"Relationship business" ... what they forget to say is that all these relationships they're "pouring into" (ick) are ultimately for one purpose. Not because they actually care. Not because they want to be friendly and friends. Nope. It's because they want to recruit you. It isn't a relationship business. It's a "find a way to manipulate all my relationships and turn them into cash" business. It's a business that for certain will ensure you have no "relationships" because people will warn others that all you're about is Scentsy. It's called having a life. Do not make your MLM your identity. That's mental illness.
The best part of the whole training was when she talked about feeling discouraged because you're only making 5 cents an hour. That is the true reality of being in an MLM!
Thank you! My dad worked outside but my mother was actually a SAHM; but I literally do not remember who was there when I took my first steps. Or who was there when I read my first words. Or anything of the sort. I adore both of my parents (obviously it’s not all puppies and rainbows, particularly when I was a teenager or even now when I’m a grown adult) - you think if I did remember it I’d be holding a grudge against my dad? Because he was working outside the home? GTFO. This parent shaming also makes it crystal clear that these people are NOT feminists. Feminism, to me, is “opportunity and choice without judgement.” They judging the hell out of people - particularly women - and using it to shame them. It’s so gross.
For real. Lots of nurses work three days a week, you can work less if you choose. Let’s not act like it’s a deployment. This is a guilt trip marketing technique for their scammy candle business.
MLM people are so funny with the way they say a word salad phrase, and pause like they expect applause from other people on the call. I don't care how slowly they speak, or with what kind of emphasis, or how loud they yell, they're never saying anything profound.
To be fair, no one has a list of 100 people I’m sure. It’s just because they have random ass people on there like their kids daycare teachers or bus drivers 😂
Love your new set up! It's very calming to me! And you look super cute today! Love your hair like that and you are looking like you've lost weight! Please don't be offended by that. I've lost 75 lbs and kept it off for almost 5 years so if I see someone that looks like they've lost, I like to acknowledge the hard work that goes into that! Keep up the great videos! You do a wonderful job!
Having everybody’s data and holding it to market to without consent causes a lot of privacy and data consent issues here in the UK and Europe. Your are so right, they’re playing at being in business.
I love the lighting in your new set up. It really makes you stand out and accentuates your beauty! ☺️ I think Heidi and Orville did an excellent job structuring their MLM to be identical to their Mormon religion. In Mormonism the religion comes first ahead of every single thing, including family and your health. It makes sense that consultants would obsessively think about Scentsy 24/7 and “leaders” would shame their downline for not doing the same. Mormons are brainwashed into thinking about their religion 24/7 and feel shame for thinking about anything else. Heidi and Orville have excelled at creating the exact same structure thus perpetuating a cycle of shame based thinking for every single consultant being spoon fed this toxic narrative and “cult”ure. It must be exhausting being in a constant state of hyper vigilance due to this shame, it would even disrupt someone while they were sleeping. There would be no downtime for their poor brains. I feel bad for all those victims stuck in the cycle and feel disgust for the individuals who leech off of their naivety. These 3 scentsy cult leaders may sound sweet and kind but in reality they are con artists and abusers, in my opinion. While I think I have a good grasp of MLMs and cults, watching these videos makes me feel angry and kinda bitter. I wish it didn’t upset me so much. Serious kudos to every vlogger who is able to research and make these kind of videos. I don’t know how these folks are able to keep their cool. As soon as I start typing a response my emotions get the better of me and I feel like a raving lunatic.
Another question that would be good is How many people in the top rank have been with scentsy for less than 5 years? Less than 2 years? How mamy people have reached ssd who started within the past 5 years? What are your monthly expenses and what are you usually spending the most on? Im mot a mom but being upset about missing first steps comes off so selfish and self absorbed to me.
Working in childcare, years ago, I was told from a very experienced carer that we never saw a first anything. We would share cute stories and observations, but we wouldn’t say anything about a new word or new physical accomplishment. Let the parents have that magic moment.
28:07 what I don’t understand is how they demonize being in the medical field… and how they just quit to do something so unreliable. Going to college to get into the medical field and have a reliable job is something to be so proud of!
"Taking the emotion out of it" is a recipe for near term quitting. I listen to YT videos while i unload the dishwasher because its mindless and i dont want to so i give myself something enjoyable along with it. But at my JOB, i have to find something redeeming about the tasks i hate or that bore me because otherwise i will do a subpar job amd thats noticeable. In the MLM sphere this is where we see the copy/paste messages with [Insert customer name] still in the message.
Sam, your hair looks amazing! I don’t use IG that much but very excited for you and your new space - I love a redecoration! So here’s a perfect example of recruits being badly trained and these people NOT being leaders. I’ve watched this Hun before and I also remember - as you point out - that while 99% of what she says is awful, she actually does promote establishing business hours and turning it off. But then within 5-10 mins the second guest-speaker “leader” (c. 31 minutes) says she thinks about it 100 times a day. Proof-positive none of these people are leaders. Don’t absolutely contradict what first person said to her own team! And first person - WTF? Find a way to reiterate that this woman is not the role model and that you don’t NEED to do that to be successful (nothing she originally said will make you successful, we know that, but even in her own presentation she stresses that). If you’re a new recruit, congratulations: these people are telling you to do completely contradictory things. And then you blame the new recruits for “not being successful”. Leaders don’t allow this kind of confusing and contradictory messaging and certainly don’t engage in it. Again, there are zero leaders anywhere to be found here.
Love the new set-up & color scheme. Hair is fabulous. Ummm...I don't want to alarm you, but there's a creature with glowing eyes behind you...watching. 😸
a business that last that they have no control over whether it lasts or not because they are contracted employees and can be let go at any time lmfaoooooo kay kay kay got it. THEIR BUSINESS THEIR BUSINESS. Within the first TEN freaking SECONDSSSSSSSs. It's not your MF BUSINESSSS.
Looove the new setup! And you look amazing, girl!❤️ When you mentioned your vacation I couldn’t help but think to myself, I bet your vacations are longer than four days too!😄And YOU get to choose where you go and what you do when you’re on vacay!🏖️
Can they stop shaming parents to not work at home and be in a normal job, your child gonna be fine and healthy and not gonna turned into a delinquent over night (watch your children's frequentation and it's gonna be alright). My sis and I grew up healthy despite our parents working their a**es off and us being watch by our grandma. Out of context but i like the girl w/ the yellow top's nails (love the color, that deep purple). Your background 🤌
So who is watching their kids when they are on all these team calls and when their faces are glued to their phones messaging people? Bet those that have actual jobs are more involved in their kids lives than those in MLM's
I can’t tell you how much I hate these people acting like they care. When my gym opened almost 5 years ago people FR’ed me. I was newly on FB after a 12 year break. I don’t think I realized people did this to try to sell you stuff. The “It Works” girl got me. She acted so sincere. I thought it was nice I was getting to know people from the gym as it really is kind of like a family there. When I found out it was to sell me stuff I was mad. Just be honest with your intentions. I’d respect that a million times more.
56:10 If someone figured out that they were making 5 cents an hour......and the person above them is encouraging them to continue in the pyramid scheme....🚩🚩🚩🚩. That's LESS than prison wages.
38:44 - I hate how they say, “it’s a decision.” They really think it’s that simple… that it’s a decision to just scam people out of money and that everyone they interact with will say “yes” and buy from them and “invest” in the MLM. It’s just not true. It is not that simple to just make a decision. 😒
My Mom stayed home and did jack shit with me. I felt like a burden. How i *wished* for daycare when i was little!! I went one day a week for a while and loved it
That 150-200 times a day boggles my mind. We all need a mental break from our work day amd family deserves your attention more than any job. I'm a teacher, and I guarantee I dont think about my job that many times a day when I'm not there... but when I'm there I probably do make at least a hundred decisions because teenagers love to ask questions and test boundaries 😅 But seriously, give yourself breathing room!!
1:02:38-> she said « we did a challenge, no It was not a challenge, it was a mindset…, but this mindset thing…, challenged ppl.. » WTH make up your mind girl, the challenge that is not a challenge challenged ppl???
One of the people I go to college with tried to get me to buy a scentcy wax warmer when I was talking about getting a wax thing to wax unwanted hair :|
If you got back into Scentsy you could work from anywhere while you were on vacation. Oh and didn't forget all the residual income you could be making. 😉 Just joking of course! 😊
Don't try to sell me scentsy at Walmart because walmart is where I buy my wax melts lmao.
For Gods sake can Chloe get some decent lighting with ALLLLL that money she’s making?! It looks like she’s making a hostage/ransom video in a bunker 😂
😂😂😂😂
"Relationship business" ... what they forget to say is that all these relationships they're "pouring into" (ick) are ultimately for one purpose. Not because they actually care. Not because they want to be friendly and friends. Nope. It's because they want to recruit you. It isn't a relationship business. It's a "find a way to manipulate all my relationships and turn them into cash" business. It's a business that for certain will ensure you have no "relationships" because people will warn others that all you're about is Scentsy. It's called having a life. Do not make your MLM your identity. That's mental illness.
The best part of the whole training was when she talked about feeling discouraged because you're only making 5 cents an hour. That is the true reality of being in an MLM!
Thank you! My dad worked outside but my mother was actually a SAHM; but I literally do not remember who was there when I took my first steps. Or who was there when I read my first words. Or anything of the sort. I adore both of my parents (obviously it’s not all puppies and rainbows, particularly when I was a teenager or even now when I’m a grown adult) - you think if I did remember it I’d be holding a grudge against my dad? Because he was working outside the home? GTFO.
This parent shaming also makes it crystal clear that these people are NOT feminists. Feminism, to me, is “opportunity and choice without judgement.” They judging the hell out of people - particularly women - and using it to shame them. It’s so gross.
For real. Lots of nurses work three days a week, you can work less if you choose. Let’s not act like it’s a deployment. This is a guilt trip marketing technique for their scammy candle business.
MLM people are so funny with the way they say a word salad phrase, and pause like they expect applause from other people on the call. I don't care how slowly they speak, or with what kind of emphasis, or how loud they yell, they're never saying anything profound.
To be fair, no one has a list of 100 people I’m sure. It’s just because they have random ass people on there like their kids daycare teachers or bus drivers 😂
As a former teacher we were given more and more and then had don't forget self care shoved down our throats. It is so condescending.
Sam! I absolutely love the new setup; it fits your channel aesthetic so well! And I hope you enjoyed your vacation! Thank you for another upload!
Thank YOU! 🩵
Love it too!!
Love your new set up! It's very calming to me! And you look super cute today! Love your hair like that and you are looking like you've lost weight! Please don't be offended by that. I've lost 75 lbs and kept it off for almost 5 years so if I see someone that looks like they've lost, I like to acknowledge the hard work that goes into that! Keep up the great videos! You do a wonderful job!
Thank you so much for noticing! 🩵
Having everybody’s data and holding it to market to without consent causes a lot of privacy and data consent issues here in the UK and Europe. Your are so right, they’re playing at being in business.
I love the lighting in your new set up. It really makes you stand out and accentuates your beauty! ☺️
I think Heidi and Orville did an excellent job structuring their MLM to be identical to their Mormon religion. In Mormonism the religion comes first ahead of every single thing, including family and your health. It makes sense that consultants would obsessively think about Scentsy 24/7 and “leaders” would shame their downline for not doing the same. Mormons are brainwashed into thinking about their religion 24/7 and feel shame for thinking about anything else. Heidi and Orville have excelled at creating the exact same structure thus perpetuating a cycle of shame based thinking for every single consultant being spoon fed this toxic narrative and “cult”ure. It must be exhausting being in a constant state of hyper vigilance due to this shame, it would even disrupt someone while they were sleeping. There would be no downtime for their poor brains. I feel bad for all those victims stuck in the cycle and feel disgust for the individuals who leech off of their naivety. These 3 scentsy cult leaders may sound sweet and kind but in reality they are con artists and abusers, in my opinion.
While I think I have a good grasp of MLMs and cults, watching these videos makes me feel angry and kinda bitter. I wish it didn’t upset me so much. Serious kudos to every vlogger who is able to research and make these kind of videos. I don’t know how these folks are able to keep their cool. As soon as I start typing a response my emotions get the better of me and I feel like a raving lunatic.
Another question that would be good is How many people in the top rank have been with scentsy for less than 5 years? Less than 2 years? How mamy people have reached ssd who started within the past 5 years? What are your monthly expenses and what are you usually spending the most on?
Im mot a mom but being upset about missing first steps comes off so selfish and self absorbed to me.
I remember when scentsy started..... It was started as a side hustle by a young lady on my street. She later sold it.
Working in childcare, years ago, I was told from a very experienced carer that we never saw a first anything. We would share cute stories and observations, but we wouldn’t say anything about a new word or new physical accomplishment. Let the parents have that magic moment.
This is how it should be
I love when you talk about these Scentsy high up also-I love your glasses and your hair looks so cute!
Thank you so much!
28:07 what I don’t understand is how they demonize being in the medical field… and how they just quit to do something so unreliable. Going to college to get into the medical field and have a reliable job is something to be so proud of!
A lot of nurses go in to the field for the money. They will leave just as quickly to follow that money somewhere else.
"Taking the emotion out of it" is a recipe for near term quitting. I listen to YT videos while i unload the dishwasher because its mindless and i dont want to so i give myself something enjoyable along with it. But at my JOB, i have to find something redeeming about the tasks i hate or that bore me because otherwise i will do a subpar job amd thats noticeable. In the MLM sphere this is where we see the copy/paste messages with [Insert customer name] still in the message.
Sam, your hair looks amazing! I don’t use IG that much but very excited for you and your new space - I love a redecoration!
So here’s a perfect example of recruits being badly trained and these people NOT being leaders. I’ve watched this Hun before and I also remember - as you point out - that while 99% of what she says is awful, she actually does promote establishing business hours and turning it off.
But then within 5-10 mins the second guest-speaker “leader” (c. 31 minutes) says she thinks about it 100 times a day. Proof-positive none of these people are leaders. Don’t absolutely contradict what first person said to her own team! And first person - WTF? Find a way to reiterate that this woman is not the role model and that you don’t NEED to do that to be successful (nothing she originally said will make you successful, we know that, but even in her own presentation she stresses that).
If you’re a new recruit, congratulations: these people are telling you to do completely contradictory things. And then you blame the new recruits for “not being successful”.
Leaders don’t allow this kind of confusing and contradictory messaging and certainly don’t engage in it. Again, there are zero leaders anywhere to be found here.
At any given day Scentry could shut down and drop all their distributors with no notice🤞
Also, this background is a MASSIVE vibe😍
And sending so much love to your friend!!
Love the new set-up & color scheme. Hair is fabulous. Ummm...I don't want to alarm you, but there's a creature with glowing eyes behind you...watching. 😸
🤣🤣
And thats why we dont use Avon products girls 😂😂
Welcome back! Hope you & fam are enjoying your new digs! What kind of vacation did you take?
Thank you!! It was a trip back home to see some friends 😁
a business that last that they have no control over whether it lasts or not because they are contracted employees and can be let go at any time lmfaoooooo kay kay kay got it. THEIR BUSINESS THEIR BUSINESS. Within the first TEN freaking SECONDSSSSSSSs. It's not your MF BUSINESSSS.
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I’m so glad her husband isn’t in this 🤣 idk if I could handle a whole video of her interrupting him again hahaha!
Hahaha!!
Looove the new setup! And you look amazing, girl!❤️ When you mentioned your vacation I couldn’t help but think to myself, I bet your vacations are longer than four days too!😄And YOU get to choose where you go and what you do when you’re on vacay!🏖️
Can they stop shaming parents to not work at home and be in a normal job, your child gonna be fine and healthy and not gonna turned into a delinquent over night (watch your children's frequentation and it's gonna be alright). My sis and I grew up healthy despite our parents working their a**es off and us being watch by our grandma.
Out of context but i like the girl w/ the yellow top's nails (love the color, that deep purple). Your background 🤌
The background looks so cool! It looks like a green screen or back drop!
So who is watching their kids when they are on all these team calls and when their faces are glued to their phones messaging people? Bet those that have actual jobs are more involved in their kids lives than those in MLM's
Glad to see you! Love the new set up! Whatever you are doing is working, because you look super fresh and put together!
Critical thinking tells me to say NO NO I GOTTA GO then run from them 💯 percent correct
You look amazing!!! Love the new setup
I can’t tell you how much I hate these people acting like they care. When my gym opened almost 5 years ago people FR’ed me. I was newly on FB after a 12 year break. I don’t think I realized people did this to try to sell you stuff. The “It Works” girl got me. She acted so sincere. I thought it was nice I was getting to know people from the gym as it really is kind of like a family there. When I found out it was to sell me stuff I was mad. Just be honest with your intentions. I’d respect that a million times more.
56:10 If someone figured out that they were making 5 cents an hour......and the person above them is encouraging them to continue in the pyramid scheme....🚩🚩🚩🚩. That's LESS than prison wages.
THIS!!
You spoke pure FACTS
How does one capture a vision? With a 🪤 or a butterfly net?
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38:44 - I hate how they say, “it’s a decision.” They really think it’s that simple… that it’s a decision to just scam people out of money and that everyone they interact with will say “yes” and buy from them and “invest” in the MLM. It’s just not true. It is not that simple to just make a decision. 😒
From where do these people learn leadership skills? Do they even know what that entails???
My Mom stayed home and did jack shit with me. I felt like a burden. How i *wished* for daycare when i was little!! I went one day a week for a while and loved it
Sharp looking set up!
That 150-200 times a day boggles my mind. We all need a mental break from our work day amd family deserves your attention more than any job. I'm a teacher, and I guarantee I dont think about my job that many times a day when I'm not there... but when I'm there I probably do make at least a hundred decisions because teenagers love to ask questions and test boundaries 😅
But seriously, give yourself breathing room!!
I'm sure I don't think about the job that many time while on the job.
TFS your time and hardwork ❤
That stool kind of looks like another triadic architectural structure...
Dee Cee made a video, a zoom call reaction where the yellow shirt lady just go nuts with her kid.
Thank you for sharing your friend’s insta!
1:02:38-> she said « we did a challenge, no It was not a challenge, it was a mindset…, but this mindset thing…, challenged ppl.. »
WTH make up your mind girl, the challenge that is not a challenge challenged ppl???
whats happening with Avon? will you do a video? x
One of the people I go to college with tried to get me to buy a scentcy wax warmer when I was talking about getting a wax thing to wax unwanted hair :|
Highlarius 😅😅lipsstick😂😂❤❤
I've been wondering where you've been
I’m here!! 😁😁
That hair! ❤🔥
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Your hair is working 🎉
Thank you! 🩵
Because her lipstick...
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1:12:22 🥹🥹🥹🫶🫶🫶
1:13:34 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I could NOT stop laughing at this one
@@TheSamDee That was a good one😆
If you got back into Scentsy you could work from anywhere while you were on vacation. Oh and didn't forget all the residual income you could be making. 😉 Just joking of course! 😊
Sam, you're looking great! Are you doing something different?