🚨 1st Ep of my new MARRIAGE PODCAST ⬇️ th-cam.com/video/jmyeLIRJK10/w-d-xo.html My 1 on 1 Coaching ⬇️ faiyadfit.com My FREE FULL High Value Muslim’s Club Call ⬇️ th-cam.com/video/ICW8kvGUKP0/w-d-xo.html Instagram ⬇️ instagram.com/faiyadfit?igsh=MTlleDR0ZWtqZXVw LIKE, SUB & COMMENT YOUR THOUGHTS.
Practicing Muslim woman here (I have a small channel on taqwa based self improvement) and just want to say this was super solid advice mashaAllah. I used to do premarital coaching for Muslims and a lot of the points of readiness were touched on in this video. JAK, good luck on your business
@@asadzeethree2726 JAK for the defense brother! Advice is always appreciated but just with evidence if someone calls something haram. Unfortunately, his comment, although meaning well for sure, would make women who are struggling with hijab (which is very difficult to observe in the west no matter how righteous one is) doubt themselves. I’m not one of them as I observe it very proudly and to the best of my ability, encourage women on how to observe and take pride in it, and ask Allah to forgive my shortcomings in all matters related to my obligations. May Allah accept from all of us
@@alasryh No self-respecting Muslimah should take any advice from a "coach" like yourself who exposes herself to the public where non-mahram men can watch and hear you.
Mashallah brother Faiayd. A really insightful and beneficial video for not just muslim men, but all men. May Allah bless you and reward you abundantly ❤
Muslim woman here. I agree with all your points! However, I feel like you could've spoken more on masculinity in this video; what it is and what it isn't. For example, it isn't aggressiveness or speaking loudly
Salamoalikom Faiyad, I wanted to share some feedback with you. Your recent thumbnails have shown great improvement and are among the best so far. However, there's still room for enhancement. I recommend studying channels like Hamza, Mohammed, or even Teachingmensfashion to identify what they do well and consider incorporating those elements into your own thumbnails. Your speaking skills are commendable, and the subtitles on your videos are effective. To further elevate your content, consider injecting a bit more energy into your delivery. Drawing inspiration from the mentioned channels can contribute significantly to the growth of your channel. Jazakallahkhair
Jazakallahu Khairan brother. Another amazing guide full of helpful and important information that needs to be said during these times. Thank you brother ❤🔥
Jazakallahu khairun akhi. I get annoyed when I see these titles because most of the videos, despite being taught by muslim men become about dating and and pulling in girls. But the we are commanded to lower our gaze and gaurd are private parts. Even if you believe you are ready for marriage and you like a girl. You lower your gaze and go speak to her father like a man and ask others about her so you don't get infatuated with her looks before making a decision. I'm glad you mentioned to have boundries and act like a Muslim.
Assalam aleikum is there a possibility of having a counselling and self improvement website for muslimah like the one for the male muslims with a female advisor ofc cause we all have our struggles both in and out of deen and I think it would be very impacting if there was one and we could gain a lot of baraka from helping our sisters. Personally i want to level up too. ❤
May Allah reward you for the effort and advice. However it’s important to note that this video was titled “backed by deen” yet not one verse of the Quran, Hadith, or quote from the salaf has been seen. Although most of what Fayed said is common-sense it is important for you to return to evidences and be cautious about what people tell you. And the evidence for this is when the messenger ﷺ said: “This knowledge is your religion so be careful who you take it from” (graded authentic by imam Albani) This is not to put Fayed down, I respect him a lot and watch his videos; but it’s just a reminder for people to pay attention to evidences. This religion isn’t a joke so do not learn it from just anyone online. جزاك الله خيرا
I got you habibi. When I say stuff like it’s our responsibility to be protectors and to provide and behave in accordance to Sunnah with our wives I guess I’ll be more explicit than just mention what to do. Jazakallahu khair.
@@FaiyadFit yes bro جزاك الله خيرا . Allah has blessed you with a platform allahumabarik so you should return the people to evidences so that they can have conviction of what has been revealed in truth.
Salaam alaikum wa rahmutuhlai wa barrakatoehoe, serious question: what if a woman was a non muslim prostitute but Allah Guided her to Islam and she said the Shahada and now is not a prostitute anymore. She repented to Allah and is now a practising Muslims. She is thinking about Marriage, but has her doubts because of her past. If she would marry you she would never tell you about her past. But she repented and is now a really good wife and would never leave you and is big on her Deen. Or would you rather not marry her at all? Even though Allah forgave all her sins?
Bro I live in Colombia, I come from a Catholic house. I do not know anyone that is Muslim, how can I find a Muslim women? I already have everything in place in my life, I'm just missing Muslim contacts (in my country I don't think there are any)
I’ll never be able to get married due to 4th trait. I rarely smile or do fun things due to severe social anxiety and cherophobia. May ﷲ make it easy. I’m already 37 and infertile… :/
Never talked to a female. Never touched a female. I went insane in my 20s because I lacked this emotion. If you are like me but you’re young - seek help. Don’t do the same thing I did and stay at home for 10+ years
May Allah help us. Never too late bro just put your trust in Allah and learn how the Prophet PBUH was and emulate his traits to the best of your ability for the sake of Allah SWT
Life is about living and transforming as life goes on, just start today heading towards who you want to be. If you don’t have the image of the person who you want to be then first build that image and take actions towards it. If you wake up tomorrow then Allah swt has given you another day to live so do your best and LIVE and be grateful and forgive people on a daily basis including yourself. Change will come once you get some momentum and momentum comes after you have taken many actions consistently. Lastly, the reward you get for patience is enormous and can’t see right now, and Mufti Menk said this that if your problem isn’t big enough for you to wake up for thajjud then it’s not big enough problem yet for you. So you know what you got to do and start today…
@@youtuber9409dont give up my belove brother,i wish you a really successfull life,you are a wonderfull person,dont give up,i wish you a really good life my brother
so if you are poor or below average income in this very difficult high inflated hard to get good jobs and lets say if Allah makes you as such you will live a life of below average income. does that mean shoot myself cause il never get married and that is a very big dream of many muslim men which should be crushed cause i aint got that big of a bag. i though our prophet had a very simple lifestyle and not a wealthy way pf living. i dunno thats just my take
@@FaiyadFit i know. its just hard cause many parents and women deny you cause they ask of your wealth first and deen second and ask for a large sum of mahr that makes if nearly impossible these days. I also hope alot of women understand the financial struggle of todays men and go easy on us with the wealth question. jazzakallahu kheiran bro keep up with the videos.
@@RedaReda-vl9ff InshaAllah Allah will increase for you tenfold in this dunya and the here after. but to be honest it is very very difficult for the average and below average muslim.
@@ahmadalbaiti4611 dont give up my belove brother,i wish you rest and a lot of blessings in this life and in the hereafter,have a really nice day my brother🙂
Salam alaykum - brother Faiyad can u make a video on how much $$$ u need to get married? In Ontario the real estate is insane and even though on paper I make good money Alhamdullilah, I’ll end up paycheck to paycheck if I move out of my family’s house and live with a wife, is there any workarounds to this? Currently focused on making a biz inshallah so make more income
Walaikum assalam in sha Allah bro video soon. In the meantime see if parents can help or start some side hustles. Doesn’t need to be a move to a posh house.
@@HimothyHumphryIf you are Muslim, "None of you [truly] believes until he loves for his brother that which he loves for himself." [Al-Bukhari, Hadith 19.
No sorry brother ,as a muslim woman we chose the iman of our men over dunya .How can you live with a rich handsome man whos heart is dakened no .Allah says good women are for good men .Bad women for bad men
🚨 1st Ep of my new MARRIAGE PODCAST ⬇️
th-cam.com/video/jmyeLIRJK10/w-d-xo.html
My 1 on 1 Coaching ⬇️
faiyadfit.com
My FREE FULL High Value Muslim’s Club Call ⬇️
th-cam.com/video/ICW8kvGUKP0/w-d-xo.html
Instagram ⬇️
instagram.com/faiyadfit?igsh=MTlleDR0ZWtqZXVw
LIKE, SUB & COMMENT YOUR THOUGHTS.
Coming from a Muslim woman, everything he said is 100%!! I’ll just add please be kind. You don’t become alpfa by being rude.
Practicing Muslim woman here (I have a small channel on taqwa based self improvement) and just want to say this was super solid advice mashaAllah. I used to do premarital coaching for Muslims and a lot of the points of readiness were touched on in this video. JAK, good luck on your business
No such thing as luck only Allah ☝️☝️
@@taimurahmad. Just leave her, she's doing what she can.
@@asadzeethree2726 JAK for the defense brother! Advice is always appreciated but just with evidence if someone calls something haram. Unfortunately, his comment, although meaning well for sure, would make women who are struggling with hijab (which is very difficult to observe in the west no matter how righteous one is) doubt themselves. I’m not one of them as I observe it very proudly and to the best of my ability, encourage women on how to observe and take pride in it, and ask Allah to forgive my shortcomings in all matters related to my obligations. May Allah accept from all of us
@@alasryh No self-respecting Muslimah should take any advice from a "coach" like yourself who exposes herself to the public where non-mahram men can watch and hear you.
@@alasryhMay Allah help you with your channel 💗
Mashallah brother Faiayd. A really insightful and beneficial video for not just muslim men, but all men. May Allah bless you and reward you abundantly ❤
Ameen and you as well akhi
This was a really helpful Video!
I pray to Allah that he makes us ready for marriage as soon as possible 🤲
Allahumma ameen my brother
Allahumma Ameen
Masha Allah this was very true brother.May Allah reward you 😊
Alhumdulillah
Allahumma Ameen😊
🤯 wow 👏,.
You are much wiser than what I expected someone of your age to be.
Muslim woman here. I agree with all your points! However, I feel like you could've spoken more on masculinity in this video; what it is and what it isn't. For example, it isn't aggressiveness or speaking loudly
Salamoalikom Faiyad,
I wanted to share some feedback with you. Your recent thumbnails have shown great improvement and are among the best so far. However, there's still room for enhancement. I recommend studying channels like Hamza, Mohammed, or even Teachingmensfashion to identify what they do well and consider incorporating those elements into your own thumbnails.
Your speaking skills are commendable, and the subtitles on your videos are effective. To further elevate your content, consider injecting a bit more energy into your delivery. Drawing inspiration from the mentioned channels can contribute significantly to the growth of your channel.
Jazakallahkhair
Jazakallahu khair for the wise advice. Dm me @faiyadfit akh I want feedback in sha Allah
TMF? I unsubscribed because of his thumbnails a while ago astaghfirullah. Or did he change them?
May Allah increase you my brother 🙏🏽
Allahumma ameen
Jazakallahu Khairan brother. Another amazing guide full of helpful and important information that needs to be said during these times. Thank you brother ❤🔥
Wa iyaakum may Allah allow me to be more beneficial for the ummah and the non-Muslims. Allahumma ameen
Assalamualaikum brother jazakallah khair may allah preserve you and expand our knowledge....
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu Allahumma ameen
You who reading this,i wish you a good life full of success in this life and in the hereafter,peace be upon the prophets and messengers of our MAKER
Ameen
Salam please make a video talking about what attracts Muslim men to women aswell
this is so true i agree with everything you said, can you also make a vid on what men want in their wife?
In sha Allah
Thank you brother,good info and so true ❤
Great vid as always Akhi
Alhumdulillah
Mashallah bro you look so majestic on the thumbnail
May Allah make me as you see me
JazakAllah Khair brother
AOA. Great video. 1:57 Fix in-video subtitles please
Jazakallahu khairun akhi. I get annoyed when I see these titles because most of the videos, despite being taught by muslim men become about dating and and pulling in girls. But the we are commanded to lower our gaze and gaurd are private parts. Even if you believe you are ready for marriage and you like a girl. You lower your gaze and go speak to her father like a man and ask others about her so you don't get infatuated with her looks before making a decision.
I'm glad you mentioned to have boundries and act like a Muslim.
Alhumdulillah habibi.
How to adapt these traits: study the seerah of prophet Muhammad ﷺ. I saved a saved CD series explained by Imam shaheed Anwar Al Awlaki rahimahullah
Assalam aleikum is there a possibility of having a counselling and self improvement website for muslimah like the one for the male muslims with a female advisor ofc cause we all have our struggles both in and out of deen and I think it would be very impacting if there was one and we could gain a lot of baraka from helping our sisters. Personally i want to level up too. ❤
Assalamu Alaikum, really beneficial video, Allah Humma Barik,
Do you have an email to ask questions brother? JazakAllah Khair
Dm @faiyadfit and book a consultation if long discussion or just send a message and I’ll reply if it’s short ;)
faiyad13@gmail.com
May Allah reward you for the effort and advice. However it’s important to note that this video was titled “backed by deen” yet not one verse of the Quran, Hadith, or quote from the salaf has been seen. Although most of what Fayed said is common-sense it is important for you to return to evidences and be cautious about what people tell you. And the evidence for this is when the messenger ﷺ said:
“This knowledge is your religion so be careful who you take it from” (graded authentic by imam Albani)
This is not to put Fayed down, I respect him a lot and watch his videos; but it’s just a reminder for people to pay attention to evidences. This religion isn’t a joke so do not learn it from just anyone online.
جزاك الله خيرا
I got you habibi. When I say stuff like it’s our responsibility to be protectors and to provide and behave in accordance to Sunnah with our wives I guess I’ll be more explicit than just mention what to do. Jazakallahu khair.
Good message. Just wanted to correct that you quoted a saying of Imam Muhammad Ibn Sireen رحمه الله, not the Prophet ﷺ.
@@muammar1353 yh جزاك الله خيرا
@@FaiyadFit yes bro جزاك الله خيرا . Allah has blessed you with a platform allahumabarik so you should return the people to evidences so that they can have conviction of what has been revealed in truth.
Giving tough time to non muslim self improvement space
In marriage couples can make mistakes right, no one is perfect, we shouldn't be rude on them
right ? Please let me know what your thoughts are 😃
S
I like your blue A.I. hat🧢
Salaam alaikum wa rahmutuhlai wa barrakatoehoe, serious question: what if a woman was a non muslim prostitute but Allah Guided her to Islam and she said the Shahada and now is not a prostitute anymore. She repented to Allah and is now a practising Muslims. She is thinking about Marriage, but has her doubts because of her past. If she would marry you she would never tell you about her past. But she repented and is now a really good wife and would never leave you and is big on her Deen. Or would you rather not marry her at all? Even though Allah forgave all her sins?
Bro I live in Colombia, I come from a Catholic house.
I do not know anyone that is Muslim, how can I find a Muslim women?
I already have everything in place in my life, I'm just missing Muslim contacts (in my country I don't think there are any)
I’m sure there are. Do you have mosques? Get with the community
I’ll never be able to get married due to 4th trait. I rarely smile or do fun things due to severe social anxiety and cherophobia. May ﷲ make it easy. I’m already 37 and infertile… :/
Never talked to a female. Never touched a female. I went insane in my 20s because I lacked this emotion. If you are like me but you’re young - seek help. Don’t do the same thing I did and stay at home for 10+ years
May Allah help us. Never too late bro just put your trust in Allah and learn how the Prophet PBUH was and emulate his traits to the best of your ability for the sake of Allah SWT
@@FaiyadFit Allahuma Aameen. Keep spreading the truth. I’m a big fan of the 3Muslim Podcast!
Life is about living and transforming as life goes on, just start today heading towards who you want to be. If you don’t have the image of the person who you want to be then first build that image and take actions towards it. If you wake up tomorrow then Allah swt has given you another day to live so do your best and LIVE and be grateful and forgive people on a daily basis including yourself. Change will come once you get some momentum and momentum comes after you have taken many actions consistently. Lastly, the reward you get for patience is enormous and can’t see right now, and Mufti Menk said this that if your problem isn’t big enough for you to wake up for thajjud then it’s not big enough problem yet for you. So you know what you got to do and start today…
@@youtuber9409dont give up my belove brother,i wish you a really successfull life,you are a wonderfull person,dont give up,i wish you a really good life my brother
so if you are poor or below average income in this very difficult high inflated hard to get good jobs and lets say if Allah makes you as such you will live a life of below average income. does that mean shoot myself cause il never get married and that is a very big dream of many muslim men which should be crushed cause i aint got that big of a bag. i though our prophet had a very simple lifestyle and not a wealthy way pf living. i dunno thats just my take
Tie your camel and put your trust in Allah. Also that’s what it means to have tawakkul vs tawaakul.
@@FaiyadFit i know. its just hard cause many parents and women deny you cause they ask of your wealth first and deen second and ask for a large sum of mahr that makes if nearly impossible these days. I also hope alot of women understand the financial struggle of todays men and go easy on us with the wealth question. jazzakallahu kheiran bro keep up with the videos.
@@ahmadalbaiti4611i wish you success and happinness,dont give up my brother,i wish you to be really really rich and happy,have a wonderfull day🙂
@@RedaReda-vl9ff InshaAllah Allah will increase for you tenfold in this dunya and the here after. but to be honest it is very very difficult for the average and below average muslim.
@@ahmadalbaiti4611 dont give up my belove brother,i wish you rest and a lot of blessings in this life and in the hereafter,have a really nice day my brother🙂
Who is doing your thumbnails??
I have a guy
Salam alaykum - brother Faiyad can u make a video on how much $$$ u need to get married?
In Ontario the real estate is insane and even though on paper I make good money Alhamdullilah, I’ll end up paycheck to paycheck if I move out of my family’s house and live with a wife, is there any workarounds to this?
Currently focused on making a biz inshallah so make more income
Walaikum assalam in sha Allah bro video soon. In the meantime see if parents can help or start some side hustles. Doesn’t need to be a move to a posh house.
Are you married brother?
Am I
@@FaiyadFit yeah im just curious
Wrong order!
Islam/imaan first!
Everything else second.
Grow your beard
His beard ain't your beard let him be 😂
Thanks Mario ❤️
@@HimothyHumphryi wish you a really good life full of success
@@HimothyHumphryIf you are Muslim,
"None of you [truly] believes until he loves for his brother that which he loves for himself." [Al-Bukhari, Hadith 19.
6:19 Which fools believe that nonsense?!?
Sorry bro, nowadays women want 6 figuires and a big mahr. U need to be earning alot😅
No sorry brother ,as a muslim woman we chose the iman of our men over dunya .How can you live with a rich handsome man whos heart is dakened no .Allah says good women are for good men .Bad women for bad men
Bruh😂😂😂😂
ASTAGFIRALAH brother, you should NOT be talking about what attracts Muslim women, where is your modesty?!