Yeah but just imagine if that happens to my 14 year old son I dont think she could be the one I jail !! specially if she tackles my kid she would in the hospital !!
@@crochunter35 the only thing she is, is an entitled woman used to getting what she wants all her life because of her youth and appearance. It’s the only thing of value she possesses.
@@blancasd they can be bigotted for sure. Racism is a system thing and requires power a colonized island doesn't have. They can also be seriously into colorism. This lady is a neo sociopath.
Natalie Lawyer Chick explains that - in New York, it's only assault if the physical attack resulted in injuries. Highly recommend Natalie's channel (she's a criminal defense attorney).
she was charged w a hate crime but took a plea deal where she can’t get in trouble w the law for 2 years and she will only get a misdemeanor instead of a felony. if she does get in trouble she will b charged w the felony and face 4 years in jail. this happened in April 2022 so she’s only been crime free for ~3 months now
@@cookie80088 i think she got off extremely light considering she's been arrested muliple times before this incident which imo wasn't taken into account with her plea deal as it should have been.
I can't recall the last time when having an anxiety attack from losing my phone that I assaulted several people and resisted arrest. The mysteries of the universe.
I agree with, I actually lose my iphone at a store last year. I knew someone in the store has probably picked it up. I politely when to the store manager and let them know,. Then I drove home and located my phone on the app. Then I called the police and the police actually recover my phone. I would have never any thought, about confront a person about my phone. This 22 year old lady, didn’t handle this situation with common sense.
99% of all parents would pull a person off of their child. The lack of empathy and understanding of how horrendous that situation must of been for the 14 year old is baffling. Also referring to herself as a "girl" is abhorrent.
she doesn't understand that 14 year olds are children. i believe its because he is a Black kid. when i was 14 much more mature white people would chat me up , i remember being confused about this because i did not even have the vocabulary to hold a conversation with someone aged 18.
@@PHlophe I can imagine that being _very_ confusing. Being female I also had older people hit on me. When you're young it's hard to read the signs. The words she is using really point to her as the victim. Which of course is a fantasy. Since when does anyone refer to a 14 year old boy as a "Guy"? No honey.
You guys should see the footage of her getting arrested for drink driving. You see the "personality" full on display. Oh and the passenger is her mother! Yes excellent parent!
I believe her when she says that. Thing is, intention doesn’t change what she did. This happened because she wouldn’t take a step back and contemplate what happened to her phone, that she lost her phone rather than it was stolen. Instead of remain reasonable she reacted at the first person she saw with what looked like her phone. And she didn’t hold herself back because she’s used to getting her way and not being held responsible f9r her actions
she told the boy to take his phone case off her phone, did she think he just carries around a phone case specifically for her phone type in case he was able to steal one?
I said the very same thing the first time I saw the footage. Take a beat and think lady- this kid so happens to have a case that fits your exact phone? The one he allegedly JUST stole? Okaaaaay...
@@saggguy7 I’m sure you’re right and he did the right thing for himself and his family. I’m just saying that not every father would have the presence of mind to think that through.
@@saggguy7 of course the feminists would have screeched mUh-soj-Uh-nEe if he knocked her teeth out after tackling his son. He would have had every right to do just that. But some still have it in their minds that women are supposed to be treated like an exalted class
I watched the CBS interview - it just highlighted her entitlement and horrendous attitude. Body slamming a child is not shouting at that child. She should be jailed for abusing the boy 😕😕 might make her grow up a bit
Her parents sheltered and spoiled her into becoming what she is. If they failed to raise her properly, she could from now on only be scared and shamed into good behavior with legal sentences. But that level of entitlement, whether innate or put into her head by her incompetent parents, could never be wiped out, I'm afraid. But I agree with Dr. Grande that she's not going to have an easy life from now on. Everybody knows her face and name, this case is going to haunt her for the rest of her life, perhaps even if her character improves. I wouldn't be surprised, if she decided to change her name later. I would in her place.
Right. Also "perpetrator, aggressor, belligerent party, instigator, antagonizer, false accuser, liar, and soon to be, criminal" - are good words to use.
@@leonieromanes7265 true, but that doesn't make him a young man compared to someone 8 years his senior. I agree with you, I just think it's ridiculous how the media has characterized this case.
If I'm not mistaken, in her "apology," Poncetto said: "I'm sorry if he felt that I attacked him." There's *video* of her tackling him to the ground. He didn't imagine it. He didn't have an odd feeling that an attack on him might have happened, without any evidence to support that feeling. It happened. "Feelings" have nothing to do with it. This "girl" may never be able to plug herself into reality. At 22, it might be too late.
You need to learn a out Dalia Dippolito. She hired a hitman to kill her husband, was caught on film haggling with the hitman, then called her husband from prison demanding he drop the charges, trying to gaslight him into trusting her and not his lying eyes & ears when she knew he saw the recordings of her talking about how she wanted him murdered. Her husband kept bringing up he heard what she said on those videos and she never changed her story. It was always “You don’t understand” and “I didn’t do anything”, or “Why are you doing this to ME?” She couldn’t process being unable to use her status as a young and attractive woman to bend men to her will. Even being dead to rights with audio/video proving her guilt she wouldn’t admit what she had done
Ponsetto, "I'm just a girl, attacking a teenage boy, asking him to give me his phone." P.S. Ponsetto's attorney has now dropped her because, to paraphrase, "She cray cray!"
@Alondra S Yup! No one like to talk about the racism in other POC communities. Funnily enough, most of my own personal experiences of blatant racism (I.e. using racial slurs etc) have been from other non black POC (east and south asians and latinx).
an actual pervasive racist view (and sadly looked over a lot, this wording) black children are deemed “adults” way earlier than white kids, justifying institutional racism in law and sexualising/villifying kids, so sickening 😟 🤮
Exactly, and I am woman. I am well aware that females are typically the victim, but this is one of those cases where if you reversed the roles, a 22 year old man tackling a 14 year old girl...people would be clamoring to put him away. The victim was a kid who acted like a kid, his defender was a parent who acted like a parent, the assailant was a grown woman who acted like a violent child, and my gut instinct is telling me that if this had been a white kid things would have been different and no one would know about this story.
Well it does happen of course. In Belgium there is now a case of a man on a bike deliberately knocking down a child with his knee, because he is annoyed the child is walking there. The police looked into it is difficult to move forward as the child wasn't seriously injured.
This WOMAN, not girl, has open cases in Ventura County. 1 DUI, drunk and disorderly conduct and 2 driving with a suspended license but she was out on bail allowed to roam the streets. Usually when you're out on bail you're not allowed to travel outside of your state. Why wasn't she locked up? Why was she on the east coast? I do not feel sorry for her. She attacked a 14 year old kid! I don't care how tall he is. Whether he's 14 years old or not she had no right to attack and tackle another person. That boy is traumatized by her actions. Oh and whatever the father did he had a right to do to protect his son from that woman. His son is the victim not her.
@AllGuts NoGlory Nope! She should go to jail! Had she been a black 22 yr old that attacked a 14 yr old white kid - she would've been arrested right away! And I highly doubt that the hotel Manager would've let a black non patron accost actual white patrons! 😒
@@saggguy7 In my opinion, Gale only ever wanted to help herself!... certainly not to help Mia. Sadly, Dr Todd Grande apparently is also not inclined to think in helpful ways, although it should be his vocation in his job : to help emotionally disregulated people like Mia, by advocating sensible, balanced approach to them, therapy, not jailing! It is not a pedagogical ‘merciful’ solution -as dr Grande portrays it. Hi hi
@@bogumilakitowska-marszalek789 Gayle gave her a huge platform to tell her side of the story and defend herself and just continued to make herself look like an entitled bitch. That’s on her and no one else.
I saw an interview with his parents and his mom says that now when she comes up behind him to hug him he tenses up. He has had to ask her to please stop doing that because he can't handle it right now. That is just *heartbreaking!*
But he came out with a new song that he and his friends wrote and recorded in a studio! His parents are both top-level musicians and they have him in music therapy.
The kid is also going to get an outpouring of support from all over the world. Most instances of abuse/racism/assault happen "silently." But now, he realizes he has loving feelings from thousands, if not millions who say this isn't right.
@@KathrynsWorldWildfireTracking contrary to modern thinking, every instance where someone is victimized does not require external support. He needs the legal system to do its job regarding the woman who attacked him
The worst thing is that that b still thinks the child still stole her phone despite the hotel saying it was returned by an uber driver. Put her at the bottom of the jail
She never acknowledged the fact that she put her hands on a child. She did more that hurt his feelings, he now has a traumatic event in his head that he needs therapy from.
@@FB-cx4sp What was the point of mentioning that?🤔🤨 I'm willing to bet a $1 that this was your way of minimizing what she did! That's the very mentality that enables racists! 😒
@@RealSigmaQueen Yup ... thing is, that's not the kind of thing one gets to say of oneself, too, right? Maybe someone can say that of you, but you're not the judge! :D
How ironic her claiming she can't be racist because she is a person of colour... implying that only white people can he racist... which is a racist statement.
She's lucky the mom wasn't there 😂My guess is that men feel a need to be more restrained when protecting their kids from women: mothers have no such qualms.
Lawyer of the year: "My client appears to have some mental problems and might be arrested at any moment. I'll just let her talk to press, what could go wrong? Self incrimination? Naaaah!"
The lawyer was trying to get her to stop talking and not say what she was saying by whispering in her ear. And she was not following her lawyer's advice by wearing the hat that said Daddy on it.
@@dlbstl -- Doesn't mean the lawyer didn't decide to let her do herself in. If she did have that intention, the lawyer would still need to play her role or worry about being disbarred or penalized.
I’ve got a feeling the client may have insisted on going on tv. One interview and the lawyer cancelled the other interviews. So I don’t think the lawyer was trying to harm her client.
That "girl" does what she wants. The lawyer HAD to have known it was terrible idea, if she'd at least spoken to her for 5min before or since taking her as a client. I think Miya lined all the interviews up for exposure, as she is listed her occupation as "actress/model" on some internet pages. I think Miya was also such a narcissist that she assumed any audience would view her sympathetically. I mean, she's obviously the victim here, guys. Her lawyer probably insisted on being there to try to mitigate her client's potential tumble down the hole. Her lawyer could not have known that Miya talks to EVERYONE like that, even Oprah's best friend.
It's not narcissism. I've known people like her in the past. Their issues are they have a lot of moral flaws and qualities that are not appealing to most people. They did not do well in school. They are generally lazy. They don't have any goals in life. They are generally sociably negative people and can never find anything good to say about anything or anyone. And they know this about themselves. When they go out into the world, they go out with a very fragile and delicate mask on. Joggers and bike riders make her angry because she's too lazy to ride a bicycle and too lazy to jog. The friendly restaurant hostess makes her angry because she's doesn't know how to be friendly like the hostess. Her lawyer makes her angry because she's too stupid to go to college and become a lawyer. The world is a mirror that reflects her reflection right back at her to see, and she doesn't like what she sees.
She may indeed be a racist - but here's the thing: Narcissists - generally aren't necessarily racist, even though they'll use racist terms. When they're in "combat" - their goal is to hurt. So they'll pick through a list of insults in their heads, and try them out, one by one. They study the victim's reaction. When an insult hits - they'll repeat it. Racist terms will be used on minorities just because obviously - they hurt. Bad. But make no mistake - they're that cruel to everyone. I say this - because I hope this gives "armor" against their taunts. One you realize that a narcissist (Aka a Karen,) is merely choosing the worst insults they can think of off the top of their heads: It doesn't really hurt. In fact their ridiculous insults can start to be something you can laugh at. This is the way I've had to deal with narcs. I became immune to their taunts.
@@KathrynsWorldWildfireTracking she's not ray-sis, U people throw that word around to freely without definitive proof, so hold up if the boy were any other color would it be still ray-sis ?
@Louis Kingsta wrong, she frisked another person before him and the media didn't mention his color, exactly how U know he wasn't black or they'd race bait it as they always do
I loved the way she began to babble incoherently when she couldn't come up with more excuses. And the ultimate lack of respect, when she shushed Gayle like she were a dog.
she reminds me of the abraham lincoln quote: "He reminds me of the man who murdered both his parents, and then when sentence was about to be pronounced pleaded for mercy on the grounds that he was an orphan."
That “Daddy” cap looks like something a teenage girl would wear. I think she’s wearing it because she believes it’ll create the illusion that she’s younger than she actually is in order to gain sympathy
Victim mentality..."I'm a girl...I didn't mean it...he was a guy...his father did drag me and pull my hair...I'm sweet..." Add to DUI s and antisocial behaviour. She has a PD.
Her excuse that she's Puerto Rican so she can't be racist is actually a common argument about racism. They say that it's impossible for minorities to be racist because they're not the majority. I've always disagreed with that argument. You absolutely can still be racist as a minoriy
I'm puertorican, born and raised in the island. I can tell you that puertorricans are some of the most racist people out there. That was an excuse. The island is riddled with racism.
There's not much else we can say about this woman. Her life will never be normal or the same again. We were given her first and last name. The media will follow her for the rest of her life. And thanks to social media, she will forever be immortalized as the "Soho Karen" and this will be the one defining moment of her life that everyone will remember her for. Not to mention what the justice system will do to her. I pray that she will find (or rediscover) God and turn her negative life into a more positive one.
What gets me about this incident is that she clearly screams at the boy to pop her phone out of his case...like he's just loitering in an exclusive Soho hotel with a phone case waiting for someone to come along sporting a certain phone in order to lift it and then disguise the theft by removing it from it's case. Sheesh!
@@geekdivaherself not sane. I’d have to imagine walking around in a trench coat like a flasher in order to carry a wide enough variety of phone cases to accomplish what she thought happened
I was appalled & saddened when I watched the Gayle/ Ponsetto interview. Any 22 yr old who behaves that flippant when facing any allegations should see a mental health professional ASAP. The "daddy" cap also confused me. Thanks Dr Grande.
Following her logic about being traumatized while clearly causing it, there will be killers very soon that will need therapy alongside the victim's family to get over trauma (that they have caused). "There appears to be arrogance" is an understatement in my opinion. Thank you for the video, Dr. Grande!
Actually, that is just what Jodi Arias' attorney argued. It may not engender much sympathy though, when you, yourself, create the chaos that results in your own `trauma'.
To be fair, most murderers or prisoners in general have mental health issues. The truth is that we would probably have a lot less murderers in society if mental health issues were being treated properly..
@@nicoleowens2318 It depends. If we argue that everyone who’s ever killed has some degree of mental deformity, no one would be found fit to stand trial, not to mention people who had an obligation or the necessity to take a life (as part of their job). I think it’s more complicated to distinguish than saying that everyone who landed in prison or jail had some kind of mental illness. Insurance fraud, DUI-s, a miscalculated burglary that turned into a home invasion, and other charges like these could land someone in prison for years if not for life, yet I don’t believe that the cause of their actions were their mental problems.
@@steve_the_first I hear ya. I would argue, would people be acting criminally or recklessly if they weren't mentally ill in some way? Poverty causes mental illness, that's something social scientists understand pretty well. Lack of parental guidance, growing up in dangerous neighborhoods, food insecurity, these all affect mental health too. Those that drink too much or do drugs, have sexual disorder, the list goes on. I'm not saying there should be no one that is accountable, all I'm saying is that prisons are run for private profit and that incentivises a lot of the arrests in the first place, as the prison lobbyists pay off justices and police departments to fill their prisons. I'm saying if we put money instead into mental health help and rehabilitation, instead of throwing everyone (especially nonviolent offenders) in prison, there would be much less recidivism or criminality leaking back onto the streets. A nonviolent offender will likely only become more criminal after incarceration, which is the opposite of what we want. There should only be room for the violent in prisons, and even then I think it needs to be treated differently. A lot of people seek punishment when intervention and rehabilitation are possible for many people. You can see it in some European countries, the better they treat them the more likely they are to do things differently later. A lot of these prisoners have been abused or had no guidance all of their lives, they are essentially, mentally, messed up kids. They have often never had compassion a day in their lives, and that leads to changes in the brain that sets these people apart, also something science can prove. We wouldn't expect a feral cat to act like one raised in a home, right? If you haven't seen the level of abuse and neglect in inner cities or don't study psych that might sound ridiculous to you, but it's true. Touch and eye contact are crucial for babies, attention and validation are really important to children. Do all people without these things murder? Of course not. But neither do all people outside of prison respond the same. It's a complicated mix of brain chemistry and nurturing. Some might become abusive themselves, some might become the abused, but no one really comes out unharmed. I just wish we would take this into consideration as much as profits of prisons when making legislation that deals with crime. I could understand if there was no evidence elsewhere that more humane prisons have more beneficial outcomes, but there is proof that many can be reformed, even violent ones. Instead in America we let greed and corruption rule 😕
The trickery of wordplay and misdirection at it's best. I'm sure her lawyer was behind everything she said. Anytime she spoke freely,, she was showing her real nature. Anytime she attempted to display any regret it was scripted and recited terribly. You can tell she was frustrated just trying to say she didn't mean no harm smh. Pretty much said to hell with it when failed and threw in the 2021 peace nonsense at the end. She thought it sounded good although that delivery was pathetic
@@7crunch Agreed! I have had anxiety attacks, depression, PTSD, and rage attacks. But I never hurt anybody no matter how bad I was feeling bec deep down I don't want to hurt anybody.
I have, many times, its called borderline personality. Although its not really crippling anxiety because I project it outwards onto others before it gets to me. :) Don't worry, I swore off relationships.
Hopefully by now she's progressed and evolved. At the time of this interview, she was minimizing her actions, didn't take seriously enough/take responsibility for the assault part which traumatized a young teenager and didn't realize/ acknowledge her probable racial bias which adds pain for the victim and his family. For full analysis, I think a couple of things need to be taken into consideration (not to excuse her behavior of course, just to enlighten): EVERYONE, PostCovid, has a certain amount of PTSD : life as we all know it ended (some suffered disastrous consequences), everyone's mental health is stressed to the max not just from perpetual fear/anxiety but also bc our ability to socialize/connect to our neighbor has been ended and our sense of reality and connection to the world is even more dependent on our phones. The media doesn't cover this topic enough, not seeing people's smiles amid maskville, not being able to touch hug be nearer people, learning to distrust you neighbor, is more devastating than we realize. The potential to freak out over losing a phone is much higher postCovid. People with PTSD have big reactions to small things, and if she possibly were under the influence as well, add that to the mix as well. So it's not just "oh anxiety doesn't cause assault" like this doctor glibly said, which was such an obvious point, why even say that. Kind of disappointed an expert would miss commenting on this more comprehensively, he's the expert, and he's supposed to take this gravely and not make snide jokes. She's going to need to atone for and learn from those actions, but she's still a young person and he's a doctor. That last comment too, she's not a TERROR
I have some suggestions to 'help' her through these tough times while in jail 1. electric shock therapy 2. forced to wear oversized baggy pants from the goodwill or thrift store. 3. anytime she asks for something, the other person will always respond with "enough" with the same hand gesture 4. burn all of her "daddy" hats 5. etc.
The alternative to the ‘daddy’ cap giving her the appearance of looking younger is that it makes her look like she thinks of herself as an escort... which are 2 very conflicting roles.
I keep hearing “she’s Puerto Rican” okay...what does that have to do with this? Being Puerto Rican’s can be white or black. You just have to be born there, it’s a nationality, not a race. 💡
Poncetto is using the fact that she is hispanic as a reason for her not attacking the kid based on his race. She's saying she's incapable of being racist.
@@pamelapeters3342 Which is a BS argument because Hispanic isn't a race, but rather an ethnic group based on linguistics. One can be a White Hispanic(ancestors are from Spain and didn't procreate much or at all with the Indigenous population or the descendants of the black slaves who were brought to some parts of Latin America), or a Black Hispanic, or an Indigenous Hispanic, or a mestizo Hispanic(mixed race).
Latest on her, she switched lawyers, plead not guilty to hate crime, she's looking at up to ten years in prison. They've been apparently trying to get her to take anger management classes, her new lawyer, said. He's absolutely right about her needing prison time. Psychology 101, "only sever trauma will get people to change!" Matter of time before she, hurts or kills someone.
In the CBS interview she is incredibly NOT well spoken. She cant even find the correct words to use so she just goes for insults and getting defensive .
Lol it's weird that channels I watch on here comment on other channels i watch. You can tell i have good taste in the content i watch. Keep up your good work Plainly difficult.
Ha. So many people don’t have valid DL let alone insurance. Since I turned 16 I have never been without insurance or my DL. It’s amazing how people don’t give a crap!
A friend told me that "her parents didn't love her enough to teach her kindness." I have no way of knowing her situation, but she, obviously, hasn't been taught any type of conflict resolution skills.
Well, her mom was arrested alongside her last year being drunk and disorderly, so we get a little glimpse into that situation. She seems to be demonstrating the same belligerent, entitled behavior her mom models for her.
Based on the fact that her mother has been involved in her antics, I'd have to conclude that mom is probably an entitled Karen and treats her daughter like a friend.
9 times out of 10, a criminal accuses others of being criminals. They have this false believe that if they deliberately broke the law, then everyone else has that same exact urge to break the law.
Your passive humour got me hooked, I'm always waiting to hear when it will drop because one can never tell with your unchanged tone or expression, and that's what unique about that!
I love how she thinks that claiming to be Puerto Rican somehow means she can't be racist. Meanwhile all Latinos/Hispanics know damn well that our communities are some of the MOST racist against Black and Indigenous peoples bc of the Spanish caste system that's ingrained in our cultures.
As a Puerto Rican I feel so ashamed she probably thinks cause she’s mixed with black that she can’t be racist which is awful to think: although I’m proud of my African heritage we need to teach that one cannot compare the experiente of darker shade people from those of light skin individuals. This woman attacked a child and needs to pay for it.
Shes 22, too old to try and claim she made a mistake that shouldn’t define her. She needs to be held accountable, something I don’t think she’s ever done in her life by how entitled she behaves
I am so not used to seeing Dr Grande gesticulating in his videos! Good to see him trying a new form factor, the content is always brilliant. Nearly 600k subs, really picking up speed now - great to see a channel with professional mental health content doing so well, in times that it will help the most.
This is a very unique approach in content construction! In my opinion, the total separation of narrator to content combined with a dispassionate, analytical and precise breakdown of events make this approach very interesting. Good job!
You need to see her second DUI arrest from last October-you can hear her say "there are gang members killing people right now and you're arresting a girl"?
Oh dear Lord, please save us from the Karens; please also save the Karens from being Karens. I think this would help a lot. Amen. ______________________________ I started being sarcastic, but then being an American Presbyterian I suddenly got mostly serious. I couldn't help myself! I really wanted to be sarcastic, though!
I saw in a CNN interview with his parents, I think it was from today, that he is in music therapy and with help of his friends and his parents he's written and recorded a song. The little bit they played of it was good!
What got me is she says “anyone who left the hotel could’ve had the phone,” BUT she made the choice to accuse a 14 year old, high school freshman, black man. That’s racial profiling if I’ve never seen it before. I knew she was Puerto Rican so I hoped she was gonna be remorseful or have an explanation of some form that would make me less baffled but she didn’t and it made it soo much worst. I was thinking being categorized by the U.S government as a minority herself she wouldn’t be ignorant to her crime, but she’s entitled. It was really horrible to see.
I read in an interview she did just before she was arrested she said "he's 14? thats what their claiming? Well I'm 22 we're pretty much the same age. I'm a kid at heart as well." ..... I take it she decided to take the masterclass in apologies from youtubers instead of taking the advice from her lawyer. She was even aggressive trying to flip the story around to try look like the victim....oof...
Clear substance use disorder probably with an underlying mood disorder and possibly a personality disorder. She does at this point need to serve a jail/prison sentence, however her mental health will not be treated there. I am sorry she is so clearly miserable and without the capacity for self-control.
She’s lucky she wasn’t in a conceal carry state. She would’ve been shot by my brother if she assaulted his kids in our state. Great video. She’s clearly in need of therapy and maybe meds.
Are you seriously saying that your brother would resort to shooting someone who tackled one of his kids, instead of using non-deadly force? Even in crazy-cuckoo gun land, that might land him with a manslaughter charge.
@@TheRealCaptainFreedom Why do you think she would be prescribed SSRI's? Do you think she is depressed? And why would someone on those medications drink alcohol?
She won't serve a day in jail. We'll be told that "the trauma of being arrested was punishment enough," or whatever crap we get told when someone with entitlement gets caught doing something rotten.
I think she is trying to look like a little girl, but I suspect the majority of people who wear a hat like that mean it in the sexual context, not an homage to their actual father.
IMO It says “I’m going to do ridiculous things in a sad effort to go viral and get my 15minutes of fame.” Her comment of ‘I’m Puerto Rican I can’t be racist’ is to bait Twitter into getting her to trend.
Whether racially motivated or not, this gal is a piece of work. She assaulted a young teen for no legitimate reason, yet she still sees herself as the victim. Now she might get off completely because her lawyer won't shut up about her client's flaws. The child's father was the only reasonable person in this case that I could see, as he was defending his son against an entitled lunatic.
Some people say ohh the kid is twice her size. The fact that the kid doesn't response with violence shows he is also twice her maturity
They forget that society does not let a male use any sort of violence to defend themselves against a female.
@@grahvis that kid is also skinny.. I live in NYC and saw the video. She assaulted and overpowered him.
Yeah but just imagine if that happens to my 14 year old son
I dont think she could be the one I jail !!
specially if she tackles my kid she would in the hospital !!
Some people say that?!!??!?! What the hell!
she is a spoiled child who at the end is a pure narcissist; I feel very sorry for the men in her life.
“I’m Puerto Rican, so I can’t be racist”
I strained my eyes, they rolled back that far
Right? I think I sprained an optic nerve on that one.
I've known a few Puerto Ricans in my life. They can be obnoxiously racist or self-righteous AF.
@@crochunter35 the only thing she is, is an entitled woman used to getting what she wants all her life because of her youth and appearance. It’s the only thing of value she possesses.
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@@blancasd they can be bigotted for sure. Racism is a system thing and requires power a colonized island doesn't have. They can also be seriously into colorism. This lady is a neo sociopath.
She attacked a child and an officer. She has cases pending. She shows no remorse. I give her a Go to Jail card.
do not pass go do not collect $200
She also scratch the father who was defending his son.
She's a woman. unless she kills somebody older than a phoetus, she will not likely go to jail ever.
She'll have to learn manners quickly in jail. They'll be beaten into her.
Jade Zee Not the case. "Your" imagination precedes you .
Why was she charged with attempted assault, when she successfully tackeld the minor?
Natalie Lawyer Chick explains that - in New York, it's only assault if the physical attack resulted in injuries. Highly recommend Natalie's channel (she's a criminal defense attorney).
@@melindalayden1693 Agree NatalieLawyerChick is excellent channel!
she was charged w a hate crime but took a plea deal where she can’t get in trouble w the law for 2 years and she will only get a misdemeanor instead of a felony. if she does get in trouble she will b charged w the felony and face 4 years in jail. this happened in April 2022 so she’s only been crime free for ~3 months now
@@cookie80088 i think she got off extremely light considering she's been arrested muliple times before this incident which imo wasn't taken into account with her plea deal as it should have been.
I know you. You sell beans
I can't recall the last time when having an anxiety attack from losing my phone that I assaulted several people and resisted arrest. The mysteries of the universe.
no way! thousands of people in the US lose their phones everyday and then go and tackle the first black person they see. it's a thing now...
Lol. Exactly!
"The mysteries of the universe" 😂
Unless there’s something on that phone that she doesn’t want others to find or see... Hmmm, I wonder what it might be? 🤔
I agree with, I actually lose my iphone at a store last year. I knew someone in the store has probably picked it up. I politely when to the store manager and let them know,. Then I drove home and located my phone on the app. Then I called the police and the police actually recover my phone. I would have never any thought, about confront a person about my phone. This 22 year old lady, didn’t handle this situation with common sense.
99% of all parents would pull a person off of their child.
The lack of empathy and understanding of how horrendous that situation must of been for the 14 year old is baffling.
Also referring to herself as a "girl" is abhorrent.
she doesn't understand that 14 year olds are children. i believe its because he is a Black kid. when i was 14 much more mature white people would chat me up , i remember being confused about this because i did not even have the vocabulary to hold a conversation with someone aged 18.
@@PHlophe I can imagine that being _very_ confusing.
Being female I also had older people hit on me. When you're young it's hard to read the signs.
The words she is using really point to her as the victim.
Which of course is a fantasy.
Since when does anyone refer to a 14 year old boy as a "Guy"? No honey.
How old is she?
@@SoWhosGae 22
You guys should see the footage of her getting arrested for drink driving.
You see the "personality" full on display. Oh and the passenger is her mother! Yes excellent parent!
"Super-sweet", just like antifreeze and lead diacetate.
lol
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Lol
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She needs some jail time, send a message to all these up and coming karens, this behavior is not to be tolerated.
agreed give at least a year, hell with so many other minor charges it seems she has been skating by getting any real punishment for a few years now,.
“She didn’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings. “
Exactly. She only meant to hurt people.
It would be wise for her to get her mind off of herself. She could have been forgiven but she refuses to admit to any wrong doing.
I believe her when she says that. Thing is, intention doesn’t change what she did. This happened because she wouldn’t take a step back and contemplate what happened to her phone, that she lost her phone rather than it was stolen. Instead of remain reasonable she reacted at the first person she saw with what looked like her phone. And she didn’t hold herself back because she’s used to getting her way and not being held responsible f9r her actions
Miya can't get out of her own way. Everything is all about her.
One mistake doesn’t define you, but a series of them does. Especially when they seem to be related to alcohol and public order.
well, if someone's mistake is assaulting a child, I think it does.
@RewindMe period
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A mistake might not define you but double downing on it and refusing to accept responsibility sure as hell does.
@RewindMe spilling wine is an accident.
And especially when she still doesn’t even take accountability
she told the boy to take his phone case off her phone, did she think he just carries around a phone case specifically for her phone type in case he was able to steal one?
I said the very same thing the first time I saw the footage. Take a beat and think lady- this kid so happens to have a case that fits your exact phone? The one he allegedly JUST stole? Okaaaaay...
That's the first thing I yelled at the screen.
I wonder if she was also drunk during her attack of this young boy? She seemed crazed!
@@TheLoveweaver no doubt
Exactly. How about calling her number from the hotel desk phone?
"A scared girl who lost her mind for a hot minute."
more like a hot mess that got her 15 minutes of fame.
She is very fortunate the Dad restrained himself. A lot of fathers would knock someone out for physically tackling their child.
Yes. Watching it I was thinking how I would have wanted to throw her through that window, if I were that dad. Could I have stopped myself?
probably hyper aware of what the legal system could do to a black man who lays hands on a white woman, no matter how fair it is for him to do so.
@@saggguy7 I’m sure you’re right and he did the right thing for himself and his family. I’m just saying that not every father would have the presence of mind to think that through.
@@saggguy7 of course the feminists would have screeched mUh-soj-Uh-nEe if he knocked her teeth out after tackling his son. He would have had every right to do just that. But some still have it in their minds that women are supposed to be treated like an exalted class
She’s lucky the mom wasn’t there....
‘How to destroy your life while looking as foolish as possible’ seems to be going around a lot these days
People have been on lockdown too long and are acting fools now
Mic drop
It's a leftist specialty
Oh God that is so right!
I think she was taking her tv moment to advertise for a sugar daddy. What else could it convey??? 😏
I watched the CBS interview - it just highlighted her entitlement and horrendous attitude. Body slamming a child is not shouting at that child. She should be jailed for abusing the boy 😕😕 might make her grow up a bit
I bet you also complain how the us has the highest prison population
@@willnill7946 Truthfully I couldn't give a sh*t about US jails as I'm from the UK 😂😂😂😂
Jail doesn't rehabilitate anyone. If anything, it will make her worse. She needs a psychologist. Not jail.
@@cjstats1514 I'd say she needs both 🤷♀️🤷♀️ especially as this isnt her first 'error in judgement'
Her parents sheltered and spoiled her into becoming what she is. If they failed to raise her properly, she could from now on only be scared and shamed into good behavior with legal sentences. But that level of entitlement, whether innate or put into her head by her incompetent parents, could never be wiped out, I'm afraid.
But I agree with Dr. Grande that she's not going to have an easy life from now on. Everybody knows her face and name, this case is going to haunt her for the rest of her life, perhaps even if her character improves. I wouldn't be surprised, if she decided to change her name later. I would in her place.
This doctor should do deadpan comedy, his delivery is perfect.
Steven Wright would match him ideally
The doctor is shady 😆
22 year old “girl”, but the 14yo is “the young man” its “woman” and “child” that’s the correct way to say it.
Right. Also "perpetrator, aggressor, belligerent party, instigator, antagonizer, false accuser, liar, and soon to be, criminal" - are good words to use.
I'm willing to bet the 14 year old boy is more responsible and mature than this bimbo.
@@leonieromanes7265 true, but that doesn't make him a young man compared to someone 8 years his senior. I agree with you, I just think it's ridiculous how the media has characterized this case.
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Excellent point.
If I'm not mistaken, in her "apology," Poncetto said: "I'm sorry if he felt that I attacked him."
There's *video* of her tackling him to the ground. He didn't imagine it. He didn't have an odd feeling that an attack on him might have happened, without any evidence to support that feeling. It happened. "Feelings" have nothing to do with it. This "girl" may never be able to plug herself into reality. At 22, it might be too late.
Gaslighting is a universal tactic used by those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Superb and insightful post.
You need to learn a out Dalia Dippolito. She hired a hitman to kill her husband, was caught on film haggling with the hitman, then called her husband from prison demanding he drop the charges, trying to gaslight him into trusting her and not his lying eyes & ears when she knew he saw the recordings of her talking about how she wanted him murdered.
Her husband kept bringing up he heard what she said on those videos and she never changed her story. It was always “You don’t understand” and “I didn’t do anything”, or “Why are you doing this to ME?”
She couldn’t process being unable to use her status as a young and attractive woman to bend men to her will. Even being dead to rights with audio/video proving her guilt she wouldn’t admit what she had done
I love that they’re calling a 22 year old WOMAN a “girl” but they refuse to call the 14 year old CHILD a child????
No one is saying that she's a girl, but Miya herself.
The news stories describe him as a child.
She’s charged w endangerment of a child...
He's a teenager. Not a child
@@northerncalifornia3566 a 14 year old teenager is a child 😂😂😂😂😂
Ponsetto, "I'm just a girl, attacking a teenage boy, asking him to give me his phone."
P.S. Ponsetto's attorney has now dropped her because, to paraphrase, "She cray cray!"
🤣 Notting Hill.
just for a hot minute....
Being of color does not mean you are immune to being racist. Treating someone as though they are inferior is the problem: not skin pigment.
Exactly! Even a black person assuming another black person stole from them based on race is wrong.
I doubt she considers herself a Woman of Color.
@Alondra S Yup! No one like to talk about the racism in other POC communities. Funnily enough, most of my own personal experiences of blatant racism (I.e. using racial slurs etc) have been from other non black POC (east and south asians and latinx).
True
She is white passing especially with that starbucks and entitlement
The wordings!!, she described herself as a 22 years old GIRL but the 14 years old, that she tackled is a GUY !!
Maturity wise, she might be right.
an actual pervasive racist view (and sadly looked over a lot, this wording) black children are deemed “adults” way earlier than white kids, justifying institutional racism in law and sexualising/villifying kids, so sickening 😟 🤮
Exactly, and I am woman. I am well aware that females are typically the victim, but this is one of those cases where if you reversed the roles, a 22 year old man tackling a 14 year old girl...people would be clamoring to put him away.
The victim was a kid who acted like a kid, his defender was a parent who acted like a parent, the assailant was a grown woman who acted like a violent child, and my gut instinct is telling me that if this had been a white kid things would have been different and no one would know about this story.
She wants to paint herself as a nice girl, but the actual kid is a menacing man.
Literally the least subtle try at subliminal messaging.
No remorse whatsoever from this delusional person. She needs to be held accountable for what she has done.
@Matty Ice all lives matter.
No. She’s an oppressed PoC. She’s a victim.
@Matty Ice no lives matter
I agree!
I wish that was true for everyone but it’s not….just certain narratives are being pushed these days by the media.
i love how grande delivers these incredible burns as if he’s just stating general facts. it’s somehow so much more savage.
Ok let's switch this arouns- a 20 something MAN tackles a 14 year old girl.... How is she walking around right now?
Well it does happen of course. In Belgium there is now a case of a man on a bike deliberately knocking down a child with his knee, because he is annoyed the child is walking there. The police looked into it is difficult to move forward as the child wasn't seriously injured.
THIS
And after hearing her speak- she’s obviously a malicious individual
This WOMAN, not girl, has open cases in Ventura County. 1 DUI, drunk and disorderly conduct and 2 driving with a suspended license but she was out on bail allowed to roam the streets. Usually when you're out on bail you're not allowed to travel outside of your state. Why wasn't she locked up? Why was she on the east coast? I do not feel sorry for her. She attacked a 14 year old kid! I don't care how tall he is. Whether he's 14 years old or not she had no right to attack and tackle another person. That boy is traumatized by her actions. Oh and whatever the father did he had a right to do to protect his son from that woman. His son is the victim not her.
@AllGuts NoGlory Nope! She should go to jail! Had she been a black 22 yr old that attacked a 14 yr old white kid - she would've been arrested right away!
And I highly doubt that the hotel Manager would've let a black non patron accost actual white patrons! 😒
The fact that she was comfortable enough to tackle him in front of his father was a bit much!
Exactly! That's why the title Soho Karen fits!
Right?! That got me too. I wouldn’t attack anyway but ESPECIALLY not in front of the parents.
There is footage, I believe on TMZ, of her fighting and talking back to cops that are trying to arrest her, while her mom screams.
and to feel that he shouldn't defend his child the nerve!
On top of that, let's not forget that she was travelling from one covid hotspot to another in the thick of a pandemic.
The way she disrespected Gayle though... She isn't sorry.
literally just told this interviewer that’s trying to help you “enough”...?
@@saggguy7 In my opinion, Gale only ever wanted to help herself!... certainly not to help Mia. Sadly, Dr Todd Grande apparently is also not inclined to think in helpful ways, although it should be his vocation in his job : to help emotionally disregulated people like Mia, by advocating sensible, balanced approach to them, therapy, not jailing! It is not a pedagogical ‘merciful’ solution -as dr Grande portrays it. Hi hi
I agree
You see what happened to R. Kelly after talking crazy to Gayle.
@@bogumilakitowska-marszalek789 Gayle gave her a huge platform to tell her side of the story and defend herself and just continued to make herself look like an entitled bitch. That’s on her and no one else.
"i'm going to assume that she doesn't have a future on a debate team" that burn tho
im 14 and barely figuring out who I am, seeing a kid being maliciously attacked like that I can only assume it hurt his self image
I saw an interview with his parents and his mom says that now when she comes up behind him to hug him he tenses up. He has had to ask her to please stop doing that because he can't handle it right now. That is just *heartbreaking!*
But he came out with a new song that he and his friends wrote and recorded in a studio! His parents are both top-level musicians and they have him in music therapy.
The kid is also going to get an outpouring of support from all over the world.
Most instances of abuse/racism/assault happen "silently."
But now, he realizes he has loving feelings from thousands, if not millions who say this isn't right.
@@KathrynsWorldWildfireTracking contrary to modern thinking, every instance where someone is victimized does not require external support. He needs the legal system to do its job regarding the woman who attacked him
@@redram5150 Just pointing out the silver lining for the poor kid. Not everyone has one for their abuse instance.
The worst thing is that that b still thinks the child still stole her phone despite the hotel saying it was returned by an uber driver. Put her at the bottom of the jail
She's a microcosm of how Americans act now. Like the need to be right just overrides all evidence and logic.
Omg wth , I would’ve slapped her . Ugh she definitely needs to get beat up in jail
Her brain seems to have been stolen, it's reasonable to assume someone would be frustrated at this issue not being investigated.
Aaron Americans? I resemble your snide remark . 🖕🏻
Gigi Vlogs No,she doesn't.
She never acknowledged the fact that she put her hands on a child. She did more that hurt his feelings, he now has a traumatic event in his head that he needs therapy from.
I think 14 is an adolescent.
@@FB-cx4sp which is legally a child, no?
@@FB-cx4sp yeah....an adolescent is indeed a child.
@@FB-cx4sp What was the point of mentioning that?🤔🤨 I'm willing to bet a $1 that this was your way of minimizing what she did!
That's the very mentality that enables racists! 😒
She has no shame
I would be hurt, embarrassed, and ashame of myself if I accuse and assaulted someone for a false reason
She has a minor case of Jussie smolletitis
Love how her response to being racist was that she was Puerto Rican.....
As if Puerto Ricans can't be racist towards other ethnicities?
Exactly....
Anyone can be racist. No matter what ethnic group.
She a white Puerto Rican lol ppl act like there not different races in Puerto Rico
Ask them if they are Mexican and this will prove your point.
As a New Yorker, I've always thought most Puerto Ricans (half of the Latinos here are Ricans) are racist as shit. Especially the white ones.
Everyone be sure to cross off “This is not who I am” on your Bingo cards.
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LMAO! Good one!
Duly noted and done!! Best comment EVER.🤣🤣🤣
Love this comment. I’m sure no one had “I’m a super sweet person” as a choice.
@@RealSigmaQueen Yup ... thing is, that's not the kind of thing one gets to say of oneself, too, right? Maybe someone can say that of you, but you're not the judge! :D
This should be called "how to be as bratty and entitled as possible"
Yes
That will be the title of her 'Memoir'.....
How ironic her claiming she can't be racist because she is a person of colour... implying that only white people can he racist... which is a racist statement.
As a math teacher, the "out of 1,000" clients quip cracked me up!
I Recognized her as a narcissist right away!! No empathy or remorse! With a terrible stuck up attitude of self entitlement
By viewing the video, she is immature, bat sh@t crazy, substance abuser and probably has a sense of entitlement
Her mother is the same apparently. Imagine getting arrested with your mother because you're both drunk and causing a scene.
youre wrong... shes actually white
For her to talk to Gayle King, a woman old enough to be her mother and who was giving her a platform with such disrespect says a lot about her.
@@Richard-lh3te It says shes a narcissist. but not racist homie...
She needs to be in jail. She’s also lucky she didn’t tackle a kid who’s parent would have kicked her butt.
Right, I have to give the father credit for staying relatively calm. I doubt I'd be able to do it.
@@LDiamondz huh... She should be extremely glad it wasn't his Mother with him🙈
@@W0ndaze I know. She'd have knocked some sense into her, the hard way!
@@W0ndaze Facts.
She's lucky the mom wasn't there 😂My guess is that men feel a need to be more restrained when protecting their kids from women: mothers have no such qualms.
Lawyer of the year: "My client appears to have some mental problems and might be arrested at any moment. I'll just let her talk to press, what could go wrong? Self incrimination? Naaaah!"
It's possible the lawyer deliberately allowed her client to eviscerate herself publicly. Maybe she wants her to be punished for her behavior.
The lawyer was trying to get her to stop talking and not say what she was saying by whispering in her ear. And she was not following her lawyer's advice by wearing the hat that said Daddy on it.
@@dlbstl -- Doesn't mean the lawyer didn't decide to let her do herself in. If she did have that intention, the lawyer would still need to play her role or worry about being disbarred or penalized.
I’ve got a feeling the client may have insisted on going on tv. One interview and the lawyer cancelled the other interviews. So I don’t think the lawyer was trying to harm her client.
That "girl" does what she wants. The lawyer HAD to have known it was terrible idea, if she'd at least spoken to her for 5min before or since taking her as a client. I think Miya lined all the interviews up for exposure, as she is listed her occupation as "actress/model" on some internet pages. I think Miya was also such a narcissist that she assumed any audience would view her sympathetically. I mean, she's obviously the victim here, guys. Her lawyer probably insisted on being there to try to mitigate her client's potential tumble down the hole. Her lawyer could not have known that Miya talks to EVERYONE like that, even Oprah's best friend.
You do NOT need to be a Dr to recognize a severe NARCISSIST when you see one!!!! She is E V I L Period !
It's not narcissism. I've known people like her in the past. Their issues are they have a lot of moral flaws and qualities that are not appealing to most people. They did not do well in school. They are generally lazy. They don't have any goals in life. They are generally sociably negative people and can never find anything good to say about anything or anyone. And they know this about themselves. When they go out into the world, they go out with a very fragile and delicate mask on. Joggers and bike riders make her angry because she's too lazy to ride a bicycle and too lazy to jog. The friendly restaurant hostess makes her angry because she's doesn't know how to be friendly like the hostess. Her lawyer makes her angry because she's too stupid to go to college and become a lawyer. The world is a mirror that reflects her reflection right back at her to see, and she doesn't like what she sees.
Cue words!
Ponsetto is conveniently Puerto Rican. Her acting page she list "Caucasian" and her IG she has "Greek Girl".
Hmmmmmm strange
Maybe she has multiple ethnicities, & brings whichever to the forefront when it's convenient for her! 😐
She a white Puerto Rican . Just like there black Puerto Rican . Puerto Rican is not a damn race
@Mary Howard
To Mary Howard
Dangerous‼️
@@mizzpoetrics Or, maybe she has multiple personalities, each of which has a different ethnicity. Lol
"I'm not racist, I own colored clothes." sigh
Bahaha! 🙏🏾😂
She may indeed be a racist - but here's the thing:
Narcissists - generally aren't necessarily racist, even though they'll use racist terms.
When they're in "combat" - their goal is to hurt. So they'll pick through a list of insults in their heads, and try them out, one by one.
They study the victim's reaction. When an insult hits - they'll repeat it.
Racist terms will be used on minorities just because obviously - they hurt. Bad.
But make no mistake - they're that cruel to everyone.
I say this - because I hope this gives "armor" against their taunts.
One you realize that a narcissist (Aka a Karen,) is merely choosing the worst insults they can think of off the top of their heads: It doesn't really hurt. In fact their ridiculous insults can start to be something you can laugh at. This is the way I've had to deal with narcs. I became immune to their taunts.
@@KathrynsWorldWildfireTracking she's not ray-sis, U people throw that word around to freely without definitive proof, so hold up if the boy were any other color would it be still ray-sis ?
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@Louis Kingsta wrong, she frisked another person before him and the media didn't mention his color, exactly how U know he wasn't black or they'd race bait it as they always do
"how to destroy your life while looking as foolish as possible"
I loved the way she began to babble incoherently when she couldn't come up with more excuses. And the ultimate lack of respect, when she shushed Gayle like she were a dog.
lol he got jokes
she reminds me of the abraham lincoln quote: "He reminds me of the man who murdered both his parents,
and then when sentence was about to be pronounced pleaded for mercy on the grounds that he was an orphan."
That “Daddy” cap looks like something a teenage girl would wear. I think she’s wearing it because she believes it’ll create the illusion that she’s younger than she actually is in order to gain sympathy
*She's looking for a sugar daddy, hence the hat* 😒
I never thought of it like that. Good observation!
@@Griselda_Puppy lol
Victim mentality..."I'm a girl...I didn't mean it...he was a guy...his father did drag me and pull my hair...I'm sweet..." Add to DUI s and antisocial behaviour. She has a PD.
oh, she definitely has a personality disorder
Her excuse that she's Puerto Rican so she can't be racist is actually a common argument about racism. They say that it's impossible for minorities to be racist because they're not the majority. I've always disagreed with that argument. You absolutely can still be racist as a minoriy
I'm puertorican, born and raised in the island. I can tell you that puertorricans are some of the most racist people out there. That was an excuse. The island is riddled with racism.
And women can be misogynistic, that's actually extremely common
Especially because she’s a white Puerto Rican. She appears to have a lot of European ancestry. She most definitely can be racist I agree.
We call it Tribalism over here.
@@Mia199603 more so than most know, even the women guilty of it.
lmaoo the lawyer really just gave up half way thru the interviews
This woman is not a scared girl; she's the ultimate karen in training
Training? She's a fully realized "Karen".
She is a self actualized Karen. 😆😂🤣🤭🤭🤪
In training? She is a worse than a Karen. I’d take a karen any day of this thing.
Yeah and she's not even why
Lol😂👍🏽
"Maybe the rest of them are in jail." 🤣🤣
You're hilarious, doctor.
I know, right!? 😂😂
His dry, serious humor is on 1000 with a mix of 99 hilarity, 1 cold bloodedness, and 900 unaccounted for truth behind every joke.
@@1z2x3c45b 😂😂
@@1z2x3c45b 😄👍
came here for this comment. I laughed so hard my drink came out my nose
Dr. Grande is very funny low key
I usually laugh out loud, several times, during his videos. 😂
The doc said “I’m going to assume she doesn’t have a future on a debate team.” He drops little nuggets of gold lol
what kind of doctor is he?
@@linkingwithnaz1295 Psychiatrist I believe
I'm always laughing at the dry ass delivery of hilarious phrases.
There's not much else we can say about this woman. Her life will never be normal or the same again. We were given her first and last name. The media will follow her for the rest of her life. And thanks to social media, she will forever be immortalized as the "Soho Karen" and this will be the one defining moment of her life that everyone will remember her for. Not to mention what the justice system will do to her. I pray that she will find (or rediscover) God and turn her negative life into a more positive one.
"The more she talks the more of a disturbing picture she draws of herself" . This is such a clear way to describe a variety of challenging people!
She obviously doesn’t take the advice from people with her best interest in mind.
What gets me about this incident is that she clearly screams at the boy to pop her phone out of his case...like he's just loitering in an exclusive Soho hotel with a phone case waiting for someone to come along sporting a certain phone in order to lift it and then disguise the theft by removing it from it's case. Sheesh!
NOT RATIONAL.
@@geekdivaherself not sane.
I’d have to imagine walking around in a trench coat like a flasher in order to carry a wide enough variety of phone cases to accomplish what she thought happened
I was appalled & saddened when I watched the Gayle/ Ponsetto interview. Any 22 yr old who behaves that flippant when facing any allegations should see a mental health professional ASAP. The "daddy" cap also confused me.
Thanks Dr Grande.
I love this guy!! He is so level-headed and reasonable. Love u Doc.
Following her logic about being traumatized while clearly causing it, there will be killers very soon that will need therapy alongside the victim's family to get over trauma (that they have caused). "There appears to be arrogance" is an understatement in my opinion. Thank you for the video, Dr. Grande!
Actually, that is just what Jodi Arias' attorney argued. It may not engender much sympathy though, when you, yourself, create the chaos that results in your own `trauma'.
Chris Watts doing it NOW- while his parents try and collect life insurance money off his murder victims :/
To be fair, most murderers or prisoners in general have mental health issues. The truth is that we would probably have a lot less murderers in society if mental health issues were being treated properly..
@@nicoleowens2318 It depends. If we argue that everyone who’s ever killed has some degree of mental deformity, no one would be found fit to stand trial, not to mention people who had an obligation or the necessity to take a life (as part of their job). I think it’s more complicated to distinguish than saying that everyone who landed in prison or jail had some kind of mental illness. Insurance fraud, DUI-s, a miscalculated burglary that turned into a home invasion, and other charges like these could land someone in prison for years if not for life, yet I don’t believe that the cause of their actions were their mental problems.
@@steve_the_first I hear ya. I would argue, would people be acting criminally or recklessly if they weren't mentally ill in some way? Poverty causes mental illness, that's something social scientists understand pretty well. Lack of parental guidance, growing up in dangerous neighborhoods, food insecurity, these all affect mental health too. Those that drink too much or do drugs, have sexual disorder, the list goes on. I'm not saying there should be no one that is accountable, all I'm saying is that prisons are run for private profit and that incentivises a lot of the arrests in the first place, as the prison lobbyists pay off justices and police departments to fill their prisons. I'm saying if we put money instead into mental health help and rehabilitation, instead of throwing everyone (especially nonviolent offenders) in prison, there would be much less recidivism or criminality leaking back onto the streets. A nonviolent offender will likely only become more criminal after incarceration, which is the opposite of what we want. There should only be room for the violent in prisons, and even then I think it needs to be treated differently. A lot of people seek punishment when intervention and rehabilitation are possible for many people. You can see it in some European countries, the better they treat them the more likely they are to do things differently later. A lot of these prisoners have been abused or had no guidance all of their lives, they are essentially, mentally, messed up kids. They have often never had compassion a day in their lives, and that leads to changes in the brain that sets these people apart, also something science can prove. We wouldn't expect a feral cat to act like one raised in a home, right? If you haven't seen the level of abuse and neglect in inner cities or don't study psych that might sound ridiculous to you, but it's true. Touch and eye contact are crucial for babies, attention and validation are really important to children. Do all people without these things murder? Of course not. But neither do all people outside of prison respond the same. It's a complicated mix of brain chemistry and nurturing. Some might become abusive themselves, some might become the abused, but no one really comes out unharmed. I just wish we would take this into consideration as much as profits of prisons when making legislation that deals with crime. I could understand if there was no evidence elsewhere that more humane prisons have more beneficial outcomes, but there is proof that many can be reformed, even violent ones. Instead in America we let greed and corruption rule 😕
Maybe she should get a hat that reads:
Felon
Or...Convict
I think the jumpsuit would do better and be a much louder statement
or Karen
Yup...or guilty
@@toxicstarcandy qaqqqaqqqaqq
MAGA hat would be perfect
She called herself “a girl” but the 14 yr old boy “a guy” ?? Hmmmm🙄🙄🙄
The trickery of wordplay and misdirection at it's best. I'm sure her lawyer was behind everything she said. Anytime she spoke freely,, she was showing her real nature. Anytime she attempted to display any regret it was scripted and recited terribly. You can tell she was frustrated just trying to say she didn't mean no harm smh. Pretty much said to hell with it when failed and threw in the 2021 peace nonsense at the end. She thought it sounded good although that delivery was pathetic
yep playing the young innocent female card
I spit coffee all over my phone laughing so hard...”Maybe the other 900 are in jail.” Dr. Grande is so freaking hilarious!
I have crippling anxiety attacks quite often but I’ve never attacked anyone. She also doesn’t see any wrong doing on her part.
Same! I never attacked anyone let alone a damn child ! She is taking no accountability and it’s crazy to me.
@@7crunch Agreed! I have had anxiety attacks, depression, PTSD, and rage attacks. But I never hurt anybody no matter how bad I was feeling bec deep down I don't want to hurt anybody.
I have, many times, its called borderline personality. Although its not really crippling anxiety because I project it outwards onto others before it gets to me. :) Don't worry, I swore off relationships.
Hopefully by now she's progressed and evolved. At the time of this interview, she was minimizing her actions, didn't take seriously enough/take responsibility for the assault part which traumatized a young teenager and didn't realize/ acknowledge her probable racial bias which adds pain for the victim and his family. For full analysis, I think a couple of things need to be taken into consideration (not to excuse her behavior of course, just to enlighten): EVERYONE, PostCovid, has a certain amount of PTSD : life as we all know it ended (some suffered disastrous consequences), everyone's mental health is stressed to the max not just from perpetual fear/anxiety but also bc our ability to socialize/connect to our neighbor has been ended and our sense of reality and connection to the world is even more dependent on our phones. The media doesn't cover this topic enough, not seeing people's smiles amid maskville, not being able to touch hug be nearer people, learning to distrust you neighbor, is more devastating than we realize. The potential to freak out over losing a phone is much higher postCovid. People with PTSD have big reactions to small things, and if she possibly were under the influence as well, add that to the mix as well. So it's not just "oh anxiety doesn't cause assault" like this doctor glibly said, which was such an obvious point, why even say that. Kind of disappointed an expert would miss commenting on this more comprehensively, he's the expert, and he's supposed to take this gravely and not make snide jokes. She's going to need to atone for and learn from those actions, but she's still a young person and he's a doctor. That last comment too, she's not a TERROR
When are we getting “not diagnosing anybody” merch
Yess
I would add, "I am just speculating" people will run away from you🤣🤣
I'd buy that, in a heart beat.
I would so buy that!
Does "I'm not diagnosing anybody" - come in Mugs and blanket throws?
I do so much want a framed cross-stich!
She definitely is a dangerous narcissist, I hope she's locked up and gets the help she needs. Thank you Dr G for your analysis. Much appreciated
I have some suggestions to 'help' her through these tough times while in jail
1. electric shock therapy
2. forced to wear oversized baggy pants from the goodwill or thrift store.
3. anytime she asks for something, the other person will always respond with "enough" with the same hand gesture
4. burn all of her "daddy" hats
5. etc.
She can’t help that she is very attractive. I don’t know why anyone wants to diminish her physical attributes.
Omg! Been waiting so long to see this. Thank you!!
“How to destroy your life while looking as foolish as possible” lol 😂 insight and sarcasm, gets me every time 😊
His hand motions are potently hypnotising. "Yes, Dr. Grande we will do your will".
😆😂🤣😂🤣 (possibly)
Thank you for covering this! I was one of the people who asked you to do it. Thank you for reading our requests, Dr. Grande.
The alternative to the ‘daddy’ cap giving her the appearance of looking younger is that it makes her look like she thinks of herself as an escort... which are 2 very conflicting roles.
I was thinking escort
I was thinking more 'spoiled daddy's girl' !
I keep hearing “she’s Puerto Rican” okay...what does that have to do with this? Being Puerto Rican’s can be white or black. You just have to be born there, it’s a nationality, not a race. 💡
To Wild Opal
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Poncetto is using the fact that she is hispanic as a reason for her not attacking the kid based on his race. She's saying she's incapable of being racist.
@@pamelapeters3342 Which is a BS argument because Hispanic isn't a race, but rather an ethnic group based on linguistics. One can be a White Hispanic(ancestors are from Spain and didn't procreate much or at all with the Indigenous population or the descendants of the black slaves who were brought to some parts of Latin America), or a Black Hispanic, or an Indigenous Hispanic, or a mestizo Hispanic(mixed race).
“I keep hearing she’s Puerto Rican”. That’s because the media for some strange reason kept referring to her as White.
Yeah, US nationality 🤦
“I see a pattern developing here” -DR Grande😸
Love the pattern! 👌🏾
I see a pattern here too...
It’s kind of a brick wall type effect in the background.
@@lennybogart brilliant
I see a pattern already developed!
"Hello this is Dr. Grande."
"Hi Dr. Grande." Me everytime
I love that.
Me too!
So do I :) I didn't even notice...
Same!
Latest on her, she switched lawyers, plead not guilty to hate crime, she's looking at up to ten years in prison. They've been apparently trying to get her to take anger management classes, her new lawyer, said.
He's absolutely right about her needing prison time. Psychology 101, "only sever trauma will get people to change!" Matter of time before she, hurts or kills someone.
I love the dichotomy between your stayed, informative narrative and the humor you pepper throughout each episode 🤣
In the CBS interview she is incredibly NOT well spoken. She cant even find the correct words to use so she just goes for insults and getting defensive .
New background! Looks good!
Hey Plainly! Nice to run into you in such a haven of intelligent deadpan humour! ;)
Lol it's weird that channels I watch on here comment on other channels i watch. You can tell i have good taste in the content i watch. Keep up your good work Plainly difficult.
We got eased into it and I'm not complaining.
Love it when my favorite channels are fans of my other favorite channels
I thought your icon was cool so I clicked ..and you have Really great content, subscribed immediately
And she's still driving a vehicle while on a suspended license 👀
Ha. So many people don’t have valid DL let alone insurance. Since I turned 16 I have never been without insurance or my DL. It’s amazing how people don’t give a crap!
SoHo Karen getting mocked by the good doctor's signature deadpan humor.
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A friend told me that "her parents didn't love her enough to teach her kindness." I have no way of knowing her situation, but she, obviously, hasn't been taught any type of conflict resolution skills.
Well, her mom was arrested alongside her last year being drunk and disorderly, so we get a little glimpse into that situation. She seems to be demonstrating the same belligerent, entitled behavior her mom models for her.
Or maybe loved her so much, that it instilled in her that she can never be wrong?
@@jakobole that’s not love
Based on the fact that her mother has been involved in her antics, I'd have to conclude that mom is probably an entitled Karen and treats her daughter like a friend.
“She’s out there roaming around.” 😂😂😂
She was visiting family
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Hide yo kids, hide yo wife, Karens attackin' everybody up in here!
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@@maryw1778
To Mary W
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9 times out of 10, a criminal accuses others of being criminals. They have this false believe that if they deliberately broke the law, then everyone else has that same exact urge to break the law.
Your passive humour got me hooked, I'm always waiting to hear when it will drop because one can never tell with your unchanged tone or expression, and that's what unique about that!
Same here 😂😂😂
I love how she thinks that claiming to be Puerto Rican somehow means she can't be racist. Meanwhile all Latinos/Hispanics know damn well that our communities are some of the MOST racist against Black and Indigenous peoples bc of the Spanish caste system that's ingrained in our cultures.
I bet she tells people her grandparents are from Spain.
@@moneybags999 ikr
a light skinned Latino/Hispanic claiming they aren't racist lol yeah i have seen that before.
As a Puerto Rican I feel so ashamed she probably thinks cause she’s mixed with black that she can’t be racist which is awful to think: although I’m proud of my African heritage we need to teach that one cannot compare the experiente of darker shade people from those of light skin individuals. This woman attacked a child and needs to pay for it.
She probably calls black people mayates and Mexican immigrants choonts. I hate to say this, but I glad she is not an O’Brien or a Shaunessy.
I FLIP out when my phone is missing and have a panic attack, but I wouldn't tackle a gotdamn minor
You would be more likely to be running around asking if anyone had seen it.
That bit about the lawyer's math skills had me cracking up!
Shes 22, too old to try and claim she made a mistake that shouldn’t define her. She needs to be held accountable, something I don’t think she’s ever done in her life by how entitled she behaves
I am so not used to seeing Dr Grande gesticulating in his videos! Good to see him trying a new form factor, the content is always brilliant. Nearly 600k subs, really picking up speed now - great to see a channel with professional mental health content doing so well, in times that it will help the most.
@Will Avison
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Well said➖😎🔥
He could have a whole channel dedicated to Karens!
Here for it 😄
What song? TIA!
Please. No. I want the Karens to go away.
@@geekdivaherself it's a song by david bowie
This is a very unique approach in content construction! In my opinion, the total separation of narrator to content combined with a dispassionate, analytical and precise breakdown of events make this approach very interesting. Good job!
You need to see her second DUI arrest from last October-you can hear her say "there are gang members killing people right now and you're arresting a girl"?
Oh dear Lord, please save us from the Karens; please also save the Karens from being Karens. I think this would help a lot. Amen.
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I started being sarcastic, but then being an American Presbyterian I suddenly got mostly serious. I couldn't help myself! I really wanted to be sarcastic, though!
@@geekdivaherself -Excellent post!
I would of been like "we'll get to those gang members right after you ma'am"
someone get him a neon light that says “not diagnosing anybody” for the set up and we’re in business!
That would be epic!!
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That poor kid! I'm glad he's getting some therapy to help him work through it. My son was assaulted at school and it really helped him through it.
I saw in a CNN interview with his parents, I think it was from today, that he is in music therapy and with help of his friends and his parents he's written and recorded a song. The little bit they played of it was good!
What got me is she says “anyone who left the hotel could’ve had the phone,” BUT she made the choice to accuse a 14 year old, high school freshman, black man. That’s racial profiling if I’ve never seen it before. I knew she was Puerto Rican so I hoped she was gonna be remorseful or have an explanation of some form that would make me less baffled but she didn’t and it made it soo much worst. I was thinking being categorized by the U.S government as a minority herself she wouldn’t be ignorant to her crime, but she’s entitled. It was really horrible to see.
I read in an interview she did just before she was arrested she said "he's 14? thats what their claiming? Well I'm 22 we're pretty much the same age. I'm a kid at heart as well." ..... I take it she decided to take the masterclass in apologies from youtubers instead of taking the advice from her lawyer. She was even aggressive trying to flip the story around to try look like the victim....oof...
“She has no future in a debate team” 😂😂😂
She was drinking at the airport recently she has a problem with alcohol
Clear substance use disorder probably with an underlying mood disorder and possibly a personality disorder. She does at this point need to serve a jail/prison sentence, however her mental health will not be treated there. I am sorry she is so clearly miserable and without the capacity for self-control.
She won't even learn anything from it. The girl doesn't have a place to screw in a light bulb up there.
Yup pic of her returning to LA after her arrest had her holding a drink. 🍹
Going back to videos I missed before… SO glad I watched this one. The roasting is brutal (rightly so), I was dying. Thanks, Dr. Todd.
She’s lucky she wasn’t in a conceal carry state. She would’ve been shot by my brother if she assaulted his kids in our state. Great video. She’s clearly in need of therapy and maybe meds.
Are you seriously saying that your brother would resort to shooting someone who tackled one of his kids, instead of using non-deadly force? Even in crazy-cuckoo gun land, that might land him with a manslaughter charge.
@@originalhgc I would be scared I'd end up shooting my kid. But if I had a stick or bat or something .... she would have been lit up.
@@originalhgc
People are just too eager to end human life when non-lethal force is enough.
You're saying your brother is a coward when it comes to skinny 22 year old women?
@@TheRealCaptainFreedom Why do you think she would be prescribed SSRI's? Do you think she is depressed? And why would someone on those medications drink alcohol?
She won't serve a day in jail. We'll be told that "the trauma of being arrested was punishment enough," or whatever crap we get told when someone with entitlement gets caught doing something rotten.
I don't know man...I think she may be patient zero.
She'll get house arrest and appeal
She just got community service for her first crime. She has 3 or 4 other court cases pending for stuff that she's done.
Now I’m so curious what the “daddy” hat has to do with her “story?”
IK, R?
I read that it's a porn site of some kind. Maybe an add hat?
I think she is trying to look like a little girl, but I suspect the majority of people who wear a hat like that mean it in the sexual context, not an homage to their actual father.
I believe it might be because she was visiting her father in NYC, in reference to the hat being "part of her story".
IMO It says “I’m going to do ridiculous things in a sad effort to go viral and get my 15minutes of fame.” Her comment of ‘I’m Puerto Rican I can’t be racist’ is to bait Twitter into getting her to trend.
Whether racially motivated or not, this gal is a piece of work. She assaulted a young teen for no legitimate reason, yet she still sees herself as the victim. Now she might get off completely because her lawyer won't shut up about her client's flaws. The child's father was the only reasonable person in this case that I could see, as he was defending his son against an entitled lunatic.