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  • @krutikkshirsagar2979
    @krutikkshirsagar2979 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1238

    Itne saal baad asli motivation mila.... That's this channel and Neha mam ❤
    Keep it up mam we'll need you further 😊

    • @krutikkshirsagar2979
      @krutikkshirsagar2979 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanx so much mam ❤️🙏

    • @indrayudhkundu8154
      @indrayudhkundu8154 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@shreyansjain1710First of all see the entire video and then comment, Ma'am never misguided us. The thing is that, u didn't understand the crux of this video, the whole motive of telling,"Besharam ho jao" means that, u should not actually care & bother about certain people who r trying to demotivate u, by mocking at u. She just wanted to point out that, u should be ignorant about all criticisms & u should learn to live your life on your own terms by freeing urself from "people's opinion about u".
      Aur Mummy Papa k tanne toh ofc sunna padega if u don't work hard & become successful, yeh baat toh u can't change it 😢... But yeh bhi toh dekho, Ma'am ne hardwork Kiya tha isliye ei toh idhar tak pouch pai hai! Yes, Ma'am took 9 years, but she just want her students not to make the same mistakes which she had made while she was pursuing the course, So whatever Ma'am is telling is for our good only! I hope u'll understand me😉.

    • @sunilgk7404
      @sunilgk7404 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you sis❤😢😢

    • @Youknowshortsyt
      @Youknowshortsyt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      fact

    • @simarabrol1448
      @simarabrol1448 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oye yaar aap ca ho,mene toh ni hier karna apko,otherwise mein toh roz itr file karwane paunch jata apke paas 😅i mean really beautiful you are dear.

  • @shreyamukherjee225
    @shreyamukherjee225 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1502

    I don't know if you'll read it or not, if anyone will read it or not, but I really became overwhelmed with emotions after seeing this video. I have been following you since my drop year, when I was preparing for my NEET UG, and now I'm a medico, and my prof exams are near. You have always motivated me, but this video was really needed. I'm freaking out because of my exams and literally having mental breakdowns everyday, thinking what if I can't pass, what will people think? How will I face people? I have always been among Top students but now people will question my abilities. Even I was questioning myself, feeling dumb and inferior. I was feeling that everyone around me are superior than me, and I don't deserve to be here. I was feeling that I'm good at nothing, I'm so average at everything. But u made me remember, that how can I feel like this? I may not be a Genius, but I have worked so hard to come here. I not only secured a gov. seat but got into the Topmost medical college of my State, with a good rank. Then how can I feel that I'm not deserving? And why am I thinking what will others think? Nobody knows my struggle, except me, only I know how much efforts I'm putting everyday, to beat my clinical depression and anxiety. How many times I have put myself together, only I know..... Log toh judge karenge hi... Phir jab success milega, tab wohi log palat jayenge.... So, yeah you are right, I'll NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT OTHERS. Main jo bhi hoon, jaisi bhi hoon, I'm PROUD OF MYSELF ❤️

    • @vanshk4274
      @vanshk4274 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      I'm now a neet dropper and following her

    • @Maira_Jenlisa
      @Maira_Jenlisa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Wow congratulations buddy 🎉 you did it , and I am so proud of you, it's not easy to cope with so many things at a time. You deserve better! Just listen to yourself, you are already doing so great yaar. The point you have reached is all coz of your own hardwork and i salute you for being so calm and handling all the stree you got during this time ❤❤❤ you got this ♾️🎉😊

    • @shreyamukherjee225
      @shreyamukherjee225 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Maira_Jenlisa ❤️❤️ lots of love

    • @poonam251
      @poonam251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Shreya ul make it through!!! All the best...may u get the best😎✌️💯

    • @Pdhbehan
      @Pdhbehan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Which clg

  • @kiteretsu5871
    @kiteretsu5871 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    I loved this dialogue - “ mera man krrha tha chor di , tumse puch ke chorungi kya “😂😂

    • @divinebanana8400
      @divinebanana8400 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      meaning stealing ? i from telangana .. my hindi not that good

    • @Nehii7
      @Nehii7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This dialogue means - ''I was willing to leave my job so I left it, should I ask u and leave it.."
      ...

    • @divinebanana8400
      @divinebanana8400 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Nehii7 oh.. thank you for translating

    • @Nehii7
      @Nehii7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@divinebanana8400 👍

    • @debamitrapaul
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  • @jalajyagnik7561
    @jalajyagnik7561 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    How Innocent heart you have 🤌🏻, aap bolte bolte ro dete ho 🥺
    God bless you 🤗

  • @Anjalieeeee1111
    @Anjalieeeee1111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    This is what is really "Love Yourself" ❤️

  • @dipannitaghosh.
    @dipannitaghosh. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    Yeh 'bhaar mai jaye' attitude ne mujhe bacha liya hai khudke self cribbing habit se. Aur jo log intentionally apko hurt kare na jante huye bhi aap kis cheez se guzar rahe ho unke samne bilkul muhfat ban jao yaar. Bara maja aata hai yaar khudko protect karne mai toxic logo se. Apko hazaro thankyous send karti hu meditation ke time pe Neha ma'am 🙏❤️

    • @BikashNayak2906
      @BikashNayak2906 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Ajkal toxicity se fight karne ke liye toxic Banna padta hi hai. Kya kya sunne ko mil raha hai bas ek being a jobless ke wajah se ke pucho hi mat.

    • @shinobukochu854
      @shinobukochu854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai agar papa hi criticize krte hai toh kya kare?

  • @anweshaprakash6666
    @anweshaprakash6666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I feel so motivated and good just by listening to you. The constant practice of people putting you down and not feeling enough everyday kills alot from inside. Everything youu say is so so true.

  • @AbhishekSharma-kj5sk
    @AbhishekSharma-kj5sk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    It's so good to see that you are sharing things as it is without any cut or filter. Direct from your heart. Very few people do this. Keep it up . All the very best .

  • @bhartipatel7833
    @bhartipatel7833 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    I got placed in 4.5lpa CTC and I was not going home because I was ashamed of what I'll say to those who were expecting me to get a higher package. But now I'll not care about whatever they say. I'll go my home for my parents who don't care about my CTC.
    Thank you didi
    P.S. - I'm BE student

    • @irenerayne7332
      @irenerayne7332 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Wow congrats girl!!

    • @irenerayne7332
      @irenerayne7332 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Its very hard to even get a good job these days , u did very well!:))

    • @soniaa_shuklaa999
      @soniaa_shuklaa999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hey congratulations 👏👏🥳🥳 keep going girl ❤❤❤

    • @sy_1498
      @sy_1498 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Join now switch later with x5 times package

    • @mahotsavkumar1278
      @mahotsavkumar1278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Congratulations Bharati🎉

  • @user-oj4wp7qp7x
    @user-oj4wp7qp7x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +444

    Hlo mam i am ur biggest fan, though i am a science student but from my bottom of my heart u are my motivation.......😊

    • @parnika6823
      @parnika6823 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mee too I can relate this

    • @sampadab.1788
      @sampadab.1788 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me toooi❤

    • @agp_offical
      @agp_offical 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I also 😃😃

    • @shreyagupta7701
      @shreyagupta7701 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me also

    • @tanishaarora3788
      @tanishaarora3788 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me to

  • @ShubhamBokolia
    @ShubhamBokolia 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is exactly my situation, thank you so much for posting this clip, life aise he nikal jaati dusro ko impress krne ke chakkar mein. Thanks for this beautiful reminder! Sher akela chalta hai!!!!

  • @shubhanshi6359
    @shubhanshi6359 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is so relatable. I'm happy you found your path, but many are still struggling. I'm going through something similar. Recently I left a high-paying job because I wasn't feeling satisfied. It was as if it was sucking the life out of me. I told my parents about it, obviously, they are not happy with my decision and then there's peer pressure, societal pressure, upper see I'm single and not married being 30. I just feel stuck, hopeless, lost and directionless. I can totally relate to your frustration.

  • @blessedanddivine3255
    @blessedanddivine3255 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Parents wali thing is so so much true. When I started my neet prep my father Used to demoralise me a lot mainly bcz I dared to take this exam ...And for him to become a doc is Not a thing for Middle class thing. I was depressed to an extent when I Used to cry all day. But when I secured 1st position in class 11 among 60 students he started to trust my potential And now he is the biggest supporter, motivator , well wisher. But it was painful . peace

  • @ashishmaheshwari3239
    @ashishmaheshwari3239 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Aaj se me khud k liye jeena start kar rahi hu🥺🥺🥺kisi k liye to bilkul nahi kisi ko khush kar ne k liye bilkul nahi
    Thank you Neha🥺🥺🥺
    God bless you 🙌

  • @Harsheeta05
    @Harsheeta05 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All tears by the end of it. This is the real motivation for life. And it feels so amazing to see a girl coming out and saying all these things. Girl you are fireeeeee❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @naminabantu
    @naminabantu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I genuinely started tearing up because I am overwhelmed and relate with every single thing you said in the video. Thank you for the motivation ❤

    • @imposingmanish2979
      @imposingmanish2979 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you CA ..? You are relating!

  • @jenn_1853
    @jenn_1853 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    There aren't many youtubers who create content based on such topics. Even if they do, I personally can't relate to them because more than often they talk from books and research papers. But you, you talk from experience, something that every student can relate to. Your positive energy radiates through each of your video.
    I don't know if many people have noticed but I did notice the change in your voice when you talk about things that had an impact on you, especially the ones which are extremely positive, and it happens in every video. This proves how genuine your talks are. I'm glad to have found you.

  • @atharvsharma3351
    @atharvsharma3351 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am literally applauding and smiling throughout!! This is so real and hitting, So true, so raw! Thanks for sharing these experiences and insights. You are truly an inspiration. You are like a friend, elder sister who knows what we actually go through and how to overcome that. Kudos for being so strong and Congratulations for these achievements. So happy for you. 👍

  • @lowesthigh
    @lowesthigh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Best video so far, we need to teach our kids how to be individual n not be accountable to anyone but themselves.

  • @jr.devasana
    @jr.devasana 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a good speaker because you are a pure soul. You speak from your heart without filters. So we all get connected with you.

  • @jaishree5311
    @jaishree5311 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Aap jab bhi apne past ke baare me batate ho aapki aankhe bhar jaati hain aur aapko rote dekh kar mujhe bhi rona aa jata hai..aapko pata nahi hai kuch log aapse kitna jyada dil se jude hue hain.. life me failures hain, problems hain par ek aap hin ho jise dekh kar lagta hai ki sab thik ho jayega, mai bhi life me kuch acha kar lungi.. Thank you mujhme ye trust lane ke liye..Bhagwan aapko hamesha khush rakhe❤❤

  • @xxMegha33xx
    @xxMegha33xx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The line about parents is so true. I was preparing for UPSC but the setback in that has crushed me to soul.

  • @ss-lo9pn
    @ss-lo9pn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I relate so much with what you said Neha ma’am………I started listening to to myself since 2022 and I take responsibility for for whatever good or bad goes on in my life🎉

  • @anweshanayak7786
    @anweshanayak7786 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really appreciate you open up to something which we hide within ourselves...I am scared , and selfless hoke sabko allow kar deti hun to disrespect me and force me to do their things and they think my work is not important... But after seeing ur video I'm really feeling better and will change myself for me only...Bohot ho gaya help dusron ke liye..ab khud par zyada dhyaan dungi mein ...Jay Jagannath 🙏🏻

  • @namitasharma9861
    @namitasharma9861 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This lady has immense energy look at her aura radiating positivity in a very fun way not just those random aggressive motivational videos that leads us nowhere. This video has something different in it, from the past few days I was in a loop of questioning my ability if I could achieve the career I always have dreamt of, I was having this feeling of disappointment and this girl straight from this video captured my mind with her charming and fun aura. You got me BACK to myself, bless you infinitely my Girl❤

  • @CAinMaking
    @CAinMaking 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What you are doing is a revolution....that has potential to change not just mindsets but the industry in itself. You are an inspiration!

  • @disha_user123
    @disha_user123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am not an emotional person at all but this video made me cry. I have never ever felt so relatable to a person this much before. She just gave a life changing advice and I don't know how many people realize that. I always feared disappointing people and proving them wrong. Even if I wanted to do something it was to prove myself to them. I always did it for others not me. And this girl just change my whole perspective on so many things. I thank you so much!!! And to anyone who is reading this I hope you get all you want in your life and have an amazing day :)

  • @mahirajmahiraj349
    @mahirajmahiraj349 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely right ma'am, zindagi humaari hai to faisle bhi to hamaare hone chahiye,Very amazing ma'am thank you so much 🙌❣️🙏🥰

  • @Amaanali.07
    @Amaanali.07 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I related to being in a "shell" part the most. I have absolutely become someone I don't recognize anymore and I have lately started avoiding people, I avoid the noise and when I am by myself I feel maybe not so happy, but at least I feel at peace. Needed to hear this today! Thanks!

  • @devikaramesh7460
    @devikaramesh7460 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    You spoke to me directly in different ways... got tears .. after hearing the elder sister advice.. thank you❤.. it was needed.. because almost all our life we don't live for ourselves but to make others happy... thanks di❤ I'm a medical student but still I could relate..❤

  • @meghanawagh7991
    @meghanawagh7991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is so much relatable. Thanks a tonn for resonating so much with the thoughts and feelings of a struggling individual.

  • @RollingTheDepth
    @RollingTheDepth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Somehow this story was pretty relatable to me. It felt personal. I kept laughing thropughout the video.. the way you expressed your emotions.. like I can never express those myself in that way but I am happy you got what you wanted. All the best.. keep slaying !!

  • @navneetgupta5615
    @navneetgupta5615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    OMG!! never seen anything so pure, so real, can't thank you enough for this.. could connect totally.. All the answers are within you, you really don;t need thousands motivational self help book /shorts Thanks for teaching us in simple plain way, being so open & vulnerable. totally loved it. I will save it as a constant reminder...and ready to take my chances...life is a game...lets have fun.

  • @user-nr9cm5fw2d
    @user-nr9cm5fw2d 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is the first time I'm taking a step and commenting on a YT channel. But this one deserves it..
    I am going through a rough phase right now and I have started watching your videos recently. Trust me it feels connected. The thoughts that you share, how you are living your life and how everybody should. I admire you for listening to ur own self. Even I was like that but from few months I have started covering myself, hiding myself, that too because of people here who notices all my actions, comments on me at my back if I'm doing something for myself and I don't like it at all. I tried many a times t not give a sh*t to such people and yet it keeps affecting me in some days only. I feel like I have not done anything bad to anyone then why are such people targeting me, I feel like answering them back bluntly. But I don't because that is not how I want to react, I want to keep working on myself only.... This just came from heart just like u! N This video has left an impression in mind, love your content!! Thank you :)

  • @tadaryari1621
    @tadaryari1621 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is a kind of a video i needed the most in 2023 . thank u didi from the core of my heart .

  • @atharvjat2649
    @atharvjat2649 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I get goosebumps 🥺 thank you mam literally no one talks like you on entire yt

  • @padmagopalakrishnan5416
    @padmagopalakrishnan5416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Whatever it is people ask anything knowingly or unknowingly that really hurt us . I was in tears when you said how you felt facing everyone .. I could totally relate to you .I know im not living my life to the fullest by thinking what will they think of me .i stopped thinking about everyone and im practising mindfulness and setting boundaries 😢❤

  • @pinaky_AnVikSiki
    @pinaky_AnVikSiki 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Clear mindset by Honesty is always the best virtue for self... consistency & persistence r key to success... Until success nobody understands our efforts... Inspirational for others...

  • @vivekgulati5838
    @vivekgulati5838 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i used to not give a damn to people but gradually with time when decided to work on myself i lost that thing i became sensitive and just because to connect with people and to make their life easy . I started invested in people and i started caring about people negetive opinion about me and i ruin my day today but some how i gave enough courge and tried to chill out and your video relised me again that old but good aspect in me now i am feelimg much better and can sleep better.

  • @dishahegde4460
    @dishahegde4460 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The minute you say', meri life meri khushi without regret, people view you to be powerful. You are very brave.

  • @tithi214
    @tithi214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Awesome! Especially, your mentioning of taking responsibility, it's a HUGE thing. Very few people are capable of living this way, most only wish they could be like that. Human, by nature, crave approval. It's a tough fight but worth a whole life. Living on your own terms despite any range of repercussion. Love and salute your frankness Neha di.

  • @thelakshi
    @thelakshi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    This is the best video I've seen in years. Not even talking about the motivation or inspiration, but just the sheer passion. Seeing this I felt like I'm getting life advice from the elder sister I never had.❤ thank you. Needed it so much after spending so much time in my course.

  • @PinkuRobiShankar
    @PinkuRobiShankar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's a great motivating video which helped me to realized my importance and my presence in my family and helped me more to thing about myself and about my freedom. Thanks for making a great video Big sister.

  • @Khushboo_333
    @Khushboo_333 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Speechless. Simply powerful and most beautiful message. More Power and Love to you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dhrumilgosaliya9340
    @dhrumilgosaliya9340 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I can relate to the emotions you conveyed in your explanation, as I've experienced similar feelings in my own life. It feels good when someone else understands these experiences and can articulate them to others. Your video is truly remarkable, and I hope you continue to create content like this to express the emotions of those facing challenging situations in life.

  • @suparnihaldar13
    @suparnihaldar13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Thanks for stressing on the reality as to what actually matters in life.... this is the secret sauce of creating the living the life that u want... Thank u once again Neha for such a level of raw, pure practical and motivational video... Loved it!
    It's time to change our mindset folks!

  • @naveenmani8126
    @naveenmani8126 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very true mam. we spent our whole life to please people around us just to make us feel valued in their eyes. keep making such videos ... shout to you

  • @janvisoni9891
    @janvisoni9891 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    jindagi ko moka to do....thoda khush ho... thoda nacho gao....lines are really really awesome. Look at her expressions.😘😘😘😘literally so nice video neha ma'am.

  • @Tripti2013
    @Tripti2013 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    De .. you have always contributed soo much in my life
    What i feel is aaj I am mentally strong irrespective of outer circumstances
    It's just because of you ...
    Thankyou Dil se ❤❤
    Hmesa khush rho aap apni life mein .... apne sbke liyeh bhaut kuch Kiya hai bhagwan apko bhaut sari khushiyan de
    Love you de ❤

  • @shreyashinde321
    @shreyashinde321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That's most important advice you given✨it's reality no one talks about....if anyone want to do something different from others want to listen to their heart then no one else's opinion matters ✨

  • @jaslenkaur9723
    @jaslenkaur9723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I got so emotional while listening to you..i got my courage back ..need girls like you..❤

  • @harshilshah8983
    @harshilshah8983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel like everyone has to go through all of that in order to be at where you are right now ( i.e. mental state). People can't relate to it all right now but as soon as they are through with the journey, they will develop this mindset of not giving F. You can add other people's experience in your learning bucket but you can't actually learn anything until you yourself experience it.
    Till than keep giving F so that one day you reach your point of "stop giving a F**K".

  • @jiyad5922
    @jiyad5922 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    dii I really needed this !! i am a neet aspirant and this is my drop year and sick of telling people lies.. you really dont understand how much this video affected me and boosted my confidence in just 15 min!!!! 🥺thanks a lot🙏

  • @abbasmahammed2514
    @abbasmahammed2514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t have words to explain how I felt listening to this video, I went through the same journey and felt like I am the only one going through it, I was living in Europe, I resigned my high paying job due to no satisfaction and came back to India. This message gives me so much peace and affirms that I am going in the right way. Thank you Neha ❤

  • @nainayadavv
    @nainayadavv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really really needed to hear this! Whatever you said is exactly what I'm facing at this moment. I'm just a second year dropper but the burden i feel is way too much for a 19 year old and still people keep reminding me that I'm a failure.
    or ye chhupane wali baat to is sooo true! i know because I'm doing it. I don't want to face anyone, I feel I've no answer to their questions.
    but now I really wish ki main bhi ye wali besharm ban jau.
    I want to live for myself an the way I want to. I don't wanna feel guilty for anything I couldn't do.

  • @trueindian9179
    @trueindian9179 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A very genuine and Heart to heart conversation ❤

  • @Rishh05
    @Rishh05 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am on a break currently after my UG for the NIFT exam. It was the hardest decision I ever made, and it's been 5 months at home. I felt so lonely. Everything was so dull, but I just wanna thankyou & I appreciate you a lot because I would not have stepped out of these four walls of my room ever if it weren't for your words I came across. Thankyou & just keep going. Sending love..!!

  • @ghazalasheikhrafiq4250
    @ghazalasheikhrafiq4250 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bhttttttttttttttttt acha bola hai apne sab dil ki bat karne mein kuch galat nahi hai dil ko kbhi kbhi bht sakun milta hai bol ke aise you are just love
    best wishes for you ❤❤❤

  • @sailsharma-zt5sh
    @sailsharma-zt5sh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Genuinely you are an amazing person with full of enthusiasm and positivity.

  • @guniyadav9445
    @guniyadav9445 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Competitive exams aspirants ki har ek baat bol di apne, hamari problems ❤ Bohot sateek❤😊 soo relatable ✨👍

  • @Academic-ally-Pretty
    @Academic-ally-Pretty 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i wanted to give you a hug the moment your voice filled with tears. I know how it feels, gone through it and still going through this. BUT a lot has changed and in a healthy way. i can write a whole essay about my feelings not gonna do that in the comments. Just wanted to thank you for your words and your presence, i joined your channel recently but u know sometimes you feel like you relate with some people very quickly that is the connection i feel between us humans. Thank you so much for every word you said and i hope you find your _______. (You can fill it, because you know)

  • @chemistrylearnerestart
    @chemistrylearnerestart 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    didi apki sari chize hm relate kr pate hn or give up krne ka mn b krta h kbhi kbhi jb presan hote hn to pr apki baaten sun k y lagta hai ki yr sachi me koi apna family vala hi smja rha h or dubara try kro mn lga k kam kro y motivation milti hai thank you so much didi lots of love ❤❤

  • @mdafzalalam9111
    @mdafzalalam9111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow 👌 👏 😍 This is what we call it EPIC Motivational Video.
    And Award of Best Motivational Video 2023 goes to our respected and Lovely Neha ❤
    This is not a video its a fire 🔥
    This is the reality of life that we should live this way. 🙌
    Salute to you Dil se ❤ 💯

  • @krunalbhatt110
    @krunalbhatt110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    currently going through toughest phase of my personal life and found this channel and it makes wonders for me. you are literally acting as my elder sister which i don't have in real life. Love you Di

  • @snehaa4698
    @snehaa4698 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    yaar yeh kitni sweet hai sachi kitna bold , confident and so happy yaar !!! thats itt aur kya chaiye zindagi mai !! its only been a few days since i have been following you di but trust me ...all your video show a different perspective of life and i cant imagine the things you have gone through to become the person you are ......hats off to you didi !

  • @sakshisinghal1669
    @sakshisinghal1669 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I truly love your tone. Becoming this strong and leaving to the fullest matters then making ourselves good in others eyes. And once we start doing what we love people start following us!

  • @harshitkhandelwal3901
    @harshitkhandelwal3901 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You made my heart smile today! I am on the tight track.. Thank you for uplifting my confidence

  • @vedicapatidar
    @vedicapatidar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i am watching your videos from a long time but today after watching this video, i really felt the the need to post this comment. i just want to say that i'm grateful to have you here, it just feels so good to listen to you and your advices really helped me facing and overcoming the issues of my life. these issues might not be that big but yes they help you become stronger and stronger day by day and gets it even more amazing when you have someone like CA Neha Dutta to give you comforting real-life tips.

  • @ankurraj.7098
    @ankurraj.7098 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Fully agreed with everything you said, totally ignore everyone & do what is right for you & be happy first for yourself. The world will always criticize you no matter what you do, where you are, so do the thing that you like, not what the world think is right for you.
    Don't give a damn f**k about what anyone else is thinking about us, we are here for our own journey in our own way.
    Thanks for putting all the things in the video so nicely, I get an inspiration from you, so keep inspiring many like me & ignore the shitty stuffs from your life. 🎊❤️

  • @divasworld9294
    @divasworld9294 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're a beautiful person inside out! :) Thanks for spreading positive vibes. God bless you in all your future endeavors.

  • @nehadas7047
    @nehadas7047 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I never listen to any motivational speaker but, you're so relatable...
    Thank you for the encouragement..

  • @aishwaryarengade7666
    @aishwaryarengade7666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Thank you so much for making such raw and heartfelt videos.. I cried watching this.. I am not a CA aspirant but I relate to your experiences. ❤

    • @vikrant_bhise
      @vikrant_bhise 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Banking Aspirant ahes ka ?

    • @vikrant_bhise
      @vikrant_bhise 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chandanshekhawat5215 good

    • @aishwaryarengade7666
      @aishwaryarengade7666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Government job aspirant hote adhi.. banking exams madhe pan mains clear kelet pan selection navta nashibat .. now I'm working in Equity research and I'm happy.

    • @vikrant_bhise
      @vikrant_bhise 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aishwaryarengade7666 great .. sometimes thing you love doesn't love you back and may be thats not what the universe wanted for you. Bdw kutun ahes? Mumbai?

    • @aishwaryarengade7666
      @aishwaryarengade7666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vikrant_bhise I am from Pune, and you?

  • @damnitssanjana.983
    @damnitssanjana.983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Whatever you said mam is the story of everyone student going through this phase and we need people like you to make them know their importance in their own life thank you keep motivating us like that ❤

  • @gauranggupta8678
    @gauranggupta8678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    after a long time finally met an energy that is resonating to me .......and a lot of burden reduces when u came to know that there are still people who are doing what they love .......already started preparing and hustling to become a teacher as it is my dream , and not going in those f***king bullshit blind races to beacome a software developer for somebody else (friends, society or relatives) who is not to give a shit in my upcoming beautiful life.

  • @saumyajain7413
    @saumyajain7413 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ma'am I took a day off
    From my preparation just to analyse how I was being a disappointment to myself and others but your video gave me a clarity and made my day! Thankyou so much ❤
    I hope you read this and realise you're now doing something that helps alot many people out there.

  • @abhijitmajumder699
    @abhijitmajumder699 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can totally resonate with this video. Nowadays work from home culture is common since the pandemic period, but, before that nobody was aware of such a phenomenon. I started working as a freelance writer for digital sports website back in 2015 and it was work-from-home since the beginning, only needed a laptop and a WiFi connection and I could do my work from anywhere. Tab jab koi family function mein jaata tha, mostly relatives and 'well-wishers' sab bolte the office jane wala aisa koi job kyun nehi dhund leta, jo karta hain isse kya milega! I have always been a people pleaser, so I used to go home and feel so low about myself, that intensified when I used to see majority of my friends and cousins already successful, based in foreign countries, earning really well and doing good in life. Sometimes I questioned ke kya sach mein good guys finish last?

  • @srishtisingh6056
    @srishtisingh6056 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    You are the first motivational speaker I like listening and I can say without doubt, I won't be needing anyone else. Your few videos have made me more dheet than anything in my life ever did. You don't even know how much you've helped me. Thanks Neha di, you are the hero I needed at this point of my life.

  • @AnkitYadav-mm2qz
    @AnkitYadav-mm2qz 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are so genuine and without filter person❤....any average person who's suffering right now would definitely connect with u and will get inspire❤

  • @abhinetrisharma
    @abhinetrisharma 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yaar ye kitni awesome he😢💓😘♥️please sab pura video dekhna.....kudos.... Want to give all the hearts yrrr.... Am not a CA but jo bhi you said it directly hits.... Feeling like am not alone feeling this..

  • @AkashGupta-SKY
    @AkashGupta-SKY 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +227

    Atleast you were in CA so people usually completes in 6, 7, 8 or even 10 years.
    But I completed my engineering in 10years. I know the struggle and kind of pressure we get from our surroundings. Later got job as well and now working in MNC on my Core field from 7 years. Life is all about surprises. Never give up and be optimistic.
    Kudos to you for following your heart that you decided to move from CA job even after working so hard for the degree. I have seen that average students generally achieve more in the real life.
    Har koi apne liye koi na koi rasta bana hi leta hai

    • @anshror2583
      @anshror2583 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro ❤ true motivation

    • @User_sd_1606
      @User_sd_1606 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very motivating words ...👍

    • @RYFMuzic
      @RYFMuzic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      bro failed in 12th and then failed all subjects in1 and 2 sem now droped and join a degree rom open

    • @Ankush0304
      @Ankush0304 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tbh I will say for the first time I find comments so genuine and motivation packed..❤

  • @gill.guntas
    @gill.guntas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Literally one of the best videos I've seen in a while. This is was needed so very much. Literally don't give a sh*t what anyone else thinks, just live unconditionally happy. Thanks Neha for making my day with your so amazing super energy ⚡🔥
    This video should literally have millions of views, Be happy always 😀

  • @sanskrutitelang2756
    @sanskrutitelang2756 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its Soo good you meet such a different and positive mindset... thanks to yt suggestions for your video✨✨

  • @mokshbansal1010
    @mokshbansal1010 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    mja aagya didi aapko sunke , bde time baad kucch relatable suna , thank you for ur speech NOW IT"s ALL SOLVED...

  • @BlissfulSoul26
    @BlissfulSoul26 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    that's called a real motivation. I extremely agree with you neha. Great thoughts. keep it up🎉

  • @enabhandari9012
    @enabhandari9012 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou , you made me smile today. I am in same situation as you were when you left your job. Though I am looking for my next job right now but somnehow feel I don't want to do that job anymore. Kind of done with this career, i don't really know what I actually want to do but I am not being hard on myself, giving myself time to understand. Also I live by myself so it even becomes difficult that how will you make a decision when there is no support system.

  • @mrinmoynath6940
    @mrinmoynath6940 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your speech is too much helpful for the youth and every word comes from real experience of life and maximum are similar with my experience, thanks 🙏 👍👍

  • @suryaprabhadevarakonda
    @suryaprabhadevarakonda 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    There's no video of yours that would leave me without tears in my eyes.

    • @harshavardhan-nx9vg
      @harshavardhan-nx9vg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @suryaprabhadevarakonda
      @suryaprabhadevarakonda 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@harshavardhan-nx9vg aww, my brother 💖

    • @Vidu_03
      @Vidu_03 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wanted to know your perspective on talking to some relatives like maasi whom our moms are very close with. She and her family don't compare me generally nor do they say anything bad to me for my attempts. She only sometimes complains that I never talk/check up on her even when I'm not studying which makes me anxious.

    • @suryaprabhadevarakonda
      @suryaprabhadevarakonda 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Vidu_03 my perspective?

  • @tarundeepkaur5270
    @tarundeepkaur5270 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lots of love n respect to u....❤thank u so much for all these nice thoughts

  • @shobhachauhan5702
    @shobhachauhan5702 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really love you didi ❤
    Har ek aspirant feel kr skta h apki kahi hui sari baatein...really needed this motivational video ..
    Motivational ni ek bahot pyari video h aisa lga hmri badi behen hi hmko sb smjha ri h..
    Thank you for being there ❤

  • @VivekRaj-by3gj
    @VivekRaj-by3gj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    'Besharam ho jao' I liked that.... Bilkul sahi kaha apne. Hum Duniya ka theka thori le rakha hai..
    Hum apne marzi ka malik ya malkin banna hai.
    Dear Neha,
    You words are really motivating...😊

  • @rahulsinghal3926
    @rahulsinghal3926 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    I'm completely agree.. You completely fit the quote
    "A satisfactory life is better than successful life because our success is decided by society but our satisfaction is decided by our own heart and soul"
    Few years back when I started my civil service preparation everyone except my parents said that you should not do it's not your cup of tea.. I tried my best i cleared prelims but not mains.. But im happy with my decision because I believe that even if you failed by own decision is better than giving your life key to some one else. I was passionate about my preparation I enjoy it.. Khte h manzil se jyda raste khubsurat hote h. Although mera nhi hua aur is bar last attempt h but mene mere passion ko follow krte hue job ko chhod kr upsc students ko pdhna shru kiya and unme se kai ka clear hua.. So overall I enjoy journey.. And very satisfaction and this satisfaction is much better than so called success

    • @keeo8962
      @keeo8962 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow 🙏🏻🙏🏻 very true!

  • @designverseofsaloni
    @designverseofsaloni 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    I can't express how hard i can relate to this. I'm pursuing computer science from last 4 years, but never had the courage to shift to UX design even though I hated CS and loved designing. But from the past two weeks I've left the anxiety and fear of not being able to please everyone. Even though I know this process will take time till I reach where I want to, but I'm like literally literally so so happy doing the things which I absolutely love. I was a depressed student who was stuck in the endless cycle of doing the things to please everyone. But infact that never happened and ultimately I used to curse myself. But now I know that what I'm doing is for myself and not anyone else. And this makes me immensely happy, I can literally feel myself growing.
    One day, I'll come back here and update when I reach where I deserve to be.

    • @TheonlyKT1225
      @TheonlyKT1225 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Omggg; I'm a comp science student too and I don't hate cs but I love Design! And Its very difficult to stand for it because no one is doing it around me! I don't know! If I should just continue, make everyone happy, or take a stand , make everyone disappointed, maybe I don't even have the guts to do it ! I don't think I'm allowed to take the unconventional path! So I don't know !!

    • @rangoliagrawal811
      @rangoliagrawal811 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheonlyKT1225 I thought I'm the only one... bt same here guys...

    • @designverseofsaloni
      @designverseofsaloni 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheonlyKT1225 Do what you love bro. Afterall, even if you build your career by seeing and following others, you won't be happy ever. You won't be satisfied ever. You'll still switch at some point in your life to the thing that you absolutely love. So why not now? People around you will not support you for design until you're not good at it. They'll start supporting you the day they start seeing the results. And you've to be strong only until you start seeing some results. And trust me, even if you fail na, you'll won't be sad. You'll improve yourself and come back better.
      So don't care about people and just do what you think is right. You're definitely allowed to take that unconventional path bro. Take you call. And do it!!

    • @TSDS111
      @TSDS111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TheonlyKT1225who is going to stop you? And who is going to give happiness to you? You yourself right! Just think about this then you will get your answer.
      What the need of such relations which takes you away from you happines?

    • @BiponDasBipro
      @BiponDasBipro 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey I am also a CSE graduate ❤
      Keep up the good work....can relate to the feelings...... Always overwhelmed with everyone, every relative! But now I accept it is what it is.

  • @shivanirajput6118
    @shivanirajput6118 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The real motivation ❤❤❤always relatable what we are going through now .....

  • @dishantgirdhar2248
    @dishantgirdhar2248 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hum b ese hi hai jiii ksi ki fikr ni krte ude dil befikree and neha ji your such a motivation for youngest generation ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @NehaKumari-oe1ng
    @NehaKumari-oe1ng 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Loved this video. Love You. You motivate me. I am a CA Final student and left with 3 papers of group 2 and hopefully will be a CA in coming attempt. I have been in this journey since 10 years, married and still going. I have been through all the judgements and i can completely relate with you. People are counting my attempts. But not giving a f**k to them I manifest in this comment to do something extraordinary.

    • @vibhupal5797
      @vibhupal5797 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And ur name is also same😅...u r clearing in this attempt😊

  • @Priya-eh7tc
    @Priya-eh7tc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was the 1st vdo I saw on ur channel n saw u for the 1st time n can't tell u how u just left me speechless!!!! OMG!!! Di, u r so inspiring! Really!!! These 15 mins were worth it, i swear if any other vdo on utube'd've these many ads, I'd've surely 👎👎👎 it... But u changed my life!!!! Tysm!! E1 I cried when u got emotional 😭😭
    Lots of love ❤❤❤

  • @Thatclassyexplorer
    @Thatclassyexplorer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish all relatives watch this video and stop peeping in our lives for no reason or gossip... Thank you girl! Going through exactly same situation

  • @getajob3435
    @getajob3435 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    when she cried, we all felt that .. we all have been there and the thing which she went through I think many middle and lower class students and children went through

  • @CADURGACHOUDHARY
    @CADURGACHOUDHARY 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hiii Neha ... literally I got same feeling when I was watching this video..we literally spend our whole life thinking about other people in our life who were actually not there for us in our bad time when we were struggling.
    I too got motivated by watching your videos n I was always thinking while preparing for my CA exams ki bhai aisa kuch Krna he life me...N as I m CA now I will surely follow u..
    love you lots buddy❤

  • @spititout12
    @spititout12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    5:26 sending you a warm hug ❤
    I can totally relate with you right now, because since last two years, I am also stuck in same place only because I’m trying something which is very unconventional out of the norms. And yes, this society, so called society is pestering my parents to marry me off. Sometimes I feel I’m running out of time and it’s very suffocating at times.
    Than i opted for GET LOST attitude. 😎
    Once you are sure that whatever you’re doing, the outcome is what you genuinely want and what genuinely will make you happy, fir BHAD ME JANE DO SABKO ❤life will be much sorted and happiness quotient will increase tremendously.

    • @YashJain-gk3uw
      @YashJain-gk3uw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Get lost attitude.... maine ye baat likh kr apne study table k saamne stick kr di😂😂