What wedding moment made you think "they're not gonna last long"?
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Do not pressure a man to ask him to marry you... it will end in tears because it wasn't from his heart honey.
Agreed. Plus you can have an amazing, lifelong relationship without ever getting married. The pressure of being forced to commit and the immense stress of planning a wedding can kill a relationship.
And if you share economy you can just have a contract about that if you want the safety of marriage.
I see this more as setting boundaries. Marriage can be an important value for many. If you’re in a longterm relationship and realise that your partner doesn’t plan on getting married, you have to look for someone else who share your values.
If your partner never wants to get married but has no desire to end the relationship, why ruin a great thing.
Yes because you never know why they aren’t proposing. My husband took 5 years to propose and it turns out it’s because he was saving up because he wouldn’t promise to me anywhere but Paris❤️ Worth the wait ❤️
The groom turned up wasted, we heard the groomsmen saying he'd been drinking since six am. The wedding was at two in the afternoon. She kept dragging him around, forcing him to hug and kiss her, shouting at him when he didn't do what she wanted. She also screamed at guests to shut up several times.
After the ceremony, several of his friends said he didn't want to get married or have any more kids, he'd been married before, but his fiance 'forced his hand.' They're still married but he's put his foot down and they aren't having kids.
Remarrying an ex is like reheating McDonald's fries in the microwave
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soggy and disappointing
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Any time someone shoves cake in someone’s face. I never approved of this “tradition”
We did it pre planned in our little wants lol it was fun.
@@taraellis8279 Preplanned is one thing. Against one's wishes is another.
@@StealthTheFoxz thats why i mentioned it. The right way.
Yeah, I remember going to a friend's bday and they'd always smash their faces into the cake each birthday. I've never seen that happen irl, so I was SHOCKED!!! Almost no one got cake because most of it was shoved into the face of a 8 year old, and no one wants face-cake.
@@musical_costumer7976I've only seen it happen on America's Funniest Home Videos!
To answer your question about our own encounters at doomed weddings:
my uncle called me to complain because i didn't come over to his wedding
he has divorced 3 times
"You must come, it is once in a lifetime moment for me"
and I replied "Is it?" and he got mad at me
i was sick of saying same toast 3 times
not ready to say it 4th time
Few months later they did end up divorcing.
BRIDES when HIS family tells you NOT to marry him... BELIEVE THEM.... Prince Charming then say "I do" the bell rings ROUND #1 With Mike Tyson...
I think your forget a lot of good people are the black sheep in a group of evil people. Some families are extremely abusive. Its why things are never that simple. People will tank others happiness for pleasure
@@karinalumen9722 We had photos of the past wives bruises, broken noses, and missing teeth.... yet still married him and thought the Mike Tyson wouldn't happen to her.... It did
19 year old married 41 year old with 18 year old daughter. Right before the wedding they were fighting and she was having a meltdown over votive candles. Very immature and we all were against it. They annulled the wedding two months later. She said she wanted alimony. Judge laughed. It was a no.
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That polite hesitation on "drama people.... love drama. :)"
my own wedding lol...we were getting married at the courthouse...we were in a room waiting to go into the judges chambers to be "counseled"...when the bailiff called us, my fiance had disappeared...he thought he was funny...he was in a corner behind a potted plant, rocking back and forth and repeating the word NO, over n over...i just thought "oh this isnt good" lol...and it want, what a nightmare
Is 'counselling' a normal thing either with courthouse or American weddings? When I was at school in the 1970s, we learnt something about French customs during French classes. (I don't say French lessons, as it used to imply something dodgy). :-) One of the things we were taught, was that before getting married, couples see a lawyer to decide how to divide the property in case of divorce.
@@GillianBergh where im from, whomever is marring u can say they need to council the couple...and if they dont think u should get married, then they can refuse to marry the couple.
@@babosplace That's really interesting! I've never heard of such a custom. What country/region are you from, if you don't mind me asking?
Wouldn’t you be just as miserable married as dating?
YES! Only worse, because now you're "stuck" and if you break up, it's a divorce.
That being said, you would be surprised how many marriages can be salvaged if the spouses are willing.
Honestly I am ok with 2 narrators for 2 hours a day of videos
Honestly, the stories are interested but the car driving in the background makes me dizzy. Couldn’t continue watching
I actually really like the car
@@helloelenajust listen to it then
I was MOH for a good friend, as long as I’d known her she dated women (before dating groom). Before marrying her husband, said she hadn’t told him about her history AND said it wouldn’t be his business if she had affairs. They had a child together and were divorced but apparently were able to remain friendly. I think she was mostly getting married to escape her parents.
Hearing Polterabend in an American accent just made my day 😂😂😂
Fun fact! No body has finished the entire video yet! At the time of writing this the video was uploaded 18-19 mins ago.
I have a chrome extension that allows me to watch videos at 4x speed, try again. (didn't understand a single word said in the video)
@@UnderSparked4x? Rookie numbers I prefer 6x ( I have no clue what was happening)
@@UnderSparkedthat’s still 25 minutes 🤓
@@Henryeatspbj6x? Rookie numbers, I watch my videos at 24x! (It goes so fast that the screen is nothing but epilepsy triggers)
@@Thebigpiiggtry that math again 😂
I felt real bad for that feller that couldn't read, until I heard he was cheating on his wife WHILE SHE WAS GIVING BIRTH. Nah son, he's for the streets. But fr, our education system is fucked if an adult can go through and come out without being literate.
Yes, OG narrator! 🤗
Old person
I listened to this whole thing and two other longer videos while doing some art projects. Thank you for motivating my unhealthy obsession ❤
I also got married in a Temple, wih far better results. And I was not the cheeriest bride, I admit, because I have brutal anxiety and am Autistic and we’re famously bad at change. So even though I wanted this, I was in a state, man. And since the nearest Temple was four hours from my parents’ house, we had the wedding a couple of days before the reception.
So after the wedding my parents suggested going out to lunch with the people who had been to the wedding, just a handful of family. But I didn’t know the city (and had no appetite what with the anxiety) so we went to Olive Garden because my brother loved the unlimited breadsticks. I mean, fair, but then that douchenozzle spent the next hour dropping political topics, like meat into a pool of piranha, and watching my dad and my husband’s ex-step-mom, two know-it-all old farts, have a “well, actually” competition. This is both a bad memory for a wedding day, and kind of a hilarious story. He just had to feed that ADHD need for mental stimulation…
Anyway, the good news is we had nowhere to go but up after that. Nice wedding, very peaceful and sacred, stupid lunch, chill reception because I knew I’d hate anything too fancy so it was just an open house kind of thing. And our 31st anniversary is in May. And we’re still in the Church. Can’t blame the girl in this video for being disillusioned after what she went through, though. Homeboy should have changed his mind then, rather than torture her. Sounds like a real creep.
And if anyone is still reading… we went to a wedding a few years later that fit the description here. Everything was for show. Groom’s mom got her officiant’s whatever so she could perform the wedding, made a comment about them sleeping together before they got married (dude… this is why we have someone else officiate), the whole wedding party was plastered BEFORE the wedding… so of course at the reception they’re staggering around all over the place. The only path to the bathroom was a narrow route between extra chairs because the venue seemed to think just shoving off to the side was fine. Only one person could move through at once and one sloppy groomsman always seemed to be at the other end when my pregnant self was trying to get through and he always decided he got to go first. And yeah… they didn’t last long. When the main focus seems to be on presenting a big show instead of starting a marriage I tend to doubt how long it’ll last.
When the bride's sister called the groom a jerk during the toast.
That 100 years one was sad but it could have been so cute. X and I have been married for one year but it feels like 100, we've created a lifetime worth of memories and experianced more love than I thought possible. I wouldn't change it for the world and I wish you two the same happiness
Phrasing and tone makes all the difference...
THE RETURN OF THE KING
My husband wants me to tell the story of his horrible cousin's terrible wedding. So, he (Groom) was a good 10 or so years older than his future wife, bragged about how he was gonna go home and get her pregnant shortly after telling me how he had to wait for her to turn 16 so as not to get arrested. He had long standing alcohol and drug issues that his parents did nothing to get him help for & could barely hold a job down. So anyway, he gets her pregnant like 3 times in short succession & they decide to get married & play the big happy family with all their kids & the rest of the family in attendance.
My husband met Groom for a swift drink prior to the ceremony & he was already completely plastered. During the wedding, he nearly passed out at the altar & had to be held up by his younger bro who was Best Man - his mother's response to seeing him in that state was to shit talk him, quite loudly, during the ceremony. Maybe you should have done more to keep him sober??
We all retire to the reception venue, which was a lovely pub but very inaccessible... my husband is a full-time wheelchair user, so the steps between rooms & lack of a disabled toilet were huge problems & would have ruined the experience for me if it wasn't ruined by the rest of the night. We had our 2 kids who were with us, maybe 6 and 4 years old & so obvs I'm paying attention to them when not lifting my husband up or down steps or taking him to the mens toilets to support him at the urinals. And then I see that one of Groom's kids, a little girl maybe 3 or 4, is just running around barefoot everywhere. There's broken glass in the cobbles outside!! Broken glass in the garden!! Random dogs!!! There was an A road the pub fronted on to, that had a 60mph limit and that girl was constantly so close to just bolting into that road!!! I chased after her for over an hour. I mentioned it to Groom & he just said "she's not one for shoes, our (nickname)". The Bride didn't seem to care much either, despite how they both spent 80% of their time smoking outside neither of them did anything to keep that girl safe. Occasionally other people would help me keep her diverted & occupied for a bit, but if you took your eyes off her she'd run off at full speed.
Groom's mother, horrible witch that she is, commented on how I was running around after my husband, my kids & now her grandkid & how hard it must be & how hard I must work. I just shrug & say it's just how it is. She immediately turns to my husband & asks what he does all day if I'm out at work? Is he LAZY? He was looking after our kids. We left soon after that.
Groom has done several stints in rehab but still isn't clean, last I heard his witch of a mother finally banned him from the house after he stole some jewellery of hers for drug money. Bride & Groom are no longer together & I heard the Bride had lost custody of the kids after social workers showed up & she was doing coke while the kids wandered the neighbourhood. We don't see much of my husband's aunt & uncle anymore. Also, for context my husband's disability was from birth, and he's been in a wheelchair full-time since high school - his aunt, uncle & cousin were fully aware of his access needs & just ignored it *even though uncle is himself disabled*. He refuses to accept it though, just staggering around with crutches or sticks instead of accepting a wheelchair would make his life better. (He clearly thinks he's too good for that sort of thing.) I see his other son regularly, he's doing good & has his life together, but the rest of them can sod right off.
For story 46: That guy was in the most uncomfortable situation. Like how do you not leave when someone's underage daughter is bouncing around like that? At least ask someone to get her in a better fit.
You’re back! So glad!!!!!!!
“Sun allergy” 😂
It's technically correct. Photosensitivity works similar to an allergy. You're exposed to the sunlight, your body reacts negatively, sometimes violently.
So im one of those "religious" people who got married at 20 because I was pregnant and felt it was the right thing to do.
It's now 12 years later, we own a home at age 32, have 3 amazing kids, and still madly in love and happy together.
Im also one of those "crazy" people who believes the wife should respect her husband and take the "help meet" role. And my husband should serve, protect, and provide for his wife. I get to stay home and raise our kids and dont have to spend my life at a job, making someone else rich, and feeling like there not enough time to enjoy my own life.
It's really not such a bad thing, when you find a good, loving man. All the woman i grew up around are miserable. Regreting Chasing a career, depressed and lonely, or raising kids on their own and struggling.
Turns out, putting someone else in front of yourself happens to be quite rewarding, and fulfilling. The perfect marriage looks like, two people trying to out serve eachother. So when you hear "serving your husband " or vice versa, dont freak out and think it's barbaric . Sometimes, things are a tradition for a good reason. You build strong foundations for your life that are not easily shaken. Then you get to just focus on ways to have fun and enjoy life together. It's a good life. 😏
*This narrator is my favourite*
Marriage is a important thing to enter into, it’s disappointing so many people don’t understand that yet enter into it only to divorce months or years later, obviously there are genuine reasons to divorce I’m talking about the people who should not have gotten married but did.
Also (we) need to stop the overspending on weddings it’s ew.
I've literally only ever been to one wedding and tho the wedding ceremony was beautiful and the couple were happy, the bride was scheduled for surgery for a hysterectomy and removal of cysts. The surgeon absolutely botched it, cut into her bowels, and somehow managed to get get yeast in her bloodstream. Ended up with yeast in her lungs that had to be suctioned out it was so bad. She actually did make it through the surgery but she never left the hospital... She died less than a week later.
What's worse was that her 2 very young kids (both well under 5 and had never even met their biological father) that got taken away from the poor groom and the bride's family and placed with the biological father. I had no words for the groom even though I had lost my own husband about 5 years before that.
“Abusive and almost ended her” yep saw that coming.
An interesting benefit of having a wedding that I had not anticipated is that the process is so fucking stressful that it will put your relationship to the test and quickly expose any issues or warning signs. Provided you plan the wedding yourself.
My cousin's wedding when Iwas in eighth grade. Nothing really stuck out that told me it wasn't going to last, i just knew. My cousin's mom, my aunt, had been divorced twice and was my cousin's primary role model. So if anything tipped me off to my cousin's first marriage not lasting, it was that.
All these stories firmly cement my belief that 25 and younger is too young to marry
I was a karaoke host/dj for a wedding. It was in their back yard. Everyone got absolutely wasted. Bride passed out. Groom and one of brides male friends got in a fist fight. Noise ordinance said we had to be quiet after 10, and I turned off the machine at 10 sharp, because the neighbors had called several times and 3 cop cars were in plain sight on the road waiting to bust us lmao. (I was sober, I saved them from sooo much trouble). From what I heard, it lasted 3 months.
27:23 “There’s no hate like Christian love.”
I have a story:
It was my cousin's wedding. I found out about it when my mother said she wanted me to be a groomsmen at the wedding. I had to fly back to South America for it. No biggie. My mom and I planned a 10 day trip since i hadn't be back in 15 years.
I knew it was doomed when I casually mentioned that I hoped this guy was better than her ex. My mom corrected me. She was marrying the ex. I was horrified. See, this guy had once thrown a pot of boiling water on her. She has scars on her chest and face. And she was marrying him.
Well it turns out that i had to pickup a bridesmaid and take her to the church. We arrived 30 minutes early....to an empty church. It was me, the bridesmaid, my mother, our driver and the priest. Gradually the other groomsmen and bridesmaids arrived. Then the groom arrived. And still no guests. My cousin arrived an hour late. And we had the service with just my mom and the driver as the guests. It was one of the weirdest weddings I'd ever been to. We then all left for the reception and found everyone. None of the guests came to the service, they were all at the reception. I gave the wedding a year. They divorced after 18 months. But are still together because they have children.
Wowww that "frickin Jane Austen novel" girl reminds me of this so much..
3 days into knowing each other I moved in with him (I was homeless) 6 moths into relationship got engaged. 1 year into relationship he got violent for the first time. Idk when he became abusive, probably around our engagement (which btw was in public so I couldn't say no).
We were engaged for more than 3 years, I kept finding excuses. He was still better than the one before, though I had a feeling something was wrong..
I have BPD+depression over 10 years at that point +anxiety +ND +LOOOOOOTS of trauma +no home +addictions (that I successfully fought untill he came into picture).
He's a narcissist and also 5 years older than me, so it was reeeeally easy for him to manipulate me.
I was a kind, gentle but broken person back then.
We broke up because of the war that blew up in our country. He did disgraceful things and rven tried to cheat on me. I could bare a lot. But not this.
Now I'm 15km away from the front, with my new bf who is a soldier, clean from ❄️ for 2 years.
Thank you for listening.. this kind of stories always trigger this memories..
If I ever 'picked up' a homeless woman as a housemate, I'd be _very_ dilligent about _separating_ our living arrangement.
People need space to be themselves.
Heh, that includes me.
Not doing that has objectifying vibes.
On the first story, there isn't a "sun allergy" just by having a sunburn, as that would require a rash. Having sun sensitive skin, however, is a thing with having a sunburn
What is a sun allergy “It describes several conditions that cause an itchy rash to form on the skin after being in sunlight or other sources of ultraviolet (UV) radiation.”
@@ParasitiC-HowL I'm saying that the person didn't have a sub ALLERGY, not that it doesn't exist. Sorry if it came across like that
Having a bad sunburn isn't a sun allergy, as the definition you gave says it's a rash thing
We now have Son allergy and Sub allergy
While this particular case sounds like the typical weakness to sunlight of most red haired people, multiple autoimmune conditions absolutely can cause what can be described as a sunlight allergy.
@@erinselectronics5748 I'm gonna edit my comment bcs I evidently had an error in wording
If I knew someone talking bad about their partner before their wedding I’d let the partner know! They deserve to know there are issues and no one should have to marry someone they don’t love or doesn’t love them!
54:12. I live that the terrain there lost its textures
The one with all the drama / theatre people making weird speeches just makes me think of that reddit puppet wedding.
TLDR bride and groom are in a pupper troupe and are thinking of having all guests buy a puppet and use it in the ceremony and wear it on their hands during the reception.
I'm talking muppet level puppets, not cheap ones or hand puppets. These cost a couple of hundred dollars each and they expect the guests to pay for them.
Madness!
Ok the still married 25 years later made me lol 😂
It's already bad enough to speak ill of someone behind their back, but if you're making fun of them, it shows you don't respect them. Wanting to marry that person under these circumstances is nonsensical, even from a twisted perspective
In alternate answer to this: I thought they weren't going to last, but they've are still married 8 years on.
Where my cousin frequently asked me to counsel him on relationship matters. His gf-now-wife, got upset when he wasn't constantly following around her coordinates on a map, was upset when he didn't want her to do that to him, got upset when he didn't pick up immediately (he's a doctor, he's going to unable to pick up many times), got upset when he didn't text back immediately. I saw so many red flags, and I told him that my honest opinion was to move on, and find someone else. Surprised me to find a wedding invitation in the mail half a year later. His wife......... is weird to put it nicely, but totally on the other end of the spectrum of weird. Legitily wondered if I was going to find my cousin's face on the newspapers one day about a murder. I was shown wrong apparently.
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So I wasn't at the wedding. I haven't even been around my cousin her since the wedding, since we only talked on facebook and she married into an amish or memnonite or whatever family. I haven't been there, but my sister has since they share a summer cottage, and from everything she says, my cousin is just... Not herself. Always in a bad mood, always annoyed, complaining about the fact that they have to do work on the cottage since 'her husband doesn't want to work on his vacation'. Well, okay, but it's a 100-year-old cabin that didn't get wifi until 2020. Only got a modern phone line in THIS YEAR.
Last year my sister discovered that, in the six years since my father died, NOBODY had cleared out the brush at the top of the hill. Not once. So, my sister, in between preparing for her own wedding, helping my septugenarian and extremely unwell from Vitamin D poisoning mother, and rushing back home to take care of her disabled brother (hi), managed to bundle up all the brush at the top of the hill. My father, who would do at least some of that every day they were there when he was alive, would usually clear out one-two bundles of wood a year. Sister cleared out ELEVEN bundles, in only about two weeks, and drove ten of those to the dump in her truck. Only left ONE behind when cousin came up for her time in the cabin. Cousin got angry and chewed out my (rail-thin, 73-year-old) mother for not having done it and leaving them with something to do. Literally all they needed to do was carry a bundle of sticks to the car, drive to the dump, and throw it in.
The place is literally falling apart and cousin won't give it to sister, but also refuses to do anything to take care of it. Despite marrying a woodworker, and it's a wood cabin, she insists he shouldn't have to do anything because he doesn't want to work on vacation. Which, okay, pal, but then you gotta find the money to pay someone ELSE for it.
41:07 fucking GO girl! Hell yes! That church is horrible (I’m an exmo myself) and honestly i do not blame you for never wanting to remarry. After the way he treated you? That’s horrific. I am so sorry you had to deal with someone who made you question whether he loved you or not
I knew when I asked my now ex not to smear the cake in my face. We still needed to have pictures taken. Not only did he smear it in my face, he got it in my eyes and hair.
As a single person who is asexual and possibly aro-spec, listening to these wedding horror stories brings me a small amount of pleasure. These stories, especially the ones where one of the spouses realizes he or she is gay, is a reminder of what sucks about heteronormativity.
Such a captivating upload.
One couple I knew because they fought all the time even on the phone while at work and he would always talk to her like she was a child and yes there was an age gap. Second couple I knew because he was very misogynistic and was rushing to get married because he was 30 and they also fought all the time. I feel like if a couple fights in public you know it’s bad.
Imagine calling your partner bad in bed but you never actually communicate with them or attempt to repair the relationship and blame everyone else. I don't doubt for a second her next partner will be equally as 'bad in bed' and she'll forever wonder why she keeps picking the bad ones.
Talk to your partner.
Be open to your partners wants.
Don't be selfish.
Communicate.
Feel bad for that guy, hope he found someone who can appreciate him for who he is.
Church chain?! 😂😅
Church train 🥴
Oooohhh, I suppose my step sister's wedding takes top prize. Having a Christmas wedding when the happy couple's 6 week old child is there might make it a tad confusing for guests; are we here for a christening, a wedding, or a rather strangely costumed nativity play? It nearly turned out to be none of the above. The groom was late, and when he stumbled to the altar he emitted a breathy "Heeaahhllothere" in the general area of the brides (well, he SAW at least 2...) The bride(s) got a good whiff of the groom's favorite paint thinner, managed not to pass out, and bellowed "KISS MY ASS" at a volume that instantly awoke their tiny daughter. The baby promptly proved she had inherited her mother's impressive lung volume. The rest of the congregation was split pretty evenly between the deaf, dumb, and blind: those of us whose eardrums were nearly shattered, those of us who could only stare at the scene with our mouths open, and those who were copiously crying from the effort to keep our hysterical laughter to ourselves (most not succeeding).
To everyone's astonishment (except the groom too plastered with paint thinner to pay prompt attention) the bride was surrounded by her gfs and prescribed a glass of vino. Just the one - no one wants to see the pair of participants pissed and pissed. In the end she decided to go ahead, the groom was literally supported by his supporters, and all was well....for precisely 7 weeks.
Happy Christmas, everyone.
I have a sun allergy I earned from medications they didn't tell me can give me a sun allergy . I literally allow anyone to go and enjoy their fun without me or having guilt .
i love the goldcoast bro
Once I was at a wedding and the wife put poison in the guys food. I thought it wouldn't last long. He passed ten minutes later
Picture taken with the in law families. At least that was the case for me with family and friends
I love your pronunciation of Polterabend!
STORY 23 definitely married a narcissist 😢
40:00
The family priest??? What?
My cousin's wedding, us all severely atheist, her family? Devout Catholics and the type that believed that children were only yours if 100% biologically yours. This seems like a great time to add that she has endometriosis so pregnancy is extremely slim chances but she wants kids. Just knowing these optics gives you a short timeline for a divorce. After 6 rounds of IVF, 3 failed pregnancies and her forcing them to keep trying to a point he had to get committed to grippy sock hotel they finally divorced. She still blames him as the reason they couldn't get pregnant! The marriage was 4 years
4 misunderstood the prompt
My favourite one was a man who invited a date to the wedding. He was the groom. Not a good start.
the q&a lmaooooo
Male degrades wife
"That's horrinle. She needs to get out"
Female degrades husband.
"That's not too bad. It depends on the dynamics"
Seriously?
Misandrist much dude...
5:05 pro tip about this one: catholics cant get divorced unless there is proof that it is null. And since its not a gov marriage, they cannot legally or spiritually be divorced until one of them dies. So, yes, thats why they are still together. We also have good counseling and the fact they even went for a Catholic instead of a legal wedding shows they most likely consulted their faith and made it work
Also for 26:57 she obviously didnt consent to the marriage ir get marries for the right reasons, she isnt stuck in that marriage. This post is proof that it would be nulled immediately. It is not viable
First guys a vampire
Story 39: is it just me or does it sound like the bride was trying to get OP interested in her and married someone just to make OP jealous? I might be jumping to conclusion, but its very strange that she went to OP's apartment with nothing but a robe and a friend was trying to urge OP to object at the wedding
1:56 It's pronounced "Polter-Ah-bend", like you say poltergeist! I was so confused like wtf is that "german" word, since I didn't look at the screen lol
Not relevant but BMW is my fav brand car, why the red one was so dirty and old like that ? 😭😭
9:56 oh.. i was thinking second letter of alphabet... not third.
I don't believe for a second the woman in the first story didn't cheat lmao
Story 14 WHAT DID HE SEE IN HER-
19:41 what is a bedroom knot
For the story at 26:19 I would like to share some info about the whole god vs queer debate
First off I'm a Christan and a Gay guy and I'm going to lay down some facts, The whole Bible being against us Queer people is invalid due to the multiple English Bible adaptions, over the years there have been many English translations of the Bible which are often mistranslated and changed to validate the current beliefs of the church like a big game of telephone... I've read the entire Bible and the only mention of Homosexuality that isn't a mistranslation from Hebrew or edit made by the Church is the story of The Town Of Sodom, and guess what... The story of The Town Of Sodom isn't even about God punishing the men of the town for Homosexual acts.. it states that God had punished the men of Sodom from their acts of forced intercourse, so basically he didn't punish them for being Gay he punished them for rape.. and the whole thing of pride being a sin is talking About overly zealous pride and confidence that overshadows God.. Gay Pride may be called Pride but it isn't Prideful, Gay Pride is basically just being greatfull that we aren't killed in the streets and lynched for something we have no control over !! So I hope I cleared up stuff, Remember you don't have to support us but you should at least have the decency to treat us equal human beings
Narrator sounds like Jean from Bob's Burgers, no?
what game is the background?
What game is this?
Wait, criticizing being a help meet and submission? Why do secular people get married and then mock the institution?
I see what you did on story 28😊
I think the man from Story 23 was fake, just a made-up person by the girl to make her life seem more interesting
Does the Red Wedding count?
Bro talks so fast bro
Why is the person in the background playing like a shitty bot
Love ur voice! ❤
About story 10, it was not on the groom, that bride was absolutely abusing him. Maybe not physically - hell, maybe she was - but definitely emotional abuse was happening. It’s so difficult for victims of domestic abuse to be able to leave their situations, and this includes men being abused by their wives. The sad thing is that while women aren’t often believed because “he’s such a great guy!”, men aren’t often believed because “women can’t abuse men, that’s impossible!” I feel so bad for him, and I hope he genuinely does get his happily ever after.
Exactly. It's easy to say from an outside perspective that an abuse victim is stupid for not leaving, but the fact is, domestic abuse is specifically designed to keep the victim from thinking clearly like that.
I consider myself as being a victim of abuse because my spouse gets mad when I deny her cigarettes. I lost my job a month ago. Since I spend a lot on cigarettes, a pack a day which is about $140 a month on cigarettes, I told her that I would have to say no at times so we can make it on savings. She blew up, cursing at me, yelling, etc. one day she was upset because i denied her a pack. I told her and I reminded her that I can't because I am low on cash. Right from the start, yelling, cursing, etc, and she went on to compare me to her ex husband and ex boyfriend. Saying I was exactly like them. Also when I was telling her that if I pay for the car, I will be low on cash for weeks so no cigarettes. Yelling and cursing at me and she slammed her fist on the car door. I was calm the whole way home but I stopped at the gas station and got my alcohol. Mind you, I drink but weekends only and less than 15 or less than ten a week but I am the problem since I get drunk on the weekends and it's a lot. Plus, she gives some of her food stamps to family. She gave away about 300 out of 700 she gets to family but I'm the one with issues because I asked her asked for $15 in juice so I can make some cheap wine at home. That's a lot but not 300 to family. And let's forget, in the next 5 days, she spent 6 bucks or so on cigarettes.
I played the organ for a wedding . The ceremony was delayed 45 minutes because the bride had been late for the rehearsal dinner and the groom felt he needed to punish her by being late for the wedding. After 30 minutes of playing prelude music I went to see what was going on. The bride was in the bathroom completely hysterical. A former girlfriend of the groom had showed up. Just an absolute mess of a situation.
How long did they last?
@@CaeliSterlingtheFirst I don’t know, I didn’t really know them-I had been asked to play for the wedding because the regular organist wasn’t available. I suspect they didn’t last long!
I don't get why get married if their relationship is so rocky?dude sounds like a jerk...
When in my cosuin’s wedding part of the bride’s vows was “Loving you has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever done” and then there was no “but”, she just moved on to the next point. They lasted less than a year.
dafuq why marry then?
I can empathise with this. Me and my son's father never got married but 9 months into the relationship I started thinking this, then a year in I said it a few times to him, there was a but though, I said 'loving you is hard, very hard sometimes but I will love you anyway cos you need it' and he did, he still does but the way he goes on with drugs and mood swings (especially his violence and verbal abuse due to an angry mood swing or due to drug abuse) I tried helping him and supporting him in whatever way I could but nothing helped and he couldn't change, so I tried to get him diagnosed or have psychiatric help to see if it was something specific we could treat or if he had like ADHD or a type of autism he couldn't control or acknowledge but there was no self help during the wait and bringing our little boy in the world it was dangerous and I had to leave, not cos I didn't care for him but because I had to keep our son safe. I didn't demand anything off him, I just left and told him if anything just to look after hinself. He is on the list to be tested for ADHD and\or autism as he has been cleared for bipolar and BPD. I hope he gets the help and support he needs, until then, though he deserves love from a girlfriend, he probs shouldn't be with anyone cos it's toxic and confusing and scary :\ he deserves a lot more for himself and in his relationships, I just couldn't put ou r son in that fluctuating environment and neither could I cope with the emotional turmoil and anxiety :\
😂 what a hilariously awful thing to say at your wedding ceremony
Geez I would’ve left. And my dad probably would’ve decked the groom
@@jipsileigh4903 Hey Lady... Momma.... I UNDERSTAND! My kiddos Pappa had CHALLENGES, and while I can see the damage caused by him, I didn't split with him until it was verging physical danger to the kiddos. Even then, it could be argues that it "verged" long before, but I always managed to be super-human-mom and deal with things that way. It wasn't until he actually got some help, that he was starting to be in barely controlled rage rage 24/7. I couldn't do any more. He had to go.
That was almost 11 years ago. He lost his job in his calling, moved away to his folks place, almost lost his life.... and he somehow never gave up!
HE IS DOING BETTER!!! He has worked his ASS OFF and is LIVING AGAIN! He has a wonderful job in his calling, he is a wonderful father, we co-parent, he is appreciative and supportive of me.... he got there. (He definitely is AuDHD, and is a wonderful role model not in many ways for our son!)
BUT - I just got out of a relationship that, in hindsight, was nothing but a mistake. This last man also had so much GOOD... but he never saw his own faults, was older and apparently addicted to being a victim, stopped therapy because it was "too hard".... etc
Also, while the kids I have are better for having a dad, and this man in particular is grateful and looking to "pay it back" for all I sacrificed supporting him and our kids, I never will regain even a fraction of what I lost. My life is set, and there's no changing it now. I struggle on the daily to find something that can be "ME" in my life, because such had been consumed .... etc etc
(Oh, and he and I will never again be a couple. Part of him figuring himself out is acknowledging how wrong we were for each other from the start.)
So, I DO UNDERSTAND. Your ex might indeed get better, and be a true dad some day. IF he works, for YEARS, never gives up, he can indeed get there! It is up to him though.
You talked about what HE deserves, do you consider what YOU deserve? Please?
I was raised to believe that if I "deserved" something, it would be given to me, but if I tried to get a "deserved life" for myself I was in fact horrible and deserved horrible things.... which is pretty common for females it seems.
It took my ex 15 years total to "come around" and he still has challenges. During that time I nearly destroyed myself being a mom to our kids AND a support to HIM, all while having absolutely zero support myself. Life is a bit better now, but I will never get back what I've lost.
Additionally, the most recent ex was nothing but loss for me, and I will never get THAT time back, either.
So, I understand and respect your compassion and your strength! In my case, and perhaps in yours, the kiddo's best chances were a dad, and ACTUAL DAD, in the picture with mom, and I see all of what I believed possible borne out in what now is. If I could have done this WITHOUT losing myself though? YES! ALSO, this is a "unicorn guy" type of thing - kiddo's papa is not, unfortunately, the norm. I could so easily be left with the absolute nothing I have, AND have him either still a mess, or being devoid of any sense of responsibility now for my own welfare....
Please, look at your own self? Recognize that YOU, ALSO, have been through A LOT and maybe could use some support to process it all? You will also FACE a LOT as a mom, with a kiddo's papa in serious challenges. I went years with him unable to see the kids unsupervised, and it truly almost did me in.
Also, consider please for a moment your wording? WHY such emphasis on what HE DESERVES, with little to mention of yourself? THAT I resonate with, HARD... and it scares me for YOU 😢😢😢😢
Be it this man, or in years another man or men, you are VULNERABLE GIRLY!!😢😢😢
If you are VERY like me, it may not be possible to think of this for YOURSELF - ok. That's ok. Think of it THIS way then - YOUR KIDDO NEEDS a whole, deserving, strong, supportive AND supported momma who demonstrates healthy self-worth! Without that, you WILL BE SO VULNERABLE to more relationships where you are "needed" by a partner - who will not fulfill your own needs. Those relationships are NOT the experiences and environments you want for your kiddo - no matter kiddo's gender, I PROMISE YOU.😢😢
PLEASE - consider and tuck away my words? I wish I had more time and a more awake brain to make sure this isn't as rambling as I fear it is 😅 but ... this is what I've got for now.
Be well. Consider much, please. YOU DESERVE MUCH. YOU CAN still support and believe in your ex, while learning to value yourself more... and again IF you are SO like me, you may have already learned to do so much more than you USED TO, but still... consider, please, as if you were your own child. Would you want your child to feel about themselves as you do about yourself, to have those expectations, etc? Every day, every interaction, somewhere in the back of your head "Is this what I want my child to learn from me, how I want them to have THEIR life?"
Because in the end, that's the only way I found the strength to value my own self - by seeing what it would mean to my kiddos.
I am DEFINATLY rambling now! 😂😂😂😂
Take care!
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Story 28 the marriage should have been ruled invalid, as the bride was obviously compelled to go through with it. The judge failed in his duty.
I really want to know the name of the judge. You know, just to talk...
The old narrator is back.(Edit: I honestly don’t care but it’s funny seeing chaos.)
The chaos has been great to follow 😆
Maybe they're taking turns narrating to get videos out faster?
@@crealol2 DING DING DING. I'm a narrator on the other channel, that's the goal (at least for now).
Both narrators are good tho
@BengalEmpire767 the last one (not the original) had a bad sense of humor and wasn't as "heartfelt" There was no real relationship in his voice just overall not great
😂😂😂I feel a marriage is doomed if there's a cake smash and either party is unsuspecting or unset. Like if it's mutually agreed upon that doesn't count but it spells divorce for anyone who pranks their newly wed spouse with a confectionery surprise attack. 😮
If one of the partners thinks a surprise cake smash would male their wedding reception memorable - how come they don't arrange to trip , so they get covered in cake? It's about controlling the other person.
My husband and i pre planned it and it was so much fun!
Honestly the one where she summoned him and he held her train was giving more "femdom" than "abuse" to me. We really don't have enough information to tell either way, but the image of OP feeling so sorry for his friend being treated like a servant while the groom happily simps for his wife is kinda funny
Lmao, same. I thought it was just their thing or something. Dom/sub dynamics
Or just doting.
Honestly, if that's the kind of relationship they both want and it's all completely consensual, I really don't see anything wrong with it. Just because it isn't someone else's "normal" doesn't mean it's bad or abusive
@@aprettygothichick I have a pair of old friends who are together with a "pet" kind of dynamic. Visiting them is a wild experience each time, but they're both incredibly happy and supportive about the relationship!
I immediately thought "mmmm, some kinky stuff going on there!" People who can express that dynamic without rubbing it in peoples' faces in an obvious BDSM fashion usually have VERY healthy relationships in my experience because they are very open with one another and that helps TREMENDOUSLY to solve problems in a relationship.
The greatest gift you can give your relative for their wedding is _event security._ Who answers to them, not you.
People do what's good for them .... Everyone knows how to build a family..... If they want to...
My ex wife and I were one of those couples for others. There were some incompatibilities and I heard more than one person say we wouldn't last long with that stuff in the back.
Now we're indeed getting divorced... after 19 years of being together, 17 years of living together, 14 years of marriage and in mutual friendship. We made work what wasn't supposed to work and I'm hella proud of that.
A for effort I guess. Unfortunate that it didn't exactly work out in the end. But hey, at it was fun while it lasted I suppose. Idk, who am I to judge a stranger on the Internet?
@@jaytrashwade1-1 It was a good life experience. That I can say.
If you're normal but have a racist family, i would totally go black and white, a vanilla and a chocolate cake, and two choices of meal, but i wouldn't make it seggregated, let people choose.
Idk, I guess if both people really want to then sure. But as a person with a Black dad and a White mom, centering your (as in people in general, as are all the rest here) wedding day around your family’s racism is so strange to me. Would actually be a red flag for me. Is the thing you want to express at the event meant to join two people in marriage a middle finger to your family, a statement on racism, or the love shared between the two?
Are you marrying a Black person or any other person of color because of their race, to piss off your parents, or because you love that person? I know that you can both be marrying someone for the right reasons and simultaneously be happy to put a middle finger up to your racist family, but what you choose/want to be the center theme of the day I think can say a lot about where your focus is, and for me that would be something to get to the bottom of before going through with the marriage.
*SON ALLERGY*
Lmao
It means he hates children
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OLD NARRATOR IS BACK
One of the things I see or hear in videos or reddit reads that is telling is if there is a violent cake smash. Not just a little cake or frosting boop on the nose, but the full on, basically hitting someone's face with a slight cake buffer, or slamming their face into cake on the hard table. Wedding dresses, wedding makeup, and wedding cake are all usually fairly expensive and complicated, so to ruin that effort and money spent on a surprise mean spirited and violent act towards someone you're supposed to love? It just doesn't make sense to me. How do you rebuild trust with someone who treats you that poorly on a day that is supposed to be about how much you love each other?
Birch, yes the tree, is a good YT safe alternative for the b word, but honestly, even if my fiance yelled, "Shut up, woman," at me, that would be it for me. I knew that the c word was more common in Aus, but I hadn't heard that calling someone birch was more...acceptable? as well. If your SO is yelling and cussing at you on our wedding day, then that's a HUGE red flag! Plus, if someone "self medicating" that hard, then they probably have other things that should really happen first, like therapy or counseling, and possibly treatment from a psychiatrist.
As for why a man would marry someone he doesn't like much less love? He's probably found someone he thinks will take care of him. There are lots of men out there who are looking for a maid or second mommy to take care of them and clean up after them. They think that their job is the only effort that they need to put into the relationship. Romance and acts of love beyond their own physical gratification? Nah, they did that while dating to get them that far. Laundry? Nope, that's "women's work"! Cooking and cleaning? Mommy never taught him how, so now he's useless and it's "too late to learn." (Weaponized incompetence) Parenting? Hell no! The woman handles all that. They work a career, then they play or relax leaving the hard work to their partner. Manchildren.
My parents were engaged 6 wks after MEETING, no friendship or getting to know you before dating, and yeah they both rushed into that one without thinking, and it all blew up in my tweens to teens (because middle school didn't suck enough as it was, right?) They've been divorced for over 20 yrs now, longer than they were married. Dad still texts Mom on their anniversary, which is a bit weird, ngl. While I wouldn't call them friends, they are civil, live only a few mi apart, and do still care about each other in some capacity, which is much better than many divorced couples. We've been able to have holidays together and such, and if Dad or I need something small, we're both disabled and are living together, Mom is usually willing to help.