Incel Rejected by "30 Million" Women Opens Fire at Gym | George Alfred Sodini Case Analysis
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I will never understand how people can clearly be the common denominator in their romantic failures and still blame everyone else.
Could they be on the autistic spectrum and have poor social skills? My brother is, and is very awkward around females. He gives them the creeps, but it's not his fault! 🤗
Apply that to literally ever issue somebody has in life, lol you won't do that.
I understand it. It's a simple mechanism.
You'll never understand.....but, seriously, have you ever tried to?
Everyone wants to be loved
He wasn’t that bad looking from what I can see. He must have been incredibly horrible with personal social interaction and been out of touch with reality.
Could be so are a lot of guys. Most won't do what he did though.
Well.......True you can be decent and not bad looking but it's possible the ladies he preferred wanted more than just decent looking with prefect interactions. Some people want 10 out of 10 and will prefer to be alone then to deal with average, below average......Maybe he wanted to impress people with those high standards......
Some folks don't want to '' settle" they want the cream of the crop even if they can't get that they still want it ............
Narcissists always are.
@@knowledgeseeker4116"perfect interactions" 🤡
Like Bryan Kohberger grrrr 😖
Be carefull of what you wish for, half of the population is trying to get into a relationship and the other half is trying to get out of one
Ain’t that the truth
😂😂😂
That’s hilarious! But…true!
Absolute Gold!!! 😂😭😂
Oh no. Don't throw everyone into two different groups. Some of us are happily single.
I could be wrong because I've never been good at math, but I think there isn't enough time in a life to be rejected 30 million times.
Yeah I thought that too.
I think it's possible if he joined dating sites where he can meet women from all across the U.S.. Now, I assume that he never tried looking for love in Asia or Latin America, those are places where is very easy for white men to find "love".. I quoted that word because I can't help but think that many of those women are only using American men for their money and looks.
There are some guys that will literally ask every woman they meet which... explains everything lol
maybe online?
Nowadays with Tinder and a large city, you can knock that out pretty quick.
I hate people that hurt others because they’re having a difficult life. Everyone is having a difficult life. It does not give you the right to harm others.
How much do you hate them?
@@billshiff2060 Enough to make a youtube comment about it then go on about their life lol.
No, not everyone is having a difficult life at all. Plenty of people are born into good genetics, good families, money, plenty of opportunities, so many people these days have an easy life handed to them, and then can't comprehend why people end up lonely and depressed and lashing out.
@@Koroar Those people, the privileged ones, are very often people who end up being abusers and worse. Nope, having a full-blown personality disorder has little to do with privileged life.
@@TheCoffeeCat how is that relevant in any way?? Not every successful person has a personality disorder
And thus, he proved all the women who rejected him were absolutely right and dodged a massive bullet.
Not all the women
@@NoHurriesNoWorries Yes, all the women
@@nukeputin420 it was a joke
Exactly.
If he was rich he would have needed to fight them off. Women are smart. They know the romance wears off but the moola remains. The moola!
They often are their own worst enemy. They may try to meet women but they say weird, socially awkward things, get angry, and their energy is all wrong. Weirdos.
Exactly like me.
Your point being?
Yes!!
It would be interesting to know how many close male friends he had. I have no doubt that much of the content he posted on his blog would scare some women away from him, but I also believe a good number of men would've questioned his stability, too.
That's like being a business owner and being angry at the public for not buying your garbage product or service.
It's like being really short and never getting a chance to be in the nba because of things you don't have control of. women are terrible
@@gregtederd5452lmfao nobody is terrible because they don’t want you. grow up incel. there is CLEARLY a reason.
this is an awful analogy. You can change or make a new product, you cant change your face without invasive expensive surgeries which have a high chance of making you look worse.
No one is entitled to sex with anyone, at any time. Welcome to life.
Well said.
Right, except for sexual services. Welcome to capitalism ;)
But women are entitled to have children no matter how incompetent they are at that; and most men's sex drive is stronger than a woman's drive to have children.
This doesn't mean a man is entitled to sex or a woman's attention. But maybe it is a reason to legalize sex work; and to get rid of the cultural psychology that we are all entitled to whatever we want.
@@charlescole645Uber eats getting real interesting now
Women choose whom they have sex with and how frequently. Men choose whom they marry. ❤
Women were not attracted to George because they sensed that he didn't like them. His hatred repelled others.
How have you come that conclusion?
@eadweard. , Dr. Grande said that George blamed others for his inability to attract women. It seems that he never looked at himself internally to see why women avoided him.
Exactly. Someone who would consider what he did as even an option should not even be in society.
@@yolipurpleflower9895none of what you wrote means he hated anyone , that’s some next level reaching
@@tylerberg4832how about the mass shooting? You’re literally watching the video dude that spells out he hated women. Freaking incels man
I actually met this man. He was in a large social group I was in. Was pretty quiet but polite. Shocking and sad for those poor women. 😓
Dude's fine as fuck.
What was your experience with him? Other than being quiet and polite, what impression did he give you?
So what you’re saying is your could have dropped him a little neck and saved those women ? Joking of course but not of the dead.what impression did he give you ?
So he had a personality that tends to turn off women...This is interesting, considering that most men would love to find a woman who is quiet and polite! sounds like a perfect woman! Not to mention that this guy was also handworker, kept his house clean and organized, worked out... Man, I would love to find a woman with all those traits!
The "problem" with this guy is that he lacked humor skills, social skills, leadership skills, and many other things that women judge men on.
@@Dah42 Maybe he should have looked for a woman who also struggles with social skills?
Wow! I am 36 and single and can’t wait to find the love of my life. Do I resent men or hate them because I have not found the one? No way, to the contrary I love men and appreciate their masculine nature. Victimizing yourself is a huge red flag, he clearly has deep deep insecurities and that repels others.
There is a huge incel problem growing in our society.
And part of it is the constant attacks on men/ the patriarchy/white men are all racist/ snarky attitudes towards those outside your group/ the American psychology that you are entitled to have everything you want; and the American culture that it is cool to be snarky; especially to those who you reject as not in a group your psychology exclude or get triggered by.
I know of a case where a woman brought her kid to a swimming pool; she laid down to sunbathe and the little girl jumped in and went to the bottom; an older man jumped in and brought the kid up; who was then crying and clinging to, and hugging the man; the mom heard the crying and started yelling at the man; other woman ( none who had been paying attention); joined in.
I witnessed it; and my views were dismissed until security camera footage showed it exactly as stated.
The mom; nor any of the women apologized to the man.
And I don't think anyone is surprised by that. Fifty years ago he would have been a community hero; and everyone would have been getting on the mom's case for not watching her kid; especially one that doesn't know how to swim.
@@craigbritton1089 You make a number of valid and overlooked points. I have often wondered where all these angry people come from whenever there is another mass shooting somewhere. Well, our good ol' controlled media does nothing to discourage this trend. Not only does it thrive on fast, sensational ratings, but it has been open season on men and especially white males for decades. They are the only group who can be legally discriminated against via the process known as Affirmative Action.
Nowadays, only women or men of certain ethnicities can be recognized as folk heroes.
@@craigbritton1089 yup. Man would have been better off doing nothing, at least then those harpies would have learned a valuable lesson.
@@craigbritton1089 Thats a thing with women. They attack in groups. They even attack women who are being attacked by a man. Like a 14 year old girl had a guy at school make fake nudes of her and spread them around. The girl said they other girls got mad at her. WHY? They should be protecting her not attacking her. I think this is a major problem in society today. I even heard that the Uvalde shooter was being bullied and had many other problems and went to the school to pay the women back for the bullying.
@@craigbritton1089cool story bro 👍🏼
A middle-aged, middle class man thought he was entitled to a 20 to 35-year-old model. He refused himself a reality check. A hot woman in her 20s to 30s is not going to be romantically interested in a much older man unless he is charming and good-looking and probably taller than average. Even a rich older man will not be seen as anything other than a wallet if there is no physical chemistry there.
Hard pill to swallow. He should have just been honest with himself, and then perhaps dated sugar babies.
FACT!
Blame feminism for some of this. Feminism has caused a lot of trouble.
Really, when you have no physical or emotional chemistry with someone, of someone goes for you, it's all about the wallet. Men or women. He seems like he's one of those "I'm a nice guy" type. It's sad that he had these mental issues. I wish he had gotten help, and possibly be disabused of his notion that young men had sex 3x daily, and that 30 million women had turned him down. Murder solves nothing. Neither does suicide. But if you look for the "perfect" women and "10s" alone, you will be lonely. I don't know about anyone else, but I have Creep-Dar. I've met a few men in my life that I was around for all of 60 seconds, and knew without doubt that they has the capacity for murder. I couldn't understand women who thought these people were fine. Well, one of them, anyway. For the other two, nobody but one weird guy I knew back then wanted anything to do with him. Even invited the guy to MY parties, at which point everyone there made it clear he was not invited. The same weird guy gave my phone number to yet another unstable weirdo. I had to tell him to stop doing that, because he was becoming creepy too.
He couldn’t get ANYTHING.
The amount of times as a woman I've failed at attracting a partner (EVEN in my 20s when I probably looked my best) never made me resentful. I just figured either I'm not as appeasing to the eyes as I thought I was or I just needed to wait for the right guy. It helps to be out and about. I met the love of my life in the most obscure place. 11 years of marriage and we still act like newlyweds.
I believe the reason women don't act like George is because men feel ENTITLED to women and sex.
Beautiful comment:)
I agree and would add that men view women as objects. Women usually dont view men that way. I feel like objectification of women is somehow in the DNA of most men. It is so prevelent.
@@scifirealism5943 Dude, you are so cringe 🤢
@@vanessasmith6925yes.
This is so sad. I struggle to make friends and to date but I’m not killing nobody or myself. It sucks but you gotta live through it and make the best out of whatever life gives you
Pretty much. I have not had a girlfriend in 16 years. During those years, I learned to be content with life and myself. From my lonely experience with myself, it is not worth putting someone over your goals and overall wellness.
Women seem to have an impossible list of requirements today. Very difficult to find a date, let alone keep her interest if you do get one. Better things to spend time and money on.
This guy REALLY needed to get a dog. It is amazing what the unconditional love of a dog can do to help your mental state.
Good point!
Dogs don't love you they're just driven by food
Dogs don’t replace human interactions
This guy maybe could have really benefitted from an AI Doll, they would reflect his thoughts only and put out what he wanted. Whats not to love?.
@@venicec3310 dog nutters are the most delusional people I've ever encountered
What about women that don't have and can't find a man! I know women who were never married or had children! Do they mass kill men? WTH!
That would be me. No I never killed anyone or felt the need to. This guy sounds creepy and awkward. Probably had a mental issue or two...
Incels only want the women they deem to be sexy. They never seem interested in the ones who are regular
women, especially if they’re overweight.
I’m failing to see the point pertaining to the video. did you just want to point out that most mass shooters are men and its not fair that women don’t do it??
They only want Chad
@@poindextertunesMaybe someone wanted to just share their opinion without being super controversial. Sometimes people can POINT THINGS OUT without having an ulterior motive. She didnt say “its ok bc its women ☕️ “ she simply stated that plenty of women are incels and they dont murder.
He thought too much of himself. He should have accepted the women who would accept him. Instead he seemed out young women. Vulnerable narcissism.
He was not attracted to those women.
I got curious and did the math. If you live for 100 years, and deduct 8 hours a day for sleep, and assuming the rejections start at 18, you'd be getting rejected every 28.4116 seconds of your waking life for 82 years. That would be pretty upsetting for anyone.
This made me laugh so loudly. I appreciate you doing the math.
Social media has exacerbated this problem today than in 2009.
As a single male I've gone offline and improved my connections with my community through work, play and volunteer.
I could feel bad about myself by comparing other couples my age, but I feel better by using this opportunity of being single by walking dogs at the local shelter who are even more alone.
Perhaps I don't know what I'm looking for in a partner, but I will continue to learn more about myself and do the things that I continue to enjoy in the meantime.
You coukd also try a counsellor or psychologist who could work through any personal problems. It has helped some people find partners.
Knowing this about you makes you more attractive ❤
I just turned 29 and I'm still a virgin.
I've given up on dating and hook up apps.
This guy (the shooter) didn't seem to have any friends, either. I can only assume that he was antisocial. He seemed to only focus "being lonely" as being without a girlfriend. Instead of having any type of social life.
Women must've sensed that there was something wrong with him in order to get rejected many times.
Intuition was strong
I think its more like 5-10 women rejected him and instead of trying 29,999,980 more times, he threw in the hat and called it a wrap.
Definitely.
He were nearly 50 and wanted women in their 20s and 30s . No wonder he didn't get a date. Young women usually don't want an old man.
@@Wilda295old?!!!
True fact: The word "Incel" was created by a woman named Alana (she doesn't disclose her last name) in the late 90's as a group where men and women who couldn't find dates or love could chat/talk about things.
Is this a trick question? You know what incel is short for yeah? It's very straightforward.
@@bennym5244 let me slow the original comment down for you.
This woman invented the term Incel. She combined those 2 words and attached that meaning to it.
How did you get so far from being an intelligent person. But still have the confidence to pretend you are?
I knew a young guy, similar situation that also took his own life. He was just socially awkward and tried to hard.
I used to tell him to just get active in some kind of activity where he would meet people and he would ultimately meet someone.
He was his dads only son. Pretty sad situation.
Yeah very terrible advice that you gave to him
@@vampiszoonis9691
Yep, so the joke is on me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
i don't want that to happen to me.
@scifirealism5943
When I was young and dinosaurs roamed the flat earth I was extremely shy. And pretty awkward socially.
I was terrified at the prospect of approaching a girl and being rejected in front of God and everybody.
If not for peer pressure and a little bullying from my friends I would have never gotten over it.
okay.@@Cleatus546
One of the things that struck me about this case is that the guy had hundreds of thousands of dollars in his bank account. That's enough money to change ones life in a lot of different ways....such as travel to other countries to find a partner if necessary. I think the guy had some serious undelying mental issues and not just someone suffering from loneliness.
Definitely.
Bingo. It's both in vogue and reasonable to give up on American women and seek wife elsewhere.
In the vid it was noted he did travel. Probably creeped out women across the globe. An international creeper if you will.
@@pierrechildress8875😂 international creeper. Great moniker.
Only people suffering are his victims. Does evil not exist? Is it all underlying mental issues we have no control over?
The “Jesus already died for my sins so I’m going to heaven regardless of murder” train of thought is so extremely terrifying holy shxt 😳
I know a Christian who has this same line of thinking. Because Jesus has forgiven her sins, she can sin all she likes because in the end, she’ll go to heaven. They really didn’t read the manual thoroughly
That's not how Jesus or Christianity works. Or any religion, that I can think of.
Yeah that's definitely not what the Bible says...people love taking scriptures out of context or taking things literally or just picking and choosing what scriptures do or don't support their narratives.
Yeah, well I don't believe that's going to happen.
It is the cheap grace of once saved; always saved crap.
I have been labeled as UGLY by women for 62 years and I haven’t killed anyone. As a matter of fact, the older I get, the HAPPIER I become. Yeah, it sucks being alone but, in general, I am doing fine (psychologically and financially).😊
Glad to hear that. Once my folks go, i'll have no more ties to the outside world. I've always been a loner who enjoys his own company, but I hope complete and utter loneliness doesn't prove too much for me to take.
I've seen plenty of men and women who look like Jabba the Hutt who are, somehow, able to find romance.
Yeah sure you are dude. Keep coping
Copium
Men making women feel creeped out, then proceeding to confirm that they are every bit as or even more creepy than women felt they were. Women have this 6th sense for survival reasons.
Bundy used false pretenses and the only victim to escape him was creeped out, but he posed as a policeman using authority to “help” her with her broken into car, so yes, although they are forever silenced, I am sure a good number of those victims were creeped out, but they can’t tell us because they didn’t listen to that voice in their head that society had trained them to ignore as “female hysteria” and are dead because of it.
The comments on this video just confirm that most women should remain single.
But it doesn't always work all that well - judging from the HUGE numbers of women who end up in abusive relationships/marriages and/or experience gender-based violence of all sorts... 🤷♂️
A man who acts like a victim is one of the biggest turn-offs ever.
Amen sister I’m married to one😣
Because In a relationship women want to play that role
You love it
It seems to me that he could attract someone, she'd be as wacko as he but, hey, whatever works!
Women who are over the hill love to say stuff like this
It's almost like attracting a partner takes more than just "me go gym" or "me have money".
If you have money, it’s actually not that hard.
@@michaelperez9966 confidence and social validation is more important than money. Money will just attract the wrong women without genuine connection
@@michaelperez9966 incel
@@dbased1915 Problem is people buy into that delusion and, in a sense, become intoxicated by it. In other words, it becomes their only understanding of reality.
There's a balance that must be had. A man with money will attract more of the gold-digging types. A man with no money will attract people with similar problems.
The best case I've seen is people who share the same profession and have met very early in their lives.
What does it actually take? Asking for a friend
Women can tell when a man is wallowing in resentment towards them (men can also see it in women). If you convince yourself that you're a victim and that women are all bad because they don't give you the attention that you want, they will sense it and avoid you. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. If people don't address that kind of thinking first, it won't matter how much money they make or how often they work out.
Being alone is better than acquiring a headache.
The headache being...
@@mariposa6615 an unstable partner.
All the self un-aliving men say otherwise, lol. That's just your way of coping. Cope is a cope is a cope.
He doesn't seem like much of an incel if he's had sex 57 times. Compared to me he's like Tom Cruise.
lol.
I'm a virgin. I'm nearly 30.
@@scifirealism5943Nothing wrong with that.
@@briskettacos I agree.
I feel sorry for you guys. I hope your lives turn around. Take care.
If I knew him, I would have told him to stop trying so hard, relax a bit, do the things that you enjoy, and show the world who you are. In my experience, that is what works... and if you don't get to meet a woman that loves you, at least you'll enjoy your life.
Good advice. Dancing is a great place to meet people, ballroom or Latin. Also garden clubs.
Or take some drugs and chill the fuck out.
I would have told him to go on line and order a bride.
Yeah, in my mid 20's I tried too hard. Combined with being a bit awkward socially, that was it. I finally decided I just didn't care any more, and met my wife fairly shortly thereafter.
@@matthewbrown8679 Priceless lesson about getting in the way of our own success. The key to that, I've found, is to love what's already there in our lives that's worth loving, and not focus on what's not there or what's there but not worth loving.
I'm shocked all of his plans and motivation were posted online yet nobody discovered this until after the atrocity.
I guess it showed how invisible he was…
This was 2009 nobody took online threats seriously as they do now
He had to learn to love himself before he could expect anyone else to love him. Can’t put the cart before the horse.
There’s really nothing more narcissistic than when an individual want revenge against people who will not behave or think in a way that validates his or her delusional subjective self image.
That’s the majority of Americans! 🤣😂🤣😂
Yet look at how many murderers on death row have groupies who want to marry them in prison. There are a lot of desperate females out there.
I'm going to go out on a limb and say "Asperger's." Not understanding other people's feelings, or even realizing that other people have feelings, the total lack of empathy - sounds just like my abusive ex.
Just Americans?
I have a feeling george might be autistic
Wow my condolences to the families of the lost three women that were killed in the gym.
Ok
@@adamantium4797
I dont use this word often but man do I have to say, "incel" if one replied to my comment.
Ok
@@mtflieutenant7693can you explain what you mean by someone replying to your comment ?
@@kwilliams3161
I replied but it wasnt posted apparently.
Anyway I said, "Im condoling the families of the lost women in the gym and this incel is ok-ing me, only an incel would do that, only incels mass shoot people or support it, just like the loser in the video."
Also, it's gross when older men are only interested in younger women. Maybe if he tried finding someone his own age, he would have success.
lol
really lol? sounds like you live in a bubble.
Especially when they're stingy and refuse to give gifts and money, their only value.
One of the many reasons I have a home gym.
Serious or trolling?
Millions of people have been rejected and/or live lonely lives on the fringe of society but they don't turn to attention getting violence and mass murder. For me, just the mere fact that he was able to plan and go through with that act, shows that the women who rejected him were right on with their instincts about this man. He wasn't pushed to violence by women, he was a narcissistic, likely controlling, violence prone man who was always capable of a horrendous act.
Thank you! 💯
Some people are just born bad seeds.
Yes, thank you telling it how it is!
But he had matching couches!
@@gold707786 :D, I was laughing the whole video, such a stupid guy
Women can sense a guy’s oddity. They may never be able to see it in themselves but it is loud and clear to others. The world is full of these types.
Guys like to believe they are great. Doesn't matter how many people want to avoid them, they're narcissistic, entitled, and resentful that others won't validate their delusions.
I wish......just a wish forgive me.....that for the oddity guys there was a decent amount of women for them ......The herd mentally of 80 percent of women for 10 percent of guys is unfortunate but it is what it is but one can still wish.......
Very true. I am glad we have intuition and emotional intelligence to spot these creeps.
thats what makes half of us odd ones odd.
its like an interview where they're scanning for you nervousness.
want to know the ones who never feel nervous ... psychopaths.
Yes, a predator
I admit I laughed at the delusional idea that all people have sex three times a day, like they don’t have work or other responsibilities that don’t leave one drained of sexual drive. But it’s still scary how someone’s unchecked beliefs and behaviors can lead to tragedies like these. 😔
Porn thy need to take it down
It's not delusional for me. Me and my wife have sex 3x a day at least 3 days a week. We do it at least once a day. I can't even remember the last time we didn't have sex.🤷♂️
It's not delusional at all just clearly not realistic for someone like you❤
@@Jeff-sp7bgcap
@@Thebeastisabeauty Nobody, especially you, aren't getting it 3 times a fuckin day !!!! It will drain your energy.
Im 48 never had a girlfriend or dated before i never even had any friends its crazy how life just passed me by so fast with out people
Fr
You need to join a league
Why do we think we are entitled to a romantic partner? Many people never find the right person. Validation comes from inside, not elsewhere.
I was thinking that too. People can be really sad from not getting partners. It’s happened since the dawn of time no doubt. But the entitlement-I’m ‘owed’ something- thats where the trouble is
Because men have a self destruct button deep within them without a partner. It's biology.
thank you for keeping it gender neutral. a lot of people write similar statements for men only
Because mentally-ill men see ejaculating inside a woman as proof they are manly men. The vagina is just an obstacle course to them getting respect from the boys. Good thing they’re out of the gene pool.
Women are the ones going around making tiktoks crying about not finding the right man and blaming it on men being to intimidated.
I live south of Pittsburgh and remember this quite well. Before the shooting, he was kicked out of a local church for being inappropriate with women. He posted a VERY creepy video of his apartment. Took folks on a tour to tempt women to date him. He joined a men's program called "Balls of Steel" which aimed to teach men how to get a woman. Very sad case.
How the hell do you get kicked out of church? This guy was on some other stuff. He had something seriously undiagnosed going on for sure. In the news, did it say anything about him having family, parents?
My nieces were in the gym when this happened but were not injured.
balls of steel, I need more information on it. It sounds hilarious
specifically, what did he do to the woman at the church?
@@askquestions1236thank God! Glad they were ok.
I think learning how to treat women, and how to respect men should be part of the educational system.
The fact that we have to teach these fundamentals shows how far we've recessed.
YES
Wrong. How to treat and respect everyone.
These men don’t respect women period.
And Family Law
"learning how to treat women" in what way? Why only mention respect for men but not include respecting women in your statement? Who has the authority to teach what you believe and why? You claimed such a vague suggestion but based on your wording I can sense where you were heading: old toxic outdated traditions and misogyny, which we are not accepting or going back to.
All of that wanting to give love was a lie, after all. Thank you, Dr. Grande.
(RIP to those who died).
I remember a friend of mine who in his forties was angered by rejection by twenty-year-old musicians and artists. He wanted a traditional wife to bear his children and keep house for him, and developed a belief that young women were stupid and immoral for not leaping at this "prime opportunity" to marry him. He was bright and ran a record label, which he felt ought to make up for his lack of physical handsomeness, and also gave him a way to interact with exciting young women playing in bands.
When I suggested instead of music clubs, he look elsewhere for women closer to his own age, who might want the same things he did, he became extremely angry and insulted at the whole idea he would "settle for a dog". ONLY the most attractive, creative, and especially YOUNG women counted as possibilities even into his fifties, at which time he became angry at me as well and cut off contact. I have been half-expecting him to poison an entire bar of music fans at some point as revenge for his ill-considered expectations' failure.
Dating woman in 40s ain't worth it, but hey I am 22 so who cares lol
There are some very unattractive women in their 50s who think they are entitled to the same things that women in their 20s expect. If you were a man who spent years accumulating the qualities that women expect, why would you want to give those things you exhausted yourself for to an aging, physically unattractive woman?
Lol your suggestion to date old ladies is not that great, they are even more pickier
40 y.o. women wanting to have children is kind of late.
Men in their 40's expecting 20 y.o. artists to drop everything and become their trad wife are delusional. Just because you are physically capable of impregnating a woman, doesn't mean it can't be too late to start a family. Find someone your own age and adopt, if it's that important.
Likely his greatest deficit was his inability to see women as actual people. People with value greater than their outward appearance. His superficiality made him interested in a very small percentage of the population; and his lack of good values made him undesirable to everyone.
I’d argue that men who see women as objects and trophies to be conquered are sexually more successful.
Bullshit it was to do with his looks
@@georgemoore-wg5jjstop being a simp you don’t even know this person, where they live or if they’re even female…
Well said 😉
I feel glad that I actually love being alone...love waking up alone...enjoy my own company. Great to know I have personal freedom and agency...and I can live in any country I choose. Pleased that nobody feels sorry for me - few emotions are more worthless than pity.
I have an old friend that i barely talk to anymore, which is similar to george. I have basically cut him off because of his negative energy/outlook.
I think George would have found a partner if he had spent a few years in therapy, did the work on himself, and chose to keep a positive mindset
Rip to the victims
George was not just looking for a woman to be a romantic partner. He was looking for a woman who was substantially younger, and thus less experienced and knowledgeable about life in general. People, even young women, understand when someone is out to manipulate them. He could have found a romantic partner in a woman closer to his own age. It was his emotional immaturity that prevented him from being able to develop a relationship.
The sense of entitlement that he could attract a partner half his age!
A part from the fact that he was was probably only interested in getting hot women, that's a problem right there, for anybody.
He didn't have experiences with younger women and hence why he was looking for them. He didn't have experiences with much of anybody, if he was telling the truth. According to the news and his neighbors, he rarely left the house and didn't talk to anybody when he did.
Leo Dicaprio seems to have no problem with getting younger women lol
@@shebakali6 "Women don't owe you anything" is a common anti-social, social Darwinist, incelerationist utterance used by neoliberal feminists in response to incels pointing out that women are less sexually generous than men.
Given everyone knows no one is entitled to sex, a person who says "Women don't owe you anything" is usually saying three things:
1. I have no genuine intention to help shy or ugly men get laid
2. Society has no genuine intention to help shy or ugly men get laid
3. And this is just
Incels already know society does not want to help them, so the phrase feels like rubbing the problem in incels' faces. Someone proclaiming their unwillingness to help feels bad in general.
Moreover, this is essentially hypocritical because most feminists will insist that society provide for any want or need that women have. Some examples include free emotional labor from doctors/therapists, free housing, free food, free transportation, undeserved hiring and promotion, protection when walking around at 2 A.M., and so on.
Incel: 'Once online dating become ubiquitous, less than 20% of men will have a partner.'
Feminist: 'Women don't owe you anything.'
(This exchange happens a lot between self-described incels and feminists.)
Implied meaning from feminist in that context: 'In that situation 80%+ of the men would be unworthy of women, and that would be just.'
Somehow I have a feeling that if a woman ended up with him they would be in danger, because if George found out that all his problems weren't actually fixed once he had a partner, he would have to conclude there is something is wrong with his partner.
Oh ! 100%.
Great point
@@Filthy_Larry you are right , but in this particular video we are talking about unhinged incel. He is delusional. He would find problems in others but won’t look in himself.
@@Filthy_Larry are you childfree?
I know your feeling is 💯 correct. He needed therapy and mental health treatment - he was seriously mentally ill. Those types of people are horrible in romantic relationships.
He wasn't ugly, he was a psycho, which is why no one wanted to be with him
@@Filthy_Larry guess he was just psycho creepy. There are levels of being a psycho. Also, Mason and Bundy were good at manipulating people. Again, levels
actually women are highly attracted to psychopathy and narcissism in men, so this isn't the exact reason he wasn't attractive, with a bit more charisma he would hav likely done just fine.
@@theironson1043 believe me, we aren't attracted to that. As you said, he had no charisma, there was nothing going for him. If he had had any charisma then THAT'S what women would have been attracted to. Him being a psycho and a narcissist disproves what you said, women like charismatic men, just like men like charismatic women.
@@brendagomez8656 I'd never trust a fish to say what they like I'd rather ask a fisherman as a fish has no incentive, no urgent need to be right, but a fisherman will starve if he is unsuccessful so you'll have to forgive if I take what you say with a grain of salt, though I'm sure it bares some form of merit.
The psychological literature points to women being rather obviously attracted to dark triad traits specifically, I believe narcissism ranks the highest followed by psychopathy and machiavelianism these traits would rank higher than the typical traits that men have.
Not the same: In short, charisma is a form of competence (social), which men would not need this from a woman necessarily like the other way around to be attracted.
As far as the other point, women are attracted to an amalgamation of things, its holistic.
A narcissistic man would be more attractive than a normal man by simply being self absorbed, he would be more successful at navigating her psychological fitness tests that most of the normal men would fail by caring too much. The same advantage would exist w/the psycho, his lack of emotion would be seen as a form of strength which (strength) is what causes chemical attraction from woman to man.
Nonchalance is also a very powerful arm of social charisma, which requires lower empathy to pull off, which is why these traits would ultimately be attractive, that being said, a psycho would be hard to read because they have little to no emotion to go off of which would come off as mysterious, which is attractive to women, both groups would likely put themselves on a pedestal as oppose to the woman, this means they'd either treat her like crap or they'd just treat her with indifference, this treatment would end up making the woman like the men more as many women tend to respond to poor treatment very well because they coincidentally associate it w/dominance because they assume their social value is less than the person treating them poorly, the constant flux in her emotion from high to low would raise attraction so they'd end up liking the man a great deal. Women also have documented hybristophilia tendencies which is very much inline with psychopathic tendencies.
all of this to say I agree that charisma is what women are attracted to but it's not the full story, charisma is what lures them but other traits keep them. I've gotten women out of their pants off of pure charisma before, but I've lost them later on as a result of lacking enough narcissistic traits to retain interest so to your point your not wrong it's just not the whole story is all I'm saying... the other wildcard is that women tend to like men who already have women, the single men tend to be invisible.
actually we like sisters better@@brendagomez8656
My ex did something like this when we first were getting to know each other. Sent me tons of pictures of his house and renovations he did…totally trying to impress me and it was very much like you described…like he was trying to sell himself. He was a covert narcissist and blamed all his relationship failures on the many women he’d had and married. After being with him a couple years, I can attest that they failed because of him!!! Just odd and highly disturbed people!
That's a secret, you don't try to impress women. Men who do end up miserable.
I can't imagine why no one wanted him. it can't be his charming self or his personality.
Oh shut up it’s all about looks
Deluded as fuck. Personality is a joke it’s all about looks
It was his self-pity and sense of entitlement that made him incompatible with too many people. The content on his blog reeked of mounting anger.
😂😂😂
So sad a lot of the people at that gym were probably there to better themselves going through there own problems. Whether that was for medical reasons, gain self confidence, or just there to relax and take the stress away. This guy was so selfish and took his anger out on innocent people.
Wrong. He was also there to better himself. After years of doing so with absolutely no change from anyone around him, after years and years of suffering, it makes someone mentally ill.
But none of you can see that. He was truly hurting inside. You’ll never understand that pain.
Not justifying his actions btw.
@@BEAST.420Gand? Other people are also suffering, he's not special.
@@Mukyuify Is everyone mentally ill? And if everyone is suffering, does that mean we should ignore that?
@@BEAST.420G I feel sorry for Sodini. He was in pain.
If I remember correctly, he ended up targeting a class full of middle-aged women.
This guy is proof that personality and character trumps looks and money any time.
this is true trump is kinda popular right now, especially with migrants
The same is true for women.
Sure Anna Nicole Smith truly loved that man's personality
This is proof that looks are the only thing that matters
Wait hold up… he was born in 1960 and he was into women in their 20/30s? Did I hear that right? That would make him exponentially older than these women. Unless, you are independently wealthy or have insane game (and he had neither),a man of his age has no chance with these ladies. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@Filthy_Larry I didn’t mean to imply that it did.
You would be correct 😂
lol im younger but still failing
I've gone through the same things he has since I graduated high school way back in 1984.
Was in two dangerous and narcisstic relationships with two women, the first one lasted ten years, where she weaponized her adult criminal grandson against me to get my disability money.
After nearly being killed seven years ago, I finally came to realize that with my disabilities, and lack of ability to support a wife and family, it isnt God's will for me.
I never thought to hurt anyone as this guy did. I'm nearly 60 now, and if it happens, it happens. It's no longer a priority in my life. I have hobbies, and interests. Contrary to popular beliefs, sometimes there isn't always "someone for everyone" and that's life.
I see you're a white man.. Why don't white men who experience loneliness, go to Asia to find love? Are you guys aware that in countries like the Philippines or Thailand, women are crazy about white men? Now, of course, some of those women are probably gold diggers, but many of them are also decent women.
You can travel to some south east Asia and find a good woman there 😊
I'm so glad you're getting out and enjoying life. Being single shouldn't stop you enjoying your life and the world. Being bitter and alone is a GUARANTEED way to NEVER find a partner. Being happy content and single is the most attractive quality. I'm also disabled and feel how you have, I was diagnosed with ms at 18 and in a wheelchair by 20 unfortunately. Being disabled really destroys your confidence in dating. Because we feel unworthy we tend to pick abusive partners because we believe it's them and their abusive ways or nobody. It's not. Get out there and enjoy your hobby's and hopefully you'll find each other. I know a few guys who finally found happiness at your age or older. Keep being awesome and thank you for your comment 🙏❤️🙏
@@jungk0081 that would be moot. He wants connection and it to be meaningful. Not some 30 day Fiancee type deal.
It's actually more pathetic doing that than coming to terms with being alone
@@cris-rj5zf I said a good woman lol not some gold diggers 😂
As someone on the autism spectrum, it’s hard for me to feel sorry for him. I have always had trouble dating or attracting men but I never felt compelled to kill them. Maybe if he had stopped putting himself on a pedestal like Elliot Rogers and got mental health and therapy his life would have gone differently. Unfortunately with narcissism it’s everyone else’s fault.
What, are you like 90 yo?
What do you mean, you couldnt attract men?
It's like saying that you cant atract a dog with meat.
Men are not picky.
There are a bunch of guys begging to have a relationship.
All you have to do is be available.
@@bestdjaf7499She’s autistic. Don’t be simple minded. She should honestly, join one of those autistic dating websites.
@@bestdjaf7499No men are easy to have sex with not to date. Big difference
@@bestdjaf7499 not reality. everybody gets rejected, nobody will date just anybody, and being on the autism spectrum leads to all sorts of social disconnections that affect all kinds of relationships, or prevent relationships from starting
@@bestdjaf7499 😔 I've also had great difficulty. They just dont approach me, but I have weird habbits like I talk to myself out loud and stim by head banging 🤷♂️ I think it naturally just makes people uncomfortable,also I look very young like 12-15 and as it turns out men aren't actually pedophiles so no help there either 😭😭😭
This is so much like the case of Rodger, who said that he was entitled a partner due to his looks!
What elliot did was terrible.
@@scifirealism5943 Dating education should be compulsory at school level . Many guys don't know how to approach a girl, how to flirt, how to setup dates, how to build sexual tension, how to setup good dating profile, how to handle rejections etc. Many guys approach girls in a wrong way resulting in girls getting creeped out. Many guys make mistakes while flirting resulting in girls feel assaulted. There won't be any incel or foreveralone if dating is taught at school( at least basic level) .
i'm lonely and sexless, but i'm not hateful.
@@scifirealism5943hire an escort. It might help. Just don't get addicted.
Ugh it’s a shame he was going through such a time; a lot of young men are😢 but he had NO right to hurt these poor people. We need to find the ROOT cause to help these individuals or else they’ll keep hurting others.
The root cause is narcissism and entitlement.
I keep thinking of those poor people. They had no idea why they were being fired upon. Just came to do a work out and got slaughtered for nothing. So sad. May they R.I.P
root cause is listening to these people, finding a proper solution and plan. I predicted this would happen and I still think it will happen more. The problem is nobody gives them a solution. They say "oh just be yourself". That lead to more rejection. We hold no accountability to the advice giver. Everybody spouts shi* because no one actually knows. They just got lucky. Getting a partner is complex especially if someone is Autistic, or ADHD, with rejection dysmorphia. Someone needs to take this seriously. Explore the science, or whatever. Come up with a real actionable plan, not like "haha derp just tAlK tO wOmEn". Something psychologists can apply, measure, record, systematize. Maybe this needs cultural intervention as well. Point is, take this seriously. Or suffer the god damn circumstances. Also care about men's mental health!
I’m reminded of The Doors song “People Are Strange “: “women seem wicked, when you’re unwanted.” I often wonder if there is inherent misogyny that women can sense in these incels that is keeping them single.
Bingo... we can sense the hate...
female hypergamous nature makes them more attracted to ''popular ''males who are unavailable or who had multiple ex partners. The longer a male is ''single'' the less desirable they are. Women that are attracted to prisoners are a whole other topic however.
@@gold707786Yeah, you keep telling yourself that. We can sense your hatred. But that's probably not 'scientific' enough for you.
My older brother has never had a girlfriend. He is a complete gentleman regardless. Wonderful man
Yes, when you're in a conversation with someone who views you as subhuman it is readily apparent and bleeds through in every word.
Dr Grande, please could you look at the case of Noah Donohoe? He was an intelligent 14 year old boy who set off on a seemingly normal bike ride but possibly had some kind of mental break as he gradually stripped off his clothes and was eventually found deceased in a storm drain. It's honestly one of the most bizarre cases I've ever heard of.
Really tragic case and wasn't properly investigated by the police. 😢
No drugs involved?
@@swiatlowiekuiste Not according to autopsy and toxicology reports.
A very strange case. I was on holiday in Belfast not long afterwards and there were lots of 'Justice For Noah' banners across the city. Something really stinks in this case. The police investigation was either totally inept or deliberately mishandled.
What… oh my gosh… what was the cause of death?
Edit: ok so he drowned. And his mom had him cremated bc he was scared of the dark. Absolutely heartbreaking.
He also waited until he was in his 50s and on top of that INSTEAD OF going after women in his own age range he went after women in their 20s and 30s.
And then expected those women to not find him a creepy old man.
Okay.
A reasonable expectation.
😂
exactly.
like... wtf?
If he were rich and famous and had a history of being a hearthrob like Leo Di Caprio, he wouldn't come across as creepy (though people do make fun of his dating "choices")! 🤣🤣🤣
Is being old with a considerably younger wife always "creepy"? If you have enough money, women will be drawn to you. On average, it's not really about age or looks for women - the science says it's just about access to resources. Anyone who has lived in or is familiar with culture outside of the West would see this.
Need more info but I could believe he was popular from high school to college hence he slept with women until then. Somewhere along the lines odd things happened and made him act quiet and polite around new circles.
He was 48 but wanted women in their 20s/30s. That’s always the case with these @$$holes. Seriously when are violent incels going to be labeled terrorists? These aren’t one off events, it’s a pattern. And they encourage each other to off women and themselves. They need to be stopped.
Lol and what do you charge them with? "You haven't been laid in a month, straight to jail"
@@Niko.. No you charge the crimes as hate crimes or terror and you monitor their forums like any other extremists. They always bill these guys as mentally ill or just lone wolves but they network and share this ideology that leads to this violence.
ok roastbeef
@@missinterpretation4984Wouldn't be better call the Minority Report already? Lol.
Honestly all toxic reddit groups need to be banned
He didn't hate women, he hated his shortcomings and took it out on women
Blame feminism for some of this. Feminism has caused a lot of trouble.
Exactly
He didn't even see his shortcomings. He has no self awareness. What he hated was losing his delusions. The fact that he was of a certain age and still unable to start a family was threatening all of his delusions of grandeur. This was a narcissistic psychopath using a vulnerable facade, but still very much a narcissist with all the entitled grandiosity required to make a mass murderer.
@@amattes1960covert narc/ psychopath
No, he hated women because he viewed them as a resource he was "owed" access to irrespective of his actions.
It's sad that the victims get overshadowed by the murderer. The innocent victims were killed b/c of someone's frustrations
I think it's even sadder when the murderer garners more sympathy than the people that were preyed upon by said murderer.
@@BlaximilianD00d I agree. People could care less about those that were killed, except the victims' friends and family. Today, the people who lost their lives are irrelevant and nobody cares. I have no idea who they are b/c it wasn't mentioned in the video - only the incel himself was talked about.
Rejection can be pretty hard to accept when you see a pattern of rejections over and over again…thank god for my hand,I’d go crazy if I didn’t have one.
Yup! The single life is easier to appreciate when you already had some dating/sexual notches in your belt than when you have absolutely none at all!
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
Prayers out for those trying to recover from the passing of their loved ones 🕊️
Responsibility and accountability is essential ✅
i was kind of an incel but i wanted to b married, not fool around. women would rarely even give me their number and i was rejected countless times approaching women. i never felt like going on a rampage though. i was finally married in 96 after rarely dating for 10 years. still w the same woman through thick and thin; thank jesus.
I see this as a win for men and women who go through what you went through. That way you don't make to many soul ties, your mind spirit and body is less "tainted", and when you do find love; it's almost always genuine. Happy you found your person, may God bless your union 🥰.
@@stephanies9071i def c how having indulged in many partners makes it harder to stay committed monogamously. seems common 4 guys to b fearful of marriage no doubt mainly bc it represents committing to 1 partner he rest of ur life. i didnt have that fear. i understood monogamy w marriage under God is the only way love is possible.
@@sticksbass I agree 💯, You and your wife/family be blessed 💕🥰 .
To which "jesus" do you refer? Jesus Christ?
@@roseaduke8835 jesus gonzalez, my auto mechanic. great guy
I've always thought that ungrateful people are the most miserable. We forget what we have, health, arms and legs, speech, hearing and vision, etc. Instead, we focus on what we don't have. It's a recipe for disaster.
I agree. Greed and envy warp your perceptions.
That was a very good comment.
You been without the opposite sex for 50 years? Cool. Sit down, Mrs. Know-It-All
Your comment reminds me of a comic strip I'm having trouble finding. It was a comic strip of, if I remember correctly, one guy in a cheap car looking at a nice car, and he thinks, "Gee, I wish I had that car." Then there's a guy on a bike looking at the cheap car, and he's thinking, "Gee, I wish I had a car." Then there's a guy in a wheelchair looking at the guy on a bike, and he thinks to himself, "Gee, I wish I could bike."
Yeah I remember that. It randomly showed up in my Instagram fees a while ago
Main reason I don’t commit crimes is so I don’t end up a subject in dr grandes channel. When he talks about you, you messed up in life.
You would think with 30 million women shooting at once at in a gym there would be some accidental cross fire . That seems like an excessive amount of people in a gym at one time. Plus , that's not counting the men
Just speaking for myself, but hating me and my entire gender is a turn off. 😬
Agreed. How do they not understand this?
According to the news story back then, this guy didn't even really go around women. He sat in the house all day and only left the house to go to work and back, without talking to anyone.
I think he hated himself and just didn't know it
@TheGuyBroNintySixwho know how to care about human rights? 🧐
100%. I have been hurt and done wrong by men and am single by choice but I adore men. Would never "hate all men" bc of the rotten few.
There has to be a “no-shame” step support group for individuals that struggle with such loneliness.
Dude... no one gives a shit about lonely men, for real. It is the ugly truth of society. And if they say they care, it is only a ruse or grift. I've been a hermit for almost 10 years, only associating with family, and shit... even family doesn't really give a shit about men. It is just the way it is and will always be.
There are actually ones out there, but the problem seems to be that the only groups willing to offer these are far right groups like Tate. There needs to be healthier support groups that do a better job of this.
They wouldn’t accept women I assure you from experience.
Only makes it worse
These incentives men have other issues besides being socially awkward. There must be mental health issues at play to be so lacking in self awareness and to have such a sense of entitlement.
This is why you need to work on yourself first. Sometimes you just need to talk to someone. You don't have to go through your problems alone.
Even in the olden days, with no therapy. People who didn't know how to deal with their problems, worked on something positive. Like a job. They gave themselves the opportunity to meet people from all walks of life, and form relationships that changed their perspective on life and themselves.
It can happen for you too, if you work at it.
"Those who reject change are architects of decay."
i just need to lose my virginity.
Ok
30 million, that's a new record.
Most people I would assume go to a fitness center to exercise, not get a date.
I'm always amazed that the manifesto-writing type expects women to see them as stable and not consumed by rage.
They think we can't sense when there is something creepy/off about them. The term "woman's intuition" exists for a reason
@@squidy6785 Exactly.
@@squidy6785 yea because women today make all the correct mating choices 🙄
@@James_36 I never said they do make all the correct mating choices. When women deny their gut-feeling, that's when they end up getting in bad situations. That doesn't take away from what I said.
@@squidy6785actually, a lot of them end up in bad situations specifically for FOLLOWING their gut feelings lmao
These types of men have very very high expectations with women. He's basically looking for the perfect 10 and has convinced himself that that is what he needs and what he should have.
Exactly
Completely detached from reality. They all encourage each other to think like this too. It's a self-reinforcing group delusion.
I find this thing of people labeling themselves as "Incels" incredibly troubling. It's an oversimplification, a "one size fits all" ideology. It takes away the trouble to think and solve your underlying issues.
Remember: All people have issues (even the 'perfect ones').
He never labeled himself an incel
I straight up disagree. There are some people out there who are literally perfect. There are some people who are loved beyond recognition by everyone in the community. There are some people who are such good public speakers and are so charismatic that they can get anyone to love them. There are some people who do there jobs so well that they are literally perfect
If he actually gt rejected "30 million" times, I can see a case for insanity.
When did he find the time to ask that many women?
Someone who would act like this should not be puzzled about why girls don’t like them.
Hope she sees this.
She wont@@sigmaramen
No, you’re saying he was like this from the start. That isn’t true. His behaviors grew out of frustration due to his autistic like inability to understand how to be social.
Blame feminism for some of this. Feminism has caused a lot of trouble.
Why? He can help his face and height!
It is so sad that a man has to be this lonely to the point of murder and suicide. They never look at themselves and their behaviors as being a turn off.
What is Woke Culture all about other than psychologically saying that tat everyone is a "Victim"; so it is no surprise that those whom The Woke accuse of being " The Oppressor"; feel like a victim: and when The Woke say you should be publicly angry if a white woman wears a sari; or whites own a restaurant that serves Asian food; why is anyone surprised when white men get angry over " micro aggressions" they think they suffer; and we all know angry white men with guns are more likely to shoot people; than loot stores; or demand someone lose their job; or seek therapy
It's always the fault of the other.
There are people far lonelier. He was evil and entitled. Loneliness is a feeling, how you respond to it shows what kind of person you are.
I constantly look how to improve myself and still dont get any answers from women at online dating. Your comment is just hate against men. There is an idiom: Dog, women and children are loved unconditionally but men are loved only under the condition that they provide. Because of that there are Passport Bros who go to Asia to find a women, because western women are full of hate against men.
@@me-ye6ld Exactly! It's a blind spot the size of Texas.
Maybe if he expanded his age range he would of found someone. There's plenty of hot older women.
This to me sounds like a case of “Milk in the desert”. This man thought that drinking milk was what he needed to survive in the desert (trying to find a romantic partner). But what he really needed was water…(to heal his childhood trauma and undo bad beliefs that came from those violations).
A desire for intimacy with a women is not a symptom of trauma. It blows my mind that people are incapable of understanding the concept of desiring an intimate relationship and instead have to transform it into some type of entitlement. There is such thing as unfulfilled desires, its not all entitlement. I desire to have my rent paid next month, that does not mean I feel "entitled" to it. Why is it that the desire to be with a women is the only thing that this entitlement nonsense comes up in?
@@treeforged9097A lot of men are desperate for intimacy, and not in a good way. The entiitlement comes in when men can't accept loneliness. No one is entitled to intimacy. Men need to embrace being single and focus on themselves.
@@treeforged9097I've never had a problem with being single. I like intimacy with women but I don't need it. There are so many other rich things to enjoy in life. Seeing these guys that are obsessive amd desperate for it is definitely a sign that they have some deep void they're trying to fill.
Jesus answered and said unto her, Whosoever drinketh of this water shall thirst again: but whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life. John 4: 13-14
He needed Jesus as we all do.
@@monk4ever That's dismissive and part of the problem and is actually a multi-faceted issue that's conveniently ignored by everyone.
So much talk for mental health but the best people can come up with is "Just kill yourself bro, just live in isolation and don't interact with anyone bro, here listen to these shitty self-help tapes that do nothing for anyone bro, just fix yourself bro".
You people are insufferable and i say that as someone that has completely given up on the idea of intimacy. Without malice and psychopathy but given up all the same.
There’s a guy at my work that just rage quit and he admitted to having a problem with women and I’m actually concerned that he’s going to come back in with a pow pow.
Just date him
Stay vigilant !
I hope your HR department is aware. Might need to involve authorities.
@@Justin-yt7pi😅
It sounds concerning. See if he had any friends at work, maybe someone could talk with him. I think most killers feel alone in the world and that no one cares about them.
I highly doubt he couldn’t have found at least 1 woman who wanted to date him, the fact that he went after women so much younger than him usually means he thinks women his age are “unattractive” (because they won’t just do whatever you say or be intimidated easily) therefore cutting out a great portion of the options available to him. More often than not the kind of guys who go for much younger partners are controlling, have a temper, and have a lack of self-control.
Two women wanted to date me, one of them wanted to have sex with me.
However, I was too scared with one woman and too lazy with the other.
I'm a recluse.
Have you never thought that older women are uglier?
Well, just like most women judge men on height, in the same way, many men (not all men) want a woman younger than them.
If you believe that men who pursue younger women are 'controlling,' then one could argue that women who 'require' a man who is 1 foot taller than them have daddy issues."
You know how women tend to like men who are older because they are more established financially and more mature? Well.. men in general tend to like younger women because they're more feminine and fertile and men like agreeable women, older women tend to be less agreeable and more jaded, and tend to have more moula than the younger women which means she is harder to please and the man would need more money than her in order to be admired by her.
My life is worthless
A sad story of a man who just wanted to be loved, he just gave up in the end but at a cost
😂🎉🎉
Cereal 🥣 killer basement tour…
Oh man Doctor you had me, Trippin, bro, I had to listen to that three times. That was actually a bit of levity that I didn’t expect. Nicely done.
I think it is ok to have compassion for George-but also realize that his entitlement made him dangerous and that your compassion would not be reciprocated from him. I wish there was a better way to catch on to people like this and give them mental health care before something like this happens. Thanks for covering this Dr. Grande.
He would have to except that, which I'm sure he would not.
The internet is full of entitled males that celebrate when an incels "teach women a lesson... I mean, to avoid males more" 🤮
I admit that I wanted the ladies to be more fair and give every guy at least a chance but that's not reality and thanks to Dr Albert Ellis Emotional Rational Therapy I don't struggle with this view anymore 🙏 Mental Health is definitely important now more than ever!
George could’ve spent a lot less time worrying about what he wasn’t getting and more time seeking out mental health care for himself.
I totally agree. I do think society puts an unreasonable amount of pressure on men to be perfect and find a perfect match, but most people look inward towards what is wrong with them instead of blaming others. I guess if this guy is a sociopath he cannot understand emotions and how important it is to communicate on an emotional level with people. I mean, did he have any close friends? That is usually a sign to watch out if a person has NO friends.
I highly doubt a thousand women, let alone thirty million women, even knew who he was.
Like he was sitting there with a calculator, calculating the "millions" of women he's been rejected by
@@squidy6785of course he wasn't sitting anywhere. He didn't have time to do that. It would have taken him 130 days at 1 second per rejection for 24 hour periods for him to reach that number. If we give him time for sleep and to get ready, and eat, presumably he immediately ran from woman to woman for a period of about 10 years straight. He didn't even give them time to say yes.
@@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 🤣😭🤣
i have been rejected thousands of times.
@@scifirealism5943 well did you give them time to even say yes?
He suffered from too many FIRST dates and not much after that. I suspect he was too aloof to settle for "slightly less".
It’s shocking that Dr. Grande said he wasn’t attractive. George Sodini was objectively MUCH more attractive than Dr. Grande
Dr. Grande is very myopic. At around 7:28 he says that George contradicted himself. I see no contradiction. One can enjoy traveling but still acknowledge that traveling is no substitute for romance. Where is the contradiction there?
Dr. Grande is just an incel that found out if he pretends to be a feminist some 1/10 woman will settle for him.
I believe in " bad vibes". He radiated bad vibes from a mile away. That's why women steered clear.
Yep. There are men who are far more physically unattractive who date and marry. He just thought he was entitled to a hot young supermodel.
It's insanely creepy how he made a video of the different features of his house because he thought it would attract a woman. It's very robotic, calculating, and possibly even psychopathic.
There is a woman who went on a date with Ted Bundy and ended up abandoning the date when she saw the look in his eyes suddenly change to something demonic.
The term "woman's intuition" exists for a reason, and biology dictates that we can sense when someone is "off".
Many women fall prey when they deny their gut feeling about a guy.
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he even gives bad vibes from his photos.
imagine how creepy he was in real life.
Been through what he went through. I'm not like him in that way. I stopped caring, and trying. If anyone is stressing out about this, I advise finding other avenues. What this man did was not the answer. I drown myself in work and chillax on weekends. I go for long walks, bike rides, write, and draw. Travel. Anything constructive and beneficial to others is the best answer in dealing with personal problems.
How old are you?
@@gqas1247 49 years.
And if you get too antsy, you can always hire an escort 😛
@@ThouSwell-zx3fd just another waste of time and money.
@@flashgordo9485 what else am I supposed to do with extra money, in my case I own two rental property so I don't need more money at this point
What a terribly sad man.
Hi Dr. Grande, good morning from Southern California. Excellent analysis. I love the way some people blame others for what is clearly their problem. Plus I hear a Violin in the background .
As always I learn something new from your videos.