Mothers' Day | Honest Conversations Ft Moms & Queer Kids - From Coming Out to Celebrity Crushes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.ย. 2021
- On the third anniversary of the reading down of Section 377 by the Supreme Court, which decriminalised homosexuality in India, The Quint decided to catch up with Ria Sharma and Ashish Chopra - and most importantly, their moms - Renu Sharma and Simi Chopra - to have an honest conversation with each other.
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Education has nothing to do with how accepting parents are. 🤷🏼♂️
EXACTLY
What i feel is we mistake literacy for education see I've seen people spending hours studying, going to colleges , getting a degree , getting a job but their minds are such disgrace . The older generation went to school but most of them didn't change and some did for ex i used to go to school but never learned about anything useful until i got my own phone but still i think literacy does brings a change coz if i wasn't literate , I'd be wasting my time watching so called mindless funny videos and wouldn't have discovered channels like these
@@penguin3245 Quint is not that great !!
@@taurusied7447 i don't care if it's great or not , i was just giving an example I'm not a blind follower of this channel but there are many more channels that brings awarenes like brut , soch by mohak......., Swaddle and that couple (i don't remember their channel name ) main thing is they atleast try to educate us
Yup
Unfortunately only 1% of Indian parents are this open minded.
True some doesn't even know about this.
Go start crying about this rather than bringing change in the society 👍👍. Ranting something doesn't bring any change.
@@reactorxpro894 you have done a lot to bring change right? You keyboard warrior
@@computerscience2589 I asked this question to you first you you should answer to me first. 👍👍👍
@@reactorxpro894 when did u ask? Read your comment again
I can only wish and pray that everyone has these kind of parents !
Then world will be peaceful which is impossible
I want
@@comradeleppi2000 salt is necessary with sugar to keep ourselves away from dehydration
Papa ji to samjh bhi jaye, mamma ko samjhane jao to bhoot pret lag gya. Laude lage life ke. Dont wanna marry to a girl😔
When you're rich everything look normal. Problems is to change people' thinking at the lower strata of society. They thinks that Its a disease or taboo.
Still Kudos to quint for raising such a stigmatized matter in an amicable and honest way...Love it❤
Yes... But again few rich parents also do not accept...
@coco 07 true.
Economical status has nothing to do in this. Parents mentality plays a vital part.
@@suneethajayaprakash7686 true like the guy in the video said... Education and status has nothing to do with acceptance.
Its like a dream reaction but it doesn't happens with 90%of the queer people
I think the % is higher than that....
@@ArghyaGh0sh hopefully the % will drastically decrease each decade..
This will probably never happen to me 😭. My parents are homophobic af. This is beautiful
You can be that one supportive parents in future (:
@@channie2189 Abe wo same gender se attract hota hai,to wo ek parent kaise ban sakta hai
@@villainousappetite8841 have you heard about surrogacy and adoption?🤡
@@channie2189 haa wo sab unnatural tareeke to hain hi.
@@villainousappetite8841 okay? Hai unnatural. Go cry about it.🤡
Remember: These are just the accepting parents.
Hi Aditya. I produced the video. I agree with you that these are just a section of parents :(
@@MythreyeeRamesh Adya*
Its so heartwarming to see this, i hope one day even my parents accept me for being a non binary pansexual/bisexual (still confused about that) queer person but i also feel kind of sad watching this because i know that is never ever going to happen, i wont ever have that moment in my life because in our political discussions i have gauged that they're not supportive of the community at all, and my "father" even called my community a disgrace to society. I just hope more and more parents become accepting of gender and sexuality and educate themselves. I hope I can do something to change the perception of the queer community in India, and fight for inclusivity of queer education in schools because I believe its a good place to start. WE have miles to go before we sleep
Hii
@@priyaiyer2007 hi I guess????
💙🥰🤗
I love u
@@riteshyogi7066 ummmm who are you ???
I came out to my mom today as a bi who prefers girls more than boys she was smiling & joking & laughing with me. She knew that i like girls more than boys . I am glad she accepted me for who i am so easily or else i would've explain & talk about lgbtq+ until she becomes irritated lol i told her & she started laughing.
Supporting Parents makes your life heaven.
This is so warm!❤️ Thanks for showing this Quint. Hope it motivates other parents to accept their kids choices☺️
Thank you, Khushi. That's exactly why we wanted to do the video :)
Hi
These mothers are just so wholesome!🥺♥️
We need more parents like them.. what a beautiful video.. ❣️
Thank you for your kind words. We hope to do more such stories at The Quint.
God bless them, such a lovely and supportive parents. That shows love is beyond anything be it age or gender or anything. U will never give up love be it for your parents, you children’s and your lover.
The thing is bollywood should make some movie about LGBTQ... please don't make them as a joke... this is 2021.... people should be educated about LGBTQ..so that any person never feel to be scared for being themselves... 💜
badhai do
I knew I am not straight since I was 14. It scared the hell out of me. I was scared that my family will disown me if they find out. 12 years after, I just could not take it anymore, I got tired of lying why I dont have a boyfriend, etc. So I decided to come out. I was ready to accept the consequences. But then, to my surprise, my family responded completely different to what I expected. They were very supportive. My mom got emotional when she realised I kept it for more than a decade, she apologised to me for not knowing and that it must be very difficult for me to keep it all these years. She told me, she does not care about what other would say, all she cares about is my happiness. Had I known that this will be their reaction, I would have come out a bit earlier. My relationship with my family greatly improved after I came out. So to those who are scared to come out to their family, have a little faith in them. 😁
I'm glad to see you all happy..
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Thank you for making this video Quint, I'm contemplating if I should come out to my Indian parents. Just like any other queer person, I am scared of their reaction but this video gives me hope
Hope everything will go well :^)
Sending Best wishes!!
Hi Sarah. I am the producer on this video. Truck loads of best wishes to you from The Quint
@@MythreyeeRamesh You certainly are doing a great job by producing such good quality content, keep them coming :D
Darkness will cover the life with same gender relationship
@@mohammedraazi4943 it never did to Abbie and Julia's life and even rose and rossie's life they are a happy family who have kids too now
I just came out to my friends, mom and sister recently. I was scared. But being truthful is most important to me and it was a big relief. They were accepting. I haven't told my dad yet but it will be soon. Love is Love!
Same here n happy for you
im happy for you.
I just want to say, this video came from a very very elite and privileged section of society... This is like a fancy aspirational sort of thing. Parents don't often support like this.
Aww that 15 girls from his office are just sweethearts... I'm also privileged enough to have such amazing friends who accepts me as who I am... When I came out to them as Non binary queer person...
Excellent mothers.
Absolutely! Thanks for watching our video.
Hope supreme court will understand it soon n legalise same sex marriage ASAP 👀🇮🇳
@Bad Pit ratio
@Bad Pit how is it nonsense can you please explain sir
Amen
I agree, they should pass a bill regarding that soon.
@R M H could you please explain it like conclude it in a lines or few
6:07 "stereotypically different" , really love how sensitive her mom is . 🥺 Saying you were "different" in childhood can come off as rude to some people, but her mom made it sound factual.
I’m straight Indian male and was born and lived in America my whole life and I’m really shocked by this. I don’t know much about India, but know that homosexuality was illegal til 2018 which is even more shocking! Hearts goes out to family’s and kids and wish them the best life! Your happiness and quality of life matters. 🙂🙂😊❤️❤️
I am glad to see such accepting parents and it feels amazing to be accepted but sadly, not everybody has the privilige to share this dialogue even with their own friends, the idea of being judged and being unaccepted suffocates an individual and in the end, they accept to live according to the norms.
WoW..such kind of discussions with your loved ones and family members are necessary to raise awareness!!
I’m straight Indian male and was born and lived in America my whole life and I’m really shocked by this. I don’t know much about India, but know that homosexuality was illegal til 2018 which is even more shocking! Hearts goes out to family’s and kids and wish them the best life! Your happiness and quality of life matters. 🙂🙂😊❤️❤️
I watched this video muted but my eyes couldn't stopped my tears after seeing conversation
yeah, they did a great job! and I wish my parents to be this supportive when I will come out in the future!🌈🌈
I’m straight Indian male and was born and lived in America my whole life and I’m really shocked by this. I don’t know much about India, but know that homosexuality was illegal til 2018 which is even more shocking! Hearts goes out to family’s and kids and wish them the best life! Your happiness and quality of life matters. 🙂🙂😊❤️❤️
I just wish every parent is this understanding.
I cried the entire video. May be because i had a bad day and watching this just took my emotions to another level. I consider myself to be a part of the community and I'm still figuring out who i am. But there is this constant fear of my parents and society who don't have much information about the queer community and it really pulls me back for exploring who i really am. Telling my few best friends that I'm not straight was really tiring. The accepted me for who i am but i always thought about what they would think if i hugged them as just a friend.
I think my parents are really accepting but i don't know what will happen in the end. It stresses me out on a daily basis. and i just want this to end. I hope i can just live a life without thinking what others will think about my sexuality.
Everything will be fine oneday brother...i too identify myself as queer! it feels like we have had the same journey. That hugging friend was something i too fear ,my parents are supporting but dont know if they'll accept it or no... but yes there's hope. Hope to be things good than it is today ,and if ever you feel like talking feel free to ,we dont know each other but god bless you with lots of happiness ,everything you deserve ,thankyou your comment made me feel that im not alone in this journey so thankyou once again!!!!!! @nids353 :)
I don't why, there r lot of happy tears in my eyes..
I’m straight Indian male and was born and lived in America my whole life and I’m really shocked by this. I don’t know much about India, but know that homosexuality was illegal til 2018 which is even more shocking! Hearts goes out to family’s and kids and wish them the best life! Your happiness and quality of life matters. 🙂🙂😊❤️❤️
My mom heard me out. She tried her best to tell me it's not real, what I'm feeling. But she let it go. She let's me do what I want now but pretends she never knew anything. My girlfriend's family is not as accepting as mine, even if mine was. Or should I say rather homophobic. Sometimes when people are being homophobic, they don't realise they're going against love all because they're of the same gender, even if they know this person is amazing for their daughter. My mom knows how well my girlfriend treats, and so does my girlfriends family. Yet all because we're both girls
This society should understand gay and lesbian relationships are as normal as a boy and a girl relationship 😊 ❤
Oh my god!!!! Just look at these wonderful mothers ❤️
Im a bisexual and hope my parents are like this
I’m straight Indian male and was born and lived in America my whole life and I’m really shocked by this. I don’t know much about India, but know that homosexuality was illegal til 2018 which is even more shocking! Hearts goes out to family’s and kids and wish them the best life! Your happiness and quality of life matters. 🙂🙂😊❤️❤️
@@kevgil2000 Thank you dear (sorry i have a habit of calling people dear)
It is sooo heart-warming to see such supportive, open-minded and understanding Indian parents!
Absolutely agree!! Thank you for watching our video.
They are lucky to have accepting parents it's tough otherwise
Lots of love ❤
I wish parents become these much supportive
Really kudos to The Quint and the parents and their kids
Amazing video Quint😊✌️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@Ashish Bravo, omg I cried out of happiness.😍
Same homosexual and heterosexual culture has Biphobia
Let's accept Bisexuality/Duality/Non binary/Three in one
Never seen a homosexual hating on a bisexual. I know the jokes on social media that bisexuals are infidel or etc, but it varies from person to person. And homophobes hate entire lgbt community.
This thing only happens with rich kids.
Who gets influenced more by western culture
Exactly
who cares? west influence, chinese japanese korean influence. also perhaps all animal species are west influenced who have homosexual population lol
@Aniket Kumar ....No gobar bhakt. It's about giving LGBTQ people their basic human rights which they are perfectly entitled to.
Wait till u find out that homosexuality was banned by Britishers 😮 and there are so many mentions of queer people and things in Indian history
I'm proud to be an Indian American Gay 🏳️🌈🇺🇸🇮🇳.
May God bless you all and yours Families ❤️🙏.
Stay Blessed Amen 🙏.
Love you ❤️❤️😘 All forever 💗.
Love is Love ❤️😘
“Accept me as I'm, Who I'm and how I'm.
The stories were really amazing.
@Sarcastic Doge BUCZ I was Born Gay. My Dear 💋❤️.
Yep. You are loved for who you are. Keep going..
@test test, India is becoming polluted…
Please don't associate "proud" with your child's sexuality.
It is what is is.
Straight or LGBTQ
Everything is normal.
It just is. It's not an achievement.
I pray that parents may understand our feelings
I plan to come out to my grandpa tomorrow. He's always loved me more than my parents ever have. He's the reason I didn't ever kill my self at the end of the day. Hopefully he is this accepting and still loves me the same.
All the best friend , hope your grandpaa understands your feelings and if he not it is also ok , don't worry , keep working hard in your job or studies . You will be definitely established yourself one day the way you want . Love you , good luck 👍🤍
@@lifeisbeautiful3564 Thanks, lmfao I called him and then chickened out. Hopefully I'll be able to tell him soon :D
@@nex2681 What happened bro?? Did he accept you?
Really nice video...and Ria Sharma mother is really sweet
Hi Roshni! Thank you for watching our video. Will definitely convey this to her mom :D
Very nice. Hope all parents and people be like them. It will make a beautiful world. Stay blessed. ,🥰🥰🥰
Both family are well educated ...
Even my mother accepted me as GAY
Everything looks easy and normal. If you are rich, educated and have someone support.
One day i will be this kind of dad for my child!
Wiping my tears ❤️
How gay of u
Many people's in comment section is saying dialogues...but jab unpe aaegi to wo palat jaege . So please ye fake support ka dikhawa na kre.....
Hope new generation changes and acceptance... increases....
And for gay/Lesbian please first accept yourself...than only you can fight with society...and live as you want. Bhot log hai jo khud ko society ke daar se accept nhi krte aur puri life gujar dete hai...but live your life... kyunki sirf ek hi life hai yaaron...khul ke jiyo❣️
How fool these parents are? They must take them to the psycologists rather.
What if your childrens says they feel like jump into well?
Still you would say "yes you are free to jump" there is nothing wrong in jumping into well " i will support you" right?
how are you relating children's sexualities/gender identities to jump1ng in a well? they are two completely different things.
kha tak padha hai tu?
@@whydontyoustfu jaha tak tu pad nahi sakta🤗
Lol go and read psychiatry dude
No psychologist or psychiatrist would say lgbt as a disease .
Read about NMC bill.
Indian psychiatrist association never classified it as an illness even when section 377 was there. And any doctor or psychiatrist found to be taking money for this his licence to practice medicine would be terminated.
@@Shorts-uf5hd Gobar Bhakt apna kaam kar
I wish i could the my parents my reality of being pure lesbian n marry any girl of my choice abroad.
Hi Prriya. Thank you for watching our video and beat of luck!
Thats so satisfying
Loved it 😍😘
Love wins 🌈
Really beautiful video 🌻
My parents are also open minded 😘😘😘😘 love you mom dad
this is so amazing👍😍....
This is really informative and cute video,
They are so adorable such a sweet families
I wish i when i come out in future conversation goes like this smoothly in family.
I have respect for all the queer people but I would never be able to understand how and when someone develops the feeling where they identifies that they are actually different from straight people. It's a nice video, thanks quint for reaching out to their parents and m sure it will help a lot of other parents to come out and support their kids.
Hi Digvijay. I am the producer on the story. Thank you for watching our video.
@@MythreyeeRamesh oh wow, you've really done a great job. I felt joy seeing the parents getting really connected with their kids. This is quite missing in our society.
@@MythreyeeRamesh 🙌🏻❣️
speaking from experience i think most of us know who we are attracted to since we were little kids but since talking about attraction isn't really common in indian households even for straight people so most people keep it to themselves. and then ofcourse middle school comes and boys starts saying all the homophobic slurs they have recently learned, that's when we know it's safer to keep our identity to ourself.
How do straight people "identify their feelings"? Huh?
Great Understanding Parents 👏.
I’m straight Indian male and was born and lived in America my whole life and I’m really shocked by this. I don’t know much about India, but know that homosexuality was illegal til 2018 which is even more shocking! Hearts goes out to family’s and kids and wish them the best life! Your happiness and quality of life matters. 🙂🙂😊❤️❤️
Education nothing has to do with this I think it depends how much parents are connected with their childs
Both of them from Delhi I guess? Yeah that's expected. Now just think how a child from not so privileged section can cope with the pressure
Mothers ❤️
Soooo proud of you all 🏳️🌈
Hi Winnie! I have spoken to you earlier :) I produced the video. Thank you for watching our video.
My cutie baby Ashish Chopra ❤️🤗
Mujhe rona aa rha hai... my mom supports everything but not be dating a person physiqally female
I envy you both....how loving parents you guys have💜💜I don't have but I 'll become 1
Please stay single and childfree, this world is overpopulated and overpolluted as well.
@@anewlife5846 Same goes for you
@@itchygonads Yes, I am single and childfree for life. I am vegan and minimalist too.😊🌈
it's definitely gonna help every LGBT person to come out....
It is just too much what a queer child goes through alone in his/her/their life... This hiding an all occupies so much of brain space and builds up high level of anxiety, that's why among the youths who commit suicide, more than half if related to lgbtq issues one way or the other... It's a fact.
This should be shown to all would be parents in India as a part of getting progressive and you know, keeping up with the current generation.
Same sex marriage should be legal in India.
Supreme court made it legal in 2018 I think
@@anmolsrivastava8144 no they didn't. gay sex was legalised. marriage rights, adoption rights or access to ivf is still illegal.
@@shashwat4887 yes its just the existence of the lgbtq+ community was no longer a criminal offence. Marriage rights, adoption is still not there even gender affirming care for trans people is very much neglected. Basic housing, jobs and medical facilities is still a hinderance to the lgbt+ community. The marriage thing was brought up in court earlier this year and ruling party had objections because "against culture" argument :(
You know what, India and China are neighbouring countries and in bad terms and on top of that, the whole world is now waiting to see what China does in near future in global politics and in all we see China is coming hard on anything against the so-called traditional patriarchal Family structure. Now, both countries are a playing a number game in terms of future generation, China is forcing people to have more kids, coming hard on women's liberty and choice and on LGBTQ people. Indian politics is also affected by that. And, in this way, I think every country and community's politics deal with human liberty in the context of their neighbours, opponents and in general global communities. This is also a matter of tribal politics and patriarchy. Eg, in the recent Texas law, the gate keeping freaks of religions along eith their very own impractical heartless calculative "culture" prepared a ground for the judgement but the state approved it bcz of their own tribal politics.
@@srivihihihi beach you are everywea
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These parents are so supportive 👌 in south India there are villages who doesn’t even allow straight peoples Love marriage 😆
How can someone dislike this beautiful video 🙂💔
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I am now getting some confidence and guts to come out to my parents about my sexuality and I believe that one day I will definitely come out ♥️🌸♥️🌸♥️🙃
Im rooting for you !!😄 good luck
@@serotonin14 thank u sister I hope the same
Well i can see the pain behind the mom's face. Feeling sorry for them.
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Hope your kids be homosexual. Then you'll understand
I really want same sex marriage to be legal in india
What does Islam says about LGBTQ ?
I would like to hear a Quint Special interview of Islamic parents of queer kids.....
"Straight to home" 2:51 🤣🤣 fook lgtv
I only support L in LGBTQXWYSDKGSKDS
Even my mother is very supportive n she accepted me as gay 🌈❤
more power to all the parents to understand and embrace their kids for what they are. You guys are role models in your own right for other parents. Thank you!
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My coming out story :
*Rehn do kya hee btau, came out 2 times but no one is believing me due to reasons.* Btaunga to hassi v ayegi aur rona bhi. Life ke laudey lage hai. I don't wanna marry to girl. Rehn do. Khush rho Sare✌😔😎
Same bro mere bhi. I am literally studying to leave my country.
Beautiful. Period.
No one need to proud anything human means a advanced quality of consiousness the problem is we are so much ignorant अज्ञानी that dont know peoplee have diffrent sexual prefrence.
My mom always support me too ❤️❤️❤️l love you ma 😍
People and their parents who missed a ticket to heaven
Best place to insert the Kim Jeong Meme 😂
This girl looks like Kalki Koechlin.
Any friend ?
English speaking parents..... Waooo
Does that even matter