Sex vs Intimacy | S3 E2 | Couch Conversations

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  • @nellybtheartist
    @nellybtheartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I love how, although Diamond is speaking for both her and Greg, she consistently looks to him for that confirmation that they are still on the same page. Speaks volumes about their values ♥️

    • @diamondmarquise
      @diamondmarquise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nelly, thank you for that! Our marriage is a ministry and I want our oneness to be apparent to all. Thank you for noticing and praising. Bless you💜!

    • @nellybtheartist
      @nellybtheartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 first time tuning in:)

    • @nellybtheartist
      @nellybtheartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@diamondmarquise absolutely, may God continue His good works through you two 🤍

  • @dmad3612
    @dmad3612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    I love this conversation
    My husband and I have been married for 24 years. Our sex life has gotten better the longer we are together. One of our kids asked us about 17 years ago or longer if we still had sex. If they only knew! We do a lot! it just gets better. It wasn't easy communicating what my needs were vs his. But once you open up to your mate! Trust me the intimacy and the sex is better!

  • @melanieboykin9455
    @melanieboykin9455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I LOVE when the first young lady said "This is my boy!" That friendship is so important.

  • @jeojones9656
    @jeojones9656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I love that they are incorporating everyday couples

    • @mustangschelle68
      @mustangschelle68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So do I. The fact that everyone is everyday people (including Tab & Chance they give us that vibe) and having the same problems as we all do and watching them putting in the work on themselves and their relationships is so rewarding to watch. This shows everyone that relationships take work and it’s worth it. ♥️♥️♥️♥️🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @telishiajackson
    @telishiajackson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I’m a 30 year old single black woman. Watching things like this makes me so hopeful for true black love and a fulfilling marriage/ partnership under God. 🤗

    • @dionnbrooks4045
      @dionnbrooks4045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I pray God find you the right mate. Blessings upon blessings...

    • @haveyoursaynews
      @haveyoursaynews 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes, please...Keep filling your cup with love, gentleness, kindness, patience, and peace, once the cup is full, girl you will find a heart, mind, and spirit to pour your abundance on.

    • @thatlovelydancerIlao
      @thatlovelydancerIlao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. I agree.. very hopeful for my sisters

    • @Ascension1004
      @Ascension1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep your options open. You're already in your 30s and still single. Don't ever put all of your eggs in the same basket.

    • @telishiajackson
      @telishiajackson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dionnbrooks4045 thank you so much

  • @FJAK2049
    @FJAK2049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    🙏🏾👌🏽 This channel is a big yes in our communities!

    • @maryluvsmusic9298
      @maryluvsmusic9298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree 1000%!!!

    • @blacketernal7139
      @blacketernal7139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Need more channels like this. Versus the bullshit out there.

    • @FJAK2049
      @FJAK2049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blacketernal7139 The bullshit out there is destroying our community so bad, it's hard to watch. 😮‍💨... And endure lol!

    • @blacketernal7139
      @blacketernal7139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@FJAK2049
      Bruh forreal.
      Imagine trying to raise a daughter with all the misinformation out there. Culture is going down the drain and sitting in the gutter

    • @AkinAkinsanya
      @AkinAkinsanya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@FJAK2049 For real bruh. I don't watch those BS on TLC, OWN. They portray us as fighters, cheaters etc. I wonder why this wont make it to OWN.

  • @thatsseauxnish_
    @thatsseauxnish_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    LaShanna being 45 but looking 29 is my type of vibe.

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Right! I was thinking they were both in their early 30's.

    • @judsjuds805
      @judsjuds805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Girl looks good for real!!

    • @chris360s_
      @chris360s_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      she looks amazing for her age

    • @nancybreaux9684
      @nancybreaux9684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People are not slaving in the sun like they use to. The sun contributes alot to aging.

    • @mamancooper1784
      @mamancooper1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      sis!!!!! She said 45 and I'm like twenty what?

  • @Pal3sa
    @Pal3sa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    The honesty. I love this & my favourite thing about Tabitha & Chance is how they're so willing to admit to their past mistakes.
    Also love the dynamic between all the couples.

  • @MsTaLaiah
    @MsTaLaiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I am sitting here cheesing SO hard. The entire episode, just beautiful. I did cry when the husband mentioned his inability to be empathetic. I love that he notices the difference, then Chance added how he chose to refrain from mentioning his mother-in-law. Both men are intentional in how they factor in their wife's experience, and I just cried at their consideration. 💜💜

  • @DDJones-yi1pm
    @DDJones-yi1pm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chance speaks with thoughtfulness and intentionality...wisdom.

  • @ladawnelliott7998
    @ladawnelliott7998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Thank you Black Love for choosing #TeamBrown to host Couch Conversations. Their willingness to share their truths and be vulnerable creates an environment that makes it easy for their guest to share their truths and resonate for those of us watching. I have so thoroughly enjoyed watching their journey and seeing their ministry/mission expand. I really have enjoyed watching Chance transition from not wanting to be on camera to now being center stage and representing black men who love black women. Keep up the amazing work. You both are changing lives.

  • @lamamjforlife
    @lamamjforlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men who are OK with recognizing and admitting what they believe are their failures.....just beautiful!

  • @annagrace1159
    @annagrace1159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So W O N D E R F U L to witness supportive men who are growing in the realness of love, intimacy & sex within Marriage

  • @keepingitrealwiththebrowns
    @keepingitrealwiththebrowns ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m 33 years old and I’ve been married with my wife for 8 1/2 years been together for 10 years. We met at 22 and I didn’t have my stuff together. I was broken and in a dark space in my life. My wife saw more in me then I did in myself. Our marriage has been a roller coaster ride but we are still here 2 beautiful kids later. We’ve grown immensely because of God and our commitment to see it through. This segment was life! Respect the full transparency from all of you. God Bless 🙏🏽

  • @labellajourneys
    @labellajourneys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its nice to hear someone talk so openly about PCOS & Fibroids and how thats affected marriage / sex/ intimacy

  • @NaTashaBLMFT
    @NaTashaBLMFT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Omg! I love this my husband and I are 25 years in. I love black love! As a therapist I support marriage daily and this is an amazing platform!

  • @maryluvsmusic9298
    @maryluvsmusic9298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    These conversations are needed on sooo many levels !!!! I can really appreciate real grown-folk conversations about intimate relationships. I’m lovin, listenin, & takin notes! I’ve been married 22 years and Lord knows I’ve made mistakes and continue to make em. There is no blueprint to dating, marriage, & parenthood. I appreciate each perspective and the transparency. Blessings to all the couples as they continue their marital journeys, both on the show & those reading this post 🙏🏾. Blessings especially to Tab & Chance because they are always project love, positive vibes, transparency, support, honesty, compassion, and blessings. I appreciate the creators of this content they are special & truly a blessing to the lives of couples experiencing black love & the challenges of dating, marriage, parenthood & the exterior obstacles that are intertwined within our lives. ✌🏽

  • @victorious9146
    @victorious9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My take always: Feel each other, give space when needed, communicate, honesty, transparency, enjoy intimacy, as well as actual act sex. Great marital topics, vulnerability, and encouraging from the hosts and couples. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @FJAK2049
    @FJAK2049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I really felt it when she mentioned the grief, been through it. Not easy!

    • @reesereese00
      @reesereese00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I felt that too! Tears rolled down my face. The grief of losing a mother is so tough! 💔

  • @TrasieHemingway
    @TrasieHemingway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I cannot live without intimacy...I LOVED the Tent on the Balcony and listening to music. This segment was refreshing!!!! #BlackLove

    • @TrasieHemingway
      @TrasieHemingway 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 I have been a fan for 18 mos. I LOVE ALL THAT YOU DO!!!! I am going to MEET YOU!!!!!!

  • @DWhite-ys7cy
    @DWhite-ys7cy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These are the couples we need on these podcasts and other platforms showing the world that love still exists, stop promoting baby mommas and toxic situationships and promote more of this beauty. I am inspired after watching this.

  • @theeesenorita
    @theeesenorita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how LaShanna speaks on how she loves that he doesn’t assume. I’m recently understanding that it’s a pro & not a con. It was frustrating at first to constantly be asked because I felt like I proactively knew my households needs & felt like he should as well. But he doesn’t and is trying to make sure he has everything I need or want done. What a blessing 🤎 loved this video !

  • @juliettaloves
    @juliettaloves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I love this channel and this series so much! Being an introverted single Christian Indian woman still waiting on my "lobster", recently broke away from a relationship filled with red flags... every time I watch these couch conversations I send another prayer up to God for my person to show up. God bless you guys and keep these coming, such blessing!!!

    • @alanaterrel9914
      @alanaterrel9914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Friends reference?

    • @juliettaloves
      @juliettaloves 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alanaterrel9914 Didn't get you there...?

    • @emekaemmanuel5258
      @emekaemmanuel5258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm here. Black male. Also asking God to send my own person.

  • @terrijohnson6549
    @terrijohnson6549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lots of wisdom shared. With 42 years of marriage and prayer, I have learned to appreciate everything. Great interview!

    • @tuoyogalloway724
      @tuoyogalloway724 ปีที่แล้ว

      42 years is a miracle rarely seen these days. God has blessed your union. I hope to be there.

    • @omololatalabi9593
      @omololatalabi9593 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, that's a long long time... Wish you two grow stronger together ma'am

  • @Shelli1285
    @Shelli1285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Honey I am loving Couch Conversation w/ Tab and Chance! Such a beautiful dynamic added to the Black Love platform 🖤🖤🖤

  • @imtiffaniwithani1400
    @imtiffaniwithani1400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I’m loving these marriage conversations. Ima newlywed and I wish married couples talked to us.

    • @conniemoore4801
      @conniemoore4801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't know you but I'd suggest being equally yoked; that's in all areas; goals, integrity, conversation, finances(you don't have2 make more or less individually but the goals of your $$) & believe in GOD or a power greater than yourselves 2 guide y'all, & depend on in your journey of life together! Seek individual/couples counseling for growth & healing from past experiences💜take care!

  • @aundriawilliams2040
    @aundriawilliams2040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I absolutely love this. The conversation about the death of young lady's mother. Chance (Tabitha's husband) was so transparent and truthful and her husband was so supportive. And the other couple about the intimacy during the time of trying to conceive and the difficulties that came along. This is real talk this is conversation needed to be said this is life. I love to hear and see our community speak with love compassion and continually to be realistic and their thoughts with life challenges and still have love and expressed without profanity or any negativity. Because we are smooth loving people if we allow ourselves we were created out of love and Excellency ❤️

  • @ashleyjones4323
    @ashleyjones4323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I really enjoy watching these mini episodes, despite being single and not able to relate. But I enjoy learning and pray that one day I will be able to apply some of this wisdom in my future dating relationships (building platonic intimacy) and marriage (using and growing that intimacy to enhance our sex life), Lord willing of course!

    • @kk18266
      @kk18266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hey sis, you’re on the right path-gleam/absorb wisdom on marriage where you can, now: in other words, stack your toolkit cuz your time is coming soon. I did the same in my single years-ear hustlin & sitting in the back of marriage classes cuz I was a HUGE skeptic on marriage but God worked all that skepticism & curiosity out for my good & His glory. I’ve been married 10yrs now and looking forward to 10x10 more ;)

    • @onsimone
      @onsimone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes this literally my class room to gain knowledge and insight on tools to us and build upon for marriage. My mother divorced my father when I was 2 and my maternal grandmother had been divorced 2 and my paternal grandparents were married but I never saw them kiss or hug I only saw my grandma make sure the house was clean and have 3 meals a day prepared for him and that he took care of the bills. I want to be the one in my family to have the first successful marriage to say we have been married 30+ years

    • @lovely2188
      @lovely2188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      keep doing you and it will come to you, I tell every woman I know, dont look for it , the right man will find you, I have been married 24 years

    • @lovely2188
      @lovely2188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kk18266 Well said

    • @busisiwekosane9146
      @busisiwekosane9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kk18266
      Q

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I absolutely loved this! Tab and chance are perfect for this. I am celibate and appreciated that both couples waited until marriage to be intimate

  • @ashleyzviitei
    @ashleyzviitei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    3 different takes on the topic but all just as wholesome. We live, love and we learn. Appreciate the content.

  • @DWhite-ys7cy
    @DWhite-ys7cy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brother in the red hat is inspirational, his energy, his demeanor is amazing. You can tell he genually loves his wife and she loves him.

  • @gianelogan7780
    @gianelogan7780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Praise God. Married people talking marriage instead of gay and toxic men. You go Tabitha… love this!!!

  • @shannonluzchris
    @shannonluzchris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I LOVE THIS SERIES!!!! These conversations are God sent!

  • @linseeyjohnson4212
    @linseeyjohnson4212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The full openness and transparency of the couples was awesome! I also LOVED the fact that more couples who are waiting until marriage are being brought into these conversations and aren't afraid to be the "unicorn". The wait is real and most importantly its worth it! Everyone's journey isn't the same and that's the beauty of relationships.

  • @Rika216
    @Rika216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's AWESOME seeing us in good, supportive, positive relationships 👏🏽

  • @trayshana
    @trayshana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Loved watching. Every couple was so vulnerable and open which helps steer genuine and loving conversations. Great job Tab & Chance, Greg & Diamond and Lashanna & Gene💕💕💕💕

  • @lalaheart76
    @lalaheart76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great panel and topic. Love the transparency and vulnerability of everyone. Did not want this to end. Marriage is a good thing mannnn. Cant wait to have that blessing.

  • @tyoungatheart
    @tyoungatheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This series just keeps getting better and better! I thought the first episode with Tab and Chance as hosts was great, this one was awesome! I love black love!

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby0306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely loved this. Chance and tabitha are hilarious..the moment chance recognized what he did wrong or not enough was powerful. That was so emotional, and transparent. I appreciate that so much.
    These couples are so amazing

  • @beatricealexander2102
    @beatricealexander2102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is so vital! Please keep making these and tab n chance are the best and chance testimony about not being able to be there for her is so heart felt. Makes me teary just thinking about it. It's so prominent to tell the story the outside doesn't see. It makes them so human an then relatable then I get the opportunity to say I can do that too. I can work with a man. He doesn't have to come without a flaw. This is so valuable

  • @bobbiehouston8192
    @bobbiehouston8192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I love this show. Tab and Chance you both do a great job of engaging the couples the thoughtful conversations. I enjoy see the positive loving representation.

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love that this type of love exists! Loved watching 🙏🏽❤️

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Love the open transparency & all of the open dialogue, such a greatly needed discussion!

  • @gracej5806
    @gracej5806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I appreciate Chance’s transparency….. This is so good 😊

  • @KharisB.A
    @KharisB.A ปีที่แล้ว

    I found how genuinely all three couples discussed and shared their experiences so insightful and touching that there were sections I unconsciously teared up😢. Tab and Chance give off positive energy, realness and love in a way that makes those around them feel safe to also share their vulnerabilities. May the Almighty God continue to preserve and bless their marriages 🙏

  • @rmauriced
    @rmauriced 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Splendid conversation. They allowed for vulnerability, yet the support, love and soul ties were evident. The couples also seemed to understand their partner's unique love language as well....good job.

  • @eshycmwangi
    @eshycmwangi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I Love Everything Tab & Chance are in involved in…I pray for the Blessing of children in God’s Timing for Gene & LaShanna 🙏🏾

  • @lisadokes2655
    @lisadokes2655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love Tab and Chance!!! Please keep doing what you all are doing!!! Much Love!

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    42 and retired. Shout out to the Browns!!! I love them, their commitment to each other and each other's dreams/goals.

  • @shantiafrazier7059
    @shantiafrazier7059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Grief, children, infertility etc but still being intentional about sex and intimacy. This was an amazing interview!

  • @lulubelle2009
    @lulubelle2009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm so relieved Chance described these two lovely couples as unicorns. I feel sad that I've never met any man happy to wait beyond date no.3 😥

    • @dwi5114
      @dwi5114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Huh? Dang, my hubby is the only man I’ve been with. Been with him for 20 yrs. God bless you on your journey.

    • @icomeinpeace3756
      @icomeinpeace3756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Expand your options

  • @yogithelady80
    @yogithelady80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My father told me as a young lady to give my husband that transition time when he comes in. I'm glad that Gene touched on that! Men need time to transition their energy so give them the space to do that

  • @inesspanni
    @inesspanni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So refreshing to see BLACK LOVE in action!!!
    Hope Wendy watching & taking notes 📝.

  • @1Diostabon
    @1Diostabon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I so appreciate this conversation and all of the couples sharing!!! I especially appreciate Chance's vulnerability...

  • @OneiArMani18
    @OneiArMani18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful episode. Beautiful couples. Beautiful stories. The way Tab flows with her questions is beautiful. Chance admitting and identifying where he could have done better was beautiful and freeing, way to go!!

  • @shoshanamorris-barrett5735
    @shoshanamorris-barrett5735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For me when my mom died my husband showed up and that was really good. Even after 7 years he continues to let that intimacy grows and I really cherish that. When you have that safe space or haven to come home to that's awesome. I love this topic. Glad that persons can know the difference between both and that they can compliment each other.

  • @chanteleveledup1369
    @chanteleveledup1369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Love this .... And I pray that they all continue to have a blessed filled, healthy , loving marriage 🙏🏾

  • @twinmommygenise
    @twinmommygenise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This conversation was so good and went into some perspectives I didn’t expect. The grief conversation was real. It can really make or break many relationships.

  • @valeriejones3808
    @valeriejones3808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a much needed conversation among couples especially black couples

  • @RandyBlackwood
    @RandyBlackwood ปีที่แล้ว

    "Desire" - a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen. A love language all on it's own. Amen ❤

  • @kin7069
    @kin7069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was inspired by these couples testimonies. It almost seemed like they were ashamed to share that they waited to have sex before marriage. But that is Beautiful and nothing to be ashamed about but proud of. I admire both these couples stories. Very inspiring. Thanks for being transparent in such a world seeking to be popular and not original and that true Love exist.

  • @thtgirlgizi6233
    @thtgirlgizi6233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loool auntie tab said “like it a whole lot” 😂😂😂 I love them

  • @kimdean9085
    @kimdean9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tab and Chance...you guys are doing it! Sharing your lives has confirmed your purpose...being yourselves is enough! Your vulnerability and self awareness is powerful. Thank you so much!

  • @JamaicaLove876
    @JamaicaLove876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Loved this discussion, this was just beautiful to see the way each couple expressed their love to each other.

    • @JamaicaLove876
      @JamaicaLove876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 Keep the good conversations going, you're great as a host.

    • @JamaicaLove876
      @JamaicaLove876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 Yes feel free to include me. ❤ God bless you & yours.

  • @ricklgilmore962
    @ricklgilmore962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Lawdddd, this is soo good! Why do I feel so emotional?
    Thank you, Black Love

  • @Dintchano
    @Dintchano 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This segment was beautiful and informative. This conversation I am sure helped a lot of couples..
    I thank each couple for sharing.💯❤

  • @denigwasira
    @denigwasira ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man this channel and conversations like this are a huge YES for us 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @avaholloway32
    @avaholloway32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm not married but I love #TabitaBrown & #ChanceBrown so I'll tune in anytime I see them. I enjoyed hearing Chance speak out on how he's leveled up in intimacy. #BlackLove #CouchConvo #CoCo 💜#TabitaBrown🥑#TeamChanceBasketball 🏀

  • @MichaelAlexander1967
    @MichaelAlexander1967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very deep conversations here. I'm for certain that Chance's mother-in-law would be proud of all he does and has done after her passing to support Tab. The word of God says that from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Chance's public display of love and support for Tab and his love and respect for her mom's passing is a beautiful thing for me and anybody to witness. So, kudos to him for honoring his mother--in-law's life and legacy by sharing that story, his feelings, and providing for his family and loving on his wife. #RealLoveRightThere

  • @michellehooper2492
    @michellehooper2492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great episode! I would love to have heard more about their infertility journey and PCOS. Maybe you can have a future episode on fertility.

  • @IncomeAffectmarketing
    @IncomeAffectmarketing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how all the couples look at one another for confirmation and with Listening ears and good communication. I am trying to work on my communication with my partner. We are 10 yrs apart (I’m older) and it seems like I’m growing faster than he is when it comes to topics like this. Thank you Tab and Chance and to all the couples for being transparent and open about your marriage ❤️❤️🤞🏽💯!!

  • @janetdaniel7492
    @janetdaniel7492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Enjoyed watching this episode with these couples that were able to present their vulnerability to the world. My takeaway is no matter what you may go through but because you love, honor and respect each other you gain a truly deeper connection to your partner.

  • @pittresident1220
    @pittresident1220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the conversations between these beautiful & loving couples...Black on Black Love is beautiful, meaningful, needed, & important. I need more of this!

  • @Luvhersommaboaz2512
    @Luvhersommaboaz2512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this series! God bless all couples. Thank you Tab and Chance. Forever grateful ❤.

  • @mimi.lynn.
    @mimi.lynn. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I ain't married, no prospects, nada. But oooohhhh how I love this series! 🥰

  • @njoy327
    @njoy327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Chance is the star of this episode!! Thanks for sharing your experience and your growth as a man and husband! 🙏🏾❤

  • @sunkissedqueen2885
    @sunkissedqueen2885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    How they been friends for 30 years but they look 27? 🤔😍

  • @tarachristina3922
    @tarachristina3922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was a beautiful and powerful episode. I deeply appreciated Chance admitting that he didn’t handle some aspects of the marriage right, but he grew.
    Both couples were amazing and I loved listening to and learning from them both. Praying for continued success in all your marriages 🙏🏽

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Three couples........

    • @tarachristina3922
      @tarachristina3922 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unnecessary response. Tab and Chance interviewed two couples in this session. That’s what I was referring to.

  • @ssmith6963
    @ssmith6963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just love this discussion. Great couples. Blessings to all!

  • @Ruby_Armstrong
    @Ruby_Armstrong ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Good observation though" 23:07
    I love that part. 😍 That screamed WORDS OF AFFIRMATION!!!😂

  • @ti7481
    @ti7481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes to the domestic anointing! Chore-play is foreplay. And being truly seen is the sexiest thing ever. I love how all the couples were transparent and aspiring to love each other well. Thanks for this episode

  • @belindalindsey607
    @belindalindsey607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thanks for introducing us to some more of Chance Brown. I appreciate how much you shared yourself in this episode.

    • @belindalindsey607
      @belindalindsey607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tabithabrown3449 It's easy to be a fan of yours. I see your heart in everything you do. Continued BIG SUCCESS!! 'ppreciate you sis.

  • @trinnateixeira9115
    @trinnateixeira9115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG!!!! this did my soul exceedingly good!!! Such wonderful couples and the golden gems that was shared is pure LIFE!!! Thank you so much for doing these talks. It is much needed in our community.🌟

  • @sisanakay
    @sisanakay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "I'm 45 and he is 42"
    Where,how?!
    Black really don't crack,l♥️

  • @thatlovelydancerIlao
    @thatlovelydancerIlao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love watching this show. I am relearning , revisiting and reminded of all the important things God has taught me and to keep doing it. See, listen and ask intentionally what do you need, be there when loss hits for the other and don't be afraid to say from time to time ( do you want to talk about it ) those words not said mean a whole lot too. And take care of each other. Relationship is mental, emotional and Spiritual. God bless this show. Thanks so much. I pray all the best for them

  • @mommat8522
    @mommat8522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great show. It’s so good to see the diversity in marriages and the success in their stories. 💛💛💛

  • @nicoleyoung5034
    @nicoleyoung5034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This convo was deep. Chance really opened up.

  • @kingnt78
    @kingnt78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I needed this. WE need more of this. I have yearned for the conversations about relationships that aren’t the standard go to topics. I won’t refer to them as “the weeds” let’s call it “ the soil” of the relationships. Thank you

  • @contessanowacki5754
    @contessanowacki5754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was amazing I learned a lot blessings to all the inspiring married couples 🙏🏾

  • @BrandonDelagraentiss
    @BrandonDelagraentiss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Go LaShanna & Gene!!!
    Thanks for your transparency 🙏🏽
    Thanks Tab & Chance for the platform

  • @lynn2thecore
    @lynn2thecore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This conversation was wonderful and transparent.

  • @blacketernal7139
    @blacketernal7139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My soul needed this. I can’t stop commenting lolol. Dope channel with beautiful black couples.
    Better than most garbage out there.

  • @AsToldByAWidowYTSeries
    @AsToldByAWidowYTSeries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so beautiful. All three couples are great representations of black friendship with love.

  • @beatricehuddleston9319
    @beatricehuddleston9319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Mrs. Tabitha and Mr. Chance, congratulations on your new channel 👏🏼👏🏼. You guys are such an beautiful couple; spiritually and physically. Peace and blessing #blacklovestrong

  • @tlwilliams-boucher6866
    @tlwilliams-boucher6866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Beautiful! Especially the wrap up at the end when Shan was talking about the “domestic” anointing🙌🏾! My marriage partially failed because my spouse would not consistently support the domestic work that would have benefitted himself in more ways than one. So silly he lost one….

    • @conniemoore4801
      @conniemoore4801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me 2 as well; I became exhausted from the roller coasters & serial cycling!!

  • @reginawheeler966
    @reginawheeler966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was Amazing, The Transparency The Tenderness given by The husbands During Grieving and the fact that Brother Chance Shared vulnerable information around the loss of His Mother. I almost cried, it was such good feels and eye opening. I would say that I am a very intimate person, affectionate and attentive, Oh Jesus!! This was Beautiful!! Thank you for This Episode, God Bless!! #CheersToIntimacy🖤💖🖤 #BlackLoveForTheWin #GodIsGood

  • @BEAUTYFUL18
    @BEAUTYFUL18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I HAVE PCOS LIKE HER. ME AND MY HUSBAND WAS PLANNING OUR WEDDING I GOT PREGNANT OUT OF NO WERE.FOUND OUT 3 WEEKS AFTER I ALREADY GOT MY DRESS. SO I WAS 8 MONTHS GOING DOWN THE AISLE. NEXT MONTH OUR DAUGHTER WAS BORN.IS MY HUSBAND TWIN. SO GOD HAS THE LAST SAY...

  • @adrianejackson3077
    @adrianejackson3077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Marriage can be a difficult task but if you put God in the midst of it, God can always make the crooked places straight. Bring everything that is affecting your marriage before him. Try not to talk to others about what is going on in your marriage but bring God into and he will come through for you, believe. Going through it now but God is working it out on my behalf. Thank you God for always being there for me. ❤

  • @anitajones7090
    @anitajones7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is refreshing seeing and hearing our love stories on display this way. My husband and I will celebrate 30 years of Marriage this year. It wasn't easy..... BUT GOD. We have three adult children, lived in three homes, life with him just gets better with time. God is so good, that our latter days are sweeter. Young people hang in there, have faith, communicate and love as if it's your last moment with each other 💜be blessed.

  • @dwi5114
    @dwi5114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love Tab and Chance in this forum. Go, y’all!