I get the most out of pocket comments on here sometimes 🤣 when I talk about mirroring his behavior, I’m talking stepping BACK into YOURSELF. I’m talking about putting less energy on running towards somebody who is pulling back and more energy into what is more important in your life. If you want to bombard a man and continue asking him why he’s pulling back then be my guest. I’m not saying to never express emotions but in many circumstances and experiences with men, not mirroring his behaviour never works for our OWN peace and sanity.
After you ask him the problem over and over and if he's not willing to explain and still ghost you then leave him alone. That's what she's saying. Of course, you can ask right away because it's not normal behavior but you can't kill yourself. You just leave him alone and put your time on yourself.
Thank you for posting this because my anxiety was increasing and then my “cut you off quick” “ get you before your get me” was starting to be in the forefront!
Im glad im not crazy for doing so, nothing major is WRONG, he's around just no plans or dedicated time for me and so i quietly removed myself, no argument no mental tussling just told him he should go rest and dedicate his time where he truly wants to.
I don't fully agree with her advice. My man pulled away and I was so confused/hurt but instead of ghosting him I decided to confront him. I told him if he isn't interested I'm leaving & wished him a good life. He in turn freaked out and clearly explained to me he was going through a hard time (personal issues & depression) and didn't want to burden me so he didn't bring it up and pulled away when he felt too overwhelmed. I'm glad I communicated clearly with him and we talked about our needs and how this misunderstanding doesn't reoccur in the future. I'm also NOT willing to "move on" unless we clearly ended things. I NEED closure so when the next guy comes in not worried about the first guy. Clear lines clear a lot of anxieties. Tough conversations are important.
This is what I have learned. If a man can't communicate well, why do you even want him? Please, please do not send texts or call to find out what happened, etc. When he starts the non-responsive stuff, then leave it where it is. Think...think... that God is shielding you from drama. When he does come back because he will eventually, do not pay him any attention. Do not reply to his texts nor take his calls. It's a wrap. We are beautifully made ladies. Own the goodness in you. Grown men know how to communicate. Boys play games, period. NeXT!!
Damn...I literally couldn't sleep last night cuz I'm going thru this, then this pops up this morning for me. Guess I needed to hear what ur saying right now
From a man.. if he is pulling back he is either #1 - not that in to you, #2 - has a few girls on the go and enjoying it until he has to choose, #3 - he is super busy pursuing his goals, #4 - he is gaming you because he knows that girls game. Aware men know women game and so he may use tactics to make him seem more mysterious and rare. Do not wait for him to come back.. men love women who are bubbly and responsive. It makes his life easier
Also...this is exactly why it's better to wait to have sexual relations so quickly. Get to know this man...who is he? what are his interests? what's his last name? how does he handle setbacks? nature of his last relationships? what did he learn? what are his hobbies? does he have values...observe...don't ask? what's important to him? Now, I'm not promoting an interview. Get to know him before you step into that arena. Be grown enough to take your time to get to know him. Do you and him gel? Date responsibly. Look at yourselves as beautiful statues so not everyone will have access. My perspective. Use what you wish or not.
Yes! Match his pace. Do not freak out. Cool down and give it a week or so. Two weeks is not a long time in the grand scheme of things. Let him know how you feel without all the dramatics. Be brief and honest: I want to spend more time with you because I love you. After the fact, if he doesn’t seem to offer an explanation or snap out of the funk- accept that the relationship has changed. Reevaluate your desires for a partner and determine if this is what you want in a relationship. If not, baby you’re to valuable to beg! Leave with peace and don’t do anything you’ll regret! Lol 😝
If he's pulling back it could mean that He's just not that into You and maybe into somebody else. Sometimes they want to pull back keep you around until they can find out if someone else is into them and when they find out for sure that that other person is not into them they roll back over to you so you become that fall back person
Men aren’t like women they often don’t put all their focus into a woman or relationship. It’s not their world they don’t make a relationship their world.
Thos happened to me wen the guy started to pull bk from me. So I didnt chase or pursue him bcz he didnt pursue me, so instead I stood bk & just watched his actions! So fast forward I got to see him for da playa dat he is & I focused on myself...he still tries to get my attention but I neva give him da eye contact lol he tries so hard to lol...but I treat him like a bro now bcz I no longer have any interest in him.
Idk girll it like I agree .. because I expierenced the anxiety and wanting to ask questions … but as I matured I realized that that was a trauma response from being hurt in the past.. and it isn’t healthy no .. so I had to figure out ways to be more mature when a man pulls away .. now if you’re dealing with an immature man he’s pulling away for immature reasons ofcourse .. and like if you’re having sex with the man and he’s pulling away that brings a whole new level of anxieties especially when there’s no real commitment and when I say commitment I mean sacrifices and marriage being a thing .. like I know marriage isn’t everybody goals but until you get serious about what you want and your boundaries you’re gonna keep going through those cycles of the whole tug and pull . Find you a man that’s serious about you .. but that don’t mean when he pulls away from you , you draw back . Some people need a little extra love battling with life and that’s how some men cope because they’re use to being isolated in this society that teaches them men don’t cry so when they’re hurting they tend to retreat because they don’t want to be seen as weak .. but allowing a man to feel safe in your presence is a whole different thing .. now this is a very situational thing I would believe . But it’s like I understand all aspects of it … Personally I had to start reading my Bible and getting closer to God and the whole relationship dynamic seems much more sensible to me .. Ik people tend to bash the Bible but I find it very truthful .. I always recommend people to go read it for themselves especially in a translation that is easy to understand .. I use to do the whole feminine , masculine energy thing and the crazy thing is now that I think about it men who believed in that dynamic was very noncommittal .. just dominant in a sense and now that I think about that is very very unattractive .. and no woman deserves to go through that dynamic of relationships … it’s very chaotic and tooooo likeee one sided .. God way is the only way .. #prayaboutit .
I’ve come to a point where it’s hard to watch these shorts/videos because I don’t want to go back and remember everything I did to try to find an answer from him 🙃 I have to remind myself that I’m doing better now ♥️
This right here! A lot of women don’t understand that men have a pull away need they’re NOT like women. Their world doesn’t revolve around a woman and a relationship. They often put their effort and focus into a lot including their life. They do need to be away from you to miss you.
@@bak3456 are YOU a man? And what relevance does that have? It doesn’t take a genius to observe MALE BEHAVIOR. Men do it to women that’s why they’re running circles around women. They figure bitches out while bitches still act confused and naive about men.
@@Onguard8737then why do u wine n cry that women are gold diggers and how high percentage of men r lonely and sympathize so much for them? Like it's womens job to chase men while "they're busy" With their other prioriteries as if women dont have a life either
This has been my motto. ❤️Men chase, and he will, provided he wants you. I have a life that is not reliant completely on him. Like she said he'll either explain or not. Then you can make your decision about him.
Sometimes its literally that they just need some space for a while and its actually nothing to worry about. Just let him know that youre there for him whenever he wants to talk again without pressuring him to talk, and then just get on with your life. Its the balance of letting him know youre still interested without smothering him and being needy
What is the point in fulfilling all of his needs but he is not even thinking of yours! There should be a mutual willing in fulfilling each other's needs. Yes, giving some space for one, two days is acceptable but not for weeks! He should be aware of your need to reconnect and he should be mature enough to solve a problem soon.
THANK YOU!!! Sometimes I just need some space or my partner hurt me. I just need some time to think and process, or maybe I have a lot of work and need time to get that done with before I can think about things. Eventually when I have clarity of mind I will come back and talk
It's funny watching the other side of this lol Guaruntee your man is watching a "what to do when she pulls away" video right now and they're telling him the same thing
My gf wasn’t giving me affection or even calling everything was about school and work now we are in a stand still . Woman make sure to talk / show your man affection and even your feelings. I’ve been with my gf for three years and yes I support her in everything. But 6 months of no dates and not seeing her is hell for me so before you think it’s your man look at what your doing first
At first you lost me with the mirroring behavior but I see what scenario you’re getting at. It is better to not get so hung up sometimes men need space sometimes they need you to reach out but I think this also has to do with what is currently taking place in your relationship. It’s always best and important to focus on you. usually just being your own light will attract a better energy as long as you are learning and positively reflecting. Then he will subconsciously feel that and will most likely open up when he’s ready .
Exactly!! This “mirroring” behaviour is not about playing games. It’s one of the most healthiest things you can do for yourself and relationships if you look at it the right way!
Todays dating is sleeping around and a waste of time. Courtship is what everyone should be doing. Parents involved no matter your age. Others can see things you can’t. Also the male will show you if he’s serious or not by agreeing to these terms or not. Have a sit down to see if you all are fit for each other. Same beliefs? Goals? Blah blah blah. If you answer yes get married. If you answered move on to the next prospect. Simple as that. That’s why people aren’t happy these days.
@@alisand2371 you just described me! though i think mine is just from a place of low self esteem (i have body dysmorphic disorder) and i often feel not good enough/unworthy because of my looks. focusing on things i enjoy and trying to pay less mind to my insecurities does help. it’s just such a fucking bitch to deal with, like why do i care so much 🤣 ahhh
Sometimes I wonder if we as people speaking from Past experiences of what we allow ourselves to go through, Or simply everyone became a professional psychotherapist.. And again Im looking to understand the Angle!!
Well i can only speak for myself here but, usually when i pull away from someone it is when i detect a form a rejection from the other person and i pull away to give the other more space because i feel i could be bad for me to insist. If the person is pulling away from me for that matter Nothing Will happen 😂😂
Thank you for this video!! Everyone is just like "leave him" It's like OK maybe you hurt me (man) and I need a moment to process I would rather take some time to think about my words and actions rather than just blow up immediately I will eventually come back so that we can speak about things properly It's not that I don't love you. Quite the opposite
Maybe he starts to see through you and gets bothered by your presence, maybe you ruin his peace with stupid questions, and constantly treating him like a personal caregiver, or perhaps you’re incompetent and don’t own up to responsibilities. Maybe you bring the bad side out of him, constantly pushing his buttons. Maybe you embarrass by being the type of women he knows you to be. Deep down maybe he feels stuck and all that can lead to you being unattractive to him. Lol 😂 sometimes a guy just want his own space and that Can literally be the only reason why he’s pulling away, could be he’s not in the mood to be affectionate.
I get the most out of pocket comments on here sometimes 🤣 when I talk about mirroring his behavior, I’m talking stepping BACK into YOURSELF. I’m talking about putting less energy on running towards somebody who is pulling back and more energy into what is more important in your life. If you want to bombard a man and continue asking him why he’s pulling back then be my guest. I’m not saying to never express emotions but in many circumstances and experiences with men, not mirroring his behaviour never works for our OWN peace and sanity.
It's still OK to ask him once though
@@lambadic8298 Ye that’s why she said “continue” as in, you’ve already tried talking about it with him multiple times
After you ask him the problem over and over and if he's not willing to explain and still ghost you then leave him alone. That's what she's saying. Of course, you can ask right away because it's not normal behavior but you can't kill yourself. You just leave him alone and put your time on yourself.
Thank you for posting this because my anxiety was increasing and then my “cut you off quick” “ get you before your get me” was starting to be in the forefront!
Nah, you right girl.. guide us straight! ❤😅
I pull back when he pulls back, i ain’t gonna waste my time on a man who don’t want my time.
Im glad im not crazy for doing so, nothing major is WRONG, he's around just no plans or dedicated time for me and so i quietly removed myself, no argument no mental tussling just told him he should go rest and dedicate his time where he truly wants to.
And please don’t wait around hoping they do come back .Sometimes closure isn’t an option.
I don't fully agree with her advice. My man pulled away and I was so confused/hurt but instead of ghosting him I decided to confront him. I told him if he isn't interested I'm leaving & wished him a good life. He in turn freaked out and clearly explained to me he was going through a hard time (personal issues & depression) and didn't want to burden me so he didn't bring it up and pulled away when he felt too overwhelmed. I'm glad I communicated clearly with him and we talked about our needs and how this misunderstanding doesn't reoccur in the future.
I'm also NOT willing to "move on" unless we clearly ended things. I NEED closure so when the next guy comes in not worried about the first guy. Clear lines clear a lot of anxieties. Tough conversations are important.
Sometimes they don t give you time to talk...Just for any reason pull away ,you can t discuss or ask.so??? Only option is to push forevard
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This is what I have learned. If a man can't communicate well, why do you even want him? Please, please do not send texts or call to find out what happened, etc. When he starts the non-responsive stuff, then leave it where it is. Think...think... that God is shielding you from drama. When he does come back because he will eventually, do not pay him any attention. Do not reply to his texts nor take his calls. It's a wrap. We are beautifully made ladies. Own the goodness in you. Grown men know how to communicate. Boys play games, period. NeXT!!
Wow! Thank you
@@traceyobinali6669 You are very welcome but I can't and won't take credit. Divinely inspired and led to share🙏🏽
Damn...I literally couldn't sleep last night cuz I'm going thru this, then this pops up this morning for me. Guess I needed to hear what ur saying right now
From a man.. if he is pulling back he is either #1 - not that in to you, #2 - has a few girls on the go and enjoying it until he has to choose, #3 - he is super busy pursuing his goals, #4 - he is gaming you because he knows that girls game. Aware men know women game and so he may use tactics to make him seem more mysterious and rare. Do not wait for him to come back.. men love women who are bubbly and responsive. It makes his life easier
If I’m pulling back, it’s because my energy is not being reciprocated
That’s the number one reason men gave for why they pulled away.
Also...this is exactly why it's better to wait to have sexual relations so quickly. Get to know this man...who is he? what are his interests? what's his last name? how does he handle setbacks? nature of his last relationships? what did he learn? what are his hobbies? does he have values...observe...don't ask? what's important to him? Now, I'm not promoting an interview. Get to know him before you step into that arena. Be grown enough to take your time to get to know him. Do you and him gel? Date responsibly. Look at yourselves as beautiful statues so not everyone will have access. My perspective. Use what you wish or not.
People don’t always feel the way you want them to feel, when you want them to feel that way! And you must except that fact.
Yes! Match his pace. Do not freak out. Cool down and give it a week or so. Two weeks is not a long time in the grand scheme of things. Let him know how you feel without all the dramatics. Be brief and honest: I want to spend more time with you because I love you. After the fact, if he doesn’t seem to offer an explanation or snap out of the funk- accept that the relationship has changed. Reevaluate your desires for a partner and determine if this is what you want in a relationship. If not, baby you’re to valuable to beg! Leave with peace and don’t do anything you’ll regret! Lol 😝
I needed to hear this right now. I wanna give you a big ass hug.
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This was meant for me today
agreed!! don't let your anxiety make you blow up on him. self-regulate and bring your attention into the fullness of your life❤❤
If he's pulling back it could mean that He's just not that into You and maybe into somebody else. Sometimes they want to pull back keep you around until they can find out if someone else is into them and when they find out for sure that that other person is not into them they roll back over to you so you become that fall back person
Hopefully everyone will read this comment and recognize the valuable truth in it.
Lol jump to conclusions much? Get tf out of here with that toxic ass energy
Totally agree!! There’s many reasons why men pull back, ultimately we should put less focus on the reason and more focus on coming back to our selves
That’s not true at all most men have a pull away need.
Men aren’t like women they often don’t put all their focus into a woman or relationship. It’s not their world they don’t make a relationship their world.
Thos happened to me wen the guy started to pull bk from me. So I didnt chase or pursue him bcz he didnt pursue me, so instead I stood bk & just watched his actions! So fast forward I got to see him for da playa dat he is & I focused on myself...he still tries to get my attention but I neva give him da eye contact lol he tries so hard to lol...but I treat him like a bro now bcz I no longer have any interest in him.
Idk girll it like I agree .. because I expierenced the anxiety and wanting to ask questions … but as I matured I realized that that was a trauma response from being hurt in the past.. and it isn’t healthy no .. so I had to figure out ways to be more mature when a man pulls away .. now if you’re dealing with an immature man he’s pulling away for immature reasons ofcourse .. and like if you’re having sex with the man and he’s pulling away that brings a whole new level of anxieties especially when there’s no real commitment and when I say commitment I mean sacrifices and marriage being a thing .. like I know marriage isn’t everybody goals but until you get serious about what you want and your boundaries you’re gonna keep going through those cycles of the whole tug and pull . Find you a man that’s serious about you .. but that don’t mean when he pulls away from you , you draw back . Some people need a little extra love battling with life and that’s how some men cope because they’re use to being isolated in this society that teaches them men don’t cry so when they’re hurting they tend to retreat because they don’t want to be seen as weak .. but allowing a man to feel safe in your presence is a whole different thing .. now this is a very situational thing I would believe . But it’s like I understand all aspects of it … Personally I had to start reading my Bible and getting closer to God and the whole relationship dynamic seems much more sensible to me .. Ik people tend to bash the Bible but I find it very truthful .. I always recommend people to go read it for themselves especially in a translation that is easy to understand .. I use to do the whole feminine , masculine energy thing and the crazy thing is now that I think about it men who believed in that dynamic was very noncommittal .. just dominant in a sense and now that I think about that is very very unattractive .. and no woman deserves to go through that dynamic of relationships … it’s very chaotic and tooooo likeee one sided .. God way is the only way .. #prayaboutit .
Thank you Paige for sharing your viewpoint and some parts of your experience.
Be blessed
Thank you for sharing
I’ve come to a point where it’s hard to watch these shorts/videos because I don’t want to go back and remember everything I did to try to find an answer from him 🙃 I have to remind myself that I’m doing better now ♥️
This advice is pure gold .
This right here! A lot of women don’t understand that men have a pull away need they’re NOT like women. Their world doesn’t revolve around a woman and a relationship. They often put their effort and focus into a lot including their life. They do need to be away from you to miss you.
Yes!!!!
are you a man
@@bak3456 are YOU a man? And what relevance does that have? It doesn’t take a genius to observe MALE BEHAVIOR. Men do it to women that’s why they’re running circles around women. They figure bitches out while bitches still act confused and naive about men.
You got that right it doesn't revolve around them to be the center of attention and we focus on success not women.
@@Onguard8737then why do u wine n cry that women are gold diggers and how high percentage of men r lonely and sympathize so much for them? Like it's womens job to chase men while "they're busy" With their other prioriteries as if women dont have a life either
This has been my motto. ❤️Men chase, and he will, provided he wants you. I have a life that is not reliant completely on him. Like she said he'll either explain or not. Then you can make your decision about him.
❤️❤️❤️❤️
This whole chasing thing is so nonsical.. How abt griw up and talk like mature adults.. Nobody has to chase anyone if you're mature.. Only simps chase
Sometimes its literally that they just need some space for a while and its actually nothing to worry about. Just let him know that youre there for him whenever he wants to talk again without pressuring him to talk, and then just get on with your life. Its the balance of letting him know youre still interested without smothering him and being needy
What is the point in fulfilling all of his needs but he is not even thinking of yours! There should be a mutual willing in fulfilling each other's needs. Yes, giving some space for one, two days is acceptable but not for weeks! He should be aware of your need to reconnect and he should be mature enough to solve a problem soon.
@@Polly1589women do the same unconsciously and y’all leave the man there saying you want your alone time etc
I think it’s important to never let him think you’re at his beck and call for when he’s “ready”
THANK YOU!!!
Sometimes I just need some space or my partner hurt me. I just need some time to think and process, or maybe I have a lot of work and need time to get that done with before I can think about things.
Eventually when I have clarity of mind I will come back and talk
It's funny watching the other side of this lol
Guaruntee your man is watching a "what to do when she pulls away" video right now and they're telling him the same thing
My gf wasn’t giving me affection or even calling everything was about school and work now we are in a stand still . Woman make sure to talk / show your man affection and even your feelings. I’ve been with my gf for three years and yes I support her in everything. But 6 months of no dates and not seeing her is hell for me so before you think it’s your man look at what your doing first
Great point
me every time he just says "okay" lol love you girl
Im going rebought this now. Everytime I want to cry or feel sad I come back to this video.
At first you lost me with the mirroring behavior but I see what scenario you’re getting at. It is better to not get so hung up sometimes men need space sometimes they need you to reach out but I think this also has to do with what is currently taking place in your relationship. It’s always best and important to focus on you. usually just being your own light will attract a better energy as long as you are learning and positively reflecting. Then he will subconsciously feel that and will most likely open up when he’s ready .
Exactly!! This “mirroring” behaviour is not about playing games. It’s one of the most healthiest things you can do for yourself and relationships if you look at it the right way!
I really needed to hear this. 😭
Wisdom💗
Todays dating is sleeping around and a waste of time. Courtship is what everyone should be doing. Parents involved no matter your age. Others can see things you can’t. Also the male will show you if he’s serious or not by agreeing to these terms or not. Have a sit down to see if you all are fit for each other. Same beliefs? Goals? Blah blah blah. If you answer yes get married. If you answered move on to the next prospect. Simple as that. That’s why people aren’t happy these days.
Thank you!
Thank you for the wonderful advice!!!! 💛
Girl.. this is great. Thanks
Literally what I’m doing now ❤
I needed this tonight
Perfectly said!!
Great Explanation
what about when they come back / stop being distant but don’t tell you why ? Can we ask him then why he pulled back ?
Man wtf we doing, the male dating coaches are telling us the same thing 😂😂
Thank you😂 time to hit the gym😇❤️💕 n read some books❤
I needed to hear this because I definitely wanted to ask what's wrong but I'm not ill let it flow
sometimes it’s so hard to stop that anxiety though. any tips on how to pull back that energy?
@@alisand2371 you just described me! though i think mine is just from a place of low self esteem (i have body dysmorphic disorder) and i often feel not good enough/unworthy because of my looks. focusing on things i enjoy and trying to pay less mind to my insecurities does help. it’s just such a fucking bitch to deal with, like why do i care so much 🤣 ahhh
Thanks!!
Thank you
You can plan out how the conversation might go, and how you might respond in order to come across articulatly and clearly.
This 😁✨ !!
No one steps away from his or her person unless they aren't interested action speak louder
Sometimes I wonder if we as people speaking from Past experiences of what we allow ourselves to go through,
Or simply everyone became a professional psychotherapist..
And again Im looking to understand the Angle!!
Absolutely ❤️
Love this
Sure thanks ❤️❤️❤️
This goes both ways for men and women
❤thnx girl
Thanks
This is ssooooo difficult
If he is pulling back. You are doing something he doesn’t like. Or he has something better.
Yes queen ❤
Most men pull back when woman play stupid games and ghost and leave the man on read for hours etc
Yep yep yep
I never do that and they still pull back
And also disrespecting
Elicia is so god damn beautiful man
Wow thank you 🥹
Women should never per-sue men. Period
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Damn sis, I am happy I found your channel 🤗
So glad you’re here 😍
Wise words, thus this is true. It works, yet why are they designed this way?
May i ask what song is playing in the background?
Soo true
Easy to say , hard to pull off.
If he pulls back move on to the next one
Can this help in money matters as well?
You know how time and time and time again life will pass you buy and everyone will still be playing games
Well i can only speak for myself here but, usually when i pull away from someone it is when i detect a form a rejection from the other person and i pull away to give the other more space because i feel i could be bad for me to insist.
If the person is pulling away from me for that matter
Nothing Will happen 😂😂
I called him out and said my good riddance. Toxic behavior should be called out.
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The best 🤌🏼💕
I'm happy that he left ☺️
What if you are married but separated and he tells you he ready to come home that he feels himself falling away😢
If he finally does text a bland text after being intense and intimate, do you reply or no?
Well damn what if we both mirrorimg each other then we both lose communcation is key fk all them mind games
Say that
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Thank you for this video!!
Everyone is just like "leave him"
It's like
OK maybe you hurt me (man) and I need a moment to process
I would rather take some time to think about my words and actions rather than just blow up immediately
I will eventually come back so that we can speak about things properly
It's not that I don't love you. Quite the opposite
“Explain himself?” Keep waiting 😎
Women are 80% of divorces btw
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Yes let that man be ! Women must stop the chasing energy it's soooo toxic.
This is so hurtful
What if I really want him. Please help 😢😢😢
Value yourself more than that.
Maybe he starts to see through you and gets bothered by your presence, maybe you ruin his peace with stupid questions, and constantly treating him like a personal caregiver, or perhaps you’re incompetent and don’t own up to responsibilities. Maybe you bring the bad side out of him, constantly pushing his buttons. Maybe you embarrass by being the type of women he knows you to be. Deep down maybe he feels stuck and all that can lead to you being unattractive to him. Lol 😂 sometimes a guy just want his own space and that Can literally be the only reason why he’s pulling away, could be he’s not in the mood to be affectionate.
Explain himself? 🤣
he broke up lol so i win
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No
No if we retreat that means its most likely she is low of value and coming back isn't an option so move on is the only solution.
Saw your comment does that mean you date women?
Ummm what? Haha, no I do not date women.
@@eliciagoguen I just asked because you said when you are dating a man!!!
Everytime i take a shower he leaves.
He did it after 4 months of not talking though
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