Like toddlers, it's all about being happy in the moment, who cares if it hurts others
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Hearing women complain about no men being available reminds me of when I was a kid and complained that there was no food in the house. There was always food, perfectly good, nutritious food at that. My spoiled ten-year-old self just didn’t want what was there. I wanted the junk food, the fun stuff. They have the same childish, entitled mentality.
I agree. Childhood were fun years. Now in my 20s I take care of myself: wealth, health, family. I am a 22 single man, because I avoid drama. I am a guy, who loves inner-peace. I enyoing solitude, while I can.
That's a good analogy.
... im 30 and i occasionally dont have the food im looking for and feel that way. lol. granted, im also not doing it all the time.
@@jaygordon4053 Bananas are healthy though. Is there a new science they aren’t?
That's a great way to put the way a lot of people think nowadays
*"Some woman is mad at you right now because you chose peace over drama and distance over disrespect." ~ Stoic God*
A wise man isn’t controlled by his desires to be with a wmn but his desires for happiness and joy aside from them. ~Me
She is, MOST certainly, not mad enough.
The RP awareness have my sense tingling whenever a girl walks n talks to me. My senses automatically vets for redflags immediately, tolerance level for any bs becomes low and finds away to discard the trash.
A discontented woman views peace and harmony the same way Godzilla views Tokyo. Gotta smash that shit to pieces.
Amen.
Old Proverb: Marriage is like a city under siege; everyone on the outside wants in and everyone on the inside wants out.
Remove this or I'll report you
Good one,put that on a shirt
Underrated
the proof to this comment is how most married men tell their single friends to NEVER get married.
Yeah I’m going to focus on my career And Buy a house with some buddies game out and chill
I always feel like an outsider when I see comments like this because marriage has brought such greatness and meaning to my life. Maybe marriage is just one small part of the bigger picture which is starting a family. Raising children with my wife has been the highlight of my existence.
90% of women's dating profiles are about what they want, never about what they offer. And no, good looks don't count.
should be 100% 😂
99.9%.
And sex doesn't count, either. Like okay, sex and being hot is all she has to offer??? Okay, not good enough. That does me no good.
Everyone talks about their rights, no one talks about responsibilities.
I only disagree with one word. "Everyone"
Mr Knarf: because feminism calls that MALE OPPRESSION.
Been saying it over 30 years... nobody listening.
Well said!!!!
Right! Exactly!
I'm a 54 year old heterosexual man who has never cheated on anyone. It's a choice, and a sign of character. I've had one or two women cheat on me. They have all apologized and wanted to continue the relationship. It drives them crazy when I forgive them.... and move on. They literally cannot understand a man who won't settle for a cheater.
I see what you're saying. My ex cheated and still had an attitude that I still belong to her after we broke up. Chicks are delusional.
@@checkmateforever You tell her that you can ALWAYS find better than her (God made too many women for that to be impossible!) and, therefore, she's replaceable!
@dougmanxx Not settling a.k.a. selling yourself short means you have self-respect!
How can some people be that crazy that's the only thing you can do you seem polite you let them down nice but if they want quality they should have at lest simple basic standard leave them to find their equal there so many immoral people they should be fine finding their kind.
I had an ex who thought there was nothing to get angry about because she cheated because no one could own anyone else so she could do as she pleased. I thought it was good idea and threw her out because I also had to do as I want according to her way of looking at it, but damn how angry she got but that's not my problem.
Ah yes, a 46 year old woman looking for "the one", the perfect person to give advice.
You forgot to mention 46, looking like a 56 out of shape who thinks she is a prize . WAM BAM ! perfect life instructor advice to guide yourself by
@@martinberthiaume4971 I didnt forget, i just wanted to be concise. The factors you mention are what contributes to her still being alone, looking for "the one".
@@Likexner can you imagine being cheated on by that?? I mean seriously, time to retire if that's the case
🤣🤣 she’s definitely hit the wall and there’s no coming back from that 😎 and I don’t even truster
The Wall, Father Time and Mother Nature don't do discounts. They cannot be bargained or bartered with.
The way my life was torn apart when my parents cheated on eachother has made me truly hate people who cheat on their partners. This woman who relishes in adultery with no guilt is pure evil, I hope this woman never finds happiness.
Trust me she never will
"I've cheated on every bf I've ever had, and I don't regret it" Skank-O-Meter is lit.
You can see it from space!
She sounds pretty used up
You know those women that say: "I don't regret anything"? That's a huge red flag.
And from a fat tub O' shit no less.
I've been cheated on by every gf I've ever had with exception to one (that I know of). VeryMad-O-Meter is lit.
The fastest way to tell if a woman is actually interested in you is to tell her NO
Wise words bro 💯
The "no" doesn't have an underlying subtext of attracting them on my end; no means leave me the hell alone.
You can just ignore her. Turning them down makes them angry. No matter how politely you may do it. Just a "Sorry I'm not interested" will make many blow a gasket.
@@brettviddal1593 absolutely! It's all part of that love and hate dynamic. The more they dislike you the more luckily they're tripping over you. The worse thing a man can do is run after a woman that they're interested in. Stay away from the women who play into that. Those are the ones who want to control you once you're locked in. It's their dominance game. And they will dominate over you in a relationship if you played into it at the beginning during the chase. That never turns out well.
Truth
I remember taking the Stanford marshmallow experiment. I didn’t know it at the time, but, I was taken into a child psychologist when I was 6. I was left in a room with a cookie but told not to eat it and when she came back she would give me cookies. I waited in the room drawing a picture until she came back. She offered me cookies, but I didn’t accept any, nor did I eat the first cookie. She didn’t seem to understand why I wouldn’t eat the cookies. I hate peanut butter cookies...
Damn you screwed up the whole experiment.
I think peanut cookies have been declared "racist" since you did the experiment.
@@jbaggett2674 🤣🤣🤣oh man dude you made me laugh so hard😆
@@jbaggett2674 they're problematic
You represented back then the asexuals.
These "women" in their 30's with these grand epiphanies will still look directly at you and say all the good men are married or gay. They can't unlearn the arrogance their mothers taught them.
You’re better off dating a woman your age then a girl in her early 20s or late teens. I’m 22 I know girls that prey on older dude’s waste their time just to cheat on them. They say the younger the generation the more entitled you are and They are absolutely right these young girls aren’t any better. I speak in behalf of myself. Date yourself a grown woman that has lived life a little and you can actually have a real conversation with. Not some spoiled airhead with nothing else to bring to the table other than looks that will fade in 10 years anyways.
Ducklings follow mother duck...
@@Andrea-uj9eu At least they have looks at 48 women don't even have looks anymore
@@deadend1041 go to the woman for her looks only then but don’t be mad if she dates you only for your money. Live a superficial and unfulfilling life. Watch her leave you for someone else with better looks and more money than you have.
@@deadend1041 and what you think girls don’t pick a guys for their looks too? Guess what I’ll tell you from experience the only time I ever looked at an older man 45 + was because he looks like he took decent care of himself but even then I will not put myself in the emotional baggage of his weird teenage kids or his crazy ex-wife or his potential alcoholism or emotional baggage that older men always carry. Their fucked which honestly most older guys have a big slaw belly and they’re bald and ugly as fuck. And they think that they’re going to get an attractive girl? With nothing else to offer? Money is your best bet but what’s the point of getting in a relationship if she’s in it for your wallet and you’re in it for her looks. And that’s fine do you want to be superficial go for it. Your not the only man out there.
Joker: “everyone’s turning into children”
Me: taps like button
Lol. You just predicted my behavior.
Loving the thumbnail even before I watch the video!
Some of us haven’t turned into children
And yet later he buys into the myth that "women are becoming masculine and men are becoming feminine". No. It's both genders reverting to children.
Your stereotypical Mad Max villain with the stupid leather outfit, hypersexual name, and who gets what he wants with violence, is not "hyper-masculine" - that is a child in an adult's body. A masculine man is someone who is a stoic leader who takes care over those in his charge.
What women are turning into is the Mad Max villain.
Meanwhile 50 years and older will fight people if u look at them weird or say something they dont like
Really easily offended they just dont realize it
Literally just dumped my girlfriend right before watching this. She was taking a trip to Colorado and asked me for a Hall Pass. I decided it wasn't worth the hurt I've experienced before. She said she couldn't understand why it was over so suddenly and that she was crushed and ready to cry etc., etc... Somehow I found that hard to believe. Moving forward this time was easier... it almost feels like I'm somewhat cold, but I did it out of self preservation of sorts. I thought this kind of shit would be over in my 30s...
Good for you. They'll never learn if you don't enforce your boundaries. Get on my program, or it's back to the streets you go.
Good man, take her hall pass and tell her where to put it!
She’ll try to come crawling back. Block the sluits number and never look back.
Seriously, good for you. Don't put up with their bullshit. Maintain your own frame - you'll be happier in the long run. Your sadness now is mostly at yourself, for expecting something different. Don't expect something different from any woman. In fact, don't expect ANYTHING of them. Just use them and move on. You really will be happier in the long run if you take this approach.
She's gonna come squirming back into your life soon.
Don't let that temporary loneliness open the door.
Nobody seems to look at what sort of person they are anymore. Being unfaithful, undependable, a liar, dishonorable, etc. apparently are not "bad" traits these days.
Here’s the rationale I’ve received from women on that. Mostly in relation to acting childish, selfish, and unreliable. ‘Accept me for who I am!’ which to your point, not realizing these are bad qualities to possess OR ‘why are you trying to shame me?’ they never look in the mirror and take any personal accountability for their actions.
@@misterman4067 Nailed it. No personal accountability. They also think that just because its in the past that their past doesn't matter to us men. Its one thing not to live there in the past, another to repent and absolve from such, but sorry I'm not giving them a free pass on all the shitty and slutty choices they make.
It's so sad to see so many young people degrading themselves day by day and have zero clue about themselves. As a millennial, i'm so glad i didn't go down that path or at least, matured quickly. Being the right person first is the correct way to go about meeting someone who's equally as high standard. Be the right person instead of looking for the right person, because those people do not exist.
I don’t date miserable children. I date happy self-responsible adults. I’d rather be single than with an emotional infant. I enjoy solitude, and have no wish for drama and narcissism. I’m 50, happy, run a great business, a home by the ocean, fit and healthy. After a couple dates, I recently stopped dating a 2yo in a 40yo body, and after not responding to her endless whining, when she finally asked what’d make it work, I said “maturity and the capacity to consider someone other than yourself”. I didn’t hear from her again... Life is good
owned
You could say that to every female alive today and it would be fitting.
American society has been degenerating itself since the late 1960s. Now we have a generation of senior citizens without maturity and still behaving like they never left high school.
It's more obvious in the generation after mine. They complain a lot and have no respect for others.
Yep boomers are the worst.
@OldSchool i do i have one next door to me. Eating up the news like it was her last dinner. the feminist arrogance is strong in her. Just like ever other boomer i face. Massive arrogance and sense of entitlements.
@@gospelninja2.016 You must live in the north east US. Southern girls just got like that like only 20 yrs. ago till now. I was born in the early 60s and I believe in right and wrong. And don't mind other peoples business unless their treading on me.
And spanish society since 30 years ago.
I hear a woman in my building yelling at her son "Maverick" almost daily... She whines at him like a petulant child, and he completely ignores her, and the entire exchange makes me laugh and cringe at the same time. "Maveriiiiiiiiick. You have to get in the car Maveriiiiiiiiick. Don't pick that up Mavericiiiiiiiiiiick" Sheesh, name your kid "Maverick" and then expect him to obey?
lol
Your names maverick
Your mum must've hated you!!!
Line from TOP GUN
tom Cruise
@@jamesrobertson3853 I'm surprised I'm not named Maverick.
"I don't like you because every time you go up in the air you're UNSAFE! I don't like you because you're DANGEROUS."
"That's right! Iceeee-man... I am dangerous!"
Pretty cool name
If I get children I’ll name my sons Bismarck, Tirpitz and Fenrir
I had an ex who tried to ruin my life after I ended things with her. She tried to contact me last year, still entitled AF. Before I got out of relationships, I dated a woman who would be considered a unicorn. She was bubbly, fun. And just adored everything I did. And when the time came to end things, we both knew it was the right thing to do, because our lives were going in separate directions. She didn't try to manipulate me with a long distance relationship as she was stuck in her country because of the lockdown. She came back to give me a proper goodbye. She's the reason I stopped relationships, because to find someone like that again, I'd have to through a lot of entitled and manipulative women. She's the only ex, I wish someone good marries her. As for me, it felt like a great place to get off the relationship wagon. Not because I was hurt, but because the bar was set so high. So why not end it with great memories
That makes me sad, feel like this is going to be my situation too
Your basketball story reminds me of Michael Jordan. He tried out for basketball in 8th Grade. The coach told him he wasn't good enough to make the team. He went home and practiced all year. Made the team the next year...His attitude to excel overcame his lack of experience. Michael also has a brother, who was a U.S. Army Sargent sent to Iraq in the early 2000s. After his tour of two years was up his commander ordered him back to the States. Jordan's brother declined. He told his commander: "This is a deadly place. I know the ropes. I want to stay here and protect my men. I don't want to come home until they're home safely." He stayed on for a couple more tours to steer his men around the deadly IEDs. He became the oldest sergeant in the Army who served active combat duty. He loved his men more than his own life. Not many families have even one hero, but Jordan's parents raised two. A couple parents of modest means proved that loving your kids and raising them right is worth more than all the wealth in the world.
Damn, I didn't know about MJ's bro, but MJ did grow 6'' in height over one summer.
Great story. Thanks for sharing.
Most ppl don't care or unwilling to see ahead
Especially when it comes kids that is when things like that come into play. It is all about the moment and how and what makes them feel good right there and then.kids and girls use to have monopoly on thoso traits but now full grown men are giving them a run for their money. Rasing kids in this day and age if person don't wanne raise bums that are drain on everyone around them requires a certain mindset that society and the state seem to find a threat so much they go out of their way to enable and incentives anyone and anything that would disrupt and cause chaos to any set up that encourages responsibility and planting seeds today so person won't begging for a hand out's tomorrow. Makes me think where are all the decent smart working ppl of tommrow gone come from. If I wasn't invested in this thing by way of bringing kids into this world I would have gladly helped thoso that are so eager to see what happens when humanity presses the self destruct button in all aspects in search of temporary kicks. Fate does really have sense of humor.
These women are throwing themselves out for free, why would any man pay them full price?
Something something cow, something something milk, something something free.
Full price? How about, "Why pay at all?"
Shit, I'll go one better. Just borrow what the simp pays for, and then give it back when you're done using it. That's a double win. They deserve each other.
Why would you pay for any of them? What have they done to even remotely deserve your hard work and sacrifice? Nothing now, nothing ever.
Trezitul 2016: Because she's pulling the "Bernie Madoff" scam of selling the same thing to 100 different people.
Christian Swensen bonus points if you can profit off the simp.
Man the next 10-20 years are going to be rough as shit. Women are not prepared for this and I simply can not wait lol.
Much of it is like seeing them swinging a hammer and you just know they will collectively hit their own thumb, can't dare mansplain it, so sit back and watch.
@@cclentz 😂😂👍
almost nobody is prepared for the mountain of shit that is coming towards us........perhaps some crazy "prepeer" who has filled up his secret atomic shelter (in the most unaccesible mountain or desert region he can find) with enough suplies for the next decades...... The rest of us, is going to have a heck of a time.... You won`t have time to enjoy having been right, because you will be to busy surviving......
They’re doomed too. They just think they’re not
Going to be a lot of false allegations bringing prizes for one of the gendoids.
I'm 27 and I absolutely hate pretty much everybody who's my own age group. The level of the self-entitlement and ego is unbearable to me. I've pretty much realized at this point in my life that I'm probably going to grow old and die alone without kids. My last name will die with me because of this shit.
@@ColonelHoganStalag13 I've considered it. I've even dated a woman who was raised in Africa. But it just takes too much time and effort energy and money to deal with that kind of stuff. I was raised being told about the Disney book falling in love with a woman and living happily ever after and now in my adult years realizing that that's a total lie makes any form of serious relationship like that off-putting to me.
Watch young mans daily red pill, and coach red pill (he’s an economist), you can come out ahead.
👍 I support it. Having kids is selfish. Government wants new wage slaves, women want living toys. Then someone has to suffer and die, usually with agony involved.
Peace
I’m just a few years younger than you are and you’re right. This ego driven, nonaccountability, backwards logic Barbie’s are destroying any chances of a serious LTR, pair bonding, and being taken seriously altogether. They have no problems draining a man of his time, energy, resources, and peace of mind but when it comes to givin out the bare minimum that a man asks for they want to say that it’s impossible. Fellas the bachelor life is the best life. Don’t be fooled by beauty out here cuz looks fade along with their brain cells as they approach the wall 😎💯💯
Joshua Lomax i have actually sat down to have a conversation with my girl about her doing the bare minimum, and she told me to my face no.
Women in the modern age genuinely think they do not have to put any effort at all into a relationship. EVERYTHING is solely the mans responsibility.
The dating profiles are breathtakingly indicative of the culture nowadays. Unbelievable.
I constantly have people asking me why I don't want to date. I just tell them I'm not attracted to children.
Thats a good one... I had to think about it for a sec. But funny!
And I don't want to pay for everything..
I used to get that question a lot. My honest answer was, "Because I can't afford it." I got a lot of crickets from my response.
@@oceanhedonist265 Thanks Ocean, I am going to use that one, since it's true. I am poor, but not the bad boy type, therefore no women.
@@oceanhedonist265 I really can't.
Women's expectation for men
Six feet
Six figure income
Six abs
Six hundred hoursepower car
Six inch below the waist
Six months remove from the last relationship
Mens expectation for women
Can cook six dishes from scratch
Had less than six partners from the past
Women: Reeeeeeeee!
The level of entitlement in today women is enough to head away.
No hymen, no diamond.
I saw a woman giving those expectations on the Family Feud show. Steve Harvey laughed and said, you'll be alone for a long time
Scratch the last one, and write there can be chubby not a land whale, and will love me as much as I would love her, and Im sold
Must be a dress size six with no children.
@@SoliKiluta sorry lad impossible nowadays
A woman’s profile nowadays: „ I have a really hard time being loyal „
Man has this channel come a long way. Joker has gone from being average joe to ass kicking masculine man in the short time Ive watched this channel. Truly going your own way makes the better man. This channel is proof.
The life of solitude continues to look sweet and promising every day. No stress, peace and quiet, and nothing but happiness.
@Perverted Alchemist Sweet Sweet paradise.
"Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god."
Aristotle
Rather be a god, Aristotle since gods have complete dominions over their own domains.
In this day and age, peace and quiet is truly a luxury😞
@@Sevensliders Personally I wouldn’t mind being a wild beast, there isn’t much to think about but your own survival.
I love my solitude. The outside world is all drama and doom. I have peace, quiet, and freedom in my domain. A shelter in the storm of outside society.
Knew two chicks that cheated on every boyfriend they had, tens yrs later they had both divorced their husband's because they cheated on them, both were very bitter - you can't make this stuff up.
It only matters to a narcissist when it happens to themselves. Other people's feelings don't register as valid.
What goes around comes around.
Chasing the new guy high
It's absolute insanity
Should've warned those poor guys
At 43 this is what I can safely say about dam near 100% of the female daring profiles, regardless of their age. No matter how many words they use, all it says is *I have nothing to offer*
23:00 - BB is correct. Delayed gratification is the key to financial freedom. I've always lived a minimalist lifestyle, and avoided marriage and kids, so I was able to retire at age 36.
No matter how pretty they are....someone else got sick of their sh!t.
Always.
True
MkTexan he knows exactly how poorly she treated the last guy, only he thinks that was the way the guy treated the girl, as that is the narrative she feeds him.
@@JBS2018 Sometimes you have to learn that just to know the difference.
Excellent point to remember!
I just got rid of a gal for similar reasons a month ago. She was 61, and I’m 60. I never thought I would say “grow up” in reference to someone in this stage of life.
Go for younger ones, 30s or 40s
@@clutchcargo5259 he is 60.... that is not gonna fly
Unless he is a millionaire
@@mickethegoblin7167
I know a guy who's 57 and he's been with a chick in her early 30s for 2 years. He doesn't care if it lasts and I think that's what keeps her interested.
Look after yourself.
A 60 year old man can date women in their twenties if he's high value .
@@TheHiker24As long as you don't pedestalize them, act creepy by over- compensating with your wallet, no constant pssy begging or complimenting, they'll feel comfortable around you at any age.That shows self worth or value which transfers over to respect for you and whoever you're with.
"Everybody is turning into children" The consequence of children being raised by children (women).
Thanks mom and dad for telling me like it is. Casual sex comes with risks and consequences and my parents were kind enough to let me know that they would not fund my self destruction. Thank God they did because it saved me from peer pressure in high school and college.
You are a rare great example of what a woman should be!! Keep on being you!!!! I only have known one Young lady like that in my life. We met when we were 11 and 12. She was a very responsible kind outgoing caring young woman with good motherly instincts. We became super close in two short years. sadly she passed at 13 in a horrible car crash that coud have been all avoided with a small amount of common sense on her stupid parents part.
It's really sad on how women, especially young women are being encouraged to be reckless and careless by these people. Reality will hit these women hard once the physical attractiveness fades and it will be too late for them. Then, the cycle continues.
I wonder if this same BS is being taught to women in Israel also?
@@michaelbrinks8089
No. Degeneracy is only pushed onto gentile nations.
@@michaelbrinks8089 I used to watch a Jewish MRA who lived in Israel and he would talk about the feminism, skewed laws in favour of women etc there. So it wouldn't surprise me if it's something that goes on among the non-orthodox.
This guy makes every woman his ex wife and women at meat market dance clubs. All women to him are onlyfans daddy issue loser. Hes being disingenuous. He also puts mans value to woman to this " Alpha Male " stereotype.
Especially only fans
I'm beginning to think that the patriarchy actually protected women from their own bad decision making.
Wise men it always starts with wise men
What they call patriarchy did protect women.
Turd Flinging Monkey was right all along. We should take women’s rights away for their own safety
@Stink Butt bUt tHeY DonT haVE iPhoNeS
YESSSS. And it wasn't just the patriarchy, the matriarchy was fully on-board too because the older women knew what younger women are like. Donovan Sharpe is really big on this point. Society instituted the social codes to protect women from their own natural hypergamy.
This day and age must be amazing for anyone with zero integrity, morality, self respect and discipline. But for anyone who is actually a good person trying to live an honest life, it has to be a living nightmare with no hope of waking up!
I can honestly say trying to live my life considerate of everyone, Its exhausting. In constantly torn between my desire to wreak destruction and make it a better way.
Joker, everything you're saying is 100% true. Been a follower for a while. I've treated my wife with nothing but love and respect for as long as we've been together, more than 4 years, and now we're getting a divorce because she just stopped loving me. Just because I've watched so many of your videos I was almost anticipating it so I'm not as hurt as I could have been.
@taton384 bdr342 nah wasn't ever like that. You can say I'm in denial, but that's the truth of the matter. Just said she stopped loving me.
@@USMC517 In my experience when a woman ends a relationship she already has someone else lined up. Always...
You will be happier-about two years after divorce. First year is a little painful. Second year is spent trying to define what is your life. Third year is when it’s over and your like thank god it was over and never again. You get red pill lens after that
Late 40s , overweight, Single, wants attention, what could go wrong.
As a man ages finds woman of any age repulsive because of a vile attitude, being single is much better,
True, I'm in my 50s and the women in my age group are obnoxious and nasty. I can't even stomach the thought of getting down and dirty with them so I don't. Free Agent lifestyle for life.
@@glevando Stay strong and well. Great comment.
Also her resemblance to Danny deveto......ugh
@@glevando when you see women for what they are..walking away is easy.
@@2013jal 😆 😅
A man who lived alone and liked it will value his solititude more than anything. He will have low tolerance level for needless chaos, drama and neediness.
He’ll desire to have peace of mind along with peace in his environment as well 😌
I believe it was the actor Tom Hardy that said solitude was dangerous because after you get used to it, it can become quite addictive.
Amen to that. Living single and alone with my dog for a year now. First time in adult life and I ain't going back.
@@johndwalker069 it’s simply wonderful isn’t it? I love coming home to my best friend who loves unconditionally.
Some excellent advice given in this video for young men in their 20s like me. This video just blows all the others out of the water. Joker is absolutely correct about older men having an advantage over young men in the dating market, and opposite to older women who have horrible luck past their 20s. In the meantime, Ill continue to work on my education and accumulation of investments in the stock market.
The strongest people mentally and emotionally are those who get told "no" and they "cant". You push yourself harder until you achieve what you want.
WW2 GENERATION understood the concept of hard work & focus on building something. BOOMER generation were hippies or disco dancers just partying away. They rebelled against the ideals of the WW2 and earlier generations that built this country.
It’s been downhill ever since
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I want to be a housewife take care of kids and I'm 21😂 my family and friends say to just sleep around have fun, stay in school to become a boss but I don't want to💔💔 I want to be traditional and treat my future husband like a king😅 oh well, the testosterone studies are quite scary
Betting you aren't caucasian or African american. That's the only reason you carry that bit of logic!
Keep your dream alive, you will be one of the very few exceptions
Respect
Never change. You are winning!
You will be much happier than your friends!
I'm starting to try and come around to be intersted in younger women because of women like this, I've always been interested in more mature, emotionally stable, morally-sound women, and they are hard to find in the 35-55 age groups it seems, and I keep getting 'told' I should expand interest to younger ages, especially siince I want to be a father
21 though?! ehhhh...
WEIRD when I think about it even more because when I was 21 I was in a semi-serious relationship with a 41 year old woman who had 2 children (11, 13?)
Very mature guy at 21 comparatively though. I've always been extremely mature for my age
The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth
Or they can just burn the child?
@@cesarhernandez6861 they already did, the child is burning them back.
@@Hyper_Drud fair enough.
African proverb?
@@Space_Rebel yes I believe so
“If you do what is easy, your life will be hard. If you do what is hard, your life will be easy” - somebody
We humbly attempt things that are hard because at some odd "corner" we excel.
Sounds like Zen philosophy.
Hi 👋 I'm somebody.
@@satnav1980 i guess we all are somebody 😁
Thats bullshit .it can just as easy go the orther way round
Bulletproof. That's exactly the word. Im 61 and did exactly as he recommended in my 20s. I was a bodybuilder who worked and saved and stayed single. Now i have well over a million dollars in my 401k and I still look better at the beach than most guys half my age. Stay single and work on yourself because the piece of mind you get is priceless.
Time to get a Babe now!
😜
Apparently the actual main factor in the marshmallow experiment was whether the children trusted the adults in their life. If their parents were unreliable, they would take the marshmallow they can get now, because they have been disappointed before.
Yeah theres alot of variables to consider
No, the latest "marshmallow tests" indicate, somewhat surprisingly, that it's not the kids with the most will power who successfully defer gratification, as the original experimental result was interpreted. Rather, it is those who are best able to distract themselves from the temptation with other thoughts.
I just want weekend naps without being attacked over a missed text.
Right??🤷😎
Yeah doesn’t sound full of yourself at all
My ex wold ignore me half the day and as soon as I got busy or went to hang out with friends, she'd flip and get upset. Felt I had to always be on call hand and foot or she'd freak out
Lol.. Good luck with that.
Let her move in and that probably will not happen
I'm still trying to wrap my head around a parent who would think his kid is the best in the world than at the same time thinking that everybody should be equal.
Reliance on facts and objectivity makes you an "ist" or "ism." Probably both. You need to learn that it's all about lived experiences, and let go of logic.
@@ChristnThms What? Are you drunk or being ironic?
@@mohandasjung sorry if I used too many big words. I was paraphrasing (oops, did it again) critical theory. I think sarcasm is the appropriate descriptor, since it is not true.
@@mohandasjung do not engage. Wasting your time
@@ChristnThms I have no problem been a "ism" or a "ist", I mean, stoicism and cristianism are awesome.
You’re my favorite creator on YT. Thank you for all the work you put in to bring awareness. I never even realized how bad things are for men until I came across your videos. I talk about them with my brother and he’s like “yea I already know that.” I also talk to my boyfriend about them. I want to be part of the solution, not the problem.
I work in eyeglass retail. We explain to customers young, OLD, men, women, that your glasses will take 7 to 10 days. You would think we said 7 to 10 years. They all act like children. They want it NOW. It's getting worse, for EVERYONE.
A society in which people think with their emotions, rather than logic is doomed long term.
Emotions are fleeting and irrational. To base a society on something so ephemeral is like building a foundation on quicksand.
Anyone who makes emotions their master will never succeed in life.
Well put, as I've said myself, passion and desire will damn us all.
So that’s why the US can’t build infrastructure?
This is why we need more women in positions of power!
"You are special". No, you're not, and even being responsible and doing the right things, life hits as hard as it can
Thanks to your comment I just remembered Blade Runner 2049, because the message of the movie was "Not everyone is special, and thats okay".
@@Doomern The message I recieved from this movie was: "No woman can give you real self esteem. It's your actions and decisions, that make you special."
@@nocturnaljoe9543 both, both is good
Yeah your special... Short buss special...
The world of lies we live in.
Even the large bbw types are feeling entitled to any man they want
It's just BW since beauty is not about them, inner or outer.
It's calming to listen to a man that exudes wisdom and maturity. Your videos are awesome!
actually, we like your stories Joker. keep telling them.
Yup. And women that sleep around mess up their pair bonding mechanism. One guy forever isn't going to be enough to keep them satisfied. And when women are sexually unsatisfied they tend to act out in other ways that destroy the marriage. Notice how she says "alive again". Translation: Reminds her of the days she was sleeping around.
Facts.
🍷🍷🤣🍷 oh boy this ladies going to get 300 cats in that big a** house she going to have and she still bitter
Im a 23 year old dude right now who has grown up watching this generation grow up. And Joker is 100% right. There will be hell to pay in about 10-20 years, because Im experiencing it. Life has just become too easy. Small stresses have now become the biggest stresses in our lives. I try to fight it every day and learn delayed gratification and try to embrace hardship and hard work. But so many people can't be uncomfortable for 5 minutes. Hence, the obesity problem, the narcissistic problem, etc. Its just become too easy to avoid adversity. Which is destroying society. So many people will live lives that contribute nothing.
Edit: wrote this before I watched. WOW
Been a while i watched your videos. Your videos are like a magnet that attracts people like me. Thank you for the good work.
I just turned 35 and proud to still be single. 🤘🔥🤘
Get your stack man!
Be proud of just being you. Dont take life advice from an insecure woman hating old man that lives in a school bus. Example the dating profile he went over? Hes taking that as her being serious. Shes joking around. Hes angry at her for how he thinks shes describing herself. Hes wrong. So just be yourself. Have fun. Don't try to be some " alpha male ". Women pick up on insecurities and phoney behavior. Good luck to you. Enjoy every second. Negative thoughts throw them away, and just reside in the truth your in righf now. Oh Yea and you're probably not meeting wife material at the dance club. Haha
@@Slimc74 I hear yah brah. I don't take what Joker says to heart. But I'm in the position in that, "I don't believe in marriage, unless it meets my standards."
Thanks for your encouragement.
Same here, I have 6 figures and I am hoping to increase my net worth to half a mil or close to a mil by the time I hit 40. I still have both of my parents around and I will use the money to take care of them. I am not looking to lose all for a few nights a year of fun that can't give me any return.
@@dix0n778 yah bro. Society tells us to hook up early and have children. No f'n way! Hahaha
in their 20*s, they think way too much about looks and prioritize it all the time and then, in their 30*s, they are mad because quality men prioritize gorgeous 20's womem over them
Well, yeah. Just like children, they only think from their own perspective. So when they were in their 20s trading on their looks it was OKAY. Then when they are in their 30s and men are interested in OTHER women that are now in their 20s trading on their looks it's NOT OKAY.
I’m 30 and engaged to a decent lookin 33yr old. Just dumped her for lyin last month. Slept with a 22yr old who was a solid 7 and my god. The difference even between 22 and 32 is vast. I’d nearly forgotten when early 20s tasted like
@@rickm6076 damn now that's something 🤔
So you dumped her because you got with a 22 year old and knew you were missing out on something else
@@thedragonofechigo7878 "Just dumped her for lyin" lol
I was happy when men ended chasing after me. It made me cringe. It is a big relief to have normal conversation with normal men or women.
What did we expect. They live a life without fear of consequences and no accountability.
As a single Dad in his 40s, there is alot of truth and good advice here, for younger guys and gals.. Thanx Joker
It's Better Bachelor time lads, keep on doing your thing brothers out there. ✌️
And you do the same Tony Montana (I saw your pfp 😂)
@@ComposedSage75 Thanks brother, my lil fren.
Coffee and BB is my favorite way to start the day.
@@Erik_Swiger I can understand that my man, great combo! 👌
Joker: "...they've cheated on everyone they've dated...". That's called a psychopath.
Worse. A Jezebel
@@saxondude5316 even worse: a succubus natured Jezebel
Or such...
That’s not a psychopath
I found my thrill, on succubus hill...
“Do you mean a queen?”
*“Maybe they’re a trap”*
Instantly one of my favorite youtubers.
You are absolutely correct on the relationship deterioration when the man falls in love. I was that hopeless romantic. I did the flower petals and pedestalization. I was cheated on, lied to, and disrespected. A 13 year relationship destroyed. I see the errors I've made and I'm eternally grateful for the lessons I've learned. Thank you for your work. It saved me from making that ultimate end all choice. I'm free from the sleepless lonely nights lying next to someone that I loved who didn't love and appreciate me. Never been more at peace. From the bottom of my heart thank you.
Insert Robin Williams quote here. Peace brother.
I don’t really want to waste my time on people I know don’t have any incentive to be faithful, they have been incentivized to try and date multiple people at once
Always be on your square bro. You see how they’re manipulating and rewriting the narrative on what defines a healthy and positive relationship. Bachelor life is the best life 😎💯
@Destroyer a lot of em are. We’re walkin out on relationships, dating, and marriages for a reason and they’ll understand it when it’s too late for em to do anything about it. Guaranteed 😤😎💯
When I was a virgin trying to save it for someone special I had other girls tell me it’s not a big deal and it’s actually a burden. Ladies, listen to your gut and surround yourself with good people.
So who did you waste it on in the end?
@@alexdenton9176 🤣
I’m sorry that happened to you. You could always recommit to it.
Its not just the younger generation. Those from my generation or no better. They created the younger generation. After the 60's this world went to sh*t.
Everyone becoming children reminds me of the story of the guy applying for a job, who brought his mother to the interview, to yell at the interviewer, if he didn't hire her son.
Time to make TV, radio, newspapers and magazines a thing of the past.
Cut out all surveillance media too.
I'm doing the same thing. The only things I have left are youtube and the library. I can see ditching youtube too, they're following all the rest down the rabbit hole.
4 years and counting bro. You’ll not regret it
@@lorq3370
Sad thing Twitter rioters have found a way to TH-cam with their pics and 30s sh!t videos!
Did that 2 years ago....swear to god, life became much better
I am a Millennials but was raised more like my parents and Grandparents where. spent time mostly around older folks. changed my outlook. I dont think like a typical millennial
Same here man, teenage pregnancy of a single mother, was raised by my grandparents and all the better for it
Still got to hit the gym
I like older people too, most of them don't give a damn about about the ridiculous crap of the modern world.
If you’re under 26 years old you’re not a Millennial; Millennial generation is not the problem. I’m 31 and I can assure you most people my age don’t think like children.
@@ExhuastedLama Is the younger half of the millenials and boomers that are the problem.
This episode needs to be stickied. Fantastic, fantastic advice here.
I remember when I was in Elementary school we would have track and field day . Where all day 3rd grade , 4th grade , 5th graders spent the whole day outside doing different events like hurdles , sprints , tug of war etc. For every event there were 1st , 2nd and 3rd price ribbons , trophies and prizes . It was my favorite day of the year . It made me realize at a young age that I want to win and in order to win I have to work harder then everyone else trying to win the same thing. Competition makes everything better . I wouldnt even play golf or tennis or a video game with my buddies without some money on the line .
On a side note participation trophy world has killed games for me . Take PUBG you win and you get a phrase " winner winner chicken dinner " ....... great thanks . Games with no rewards couldnt be more boring to me if it was paint drying .
Raise a glass in remembrance of America; a land which once held great promise, splendor and possibility. A country where the poorest of men could rise to become millionaires; a nation where liberty and freedom could take root and flourish; a nation in which a man's labor was once the greatest asset above all else. To thee, America, I say, "I loved thee as I would kin and to thee I say farewell as you slip away into that cold, darkened abyss." Let your memory survive many years and perhaps one day, in the distant future...
You can be resurrected and made anew, far better than what we here now inherited and shamefully allowed to die.
She'll be back, it was too beautiful to be allowed to vanish for good. Won't be pleasant making it happen but how many truly meaningful achievements are easy?
Pour out a forty and invest in marshmallow futures.
@@cousinzeke4888 God I hope so. America saved my country from subjugation by a brutal genocidal empire. While many of my more moronic countrymen have forgotten , the core of the country haven’t . The USA, for all her (self-acknowledged) faults is the light of our species . PRC hegemony would herald a new, unending Dark Age
The only problem with waiting until I was 30 was I thought to myself "I lived this long without a partner why would I want one now?" So I have never been in a relationship and probably never will.
So where is the problem, I dont see any?
When I was around 25 I asked all the women in my life to help me find a life partner. Of course they did not even know one decent woman to introduce me to. I told them it's now or never, that if I don't find someone soon my heart will be too cold and bitter for a relationship later. Now nearly a decade later all I hear from them is, "When are you gonna get married?!" Funny thing is if I actually wanted to get married, not one woman in my life could introduce me to a woman who would come ANYWHERE NEAR my standards. And I'm not even that picky, just don't be obese and don't have kids from other men, be pleasant to be around and maintain a reasonable level of attractiveness and I'd be happy. But nope. Nothing but fat single moms with repugnant personalities around here.
@@charaznable9209 what? So wait, you put the responsibility of finding a life partner for yourself to all the women in your life, what? Geezus christ man, take some responsibility
Frak off Martin. It’s logical to turn to people who know 1000s of women & might know a suitable mate for him
One of your best videos to date !!! Great work !!
This is great advice. Love the chanel and tottaly agree with everything. Big hug from Portugal. Stay strong...
Show a woman heaven and she'll complain about the view. Show a woman hell and she'll even offer to pay rent.
Nice, you've been changing up your posts lately. Much needed.
@@Gunsight-One Salute bro! gotta switch it up the other ones got old.
Some people wonder why I like to talk to dogs more than people, think you have covered it.
Somehow I find that more relaxing and fulfilling. Except I’d talk to a turtle instead of a dog. Less messy.
Me too brother.
Lol. Reminds me of that old Mark Twain Quote -"The more that I learn about people, the more I've come to appreciate my dogs."
this world is finished. at least this american version.
in 10 years there will be nothing but artificial relationships with computers and robots.
maybe some weirdo communes are gonna emerge full of lonely wasted 40 and 50 year old people.
Animals can be chill. Watch for the predators though
The best quote I've ever heard from Joker: "...better than sleeping next to someone you think loves you...."
good one
Joker, just wanna say you’ve helped me a ton with finding myself and helping through this year. Lost my good job cause people are scared of their own shadow, but you’ve really helped with my mental health so I know I’m not alone in these feelings. Thanks man.
I'm currently 26, on the verge of turning 27. Until when I was about 24-25 I used to think I wanted someone close to my age, someone I could relate to in terms of life experience and carry on with life moving forward. Then I realized that the type of "experience" girls my age had actually had little to do with the types of experience I had, especially regarding dating experience.
I then heard about going for girls that are "way younger", but unlike the old days where life experience was pretty much the same for everyone, nowadays trying to find a girl who hasn't done onlyfans or likes TikTok or some social media phenomenon bullshit and endorses the f-movement is trying to find a needle in a needle stack - it's going to hurt and you're not getting anything that's actually better than the rest around that.
Once upon a time I dreamt of being a family man. Now all I care about is just making it through relatively unscathed to the end of my days.
I get you man, i still want to have kids, but i want a girl that doesnt do the social media bullshit. I realize how hard to find such a girl must be though.
I was that way once. I'm divorced now and let me tell you. When they say you don't know your wife until you meet her in divorce court, they're right. The Only reason I survived was that I planned for divorce before I got married. Pre-nups save lives! Life is better with a dog as company.
@@miamimatt2010 my parents are divorced. It wasn't nasty, and my dad was the "bad guy" in the situation (and he wanted to leave mom). Still, things never were the same after that. I had hope that I one day would marry and do things in a different way... now I think I'm never marrying at all. Still different, at least.
@@AlexandreRibeiroXRV7 It’s unfortunate but your story at your age is far too common these days. I work with plenty of young men right around your age group and they ALL say the same thing. The constant attention seeking behavior through online dating apps and social media. If ever curious, look up HPD (Histrionic Personality Disorder) this is part of the Cluster B type personality disorders that rarely gets talked about but I’m under the firm belief that most women have it.
True, men and women's experiences in dating are like we are two different spieces
Accountability is very rare to find nowadays its like finding a needle in a haystack or something like that one quote
Its like finding a needle in a needle stack lol
@@icedragonkid1480 like finding hay in a needlestack 🪡
It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack that doesn't have any needles in it.
If you want to find a needle in a haystack, use a magnet.
it's a kryptonite to most women
Very commendable words Joker. Extremely well versed in life long wisdom. Thanks
Translation: "Nothing beats the buzz of sneaking around behind the back of someone who potentially loves you knowing your actions might emotionally destroy them because you're a selfish asshole. In fact all woman should do this. It will make you a better person." If you take advice from someone like this...stop and question your life choices.
10:40 This is one of the reasons there's a push to break up families, cause trauma/instability, because those kids later become short term debt ridden CONSUMERS.
"Don't ask questions, just consume product then get excited for next product!"
They become the willing subjects of the welfare state.
Delayed Gratification only works if you actually get the gratification at the end.
Guys aren't getting any gratification at the end, they are reaching the end and being told the goal post moved and it's leaving them extremely depressed.
So you want kids to waste their youth, not think ahead and prepare for the future, and risk getting a woman pregnant because if he follows Joker's advice there may not be a great relationship available for him when he gets to his late 20's or 30's?
I'd say the last decade you could risk getting into a relationship while being young, was when I grew up right before the social media nightmare that basically gave any remotely attractive women unlimited suitors.
Since when is being a slave to a woman/wife a great achievement? Oh you’re also a slave to your demanding kids (buy me stuff!) who then leave home & never see you again.
Except to force you into a home when you’re old.
"Self-entitled" is redundant. Otherwise, you're pretty much spot-on. Our generation (over 40) was probably the last one in which we were allowed to lose. After that, it was all about "nobody should feel like a loser", exclusively preached by those who failed or refused to get back up on the horse and try again. I used to get animated about this and try to lead people to try again--but there are now consequences of _encouragement_ to succeed. "You got this!" is often rewarded with "stop harassing!" and "it's too much!", followed by "I didn't get the support I needed!" a little while later. They're looking for reinforcement--literally _of the moment_ --which they will reject at the time and then later lament not getting earlier. I was confronted with a state I'd never encountered before: being bitched at for A, and then later for non-A, irrespective of what really happened. And that's one of the reasons I started dating guys. I went back once, and that was enough.
As far as "socio-economic backgrounds"--that's a no-brainer. People on the lower end typically _are_ there due to inability to control their emotions, so it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Great content and wisdom Joker love your channel.
At least the cheaters can always find their "true love" down ad the local animal shelter. They can even cheat by getting more than one pet!
That’s a great way to look at it cuz it’s true
@@ComposedSage75 beastiality ?
@@rishirajsaikia1323 naw dude. They like havin more than one pet to keep em company. Where did that come from? 🤨
@@backrooms3907 🤣🔥I got u
I have the best the relationship me and myself. No drama, peace and tranquility all time, no argument..
Same here bro.
Sometimes I disagree with myself, but we settle the disagreements and come to an understanding pretty quick. :D
Thanks for the video Joker, needed this advice after a break up
Spot on, man, spot on.
4:40 "Maybe She should cheat a WHOLE LOT MORE, cuz she does not seem to be very young."
Brutal.Savage.Rekt
I found a massage parlor that does the extra stuff, I have absolutely no need for a relationship now
Same man, its nice being in a country where it’s not an issue. I make one visit to a woman every few weeks or so and any urge I had to interact with women past what I have to do on a daily basis goes away.
I got to start scoping for a good one for my lunch breaks.
Post nut clarity is a beautiful thing
Your comment has me thinking about what happens when sex work is normalized. Like, will there be any relationships after that? From a man's perspective, it will be easier and cheaper to go to the sex worker. A relationship can give benefits to men if women are chase and submissive but how many women do you see with that personallity?
Got'em
Great Advice, Thank You.
Mr. Joke, we are about the same age. I grew up in Vietnam. Migrated to Australia at the age of nearly 19, not much English. I had been lucky to have some wise mature age friends around myself, they explain finance to my in my mid 20s. I agree completely with you. You are a very wise man, you explain it so well. I recently advised a young man of 25, an Australian school teacher to read "Rich Dad and Poor Dad" -- sadly, I think it felt on deaf ears. He earns good money, government employee. All of his income goes to rent and car. Very sad.