How to Be Happy - Secrets to Happiness

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    In this episode of The Charged Life, Brendon takes on how to cultivate more happiness in your life. This is Brendon unscripted and filmed in a single take without notes or prompter.
    Brendon Burchard is a #1 New York Times bestselling author whose books include THE CHARGE, THE MILLIONAIRE MESSENGER, and LIFE'S GOLDEN TICKET. Larry King named him "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world."
    After a car accident at 19 years old inspired him to serve and succeed, and then having the blessings to become a multi-millionaire writer and trainer by the age of 32, Brendon has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.
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  • @madinaroshan8173
    @madinaroshan8173 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1876

    Who ever is reading this, I hope you are having a lovely day, I love you, and you are special, don't let hate, hate you!!

    • @genevas193
      @genevas193 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      thanks

    • @lydiairis5840
      @lydiairis5840 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thank you:))

    • @madinaroshan8173
      @madinaroshan8173 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your welcome!!:)))

    • @odriscoll1233
      @odriscoll1233 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, I hope you have a brilliant day and I wish you health and happiness for the future 😊

    • @Natalie-rh8iz
      @Natalie-rh8iz 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank u let u be praised

  • @TommyTec
    @TommyTec 10 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    It's that simple! I woke up this morning, spoke some affirmations, told myself that im gonna write some songs, do some reading on the music industry, & reach out to some family members. That made me feel excited about my day. So therefore, im HAPPY!!

    • @weepeng
      @weepeng 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well done, Tommy! keep that for the next day and the next day and the next day. :)

    • @emjay767
      @emjay767 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well done my friend .. and good luck

  • @weegreeneyes3196
    @weegreeneyes3196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have struggled with severe anxiety and depression since my teens, I am now 38 with a 17 year old daughter and yes, from the day she was born she has been a god send and the way she makes me feel I cannot begin to describe... she is my world, my life, my sunshine and I love her so much and she makes me happy...
    but for some reason, when I am on my own, laying in bed at night, I still feel the farthest thing away from happy, I mean when I am in the presence of my daughter and my family I feel happy, it’s nothing to do with the people in my life that is making me feel like this, I keep telling myself that I am really blessed and yet still I cannot understand why I feel like I do! So I saw this pop up as an ad and thought I may as well click on it as I’m sure it can’t make things any worse😕😔
    I really don’t know why I am rambling on in the comments of this video either, I guess I am just wondering if anyone else can relate and also I have noticed that sometimes getting your thoughts and feelings out of your head and written down anywhere for the universe to see kind of helps (does anyone else know what I mean by that) and I am on meds for my mental health issues and Yet I still go to bed every night and feel like if I didn’t have my daughter and my family around (who are all completely supportive of my mental health issues)
    I could easily fall off the face of the earth and wouldn’t be noticed and would gladly do so as sometimes the struggle is too much, I am very good at putting on a happy face for everyone else but deep down I am the only one who can’t believe or convince myself that I am happy... I know it sounds selfish but it’s true and I guess I am willing to try anything at this point and to let others know my true feelings (even if it’s strangers in the comment section of TH-cam) I guess it’s a start 🙂
    If anyone even reads this long comment, please forgive me for the depressing statements.
    ☮️💟🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿💙🤍

  • @Miguel-eo6td
    @Miguel-eo6td 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Being organized makes me feel satisfied. Being satisfied makes me feel happy.

  • @kenzielove99
    @kenzielove99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A year ago I hit rock bottom and thought I would never be back to my normal self. It took a lot of work but I'm finally living a happy and fulfilling life.Your videos helped me in some of my darkest times. Just want to say thank you.

  • @julievialle2330
    @julievialle2330 7 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    Message to the person who is reading this:
    Do you know how awesome you are?

    • @rafikgharbi9196
      @rafikgharbi9196 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you :* that's mâke me better :)

    • @julievialle2330
      @julievialle2330 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      rafik gharbi Oh you're welcome, it's only the truth! 💓 Are you OK? :)

    • @julievialle2330
      @julievialle2330 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh you're welcome! ❤❤ Have a great day too!

    • @LeonardMagtoto
      @LeonardMagtoto 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      pshhh tell me something i dont know (joking) hahaha

    • @julievialle2330
      @julievialle2330 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Leonard Magtoto You're funny, did you know that? 😂😂

  • @meryamlamsissi6036
    @meryamlamsissi6036 9 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm so sad and gloomy right now and I find that this really helps ... I hope I will get over this soon.. thank you

    • @abdulghaniabdulkarim7251
      @abdulghaniabdulkarim7251 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be sad sister. To paradise insha Allah

    • @haileyroyalty3619
      @haileyroyalty3619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mee too I’m always sad I would love to be happy everyday wake up smiling

    • @rayamiller7264
      @rayamiller7264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abdulghaniabdulkarim7251 igiggfocoming is just so

    • @leighatkins22
      @leighatkins22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@haileyroyalty3619 Don't forget, there are spirits of sadness which can also take hold of us if we give them permission...

    • @pettywapmorena6352
      @pettywapmorena6352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meryam, I hope your life is full of happiness, laughter,love,kindness & forgiveness..Forgive those who made you feel sad, forgive yourself for whatever it was that made you sad. Just know it gets better & whatever it was you overcame it❤️ Pray you are Blessed✨

  • @sillyteeth1320
    @sillyteeth1320 7 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    this video in its self made me happy x)

    • @KyurinDiary
      @KyurinDiary 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Elaine Chan love the positivity

    • @lenalee5516
      @lenalee5516 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

  • @samgrace9435
    @samgrace9435 8 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    If you are seeking happiness, or fulfillment from life, then all you need to do is overcome your mind and live consciously in the present moment, free of thought. You just need to be aware of what is coming to you in the now, living out of your 5 life senses. If you are truly interested in how to be happy, if you want to know the actual truth about fulfillment, then google the truth contest and read the present. It explains the ultimate truth of life and death, and it is free.

    • @demiandeen2172
      @demiandeen2172 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      we're all seeking happiness, right?

    • @roselover5735
      @roselover5735 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This helped for some reason

    • @ME-fi1nj
      @ME-fi1nj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sam Grace 5 life senses? Don't think so mate! 🤣

    • @kskc5601
      @kskc5601 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My present is horrible so I want to run away

    • @rsaldivar5628
      @rsaldivar5628 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh man is that all?

  • @sophien5416
    @sophien5416 8 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    "Sometimes common sense isn't common practice"...True.
    "You've poisoned yourself in pools of pessimism"...Nice combo of words right there!"

    • @denize5082
      @denize5082 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +1

    • @MarwanKhan
      @MarwanKhan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Sophie N "sometimes" is a powerful word

    • @homomermaid1263
      @homomermaid1263 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Omgllovejesusjokes that is racist.

    • @god6less
      @god6less 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you this made me laugh , sweet comeback .

    • @ME-fi1nj
      @ME-fi1nj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus Christ why did u say that here?

  • @josechaparro8399
    @josechaparro8399 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    positivity is the key. everything is gonna be alright.

  • @LLawliet-tv9ig
    @LLawliet-tv9ig 8 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    8 hours of sleep..........Ouch. That one hurts...............

    • @KRASHMAN669
      @KRASHMAN669 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      sleep? what is that!!?

    • @fatdjo2005
      @fatdjo2005 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      8hrs???? thats what im thinking of !!!!!!

    • @MubarakKhan-hx4do
      @MubarakKhan-hx4do 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      you're right
      we waist 8hour's of our life in sleeping 🌙️🌙️🌙️🌙️

    • @vladimiralvarez1162
      @vladimiralvarez1162 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      L Lawliet I get like 5 and I’m 47 but take some naps here and there

    • @ashishgoswami6303
      @ashishgoswami6303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Colleges - 4 Take it or leave it.

  • @lethalbite999
    @lethalbite999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How to be happy (3 steps)
    1) Drink " Thing's "
    2) Do crazy thing's
    3)Make other people's happy

  • @alialrefee2163
    @alialrefee2163 8 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Im happy because there's a new spongebob episode.

    • @xXESproductionsXx
      @xXESproductionsXx 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Ali Alrefee You, my friend, have it all figured out. :)

    • @SaraNoema
      @SaraNoema 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you made me smile with your comment :) ❤

    • @ceciliacruz4884
      @ceciliacruz4884 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what a funny much joker you are..you made me laugh!!! Haha

    • @vincekennethalolor1011
      @vincekennethalolor1011 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      welp that is the worst

    • @vincekennethalolor1011
      @vincekennethalolor1011 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      welp that is the worst

  • @janelcrawford5504
    @janelcrawford5504 8 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    being happy, sounds hard...

    • @xXESproductionsXx
      @xXESproductionsXx 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Janel Crawford It is hard at first, but it's a struggle of understanding that's so worth it in the end. :)

    • @TheRealGageSpiller
      @TheRealGageSpiller 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel that...

    • @Hasnain1F
      @Hasnain1F 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Janel Crawford Yes it seems harder, at the beginning all beautiful but unknown things are scary.

    • @aliciagoh8417
      @aliciagoh8417 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😿

    • @whydoievenbothertoputthish2199
      @whydoievenbothertoputthish2199 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      there are only a privileged few who took the elevator to succes those who are born into it never knew otherwise but for most people they have to take the stairs

  • @dudette2c
    @dudette2c 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was on the verge of depression and about to seek a therapist , but videos like these (and many TED talks) have shown me, guided me in how to pull myself out of my mentality and how to re-program my mind. I can say that I am on the pursuit of happiness and it feels amazing.

  • @LeHippieVibe
    @LeHippieVibe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My father gave me a small loan of a million dollars back when I was starting in Brooklyn. I been happy ever since then.

    • @splathana
      @splathana 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1 freakin million?!?!?!?!!?

    • @xxmizzevaxx
      @xxmizzevaxx 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +gail duncan it's a donald trump quote lmao

    • @xxkatgamingxx998
      @xxkatgamingxx998 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      XD

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Le HippieVibe I could understand that!

    • @LeHippieVibe
      @LeHippieVibe 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tina Brown xd

  • @thatssohotch3891
    @thatssohotch3891 8 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I want to do what he says to be happy but it sometimes feel truly impossible. Nobody will probably read this but it is a struggle to become happy.

    • @jelenalola9419
      @jelenalola9419 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are not the only one

    • @thatssohotch3891
      @thatssohotch3891 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +kevin machamer that's good to know

    • @crystaleangel5736
      @crystaleangel5736 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that feeling right now

    • @coolymanman7
      @coolymanman7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you are happy now

    • @lenalee5516
      @lenalee5516 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know what you mean but be sure that it will be times that u will feel so happy , and i hope u r happy now

  • @AffaanMansoori
    @AffaanMansoori 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be present in the Moment It's so Important and yes as he said Start Designing The life in which you want to live.

  • @LanaLana-mb6ce
    @LanaLana-mb6ce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seriously this guy made me happy
    How lucky his family is to have him
    God bless you

  • @duovie7121
    @duovie7121 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love u bro. I dont wanna die because of ur video. u saved my life. God bless u

  • @gailtosvn.6816
    @gailtosvn.6816 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm watching this and seeing him happy makes me cry

  • @maura1686
    @maura1686 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so blessed, Brenton, thanks to remind me this! Your optimism is fully contagious!

  • @lalainenash2006
    @lalainenash2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this guy. Each time I feel down, watching Brandon just uplifts my spirit up.

  • @patrickmcmillan6444
    @patrickmcmillan6444 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Brilliant Brandon!! I've been inspired by your work for many years! I discovered Life's Golden Ticket, and had you sign a copy for me at Mark Victor Hanson's Mega Book Writer's event in Los Angeles many years ago, and I've been learning form you ever since! I was moved by several comments on this video, but the one that struck me the most was "my parents are fighting and I just can NOT be happy." This child's comment was the whole reason I went to that conference in LA so long ago and began following your work! Ever since I've been passionate about helping kids and parents discover their power to discover lasting happiness, together. Your work has clearly helped millions change their lives, myself being one of them, and it is obvious to me that a child's happiness is directly related to the happiness of his parents. We clearly need to be and feel how we wish our children to be and feel! We wish for children abundant happiness, so we to must be abundantly happy! Thank you so much teaching those who need it most!!

  • @jonalynhumarang3854
    @jonalynhumarang3854 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so blessed watching your video Brandon... very inspiring, uplifting, amazing!!!

  • @angelwings241
    @angelwings241 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! I just needed to hear the simplicity of happiness again. Life gets so complex sometimes. Thank you.

  • @lilyspassions5959
    @lilyspassions5959 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How blessed are we to watch your videos!! Thank you so much!!

  • @KKrisVideos
    @KKrisVideos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video, Brendon and I really love the positivity that you share. Too everyone reading this, may this year be the absolute best and I hope you are having a great time in life.

  • @oii784
    @oii784 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Greaaat video and advice! Thanks

  • @carysrobson
    @carysrobson 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is truly amazing. I have realised key parts of happiness by myself but having someone cultivate all the ideas and put them into one video is spectacular.

  • @lefoxmethodstudiouk
    @lefoxmethodstudiouk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed Brandon’s words today. Thank you my friend.

  • @juicy8297
    @juicy8297 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Id be happy if the person i love was right here with me 😥

    • @Zoe_allen_x
      @Zoe_allen_x 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @checkoutdiscord9390
      @checkoutdiscord9390 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +The Coolest why are you being like this...The people you hate are still people you love.

    • @conlaiarla
      @conlaiarla 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never entrust all aspirations of love contingent on the passing whims of another human being. We find as a matter of course that relationship with God and invest total trust in Him. That is how true happiness is found and sustained through all of our lives.

    • @ThePaulGamingHD
      @ThePaulGamingHD 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Master Lamb then I guess a Christian are more kind and friendly then you.

    • @ThePaulGamingHD
      @ThePaulGamingHD 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Master Lamb people like you just doing the world worse and who cares if you are a atheist you should still prove that you are a better human. Hate is something you can't handle like a Christian. I known all are different but many doesn't understand that so I'm saying that you give atheist a bad reputation if atheist isn't kind people and their goal is for hate.

  • @thefittestyogi
    @thefittestyogi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you my brother. This is wonderful. I was searching for a title for my new video How To Be Happy and I came across this video. I love it. I'm filming without a script and without editing so I really like the commonality here. It's really nice to see one of the greats doing this style of recording with such a powerful message. Thank you for this ♊🧘‍♂️💪❤🕺🙏🥦🕉

  • @j.tatianaworkman3722
    @j.tatianaworkman3722 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't be more thankful to have found such a great inspiration..Thanks for your excellent job Brendon!

  • @sandrarosales8604
    @sandrarosales8604 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're awesome Brendon. love your energy! !

  • @littleblueboxlps
    @littleblueboxlps 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's currently Christmas Eve and I'm crying my eyes out, this year has been tough and I don't feel festive or exited at all which is why I came to this video lol

    • @ameliaperez7682
      @ameliaperez7682 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      LittleBlueBoxLPS im so srry this year has sucked for everyone but finding a positive attitude will help you get through the rest of it happy new year and I hope you find a way to be happy whether its helping others or listening to upbeat music and pushing the negatives away.

    • @fernandocabanillas8133
      @fernandocabanillas8133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you today?

  • @sondos6268
    @sondos6268 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an amazing video, God bless you.

  • @hdteyfufugjghdydy5437
    @hdteyfufugjghdydy5437 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You truly are a wonderful person, people like you are needed! You make a difference to the world if only there were more people like you!

  • @gabrielabrose6359
    @gabrielabrose6359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brandon, you are a beautiful person inside and out! I admire your wisdom and love your energy, enthusiasm and positive outlook on life. If we all had just a fraction of your compassionate attitude towards other people this world would be a much better place to live in. We all tend to pick up on emotions of others. After watching your videos I feel more optimistic, excited, empowered and energized. Gratitude!

  • @jovandavidovic1
    @jovandavidovic1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The way to happiness: Keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry. Live simply, expect little, give much. Scatter sunshine, forget self, think of others. Try this for a week and you will be surprised.

  • @ghettomystic
    @ghettomystic 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this. thank you.

  • @f.rasool9602
    @f.rasool9602 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally love your talks Brandon... You are truly a good person

  • @sydneybezelik1794
    @sydneybezelik1794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you so much for creating this video. lately i’ve been struggling mentally and this video helped me out with what i am going through right now and i truly appreciate it.

  • @IvarHuisman
    @IvarHuisman 9 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Colours make me happy, this video has no colours!

    • @vonmoose1
      @vonmoose1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's a little bit of colour at the bottom left side. Enjoy!

    • @NijaelMustafa
      @NijaelMustafa 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha

    • @yadhuadhikari9770
      @yadhuadhikari9770 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha Ivar huisman

  • @natalyortiz5335
    @natalyortiz5335 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    his enthusiasm for this video made me feel better immediately. :D

  • @cynthiajohnson9690
    @cynthiajohnson9690 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey thank you for that message Brendon Burchard. I do need to keep tagged on to your topics.... this is something that I need to have on a daily basis to remind me of how wonderful life have been and can continue to be for me and those around me.

  • @unitedtronarmy
    @unitedtronarmy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you SO very much for making and sharing these videos! They lift me and my followers up every week :) I tweet one for them every Tuesday. THIS is truly beautiful, all of your videos. These really help people ♥ Thank you!

  • @sngscratcher
    @sngscratcher 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Happiness is having something to love. Greater happiness is when that something is everything. Happiness should not be a goal, rather it is a result of a life well lived. A life well lived is a life well loved. A life well loved is a life where you are one with All. That is, you are a part of All, and All is a part of you. Happiness is a byproduct of the process of increasing the quality of your consciousness."
    Love is about other - whether it is about other persons or other everything makes no difference - love maintains the same quality. How far you spread it (how much you give deeply and broadly) is limited only by the size and quality of your personal reality (quality of your consciousness) .” ~ Tom Campbell

  • @riverandcorey3725
    @riverandcorey3725 9 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Tomorrow, I'm gonna make the damn bed!" 😁

    • @thefittestyogi
      @thefittestyogi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's a really good practice. I started that and it helped to build general discipline which afforded me the strength and willpower to tackle larger, more important projects moving forward. I'm wishing you much success and happiness along your journey ♊🧘‍♂️💪❤🕺🙏🥦🕉

  • @celinedoanvck7082
    @celinedoanvck7082 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Brendon, for your sharing !

  • @floripuppy
    @floripuppy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm here sitting on a Sunday morning, the rest still in bed, with a nice cup of Coffee(even though it's not best for my health haha) re-designing my life. Feeling super greatfull, for everything that is given to me.
    Thankyou Brendon Burchard, for inspiring me, to enable me to gain back controle over my life, and help me find some self-acceptence, and faith that there will be brighter future.
    This was just what I needed, I'm so thankful for living in this time where all this is available to me, and I wish it for everyone to have it that good. And I'm going to try developping myself as best as I can so I can also help others in finding their path in return for everything that I have the honor to be given. Challanging my way to the top!

  • @rebeccaramos6462
    @rebeccaramos6462 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you. God bless you.

  • @JELEARY66
    @JELEARY66 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Who's watching in 2015?

    • @nomenetauesiliana8303
      @nomenetauesiliana8303 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      hjftdvffggh

    • @vip00766
      @vip00766 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Jessica Leary your mom

    • @JELEARY66
      @JELEARY66 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +vip00766 crap you wrecked me

    • @JELEARY66
      @JELEARY66 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +vip00766 and my mom is dead

    • @vip00766
      @vip00766 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      me 2 :(

  • @jamb4378
    @jamb4378 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so grateful to find these videos and great influencers to follow to improve my life and get pulled up to a higher level of consciousness. I am so blessed

  • @alma5552
    @alma5552 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are changing my life , I am studying psychology so I’m familiarized with some topics you’ve mentioned but the way you explain it and the steps you give for us to take are amazing. Ever since I saw your “reprogram the mind” video, that is exactly what I’ve been doing. I’ve noticed that is hard at time in negative situations but little by little I am learning, how to positively solve those negative situations. Thank you! And I’d love to go to a convention here in California!

  • @NijaelMustafa
    @NijaelMustafa 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sometimes Happiness is simply accepting your life for what it is loving the people in front of you and making the best out of what you have. I see a lot of people unhappy when they want what other people have. Online people make their lives seem perfect... its not true everyone is human with more struggles than victories... you need to know that you deserve happiness and when you believe that you will do what it takes to care for your emotional well being.

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Nijaels Music So true. One thing that I think keeps people miserable is that they are expected to achieve things that may not be possible for them and their lot in life. Yet they are mocked, ridiculed, put down for things by loved ones, friends, peers, or society that are not part of the greater plan for their lives and sense of fulfillment. It also wastes this precious life we have, and to really experience it the way it's meant to be.

  • @FTBLETSAS
    @FTBLETSAS 10 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Happiness is inside us all.
    Brendon you Rock! Great Video!

  • @tetianaandrushchak5384
    @tetianaandrushchak5384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are really blessed!!! Thank you for reminding!!!

  • @jayac1900
    @jayac1900 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a beautiful person... your words are like bombing every thing negative around...thanx.

  • @LisaRothstein
    @LisaRothstein 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love this series Brendon...I've always been a fan and now I see you really stepping into the inspirational shoes of guys like Tony Robbins and Jim Rohn. Keep it coming! This video really "changed my state" :-)

  • @DavidGarcia-oj7qr
    @DavidGarcia-oj7qr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude! This really helps! This helped me out a lot!😊🙂

  • @nataliem9315
    @nataliem9315 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!! You are awesome Brendon!!

  • @NicoletaPopliceanu2
    @NicoletaPopliceanu2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Brandon! You have such an amazing positive energy!!!!!

  • @obaidalmansoori29
    @obaidalmansoori29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Past: Gratitude/Acceptance/Peace
    Presence: Challenge myself/ Bring awareness/Now
    Future: What I am excited for tomorrow, Projects, Goal
    Healthy Physically: workout/Sleep/Vegan/Consistency
    Healthy Mentally: relationships Happy/Appreciate relationships / Feeling Relationships.
    religiously: Happy / Gratitude.

  • @asslookinass
    @asslookinass 8 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I'd be happy all the time if my life wasn't fucked, or at least if I knew my future isn't fucked either lmao

    • @TKDfarhan1
      @TKDfarhan1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Create your future then

    • @asslookinass
      @asslookinass 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TKDfarhan1 Trying, kind of hard when theirs people who do whatever they can to prevent you from moving forward, but I'm trying.

    • @asslookinass
      @asslookinass 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lyla Axiom Thanks, having people like you and others who comment on these really motivates me, I just need to stop over-thinking and making excuses, thanks

    • @asslookinass
      @asslookinass 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** TRUE LOL, GOTTA HAVE PROTECTION XD

    • @lucasthim1
      @lucasthim1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +CaptainT33mo Bro, everyday is a new struggle, a new fight, but also, everyday it is given us the chance to win this battle! We can be winners everyday! And I'm not talking about BIG GIGANTIC things, you know that right?! Watch this TED talk called "Change anything: Use skillpower over willpower" and put all that in practice!!!
      Wish you all the best!

  • @martinephilippe7821
    @martinephilippe7821 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Brendon, I'm filled with a sense of belonging and ready to rediscover me, what I was meant to be. I filled focus and ready to conquer my fears, my load in life.

  • @kevinNewstecnoticias
    @kevinNewstecnoticias 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this guy is really awesome! i truly watch every single episode and thanks you so much for sharing all this content with us. :)

  • @CraftedTomLion
    @CraftedTomLion 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel blessed for finding this channel...

  • @NamesDontMatter1992
    @NamesDontMatter1992 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really don't know if there is anything that is worth living for in my life but this video is great none the less.........good job

    • @natalieo5561
      @natalieo5561 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NamesDontMatter1992 I feel the same way. Last year was a lot worse but the longer i'm waiting it out , the better things are becoming. So, i guess all i'd say is wait it out.

    • @gearhead5651
      @gearhead5651 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Natalie Oueis i tried the waiting it out game, im no more a head of the life game but i sure am behind on projects, this fellow is uplifting, ill try some of his points. I hope its working for you. Hang in there.

    • @natalieo5561
      @natalieo5561 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      TiMn8eR911 Thanks , I hope things work out for you too.

    • @demiandeen2172
      @demiandeen2172 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      NamesDontMatter1992 Once you understand that life is perfect, you can surrender fully to it and enjoy every moment. Just read the short text about life called *The Present* and you'll see what I mean. You can get it for free at TruthContest. Cheers :)

  • @lorik4995
    @lorik4995 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am obsessed with your videos. Thank you very much, you truly make a difference in the world!

  • @marwa.emad2206
    @marwa.emad2206 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm happy now as I got to watch your videos and learn from you, Brendon Burchard

  • @natalieboyd9028
    @natalieboyd9028 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    thank you.

    • @alifirfanismail102
      @alifirfanismail102 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      date of biiiirth ?

    • @LordHuseynli
      @LordHuseynli 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Tadashi TadaKaki haha

    • @sauravpuri7683
      @sauravpuri7683 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      What happened to you? Your mom didn't buy you your favorite barbie or you broke your crayons? Lmao

  • @danielonelove3074
    @danielonelove3074 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    No ONE and no THING can make you happy. Happiness comes from inside us,
    not external. If you say that your boyfriend or wife doesn't make you
    happy anymore, they not only can't make you happy but why should they?
    It's hard enough for each human to evolve inside to find happiness
    within themselves and no matter how many things they do for you, no one
    can make you happy for real. Buying gifts and standing on your head for
    someone just to make them happy is like putting a band aid on top of
    cancer. Each person's journey in life is to find a way to be happy or at
    least content on their own amidst all the ups and downs of life. If you
    say you aren't happy due to a person, you already lose because you are
    giving up your personal power to another person and being too weak to do
    your own inner work yourself. Our life on earth is a classroom and how
    much we evolve inside and how we choose to interact with others shows
    whether we die winners or losers. Don't spend your life looking to
    others or things to make you happy, because there are very poor, very
    sick, and people who are alone in life that have found a way to be happy
    despite their circumstances. I always remember this video that shows
    these kids in Africa somewhere who don't have a playstation and probably
    only eat once a day. They were laughing and smiling while hitting an
    old flat ball with a stick, I see mothers who work 3 jobs to take care
    of their 2-4 kids with no help from family who are joyful for their life
    and don't blame the world. It's easier to blame others for your lot in
    life but perhaps those with more are unhappy too. Life is a journey of
    ups and downs, the ups are gifts and the downs are lessons, don't make
    it more than it is. You WIN when you die HAPPY, but you die alone and
    you die penniless because no ONE and no THING is buried along with you.

    • @danielonelove3074
      @danielonelove3074 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There are no 1-2-3's of happiness so making videos about how to be happy
      is futile. Each person is unique in their personality, their emotional,
      mental, and spiritual maturity and are surrounded by other unique
      people and circumstances that are unlike anyone else, so no method of
      how to be happy is going to fit anyone BUT YOU.

    • @jimgallagher5902
      @jimgallagher5902 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      zoomanda BOOM: Quite an unforgettable handle! I, however, disagree. Plenty of folks are made happy and/or happier by outside circumstances. I've been single and married, and in neither state was I unhappy, but I don't think I WAS happy because something was "happy" inside me. Excepting folks whose brain chemistry won't "let" them be happy, I think most happy-making things are external to us, .e.g., friends, family, a good job, etc.

  • @lucy-ferprofiler5379
    @lucy-ferprofiler5379 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love when he turns to the camera and smile to us at the end, I try to smile back. Everything can be better with a smile.

  • @iwonasokolowska
    @iwonasokolowska 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its amazing, that I always find this part of your Ideas, which I really look for in exact moment. Thank You Brendon for all you do and who You are!

  • @rainman666
    @rainman666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Plot Twist : The guy speaking is more depressed than any of us .

  • @MitchellLeary1
    @MitchellLeary1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If I did all of the things you recommended I might accdentally live longer. That is just about the last thing in this world I want to do. I have no idea what it's like to be happy, not a clue. Maybe that's for the best as I've noticed people who are happy and love life, die young. Miserable old bastards like me live forever. I would gladly give my life to someone who would enjoy it. Sometimes I envy stupid people, they're just oblivious to it all. Life is hell for people who think. Someone told me I need to lie to myself more, it works for the rest of us. Now, that is certainly something to think about.

    • @lazerarrow3680
      @lazerarrow3680 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think you need more people like me:))

    • @mikeharding8209
      @mikeharding8209 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take a vacation

    • @vladimiralvarez1162
      @vladimiralvarez1162 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mitchell Leary you’re right like sorta sucks for those of us who think

    • @ME-fi1nj
      @ME-fi1nj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mitchell Leary Your comment made me really sad. Idrk what 2 say.

    • @nancywong8907
      @nancywong8907 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gratitude and appreciation , eating well to cleanse body and mind to also feel and be more sensitive and spiritual. Connect with nature , garden give love by adopting a dog if you have love to give. Go and see the little kids who need more and you will be appreciative when you really see how much we have.

  • @Hasnain1F
    @Hasnain1F 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brendon. You make it all look so simple. And that in itself is so powerful!! :) Thanks

  • @rostycosy
    @rostycosy 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This chap is very emotional...blessings !

  • @mickeytran1936
    @mickeytran1936 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Who dislikes a video such as this one?! :O

  • @kdog9104
    @kdog9104 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im looking forward to waking up happy tomorrow

    • @asedtoonuch
      @asedtoonuch 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not, that sounds awful

    • @kdog9104
      @kdog9104 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** LOL omg

  • @Areyouduckingserious
    @Areyouduckingserious 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this guys's videos, they've helped me a lot. I watch one of these videos every morning whenever I wake up to orient myself each day. You probably won't read this Brendon, but thanks.

  • @EnglishLearnersHere
    @EnglishLearnersHere ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying your energy and positivity will rub off on me! Love your video!

  • @MrEtmer
    @MrEtmer 10 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The thing is... how can I be happy in such a negative environment? It has gotten to the point where I can be punished for being happy. For me, I feel like... as if I am a seed in fertile soil, but has been deprived of water. I was planted in a place where there are many opportunities for me to take, and that I have good potential; it is just that the support system seems to deprive me of the water. In fact, it once told me "I don't care about your dream. You are nothing, and I get nothing out of you." Then this happens day after day... receiving hurt is almost like receiving my daily coffee.
    Now, one insult causes a bigger emotional effect compared to a hundred complements. I don't feel like I am trying hard enough to get to my dream, and that I am failing, and slacking off.
    I'm not saying its impossible for me to become happier regardless of my situation. I am just wondering... on HOW I can become happier in this situation.

    • @nessaskee
      @nessaskee 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Here is my two cents and I hope it helps - though I could be wrong.
      When you're in a negative environment, just do whatever it takes to get yourself out of there such as time, money and friends/family. Getting out of where you are won't happen over night but it will happen, I'm sure of it, if you try.
      I'm not quite sure what you mean by negative environment, the home? work environment? school?
      If it's negative at school - Put on your hard hat, work through your education and graduate (if it's highschool) & if you're at university maybe decide to transfer and if that isn't an option, stay and get that paper! If it's related to people, remove yourself from them (easier said than done I know)
      If it's the home - Like I said, go through with your education, get a job and earn enough money and move out!! Build new connections once you're free.
      If it's work - Get a new one and quit your old :)
      If it's a negative mental state, it's what he suggested, do something creative, fun and maybe something different, NO MATTER what anyone else says (unless it's something really really silly like... doing something dangerous)
      In this situation is to do what you can do now and not what you could of been done.
      & honestly, you can never fail unless you don't try, if you fail at something, improve yourself and learn from mistakes. There will always be that devil in your head saying "I could of done better, I'm not trying hard enough" but really what is enough? We as humans are never completely satisfied, maybe satisfied temporarily but we always end up creating new dreams and goals for ourselves.
      I don't know how old you are but you seem smart, I'm sure you will figure it out on your own, and I say this because while people can give you advice, it is really advice from their own experiences (usually) and that means it may not cater for your situation. Ultimately, you will discover your way, no one life is the exact same, only similar.
      Sorry for this large essay containing poor grammar and punctuation but this is how I perceive your situation. I'm not saying that these are the things that you should do but just what you should think about or question yourself what is truly the core to this 'negative' environment. I'm going around in circles, I will stop now.
      Anyways hope you have a great day!

    • @jameswright5417
      @jameswright5417 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This I know better than anyone. I hope to all those in your situation that you are able to see what's happening around you at an early age. It's not normal to be told you are a pos by age 6. I thank the infinite intelligence for giving me the ability to completely disregard what they think of me and to give no credence to their opinion. Once I did that my life changed forever. Now I could see everywhere the dysfunction, though not able to articulate that at such an early age.
      I become someone very different all because I was able to use my own critical factor of the conscious mind all the time while around those who I love and want love from the most in my life. Though trying many many times I never was able to obtain that for which I searched, but I feel very blessed in my life and always have been through my own thoughts and the ability to think.

    • @exploremyideas7234
      @exploremyideas7234 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your first question tells me that you are relying on your environment for happiness. It's all well and good to be told happiness is a choice, but what does this really mean? Well, in order to "choose" to be happy you need to be in control and the best way to adopt a mindset of control is to TAKE RESPONSIBILTY for every aspect of your life. Circumstances are highly unpredictable and often don't "go your way". You can't control if somebody spills their drink on you, tells you that you will fail in life or thinks that you are not good enough. So relying on other people and other events in order to find happiness is EXTREMELY UNSTABLE. The choice to be happy is easy once you get it through your head that you are in control. Not in control of your environment; but in control of your thoughts, feelings, actions and reactions.
      The good news is, you are already one step ahead of some people because you see that there is hope for you and now you want to know "how" rather than "why". Not only that, you are obviously creative and intelligent. The answer to your question of "how" is readily available to you, you just have to search for it.

    • @heleninspain
      @heleninspain 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awwww really feel what you're saying. Consider taking the journey to happiness and don't expect it instantly. Firstly accept yourself just the way you are, give yourself credit for surviving and for being alive. I found accepting myself just the way I am a huge relief - then whatever others do to you cant demean you. Be yourself and take the journey to happiness.... I'm on the journey too. Finally because I accepted myself, I can see that I have the power to create happiness. Hope this helps a little.

    • @heleninspain
      @heleninspain 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SMOOTH Performance Nice reply. Thanks. I've posted a couple of replies here. That in itself creates a happy factor because in helping others we help ourselves (become happier). And the old adage "we teach what we need to learn"! :)

  • @yeetboi1984real
    @yeetboi1984real 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you know what makes me happy? watching Filthy Frank. he is the god of youtube

  • @eternaldxrkness
    @eternaldxrkness 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this man's tone of voice makes me happy, I love you dawg, thank you

  • @LulasticHippyshake
    @LulasticHippyshake 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I hadn't thought about that idwa - the different perspectives we bring to the past, present and future. It is so true! Me and my family moved from London, UK, to a yurt in NZ in search of happiness only to find out that most of the happy drug comes froma state of mind, not your situation. Thanks for sharing!

  • @jodit9932
    @jodit9932 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can't be happy. It's been 19 years. And yes, still not happy

    • @user-xo8er2yr7s
      @user-xo8er2yr7s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      21 years

    • @nadiaoloui3909
      @nadiaoloui3909 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do u want intention???

    • @jodit9932
      @jodit9932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      23 years now

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      33 years. I'm given myself 2 more years to see if I can change.

  • @Hundred100
    @Hundred100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    caffeine is great for the mood actually

    • @rubendupreez3746
      @rubendupreez3746 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Hundred so is dark choclate

    • @Ohkeh640
      @Ohkeh640 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hundred not sure it's great for bipolar or anxiety

  • @mily7960
    @mily7960 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite Inspiring Speaker,Brendon. Thank you so much!😊

  • @Unknownfollower760
    @Unknownfollower760 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is beautiful. a person who gets it giving great knowledge to anyone who is patience enough to listen.

  • @ShaulAlSheik
    @ShaulAlSheik 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The more I see a positive person, the more I become pessimist

  •  8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Step 1 to being happy :
    Be rich
    Step 2 to being happy :
    Be rich

    • @worldpeace2229
      @worldpeace2229 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍 Long live Money

    • @Solmuaic
      @Solmuaic 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      What would u do if u become rich then died on next day?! I'm sure u will be absit 😒 😒

    • @donkeykongkong9409
      @donkeykongkong9409 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Money doesn't make everyone happy. You make yourself happy.

  • @tanyarenaissance8829
    @tanyarenaissance8829 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow thank you so much for this video. I smiled the whole way through. I am so thankful for it and will be using those tips in my everyday life

  • @123twinecoff
    @123twinecoff 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have no idea how much you are helping me right now. Thank you so much!!!

  • @purpisdus3118
    @purpisdus3118 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Didn't really help with by depression, but nice video.

    • @Dr.lovver2u
      @Dr.lovver2u 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      David Dionne than your depression isnt really a depression .

    • @purpisdus3118
      @purpisdus3118 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Really... I don't have depression because a video didn't help me.. really... Smh.

    • @jessical.7804
      @jessical.7804 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      David Dionne A video isn't going to do much but tell you how to try to live. It's not going to work if there's a chemical imbalance in the brain. Talk to a Dr or a therapist, if that doesn't work try medication.

    • @59millzy
      @59millzy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Debbie downer over here

    • @zerelzaprincess2618
      @zerelzaprincess2618 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just go on a night time walk if its safe, unless yours not depressed anymore bcouse youre messege was sent 1 year ago and depression doesnt last that long.

  • @maesonchong
    @maesonchong 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    your bnw filter made me unhappy ;-;

  • @RyanMaherFaith
    @RyanMaherFaith 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video Brendon! You bring exceptional value with every video. God bless you sir!

  • @hemen6249
    @hemen6249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your inspiration. Makes me really think myself, from the inside and that brings a smile on my face, makes me happy. And we can't do a work or put our efforts effectively until and unless we are happy. So need a lot to be happy. You do such a great job. Your motivation is really important. Maybe I would have not reached this state of mind if your words wouldn't have reached us. Please keep on making more videos to make us enhance our life.
    Thank you so much.