Wedding Workers, What Wedding Was So Bad That You Knew They Would Divorce ?
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Guy kissing his mother.... A guy I dated.... at his birthday party, his mother mouth kissed him in front of everyone else. And no one said anything. So yeah, if the guy you date is doing this, he will always have his mommy as number 1, and NEVER EVER you. Leave as soon as you can.
My consern is....what else has he given her...besides the kiss? Like you nevee know whats really happening.
Imo you should always have your mother as number one…but not like that!
No kidding! Yuck!!
Question: Was Sweet Home Alabama played at the wedding reception?
I’m fine with his mother being his number one. Just… not like that… nothing remotely like that
Not a wedding worker, but I was in a wedding. The bride had a thing about doing everything herself. She made a big deal about it being HER wedding. Her part of the vows were "Me this" and "Me that." She finished her vows by saying "If I have to go through this world and do everything for myself, at least I have someone who doesn't have dreams to interrupt my plans."
They were divorced about 5 months later.
These crazy weddings leave me scratching my head. So many folks have ‘Broken Pickers’
Took them some time to figure that out
Surprised that the groom didn't straight up leave her, after hearing HER vows
Yikes.
Why didn’t she marry herself?
There was one wedding I knew of and the marriage lasted less than half a year--but not for the reasons you'd think.
The couple--both 16--had been dating for several months and were Very Much In Love and planned to marry at 21 (he had even made a rather nice jewelry box for a gift for her). Then it was discovered that the boyfriend had cancer and after several failed treatments, it was clear he wasn't going to make it. They got parental consent to marry at 16, and the groom was gone 4 months later.
To the surprise of one and all, he did manage to become a father in that time. When the bride found a new beau several years later, her family sat the man down and told him straight up that. yes. she got pregnant when she was 16, but she had been married at the time and was now a widow. From all accounts, her second husband is a pretty decent guy, and they've been going strong for over a decade now.
That is intense.
Rest In Peace.
I photographed a wedding where I thought that the groom was looking at all of the younger women like they were meat in a Butcher shop. I thought that there was no way the marriage would last. I was right. 6 months later I read an article in the newspaper about the groom being arrested for drugging and brutaly raping the bride's 12 year old daughter one night while the bride was at work. (The bride was a nurse working nights in a hospital emergency room.) Imagine the wife's shock when the ambulance brought her daughter in to the hospital for treatment. The girl needed 2 surgeries to save her life and as a result of her injuries she will never be able to have children of her own. The groom is now serving life plus 65 years in prison and he has already been transferred to another prison twice because the other inmates have almost beaten him to death. He has been placed in solitary confinement in his current prison just to keep the other inmates from ending him.
Yeah, a lot of prisoners really, REALLY don’t like people who harm children in any way, shape, or form.
There’s literally videos of prisoners admitting to have killed child groomers while in prison.
I would’ve made him disabled and then called the police.
I know this is fake because the rapist ended up on jail
@@Beginnerreadsthebible If it's true, it's probably only because he almost killed her.
My husband crushed his foot in a work accident 6 weeks before our wedding. He hated the crutches and often didn't use them. I warned him a million times about what could happen. 3 days before our wedding the doctor found 2 more hair fractures and wanted to do surgery the next day. Hell no, 260-guest church wedding, I roll him down the aisle. He had surgery 2 days after the wedding. 9 years later and we still talk about our medical honeymoon.
I suppose you mean wheelchair roll and not literally roll him like rotate him along the aisle? I’ve just got a mental picture of the latter 😂
@@beomgguks970 Very amusing. I didn’t think about it till your comment.
As long as his eggplant is still working a wheelchair won’t stop me to have some 😶
Story:7 was horrified to find out he took his own life and was just married. But he possibly (hopefully reached out and see noone helping) and not just straight end it without a solution. Pray for these men that go through a lot.
I used to video weddings many years ago. There would be a point where I just knew there was just no hope for the couple. Strangely I was never wrong and quite often the only person who could see it.
As a video cameraman I would ask the couple what they wanted filmed and more importantly what they DIDN’T want filmed. One groom didn’t want the part where he said ‘I do’ in the video. I said, Okay it’s your wedding. Within a year he’d taken his life. He could be charming but as I was filming his wedding I just knew it wouldn’t last. I was right in more ways than one.
@@penguinvic4188 That's so sad.
I thought this about a wedding I went to four years ago: he turned up drunk, didn't want to be there, she kept yelling at him and the guests, he didn't want to kiss or even hug her, and everyone was scared of her, as she treated us all extremely poorly. She also told us there'd be food for everyone, but there wasn't, so several of us couldn't eat anything there. When someone politely asked about the food, she screamed at them for 'being ungrateful.'
They're still together, but he's put his foot down and doesn't tolerate her crap anymore.
. ..and all the friends ran for their lives never to be seen again.
There was a (hopefully) light-hearted pool in my family about how long my marriage would last. The best was "5 years"... we're celebrating 33 years in March. (Editing to add) Ours was a theme wedding - Elizabethan/Renaissance Faire, because bugger if we were going to put a gajillion dollars towards clothing we were only going to wear the one day, when NowHubby and I were just starting out and working the RenFaire as a side gig. We looked AWESOME at the wedding, and our garb lasted at least 5 more years, (At least 12 weekends a year, with a good amount of strenuous physical activity while worn).
Congratulations! Hope it lasts many more.
At that point the pot should be y'all's lol
@@rebag3545 I was gonna put the same thing lol.
The (Hopefully) says it all…This is why I don’t associate with most my family lol
Congratulations! And great idea for the wedding theme ❤️
I think my mom had gotten married to my dad because I was a accident and my mom had been dating my dad to spite her control freak dad. I'm the product of a shotgun wedding and idk how to feel about it considering how my life turned out. The fact they stayed together til I was an adult surprises me.
It's best to not stay together and you saying you were surprised with how long it lasted says they didn't hide it well. People think it's best to stay together for the kids but it usually messes them up because any two fertile people can have a child together, but not every two are right for each other.
It happens a lot and even now it's believed enough I get TH-cam ads telling me that if you've had a child with someone you need to get back together with them because the bio parents are the best to raise the child and "studies say they do better in school".
I wish you a happy life. It doesn't matter whether you were a planned baby or not; you are still as valuable and lovable as everyone else.
@@lenasamzelius5530 Thank u
@Qatre Smokoza did you read how they're shocked they managed to last as long as they did? They don't know how to feel about it. If the kid isn't happy about it, they screwed up. Some are subjected to truly toxic environments and relationship dynamics that negatively affect them for the rest of their lives. I'm a child of divorced parents and I told my mother I'm grateful she divorced and I didn't need a father like that. I would have liked one but it's not as important as the living environment.
I'm sorry you had to grow up with that hanging over your head.
Heh. Re themed and relaxed weddings. My dude and I got married during covid because his dad had terminal cancer and we wanted him with us. So I got married in the yarn store where I teach crochet. My bouquet was yarn. My dress was a gold sequin sheath from the thrift store. Our recessional was the Throne Room March from Star Wars played on an out of tune pump organ.
It was AMAZING. I love my wedding photos (taken by my sister-in-law with a cell phone), we had the last epic carrot cake my father-in-law ever made, plus a pan of huge cinnamon rolls for the honeymoon, and are still very happily together.
About half my friends who had big traditional weddings have gotten divorced.
*shrug*
Because your priorities were about love, family and celebration, while a lot other people's priorities are putting on the biggest show possible and outdoing everyone else. That's not a good foundation for a lasting marriage. Your wedding sounds amazing!
Your father-in-law took some beautiful memories to Heaven. God bless
8:44 The "how long will they stay together" betting pool: my parents married when they were 18 and 19 years old and when they did, my dad's father said it was never going to last (which was rich coming from a man who was married _multiple times_ to gold digging doorstops). It took 15 years and two kids for him to finally admit he had been wrong.
They married in 1966, before the moon landing even happened. This coming August will be their ✨57th✨ wedding anniversary. I definitely think he was wrong.
I think after the time is up of the longest guess I.E if the longest time is anyone guesses and they are still married on the next anniversary the couple should get the money because effectively they won.
Story 4: This was the story of one of my cousin’s weddings. She is obviously now divorced, but the funniest part is, she is now a professional wedding planner!
Wow! What a Irony!
17:10 It's depressing that I have reached the point where I sighed in relief that he broke his arm because of an accident and not because the abusive bride hit him with a bat or something.
I am not a native english speaker and I first tought of bat the animal when I read your comment and was confused a second
@@betochiwas a bat is a piece of wood used to hit a ball in baseball.... sometimes people use it to hit other people with it
@@lydiapetra1211 yeah I know like baseball, just that sometimes my english isn't working properly
My husband and his family are Bengali…I’m glad mama and granny stood up for her when he got violent.. crazy he hit the mom.. Bengali people respect woman revere them.. she deserves better
Remind me again why alcohol is seen as such a necessity at weddings?
To see them go from their better to their worse to put them into test.
Jk I don't. I mean I understand the whine/champaign for the toast but everything else IDK.
Once again depends on the crowd. Videoed a lot of weddings in the past and alcohol was not a big deal at almost all of them. There’s always the exception which gives having alcohol a bad name.
I love that you called out the people trying to call out the baker. Why do people assume they know better than professionals?
These people complaining about the baker are the same people who are incapable of even mixing up a boxed cake.
Here’s a nice story of an old college friend of mine who’s wedding I attended last year. Its the end of September, we’ve already already gone through the ceremony and are at the reception. The bride and groom looking stunning (unintentional side note because I love gushing about this. They had a wonderful wedding with slight Star wars/Legend of Zelda themes powered here in there with handmade resin coasters some with their initials of their first name, others, with either the triforce or the Rebellion symbols on them(( Bride is a big fan of Star Wars and Groom loves the legend of Zelda franchise)). Also, each member of the wedding party from bridesmaids and groomsman to ring bearer and flower girl had a little Star wars lego character tied to bouquets or boutonniere. It was awesome. Sorry I loved how my friend and her hubby flaunted their nerdiness without going overboard and still looking classy. now back to the story)
We’re half way through the reception, meal was served, speeches were made and MOG/Groom and FOB/Bride dances were danced (both were absolutely sweet and I could tell MOG and FOB were so proud). Its cake cutting time. The bride and groom are at cake table and I’m trying my best to get a snapshot of them cutting the cake. And then it happens. Some dude (I think it was a groomsman) yells from behind them: “SHOVE THE CAKE INTO HER FACE!”
I winced at that because I listen to r/bridezilla or marriage isn’t gonna last long stories often, even to put me to sleep. Shoving cake into a brides or groom’s face was a sign of a red flag. I was realllly hoping he was joking.
Gosh darn, Hubby who is a VERY VERY VERY smart dude shouted in unison with his wife the word “NO”. I had mental fist pumped the air at his response. I’ve seen videos of grooms smashing cake into their bride’s face (even vice versa). Why do people think it’s funny destroying probably an hour’s work of makeup or a very nice rented tux with frosting? And deep down, cake smashing your significant other when they say no shows how much you respect them. Very proud of the groom for shutting that down even if it was a joke.
Long story short: Dude is egging groom to cake smash, Groom says hell no and right now is happily past the six month mark of being married to my friend. To my friend and her hubby I’m wishing you two a long and happy marriage.
Cake smashing into bride/groom face would be grounds for instant annulment. Cannot imagine my wife ever forgiving me if I had done that to her in front of her family and friends.
For those addicted to such immature antics, best check beforehand with your intended.
Why do y'all post stories that do NOT relate to the original story? Then you ramble on instead of getting to the point.
Okay but let's be real, I absolutely can see myself losing my wedding ring within an hour of getting married
Yeah, me too
Me too
@@dorothylester_ I'm guessing you have not known too many ADHD people
My friend's cousin cancelled her own wedding because her boyfriend admitted he was a virgin, and that's why he wouldn't sleep with her before the wedding.
What's funny is he ended up marrying my cousin, who was also waiting for marriage. Meanwhile his ex is divorced and pays alimony to a drug dealer and child support to another man
She was dumb, she didn’t have vision
It's strange that he wasn't comfortable enough to tell her that before their relationship got serious.
Story 18 sounds like the sibling of a golden child realizing she is the scapegoat. Yeah she went a little far with the stabbing but it seems like her husband and parents picked her sister over her. That's got to hurt.
yeah, something is wrong with that family.
Story 40: I think I've read once that the best man's original purpose was to marry the bride himself if the groom got cold feet on the wedding day - especially if the groom had already slept with the bride before the wedding. And I suspect the maid of honor comes from a similar purpose.
Not true. The best mans job was originally to stop the brides family from taking her away before they could tie the knot in the event that they had kidnapped her to do so. Not even kidding.
Can't speak for certain about the maid of honor but I was always under the impression that the "bridesmaids" in general comes from the bride's maids - as in the ones who helped her get ready. However quickly looking it up, it might have something to do with Roman law requiring 10 witnesses to outsmart evil spirits.
@Gem- le joyau de Brus and one of the reasons you walk on his left side was to keep his sword arm free incase of attack by bride snatches.
For the couple with the pool against them on how long they'd last: There is absolutely a winner here. After 19 years, they won the pool, and are owed interest at this point.
I got one. My younger brother and his ex girlfriend broke up after about two years of being together. A few months later she gets engaged to another guy and a few months after that she’s married. Her reason for marrying him was simply that she ‘wanted to be married’ (not necessarily to the guy she married). She was nineteen at the time, would still contact my brother, claimed to still love him and came to work with me in our town for a few weeks before the wedding like she was trying get him to do something, or something. And then, over the summer, she calls my brother and goes on about how she was regretting her choices. WELL NO SHIT, GIRL, YOUR NINETEEN! Super weird and kinda red flaggy.
Well, yes, 19 is fairly young but I’ve known some very mature 19 year olds and some incredibly immature 30s somethings. Given the choice you would choose the mature 19 year old.
@@penguinvic4188yup, it's rare but it happens. I was 19 and he was 18 when we married. It's been 15 years now, we're more rock solid than ever, and I'm pregnant our first kids, twins, due in about 7 weeks. ❤️
I'm also a licensed Officiant. Had a bride get overwhelmingly drunk prior to the service, walking to the office where I Was getting all my stuff in order to preside over the wedding, and come on to me. I Walked out, found the Groom and told him, then left. Not EVEN playing those games. I'm gonna guess that they didn't last.
Good for not even giving them the chance to pretend it'll work out.
I should have known. My ex husband called me one day and said “I told my C.O that we’re getting married today, so I got two hours off. I’ll pick you up in 20 minutes” - that was my “surprise wedding”. I’ve always assumed it was because his C.O told him he’d be moving back to post housing since his divorce was finalized and so he decided that day would be our wedding day.
Anyone that finds out that family/friends have a pool going for how long they'll last should demand the couple gets the pool if they outlast the longest bet by one year.
That’s a good idea - but my favorite is everyone in pool just now is never ever ever invited to my house for anything no matter who it is - what an insult to marriage and shame on them
I was a wedding photographer before I became disabled.
1. When the groom fell down the stairs from the altar and the bride laughed at him instead of showing concern.
2. When the groom smashed cake in the bride's face.
3. When the bride had main character syndrome. She sent a 3 page long "meet cute" story to her vendors thinking that we would be entranced by her love story and make an extra effort to make her day special. That was made obvious when she called to ask why she didn't receive a reply. She expected a discount.
When she received her wedding photo proofs 6 weeks after the wedding (per contract) she was upset because they weren't ready when she got home from her honeymoon.
She had criticisms for almost every image (keep in mind they were prints with zero retouching.) She said she knew photography and that I didn't? Sure.
Her groom barely spoke.
4. The groom showed up an hour late for formal photography time, grabbed his crotch and loudly asked, "is the p0rnographer here?"
5. The bride didn't fit into her wedding gown, like it was at least 3 sizes too small. She wore a flannel shirt on top because it wouldn't zip and her back was hanging out.
She and her groom drank all day from red solo cups, including at the altar.
Her check for the final payment bounced and she refused to make it right. When I finally got tired of waiting and called her bank to verify funds they told me that the account was closed.
Despite that, she wanted all of the raw digital files even though my photography was "sh*tty" according to her. I asked her why she wanted the files if the pictures were bad and she said she wanted to retouch them herself. Nope! The contract clearly said no original files would be provided. Only the specified number of contracted, edited and retouched image files.
She threatened to sue me (never did) and never paid her final payment. I decided to stop dealing with her after numerous stressful interactions. I wrote off the loss and moved on with my life.
I adore when he says "And have a WONDERFUL day", always makes my day by how soft and genuine it sounds
For that first one ... wouldn't he still have to contact the bride in order to divorce her?
Sucks. But he should've left the instance she says shit like that. And they shouldn't have made a child.. I don't wanna victim blame she's a terrible person but he shuld've dodged a nuke when he could
most braindead thing the bride could have uttered (and to do) good thing she didn't have one before. although a waste of space to be brought up, just to throw it on coke.
(Not always, there's the option of only communicating via lawyers)
Also via news papers. You would put up an ad saying you're looking for said person (I don't remember if you had to detail why) and after some time if they didn't respond in any way (showing up, calling, ect.) Then Divorce gets granted.
I don't know if this could still apply though.
@@kazuichisouda2487 true....
Story 7 & 22 remind me of a girl I knew in college who couldn't make any relationship she was in work. If you ever asked her why she broke up with any of her boyfriends she would always say that they were jerks to her or they tried to rape her. If you asked her exes on the other hand, they would say that she mentally and sometimes physically abused them over the smallest of things. (I think her longest was about a month). One day I got one of those "parents of bride & parents of groom invite you to the wedding of bride & groom" letters and saw her name on the letter. This is like 7 or 8 years out of college. I also knew the groom as my high school science partner (no way he was gonna recognize me). Out of curiosity, I went. I walked inside of the church, where everyone except the kids had a look on their faces like they were being held hostage instead of at a wedding. The ceremony began and as the bride walked down the isle the groom had a face like Luigi in the beta game over screen from Luigi's Mansion, all gloomy and depressed. At the reception the groom told his best man that he would be going back to the hotel to "get some more food." The manager of the hotel called the grooms parents shortly after and said that he had committed suicide by tying a chain link to both himself and a cement block, went to the hotel pool, and drowned himself. His funeral was 2 weeks later. While I was there I saw the bride clearly fake crying, clenched my fist, walked up to her, and socked her in the face while yelling "You knew what you did you rotten whore!" as people held be back. I somehow wasn't charged, but the bride was charged with domestic abuse and enforced suicide. The domestic abuse I knew without a shadow of a doubt, but I would have never guessed enforced suicide. She was sentenced to 11 years.
TL;DR: My high school lab partner was getting married to a girl I knew in college as being extremally toxic in all of her relationships, she made him commit suicide, I pulled an R.P McMurphy on her at his funeral, wasn't charged. On the other hand, she got 11 years.
jesus christ, those are some downright horrific and sad stories… some people are just truly evil
I’m sorry you lost your friend and hope your hand wasn’t hurting too bad after that hit!
Fun fact for story 26 "I guess". If you say anything else than "yes" (you can add to the yes 'I do' 'absolutely' 'of course', but it has to be a definite yes!) in Germany, the wedding is being canceled immediately by the registrar (where you get legally married). :D you have to make a new appointment and pay for everything again.
Huh learn something new everyday, that's actually really interesting
If my sister makes it to the ceremony (she wants to marry every guy she dates no matter how long they've been together) I'll be sure to come back and post a link of a video of the wedding show down that will go down.
For some context; my sister has turned the whole family against me even though I'm raising the child she avandoned years ago (she does see him but doesn't care about him). All her boyfriends and one night stands are abusive towards her and the ones she dates try to abuse my mom and I as well. I never let that happen as I put a stop to it. Knowing how my sis and her current boyfriend are, I'm sure his family believe we're shit as they told them bullshit about us been the bad ones.
Here’s a nicer story:
Ever since my sister got married, my grandmother has introduced her husband as “This is my granddaughter’s first husband.” They’ve been married for 18 years now and have two kids, one is graduating this year.
Bro story 7 broke my heart man. I couldn't imagine his pain. I hope she learns a lesson and never gets into a relationship like that again. Buying the lie of someone who isn't kind to you is so easy when you're broken. Poor baby. May God rest his soul
Obligatory not in the industry, but I do have a story that would fit in here. A friend of ours (let's call her A) suddenly got a 'I must get married and have a baby because everyone around me is and I feel left out' thought in her head that wouldn't leave. So she married the first guy that was interested in her. His all time crush (lets call her B) was at the wedding as a bridesmaid and when she walked down the aisle during rehearsal his eyes were all over B, visibly checking her out. When his fiancee walked down, his eyes barely followed her. Many people noticed and hoped that he wouldn't make that mistake the next day and hopefully his best man would smack him for it. Sure enough the big day comes and his eyes are undressing B; his wife to be walks down the aisle and I think he looked at the dad more than A.
A kid later and I think that was still her last big day and his was some time before the wedding.
the trend from this video is the bride being unfaithful and groom being abusive, these are the two biggest reg flags in a partner yet somehow these people insist on getting married ?? why would anyone look past these horrible qualities and waste not only their own time but everyone else's. Just don't get married and break up if you aren't mature enough or mentally stable to make a lifelong commitment. Its a lot cheaper than getting a divorce and doesn't induce trauma.
How did some of these weddings even happen? If i were officiating several of these i'd just be like "Look, whatever your reason for doing this, it is obvious to all that it's not what you actually want. I am not marrying you."
Wedding was annulled when the groom found out that his bride he had been dating for 5 years was arrested for prostitution 4 days before the wedding. It turned out that her business trips were times that she had spent multiple days with her tricks.
26:35 I have a story that backs up this theory.
So my aunt (not related, but one of my dad's old coworkers) had an anime themed wedding. Lots of Sailor Moon, because I think that was her favorite one (she likes Kirby and Pokémon as well, but you can only go so far with those). My dad told me to help shoot some photos, but one woman (I don't know who, but I assume was just a cranky wedding planner) wouldn't even let me into the bride's room while they were getting ready. I did get to take pictures of the groom and his friends kind of goofing off, so that was relaxing for me (I have gotten better, but I can be very nervous and quiet when meeting people for the first time. Getting a "no, we already have pictures" and a door almost to the face stressed me out a bit, especially since my dad had specifically told me to get pictures of them preparing). A third to half the guests were dressed as anime characters, me included. I was a bit scared at first, since when we arrived most of the people were dressed like you typically see at a wedding, but some people did show up as anime characters and my aunt seemed extremely happy to see anyone even referencing anime. We've got a book of their wedding photos sitting on the mantle, the cover being her and her husband, dressed as Tuxedo Mask, sharing their first kiss as a married couple. We usually get together for Pokémon Go events, and they always look really happy together, whether at their home, ours, or out and about. I've got a really good feeling about them.
Story 1: I hope Groom gets full custody of his 7 month old daughter after what Bride did is disgusting, taking her to the drug party to put her in harm's way
"Speak now or forever hold you piece" more like "speak now, before it too late. last chance. Trust me you'll be doing everyone a favor. On the count of 1...2...2&1/2... Thr- Okay WTF is wrong with yall !"
damn, imagine hearing that at a wedding!! At that point you know for a fact the wedding is doomed!
Aaaa, I love stories of wedding shitshows! Keep ‘em coming, king!
Same
Not in the wedding industry, but I did work in family law. Back when I was a legal assistant we would get couples time from time who wanted a prenuptial. This is where the couple agrees on before hand what would be divided and how if the marriage ended in a divorce. Now, don't get me wrong, there are legitimate reasons to get one of these. However, 99% of anybody who came in for one looked like a couple that wouldn't last. We must have done two dozen divorces (at least) for people who had prenups from us.
Story 7 took a sad turn. I feel so bad for that man's family.
I didn’t want to have a wedding, just wanted to get hitched n call it good. We got married at our house on Halloween so it would be easy for both of us to remember our anniversary. 😂 We’re still happily married 9 years later. 🥰
9 years isn't a lot.
@@jackricheie9683 In a world full of fast food marriages it actually is. Anywho my point was we are still happily married, the new hasn’t worn off for us.
@@JeneenRose-Osbornefast food marriages 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but seriously, I'm very happy for you and your spouse, hopefully you'll continue to have a great relationship together!
Hope you guys have/had a great 10 year anniversary with more to come!
Our wedding was inexpensive and no frills, no real theme just some nice colored flowers and the like. But we’re at nearly 30 years and counting.
Not so the couple at a wedding I attended when I was 7 months pregnant. My husband knew one of the parents as a client. Kinda wonder whether they had trouble finding enough guests. The wedding party was plastered the second the reception started, don’t ask me how. Every groomsman seemed to have his suit half undone and staggering around. The reception hall was so packed with tables that you could only reach the bathroom by way of a one-person-wide strip between tables and the stage, so people had to take turns walking from one side or another to get there and back again. I of course needed to go pee, considering my condition. I get to the narrow path and see a groomsman at the far end. Now, I don’t wanna sound like I think pregnant women are entitled to be treated like queens, but most folks seeing a visibly pregnant lady heading for a bathroom usually bow out and make way, especially if they’re coming from the bathroom while the pregnant lady is heading toward it, but this guy decides he goes first and barged through, making me wait and, of course, shoving past me when he gets to my side. I shrug it off irritably and cross once it’s clear. But coming back, there he is AGAIN! And you guessed it… barges through first. Real classy group.
I was the opposite of a bridezilla. I just wanted to get married cuz we had been living together and I thought I was going to get pregnant. Right or wrong, I felt we should either break it off or get married. We decided to get married. It was at my grandparents trailer, snd sandwiches. Hubby and I and his whole family squeezed into a little car. We got stopped by a cop for being packed down, he let us go to get married. I sensed he felt bad for me, I was young. No dress, no frills. When it was over, my grandpa, the officiant, said, "Well, I guess this makes you as married as anybody else." We divorced a few years later, he was abusive and loved women. I left him when I realized he didn't treat me as well as he treated his friends. I think maybe you can't be sure who you are really marrying til the deed is done but I feel cheated myself out of a nice wedding and a pretty dress. I simply should have expected better for myself and not accepted less, from the day and from the dude. I'm here for the good 'zillas, you go girls.
We joked about a betting pool at my brother’s wedding because the vote was a unanimous “rest of their lives”. The betting pool ended up being the money they used for her cancer treatment and funeral seven years later.
The mom that burned down a table because she didn’t like the bride or her family 😂😅😂
So my story is a friend who got pregnant and had a shotgun wedding, I went through the receiving line and congratulated her parents on their daughter’s wedding. They told me they that they hoped she would wake up and realize to kick him to the curb 😂. I think the dad even mentioned how it felt more like a funeral than a wedding too. Yup, they later divorced.
About 10 years ago I went to a wedding. The bride and groom wore matching dresses. YES you read that right.
They are still married.
Story 12: They should claim the pot and celebrate their next wedding anniversary with the payout
Also love the change that some things you say out of story are colored blue. Really helps differentiating ^^
Or, they leave it there, and for some reason no one picks it up for 1000 years
Somewhat related to story 12.
On the day of my younger sister's wedding, we (the bride's family without the bride being there) placed bets on how long the marriage will last. I don't remember what the bets are (since we really didn't set up an actual pot), but my sister has been married to her husband since 2014 with three kids, and there are signs of a failing marriage. He would put himself before my sister and their kids (like spending money on attending his 50th rock concert that year over spending a penny for his daughters' dance classes, or not going to work and getting paid for several days because of an injury and not see an actual doctor because he could just "sleep it off"). My mom once said my sister is just putting up with him just for the kids' sake.
Which is SUCH a bad idea. The kids KNOW things are bads between mom and dad, they probably wonder if it's their fault, and if there are fights the kids are scared and hopeless. If you can't stand your spouse, split up, get good attorneys to work out custody and child support, and give those kids a peaceful home instead of a combat zone.
He wanted to treat himself to a concert and you had to make it a choice against looking after his family??
For the Bangladeshi wedding. I am so relieved it was annulled. No one deserves treatment like that. I hope the bride is living a life that makes her happy.
2:40 - "Her incredibly embarrassed, but not unsurprised family." "Not unsurprised" would mean that they were surprised.
19:27 - Story 23 - I can't help hoping she poisoned him, but the trouble with that is, too much danger of getting caught.
Goodness, these stories make me appreciate that I come from a more-or-less sane family and all the weddings I’ve been to have been lovely and relatively drama-free (as far as I know), and if there is, people just roll with it and laugh it off.
These are odd and extreme stories.
"Cool your jets!" Love that phrase.
First listened to these stories over a year ago and I very much prefer your reading and voice acting (alongside the background), much better than the robotic voice some of the older videos use
‘The pot was never claimed’ is just… such a damn cute story. It’s great to hear about the ones that defy expectations of it being terrible instead of the train-wrecks that looked so promising at the start for a change lol
I don’t know the full situation, but my sister went to law school with this girl who wanted a wedding more than anything… including a husband. When she started dating this guy, she kept pressuring him to propose and they wound up engaged after being together for just a couple of months. I have no idea if they got married yet, but if they do, I guarantee it won’t last long after the girl gets what she wants…
I WANT MAINLY FACTS GUY TO OFFICIATE MY WEDDING!!! Shame I live in Australia
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@@natthegnat they are probably canadian
@@alanaskogberg9753 I laughed way harder than I should’ve at this 🤣🤣🤣
Mainly facts guy needs to stop having 60 jobs 😭😭😭😭 bro is a pro in EVERYTHING
I have bounced around a few jobs now, maybe once I hit a decent number I'll try becoming a youtuber.
God it keeps getting worse I love it 😂
Damn. The groom and the future sister in law had a family together. I get if the sister who was supposed to marry hates them but I hope she doesn’t hate her niece & nephew.
She most likely never sees them again.
"I tought this thread will have funny stores...turns out, theyre just sad."
I don know what video this dude is watching. Im having a great time.
My sons first wedding, him super happy and smiley her as miserable as sin. In the church whilst the priest said a little bit about marriage they sat side by side on some chairs she look so bored, never looked at her husband once, hardly smiled in the photos outside the church. They went to the reception where he mingled with the guests whilst she sat outside all day / evening smoking and talking with her sister and a few friends, only went in to eat and cut the cake have the first dance, you know all the traditional bits where she is expected to be at. Marriage lasted about 2 years, which was probably 2.5 years to long. She was just as miserable all through their married life. Lucky he has super wife and family now.
Story 32 reminded me how at my wedding 22 years ago, the congratulation card on each table were for my husband's parents, not us. Well, obviously. My MIL wouldn't let me do anything I wanted, she decided everything had to be what she wanted. In the end, that's how it was. Oh, and all the cash gifts went to MIL and FIL too. So, yes, in the end I suppose the cards were correct...
lol glad that didn't ruin you and your husband's relationship
It was their vow renew, you were just the body doubles for "young and in love"
Stories like this piss me off big time (because people not being pulled up, stopped or called out on their BS smells of no justice to me), you and your husband deserved better. Well, glad you guys are still together.
Adding my 2 cents
1- when my husband and I got married in 2003 (I was 20 and he was 21) his entire family said no matter what it would not last more than 6 months, then after 6 months they said it would happen after the baby was born, then they said it would be when the kids were old enough to legally say they want to stay with dad instead of me 😆 now they say I brain washed him
2nd I knew a girl that had the same wedding dress and wedding date picked out for 3 different people in a month! The 3rd guy is who she married and amazingly they have stayed together for almost 19 years! That is something I find crazy!!!
I would happily tell anyone regardless of consequences (losing them as a friend, or people hating me etc.) that if you are having doubts about getting married, even on your wedding day, you dont have to go through with it. I would rather you realise the mistake before, as well that if the partner needing to change their ways for the marriage to be successful, people dont change because you want them to, they change because they want to and its a lot of work on that person to change how they live.
I wanted to be the ring bearer at my dads wedding, but since “YouRe nOT a REal boY” I couldn’t, so my 4 yr old step cousin did. He lost the rings, the ceremony was delayed by half an hour before they found them in the kids shoes. Poor kid got berated even though he was experiencing a sensory overload, and he was only a little boy at the time. Wedding was horrible. Cake was dry. Super boring.
Yesss I was literally searching your uploads for wedding shitshows! The gods have answered my prayers! XD
I love your videos, Í´ve literally been binge watching them :D
I do suits and tuxedos. The biggest red flag of divorce is when a bride REFUSES for a groom to have a word when he wants to. like I had one who wanted his family tartan to be used, she wouldn’t allow it. At all. Even a pocket square.
On the opposite, all the grooms that refuse to give an opinion even when begged for one. Just “whatever you like”. Men. Don’t do this.
I don't even want to know his thought process of hitting the bride's mom like they're not just gonna watch. When you were saying that German section 224S2 I felt like a empath because I could not help but feel your pain
These are so sad.... thanks for sharing....I had no idea such things actually take place......I truly felt sorry for the Christian woman.....
Story 12 related.
Yeah, both sides of my family, but particularly my mom's, did that because they seriously didn't see how my parents would last. I honestly can't blame them either because I grew up with my parents. Still happily married, but boy there were days when I had to wonder. But that's marriage for you I guess.
The story with the Bangladeshi bride broke my heart and the Turkish groom pissed me off at the same time. How tf could he do that to her and her family, but thank god he showed his true face in front of everyone. I hope he got a great ass-whopping from everybody and her to find a man that actually loves her.
24:07…I just laughed at the end about the dad paying. Made me think of a good dad. If how the guy treats the photographer at the wedding opens daughter’s eyes and saves her years of heartache…that is a damn good investment and worth every penny!
Used to sell wedding cakes. Had a couple come for a tasting. The bride-to-be was snarking & snapping at the groom-to-be before they even walked in. We included 2 flavors with an order & he wanted part of the cake to be chocolate. She started screaming that she was NOT having chocolate cake for HER wedding, threw her unfinished samples at him, then left & drove away. They came together.
He called an Uber. They ordered their cake a week later. 😶
Here’s how you know if it’s going to last. On our wedding day it rained. I lost one of the handmade gloves my sister made for me. Lastly, because of the rain the bottom of the rain the hem of my dress got muddy. It did stop raining eventually and it was just the first day of our 34 years. ONE DAY! We had fun anyway. Everybody loved it. We had a lovely honey moon .The end
Story 7: yeah, the bride probably wasn't being sarcastic and it was Groom's tragically final straw
Hey mainly facts guy. Do a video of the most cutest or hilarious things that happened at a wedding.
Omg you’re from Minnesota??! That’s so cool that my favorite Reddit channel is from the same state as me!! ❤🎉
Thank you so very much for your video 😊.
Yay I was literally looking for reddit wedding stories yesterday
The poor baby in the first one! What a crazy woman her mother is. Glad her dad saved her from that insanity and negligence. So sad.
Sometimes I wonder if family/friends thought this about my marriage. I met my now husband when I was 18 and he was 25. Got married at 20 and 27 respectively. Will be 17 years in May.
Thanks for the vids
I will never understand walking down the aisle knowing damn well you don't even like the person you're marrying
I'm so glad I didn't go ahead with the engagement I had, BUT, I can attest to the bakery flash freezing and during find or after thawing adding plain simple syrup or flavoured simple syrup to the cake is so much better
Story 1. Yikes. Good man!
Yooo Sea of Thieves background gameplay! I’m already loving this video.
OMG, you live in Minnesota, too? That’s cool!
My aunt (very VERY drunk) bet my mom five hundred dollars husband and I wouldn't make it five years. Mom used the money to throw us an awesome anniversary party, and we'll have twenty two years in May.
I've heard of some bakeries having freezers dedicated to only cakes they are working on. Only cakes go in there and wrapped to the 10th degree to make sure no other smells can impact the taste of the cake
My (thankfully ex) husband disappeared after cutting the cake and spent almost our entire reception smoking weed in the woods with his friends. I spent so much time answering his family’s questions about where he was, calming them down, and actively looking for him, that I barely saw my own family and friends. Knew immediately I had made a huge mistake.
Can you say there was red flags before your wedding, that yoy difn't see at that time?
I know I'm weak, so I wonder how to dodge this kind of bullet before it's too late...
@@grenade8572Keep an eye out for where their priorities are. Do they compromise or put you first where they can as often as you do for them? A relationship is a partnership, not a burden for you to try and carry alone.
If they don't show up for the little things it's unlikely they'll show up for the big ones.
Unfortunately some people wait until the wedding to show their true colors but many will show it ahead of time if you keep an eye out.
Hi, product of a forced marriage here. Both sides of the family pressured my parents to marry. The only reason they wanted them to get married was to gain wealth. Currently my mom is considering divorce.
Any idea on what should I do?
Gather what you can and run. I’m so sorry. I almost had that happen to me but I ran away at the last second and hid with my now mother in law and married my boyfriend who was the person I was dating for several years and really wanted to marry. My ex-stepmother didn’t want me to marry someone “lower class” than us, and I didn’t want to marry a man I didn’t know.
But man, the scars are deep. I don’t remember my first 6 months of being married. Apparently all I did was cry and scream in a corner from the shock. But I’m ok now…ish. At least I’m with someone who loves me to pieces and I know that.
Let them. A house with toxic parents is way worse than a divorced household. I'm speaking from experience.
Apparently at my mom's first wedding their unity candle went out. She is now married to my lovely father and they will celebrate 20 years together this August.
Once went to a wedding so lavish the FOB had taken out a second mortgage to pay for it. The couple was divorced within a year when it was discovered the groom had a raging cocaine habit.
Went to my cousins wedding when I was 10. While there, her little daughter (age 6) told me that her mommy had a baby in her tummy and did that so the man would marry her. But my little cousin was confused as her mommy had told her not to tell her “new daddy” about all the “uncles” who stay the night.
I was also super confused and asked my parents about it when we got home. I just remember my dad leaving the room he was laughing so hard.
Turns out, a few months later when the baby was born, my poor little cousin got confused when one of the “uncles” came over to have drinks with “daddy” and acted like he’d never met her before. I was told she said something like “but we met lots when you had sleepovers with mommy before the big party [wedding]”.
Guess the new hubby put the pieces together quick. Divorce came fast but the dude was on the hook for the new baby as his name was on the birth certificate.
My older cousin was a piece of work though. During the custody hearing she asked the ex out for drinks to unwind and bitch about the lawyers.
Yeah, it soon changed to a custody issue for 2 kids.