@@shreyansjain1710First of all see the entire video and then comment, Ma'am never misguided us. The thing is that, u didn't understand the crux of this video, the whole motive of telling,"Besharam ho jao" means that, u should not actually care & bother about certain people who r trying to demotivate u, by mocking at u. She just wanted to point out that, u should be ignorant about all criticisms & u should learn to live your life on your own terms by freeing urself from "people's opinion about u". Aur Mummy Papa k tanne toh ofc sunna padega if u don't work hard & become successful, yeh baat toh u can't change it 😢... But yeh bhi toh dekho, Ma'am ne hardwork Kiya tha isliye ei toh idhar tak pouch pai hai! Yes, Ma'am took 9 years, but she just want her students not to make the same mistakes which she had made while she was pursuing the course, So whatever Ma'am is telling is for our good only! I hope u'll understand me😉.
This is so relatable. I'm happy you found your path, but many are still struggling. I'm going through something similar. Recently I left a high-paying job because I wasn't feeling satisfied. It was as if it was sucking the life out of me. I told my parents about it, obviously, they are not happy with my decision and then there's peer pressure, societal pressure, upper see I'm single and not married being 30. I just feel stuck, hopeless, lost and directionless. I can totally relate to your frustration.
I don't know if you'll read it or not, if anyone will read it or not, but I really became overwhelmed with emotions after seeing this video. I have been following you since my drop year, when I was preparing for my NEET UG, and now I'm a medico, and my prof exams are near. You have always motivated me, but this video was really needed. I'm freaking out because of my exams and literally having mental breakdowns everyday, thinking what if I can't pass, what will people think? How will I face people? I have always been among Top students but now people will question my abilities. Even I was questioning myself, feeling dumb and inferior. I was feeling that everyone around me are superior than me, and I don't deserve to be here. I was feeling that I'm good at nothing, I'm so average at everything. But u made me remember, that how can I feel like this? I may not be a Genius, but I have worked so hard to come here. I not only secured a gov. seat but got into the Topmost medical college of my State, with a good rank. Then how can I feel that I'm not deserving? And why am I thinking what will others think? Nobody knows my struggle, except me, only I know how much efforts I'm putting everyday, to beat my clinical depression and anxiety. How many times I have put myself together, only I know..... Log toh judge karenge hi... Phir jab success milega, tab wohi log palat jayenge.... So, yeah you are right, I'll NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT OTHERS. Main jo bhi hoon, jaisi bhi hoon, I'm PROUD OF MYSELF ❤️
Wow congratulations buddy 🎉 you did it , and I am so proud of you, it's not easy to cope with so many things at a time. You deserve better! Just listen to yourself, you are already doing so great yaar. The point you have reached is all coz of your own hardwork and i salute you for being so calm and handling all the stree you got during this time ❤❤❤ you got this ♾️🎉😊
Yeh 'bhaar mai jaye' attitude ne mujhe bacha liya hai khudke self cribbing habit se. Aur jo log intentionally apko hurt kare na jante huye bhi aap kis cheez se guzar rahe ho unke samne bilkul muhfat ban jao yaar. Bara maja aata hai yaar khudko protect karne mai toxic logo se. Apko hazaro thankyous send karti hu meditation ke time pe Neha ma'am 🙏❤️
I feel so motivated and good just by listening to you. The constant practice of people putting you down and not feeling enough everyday kills alot from inside. Everything youu say is so so true.
It's so good to see that you are sharing things as it is without any cut or filter. Direct from your heart. Very few people do this. Keep it up . All the very best .
This lady has immense energy look at her aura radiating positivity in a very fun way not just those random aggressive motivational videos that leads us nowhere. This video has something different in it, from the past few days I was in a loop of questioning my ability if I could achieve the career I always have dreamt of, I was having this feeling of disappointment and this girl straight from this video captured my mind with her charming and fun aura. You got me BACK to myself, bless you infinitely my Girl❤
Parents wali thing is so so much true. When I started my neet prep my father Used to demoralise me a lot mainly bcz I dared to take this exam ...And for him to become a doc is Not a thing for Middle class thing. I was depressed to an extent when I Used to cry all day. But when I secured 1st position in class 11 among 60 students he started to trust my potential And now he is the biggest supporter, motivator , well wisher. But it was painful . peace
Aap jab bhi apne past ke baare me batate ho aapki aankhe bhar jaati hain aur aapko rote dekh kar mujhe bhi rona aa jata hai..aapko pata nahi hai kuch log aapse kitna jyada dil se jude hue hain.. life me failures hain, problems hain par ek aap hin ho jise dekh kar lagta hai ki sab thik ho jayega, mai bhi life me kuch acha kar lungi.. Thank you mujhme ye trust lane ke liye..Bhagwan aapko hamesha khush rakhe❤❤
I really appreciate you open up to something which we hide within ourselves...I am scared , and selfless hoke sabko allow kar deti hun to disrespect me and force me to do their things and they think my work is not important... But after seeing ur video I'm really feeling better and will change myself for me only...Bohot ho gaya help dusron ke liye..ab khud par zyada dhyaan dungi mein ...Jay Jagannath 🙏🏻
Clear mindset by Honesty is always the best virtue for self... consistency & persistence r key to success... Until success nobody understands our efforts... Inspirational for others...
This is the best video I've seen in years. Not even talking about the motivation or inspiration, but just the sheer passion. Seeing this I felt like I'm getting life advice from the elder sister I never had.❤ thank you. Needed it so much after spending so much time in my course.
There aren't many youtubers who create content based on such topics. Even if they do, I personally can't relate to them because more than often they talk from books and research papers. But you, you talk from experience, something that every student can relate to. Your positive energy radiates through each of your video. I don't know if many people have noticed but I did notice the change in your voice when you talk about things that had an impact on you, especially the ones which are extremely positive, and it happens in every video. This proves how genuine your talks are. I'm glad to have found you.
OMG!! never seen anything so pure, so real, can't thank you enough for this.. could connect totally.. All the answers are within you, you really don;t need thousands motivational self help book /shorts Thanks for teaching us in simple plain way, being so open & vulnerable. totally loved it. I will save it as a constant reminder...and ready to take my chances...life is a game...lets have fun.
All tears by the end of it. This is the real motivation for life. And it feels so amazing to see a girl coming out and saying all these things. Girl you are fireeeeee❤🔥❤🔥
You spoke to me directly in different ways... got tears .. after hearing the elder sister advice.. thank you❤.. it was needed.. because almost all our life we don't live for ourselves but to make others happy... thanks di❤ I'm a medical student but still I could relate..❤
De .. you have always contributed soo much in my life What i feel is aaj I am mentally strong irrespective of outer circumstances It's just because of you ... Thankyou Dil se ❤❤ Hmesa khush rho aap apni life mein .... apne sbke liyeh bhaut kuch Kiya hai bhagwan apko bhaut sari khushiyan de Love you de ❤
This is exactly my situation, thank you so much for posting this clip, life aise he nikal jaati dusro ko impress krne ke chakkar mein. Thanks for this beautiful reminder! Sher akela chalta hai!!!!
I am on a break currently after my UG for the NIFT exam. It was the hardest decision I ever made, and it's been 5 months at home. I felt so lonely. Everything was so dull, but I just wanna thankyou & I appreciate you a lot because I would not have stepped out of these four walls of my room ever if it weren't for your words I came across. Thankyou & just keep going. Sending love..!!
I related to being in a "shell" part the most. I have absolutely become someone I don't recognize anymore and I have lately started avoiding people, I avoid the noise and when I am by myself I feel maybe not so happy, but at least I feel at peace. Needed to hear this today! Thanks!
'Besharam ho jao' I liked that.... Bilkul sahi kaha apne. Hum Duniya ka theka thori le rakha hai.. Hum apne marzi ka malik ya malkin banna hai. Dear Neha, You words are really motivating...😊
Awesome! Especially, your mentioning of taking responsibility, it's a HUGE thing. Very few people are capable of living this way, most only wish they could be like that. Human, by nature, crave approval. It's a tough fight but worth a whole life. Living on your own terms despite any range of repercussion. Love and salute your frankness Neha di.
yaar yeh kitni sweet hai sachi kitna bold , confident and so happy yaar !!! thats itt aur kya chaiye zindagi mai !! its only been a few days since i have been following you di but trust me ...all your video show a different perspective of life and i cant imagine the things you have gone through to become the person you are ......hats off to you didi !
Your videos are so genuine and from the heart..... You are so real 💞💞💞💞💞 Thank you for whatever you are doing and sharing... Lot of people need this type of content....
I got placed in 4.5lpa CTC and I was not going home because I was ashamed of what I'll say to those who were expecting me to get a higher package. But now I'll not care about whatever they say. I'll go my home for my parents who don't care about my CTC. Thank you didi P.S. - I'm BE student
I'm completely agree.. You completely fit the quote "A satisfactory life is better than successful life because our success is decided by society but our satisfaction is decided by our own heart and soul" Few years back when I started my civil service preparation everyone except my parents said that you should not do it's not your cup of tea.. I tried my best i cleared prelims but not mains.. But im happy with my decision because I believe that even if you failed by own decision is better than giving your life key to some one else. I was passionate about my preparation I enjoy it.. Khte h manzil se jyda raste khubsurat hote h. Although mera nhi hua aur is bar last attempt h but mene mere passion ko follow krte hue job ko chhod kr upsc students ko pdhna shru kiya and unme se kai ka clear hua.. So overall I enjoy journey.. And very satisfaction and this satisfaction is much better than so called success
That's most important advice you given✨it's reality no one talks about....if anyone want to do something different from others want to listen to their heart then no one else's opinion matters ✨
Whatever it is people ask anything knowingly or unknowingly that really hurt us . I was in tears when you said how you felt facing everyone .. I could totally relate to you .I know im not living my life to the fullest by thinking what will they think of me .i stopped thinking about everyone and im practising mindfulness and setting boundaries 😢❤
Government job aspirant hote adhi.. banking exams madhe pan mains clear kelet pan selection navta nashibat .. now I'm working in Equity research and I'm happy.
@@aishwaryarengade7666 great .. sometimes thing you love doesn't love you back and may be thats not what the universe wanted for you. Bdw kutun ahes? Mumbai?
I am not an emotional person at all but this video made me cry. I have never ever felt so relatable to a person this much before. She just gave a life changing advice and I don't know how many people realize that. I always feared disappointing people and proving them wrong. Even if I wanted to do something it was to prove myself to them. I always did it for others not me. And this girl just change my whole perspective on so many things. I thank you so much!!! And to anyone who is reading this I hope you get all you want in your life and have an amazing day :)
I am literally applauding and smiling throughout!! This is so real and hitting, So true, so raw! Thanks for sharing these experiences and insights. You are truly an inspiration. You are like a friend, elder sister who knows what we actually go through and how to overcome that. Kudos for being so strong and Congratulations for these achievements. So happy for you. 👍
This is the first time I'm taking a step and commenting on a YT channel. But this one deserves it.. I am going through a rough phase right now and I have started watching your videos recently. Trust me it feels connected. The thoughts that you share, how you are living your life and how everybody should. I admire you for listening to ur own self. Even I was like that but from few months I have started covering myself, hiding myself, that too because of people here who notices all my actions, comments on me at my back if I'm doing something for myself and I don't like it at all. I tried many a times t not give a sh*t to such people and yet it keeps affecting me in some days only. I feel like I have not done anything bad to anyone then why are such people targeting me, I feel like answering them back bluntly. But I don't because that is not how I want to react, I want to keep working on myself only.... This just came from heart just like u! N This video has left an impression in mind, love your content!! Thank you :)
i wanted to give you a hug the moment your voice filled with tears. I know how it feels, gone through it and still going through this. BUT a lot has changed and in a healthy way. i can write a whole essay about my feelings not gonna do that in the comments. Just wanted to thank you for your words and your presence, i joined your channel recently but u know sometimes you feel like you relate with some people very quickly that is the connection i feel between us humans. Thank you so much for every word you said and i hope you find your _______. (You can fill it, because you know)
dii I really needed this !! i am a neet aspirant and this is my drop year and sick of telling people lies.. you really dont understand how much this video affected me and boosted my confidence in just 15 min!!!! 🥺thanks a lot🙏
The best video in the TH-cam I have ever seen ,this video helped me to find my self yrrr❤ ab bs apna carrier bnana h success hona h bhad me jayee duniya dari n all
i am watching your videos from a long time but today after watching this video, i really felt the the need to post this comment. i just want to say that i'm grateful to have you here, it just feels so good to listen to you and your advices really helped me facing and overcoming the issues of my life. these issues might not be that big but yes they help you become stronger and stronger day by day and gets it even more amazing when you have someone like CA Neha Dutta to give you comforting real-life tips.
I relate so much with what you said Neha ma’am………I started listening to to myself since 2022 and I take responsibility for for whatever good or bad goes on in my life🎉
currently going through toughest phase of my personal life and found this channel and it makes wonders for me. you are literally acting as my elder sister which i don't have in real life. Love you Di
I don’t have words to explain how I felt listening to this video, I went through the same journey and felt like I am the only one going through it, I was living in Europe, I resigned my high paying job due to no satisfaction and came back to India. This message gives me so much peace and affirms that I am going in the right way. Thank you Neha ❤
This was the 1st vdo I saw on ur channel n saw u for the 1st time n can't tell u how u just left me speechless!!!! OMG!!! Di, u r so inspiring! Really!!! These 15 mins were worth it, i swear if any other vdo on utube'd've these many ads, I'd've surely 👎👎👎 it... But u changed my life!!!! Tysm!! E1 I cried when u got emotional 😭😭 Lots of love ❤❤❤
5:26 sending you a warm hug ❤ I can totally relate with you right now, because since last two years, I am also stuck in same place only because I’m trying something which is very unconventional out of the norms. And yes, this society, so called society is pestering my parents to marry me off. Sometimes I feel I’m running out of time and it’s very suffocating at times. Than i opted for GET LOST attitude. 😎 Once you are sure that whatever you’re doing, the outcome is what you genuinely want and what genuinely will make you happy, fir BHAD ME JANE DO SABKO ❤life will be much sorted and happiness quotient will increase tremendously.
Aapka past avi mera present h😢...Bhut relate kar paati huu mai...Acche acche motivational speaker wo nhi de paate mere ko Jo aapki video se mil jaata h❤ Thank you... you are peaceful and divine soul...
Deedar ki tamanna ho gallib to nazare gadaye rakhana kyuki dupatta ho ya takdir sarakati jaroor hai,,,,,, don't panic hard work and keep kalm, love you,,,,,
You know what, it's not you who made this video but divine made you do it for me. I'm preparing for four years for competitive exams. This year I got AIR 291 in gate exam and I got selected in IIT Madras for PhD in physics. For a very low confident girl, and after so much hard work, it was a huge opportunity for me. But i dropped it because I was not feeling good about joining for PhD. I want to become scientific officer at BARC. This year as well I went upto the interview round (but i haven't told my friends about it because it was a huge achievement and I was scared that they will get jealous). So to give it one more chance (so I'm preparing for BARC exam is also I do not want to tell anyone because they will be like ki ye gadhi ladki scientific officer banne k sapne dekh rhi h, hum to isse itne intelligent h hamse to written exam bhi qualify nhi hua) I decided to drop PhD. Tomorrow is my birthday as I was very very anxious since the evening that everyone will call me now and will ask thousands of questions about it. I was so worried that I was planning to switch off my phone or talk on the phone like I'm sick so the conversation will end in few minutes. But then I started thinking that why to think about the future which I haven't seen yet. So I started chanting "I'm grateful that the divine is leading my path of life". I was outside the house while doing this. As I reached home and your video popped up. And it's exactly what I needed to know. Thank you , thank you so much. You made my birthday. Now I'm just going to enjoy my birthday and won't give a f**k to anyone. ❤❤❤❤❤ Also I am learning a lot from you and your videos are helping me a lot in my journey. Thank you thank you thank you.❤
Love u di, I am also in this situation of handling 1 more attempt , but yeah I know what other's thinking about me and what I am thinking about me. Really the best gift we can give ourself enjoy your life by taking your responsibility in your hands(bhaad mein jaye all stuffs.)😊
after a long time finally met an energy that is resonating to me .......and a lot of burden reduces when u came to know that there are still people who are doing what they love .......already started preparing and hustling to become a teacher as it is my dream , and not going in those f***king bullshit blind races to beacome a software developer for somebody else (friends, society or relatives) who is not to give a shit in my upcoming beautiful life.
I wanted to know your perspective on talking to some relatives like maasi whom our moms are very close with. She and her family don't compare me generally nor do they say anything bad to me for my attempts. She only sometimes complains that I never talk/check up on her even when I'm not studying which makes me anxious.
Fully agreed with everything you said, totally ignore everyone & do what is right for you & be happy first for yourself. The world will always criticize you no matter what you do, where you are, so do the thing that you like, not what the world think is right for you. Don't give a damn f**k about what anyone else is thinking about us, we are here for our own journey in our own way. Thanks for putting all the things in the video so nicely, I get an inspiration from you, so keep inspiring many like me & ignore the shitty stuffs from your life. 🎊❤️
Atleast you were in CA so people usually completes in 6, 7, 8 or even 10 years. But I completed my engineering in 10years. I know the struggle and kind of pressure we get from our surroundings. Later got job as well and now working in MNC on my Core field from 7 years. Life is all about surprises. Never give up and be optimistic. Kudos to you for following your heart that you decided to move from CA job even after working so hard for the degree. I have seen that average students generally achieve more in the real life. Har koi apne liye koi na koi rasta bana hi leta hai
I do believe in God's plan for me even when nobody sees it happening. Even when nobody believes in me, I will believe in myself because God has taught me to do so. There are some doubts and fears but I will make it amidst all those uncertainties. Thankyou Neha❤. It feels like you understand us just the way we need to be understood.
Hello Neha. Really proud of you. Being a CA it’s really difficult to take such a bold decision as society has a mindset that if you have done CA then there is only either job or practice option. I am also CA and I also gave myself 6-7 months break but there was so much societal pressure. Well kudos to you for your bold steps🎉❤
I can relate to the emotions you conveyed in your explanation, as I've experienced similar feelings in my own life. It feels good when someone else understands these experiences and can articulate them to others. Your video is truly remarkable, and I hope you continue to create content like this to express the emotions of those facing challenging situations in life.
You are the first motivational speaker I like listening and I can say without doubt, I won't be needing anyone else. Your few videos have made me more dheet than anything in my life ever did. You don't even know how much you've helped me. Thanks Neha di, you are the hero I needed at this point of my life.
I can totally resonate with this video. Nowadays work from home culture is common since the pandemic period, but, before that nobody was aware of such a phenomenon. I started working as a freelance writer for digital sports website back in 2015 and it was work-from-home since the beginning, only needed a laptop and a WiFi connection and I could do my work from anywhere. Tab jab koi family function mein jaata tha, mostly relatives and 'well-wishers' sab bolte the office jane wala aisa koi job kyun nehi dhund leta, jo karta hain isse kya milega! I have always been a people pleaser, so I used to go home and feel so low about myself, that intensified when I used to see majority of my friends and cousins already successful, based in foreign countries, earning really well and doing good in life. Sometimes I questioned ke kya sach mein good guys finish last?
Loved this video. Love You. You motivate me. I am a CA Final student and left with 3 papers of group 2 and hopefully will be a CA in coming attempt. I have been in this journey since 10 years, married and still going. I have been through all the judgements and i can completely relate with you. People are counting my attempts. But not giving a f**k to them I manifest in this comment to do something extraordinary.
Yrr bhagwan ne ye vedio mujhe dikhayi h seriously just right now someone told me or me akeli ghut ke y soch rahi thi ki yrrr jwab de ke thak gyi hu and suddenly ese hi TH-cam chlaya ek or upr niche scroll kiye and I found you just like my elder one 🥺🥺 I m so thankufull to you I love you Neha didi 😍❤️
Hi Neha, I can absolutely connect with you when you talk about leaving a Job. And yes, I also reached out to you when you left your job but the reason was to get the guidance because I was facing the same.
Whatever you said mam is the story of everyone student going through this phase and we need people like you to make them know their importance in their own life thank you keep motivating us like that ❤
i used to not give a damn to people but gradually with time when decided to work on myself i lost that thing i became sensitive and just because to connect with people and to make their life easy . I started invested in people and i started caring about people negetive opinion about me and i ruin my day today but some how i gave enough courge and tried to chill out and your video relised me again that old but good aspect in me now i am feelimg much better and can sleep better.
Didi I'm not a CA aspirant I'm preparing for medical exam but I can relate with ur every words,whenever I feel demotivated I watch ur video these are very beneficial to me thank u so much didi for sharing all ur practical experiences which helps a lot I'm sure not only me but also every aspirants. . Plz keep sharing ur experiences and keep guiding us like this way Lots of love to u didi ❤❤ I'm ur biggest fan ❤️✨
I can't express how hard i can relate to this. I'm pursuing computer science from last 4 years, but never had the courage to shift to UX design even though I hated CS and loved designing. But from the past two weeks I've left the anxiety and fear of not being able to please everyone. Even though I know this process will take time till I reach where I want to, but I'm like literally literally so so happy doing the things which I absolutely love. I was a depressed student who was stuck in the endless cycle of doing the things to please everyone. But infact that never happened and ultimately I used to curse myself. But now I know that what I'm doing is for myself and not anyone else. And this makes me immensely happy, I can literally feel myself growing. One day, I'll come back here and update when I reach where I deserve to be.
Omggg; I'm a comp science student too and I don't hate cs but I love Design! And Its very difficult to stand for it because no one is doing it around me! I don't know! If I should just continue, make everyone happy, or take a stand , make everyone disappointed, maybe I don't even have the guts to do it ! I don't think I'm allowed to take the unconventional path! So I don't know !!
@@TheonlyKT1225 Do what you love bro. Afterall, even if you build your career by seeing and following others, you won't be happy ever. You won't be satisfied ever. You'll still switch at some point in your life to the thing that you absolutely love. So why not now? People around you will not support you for design until you're not good at it. They'll start supporting you the day they start seeing the results. And you've to be strong only until you start seeing some results. And trust me, even if you fail na, you'll won't be sad. You'll improve yourself and come back better. So don't care about people and just do what you think is right. You're definitely allowed to take that unconventional path bro. Take you call. And do it!!
@@TheonlyKT1225who is going to stop you? And who is going to give happiness to you? You yourself right! Just think about this then you will get your answer. What the need of such relations which takes you away from you happines?
Hey I am also a CSE graduate ❤ Keep up the good work....can relate to the feelings...... Always overwhelmed with everyone, every relative! But now I accept it is what it is.
I don't know how Universal Algorithm works but your videos land at the perfect time for what I need to listen ! 1000% relatable. Just to add - Thomas Alva Edison failed for thousand times, people used to laugh at him, ask him questions what he is doing wasting time/money/efforts. But it was 1001st time he invented light bulb 💡 Your experience-sharing and advices are really like blessings for us 🙏😊 Thank you very much !
Literally one of the best videos I've seen in a while. This is was needed so very much. Literally don't give a sh*t what anyone else thinks, just live unconditionally happy. Thanks Neha for making my day with your so amazing super energy ⚡🔥 This video should literally have millions of views, Be happy always 😀
I truly love your tone. Becoming this strong and leaving to the fullest matters then making ourselves good in others eyes. And once we start doing what we love people start following us!
Thanks for stressing on the reality as to what actually matters in life.... this is the secret sauce of creating the living the life that u want... Thank u once again Neha for such a level of raw, pure practical and motivational video... Loved it! It's time to change our mindset folks!
Really love you didi ❤ Har ek aspirant feel kr skta h apki kahi hui sari baatein...really needed this motivational video .. Motivational ni ek bahot pyari video h aisa lga hmri badi behen hi hmko sb smjha ri h.. Thank you for being there ❤
Hey Neha...being a 30 year old female, jobless and unmarried...i have all these fears within me...and i could relate each and every word you said...i have the same thinking which you had earlier..and really glad to see ki you have changed yourself to this extent...i also want to change myself..but always get trapped in the negativity of answering people that what i am doing right now...mainly i have kept myself as a prisoner...within the four walls of my home..i don't even go to the roof or to the balcony...i wish and i pray..i too can change myself life this...and focus properly on my goal of getting a job this year
I am in the exact same situation as you. Being trapped in my own house.... avoiding every person.... Self doubting constantly because being a girl of 31 years I am not married till now and I don't have any job! I can feel every bit of your pain. I also want to get out of the fear, comfort zone and want to do something. I hope I can also fight back by being shameless. More power to you girl❤
Hi, myself Deepak. Mai ek science graduate hu and after that maine 2014 me CS(Company Secretary) karna start kiya. Now I am 31 year old and still 2 grp are left in cs professional. In between CS journey healtg issues ke karan mai 2016-17 me exam thk se nahi diya. In 2021 I lost my father. Now, sometimes I regret on my decision that why i choose CS over MCA. My friends earning 20-30 LPA and I am still fighting for survival.
Hiii Neha ... literally I got same feeling when I was watching this video..we literally spend our whole life thinking about other people in our life who were actually not there for us in our bad time when we were struggling. I too got motivated by watching your videos n I was always thinking while preparing for my CA exams ki bhai aisa kuch Krna he life me...N as I m CA now I will surely follow u.. love you lots buddy❤
The doubt (of parents regarding our achievement or performance)wala thing is so relatable. Not to blame anyone, because everyone sees thing from a different perspective. Just because they see it different doesn't mean they are wrong. Didi , please suggest how to deal with such situations??
Itne saal baad asli motivation mila.... That's this channel and Neha mam ❤
Keep it up mam we'll need you further 😊
Thanx so much mam ❤️🙏
@@shreyansjain1710First of all see the entire video and then comment, Ma'am never misguided us. The thing is that, u didn't understand the crux of this video, the whole motive of telling,"Besharam ho jao" means that, u should not actually care & bother about certain people who r trying to demotivate u, by mocking at u. She just wanted to point out that, u should be ignorant about all criticisms & u should learn to live your life on your own terms by freeing urself from "people's opinion about u".
Aur Mummy Papa k tanne toh ofc sunna padega if u don't work hard & become successful, yeh baat toh u can't change it 😢... But yeh bhi toh dekho, Ma'am ne hardwork Kiya tha isliye ei toh idhar tak pouch pai hai! Yes, Ma'am took 9 years, but she just want her students not to make the same mistakes which she had made while she was pursuing the course, So whatever Ma'am is telling is for our good only! I hope u'll understand me😉.
Thank you sis❤😢😢
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Oye yaar aap ca ho,mene toh ni hier karna apko,otherwise mein toh roz itr file karwane paunch jata apke paas 😅i mean really beautiful you are dear.
How Innocent heart you have 🤌🏻, aap bolte bolte ro dete ho 🥺
God bless you 🤗
I loved this dialogue - “ mera man krrha tha chor di , tumse puch ke chorungi kya “😂😂
meaning stealing ? i from telangana .. my hindi not that good
This dialogue means - ''I was willing to leave my job so I left it, should I ask u and leave it.."
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@@Nehii7 oh.. thank you for translating
@@divinebanana8400 👍
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This is so relatable. I'm happy you found your path, but many are still struggling. I'm going through something similar. Recently I left a high-paying job because I wasn't feeling satisfied. It was as if it was sucking the life out of me. I told my parents about it, obviously, they are not happy with my decision and then there's peer pressure, societal pressure, upper see I'm single and not married being 30. I just feel stuck, hopeless, lost and directionless. I can totally relate to your frustration.
Seriously I did the same thing
I don't know if you'll read it or not, if anyone will read it or not, but I really became overwhelmed with emotions after seeing this video. I have been following you since my drop year, when I was preparing for my NEET UG, and now I'm a medico, and my prof exams are near. You have always motivated me, but this video was really needed. I'm freaking out because of my exams and literally having mental breakdowns everyday, thinking what if I can't pass, what will people think? How will I face people? I have always been among Top students but now people will question my abilities. Even I was questioning myself, feeling dumb and inferior. I was feeling that everyone around me are superior than me, and I don't deserve to be here. I was feeling that I'm good at nothing, I'm so average at everything. But u made me remember, that how can I feel like this? I may not be a Genius, but I have worked so hard to come here. I not only secured a gov. seat but got into the Topmost medical college of my State, with a good rank. Then how can I feel that I'm not deserving? And why am I thinking what will others think? Nobody knows my struggle, except me, only I know how much efforts I'm putting everyday, to beat my clinical depression and anxiety. How many times I have put myself together, only I know..... Log toh judge karenge hi... Phir jab success milega, tab wohi log palat jayenge.... So, yeah you are right, I'll NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT OTHERS. Main jo bhi hoon, jaisi bhi hoon, I'm PROUD OF MYSELF ❤️
I'm now a neet dropper and following her
Wow congratulations buddy 🎉 you did it , and I am so proud of you, it's not easy to cope with so many things at a time. You deserve better! Just listen to yourself, you are already doing so great yaar. The point you have reached is all coz of your own hardwork and i salute you for being so calm and handling all the stree you got during this time ❤❤❤ you got this ♾️🎉😊
@@Maira_Jenlisa ❤️❤️ lots of love
Shreya ul make it through!!! All the best...may u get the best😎✌️💯
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Yeh 'bhaar mai jaye' attitude ne mujhe bacha liya hai khudke self cribbing habit se. Aur jo log intentionally apko hurt kare na jante huye bhi aap kis cheez se guzar rahe ho unke samne bilkul muhfat ban jao yaar. Bara maja aata hai yaar khudko protect karne mai toxic logo se. Apko hazaro thankyous send karti hu meditation ke time pe Neha ma'am 🙏❤️
Ajkal toxicity se fight karne ke liye toxic Banna padta hi hai. Kya kya sunne ko mil raha hai bas ek being a jobless ke wajah se ke pucho hi mat.
Bhai agar papa hi criticize krte hai toh kya kare?
I feel so motivated and good just by listening to you. The constant practice of people putting you down and not feeling enough everyday kills alot from inside. Everything youu say is so so true.
This is what is really "Love Yourself" ❤️
selfcompassion
It's so good to see that you are sharing things as it is without any cut or filter. Direct from your heart. Very few people do this. Keep it up . All the very best .
This lady has immense energy look at her aura radiating positivity in a very fun way not just those random aggressive motivational videos that leads us nowhere. This video has something different in it, from the past few days I was in a loop of questioning my ability if I could achieve the career I always have dreamt of, I was having this feeling of disappointment and this girl straight from this video captured my mind with her charming and fun aura. You got me BACK to myself, bless you infinitely my Girl❤
Aaj se me khud k liye jeena start kar rahi hu🥺🥺🥺kisi k liye to bilkul nahi kisi ko khush kar ne k liye bilkul nahi
Thank you Neha🥺🥺🥺
God bless you 🙌
Best video so far, we need to teach our kids how to be individual n not be accountable to anyone but themselves.
Parents wali thing is so so much true. When I started my neet prep my father Used to demoralise me a lot mainly bcz I dared to take this exam ...And for him to become a doc is Not a thing for Middle class thing. I was depressed to an extent when I Used to cry all day. But when I secured 1st position in class 11 among 60 students he started to trust my potential And now he is the biggest supporter, motivator , well wisher. But it was painful . peace
The line about parents is so true. I was preparing for UPSC but the setback in that has crushed me to soul.
Same :)
So relatable of my life....
Bhad m Jaye dunia mujhe dusro ko nhi khush karna ab khud ko khud karna h ❤
Aap jab bhi apne past ke baare me batate ho aapki aankhe bhar jaati hain aur aapko rote dekh kar mujhe bhi rona aa jata hai..aapko pata nahi hai kuch log aapse kitna jyada dil se jude hue hain.. life me failures hain, problems hain par ek aap hin ho jise dekh kar lagta hai ki sab thik ho jayega, mai bhi life me kuch acha kar lungi.. Thank you mujhme ye trust lane ke liye..Bhagwan aapko hamesha khush rakhe❤❤
What you are doing is a revolution....that has potential to change not just mindsets but the industry in itself. You are an inspiration!
I really appreciate you open up to something which we hide within ourselves...I am scared , and selfless hoke sabko allow kar deti hun to disrespect me and force me to do their things and they think my work is not important... But after seeing ur video I'm really feeling better and will change myself for me only...Bohot ho gaya help dusron ke liye..ab khud par zyada dhyaan dungi mein ...Jay Jagannath 🙏🏻
Clear mindset by Honesty is always the best virtue for self... consistency & persistence r key to success... Until success nobody understands our efforts... Inspirational for others...
This is the best video I've seen in years. Not even talking about the motivation or inspiration, but just the sheer passion. Seeing this I felt like I'm getting life advice from the elder sister I never had.❤ thank you. Needed it so much after spending so much time in my course.
Thank u making this video❤❤
You are a Gem ❤️
You speak from heart
More People should be like you
There aren't many youtubers who create content based on such topics. Even if they do, I personally can't relate to them because more than often they talk from books and research papers. But you, you talk from experience, something that every student can relate to. Your positive energy radiates through each of your video.
I don't know if many people have noticed but I did notice the change in your voice when you talk about things that had an impact on you, especially the ones which are extremely positive, and it happens in every video. This proves how genuine your talks are. I'm glad to have found you.
OMG!! never seen anything so pure, so real, can't thank you enough for this.. could connect totally.. All the answers are within you, you really don;t need thousands motivational self help book /shorts Thanks for teaching us in simple plain way, being so open & vulnerable. totally loved it. I will save it as a constant reminder...and ready to take my chances...life is a game...lets have fun.
All tears by the end of it. This is the real motivation for life. And it feels so amazing to see a girl coming out and saying all these things. Girl you are fireeeeee❤🔥❤🔥
I genuinely started tearing up because I am overwhelmed and relate with every single thing you said in the video. Thank you for the motivation ❤
Are you CA ..? You are relating!
Competitive exams aspirants ki har ek baat bol di apne, hamari problems ❤ Bohot sateek❤😊 soo relatable ✨👍
Aaj is motivation ki bht jarurat thi😊
You spoke to me directly in different ways... got tears .. after hearing the elder sister advice.. thank you❤.. it was needed.. because almost all our life we don't live for ourselves but to make others happy... thanks di❤ I'm a medical student but still I could relate..❤
De .. you have always contributed soo much in my life
What i feel is aaj I am mentally strong irrespective of outer circumstances
It's just because of you ...
Thankyou Dil se ❤❤
Hmesa khush rho aap apni life mein .... apne sbke liyeh bhaut kuch Kiya hai bhagwan apko bhaut sari khushiyan de
Love you de ❤
This is exactly my situation, thank you so much for posting this clip, life aise he nikal jaati dusro ko impress krne ke chakkar mein. Thanks for this beautiful reminder! Sher akela chalta hai!!!!
I am on a break currently after my UG for the NIFT exam. It was the hardest decision I ever made, and it's been 5 months at home. I felt so lonely. Everything was so dull, but I just wanna thankyou & I appreciate you a lot because I would not have stepped out of these four walls of my room ever if it weren't for your words I came across. Thankyou & just keep going. Sending love..!!
I related to being in a "shell" part the most. I have absolutely become someone I don't recognize anymore and I have lately started avoiding people, I avoid the noise and when I am by myself I feel maybe not so happy, but at least I feel at peace. Needed to hear this today! Thanks!
'Besharam ho jao' I liked that.... Bilkul sahi kaha apne. Hum Duniya ka theka thori le rakha hai..
Hum apne marzi ka malik ya malkin banna hai.
Dear Neha,
You words are really motivating...😊
Awesome! Especially, your mentioning of taking responsibility, it's a HUGE thing. Very few people are capable of living this way, most only wish they could be like that. Human, by nature, crave approval. It's a tough fight but worth a whole life. Living on your own terms despite any range of repercussion. Love and salute your frankness Neha di.
yaar yeh kitni sweet hai sachi kitna bold , confident and so happy yaar !!! thats itt aur kya chaiye zindagi mai !! its only been a few days since i have been following you di but trust me ...all your video show a different perspective of life and i cant imagine the things you have gone through to become the person you are ......hats off to you didi !
You are a good speaker because you are a pure soul. You speak from your heart without filters. So we all get connected with you.
Hlo mam i am ur biggest fan, though i am a science student but from my bottom of my heart u are my motivation.......😊
Mee too I can relate this
Me toooi❤
I also 😃😃
Me also
Me to
Your videos are so genuine and from the heart..... You are so real 💞💞💞💞💞 Thank you for whatever you are doing and sharing... Lot of people need this type of content....
I got placed in 4.5lpa CTC and I was not going home because I was ashamed of what I'll say to those who were expecting me to get a higher package. But now I'll not care about whatever they say. I'll go my home for my parents who don't care about my CTC.
Thank you didi
P.S. - I'm BE student
Wow congrats girl!!
Its very hard to even get a good job these days , u did very well!:))
Hey congratulations 👏👏🥳🥳 keep going girl ❤❤❤
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Congratulations Bharati🎉
A very genuine and Heart to heart conversation ❤
I get goosebumps 🥺 thank you mam literally no one talks like you on entire yt
I'm completely agree.. You completely fit the quote
"A satisfactory life is better than successful life because our success is decided by society but our satisfaction is decided by our own heart and soul"
Few years back when I started my civil service preparation everyone except my parents said that you should not do it's not your cup of tea.. I tried my best i cleared prelims but not mains.. But im happy with my decision because I believe that even if you failed by own decision is better than giving your life key to some one else. I was passionate about my preparation I enjoy it.. Khte h manzil se jyda raste khubsurat hote h. Although mera nhi hua aur is bar last attempt h but mene mere passion ko follow krte hue job ko chhod kr upsc students ko pdhna shru kiya and unme se kai ka clear hua.. So overall I enjoy journey.. And very satisfaction and this satisfaction is much better than so called success
Wow 🙏🏻🙏🏻 very true!
That's most important advice you given✨it's reality no one talks about....if anyone want to do something different from others want to listen to their heart then no one else's opinion matters ✨
Madam, you are great.
You have the guts to express yourself truely.
Lot's and lots of respect to you.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Whatever it is people ask anything knowingly or unknowingly that really hurt us . I was in tears when you said how you felt facing everyone .. I could totally relate to you .I know im not living my life to the fullest by thinking what will they think of me .i stopped thinking about everyone and im practising mindfulness and setting boundaries 😢❤
Thank you so much for making such raw and heartfelt videos.. I cried watching this.. I am not a CA aspirant but I relate to your experiences. ❤
Banking Aspirant ahes ka ?
@@chandanshekhawat5215 good
Government job aspirant hote adhi.. banking exams madhe pan mains clear kelet pan selection navta nashibat .. now I'm working in Equity research and I'm happy.
@@aishwaryarengade7666 great .. sometimes thing you love doesn't love you back and may be thats not what the universe wanted for you. Bdw kutun ahes? Mumbai?
@@vikrant_bhise I am from Pune, and you?
I am not an emotional person at all but this video made me cry. I have never ever felt so relatable to a person this much before. She just gave a life changing advice and I don't know how many people realize that. I always feared disappointing people and proving them wrong. Even if I wanted to do something it was to prove myself to them. I always did it for others not me. And this girl just change my whole perspective on so many things. I thank you so much!!! And to anyone who is reading this I hope you get all you want in your life and have an amazing day :)
I am literally applauding and smiling throughout!! This is so real and hitting, So true, so raw! Thanks for sharing these experiences and insights. You are truly an inspiration. You are like a friend, elder sister who knows what we actually go through and how to overcome that. Kudos for being so strong and Congratulations for these achievements. So happy for you. 👍
This is the first time I'm taking a step and commenting on a YT channel. But this one deserves it..
I am going through a rough phase right now and I have started watching your videos recently. Trust me it feels connected. The thoughts that you share, how you are living your life and how everybody should. I admire you for listening to ur own self. Even I was like that but from few months I have started covering myself, hiding myself, that too because of people here who notices all my actions, comments on me at my back if I'm doing something for myself and I don't like it at all. I tried many a times t not give a sh*t to such people and yet it keeps affecting me in some days only. I feel like I have not done anything bad to anyone then why are such people targeting me, I feel like answering them back bluntly. But I don't because that is not how I want to react, I want to keep working on myself only.... This just came from heart just like u! N This video has left an impression in mind, love your content!! Thank you :)
I felt so touched...today..thankyou so much dear ma'am ❤❤❤
i wanted to give you a hug the moment your voice filled with tears. I know how it feels, gone through it and still going through this. BUT a lot has changed and in a healthy way. i can write a whole essay about my feelings not gonna do that in the comments. Just wanted to thank you for your words and your presence, i joined your channel recently but u know sometimes you feel like you relate with some people very quickly that is the connection i feel between us humans. Thank you so much for every word you said and i hope you find your _______. (You can fill it, because you know)
dii I really needed this !! i am a neet aspirant and this is my drop year and sick of telling people lies.. you really dont understand how much this video affected me and boosted my confidence in just 15 min!!!! 🥺thanks a lot🙏
The best video in the TH-cam I have ever seen ,this video helped me to find my self yrrr❤ ab bs apna carrier bnana h success hona h bhad me jayee duniya dari n all
i am watching your videos from a long time but today after watching this video, i really felt the the need to post this comment. i just want to say that i'm grateful to have you here, it just feels so good to listen to you and your advices really helped me facing and overcoming the issues of my life. these issues might not be that big but yes they help you become stronger and stronger day by day and gets it even more amazing when you have someone like CA Neha Dutta to give you comforting real-life tips.
that's called a real motivation. I extremely agree with you neha. Great thoughts. keep it up🎉
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omg absolutely wow!! i neeededd this today and suddenly your video popped up on my fyp !!!!! thank you so much !!!!!
I relate so much with what you said Neha ma’am………I started listening to to myself since 2022 and I take responsibility for for whatever good or bad goes on in my life🎉
currently going through toughest phase of my personal life and found this channel and it makes wonders for me. you are literally acting as my elder sister which i don't have in real life. Love you Di
I don’t have words to explain how I felt listening to this video, I went through the same journey and felt like I am the only one going through it, I was living in Europe, I resigned my high paying job due to no satisfaction and came back to India. This message gives me so much peace and affirms that I am going in the right way. Thank you Neha ❤
This was the 1st vdo I saw on ur channel n saw u for the 1st time n can't tell u how u just left me speechless!!!! OMG!!! Di, u r so inspiring! Really!!! These 15 mins were worth it, i swear if any other vdo on utube'd've these many ads, I'd've surely 👎👎👎 it... But u changed my life!!!! Tysm!! E1 I cried when u got emotional 😭😭
Lots of love ❤❤❤
5:26 sending you a warm hug ❤
I can totally relate with you right now, because since last two years, I am also stuck in same place only because I’m trying something which is very unconventional out of the norms. And yes, this society, so called society is pestering my parents to marry me off. Sometimes I feel I’m running out of time and it’s very suffocating at times.
Than i opted for GET LOST attitude. 😎
Once you are sure that whatever you’re doing, the outcome is what you genuinely want and what genuinely will make you happy, fir BHAD ME JANE DO SABKO ❤life will be much sorted and happiness quotient will increase tremendously.
Get lost attitude.... maine ye baat likh kr apne study table k saamne stick kr di😂😂
Genuinely you are an amazing person with full of enthusiasm and positivity.
Aapka past avi mera present h😢...Bhut relate kar paati huu mai...Acche acche motivational speaker wo nhi de paate mere ko Jo aapki video se mil jaata h❤
Thank you...
you are peaceful and divine soul...
😊😊
Deedar ki tamanna ho gallib to nazare gadaye rakhana kyuki dupatta ho ya takdir sarakati jaroor hai,,,,,, don't panic hard work and keep kalm, love you,,,,,
You know what, it's not you who made this video but divine made you do it for me. I'm preparing for four years for competitive exams. This year I got AIR 291 in gate exam and I got selected in IIT Madras for PhD in physics. For a very low confident girl, and after so much hard work, it was a huge opportunity for me. But i dropped it because I was not feeling good about joining for PhD. I want to become scientific officer at BARC. This year as well I went upto the interview round (but i haven't told my friends about it because it was a huge achievement and I was scared that they will get jealous). So to give it one more chance (so I'm preparing for BARC exam is also I do not want to tell anyone because they will be like ki ye gadhi ladki scientific officer banne k sapne dekh rhi h, hum to isse itne intelligent h hamse to written exam bhi qualify nhi hua) I decided to drop PhD. Tomorrow is my birthday as I was very very anxious since the evening that everyone will call me now and will ask thousands of questions about it. I was so worried that I was planning to switch off my phone or talk on the phone like I'm sick so the conversation will end in few minutes. But then I started thinking that why to think about the future which I haven't seen yet. So I started chanting "I'm grateful that the divine is leading my path of life". I was outside the house while doing this. As I reached home and your video popped up. And it's exactly what I needed to know. Thank you , thank you so much. You made my birthday. Now I'm just going to enjoy my birthday and won't give a f**k to anyone. ❤❤❤❤❤
Also I am learning a lot from you and your videos are helping me a lot in my journey. Thank you thank you thank you.❤
Wishing you a very happy birthday in advance cutie pie 🥰🎉🎉🎉🎉you are so much real 🎉🎉God bless you always
Wishing you a very happy birthday dear 🎉🎂🎈, and godspeed to you 👍
Happiest Birthday di in advance 🥳🎉..you will definitely become BARC officer💯
I Respect your hard work, and you will do very well. More power to you 💪
And Happy birthday in Advance! ✌️🏻
Happy Birthday dear❤❤❤god bless you 🥳🥳
Love u di, I am also in this situation of handling 1 more attempt , but yeah I know what other's thinking about me and what I am thinking about me. Really the best gift we can give ourself enjoy your life by taking your responsibility in your hands(bhaad mein jaye all stuffs.)😊
after a long time finally met an energy that is resonating to me .......and a lot of burden reduces when u came to know that there are still people who are doing what they love .......already started preparing and hustling to become a teacher as it is my dream , and not going in those f***king bullshit blind races to beacome a software developer for somebody else (friends, society or relatives) who is not to give a shit in my upcoming beautiful life.
There's no video of yours that would leave me without tears in my eyes.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@harshavardhan-nx9vg aww, my brother 💖
I wanted to know your perspective on talking to some relatives like maasi whom our moms are very close with. She and her family don't compare me generally nor do they say anything bad to me for my attempts. She only sometimes complains that I never talk/check up on her even when I'm not studying which makes me anxious.
@@Vidu_03 my perspective?
Thanks you didi❤😊better than any motivational video
Fully agreed with everything you said, totally ignore everyone & do what is right for you & be happy first for yourself. The world will always criticize you no matter what you do, where you are, so do the thing that you like, not what the world think is right for you.
Don't give a damn f**k about what anyone else is thinking about us, we are here for our own journey in our own way.
Thanks for putting all the things in the video so nicely, I get an inspiration from you, so keep inspiring many like me & ignore the shitty stuffs from your life. 🎊❤️
Atleast you were in CA so people usually completes in 6, 7, 8 or even 10 years.
But I completed my engineering in 10years. I know the struggle and kind of pressure we get from our surroundings. Later got job as well and now working in MNC on my Core field from 7 years. Life is all about surprises. Never give up and be optimistic.
Kudos to you for following your heart that you decided to move from CA job even after working so hard for the degree. I have seen that average students generally achieve more in the real life.
Har koi apne liye koi na koi rasta bana hi leta hai
Bro ❤ true motivation
Very motivating words ...👍
bro failed in 12th and then failed all subjects in1 and 2 sem now droped and join a degree rom open
Tbh I will say for the first time I find comments so genuine and motivation packed..❤
I got so emotional while listening to you..i got my courage back ..need girls like you..❤
I do believe in God's plan for me even when nobody sees it happening. Even when nobody believes in me, I will believe in myself because God has taught me to do so. There are some doubts and fears but I will make it amidst all those uncertainties. Thankyou Neha❤. It feels like you understand us just the way we need to be understood.
Hello Neha. Really proud of you. Being a CA it’s really difficult to take such a bold decision as society has a mindset that if you have done CA then there is only either job or practice option. I am also CA and I also gave myself 6-7 months break but there was so much societal pressure. Well kudos to you for your bold steps🎉❤
I can relate to the emotions you conveyed in your explanation, as I've experienced similar feelings in my own life. It feels good when someone else understands these experiences and can articulate them to others. Your video is truly remarkable, and I hope you continue to create content like this to express the emotions of those facing challenging situations in life.
Absolutely right suggestion presently after a long time ...with a real heart....nd reak life experience....❤❤❤❤❤love u maam❤
You are the first motivational speaker I like listening and I can say without doubt, I won't be needing anyone else. Your few videos have made me more dheet than anything in my life ever did. You don't even know how much you've helped me. Thanks Neha di, you are the hero I needed at this point of my life.
I can totally resonate with this video. Nowadays work from home culture is common since the pandemic period, but, before that nobody was aware of such a phenomenon. I started working as a freelance writer for digital sports website back in 2015 and it was work-from-home since the beginning, only needed a laptop and a WiFi connection and I could do my work from anywhere. Tab jab koi family function mein jaata tha, mostly relatives and 'well-wishers' sab bolte the office jane wala aisa koi job kyun nehi dhund leta, jo karta hain isse kya milega! I have always been a people pleaser, so I used to go home and feel so low about myself, that intensified when I used to see majority of my friends and cousins already successful, based in foreign countries, earning really well and doing good in life. Sometimes I questioned ke kya sach mein good guys finish last?
Mujhe rona aa rha h 😢😢😢 ye dekh kr love you so much di ❤god bless you ❤
Loved this video. Love You. You motivate me. I am a CA Final student and left with 3 papers of group 2 and hopefully will be a CA in coming attempt. I have been in this journey since 10 years, married and still going. I have been through all the judgements and i can completely relate with you. People are counting my attempts. But not giving a f**k to them I manifest in this comment to do something extraordinary.
And ur name is also same😅...u r clearing in this attempt😊
Yrr bhagwan ne ye vedio mujhe dikhayi h seriously just right now someone told me or me akeli ghut ke y soch rahi thi ki yrrr jwab de ke thak gyi hu and suddenly ese hi TH-cam chlaya ek or upr niche scroll kiye and I found you just like my elder one 🥺🥺 I m so thankufull to you I love you Neha didi 😍❤️
I can't believe that you are saying all these things straight from your heart... I just feel like I am talking to you face to face ❤️
Hi Neha, I can absolutely connect with you when you talk about leaving a Job.
And yes, I also reached out to you when you left your job but the reason was to get the guidance because I was facing the same.
Whatever you said mam is the story of everyone student going through this phase and we need people like you to make them know their importance in their own life thank you keep motivating us like that ❤
i used to not give a damn to people but gradually with time when decided to work on myself i lost that thing i became sensitive and just because to connect with people and to make their life easy . I started invested in people and i started caring about people negetive opinion about me and i ruin my day today but some how i gave enough courge and tried to chill out and your video relised me again that old but good aspect in me now i am feelimg much better and can sleep better.
Didi I'm not a CA aspirant I'm preparing for medical exam but I can relate with ur every words,whenever I feel demotivated I watch ur video these are very beneficial to me thank u so much didi for sharing all ur practical experiences which helps a lot I'm sure not only me but also every aspirants. .
Plz keep sharing ur experiences and keep guiding us like this way
Lots of love to u didi ❤❤
I'm ur biggest fan ❤️✨
I can't express how hard i can relate to this. I'm pursuing computer science from last 4 years, but never had the courage to shift to UX design even though I hated CS and loved designing. But from the past two weeks I've left the anxiety and fear of not being able to please everyone. Even though I know this process will take time till I reach where I want to, but I'm like literally literally so so happy doing the things which I absolutely love. I was a depressed student who was stuck in the endless cycle of doing the things to please everyone. But infact that never happened and ultimately I used to curse myself. But now I know that what I'm doing is for myself and not anyone else. And this makes me immensely happy, I can literally feel myself growing.
One day, I'll come back here and update when I reach where I deserve to be.
Omggg; I'm a comp science student too and I don't hate cs but I love Design! And Its very difficult to stand for it because no one is doing it around me! I don't know! If I should just continue, make everyone happy, or take a stand , make everyone disappointed, maybe I don't even have the guts to do it ! I don't think I'm allowed to take the unconventional path! So I don't know !!
@@TheonlyKT1225 I thought I'm the only one... bt same here guys...
@@TheonlyKT1225 Do what you love bro. Afterall, even if you build your career by seeing and following others, you won't be happy ever. You won't be satisfied ever. You'll still switch at some point in your life to the thing that you absolutely love. So why not now? People around you will not support you for design until you're not good at it. They'll start supporting you the day they start seeing the results. And you've to be strong only until you start seeing some results. And trust me, even if you fail na, you'll won't be sad. You'll improve yourself and come back better.
So don't care about people and just do what you think is right. You're definitely allowed to take that unconventional path bro. Take you call. And do it!!
@@TheonlyKT1225who is going to stop you? And who is going to give happiness to you? You yourself right! Just think about this then you will get your answer.
What the need of such relations which takes you away from you happines?
Hey I am also a CSE graduate ❤
Keep up the good work....can relate to the feelings...... Always overwhelmed with everyone, every relative! But now I accept it is what it is.
1 beer down and motivation overloadeddd❤❤
I don't know how Universal Algorithm works but your videos land at the perfect time for what I need to listen ! 1000% relatable.
Just to add - Thomas Alva Edison failed for thousand times, people used to laugh at him, ask him questions what he is doing wasting time/money/efforts. But it was 1001st time he invented light bulb 💡
Your experience-sharing and advices are really like blessings for us 🙏😊 Thank you very much !
Literally one of the best videos I've seen in a while. This is was needed so very much. Literally don't give a sh*t what anyone else thinks, just live unconditionally happy. Thanks Neha for making my day with your so amazing super energy ⚡🔥
This video should literally have millions of views, Be happy always 😀
Waahhh dii chhhaaaa gyeee
......shi mei Dil pr lgi seedhaaa....❤❤❤❤❤
I truly love your tone. Becoming this strong and leaving to the fullest matters then making ourselves good in others eyes. And once we start doing what we love people start following us!
Thanks for stressing on the reality as to what actually matters in life.... this is the secret sauce of creating the living the life that u want... Thank u once again Neha for such a level of raw, pure practical and motivational video... Loved it!
It's time to change our mindset folks!
Really love you didi ❤
Har ek aspirant feel kr skta h apki kahi hui sari baatein...really needed this motivational video ..
Motivational ni ek bahot pyari video h aisa lga hmri badi behen hi hmko sb smjha ri h..
Thank you for being there ❤
Hey Neha...being a 30 year old female, jobless and unmarried...i have all these fears within me...and i could relate each and every word you said...i have the same thinking which you had earlier..and really glad to see ki you have changed yourself to this extent...i also want to change myself..but always get trapped in the negativity of answering people that what i am doing right now...mainly i have kept myself as a prisoner...within the four walls of my home..i don't even go to the roof or to the balcony...i wish and i pray..i too can change myself life this...and focus properly on my goal of getting a job this year
English toh achi hai, you'll easily get a job. Come out of victim mentality and start taking actions. 😊
I am in the exact same situation as you. Being trapped in my own house.... avoiding every person.... Self doubting constantly because being a girl of 31 years I am not married till now and I don't have any job!
I can feel every bit of your pain. I also want to get out of the fear, comfort zone and want to do something. I hope I can also fight back by being shameless.
More power to you girl❤
Try data analyst jobs, you can get within 4-6 months.
Take you're time didi apko jrur job mil jayegi tension na lo. Love from your small brother .
I wish that you would get our dream job. Best of luck 🤞
I love myself , I am best ,I am achieving all those things what I wanted in my life 💓 Thank you Allah I am great 👍 I am proud of myself ❤
Bilkul sahi baat khi neha mam apne we are all proud of u
Hi, myself Deepak. Mai ek science graduate hu and after that maine 2014 me CS(Company Secretary) karna start kiya. Now I am 31 year old and still 2 grp are left in cs professional. In between CS journey healtg issues ke karan mai 2016-17 me exam thk se nahi diya. In 2021 I lost my father. Now, sometimes I regret on my decision that why i choose CS over MCA. My friends earning 20-30 LPA and I am still fighting for survival.
Good times also come in life. Many more opportunities will come. Don't worry. May god bless you
Hiii Neha ... literally I got same feeling when I was watching this video..we literally spend our whole life thinking about other people in our life who were actually not there for us in our bad time when we were struggling.
I too got motivated by watching your videos n I was always thinking while preparing for my CA exams ki bhai aisa kuch Krna he life me...N as I m CA now I will surely follow u..
love you lots buddy❤
The moment you are crying, it needs a #hug from someone close, who understands you. ❤
The doubt (of parents regarding our achievement or performance)wala thing is so relatable. Not to blame anyone, because everyone sees thing from a different perspective. Just because they see it different doesn't mean they are wrong. Didi , please suggest how to deal with such situations??
Are you a ca aspirants