Solo Caretaking: Is It Possible? How Hard Is It? Can You Do It Alone?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
- In this video, I begin to tackle the question: Can you be a caretaker all by yourself?
My aim isn't to compound your worries! Rather, it's to help you anticipate and prepare to meet adverse circumstances.
It's easy to be thrown into a caretaking role. When this happens, there may not be a lot of time to catch your breath -- let alone stop and reflect on the situation.
It can lead you to simply ignore -- or kick the can down the road -- in terms of trying to develop an actual care plan.
In this presentation, I talk about things such as:
Being "solo" as a caretaker, versus being all by yourself as a homemaker.
"Primary caretaking" vs. "solo caretaking."
Along the way, we describe different permutations of family situations, the prospect of utilizing professional care services (whether in-home, Adult Day Care, Assisted Living, Respite Care, and Nursing Homes).
And I also say something about financial considerations -- from income stability to government assistance (such as Medicaid).
I even discuss the question: Why is this stuff necessary to talk about? Isn't it obvious?
Caveats and disclaimers: I am not a healthcare profession or attorney. I cannot give you financial, legal, medical, or advice of any kind. This video is for educational, entertainment, or general informational purposes only. If you need personalized guidance, then consult with experts in your area.
I am the solo caregiver. I also work from home fulltime and I have a young child in school and he has Autism. I never get any time for myself and this is putting a strain on my marriage. My wife and I and my son can't go anywhere, because we have nobody that will help. I have 3 siblings and they are all living their lives with no kids and they're doing what they want and living their best life. I also have severe anxiety and panic disorder and it's hard on me. I'm trying to figure out how to get my dad on medicaid, but it's hard to carve out time to navigate that. My dad says he is a prisoner, but I can't get him to understand that some people have to work fulltime, and cook supper, wash clothes etc. I'm getting to the point that it's time to consider if I can even do this long term because of the strain on my marriage.
This was the MOST USEFUL AND HELPFUL video I've ever seen for my situation and I just want to thank you! I have always called myself my mom's "primary caregiver" but I am actually her SOLO caregiver. It is so hard. I figured out that I do the job of 9 or 10 different people if she were in a facility.. I promised her I would never make her go to one. I've worked in them and I know what they can be like. I will watch your other videos to learn more. Thank you for what you do!❤
My husband has early onset dementia. He is right on the cusp between mild and moderate cognitive decline. I found this very helpful for figuring out about planning for what-if scenarios.
Truth im doing it alone for my loved one with severe Alzheimer’s
I mentioned this in another video but it is worth repeating - You put a lot of research and work into your videos. Thank you for sharing your experiences and what you have learned.
I listened to this one yesterday but I did not have time to leave a comment. Just wanted to say I'm sorry about your dad. Even though several years have passed, sad memories can come back in an instant, just like you said. On a positive note, it was around the 5 year mark after the losing my dad that most of the sadness began changing into happy memories.
Thank you for your kind encouragement -- and sympathy. Of course, I am sorry for your loss as well. "Time heals all wounds" is one of those sayings that tends to elicit eye rolls and shoulder shrugs when it's first heard. But then, later, you (if you're like me) think: "Maybe there's something to it."
Very helpful on thinking in advance to what the possible regarding nursing care I’m thinking that if I sell the home and live with doughter in the annex I w have some help otherwise I have no one who could help I’m thinking all the time what the future will be If this if that.
I'm sorry it's causing you apprehension. Of course, a wise man once pointed out that worrying never added a day to anyone's life. (Easy to say; hard to do!) If you're still (semi-)independent, you might consider assisted-living arrangements. Some of those help residents segue into a nursing home -- if and when that becomes necessary.
I’m taking care of my best friend of 27 years. His family sucks today. I called hospice because he is coming down quickly. I had to sign a DNR hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. He’s like a father to me.