I Asked Women Married To Affluent Men How To Know You're Ready To Date An Affluent Man - 7 Signs

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  • @ayanime_edem
    @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for watching… How many of the signs can you tick off? 1? 3? 5? 7? Let me know… 🤍

  • @baisinbu98
    @baisinbu98 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    *SIGNS YOU ARE READY TO DATE AN AFFLUENT MAN*
    1. You are no longer desperate. 1:39
    2. You are not easily impressed by his pedigree. 4:29
    3. You are no longer emotionally demanding, needy and clingy. 8:14
    4. You do not feel inferior to him or intimidated by his affluence. 11:25
    5. You are grounded and sure of yourself. 14:14
    6. You are ready to make adjustments. 16:39
    7. You are ready or willing to walk away from it all. 17:40
    Thanks as usual Ayanime. 💯Always on point. 💚

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Last one! Always be ready to leave if they are NoT classy!!!! It’s not about money!!! 🤦‍♀️

    • @TheBerkeleyBeauty
      @TheBerkeleyBeauty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Portia620- Well, if they don’t have money, they’re not affluent.

  • @adegboyegatejumadeademidun7040
    @adegboyegatejumadeademidun7040 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    This is off topic but i love your blouse, so chic !❤

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Oh thank you! 🤍 (It’s actually a dress)

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I ❤ the last point. When an affluent man can feel like he's entitled to treat you any kind of way because of money 💵 you should always remember with your brain, talents, gifts, and skills you can be your own affluent person. Do not allow their material possessions to blind you or wealth. Their integrity, generosity, compassion, and trust should win you over. Appreciate this video and your eyes are stunning queen 👑 lol 😂

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you beautiful 🤍

    • @mukaniwatkins2598
      @mukaniwatkins2598 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Money will still be included in the equation.

  • @aoiaaon
    @aoiaaon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I came across this video at the right time as I've been getting thoughts of marrying a prominent man...

  • @SuaveUC
    @SuaveUC ปีที่แล้ว +32

    All points are very VALID. But you see that last point?...its the center of it all. Willingness to leave the relationship if it turns sour. 👍

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good point… it is the center of it all 🤍

  • @alexaarrah696
    @alexaarrah696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I make my own money. I've been in my own since I was 22 grew up poor. I want to live in my soft girl era when I get married hopefully it's a come up. But I make my own money and can take care of myself.

  • @shirlsshirls8594
    @shirlsshirls8594 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Once you have your own money, you'll be less inclinced to date like a desperate woman who has no food at home or need a man to choose you.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      It usually amazes me how people often feel that women who desire to date affluent men don’t have money… When in reality, it’s mostly women with money who want this… it’s called consolidation

    • @theupgraded6558
      @theupgraded6558 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ayanime_edem yeah like are they a model or what? if not, curb your dreams if you aint successful or educated yourself. these men got options with smart/beautiful women who ARE all that. These men want to feel understood in business & whatever they are doing. understand the needs & different lifestyle, rules, secrecy, experience etc

  • @glenbutler9611
    @glenbutler9611 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Affluence doesn't always equal integrity, wisdom or moral character. I guess in a roundabout way this clip encourages highly valued women to seek qualities beyond affluence.. Ya think?..😬

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂. Class and money are two entirely different things!!!!

    • @mukaniwatkins2598
      @mukaniwatkins2598 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Got to include money in the equation too. Morals and character with lesser money don't pay the bills and luxury lifestyle.

    • @glenbutler9611
      @glenbutler9611 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mukaniwatkins2598Good for you! I was really referring to millionaire degenerates like Donald Trump, Jeffrey Weinstein, Bernie Madoff, Sean P Diddy Combs. Hey, whatever floats your boat..

  • @ezinnenwabara6561
    @ezinnenwabara6561 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your dress is so beautiful ❤❤❤❤

  • @dejachaniah
    @dejachaniah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These points are so good! I just walked away from a relationship with an affluent man. It wasn’t aligned. He is now calling and begging me back. I am just ignoring him and focusing on my goals.

  • @blessinguyeh
    @blessinguyeh ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Eyen eka, your videos are so wholesome, I always make sure I catch up with them every chance I get, well done❤️

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Ufan 🤍

  • @ReneeIsReborn
    @ReneeIsReborn หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At 4:21 you say you will leave the card linked to your video, signs that show you are desperate in a relationship. I don't see the card and it's not coming up in my search. Will you please share the link? Thank you!

  • @talkswithcookie
    @talkswithcookie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my time coming I just left a rapper alone. Wasn’t serious didn’t get passed conversation but I see I’m in the vibration of abundance. I’d rather just a normal person though lol

  • @chinwejoseph4334
    @chinwejoseph4334 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank u so much ayanime for the video
    Pls do more

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure… any particular topic?

  • @oluebubeemeka2708
    @oluebubeemeka2708 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I actually enjoyed this video. Thanks for putting this out.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! 🤍

  • @faithobodo9460
    @faithobodo9460 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This channel is changing my mindset about going into my elegant era one video at a time. I’m glad I found the intentional woman channel❤

  • @asiamahboatengdeborah2909
    @asiamahboatengdeborah2909 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much, I'm loving your channel ❤
    Please don't stop 😊

  • @dejachaniah
    @dejachaniah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this video 💕When you posted it, I was just starting a relationship with an affluent man (10 months ago). I am moving into the next level of this and it is…either time for us to work through something or walk away from it all. This definitely came up on my TH-cam homepage at the RIGHT TIME 🙏

  • @kampwoods
    @kampwoods 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love that you created a journal and that you are offering your insight from personal experience. thank you.

  • @sweetpeahno6202
    @sweetpeahno6202 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Queen, did you stop acting? I'm just discovering your channel here and I thought I had seen your face a couple of times in movies before... I actually love your acting and sometimes how funny you can get even when you're trying to act serious.... Loads of love to you ♥️♥️♥️🇬🇭

  • @michaellaanyanwu7989
    @michaellaanyanwu7989 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing..

  • @adjeleyomanyesowah295
    @adjeleyomanyesowah295 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤
    I tick of all 9. I'm inspired

  • @catherinewangui8784
    @catherinewangui8784 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hypergamy for the win! I love your videos ❤

  • @PrincessSharoneyTreasure
    @PrincessSharoneyTreasure 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All the signs ❤

  • @Liviyabassey
    @Liviyabassey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is awesome 😊

  • @swetlanametzler1846
    @swetlanametzler1846 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love Love Love this! ❤️

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this channel❤ Where do you buy you dresses please?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I often have them made and I also shop from Zara, Mango and some turkey brands boutiques over here in Nigeria carry

  • @brendaotega6687
    @brendaotega6687 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I would rather work towards being an affluent woman 😅

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As you should!

    • @agathaunoma6980
      @agathaunoma6980 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That is very good. However, if you are an affluent single woman, a financially struggling man is not likely to make a perfect partner.

  • @FemalepreneurDaily
    @FemalepreneurDaily 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this video so subscribed

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yay! Glad to have you here! 🎉

  • @curlyisconfident
    @curlyisconfident 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So good ❤ thank you 🙏🏾

  • @angelekereke1307
    @angelekereke1307 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @BeulahSylvester
    @BeulahSylvester 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you aunty Ayanime ❤

  • @glamrgirl33
    @glamrgirl33 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing this!
    Can you link the video that you mention around 3:15?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Here you go... th-cam.com/video/G8FO3t2o1J0/w-d-xo.html

    • @glamrgirl33
      @glamrgirl33 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ayanime_edem thank you! 🙏🏾

  • @MartaRosaFlores-t4b
    @MartaRosaFlores-t4b ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I rather make my own money, thanks

    • @margaretjames9775
      @margaretjames9775 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Hahaha 😂. Make your money and marry up. Thank you

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +94

      As you should… over here, we want both…

    • @Liz_S_G
      @Liz_S_G 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ayanime_edem😂😂😂😂🫡🫡

    • @TheRealKCKay
      @TheRealKCKay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Who asked? 😂
      You can still make your own money! 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Jenjenn1111
      @Jenjenn1111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yes, have your own…and get his too!

  • @zephomalunga5251
    @zephomalunga5251 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys must also do videos on women being affluent themselves. In levelling up your look, work on finances, travel, your space. In this way, you are not impressed easily by affluence. You are used to being in the circles of affluence yourself. Its OK for women to want to partner with a man not just for finances but rather safety, emotional stability, and companionship.
    A man must never be seen as a career goal🙄

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why would we be caught up or impressed with status??? 😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. Never impressed me! I want to see the MaN! Moeny means he is more likely to move on and want another woman and not stable as it takes so much class to be dedicated to one person! Rare

    • @mukaniwatkins2598
      @mukaniwatkins2598 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get yourself a broke dude then.

  • @agathaunoma6980
    @agathaunoma6980 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @spiritualBaddi
    @spiritualBaddi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💜

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you beautiful 🤍

  • @laura-yo4es
    @laura-yo4es 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just treat a man with money like a normal man. He's just a guy lmao

  • @frankyavery
    @frankyavery 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's so funny. I remember going on a date with guy and he kept talking about the Porsche that he was driving and mentioned this one name brand bag that he had which was already a red flag for me. ATL men like to try to lead with money but I care about quality. We went from dinner to the movie and I had a motorcycle which is a pain to put all the gear on, drive over and take all of it off and essentially do like a half wardrobe change (which I did mention in passing at some point). Dude didn't even offer me a ride to the next spot. That's when I thought well what is the benefit of YOUR car to ME? Another dude (apparently) lived in like the richest part of town and was hesitant to buy me a drink. Like dude I'm dressed up, I look classy and nice but not overdone, I am a great conversationalist and I'm neither a gold digger nor a pick me. Money talks for you, you don't talk for it. That being said, I have a more discerning eye for provider types now. My last dates with guys have been great and they were mostly great guys, I'm just looking for a bit more compatibility.

    • @Tomisinshalewa
      @Tomisinshalewa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said Franky.🤝

  • @lilianizunobi9322
    @lilianizunobi9322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤