If OP had given her a jet ski on her anniversary she would have turned around and asked for a Porsche on her birthday. It would never ever stop . . . 🤨
Absolutely. I'm not well versed in other cultures, but I've NEVER heard of anyone getting anniversary gifts for people other than their own spouses. Spouse gives spouse an anniversary gift as it's THEIR anniversary. Not sister giving sister. At least that's how I've grown up to witness it that way.
Unless you're my relative celebrating a milestone event (silver/golden anniversar, etc).I won't spend my time or money on every single life event. I'll send an email to you if you want to celebrate your puppy graduating from obedient school or something like that, but I'm gonna be a no show to that party (WOOF).
If my sister had asked me for such a ridiculous gift, I would’ve laughed and walked away. OP has no reason to feel bad. Her sister reaped what she sowed. Karma is indeed a b***h!
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Sister was throwing out lies after lies with no remorse. OP did not want to expose her sister. But sister dearest threw out a despicable lie about OP'S husband, and it was the last straw. Yes, she did it as retaliation, but I probably would have done the same thing in OP'S shoes.
If OP is feeling bad about not being able to get her a new jet ski she could look at used ones. Thing is OP has no reason to feel bad about saying no. She is doing the right thing by thinking of her family first.
Wedding anniversaries are for the couple. I have never gotten any gifts on mine except from my husband and he from me. Even then it's not expensive just thoughtful
So it is alright for OP's sister to accuse her husband of touching her inappropriately which could have potentially destroy his reputation, his life and could end up in jail. His life would have been over. How many men have their lives destroyed due to false accusation only for the accusers to turn around and admit it was not true because they didn't get their way.
NTA. If OP had used the cheating as her opening salvo, then YTA BUT she escalated slowly. Clear your name, point out the lies, give sis every opportunity to stop any where along the line. When sis decided to lie about hubby, the gloves came off.
Hearing these stories, I'm glad that my family always says talk to me when stuff goes down. I hold my family to a higher standard. So if they mess up, they know that they can't use "family" with me. I call it like I see it. If you don't like what I say. Tough.
O was right because her sister was making false accusations against her husband trying to ruin his reputation for no reason. SISTER IS AN A HOLE and family not too high on the list for the way they treated. OP.
I would’ve got her one, but it would’ve been a struggling matchbox 1/24 scale and I said it in front of the garage door and say your president is parked in the garage driveway but then I’m petty
Her kindness comes with a price tag? She volunteered to help you out because she was looking to gain from you. OP open your eyes, she's toxic, entitled, and selfish. If she wants what you have. Money is all they think about.
Once OP's sister accused OP's husband of assault, she had lost any right to sympathy from OP and deserved everything she got. What she said could have landed him in prison
Sister was JEALOUS 😂🤣😭😅 Husband failed and when they moved back and she saw OP's successful life.....the devil came out😂🤣😭😅 what's so surprising to me is she expected OP to get money from her husband's parents/family 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 WHO IS SHE TO DEMAND SUCH A THING😭😭😭😭😭 Plus, a jet ski🤷🏽🤷🏾♀️ not mortgage, car, surgery, bills.....a jet ski and op has two kids 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽 that's their college fund or inheritance not jet ski for entitled broke ESTRANGED SISTER 💯‼️❗
After listening to the full story and updates and how it was explained in my opinion as Mr Reddtto pointed out that she did it to herself in the telling of the tail she had already stated that yes she had that piece of information but she was not going to use it because that would bring her down to her sister's level and the only reason she did it is because she tried to blame her husband for being unfaithful as far as I'm concerned at that point all gloves are off all barriers are down and let the fallout commence
The only reason a commenter would say op was wrong to expose her sister's cheating after she had slandered her, tried to destroy her reputation, family and possibly marriage, as well as despicably lying to accuse her husband off sexual misconduct that could destroy his life 🧬 s because they themselves are cheaters. If any partners of these commenters read my comment please look carefully into their lies
Of course I’m on the side of OP. But feel there are some things she should have differently. After her initial No, sister said she’d give her a day to think about it. I wish she had said, “I don’t need a day to think about it. The answer is NO” like they say, No is a complete sentence. She needn’t have engaged further. And of course, to restate the obvious, nobody NEEDS a jet ski.
NOPE" why in the world did her sister think on what planet would OP borrow money from OP's husband's family to buy a ( Because I want It gift) because they are rich. She is the kind of person, I would ask her what in the FUCCk have you been smoking? Are you out of your gourd? That's the nice nice version.
The sister is going thru what she is going thru because of her own actions. Bad choices have bad consequences. The sister ruined her own marriage. After everything she did, I would have gone scortched earth on her.
OP sister offered to help OP did not ask for it up, OP is still willing to get a nice gift in their budget but that’s still not good enough for her sister.
This is a ridiculous request. In my family you buy your own spouse an anniversary gift. I never really heard about buying gifts for someone else's anniversary unless it was a relative that's been married for over 50 tears or so.
Mr Reddito I agree with you, OP's sister kept manipulating OP because nobody stops her. OP did the only right thing, finally stopped her sister. OP's sister made the bed, now she has to sleep in it.
I would go non contact with the toxic and evil sister...she is not balanced, and a liar...no excuses...she tried to blackmail the sister to destroy her and her family...how can she ever trust her?
OP sister is asking for too much and her family should not be enabling the sister even if she had that kind of money that’s a ridiculous thing to ask for in the family can pay for it if they’re so worried about it
I don’t see if OP is in the wrong, she accused her husband and her… she double crossed the line when she brought HER marriage into it… that’s were I I would of done the same thing!
OP, you felt from the beginning that your sister was up to something. You knew her, and you should have known that a leopard never changes its spots. You should have laughed in her face when she demanded a jet ski and told everyone there what age said. Next time, keep your enemy further away.
OP was in the wrong. She should not have waited to tell the husband that her sister was cheating on him. But OP is in regard to the jetski NTA. The sister is entitled, a liar, a slanderor, and a cheater, who tried to turn their relationship into a transactional one and tried to get her kicked out of the family. The sister destroyed her own life.
I don't agree with those blaming OP, sure she might of went a bit to far but her sister was trying to tell lies about her husband potentially ruining his relationship with OPs family. OP felt she had to do something to let everyone know about the lies her sister told. The one that ruined the sisters marriage was the sister for cheating.
I cant believe people sometimes. How can anyone think she was in the wrong. She was saying her hubby touched her inappropriately... do they even understand what that could do to him??!! Not just him but his children, wife, family... It could turn everyone's life upside down just because she didn't want to be caught up in a lie that she told because she KNEW it was inappropriate to ask her for the jet ski in the first place and the family would have told her so. Her lying about it basically just proved she knew it was not right asking for a gift like that. She clearly has a loving sister!!! She felt bad for days for not getting her the Jet Ski and was contemplating getting it for her. Even after she acted like a child at the picnic. I feel bad for OP she lost the relationship she wanted with her sister, kids lost an aunt and she probably beats her self up (hearing how badly she wanted to keep her relationship with her sister) all the time now for how her sisters life is going. Sad situation to be honest. I personally would have stopped talking when she begged me to and i would have pulled her aside and talked to her BUT shed know i have the proof if she kept her shit up. Might have made people ask questions but if she wanted to keep that relationship so bad i would have done that. However, i do not think she was wrong for it.
Wave runner for a wedding anniversary present? What? If not buying someone an expensive gift will ruin a relationship then it wasn’t much of a relationship. And your in laws aren’t related to your sister.
The money she wanted you to spend is not yours but your parents -in -law. She is greedy and selfish. Let her go her way. You are not missing anything.Apparently she wanted to live like John and Jane public without the finance.
I'm probably more upset at the family than anyone. The sister is clearly the golden child. How they automatically sided with the sister is baffling. So instead of looking at the situation objectively, they just deemed OP the villain without question. What the sister said about OP was completely out of character for her but to them it made sense. Based on what? OP supposedly owed the sister $2500 so as repayment OP offered to buy her a $10K wave runner. How is this math adding up? If she couldn't pay back $2500, how in the hell is she paying $10K for a jet ski? Not a single person in that family had common sense. Now to the sister. First, she accused OP of stiffing her on a $2500 loan. Then she follows up with OP going back on a promise never made of buying her a jet ski. Then, accusing OP of simple assault. When none of that worked, she resorted to accusing her husband of SA. Come on, now. This chick ain't right in the head. For the comments to say that OP ruined her sister's marriage, how? Her husband already knew about her texting another man, so to give more context was coming. Her marriage was over anyway. The sister is a liar, cheater, manipulator, and extortionist in training. The family is spineless because they were ready to kick OP out of the family as a collective but when it comes to the sister put the burden on OP's shoulders. Honestly, OP should rid of all of them. None of them are worth a can of no-frill beans. Toxic at its best. To be kicked out of that weirdo family would be a blessing in disguise
She should have given her greedy sister a toy jetski in the beginning. And carried on from there.
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I LIKE IT!!!
If OP had given her a jet ski on her anniversary she would have turned around and asked for a Porsche on her birthday. It would never ever stop . . . 🤨
Absolutely right! It will never stop!
Ditto
Op, your sister is being *entitled*
. If she wants that jet ski so badly, she can *work for it herself* .
Absolutely. I'm not well versed in other cultures, but I've NEVER heard of anyone getting anniversary gifts for people other than their own spouses. Spouse gives spouse an anniversary gift as it's THEIR anniversary. Not sister giving sister. At least that's how I've grown up to witness it that way.
Unless you're my relative celebrating a milestone event (silver/golden anniversar, etc).I won't spend my time or money on every single life event. I'll send an email to you if you want to celebrate your puppy graduating from obedient school or something like that, but I'm gonna be a no show to that party (WOOF).
And watch her use it twice and get bored. She better get it herself or shut the F up.
@@VixLeu My sister would NEVER say that to me. In MY opinion, this is NOT a good sister. Sisters that genuinely love one another, NEVER do this.
I'm the baby of my family and i would never think of asking for something expensive
NTA. You were protecting your husband and yourself.
If my sister had asked me for such a ridiculous gift, I would’ve laughed and walked away. OP has no reason to feel bad. Her sister reaped what she sowed. Karma is indeed a b***h!
Op let your sister get her own jet ski😊
I loved the story. Op did the right thing by saying no to her sister about buying her a jet ski and for also exposing her sister as a liar.
Her kindness comes with a price tag.
Once the sister accused her husband of SA she crossed a line there is no return from.
Sister didn’t mind trying to put op’s marriage in jeopardy.
OP = NTA
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Once the sister tried to accuse her husband, it became no holds barred
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Sister was throwing out lies after lies with no remorse. OP did not want to expose her sister. But sister dearest threw out a despicable lie about OP'S husband, and it was the last straw. Yes, she did it as retaliation, but I probably would have done the same thing in OP'S shoes.
Get your own jet ski. What the hell!!! Did she think the money coming from the sky or something? She need to check her brain
It isnt stooping to her level. It is meeting her on a level playing field
If OP is feeling bad about not being able to get her a new jet ski she could look at used ones. Thing is OP has no reason to feel bad about saying no. She is doing the right thing by thinking of her family first.
Why would you stress about a gift you cannot afford who needs a sister like that
Her parents allowed this behaviors when they were children. They were to blame.
Wedding anniversaries are for the couple. I have never gotten any gifts on mine except from my husband and he from me. Even then it's not expensive just thoughtful
She is crazy
😂 spine is non existence.
So it is alright for OP's sister to accuse her husband of touching her inappropriately which could have potentially destroy his reputation, his life and could end up in jail. His life would have been over. How many men have their lives destroyed due to false accusation only for the accusers to turn around and admit it was not true because they didn't get their way.
She gave her what she deserved.❤❤
The sister was hinting at that ops husband either sa'd her or wants an affair. Op just shot it down and exposed her sisters true self
I’ve said it before and will say it again; when someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!
You never reward greed or selfishness
OP...HELL NO..Sister is off her rocker. A JET SKI..Of all the ridiculous BS!! No..then drop it.
how would the sister feel if the other sister said I'll buy you the jet ski you pay for the children college education..
NTA. If OP had used the cheating as her opening salvo, then YTA BUT she escalated slowly. Clear your name, point out the lies, give sis every opportunity to stop any where along the line. When sis decided to lie about hubby, the gloves came off.
Op wouldn't hv said anything if sister hadn't accused OP's husband if misconduct towards her. She FAFO.
Sister like that, OP better not to have one.
Thanks......I like your story telling.
Op had every right to expose her sister what if she had tried to do this to someone else.
I would be like “bye Felicia” 😅
There is a big difference between a "want" and a "need." OP's sister feels entitled to other people's hard earned money. She is a brat.
Hm, sister lied and people with glass houses should not throw lying rocks.
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Am I the only one here for the endings with the positive vibes ❤ love your voice to dude 😎
Hearing these stories, I'm glad that my family always says talk to me when stuff goes down. I hold my family to a higher standard. So if they mess up, they know that they can't use "family" with me. I call it like I see it. If you don't like what I say. Tough.
OP should tell Parents that she's their Daughter. They can buy it if they want.
😢Op,,your sister is being nothing but a gold digger
O was right because her sister was making false accusations against her husband trying to ruin his reputation for no reason. SISTER IS AN A HOLE and family not too high on the list for the way they treated. OP.
What's with these people who think you are able to to spend grandly for them because you are connected?
Stopping by to wish you a Happy Easter. May God bless you.
I sometimes can’t understand how people expect gifts let alone a 10 grand one
OP’s sister is not to be trusted. Don’t shun her, however, put her on a very, very long probation period.
10000 for a Sea-Doo. No. Way. . 😀. . That's too much.
Get a job.
The parents need to hear both sides. Her sister lied it was her who attacked OP
I would’ve got her one, but it would’ve been a struggling matchbox 1/24 scale and I said it in front of the garage door and say your president is parked in the garage driveway but then I’m petty
Her kindness comes with a price tag? She volunteered to help you out because she was looking to gain from you. OP open your eyes, she's toxic, entitled, and selfish. If she wants what you have. Money is all they think about.
That’s not what his sister does to another sister. I hope the truth actually gets out and the parents give 0P huge freaking apology.
Once OP's sister accused OP's husband of assault, she had lost any right to sympathy from OP and deserved everything she got. What she said could have landed him in prison
Awe I'm moving butterfly
Wonder if the money the sister wanted was more for the compensation owed in her affair..lol
Buy her a toy
Sister was JEALOUS 😂🤣😭😅 Husband failed and when they moved back and she saw OP's successful life.....the devil came out😂🤣😭😅 what's so surprising to me is she expected OP to get money from her husband's parents/family 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 WHO IS SHE TO DEMAND SUCH A THING😭😭😭😭😭 Plus, a jet ski🤷🏽🤷🏾♀️ not mortgage, car, surgery, bills.....a jet ski and op has two kids 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽 that's their college fund or inheritance not jet ski for entitled broke ESTRANGED SISTER 💯‼️❗
Even if op did borrow the money. 2500 is not the same as 10k
Was op going to get a $10,000 gift for her anniversary. Usually only husbands & wives exchange gifts on A’s unless it’s your parents 25th, or 50th.
Has anyone ever heard of the word NOPE. IT Actually comes out of the mouth pretty easily.
If you give her the jet ski what will she ask her birthday.?
Op's sister played stupid games and won a big stupid PRIZE! Awful sister!
After listening to the full story and updates and how it was explained in my opinion as Mr Reddtto pointed out that she did it to herself in the telling of the tail she had already stated that yes she had that piece of information but she was not going to use it because that would bring her down to her sister's level and the only reason she did it is because she tried to blame her husband for being unfaithful as far as I'm concerned at that point all gloves are off all barriers are down and let the fallout commence
Above all else sis attacked her marriage 1st, she got that instant karma that she deserved. Happy Divorce
OP forgave her parents waaaayy to quickly. They believed her sister and didn't even give op a chance at all. That's messed up.
The only reason a commenter would say op was wrong to expose her sister's cheating after she had slandered her, tried to destroy her reputation, family and possibly marriage, as well as despicably lying to accuse her husband off sexual misconduct that could destroy his life 🧬 s because they themselves are cheaters. If any partners of these commenters read my comment please look carefully into their lies
Only people defending the sister are probably cheaters themselves
Why is she having a picnic with Bill Clinton?
Monica is her sisters real name 😉
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What a brat, I’d have said yes then bought her a remote controlled toy one.
Oh peace sister no we lied about OP but her husband the sister had to drop this whole ridiculous gift thing. None of this would’ve come out.🤦♀️
Nevermind the fact OP sister tried to accuse OP's husband of inappropriate behavior.
Greedy sister and clueless family thinking demanding a 10k jet ski wth!
Of course I’m on the side of OP. But feel there are some things she should have differently. After her initial No, sister said she’d give her a day to think about it. I wish she had said, “I don’t need a day to think about it. The answer is NO” like they say, No is a complete sentence. She needn’t have engaged further. And of course, to restate the obvious, nobody NEEDS a jet ski.
OP your sister is entitled that is a very expensive gift to ask for. She should’ve just said thank you for thinking about it and moved on.
Maybe OP should of got a cheap used one and if folks said something OP could say 'this is what she asked for'
NOPE" why in the world did her sister think on what planet would OP borrow money from OP's husband's family to buy a ( Because I want It gift) because they are rich. She is the kind of person, I would ask her what in the FUCCk have you been smoking? Are you out of your gourd? That's the nice nice version.
The sister is going thru what she is going thru because of her own actions. Bad choices have bad consequences. The sister ruined her own marriage. After everything she did, I would have gone scortched earth on her.
She. played you like a Stradivarius and is counting on guilting you to get what she wants. Run very far very fast.
You shouldn’t have to buy your family’s love. Absolutely not the AH. Your sister does not really love you, she just wants to use you for money.
OP sister offered to help OP did not ask for it up, OP is still willing to get a nice gift in their budget but that’s still not good enough for her sister.
No op if ur sister wants this and thinks that then u never had a sister. Sounds like some of my family
This is a ridiculous request. In my family you buy your own spouse an anniversary gift. I never really heard about buying gifts for someone else's anniversary unless it was a relative that's been married for over 50 tears or so.
She can't ruin your life if you go NC and move far away.
Op nta well done for standing your grounf with an spolt entitled narcissist sibling
Nta. Sister is entitled and your family is bonkers. Get her a barbie sized wave runner
I'd be asking what drugs she was doing and to tell her doctor
Mr Reddito I agree with you, OP's sister kept manipulating OP because nobody stops her. OP did the only right thing, finally stopped her sister. OP's sister made the bed, now she has to sleep in it.
I would go non contact with the toxic and evil sister...she is not balanced, and a liar...no excuses...she tried to blackmail the sister to destroy her and her family...how can she ever trust her?
Time to distant yourself from your sister. Eeek! She is awful.
OP sister is asking for too much and her family should not be enabling the sister even if she had that kind of money that’s a ridiculous thing to ask for in the family can pay for it if they’re so worried about it
I don’t see if OP is in the wrong, she accused her husband and her… she double crossed the line when she brought HER marriage into it… that’s were I I would of done the same thing!
OP, you felt from the beginning that your sister was up to something. You knew her, and you should have known that a leopard never changes its spots. You should have laughed in her face when she demanded a jet ski and told everyone there what age said. Next time, keep your enemy further away.
No sense, heh she set you up for either a lawsuit or family pressure. Geeze go NC. And the rest of the flying monkeys too
A jet ski is the stupidest thing to ask for. This is stupid laughable, no one realy needs a jet ski
OP was in the wrong. She should not have waited to tell the husband that her sister was cheating on him. But OP is in regard to the jetski NTA. The sister is entitled, a liar, a slanderor, and a cheater, who tried to turn their relationship into a transactional one and tried to get her kicked out of the family. The sister destroyed her own life.
I don't agree with those blaming OP, sure she might of went a bit to far but her sister was trying to tell lies about her husband potentially ruining his relationship with OPs family. OP felt she had to do something to let everyone know about the lies her sister told. The one that ruined the sisters marriage was the sister for cheating.
I cant believe people sometimes. How can anyone think she was in the wrong. She was saying her hubby touched her inappropriately... do they even understand what that could do to him??!! Not just him but his children, wife, family... It could turn everyone's life upside down just because she didn't want to be caught up in a lie that she told because she KNEW it was inappropriate to ask her for the jet ski in the first place and the family would have told her so. Her lying about it basically just proved she knew it was not right asking for a gift like that. She clearly has a loving sister!!! She felt bad for days for not getting her the Jet Ski and was contemplating getting it for her. Even after she acted like a child at the picnic. I feel bad for OP she lost the relationship she wanted with her sister, kids lost an aunt and she probably beats her self up (hearing how badly she wanted to keep her relationship with her sister) all the time now for how her sisters life is going. Sad situation to be honest.
I personally would have stopped talking when she begged me to and i would have pulled her aside and talked to her BUT shed know i have the proof if she kept her shit up. Might have made people ask questions but if she wanted to keep that relationship so bad i would have done that. However, i do not think she was wrong for it.
OP SISTER DEMANDING & MANIPULATIVE. TIGER DOESN'T CHANGE IT'S
STRIPES!! NO MORE CONTACT WITH SISTER AND WATCH YOUR BACK, FAMILY, HUSBAND & HOUSE!!
Wave runner for a wedding anniversary present? What? If not buying someone an expensive gift will ruin a relationship then it wasn’t much of a relationship. And your in laws aren’t related to your sister.
The money she wanted you to spend is not yours but your parents -in -law. She is greedy and selfish. Let her go her way. You are not missing anything.Apparently she wanted to live like John and Jane public without the finance.
I'm probably more upset at the family than anyone. The sister is clearly the golden child. How they automatically sided with the sister is baffling. So instead of looking at the situation objectively, they just deemed OP the villain without question. What the sister said about OP was completely out of character for her but to them it made sense. Based on what? OP supposedly owed the sister $2500 so as repayment OP offered to buy her a $10K wave runner. How is this math adding up? If she couldn't pay back $2500, how in the hell is she paying $10K for a jet ski? Not a single person in that family had common sense.
Now to the sister. First, she accused OP of stiffing her on a $2500 loan. Then she follows up with OP going back on a promise never made of buying her a jet ski. Then, accusing OP of simple assault. When none of that worked, she resorted to accusing her husband of SA. Come on, now. This chick ain't right in the head.
For the comments to say that OP ruined her sister's marriage, how? Her husband already knew about her texting another man, so to give more context was coming. Her marriage was over anyway. The sister is a liar, cheater, manipulator, and extortionist in training.
The family is spineless because they were ready to kick OP out of the family as a collective but when it comes to the sister put the burden on OP's shoulders. Honestly, OP should rid of all of them. None of them are worth a can of no-frill beans. Toxic at its best. To be kicked out of that weirdo family would be a blessing in disguise