A little advice for girls 1. Don't date broken hearts who are going through break up phase. 2. Don't hurry to get into a relationship take time know the person observe his behaviour silently. 3. Focus on your growth. 4. Carry on you hobbies.
@@sneha.122 because they are still into their ex and not moved on completely and will go back to them anytime or make it toxic for you too, real persons never come in a relationship till they are fully move on or recovered from their past, a broken person can never make you happy because they are failed to do the same for themselves, log vhi de skte h jo unpe ho, and tumhe bahar se koi pura khush kabhi ni kr skta tum ye sirf khud apne liye kr skte ho, bahar ki khushi temporary and addictive h bahar ka source gaya khushi gyi, inside wali permanent h,i hope u r understanding it :)
@@mansiaggarwal194 thank you and deep down i know this fact🙃okayy so i will tell you my story mera bestfriend h ek i met him 6 months before and usne hi first text kiya tha even uski gf bhi thi us time i know her she is my normal si dost toh i talked to him and we became very good friends and he makes me feel like he also like me but because he like his gf so much even though vo itna jada psnd krti bhi nhi usko he used to share his pain ki vo bat nhi krti ache se se vo 1 mhine phle us ldki ne usse breakup kr liya and he told me that i love you bcoz i also liked him from the very first so i thought ab toh breakup ho hi gya h toh mene HA kr di and next day he said merse nhi hoga yr apne bestfriend hi shi h🙃i understood his situation and i said okay and vo ab bilkul hi bdl gya h🥺or shyd apni ex se bat krne lga h waps idk unke bich kya h pr ek dusre ko follow krte h he is so changed yrr mene usko ek bndi ko block krne ko bhi kha tha jo usee psnd krti h pr usne nhi kiya i love him so much and without him mera sb kuch hi jese chla gya pta nhi kyu ye time esa h ki nikl nhi rha🥺💔
So True🤣 fir wo heal ho kr khud grow kr jate hai or heal krne wala trauma main chala jata h then wo apne aap ko heal kr hi rha hota fir koi aa jata h apne dhukh le kr😂
No doubt he is my first thought of morning & last thought of night , I used to fight with myself to don't think of him, but I let him go,I guess that's love when other person happiness seems more important to us bcz we can't see them emotional pain. So after so much struggle,I just remind by saying it "If you love him, let him go " Jo mera h vo mera ho ke rhega & jo mera nhi vo mera kbhi bhi nhi hoga, chahe mein kitna bhi effort daalun toh jo bhgvaan ke haath mein h unhe dekhne deti huun vo jaantey h kon kesa h, or mere jaatho mein jo h me,mera career ,meri family parents ab khud ke liye & unke lite jiiti huun as he is the reason why I started loving myself, I see how lovable person i am samne vala hurt kr rha tha phir bhi I try to understand him, ek sbd uske khilaf nhi khe kyuki pta tha uspr ungli uthegi, ussey bohot frk pdta h logo se, vo sh nhi payega, khud jhootey iljaam sh liye, uskey baad vo iljaam sch bhi hogye😅, but punishment toh phle mil chuki thi, kher finally I Decided so many things related to avoid such mistake & him, & get this video. So I think my case mein love h even though mujhe uski yaad aati h. Mujhe uski fikr hoti h, but I don't contact him, he want this, I give him.
@@ayushmarodiya2442kisiko ek chance Dena kaafi hota hai iss cheez mai kuki mai go through kar chuki hu agar vo 2sri baar hua hai to fir ye uss insan ki fitrat hai . Am sorry for you ❤
Mai 4 saal hostel me rahi hoon, my grandparent are narcissistic, attracted narc bf jisne meri life hell bana di...i decided mai school teacher hi bann jati hoon, learn about child psychology, understood my own childhood and wounds, started my yoga and meditation journey, abhi first job start ki hai... i feel void, no urge ab help and fix people.. abhi excitement nahi feel hota... hot and cold behavior wale log bahut dangerous hote hai, they smile but they mean something else.. aaise log apko bahut rich, charming lagenge, they will suck life force out of you.. dont even try.. i lost a decade... ab my attitude is bhad me jaye aaise log... mujhe laga nahi tha log aaise bhi ho sakte hai but learnt my lesson khub sare aasu baha k Divine intervention tha mujhe narcissist k video pop up hone lag gaye.. watch danish bashir i learnt so much about psychology from him.. this guy saved my life .. thanks neha aaise videos post krne k liye
Empaths and narcissist both are unaware of their behaviours because that occur subconsciously and it’s all because of their childhood traumas, father wounds, mother wounds. So, the one who only get drawn towards unavailable guys/girls is just because they subconsciously see instincts of their father/mother/other guardian by whom they wanted to be loved and validated but never got that. So, to make their inner child win they always attract people who behave narcissistic or overly drawn towards them. And no matter what, this cycle won’t end until we heal our childhood traumas/ past painful memories and end that need to seek validation/appreciation..that tendency to be termed as ‘hero’ in other’s life always happens subconsciously as they always wanted to save their tortured mother as a child and craved for appreciation and love by their care giver. The only way to get out of is is ‘so so much self love, Forgiveness, Acceptance’ I hope this helps❤
@@Dipika847 it’s an unhealthy personality trait which some people grow within them, people with such personality disorder are overly obsessed with themselves and believe that they are superior than all which makes them control, gaslight and hurt their partner as seeing someone tortured kind of give them some pleasure jo kahi na kahi unko heroic villain jaisa feel karata hai, bchpn me jo emotions unke dab gye the vo unhe is trah se nikaalkar apna ego satisfy karte hai.
@@arzoosingh9371 hey! read your comment. seems like you have knowledge regarding this. so I wanna ask something. Do you think this happens with friends as well? I mean I've always had a hard time staying connected to people mostly because I give too much of myself to that one person but every time they show me that I was so wrong about them. I think the major reason for my trust issues is this only. I can't trust anyone. Even though I know what kind of a person I'm dealing with, I always end up ignoring my gut feeling. How can one distinguish between friends?
@@m.m-m7k see, your friends could or couldn’t be narcissist, but the situation you have described shows that the same pattern is repeating with you, you always end up loosing everyone..this could also mean that the issue is within you, you give too much because you might not have got all that so you make sure you fill the life of your friends or partner with happiness, but problem arise when you expect the same in return! You may crave for love and attention and might be seeking for external validation, appreciation and acceptance…but you have to understand that until you’ll not fulfill these needs on your own within yourself, you’re gonna have the same experience with everyone over and over again, because people show what we are from inside, if you’re empty and incomplete..you’re gonna see people abandoning you outside too. So just tap into the world of self love and deep acceptance then you’ll see people are gonna accept you too kyuki tab tumhare andar attachment issue nahi bachega tum khud ko khud hi vo sb dogi jo dusro se chahti ho, dusre bs ak bonus honge life me tumhari🩷
Cant say it was so poisonous and so difficult to get out of something like this....every point you said was relateable ...I got goosebumps watching this. ...detaching from family...doubting family..creating dependency...superiority complex... I absolutely failed to solve things in her mind. I am 28 and she is 32 and still her mind is such a maze...i hope she gets healed for next relationship...
Exactly....narcissist will give you soo much attention initially and then suddenly withdraw....and the worst part is they will blame you for their withdrawal...and gaslight you....initially i did not understand but later i realized this behavior.
I have blocked him (or have been blocked by him) from everywhere but i have always been hoping for an apology. After watching this video i had this huge urge to send this video to him somewhere but ended up realizing that he is a narcissist and a narcissist realizing "he has been wrong" would be so ironic to his personality and he would somehow manipulate everything according to what suits him. So i didn't bother sending this to him. If you're anyhow still attached to any narcissist personality, remember the best way to heal is to just deny their existence!
Seriously....the Gaslighting they do make you question your sanity...they attack good value people.... definitely just deny their existence because you will never get an apology
@@s.k1127 Just because someone is broken or hurt it doesn't mean they've got license to use someone else to heal them and then be thankless about it and hurt them. I totally agree that they might be traumatized and what they did was not intentional but rather done subconsciously but their actions could never be justified, they were wrong! And he was narcissist because he always flipped the table whenever his behavior was questioned. He always began to question how i behaved and how immature or naive i was, he literally said that he proposed me because he wanted someone to hold him while he was hurt and not with the pretext of having a relationship! To decipher what kind of broken person he is totally beyond my interpretation.
Let me help you, it's my responsibility to heal you, isi din kaa toh intejaar kar raha tha, ki kisi ke kaam aa saku , aaj mera intezar khatm hua 😂😂😂 @akansha
@@officialg6147 fortunately, i'm not him who needs an empaths energy to heal. i know how life works(or maybe i'm learning that) but i, for sure won't ever hurt someone else to help myself. i don't need anyone to come and tell me that i'm worthy of love. but thank you for the offer, i appreciate your kindness :)
Mera door door tk CA se koi lena dena nhi h. Fir bhi aapki particular videos dekhta hu. Kyuki wo kaafi healing hoti hain, aur un chijo ko arranged words me explain krti hain...
True..... Empaths without balance or no healthy boundaries attract narcissists. I am one example. Working on myself and educating myself, raising my vibrations, focusing on positivity and strength and fearlessness. Healing all the past wounds..... In order to match the right frequency! ❤
Didi what a perfect time u uploaded it.I was in a relationship for six years and after he left i realized he was a narc.Wasted 6 precious years of my life. He started manipulating me and i turned out to be highly overthinker coz he used to contradict everything and then when i used to question it then he used to abuse me and then used block me and i was the one to beg him...i used to give him everything and he made me realize my thinking is wrong.I started self harming myself..used to cry daily...people used to say he us toxic but i was so blind in love.I was literally gaslighted abused manipulated and discarded by him without even a closure.I broke down into million pieces ki what was wrong with me and i deserved a better goodbye.But now i feel KARMA will take care of it. So females out there dont be harsh on urself now..give all the love to ur selfcare...and be thankful to god that supreme power saved us.
@@Shambhav-qf7od how u managed man...my self confidence ...self love everything is fucked up...people said to me I've changed...I was never like this before
neha i just paused the video to tell you that recently i just left a narcissist i have been in relationship for 4 years and The peace i hold now is worth everything i left behind its the best descion ever i made in my life and its after 4 years a week back i realised he is a narcissist.... i m grateful k god showed me his true colours..... Now all my focus is me.....i am feeling so good after 4 years ....bcz the abuse he did on the name of love,i was unable to even believe k 4 sal sa narcissist k sath thi and HE DON'T LOVE ME....but i accepted and moved on ..... The descion was difficult but i made it .....🎉i m the happiest now......
Didi, no matter how hurt the empath is, their energy and aura regrows again but a narcissist always need an empaths energy for their own existence (like a virus)...the real power has always been with empaths.
I justt can't thank you enough for making this video.. I'm currently going through the same.. This girl told me how her bf left her, she's broken & missing that love.. She is crying everyday.. I did the same as u said in the video & think I'm fell in love with her.. I did everything for her which I didn't ever do in my whole life.. Eventually I proposed her, but she said I'm waiting for him to come back.. But she talked so many romantic things with me while chatting late nights.. We went for treks, hugged lot of times.. And here I'm stuck.. I'm still thinking she'd know my worth one day.. But deep down I'm hurt very badly.. Everybody needs love, but I'm not getting 1% of it and I'm still giving her 100% of my love everyday..
@@karankundra9983 Thank u Karan.. Means alott.. Even She realises if he comes back, she'll not be happy with him.. But She's feeling attraction about him becoz he doesn't even care and not about me becoz I'm a simp for her.. I'm already pissed off and I don't know how long I'll continue this..
Bro just get out from the trap After 1 or 2 years u will realise that all efforts doesn't matter and u have now forgotten urself completely.u don't even know what is ur favourite, what are the things that u like , what makes u happy So left early please It had happened with me😢.
As per my experience, one should never date a person who has broken up recently or that person is still engrossed into his/her previous relationship, because that person will never look from long sightedness, perpetuity and eternity in that new rebound relationship. It's an aid and assistance for them to have a rebound relationship and move on from the grave which their past relationship dug for them. Sorry, but there are high chances she might not feel the same for you in the near future.
After listening this, now i got to know why all that happened with me...today i got the proper word for him that he was a narcissist. I always infact daily pray to god that please god protect me from this type of people. I have suffered alot because of them, please give me someone who is kind and positive. The people who are overthinker, positive vibes are really neccesaary for them.
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai vo ek shree Krishna ka yug tha aur aaj ye. Really kya ho gaya hai logo ko. Dil kharab , dimag kharab . after watching this really i promise I'll never be like this with anyone and I'll never disconnect with my own life for anyone . thank you so much ❤❤ crore ka gyaan hai bhaii log lelo jitna le sakte ho !!!
Kohinoor jaisa video hai ye. I have been there, several times. Most of them were my cousins and friends. Now, I started fixing myself. Getting results too. I'm an empath and realised that my empathy had been utilised by people for their benefits and I was remained with a drained mind and lost opportunities. Thank God, the universe and my self-respect stopped me from falling further. Yeah, main race me pichad gaya. Lekin ab apne aapko samet raha hu. I'm also a God's Child, ye manne laga hu. Aapki videos ne bhi signal ki tarah help ki hai. Clarity aayi. Iss tarah ek naya aur strong Raghuveer ubhar raha hai. Thank you Neha for making people lives more lively and making them realise their worth 😇😇😇
The same thought I also got "Race mai piche pad gaya" Meko toh aisa laga kabhi race mai aa hi nai payi in sab chankron ke bajee see... Yehi sab soch rahi thi ...and this video pop up.
Same situation, i know it's so hard to let them go...but the truth is agr vo tumhe nhi chahte toh kitne bhi time tk kitni bhi kosis krlo vo nhi honge kbhi. Tumhare... I wish m bhi jldi move on kr pau.. mujhe kbhi usse nafrat nhi hogi .. even after everything, the only thing I've for him is lots of love... Syd ab kbhi hum ek nhi ho saknge but I'll love him forever 🤞🏻... I'll always pray for his success and happiness... Afterall he was my first love ❤
Pata nahi kaise pr yeh video exactly sahi time par aai hai.. mein 7 years se relationship mein thi .. abhi 14 April ko mujhe pata chla ki uska roka ho gaya hai vo bhi uske bhai se.. aur vo bhi same narcistic tha.. yahi bolta tha ki mein bhut gareeb hu mujhe kissi ne pyar nahi kiya aj tak.. aur mein ek schii aisi insaan hu jisne ek macchar bhi nahi mara aj tak.. mein 3 mahine se apki videos sunn ri hu.. and it helped me alot.. But ek cheez hai koi kissi ke sath galat karta hai toh uske sath bhi accha nahi hota.. uski fiance bhut bekar hai and ab vo mere se jyada dukhi hai..
Same mere sth hua 7 years ka relationship tha and he was so controlling, and toxic and dowry k lie chhor gya and ek mahine pehle uska engagement hua h i wish jitna mujhe rulaya h usko v pta chle 😢😢
Same bhan same 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 sukar hai maine catch Krna suru krdiye the ushke behaviour k stage..ab lagta hai bdiya hua rogg ktaaaa 😂🤣🤣ro dhoke thak gye ab aiesh krenge jeevan mai puri @@alishasah8566
You are literally playing a role of an elder sister who is just brutally honest, giving you those reality check. Tmhara delulu jaae bhar mei, this is what it is you neeeeddd to know this and come out of it.
Idk what is god is trying to show me or tell me or universe is going to show me but this girl always knows what I'm going through and suddenly she came up with the exact video how. You always heal me and made me cry girl
When I myself went through all of this and came out of it...I also thought ki school me psychology ka subject hona chahiye...so that in sab cheezo ko khud suffer karke samajhna na pade..
So true.... school needs to include such things... because bhut logo ki life kharab ho jaati hai inn chakkaro mai kuki jb life khud sikhati hai to bhut zor se tamacha maarke jaati hai...hum sochte hai hum ache bnke dunia jeet lege... but sacchai ye hai ki phle apne baare mein sochna zaruri hai... consequences ko bhaapna zaruri hai
Same mam psychology should be taught to school. It was my thought also since i was healed. Because being an empath i have lost 10 yrs of my life which i have wasted on others rather than myself. But i am happy that i got healed at 28 very early 😊 Yet i have lots of opportunity , time and support from my family to make my own life from here. I am blessed ❤
Okay, this is an appreciation comment for this amazing woman CA Neha Datta, who somehow always knows what i need to hear. Didi, you literally are an angel. I couldn't have ever been more grateful!
areeee didiiiiiiiii aap to aisa lgra h mere ex se milke aaye ho abhiiii, aapne mere purreee 3.5 saal ke relationship ki story suna di 15 min mai, mttttt yaad dilaoooo vo trauma merkooooo, badi mushkil se 'i will fix him' se ' bhaad mai jaa bhai mujhse ni hora' pe aayi huuuuuu😂😂😂😂😂abhi tk healing phase mai huu, bhgvaaan kisiko itna empathatic na bnaye ki usko hurt hoga ke chkkr mai khud ko hurt krte rheeee, abhi tk relationships mai aane se dar lgta h 1.5 saal hogye breakup ko, ab lgta akele he rhungi dubara ni fsnaaaa 😂😂😂😭😭
What a great explanation yarr 👏 Experienced every single stage of this .....really it's very traumatizing.... We feel like we're helpless.....Thank god for taking me out of that shit...
girl my energy is totally sucked in fixing him ! i am just soo addicted and isolated i can't even put it to words....i just don't know how to get out of this ....! May god help me rejuvenate 😭 and other too who r going through the same.... i felt it when u said , less expressive hai , koi ni i will fix and empath tho mai bahut badi wali hu , but i don't think he is a narcissistic person!
Whatever you said, each and every thing is true. About narcissists, these people manipulate a lot. I met and so called 🤣 emotionally weak person 7 years ago, last year he left me and married someone else in February this year. I am free, he had made my life hell, he had many relationships, he was cheating on me, the marriage was about to happen but me and my family caught his lie, Mahadev 🙏🏻😊 saved me, but he was very happy with that girl after cheating everyone.
Today I let my love let go he wanted this I was holding him he moved on but it's my time to not hold the past it was beautiful but it was past I am letting you go universe give me strength please I am starting my new journey today my new life of growing my self mentally physically emotionally thank you universe for giving me guy and strength ❤ thanks for this video
So I was avoiding this video ever since it was uploaded but now when I'm watching this, i feel like why I'm even watching this! I know it all.. she is talking about me 🙂
There are also a type of people who tell you that i have lots of pain, I'm facing a critical situation and so on, and when you help them then after a few hours they show you that you're nothing for them...
ihave been into this kind of relatioship ,, but i had to breakup bcoz i wanst even able to focus at my little little things which were necessary ,, so i had breakup but i wa sstill having contact with tht person ,, who was constantly coming and disturbing my mental peace ,, but after this video i had suddden realisation tht i just need to block him everywhere !!!!! thank you beautiful generous ladyy!!!
Exactly... But God always there's with me.. Eventually i learnt the lesson nd guesss wht... I m super happpy nd apka workshop b lia toh bhot kuch chize sikh gyi nd tb mujhe bhgawanji ye sikha b rhe the nd as a good student mai sikhi...haye... Now i m absolutely perfect and aage b sb perfect hoga..badhiaa se b badhiaaaa sb sb hoga wahhh..tb toh life mai mza he ajyega ❤❤God blesss alll and allll...Lesson learnt nd badhia se aage badh gye.. Nd badhia badhia dost b arhe ab toh who are divine like. Thts beautiful na ❤❤God bless everyone and everyone❤❤
Great take on this... reminded of my recent relationship. That relationship drained the f out of me. But, remember all of us are a little bit narcissistic, relationship is a bit jhukna (50-50 hona chhayie)
Narcissists don't tell traumatic stories, they show themselves as perfectionist. They love bomb empath to lure them into their cage, the only purpose is to get emotional supply from the vulnerbility of empaths. Empaths don't attract narcissists, they target them because of their qualities which they want for themselves. Many people will tell you that they are traumatic people, but in reality they are pure evil. They just want to destroy empaths they can't them happy because their self esteem is fragile, and they always feel miserable in life that is why they want it for their targeted empath as well. Parents can be narcissists as well. Infact whole family can be a narcissist and this is the most dangerous thing because good by to everything than, if you are born in a narcissistic family, you will live a life of "family scapegoat".
As your video is moving forward, and so the relatability with each point you are saying. I'm so glad finally i have realised and took time to look back at myself after so much long time (6years). Thank you for this video. "Mann ka ho to achha, or na ho to aur bhi achha". Thank you GOD for saving me. 🙌
Its like crystal clear to me 🤌🏻...me already bhaar nikal gyii uss narcissistic person se bhaar just because meri mmi ne mujhe samjha ki mere saath kya hora tha and aaj apki bhi baat sunke eesa lgra h ki koi glti nii kii h mene mujhe aaj bhi yaad h jb ye sab end honne hi wala tha lst day pr emotional card khela tha firse usne but mene block krdia from everywhere jaha tk tha ...love u diii❤ literally every person who is going through this trauma have to know your words and about this emoth and narcissistic
Exactly ma'am, I really want ki har School mein life lessons, meditation aur pschyology ki education parallel chlna chahiye. What all I am going through right now, I really pray, kisi aur ke saath na ho.
Thank you ma'am for your guidance. It's totally relatable to me I have gone through it and some way still surrounded by it, but now I won't allow all these manipulations and manipulator's in my life. Once again thank you
Same situation happen with me from last 1 year... 😢 Now don't know.. ki kaise bahar nikala Jaye.... Energy wasted and feeling low confidence... Baar baar vhi chize hori ma'am mere sath but ab khud itne strong hone ke baad bhi khud pe doubt aate hai..🙂... Thank u for this
I have researched about narcissists since I was 12 (am 19 now) I have also spent my whole life (since 6 yrs old) being abused by narcissists, machiavellianists, and dark empaths etc. I am fully aware of these people.
Omg I can't believe this. I was going through the same situation last year where in I felt like my whole existence is dependent on that person. It just took away a lot of my energy. But I was consistent with my prayers and I think that is the reason I had the courage to break that relationship with in a year.
OMG! Didi aap khud itni cheeje suffer kar rahe the. God bless you didi. And we are truly blessed to have you in our life 🙏. Thanku so much for your guidance.
From today I will not mother any one cause it hurts I will love my self priorities my self 1st my family my career my body I am my love this year was very up's downs so upsetting for me but universe taught me th best lessons of my life to my 18 yr old self 1. Be your 1st priority career family health 2. Don't depend emotionally 3. Don't mother some one or some ones truma at the end they will traumatize u and leave u 4.love your self that no one love or hate bother u
Oh my god!! This is so true....the advice that you gave mam to deal with narcissist person is so so appropriate.🤯...thanks a lot mam for explaining such important issue which nowadays every second person is facing..🙏🙏..we people feel that we are empaths so we are having the right to treat each and everbody who is traumatized😑...but No, first understand yourself completely, then deal with others with full freedom to such an extent that you have no regrets to leave those persons.✌️...thank you so much Neha mam to address this situation and about such people...love you a lot!!❤❤🧿🫡
OMG .......... Bro damn true aise hi main 2022 me ek relationship me ayi nd he is very toxic he all tym criticized his life like my is hell nothing is working in my favour my all frnd are take me as a joke I am nothing in front of anyone or main buddhu insan main usko raate ke 2 baje tkk 3 baje tkk smjhati thi nd he also said ki plz keep private our relationship log nazar lga dete h 😂 nd me be like yess ye banda kitna acha or sweet h or yhi sb chlta rha or dheere dheere main apne log se ekdm dur hone lgi or wo chiz mujhe feel bhi hota h but Aisa lgta tha ki koi mujhe ekdm pakad liya hai mtlb mera chest hamesha heavy rhta tha main hamesha roti thi wo bhi mujhe ignore krta tha meri kbhi bhi usne respect nhi ki or ek tym baad usne khud mujhe chod diya 😊 but thanks to him kuki agr wo mujhe nhi chodta toh main apne life ko behtireen banane me nhi lgti ❤
Dear Neha, I was about to complain about the world being a very bad place and me being the only right person who feels depressed because of this world and people in it. But the first few minutes of your video just made me realise that may be the problem is in me not in others. I hope you get it...having a tough year of my life in 2024, feeling totally dejected from everyone around me, totally disinterested in anything but getting married, I am getting married in 2025 feb but always anxious about it that it will not happen and even if it will then i will not get it the way i want it. always angry lways sad and always trying to pick a fight with my fiance. I am finding answering now through your video as a medium
Hey Neha...you are doing great job....can relate with your experiences cuz i have gone through very similar...and yes it's really very traumatizing when we are going through this.... it's good that you are spreading awareness about this psychological issue
i am not in a relationship but I watched this video to listen your kind words.... Dii your words are magical ✨ and I am addicted to your videos😀❤️ Kanha jii bless uhh diiiii🙌🧿
I too feel myself as a Divine Child & I feel that I came across ur video becoz my god wants me to know my worth and power through u...I'm saying this becoz I feel so connected with every single video of yours dii ..I feel everytime ki I needed this video...❤️❤️❤️
Aap shi kh rhi ho mai v kbse yhi same patternfeel kr rhi hu 3 saal se pr lgta tha ki meri hi glto h nxt person to emotional h shi h pr jb meeri mental health khrab hochuki h tb y chiz smkh arha h dusro ki khishi k liy maine khidki khushi hi chinli
I had this best friend in school. Later she went to another city. She changed so much, she used to lie too much and if you say something about it, she would lie more or ignore. Disappear and appear, that was her game. When she wanted something, she would talk to me for 3-4 days. Initially i did not know, later i got that pattern. Then i just ignored her altogether completely. Even though she was my neighbour, she would ignore me even though we would have eye contact.
I love you Neha Di. I am going through the exact same phase. It’s so traumatising, and it’s genuinely God’s timing that this video appeared in my life NOW.
*DI, PLS MAKE A VIDEO ON SICKNESS. How to mentally deal with sickness?* I am suffering from Pcod. It gives me negative feelings, i am depressed about my health. And anxious, continuously thinking why i am? What pap i did that Bhagwan ji punishing me!!!😢😢 plss make a video on thik *SICKNESS TOPIC*
listen buddy aj ke samay me most of the chijo ka treatment he or agar tumhara issue resolve nhi bhi ho rha he toh....1st god se pray karo sucche dil/man se and samay lagega so patience rakhna read some religious books like hanuman chalisa ,baghvad geta etc..2nd overthinking karke apni problem ko bahut bada mat bna lena 3rd meditation karo 4th mental health sahi rakhne ki kosis karo coz pareshan karne ko physical toh phele se khrab he or agar iese me mental bhi khrab ho jaygi to problems into 100 ho jayngi . so be calm ....i m also suffering from health from last 2 years so trust me experiance ke sath keh rha hu faith rakho sab sahi ho jayga samay lag sakta he bas
Ma'am I have been in this very bad phase too. When I started questioning I was told that I'm asumming stuffs aisa kuch nahi hai. But mujhe thoda late but realise hua that mai uske liye important nahi thi. It wasn't easy to withdraw but I knew yeh mere saat jo usne kiya I dont deserve it. I was so hurt initially but after seeing this video I feel much better ki mera decision sahi tha usse dur rehne ka. Ma'am I admire you alot, thank you for helping us through the life. ❤ You made me feel better.
I heard somewhere ... mohabbat hone lage to pooja paath kar liya karo , mohabbat hogi to mil jayegi bla hogi to tal jayegi ...and this turned out to be true ...my divine powers was so strong towards me that they helped me come out of this situation...but mujhe lga tha ki bs mere sath hi aisa hua ....aapki baat sunke smjh aya ki duniya bhari padi hai narcissist se. Aapki baatein sunke bohot acha lgta hai Neha didi ❤❤
Neha.your philosophical knowledge guides many boys and girls to the right path.so you are really a lucky girl.my enough respect to you dear.from Bangladesh.
When se said, "main.... main... masiahhhh main madad karuungi!!!"😂😂😂 although I could relate to it so much because many a times, not so long ago, I tried to help others with their emotional and mental conditions, when my own hands were shaking.🙃ab samajh aaya ye Gandhigiri kisi kaam kii nahi...
You made the content very thoughtfully and adding all the details and yeah it is definitely a needed one for young gen to understand this mental tactics people play around them.
Now I realised...this was what happened to me not in relationship but with my bestfriend Bas difference was that I didn't completely cut off with my social life...so it was easy for me to come out of that loop
Thank u mam for this type of knowledge. It s from our batch dec 2023. I also met with this type of people. Your shorts on narcissist helped me so much. Happy to see u explaining this knowledge again. Thankful for getting u in my life. You are such an angel ❤
U r just unimaginable. App di jo bolte hein wo itna practical hota he aur hamre soch ko itna clear kar deta he na, sukriya di app hamre life mein ho, blessed to have u as a guide, mentor, friend..... 🥰🙏🙌. God always bless u di
Eye opening for me. But its too late i have married twice with two narcissists who did exactly the same. But its never too late i can heal my self and can make my life easier and beautiful inshallah❤
U r the best motivator ever I wanna be like neha diii v hardworking, cute, smart and achiever ❤❤❤she is my role model and I follow unconditionally.... U r the shining star , the moon the queen 👑
Exactly this is what I've faced recent and a big shock I got ... Di same things Exactly same mai bata nahi sakti apne ekdam reality batayi hai aaj maine ek ek phase dekha hai 😢
oh God I literally just finished talking with him (for the last time in my life), basically I gave my best to this person and he did too ig but suddenly 3rd person entered and then I got ignored but still he played us both saying me u r them most imp but I want to marry her cant believe the guy wanted two options, and now after all that has happened months ago I was still expecting an apology sorry realization hit stuff, but after talking he still kept going the same thing u were the most imp I cried for u and stuff and many more man I just hate my decisions and now that person has still not realized and I expected that, I realized so many things that these will gaslight u into believing they re just so good and kind yet they're so full of themselves, and would never accept that they hurt u or anything so much I learned deva!! Now I am only going to believe in God that's all I am in! time to change and learn so many things!
Omg !!!! Didi thank u soooooo much for uploading this ❤❤. Dimag ki sari bathi jal gayi, it was enlightening to listen to this, I have seen this in my family and myself had a similar traumatic experience. Thnks again for sharing 🥹❤❤
My ex boyfriend is a narcissist personality he has he never apologize to me for my disrespect and yes he told me when we met ki uske life kitna dukh hai... Trauma hai... Aisa karke usne mujhe apne taraf kiya fir mera apne logon se schh me connection toot gya m all the time usko samjhate rehti thi uski prblm ko suna krti thi... He said that only you understand me... And suddenly he changed 360° he is like ignore my texts, calls, he puts story on wp, insta but didn't seen my messages... Im like what happened with him... And yes ye bhi ki reaction dungi to he is sad or something else... Ye sab kuch do saal chla but maine jb apni pov dena start kra toh wo bolta kitna over react krti ho smjhti nhi ho .. Immature ho wla wla im like what ky sch mein mai immature ho and i started give him explanation ki tum galat samjh rhe ho... He ignore me but i realized he is a narcissist personality becz mujhe ky feel hota h isse usse koi fark nhi pdta tha... Recently 13 days ago July 19 he blocked me from everywhere and also blame me ki mujhe akela chhod do first week im cry cry & cry but he just don't care about me aur mere tabiyat bhi kharab thi but 3 din se thik hu or usko s😮smjh gyi hu ki manipulative h selfish h narcissist h aise logon ke samne marr bhi jaoge to they don't care about it so now im taking care of my self or mera break up pichle saal hua tha fir bhi uss narcissist ke changool mein thi because of i understand im empath 😅 So from now im only prioritize myself first and love myself also❤😊
Thank you for such amazing video ♥But sometimes it feels like I does not belongs to anyone, it is hard to connect with people, don't know why I am afraid to talk with them and connect.. So Please make a video on how to connect with people and how to make that type of Mindset 🙏
I have helped one men so much like financially and he always give me hope ki ek baar m career sudhar loon then I'll bring heaven to you 😂 prblm ye h ki ab m usse help ke liye mana hi nhi kr paati kabhi ab m kya krunn
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A little advice for girls
1. Don't date broken hearts who are going through break up phase.
2. Don't hurry to get into a relationship take time know the person observe his behaviour silently.
3. Focus on your growth.
4. Carry on you hobbies.
1st one is really true . Just dont ever go to them...
Why we can't date broken hearts??
@@sneha.122 bcoz they will use you as their rebound.... And when they get healed they will throw you out.
@@sneha.122 because they are still into their ex and not moved on completely and will go back to them anytime or make it toxic for you too, real persons never come in a relationship till they are fully move on or recovered from their past, a broken person can never make you happy because they are failed to do the same for themselves, log vhi de skte h jo unpe ho, and tumhe bahar se koi pura khush kabhi ni kr skta tum ye sirf khud apne liye kr skte ho, bahar ki khushi temporary and addictive h bahar ka source gaya khushi gyi, inside wali permanent h,i hope u r understanding it :)
@@mansiaggarwal194 thank you and deep down i know this fact🙃okayy so i will tell you my story mera bestfriend h ek i met him 6 months before and usne hi first text kiya tha even uski gf bhi thi us time i know her she is my normal si dost toh i talked to him and we became very good friends and he makes me feel like he also like me but because he like his gf so much even though vo itna jada psnd krti bhi nhi usko he used to share his pain ki vo bat nhi krti ache se se vo 1 mhine phle us ldki ne usse breakup kr liya and he told me that i love you bcoz i also liked him from the very first so i thought ab toh breakup ho hi gya h toh mene HA kr di and next day he said merse nhi hoga yr apne bestfriend hi shi h🙃i understood his situation and i said okay and vo ab bilkul hi bdl gya h🥺or shyd apni ex se bat krne lga h waps idk unke bich kya h pr ek dusre ko follow krte h he is so changed yrr mene usko ek bndi ko block krne ko bhi kha tha jo usee psnd krti h pr usne nhi kiya i love him so much and without him mera sb kuch hi jese chla gya pta nhi kyu ye time esa h ki nikl nhi rha🥺💔
It's just explained my whole relationship every single line, but I gathered strength and left him after 7 years of toxicity
For me it was 7 months.
Same here sis..
Same ....even the years .!!
7 thala for a reason
3years...
No contact for 12days now.. very difficult it is but I'll do it.. I am an empath and he is narcissist
So True🤣 fir wo heal ho kr khud grow kr jate hai or heal krne wala trauma main chala jata h then wo apne aap ko heal kr hi rha hota fir koi aa jata h apne dhukh le kr😂
why so true!!
@@Iampathak888 same here💔
Sach me real keh rhe ho😅
Sach m mere sath to bhot bariiii Hua ASA 😂😂😂😂
Sounds so relatable😂
No doubt he is my first thought of morning & last thought of night , I used to fight with myself to don't think of him, but I let him go,I guess that's love when other person happiness seems more important to us bcz we can't see them emotional pain. So after so much struggle,I just remind by saying it "If you love him, let him go " Jo mera h vo mera ho ke rhega & jo mera nhi vo mera kbhi bhi nhi hoga, chahe mein kitna bhi effort daalun toh jo bhgvaan ke haath mein h unhe dekhne deti huun vo jaantey h kon kesa h, or mere jaatho mein jo h me,mera career ,meri family parents ab khud ke liye & unke lite jiiti huun as he is the reason why I started loving myself, I see how lovable person i am samne vala hurt kr rha tha phir bhi I try to understand him, ek sbd uske khilaf nhi khe kyuki pta tha uspr ungli uthegi, ussey bohot frk pdta h logo se, vo sh nhi payega, khud jhootey iljaam sh liye, uskey baad vo iljaam sch bhi hogye😅, but punishment toh phle mil chuki thi, kher finally I Decided so many things related to avoid such mistake & him, & get this video. So I think my case mein love h even though mujhe uski yaad aati h. Mujhe uski fikr hoti h, but I don't contact him, he want this, I give him.
Kind of Same case too..🫂
Nd what if someone cheated u two times and now that person is in guilt and regret ?
Then what will u do?
@@ayushmarodiya2442😅you don't need to do anything just don't give him another chance 2 time chance is enough .
Even 1time chance enough.
@@ayushmarodiya2442kisiko ek chance Dena kaafi hota hai iss cheez mai kuki mai go through kar chuki hu agar vo 2sri baar hua hai to fir ye uss insan ki fitrat hai . Am sorry for you ❤
@@ayushmarodiya2442just remember once a cheater always a cheater my dear
Mai 4 saal hostel me rahi hoon, my grandparent are narcissistic, attracted narc bf jisne meri life hell bana di...i decided mai school teacher hi bann jati hoon, learn about child psychology, understood my own childhood and wounds, started my yoga and meditation journey, abhi first job start ki hai... i feel void, no urge ab help and fix people.. abhi excitement nahi feel hota... hot and cold behavior wale log bahut dangerous hote hai, they smile but they mean something else.. aaise log apko bahut rich, charming lagenge, they will suck life force out of you.. dont even try.. i lost a decade... ab my attitude is bhad me jaye aaise log... mujhe laga nahi tha log aaise bhi ho sakte hai but learnt my lesson khub sare aasu baha k
Divine intervention tha mujhe narcissist k video pop up hone lag gaye.. watch danish bashir i learnt so much about psychology from him.. this guy saved my life .. thanks neha aaise videos post krne k liye
Empaths and narcissist both are unaware of their behaviours because that occur subconsciously and it’s all because of their childhood traumas, father wounds, mother wounds. So, the one who only get drawn towards unavailable guys/girls is just because they subconsciously see instincts of their father/mother/other guardian by whom they wanted to be loved and validated but never got that. So, to make their inner child win they always attract people who behave narcissistic or overly drawn towards them. And no matter what, this cycle won’t end until we heal our childhood traumas/ past painful memories and end that need to seek validation/appreciation..that tendency to be termed as ‘hero’ in other’s life always happens subconsciously as they always wanted to save their tortured mother as a child and craved for appreciation and love by their care giver. The only way to get out of is is ‘so so much self love, Forgiveness, Acceptance’ I hope this helps❤
Can u pls explain narcissistic means?
@@Dipika847 it’s an unhealthy personality trait which some people grow within them, people with such personality disorder are overly obsessed with themselves and believe that they are superior than all which makes them control, gaslight and hurt their partner as seeing someone tortured kind of give them some pleasure jo kahi na kahi unko heroic villain jaisa feel karata hai, bchpn me jo emotions unke dab gye the vo unhe is trah se nikaalkar apna ego satisfy karte hai.
True that
@@arzoosingh9371 hey! read your comment. seems like you have knowledge regarding this. so I wanna ask something. Do you think this happens with friends as well? I mean I've always had a hard time staying connected to people mostly because I give too much of myself to that one person but every time they show me that I was so wrong about them. I think the major reason for my trust issues is this only. I can't trust anyone. Even though I know what kind of a person I'm dealing with, I always end up ignoring my gut feeling. How can one distinguish between friends?
@@m.m-m7k see, your friends could or couldn’t be narcissist, but the situation you have described shows that the same pattern is repeating with you, you always end up loosing everyone..this could also mean that the issue is within you, you give too much because you might not have got all that so you make sure you fill the life of your friends or partner with happiness, but problem arise when you expect the same in return! You may crave for love and attention and might be seeking for external validation, appreciation and acceptance…but you have to understand that until you’ll not fulfill these needs on your own within yourself, you’re gonna have the same experience with everyone over and over again, because people show what we are from inside, if you’re empty and incomplete..you’re gonna see people abandoning you outside too. So just tap into the world of self love and deep acceptance then you’ll see people are gonna accept you too kyuki tab tumhare andar attachment issue nahi bachega tum khud ko khud hi vo sb dogi jo dusro se chahti ho, dusre bs ak bonus honge life me tumhari🩷
Cant say it was so poisonous and so difficult to get out of something like this....every point you said was relateable ...I got goosebumps watching this. ...detaching from family...doubting family..creating dependency...superiority complex...
I absolutely failed to solve things in her mind. I am 28 and she is 32 and still her mind is such a maze...i hope she gets healed for next relationship...
Exactly....narcissist will give you soo much attention initially and then suddenly withdraw....and the worst part is they will blame you for their withdrawal...and gaslight you....initially i did not understand but later i realized this behavior.
Yes that's so true
I have blocked him (or have been blocked by him) from everywhere but i have always been hoping for an apology. After watching this video i had this huge urge to send this video to him somewhere but ended up realizing that he is a narcissist and a narcissist realizing "he has been wrong" would be so ironic to his personality and he would somehow manipulate everything according to what suits him. So i didn't bother sending this to him. If you're anyhow still attached to any narcissist personality, remember the best way to heal is to just deny their existence!
Too relatable but I think he is not narcissist but a broken person, who afraid of getting hurt again.
Seriously....the Gaslighting they do make you question your sanity...they attack good value people.... definitely just deny their existence because you will never get an apology
@@s.k1127 Just because someone is broken or hurt it doesn't mean they've got license to use someone else to heal them and then be thankless about it and hurt them. I totally agree that they might be traumatized and what they did was not intentional but rather done subconsciously but their actions could never be justified, they were wrong! And he was narcissist because he always flipped the table whenever his behavior was questioned. He always began to question how i behaved and how immature or naive i was, he literally said that he proposed me because he wanted someone to hold him while he was hurt and not with the pretext of having a relationship! To decipher what kind of broken person he is totally beyond my interpretation.
Let me help you, it's my responsibility to heal you, isi din kaa toh intejaar kar raha tha, ki kisi ke kaam aa saku , aaj mera intezar khatm hua 😂😂😂 @akansha
@@officialg6147 fortunately, i'm not him who needs an empaths energy to heal. i know how life works(or maybe i'm learning that) but i, for sure won't ever hurt someone else to help myself. i don't need anyone to come and tell me that i'm worthy of love. but thank you for the offer, i appreciate your kindness :)
Mera door door tk CA se koi lena dena nhi h. Fir bhi aapki particular videos dekhta hu. Kyuki wo kaafi healing hoti hain, aur un chijo ko arranged words me explain krti hain...
Mera bhi, i am uppsc aspirent
Mera bhi m bank aspirant
Mee too😂😂❤
True..... Empaths without balance or no healthy boundaries attract narcissists. I am one example. Working on myself and educating myself, raising my vibrations, focusing on positivity and strength and fearlessness. Healing all the past wounds..... In order to match the right frequency! ❤
please help me as well
💯just came out of such relationship that even she left on her own because i was not agreeing with her after 16 months of trying hard to adjust.
Didi what a perfect time u uploaded it.I was in a relationship for six years and after he left i realized he was a narc.Wasted 6 precious years of my life.
He started manipulating me and i turned out to be highly overthinker coz he used to contradict everything and then when i used to question it then he used to abuse me and then used block me and i was the one to beg him...i used to give him everything and he made me realize my thinking is wrong.I started self harming myself..used to cry daily...people used to say he us toxic but i was so blind in love.I was literally gaslighted abused manipulated and discarded by him without even a closure.I broke down into million pieces ki what was wrong with me and i deserved a better goodbye.But now i feel KARMA will take care of it.
So females out there dont be harsh on urself now..give all the love to ur selfcare...and be thankful to god that supreme power saved us.
bro trust me i have been in same situation
@@Shambhav-qf7od how u managed man...my self confidence ...self love everything is fucked up...people said to me I've changed...I was never like this before
My favourite line from this vedio is that yes you are God's child and God is always protect you from every problems 🥰😌✨❤️
neha i just paused the video to tell you that recently i just left a narcissist i have been in relationship for 4 years and The peace i hold now is worth everything i left behind its the best descion ever i made in my life and its after 4 years a week back i realised he is a narcissist....
i m grateful k god showed me his true colours.....
Now all my focus is me.....i am feeling so good after 4 years ....bcz the abuse he did on the name of love,i was unable to even believe k 4 sal sa narcissist k sath thi and HE DON'T LOVE ME....but i accepted and moved on .....
The descion was difficult but i made it .....🎉i m the happiest now......
So harsh truth : people are going into phone, can't be reacharged by social connection 😢
Didi, no matter how hurt the empath is, their energy and aura regrows again but a narcissist always need an empaths energy for their own existence (like a virus)...the real power has always been with empaths.
. Meditation
. Working on yourself
. Spiritual growth
. Self love
😊
I justt can't thank you enough for making this video.. I'm currently going through the same.. This girl told me how her bf left her, she's broken & missing that love.. She is crying everyday.. I did the same as u said in the video & think I'm fell in love with her.. I did everything for her which I didn't ever do in my whole life.. Eventually I proposed her, but she said I'm waiting for him to come back.. But she talked so many romantic things with me while chatting late nights.. We went for treks, hugged lot of times.. And here I'm stuck.. I'm still thinking she'd know my worth one day.. But deep down I'm hurt very badly.. Everybody needs love, but I'm not getting 1% of it and I'm still giving her 100% of my love everyday..
Bro u need to left her if she don't realiss what u do for her then she is not for you if still she want her ex
@@karankundra9983 Thank u Karan.. Means alott.. Even She realises if he comes back, she'll not be happy with him.. But She's feeling attraction about him becoz he doesn't even care and not about me becoz I'm a simp for her.. I'm already pissed off and I don't know how long I'll continue this..
Bro just get out from the trap
After 1 or 2 years u will realise that all efforts doesn't matter and u have now forgotten urself completely.u don't even know what is ur favourite, what are the things that u like , what makes u happy
So left early please
It had happened with me😢.
As per my experience, one should never date a person who has broken up recently or that person is still engrossed into his/her previous relationship, because that person will never look from long sightedness, perpetuity and eternity in that new rebound relationship. It's an aid and assistance for them to have a rebound relationship and move on from the grave which their past relationship dug for them. Sorry, but there are high chances she might not feel the same for you in the near future.
Never give a woman what she wants. Dope up
After listening this, now i got to know why all that happened with me...today i got the proper word for him that he was a narcissist. I always infact daily pray to god that please god protect me from this type of people. I have suffered alot because of them, please give me someone who is kind and positive. The people who are overthinker, positive vibes are really neccesaary for them.
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai vo ek shree Krishna ka yug tha aur aaj ye. Really kya ho gaya hai logo ko. Dil kharab , dimag kharab . after watching this really i promise I'll never be like this with anyone and I'll never disconnect with my own life for anyone . thank you so much ❤❤ crore ka gyaan hai bhaii log lelo jitna le sakte ho !!!
Kohinoor jaisa video hai ye. I have been there, several times. Most of them were my cousins and friends. Now, I started fixing myself. Getting results too. I'm an empath and realised that my empathy had been utilised by people for their benefits and I was remained with a drained mind and lost opportunities. Thank God, the universe and my self-respect stopped me from falling further. Yeah, main race me pichad gaya. Lekin ab apne aapko samet raha hu. I'm also a God's Child, ye manne laga hu. Aapki videos ne bhi signal ki tarah help ki hai. Clarity aayi. Iss tarah ek naya aur strong Raghuveer ubhar raha hai. Thank you Neha for making people lives more lively and making them realise their worth 😇😇😇
The same thought I also got "Race mai piche pad gaya"
Meko toh aisa laga kabhi race mai aa hi nai payi in sab chankron ke bajee see...
Yehi sab soch rahi thi ...and this video pop up.
Same situation, i know it's so hard to let them go...but the truth is agr vo tumhe nhi chahte toh kitne bhi time tk kitni bhi kosis krlo vo nhi honge kbhi. Tumhare...
I wish m bhi jldi move on kr pau.. mujhe kbhi usse nafrat nhi hogi .. even after everything, the only thing I've for him is lots of love... Syd ab kbhi hum ek nhi ho saknge but I'll love him forever 🤞🏻... I'll always pray for his success and happiness... Afterall he was my first love ❤
Exactly same here...
Pata nahi kaise pr yeh video exactly sahi time par aai hai.. mein 7 years se relationship mein thi .. abhi 14 April ko mujhe pata chla ki uska roka ho gaya hai vo bhi uske bhai se.. aur vo bhi same narcistic tha.. yahi bolta tha ki mein bhut gareeb hu mujhe kissi ne pyar nahi kiya aj tak.. aur mein ek schii aisi insaan hu jisne ek macchar bhi nahi mara aj tak.. mein 3 mahine se apki videos sunn ri hu.. and it helped me alot..
But ek cheez hai koi kissi ke sath galat karta hai toh uske sath bhi accha nahi hota.. uski fiance bhut bekar hai and ab vo mere se jyada dukhi hai..
Same mere sth hua 7 years ka relationship tha and he was so controlling, and toxic and dowry k lie chhor gya and ek mahine pehle uska engagement hua h i wish jitna mujhe rulaya h usko v pta chle 😢😢
Same bhan same 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 sukar hai maine catch Krna suru krdiye the ushke behaviour k stage..ab lagta hai bdiya hua rogg ktaaaa 😂🤣🤣ro dhoke thak gye ab aiesh krenge jeevan mai puri @@alishasah8566
@@alishasah8566 chlega pakka
You are literally playing a role of an elder sister who is just brutally honest, giving you those reality check. Tmhara delulu jaae bhar mei, this is what it is you neeeeddd to know this and come out of it.
Idk what is god is trying to show me or tell me or universe is going to show me but this girl always knows what I'm going through and suddenly she came up with the exact video how. You always heal me and made me cry girl
When I myself went through all of this and came out of it...I also thought ki school me psychology ka subject hona chahiye...so that in sab cheezo ko khud suffer karke samajhna na pade..
So true.... school needs to include such things... because bhut logo ki life kharab ho jaati hai inn chakkaro mai kuki jb life khud sikhati hai to bhut zor se tamacha maarke jaati hai...hum sochte hai hum ache bnke dunia jeet lege... but sacchai ye hai ki phle apne baare mein sochna zaruri hai... consequences ko bhaapna zaruri hai
Right bro jinke sath hota h sirf unko pta hots Aadhe toh is word ko jante bhi ni kya hota
Same mam psychology should be taught to school.
It was my thought also since i was healed. Because being an empath i have lost 10 yrs of my life which i have wasted on others rather than myself.
But i am happy that i got healed at 28 very early 😊
Yet i have lots of opportunity , time and support from my family to make my own life from here.
I am blessed ❤
Okay, this is an appreciation comment for this amazing woman CA Neha Datta, who somehow always knows what i need to hear. Didi, you literally are an angel. I couldn't have ever been more grateful!
Don't know why I am watching this vdo, I'm not in relationship, just bcz I am addicted to watch every vdo of urs😂😂😂😂
Ur video just supported me to get out of heartbreak n depression..love from nepal
areeee didiiiiiiiii aap to aisa lgra h mere ex se milke aaye ho abhiiii, aapne mere purreee 3.5 saal ke relationship ki story suna di 15 min mai, mttttt yaad dilaoooo vo trauma merkooooo, badi mushkil se 'i will fix him' se ' bhaad mai jaa bhai mujhse ni hora' pe aayi huuuuuu😂😂😂😂😂abhi tk healing phase mai huu, bhgvaaan kisiko itna empathatic na bnaye ki usko hurt hoga ke chkkr mai khud ko hurt krte rheeee, abhi tk relationships mai aane se dar lgta h 1.5 saal hogye breakup ko, ab lgta akele he rhungi dubara ni fsnaaaa 😂😂😂😭😭
We are same boat😂😂
Ab kesi ho
@@ThakurrAnn trying to be fine, thanks for asking🥰
@@litt98garg32 😂😂😂 duniya he aisi h broooo
@@ThakurrAnn mast
I like the level of your #learning in life and your #vision of creating awareness. 👍
Dii, you came again at the right time..🥺
What a great explanation yarr 👏
Experienced every single stage of this .....really it's very traumatizing.... We feel like we're helpless.....Thank god for taking me out of that shit...
girl my energy is totally sucked in fixing him ! i am just soo addicted and isolated i can't even put it to words....i just don't know how to get out of this ....! May god help me rejuvenate 😭 and other too who r going through the same....
i felt it when u said , less expressive hai , koi ni i will fix
and empath tho mai bahut badi wali hu , but i don't think he is a narcissistic person!
Whatever you said, each and every thing is true. About narcissists, these people manipulate a lot. I met and so called 🤣 emotionally weak person 7 years ago, last year he left me and married someone else in February this year. I am free, he had made my life hell, he had many relationships, he was cheating on me, the marriage was about to happen but me and my family caught his lie, Mahadev 🙏🏻😊 saved me, but he was very happy with that girl after cheating everyone.
Today I let my love let go he wanted this I was holding him he moved on but it's my time to not hold the past it was beautiful but it was past I am letting you go universe give me strength please I am starting my new journey today my new life of growing my self mentally physically emotionally thank you universe for giving me guy and strength ❤ thanks for this video
So I was avoiding this video ever since it was uploaded but now when I'm watching this, i feel like why I'm even watching this! I know it all.. she is talking about me 🙂
There are also a type of people who tell you that i have lots of pain, I'm facing a critical situation and so on, and when you help them then after a few hours they show you that you're nothing for them...
Really yrr..in my case
So relatable
you just made me realize how empath I am. 😆
Didn't know a lot of things you said. Loved how to explained ma'am.
ihave been into this kind of relatioship ,, but i had to breakup bcoz i wanst even able to focus at my little little things which were necessary ,, so i had breakup but i wa sstill having contact with tht person ,, who was constantly coming and disturbing my mental peace ,, but after this video i had suddden realisation tht i just need to block him everywhere !!!!! thank you beautiful generous ladyy!!!
Exactly... But God always there's with me.. Eventually i learnt the lesson nd guesss wht... I m super happpy nd apka workshop b lia toh bhot kuch chize sikh gyi nd tb mujhe bhgawanji ye sikha b rhe the nd as a good student mai sikhi...haye... Now i m absolutely perfect and aage b sb perfect hoga..badhiaa se b badhiaaaa sb sb hoga wahhh..tb toh life mai mza he ajyega ❤❤God blesss alll and allll...Lesson learnt nd badhia se aage badh gye.. Nd badhia badhia dost b arhe ab toh who are divine like. Thts beautiful na ❤❤God bless everyone and everyone❤❤
"main..main..Maseeha"😅❤️
This is soo me!
Great take on this... reminded of my recent relationship. That relationship drained the f out of me. But, remember all of us are a little bit narcissistic, relationship is a bit jhukna (50-50 hona chhayie)
Narcissists don't tell traumatic stories, they show themselves as perfectionist. They love bomb empath to lure them into their cage, the only purpose is to get emotional supply from the vulnerbility of empaths.
Empaths don't attract narcissists, they target them because of their qualities which they want for themselves.
Many people will tell you that they are traumatic people, but in reality they are pure evil. They just want to destroy empaths they can't them happy because their self esteem is fragile, and they always feel miserable in life that is why they want it for their targeted empath as well.
Parents can be narcissists as well. Infact whole family can be a narcissist and this is the most dangerous thing because good by to everything than, if you are born in a narcissistic family, you will live a life of "family scapegoat".
Exactlyy
As your video is moving forward, and so the relatability with each point you are saying. I'm so glad finally i have realised and took time to look back at myself after so much long time (6years). Thank you for this video. "Mann ka ho to achha, or na ho to aur bhi achha". Thank you GOD for saving me. 🙌
So so so so true to make psychology, gentle parenting, meditation a compulsory education in schools
Its like crystal clear to me 🤌🏻...me already bhaar nikal gyii uss narcissistic person se bhaar just because meri mmi ne mujhe samjha ki mere saath kya hora tha and aaj apki bhi baat sunke eesa lgra h ki koi glti nii kii h mene mujhe aaj bhi yaad h jb ye sab end honne hi wala tha lst day pr emotional card khela tha firse usne but mene block krdia from everywhere jaha tk tha ...love u diii❤ literally every person who is going through this trauma have to know your words and about this emoth and narcissistic
I see this video after 31 minutes.
But i'm not in relationship 😂
@@virenradcliffe same 😃
Ye relationship pr nhi hai ye koi bhi ho skta hai koi friend apke relatives
Exactly ma'am, I really want ki har School mein life lessons, meditation aur pschyology ki education parallel chlna chahiye.
What all I am going through right now, I really pray, kisi aur ke saath na ho.
Thank you ma'am for your guidance. It's totally relatable to me I have gone through it and some way still surrounded by it, but now I won't allow all these manipulations and manipulator's in my life. Once again thank you
Same situation happen with me from last 1 year... 😢 Now don't know.. ki kaise bahar nikala Jaye.... Energy wasted and feeling low confidence... Baar baar vhi chize hori ma'am mere sath but ab khud itne strong hone ke baad bhi khud pe doubt aate hai..🙂... Thank u for this
This is me talking in your body 🤣👁️ . Thank you for always coming on time ☺️
Aise baat koi ajkaal Nehi samajhte ...thank you so much for your great explanation....bohot clarity mili❤❤❤❤
I was in in relationship since 7 years
And now your each and every word feels relatable
She love bombed me and now withdrew 😊 leaving me alone
Hasi to mje bhi sun k apki baatein sunke arhi h😂😂😂😂....bilkul sahi kaha aapne....❤❤
I have researched about narcissists since I was 12 (am 19 now) I have also spent my whole life (since 6 yrs old) being abused by narcissists, machiavellianists, and dark empaths etc. I am fully aware of these people.
Omg I can't believe this. I was going through the same situation last year where in I felt like my whole existence is dependent on that person. It just took away a lot of my energy. But I was consistent with my prayers and I think that is the reason I had the courage to break that relationship with in a year.
OMG! Didi aap khud itni cheeje suffer kar rahe the. God bless you didi.
And we are truly blessed to have you in our life 🙏. Thanku so much for your guidance.
From today I will not mother any one cause it hurts I will love my self priorities my self 1st my family my career my body I am my love this year was very up's downs so upsetting for me but universe taught me th best lessons of my life to my 18 yr old self
1. Be your 1st priority career family health
2. Don't depend emotionally
3. Don't mother some one or some ones truma at the end they will traumatize u and leave u
4.love your self that no one love or hate bother u
Oh my god!! This is so true....the advice that you gave mam to deal with narcissist person is so so appropriate.🤯...thanks a lot mam for explaining such important issue which nowadays every second person is facing..🙏🙏..we people feel that we are empaths so we are having the right to treat each and everbody who is traumatized😑...but No, first understand yourself completely, then deal with others with full freedom to such an extent that you have no regrets to leave those persons.✌️...thank you so much Neha mam to address this situation and about such people...love you a lot!!❤❤🧿🫡
OMG .......... Bro damn true aise hi main 2022 me ek relationship me ayi nd he is very toxic he all tym criticized his life like my is hell nothing is working in my favour my all frnd are take me as a joke I am nothing in front of anyone or main buddhu insan main usko raate ke 2 baje tkk 3 baje tkk smjhati thi nd he also said ki plz keep private our relationship log nazar lga dete h 😂 nd me be like yess ye banda kitna acha or sweet h or yhi sb chlta rha or dheere dheere main apne log se ekdm dur hone lgi or wo chiz mujhe feel bhi hota h but Aisa lgta tha ki koi mujhe ekdm pakad liya hai mtlb mera chest hamesha heavy rhta tha main hamesha roti thi wo bhi mujhe ignore krta tha meri kbhi bhi usne respect nhi ki or ek tym baad usne khud mujhe chod diya 😊 but thanks to him kuki agr wo mujhe nhi chodta toh main apne life ko behtireen banane me nhi lgti ❤
Same story but we r not in relationship 😂❤
Same happened wid me
Dear Neha, I was about to complain about the world being a very bad place and me being the only right person who feels depressed because of this world and people in it. But the first few minutes of your video just made me realise that may be the problem is in me not in others. I hope you get it...having a tough year of my life in 2024, feeling totally dejected from everyone around me, totally disinterested in anything but getting married, I am getting married in 2025 feb but always anxious about it that it will not happen and even if it will then i will not get it the way i want it. always angry lways sad and always trying to pick a fight with my fiance. I am finding answering now through your video as a medium
Hey Neha...you are doing great job....can relate with your experiences cuz i have gone through very similar...and yes it's really very traumatizing when we are going through this.... it's good that you are spreading awareness about this psychological issue
i am not in a relationship but I watched this video to listen your kind words.... Dii your words are magical ✨ and I am addicted to your videos😀❤️ Kanha jii bless uhh diiiii🙌🧿
I too feel myself as a Divine Child & I feel that I came across ur video becoz my god wants me to know my worth and power through u...I'm saying this becoz I feel so connected with every single video of yours dii ..I feel everytime ki I needed this video...❤️❤️❤️
Aap shi kh rhi ho mai v kbse yhi same patternfeel kr rhi hu 3 saal se pr lgta tha ki meri hi glto h nxt person to emotional h shi h pr jb meeri mental health khrab hochuki h tb y chiz smkh arha h dusro ki khishi k liy maine khidki khushi hi chinli
I had this best friend in school. Later she went to another city. She changed so much, she used to lie too much and if you say something about it, she would lie more or ignore. Disappear and appear, that was her game. When she wanted something, she would talk to me for 3-4 days. Initially i did not know, later i got that pattern. Then i just ignored her altogether completely. Even though she was my neighbour, she would ignore me even though we would have eye contact.
I love you Neha Di. I am going through the exact same phase. It’s so traumatising, and it’s genuinely God’s timing that this video appeared in my life NOW.
This is the first time when i totally relate with a video... 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
True. Narcissism needs to be taught as a mental health subject from middle and high school onwards. Healthy relationships and unhealthy relationships.
Di di aap meri favourite and bestest guide , teacher, elder and respected sister ho
*DI, PLS MAKE A VIDEO ON SICKNESS. How to mentally deal with sickness?* I am suffering from Pcod. It gives me negative feelings, i am depressed about my health. And anxious, continuously thinking why i am? What pap i did that Bhagwan ji punishing me!!!😢😢 plss make a video on thik *SICKNESS TOPIC*
It's really needed..jitna bhi mental thik hone ki koushish karu, health ka prblm bohot depression create karti hain yarr
I'm too suffering from pcod
listen buddy aj ke samay me most of the chijo ka treatment he or agar tumhara issue resolve nhi bhi ho rha he toh....1st god se pray karo sucche dil/man se and samay lagega so patience rakhna read some religious books like hanuman chalisa ,baghvad geta etc..2nd overthinking karke apni problem ko bahut bada mat bna lena 3rd meditation karo 4th mental health sahi rakhne ki kosis karo coz pareshan karne ko physical toh phele se khrab he or agar iese me mental bhi khrab ho jaygi to problems into 100 ho jayngi . so be calm ....i m also suffering from health from last 2 years so trust me experiance ke sath keh rha hu faith rakho sab sahi ho jayga samay lag sakta he bas
Ma'am I have been in this very bad phase too. When I started questioning I was told that I'm asumming stuffs aisa kuch nahi hai. But mujhe thoda late but realise hua that mai uske liye important nahi thi. It wasn't easy to withdraw but I knew yeh mere saat jo usne kiya I dont deserve it.
I was so hurt initially but after seeing this video I feel much better ki mera decision sahi tha usse dur rehne ka.
Ma'am I admire you alot, thank you for helping us through the life. ❤
You made me feel better.
💯true all things are true!! Same things has happened with me just came out of this relationship totally broken💀
Di u r like a guardian angel 😇 passing by ❤
I think this is universe send message through you Di .As I was thinking about this today.Thankyou so much Di
I heard somewhere ... mohabbat hone lage to pooja paath kar liya karo , mohabbat hogi to mil jayegi bla hogi to tal jayegi ...and this turned out to be true ...my divine powers was so strong towards me that they helped me come out of this situation...but mujhe lga tha ki bs mere sath hi aisa hua ....aapki baat sunke smjh aya ki duniya bhari padi hai narcissist se.
Aapki baatein sunke bohot acha lgta hai Neha didi ❤❤
It’s an eye opening video for me Thankuh a lot helped a lot to clear things
Neha ji this is from our batch....and it's from December 2023 batch.🙋
Neha.your philosophical knowledge guides many boys and girls to the right path.so you are really a lucky girl.my enough respect to you dear.from Bangladesh.
When se said, "main.... main... masiahhhh main madad karuungi!!!"😂😂😂 although I could relate to it so much because many a times, not so long ago, I tried to help others with their emotional and mental conditions, when my own hands were shaking.🙃ab samajh aaya ye Gandhigiri kisi kaam kii nahi...
You made the content very thoughtfully and adding all the details and yeah it is definitely a needed one for young gen to understand this mental tactics people play around them.
Now I realised...this was what happened to me not in relationship but with my bestfriend
Bas difference was that I didn't completely cut off with my social life...so it was easy for me to come out of that loop
Thank u mam for this type of knowledge. It s from our batch dec 2023. I also met with this type of people. Your shorts on narcissist helped me so much. Happy to see u explaining this knowledge again. Thankful for getting u in my life. You are such an angel ❤
U r just unimaginable. App di jo bolte hein wo itna practical hota he aur hamre soch ko itna clear kar deta he na, sukriya di app hamre life mein ho, blessed to have u as a guide, mentor, friend..... 🥰🙏🙌. God always bless u di
Eye opening for me. But its too late i have married twice with two narcissists who did exactly the same. But its never too late i can heal my self and can make my life easier and beautiful inshallah❤
Thank you for this video.. really... a big thank you
U r the best motivator ever I wanna be like neha diii v hardworking, cute, smart and achiever ❤❤❤she is my role model and I follow unconditionally.... U r the shining star , the moon the queen 👑
Guys!!!!! This is soooooo trueeeeeee!!!!!
Le me: single from birth 😅 watching this for my future 😂
Exactly this is what I've faced recent and a big shock I got ... Di same things Exactly same mai bata nahi sakti apne ekdam reality batayi hai aaj maine ek ek phase dekha hai 😢
Ye simple si vedio ke chakar me mera itna bada fayeda hua he ki subscribe to Banta he bohot bade honey trap se bacha me
oh God I literally just finished talking with him (for the last time in my life), basically I gave my best to this person and he did too ig but suddenly 3rd person entered and then I got ignored but still he played us both saying me u r them most imp but I want to marry her cant believe the guy wanted two options, and now after all that has happened months ago I was still expecting an apology sorry realization hit stuff, but after talking he still kept going the same thing u were the most imp I cried for u and stuff and many more man I just hate my decisions and now that person has still not realized and I expected that, I realized so many things that these will gaslight u into believing they re just so good and kind yet they're so full of themselves, and would never accept that they hurt u or anything so much I learned deva!! Now I am only going to believe in God that's all
I am in! time to change and learn so many things!
Omg !!!! Didi thank u soooooo much for uploading this ❤❤. Dimag ki sari bathi jal gayi, it was enlightening to listen to this, I have seen this in my family and myself had a similar traumatic experience. Thnks again for sharing 🥹❤❤
My ex boyfriend is a narcissist personality he has he never apologize to me for my disrespect and yes he told me when we met ki uske life kitna dukh hai... Trauma hai... Aisa karke usne mujhe apne taraf kiya fir mera apne logon se schh me connection toot gya m all the time usko samjhate rehti thi uski prblm ko suna krti thi... He said that only you understand me... And suddenly he changed 360° he is like ignore my texts, calls, he puts story on wp, insta but didn't seen my messages... Im like what happened with him... And yes ye bhi ki reaction dungi to he is sad or something else... Ye sab kuch do saal chla but maine jb apni pov dena start kra toh wo bolta kitna over react krti ho smjhti nhi ho
.. Immature ho wla wla im like what ky sch mein mai immature ho and i started give him explanation ki tum galat samjh rhe ho... He ignore me but i realized he is a narcissist personality becz mujhe ky feel hota h isse usse koi fark nhi pdta tha... Recently 13 days ago July 19 he blocked me from everywhere and also blame me ki mujhe akela chhod do first week im cry cry & cry but he just don't care about me aur mere tabiyat bhi kharab thi but 3 din se thik hu or usko s😮smjh gyi hu ki manipulative h selfish h narcissist h aise logon ke samne marr bhi jaoge to they don't care about it so now im taking care of my self or mera break up pichle saal hua tha fir bhi uss narcissist ke changool mein thi because of i understand im empath 😅
So from now im only prioritize myself first and love myself also❤😊
Ghosting sucks 😢
Narcissist k baare mein ab pata lag raha hai jb meri ex shod kar chali gayi... or jo aapne bola vo same krti thii ignore karna ye sub hota tha 😅
Thank you for such amazing video ♥But sometimes it feels like I does not belongs to anyone, it is hard to connect with people, don't know why I am afraid to talk with them and connect.. So Please make a video on how to connect with people and how to make that type of Mindset 🙏
I have helped one men so much like financially and he always give me hope ki ek baar m career sudhar loon then I'll bring heaven to you 😂 prblm ye h ki ab m usse help ke liye mana hi nhi kr paati kabhi ab m kya krunn
Samle story😅
She told me same but when she broke up very easily.... lastly she told me show your maturity.....