One Simple Tactic to Get Her Chasing YOU

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  • systembytodd.com
    If you're going to get to an advanced level in game, you NEED to learn how to flip the script and get girls chasing you. In fact, on a technical level, this is probably the single biggest difference between intermediate and advanced guys in game.
    By the way, these clips are from Immersion program classroom sessions: toddimmersion.com

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  • @JavierCespedes90
    @JavierCespedes90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    Just ask her something like "What do you think is the best trait of your personality?", and she will start selling herself to you. That is a common questoin I use to qualify them and it works well.

    • @ramachandrangautaman
      @ramachandrangautaman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      this is golden

    • @JavierCespedes90
      @JavierCespedes90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@crimsonreactor1527 She is not interested in you my friend, or she seems pretty boring. Just move on to the next girl.

    • @patrusso7278
      @patrusso7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You just leave! She's telling you the truth!

    • @ViktorZethelius
      @ViktorZethelius 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or maybe they reply: nothing, byee. Or: so what? Or: I'm not telling you.
      How d'you face that?

    • @JavierCespedes90
      @JavierCespedes90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ViktorZethelius Mmm, if a girl responds with that, she is clearly not interested at all, you let it go.

  • @janjansen7983
    @janjansen7983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1360

    ''Game is not a situation where you win by making the fewest mistakes. Game is a situation where you win by doing the most things right, you doing them so right your mistakes don't matter.''
    This is hella deep and underrated.

    • @redpillwisdomseeker698
      @redpillwisdomseeker698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Alek Wolf are you having a spazz attack?

    • @SammyCee23
      @SammyCee23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      In other words...Play to win, not to not lose.

    • @wavychico2.0
      @wavychico2.0 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, recovery game at its best.

    • @riverdean7
      @riverdean7 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      no game is bullshit

    • @joelbandayrel8504
      @joelbandayrel8504 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hell yeah... fierce

  • @metnoc10
    @metnoc10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    This guy is doing humanity a service.

  • @AMusician11
    @AMusician11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Basically what he said:
    -Seeking Validation from the girl is a NO NO

    • @ebeb6924
      @ebeb6924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And yet, here you are, so desperate that you'll listen to ToddV, the kid who probably ate dirt as a child.

    • @hideyoshiq7813
      @hideyoshiq7813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pick Up Artists are Rapists JAIL TIME, BRO! 🧂

    • @k.i.d8442
      @k.i.d8442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@ebeb6924 Absolutely nothing you said made sense in that reply.

    • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
      @ashleybanks-wm4cg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@hideyoshiq7813 your life is a joke if you believe that 😂😂😂😂dont be mad they took your gurl

    • @hideyoshiq7813
      @hideyoshiq7813 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ashleybanks-wm4cg My life was four years ago, I won't lie... I don't associate with women who are so easily 'picked up' by other men. My opinion was that back then, nowadays I can see both sides of the coin and the outer picture. I respect these men for doing what they do, as most men are willing to have the drive and balls to approach in the manner 'PU artists' do. But when you look at them from an ulterior perspective, their degenerate.
      How does a life chasing and making women wan't you fulfill a deeper meaning to life? Its a constant want and more for a vice that ultimately cant be satiated.

  • @adamskyy8103
    @adamskyy8103 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Damn what a game changer Todd V is. A year ago I was getting flaked on left and right, had no awareness of frame or blueprint. One year later later girls are inviting me back to their place on the first date.
    If you actually put in the work and don’t bullshit yourself, this will work.
    No one else has made game easier. We’re lucky to have this guy.

    • @christianmoreno7390
      @christianmoreno7390 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did you sign up for one of his courses? Or just watch his free stuff?

    • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
      @ashleybanks-wm4cg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@christianmoreno7390someone actually going outside and applying his teachings doesn't have to pay for anything

  • @John-qh9se
    @John-qh9se 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I look at very closely to Todd’s reaction while he explains game. And every single time I get a deep feeling that this guy really knows what he is talking about! RESPECT

  • @fusioninc.8187
    @fusioninc.8187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    A friend once told me that if a girl tells me she likes rock music I should pretend it's my favorite music ever etc to build attraction
    So I thought it's true until now, thanks for clearing that up for me!

  • @IAlexandreI
    @IAlexandreI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Make her qualify.
    Soft qualifiers, statements like : "You know there's something about sportive women / adventurous people..."

  • @troytempleton736
    @troytempleton736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This stuff Todd says is mad, I think about my own experiences of texting girls and believe I'm just 'friends' with them. I realise now that there are so many subtle signs that they reveal their hand with that I completely overlooked

  • @meetmenowasia
    @meetmenowasia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your insights into qualifying and creating genuine connections are invaluable. Love how you break it down step by step

  • @oberynmartell8154
    @oberynmartell8154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    4:04 bro starts rapping

  • @AskToddV
    @AskToddV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Qualifying a girl properly, and not qualifying yourself (the evaluation stage of game based on the "System" model of game systembytodd.com) is probably the biggest difference between intermediate and advanced guys. So if you ever aspire to be anything beyond beginner/intermediate level in game, you should learn it. Clips in this video are from Immersion programs by the way toddimmersion.com

  • @wavedave1035
    @wavedave1035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Girl: I like rock music
    Guy: Oh, I like rock music too
    Todd: Congratulations, you just qualified yourself

    • @abhiraj5646
      @abhiraj5646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "oh so I'm not the only one who likes rock music"

    • @jackerylel
      @jackerylel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@abhiraj5646 who actually talks like this lmao

    • @omnipotentgaming166
      @omnipotentgaming166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A good way to flip a girls qualifier such as this one would be to Deny it and say something like “ no you aren’t you’re probably into nickelback or some boy band that call themselves rock” and then she’s now has to qualify herself to prove she actually likes “good bands” which again her answer doesn’t really matter, what matters is getting her to qualify. Good luck fellas

    • @tutorialheller5800
      @tutorialheller5800 ปีที่แล้ว

      if you're not a fan of these you could say: "I like it, but I'm not a fan... do you?"

  • @joilsongomes5
    @joilsongomes5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    gold!!!!! so many things to learn its seems like will never be enough aaaahhhhhh!!!!! enjoying every step of the journey!!!!

  • @omnipotentgaming166
    @omnipotentgaming166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so good, this is one of the most powerful techniques in game.

  • @Twisted_utopia
    @Twisted_utopia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    You win the game when you stop playing.

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      This actually makes sense when you think of it: you meet a girl, show interest and the moment you realize that shes trying to classify you as a beta/someone she finds unworthy of dating, skip to the next one! - somehow those girls will sense it when you actually find someone, and so the reverse chase begins!

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Epoch plus5 call it as you wish to please, that's just the reality of how things work!

    • @robertdalton1582
      @robertdalton1582 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Epoch plus5 actually that's what you get by playing games with little girls. They're not gonna put out, because they're playing games

    • @eduardoclari_
      @eduardoclari_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Explore17 that happened to me not so long ago... everything was good and we even made plans for a date then I got ghosted out of nowhere.. I was like fuck that whatever.. so I just looked elsewhere. After she realized i wasnt going to chase she started chasing me .-.

    • @celasss
      @celasss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wargames.

  • @enlightenedtrucker739
    @enlightenedtrucker739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    Drive away slowly in your Bugatti Veyron.

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That all celebrities and sports figures seem to be getting. 2.5 Million $

    • @huberttwardowski1428
      @huberttwardowski1428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chiron*

    • @huberttwardowski1428
      @huberttwardowski1428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Veyron kinda basic broski

    • @realtruth97
      @realtruth97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A Ferrari does the same effect for less money.

    • @centanhotbox84
      @centanhotbox84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      works with rentals and replica cars lel 1/10 of the price

  • @Apollyon.King.of.the.Locusts
    @Apollyon.King.of.the.Locusts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Never change yourself for a woman. First mistake, last mistake.

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But yes, be your best self. If you have addiction issues. Don't put them on her, or aggression... walk off and let her feel secure and protected by you... don't compete too much with her. When you phone & text more, she'll be so relieved to see you are better at communicating than the men, that think they're clever by being too boring and silent. Mystery isn't everything, caring consideration is worth more. Compatibility is gold though

  • @jzk2020
    @jzk2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The best way to have women chasing you is by developing yourself as a man and being a status symbol. Looks, social status, money and intelligence. Be the best possible version of yourself, have lots of friends (female and male) - a leader of people... and have your shit together.

    • @ritaaleksandrovna4518
      @ritaaleksandrovna4518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Word. I love high status men with their finances in order but I still won’t be cashing them. Men love to chase so I allow them to do that instead. It comes natural to men who are in their masculine energy.

    • @shueibdahir
      @shueibdahir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ritaaleksandrovna4518 Which do you think matters more? Competence or Confidence?

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not all women want you to be like that! Some are glad to have you all to themselves....knowing that she is more important to you than all the rest of it... but planning adventures together or just snuggling up and cuddling is her dream

    • @Memesifoundonfacebook
      @Memesifoundonfacebook ปีที่แล้ว

      This is useless if you dont have game, this Alone can attract women but this alone wont work in keeping her attracted to you and maintaining her interest in you, u need to have a least decent game

    • @woudanborson2778
      @woudanborson2778 ปีที่แล้ว

      how to have more friends

  • @mwirthr17
    @mwirthr17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I just want to thank you Todd for so much good advice

    • @carlosbravo2971
      @carlosbravo2971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mwirthr17 this guy got me laid like crazy and got me a girlfriend as well

  • @allenmciver1888
    @allenmciver1888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks! Good information!!

  • @diarmuidbrady8987
    @diarmuidbrady8987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The way he said “well i liked volleyball” was so funny😂

  • @Night-Sight
    @Night-Sight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "You qualified yourself"

  • @ClearChoiceMethodology
    @ClearChoiceMethodology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the type of stuff that you say Todd and its brilliant

  • @kompanjonac
    @kompanjonac 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Basicaly its all nuclear physics

    • @mylegguy8115
      @mylegguy8115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      david basically

    • @ghostridersinthesky21
      @ghostridersinthesky21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nah I think nuclear physics would be easier to understand than women.

    • @yokiweyy4770
      @yokiweyy4770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ghostridersinthesky21 exactly. at least you know that nuclear physics work in a certain way, not in a totally random and unpredictable way that drives you nuts

  • @hippofly7313
    @hippofly7313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Explain game for college . Girls are in different mindset and in moods in college rather in club .
    Quite hard game because It's not easy to convince them as they Don't reply to us conveniently
    Because everyone in college and their frds would be looking at her.. so she hesitates to reply!! Any Advice and solution...
    love you man! 🙈❤❤

  • @anitelufalemei4200
    @anitelufalemei4200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Lmao this guys talking about women like it’s a subject to study. I love it.

    • @Rsonny
      @Rsonny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      'Subjectifying' women lmao

    • @Hshjshshjsj72727
      @Hshjshshjsj72727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's a thing called psychology and gender studies 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @englishexperts1974
      @englishexperts1974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hshjshshjsj72727 no need to.. women should study us

    • @msredcurtains
      @msredcurtains 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@englishexperts1974yes us women are watching these videos too and studying how men think these days. To help us steer away from men who subscribe to games to get a woman. Don’t you worry, we’re watching, studying you men and sharing this knowledge with other women as well.

  • @danh821
    @danh821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Question: How do I qualify women in a way that feels less button pushy and more natural? I usually get done with the premise phase and think "now its time to qualify" but it almost always feels forced.

  • @FlowsMedia
    @FlowsMedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was hanging with my friend and her friend. Her friend was trynnna talk to me a few times through out the night and I had went out for a smoke and ended chopping it up w this dude for a bit. when I came back she said she was worried about me, I didn’t think much of at first but later I was like hm let me follow her and she completely ignored it lol

  • @cianmcgovern720
    @cianmcgovern720 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Todd. Top content, you have the best advice I've come across. Quick question - how should game change when a man is seen as very physically attractive (in the 9-10 range by most people's standards)? As a basic example, if a guy who is quite physically attractive uses cocky/funny quite a lot will they be perceived as arrogant and turn most girls off? Would it be better to play it more laid back/humble in this situation? Would love to hear your thoughts.

  • @_jamesbradley__
    @_jamesbradley__ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for the excellent clip! 😎👍 ALL facts!

  • @erikbritz8095
    @erikbritz8095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Todd love this cause investment is my bigggest issue but what about in relationships how to keep the girl invested in a relationship? and how to keep/raise your value inside the relationship cause i have noticed even if i am busy killing it etc. the girl i am with still get's disinterested or starts getting very low investment wise?

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Whoever qualifies themselves to the other person is the one of lower social value.

    • @chicagoboy279
      @chicagoboy279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What does he mean with qualify

    • @k.i.d8442
      @k.i.d8442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@chicagoboy279 trying to make the person like you

    • @ruburtoe1
      @ruburtoe1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chicagoboy279 to demonstrate/testify-to/show their personal value/worthiness

    • @msredcurtains
      @msredcurtains 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah instead of qualifying ourselves to others, we should disqualify ourselves to others 😂

  • @grs5597
    @grs5597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man! You are good! No, wrong. You are the best!

  • @Dave-In-Greece
    @Dave-In-Greece 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Todd! Man...I watched a few of your vida and you're a SOLID guy and coach...Bravo
    I'm starting a Personal Development and Dating business here in Greece soon...maybe one day we'll collab on some AWESOME projects...
    Be well...

  • @filipbelciug
    @filipbelciug ปีที่แล้ว

    used Todd's disqualification technique at work and in under a week I got a girl with boyfriend (abroad) to come to my place. Literally minutes till she arrives home.. wish me luck guys. Haven't got some in 5 years

  • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
    @ashleybanks-wm4cg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Todd you legit got all the game we need more young men need to leave other channels and come to yours

  • @vicente3354
    @vicente3354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wish I learned this stuff sooner. Would have saved me so much time and introspection LOL

  • @TL-er5zr
    @TL-er5zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I hope my question will soon be answered on your channel Todd. If women are intimidated by your value, does game then change? More to the point, it seems like it would open more opportunity for error and looking too try-hard if attempting to execute all the steps. How is this calibration adjusted to know how to adjust?

    • @maximiliankinzett2636
      @maximiliankinzett2636 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's simple, relax your game around her to begin with, let her feel relaxed that you're not trying to pick her up. Show her in your relaxed body language and speech that you are just another human being having a conversation with her. As she starts to relax then you can start flirting with her slowly bringing it to the boil.

  • @AngeloortizOG
    @AngeloortizOG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Studying game almost 2 decades now?! Dude you look 28. props!

    • @jonathanharoun5247
      @jonathanharoun5247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He started when he was 8.

    • @regerbryan
      @regerbryan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You do know he’s the youngest ever dating coach right? He was huge when he was 8 as a prodigy

    • @jasonvoorhies6431
      @jasonvoorhies6431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everyone in his class was drinking milk from cartons, he was drinking it straight from the teacher’s breast 😂

  • @Thelittlematty
    @Thelittlematty 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd, what do you think of psychological tools like 'the cube routine'?

  • @dmitrixallo7072
    @dmitrixallo7072 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Todd what should I do when I used to talk to a girl 2 years ago (she has shown some signs of interest I think, one of which was bringing up things like “ohh you’ll be getting girls left and right” when I said i might sign up for sports, brought up similar topic I believe few times), but I can never get the flirting aspect into texting, and where I live it’s pretty ‘dead’. Another problem is that this girl I’m talking to is speaking my native language, in which I haven’t flirted/practiced beforehand

  • @jehriko7525
    @jehriko7525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    you know something i love is when 2 different dating yt coaches tell me different things and at the same time manage to tell me logically why they work, so now im left convinced on both sides lol

    • @Mario-zt4lq
      @Mario-zt4lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a paradox where they are both true but it’s our job to find out which applies to our specific situation more at a given time and when to implement each strategy.. it takes skill, just like football and basketball etc, there are a lot of competitors but only a few are seen as the most skilled and dominant in their specific field..

    • @Mario-zt4lq
      @Mario-zt4lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      those are the ones who master the understanding and execution of those paradoxes consistently at a more successful and higher rate than the rest of the pack

  • @qazmko22
    @qazmko22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the powerful things that "nice guys" (sweet, emotional, vulnerable) can do as a super power is be very sensitive and tailor their qualifications based on very specific qualities that she has. They can also speak from their core, with both of those you can very powerfully qualify someone and very powerfully seduce someone.

  • @thegoodkindofsimp7417
    @thegoodkindofsimp7417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What do you say to follow up soft qualifiers? Like if she qualifies herself to you? Do you qualify her? Or do you push pull like “Oh that’s cool blah blah but idk there’s something about you that told me you’re not the sports type”

  • @MikeHydesOfficial
    @MikeHydesOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Once in a relationship what are the things to stop doing from when you first started “pick up” with her. For example, do you still do push pull?

    • @voltage3692
      @voltage3692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +1

    • @1lemniscaat
      @1lemniscaat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Buy Girlfriend Game from Rsd Max

    • @EatYourVegs
      @EatYourVegs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Can't you just be yourself once she's your girlfriend? Like why would you want to be in a relationship in which you can't just be yourself. Girls love your vunerabilites as well. It's just that first interactions confuse us about that. Game is relevant when you create a relationship with strangers mostly. Then it's not.

    • @ao9297
      @ao9297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes. Once in a relationship, you need game is more critical; it cannot be 'put down'. Men have a different standard than women.

    • @ao9297
      @ao9297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@EatYourVegs No. This is the type of blue-pill advice that gets turns you into a basement dwelling serial murderer.

  • @obtsfan
    @obtsfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Awesome video, thanks a lot for the amazing content.
    I have a question: I’ll be traveling with a group of guy friends to another city soon. We’ll be clubbing each night. How do I use Tinder to meet girls that would want to bring their girlfriends out to join us? So far I’ve gotten girls interested in meeting with me for a weekend, but as soon as I mention that I’ll be clubbing with my friends and that the girl can bring her girlfriends, they disappear. Is there a way to word this correctly?

    • @shueibdahir
      @shueibdahir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Basically you gave the impression that you think they're sluts and that they're easy. They knew exactly what you were actually up to and they were not interested. If i was a girl i'd feel used.

    • @obtsfan
      @obtsfan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shueibdahir I am aware of all of that. You didn't really answer my question though, which was whether or not there was a good way to word that to these girls. If you're saying that there is absolutely no good way to word that, then I guess that's a valid answer too. Either way, it doesn't pertain to me anymore because I've been in a serious relationship for about a year. But thanks for the input.

  • @bestprimal9790
    @bestprimal9790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So pretty much you throw in a semi-statement that blends smoothly to not risk too much on into a girl qualifying herself subtlety. Hmm, sounds understandable Todd haha

  • @Yes24275
    @Yes24275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hes lookin calm. Thats dope

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!

  • @michah321
    @michah321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But it's fair and respectful to look for an indication that she actually likes you before preceding in getting to know a woman.

  • @pashaboss6
    @pashaboss6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only piece i haven't nailed yet is qualifying.. then I'd be invincible

  • @robertdalton1582
    @robertdalton1582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What was the one simple tactic?

  • @collincapps63
    @collincapps63 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Qualify!

  • @anshul8123
    @anshul8123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    QUESTION: SOME DAYS I GET A LOT OF NUMBERS FROM DAY GAME AND SOME DAYS I GET TOTALLY BLOWN AWAY BY GIRLS. I'M GETTING SPORADIC RESULTS WHICH IS CONFUSING. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

  • @anavarzau4984
    @anavarzau4984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😂 imagine going to a lecture like this! Wow

    • @michaelmota4602
      @michaelmota4602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol like a class in college. Game 111: Qualification - Instructor: Todd

  • @Muathalshareef2
    @Muathalshareef2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Please can anyone explain to me what he mean about “qualify” ?
    I can’t understand how to qualify girls and why qualify is very important?

    • @akaaformentioned2yearoldfi910
      @akaaformentioned2yearoldfi910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      "Qualify her" meaning to set a specific condition ("I like girls who"). If she relates, agree or react positively ("Yes, I agree" , "Yes, I'm that kind of person" "Yes, I totally have that mind set) to what conditions you've laid out she has agreed to that mindset, she has qualified to your conditions. That's a small investment she's made to you--she's a bit closer, a bit open to you. Women like man who knows who he is and what he wants. If you're bold enough to say what you want its a plus. If she "qualifies" herself and fits that mold, its a major plus.

    • @PeNGuiNZoMbiEUYA
      @PeNGuiNZoMbiEUYA 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      To qualify her means you’re looking for something about her deep within before you have sex with her. Ya know cause you’re a high value man with standards and no time to waste.

  • @ToAsTOnDeck
    @ToAsTOnDeck 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Todd the beat at the end of this video. Where can I find it?

  • @HawaiianCrow
    @HawaiianCrow 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Suuuch a powerful video!

  • @joshmoulton4783
    @joshmoulton4783 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd, love your content and your videos have helped me a lot but I was just wanting your advice for virgins. Do I lie about having sex and behave in a way where I’m sexually abundant? Just want your thoughts
    Ps. I’m 21 years old from Australia

  • @trolley2327
    @trolley2327 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Todd! i know i will sound very AFC but still i have this question. from time to time, i see some girls that they have such wonderful personalities that i almost feel awkward to "game" them, after a certain point. specially physical escalation. is there a fix for this? ( or maybe you can ask my question in a better way).

    • @aygwm
      @aygwm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re putting them on a pedestal. Spark attraction, but keep them at arm’s length is key. Drop the nice guy mentality “wow her personality is so nice I should really take her seriously” and create some distance.

  • @ArikNewman
    @ArikNewman 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd , My text game is great and huge amount of girls go out with me because i'm flirting , funny and playfull but in the real date i'm less that person how do i close that gap ?

  • @michaeldodaro
    @michaeldodaro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Todd must have the contact of every single girl in every city in the states

  • @lukaszwybieralski7516
    @lukaszwybieralski7516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Todd, I gotta quite important question. I can get dozens of numbers by daygaming but like 50% of meetings I set up with girls are never happening. I usually get number and call/text her and after setting up the meeting, let's say in four days, i'm done with conversation. When the day of meeting comes, I call or text again and girls don't response or they text me they can't blabla. I always have plenty of numbers so it's not a big deal but i feel I must be fucking something up at some point but don't know what and where. Any suggesions?
    Btw. you're the best man ;)

    • @lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801
      @lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lukasz Wybieralski they don't seem really interested in you and it may be that they are only giving you their number to get you to leave them alone

    • @lukaszwybieralski7516
      @lukaszwybieralski7516 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801 I usually do indirects and talk with them first to see how i goes, usually talk is good. And I also used to do Mysterys trick to get the number "oh i gotta go but i'd finish this talk later" and like 9/10 gives me it. It's not the case though, sometimes they themselves suggest meeting at specific day and time and then they get flaky. I still get many dates though so don't give a fuck (nexting) but i cant understand logic behind it. But yeah, you must be right, apparently

    • @TheTeodor97
      @TheTeodor97 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man, you’re setting the date way too far after the interaction. In 4 days she has plenty of time to forget you, meet someone new and even go to a date with someone she’s been talking before meeting you. What’s more than 2 days it simply fucks you’re chances to meet her and increases the chances on her to flake. Another reason why girls would flake is that they aren’t yet feeling comfortable enough to meet you, that’s why you need to solidify your interaction by sending her voice/video messages and even FaceTime her (the best).

  • @josephgallo4625
    @josephgallo4625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the video explaining open, premise, evaluate, narrative, close?

    • @DanXD21
      @DanXD21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's called "The system": systembytodd.com

  • @kacperkepinski4990
    @kacperkepinski4990 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    do you have any video about how to make her investing more in interaction?

  • @romarafizade7157
    @romarafizade7157 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd, I’m your fan from Russia
    I got only one question to you, after the first date, girls rarely text me, or call
    Should I always wait until they gonna text me first , or it’s a normal thing that I have to text first and don’t wait?

    • @HieuTran-bj4nf
      @HieuTran-bj4nf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes its normal to call first. i recommend not to text and just call. and only call or text to meet up!!!

  • @mrpoopoopantz4923
    @mrpoopoopantz4923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Todd i need advice, how do i get to be with a girl that knows that i’ve liked her for a long time.(btw we aren’t close, i just notice that she notices me whenever i look at her)

  • @niinjaslayer6394
    @niinjaslayer6394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good video, opposite of what you did to the large guy in the bar with her. You tried qualifying yourself. But yes, make her qualify herself to you by paying near zero attention.

  • @ManicTulip76
    @ManicTulip76 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohh mentioning the man Mystery himself.

  • @teamReW1ndscooters
    @teamReW1ndscooters 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to re-open a set in text game or day/nightgame after being clingy first, given power away and consequently the girl has lost her interest?

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pull back and find another girl! - if you're lucky, she will sense it and come by chasing you and when it happens, the choice is yours!

  • @Anteater_Slayer6656
    @Anteater_Slayer6656 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The thing is that when a girl likes you she do not see your flaws to much and if she does not like you whatever you do is not cute for her!

  • @Mark-fe8qw
    @Mark-fe8qw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My man be looking like David Guetta

  • @amantv3876
    @amantv3876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    some times when i approches the set goes well the at moment.she is lauging,showing sign she likes me at moment.but later she did not reply or come on date.what I'm doing wrong?

    • @667DOOM
      @667DOOM 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe you are too nice.

    • @Rawyalty220
      @Rawyalty220 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe u overstepped

  • @AngelTorres-vu7wj
    @AngelTorres-vu7wj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd, so I'm going on a date soon but I'm aware that she's interested in another guy and I had moments in the past where my dates start to talk about other men. The conversation topic is really boring and I can care less about the other guy. What should I do when the conversation topic pops up or am I okay to tell them that I have no interest in the topic?

    • @jjlatinopedia
      @jjlatinopedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Grow some balls, then tell her politely that you would prefer not to talk about another man. Simple.

  • @alexcruzship3683
    @alexcruzship3683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What’s the steps you need to go from Evaluation to Narrative and what do you need the girl to do to know I test to transition to Narrative.

    • @dax2480
      @dax2480 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Narrative is present from the moment you open her. Think of narrative as the overall story of you and her in her mind.

    • @Georgious
      @Georgious 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kahlius Maximus is right Narritive happens from the first moment, perhaps we can think of narritive as a fase when you can safely bring it up.
      You know when todd infield says things to girls like; "like yeah, you just met this great guy at starbucks, and then he took you on a date and you told all your friends, and we lived happily ever after." Now he brought up what happend during the date and creates this picture of what will happen in the future.

    • @exposehim4601
      @exposehim4601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re thinking about this way too much

    • @ColtSSR
      @ColtSSR 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@exposehim4601 not getting any huh?

  • @brayanaldape5621
    @brayanaldape5621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What do you say when girls say ohh I’m ugly or I wish I was cute but there like a solid 8 do you say your gorgeous or ignore it???

    • @667DOOM
      @667DOOM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hot girls know theyre hot. never give them what they actual want. she was fishing for compliments, dont give her compliments. this is the only way to keep her chasing you instead of you chasing her. never comply with their demands!

    • @jjlatinopedia
      @jjlatinopedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tell her, "not everyone is pretty. You just have to have a great personality to make up for it."

    • @aygwm
      @aygwm 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whenever a girl talks about her own looks to you she is fishing for a compliment. Don’t validate.

    • @masteroflions1183
      @masteroflions1183 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Compliment the girl with her personality

  • @jerryjr2287
    @jerryjr2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How long does it take to learn game

  • @thorthegod3854
    @thorthegod3854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Todd i can get girls attracted towords me. But after some interaction my vibes with a girl seem like fading away. My Question here is how can i kept a girl attracted to me for a long term?

    • @HA-no3jh
      @HA-no3jh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thor The God
      Dont smile and laugh too much to her
      because the one who is smiling and laughing in a conversation more is mostly the beta one, the one with the "please like me, you are so funny look how I laugh" attitude
      dont be too nice, be nice AND cocky. make her a little angy just to soften her instantly afterwards with "im just joking - topic change"
      dont answer all her questions
      when you answer all her questions as asked you will put urself in a beta position, she will get the feeling "oh look he is sweet slave, i get all the answers I need from him, he is my dog and I am the master"
      its all about being a nice, patient, self confident alpha

  • @shammarishammari8214
    @shammarishammari8214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I want to know is how to do the opposite. If you get into a relationship with a girl you THOUGHT you screened but after a couple of months into an actual relationship you see another side of her and want to get out, but she seems scarily stalkerish and you don't want her to mess up your life, how do you get HER to want to leave YOU alone?

    • @simosavustaja9420
      @simosavustaja9420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i love you, i wanna be with you every second of my life, im afraid you leave me, i cry every day when i dont see you, don't you love me? lets get married.
      i feel strange even typing that.

  • @slej_hamer1212
    @slej_hamer1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First step is making her attracted to you, then she will be motiveted to chase you and invest in you its simple, you amplify and crystalize attraction by making her chase and invest.

  • @remissiveslave
    @remissiveslave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If I take my hat off she'll runaway.

  • @pIayingwithmahwii
    @pIayingwithmahwii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ***QUESTION: I’m good enough at cold approach, and I can get a lot of girls on dates, but whenever I try to get sexual or intimate they pull away, and usually after the first date they ghost me. On the dates I’m just being myself. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?***

    • @pIayingwithmahwii
      @pIayingwithmahwii 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do I get them to like me and be sexual with me on the first date or after?

    • @nicolobennati8994
      @nicolobennati8994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You need to describe more what you’re doing on the date for us to know what you’re doing wrong, you probably arnt making them feel comfortable with you and arnt spiking their emotions the majority of women will sleep with you pretty fast (first time) if they are attracted to you and feel comfortable around you some do force themselves to wait but even with them it shouldn’t take more then 3-4 dates to get extremely sexual have sex. Also just depends on where you meet them and logistics it’s obviously way harder to sleep with a girl on the spot if you meet her and the grocery store rather than the nightclub

    • @aygwm
      @aygwm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You might just be coming off a bit too thirsty, and perhaps a bit too open. Mystery is sexy, and you need to go in with the mentality that you have nothing to prove, but have an agenda of creating attraction, nothing else.

  • @bLaZe0kid
    @bLaZe0kid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Song at the end?

  • @shoooby26
    @shoooby26 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd I have a questions, me and my friend really enjoy spending time together, so I was catching feeling, so I send her a message to let her know and I said that I don’t want this and let’s not meet up. Did I do the right thing? Or should I have not told her and start distancing?

    • @keiranmorrisart
      @keiranmorrisart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honesty is a good thing

    • @shoooby26
      @shoooby26 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keiran Morris Art thank you

    • @shadowblack10
      @shadowblack10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How’s this going?

  • @addk4279
    @addk4279 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How do you deal with girls that are going through heartbreak; they don't want to be flirted with or be in relationships?

    • @aidanbotha3320
      @aidanbotha3320 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Add K when you find out let me know please🙄

    • @masteroflions1183
      @masteroflions1183 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly its one of the best time to pick up a girl bec they are looking for validation

  • @PhantasticTruth
    @PhantasticTruth 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Open, premise, evaluate, close. *takes drill, drills into head*

    • @ColtSSR
      @ColtSSR 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wat

  • @papaainsl3705
    @papaainsl3705 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have one question tho , what if literally we talk and there are many things in common , even on a level , of what kind of tea we like

  • @daniel100592
    @daniel100592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How do you recommend weaning off so much pickup theory when you're out, to just TRUSTING YOURSELF to have good interactions and remain in the process?

    • @SwagMuffin567
      @SwagMuffin567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Daniel Son it’s all about being yourself while having a good system when you approach a girl so you don’t embarrass yourself. you should be yourself while trying to implement different parts of game slowly.

    • @tophatsheep3747
      @tophatsheep3747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Listen to what he said (Advaith padi, him)

    • @mikereilly9701
      @mikereilly9701 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Practice practice practice

  • @AaronHernandez352
    @AaronHernandez352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone know what the Song is at the end of the video⁉️

  • @gpczeppelin9625
    @gpczeppelin9625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Todd, so this is a somewhat rare situation but maybe a lot of people can relate: what if the girl says that another guy will be joining the date, when she was the one inviting me and planning it? If I agree, I look Beta and get friendzoned, cause it isnt a date anymore. If I say that it is a problem, I look jealous, even though it's entitled

    • @dbsllama6042
      @dbsllama6042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If it's a date, another guy shouldn't be there. Let her know she's free to go on a date with the other guy and she can hit you up 1 on 1 for a date between just yall. This establishes your willingness to walk away and your higher value

    • @jjlatinopedia
      @jjlatinopedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Grow some balls! That's the first thing. If another man is joining bc she invited him, flake and move on. Simple.

  • @BrentVIDSZ
    @BrentVIDSZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm talking to this girl I've had 3 dates with, all dates went really well, now something happened at her job which she got very pissed about. All of a sudden she isn't texting me anymore, if I text her she replies a lot later than normal with dumb ass answers or just leaves me on read. So I told her like, Yo I thought u were direct, if somethings wrong, tell me. (She then told me she's pissed lately cause of the thing that happened at work).
    How the hell do I deal with this? Should I just ignore here since trying to talk to her just makes me look needy cause of her answers, or should I just keep showing interest even tho her answers are shit... This happened all of a sudden so I don't think it's a mistake I have made

    • @quesobabas6940
      @quesobabas6940 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait, she’ll text or call you back.

    • @BrentVIDSZ
      @BrentVIDSZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quesobabas6940 well.. She hasnt 😂 but I don't give a fuck about it anymore so.. 😂

  • @berndlurk5548
    @berndlurk5548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    4:06 "oh you are a pretty girl but beauty is ??? b ?? is ?? looks ??? besides makes me ??? more to get you know me better" what are you mumbling?

    • @ramiszinal5818
      @ramiszinal5818 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is advanced level dudeee

    • @NightOfCrystals
      @NightOfCrystals 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beauty is common so what else do you have to offer me

  • @xRecklessLJ
    @xRecklessLJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    1:47 what the hell did he just do

  • @alute5532
    @alute5532 ปีที่แล้ว

    Make most things right so that your mistakes don't matter
    Usually we qualify ourselves so how to get get to qualify her self
    Open premise qualify

  • @jeffreyfay1849
    @jeffreyfay1849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Todd, I first learned about “learning game” on your channel a few years ago. Started going out a few months ago, and turns out I’m a “dance god.”
    Entire clubs/festivals are in awe of my moves and I cant help but feel girls expect my game to be on the same level. How do I have normal interactions from a pedestal?

  • @honestfella836
    @honestfella836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    beauty is first demand of every guy that need to more than that.

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding ปีที่แล้ว

    Yoz
    Thank
    You
    Man
    Dun chan ur beh
    Get the girl to qualify herself
    Do so many yhings to correct wrong
    Soft qualifier
    I used to do spoets and loce sports

  • @costanzauk
    @costanzauk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Didn’t seem all that simple lol :)

  • @bumate90
    @bumate90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like the old school mystery method :D