It destroys your Barakha. Eats away the goodness in your soul. Every waking moment will make you yearn for what could have been yours; an endless enticement that will prevent you from doing so many things. Stay away. However, bleak and black your soul is now for having acted upon these imagery or for having consumed this filth, you will get back, provided you try and pray. May Allah protect us.
adultery is very specific and so is the punishment ... major sins are very specific ...and Allah is oft-forgiving and the most merciful may he forgive all for their deficiencies
@@Adonis300 there are conditions for the forgiveness of Allah. You can't keep doing the same thing over And over and then say Its okay beacause Allah's merciful.
@@NoOneAM2 “O son of Adam, as long as you call upon Me and put your hope in Me, I have forgiven you for what you have done and I do not mind. O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach the clouds of the sky and then you seek My forgiveness, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, if you were to come to Me with sins that are close to filling the earth and then you would meet Me without ascribing any partners with Me, I would certainly bring you forgiveness close to filling it.” [Al-Tirmidhi]
May ALLAH grant cure to all those suffering from it and related issues. Fasting, frequent recitation of the Qur'an and making sincere duas can immensely help. May Allah unite us all in this world and in Jannatul Firdaws. Jazakallahu Khairan
Fasting did not help me, I can not read the Quran but I only can read a few surahs and even if I make sincere duas or pray sincerely. Nothing will come of it.
Sadaqa is the greatest defence. Recitation of the Qur'an is as strong as the one who understands it. Sadaqa and constant performing salah. Visting Cemeterys, Visit Hospitals. That strengthens one's Iman.
continue fasting there are many who are free from this major sin may God help you from this dirty videos never take this message for granted plese pray to God always
@@HudanV0 woah brother chill you completely misunderstood him, what he said was that private sins like these are not meant to be told to other people ur meant to hide them and only allah should know so basically the sin of what u did should only be known between you and allah. Chill dude, you completely misunderstood him
It’s an addiction brothers and sisters. Limit it to certain days, then slowly begin to cut those certain days down over time so you’re able to come off completely inshaAllah. May Allah SWT guide as all and protect us from the punishment of the grave and hellfire.
Shaykh Hamza Yusuf said watching porn puts out your inner eye. Shaykh Nouman Ali Khan says you violate your own soul by doing it. Alhamdulillah I am almost 1 year porn free. It was very difficult to stop but not impossible.
A sin is a sin regardless of its degree. I pray to Allah that all of our past, present and future sins be forgiven and for him to give us hidayah to stay away from sin. Ameen.
@@Cobra-gl7or 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ She was already divorced! Did you know that or no?? Know my friend that all the prophets marriages were not his personal choice, but by command of God, & each was for a reason. The one you mentioned for example & her name was Zainab, the Prophet married her after she divorced his adopted son, and that was to set the rule that it is permissible to marry the divorcee of an adopted son.
Looking at things through a religious lens is important, that's why we're on this channel. But if you're struggling with Porn and religion is not working as a reason to abstain or isn't *enough* of a reason for you, there are PLENTY of other reasons why porn is harmful as well. Society has made it so acceptable and normalized to watch porn that it’s difficult to even consider otherwise. But more and more people are choosing to quit porn, why is this? Aren’t we all about body positivity, being open with our desires and accepting everyone as they are? We are and we’ve made great improvements in society being more open and accepting on many fronts, but make no mistake - porn is harmful. This is one area where we need to be extremely careful in how it’s viewed in our society and educate everyone on the many harmful effects. I want to make it clear that this post is about porn and not masturbation, there’s a big distinction, which is for another post - but for this, we’re keeping it to the harmful nature of porn. Hopefully this shines a light on the dangers of porn and at the very least serves as a counter-point to what’s become so normalized in our society. Now, let’s get started. 𝑷𝑰𝑬𝑫: Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction. Many males who grew up with porn are finding themselves experience great difficulty in getting hard and maintaining an erection when it comes to sex in real life. Sadly the only way for them to maintain an erection is through porn. There’s countless stories of men that are finding themselves unable to perform in real life when the opportunity arises - they simply can’t get it up. It’s embarrassing, disheartening, emasculating and ultimately a great loss that neither of you were able to please each other. PIED develops through an overuse of porn, resulting in being desensitized to the point where only porn can arouse you and maintain your erection. Needing porn for arousal is extremely detrimental and over time you’ll find yourself needing to find increasingly novel pornographic content to give your brain that same dopamine hit. Something your partner can never compare to. This creates a vicious cycle, and eventually leads to seeking more deviant sexual content. We can see this in our own society, when porn first came out, we went from pictures of breasts being risqué, to videos of porn being the norm, and now there’s countless porn categories. Categories like b*ndage, h*rdcore, and even t*een have become something society has normalized (not to even mention the hundreds of other categories which are even more deviant). How can a partner ever compare to the endless novelty of porn? It's destructive and unhealthy. Another way that PIED develops is that you become accustomed to using your hand with porn and over time your brain & body is being trained to “get off” specifically in that way. Doing that over and over makes it unable to perform in any different way. This causes things like "death grip" where a man is so used to getting off to his hand w/ porn that when having actual sex, a woman's vagina no longer does it for him as he's so used to his hand. There's entire subreddits dedicated to help men re-train their brain and body. PIED is one of the most common reasons why porn watchers decide to quit and it makes sense given just how devastating it is and all the negative second order effects. PIED should be reason enough alone to quit porn forever. Now let's dive into the effects of porn in a 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥. Porn is massively destructive in intimate relationships and PIED is one part of it, but more specifically by using porn as an outlet to please yourself - it can lead to many additional relationship issues. Through the use of porn, you find your partner less sexually desirable, they may feel rejected if you choose porn over them, many may even see it as a form of cheating, and ultimately your partner feels less loved. There’s also a spiritual bond between you that gets broken. Sexual connection, bonding, and orgasm should be something that you strive to only share with your partner. By watching porn, it also makes you 𝙡𝙪𝙨𝙩 after people in a direct sexual way. Lust leads to pleasuring yourself in a selfish way instead of with your partner. “Lust is obscene while erotic love is beautiful-even though they both involve sexual desire. Lust is depersonalized sexual desire; lust directed at someone does not care for their uniqueness and personhood. A man who lusts after Elizabeth can be be satisfied with an equally attractive Jane. But erotic love is directed at a specific person; a man who is in love with Elizabeth and desires her will not be satisfied by any other woman of equal attractiveness” Source (excerpt): hawramani.com/the-philosophy-of-pornography-and-masturbation/. (writer looks at pornography and masturbation through both a philosophical and religious lens). In more subtle ways, I genuinely believe by watching porn you become a person who finds life less beautiful. This also spills over into your relationship and you will find your partner less attractive, you yourself are less loving, kind and genuine. Don’t you 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 to be super attracted to your wife, compliment her, feel for her, notice the intricacies of her beauty, see her imperfections and feel even more attracted to her? Just visit r/deadbedrooms for a glance at how porn has ruined so many relationships. You don’t want to leave any room for a behavior that could potentially lead down a path of destruction in your intimate relationship. Why take that chance? On another level, I also believe it affects your soul. You become something less of a wholesome person, less of a man, someone who can’t control his desires, and isn’t a person who radiates goodness and pureness. Whether it's PIED, relationship specific, becoming a better version of oneself, or even something as abstract as the soul, these are all things to think deeply about and figure out for yourself whether porn is something net positive or negative in your life. Reflect & ponder. I believe all these reasons are compounded over time and result in some incalculable long term negative effects of porn. If you treat your partner as your number one source of sexual intimacy you’ll develop a stronger bond, connection, and work through conflicts better. Porn slowly cuts away at you from so many angles and it may not be apparent at first, but over time the relationship will suffer greatly - again, why take that chance. Hopefully this has been enlightening and sets you on your own journey. Your own journey is what matters and your “why” might be different, but you need to seek it out on your own and only once you find your own meaning will you truly find purpose and peace in quitting. It’s far from easy, it’s a true struggle, and a great temptation, but once you quit - you’ll hopefully find your life has more meaning, purpose, and the feeling of fully loving your partner will make it all worth it. Abstaining from porn allows me to embody the “ideal man” in my mind and makes me into someone I’m proud of - someone who’s wholesome, radiates goodness, and loves deeply. I want to be my most loving self to my partner, find her beautiful day in and day out, compliment freely and openly, notice every intricacy of her, deeply connect, and love her with a heart full of love.
24:30 says :˹O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
Watching pornography is indeed sinful, splitting hairs as to whether its a minor sin or major sin should not be our focus. Muslims are called upon to avoid all sins both minor or major to the best of our ability. Pornography can destroy marriages, lead to adultery/fornication, lead us to objectifying the opposite sex, and more importantly, it disengages us from the Quran and the remembrance of Allah (swt) . Yes, it's possible for a Muslim to maintain the fundamental pillars of Islam and still engage in sinful acts such as pornography but in this case our faith in Allah (swt) is weak because pornography is the symptom not the diagnosis. It's indicative of a spiritual problem (issues that swim in the waters of both the conscious and subconscious realm) it could be something that happened early in life, family dynamics and/or dysfunction, exposure to magazines that promote nudity, a simple curiosity that opened the door to addiction. We can't improve our lives until we admit that we have a problem. Just as yourself, "Is Allah and His Angles pleased with me as I'm viewing pornography?" We know the answer, we're going to commit sin but even if we're too weak to overcome it, never, ever turn your heart over to it and accept it and love it, hate it and reject it in your heart even as you are sinning. You must continue to hate it and pray sincerely to Allah (swt) to bring you out of it and, In sha Allah in time, He will deliver you from the bondage porn addiction.
Objectification is not wrong, if you are speaking in terms of Physics then there is no issue objectifying a human, because a human is an object in space and time.
Not just sinful but damaging your mindset and mental health, it's disgusting and it should be banned! Play sports, mountain climbing, any other cool outdoor activities to keep healthy, not just physical but mind also. To forget and stay away from nasty habits as much as possible.
I think what ive researched on a laymen level...watching porn is a big sin indeed but doing adultery is an actual huge sin! We should nonetheless stay away from both but specifically adultery because its the ultimate level of corruption of the physical aspect! Watching porn is a 1000 times less sinful than fornication but can easily lead to it and should on a collective and social level be condemned! May ALLAH help us!
Please note the Complete & Perfected islam told us 👉🏼 about a man who believed in Allah was told by the the Prophet (pbuh) he cant become a muslim, because he was wearing a taweez ( Masnud Ahmed 16969 ) Please note the Complete & Perfected islam told us 👉🏼 ``Whoever wears an amulet has committed SHIRK ( Masnud Ahmed 16969 ) ( There is not even one hadith which tells us amulets are permissible) WHY HAVE PEOPLE DECIDED THOSE TAWEEZ WITH QURAN VERSES ARE NOT SHIRK ❓ As we know asking the dead for help is SHIRK, If l was to claim asking the dead for help is not SHIRK because this dead person is going to ask ALLAH to help us, will the PEOPLE agree with this ❓ The answer is no, which is correct ✔️ WHEN PE0PLE USE A TAWEEZ TO ASK ALLAH FOR HELP, THE PEOPLE DO NOT CALL IT SHIRK WHEN PE0PLE ASK THE DEAD TO ASK ALLAH FOR HELP, THE PEOPLE WILL CALL IT SHIRK We all agree idol worship will remain shirk even if we where to put Quran verses on an idol We all agree reading Bismillah before eating pork will not make it halal WHY D0 WE USE A DIFFERENT RULE F0R THE TAWEEZ ❓
Just because someone committed a sin or made mistakes in life does not mean he or she deserves to be hated and judged and laughed at. You see,i can go on and on how much i went through and that is going way back then in the past and now all these bullies and so on. Justice for me please.
Yes it's a sin and I have to be honest its not worth destroying your soul. Make repentance if you make a mistake. It's the only way to be happy and please God. Also jinn possession and black magic is real and can literally take over someone's sanity. If someone is possessed Allah will not fault the victim. It's one of the rules.
Assalamu’alaikum, Brothers and sisters, Include me in your dua’s. I’m trying really hard to quit. Insha Allah with few more effort it’ll become my story of encouragement to others.
From a spiritual perspective we need to look at why we do certain things and get to the root. Is it an addiction? If it is an addiction it’s not really in their control until they heal internally the cause. People escape their pain through through all different kind of addictions. Unhealed issues manifest all different kinds of problems
Pornography generally becomes a long lasting habit a bit like alcohol or a drug in that you will become addicted. It should be avoided at all costs as it robs the soul of faith and you eventually become a person without the sweetness of faith. In the Quran it commands to control the gaze in normal circumstances. What about pornography? I think to protect one's faith is paramount as we all want to be in a good state on our last day here.
isa in matthew 5:28 said the same thing But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Let's be clear about something. The single most powerful force in the Human condition is Sexual. Sexual identity, roles, expectations and politics rule a huge portion of who we are and how we conduct ourselves. This force is so important that we Humans use it as a kind of "swiss army knife" to address multitudes of issues and problems. Pornagraphy is a symptom that stress and adversity have overwhelmed the individual and the default response is to validate one's place in the World. People are essentially lazy and pedestrian, so that validation falls to the most primal levels such as sex, aggression and self-destruction. Just like noting monkeys who throw feces, pull out their hair and quarrel without end, masturbation and pornagraphy are indications that something is sorely out of kilter. Put frankly, such a activities are corruptions of their healthier sexual expresses bestowed on us by God. Now, knowing that it's always easier and more fun to knock blocks down than stack them up, I'll be the first to admit that building a relationship with God is a whole lot tougher than knocking it down. So there's the choice: wallow in the lowest levels of self-indulgence or make a bid to know something greater than yourself. FWIW.
It's at your finder tips Anyone has internet and phone it's at his fingertip.. Even if a 10 year child has a phone with internet, it's at his fingertip.. And so almost everyone who has this might have seen it except someone who has some kind of phsycological phobia that can trigger a seizure.... All others might be seeing it.. they are pushing it down the throught of everybody.. Even Muslims make videos nowadays using beautiful women anchors to catch attention..it's a marketing technique preying on the man's phsychology.. So what happens when the women exposes the whole thing ..no doubt people will fall for it..
I have no idea as to what he just said! He spoke at length about everything but failed to answer the question, at least I did not find the answer in his explanation. Someone please correct me if I have misunderstood.
I like how Dr. Shabir Ally addresses the necessity of avoiding despair. (Also: a little off topic but could you explain the prohibition of graven images in Islam? Would not pornography then fall under this prohibition? What about anatomy texts? Guidance and clarification if possible would be greatly appreciated!)
Quite did speak my mind here, especially in case of anatomy!!! Only that what "graven images"!!!??? And, personally, as well as per this video, there's no as such binary answer to that. Rest is "acts are by intentions"!!! The man, though, did do take a rather very long route to get to last 5 seconds where exactly the answer was. Guess cause of a woman infront of him (😛😛😛). Who, in fact, does seem quite yummy, lol!!!
Realistically ma'am, a graven image in anatomy texts aren't meant to lust after nor do they induce sexual desire, as the objective of the use is crystal clear and for a higher cause that benefits the humanity as a whole with no exceptions, surely there are unique cases of sexually ill individuals that would use such texts as masturbation materials.
Major sin and minor sins are derived by the interpreters..ofcourse thr are more evil and bad things and there are less bad things..but islam teaches us to cleanses ourselves from the all the bad things inshallah
Sagacious words from Dr Shabir, as ever. I think pornography has the potential to lead onto Major Sin(s) - so the best course of action, is to stay away from it. Look, and ask, for God to guide you in all decisions; then you are on the straight and true path.
I think we need another prophet to vome with a book that talks about it and band it.😂😂😂 allah didnt see it coming, but they keep saying quran is for all times
I think there's a big difference between erotic literature, as you mention, and let's call it live-action pornography. Because whatever may be sinful about the first one, it's at a personal level, whereas in the second case it involves the external sins of others. If you consume the second type of pornography, you are essentially paying people to fornicate (even if you don't pay per se, you contribute to their income through ads, etc.) That factor makes it difficult to separate it from the sin of fornication itself.
Holding yourself randsom to such heinous acts because of not being married is a very bad state to be in. I see alot of people who have given themselves up as captives because of not being able to do something which isn't even an obligation. Hajj is an obligation and if you don't have the means then it is not. People place marriage above these pillars of Islam to the extent they will save money for a lavish wedding or dowry but not look at the obligatory duties.
What is free will or qadar? Please give some examples to understand and what should be believe as Muslims.. also it’s incident example of AlI ibna Talib RA that the guy came to him and ask about free will or qadar, Ali ask raise your one legs and than he did and Ali RA ask to raise another leg, which he cannot do that? That is some part is free will or other not, please explain thanks
Watching pornography casually or an unintentional glance on pornographic stuff must be regarded as a major sin. Those who have been consumers of pornography, still have time to step back and enter into an agreement with Allah that he/she will abstain from that major sin and may Allah provide him/her with lawful means of gratification. Allah always listens to prayers that an individual asks for staying away from sins done in private.
@@hudan0009Don't forget it's up to us Who Allah SWT wishes to forgive and who he does not. Even a prostitute is forgiven all her sins just because she gave a thirsty dog some water.
am i so incredibly stupid or did we not get an answer? I heard a whole argument about major and minor sins, and what has been said about sins etc. but no direct answer to the direct question. Anyone care to explain?
Bro I need a sheikh like prophet Muhammad when a guy come to him and ask him the permission to do fornication. He responded if he want the same thing for his mother or sister. And the guy don't want commit fornication any more. It's the same thing, I don't want for a female from my family to watch or do thing like that.
It is not a major sin yet is minor but it is also Haram.But in Quran nothing mentioned about porn and masturbation . The major sins are the sins mentioned in Quran. And nothing mentioned about masturbation only Zina sex without marriage is Haram and a major sin other than your wife.
For those who are struggling, try this remedy. Insh’Allah ,it will help Who says there is no remedy for any kind of physical, psychological, spiritual, and/or supernatural problems. Quran is The Ultimate Remedy, and Allah is the one who Cures all. All those suffering from any Physical Mental, or spiritual illness or black magic, should listen to surat “Al-Rehman” a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit (Without translation) 3 times a day for 7 consecutive days with closed eyes. Every time after listening take half a glass of water, close your eyes and say ”Allah” thrice in your heart, and drink in 3 sips.
*5 pillars of Islam* Narrated Ibn 'Umar: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: Islam is based on (the following) five (principles): 1. To testify that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and Muhammad is Allah's Messenger (ﷺ). 2. To offer the (compulsory congregational) prayers dutifully and perfectly. 3. To pay Zakat (i.e. obligatory charity) . 4. To perform Hajj. (i.e. Pilgrimage to Mecca) 5. To observe fast during the month of Ramadan. (Sahih al-Bukhari 8)
Sorry to dare to ask, what if someone watches to improve their performance in their personal life? Or someone who doesn't have the means to get married and wants to stay motivated so as not to lose their physical ability, "If you don't use it, you'll lose it."
@@Sjetton85 Don't worry. You are a reject. Follow what islam has to offer and stop wasting your time. Work make money get a family. Practise islam in each stage and trust me you will be fine.
@@salim4512 oh I'm in love with the Quran 1st but I'm just in love with the Bible too as I can go hand in hand foot to foot mouth to mouth how can all cant see nor hear?
Bro I need a sheikh like prophet Muhammad when a guy come to him and ask him the permission to do fornication. He responded if he want the same thing for his mother or sister. And the guy don't want commit fornication any more. It's the same thing, I don't want for a female from my family to watch or do thing like that.
Who says there is no remedy for any kind of physical, psychological, spiritual, and/or supernatural problems. Quran is The Ultimate Remedy, and Allah is the one who Cures all. All those suffering from any Physical Mental, or spiritual illness or black magic, should listen to surat “Al-Rehman” a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit (Without translation) 3 times a day for 7 consecutive days with closed eyes. Every time after listening take half a glass of water, close your eyes and say ”Allah” thrice in your heart, and drink in 3 sips.
Amazing answer. I am a Christian, but I find Dr. Shabir very enlightening. I am surprised at how open Muslims answers are. Very rational based on human desires. Believe this is not something we want in our Christian culture. It's destroying our youth. However it was not Christians who invented the Barbie Doll Playboy or Porno.
Respectfully, it is not about authenticity that would concern me, it is wether it is consistent with the human ethos or not, how we should put it to the test? My answer is that if the woman doing the act was a relative of mine, would I be okay with it?
@@ahmedharrak3985 well, I wasn't specifically talking about one particular situation. I was talking talking about believing in Hadith in general. And about what you said, yes that's exactly my point, in the end, it all comes down to use our own sense that what should be right and wrong. Most people believe you have to be religious to be able to differentiate between right and wrong. I completely disagree. Instead you may make better judgment yourself instead of getting instruction from somewhere/someone else.
@@adanowmaalim5784 Who says there is no remedy for any kind of physical, psychological, spiritual, and/or supernatural problems. Quran is The Ultimate Remedy, and Allah is the one who Cures all. All those suffering from any Physical Mental, or spiritual illness or black magic, should listen to surat “Al-Rehman” a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit (Without translation) 3 times a day for 7 consecutive days with closed eyes. Every time after listening take half a glass of water, close your eyes and say ”Allah” thrice in your heart, and drink in 3 sips.
The bigger destruction is how you were lead to think that Allah the most merciful cannot forgive you. Repent and turn to him so long as you're here! He is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too merciful its unthinkable just how nice he is!
It's not something modern. There have always been such kind of shows even before the advent of videos. Like you can't say filmography is new since stage shows have always been there
I always thought pornography is a victimless crime and at least less crime than theft and stealing, back-bitting. But I realized that it’s compel one for masturbation which is abusing one’s own body and private part. So, it’s a haram thing and should avoid completely. And one solution is early marriage.
It destroys your Barakha. Eats away the goodness in your soul. Every waking moment will make you yearn for what could have been yours; an endless enticement that will prevent you from doing so many things. Stay away. However, bleak and black your soul is now for having acted upon these imagery or for having consumed this filth, you will get back, provided you try and pray. May Allah protect us.
ameen
@@polite.cat.has.playlists 🤣
Ameen
@@polite.cat.has.playlists Yh bro ofc
@@emretorbas1021 are there any source, reference?
"Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way." (Al Quran - 17:32)
Watching Pornography is definitely going near adultery.
Why did muhammad married his adopted sons wife Zainab?? Isn't that adultery marrying another man's wife??
adultery is very specific and so is the punishment ... major sins are very specific ...and Allah is oft-forgiving and the most merciful may he forgive all for their deficiencies
@@Adonis300 there are conditions for the forgiveness of Allah. You can't keep doing the same thing over And over and then say Its okay beacause Allah's merciful.
@@NoOneAM2 you definitely can
@@NoOneAM2 “O son of Adam, as long as you call upon Me and put your hope in Me, I have forgiven you for what you have done and I do not mind. O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach the clouds of the sky and then you seek My forgiveness, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, if you were to come to Me with sins that are close to filling the earth and then you would meet Me without ascribing any partners with Me, I would certainly bring you forgiveness close to filling it.”
[Al-Tirmidhi]
May ALLAH grant cure to all those suffering from it and related issues.
Fasting, frequent recitation of the Qur'an and making sincere duas can immensely help.
May Allah unite us all in this world and in Jannatul Firdaws.
Jazakallahu Khairan
Fasting did not help me, I can not read the Quran but I only can read a few surahs and even if I make sincere duas or pray sincerely. Nothing will come of it.
Ameen
Sadaqa is the greatest defence. Recitation of the Qur'an is as strong as the one who understands it. Sadaqa and constant performing salah. Visting Cemeterys, Visit Hospitals. That strengthens one's Iman.
Allah was on bang bros there's evidence of it
continue fasting there are many who are free from this major sin may God help you from this dirty videos never take this message for granted plese pray to God always
After trying for decades to quit porn by the grace of Allah it's been two years since I've looked a pornographic image. I feel so free. Alhamdullilah.
Mashallah good job brother
Don’t expose your past sins brother
@@shiro703 why not i mean i know ppl say dont expose ur sins but why?
@Deadly Steam wait what?u saying me and God sin together?just zip your mouth atheist.idk who u following maybe the devil
@@HudanV0 woah brother chill you completely misunderstood him, what he said was that private sins like these are not meant to be told to other people ur meant to hide them and only allah should know so basically the sin of what u did should only be known between you and allah.
Chill dude, you completely misunderstood him
It’s an addiction brothers and sisters. Limit it to certain days, then slowly begin to cut those certain days down over time so you’re able to come off completely inshaAllah. May Allah SWT guide as all and protect us from the punishment of the grave and hellfire.
Shaykh Hamza Yusuf said watching porn puts out your inner eye. Shaykh Nouman Ali Khan says you violate your own soul by doing it. Alhamdulillah I am almost 1 year porn free. It was very difficult to stop but not impossible.
Alhamdullillah keep striving brother. May Allah SWT reward and bless you.
Can i still watch it?when i watch i feel shameful but it reduces my stress and it doesnt affect my faith in Allah
Ofc u cant @@HudanV0
@@HudanV0NO!!
@@HudanV0no,you can't
A sin is a sin regardless of its degree.
I pray to Allah that all of our past, present and future sins be forgiven and for him to give us hidayah to stay away from sin. Ameen.
With all due respect but why did muhammad married his adopted sons wife Zainab?? Isn't that adultery marrying another man's wife??
@@Cobra-gl7or 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ She was already divorced! Did you know that or no??
Know my friend that all the prophets marriages were not his personal choice, but by command of God, & each was for a reason.
The one you mentioned for example & her name was Zainab, the Prophet married her after she divorced his adopted son, and that was to set the rule that it is permissible to marry the divorcee of an adopted son.
@@amerj5243 The God of the bible hates divorce. Muhammad committed adultery.
Ameen
Looking at things through a religious lens is important, that's why we're on this channel. But if you're struggling with Porn and religion is not working as a reason to abstain or isn't *enough* of a reason for you, there are PLENTY of other reasons why porn is harmful as well.
Society has made it so acceptable and normalized to watch porn that it’s difficult to even consider otherwise. But more and more people are choosing to quit porn, why is this? Aren’t we all about body positivity, being open with our desires and accepting everyone as they are?
We are and we’ve made great improvements in society being more open and accepting on many fronts, but make no mistake - porn is harmful. This is one area where we need to be extremely careful in how it’s viewed in our society and educate everyone on the many harmful effects.
I want to make it clear that this post is about porn and not masturbation, there’s a big distinction, which is for another post - but for this, we’re keeping it to the harmful nature of porn.
Hopefully this shines a light on the dangers of porn and at the very least serves as a counter-point to what’s become so normalized in our society.
Now, let’s get started.
𝑷𝑰𝑬𝑫: Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction. Many males who grew up with porn are finding themselves experience great difficulty in getting hard and maintaining an erection when it comes to sex in real life. Sadly the only way for them to maintain an erection is through porn.
There’s countless stories of men that are finding themselves unable to perform in real life when the opportunity arises - they simply can’t get it up. It’s embarrassing, disheartening, emasculating and ultimately a great loss that neither of you were able to please each other. PIED develops through an overuse of porn, resulting in being desensitized to the point where only porn can arouse you and maintain your erection.
Needing porn for arousal is extremely detrimental and over time you’ll find yourself needing to find increasingly novel pornographic content to give your brain that same dopamine hit. Something your partner can never compare to. This creates a vicious cycle, and eventually leads to seeking more deviant sexual content. We can see this in our own society, when porn first came out, we went from pictures of breasts being risqué, to videos of porn being the norm, and now there’s countless porn categories.
Categories like b*ndage, h*rdcore, and even t*een have become something society has normalized (not to even mention the hundreds of other categories which are even more deviant). How can a partner ever compare to the endless novelty of porn? It's destructive and unhealthy.
Another way that PIED develops is that you become accustomed to using your hand with porn and over time your brain & body is being trained to “get off” specifically in that way. Doing that over and over makes it unable to perform in any different way. This causes things like "death grip" where a man is so used to getting off to his hand w/ porn that when having actual sex, a woman's vagina no longer does it for him as he's so used to his hand. There's entire subreddits dedicated to help men re-train their brain and body.
PIED is one of the most common reasons why porn watchers decide to quit and it makes sense given just how devastating it is and all the negative second order effects. PIED should be reason enough alone to quit porn forever.
Now let's dive into the effects of porn in a 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥. Porn is massively destructive in intimate relationships and PIED is one part of it, but more specifically by using porn as an outlet to please yourself - it can lead to many additional relationship issues. Through the use of porn, you find your partner less sexually desirable, they may feel rejected if you choose porn over them, many may even see it as a form of cheating, and ultimately your partner feels less loved. There’s also a spiritual bond between you that gets broken.
Sexual connection, bonding, and orgasm should be something that you strive to only share with your partner. By watching porn, it also makes you 𝙡𝙪𝙨𝙩 after people in a direct sexual way. Lust leads to pleasuring yourself in a selfish way instead of with your partner.
“Lust is obscene while erotic love is beautiful-even though they both involve sexual desire. Lust is depersonalized sexual desire; lust directed at someone does not care for their uniqueness and personhood. A man who lusts after Elizabeth can be be satisfied with an equally attractive Jane. But erotic love is directed at a specific person; a man who is in love with Elizabeth and desires her will not be satisfied by any other woman of equal attractiveness”
Source (excerpt): hawramani.com/the-philosophy-of-pornography-and-masturbation/. (writer looks at pornography and masturbation through both a philosophical and religious lens).
In more subtle ways, I genuinely believe by watching porn you become a person who finds life less beautiful. This also spills over into your relationship and you will find your partner less attractive, you yourself are less loving, kind and genuine. Don’t you 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 to be super attracted to your wife, compliment her, feel for her, notice the intricacies of her beauty, see her imperfections and feel even more attracted to her? Just visit r/deadbedrooms for a glance at how porn has ruined so many relationships.
You don’t want to leave any room for a behavior that could potentially lead down a path of destruction in your intimate relationship. Why take that chance?
On another level, I also believe it affects your soul. You become something less of a wholesome person, less of a man, someone who can’t control his desires, and isn’t a person who radiates goodness and pureness. Whether it's PIED, relationship specific, becoming a better version of oneself, or even something as abstract as the soul, these are all things to think deeply about and figure out for yourself whether porn is something net positive or negative in your life. Reflect & ponder.
I believe all these reasons are compounded over time and result in some incalculable long term negative effects of porn. If you treat your partner as your number one source of sexual intimacy you’ll develop a stronger bond, connection, and work through conflicts better. Porn slowly cuts away at you from so many angles and it may not be apparent at first, but over time the relationship will suffer greatly - again, why take that chance.
Hopefully this has been enlightening and sets you on your own journey. Your own journey is what matters and your “why” might be different, but you need to seek it out on your own and only once you find your own meaning will you truly find purpose and peace in quitting.
It’s far from easy, it’s a true struggle, and a great temptation, but once you quit - you’ll hopefully find your life has more meaning, purpose, and the feeling of fully loving your partner will make it all worth it.
Abstaining from porn allows me to embody the “ideal man” in my mind and makes me into someone I’m proud of - someone who’s wholesome, radiates goodness, and loves deeply.
I want to be my most loving self to my partner, find her beautiful day in and day out, compliment freely and openly, notice every intricacy of her, deeply connect, and love her with a heart full of love.
❤️
Marriage maybe the real sollution , but for a singgle man i have not found a sollution, fasting protect during the day but it doesnt during the night.
Thank you for this post…
Thank u this helped
Bro wrote a whole book to help us
24:30 says :˹O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
MashaAllah, may Allah bless this father daughter team.
Watching pornography is indeed sinful, splitting hairs as to whether its a minor sin or major sin should not be our focus. Muslims are called upon to avoid all sins both minor or major to the best of our ability. Pornography can destroy marriages, lead to adultery/fornication, lead us to objectifying the opposite sex, and more importantly, it disengages us from the Quran and the remembrance of Allah (swt) . Yes, it's possible for a Muslim to maintain the fundamental pillars of Islam and still engage in sinful acts such as pornography but in this case our faith in Allah (swt) is weak because pornography is the symptom not the diagnosis.
It's indicative of a spiritual problem (issues that swim in the waters of both the conscious and subconscious realm) it could be something that happened early in life, family dynamics and/or dysfunction, exposure to magazines that promote nudity, a simple curiosity that opened the door to addiction. We can't improve our lives until we admit that we have a problem. Just as yourself, "Is Allah and His Angles pleased with me as I'm viewing pornography?" We know the answer, we're going to commit sin but even if we're too weak to overcome it, never, ever turn your heart over to it and accept it and love it, hate it and reject it in your heart even as you are sinning. You must continue to hate it and pray sincerely to Allah (swt) to bring you out of it and, In sha Allah in time, He will deliver you from the bondage porn addiction.
Just Minusing the word hate..- well said
Its to get an idea of how islamic paradice looks like😂😂😂😂😂
Very well said Rashad, thank you :-)
JazakhAllah khair bro
Objectification is not wrong, if you are speaking in terms of Physics then there is no issue objectifying a human, because a human is an object in space and time.
Not just sinful but damaging your mindset and mental health, it's disgusting and it should be banned! Play sports, mountain climbing, any other cool outdoor activities to keep healthy, not just physical but mind also. To forget and stay away from nasty habits as much as possible.
Well explained well spoken dr. Shabir Mashallah ❤ it
I think what ive researched on a laymen level...watching porn is a big sin indeed but doing adultery is an actual huge sin! We should nonetheless stay away from both but specifically adultery because its the ultimate level of corruption of the physical aspect! Watching porn is a 1000 times less sinful than fornication but can easily lead to it and should on a collective and social level be condemned! May ALLAH help us!
So now you have minor, major and huge sin, great job 😁
Please note the Complete & Perfected islam told us 👉🏼 about a man who believed in Allah was told by the the Prophet (pbuh) he cant become a muslim, because he was wearing a taweez ( Masnud Ahmed 16969 )
Please note the Complete & Perfected islam told us 👉🏼 ``Whoever wears an amulet has committed SHIRK ( Masnud Ahmed 16969 ) ( There is not even one hadith which tells us amulets are permissible)
WHY HAVE PEOPLE DECIDED THOSE TAWEEZ WITH QURAN VERSES ARE NOT SHIRK ❓
As we know asking the dead for help is SHIRK, If l was to claim asking the dead for help is not SHIRK because this dead person is going to ask ALLAH to help us, will the PEOPLE agree with this ❓ The answer is no, which is correct ✔️
WHEN PE0PLE USE A TAWEEZ TO ASK ALLAH FOR HELP, THE PEOPLE DO NOT CALL IT SHIRK
WHEN PE0PLE ASK THE DEAD TO ASK ALLAH FOR HELP, THE PEOPLE WILL CALL IT SHIRK
We all agree idol worship will remain shirk even if we where to put Quran verses on an idol
We all agree reading Bismillah before eating pork will not make it halal
WHY D0 WE USE A DIFFERENT RULE F0R THE TAWEEZ ❓
@@thetruthwithproof8802 you understand what you are talking about.
I don't use tayeez.
Just because someone committed a sin or made mistakes in life does not mean he or she deserves to be hated and judged and laughed at. You see,i can go on and on how much i went through and that is going way back then in the past and now all these bullies and so on. Justice for me please.
Yes it's a sin and I have to be honest its not worth destroying your soul. Make repentance if you make a mistake. It's the only way to be happy and please God. Also jinn possession and black magic is real and can literally take over someone's sanity. If someone is possessed Allah will not fault the victim. It's one of the rules.
Please give backup reference
Qiymah is near may Allah forgive all of our sins... I am also suffering the issue but i believe I can
Not for another 100 years
The main key to protect us from major sin is to lower our gaze
Assalamu’alaikum, Brothers and sisters, Include me in your dua’s. I’m trying really hard to quit. Insha Allah with few more effort it’ll become my story of encouragement to others.
May Allah make it easy we all have our sins do your best to stay away
Jus marry some sister
From a spiritual perspective we need to look at why we do certain things and get to the root. Is it an addiction? If it is an addiction it’s not really in their control until they heal internally the cause. People escape their pain through through all different kind of addictions. Unhealed issues manifest all different kinds of problems
Agreed.
It's a void which becomes and addiction
Dr. Ally gives analytical reply so it makes sense that porn is an extensive sin without doubt, so we have to abstain it.
Isn’t there a Hadith saying that the first glance is forgiven but any glances after that is counted as a sin
Yeah that's true
Yeah
Pornography generally becomes a long lasting habit a bit like alcohol or a drug in that you will become addicted. It should be avoided at all costs as it robs the soul of faith and you eventually become a person without the sweetness of faith. In the Quran it commands to control the gaze in normal circumstances. What about pornography? I think to protect one's faith is paramount as we all want to be in a good state on our last day here.
isa in matthew 5:28 said the same thing But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
It also gives erectile dysfunction
You are nicely diverting the answer to the question
Let's be clear about something. The single most powerful force in the Human condition is Sexual. Sexual identity, roles, expectations and politics rule a huge portion of who we are and how we conduct ourselves. This force is so important that we Humans use it as a kind of "swiss army knife" to address multitudes of issues and problems. Pornagraphy is a symptom that stress and adversity have overwhelmed the individual and the default response is to validate one's place in the World. People are essentially lazy and pedestrian, so that validation falls to the most primal levels such as sex, aggression and self-destruction. Just like noting monkeys who throw feces, pull out their hair and quarrel without end, masturbation and pornagraphy are indications that something is sorely out of kilter. Put frankly, such a activities are corruptions of their healthier sexual expresses bestowed on us by God. Now, knowing that it's always easier and more fun to knock blocks down than stack them up, I'll be the first to admit that building a relationship with God is a whole lot tougher than knocking it down. So there's the choice: wallow in the lowest levels of self-indulgence or make a bid to know something greater than yourself. FWIW.
Allah judges us on our intentions. So watching damage's the heart. To control lustful desire one must dedicate themselves to fasting
not even ! talk to Allah daily it helps
A very brilliant and calculated answer
How can you say. Lower your gaze while you watch youtube all the time ?
@@snap_fit8686 Yeah, it sounds ridiculous.
باب إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحِي فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ
: "And if you do not feel ashamed, then do whatever you like."
Agreed, but everything has it's limits.
People looking for a free pass to sin 🤦🏽♂️
Exactly. They must think that if it’s a minor sin, it’s fine but even if it were, it’s not.
@@thehourglassfan3515 🤣🤣🤣🙈🙈🙈,
It's at your finder tips
Anyone has internet and phone it's at his fingertip..
Even if a 10 year child has a phone with internet, it's at his fingertip..
And so almost everyone who has this might have seen it except someone who has some kind of phsycological phobia that can trigger a seizure....
All others might be seeing it.. they are pushing it down the throught of everybody..
Even Muslims make videos nowadays using beautiful women anchors to catch attention..it's a marketing technique preying on the man's phsychology..
So what happens when the women exposes the whole thing ..no doubt people will fall for it..
@@thehourglassfan3515 But it's not major sin also
Bro Allah created us like thst what can we do😂
Very diplomatic answer. I didn't get a clear answer. Did you?? I respect Shabir any way. He really does a good job.
Assalamualaikum Haji. Useful Information and advice. Thanks for sharing.
I have no idea as to what he just said! He spoke at length about everything but failed to answer the question, at least I did not find the answer in his explanation. Someone please correct me if I have misunderstood.
It is A Major sin In short
Thank you. @@jillandepp301
I like how Dr. Shabir Ally addresses the necessity of avoiding despair. (Also: a little off topic but could you explain the prohibition of graven images in Islam? Would not pornography then fall under this prohibition? What about anatomy texts? Guidance and clarification if possible would be greatly appreciated!)
Quite did speak my mind here, especially in case of anatomy!!!
Only that what "graven images"!!!???
And, personally, as well as per this video, there's no as such binary answer to that. Rest is "acts are by intentions"!!!
The man, though, did do take a rather very long route to get to last 5 seconds where exactly the answer was. Guess cause of a woman infront of him (😛😛😛). Who, in fact, does seem quite yummy, lol!!!
Realistically ma'am, a graven image in anatomy texts aren't meant to lust after nor do they induce sexual desire, as the objective of the use is crystal clear and for a higher cause that benefits the humanity as a whole with no exceptions, surely there are unique cases of sexually ill individuals that would use such texts as masturbation materials.
@@ahmedharrak3985 thank you for the answer!
he spoke a lot, but said comparatively little
Can someone please tell me exactly where Dr Shabir ANSWERS the question????????? Jazakalah.
Major sin and minor sins are derived by the interpreters..ofcourse thr are more evil and bad things and there are less bad things..but islam teaches us to cleanses ourselves from the all the bad things inshallah
Quran says we should trim and not shave our moustache or the beard under the lower lips righ? or am I wrong?
Yes thats right
You can trim moustache but not beard
Sagacious words from Dr Shabir, as ever. I think pornography has the potential to lead onto Major Sin(s) - so the best course of action, is to stay away from it. Look, and ask, for God to guide you in all decisions; then you are on the straight and true path.
I think we need another prophet to vome with a book that talks about it and band it.😂😂😂 allah didnt see it coming, but they keep saying quran is for all times
I think there's a big difference between erotic literature, as you mention, and let's call it live-action pornography. Because whatever may be sinful about the first one, it's at a personal level, whereas in the second case it involves the external sins of others. If you consume the second type of pornography, you are essentially paying people to fornicate (even if you don't pay per se, you contribute to their income through ads, etc.) That factor makes it difficult to separate it from the sin of fornication itself.
Both are major sins
plus the literature is also written by someone else so you're contributing to that
@@AC-mp7cx I think saying that would imply that also writing about murder is at the same level than actually killing someone.
But what if you use adblocker plus? 🤣
Same is true for literature. Paid or website with adds. Freemium models
Thank you for letting know the site.
really
Dr. Shabir, Ally, we really need to talk about that sweater.
I was admiring his jumper!
Holding yourself randsom to such heinous acts because of not being married is a very bad state to be in. I see alot of people who have given themselves up as captives because of not being able to do something which isn't even an obligation. Hajj is an obligation and if you don't have the means then it is not. People place marriage above these pillars of Islam to the extent they will save money for a lavish wedding or dowry but not look at the obligatory duties.
It has destroyed society, it’s absolutely a major sin.
You're the best. You helped me a lot. Thank you Dr.shabir Ally . love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩
He is a deviant bro. Er onek kotha completely Islam er against e jay.
@@ABMRefutes such as?
Why do you need to mention Bangladesh and bring down the whole country with you.
@@Sam-cz2bz So what is your problem ?
@@ABMRefutesতার অনেক কখা ইসলামের বিরুদ্ধে যায় তাহলে আপনি সঠিক ব্যবহার করতেছেন না কেন!!
What is free will or qadar? Please give some examples to understand and what should be believe as Muslims.. also it’s incident example of AlI ibna Talib RA that the guy came to him and ask about free will or qadar, Ali ask raise your one legs and than he did and Ali RA ask to raise another leg, which he cannot do that? That is some part is free will or other not, please explain thanks
You don't have to be Muslim to detest pornography its exploitive and destructive to society.
Watching pornography casually or an unintentional glance on pornographic stuff must be regarded as a major sin.
Those who have been consumers of pornography, still have time to step back and enter into an agreement with Allah that he/she will abstain from that major sin and may Allah provide him/her with lawful means of gratification.
Allah always listens to prayers that an individual asks for staying away from sins done in private.
How can an unintentional glance be a major sin?
Do u even know what a major sin is?Don't say it so lightly.Zina equivalents to 10years of praying 5x daily.
@@hudan0009Don't forget it's up to us Who Allah SWT wishes to forgive and who he does not. Even a prostitute is forgiven all her sins just because she gave a thirsty dog some water.
Thank you Dr. Shabir Ally for opening the eyes of the youth...
I write what i want, eternally!!!
I thought this show was called “let the Quran speak” not traditions, Hadiths, classical books or us.
True but can you explain Quran without hadiths and traditions.
am i so incredibly stupid or did we not get an answer? I heard a whole argument about major and minor sins, and what has been said about sins etc. but no direct answer to the direct question. Anyone care to explain?
Bro I need a sheikh like prophet Muhammad when a guy come to him and ask him the permission to do fornication. He responded if he want the same thing for his mother or sister. And the guy don't want commit fornication any more. It's the same thing, I don't want for a female from my family to watch or do thing like that.
Please don't indulge in masturbation and watching pornography. It's decrease your light.
It is not a major sin yet is minor but it is also Haram.But in Quran nothing mentioned about porn and masturbation . The major sins are the sins mentioned in Quran. And nothing mentioned about masturbation only Zina sex without marriage is Haram and a major sin other than your wife.
How does it matter , is it a major or minor sin, it is a sin and if you die watching this nothing will prevent you from entering hell
Say NO To Pronography
Say no to non consensual intimacy.
I don't know he answered the questions or not
I CAN'T HELP IT... IT'S TIME TO STOP
Me too
same
For those who are struggling, try this remedy. Insh’Allah ,it will help
Who says there is no remedy for any kind of
physical, psychological, spiritual, and/or
supernatural problems. Quran is The Ultimate
Remedy, and Allah is the one who Cures all.
All those suffering from any Physical Mental, or
spiritual illness or black magic, should listen to
surat “Al-Rehman” a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit
(Without translation) 3 times a day for 7
consecutive days with closed eyes. Every time after
listening take half a glass of water, close your eyes
and say ”Allah” thrice in your heart, and drink in 3
sips.
*5 pillars of Islam*
Narrated Ibn 'Umar:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: Islam is based on (the following) five (principles):
1. To testify that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and Muhammad is Allah's Messenger (ﷺ).
2. To offer the (compulsory congregational) prayers dutifully and perfectly.
3. To pay Zakat (i.e. obligatory charity) .
4. To perform Hajj. (i.e. Pilgrimage to Mecca)
5. To observe fast during the month of Ramadan.
(Sahih al-Bukhari 8)
Love your channel
Didn't understand that answer at all a lot of circling
What happened to his beard?
Jazakumullahu khairan
Sorry to dare to ask, what if someone watches to improve their performance in their personal life? Or someone who doesn't have the means to get married and wants to stay motivated so as not to lose their physical ability, "If you don't use it, you'll lose it."
It is not an excuse
Best question that most Christians won't even talk about I mean somebody has nuts
What do you mean? The topic is discussed among Christians quite often (ex Christian here).
I have been blocked from my father's house so I'm a little pissed off
@@Sjetton85 why?
@@Sjetton85 Don't worry. You are a reject. Follow what islam has to offer and stop wasting your time. Work make money get a family. Practise islam in each stage and trust me you will be fine.
@@salim4512 oh I'm in love with the Quran 1st but I'm just in love with the Bible too as I can go hand in hand foot to foot mouth to mouth how can all cant see nor hear?
I still could not get it is major sin or minor sin ? Can anyone tell
Bro I need a sheikh like prophet Muhammad when a guy come to him and ask him the permission to do fornication. He responded if he want the same thing for his mother or sister. And the guy don't want commit fornication any more. It's the same thing, I don't want for a female from my family to watch or do thing like that.
Nice brother
I watch it everyday may Allah give me Hadith
Your sins are supposed to be private bro. May Allah help you. I suggest u delete this comment
thankiu for kind knowledge
Plz any brother help me I deleted the content many times but after 2 or 3 days I again watch it ! Will Allah forgive me ? I I sin repeatedly
R j still repeating it?
Sorry, I meant r u still repeating the sin?
Who says there is no remedy for any kind of
physical, psychological, spiritual, and/or
supernatural problems. Quran is The Ultimate
Remedy, and Allah is the one who Cures all.
All those suffering from any Physical Mental, or
spiritual illness or black magic, should listen to
surat “Al-Rehman” a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit
(Without translation) 3 times a day for 7
consecutive days with closed eyes. Every time after
listening take half a glass of water, close your eyes
and say ”Allah” thrice in your heart, and drink in 3
sips.
A woman is talking with a man with not covering her face and doing a talkshow???
And is it islam???
From where they find it??
This man should not be followed . So he’s basically saying because a sun is widespread we should refrain from calling it a major sin.
absolutely misleading
we are in the aaqhira
Can u tell me tho …is it major or minor and if I stop watching it how do I make Allah forgive me for it if it’s major
@@KisholvrrAllah is great and merciful
Inshallah He will forgive
Allahu Aqbar
May Allah SWT continue to strengthen you, Jazzakummulah Khairan
Make duaa from Quran...
Say: ‘Lord, grant me a goodly entrance and a goodly exit, and sustain me with Your own power.‘
So is it a major sin or minor sin?
He didn’t answer the question but we all know it is a major sin. You can like it’s not if you want to but it is.
Amazing answer. I am a Christian, but I find Dr. Shabir very enlightening. I am surprised at how open Muslims answers are. Very rational based on human desires. Believe this is not something we want in our Christian culture. It's destroying our youth. However it was not Christians who invented the Barbie Doll Playboy or Porno.
Yeh all did by devil zews
mishandling the month
of Ramadhan and moving it without a fixed date is a major shirk.
in my humble opinion
salaam
According to Quran the believing men and women are to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. An Nur 24-30-31
Dr speaks very good English
Just someone tell me, how do we know which hadith is True and which is not?? How can we know what this man said is authentic or not?
Respectfully, it is not about authenticity that would concern me, it is wether it is consistent with the human ethos or not, how we should put it to the test? My answer is that if the woman doing the act was a relative of mine, would I be okay with it?
@@ahmedharrak3985 well, I wasn't specifically talking about one particular situation. I was talking talking about believing in Hadith in general.
And about what you said, yes that's exactly my point, in the end, it all comes down to use our own sense that what should be right and wrong. Most people believe you have to be religious to be able to differentiate between right and wrong. I completely disagree. Instead you may make better judgment yourself instead of getting instruction from somewhere/someone else.
Guys I watched it few months ago I feel very bad will Allah forgive me
Yes Allah forgives everything except shirk , make tawbah and never do it again
Facing this problem from past 10yrs 😢😢😢😢
Yes or no.? I don't understand this long English
They both have same last name. Are they related?
May Allah bless Dr shabbir
So many people clicked so quick
Too quick
Sorry is this major sin or minor sin still didn’t get it
{ قُلۡ إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ رَبِّیَ ٱلۡفَوَ ٰحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنۡهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ وَٱلۡإِثۡمَ وَٱلۡبَغۡیَ بِغَیۡرِ ٱلۡحَقِّ وَأَن تُشۡرِكُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ مَا لَمۡ یُنَزِّلۡ بِهِۦ سُلۡطَـٰنࣰا وَأَن تَقُولُوا۟ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ مَا لَا تَعۡلَمُونَ }
[Surah Al-A`râf: 33]
I stopped taking my phone into my bed and that worked for me thank you allah
Am applying the same too inshaaAllah and May Allah help us all.
@@adanowmaalim5784 Who says there is no remedy for any kind of
physical, psychological, spiritual, and/or
supernatural problems. Quran is The Ultimate
Remedy, and Allah is the one who Cures all.
All those suffering from any Physical Mental, or
spiritual illness or black magic, should listen to
surat “Al-Rehman” a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit
(Without translation) 3 times a day for 7
consecutive days with closed eyes. Every time after
listening take half a glass of water, close your eyes
and say ”Allah” thrice in your heart, and drink in 3
sips.
Guess the the camera is the mahram in this right?
It's his daughter asking the question...
Porn destroyed my everything. My family myself my dunya my akhirah i can't undo the damage done to me and my family now. Im waiting for my end now.
How, man???
You can still prey, ask forgiveness and hope as long as you live.
The bigger destruction is how you were lead to think that Allah the most merciful cannot forgive you. Repent and turn to him so long as you're here! He is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too merciful its unthinkable just how nice he is!
It's not something modern. There have always been such kind of shows even before the advent of videos.
Like you can't say filmography is new since stage shows have always been there
So it’s not a major sin?
Your new beard style is very different
Brother Shabir we liked ur old look!
Its not a sin not sure, but not doing terrorism against Jews is definitely is a major sin in the Koran
Thanks Safiya
He's a clever man
I always thought pornography is a victimless crime and at least less crime than theft and stealing, back-bitting. But I realized that it’s compel one for masturbation which is abusing one’s own body and private part. So, it’s a haram thing and should avoid completely. And one solution is early marriage.
Exactly
I love the brother beared it looks a paper towel. MashaAallah