I've seen a lot of comments about him not having aspd or not acting like it at all and I just wanted to say that aspd is generally very hard to spot, especially in people who are actually trying to get better. If you can't spot it, it doesn't mean it's not there.
Agreed 💯 those people should go in a relationship with him for 8-9 months ... They'll come out of that relationship being suicidal filled with trauma & depression.. 😂😢
Yes, you can. They all have the sociopathic stare, that mirk. I don't see it on this guy. Also on Quora many self aware sociopaths/psychopaths are not. I met much worse ones in real life.
@irme8930 I'm pretty sure Greg is also autistic. He's done videos on it. That deeply effects the sociopathic look as the awkwardness of ASD can come through/ mask it.
It's a spectrum he is just a less severe case. Yet severe enough to be in prison so be careful! He is still quite dangerous! Even if not totally heartless (no one is)
Its quite ironic, but its veey difficult for sociopaths to act "like one" because its in their nature to be manipulative and as he said 'know what to say'. They are so good at adapting that unless you catch them in the midst of an outburst, you are unlikely to know anything is wrong
My little brother there, peeing bed and adhd too,I was always scared of my stepmom and i was being hospitalized in mental asylum in and out my whole life without any mental illness.thanks to her lol
Yes I didn't realise just how dark someone I knew was until there were serious warning signs, like him getting very angry because I wouldn't take his drugs, amongst other signs.
Maybe this is weird, but I want to go to someone that can easily manipulate and ask what they see in me, like what they "get a read" on, if you know what I mean. Like, how I present and what my obvious vulnerabilities are.
The worst part about sociopaths is they can rationalize bad hurtful things in a way so they don’t feel bad. They are manipulators that also manipulate themselves
You can hear it in his word choices. He says “I was not malicious but I wouldn’t shy away from hurting people” He treats people like objects that are meant to serve him and if they don’t they get hurt. He obviously feels like they deserve the harm and he’s not “shy” about doing what he feels is right. “I’ve learned to feel empathy” more like he’s learned to fake empathy in order to be more effective at manipulating people.
It is possible that they also feel subconscious or dissociated when acting evil, so when a normal conscious way of thinking comes up in their minds maybe she's like... "wtf" when they end up in an unsafe space. I experience this actually but i am only 28 i hope to correct this. I mean people still don't ak owledge the existence of the subconscious but it really does exists and it plays a role in some criminals
You're one of those people who doesn't think for themselves, you just blindly go with what the person in the video says. That's not something to brag about
It is in fact difficult to teach these guys empathy. It’s difficult to teach them to view others as more than just opportunity too. I say this from 4 years of experience being married to someone with antisocial personality disorder. He’s been officially diagnosed by a psychologist, but gets super offended when I say anything about it because as smooth as he is when he lies to other ppl, he’s also that smooth when he lies to himself and he’s convinced that if no one mentions it, it doesn’t exist. My husband, while he may sound simple enough, is a very, very intelligent man. From my own experience, I’d say that although they definitely are capable of change, it’s a very slow process and unless you’re okay with living out the rest of your life with someone who’s just never going to fully get it, never going to be able to have any in-depth conversation with you, never going to have anything besides a transactional relationship, someone who’s always going to secretly resent you for something, don’t try it at home. They’re very hurtful creatures. I love my husband and I’m proud of his progress. I’m still with him and I know he loves me in his own way. But I also fully understand that unless I leave him, it’ll never be enough. Not really.
Me being a high functioning sociopath reading these comments just makes my day knowing that no one in the comments has any idea what they are talking about😂
lowkey u are just kiddo with “problems” sociopath is not anything about brain or genetic, so how this guy doesn’t knew empathy okay hes a psychopath, but they do have a empathy, just in a very low lvl so in both ways u are nothing
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Well I also got labeled with ASPD in prison which most ppl in there are just for committing a crimes is antisocial but I don’t think everyone in there has it but from what I’ve read it’s a spectrum and let me tell you this guy is pretty low on the scale. Ive been associated with ppl with ASPD who is killers and war criminals from the Balkan war and this guy is far from them. I’m more like them then this guy and I would probably make him my bitch in prison (not in a literal sense but in the hierarchy sense) 😂 but as I wrote it’s a spectrum and this guy seems pretty low
@@vbgsantander even someone who's low on the spectrum can fuck people up, goes to show how serious this condition is, it ain't entirely your fault, but it your responsibility to behave and I hope you're trying
Im genuinely unsure whether or not i feel guilt. I have OCD and i obsess over morality, but i also can be incredibly erratic and self destructive and in the midst of obsessing over feelings of what i label guilt shame and self hatred, i can often foregoe being morallt careful. When i notice it after obsessing on the negativity that my actions generate i do feel bad and i do try to remedy, but i dont know if thats normal, to have to really think about it instead if it just be an instantaneous reflex in any situation.
Feeling guilt can be useless honestly. What is more important is that you are someone who recognizes when you do something “wrong” or hurt someone. You can always apologize later, you don’t have to feel guilt to do what is right after a mistake. Just my opinion
Its weird how personally, i naturally knew how to act and what to say to get whatever reaction or action from people. It was also most never malicious or hurtful...i started seeing it as being emotionally adept. I grew to pick up on peoples emotions quickly and time my approach in conversations. Only because i had a natural interest in whats going on in peoples minds. I dont really recall using what i had gathered against people. I actually use it for good...
@@rainestorm6029Hm it's starting to make a bit of sense. High sensitivity and empathy and on the other hand very low are at least in many cases trauma responses. It can just go both ways depending on a person. That's why highly sensitive and empathetic people can be manipulative
What scares me about this video is how similar that guy is to me I am a sociopath what really gets me is the facial expressions just like mine dead eyes a calm tone like him I learned empathy the one thing that really builds a sociopath is isolation trust me I spent many many many years alone. one thing as a sociopath that is worse than death is the infinite boredom I feel everyday I wake up I feel nothing butt boredom
@@celty5858 I finally met someone and for once I felt happiness I still don't have an expressive face but he doesn't care I can't express emotions for once infinite boredom isn't there I'm doing a lot better now
@@annaa-rh2bj Exercise, exercise, exercise. Train until failure. Hobbies help too but exercise is a must. Find a close cirlce of friends you can relate, communicate, and be yourself with.
"empathy, is something that I've learned to feel" mean to mimicking certain gesture on certain situation or certain issue. I know they did that to manipulate people
I find it easier to believe this person has cognitive empathy. Hard to believe he has learned to develop emotional empathy. Lacking emotional empathy does not automatically make someone a bad person though. You can choose to do the right thing and be kind to people despite lacking emotional empathy. I don’t know this person so I have no idea whether he uses fake empathy to manipulate people or not, but just know that not all sociopaths are bad people. Some of them do treat people with kindness and respect and have a desire to do the right thing. The reasons they want to do the right thing might be different than a neurotypical person, but they can still be kind regardless. Some sociopaths live pretty decent lives, contribute to society, and don’t harm people.
@@jessicablack9960they wouldn’t be sociopathic if they wanted to do the right thing sociopathy is A DARK TRAID PERSONALITY DARK DARK DARK MEANING EVIL 😂 no wonder they find victims so easy geez
@@jessicablack9960learning empathy simply mean learning and choosing to imagine yourself in the other person's position. I'd say many neurotypical people have some troubles with that because of ego-centrism
I feel him, empathy and sympathy for me is something i rarely feel, atleast nowadays as I've grown up, i had to learn how to feel those emotions, even as a kid i was rarely feeling it, and I'm VERY persuasive, i almost always know exactly what to say to get what i want, regardless if it hurts someone else, I don't actually wanna be like this, and I am trying to change, but I understand him
Lair, I have ASPD, you can't be diagnosed with ASPD until 18 so how did you get a diagnosis at 14? No professional with a degree gives an adult diagnosis to a 14 yr old. As a minor you can be diagnosed with conduct disorder but not ASPD.
@iswhatitis94 depends on the age of the guy and location, I'm old I had a personality diagnosis at the gp at 14 years old. They don't do that anymore and rightfully so, it's crule to do to a child whos personality is still developing.
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Still trying to decipher whether my ex was one. He could lie to my face and look me directly in the eyes and lacked a lot of empathy. He would casually do little things here and there to break the law but nothing crazy. He was also very protective and caring with me and would cry every now and then with genuine emotions when I caught him in a lie. Pretty sure he was cheating on me and hid it well. I’ll never know.
This boy must be in isolation cuz he does not look like he could fight off the bigger prisoners unless they were incredibly stupid & he was able to mentally manipulate them. 2 questions: What is his name? What was his crime that landed him prison?
I never knew I was manipulative until my friend started accosting me for making everyone buy video games they never end up playing. I’m a very convincing salesperson I guess, I hadn’t even realized they were upset with me for ‘selfishly’ convincing them buy all these games until he brought it up.
@@cngotham4111 The thing to understand is a lot of the times ( Excluding this one hopefully ) these people aren't logical at all. The face they wanna convey is unemotional and extremely logical, but it's a logic that applies to their gain and expense of others, aswell as the emotions they feel.
@@UranoSteam I mean logical for their own interests but still there is training to have I guess maybe manulated the logic whatever the fucking training is I believe it's something like logical empathy or some shit. But yes without any therapy or working on yourself what you described is exactly how a sociopath acts.
He’s in autism spectrum….He’s not a sociopath not even close, he might have ASPD but sociopath? No. I can read him like a book, I know what a sociopath is, trust me…. I am diagnosed with ASPD….I can read my own kind 😅
He can be malicious he not realized it. he said he’s not shy way doing things hurt people. He looks arrogant yet not as smart he thought himself. He’s not highly manipulative as he thinks. He most likely use aggressive to get what he wanted. On manipulation he has no comparison with psychopath. He admitted he doesn’t know what empathy is and is “ something he has learned to feel” and he’s not into it.
When I FOUND myself in prison = I am never wrong. I was never malicious but I wasn’t shy about hurting people. = people are meant to serve me and if they don’t they deserve to get hurt and I’m not shy about doing what I feel is right. I’ve learned to feel empathy = I’ve learned to fake empathy in order to be more effective at manipulation Edit: he also talks about any negative behavior as being in the past. Like it wasn’t him it was who he used to be… he can’t accept that he is that guy so he attempts to distance who he is from who he was.
your comment might not have had the intention to vilify this man, but it gives off that impression. it would be much more beneficial to the world if we did not label all people with aspd as ''bad bad evil manipulator. they'll steal your money and kill your cat''. while i'm not defending actual abusers, it comes off as dumb and simplistic when somebody believes all ''psychopaths'' to be highly skilled manipulators. yes, they lack self awareness in situations where a neurotypical would probably have it. yes, empathy is not intuitive and instinctual to them. distancing yourself from the person you ''used to be'' is not even that antisocial of a trait. you've probably cringed at things you've done as a child or teenager. it is human nature to attempt to grow as you progress through life. his brain has developed differently, and obviously, if he has been in prison, he has committed some sort of crime, but the man on the screen is very clearly just some guy. a guy with a brain that does not allow him to function as he is ''supposed'' to. it is not something to pity, but it is idiotic to boil it down to ''he's so manipulative and everything he says actually means this other, worse thing''. most people with aspd aren't even psychopaths, as the term is not an existing diagnosis, but instead used for criminal profiling to describe a person who lacks empathy, remorse, is impulsive and violent. most people with aspd might not even be aware that they are being manipulative. it is natural for them to attempt to get what they want, and it is the only way they know how. again, not defending it. but we should really grow up and stop thinking of mental health disorders, especially personality disorders, as bad. sorry if my comment was super long or if i seemed offensive at any point. i didn't mean to make it seem as though you were doing something ''bad'' or attacking this man specifically. i am just very passionate about the subject, and get a bit too invested when presented with a chance to yap about it :)
That part about "people aren't meant to serve me and if they don't they deserve to get hurt and I'm not shy about doing what I feel is right" is spot on for my dad, he isn't a sociopath by any means but he's so self centred and cruel while somehow justifying it, it's crazy
Are you a mind reader because frankly this comment just reads like someone using their predisposed biases against someone to negatively interpret everything they say. You do not know this man, his thoughts or feelings stop pretending like you do
All these comments talking about how sociopaths dont show emotion, meanwhile most people will say that showing emotion while talking gets a worse reaction from listeners
Empathy is people asking you to actually feel what they feel about a situation . Which kinda is shit. Sympathy works without putting you though someone's irrational emotions or having to agree with them when you actually don't. Asking someone to empathise can sometimes be a really toxic thing. Why should someone have to actually be going through your emotions . It's almost like an eye for an aye thing. Pretty vampiric kinda stuff. It's just people dont often see it this way. Don't put people through your pain just to prove they care. Sympathy is rational and prevents people from becoming as incapacitated as the the person asking for empathy.
Everybody has some sort of degree of empathy. You don't need to feel empathy for everything in order to be empathetic. For ex. Uhh people who are racial supremacists might not feel empathy or sympathy for the opposite race but they are able to feel empathetic for the same race.
I think we can’t expect people to empathize with our individual emotions however if a person can and chooses to do so, its really good of them and it’s a lovely quality to have within yourself for other people, it can be draining sometimes but you have to learn to deal with it your own way and ensure you don’t give more than you’ve got, ofc if people are constant asking to be empathized with and are not willing to do the same its very toxic
The idea of empathy is great . That's why it speaks to do many people who virtue signal and actual don't do it. They just say they do to be able to further manipulate actually empathic people. This is a deeper reason why I greatly discourage it. And greatly discourage anyone from disclosing themselves as empathic or even "loving empathizing " with people. Because you wouldn't know. It's for the person being empathised with to validate if you are or aren't empathic. It has and always will be a judgement and a meaningless flex. Actions speak louder than words. It's the weak who want power over the weaker that use emotional manipulation tactics such as this.
Sounds like he's just quoting his therapist. His criminal therapist who has to justify his job by giving criminals a diagnosis. True socipaths don't care about your labels and will be highly offended at the idea that you think there's something wrong with them. They're very hard to diagnose, because they're excellent liars and won't tell enough truth to be diagnosed. "I'm a very caring person! Sometimes I get emotional and do things I regret, but I have a really big heart!" They definitely won't go on camera and admit to having a disorder. Just like a car salesman will never come up to you and admit he's a scam artist
Well sure but maybe after landing in jail and someone diagnosing him that knows better, it just wasn't much of an advantage anymore to keep up appearances
@@gur262i'm sociopath and feeling love is same for us it isn't different like he said but yes we like relationship where we feel powerful its toxic but not like other verison of love
@@Sammy_the_best_there_ever_wasI figured he more meant that he wouldn't go out of his way to hurt others, but wouldn't be afraid to if there was a 'need'. Of maybe I'm just making up what I thought he meant and instantly believing it.
More like he did it and is disassociating from it because who wants to feel bad, especially someone who believes that they are infact smarter than other people 😂😂🎉 I have heard this from a sociopath before so was very quickly able to identify it It is all about the image either the victim or the hero always
Malicious meaning he wasn’t evil and wasn’t constantly looking for people to prey, he just means he simply didn’t give af if he hurt someone especially if he got sum sort of reward out of it
I love the comments where everybody’s an expert or when they self diagnosing themselves. I still don’t know the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath
This is a very sad and confusing disorder but my brother has it and I’ve tried to understand why he had so much hate and anger towards everyone even me but they only think they’re good at manipulating I see right threw that and even more there outburst can be predicted and I actually believe this is a disorder that can be treated but the treatment would take someone with a lot of love and patience for that person and they do still feel love, sadness, regret, ext maybe even stronger then u and I it’s more when they have time to them-selves to think about it all but it does happen, I’ve given up on my brother and maybe that’s wrong I’m done risking my life trying to help someone that wants to hurt people the fact that guy said he was good at saying the right thing you weren’t I grantee that made anyone he was around uncomfortable and they could see if not a lot, a little of twisted moral.
@@sdfghgtrew Most definitely love can be quite addicting as a drug to the state of no return if one does not have an identity, a belief, moral codes to follow,self love, and respect.
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I don’t believe this guy is sociopath or lack sympathy. I believe that the prison system got to him and told his mind lies. I can sense him. And yes, while it is hard to spot, someone made a comment about that. It is hard to spot but when you’re an impact, you can sense others obviously, we all know that, but if he was void of emotion, I wouldn’t be able to send them for one and two he shows too much emotion when he talks. The prison system told him this he needs whatever is really going on.
Simply, they just justify their mistakes... Not guilty at all Consider themselve as super powerful person who can control others.... They lie without knowing that this lie is hurting other one... It's too much difficult to understand them...
Why on earth would you cry while seeing an animal dying on the street? Like I get it if you cry because your dog/cat died, but an animal you didn’t even know? That’s a bit extreme I feel like
Even the most animal loving people i know wouldn't cry seeing a random animal die. If its something that would make you genuinely cry something else might be going on.
@@balznack Na you can't view wild animals as pets that's what gets you killed form animal attacks or by starvation. Realistically would you rather hunt to survive or die. However I do believe nature should be preserved and respected. I think if you hit a wild animal such as a deer, elk, or hog, you should take it home and eat use its hide for a rug or blanket and use every part of the animal. But if its a cat or a dog sure that's sad I've never liked cats all that much because I've had bad experiences with them as a kid. But as dog lover I would be upset not sad but angry. Its not the drivers fault its the owners fault people really need to know how to watch their dogs. But it angers me the most when people don't respect nature. Also I will gladly kill hogs they are nuisance and a invasive species who destroy farm land.
@@balznackOkay, but when I was maybe five years old, I actually sobbed when I saw a hawk get tumbled by a semi truck, because I knew it wouldn't live. I've always been an animal lover, and yet, I really don't see anything wrong with crying when seeing an animal die. Just because someone cries over an animal's death doesn't mean there's something wrong with them. (And before any assumptions could be made, no, I wasn't sensitive to the idea of death or anything, and had experienced it a lot at that point [ I lived on a farm ]. )
@@tumeruaThat is not the point. I'm muslim, but I'm not deluded. God will not save me from cancer or depression, but he can help us to have hope, motivation et be stronger. Stop being stupid.
niby nie ma "empati" . Ma silną z natury albo srednią jak kazdy- tylko jest ukiernukowana negatywnie dla niego jego wrazliwosc i empatia przez co wczuwa sie w negatywne nieprawdziwe uczucia. Przez co nauczyl sie wylaczac zabijac wszystkie uczucia. I teraz od nowa uczy sie zachowywac mile budujace uczucia dajace mile doswiadczanie relacji z innymi. Jego glos ciagle brzmi jakby bardzo ciagle jego rana go niszczyla i bol mu sprawia mowienie tak jakby. Smutne.
All of these "sociopaths" are LARPing. You do not want to be on the Cluster B. The dead give away with this is "your version of love" If he was actually ASPD he wouldn't know how to answer that question.
There is a very good chance you know someone with ASPD, or lower level psychopathy. It’s not as easy to spot as you would think. Easier to spot if you exhibit those traits.
Well I also got labeled with ASPD in prison which most ppl in there are just for committing a crime labeled as antisocial but I don’t think everyone in there has it but from what I’ve read it’s a spectrum and let me tell you this guy is pretty low on the scale. Ive been associated with ppl with ASPD who is killers, drug king pings and war criminals from several war zones and this guy is far from them. I’m more like them then this guy and I would probably make him my bitch in prison (not in a literal sense but in the hierarchy sense) 😂 but as I wrote it’s a spectrum and this guy seems pretty low on it and I can tell from experience cuz when you from the streets you get that gut feeling instantly and I’ve seems a interview with this guy before
I would so fall for him. He has really pretty eyes and he doesn’t seem cold to me. If he tried to manipulate me and I didn’t have this context, I would probably be susceptible.
At least they gets laid alot, with all the human beings around the world eh My little brother and a friend i meet on internet both sociapath , they've made covid happen lol Hope i can cut ties with father sides and not stalked completely
(((21yrs old))) I wouldn't say I have sociopathy but is something I may be speculating while trying to understand myself. As time goes on during the discovery of my own mind, I have noticed that I am different from people. So far I believe I have ADHD, not entirely sure of Aspergers. These 2 can overlap causing inconsistencies with one another making it hard to truly know if you have one or the other, or even both. But Sociopathy has been on my mind this past week. Lately I have been studying the way I interact, how I feel and "what makes me different" and one thing I have sort of noticed is my laughter when someone is hurt. For example someone at work slipped due to wet floor, and I couldn't help but smile without any sign of remorse, especially since it wasn't even intentional. They was hurt. I did then "try" and ask if they were okay but it was more like I was forcing myself to care, which I really didn't. All I wanted to do was gain respect from that individual, especially since me and them weren't exactly on great terms. After all, she didn't really enjoy my presence which sort of annoyed me, as many people enjoy talking to me, but other times they find me cold and rude. Not entirely sure why as it is just my personality I would say. However, after eventually asking her "How is your arm?" she sort of 'warmed up' a bit? Hard to say. But she is talking a little more rather than always giving a cold shoulder. Which I suppose is a ++ Not saying Sociopathy / Anti-social personality disorder is something you want, but if I suspect it is present in my mind, then I need to start observing my own behaviour more. (After finishing that last sentence, for some strange reason I was thinking "observing my own behaviour more, and study it while adapting to other people. Not exactly 'normal' way of thinking) I have grown up quite distant from people due to school bullying, which many people called me "cocky" which I don't believe I was, just highly out-going and reserved [which the reserved was adapted the more the bullying went on]. I don't want to get "tested" for Sociopathy, but at the same time I want to truly understand who I am to know why I think like the way I do, so if I do truly have it then I suppose that clears up a lot of confusion.
I'm definitely not a psychologist, but I had similar thoughts and experiences like you a while ago and actually went to get it checked with a licensed psychologist. Though I thought I had aspd, it turns out it was npd which has a lot of similar symptoms like aspd and thus is often confused with it. That's also the reason why I know so much about it and am pretty confident at distinguishing those two from each other. With that I'd say though you might have some aspd experiences, they are more similar to npd. I would recommend you inform yourself about that disorder (actually do it instead of instantly rejecting it like I did at first) and then get it checked out by a professional, at least to get your diagnosis sorted.
@@peppermint7878 NPD seems quite far from what I may have though? Haven't looked into what it is yet, but it is to do with Narcissism [as far as I know atm]. But I don't consider myself high confidence? In fact it is relatively low. However, there are moments when I sort of develop this "God complex" or "Superiority Complex". This is due to me valuing myself over anyone else, which is normal. Your life is your life, so it is the most important. I care for only myself, but I believe I know the real answer to it, as I learnt something called "Emotionally detached". Read 2 days ago while heading to work, and all the symptoms are 100% present. Unlike other ones, I have for sure sensed that symptoms of being emotionally detached majority if not all the time. Which could be how other mental illnesses could have crept their way in and taken place. I never truly feel myself. I always feel like my personality is always changing and adapting, so I can never really be "one person". I don't have passions, friends and strangely I don't care about anyone or really anything. Video games help me past time and its all I want, but people around me frown upon that, which is why I want to start trying to earn money from content creation. So that way I live in peace, alone and in solitude. Life is boring. Depression? Most likely. Anxiety... uncertain, either it turns on and off or just goes unnoticed. What makes things difficult is that I believe I have some form of "intelligence" compared to the average individual, and due to this it somewhat aids in combating certain aspects of my life. Im logical about almost everything. Kind of hate it. Because I can never be myself. Always got this back-seater in my head, like there is 2 people in control. My body doesn't feel like mine half the time and my mind doesn't feel me the other times. So what the hell lol
@@CounttlessYT I would really recommend you to look into npd, because your symptoms really do seem like more npd than aspd. The things is, npd is often highly misunderstood by people who are too lazy to do their research, which is why the general public often has a wrong view of that disorder. Narcissist can feel insecure, especially when they're been masking their disorder very well and for very long, but most of the time that happens because they're confused in their feelings and don't know which feeling they should perceive as the real one. This leads to them believing they're insecure while deep down "knowing" they're better. To really understand if you have aspd or npd, I would first of all advise you to do a lot of research about both topics, but also to ask yourself whenever you intensionally or unintentionally hurt or deceive someone, what your goal behind that action was. Was it to reach a certain goal or gain respect (most likely npd) or was it to just see them hurt because it excites you (most likely aspd)?
Laughing your ass off at others misfortune? Well maybe you are just German. Schadenfreude. Not caring unless they really look like dying? Well. If you don't like em that checks out too. Seen skins? The UK version. If you feel like all Tony is doing is fine, somethings wrong I'd say.
@@peppermint7878I'm with you! Many people associate narcissism with brashness, aggression and dominance, but it can manifest in subtler ways as well. There are also different types of narcissism. For example covert narcissism includes a lack of empathy, low confidence and insecurity
You in no way can get an understanding of someones internalstate if something cimplex like being unhinged from eye movments. In general affect is sometimes over considered especially in cultures that tend to condion us to be more extroverted so be carefull and go on what people say as much as their cues
@@Ty33313 3 types of empathy hotshot. we've got 2. guilt -> it's been decades since i've done something to feel guilty for. i slipped while running and dented someones car. i felt a unpleasant emotion . remorse"deep regret or guilt for a wrong committed" neurotypicals
Not a true sociopath, you couldn’t have ANY sense of love or empathy, u just have most sociopathic traits, I had them to when I was an addict, now sober they linger but I never act on them, why I KNOW sociopathy is learned/nurtured
There is no textbook definition of what a sociopath is, its not a strict criteria, someone might be autistic but still behave differently than a different autistic person. Sociopaths are people not factory made robots
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Sad truth of life. I’ve noticed this by the way people will exclude others that don’t fit a certain norm, be it lack of physical attractiveness, intelligence, awkwardness ect. The world tends to treat them like shit, and then some of them reach a boiling point from the constant negative feedback loop, oftentimes for factors out of their control, so they go on to do the unthinkable and become mass shooters because they can’t stand the evil side of humanity, despite hearing how “good” most people claim to be around others they like. So many other examples of why “good people” all have a certain level of callousness inside them that they hide in public. Humans are wild creatures
Exactly what i was thinking, this guy clearly has a lot going on in his mind and can convey his thoughts clearly. These comments call him emotionless but what about the interviewer?
It is a spectrum, so I think we all have psychopathic traits. But real psychopaths have a dopamine system that overrides their desire to do anything else but seek pleasure and adrenaline rush.
@@Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF a key aspect of humanity is trust. You cannot trust people with this kind of problem. Of couse he is deserving of all the rights we have. Wrong wording on my part
I wish I had this I’m too nice to people and I’ve lost over $100,000.00 in “ helping “ friends and coworkers and I keep getting screwed and I want to learn how to develop a hard heart instead of giving people all my time money love help and energy
with aspd disorder, you have always npd, but you can have npd without having aspd. With nowadays knowledge. But in my opinion people are way too complex for any kind of diagnosis, I think there are much we do not know about brains , in future we know more and more..It is a shame we are not alive anymore to know what else science reveals. It would be interesting to know more.
@@fkurfeelings6938 you "took physiology" in school... you should know then that psychology is something completely else than physiology" which has to do with the physical body and it's organs not even remotely related to psychology... thanks for proving to us that you have no fucking clue about what you are talking about..
His head moves. Most psychopathic people i've met over the years keep their head still when talking, and don't blink often. Nor have the nervous feeling to break eye contact.
Not all sociopathys feel the same emotions or don't feel emotions at all. Or behave the same. Cluster B disorders are all on a spectrum after all. You can't always fit those boxes perfectly
@@SkinwoIf a real sociopath will never admit they are one unti the day they die every one else is crazy and they are normal cus in there head they are normal. They are unable to show any kind of emotion and and no sympathy for any one even there own family they could watch there own mother getting shot and it won’t affect them that’s a true sociopath very dangrouse and scary people. Everything is a lie everything is a game
@@pabloes.4945Lol how would you know? Look at my pfp I really have ASPD. If he was given a diagnosis of ASPD while in prison I'm sure that's what he has 😂
@@Youraveragedemon-n3rexactly, these people think theyre the fucking experts just from watching a 30 second glimpse into someones life. Really, REALLY? 😂😂🤣🤣
I've seen a lot of comments about him not having aspd or not acting like it at all and I just wanted to say that aspd is generally very hard to spot, especially in people who are actually trying to get better. If you can't spot it, it doesn't mean it's not there.
Agreed 💯 those people should go in a relationship with him for 8-9 months ...
They'll come out of that relationship being suicidal filled with trauma & depression.. 😂😢
@@A_Good_Boy.man people have really been brainwashed into think everyone with ASPD is an evil villain huh? Imagine that
Yes, you can. They all have the sociopathic stare, that mirk. I don't see it on this guy. Also on Quora many self aware sociopaths/psychopaths are not. I met much worse ones in real life.
@irme8930 I'm pretty sure Greg is also autistic. He's done videos on it.
That deeply effects the sociopathic look as the awkwardness of ASD can come through/ mask it.
It's a spectrum he is just a less severe case. Yet severe enough to be in prison so be careful! He is still quite dangerous! Even if not totally heartless (no one is)
Its quite ironic, but its veey difficult for sociopaths to act "like one" because its in their nature to be manipulative and as he said 'know what to say'. They are so good at adapting that unless you catch them in the midst of an outburst, you are unlikely to know anything is wrong
My little brother there, peeing bed and adhd too,I was always scared of my stepmom and i was being hospitalized in mental asylum in and out my whole life without any mental illness.thanks to her lol
@@lisaliu7788confusing comment, was this about your little brother or you wtf?
@@lisaliu7788bro confused aspd and adhd with illiteracy lol
Yes I didn't realise just how dark someone I knew was until there were serious warning signs, like him getting very angry because I wouldn't take his drugs, amongst other signs.
Maybe this is weird, but I want to go to someone that can easily manipulate and ask what they see in me, like what they "get a read" on, if you know what I mean. Like, how I present and what my obvious vulnerabilities are.
The worst part about sociopaths is they can rationalize bad hurtful things in a way so they don’t feel bad. They are manipulators that also manipulate themselves
i do that too.m..😂😂😂😂
You can hear it in his word choices. He says “I was not malicious but I wouldn’t shy away from hurting people”
He treats people like objects that are meant to serve him and if they don’t they get hurt. He obviously feels like they deserve the harm and he’s not “shy” about doing what he feels is right.
“I’ve learned to feel empathy” more like he’s learned to fake empathy in order to be more effective at manipulating people.
That’s actually really sad
@@godwantsplasticlearned to feel empathy most likely meant he learned how to have higher cognitive empathy
@@Firefly256 “higher” cognitive empathy? Maybe basic cognitive empathy with lots of holes…
"Found himself in prison" is another form of high manipulation. He thinks prison just was an unlucky accident, not his doing.
Look at backseat psychologist over here lmao
Maybe form an opinion watching the full interview and not a short you adhd zoomer
I chalk it up to a choice of language but maybe
My husband has aspd and one thing I've noticed is that he is extremely aware of consequences. I think this was just a language choice.
Wait,he didn't killed somebody due to sociopathy to get imprisoned?
It is possible that they also feel subconscious or dissociated when acting evil, so when a normal conscious way of thinking comes up in their minds maybe she's like... "wtf" when they end up in an unsafe space. I experience this actually but i am only 28 i hope to correct this. I mean people still don't ak owledge the existence of the subconscious but it really does exists and it plays a role in some criminals
So many "experts " in the comment section
😂😂😂
You're one of those people who doesn't think for themselves, you just blindly go with what the person in the video says. That's not something to brag about
@@anayareyGirl you're mad he isn't deluded and acting like a know it all?
@@anayareyyou need to stfu ur probably one of those people who self diagnose themselves and use mental illness as an everyday excuse
Ikr😂
God bless this man and his family. Not only is this not an easy disorder to spot but also to deal and cope and manage with 😢❤❤❤
Hello!
Thank you for this interview.
Poo vs pee who wins?
@@SamDootsooo matching pfp
@@SamDootsi drank and ate both
@@SamDootspoop has more mass but if you put enough psi in your pee stream it will always win.
@@Gunna_edits_666oh!⭐
It is in fact difficult to teach these guys empathy. It’s difficult to teach them to view others as more than just opportunity too. I say this from 4 years of experience being married to someone with antisocial personality disorder. He’s been officially diagnosed by a psychologist, but gets super offended when I say anything about it because as smooth as he is when he lies to other ppl, he’s also that smooth when he lies to himself and he’s convinced that if no one mentions it, it doesn’t exist. My husband, while he may sound simple enough, is a very, very intelligent man. From my own experience, I’d say that although they definitely are capable of change, it’s a very slow process and unless you’re okay with living out the rest of your life with someone who’s just never going to fully get it, never going to be able to have any in-depth conversation with you, never going to have anything besides a transactional relationship, someone who’s always going to secretly resent you for something, don’t try it at home. They’re very hurtful creatures. I love my husband and I’m proud of his progress. I’m still with him and I know he loves me in his own way. But I also fully understand that unless I leave him, it’ll never be enough. Not really.
I admire this man for even processing this s***
Me being a high functioning sociopath reading these comments just makes my day knowing that no one in the comments has any idea what they are talking about😂
Who cares
@@sdfghgtrewYou do.
lowkey u are just kiddo with “problems”
sociopath is not anything about brain or genetic, so how this guy doesn’t knew empathy
okay hes a psychopath, but they do have a empathy, just in a very low lvl
so in both ways u are nothing
@@RoosaM88 Not as much as your moma
@@sdfghgtrew You're just boosting engagement by commenting which is what TH-cam's algorithm looks for.
My tagline is: my mom wasnt nice to me now its everyones elses problem
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Lol 🤣
Well I also got labeled with ASPD in prison which most ppl in there are just for committing a crimes is antisocial but I don’t think everyone in there has it but from what I’ve read it’s a spectrum and let me tell you this guy is pretty low on the scale. Ive been associated with ppl with ASPD who is killers and war criminals from the Balkan war and this guy is far from them. I’m more like them then this guy and I would probably make him my bitch in prison (not in a literal sense but in the hierarchy sense) 😂 but as I wrote it’s a spectrum and this guy seems pretty low
@@dr.beckyspelmanno way you used chat gpt to answer lmao
@@vbgsantander even someone who's low on the spectrum can fuck people up, goes to show how serious this condition is, it ain't entirely your fault, but it your responsibility to behave and I hope you're trying
Im genuinely unsure whether or not i feel guilt. I have OCD and i obsess over morality, but i also can be incredibly erratic and self destructive and in the midst of obsessing over feelings of what i label guilt shame and self hatred, i can often foregoe being morallt careful. When i notice it after obsessing on the negativity that my actions generate i do feel bad and i do try to remedy, but i dont know if thats normal, to have to really think about it instead if it just be an instantaneous reflex in any situation.
Look in to borderline and narcissism.
Feeling guilt can be useless honestly. What is more important is that you are someone who recognizes when you do something “wrong” or hurt someone. You can always apologize later, you don’t have to feel guilt to do what is right after a mistake. Just my opinion
Its weird how personally, i naturally knew how to act and what to say to get whatever reaction or action from people. It was also most never malicious or hurtful...i started seeing it as being emotionally adept. I grew to pick up on peoples emotions quickly and time my approach in conversations. Only because i had a natural interest in whats going on in peoples minds. I dont really recall using what i had gathered against people. I actually use it for good...
I learned how to blackmail at 5
Same actually, I'm highly empathetic but share many, many traits with sociopaths
How do you know what to say to people?
@@annaa-rh2bj people are very predictable
@@rainestorm6029Hm it's starting to make a bit of sense. High sensitivity and empathy and on the other hand very low are at least in many cases trauma responses. It can just go both ways depending on a person. That's why highly sensitive and empathetic people can be manipulative
Cognitive empathy….not the same as empathy.
What scares me about this video is how similar that guy is to me I am a sociopath what really gets me is the facial expressions just like mine dead eyes a calm tone like him I learned empathy the one thing that really builds a sociopath is isolation trust me I spent many many many years alone.
one thing as a sociopath that is worse than death is the infinite boredom I feel everyday I wake up I feel nothing butt boredom
Were you able to find your people and did you manage to find treatment for your disorder, too? If I can ask
@@celty5858 I finally met someone and for once I felt happiness I still don't have an expressive face but he doesn't care I can't express emotions for once infinite boredom isn't there I'm doing a lot better now
@@Sammy_the_best_there_ever_wasdo you have a hobby or something ? How do you deal with boredom
@@annaa-rh2bj Exercise, exercise, exercise. Train until failure.
Hobbies help too but exercise is a must.
Find a close cirlce of friends you can relate, communicate, and be yourself with.
I feel you
Can someone please write a dictionary on how everyone else personally Feels about Love
"empathy, is something that I've learned to feel" mean to mimicking certain gesture on certain situation or certain issue. I know they did that to manipulate people
It's that and for acceptance. Society rejects outliers
I find it easier to believe this person has cognitive empathy. Hard to believe he has learned to develop emotional empathy. Lacking emotional empathy does not automatically make someone a bad person though. You can choose to do the right thing and be kind to people despite lacking emotional empathy. I don’t know this person so I have no idea whether he uses fake empathy to manipulate people or not, but just know that not all sociopaths are bad people. Some of them do treat people with kindness and respect and have a desire to do the right thing. The reasons they want to do the right thing might be different than a neurotypical person, but they can still be kind regardless. Some sociopaths live pretty decent lives, contribute to society, and don’t harm people.
@@jessicablack9960 thank you, Jessica
@@jessicablack9960they wouldn’t be sociopathic if they wanted to do the right thing sociopathy is A DARK TRAID PERSONALITY DARK DARK DARK MEANING EVIL 😂 no wonder they find victims so easy geez
@@jessicablack9960learning empathy simply mean learning and choosing to imagine yourself in the other person's position. I'd say many neurotypical people have some troubles with that because of ego-centrism
I feel him, empathy and sympathy for me is something i rarely feel, atleast nowadays as I've grown up, i had to learn how to feel those emotions, even as a kid i was rarely feeling it, and I'm VERY persuasive, i almost always know exactly what to say to get what i want, regardless if it hurts someone else, I don't actually wanna be like this, and I am trying to change, but I understand him
I was diagnosed with aspd when I was 14. I didn't know until years later it meant I was a sociopath. I did my research and it's pretty accurate.
Lair, I have ASPD, you can't be diagnosed with ASPD until 18 so how did you get a diagnosis at 14? No professional with a degree gives an adult diagnosis to a 14 yr old. As a minor you can be diagnosed with conduct disorder but not ASPD.
@@Youraveragedemon-n3r I was going to say the same thing. A person can't be diagnosed with ASPD until at least 18 years old.
@iswhatitis94 depends on the age of the guy and location, I'm old I had a personality diagnosis at the gp at 14 years old. They don't do that anymore and rightfully so, it's crule to do to a child whos personality is still developing.
No you don't lmao.
I'm a self diagnosed sociopath and I feel hopeless, should I get a checkup?
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Rope is cheap
@@matildatheoboldt2261ouch the edge
@@matildatheoboldt2261You're trying too hard.
@@BofaDeezBeesShe’s some internet edge lord who’s trying too hard to appear cold and careless. It’s really embarrassing.
Still trying to decipher whether my ex was one. He could lie to my face and look me directly in the eyes and lacked a lot of empathy. He would casually do little things here and there to break the law but nothing crazy. He was also very protective and caring with me and would cry every now and then with genuine emotions when I caught him in a lie. Pretty sure he was cheating on me and hid it well. I’ll never know.
He’s leaking company secrets
This boy must be in isolation cuz he does not look like he could fight off the bigger prisoners unless they were incredibly stupid & he was able to mentally manipulate them. 2 questions: What is his name? What was his crime that landed him prison?
I never knew I was manipulative until my friend started accosting me for making everyone buy video games they never end up playing. I’m a very convincing salesperson I guess, I hadn’t even realized they were upset with me for ‘selfishly’ convincing them buy all these games until he brought it up.
Maybe you’re just still growing up and learning about boundaries. It’s a positive thing to admit that you shouldn’t pressure people into things 👍
Dude youre in prison something was malicious
You can tell away socios, psychos and narcissists usually, but you can hardly do with this guy. He's more than smart.
He also works in himself he shows care and positive trait not necessarily through emotions but rather logical which helped him alot.
@@cngotham4111 The thing to understand is a lot of the times ( Excluding this one hopefully ) these people aren't logical at all. The face they wanna convey is unemotional and extremely logical, but it's a logic that applies to their gain and expense of others, aswell as the emotions they feel.
@@UranoSteam I mean logical for their own interests but still there is training to have I guess maybe manulated the logic whatever the fucking training is I believe it's something like logical empathy or some shit. But yes without any therapy or working on yourself what you described is exactly how a sociopath acts.
He’s in autism spectrum….He’s not a sociopath not even close, he might have ASPD but sociopath? No. I can read him like a book, I know what a sociopath is, trust me…. I am diagnosed with ASPD….I can read my own kind 😅
@@ktryushi4744 If you say so
He can be malicious he not realized it. he said he’s not shy way doing things hurt people. He looks arrogant yet not as smart he thought himself. He’s not highly manipulative as he thinks. He most likely use aggressive to get what he wanted. On manipulation he has no comparison with psychopath. He admitted he doesn’t know what empathy is and is “ something he has learned to feel” and he’s not into it.
And who the fck u are to judge?
When I FOUND myself in prison = I am never wrong.
I was never malicious but I wasn’t shy about hurting people. = people are meant to serve me and if they don’t they deserve to get hurt and I’m not shy about doing what I feel is right.
I’ve learned to feel empathy = I’ve learned to fake empathy in order to be more effective at manipulation
Edit: he also talks about any negative behavior as being in the past. Like it wasn’t him it was who he used to be… he can’t accept that he is that guy so he attempts to distance who he is from who he was.
your comment might not have had the intention to vilify this man, but it gives off that impression. it would be much more beneficial to the world if we did not label all people with aspd as ''bad bad evil manipulator. they'll steal your money and kill your cat''. while i'm not defending actual abusers, it comes off as dumb and simplistic when somebody believes all ''psychopaths'' to be highly skilled manipulators. yes, they lack self awareness in situations where a neurotypical would probably have it. yes, empathy is not intuitive and instinctual to them. distancing yourself from the person you ''used to be'' is not even that antisocial of a trait. you've probably cringed at things you've done as a child or teenager. it is human nature to attempt to grow as you progress through life. his brain has developed differently, and obviously, if he has been in prison, he has committed some sort of crime, but the man on the screen is very clearly just some guy. a guy with a brain that does not allow him to function as he is ''supposed'' to. it is not something to pity, but it is idiotic to boil it down to ''he's so manipulative and everything he says actually means this other, worse thing''. most people with aspd aren't even psychopaths, as the term is not an existing diagnosis, but instead used for criminal profiling to describe a person who lacks empathy, remorse, is impulsive and violent. most people with aspd might not even be aware that they are being manipulative. it is natural for them to attempt to get what they want, and it is the only way they know how. again, not defending it. but we should really grow up and stop thinking of mental health disorders, especially personality disorders, as bad. sorry if my comment was super long or if i seemed offensive at any point. i didn't mean to make it seem as though you were doing something ''bad'' or attacking this man specifically. i am just very passionate about the subject, and get a bit too invested when presented with a chance to yap about it :)
Perfect analysis!
That part about "people aren't meant to serve me and if they don't they deserve to get hurt and I'm not shy about doing what I feel is right" is spot on for my dad, he isn't a sociopath by any means but he's so self centred and cruel while somehow justifying it, it's crazy
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Are you a mind reader because frankly this comment just reads like someone using their predisposed biases against someone to negatively interpret everything they say. You do not know this man, his thoughts or feelings stop pretending like you do
All these comments talking about how sociopaths dont show emotion, meanwhile most people will say that showing emotion while talking gets a worse reaction from listeners
Me realizing that we have things in common: 🙃
Talk to a mental health professional
Empathy is people asking you to actually feel what they feel about a situation . Which kinda is shit.
Sympathy works without putting you though someone's irrational emotions or having to agree with them when you actually don't.
Asking someone to empathise can sometimes be a really toxic thing.
Why should someone have to actually be going through your emotions . It's almost like an eye for an aye thing.
Pretty vampiric kinda stuff. It's just people dont often see it this way.
Don't put people through your pain just to prove they care.
Sympathy is rational and prevents people from becoming as incapacitated as the the person asking for empathy.
I love empathizing with people. It enables me to be there in a deeper way for the ones I care about. Sympathy is shallow.
Everybody has some sort of degree of empathy. You don't need to feel empathy for everything in order to be empathetic. For ex. Uhh people who are racial supremacists might not feel empathy or sympathy for the opposite race but they are able to feel empathetic for the same race.
I think we can’t expect people to empathize with our individual emotions however if a person can and chooses to do so, its really good of them and it’s a lovely quality to have within yourself for other people, it can be draining sometimes but you have to learn to deal with it your own way and ensure you don’t give more than you’ve got, ofc if people are constant asking to be empathized with and are not willing to do the same its very toxic
Hate when people teach others what need to feel... everyone have rights to feel or think what they want,different with behaviour..
The idea of empathy is great . That's why it speaks to do many people who virtue signal and actual don't do it. They just say they do to be able to further manipulate actually empathic people.
This is a deeper reason why I greatly discourage it. And greatly discourage anyone from disclosing themselves as empathic or even "loving empathizing " with people.
Because you wouldn't know. It's for the person being empathised with to validate if you are or aren't empathic.
It has and always will be a judgement and a meaningless flex.
Actions speak louder than words.
It's the weak who want power over the weaker that use emotional manipulation tactics such as this.
Sounds like he's just quoting his therapist. His criminal therapist who has to justify his job by giving criminals a diagnosis.
True socipaths don't care about your labels and will be highly offended at the idea that you think there's something wrong with them.
They're very hard to diagnose, because they're excellent liars and won't tell enough truth to be diagnosed.
"I'm a very caring person! Sometimes I get emotional and do things I regret, but I have a really big heart!"
They definitely won't go on camera and admit to having a disorder.
Just like a car salesman will never come up to you and admit he's a scam artist
Well sure but maybe after landing in jail and someone diagnosing him that knows better, it just wasn't much of an advantage anymore to keep up appearances
@@gur262he is fake if you see video carefully he's trying to be cool
@@gur262i'm sociopath and feeling love is same for us it isn't different like he said but yes we like relationship where we feel powerful its toxic but not like other verison of love
Depends on what they offer them for doing the video.
'I wasn't malicious, but I wouldn't shy away from doing things that hurt people'
No comment
I know his feeling hurting someone is bad but fun creepy how that works ain't it
@@Sammy_the_best_there_ever_wasI figured he more meant that he wouldn't go out of his way to hurt others, but wouldn't be afraid to if there was a 'need'.
Of maybe I'm just making up what I thought he meant and instantly believing it.
I think he means that he didn't initiate but was definitely willing to defend in harmful ways
More like he did it and is disassociating from it because who wants to feel bad, especially someone who believes that they are infact smarter than other people 😂😂🎉 I have heard this from a sociopath before so was very quickly able to identify it
It is all about the image either the victim or the hero always
Malicious meaning he wasn’t evil and wasn’t constantly looking for people to prey, he just means he simply didn’t give af if he hurt someone especially if he got sum sort of reward out of it
Very sickining
Farewell ☠️ Brother
Wow this is incredible
Well, ateast theyre self aware....i think?
yea NT are the cruel wild a-holes.
not being sarcastic btw
He’s lying the entire time
@@beefstew4698How do you know?
I love the comments where everybody’s an expert or when they self diagnosing themselves. I still don’t know the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath
This is a very sad and confusing disorder but my brother has it and I’ve tried to understand why he had so much hate and anger towards everyone even me but they only think they’re good at manipulating I see right threw that and even more there outburst can be predicted and I actually believe this is a disorder that can be treated but the treatment would take someone with a lot of love and patience for that person and they do still feel love, sadness, regret, ext maybe even stronger then u and I it’s more when they have time to them-selves to think about it all but it does happen, I’ve given up on my brother and maybe that’s wrong I’m done risking my life trying to help someone that wants to hurt people the fact that guy said he was good at saying the right thing you weren’t I grantee that made anyone he was around uncomfortable and they could see if not a lot, a little of twisted moral.
How do you know if your empathy is natural or learned?
love to me is the state of Euphoria as it is lust to others 😂
Well love is like a drug
@@sdfghgtrew
Most definitely love can be quite addicting as a drug to the state of no return if one does not have an identity, a belief, moral codes to follow,self love, and respect.
Lot of squirmin around & shifty eyes for someone who's not supposed to get anxious.
Look at how he is he blinking 😂. I'm in love.
I might be a psychopath.
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I don’t believe this guy is sociopath or lack sympathy. I believe that the prison system got to him and told his mind lies. I can sense him. And yes, while it is hard to spot, someone made a comment about that. It is hard to spot but when you’re an impact, you can sense others obviously, we all know that, but if he was void of emotion, I wouldn’t be able to send them for one and two he shows too much emotion when he talks. The prison system told him this he needs whatever is really going on.
The feeling part is utter nonsense. Too many words for what can be a yes or no.
Simply, they just justify their mistakes...
Not guilty at all
Consider themselve as super powerful person who can control others.... They lie without knowing that this lie is hurting other one...
It's too much difficult to understand them...
He “found” himself in prison. I want to know what landed him there. I’m sure it “wasn’t his fault.”
He was taking drugs and sell them to got some. And I guess those drugs weren't some that actually kills.
Does sociopath would cry while seeing animal dying on the street?
Why on earth would you cry while seeing an animal dying on the street? Like I get it if you cry because your dog/cat died, but an animal you didn’t even know? That’s a bit extreme I feel like
Even the most animal loving people i know wouldn't cry seeing a random animal die. If its something that would make you genuinely cry something else might be going on.
@@balznack Na you can't view wild animals as pets that's what gets you killed form animal attacks or by starvation. Realistically would you rather hunt to survive or die. However I do believe nature should be preserved and respected. I think if you hit a wild animal such as a deer, elk, or hog, you should take it home and eat use its hide for a rug or blanket and use every part of the animal. But if its a cat or a dog sure that's sad I've never liked cats all that much because I've had bad experiences with them as a kid. But as dog lover I would be upset not sad but angry. Its not the drivers fault its the owners fault people really need to know how to watch their dogs. But it angers me the most when people don't respect nature. Also I will gladly kill hogs they are nuisance and a invasive species who destroy farm land.
@@balznackOkay, but when I was maybe five years old, I actually sobbed when I saw a hawk get tumbled by a semi truck, because I knew it wouldn't live. I've always been an animal lover, and yet, I really don't see anything wrong with crying when seeing an animal die. Just because someone cries over an animal's death doesn't mean there's something wrong with them.
(And before any assumptions could be made, no, I wasn't sensitive to the idea of death or anything, and had experienced it a lot at that point [ I lived on a farm ]. )
@@randomshooter do you still cry?
Same
Lol he lied from beginning to end
Sociopaths study people to learn how to behave. This man studied Michael J Fox
Jesus is the way ✝️
Jesus has nothing to do with any of this.
You are so wrong. Life without Christ is life full of crisis😅@@RoosaM88
I do believe some mental illnesses are brought about by the devil !!
@@tumeruaThat is not the point. I'm muslim, but I'm not deluded. God will not save me from cancer or depression, but he can help us to have hope, motivation et be stronger. Stop being stupid.
niby nie ma "empati" . Ma silną z natury albo srednią jak kazdy- tylko jest ukiernukowana negatywnie dla niego jego wrazliwosc i empatia przez co wczuwa sie w negatywne nieprawdziwe uczucia.
Przez co nauczyl sie wylaczac zabijac wszystkie uczucia.
I teraz od nowa uczy sie zachowywac mile budujace uczucia dajace mile doswiadczanie relacji z innymi.
Jego glos ciagle brzmi jakby bardzo ciagle jego rana go niszczyla i bol mu sprawia mowienie tak jakby. Smutne.
... jak kazdy- tylko jest ukierunkowana** negatywnie
All of these "sociopaths" are LARPing. You do not want to be on the Cluster B. The dead give away with this is "your version of love"
If he was actually ASPD he wouldn't know how to answer that question.
He would get a job within the Danish "system" immediate 😱
Two sociopath talking together.
Doesn’t seem aspd to me at all.
Some of them don't. Certain people with ASPD have the ability to compulsively and skillfully lie without even thinking about it
There is a very good chance you know someone with ASPD, or lower level psychopathy. It’s not as easy to spot as you would think. Easier to spot if you exhibit those traits.
@@Mountaina5150 I have them
pretty sure hes also autistic. his mannerisms seem off
That's the plan
Run
This guy read sociopathy 101 in prison and parroting it to feel special.
The questions and answers sound like NPD
Well I also got labeled with ASPD in prison which most ppl in there are just for committing a crime labeled as antisocial but I don’t think everyone in there has it but from what I’ve read it’s a spectrum and let me tell you this guy is pretty low on the scale. Ive been associated with ppl with ASPD who is killers, drug king pings and war criminals from several war zones and this guy is far from them. I’m more like them then this guy and I would probably make him my bitch in prison (not in a literal sense but in the hierarchy sense) 😂 but as I wrote it’s a spectrum and this guy seems pretty low on it and I can tell from experience cuz when you from the streets you get that gut feeling instantly and I’ve seems a interview with this guy before
Idk why, but I do the same thing where I know what to say
A sociopath will never tell the truth.
not if they understand the value of logic
@@hafizmiau Sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists…the core is the lie, deception. They are the people of the lie.
@@hafizmiau Sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists, the core is the lie, deception. They are the people of the lie.
Imagine thinking that humans are that simple 🤡
He’s also on drugs.
I would so fall for him. He has really pretty eyes and he doesn’t seem cold to me. If he tried to manipulate me and I didn’t have this context, I would probably be susceptible.
Goodness…..
Yes, Dahmer and Zodiac were quite handsome and used that to manipulate people.
bro
Sociopath is NOT a diagnosis. Please stop using this word.
It's it called anti social personality disorder
Yes, agreed. Very confused why people keep using this word, even medical experts
That lady needs to put on a t-shirt, if she wants the slightest respectfrom ANYBODY, including we, the viewers.
He is not a very good sociopath.
I heard of a guy who on January 6th couple years ago talk people into going to Washington and causing a riot
Feds feds feds
At least they gets laid alot, with all the human beings around the world eh
My little brother and a friend i meet on internet both sociapath , they've made covid happen lol
Hope i can cut ties with father sides and not stalked completely
Demons have made it easy for you to get what u want and or manipulate people doesnt mean u cant say no
what
Guy has opiate breath
That is more like CPTSD
i don't think this guy understands himself at all.
(((21yrs old)))
I wouldn't say I have sociopathy but is something I may be speculating while trying to understand myself.
As time goes on during the discovery of my own mind, I have noticed that I am different from people. So far I believe I have ADHD, not entirely sure of Aspergers. These 2 can overlap causing inconsistencies with one another making it hard to truly know if you have one or the other, or even both. But Sociopathy has been on my mind this past week.
Lately I have been studying the way I interact, how I feel and "what makes me different" and one thing I have sort of noticed is my laughter when someone is hurt. For example someone at work slipped due to wet floor, and I couldn't help but smile without any sign of remorse, especially since it wasn't even intentional. They was hurt. I did then "try" and ask if they were okay but it was more like I was forcing myself to care, which I really didn't. All I wanted to do was gain respect from that individual, especially since me and them weren't exactly on great terms. After all, she didn't really enjoy my presence which sort of annoyed me, as many people enjoy talking to me, but other times they find me cold and rude. Not entirely sure why as it is just my personality I would say. However, after eventually asking her "How is your arm?" she sort of 'warmed up' a bit? Hard to say. But she is talking a little more rather than always giving a cold shoulder. Which I suppose is a ++
Not saying Sociopathy / Anti-social personality disorder is something you want, but if I suspect it is present in my mind, then I need to start observing my own behaviour more.
(After finishing that last sentence, for some strange reason I was thinking "observing my own behaviour more, and study it while adapting to other people. Not exactly 'normal' way of thinking)
I have grown up quite distant from people due to school bullying, which many people called me "cocky" which I don't believe I was, just highly out-going and reserved [which the reserved was adapted the more the bullying went on]. I don't want to get "tested" for Sociopathy, but at the same time I want to truly understand who I am to know why I think like the way I do, so if I do truly have it then I suppose that clears up a lot of confusion.
I'm definitely not a psychologist, but I had similar thoughts and experiences like you a while ago and actually went to get it checked with a licensed psychologist. Though I thought I had aspd, it turns out it was npd which has a lot of similar symptoms like aspd and thus is often confused with it. That's also the reason why I know so much about it and am pretty confident at distinguishing those two from each other. With that I'd say though you might have some aspd experiences, they are more similar to npd. I would recommend you inform yourself about that disorder (actually do it instead of instantly rejecting it like I did at first) and then get it checked out by a professional, at least to get your diagnosis sorted.
@@peppermint7878 NPD seems quite far from what I may have though? Haven't looked into what it is yet, but it is to do with Narcissism [as far as I know atm].
But I don't consider myself high confidence? In fact it is relatively low. However, there are moments when I sort of develop this "God complex" or "Superiority Complex". This is due to me valuing myself over anyone else, which is normal. Your life is your life, so it is the most important. I care for only myself, but I believe I know the real answer to it, as I learnt something called "Emotionally detached".
Read 2 days ago while heading to work, and all the symptoms are 100% present. Unlike other ones, I have for sure sensed that symptoms of being emotionally detached majority if not all the time. Which could be how other mental illnesses could have crept their way in and taken place. I never truly feel myself. I always feel like my personality is always changing and adapting, so I can never really be "one person". I don't have passions, friends and strangely I don't care about anyone or really anything. Video games help me past time and its all I want, but people around me frown upon that, which is why I want to start trying to earn money from content creation. So that way I live in peace, alone and in solitude. Life is boring. Depression? Most likely. Anxiety... uncertain, either it turns on and off or just goes unnoticed.
What makes things difficult is that I believe I have some form of "intelligence" compared to the average individual, and due to this it somewhat aids in combating certain aspects of my life. Im logical about almost everything. Kind of hate it. Because I can never be myself. Always got this back-seater in my head, like there is 2 people in control. My body doesn't feel like mine half the time and my mind doesn't feel me the other times. So what the hell lol
@@CounttlessYT I would really recommend you to look into npd, because your symptoms really do seem like more npd than aspd. The things is, npd is often highly misunderstood by people who are too lazy to do their research, which is why the general public often has a wrong view of that disorder. Narcissist can feel insecure, especially when they're been masking their disorder very well and for very long, but most of the time that happens because they're confused in their feelings and don't know which feeling they should perceive as the real one. This leads to them believing they're insecure while deep down "knowing" they're better. To really understand if you have aspd or npd, I would first of all advise you to do a lot of research about both topics, but also to ask yourself whenever you intensionally or unintentionally hurt or deceive someone, what your goal behind that action was. Was it to reach a certain goal or gain respect (most likely npd) or was it to just see them hurt because it excites you (most likely aspd)?
Laughing your ass off at others misfortune? Well maybe you are just German. Schadenfreude. Not caring unless they really look like dying? Well. If you don't like em that checks out too. Seen skins? The UK version. If you feel like all Tony is doing is fine, somethings wrong I'd say.
@@peppermint7878I'm with you! Many people associate narcissism with brashness, aggression and dominance, but it can manifest in subtler ways as well. There are also different types of narcissism. For example covert narcissism includes a lack of empathy, low confidence and insecurity
Mr Sterry.
I think he is Austin and was abused growing up.
The eyes speak volumes and the constant rolling of eyes to garner an answer. This is a very unhinged person in my opinion.
You in no way can get an understanding of someones internalstate if something cimplex like being unhinged from eye movments. In general affect is sometimes over considered especially in cultures that tend to condion us to be more extroverted so be carefull and go on what people say as much as their cues
Ok armchair psychiatrist
i think i’ve seen this guy before , isn’t he the turbo manlet dating the big girl?
Wow
He is so off on emotions because clearly he has none. Aspd
Sociopaths have emotions just not empathy,guilt, and remorse
What are you talking about. Sociopaths do have emotions. Just not certain.
@@Ty33313 3 types of empathy hotshot. we've got 2.
guilt -> it's been decades since i've done something to feel guilty for.
i slipped while running and dented someones car. i felt a unpleasant emotion .
remorse"deep regret or guilt for a wrong committed"
neurotypicals
We only have a few emotions
Hey Benny, looks to me like you’re on the wrong side of the river!
innocent eyes
He would use you.
Sounds like pretty much every so-called Modern Woman or Feminist to Me, js.
Not a true sociopath, you couldn’t have ANY sense of love or empathy, u just have most sociopathic traits, I had them to when I was an addict, now sober they linger but I never act on them, why I KNOW sociopathy is learned/nurtured
There is no textbook definition of what a sociopath is, its not a strict criteria, someone might be autistic but still behave differently than a different autistic person. Sociopaths are people not factory made robots
Sociopaths can have cognitive empathy
@@JamesErath-ut9cj sociopaths feel love, im dating one
Omg
Your either a mystic or a mistake
He's a mistake 😂
Why?
Sociopaths don't feel guilt. U are not
are you...slow?
Dude it' a spectrum, some feel a tiny bit of guilt others don't feell it at all.
It' depends on their personality, and how bad their disorder is.
I have news for you : you don't need to have all the symptoms of "something" for having this "something". Dumb people rule the Internet.
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
1 Corinthians 15:3 that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures.
Romans 10:9 that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. ❤
Very deep inside, we are all psychopaths.
Sad truth of life. I’ve noticed this by the way people will exclude others that don’t fit a certain norm, be it lack of physical attractiveness, intelligence, awkwardness ect. The world tends to treat them like shit, and then some of them reach a boiling point from the constant negative feedback loop, oftentimes for factors out of their control, so they go on to do the unthinkable and become mass shooters because they can’t stand the evil side of humanity, despite hearing how “good” most people claim to be around others they like.
So many other examples of why “good people” all have a certain level of callousness inside them that they hide in public. Humans are wild creatures
No lol
Exactly what i was thinking, this guy clearly has a lot going on in his mind and can convey his thoughts clearly. These comments call him emotionless but what about the interviewer?
Speak for yourself 😂
It is a spectrum, so I think we all have psychopathic traits. But real psychopaths have a dopamine system that overrides their desire to do anything else but seek pleasure and adrenaline rush.
Wow you are so beautiful
This is no human
Why are you deshumanizing him?
@@Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF a key aspect of humanity is trust. You cannot trust people with this kind of problem. Of couse he is deserving of all the rights we have. Wrong wording on my part
I wish I had this I’m too nice to people and I’ve lost over $100,000.00 in “ helping “ friends and coworkers and I keep getting screwed and I want to learn how to develop a hard heart instead of giving people all my time money love help and energy
If you want some attention just introduce yourself as a sociopath on TH-cam and people gonna eat it up lol
That’s NPD. Not sociopathy. It’s lame to spread misinformation, people.
Go argue with the real doctor that gave the diagnosis!
Aspd and Npd have a lot of overlap. But they're not the same thing.
helps some hide better
@@Mortablunt Exactly!
with aspd disorder, you have always npd, but you can have npd without having aspd. With nowadays knowledge. But in my opinion people are way too complex for any kind of diagnosis, I think there are much we do not know about brains , in future we know more and more..It is a shame we are not alive anymore to know what else science reveals. It would be interesting to know more.
Tbh he sounds more psychopathic than sociopathic
He isnt lol
Easy Mr YoutTube Expert Psychologist
@@GrgAProduction lmao I took physiology in school and we went over both extensively
@@fkurfeelings6938 you "took physiology" in school... you should know then that psychology is something completely else than physiology" which has to do with the physical body and it's organs not even remotely related to psychology... thanks for proving to us that you have no fucking clue about what you are talking about..
His head moves. Most psychopathic people i've met over the years keep their head still when talking, and don't blink often. Nor have the nervous feeling to break eye contact.
Definitely not a sociopath they would never admit they are are definitely woudlkt do a interview about it 😂😂😂
But he said he lerned empathy maby he just has urges to munipulate people but don’t
Not all sociopathys feel the same emotions or don't feel emotions at all. Or behave the same. Cluster B disorders are all on a spectrum after all. You can't always fit those boxes perfectly
Incorrect. I have ASPD. It took years for me to gain insight.
@@SkinwoIf ok well u definitely ain’t a full blown sociopath cus that’s the last thing they are able to do u might be on the spectrum
@@SkinwoIf a real sociopath will never admit they are one unti the day they die every one else is crazy and they are normal cus in there head they are normal. They are unable to show any kind of emotion and and no sympathy for any one even there own family they could watch there own mother getting shot and it won’t affect them that’s a true sociopath very dangrouse and scary people. Everything is a lie everything is a game
He had ALL the trains of Narscissism. He specifically choose her as a Target. His evil behavior happened lojg before he applied tracking devices.
His voice is so low yhat is also a indicatie that he is a toxid person sociopath are so dangerous
What a argument full of science 🤡
Source: it came to me in a dream where i pulled it out of my ass
Dude is full of bs
definitely doesn’t have antisocial personality disorder
😅😅
I tought the same. What i think is possible is BPD with antisocial traits but not complete APD.
@@pabloes.4945Lol how would you know? Look at my pfp I really have ASPD. If he was given a diagnosis of ASPD while in prison I'm sure that's what he has 😂
@@Youraveragedemon-n3rexactly, these people think theyre the fucking experts just from watching a 30 second glimpse into someones life. Really, REALLY? 😂😂🤣🤣
Get over yourself you're not tat important 😴
Stop projecting yourself onto others