Especially if they refuse to listen to her. This pretty much looks like sister wanted an excuse to get rid of OP, in which case there was no reason for her to ever help sister, let her and the rest of the family sink. Stay the f away from them, you owe none of them anything. Also when talking with the BIL, why in this day and age didn't she record all her conversions with him?
I would have said, "Fine, I'll come back...for 50.1% of the company. Otherwise, I'll do my best to ensure you get 100% of nothing, as I'll put your company out of business."
I came here to say this exact thing… and explain that this way she could never be threatened to lose her job again as her sister seams unstable and unfair.
Your missing a huge point. Odds are the soon to be ex-husband is going to own 50% of the company after the divorce. Until the sister buys his share out, so there is no 50.1% to give.
OP, I don't think I could have ever forgiven my sister. Just saying, after listening to your story. That bond is so sacred, and she shattered it into a million pieces. You are a better person than me. It would take A LOT to forgive that kind of humiliation and deception. I don't understand the part where she wouldn't let you explain completely. Sisters listen to each other and she didn't even let you explain. As for your extended family, you know who really cares about you and who does not. I personally could not go back. I don't know if I could recover from your sister's words. I would disown my sister. Sorry OP, I don't agree with all that you did. Too painful. OP, once that trust is broken with your sister, I don't think you will get it back. It's ALWAYS going to be in the back of your mind. It would be mine. SMH
Even if there is, outside CCTV (at least most of the time) doesn't record sound because there is no reason to do so. And I bet that ppl who work for the company (at least the higher-ups know where the blind spots are
You'd be surprised how often things that seem simple to us on the outside viewing in completely slip under the radar for people in those high stress situations. I've gone through some insanely stressful things and it isn't until months after the dust settles I have those "FUCK I should have done that differently." Moments. 🤣
You are a fool to trust your sister. Your sister wouldn’t hear you out. Your family, parents wouldn’t hear you out. They don’t respect you. They’re just using you. You just used the new company to get back at your sister and brother-in-law. You should’ve stayed with the Second company they were the ones that treated you well. Your family does not respect you.
I would have suggested OP to record her BIL admitting to what he did and then returned but asked for shares of the company to ensure she could never be found without income.
Anyone who won't even listen is a fool. In this case, OP's sister was a double fool for believing her husband without any particular reason to and for not at least listening to her own sister -- multiple times: Nope! Nope! Not listening. However, I think OP was also a fool for going back for 10 more years of abuse. Family... they're so supportive....
So if someone shows your photos (proof) that someone is 'doing x' you should ignore it? So what WOULD have been convincing evidence for you? And try to answer w/o using the power of hgindsight! e.g. if someone showed you pictures of your partner b*nging someone, would you ignore them and first hear your partner out? Be honnest! She had seen photos about her sister handing over stuff to their rivals and sitting at a table with those rivals Even in a court of law evidence like that would be pretty bad (for the accused)
@@robertx8020 I personally would have at least listened to the 'accused' because in these days of photoshop and scammed evidence, it's worthwhile to at least hear the other side. No, I wouldn't accept this 'proof' without question -- particularly if I had known the person for a very long time and they had a stellar track record. Now be honest: Are the kind of person that makes snap judgments to convict a person without having all the evidence you can get? Especially when the stakes are high? If I were a betting man, which I am not, I'd bet you would... maybe... I'd need to hear more from you just to be sure....
@@robertx8020 the photos in your example could be deepfakes or rape. You should still ask questions. the sister wouldn't listen to op's story even once, interrupting someone while they are providing information is not a proper investigation. Even if lying, you should still find out what their lies are to catch them on it.
Have you noticed that she comes running only after her husband has made a fool of her and after you have well made a fool out of them and only when she has now she has to grovel but you don't have to go there at this point you're the bigger person you've got a steady job you're doing good so will I go back to that crap
The comment section tells you to stop adlibing and to read the script more carefully. Your response is to remove the captions so no one can tell what you’re doing
Very true! Was thinking that when her BIL was asking her to do the favor. She should have told him to deliver it himself! Why should the CEO deliver a "sealed" package for an assistant-to? Could have been drugs! She made several mistakes! If someone shows you who they really are (her sister), believe them! // But then there wouldn't have been a story.
Fake story. Sister's company is in the crapper and nobody would go back. Besides, it takes MANY months for changes to become clear to outsiders so sister couldn't have known what OP was doing.
For the life of me, I'll never understand the level of doormattery OP and her like minded type go through mental gymnastics to justify dealing with these people again.
I wish op would've taped the conversation where she stopped her bil outside and he told her why exactly he did it. But there wouldn't have been a story then. Would there?
You should have you should have recorded your brother-in-law confessing and then played it for your sister-in-law or your sister I mean and your family on regardless whether they took you back I think I would have gone with the competitor anyway or open my own company small though it may be you could have probably run your family through the ringer and taking over your sister's company probably within a year or two and made yourself the CEO and the president to both and let her work unto you for a change
She could have said that, but regardless, she needed a job - might as well take the best offer. Didn't need to make any threats. One should NEVER burn the bridges behind them AND in front of them!
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Move around and never work with family that does not trust you. Once trust has been broken never go back! Let them FAFO!
Especially if they refuse to listen to her. This pretty much looks like sister wanted an excuse to get rid of OP, in which case there was no reason for her to ever help sister, let her and the rest of the family sink. Stay the f away from them, you owe none of them anything. Also when talking with the BIL, why in this day and age didn't she record all her conversions with him?
I would have said, "Fine, I'll come back...for 50.1% of the company. Otherwise, I'll do my best to ensure you get 100% of nothing, as I'll put your company out of business."
I came here to say this exact thing… and explain that this way she could never be threatened to lose her job again as her sister seams unstable and unfair.
I would have asked for 60%. If he said no then I would say enjoy being buried. You're done bud ( Canadian saying)
Nope, you never go back.
Your missing a huge point. Odds are the soon to be ex-husband is going to own 50% of the company after the divorce. Until the sister buys his share out, so there is no 50.1% to give.
As rhe founder, she may get the larger share.
OP, I don't think I could have ever forgiven my sister. Just saying, after listening to your story. That bond is so sacred, and she shattered it into a million pieces. You are a better person than me. It would take A LOT to forgive that kind of humiliation and deception. I don't understand the part where she wouldn't let you explain completely. Sisters listen to each other and she didn't even let you explain. As for your extended family, you know who really cares about you and who does not. I personally could not go back. I don't know if I could recover from your sister's words. I would disown my sister. Sorry OP, I don't agree with all that you did. Too painful. OP, once that trust is broken with your sister, I don't think you will get it back. It's ALWAYS going to be in the back of your mind. It would be mine. SMH
Is there no CCTV footage outside the office, where OP and bil were talking and bil said exactly why he sabotaged OP?😊
Even if there is, outside CCTV (at least most of the time) doesn't record sound because there is no reason to do so.
And I bet that ppl who work for the company (at least the higher-ups know where the blind spots are
Never occurred to her to record the convos with the brother in law? Smh
You'd be surprised how often things that seem simple to us on the outside viewing in completely slip under the radar for people in those high stress situations. I've gone through some insanely stressful things and it isn't until months after the dust settles I have those "FUCK I should have done that differently." Moments. 🤣
I was thinking the same thing. And find those people who worked for him...the BIL.
Depending on where the story is located it could be against the law
@@Danarchy3 Inconsequential. This is just to show evidence of proof to the sister. Not be used in a court of law in a lawsuit.
@@superdave8248 perhaps… until sister tells her hubby who sues her for defamation. You never know who is on your side
For that you should never have given in. You just showed that you're expendable.
Had it been me, I wouldn't go back, family or not.
Sue for your share of the company.
Op you are better than me i would have completely disowned her.😊
I agree with the commenter. Op was a F.O.O.L. to go back!
And making less money because of "family". Same family that didn't give her a chance to tell her side of the story but instead cut her off.
Why didn’t she record the 10 min chat smh
Because unlike you who has time to think about it, OP didn't ..ppl make mistakes ..
Op, you shouldn't have went back. She showed you where her loyalty was. You were doing better without her.
You are a fool to trust your sister. Your sister wouldn’t hear you out. Your family, parents wouldn’t hear you out. They don’t respect you. They’re just using you. You just used the new company to get back at your sister and brother-in-law. You should’ve stayed with the Second company they were the ones that treated you well. Your family does not respect you.
I've noticed that some of the background scenes have become really good, a major step up from the usual. Kudos to your animation team!
They made at least 2 mistakes with using the WRONG background!
😂 the scoot scoot killed me
Op will be betrayed again. She should never have returned
Cheaters never win. Crime bears bitter fruit. He will be very sorry in the end.
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Isn't it automatic to record all meetings especially with sketchy ppl?
ALL OF THIS COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED IF YOU HAD JUST RECORDED HIM SPEAKING
Frfr
NO WAY IN WWW A SMART PERSON WOULD NOT HAVE RECORDED CONVERSATION WITH BIL ! KNOWING HE WOULD BRAG !
I would have suggested OP to record her BIL admitting to what he did and then returned but asked for shares of the company to ensure she could never be found without income.
If I'm coming back to that company I'm getting stock options
Anyone who won't even listen is a fool. In this case, OP's sister was a double fool for believing her husband without any particular reason to and for not at least listening to her own sister -- multiple times: Nope! Nope! Not listening.
However, I think OP was also a fool for going back for 10 more years of abuse.
Family... they're so supportive....
So if someone shows your photos (proof) that someone is 'doing x' you should ignore it?
So what WOULD have been convincing evidence for you?
And try to answer w/o using the power of hgindsight!
e.g. if someone showed you pictures of your partner b*nging someone, would you ignore them and first hear your partner out?
Be honnest!
She had seen photos about her sister handing over stuff to their rivals and sitting at a table with those rivals
Even in a court of law evidence like that would be pretty bad (for the accused)
@@robertx8020 I personally would have at least listened to the 'accused' because in these days of photoshop and scammed evidence, it's worthwhile to at least hear the other side. No, I wouldn't accept this 'proof' without question -- particularly if I had known the person for a very long time and they had a stellar track record.
Now be honest: Are the kind of person that makes snap judgments to convict a person without having all the evidence you can get? Especially when the stakes are high?
If I were a betting man, which I am not, I'd bet you would... maybe... I'd need to hear more from you just to be sure....
@@robertx8020 the photos in your example could be deepfakes or rape. You should still ask questions.
the sister wouldn't listen to op's story even once, interrupting someone while they are providing information is not a proper investigation. Even if lying, you should still find out what their lies are to catch them on it.
Have you noticed that she comes running only after her husband has made a fool of her and after you have well made a fool out of them and only when she has now she has to grovel but you don't have to go there at this point you're the bigger person you've got a steady job you're doing good so will I go back to that crap
How did rival companies get op phone number
should have demanded the CEO position. Also a cut finger of loyalty like Assassin Creed.
Should have taken documents to sister
The sunlight on the lens is a nice touch
The comment section tells you to stop adlibing and to read the script more carefully. Your response is to remove the captions so no one can tell what you’re doing
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What a Maroon 😂😂😂 What an Ignoramus 😂😂😂
I find it funny that your sister said to always be careful and you weren't careful lol
Very true! Was thinking that when her BIL was asking her to do the favor. She should have told him to deliver it himself! Why should the CEO deliver a "sealed" package for an assistant-to? Could have been drugs! She made several mistakes! If someone shows you who they really are (her sister), believe them! // But then there wouldn't have been a story.
Fake story. Sister's company is in the crapper and nobody would go back. Besides, it takes MANY months for changes to become clear to outsiders so sister couldn't have known what OP was doing.
Did you listen to the story as your comments make no sense at all.
OP never bothered to take a audio recorder with them at any time when meeting with the BIL after he screwed OP over....
If they came to ops apartment, then later with her friends, why is op outside both times?
I thought the same thing. 😂 does op have pictures outside her front door?
For the life of me, I'll never understand the level of doormattery OP and her like minded type go through mental gymnastics to justify dealing with these people again.
Idk in this one I cannot side with OP. She should have moved on. And the fact she kept chasing was ridiculous. She was frustrating.
Why did the brother-in-law finally admit everything? He must have known it would lead to firing and divorce.
Rule 1 - family is not worth it
It is good for you to forgive. You shouldn't have gone back to work for your sister company.
You shouldn't have gone back to the company without a part of ownership.
I wish op would've taped the conversation where she stopped her bil outside and he told her why exactly he did it. But there wouldn't have been a story then. Would there?
Wtf bil is a classic a..seriously and ehy she forgiveness to the sister is unbelievable 😳
Lesson i learned the hard way family don't mean shit.
Should have recorded his confession.
You should have never went back
Excuse me here, this fabricated story makes no sense. She knows that he set her up but she still tries to talk to him to explain? This is nonsense.
You should have you should have recorded your brother-in-law confessing and then played it for your sister-in-law or your sister I mean and your family on regardless whether they took you back I think I would have gone with the competitor anyway or open my own company small though it may be you could have probably run your family through the ringer and taking over your sister's company probably within a year or two and made yourself the CEO and the president to both and let her work unto you for a change
Some people are just too trusting.
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Business is business! Was it "Crapshoot"(?) that said that in Kelley's Heroes?
Thats just bs
Cool story, Bruh.
Should have offered her the "listen to me and ill ignore all offers or not then ill go out of my way to destroy your company"
She could have said that, but regardless, she needed a job - might as well take the best offer. Didn't need to make any threats. One should NEVER burn the bridges behind them AND in front of them!
What a fake story😂
It takes a fake person to notice
@@robertx8020 Nah, just takes more than two brain cells. This entire story reeks of AI regurgitation.
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