My soulmate and best friend did. Its difficult because it was very hard finding it out. The mom isnt telling me anything, wolnt let me see the body, funeral, more details on the suicde. Its hard because she didnt have a good relationship with her mom. She moced out at age 16. She only talked to her a handful of times in the 3 years we were togather. Dad left at early age. I was her family's and when we talked about death she wanted me in charge we even went to hospital and made sure i was the emergency contact. Never got a call, they never even told me about passing. I work in healthcare so i was able to get confirmation. But i need to say my goodbye where she is otherwise it will be even more horrible then it is. Its a permanent pain thats clear. But i need to move forward for both of us so i need that for me
I lost my daughter (13) to suicide five months ago. The reality of it is slowly starting to set in, but as we enter the holiday season, a big part of me still doesn't want to believe that she won't be here to celebrate with us. As part of my self-therapy, I've begun creating short videos chronicling my journey with grief. Just like the content of this channel, my goal is spread this powerful message and offer support (or at least a bit of understanding) to other bereaved people, especially parents. Sending strength and love to you all.
I am currently losing my brother to this. We all knew about his issues. I feel like I could have called him out more on his ideas. I feel like I should have made more time for him on a daily basis. I feel like just a little bit more love and attention could have helped. Everyone tells me I did everything I could to help him. But my mind keeps racing. He's on life support. I can't wait to turn it off and have him be free.
I feel the same,my partner took her life 17/03/24 after trying a couple of times. I feel i should have done more to pull her out of that dark place,this is not easy. All the best to you and your family❤
For the peaple who lost a loved ❤one just try to think of all the good times and happy days you had together with them❤ try to stay strong I know its so hard I prey 🙏we all find a way to move on thank you for reading this keep safe all❤
Thanks for such sympathetic thoughts. As you may know, early on after a devastating loss, it can be very very challenging for a person to try to just think of all the good times. It is OK to feel weak, to need to lean on others who care, to give yourself a lot of slack, and not judge yourself when you feel like you are losing it. That's the message we want you all to receive. Blessings.
I've accepted that my son is dead. But it was under suspicious circumstances, there's an attorney with a watch dog organization doing an investigation, a separate wrongful death attorney who's taken on his case on full contingency, and I don't know whether my son died by suicide, which is absolutely debilitating, or whether he was murdered. Unfortunately, the thought that he was murdered is easier than the thought that he killed himself. The investigation is taking so agonizingly long, and I feel like this is a full stop in dealing with my grief. So what am I supposed to do in this case? Can I still move through this toward healing the loss? Ive accepted that he's gone. I just dont know for sure if he did it, or someone else.
Oh this makes the loss even harder. We are so sorry. I hope you are getting some help. A good counselor should be able to help you navigate this and walk alongside you. Thank you for sharing. Again, we are so sorry.
I know he's gone, I know he took his life, I saw his body. I still don't seem to be able to accept it emotionally. I even know what he struggled with. My mind understands, my emotions are being intransigent.
i’m going through the exact same thing… despite having physical evidence that this is real life, my brain finds every way to ignore it and pretend that i am in a twilight zone or something 😢i hope you can begin to heal soon
Let yourself be where you are. Don't judge yourself harshly. Try not to have unrealistic expectations of yourself and others. There is no "getting over" loss, like the flu. But we can gradually heal by attending to our loss properly. We call that "getting through" the grief. Most people are able to heal on their own. But, following the loss of a loved one to suicide, we often will need the guidance of a professional who is trained and experienced in grief counseling and related therapies. I hope you can find a good one to help you properly cope, accept your loss, explore and address your painful thoughts and feelings, and understand more about how a grief journey can be navigated. You may get a lot out of viewing some of our video series. You'll find that our channel is not monetized (there shouldn't be any commercials) and has a lot of content that may help you make it through this very difficult chapter of life. Blessings to you.
My soulmate and best friend did. Its difficult because it was very hard finding it out. The mom isnt telling me anything, wolnt let me see the body, funeral, more details on the suicde. Its hard because she didnt have a good relationship with her mom. She moced out at age 16. She only talked to her a handful of times in the 3 years we were togather. Dad left at early age. I was her family's and when we talked about death she wanted me in charge we even went to hospital and made sure i was the emergency contact. Never got a call, they never even told me about passing. I work in healthcare so i was able to get confirmation. But i need to say my goodbye where she is otherwise it will be even more horrible then it is. Its a permanent pain thats clear. But i need to move forward for both of us so i need that for me
I just lost my husband Saturday. I just found this. Thank you for making these videos
I lost my daughter (13) to suicide five months ago. The reality of it is slowly starting to set in, but as we enter the holiday season, a big part of me still doesn't want to believe that she won't be here to celebrate with us.
As part of my self-therapy, I've begun creating short videos chronicling my journey with grief. Just like the content of this channel, my goal is spread this powerful message and offer support (or at least a bit of understanding) to other bereaved people, especially parents.
Sending strength and love to you all.
My heart goes out to you - what a terribly sad and hard loss you’ve suffered. Sending you deepest sympathy xx
I am currently losing my brother to this. We all knew about his issues. I feel like I could have called him out more on his ideas. I feel like I should have made more time for him on a daily basis. I feel like just a little bit more love and attention could have helped.
Everyone tells me I did everything I could to help him. But my mind keeps racing.
He's on life support. I can't wait to turn it off and have him be free.
I feel the same,my partner took her life 17/03/24 after trying a couple of times. I feel i should have done more to pull her out of that dark place,this is not easy. All the best to you and your family❤
For the peaple who lost a loved ❤one just try to think of all the good times and happy days you had together with them❤ try to stay strong I know its so hard I prey 🙏we all find a way to move on thank you for reading this keep safe all❤
Thanks for such sympathetic thoughts. As you may know, early on after a devastating loss, it can be very very challenging for a person to try to just think of all the good times. It is OK to feel weak, to need to lean on others who care, to give yourself a lot of slack, and not judge yourself when you feel like you are losing it. That's the message we want you all to receive. Blessings.
No.. feel your pain! And every feeling.
True,I just feel this huge loss,when you think of the good times then you wonder even more as to why she did it
Yes I know what you mean its so hard and sorry for your loss hope you try and find a way its just pain all the time ❤
I've accepted that my son is dead. But it was under suspicious circumstances, there's an attorney with a watch dog organization doing an investigation, a separate wrongful death attorney who's taken on his case on full contingency, and I don't know whether my son died by suicide, which is absolutely debilitating, or whether he was murdered. Unfortunately, the thought that he was murdered is easier than the thought that he killed himself. The investigation is taking so agonizingly long, and I feel like this is a full stop in dealing with my grief. So what am I supposed to do in this case? Can I still move through this toward healing the loss? Ive accepted that he's gone. I just dont know for sure if he did it, or someone else.
Oh this makes the loss even harder. We are so sorry. I hope you are getting some help. A good counselor should be able to help you navigate this and walk alongside you. Thank you for sharing. Again, we are so sorry.
I know he's gone, I know he took his life, I saw his body. I still don't seem to be able to accept it emotionally. I even know what he struggled with. My mind understands, my emotions are being intransigent.
i’m going through the exact same thing… despite having physical evidence that this is real life, my brain finds every way to ignore it and pretend that i am in a twilight zone or something 😢i hope you can begin to heal soon
Let yourself be where you are. Don't judge yourself harshly. Try not to have unrealistic expectations of yourself and others. There is no "getting over" loss, like the flu. But we can gradually heal by attending to our loss properly. We call that "getting through" the grief. Most people are able to heal on their own. But, following the loss of a loved one to suicide, we often will need the guidance of a professional who is trained and experienced in grief counseling and related therapies. I hope you can find a good one to help you properly cope, accept your loss, explore and address your painful thoughts and feelings, and understand more about how a grief journey can be navigated. You may get a lot out of viewing some of our video series. You'll find that our channel is not monetized (there shouldn't be any commercials) and has a lot of content that may help you make it through this very difficult chapter of life. Blessings to you.
didn't attend his funeral,that would make "it" real, almost 2 years later still haven't accepted what happened.
I lost a ex boyfriend from 1 and half ago on February 10 2024 he killed him self and it kills me cause i loved him sooo much