesson 4 and the bonus lesson are my absolute favourites - taking responsibility for everything in my life and being a learning machine have created who I am now from who I used to be. Thank you Simon. Really appreciate this and the 11 things to live an easy, slow life.

  • @pediaonthego
    @pediaonthego หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I quit my fellowship program because my seniors bullied me to the point, they created an exam designed to fail me.
    I learned that life isn't straightforward or how you planned it. It's a journey, I always think "what if I had not quit"... but.. it's in the past now. I just have to make-up and do better in life.

  • @PersainwithAtena
    @PersainwithAtena 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I enjoyed the first lesson more:
    Collapse gap between idea and execution. It was the forth video that I saw from this Channel. Thank you dear Simon. 🦋

  • @JonnaPatriciaSanJose
    @JonnaPatriciaSanJose หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so glad I clicked on this video. Everything you said was truly valuable and opened a new persepective- thank you.

  • @tamaraweed3124
    @tamaraweed3124 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    ❤every single item is so profound!❤

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much Tamara 🙏

  • @official_ate_gi_channel
    @official_ate_gi_channel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love lessons 6 & 7. It’s something I have proven to myself and something I really want my kids to appreciate more and more as they grow up. Thank you!!

  • @Preceda11
    @Preceda11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow... Simon... I am absolutelly impressed. Incredible. Thank you so much. With the video "It´s time to let go and stop worrying" this is TOP for me... Thank you!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Makes my day to read comments like this. Thank you 🙏

  • @kingsleyyuan4311
    @kingsleyyuan4311 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks bro , I love listen to what u said 🎉 god b;less u

  • @naldiss87
    @naldiss87 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey mate thanks for the lovely advise. turning 38 next Jan. Hope i am not still too late.

  • @AttitudeisAltitude-cs8ys
    @AttitudeisAltitude-cs8ys 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for the powerful message. I am inspired to go after all the goals I have shelved for some time now. Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life. Thanks again.

  • @Mr.Honest247
    @Mr.Honest247 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your videos are full of wisdom and I subscribed to you for it. You’re helping my life and my HUGE goals. Your work is changing people’s lives including mine!

  • @connorkapooh2002
    @connorkapooh2002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really excellent and to the point. I really agree with the curiosity aspect, following your inclinations and finding meaning that way. Very nice!

  • @nomiharper
    @nomiharper 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m incredibly grateful to have just discovered you. What a miracle you are. I feel I’ve been searching for you and your guidance all my life. Thank you 🙏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you and grateful to you for taking the time to watch ❤️

  • @neasahayes6044
    @neasahayes6044 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Most relevant for me is hard versus easy choices. I'm in middle age trying to undo the consequences of taking the easy route when I was younger. I subscribed also to the go with the flow philosophy and got nowhere really only back to where I started.

  • @jayellwood
    @jayellwood 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So many great quotes in here. ❤

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Jay! So glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @iopakayalo3459
    @iopakayalo3459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Care less about the outcomes and more about your habits." ❤

  • @arseniamcglasson5014
    @arseniamcglasson5014 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everything you said resonates with my life❤especially choosing the hardest part and do the easiest things later. It becomes a habit and part of my daily life. I’m grateful that your video showed up this morning while I was walking and thought I tried to listen. THANK YOU! I hope a lot of people have a chance to see and listen to your videos. 🙏 Now, I am curious so, I’m going to read your book ENERGIZE.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you and can’t wait for you to dive into Energize ❤️

  • @bernadetteshonga9714
    @bernadetteshonga9714 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just the person and messages ive been looking for. Subscribed. Grateful 🙏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Means a lot. Thank you 🙏

  • @okcarter2404
    @okcarter2404 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your magnificent videos! 🎉 Your lesson, per Alvin Toffler, on "learning, unlearning, and relearning" 11:27 reminded me of a comment that purported to correct what is commonly cited as Darwin's theory of evolution being "the survival of the fittest." The commenter said the more accurate articulation of his theory is something to the effect of: Those who are the quickest to adapt ["learn, unlearn, and relearn"] are the most likely to survive. Great work, Simon!

  • @YaoEm
    @YaoEm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I enjoyed so much all the lessons! thank you!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching 🙏

  • @MaryannAlan
    @MaryannAlan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing....

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @goodlifewithjin3102
    @goodlifewithjin3102 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful inspiration.

  • @dalecarrington7851
    @dalecarrington7851 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree 💯 on this !! I think it's changed my life

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you and incredible to hear 🙌

  • @EdmondAnguah
    @EdmondAnguah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your videos are soo empowering and inspiring Tanx my role model and coach ❤

  • @edflordeliz5246
    @edflordeliz5246 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your words are truly inspiring. So glad to have stumbled on your content.

  • @murisavdic5121
    @murisavdic5121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Simon, thank you for lesson no. 1. I'm still struggling with how to close that gap. I'm stuck in something they call "over-analysis paralysis". I have too much information and I don't know what to do with it. Thank you for your help!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you! Good to consume information; more important to have a bias towards applying it. Perhaps something simple to begin with is to reflect on what one, small action you can take today that is in your control 🙌

  • @michelelouros-frontino1250
    @michelelouros-frontino1250 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am learning in all your msgs and love the content. Thank you for your words of wisdom~

  • @SummaryUpdate-w3w
    @SummaryUpdate-w3w 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good Book!

  • @joedimaggio3146
    @joedimaggio3146 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fantastic video. Thank you

  • @danielmalinen6337
    @danielmalinen6337 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would so much like to believe this just as I believed so when I was younger and more naive, but unfortunately we live in a society where we do what we are given and not what we want. And if we don't accept it or we give it up or it is not given to us then we are unemployed and the whole society hates us and we are left alone outside and isolated, like we're worthless trash. And when you're an outsider, it's harder to come back and you're just pushed further away as a scapegoat so that others feel better and less anxious. And I know and am aware that this is not a healthy society when it works this way, it is very broken, but it is difficult to influence and change it alone if others do not want to change the prevailing status quo but keep it instead. And with even greater reason I hope more harder that it's true, what you said in this video because it is much better than what we have now.

  • @KingJag
    @KingJag 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fantastic Lessons. noted.

  • @pooyafitness
    @pooyafitness 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Guga

  • @OwnFoundations
    @OwnFoundations 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Respect!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 🙏

    • @OwnFoundations
      @OwnFoundations 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Already looking forward to your next one ;)@@simonalexandero

  • @geoffreyguist5000
    @geoffreyguist5000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lesson 1 - the person who host's a mastermind I'm in always mentions collapsing decades into months, and moving from idea to execution is definitely important

    • @geoffreyguist5000
      @geoffreyguist5000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lesson 2 - focus on the journey I love it

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The ability to collapse that gap between idea and execution is one of the most powerful skills we can develop 🙌

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 🙌

    • @geoffreyguist5000
      @geoffreyguist5000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@simonalexandero totally agreed

  • @Sahamvc
    @Sahamvc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great man.Thank you so much 👏🏻

  • @julesjma
    @julesjma 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am at that point now in my work where I keep driving into my work which i detest. I am SO TIRED. I have no energy or joy in my life. I feel stuck and defeated. I am so sad. I'm a 59 year old LPN and frightened to quit.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What could you do outside of work to help discover what brings you joy and thus progressively create something to work towards over time?

  • @antoinettemurphy6568
    @antoinettemurphy6568 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent

  • @jacksonlapasaran265
    @jacksonlapasaran265 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💗 more vid pls

  • @thaihealthylung
    @thaihealthylung 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    16.6.2024❤🙏🇹🇭

  • @Kindtheory98
    @Kindtheory98 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm starting to get back my life together @ 30, I hope I'm not too late. I'm scared, but pls wish me luck, I needed it❤

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best of luck (and not too late) 😊
      I was 32/33 myself before I began choosing an entirely different path ❤️

  • @maple_john
    @maple_john 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Get busy living or get busy dying" 🔥

  • @jairschirmer9867
    @jairschirmer9867 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    great advices. Problem is I'm 40 and still don't know what I want. Stuck in a job I don't like. And I do therapy.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you. What do you find gives you energy and what are you most curious about right now?

    • @leighkirby7286
      @leighkirby7286 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Watching this says you are interested in making a change. Step 1 is always the hardest (realising you want to change)

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@leighkirby7286 👏👏👏

  • @610MARYAM
    @610MARYAM 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i know
    i escaped death twice
    and im still here
    and i just found out recently that Jesus is my son
    so its not late for me at all
    my journey has just started

  • @nadeemhaque8396
    @nadeemhaque8396 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    very nice,,,,,,

  • @marketsqueezer
    @marketsqueezer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very good videos, are you a trader?

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My first career was in finance. Now I speak, coach, write and invest 🙏

  • @hollymaxwellboydell
    @hollymaxwellboydell 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have subscribed 🥰

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Means a lot Holly. Thank you 🙏

  • @kj2540
    @kj2540 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What if I have made sacrifices and went through things over and over and nothing?

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Then it is time to reflect on those choices and move forward with the wisdom learnt from them to be better with our choices tomorrow ❤️

  • @kj2540
    @kj2540 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Like I’ve been working since I recall 6 years old now 45 and my live gotten me nowhere

  • @official_ate_gi_channel
    @official_ate_gi_channel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ll make my kids listen to 6 & 7 because they seem receptive hearing it from someone else, not from their mother. Lol!!

  • @VIVLEVON
    @VIVLEVON 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s the reason lots of women that are mothers lose themselves. They live for other. 😢 how can they be a mom and also have a dream and success specially if she is her only help.?

  • @VijayPawar-sz6gq
    @VijayPawar-sz6gq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤ly

  • @oscarpalacios7198
    @oscarpalacios7198 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💪💪💯

  • @wagsalot3103
    @wagsalot3103 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your right! But.…

  • @davidc4408
    @davidc4408 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Number 1 get to $10 million networth as fast as possible then as long as take care of health all is ok after that

  • @ettyxcbyrcburcbtxcfhcdtyurt
    @ettyxcbyrcburcbtxcfhcdtyurt 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    it isnt early

  • @shaunnab8304
    @shaunnab8304 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @edelelmi260
    @edelelmi260 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Xxx

  • @allisonemig8578
    @allisonemig8578 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This has totally been me! Thank you for this! Perfect timing for me to hear this message!😊🩵☀️

  • @Divyv520
    @Divyv520 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Simon , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you to grow your channel by providing you all the value and help which will need to grow your channel ! Please Lmk what do you think ?

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    @renemedina5251 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1