I don't want to have kids. It's better to retire by 40, save enough for the rest of the life. Why have kids and then bother with their education, health, graduation bullshit!
Loved the fact that instead you talking about trending videos you actually talk about topics which get often lost and not many people talk about them. These topics are much more relatable to us.
@Jio Boy In my opinion, he's better than Johnny Harris. It turns out Jonny was getting funding from some world economic forum dude to promote his books without saying it's an ad. At least Soch is up front about in my ads.
Also, to add, this is just something that I have unfortunately come across as a child. My mother is a working woman(9-5) job with the same salary as that of my father. But teaching me, taking care, making food for the family and children, emotionally and mentally supporting me etc has always been done by her. No support whatsoever from father other than dropping to school in the morning. In fact, he has been more of a trouble than help, abusive, ignorant and negligent. So when the weight of parenting completely falls on one parent and the other parent is just there for the sake of it, it's horrible. Children who have lived such a life for 20/22 years no longer want to continue such a toxic cycle and hence many chose to not have kids at all.
itna ziada tow nahi but somewhat relatable. secondly pta nahi qu indian fathers kuch ziada hi dominant qu hote hai. never understood why they always try to act strong by just abusing, neglecting things. lastly another 20 yrs old who never wants to have kids in his entire life.
It's seems to disappoint that education is getting expensive . If it goes like this way , then I can gareente that in future, education will count in luxury item
China is doing a great job in this by restricting profit making by corporates in education. China authorities think about next decades, Indian politicians thinks about next election.
@@ayushritwik2930 it's your life and you can prefer tp live however you want. Marriage shouldn't be a compulsion. It should be done only when you're ready.
The real reason why urban women are choosing to have 1 child is the abysmal absence of early childcare support infrastructure. Raising a baby is an isolating and exhausting experience, the dis-proportionate burden for which falls upon the mother regardless of her employment status. Nuclear families. Lack of organized/qualified domestic help. Very few quality day-cares. To add fuel to the fire, we look upon mothers as "non working women" if they step off corporate work. Any wonder that women don't want to do this a second time ? Unfortunately, this reason wont come up in research studies and we will keep looking at solutions in the wrong places. We need to invest in early childcare infra + recognize the true value of raising kids. @Mohak I think the choice of this video sponsor is in poor taste for your otherwise superb series.
A very big reason. Most women are expected to take care of the house, sometimes the in laws, go through pregnancy(which takes such a toll physically and emotionally) , take care of the kid and work and earn. If you don't work anymore then people judge you, I heard my friend the other day saying "eww being a housewife". It's too much. Who wants this life?
@@sushilsharma4202 The country will be under the bin too like Afghanistan. No country in this world has developed without women empowerment and participation of women in the work force.
@@RRC879 Only if they cared about development they wouldn't have abandon women from doing all stuffs in the first place. You don't know how islam works simple. They believe more in afterlife then the present one. I hate to say this, but a patriarchal institution, society or culture will always dominate an egalitarian or a matriarchal one. The data of plummeting birth rate of Hindus is already visible, so in the upcoming decades the catastrophic results will soon be seen. Those who are living in an utopian dream of a superpower India won't see it because before that a huge civil war would've already been happening. Islam isn't a yesterday phenomena iyk. Y'all are just feeded through westerners and puke it everywhere, but forget the surroundings and the nature of western society of how it's build. We should follow China more rather than the west, but insecure democrats will come out of holes and start shaming and crying over pity rights.
@@sushilsharma4202 Patriarchal Country :- India(improving), Pakistan, Bangladesh(improving), African countries etc. Egalitarian country :- USA, UK, France, Germany, Japan, Russia etc. Now tell me who is more developed? And why country look at our states. Patriarchal :- UP, Bihar, Haryana Egalitarian(not fully) :- TN, Maha, Andhra, Karnataka, Goa. Any comments?
My Dad got a simple theory, I asked for a a brother, he was like "Why do you want net worth to be halved son, half food, half pocket money everything halved" And was like "no sibling at any cost"
I'm a teenager and seeing my parents struggle to accommodate me and my brother is the reason y I don't want more than 1 child. Idgaf about population growth if I can't take care of them properly. I value quality over quantity. The cost of education and taking care of a single child as a middle class is expensive enough.
Even if there was a single child your parents would struggle - thing is we tend to bite off more than we can chew when it comes to providing for our children, once you cross 35 only fun thing to do is to deliver more than you thought you were capable of and a belief that you are going to leave behind a better place than you have inherited.
grind harder. single childs aren't always the happiest children. if you have two children, they share a bond and don't necessarily need to compulsorily make new friends wherever they go
@@wkhcax157 bond? My sibling is the person I hate the most and my life would be a 100 times better if she didn't exist , in our recent society the single children are the happiest because in the past children didn't chase materialistic things like laptop, mobile etc. They just used to play around games with their siblings and enjoy but the society is different nowadays.
@@diwakarkumar-lo2qs ask a single child how lonely he feels. if your sibling is bad, doesn't necessarily mean every sibling is. if one sibling is bad and another one is a good one, objectively speaking. it often shows parental failure
I'm a single girl child and honestly i do sometimes feel that i would have liked having a sibling but at the same time looking at how expensive cost of Living has become im happy that Im the only one my parents have to look after and adding another one would have put alot of burden on them.
Don't get me wrong...but after marriage, when you will move in with your husband, who will look after your parents when they will need medical assistance, this burden will come to you and your husband and I don't think your husband would be free either from his responsibilities of his own parents and child of you both!!! In short this will be a stress mayhem!!!
@@acfstime Ask government to give Social security like they do here in the United States 🇺🇸 so they won't become burden to their children.. So everyone leads a happy and wonderful life!!
Life has become very costly now. Nowadays most educated people are moving to one child because surviving in today's environment is not easy, price of everything has been growing up by 4-5 folds as it is used to be earlier some 10-15 years ago. Inflation, unemployment rate and meagre economic resources also put pressure on families. Every educated wants to avoid vicious cycle of poverty.
If you put down your economics book and grab a science book, you'll learn that this much population is not sustainable. If people keep popping out more people like this, then elites will have no choice but to engineer some form of resource control which leaves out most people. And no. You have no chance against elites. They have more bullets than needed to kill us all.
@@rajadhirajmaharaj I question by self that are these guy even living in the same planet? They have no clue what's going in the world and what's gonna be happening. Also just lol at these guys thinking that they will become rich if india becomes rich, no the elites/top 1 percent guy will take it all (not hating on em it's survival of the fittest)
Only one reason. Money, everything is becoming costly day by day. Education is costly, food is costly, medicines are costly, property rates are high, rent is high. Resources are limited.
parent's thinking before: if one child gets older and earns 'x' then 5 children will earn '5x'. so better to have more children. This type of thinking was also a major problem past few decades when literacy was very low.
I am 40. took decision to remain single. Rise in living cost is one of the reason for this. Old age will be very hard but I feel it's Better decision I made for my life.
@@jayantnema9610 what is the use of living for 40 50 years if all you earned is going to be ownerless after your death , money will not remember you , only your kids will remember you
@@BHARATHA-SAMPRAJYA so short answer for you - If you want to become some woman's retirement plan she can cash by divorcing you any day or you ex's passive income. Your choice. You please do whatever you want but keep it to yourself. I am very clear that my free time and my extra money will be spent on animal shelters, and on throwing pizza parties for the homeless and assistive technology for the poor & disabled and if any money or time still remains that will be for my hobbies and my retirement. Women are independent in developed world right? Then let them work 50 hours a week job and earn their own luxury. Because I have not stupid to sign off my freedom or my money to someone who is able bodied and can earn it themself but still plan to take it from me. And I am also not an idiot who thinks mind reading and telling who is right and who is wrong is possible, because it is not. People play put up extremely realistic acts when there is a lifetime of free paycheques on the line lmao. And I don't need to play those games. Never do things that bind you with chains, especiall unbreakable legal chains that can continue draining your cash till the end of your life and also despite your innocence throw you in jail lol. Those who are blinded by lust or attachment and sign themselves into the draft, oops I mean the marriage contract, only god can protect them, because courts wont 🤣
@@jayantnema9610 one example, Have back pain at times it goes extreme and it will be difficult for me to get up from bed. No one will be there to offer glass of water. In 2016 I met small accident didn't feel the pain initially by the time I reach home in midnight had to bear heavy back pain. Tried to call friends .. no one responded.. Nearby hospital no response finally after contacting 2 to 3 hospitals they sent Ambulance. The common question I face repeatedly is "why are u single?" Parents and Relatives keep forcing even after telling my decision. If I become angry then they say Look at your attitude no respect and value.. But yeh.. when I see people complaining about their life and partner feel I ve taken better decision and cardiac function is fine..😐
@@abandonworld7420 hey dont worry. your body will heal itself. Try some yoga meditation, bit of proper stretchdz and ayurveda / better food. I hope you will find peace and health very soon 🤗🤗❤️❤️
This is exactly where me and my wife are. I pay taxes but get no help from the Govt. to educate my child and our parents health. Who ever does not have ancestral wealth are screwed 🙏
Ikr Whoever's parents don't have retirement plans r screwed My friend makes around 20k per month still lives with parents she can't afford to move out Also education is so expensive In tier three cities education is terrible Xtra curricular cost a ton
Very aptly summarised...one point i would like add is i will try to give my child a good enough education so that she can settle anywhere in the world and not just india.... India is very pro poor and pro ultra rich ..middle class has no importance in india
Lakshadweep has a fertility rate of 1.4 And literacy rate of 92.28% I think that Female Education and employment is most important. After literacy rate.
🤣🤣 Just look at the fertility of Muslims in Kerala vs Hindus. The muslim population is half of Hindu population but they have more childs than the Hindu population.
I am the only daughter of my parents and sometimes I wish that it would have been good to have a sibling. But seeing how expensive everything has become these days, I feel glad that my parents chose whats best for everyone.
I have one old sis I would love to either have older borbor sis N I have a sis She guides me many times N teaches me many things Older siblings r amazing We do have fights tho But she is alright I guess Older bros r good too Younger bros r horrible as parents favor sons more than daughters
I know a lot of people from my generation (including me) who want to remain childfree. Ofcourse none of them are unemployed, homeless or such. The reason for this shift is mostly overcompetition we tend to face since our childhood due to population explosion.
We women now a days want to/have to have a professional career as a single person's income is insufficient to run a family smoothly. But having multiple kids would definitely be exhausting for a working woman & sometimes women have to sacrifice their professional career also..it creates mental stress & relationship problems between the spouses as well. So its better to raise one child & have a balanced life than having multiple children from every aspect.
I discussed this with my mother, she told me how during her childhood, in the '80s in the cities 3-4 children were the norm. I am 16 and every single friend of mine has another sibling, two children are the norm.
@Rey I am from West Bengal, that's my reality, yours might be different because of the area you come from...or this might be your typical response by assuming that I am a Bhakt which is not,I just stated what is fact politics aside.
Its individual choice. Poor people are having more than 2 kids whereas mom dad both working n still struggling with single child expenses. Having kids or no kids totally individual choice. Don't have kids just to shut family and neighbours mouth. Have kids if u want to have kids. Its a big responsibility. Its very normal nowadays to not get married or to not have kids there is absolutely nothing wrong. Siblings sometimes don't even get along.
people talking about such phenomenon in urban india . meanwhile me who is from northeast , lives in a semi urban area with almost every family around me having 1 child be like :- we exist .
@@snaik9141 ara Bhailog sinha surname northeast main bhi hain . Infact most people in whole of northeast combined have sanskrit names and sankrit surnames or local surnames . Only in states like meghalaya , Mizoram nagaland Arunachal you have local and english names
I was surprised to learn the fact that my friend was just a single child, both of his parents where from Kerela and even they where single child themselves.
So, you just wanted to highlight both his parents *where* from Kerela? The same place where ISRO's truck is taken down and asked for 10lac. The reason given to justify it is that the truck took away their job. Or the place which completely depends on it's coast and port but rarely attracts investment?
@@adityasharma2935 why do you hate a part of your own country you anti-national? BJP ki bhakti karte karte apne hi desh se nafrat karne lage ho. Look into the mirror what that has made you! Kal BJP bolegi desh se gaddari karo tumlog woh bhi karoge. Chhi! Desh se zyada bada ab tumhe party lagne laga hai
For the population control its very important for the women to be in control of their fertility and have a say in family planning. Bangladesh is the perfect example they were worse than india in terms of fertility but now they have less fertility rate than india. Again sex education and women empowerment is the key.
But we can face issues like Japan despite being on 4th their GDP neither increasing nor decreasing at the end they will loose their 4th spot other issues no working population as old people more just like China so there should be a balance
If you are from a rich family studying abroad you probably won't suggest an underprivileged person to study abroad...what he suggested Is for common masses
Here’s what I want to do: - Have 3 kids (biological +adopted) - Send them to govt school and not bother about making 90 percentage scorers - Spend a lot of time on teaching them life skills - most probably teach them self employment / building business (i have my business so at least there’s a base) - maybe move to a smaller town with better environment and travel to big cities occasionally - let them play a lot of sport / have hobbies to open their minds
I assume you're still in your late teens or early twenties 😁 once you know what life is, it will lead you not vice versa.. it's a bitter truth of life.. I've learned it a hard way.. 🙏🏻
OMG. You're are my long lost sibling who thinks like me. Trust me, ever since I have a child I started discussing about this with my husband and explaining him why what I think is best. Staying minimal and not carrying extra baggage of self claimed burden is unhealthy mentally, physically and financially. Unfortunately we are surrounded by people who will force you to do what they are doing and push you to the sink as they don't want to see you living a peaceful life. I have taken screenshot of your comment to let husband know that there are other people thinking like us. All the best to you and people like us. ❤️
@@dawateworld Assumption is wrong. :) I'm in 30s, spent 3+ yrs working to get business to a level where it can generate income. About to get married to someone who comes from a small town and has a home there. Didn't let myself get distracted by the 'bitter truths' of life. Everyone learns the hard way.
Even i would like to have a single child or maybe stay childless. There's nothing wrong with it, as i know I won't be able to handle children. Before having a child or two make sure you are mentally, physically and financially prepared for it.
@@Manaahh you will always say this until you will have a child or dont however soon your genes will bring an urge to bring forward an offspring. Millions of years of evolution is not going to change over what a few recent generations have come to believe. I am all for women's right to choice of procreation - its never about that.
@@nebber1234 i have a child. I intend to stop with 1. No more. Pregnancy and childbirth were traumatic. My husband and other family memners would go to other rooms and sleep while i would stay awake at night cradling the baby. Husband kept accusing me of not being sufficiently caringbof the baby. I was doing my best and baby was healthy. A lot of men in this country are selfish, insensitive and lacking on kindness.
Always listen to your inner voice. When you are sitting alone in a room with a shrieking infant at 3 am or struggling to feed/bathe/ potty train your naughty baby, no man will come to help you. The majority burden of house work and childcare will fall on you.
I am 29 , married 1 year ago and both me and my wife don't want kids. We want to live on our terms, giving us the best life possible. Having a child restricts all of your freedom heavily and degrades your mental happiness.
Not everything is about economy or expenses . If you include the loss of nature and extinction of species across the world , air pollution , plastic pollution . Cost of buying a house like 4 cr in mumbai for just 800 or 900 sq ft . Nearly all water sources are becoming gutter and polluted not to mention air . We shouldn't worry about economy but air , water and soil as this is the only treasure a country has.
Areeh bhai ye chootia hai khaali government kie burai Aage chalke robotics kaa jaamana aega manpower need apne aap km ho jaegi aur globalisation bhi option hai obviously african countries me vaise hie population jyada hai toh vaha se bhi hm aage chalke manpower need fulfil kr sakte hai 2 child policy should be implemented all around India as soon as possible
@CEO of Secularism loll then what about job ? If he'll relocate to another country doss he'll get same salary in that job ? Speak your talkies with some sense
My parents were married in 2003 and decided to only have a single child and I never felt the need of a sibling. Friends and my own company is always enough to be honest.
Well, this video talked about the issues with less population from a national perspective...but in today's world of climate change, it's really good to have lesser humans being born. Man, this situation is complicated.....
Nah, bruh old people will be huge and they will be wiped out before young people overtake them. So we will have to have kids inorder for a functioning country.
@@sushilsharma4202 Governments might continue to encourage more population but all that will be for nothing when mother nature hits back. Don't get me wrong, I'm not an environmentalist but overpopulation is a huge problem and with policies like these it will only worsen more. As i said, the situation is way too complicated than it sounds.
My suggestion is to sterilize all the humans because humans are the virus for this planet and for other living things and humans converted this heaven looking planet to hell
@CEO of Secularism these guys think morals will give them jobs. Also if you think education is important for jobs before passing 12 was enough to get a decent job, after that a bachlers degree was enough, and now a bachlers degree from a tier one university or masters/phd is enough. If everyone gets educated then the standard just increases.
Mohak is contradicting himself in the video, he discussed about increased cost of education at the same time advertising upGrad which is damn expensive.
1 child is very good for society .... Have we forgot about something called overpopulation??? If we are gonna have 3 children... And the world is gonna go on how it is .... Then the basic human resources will not meet the needs... ( Mainly coal and fossil fuels are expected to vanish till year 2070 ) And the solar energy which we get from the sun is able to support only 1 billion of us at a time.... We are using the reserved things to support the human race... But they will run out...
It's his choice,will all of you give resources to his "2" child:/ If you can't give your best never become a parent, you are just making a life and forcing them to live in shitty situations 💀
I not going to marry neither going to have any kids. Don't want to share my hard-earned money with anyone except my parents. I am kind of an introverted and individualistic person. So, I don't feel lonely even though I have fewer friends. I think if you are earning money and don't care about marriage then it is not that necessary to have kids.
@@sushilsharma4202 lol, how come me or some random Indians not having any child going to led civil war?? We have a lot of people and fewer resources and will soon defeat china in terms of population. It would be better if some of us will not have any kids!
@@Akira-dm3tj Lol, every decision a person from a country takes affects the whole country. This western individualism is what will destroy India from within. Hindus already have a very low birth rate and if not overcome soon taliban like situations will be seen here. I request you to have kids please🙏. This isn't a conspiracy or anything just a genuine worry. Generations die pretty quickly so it won't be better for our country to have less youth. And it's not just you many people have started this school of thought which will impact our country. For the sake of India please do the needful
@@sushilsharma4202 I understand but I am sorry I just can't! Marriage and kids mean huge responsibility also you need a bit more money. I have to Take care of my parents and also my younger brother. marrying and having kids will add more burden on me. I have some huge dreams which I think is difficult to pursue as it demands more time and funds. Marrying will make it impossible to achieve. So you know it's difficult.
@X no , it shouldn't be the rule . I am just saying 1 kid is enough but if some couple wants more than a kid then adoption is a better choice . And adoption process should be made easy .
Are you serious we would end up with more old people see Japan south Korea Why do you think India's GDP is 2.6 trillion if less children's then less growth see Japan and SK growth despite top notch tech
Yeah I have noticed this trend..my friends parents all have 2 children..this is even true for my neighbours and family...my generation either have a sister or brother...and the married ones have only one child and seems to have stop having anymore....I think women's education played a more crucial role than economic reason..
@@vikaskardam8052 because their population growth is negetive unlike ours and specially where only 2 states bear 50 crore and also those 2 states have the higest fertility rate in india ,one has 3.3 and other 2.7. So India's problem is far from over
I wanted to have 3 4 kids . I still do. I think I’ll give birth to 2 and adopt 2.I’ve grown up in a joint family with lots of cousins and I know the importance of living with them. I’m only 21 and if I’m unable to provide financially I’d too consider having one kid or even no kid.
I'm thinking about no children till I'm 35. Then I'll see if I afford one. If yes, then if I want one. If yes, then I'll simply adopt one. Anyone with me?
That's too late for a girl,biologically speaking,because labour complications,child anomalys,breast cance etc risk is increased.thats a risky approach.
@@alisakhan7853 emotional attachment to the adopted baby ,and your partner's aggreement is still a issue,but nonetheless I hope everything turns out to be perfect.
I am planning to have 0 child. Our environment policies, waste management and so many other things need immediate change for the new kids. Otherwise our planet will not be able to sustain us no matter how much empowerment we give to women. To me, its not ethical to bring a child in considering the future of our planet.
2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be tougher to handle , indian economy will fall suddenly and lots of people will become poor , Companies will shut their production . I am studying Population economics , I know how it can affect your life .
When there would be no resources, no jungles, no clean air, then what the heck this so called 'young workforce' would do with GDP ? You totally ignored the environment factor brother (wasn't expecting). This earth can't even bear one extra human being seriously.
I'm not a single child and have a sibling and there is a calculated spent by our parents as compared to those who have single child but I think this has made a realization of being independent n to excel more rather than to rely on our parents money . Edit : I feel glad that others too r interested at my thoughts 🥰🥰
I personally as a single child do agree that we depend on our parents but we tend to become more mature and responsible at a young age because from childhood we know that our parents only have us in the future so single child have to face a lot of burden on becoming success because we have to take care of our parents also
@@mr.grignardreagent892 बोसड़के 137 करोड़ जनसंख्या है लेकिन हम 130 करोड़ बोलते है ना? Round-Off करके बोल रहा हूँ, बीसी एक्यूरेसी चाहिए इन्हें। बोसड़कों मैथ का इग्ज़ाम चल रहा है यहाँ..
What is the need to marry ? Be alone, make some money, retire by 40. Spend the rest of your life binge watching Netflix. Wooho! That's much better than getting married, having kids, funding their education, impressing in laws, attending functions at sasuraal, and then working till 60 to give your kids great education and then die at 70.
@@Calcuttadiaries717 umm.... divorce rates in india are one of the lowest in the world . Whereas in domestic violence cases our country is quite in the top spots ... comparatively. Actually none of the young generation wants all thse hassles of marriage and stuff. Who wants to leave their parents and their jobs and everything..and go to someone's house..live the way they want us too..do what they want us too...and all of that shit. Better to take care of your parents then get involved in this bs.
@@Calcuttadiaries717 after being suppressed for a long time and tagged as the weaker sex , obviously the laws would be in favour of them . And getting married is a burden for women too , we have to leave our homes , some families wont even allow them to work , burdened with children, it goes on.
Things really have changed now..Kids have become very demanding. Apart from that school feel has gone rocket high as its a new business. They want to go essel world, wants to travel, have bike in 10th,12th and car in job. I am sure daughters will have other demands too.
@@jagnathreddy3544 they are population of 22 crore Maharashtra with 11 crore contributes most In reality, per capita of up and bihar is worst.. Also education, health, infrastructure everything is not good in these 2 states
India is known for scams at international level They use vpn and go unfindable You want it to watch 18+ content thats it Stop opposing everything govt do Don't
Being a single child is beneficial for me. Even if my parents were not doing great financially , but still they manage to give me a great childhood and also government policies for single girl child was beneficial during my school time . 👍 I remember when a rural area lady asked my mom that "Aapki to ek he beti hai koi beta Nhi hai? " and she replied " Yhi meri beti hai or yhi mera beta hai. "
Are u happy being a single child? I wana Kno coz m confused now a days. I have a son only i don't want more children but sometimes I feel will he be alone in future?
@@prachisawhney1105 I'm happy enough to be a single child at first I thought it was good to have a sibling but as I grew up, I feel more comfortable being alone . The downside of being a single child is parents become overprotective and I have zero freedom to make any choices .
@@hophhie4595 thanku so much dear..these things helping me to stay at my decision the only reason I smtimes want another child to accompany my first child no other reason
@@hophhie4595 but again your parents now had stop thinking about earning more properties like flat and bunglows . Because you are single girl child. Yahi agar single boy child hota na to bahut property karte parents log
@@hydramortal4212what kind of a crazy point is that???? My previous boss has only one daughter and he buys tons of property and i believe she'll be the only heir to his property
Yes 2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be tougher to handle , indian economy will fall suddenly and lots of people will become poor , Companies will shut their production . I am studying Population economics , I know how it can affect your life .
@@नयनगिरडकर Home schooling also charges you a lot. And some say that's useless too. You can't be homeschooled to become a doctor, can you? Higher education is getting unaffordable
@@kdjoshi726 haha yes you are right , My dad has 4 children he can afford it , but my uncle who has 2 children can't afford , depends how much financially stable you are. .
India should not do it. Its not the solution. Real solution is to have a lot more options for higher education. Also getting more ways of getting admission other than JEE/NEET
Marrying will be a distant thought in future as the scenario worsens. Single childs would have to take care of parents and themselves and as the income is also reducing problems like stated above will be reality.
This one child phenomena is actually bad for society because problem of competition remains same... A single child born in india can never have a same amount of resources compared to a child born in America ,Scandinavia or west europe because this phenomenon of raising single child started first in these developed countries so they will get benifits first too
@@sumeersamarat706 yes and no. If you create a policy that restricts people to.have only 1 child like China had back few years ago it would cause gender disparity and it's same with 2 child policy. The logical solution is 3 child policy
"The greatest devotion you can do today is not to have a baby". it really holds true. our world is full of people and we are overburdening it with more people so it's high time that we should appreciate the real heroes who are choosing to be child-free. Especially the women or couples who don't want to have a kid or not want to be a parent should be awarded accepted and appreciated. Having a single child is a nice decision and thank you to all the people who are choosing this. by choosing this you are not only giving a great life and attention to the kid but also a comfortable life to you. I request all the new generations of future parents to opt for one child or no child. we need to do this for our planet. and this is the greatest devotion you can give to the planet and to ourselves as human beings.
We took this decision of only one daughter 20 years ago. You need courage as well as education to take such decisions. Quantity over quality is increasing. Populations is the main reason now for all the issues we are facing. Third world war will reduce the population by straight 90% and world wiill live in peace.
Almost 50% Indians ki mentality ye hai ki first baby girl hai to dusre baby ki jaroorat hai aur first baby boy hai to jaroorat nhi hai...Just like competitive exam attempts😒🤦🏻♀️
I remember sadguru saying "NOT HAVING KIDS IS THE GREATEST SERVICE YOU CAN DO" people have different choices and I respect them but I ain't definitely not having kids I would rather adopt one
Very true. In today's times when there are not enough resources for people to survive, it's not advisable to bring more humans. Moreover, if its something that you strongly will, might as well not have kids. It's definitely good.
@@devolishash3946 I know what are my responsibilities towards society and having kids is not a duty its a personal choice people act like if I won't be having kids it will effect world's almost 8 billion population
I believe the fertility question may be answered by environmental degradation. Higher pollution is associated with PCOS, or PCOS like symptoms, which is impacting women and individuals across economic classes as well as both rural and urban. Which is why India needs to deal with the looming climate crisis, just like all other countries have to, starting IMMEDIATELY.
Here they're not talking about the actual health. They're talking about fertility rate fertility rate is the ratio between the number of live births in a year and the whole female population of childbearing age (average number of women between 15 and 50 years of age over the year)
Pcos affects fertility big time and also women with pcos will be diabetic at 40 years of age.. so if u plan pregnancies if u have pcos .. Pl plan at the earliest... no point being sick ..
I am also planning to have single child. I have seen the struggles my father and grandfather had to go to feed a joint family. Its no longer sustainable to have more than 1 child.
2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be tougher to handle , indian economy will fall suddenly and lots of people will become poor , Companies will shut their production . I am studying Population economics , I know how it can affect your life .
@@नयनगिरडकर it's good but you can not force anyone to have two children as you Are not going to pay their bills. If a person is voluntarily choosing not to have any kids or only have one kid then it's should be respected. I see no problem with that.
@@Akira-dm3tj What about can't pay the bills , I am telling the facts of population economics . If all started producing 1 child than indian will soon become old . And ageing population is always useless for any country you think. You said if not having any kids , who will take care of u in old age , who will pay bills of you , old age home . Honestly if u put this statement infront of economist , they will declare you selfish resource for future (Term in economics ). The best think economist will advise you is plz if you don't want to have kids , plz don't get married . It's bitter but it's the truth of india .🙏
@@नयनगिरडकर see I am not saying anything about one child and its economic impact and blah blah blah. Also, don't make me a fool there is no term like a "selfish resource of future" in economics. I have a commerce background so I know what are basic economic terms and concepts and I also know If Everyone started having one child then it can be problematic but the thing is having kids is not only about being financially capable but being mentally prepared is important too. You can't raise two children only by giving birth and arranging sufficient money. You have to take care of their health, education, career etc. There are a lot of responsibilities involved and to take those you have to be mentally prepared and strong. If a person is not mentally prepared for taking the responsibilities of more than one child then he would only choose to have one kid so, you can't expect or force him to have two children. Like you said that "if you don't have any kids then who is going to take care of you in your old age?" Does having kids grantees that your kid is not going to leave you ?? I see a lot of parents, especially from educated communities where their kids have sidelined them even though their parents had spent their whole life in raising them. And by the way, if I and my life partner have no problem with not having kids then what's your problem? Are you going to take responsibility??
Me and my older brother suddenly started talking about this topic without anything it was so sudden and we both say we don't want to marry nor want to have child's even my cousins say same things . even listening whole video I still don't want to do any one Because it seem so hard 😪 .
It's fine and don't let any man tell you it's childish. It's perfect/ Less human beings= less pollution. Birthing or raising a child(adopted/biological) is scary esp for women. Preg takes a heck of a toll on your body .
@@SchoolOfUnlearning3 My parents wanted a boy so they went for a second and she would have tried for a third as well if the doctor didn't tell her that there would be health risks due to her age. My mother always says that the first born being a girl brings bad luck to the family.
Being third child in barely middle class family I know the stress on my parents !! Although I don't see Strain on econmy in 2050 because most of the labour work will be managed by AI and robots 💯It's too early to say that India will face aging problem like china in my opinion‼️
@@yuzie6270 automation won't take all jobs . As economy grows Job demands grow India will have high job demand in future only advantage india has since china will lose their manufacturing Dominance
Who tf is spreading this misinfo about automation, lol. India already would be under a civil war by then. Stop living in a utopia. USA is going to collapse soon, so this agenda propogated by them about automation is utter false, lol
@@sushilsharma4202 True India would be under a Civil War by then but that's just one side of the coin If someone manages to stop it then India might have experienced the Boost in Economic growth like in China
The best solution is making the education system less costly and we should make the education stress less Indian education system NEEDS a change right now
Lol single child? i dont even wanna married, stay single and life happily apart from that family chaos (i can say this statement so easily cuz i do have one brother just 1.5 years younger than me having a same mind set, so we can life together and explore this world eventually 😄)
For real tho , below poverty line people shouldn’t be allowed more than one kid Coz they can’t feed themselves why bring in another child and have him starve and suffer.
@@bhuvaneshs.k638 What about those poor children who are suffering in poverty because of their selfish parents who brought them in this world without their consent?
@@Abaddon-u1i no parent want bring their kids into a bad world. Govt can always guide and educate advantages of having less kids and can create some incentives. Ultimately it's none of Govt's business to interfere in their personal life
People like Aman Dhattarwal and Physics Wallah on YT are doing great work to make quality education accessible to all. Many more people should emerge like them and hopefully one day I'll be able to contribute to them too.
Even in Govt. Schools Teachers are being made to learn Different skills like my mother literally a year before didn't knew how to turn on a Laptop But due to online classes she started learning and now She Makes Video that goes onto Govt. Platform Diksha But still The Children are not payinguch attention not because Of lack of Smartphone (Just before Lockdown almost 94% Students Of my Mothers Block Registered their WhatsApp Numbers and were added to Groups but there is lac of Intrest of students)
But only rich can watch those online lectures.. most of rural india doesn't have access to gadgets and enough data to watch 10 hr long lectures...also they do not provide any certificate so anyways people will have to do a course for the sake of certificate...
@@AryanKohli-hkscx My school has poor children. Whose father are petty shopkeepers even they watch Physics wallah. We are In 11th. Poverty is not an excuse for spreading disgust
@@thetrickster9885 how am i spreading disgust? .. also i wont call you "poor" as your family is capable of sending you to schools which is most probably private school...that's middle class... i am talking about those who have no source of income and are homeless..
I don't know why but I find single childs dont have social skills, they are too soft and don't have a thick skin. No offence but I just can't stand them.
Same 👍 I have a amazing life having everything by my parents wouldn't have mind a bro or sis but completely happy with being a single child Anyone more than 4 children disgusts me
To all the people commenting here supporting being a single child is a privilege, I have a question. "How do you know without even having the experience of having a sibling?".
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Single child? Most of my generation (late teens) don’t even want to have kids!
So with each generation, this is changing rapidly!
Then watch the death of this country soon
I don't want to have kids. It's better to retire by 40, save enough for the rest of the life. Why have kids and then bother with their education, health, graduation bullshit!
@@arunshankars8398 same
Same, guys same... I'm 15 and I don't want kids... Like ever....
Kids down here 😂😂😂 omg.
Loved the fact that instead you talking about trending videos you actually talk about topics which get often lost and not many people talk about them. These topics are much more relatable to us.
You are handsome ❤️
@@aintyours7470 Tf?
@@aintyours7470 😂😂
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
Art Director: But Why really making the videos look better, with much more insightful graphics. Kudos!
@Jio Boy yeah pretty much everybody was copying his style from Vox
What is the meaning of kudos
@@UjjwalPratapSingh007 congratulations/compliments
@@sawchawn o, thanx
@Jio Boy In my opinion, he's better than Johnny Harris. It turns out Jonny was getting funding from some world economic forum dude to promote his books without saying it's an ad. At least Soch is up front about in my ads.
Also, to add, this is just something that I have unfortunately come across as a child. My mother is a working woman(9-5) job with the same salary as that of my father. But teaching me, taking care, making food for the family and children, emotionally and mentally supporting me etc has always been done by her. No support whatsoever from father other than dropping to school in the morning. In fact, he has been more of a trouble than help, abusive, ignorant and negligent. So when the weight of parenting completely falls on one parent and the other parent is just there for the sake of it, it's horrible. Children who have lived such a life for 20/22 years no longer want to continue such a toxic cycle and hence many chose to not have kids at all.
this is exactly what has been happening with me, it's really overwhelming. I hope it'll all get alright soon :D
itna ziada tow nahi but somewhat relatable. secondly pta nahi qu indian fathers kuch ziada hi dominant qu hote hai. never understood why they always try to act strong by just abusing, neglecting things. lastly another 20 yrs old who never wants to have kids in his entire life.
@@sonal5202 you mentioned earlier that your own mother would have killed you if she had money that time still want to live with her? strange.
@@sonal5202 ohh ohk, wishing for your good life ahead
@@chillndie mere father bhi aisa hi hai 🤦. My mom is in this marriage just because of me and my brother. I wish she could have divorced him
It's seems to disappoint that education is getting expensive . If it goes like this way , then I can gareente that in future, education will count in luxury item
First world problems
China is doing a great job in this by restricting profit making by corporates in education.
China authorities think about next decades, Indian politicians thinks about next election.
Education and healthcare both getting expensive. And housing too
Glorifying China now are we? What next North Korea for their excellent carbon emissions suppression record?
@@infinityxtanishq8712 😂😂lol
In a nutshell, Education is becoming expensive hence preference for one child and this video was sponsored by upGrad 😃
😂😂😂😂
The irony
I will go a step further that is not getting married only and not even have a child .Isn't it a good step?
@@ayushritwik2930 it's okay opinion changes with time u wine be same as now after 5years always be kind
@@ayushritwik2930 it's your life and you can prefer tp live however you want. Marriage shouldn't be a compulsion. It should be done only when you're ready.
The real reason why urban women are choosing to have 1 child is the abysmal absence of early childcare support infrastructure. Raising a baby is an isolating and exhausting experience, the dis-proportionate burden for which falls upon the mother regardless of her employment status. Nuclear families. Lack of organized/qualified domestic help. Very few quality day-cares. To add fuel to the fire, we look upon mothers as "non working women" if they step off corporate work. Any wonder that women don't want to do this a second time ? Unfortunately, this reason wont come up in research studies and we will keep looking at solutions in the wrong places. We need to invest in early childcare infra + recognize the true value of raising kids. @Mohak I think the choice of this video sponsor is in poor taste for your otherwise superb series.
If they won't get ready to witness another Taliban here then all the women empowerment will be under the bin
A very big reason. Most women are expected to take care of the house, sometimes the in laws, go through pregnancy(which takes such a toll physically and emotionally) , take care of the kid and work and earn. If you don't work anymore then people judge you, I heard my friend the other day saying "eww being a housewife". It's too much. Who wants this life?
@@sushilsharma4202 The country will be under the bin too like Afghanistan. No country in this world has developed without women empowerment and participation of women in the work force.
@@RRC879 Only if they cared about development they wouldn't have abandon women from doing all stuffs in the first place.
You don't know how islam works simple. They believe more in afterlife then the present one.
I hate to say this, but a patriarchal institution, society or culture will always dominate an egalitarian or a matriarchal one.
The data of plummeting birth rate of Hindus is already visible, so in the upcoming decades the catastrophic results will soon be seen. Those who are living in an utopian dream of a superpower India won't see it because before that a huge civil war would've already been happening.
Islam isn't a yesterday phenomena iyk. Y'all are just feeded through westerners and puke it everywhere, but forget the surroundings and the nature of western society of how it's build.
We should follow China more rather than the west, but insecure democrats will come out of holes and start shaming and crying over pity rights.
@@sushilsharma4202
Patriarchal Country :- India(improving), Pakistan, Bangladesh(improving), African countries etc.
Egalitarian country :- USA, UK, France, Germany, Japan, Russia etc.
Now tell me who is more developed?
And why country look at our states.
Patriarchal :- UP, Bihar, Haryana
Egalitarian(not fully) :- TN, Maha, Andhra, Karnataka, Goa.
Any comments?
My Dad got a simple theory, I asked for a a brother, he was like "Why do you want net worth to be halved son, half food, half pocket money everything halved" And was like "no sibling at any cost"
My husband always saying like this to my son n me😂😂😂
@@prachisawhney1105super
My mum says this too .
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I'm a teenager and seeing my parents struggle to accommodate me and my brother is the reason y I don't want more than 1 child. Idgaf about population growth if I can't take care of them properly. I value quality over quantity. The cost of education and taking care of a single child as a middle class is expensive enough.
Even if there was a single child your parents would struggle - thing is we tend to bite off more than we can chew when it comes to providing for our children, once you cross 35 only fun thing to do is to deliver more than you thought you were capable of and a belief that you are going to leave behind a better place than you have inherited.
grind harder. single childs aren't always the happiest children. if you have two children, they share a bond and don't necessarily need to compulsorily make new friends wherever they go
@@wkhcax157 bond? My sibling is the person I hate the most and my life would be a 100 times better if she didn't exist , in our recent society the single children are the happiest because in the past children didn't chase materialistic things like laptop, mobile etc. They just used to play around games with their siblings and enjoy but the society is different nowadays.
Exactly same.
@@diwakarkumar-lo2qs ask a single child how lonely he feels. if your sibling is bad, doesn't necessarily mean every sibling is. if one sibling is bad and another one is a good one, objectively speaking. it often shows parental failure
I'm a single girl child and honestly i do sometimes feel that i would have liked having a sibling but at the same time looking at how expensive cost of Living has become im happy that Im the only one my parents have to look after and adding another one would have put alot of burden on them.
bache 2 hi ache na 1 na 3
keval 2
Same bro, sameee
Don't get me wrong...but after marriage, when you will move in with your husband, who will look after your parents when they will need medical assistance, this burden will come to you and your husband and I don't think your husband would be free either from his responsibilities of his own parents and child of you both!!! In short this will be a stress mayhem!!!
@@acfstime Ask government to give Social security like they do here in the United States 🇺🇸 so they won't become burden to their children..
So everyone leads a happy and wonderful life!!
Yeah Okay. It might be great for you, But your parents lineage has died, There is no one to carry your dad's name!
Life has become very costly now. Nowadays most educated people are moving to one child because surviving in today's environment is not easy, price of everything has been growing up by 4-5 folds as it is used to be earlier some 10-15 years ago. Inflation, unemployment rate and meagre economic resources also put pressure on families. Every educated wants to avoid vicious cycle of poverty.
They will just not have if they are educated bro it's expensive business 😐.
If you put down your economics book and grab a science book, you'll learn that this much population is not sustainable. If people keep popping out more people like this, then elites will have no choice but to engineer some form of resource control which leaves out most people.
And no. You have no chance against elites. They have more bullets than needed to kill us all.
@@rajadhirajmaharaj I question by self that are these guy even living in the same planet? They have no clue what's going in the world and what's gonna be happening. Also just lol at these guys thinking that they will become rich if india becomes rich, no the elites/top 1 percent guy will take it all (not hating on em it's survival of the fittest)
Antinatalism
And they call thanos mad
Only one reason. Money, everything is becoming costly day by day. Education is costly, food is costly, medicines are costly, property rates are high, rent is high. Resources are limited.
"By improving health, education and empowering women, population growth comes down.
Lol Do you know how many kids Elon Musk has?
@@kingsentertainment786 5
@@kim_bhai_jong You are not Elon Musk or Asif Ali khan.
Only anti population law can reduce population.
@@shakunrelhan2944 🤦♂️
parent's thinking before:
if one child gets older and earns 'x'
then 5 children will earn '5x'.
so better to have more children.
This type of thinking was also a major problem past few decades when literacy was very low.
It's not problem...bilkul sahi krte g
Well yeah we need to maintain our population nor increase or decrease both will have serious consequences
but they dont think that those 5x will create another 15x, 3 per person suppose and it will be a mess lol
But in reality those 5 children will earn
x/5 each
@@talibquraishi5599 gaanja fooka hai kya
Honestly speaking, being single child in my family is no less than a privilege and also gives me peace.
Wow, I can't relate but that sounds great 😃
Same 😁
Relatable
I can relate to u
Yes u can get all of the wealth by your own😂😝
I am 40. took decision to remain single. Rise in living cost is one of the reason for this.
Old age will be very hard but I feel it's Better decision I made for my life.
why hard? you will not have had any stress from family life. So your cardiac function will actually be better
@@jayantnema9610 what is the use of living for 40 50 years if all you earned is going to be ownerless after your death , money will not remember you , only your kids will remember you
@@BHARATHA-SAMPRAJYA so short answer for you - If you want to become some woman's retirement plan she can cash by divorcing you any day or you ex's passive income. Your choice. You please do whatever you want but keep it to yourself. I am very clear that my free time and my extra money will be spent on animal shelters, and on throwing pizza parties for the homeless and assistive technology for the poor & disabled and if any money or time still remains that will be for my hobbies and my retirement. Women are independent in developed world right? Then let them work 50 hours a week job and earn their own luxury. Because I have not stupid to sign off my freedom or my money to someone who is able bodied and can earn it themself but still plan to take it from me. And I am also not an idiot who thinks mind reading and telling who is right and who is wrong is possible, because it is not. People play put up extremely realistic acts when there is a lifetime of free paycheques on the line lmao. And I don't need to play those games. Never do things that bind you with chains, especiall unbreakable legal chains that can continue draining your cash till the end of your life and also despite your innocence throw you in jail lol. Those who are blinded by lust or attachment and sign themselves into the draft, oops I mean the marriage contract, only god can protect them, because courts wont 🤣
@@jayantnema9610 one example,
Have back pain at times it goes extreme and it will be difficult for me to get up from bed. No one will be there to offer glass of water.
In 2016 I met small accident didn't feel the pain initially by the time I reach home in midnight had to bear heavy back pain.
Tried to call friends .. no one responded..
Nearby hospital no response finally after contacting 2 to 3 hospitals they sent Ambulance.
The common question I face repeatedly is "why are u single?"
Parents and Relatives keep forcing even after telling my decision.
If I become angry then they say
Look at your attitude no respect and value..
But yeh.. when I see people complaining about their life and partner feel I ve taken better decision and cardiac function is fine..😐
@@abandonworld7420 hey dont worry. your body will heal itself. Try some yoga meditation, bit of proper stretchdz and ayurveda / better food. I hope you will find peace and health very soon 🤗🤗❤️❤️
This is exactly where me and my wife are. I pay taxes but get no help from the Govt. to educate my child and our parents health. Who ever does not have ancestral wealth are screwed 🙏
Ikr
Whoever's parents don't have retirement plans r screwed
My friend makes around 20k per month still lives with parents she can't afford to move out
Also education is so expensive
In tier three cities education is terrible
Xtra curricular cost a ton
Those who are not paying income tax... govt is expending money on them only.
Very aptly summarised...one point i would like add is i will try to give my child a good enough education so that she can settle anywhere in the world and not just india.... India is very pro poor and pro ultra rich ..middle class has no importance in india
Lakshadweep has a fertility rate of 1.4
And literacy rate of 92.28%
I think that Female Education and employment is most important. After literacy rate.
They are a population of not even 5000...easy governance..
Population is also low tho , they’re doing good anyway ….let’s hope it stays so
🤣it hardly people , it makes sense when you talk big states , their phenomenon is massive....
🤣🤣 Just look at the fertility of Muslims in Kerala vs Hindus.
The muslim population is half of Hindu population but they have more childs than the Hindu population.
@@BruceWayne-qe7bs is this funny ?
I am the only daughter of my parents and sometimes I wish that it would have been good to have a sibling. But seeing how expensive everything has become these days, I feel glad that my parents chose whats best for everyone.
Nah, sibling should be there and me too as a single child feel lonely sometimes.
I have one old sis
I would love to either have older borbor sis
N I have a sis
She guides me many times
N teaches me many things
Older siblings r amazing
We do have fights tho
But she is alright I guess
Older bros r good too
Younger bros r horrible as parents favor sons more than daughters
@@sushilsharma4202 you should feel about financial status too. Not all people are that much financial stable .
@@sushilsharma4202 i am single child.but not lonely
@@clumsyme179 true
I know a lot of people from my generation (including me) who want to remain childfree. Ofcourse none of them are unemployed, homeless or such. The reason for this shift is mostly overcompetition we tend to face since our childhood due to population explosion.
@Chup Be ok 🗿
Yes, I will never have kids. I don't want another child to go through this highly competitive world of exams and interviews.
If I'm financially capable enough I'd like to have 1 biological kid and the rest through adoption.
Same thoughts!
Same
Have all through adoption. Don't deprive your kid the opportunity of their own blood sibling. That's just sad.
@@siddhant... koi logic hai is baat me?🤣🤣🤣ek kam kar tu kar lena bacche so called blood wala bacche ke liye
Same here buddy 🤝
We women now a days want to/have to have a professional career as a single person's income is insufficient to run a family smoothly. But having multiple kids would definitely be exhausting for a working woman & sometimes women have to sacrifice their professional career also..it creates mental stress & relationship problems between the spouses as well. So its better to raise one child & have a balanced life than having multiple children from every aspect.
I discussed this with my mother, she told me how during her childhood, in the '80s in the cities 3-4 children were the norm.
I am 16 and every single friend of mine has another sibling, two children are the norm.
that's great ...same for me that's true only with my Hindu friends.....My Muslim friends mostly have two or three siblings.
Yup, it has become a norm to have 2 or 1 child
In my class 40% of my classmates have a sibling(including me) and 60% are only child 1-2 is the norm
@Rey I am from West Bengal, that's my reality, yours might be different because of the area you come from...or this might be your typical response by assuming that I am a Bhakt which is not,I just stated what is fact politics aside.
@Rey I think you know the real facts already I don't have to tell you that.😆
Its individual choice.
Poor people are having more than 2 kids whereas mom dad both working n still struggling with single child expenses.
Having kids or no kids totally individual choice.
Don't have kids just to shut family and neighbours mouth.
Have kids if u want to have kids.
Its a big responsibility.
Its very normal nowadays to not get married or to not have kids there is absolutely nothing wrong.
Siblings sometimes don't even get along.
but having more then 2 kids is not a good idea for the county.
Beside my house
There is a man, who have 12 child's 😵
Literally 12
Only god, by god (including everything)
Cricket team
@@withamberarya 😅😂
Bhai mere Grandfather ke 9 bache hai..🤣🤣
Let them have how many childrens they want to ..but I hope they are financially good
@@withamberarya with umpire
people talking about such phenomenon in urban india .
meanwhile me who is from northeast , lives in a semi urban area with almost every family around me having 1 child be like :- we exist .
North East is the most underrated part of India. Love from Kerala❤
Sinha is Bihar, how come northeast?
@@vish2070 I don't think he's northeasterner, he's Bihari
@@snaik9141 ara Bhailog sinha surname northeast main bhi hain . Infact most people in whole of northeast combined have sanskrit names and sankrit surnames or local surnames . Only in states like meghalaya , Mizoram nagaland Arunachal you have local and english names
@CEO of Secularism everyone deserves development
I was surprised to learn the fact that my friend was just a single child, both of his parents where from Kerela and even they where single child themselves.
So, you just wanted to highlight both his parents *where* from Kerela? The same place where ISRO's truck is taken down and asked for 10lac. The reason given to justify it is that the truck took away their job. Or the place which completely depends on it's coast and port but rarely attracts investment?
There is a couple in our neighbourhood who is married for 10 years with no child. People have even stopped asking them to have a child.
@ooo Side effect of gobar 😐
@@adityasharma2935 why do you hate a part of your own country you anti-national? BJP ki bhakti karte karte apne hi desh se nafrat karne lage ho. Look into the mirror what that has made you! Kal BJP bolegi desh se gaddari karo tumlog woh bhi karoge. Chhi! Desh se zyada bada ab tumhe party lagne laga hai
Except peacefuls every one follow family planning in kerala
ignoring the financial aspects, being a single child absolutely sucks (especially when you have ignorant parents)
Facts :(
True
I'm a single child and yeah it gets lonely at times but ig I'm fortunate that my parents aren't ignorant
@@ankitasrivastava3966 then you're lucky because my parents are never really around
@@jain8944 both of them might be having jobs
The parents who have kids without having plans for their future are criminals
Mostly western country problem
@@batuklal wtf 🤣
It's the problem of developing countries.
@@batuklal lol irony it's under developed and developing countries' problem
@@batuklal lol irony it's under developed and developing countries' problem
Absolutely true.Not everyone deserves to have a child.
For the population control its very important for the women to be in control of their fertility and have a say in family planning. Bangladesh is the perfect example they were worse than india in terms of fertility but now they have less fertility rate than india. Again sex education and women empowerment is the key.
@@kim_bhai_jong yeah agree
There should be a balance
But we can face issues like Japan despite being on 4th their GDP neither increasing nor decreasing at the end they will loose their 4th spot other issues no working population as old people more just like China so there should be a balance
@@vedant0771 yeyy india have to steadily increase it's population or maintain it reducing it will be far more serious problem than japan
@@kim_bhai_jong but if we don't, there will be too much of malnourished us... a sick young population with no education abd resources is useless too
I don't think population control bill will do anything except harming better educate women
Mohak himself doing MBA from Stanford ...suggesting his viewers to do MBA through UPGRADE . Pet kya kuch ni krwata😂
😂😂😂shi mai
If you are from a rich family studying abroad you probably won't suggest an underprivileged person to study abroad...what he suggested Is for common masses
But I don't think they hold the same value as the classroom course...
@@sainaresh6830 Yeah + living experience is more than a degree in Stanford
@@HarshThakur-bq9xo they too charge high for an online degree..around ₹1.5 Lakh...
Why spend that much money and time for a gamble of an "upgrade" ??
Here’s what I want to do:
- Have 3 kids (biological +adopted)
- Send them to govt school and not bother about making 90 percentage scorers
- Spend a lot of time on teaching them life skills - most probably teach them self employment / building business (i have my business so at least there’s a base)
- maybe move to a smaller town with better environment and travel to big cities occasionally
- let them play a lot of sport / have hobbies to open their minds
I assume you're still in your late teens or early twenties 😁 once you know what life is, it will lead you not vice versa.. it's a bitter truth of life.. I've learned it a hard way.. 🙏🏻
You are absolutely correct. I second you @bookloverforever.
OMG. You're are my long lost sibling who thinks like me. Trust me, ever since I have a child I started discussing about this with my husband and explaining him why what I think is best. Staying minimal and not carrying extra baggage of self claimed burden is unhealthy mentally, physically and financially. Unfortunately we are surrounded by people who will force you to do what they are doing and push you to the sink as they don't want to see you living a peaceful life. I have taken screenshot of your comment to let husband know that there are other people thinking like us. All the best to you and people like us. ❤️
@@dawateworld Assumption is wrong. :) I'm in 30s, spent 3+ yrs working to get business to a level where it can generate income. About to get married to someone who comes from a small town and has a home there. Didn't let myself get distracted by the 'bitter truths' of life. Everyone learns the hard way.
Dont think about people, live your life the way you want, one life period.
Is there anyone who is thinking about having no child after marriage!? OR it's me only!
Ek age hone bad aapko apne faisle pr pachtana n pade yah dhayan rakhna
Relatable 😂, I can never dude, the amount of responsibility a person with a child has is too much, hats off to all the parents out there
Same... I don't like children.
@@coolaffection9701 ghanta kuch pachtava nahi hoga, bachhe kisse chahiye, hume toh nahi
@@kim_bhai_jong see there are few I'm not alone!
Even i would like to have a single child or maybe stay childless. There's nothing wrong with it, as i know I won't be able to handle children. Before having a child or two make sure you are mentally, physically and financially prepared for it.
My wife said the same thing. Recently we had a child and now she wants more. Thing is you won't know until you have a child.
@@nebber1234 this depends on person to person, some people know what they want or not from the beginning while some actually don't know.
@@Manaahh you will always say this until you will have a child or dont however soon your genes will bring an urge to bring forward an offspring.
Millions of years of evolution is not going to change over what a few recent generations have come to believe.
I am all for women's right to choice of procreation - its never about that.
@@nebber1234 i have a child. I intend to stop with 1. No more. Pregnancy and childbirth were traumatic. My husband and other family memners would go to other rooms and sleep while i would stay awake at night cradling the baby. Husband kept accusing me of not being sufficiently caringbof the baby. I was doing my best and baby was healthy. A lot of men in this country are selfish, insensitive and lacking on kindness.
Always listen to your inner voice. When you are sitting alone in a room with a shrieking infant at 3 am or struggling to feed/bathe/ potty train your naughty baby, no man will come to help you. The majority burden of house work and childcare will fall on you.
One advise to Govt.
Make Education Companies Non-Profiting
There wouldn't be any education company if govt had not screwed education.
Unacademy net worth increased by 2 billion dollars in year. 😀
@@batuklal Byjus $10b.
@@Flash-yi9tt so what?
Byju's is the biggest scam education company in India.
I am 29 , married 1 year ago and both me and my wife don't want kids. We want to live on our terms, giving us the best life possible. Having a child restricts all of your freedom heavily and degrades your mental happiness.
Wish more people were like you❤
Not everything is about economy or expenses . If you include the loss of nature and extinction of species across the world , air pollution , plastic pollution . Cost of buying a house like 4 cr in mumbai for just 800 or 900 sq ft . Nearly all water sources are becoming gutter and polluted not to mention air . We shouldn't worry about economy but air , water and soil as this is the only treasure a country has.
Areeh bhai ye chootia hai khaali government kie burai
Aage chalke robotics kaa jaamana aega manpower need apne aap km ho jaegi aur globalisation bhi option hai obviously african countries me vaise hie population jyada hai toh vaha se bhi hm aage chalke manpower need fulfil kr sakte hai
2 child policy should be implemented all around India as soon as possible
@CEO of Secularism exactly bruh .
@CEO of Secularism loll then what about job ? If he'll relocate to another country doss he'll get same salary in that job ?
Speak your talkies with some sense
Absolutely true
Exactly!
I m very happy that his Subscriber has grown as he deserved it...
don't worry he is being promoted by the left eco system..he will just do fine...
@@tstanmoysamanta he is a lot different than dhruv tatti
@@somerandomdude4546 Dhrub tatti promoting him....Zero difference....Dhrub maintaion him in his videos and ask people to watch Mohak's channel.
@@tstanmoysamanta but their content is different, dhruv tatti targets BJP where even it's not even required, on the other hand he sticks to the topic
@@tstanmoysamanta that's good, people should move away from tatti
So education in India is becoming more like healthcare system in the US.
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
@@mchannel1365 over population is not a shame. It's just a concern.
well healthcare is also pretty expensive in india
My parents were married in 2003 and decided to only have a single child and I never felt the need of a sibling. Friends and my own company is always enough to be honest.
Well, this video talked about the issues with less population from a national perspective...but in today's world of climate change, it's really good to have lesser humans being born. Man, this situation is complicated.....
Nah, bruh old people will be huge and they will be wiped out before young people overtake them. So we will have to have kids inorder for a functioning country.
@@sushilsharma4202 Governments might continue to encourage more population but all that will be for nothing when mother nature hits back. Don't get me wrong, I'm not an environmentalist but overpopulation is a huge problem and with policies like these it will only worsen more. As i said, the situation is way too complicated than it sounds.
@Genghis Khan the sad truth 😔😔😕
My suggestion is to sterilize all the humans because humans are the virus for this planet and for other living things and humans converted this heaven looking planet to hell
@@armansingh7761 that would include you too
Education is the key for all these Problems
If that's improved then everything will be good
Education and morals 😊
@Jio Boy maine bhi vahi bola
@CEO of Secularism best our government can do Is send people abroad with government incentives to decrease unemployment
@CEO of Secularism these guys think morals will give them jobs. Also if you think education is important for jobs before passing 12 was enough to get a decent job, after that a bachlers degree was enough, and now a bachlers degree from a tier one university or masters/phd is enough. If everyone gets educated then the standard just increases.
Kya mazzak hai ...🤣🤣🤣
Mohak is contradicting himself in the video, he discussed about increased cost of education at the same time advertising upGrad which is damn expensive.
Sabka agenda hota hai ma'am
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
Roti ke liye karna padta hai.
True... And most of the facts were straight up foolish...
1 child is very good for society
....
Have we forgot about something called overpopulation???
If we are gonna have 3 children... And the world is gonna go on how it is .... Then the basic human resources will not meet the needs... ( Mainly coal and fossil fuels are expected to vanish till year 2070 )
And the solar energy which we get from the sun is able to support only 1 billion of us at a time.... We are using the reserved things to support the human race... But they will run out...
7:22 I like how the graph looks like a chinese and an Indian temple
😂same
When i am getting married I want to have only one kid . Whatever the kid was ... girl or boy
Intellectually Colonised.
@@kingsentertainment786 Slave of capitalist.
Brother have atleast 2 child , u don't know how much it will impact u in future . Ageing will be biggest problem in india .
@@नयनगिरडकर yess
It's his choice,will all of you give resources to his "2" child:/
If you can't give your best never become a parent, you are just making a life and forcing them to live in shitty situations 💀
I not going to marry neither going to have any kids. Don't want to share my hard-earned money with anyone except my parents. I am kind of an introverted and individualistic person. So, I don't feel lonely even though I have fewer friends.
I think if you are earning money and don't care about marriage then it is not that necessary to have kids.
Lol same
No wonder India is doomed. Civil war is upcoming be prepared
@@sushilsharma4202
lol, how come me or some random Indians not having any child going to led civil war??
We have a lot of people and fewer resources and will soon defeat china in terms of population. It would be better if some of us will not have any kids!
@@Akira-dm3tj Lol, every decision a person from a country takes affects the whole country. This western individualism is what will destroy India from within. Hindus already have a very low birth rate and if not overcome soon taliban like situations will be seen here. I request you to have kids please🙏. This isn't a conspiracy or anything just a genuine worry.
Generations die pretty quickly so it won't be better for our country to have less youth. And it's not just you many people have started this school of thought which will impact our country. For the sake of India please do the needful
@@sushilsharma4202
I understand but I am sorry I just can't!
Marriage and kids mean huge responsibility also you need a bit more money. I have to Take care of my parents and also my younger brother. marrying and having kids will add more burden on me. I have some huge dreams which I think is difficult to pursue as it demands more time and funds. Marrying will make it impossible to achieve.
So you know it's difficult.
If parents wants more than one kid and they can afford it , then they should adopt a child .
Blood purity ka kya
@X Wouldn't it be a good if we ran out of homeless children?
@X no , it shouldn't be the rule . I am just saying 1 kid is enough but if some couple wants more than a kid then adoption is a better choice . And adoption process should be made easy .
Should is a strong word
@@bodhisattwamondal4969 the child should be from family lineage
I'm also a single child, I don't have any siblings, so I'm loved undividedly ❤️😁
Same with me!
I wish this change in mindset would have happened a few decades ago,we would be way far ahead now 😟
thank socialism for that one.
Are you serious we would end up with more old people see Japan south Korea
Why do you think India's GDP is 2.6 trillion if less children's then less growth see Japan and SK growth despite top notch tech
@@vedant0771 they are richer too
@@gauthampai896 Japan is losing its economy bro
@@vedant0771 japan's case is different than the western ones. japan is extremely racist and thus have strict immigration laws.
Yeah I have noticed this trend..my friends parents all have 2 children..this is even true for my neighbours and family...my generation either have a sister or brother...and the married ones have only one child and seems to have stop having anymore....I think women's education played a more crucial role than economic reason..
I guess it isn't a good thing cuz it will impact the country in the future. People should atleast have 2 kids to be above replacement rate.
@@sushilsharma4202 not at all how many kids should be choice
@@sushilsharma4202 if you have less kids then you will save more money
I am 26 and will not have any child
Never thought there would be a day
Where anyone have to make a video how to incentives couples to have more than a child 🙂
yeah just 10 years before we were talking about population explosion
Lol japan runs an advertisement on TV to promote the population growth lol, Sweden just increase the cost of condoms, 1 condom 1500 ka lol
India's fertility rate is declining much faster than anybody anticipated.
@@vikaskardam8052 because their population growth is negetive unlike ours and specially where only 2 states bear 50 crore and also those 2 states have the higest fertility rate in india ,one has 3.3 and other 2.7. So India's problem is far from over
World is ever changing: bhagvat geeta
Not only kids education, we need to take care of our healthcare expenses post retirement ...
Almost all Indians:- We'll have only 1 child
Meanwhile People from UP/Bihar:- We don't do that here
up bihar have less educated class than the other comparable populated states thats expected. nothing to do with inherent biharines or upinesss of them
I m bihari n I am.the only child in my family 👪
Almost all indians
People from up bihar
Sahi sabko generalize karde .
@@abcgames4454 Most of them don't have 1 child . It's data , it doesn't lie
@@rdzik2367 Come to Delhi , Mumbai and other metropolitan cities . You will get the idea🙂
I wanted to have 3 4 kids . I still do. I think I’ll give birth to 2 and adopt 2.I’ve grown up in a joint family with lots of cousins and I know the importance of living with them. I’m only 21 and if I’m unable to provide financially I’d too consider having one kid or even no kid.
@Jio Boy how many indians are earning million rupees ? 🤣
@Jio Boy 3 is also too much. Not more than 2 kids
@UCeXJ_iXxoY9z2Ow2G5YUlXw you are saying this cuz you're a 'slim lol
Yeah but the cost of 4 children is a lottt. You have to work hours for the children and you won't even get free time..
@Jio Boy what do you mean allowed?
I'm thinking about no children till I'm 35. Then I'll see if I afford one. If yes, then if I want one. If yes, then I'll simply adopt one. Anyone with me?
Stay child free stay happy
Agreed after 35 you may be saved from mid life crisis too if you have child
That's too late for a girl,biologically speaking,because labour complications,child anomalys,breast cance etc risk is increased.thats a risky approach.
@@Abhishekyadav-gf9dx I'm talking about adoption bro, and not going through all those complications at all...
@@alisakhan7853 emotional attachment to the adopted baby ,and your partner's aggreement is still a issue,but nonetheless I hope everything turns out to be perfect.
Having a little sister is a blessing...best family combination...Bhai dooj is coming and this year she is gonna get a laptop!
So sweet
3:12 Showing this to my parents and choosing travel over kids.
I am planning to have 0 child. Our environment policies, waste management and so many other things need immediate change for the new kids. Otherwise our planet will not be able to sustain us no matter how much empowerment we give to women.
To me, its not ethical to bring a child in considering the future of our planet.
2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be tougher to handle , indian economy will fall suddenly and lots of people will become poor , Companies will shut their production . I am studying Population economics , I know how it can affect your life .
When there would be no resources, no jungles, no clean air, then what the heck this so called 'young workforce' would do with GDP ? You totally ignored the environment factor brother (wasn't expecting). This earth can't even bear one extra human being seriously.
@Genghis Khan lol
I'm not a single child and have a sibling and there is a calculated spent by our parents as compared to those who have single child but I think this has made a realization of being independent n to excel more rather than to rely on our parents money .
Edit : I feel glad that others too r interested at my thoughts 🥰🥰
Yes 👍
I personally as a single child do agree that we depend on our parents but we tend to become more mature and responsible at a young age because from childhood we know that our parents only have us in the future so single child have to face a lot of burden on becoming success because we have to take care of our parents also
u will overturn your statements in the future when our sibling you will quarrel for your parents properties
70% भारत गाँव में बसता है सर, जहाँ आज भी लोग बहुत बच्चे पैदा करते हैं।
खासकर यूपी, एमपी, बिहार जैसे नॉर्थन राज्यों में।
@XY chromosome हाँ वही, वक़्त और बिकास से साथ शहरों की परसेंटेज़ में बढ़ोत्तरी हुई है।
Edit: 66% परसैंट दिखा रहा है गूगल पर।
@@Top-notch_beauty Statistics don't lie .
@@mr.grignardreagent892 बोसड़के 137 करोड़ जनसंख्या है लेकिन हम 130 करोड़ बोलते है ना?
Round-Off करके बोल रहा हूँ, बीसी एक्यूरेसी चाहिए इन्हें। बोसड़कों मैथ का इग्ज़ाम चल रहा है यहाँ..
@@Top-notch_beauty I think 140 crore to ho gyi hai🤔😌 am I right ?
@@Top-notch_beauty Putting animes and then abusing doesn't make you look cool . Grow up
Next video: Why young Indian men are planning to stay unmarried 🤣🤣
honestly bahut responsibilities aate hain
Koi bhi jyada responsibilities nhi lena chahega
What is the need to marry ? Be alone, make some money, retire by 40. Spend the rest of your life binge watching Netflix. Wooho! That's much better than getting married, having kids, funding their education, impressing in laws, attending functions at sasuraal, and then working till 60 to give your kids great education and then die at 70.
@@Calcuttadiaries717 umm.... divorce rates in india are one of the lowest in the world
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Whereas in domestic violence cases our country is quite in the top spots ... comparatively.
Actually none of the young generation wants all thse hassles of marriage and stuff.
Who wants to leave their parents and their jobs and everything..and go to someone's house..live the way they want us too..do what they want us too...and all of that shit.
Better to take care of your parents then get involved in this bs.
@@Calcuttadiaries717 after being suppressed for a long time and tagged as the weaker sex , obviously the laws would be in favour of them . And getting married is a burden for women too , we have to leave our homes , some families wont even allow them to work , burdened with children, it goes on.
@@malavikaharikuttan6772 yeah!and now dowri harassment too😐.
Things really have changed now..Kids have become very demanding. Apart from that school feel has gone rocket high as its a new business. They want to go essel world, wants to travel, have bike in 10th,12th and car in job. I am sure daughters will have other demands too.
Chalo mere introver hone ka kuch to fayda hua meri family ko 😅
Smartphone
**A fully Customised Gaming Room and Setup
Bacche essel world to jane ki iccha rakhenge hi na...Badi normal si baat hai ye to.
2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be biggest problem in future . People underestimate it .
Some couples r thinking of having only one child and me just wondering why we even need child in our lives....
Simple reason is it's difficult to manage more than 1 or 2 kids in a nuclear family
No! To raise a child well, one is enough
Joint families in India are exploitative
@@Cometoterm how are joint family exploitative?
2 child hi ache
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
UP , Rajasthan and bihar be like:- Are aise simple simple thodi acha lagta hai yaar🤣🔥
No intent to hurt feelings*****
rajasthan cannot be included in that list i guess
UP and Bihar are States that are taking India backward instead of taking forward
Saare casteist aur dharm ke thekedar hi yaha pe minister bante hai
@@anshgupta9279 UP is doing great , they are one of the 5 States which contribute 50% of indian gdp combined
@@jagnathreddy3544 they are population of 22 crore
Maharashtra with 11 crore contributes most
In reality, per capita of up and bihar is worst.. Also education, health, infrastructure everything is not good in these 2 states
@@anshgupta9279 where do you live?
India facing problems like unemployment,inflating education cost,covid
Meanwhile Indian Government:should we ban vpn?
India is known for scams at international level
They use vpn and go unfindable
You want it to watch 18+ content thats it
Stop opposing everything govt do
Don't
This is ridiculous really!
One word for your above all problems overpopulation.
People will come up with other vpns , stupid idea really
@@kaanramatt37 yes we should kill ourselves because some of us are doing it , rip logic
Being a single child is beneficial for me. Even if my parents were not doing great financially , but still they manage to give me a great childhood and also government policies for single girl child was beneficial during my school time . 👍
I remember when a rural area lady asked my mom that "Aapki to ek he beti hai koi beta Nhi hai? " and she replied " Yhi meri beti hai or yhi mera beta hai. "
Are u happy being a single child? I wana Kno coz m confused now a days. I have a son only i don't want more children but sometimes I feel will he be alone in future?
@@prachisawhney1105 I'm happy enough to be a single child at first I thought it was good to have a sibling but as I grew up, I feel more comfortable being alone . The downside of being a single child is parents become overprotective and I have zero freedom to make any choices .
@@hophhie4595 thanku so much dear..these things helping me to stay at my decision the only reason I smtimes want another child to accompany my first child no other reason
@@hophhie4595 but again your parents now had stop thinking about earning more properties like flat and bunglows . Because you are single girl child.
Yahi agar single boy child hota na to bahut property karte parents log
@@hydramortal4212what kind of a crazy point is that????
My previous boss has only one daughter and he buys tons of property and i believe she'll be the only heir to his property
There's absolutely nothing wrong in having a single child , education in India is unaffordable and also pretty crap
Yes 2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be tougher to handle , indian economy will fall suddenly and lots of people will become poor , Companies will shut their production . I am studying Population economics , I know how it can affect your life .
@@नयनगिरडकर it's personal choice , in India education isn't as easy for everyone to get
@@karankapoor2701 education is depend on skills not on degree , their is new trend going of home schooling .
@@नयनगिरडकर Home schooling also charges you a lot. And some say that's useless too. You can't be homeschooled to become a doctor, can you? Higher education is getting unaffordable
@@kdjoshi726 haha yes you are right , My dad has 4 children he can afford it , but my uncle who has 2 children can't afford , depends how much financially stable you are. .
8:45 India is considering to ban ed-tech platforms like china
Meanwhile *Byju and Unacademy* :- Business khatre me hai
Ye kab hua?
Really where is the source
What...really ?🤯...i am sure that u may have got any wrong information
India should not do it. Its not the solution. Real solution is to have a lot more options for higher education. Also getting more ways of getting admission other than JEE/NEET
I will be very very much happy to see banning whitehat junior
1. Education
2. Low Income
3. High Expenses
Easy 3 points that applies to most Asia including India
Marrying will be a distant thought in future as the scenario worsens. Single childs would have to take care of parents and themselves and as the income is also reducing problems like stated above will be reality.
I'm 28, I don't want kids. At all. Period. CF is the way to go for this country and economy.
CF?
@@arunshankars8398 childfree
This one child phenomena is actually bad for society because problem of competition remains same... A single child born in india can never have a same amount of resources compared to a child born in America ,Scandinavia or west europe because this phenomenon of raising single child started first in these developed countries so they will get benifits first too
We don't need more people dude, it's hard to find seats in public transports this days..
People must not have more than 3 child. 2 child policy won't work
@@randomfighter2249 India is Democratic country No policy can dictate how much children to have
@@sumeersamarat706 yes and no. If you create a policy that restricts people to.have only 1 child like China had back few years ago it would cause gender disparity and it's same with 2 child policy. The logical solution is 3 child policy
@@sumeersamarat706 yes it's a democratic country but if you want to control population in a correct way 3 child policy is best
"The greatest devotion you can do today is not to have a baby". it really holds true. our world is full of people and we are overburdening it with more people so it's high time that we should appreciate the real heroes who are choosing to be child-free.
Especially the women or couples who don't want to have a kid or not want to be a parent should be awarded accepted and appreciated.
Having a single child is a nice decision and thank you to all the people who are choosing this.
by choosing this you are not only giving a great life and attention to the kid but also a comfortable life to you.
I request all the new generations of future parents to opt for one child or no child. we need to do this for our planet. and this is the greatest devotion you can give to the planet and to ourselves as human beings.
We took this decision of only one daughter 20 years ago. You need courage as well as education to take such decisions. Quantity over quality is increasing. Populations is the main reason now for all the issues we are facing.
Third world war will reduce the population by straight 90% and world wiill live in peace.
Almost 50% Indians ki mentality ye hai ki first baby girl hai to dusre baby ki jaroorat hai aur first baby boy hai to jaroorat nhi hai...Just like competitive exam attempts😒🤦🏻♀️
Lmao 🤣...But that's not the case with most Urban raised resident's especially Gen Y and Gen Z folks
Me, who is a single child, watches this in amazement!
Good work man!
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
Are u an only child mam??
2 child policy should be adopted in northern states..
No as india is a sexist society
People will abort the woman and only prefer men
That creates sex ratio gap
Unko one ki zarurat hey
Only up has more than 2.2 in North. And bihar and jharkhand are moryhies state
I remember sadguru saying "NOT HAVING KIDS IS THE GREATEST SERVICE YOU CAN DO" people have different choices and I respect them but I ain't definitely not having kids I would rather adopt one
If you want to adopt then adopt stray animals instead of humans
@@armansingh7761 and that's also a great choice but if I can improve life of an already born human baby I would do that...
Very true.
In today's times when there are not enough resources for people to survive, it's not advisable to bring more humans. Moreover, if its something that you strongly will, might as well not have kids. It's definitely good.
Do not blindly listen to anyone. Having kids is a duty and responsibility towards society. You have to think about the future as well.
@@devolishash3946 I know what are my responsibilities towards society and having kids is not a duty its a personal choice people act like if I won't be having kids it will effect world's almost 8 billion population
Most are having single child now a days
And since fertility rate is declined below 2
It's a good news for India
UP BIHAR 5-6 CHILD IN 70% PEOPLE
That's why our culture respects parents always ready to sacrifice
Thank you Moms n dads ❤️❤️
I believe the fertility question may be answered by environmental degradation. Higher pollution is associated with PCOS, or PCOS like symptoms, which is impacting women and individuals across economic classes as well as both rural and urban. Which is why India needs to deal with the looming climate crisis, just like all other countries have to, starting IMMEDIATELY.
Here they're not talking about the actual health. They're talking about fertility rate
fertility rate is the ratio between the number of live births in a year and the whole female population of childbearing age (average number of women between 15 and 50 years of age over the year)
Does women with pcos and pcod are mostly infertile??
@@praveerrajput207 no that is a myth
Pcos affects fertility big time and also women with pcos will be diabetic at 40 years of age.. so if u plan pregnancies if u have pcos .. Pl plan at the earliest... no point being sick ..
I am also planning to have single child. I have seen the struggles my father and grandfather had to go to feed a joint family. Its no longer sustainable to have more than 1 child.
2 child is always best , otherwise ageing will be tougher to handle , indian economy will fall suddenly and lots of people will become poor , Companies will shut their production . I am studying Population economics , I know how it can affect your life .
@@नयनगिरडकर yup 2 child on average is best for economy.
France has incentivised parenting and they have 1.8 fertility
@@नयनगिरडकर
it's good but you can not force anyone to have two children as you
Are not going to pay their bills. If a person is voluntarily choosing not to have any kids or only have one kid then it's should be respected. I see no problem with that.
@@Akira-dm3tj What about can't pay the bills , I am telling the facts of population economics . If all started producing 1 child than indian will soon become old . And ageing population is always useless for any country you think. You said if not having any kids , who will take care of u in old age , who will pay bills of you , old age home . Honestly if u put this statement infront of economist , they will declare you selfish resource for future (Term in economics ). The best think economist will advise you is plz if you don't want to have kids , plz don't get married . It's bitter but it's the truth of india .🙏
@@नयनगिरडकर
see I am not saying anything about one child and its economic impact and blah blah blah. Also, don't make me a fool there is no term like a "selfish resource of future" in economics. I have a commerce background so I know what are basic economic terms and concepts and I also know If Everyone started having one child then it can be problematic but the thing is having kids is not only about being financially capable but being mentally prepared is important too.
You can't raise two children only by giving birth and arranging sufficient money. You have to take care of their health, education, career etc. There are a lot of responsibilities involved and to take those you have to be mentally prepared and strong.
If a person is not mentally prepared for taking the responsibilities of more than one child then he would only choose to have one kid so, you can't expect or force him to have two children.
Like you said that "if you don't have any kids then who is going to take care of you in your old age?"
Does having kids grantees that your kid is not going to leave you ??
I see a lot of parents, especially from educated communities where their kids have sidelined them even though their parents had spent their whole life in raising them.
And by the way, if I and my life partner have no problem with not having kids then what's your problem? Are you going to take responsibility??
Me and my older brother suddenly started talking about this topic without anything it was so sudden and we both say we don't want to marry nor want to have child's even my cousins say same things . even listening whole video I still don't want to do any one Because it seem so hard 😪 .
It's fine and don't let any man tell you it's childish. It's perfect/ Less human beings= less pollution. Birthing or raising a child(adopted/biological) is scary esp for women. Preg takes a heck of a toll on your body .
Parents will stop after the first child only if the first child is a boy. If the first is a girl then they are more likely to try for a second.
I am a single girl child to my parents. They took the decision of not having anymore kids by choice. My mom and dad wanted a girl child in particular
@@SchoolOfUnlearning3 My parents wanted a boy so they went for a second and she would have tried for a third as well if the doctor didn't tell her that there would be health risks due to her age. My mother always says that the first born being a girl brings bad luck to the family.
@@Rinetto Girl or boy ...both are equal. There is no logic or relation between luck and gender....hope you don't have such preferences as your mom.
@@SchoolOfUnlearning3 I don't have any preference, I'm not even going to get married or have any kids.
Don't be anti BJP
JUST criticize wrong decision whether it is congress or BJP
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
Being third child in barely middle class family I know the stress on my parents !! Although I don't see Strain on econmy in 2050 because most of the labour work will be managed by AI and robots 💯It's too early to say that India will face aging problem like china in my opinion‼️
In future automation will take place because of it alot of jobs will be lost so having less population will be a good thing
@@yuzie6270 automation won't take all jobs .
As economy grows Job demands grow India will have high job demand in future only advantage india has since china will lose their manufacturing Dominance
Automation will barely affect India in this century
People don't have effective 4G let alone Robots who need 6G internet every second
Who tf is spreading this misinfo about automation, lol. India already would be under a civil war by then. Stop living in a utopia. USA is going to collapse soon, so this agenda propogated by them about automation is utter false, lol
@@sushilsharma4202 True
India would be under a Civil War by then but that's just one side of the coin
If someone manages to stop it then India might have experienced the Boost in Economic growth like in China
And here's me who doesn't even want to marry. No marriage, no pressure for having kids. No pain in life.
Are you from the north east ?
Man- One child
Woman - 2 child
Legend - Single hei thik hey 😂
😂😂
Ultra legend - childfree
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
I was talking to my mother about this topic and she said:
"Ab jo bado ne raita failaya hai wo bachche samet rahe hai"
😅😂
The best solution is making the education system less costly and we should make the education stress less
Indian education system NEEDS a change right now
Lol single child? i dont even wanna married, stay single and life happily apart from that family chaos (i can say this statement so easily cuz i do have one brother just 1.5 years younger than me having a same mind set, so we can life together and explore this world eventually 😄)
Mtlb poori life Anime and Chill?😳🤝
Yeah I use to say this when I was 13.
@@Shusspace I am 20 and still on this path
@@prakashhhh no lol, there were far more things than that
🌈??
For real tho , below poverty line people shouldn’t be allowed more than one kid Coz they can’t feed themselves why bring in another child and have him starve and suffer.
That sounds harsh but necessary .
That's upto them bruhh... Govt should only educate shouldn't enforce this... It's their private life, govt Shouldn't interfere
@@saumyasinha8447 yeah it's draconian
@@bhuvaneshs.k638 What about those poor children who are suffering in poverty because of their selfish parents who brought them in this world without their consent?
@@Abaddon-u1i no parent want bring their kids into a bad world. Govt can always guide and educate advantages of having less kids and can create some incentives. Ultimately it's none of Govt's business to interfere in their personal life
People like Aman Dhattarwal and Physics Wallah on YT are doing great work to make quality education accessible to all. Many more people should emerge like them and hopefully one day I'll be able to contribute to them too.
Absolutely correct... Mindflayer.... I truly agree with what you said... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💯💯💯
Even in Govt. Schools
Teachers are being made to learn Different skills like my mother literally a year before didn't knew how to turn on a Laptop
But due to online classes she started learning and now She Makes Video that goes onto Govt. Platform Diksha
But still The Children are not payinguch attention not because Of lack of Smartphone (Just before Lockdown almost 94% Students Of my Mothers Block Registered their WhatsApp Numbers and were added to Groups but there is lac of Intrest of students)
But only rich can watch those online lectures.. most of rural india doesn't have access to gadgets and enough data to watch 10 hr long lectures...also they do not provide any certificate so anyways people will have to do a course for the sake of certificate...
@@AryanKohli-hkscx My school has poor children. Whose father are petty shopkeepers even they watch Physics wallah. We are In 11th. Poverty is not an excuse for spreading disgust
@@thetrickster9885 how am i spreading disgust? .. also i wont call you "poor" as your family is capable of sending you to schools which is most probably private school...that's middle class... i am talking about those who have no source of income and are homeless..
Making population law for entire country is a bit tricky, every state have different population density varying on a large scale!
Also minorities might become vulnerable
@Ani linguistic, religious minorities might get extinct if they're forced to have one child
@Jio Boy no two child policy is better or population will grow
Having babies is difficult. I have a son and he made our life hell. My expenses have tripled since his birth.
Please don't blame your kid. The inflation i's not his fault.
@@arunshankars8398 to be honest i blame me and my wife. We had no family planning but now we are done. Not having anymore babies.
@@arunshankars8398 let people be honest about parenthood experiences, not everything is rainbows and butterflies, face the reality.
Are you a muslim?
I hope you do not abuse your son.
I’m a proud single child
I don't know why but I find single childs dont have social skills, they are too soft and don't have a thick skin. No offence but I just can't stand them.
Yup you have to pay for 2 parents healthcare.
I have one brother so it will be divided
Same 👍
I have a amazing life having everything by my parents wouldn't have mind a bro or sis but completely happy with being a single child
Anyone more than 4 children disgusts me
@aditya singh yup even me
Over population = Extinction
Soon 1.5 Billion = Global Shame
To all the people commenting here supporting being a single child is a privilege, I have a question. "How do you know without even having the experience of having a sibling?".
My whole khandan of this generation is single child..me and my all cousins everyone is single child and all of us have great bond with each other
In My khandan every one have 2 child we have a very good bond with each other 🌚
@@shivdeepsalaria1137 great👍
Mera half khandan have 2 child and half khandan have 1 child and blv me those who are more richest they have one .Medium rich have 2 child.
Mera half khandan have 2 child and half khandan have 1 child and blv me those who are richest they have one .Medium one have 2 .
@@shradhanjali2681 it's so obvious because you save more when you have 1
This is so relatable my great grandfather had 8 kids. My grandfather had 4 kids and I am the only child to my parents