500 Years of Women's Corsets, Stays, and Bras | A Dress Historian Explains Bustlines & Necklines

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  • @AbbyCox
    @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Wanna learn about 500 years of bums and hips? th-cam.com/video/aVHsIuNi8iQ/w-d-xo.html
    Also, a small works cited and links to all the images I used can be found here: bit.ly/500YearsRefs

    • @TreScotts1Fan
      @TreScotts1Fan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are we just going to overlook Bernadette Banner in a past life. Wow. 25:34 looks like her twin. Great vid very informative. love it.

    • @marcuswardle3180
      @marcuswardle3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As a man I found it quite interesting! The use of painting from the time to illustrate your points was well done. Your reason for doing the video was classic!
      I went through your past videos wondering if you had ever looked into Sport fashion/clothing. I work in a sports museum and we have a burgeoning collection of sports clothing. This includes a dress used circa 1914.

    • @Maven_Morningstar
      @Maven_Morningstar ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What I wanna learn is where you got that beautiful mock neck maroon top! 😍

    • @charlottefletcher2895
      @charlottefletcher2895 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marcuswardle3180 0

    • @mousemd
      @mousemd ปีที่แล้ว

      You, you little Coxer you!

  • @bernadettebanner
    @bernadettebanner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6731

    ACADEMIC SPITE IS MY FAVORITE FLAVOR OF SALT 🔥🧂

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +389

      You know sh* has gotten real when Bernadette busts out the all caps

    • @quicksilvertears921
      @quicksilvertears921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Well said.

    • @Piti_Pingu
      @Piti_Pingu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I just love the comments you leave on the videos of other costubers. They are all just very "chef's kiss"

    • @TarynsTime
      @TarynsTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Bernadette bringing it and I'm here for it 🔥

    • @fbibabe1187
      @fbibabe1187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Abby... Bernadette...
      Please go search, "Beedle The Bardcore" on YT.
      The music you used Abby reminded me of this and Bernadette, you would enjoy it as well. The comments on the videos are 👌. 🤣
      You won't be sorry.
      Love you ladies!

  • @Hildegardvonblingin
    @Hildegardvonblingin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3669

    Thank you for exposing yourself to a toxic amount of ta-tas. 500 years? You’re a true martyr. How are you still alive to tell the tale?

    • @TheSuzberry
      @TheSuzberry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

      Tatas are never toxic.

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +431

      Jammin' out to some sweet Hildy Tunes kept me alive. 😎

    • @lilianathehistorian2919
      @lilianathehistorian2919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      IT IS SHE. OUR PATRON SAINT.

    • @carolinecagle3266
      @carolinecagle3266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Omg you have been blessed!

    • @pseudo.account
      @pseudo.account 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I don't understand how tits are toxic?

  • @CristalianaIvor
    @CristalianaIvor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +948

    "they demonitized me for boobs, so I made a whole video about boobs"

  • @KatieKruger8
    @KatieKruger8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +967

    "Because castles be drafty" is a phrase I need to incorporate into everyday life

    • @nairbvel
      @nairbvel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That also applies to the rule of serving certain wines at "room temperature" -- in most castles, that was frequently in the 40s or 50s (Fahrenheit). :-)

    • @JeSuisDeTexas
      @JeSuisDeTexas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dey do be drafty doe

    • @TheLicktysplitz
      @TheLicktysplitz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JeSuisDeTexas lol

    • @SineAndersenSSA
      @SineAndersenSSA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JeSuisDeTexas True

  • @chrystivelting6150
    @chrystivelting6150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    So I watched this in my living room while my 13 yr old was playing on his phone, his reactions and comment cracked me up the whole time, he kept asking but why mom, why are you watching this...
    I’m calling it a mom win that he even watched it at all, homeschool history lesson, plus, respect women and their bodies memo all in one. 😂

  • @ukallii
    @ukallii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2273

    What I find most interesting about this research that you've done is that it shows that it was WOMEN who wanted to show off their cleavage, not men, who it seemed found it unpleasant if a woman showed too much or at too high of an angle.

    • @ellissardorian7834
      @ellissardorian7834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      That makes sense if you think about it because a low neckline would make breastfeeding WAY easier

    • @second0banana
      @second0banana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      I mean, there is a reason women were predominantly responsible for the free the nipple hashtag that was going about awhile ago. They may have been ugly, but gowns that just let your boobs be free sounds waaaaaaay better than the modern bra.

    • @systlin2596
      @systlin2596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@ellissardorian7834 Yeah just whip a tit out the neckline and let the kid go for it, no having to fiddle with your shirt or whatever!

    • @bluexroses414
      @bluexroses414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      @@ellissardorian7834 It would be easier, but as far as I know, wealthy and upper class ladies (aka the ones setting fashion trends) didn't typically nurse their own kids. They had wet nurses to do it instead,

    • @DogWalkerBill
      @DogWalkerBill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      There is an old Grooks poem:
      Corinna's lovely evening dress,
      Shows her charms to an excess,
      And makes a fellow lust for less.
      Piet Hein

  • @oldsof69
    @oldsof69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    genuinly, hearing people talk about boobs and history makes me feel so much more confident that my boobs look fine

    • @lucamara6424
      @lucamara6424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      As you should!

    • @talithacrow7530
      @talithacrow7530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Seeing statues of Aphrodite and how far apart hers were made me so happy because that's where mine naturally sit

    • @nikkimyers4467
      @nikkimyers4467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too!

    • @ArachneAnathema
      @ArachneAnathema ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel better about my post-menopausal breasts moving south, now. So glad I live in an age where we can determine our own silhouette, albeit with full criticism of strangers on the internet. I am interested in ‘comfortable, posture enhancing corsets, though!

    • @freyjablue.
      @freyjablue. ปีที่แล้ว

      All boobs are good boobs !

  • @ladyicondraco
    @ladyicondraco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +916

    So afraid that the algorithm is going to attack this one as well with so many mentions of boobs. This was really informative!

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

      My Stays vs. Corset video has done *really* well, so I'm not *too* worried. 😉

    • @rj3892
      @rj3892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@AbbyCox It cheers me to know that video has done well! You deserve it Abby ❤️

    • @rhondacrosswhite8048
      @rhondacrosswhite8048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Lol. With all the euphemisms for ‘breasts’ she should be ok. Reminded me of a book from the ‘70’s (1970’s history lovers) titled “Titters”. It may be out of print but was a rofl look at women’s concerns from Clampax pontoon insertion to methods of bored housewives in the ‘50’s to off themselves and the drugs to save themselves, Sylvia Plath...

    • @TarynsTime
      @TarynsTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rhondacrosswhite8048 I'd love to find a copy

    • @rhondacrosswhite8048
      @rhondacrosswhite8048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TarynsTime I googled it and there are copies still out there. Abe Books and eBay. This book was hilarious.

  • @angryotter9129
    @angryotter9129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    So basically...boobs: they’ve always been here and some people need to get over it.

    • @stephenanderle5422
      @stephenanderle5422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I,d like to over some of those!!!

    • @SingingSealRiana
      @SingingSealRiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      very much exactly that

    • @michaelsimkins7078
      @michaelsimkins7078 ปีที่แล้ว

      DAMN FUCKING PREACH IT AngryOtter! CLEAVAGE AND BOOBS ALL DAY EVERY DAY AND UNCENSORED!

  • @flurderburger
    @flurderburger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    I would be really interested in a video about the different types of maternity and nursing corsets over time. Most of the articles I can find are full of misinformation and it would be refreshing to hear more of an expert's view on them!

    • @katedillon1977
      @katedillon1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a video I watched on this a few months ago. Very informative!
      th-cam.com/video/D-88plYTyAs/w-d-xo.html

    • @amaleeb6438
      @amaleeb6438 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This would be really fascinating to learn about!

    • @scouttyra
      @scouttyra ปีที่แล้ว

      +

    • @coolgirlfrozenfeet
      @coolgirlfrozenfeet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! I am very interested in understanding how it was done.

    • @69Hell666
      @69Hell666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love that idea!

  • @jenel4282
    @jenel4282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +728

    YT: you showed cleavage. Demonetize.
    Abby: hold my stays and corsets and bras and bralettes...
    👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

    • @NWolfsson
      @NWolfsson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Abby: *stares in **_Did you demonetize Nikki Minaj? I thought so_** English*

  • @SueK2001
    @SueK2001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +664

    I love that you sent off that missive to the TH-cams. I’m sick of them demonitizing female creators’ video for nudity when it’s just your body.

    • @sapphirecamui6447
      @sapphirecamui6447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Not to mention it rarely IS nudity...

    • @mmmirei
      @mmmirei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      And it’s also not nudity. Just a bit of skin, that apparently made some old man who can’t handle women at all or some robot that thinks any amount of skin=nude say “HOW DARE YOU HAVE A WOMANS BODY”

    • @animuauntie
      @animuauntie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Not to mention all the very monetized music videos where ladies are shaking it--but for corporate content. :P

    • @SassafrasTee7366
      @SassafrasTee7366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Plus, she is NOT NAKED. Clearly TH-cam does not know the definition of nudity.

    • @Gronicle1
      @Gronicle1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly! They deleted all the videos of my Johnson from my channel just for showing my body. Go figure?

  • @nidomhnail2849
    @nidomhnail2849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    Amazing response to the person (or the algorithm) that claimed that your video included nudity. Ten years ago, a friend who is a researcher at a med school discovered that the new search algorithm would not allow her to look up papers on her topic (lactation research).
    Beneath the thick layer of humor is excellent research.

    • @leonie4696
      @leonie4696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I remember one instance when the IT department of a pharmaceutical company banned the term "sex" from all internet searches done on the company's computers. That lasted for all of 10 minutes or so, because the company did research in contraception. Having "sex hormones" banned from scientific searches was somewhat counterproductive ...

    • @katew7770
      @katew7770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@leonie4696 I worked at a council in the UK where "tit" was banned. The only problem? I'm an ecologist and there are several species of tits (similar to North American chickadees) in the UK including coal tits, blue tits, long tailed tits and great tits. This caused quite a lot of unintended problems!

  • @elizabethmcmahon6318
    @elizabethmcmahon6318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I'm most impressed by the many different ways you've described the shape of breasts in technical but understandable ways. Silhouette is a key aspect of historical fashion, but it can be really tough to summarize in clear ways. I'm always a bit stuck on how much information is enough vs. too much. And breasts and sewing becomes an engineering discussion pretty quickly if you are a sewer, while the audience so often gets stuck in Beavis & Butthead mode. *sigh*

  • @matrixiekitty2127
    @matrixiekitty2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Living in a society that overly sexualizes my mere existence, and tries to make me feel shame for showing my chest, you’re channel always makes me feel proud to be a woman💖 I needed this💖
    Also, late 1800’s and early 1900’s!! Bless you for being a time that’s not only lovely for fashion, but also flattering for my low bust!! I feel so seen!💖

  • @jessicaspeedie2434
    @jessicaspeedie2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +643

    As someone who has spent the last two weeks researching (and plan to do a lot more) just to prove a point to someone spreading miss information about corsets, I REALLY appreciate the effort you've put into this!

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      Every time I go "oh let's just do a quick and easy video about this topic" it becomes this behemoth of images and research and it *always* happens around Mercury Retrograde and it *always* leaves me passed out on the floor when it's done. 😂 It's always worth it though. I really enjoyed making this video and the final result (and not just cause I feel like a cool youtuber with her 4k now lololol) ❤

    • @jessicaspeedie2434
      @jessicaspeedie2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@AbbyCox Its always worth it! (Except maybe if your the poor friends who get random screenshots and links at three am 😂) I love knowing I'm not the only one too so I really enjoyed this video 💕

    • @jenniferb585
      @jenniferb585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@jessicaspeedie2434 if you haven't already, check out the highly educational vids by Bernadette Banner. She's done at least 3 talking about the topic, it could be 4.

    • @jessicaspeedie2434
      @jessicaspeedie2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@jenniferb585 Bernadette's channel is literally the thing that got me back into sewing and lead me to Abby and all the other amazing costumers!

    • @Ella-iv1fk
      @Ella-iv1fk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@jessicaspeedie2434 Bernadette is the gateway drug for costube. The best bit of 2020 for me was tumbling down this rabbit hole of delightful and informative (mostly) women

  • @rialiaw
    @rialiaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I admire your restraint in not breaking out "titillating" until the very end.

  • @danyf.1442
    @danyf.1442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    Abby, together with Bernadette and Karolina, got me interested in fashion history and I cannot be more grateful. I am always amazed by the amount of research behind each video, and this one is no exception. The demonetization was just laughable and you reacted in the best way possible! Thank you for your hard work Abby!

    • @robinchesterfield42
      @robinchesterfield42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Karolina! I love her stuff too. Her video about what different decades of the "nineteenth century" fashoin actually looked like, where she hand draws each one while talking about it (apologizing about her "bad art" all the way) was fascinating. I'm also fond of the "Century of Real Beauty".

    • @katedillon1977
      @katedillon1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!! They're so great!

    • @MrAilsaAng
      @MrAilsaAng ปีที่แล้ว

      yes!!!

  • @YTistooannoying
    @YTistooannoying 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Abby, I have recently gained an interest in Eastern European folk clothing, it is incredibly beautiful. I especially love the head dresses. Unfortunately, my search for someone making them here on TH-cam failed. Everyone is so focused on fashion from the UK, France, and the early US, that no one even looks at the other styles. Maybe the embroidery is too much, but... in the historic sewing community people are starting to all do the same thing...corsets, crinolines, poofy skirts. It would be nice to see someone explore the Eastern European history.

    • @kimclements4680
      @kimclements4680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Have you seen Pretty Shepherd on YT? She discusses about Hungarian folk costumes and folklore a lot (along with other topics). It seems to be a personal passion of hers and she is Hungarian (her videos are in English).

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @YTistooannoying, why don’t you start your own TH-cam channel, since you’re so interested in Eastern European fashion? I’m sure others will share your passion.

    • @erinwojcik4771
      @erinwojcik4771 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Na Zdorovie! Let's learn together. I have a handmade folk vest and cut lace shirt I bought while visiting Poland in 2001. I shall have to sit down and record what I see so we can reproduce such wonders.

    • @katarzyna4555
      @katarzyna4555 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It depends on what you mean by "Eastern Europe"... If it's Poland, there's more folk clothes than regions - nearly one hundred folk clothes (JUST in Poland), the most beautiful considered dresses from the region of Lowicz...
      links:
      th-cam.com/video/b1rVT5GHi9U/w-d-xo.html
      th-cam.com/video/Y5WVDNYJ1bQ/w-d-xo.html
      Ususally you'll get the YT channels in Polish, because people who still sew those clothes (yes, they are still being sewn AND worn for different occasions like weddings or church processions), don't usually speak English. There is a different style of folk clothes for Lithuania, Russia, Latvia, Estonia, Chech Republic, Slovakia and Slovenia and in tose countries styles will also vary depending on the region...
      And if the Lowicz region is considered, the headdress for weddings would also vary, just as stripe pattern and colours of the skirts and type and color of embroidery - those are tied to a village or town or a region and you can usually easily guess from the colors and patterns, where the person is from. The wedding headdress would be "czepiec slubny" in Polish if you're interested. Headdresses for maidens were different and married women and widows wore different ones. There is so many folk clothes just in Poland itself that it would be a nearly impossible task to gather all Eastern European folk clothes on just one TH-cam Channel... I can refer you to some sites and channels but they'll most probably be in mothertongues of every country.
      This is just about some of the Polish traditional clothes:
      www.polskatradycja.pl/folklor/stroje-ludowe.html

    • @scouttyra
      @scouttyra ปีที่แล้ว

      Iirc V. Birchwood has some videos on the subject

  • @grlgnius
    @grlgnius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love this. I own and operate a bra store and the number of times advertisements on social media have been canceled because of *gasp* women in bras is beyond frustrating.

  • @mariaherfst348
    @mariaherfst348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    I don't like the fashion of the 1600s but having such a low neckline is kind of a power move I have to admit 😉

    • @ellenrittgers990
      @ellenrittgers990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      And no central heating! In Europe! Takes a hardy individual with a devotion to fashion!

    • @theedwardianwriter
      @theedwardianwriter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      The fact that it mostly occurred during the coldest part of the “Little Ice Age” too I just-

    • @robinchesterfield42
      @robinchesterfield42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Like, dear god, I didn't really realise the necklines were THAT low until seeing this video! The lady in that one painting is _definitely_ about to pop right out. XD Anybody who thinks older fashion automatically = more conservative because old fashioned...HA!
      (and during the Little Ice Age, wow...)

    • @Thenoobestgirl
      @Thenoobestgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree!

    • @UsainBolt_1
      @UsainBolt_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't feel no power , but i do feel uncomfortable and exposed .😐😌

  • @katispieker
    @katispieker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Pretty pastel please had a similar monetization issue. A try on haul. So she made the video again, but her male friend tried on everything. No monetization issues even tho he showed more skin due to him being taller.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aaaaaaaarghhhh!

    • @mmmirei
      @mmmirei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Ridiculous. Just because women are women we can get ridiculed for showing “too much” skin (hi school dress codes!) while men can wear very little and even leave their chests bear and that’s perfectly fine.

    • @gigglesmurf2004
      @gigglesmurf2004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ridiculous

    • @frankiemillcarek6976
      @frankiemillcarek6976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Both ladies had hilarious spiteful reactions. Women are hella funny in response to their own oppression. Women are hella funny period.

  • @orlihersey5812
    @orlihersey5812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1902

    Yet another example of the double standard regarding women’s bodies. If a woman’s body is objectified to financially benefit a corporation, business or other usually male dominated entity, we call it marketing. When a woman is being independent, intelligent, powerful and dares to not sufficiently protect society from her body (forbid she inadvertently turn someone on ) she is punished with attempted shaming and diminishment of her power. Oh my, did all that come out of me. Just had to be said.

    • @___LC___
      @___LC___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      There are ads on TH-cam that show more of the breast and body than that video showed.

    • @elizabethclaiborne6461
      @elizabethclaiborne6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Preach it, girl!

    • @sapphirecamui6447
      @sapphirecamui6447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You need more likes! #truth
      And how come there are places where porn is allowed -like IG, FB, i'm sure there are even some YT channels that borderline porn/nudity....

    • @junkabella6324
      @junkabella6324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well spoken!

    • @sheilaross1449
      @sheilaross1449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I'm also reminded of the blogger The Lingerie Addict, who spoke of her blog being blocked by public wifi (like on commuter trains and so on) because it was deemed pornographic. Her blog, for the record, is *not* porn. It discusses lingerie from practical, aesthetic, historical, and social perspectives. She pointed out that to consider her blog pornographic says a lot about what people think of women's bodies. I remember being blocked at work from shopping a sale on Figleaves during my break at work because the website was simply labelled "lingerie and swimwear" (yes, and?). Bodies are not inherently sexual.

  • @elizabethcalvert5844
    @elizabethcalvert5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    "We got some gabled hoods; we got some big sleeves; Anne Boleyn is living her best life. That is until she got a bit ahead of herself."
    Best part by far LMAO

    • @MH-sk8qs
      @MH-sk8qs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Great video! Extensive research, well played with wit and sarcasm. The comments were equally funny! Thanks

    • @battlebear437
      @battlebear437 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That and the swollen tick chic made me laugh out loud…thankfully no one else is home rn

  • @juliatarrel1674
    @juliatarrel1674 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Abby, this post and similar posts help me a lot. I have (as soooo many others probably do) a body dysmorphia. Demonstrating 5 centuries of body fashions has somehow got into the part of my head where friends and family have said 'your body is fine, it's just not the current fashion'.
    And this one has finally hit me with a whalebone corset.

  • @gisellemurasaki2399
    @gisellemurasaki2399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    I *despise* bras. Which is why one of my sewing goals is to make my own corset someday. Great video! I really appreciated the variety of synonyms for 'boobs' you found. 😂

    • @angellover02171
      @angellover02171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What do you hate about bras?

    • @gisellemurasaki2399
      @gisellemurasaki2399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@angellover02171 They're just generally uncomfortable and I've never felt any kind of support from them since they basically shift around during the day. Corsets and stays just seem structurally superior in every way to me.

    • @angellover02171
      @angellover02171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@gisellemurasaki2399 are you sure you are wearing the right bra size? If I had to guess your bra is shifting around it sound a like your band is much to large. To get the same breast volume you would also have to go up in the cup. Basically your bras band size should about the same as your under bust measurement. So if someone's under bust is 31 inches and they are wearing a 38B the band would be way too big. I would suggest a 32 DD or 30E(uk).
      If you're interested in learning more the abrathatfits subreddit has great resources on the side bar and fitters that can help you find styles and brand that works best for you.

    • @gisellemurasaki2399
      @gisellemurasaki2399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@angellover02171 That is also what I thought before, so I did a lot of research on them a few years ago. But I've measured and compared bra types and brands and what I currently have is the correct size. While I will admit that it's the best bra I've ever had, I'm still not happy with it (I'm a very picky person :P). My conclusion was that the structure of bras is fundamentally flawed ; two straps of fabric and one underbust band can only do so much. Thank you for the resources 💗 I'm more than willing to take a look and I'll also probably try to sew a few different patterns on my own too.

    • @biguattipoptropica
      @biguattipoptropica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@gisellemurasaki2399 as an intermediate and not as a replacement for corsets, have you considered longline bras?

  • @esthermcafee5293
    @esthermcafee5293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    Honestly, the history of women in science could be summarized as “&$%! all y’all - I’m doing this whether you like it or not”. Hooray for academic spite!

    • @junkabella6324
      @junkabella6324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hooray for academic spite!! Hip hip!

  • @TheAgeofFabulous
    @TheAgeofFabulous 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Did anyone else break out into song when the House of Holbein was mentioned? Come on you Six fans...you know you broke out your ruffs and started dancing. Baby Yoda and I, totes got down.

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      The inner theatre kid in me is feeling very disappointed in herself...

    • @victoriagzebb9558
      @victoriagzebb9558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YAAAAAAAS 🥳

    • @skaterbakes
      @skaterbakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *air horn sounds*

    • @saritshull3909
      @saritshull3909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Anne Boleyn living her best life

  • @maube8007
    @maube8007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was really, really interesting. Now I know why old ladies in Loony Toons were always depicted in dresses with the extended bust and the S-shaped waistline from the 1870s-80s. Young women at that time would have been old women at the time when Loony Toons was being made. This is pretty much another branch of Art History and Archeology, which are things I love. Thank you very much for the lessons!

  • @Cherishedprints-stationery
    @Cherishedprints-stationery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love it when smart people vent. I'm sharing this everywhere.

  • @pantitapalittapongarnpim1581
    @pantitapalittapongarnpim1581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1375

    TH-cam having issue with boobies is the reason we can't talk about fashion histories and costumes from places like Southeast Asia (unless we're going to show stone carving all day long) where boobies had their freedom for centuries. So it's not just sexist imho -- it's racist.

    • @anzaia2164
      @anzaia2164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      And most importantly- it's anti educational

    • @UsainBolt_1
      @UsainBolt_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Just because they did it then dosent make it okay now ok!, i would rather put on stays than bra .

    • @adflix424
      @adflix424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@UsainBolt_1 There's nothing wrong with women letting their big gals out, hanging loose. It only becomes 'not okay' when you live in colder climates or in societies where r@pes are rampant and make belief religions impose their versions of modesty

    • @UsainBolt_1
      @UsainBolt_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adflix424 MEH

    • @UsainBolt_1
      @UsainBolt_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adflix424 I dont particularly agree maybe breast but i hate how my niples look so no .

  • @annesengpiel5522
    @annesengpiel5522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Anne Boleyn was living her best life........ until she got a little a head of herself!!! *dying of laughter over here*. That was a good one. But, seriously, they need to sort out their priorities!! We can go entire videos (which I love btw) talking about periods and stuff, but when boobies come in it is on the verge of being demonetized?!?! Like, seriously, people?!?! GO ABBY!!

    • @wednes3day
      @wednes3day 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Question is .. was it a reference to SIX

    • @AlishaAziz
      @AlishaAziz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So freaky that I read this comment by chance at the exact same time that she said it

  • @kaytiej8311
    @kaytiej8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    So many euphemisms for breasts! That must have been hours of research on its own. Your research, as always is exceptional! Thanks Abby.

  • @sarahmwalsh
    @sarahmwalsh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    As a woman who nursed for five years, let me tell ya, strangers on the Internet (and irl tbh) DEFINITELY want women to know what they think about breasts being used as food dispensers. And y'know what? We don't! It's like, excuse me, unless you want this child to keep screaming, we're going to be exposing some stuff.

  • @christikulczyk1439
    @christikulczyk1439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Love how you film this with a neckline up to your ears 🤣 thanks for sticking it to the man!!

  • @TasJess
    @TasJess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I love watching these with my daughters. They're huge nerds and the history, passionate academic inquiry and fabulous fashion is keeping them hooked. I love that they are seeing fashion as a product of society, art and culture. When a body "ideal" is presented, they get that it will probably change in a few years.

    • @schae1298
      @schae1298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds wonderful! Now I have to get my mom hooked to this fashion history side of yt!

  • @atkinseh
    @atkinseh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I had a kid two and a half years ago. I am still wearing nursing bras. No underwire, super relaxed support, I can sleep in these things. I've put on pre-pregnancy bras but they are soooo constricting on my ribcage in comparison that I hate it. 2020 braless phase is now a lifestyle.

    • @louisramosa
      @louisramosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did that for a long time after stopping breastfeeding, very comfortable. I did stitch the drop down cups in place though, after a few accidents where 1 cup would drop down leading to a rather odd look.

    • @greatauntlizbethg9137
      @greatauntlizbethg9137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never went back to wired bras after carrying and feeding my first of 3. Shes 20 now. I will check the maternity beas in thrift shops as people seem to think you have to stop wearing them and they are usually in very good condition.

  • @lajoyous1568
    @lajoyous1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I'm sorry it took a near demonetization to prompt this video, but it's a GREAT video.
    Really how can you go wrong.
    I also enjoyed searching the background of the portraits, because there's some weirdness going on in some of them.

    • @shmataboro8634
      @shmataboro8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oops, I read demonitization as demonization. Kinda the same thing tho

  • @AReluctantSeamstress
    @AReluctantSeamstress 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I saw that video and I can’t imagine being offended. It showed far less than the bra commercials I see all over TH-cam...
    You are doing a great job! Keep up the good work!

  • @katehurstfamilyhistory
    @katehurstfamilyhistory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think one of my favourite things about that Holbein sketch of Thomas More's family (as I remember, there is a painting that is very similar to it, so I'm guessing the sketch was a draft version) is the simple fact that pretty much every woman has a realistically curved body. They haven't got completely flat stomachs, even allowing that his daughters must have only been in their twenties when the sketch was made, and the overall look is a fairly relaxed "family group" - much less formal than anything Henry VIII would have commissioned. By contrast, many of the portraits of the royal family at the time seem quite two-dimensional . . . but then, on the other hand, it probably wouldn't have been a great idea to show someone like Henry VIII in a more "realistic" light.

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    As someone with fibromyalgia and dense breasts which are ahem large, I have pretty much given up on bras. If I had my sewing things (alas in storage) I’d make a new corset or two as they’re more comfortable but no more bras!

    • @MrsYasha1984
      @MrsYasha1984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Try dome dort of stays. The weight of the breast gets even better distributed than in a corset 🙂

    • @katwitanruna
      @katwitanruna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrsYasha1984 I would still need access to the things in storage.

    • @___LC___
      @___LC___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have ME and fibro, so I had my 34Js made into a far less painful DD. I am also planning to make a custom support garment, as soon as I get my house remodel completed.

    • @katiehettinger7857
      @katiehettinger7857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@___LC___ is that a comment on the cost of having a custom support garment made or your time free to sew one?

    • @heathercorbitt5196
      @heathercorbitt5196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I joined the International Bra Free study in Oct. 2019 and I have noticed a lot less back pain since then. I have scoliosis and the strap pushes on the deepest part of my curve I agree a corset or stays would be more comfortable.

  • @Anienem
    @Anienem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    The massive shifts in what counts as "modest" and what shapes are considered ideal are so fascinating! I suspect that there is just as much to say about the emphasis or de-emphasis of the butt throughout fashion history.
    But also I honestly did a double-take when you used a clip from the MBMBAM show! Entertainment worlds colliding!

    • @annastevens1526
      @annastevens1526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes please, we need a followup vid covering the other side of the figure! There seems to have been just as much variation over time re. conceal vs flaunt shape, but I'm really curious to know whether this was quite as sexualised, given full fabric coverage throughout (in western societies anyway)?

    • @RowanWarren78
      @RowanWarren78 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she made another video about hips and booties.

  • @elliot2331
    @elliot2331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I love the inclusion of the What We Do in the Shadows clip.

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That whole opening with Colin as an internet troll is my favorite. "you know you really got them when they call you a dumbass." *ding* "they called me a dumbass." 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @nicolewilson4442
    @nicolewilson4442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    THIS is the kind of TOP SHELF content we costumers come for! I thank you, from the core of my bosom. KEEP UP the good work!

  • @theinfamouscapegirl
    @theinfamouscapegirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    That was a fantastic video! I've always been especially fascinated by the supportive garments worn throughout history, in my quest for a comfortable support for my large, pendulous bosom. You putting so many references together in one video for comparison is great!

  • @chrish2277
    @chrish2277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm always surprised that social media is accepting of quite violent video footage but FREAKS OUT when it comes to something as lovely as out pillowy puppies. Thanks for such a well researched video; really appreciate it.

  • @jesss917
    @jesss917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Relating to makeup rather than costuming (though the wardrobe definitely helped to showcase a woman's chest), cosmetically 'enhancing' blue veins on your breasts in early modern England was a thing.Great video!

  • @jennyormrod2288
    @jennyormrod2288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love this video! As someone who has been blessed/cursed (it depends on the day!) with a larger chest, it was really interesting to see how bust lines have changed throughout history.
    I also completely agree with the idea that no one wants to wear a bra when they don't have too! I'm currently trying to work out if I can make anything for lunch with my limited supplies so I don't have to go out to the shop and have to get dressed properly!

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Lol same! Going to the grocery store is an *event* now and I have to prepare myself for the adventure. 😂

  • @neeag4112
    @neeag4112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love everything about this. The topic, the spite, the resignation, the sientific insight, the rage, exhaustion and fun and sisterhood. Thank you for pointing out the ridicule of fashion that we subject ourselves to thinking our bodies are wrong/right depending on the style of the decade we live in.

  • @lucyj8204
    @lucyj8204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Abby, that was perfection. Thank you!
    (also, I learned last year that modern bras are 1000% more comfortable when not worn next to the skin - I wear a close fitting tank under mine now)

  • @LeBasfondMusic
    @LeBasfondMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    I've had boobs since 4th or 5th grade. I'm also an Indigenous woman, so my body is seen as inherently sexual. I can't tell you how many normal photos of me in t shirts and stuff have been reported as "vulgar." 🙃🚨

    • @rj3892
      @rj3892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      OMFG 😢 So just being a normal human person in your normal human body is TOO SEXY for the gutter-brained misogynists to cope with. I rage for you sister 🤬 and work to a future where this shit isn't acceptable anymore.

    • @amymariewilcox7324
      @amymariewilcox7324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same, smh

    • @LeBasfondMusic
      @LeBasfondMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@rj3892 what is especially bonkers, IMO, is that features I've had my entire life that made me "unattractive," (such as boobs, small waist, hips, etc.) are now /trendy/ because non Black/non Indigenous women are getting artificially! Of course, some people are going to say we're being "misogynistic" and "plastic surgery shaming," and it's like, so feminism isn't for Black and Indigenous people and our bodies?! LMAOOOOO. BONKERS.

    • @sofiabravo1994
      @sofiabravo1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Humblebraggy

    • @addielo823
      @addielo823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Omg I had the same issues growing up because I had boobs by the time I was in 5th grade and I’d get catcalled walking home even tho I wore big ass sweaters and frumpy jeans

  • @MsJPA79
    @MsJPA79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    That's hilarious and angering! Social media is now the "moral" compass and the "morality" police. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @___LC___
      @___LC___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      TH-cam has ads that show more than Abby showed. Thinking of a particular perfume ad that has two models in skimpy, white swimwear.

  • @racheljackson4144
    @racheljackson4144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Great video- super useful from both a 'what year is this dress from?' standpoint and a 'so how did we squish the ladies to get X look'? I fully encourage more spite fueled dress history videos, such quality from you, as always.

  • @KathleenStidham
    @KathleenStidham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was BRILLIANT! Thank you also for always including "bloopers." It makes me feel so much better about the "oopsies" when I make videos for my students (remote instruction hell...)

  • @alinaruff6540
    @alinaruff6540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I saw the gowns of the children in your video and would be very interested in a separate video on the topic of children's and teenage clothing in the past.

  • @Gilove2dance
    @Gilove2dance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    So....1600s people would not be shocked and appalled at 2000s fashion then? Lol

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      1600s to 2020s: "WHERE ARE YOUR BOOBIES?! WE NEED TO SEE MORE LADIES GET WITH THE PROGRAM!" 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @Threadbndr
      @Threadbndr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Except legs!!!!

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Maybe because women wear trouser like things, but not because of cleavages in display!

    • @mcwjes
      @mcwjes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Only the shoddiness of our fabrics would offend.

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@mirjanbouma we wear essentially hosiery but then modesty cover our bosoms. They would be quite befuddled.

  • @randomvielleuse527
    @randomvielleuse527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Came for the academic spite, stayed for the history of how boobs are never quite right until they've been reshaped by clothes. Clothes that are constantly changing...
    Every bit of this video was just fabulous! xo

    • @Silver_wind_1987_
      @Silver_wind_1987_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True Nmy boobs are not semantical...ie. ones a B the other an A due to my hip being shorter....it caused one side of my body to be stunted. And when I am not wearing a bra my boobs are embarrassing....I have a hard time liking them.... .-. And some clothes just don't look right.

  • @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473
    @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Yes! I appreciate your saltiness at the policing of women's bodies. Especially buxom ladies. Also, this is impeccably researched and I love that.

  • @emilystemmons6105
    @emilystemmons6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I enjoy historical fashion and the joke I share with myself over the changing silhouettes is, "How are we wearing our boobs this year?" Glad to know I'm not the only one.

  • @BuckCalabro
    @BuckCalabro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Engaging to feed the algorithm, but it needs to be said that the amount of labour put into this was tremendous. Thank you for channeling the incoming negativity into something glorious. It's uplifting to see the next generation taking up the mantle of history. I was internally bemoaning the lack of historical women's diaries, when the happy thought occurred to me that THIS is a woman's diary today. My day was double blessed.

  • @amiejo
    @amiejo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Educated Rant is my favorite kind of rabbit hole! As a mom of three breastfed kiddos, I can’t help but wonder if having lower cut, minimal coverage was also useful for feeding all those babies. Granted, the “fashionable set” were more likely to use wet nurses, but the average women/child would need to access their milk jugs frequently, and the “freedom” at the top would allow for the change in fullness that happens throughout the day while lactating and nourishing little bellies.
    Also, shelf boobs make a great place to rest your snacks.

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's a good point. I think it would at the very least be a factor.

    • @amiejo
      @amiejo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mirjanbouma the snack point, right?

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amiejo what else could I possibly be talking about? 😁

    • @catherinegibson7578
      @catherinegibson7578 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can actually hold a mug on mine. Seriously, I’ve rested my coffee there.

  • @arsreth
    @arsreth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It's interesting to think about how so many people have gotten used to wearing no bra during the pandemic. Will this change beauty standards when everything clears up? Will we be entering a new fashion trend/era of no bras (or barely any)?
    I consider myself medium-sized in the bust and even before I would go out with no bra. Now I feel like bras are becoming less required by society and more optional just because we all understand that the majority of the time these days is spent free chested. Just something to ponder :)

    • @rj3892
      @rj3892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      COMFORT REIGNS SUPREME 2021!!
      I've been pondering this too and have talked to my friends about it quite a bit! The consensus seems to be that those who have bigger busts are still wearing a bra or similar garment for comfort and support when necessary. Those who have small busts like me are only wearing bralettes or nothing from now on. Regardless of size we seem to agree that wires and pads and itchy lace and all that bullshit is a thing of the past. I've stopped even caring if my nipples are slightly visible bc they're just nipples!! EVERY HUMAN BEING has them 🙄
      Special occasion maybe MAYBE you can convince me to wear a bra to make my dress fit better. But at that point I'd rather just wear a corset and get waist definition too.

    • @Ladypuppy510
      @Ladypuppy510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      So I haven’t worked since a little before the world ended, but I do go to the market, etc. I am a full C or scant D 60 year old woman. I add my age so you can visualize the (ahem) the drop (droop) positioning of my breasts on my chest (more like stomach). Now here’s the important part- I have not worn a bra since the last day at work. Not once. Not in summer with light weight fabrics. Not in winter with wonderful knits and wools. What’s more, I do not intend to ever wear a bra again. Not if I get a job. Not if I don’t. Ever. There has to be at least one bright bit to this god awful pandemic. And for me, it’s the end of the bra.

    • @lajoyous1568
      @lajoyous1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I envy you the freedom of your party pillows. The only thing I've given up since the pandemic is makeup. I still go to work, but don't bother with anything that's just going to hide under a mask all day.

    • @francespowell6923
      @francespowell6923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'd be surprised if there isn't a shift. We haven't been hit particularly hard by the 'rona, where I am, but people are still dressing for comfort rather than style ... and I've lately noticed even *style* is involving a more comfy look.
      Lipstick and foundation sales dropped significantly, while skincare products had an upswing. I'd love to see a report of the change (if any) in under garment sales.

    • @nelliebly6616
      @nelliebly6616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Some need a firm type of clothing,to control the boobs , to have free use of the arms😉

  • @TealCheetah
    @TealCheetah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love me some historical portrait "nip slips".

  • @aellalee4767
    @aellalee4767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for the video! Ive been looking at investing in a set of stays so I don't have to buy a bra again. Looking at the shapes given for women's fashion for the bust line for the last 500 years is perfect for helping me decide what look I want. I so appreciate the video in general, and the amazing timing for me.

  • @mightbeafrog
    @mightbeafrog ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Happy to hear that everyone has always loved boobs, and yet we're always told it's inappropriate to talk about them 😥
    I did not know I needed this video but I thank you for the hard work that went into it. Much love

    • @voxsvoxs4261
      @voxsvoxs4261 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll say my own opinion, such as a teenager of more gentlemanly inclination. It is inappropriate to talk about them:
      Any man such that he is to provide compliment or otherwise comment on a woman's bust prior to intimate engagement so far as I have seen has been met with scorn by the proximity of women to hear the comment.
      Even this video she says was made out of spite for a man who so took it to describe the preference he has of ladies to which so surround him.
      So it is indeed inappropriate, least for men. Between women, I suspect it is less taboo from observation, though I find the entire social group of women rather sensitive to comments that may relate to attractiveness so it may not be the most prudent decision to talk about them as a matter of course.
      Regardless of all that, yes so far as I have observed everyone is rather found of female breasts, secondly despite this fondness please relegate their discussion to your intimate, because as a male it is like a minefield that type of conversation.

  • @brigidscaldron
    @brigidscaldron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I’m surprised you were able to get this video out in such a short amount of time with as many hours of research it would’ve taken to come up with all of the euphemisms for breasts!
    Also I love the academics of this and I love your hard-core Snark! You’re the best Abby!

    • @battlebear437
      @battlebear437 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Snarcasm for the win!

    • @electronics-girl
      @electronics-girl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And she didn't even use "fun bags" or "sweater puppies".

  • @suzzanahbessette6989
    @suzzanahbessette6989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I would love if you could do one of these in depth videos about children's clothing! My daughter wants me to make her a dress to go with mine, but what info I have been able to find is pretty vague. At what age do girls start wearing clothes more like there mothers and what are the appropriate undergarments??

    • @axolirvin971
      @axolirvin971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This is a really late reply and I'm nowhere near an expert, but if she's old enough to ask for a dress, she's probably old enough to wear one. My understanding (again, very limited) is that kids largely wore the same things their elders wore, but more colorful, looser, and more decorated (for girls). If she's pre-puberty, my guess is that the corset would lack the boob-space of older women, but would over-all be the same. If she's entering or in puberty, perhaps advise she wait until her breats are fully grown so she doesn't outgrow the corset in a couple months.
      Also, you'll likely want to make the corset slightly oversized so it will fit her for a while, and I'd suggest a more durable fabric for the dress

    • @teresaellis7062
      @teresaellis7062 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      axolirvin971 is right. Children were, for the most part, were dressed like tiny adults and treated as such. It is only in recent history that children are treated as children. You can see it in the paintings Abby showed that include children.

  • @koalamarsupial
    @koalamarsupial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This video is amazing and the surprise Griffin is *chef kiss*

    • @k2lar
      @k2lar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My daughter's whole mind exploded when the McElboys came onscreen!

  • @lifenolonger
    @lifenolonger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Being large chested from a young age really changes your perspective on clothing and bras as by the time I was starting high school I had pinned down the right cut the right size and the best clothing to wear for each bra for me personally at least I can’t go with a bra for long as it will start to hurt so I tend to wear something with at least a minimal amount of support

  • @melaleuca1881
    @melaleuca1881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I don't know if you will even see this, Abby, but I want to at least try. First, thank you so much for all the work you do. It's so thorough and thoughtful, well-put together. You're one of the reasons I found and stayed quite happily around historical dress TH-cam. I appreciate all you do and all you bring to the table by just being your sassy, badass self. Second... I don't know if you could make an entire video just around the ways in which markedly small breasts have been augmented or not throughout the sections of western history you're familiar with, but, as a markedly small chested person, *I* would be very interested. Also would be interested in any advice for modern people with small breasts (A-B cup) wanting to wear historical dress to faires, just for fun, or maybe even to just irritate the normies who somehow still find it appalling for people to just wear what they want. I know plenty of videos have touched on this subject but I've struggled to find something with consolidated information. Also, if a video like this already exist, be it made by yourself or another credible source, I would be happy to simply be directed to those. Thank you, again 💜🌈

  • @jenninstitches
    @jenninstitches 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was the best for spite, titaliciously educational thing ever made. Congratulations on being so chock-full, well rounded and fully supported in your....Um....argumentatatas.
    In all seriousness, and to come abreast of my point, this is going to be excellent info for people getting into historical costuming since brest position is always in question.
    I absolutely loved this.

  • @piperevelyn2446
    @piperevelyn2446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Well that video was so hilarious the 30 minutes just flew past.

  • @sewwithmsjones1196
    @sewwithmsjones1196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just an FYI--St. Louis was the 4th largest city in the US in 1894. People sometimes forget that it was once a very large and important city at the center of westward expansion. This is meant to be informative, not snarky.

  • @rebeccazegstroo6786
    @rebeccazegstroo6786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for your hard work! I did not know just how much the tata's have been up, down, and sideways through the years in the cause of fashion. Mostly they have been flaunted but in some ways diminished and hidden.

  • @midworldcrafting4958
    @midworldcrafting4958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is super excellent, well researched, and the delivery is just so much fun.
    I especially appreciate that you pointed out how ladies of different boobage looked in the fashions.

  • @gadgetgirl02
    @gadgetgirl02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The commentary on the 1600s reminds me of Nell Gwyn's introduction in the film "Stage Beauty": "I'd shake your hand but my t*t would fall out".

  • @moniqueforrester674
    @moniqueforrester674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Bemused spite inspires amazing historical content.
    Thanks to you, now I'm profoundly grateful to be living in the golden bralette age.

  • @gittevandevelde2208
    @gittevandevelde2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    This means that within an hour I can expect a video from nicole
    Also, am I the only person who doesn't mind modern bras???

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      We have a flag pulley system between our houses so she knows when to launch the second content attack. ...we watched most of game of thrones together over the years, so we've been able to develop excellent battle strategies over the years...😂

    • @Lani2442
      @Lani2442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I have no problem with modern bras. I have problems with modern bra sizing. Because bra sizing, just like everything else in current fashion, is arbitrary and not made to actually fit your individual body!

    • @DuchessOfTators
      @DuchessOfTators 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      IMHO the comfort of a modern bra is fully dependent on the weight of one's breast tissue and overall size. The larger the bosom and ribcage, the more discomfort is felt. Also, the type of bra you wear does make a big difference. Anything with underwire is usually uncomfortable especially in larger sizes because they put boneing in on the sides and since I don't have a chemise to protect my skin, I get pinched and pushed... its very uncomfortable

    • @MissHoyden
      @MissHoyden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I rarely wear underwire. I do, however, wear bras. All day, every day.

    • @iridescentaurora268
      @iridescentaurora268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I like going braless as much as the next lady, but there’s no way I’d actually leave my house without a bra 😅 they’re not that uncomfortable, and I’m lowkey kinda insecure about my girls’ natural shape…

  • @cristyorosco748
    @cristyorosco748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your whole beginning makes me feel truly accepted, not crazy, and in some ways, kind of loved, thank you, thank you for finding your rabbit hole and going down it. Thank you for taking all of us with you and thank you for opening up the conversation about femaleand what is modesty

  • @CrazyMomma007
    @CrazyMomma007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm out of fashion (I love an underwire during the day & sleep in soft sports bra). I hated developing (c cups on, at the time size 2 waist). Actually, after 3 kids, would love soft corsets to come back into fashion-but not that shoving up & out lift! LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!

  • @llareanna8287
    @llareanna8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Emancipating themselves sounds so much more refined than nip slip! Thanks for a well researched journey through the boobs of history.

  • @kitchimera5238
    @kitchimera5238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Seeing all the art sources paired with so many quotes in this summary was AMAZING. I tend to fall in love with one era or another and learn about them in context of the fashions that came just before or after, but I've never really sat down to lay out such a long stretch of time. The specificity of the sources you found + 500 freakin years = top tier content. While the demonetization of you existing with a body is awful and absolutely should be called out, the spite-fueled research and compilation that came from it is brilliant.

  • @kf7845
    @kf7845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My big question is when did these accidental/on purpose nip slips fall out of fashion and why??

    • @kfl611
      @kfl611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ask Janet Jackson.

    • @emmez93
      @emmez93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably religion.

    • @DD-po2hh
      @DD-po2hh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      kfl611 the fact that Justin Timberlake did that is funny yet so sad.

  • @sophiawebster2347
    @sophiawebster2347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just want to say thank you! I stumbled across your channel through the corset rabbit hole. I'm not even sure why TH-cam was showing me corset videos. Anyway, you have inspired me to clean up and organize my sewing room so I can get back to sewing. You've even inspired me to get back into sewing clothes. For years I was only making quilts but now I want to make some tops because I'm just not finding what I want in stores. Thank you so much for sharing all that you do.

  • @BrigadierMM
    @BrigadierMM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    as an artist and art historian I found your video very interesting. I am also a re-enctor of several period and I always cringe a little when several ladies (and gentlemen )are not quite dressed period. We just smile and carry on.

  • @karakane714
    @karakane714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for your time and consideration making this video - it's fascinating seeing how standards of modesty have changed over time.

  • @FlybyStardancer
    @FlybyStardancer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Naps and the bust shelf-I have often done this, especially at work on days I’m alone and exhausted. lol modern basketball foam cups hold me high enough that I can do this. (And I’m large enough that I never need extra push-up padding, it’s just the same thin foam all the way around.)

  • @zumer92
    @zumer92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was fascinating! And as a life long Girl Scout, I'm totally nerding out over the portrait of Juliette Gordon Low at 23:24!

  • @katierose8529
    @katierose8529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only 3 minutes in and I'm living and loving the variety of ways you have explained and creativity described a 'woman's bustline'

  • @ladyicondraco
    @ladyicondraco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I can't stand not wearing a bra. All day, every day. Only off for showers and sleeping. No wires, not forcing a shape, just a little help holding them up.

    • @Piti_Pingu
      @Piti_Pingu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I used to be like you until due to medical issues my girls just had a sudden growth sprout and none of my bras fitted any more and I didn't have any good stores close by so I put it off and off to buy new bras. Then the pandemic hit and now I'm braless and my muscles have built up and everything is held in place by them
      (I'm not trying to convert you or shame you or anything, it is just fascinating to me to see someone who thinks right now the exact same way I used to think a bit over a year ago :3)

    • @margotmolander5083
      @margotmolander5083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I thought I was the only one! I don’t need support, I need them to not rub. Soft bra, wired bra, corset, whatever, just stop moving.

    • @missvioletnightchild2515
      @missvioletnightchild2515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So much this! And that's without mentioning the pmt soreness, when taking your bra off HURTS. Not that I'm there now or anything 😅

    • @katherinemorelle7115
      @katherinemorelle7115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I find bras to be torturous- mostly due to the weight of my boobs. They’re 3.5 kg each, and having 7kg (or about 15 & 1/2 lb) suspended from a narrow band around the ribs and two thin shoulder straps is... extremely painful. It causes severe neck and upper back pain, and also therefore, daily headaches.
      Until I switched to corsets, that is. Having them supported from underneath, and having the weight evenly distributed across the entire torso was a game changer for me! So for those with big boobs (which I tend to think of as E cup and above), corsetry might just change your life! I am an evangelical corset wearer now.

    • @___LC___
      @___LC___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I had a 34J bra size and it was absolute hell! Not only from the reaction of people in every avenue of my life, but my skeleton. Bras were the icing on that shit cake: causing permanent dents in my shoulders, compressing my collar bone onto a nerve that causes pain down both my arms, muscle pain in my back from the breasts being lifted, etc.
      At 40, I’d had enough, and a massive bra collection, so I had a reduction. While I miss the lovely shape of my natural breasts (the surgeon did not do an excellent job), I do not mis the weight at all. I don’t miss getting lipomas where my body is trying to protect itself from the painful bras. I don’t miss having to wear bras every single day, from sun up to sun down. Even with my quarantine chub I am only a 36DD and love going braless. No more bruised ribs! Fuck bras.

  • @katieintraining
    @katieintraining 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When you were talking about the changing stays shape in 73-75, I was wondering how often women were purchasing new stays. Would they buy new every season?

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That just depends on economic position, work/life needs, and interest in fashion. 😊

  • @GeminiDayDreams
    @GeminiDayDreams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    One of my more hated double standards is the boob double standard. A man's chest is fine but a woman's chest is indecent, BS. Also great video!

    • @psiholog.matei.gabriela
      @psiholog.matei.gabriela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      and let's not forget the extra double standard with frosting on top: you can have a billboard the size of a building of a woman advertising underwear with 95% of her skin exposed in the middle of the city, but having the top of the chest shown in an educational video is indecent...

    • @kimdupont3731
      @kimdupont3731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And man can have boobs bigger than woman , but if we say anything, it's fatshaming....like it's okay for him to free the nipples but not her?

    • @peachyskeleton7484
      @peachyskeleton7484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I will never understand when they censor women nipples but not men nipples I mean everyone has nipples the difference is just the fat

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right? I have seen videos where men are literally shirtless, they aren't getting demonetized.

    • @electronics-girl
      @electronics-girl ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peachyskeleton7484 I am trans and I am going to start taking estrogen soon. I'm very curious at exactly what point in the process my nipples will become indecent.

  • @dreamstreetrose318
    @dreamstreetrose318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great video! I do wonder how/if "common" or "lower class" women's garments differed from those who could afford to sit for portraits, especially from the 1500s - 1700s. That would make another interesting video.

  • @chaotic-goodartistry3903
    @chaotic-goodartistry3903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    definitely using this as a reference for the various time periods I wanna sew in

  • @redblaquegolden
    @redblaquegolden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I love this video.

  • @kellytroy7602
    @kellytroy7602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Academic research fueled by spite is just so good.

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spite is such an underestimated motivator.

  • @elizabethc7428
    @elizabethc7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I find it really interesting that high necklines are not prominent until post-industrial revolution. I wonder if during the 1500-1700s, when fabric is very time consuming to make, low necklines are the most practical choice because you want to have a gown that is practical through different seasons of life. Low necklines provide you with a gown you can easily flirt in, nurse a baby (No fiddly buttons/snaps/straps... just whip out the milk in one swell swoop!), and control your body temperature (by either exposing the bust when it's hot/menopause or wearing that little coat thing when its drafty). As fabric becomes faster to produce (cheaper?), I wonder if people end up limiting practical considerations to their more immediate stage of life since fashioning another wardrobe isn't (as much) out of the question. (That said, I really don't know much about how much a 16th-18th century woman would want to/be able to update her wardrobe)
    (Also I really liked this style of video. The pacing and jokes were on point :) )

    • @annastevens1526
      @annastevens1526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's a really interesting hypothesis!! Although, I'd be more persuaded by it if those same ladies didn't also have about 3 dresses' worth of fabric draped over their hoops, panniers, etc etc on their lower halves...? 😋 No apparent signs of shortage there!

    • @elizabethc7428
      @elizabethc7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@annastevens1526 That's a good point! If only we had a time machine to go interview some of the ladies :)

  • @firstaidfaery
    @firstaidfaery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so so much for including all of your sources! As someone who is hella interested in research but often doesn’t know where to look your videos are super helpful, both in and of themselves and also as a jumping off point💛

  • @aleedulcimer
    @aleedulcimer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good humored spite! Yes! Thank you for this! This morning, one of my videos--a recording of a traditional Irish tune from the 1700's of all things--got flagged for copyright infringement. I fully appreciate your ability to take a frustrating situation and turn it into something wonderful. I learned a lot from this video!