Living with anxiety at 17 years old - BBC

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  • @carsonelias4594
    @carsonelias4594 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once.
    Breathe . You're strong. You got this Take it day by day.

    • @jorgparker2463
      @jorgparker2463 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😮I have researched and found out that shrooms are very helpful, it has really helps to reduce anxiety and depression. I would love to try magic mushrooms but I can't easily get some, Is there any reliable source I can purchase one

    • @JamesTaylor-ff4dp
      @JamesTaylor-ff4dp ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, bergwilly11_

    • @Armus187
      @Armus187 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels

    • @zarkos2313
      @zarkos2313 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shrooms was the best trip I had. It was an amazing experience.

    • @JamesTaylor-ff4dp
      @JamesTaylor-ff4dp ปีที่แล้ว

      @michealharris3221Yes he is. bergwilly11_

  • @LeonardoDiCapri-Sun
    @LeonardoDiCapri-Sun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    People need to realise that people with anxiety disorders have oversensitised nerves, it’s not a simple case of manning up and getting over it. It’s absolutely exhausting living your life with your body on high alert almost 24/7.

    • @GH29111
      @GH29111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Yeah man I have it really bad it’s turned into almost psychosis your body is on edge constantly ready for threat and scanning for it muscles tense heart pumping heavy breathing. Anxiety is much more physical than people think the mind and body are extremely connected

    • @therealautisticdj
      @therealautisticdj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I know right. I always freak out as to think someone tapping me on the shoulder, when clearly no one is behind me.
      It's also bad enough for me with my autism.

    • @umbre04
      @umbre04 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @davidshand4554
      @davidshand4554 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's me and it's killing me softly thats true

    • @Zaman_Ilhan
      @Zaman_Ilhan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😭😭😭😭😭😭 why am I suffering like this

  • @abicaitlin9578
    @abicaitlin9578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    As someone who suffers with extreme severe anxiety I can totally relate to her. I would stop eating for days at a time as a punishment. I worry a lot about my life, everyone around me and pleasing everyone. It’s absolutely crippling, so glad she got the help she needed, lovely young lady it’s so sad that society has 1 in 3 people suffering mental health issues. I hope everyone seeks help

    • @sabinejane14
      @sabinejane14 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    • @saurabhbhardwaj8784
      @saurabhbhardwaj8784 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed

    • @saurabhbhardwaj8784
      @saurabhbhardwaj8784 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Jessica J how can we live alone with God, becoz for me i feel very happy along with people but people are selfish, pls guide, I want to live with God, but still I need people

    • @jaskayy6590
      @jaskayy6590 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nooralmadani5686
      @nooralmadani5686 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@saurabhbhardwaj8784 Same, I want to feel like God is enough but sometimes I need a physical person to be their infant of me and talk to me, give me a hug. Sometimes I don't know if God is replying because the responses can take time to see. Although I do believe he's here for me, I want to feel like I only need Him. Living alone with anxiety is hard.

  • @AmaraEagle
    @AmaraEagle ปีที่แล้ว +143

    She’s so brave to talk so openly about the hardest times she’s been through. And she’s so eloquent about it and so strong.

  • @bradsutherland_writer
    @bradsutherland_writer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    "We are exposed 24/7 and anyone can have an opinion on us," such wise and profound words. I am sending you my very best wishes, Rosie.

  • @drrd4127
    @drrd4127 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Started having anxiety as a small child. I still suffer from Anxiety at 33 years old eventhough people kept telling me "It will get better as you get older, you are just young and inexperienced", here I am 33 years old with lots of life experience and still suffering from Anxiety. What people didn't understand back in the day was anxiety is a disease not a phase in life.

    • @jamiebutterworth9844
      @jamiebutterworth9844 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I've realised that as well. I'm almost 31 now and although I'm able to do more things now than in my 20s and earlier, the strength of the anxiety is as high as it's always been. It doesn't lessen over time. I learnt to accept it as normal to feel anxious before doing something but doing that thing anyway.

    • @bestchannel4587
      @bestchannel4587 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try phenibut

    • @davidshand4554
      @davidshand4554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi pleasant gmorning everyone, I just wanna say I'm going trough the same thing now and sometimes I wondered if this is the my life will be forever. It's real stressing.

    • @davidshand4554
      @davidshand4554 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bestchannel4587 what is it

    • @davidshand4554
      @davidshand4554 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bestchannel4587 what is phenibut

  • @DonnDenisse
    @DonnDenisse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    I suffered severe anxiety years ago. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe anxiety and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

    • @MartFrancis
      @MartFrancis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @Marylongor
      @Marylongor 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you help me with the reliable source . I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

    • @nicholda436
      @nicholda436 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ive done shrooms last month in my house. It taught me how severely traumatized I was from alcohol. I healed from many mental traumas from my past and was able to forgive, let go. Shrooms to me is a remedy not a vice. I even felt more refreshed the
      morning after. So no hangovers. No
      depression mood for days. No anxiety.I now
      have a more calm mind

    • @Caroljoyce-mp8sk
      @Caroljoyce-mp8sk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      From my experience it really works excellently! It doesnt even need to be a full hit. With potent shrooms 2-3 small ones will still make a clear difference. It will be a few hour cosy rumbling moment around rest time, but afterwards its just calm and you feel amazing and gain your freedom. Psilocybin is different dudes, its the only "treatment" I would recommend to someone who genuinely wants to get better. There is no addiction, withdrawal, or negative side effects. It's just pure healing., far more effective than any anti-depressant and any other thing. I went on a microdose treatment for a couple of months and within the first week, every sight of a cigarette got me questioning why I was doing all that to myself. It really works. you can thank me later.

    • @ErnestoHorner88
      @ErnestoHorner88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Does he ship international? Can he deliver to me in Germany

  • @eileenlord8705
    @eileenlord8705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I grew up with anxiety daily so much that I thought it was a normal part of growing up or even just who I was as a person. Now that I'm older, I realized.

    • @visualjottings5626
      @visualjottings5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do you cope with that?

    • @eileenlord8705
      @eileenlord8705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I had to learn how to trust myself and other people. I developed a better relationship with myself through practicing meditation and reiki. I created a deep faith and connection with my spiritual self. I healed most of my childhood trauma through hypnosis therapy.

    • @visualjottings5626
      @visualjottings5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eileenlord8705
      Great, thanks for telling.😊
      Have you suffered abuse?
      Are you there on instagram?

    • @taresy6789pp
      @taresy6789pp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@eileenlord8705 anxiety is being afraid off the unknown, when you step out your comfort zone you can achieve remarkable things.

    • @pracheerdeka6737
      @pracheerdeka6737 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​Anxiety isn't a disease it's a system on brain . It's gets triggered on normal things like getting a abuse after then you kept quiet on while someone being abused you. Trust me if you can able to slap him for abusing you then your anxiety is finished on no time.​@@visualjottings5626

  • @greyspace2033
    @greyspace2033 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Just putting it out here (even commenting this is giving me anxiety) I have not been diagnosed but for several years I have been suffering with anxiety. Panic attacks, anxiety attacks they just come and go. I have recently started dissociating for short periods of time. Anxiety has affected all spheres of my life and crippled me. I am stuck in survival mode and I don’t think I can get help as of right now.
    Leaving this out here in the hopes that one day I can come back here as a healed person.
    And to anyone else who is going through the same thing…. You are not alone. If you can get out of bed everyday and make it through life, one day at a time, you already a champion.

    • @Brittany12173
      @Brittany12173 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I recommend microdosing mushrooms it has helped treat anxiety depression PTSD and other mental issues, look up the handle they shrooms varieties lsd DMT xanax mmda and other psychedelic products. A mycologist that guided me.....

    • @Brittany12173
      @Brittany12173 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Smithspores my source for quality shrooms, dmt and more

    • @Brittany12173
      @Brittany12173 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      On ig

    • @remiporche1704
      @remiporche1704 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      have you considered therapy, speaking about your troubles to someone else really goes far.

    • @marianaree9967
      @marianaree9967 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel you ! I take meds and I had really beautiful 4 years almost anxiety free . It’s posible but is a battle definitely. We need to change this constant feeling that we are not enough . You are worthy, you are of high value .

  • @benanderson9551
    @benanderson9551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    What a brave and lovely young woman. We’ll done for being able to talk about it

    • @thebigredwagon
      @thebigredwagon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely ridiculous. Being neurotic is not bravery.

    • @joandolliedoyle775
      @joandolliedoyle775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@thebigredwagon your comment says more about your fixed mindset than this 17 year old.

    • @thebigredwagon
      @thebigredwagon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joandolliedoyle775 yeah, I’ll remember to go have a good cry about it later. 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @gameproadvancesp148
      @gameproadvancesp148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joandolliedoyle775 nothing even happened to her. This is a normal ass person with a very average story, why are they even on the news.

    • @joandolliedoyle775
      @joandolliedoyle775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gameproadvancesp148 Maybe consider not clicking on these stories if they are not of interest for you.

  • @Denis-89
    @Denis-89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    I feel her exact words and feelings. I recently realised it is anxiety after living 30 years like the she lives now. Always worrying, never positive. Always problems. I finally took courage and contacted therapist who helped me. So all anxiety ridden people out there, there is nothing wrong with you, you are perfect. Things will get better! It is never to late to ask for help..

    • @Denis-89
      @Denis-89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Elxphant I feel you. But please talk about it and get help. You matter, you have a value. You will never stop feeling negative but at some point it will get better, you will handle it. I am here for you..

    • @inesalejandra2868
      @inesalejandra2868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Elxphant Please don't stab yourself. Reach out.

    • @npc8074
      @npc8074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i love you

    • @captainrickk
      @captainrickk ปีที่แล้ว

      Can I contact you please?

    • @TiredInAugust
      @TiredInAugust ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Denis-89shush

  • @oldschool8330
    @oldschool8330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Anxiety has ruined my life. Feel for this young lady as I know the struggle she must have gone through.
    Hope she goes on to live a fulfilled life.

    • @charlalar14
      @charlalar14 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same, everything she said, it was like listening to myself. Are you any better today? This is hell on earth 😔

  • @yitongliu3596
    @yitongliu3596 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I cried just by listening to her. So happy that she made it through.

  • @GreatBritishMeditation
    @GreatBritishMeditation ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "In today's rush, we all think too much, seek too much, want too much, and forget about the joy of just being." - Eckhart Tolle

  • @TheEXTREMEcleaningguys
    @TheEXTREMEcleaningguys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I am a sufferer off both anxiety and depression and have been since I was in primary school I am now 31 and it still likes to play games with me. It’s a HORRIBLE ILLNESS to have and I would give anything to make it go away but it won’t and I know that now so I just take it day by day now. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @Q117-q5p
      @Q117-q5p ปีที่แล้ว

      Bless you

    • @Q117-q5p
      @Q117-q5p ปีที่แล้ว

      Bless you

    • @anthonydilele7808
      @anthonydilele7808 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m 31 also and I’m starting to come to the realisation it will never leave I’ll just have to learn to live with it I hope your doing well take care

    • @Christian.Raduescu
      @Christian.Raduescu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Antidepresants?

    • @Kat-mu8wq
      @Kat-mu8wq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Antidepressants and talk therapy only works the first few years you have it. After 10 years with the disease (depression)(though depression and anxiety are often found together as they feed off each other), studies have shown it alters your brain, shrinking several parts such as the hippocampus which controls memory and learning and enlarging other areas like the amygdala which deals with fear and other emotions.

  • @lauren4522
    @lauren4522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I feel exactly like that right now I can’t go to school or anything but good on her for opening up it’s hard .

  • @mohammedmansoor9497
    @mohammedmansoor9497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I feel anxiety and depressed as an introvert it was very hard and I completely lost my mind and has a dramatic adverse effect on when it comes to finding Relationship with a true one.

    • @gameproadvancesp148
      @gameproadvancesp148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why. Just cause? You’re lucky you know...

    • @realgoodenergy5223
      @realgoodenergy5223 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree relationships are realllyy difficult for me to maintain 😞

  • @حياةمحفوظ
    @حياةمحفوظ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I liked how he listened to her ❤

  • @whichypoohs
    @whichypoohs ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a BEAUTIFUL young lady. Hope she’s ok now.

    • @stormyXwrld
      @stormyXwrld 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

  • @crystalzzxx
    @crystalzzxx ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Reading these comments is so touching because it makes me feel like people truly understand how I feel and that I can someday find those kinds of people irl to support me.. dont worry. Im going to my second appointment with professional soon.

    • @aymaneoulahyane6803
      @aymaneoulahyane6803 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you doing

    • @crystalzzxx
      @crystalzzxx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aymaneoulahyane6803 been doing okay. I am still having bunch of anxiety about stuff but when I did go to appointments it did feel like it helped me clear my emotions out better. I had yo stop going due to moving in with my bf but rn I am gonna start going to appointments with a psychologist again hopefully soon.

  • @ahmedtrainingacademy
    @ahmedtrainingacademy ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Please do not let anxiety rule you and take ownership to break the shackles. Surround yourself with positive people and talk to someone. We are all in this together.

  • @tinab083
    @tinab083 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She’s amazing for sharing her story..very brave truthful and courageous 💕

  • @ryanjj3257
    @ryanjj3257 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bless her, just heartbreaking when she said she hates herself 💔 so glad mental health is encouraged to be talked about now.. this would of saved this little girls life 🙏 Dr Alex is a tremendous role model
    for teenagers and adults alike with mental health 👏

  • @LUCIFER-vl9kt
    @LUCIFER-vl9kt ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so sorry that people go through this, but I'm extremely grateful to you for sharing your story and making me feel less alone

  • @darrencamper6727
    @darrencamper6727 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're not alone I feel the same way

  • @dranbuzz5276
    @dranbuzz5276 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    It's been 3 months since my anxiety and panic attacks started. I feel so pathetic because I can no longer do things that other people do normally. Even entering malls and riding a bus makes me really anxious. I tried to open up to my friends one time but they just laugh on me because they taught that I'm just joking. Luckily, I have a family that understands me and supports me. It's really hard especially that I'm a university student and sometimes I suffer panic attacks while answering quizzes and exams. I can't just say to my professor that I'm having a panic attack because everyone will think that I'm just making an excuse to escape the quiz. Even though I'm suffering from this, I always feel proud to myself whenever I overcome things alone. I feel like I'm so brave and I'm a fighter.

    • @erikmajaron1247
      @erikmajaron1247 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      David R. Hawkins, dr. med.:
      "Patients often called me with reports of depression, anxiety and anxiety attacks, intense phobias, and sudden bouts of rage. I’d suggest they stop eating sugar until they come in for an appointment, and a quarter of them no longer would experience these symptoms by the time
      they saw me. One of the most misdiagnosed medical conditions is functional hypoglycemia. Medical professionals are quick to diagnose patients with these symptoms with ADHD or bipolar disorder without ruling out the possibility of functional hypoglycemia. In fact, low levels of blood glucose can lead to cerebral dysfunction and poor adrenal function, which can cause npredictable changes in temperament and mood swings. By eliminating sugar, patients can eliminate anxiety attacks, insomnia, depression, and even sudden rages."

    • @deno_developer3848
      @deno_developer3848 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      im 100% like you from almost 1 year i feel unbalanced every day im scared to go somewhere thinking something will happen to me i was to every doctor they can't do anything and this is the worst thing i ever had and i would never imagine it will happen to me something like this sometimes i cant even drink a glass of water trust me im 28 years old guy i was strong always i was smart and strong until in january 2023 in the morning i had something like a attact in my body and i was at the hospital 3 times from that day im totaly a different person im scared to go ti malls shops or in trains busses etc... if i go in places with a high number of people i always get a panic attact and i start to lose the body balance i pray to God to help us and everyone whos suffering from those things.

  • @xavierking2449
    @xavierking2449 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can relate, having general anxiety disorder is scary and heartbreaking because it's like being terrified of almost everything, i feel bad for her but she's awesome and a great person

  • @jocelynalcazaren2771
    @jocelynalcazaren2771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I wish I could hug you as much as I miss hugging my own daughter who has not lived with me since she turned 18. ❤️‍🩹

  • @dillz504
    @dillz504 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Self harming to punish myself" relatable

  • @Wiiliam_Robinson
    @Wiiliam_Robinson หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Living with anxiety at a young age can be incredibly challenging, but it's inspiring to see young individuals like the one featured in the BBC documentary sharing their experiences. Dr. Tonmoy Sharma, a distinguished mental health specialist, author, and Sovereign Health institution employ a range of evidence-based techniques, therapies, and compassionate care to help young individuals struggling with anxiety. Testimonies from both employees and patients demonstrate the transformative impact of their services, emphasizing the expert guidance and support provided. Dr. Tonmoy Sharma's advocacy for youth mental health underscores the importance of early intervention and treatment. By offering a combination of therapy, counseling, and medication management, they empower young people to navigate their anxiety and build the skills needed for a more confident and resilient future.

  • @anikalee9012
    @anikalee9012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have the same symptoms. It comes from emotional abuse for years. Now I getting better. Meditation help me a lot.

  • @phillipbroussard283
    @phillipbroussard283 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When my mom tells me I have severe anxiety I didn’t know how serious and relatable it was for me until I watched this video.

    • @gbrown6790
      @gbrown6790 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Anxiety can weight you down all your life
      Till you realize it was just a negative thought in your mind, it wasn't really true, but it hurts
      I lived with it for years
      Still with it, it's hurts, it's like a prison of the mind and brain
      Hard to break, you keep having the feelings, it comes with depression and anger. 😢

  • @DamiensTrainsandTravels
    @DamiensTrainsandTravels 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sadly its the system we live in that makes people so depressed.

  • @nicoleanne1554
    @nicoleanne1554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You go girl❣️ beautiful story, proud of your strength. I’ve watched my daughter go through similar life challenges.

  • @vaango143
    @vaango143 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I find this video super relatable. I’ve suffered from anxiety mostly social for as long as I can remember and for me it feels like I’m on the verge of bursting out crying most of the time. I get so nervous about all the possible scenarios… it becomes super overwhelming

  • @Isreth
    @Isreth 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I had an anxiety attack yesterday that I wouldn’t wake up when I was trying to go to bed and couldn’t sleep the whole night so good night.

    • @hannahmartha1625
      @hannahmartha1625 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What I try do is imagine someone else telling me they are scared to die in their sleep and how it would song irrational and strange, and you wouldn’t think it would happen. Also all 8 billion people in the world go to sleep and wake up the next day (nearly all) so why shouldn’t you? :)

  • @TheAnxietyGuy1
    @TheAnxietyGuy1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every anxious moment is an opportunity to practice and move away from who you thought you needed to be to who you really are.

    • @fayizakp6365
      @fayizakp6365 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you needed this☺️

  • @lassila3
    @lassila3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I lost my father to cancer at 15. i started having panic attacks at 17. I remember lying in bed shaking at night. Missing my father very much, I had to manage a big forestry property, go to school, be there for little sister and let go of a promising sports career.

  • @dawudy4823
    @dawudy4823 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    when i was 17-year-old, i had anxiety disorder, pacnic attact, death feeling, worrying a lot, struggled almost every day . now i am 39, present have no more anxiety disorder syptems, but just body syptums with insomnia, one thing you should know early treatment is much better, i delayed for years to find treatment. stay strong, for me i am working in a company with a good performance. just do it . u can be normal again.

    • @csick11
      @csick11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What treatment did you get?

    • @sainath398
      @sainath398 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Kya treatment liya

    • @csick11
      @csick11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sainath398 never heard of that.

  • @sabinejane14
    @sabinejane14 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a brave young lady ❤ Modern life can feel so hard xx

  • @anthonyespinoza1696
    @anthonyespinoza1696 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Take a deep breath, everything’s gonna be ok, love u

    • @YasLove111
      @YasLove111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @thomasthecrankengine
    @thomasthecrankengine ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm going through extreme anxiety atm and not eating, work has a big part of contributing to my mental health

  • @anacruz7264
    @anacruz7264 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    anxiety is real and it hurts a lot of people

  • @visualjottings5626
    @visualjottings5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    It's great, that this young little girl has a wonderful support system and figured out early, what's wrong.
    Due to extreme violence abuse at home, I developed anxiety and depression when I was around 4/5 years, then kept on developing other conditions like OCD and panic attacks. But I could only realise that just 3 years back. And I'm trying to learn more about it to improve and Sail through and stay afloat without having anyone to support or even to accept and acknowledge what happened to me and what I'm going through on a daily basis, rather some people giving me directions and lot of nonsense with little knowledge about anxiety disorder and dipression and Complex Trauma.

    • @robjj5373
      @robjj5373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Young little?

    • @julietcrowson3503
      @julietcrowson3503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You might like reading about attachment theory if to our don't mind me suggesting this. Also avoid watching the news as it's so sad. Nature and good food is very healing.

    • @visualjottings5626
      @visualjottings5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@julietcrowson3503 Thanks buddy 😊 xoxo

    • @THEKING-qp1cx
      @THEKING-qp1cx ปีที่แล้ว

      same brother

    • @isaacverrall8782
      @isaacverrall8782 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is the same as me , i feel like a mess lol

  • @JohnDoe-jd7mf
    @JohnDoe-jd7mf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can we appreciate the most beautiful scenery in the back. Wow. England has amazing views with all the natural green

  • @Undead_freeman
    @Undead_freeman 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im 17 and how she explained her symptoms its exactly how I am, recently (just over a year ago) i lost all my friends and my family kinda split apart and it hurt, still hurts but i keep telling myself I'll get help, and Ive tried but where I live I havent gotten much help from therapists at all so i hope to get a new one in a different county

  • @smyrnasstory
    @smyrnasstory 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving, let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your mental powers”

  • @VikktheVick
    @VikktheVick 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is very brave to talk and see the person ❤

  • @lillylarson1484
    @lillylarson1484 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This topic should be so significantly important, mental health is all we need to understand first we judge or even don’t know anything about how much people struggle

  • @Mkay6430
    @Mkay6430 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This makes me tear up My heart goes out to this lady, I’m 17 aswell and experiencing anxiety, I was also disregarded by cams made to feel like I wasn’t Ill enough. I hope everyone gets the help they are deserved ❤️

  • @marlisemarai9552
    @marlisemarai9552 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im doing better since starting tms treatments . Anxiety is the worst feeling. I hope everyone finds a way to heal and feel peace in life ❤

  • @user-mp9xz8yg4j
    @user-mp9xz8yg4j ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m finding that generating the feeling of love is what is healing my mental illness. I’m pretty sure it can work for you too!

  • @ant-lowe2346
    @ant-lowe2346 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Anxiety will be, the death of me

  • @miapets18
    @miapets18 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I live with anxiety and depression myself and everyday is hard for me but I do my best to cope 😢😊

  • @klaara_
    @klaara_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would totally be friends with her. I feel her sm. And what she said at the end was so true and wisely put. I wish everyone going through this a lot of strength.

  • @teshi1424
    @teshi1424 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an amazing young woman. You're inspirational for me

  • @xcx._0
    @xcx._0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i remember having my first anxiety attack at 8 years old. I am now 18 and i have dealt w it but more now since ive graduated it has gotten worse but im trying i know it will get better and i feel like anxiety should be talked about more. growing up i always knew i had it but ive told my parents about it and they would say i was exaggerating which made me not know exactly what i dealing with. im glad im dealing w it now so i know how to exactly help myself and for everyone out there who are dealing w it as well .❤

  • @kooki21707
    @kooki21707 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m a 14 year old I know it sucks to have it it’s just so exhausting, can’t even do my school work or anything
    It started at around 11 years for me that time I didn’t really know or know what to do so it was a really hard time because you know quarantine, so I couldn’t really communicate with any one, I still go through it hoping it can lessen at least at some point 🫶🏻
    Just remember everyone is perfect don’t stress yourselves 🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @JyotsanaTiwari-ok9sn
      @JyotsanaTiwari-ok9sn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hats Off Bro Don't Worry I know It's Suck Out

  • @Chaseniceness
    @Chaseniceness ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have had anxiety for years but people who don't have it say what are scared of?
    You don't know what you are scared of.

  • @mkdiablo995
    @mkdiablo995 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    at 17 i couldnt handle the social anxiety disorder anymore and tried to take my life... i dont wish severe anxiety on any1 its literaly the worst feeling

  • @MarcoSanderCoaching
    @MarcoSanderCoaching ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once

    • @AmaraEagle
      @AmaraEagle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s me for sure!

  • @charlalar14
    @charlalar14 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's crazy how a total stranger is saying everything I feel and go through, it's like listening to myself talking when watching this video. It's exhausting being this way. I don't want anxiety anymore 😭 it's soul destroying, and debilitating.

  • @tamzzy10565
    @tamzzy10565 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Relatable , and on top of that I have a condition called palpitations 😩💔 Its been real hard but I do believe that it'll get better over time and for anyone reading this going thru the same obstacle 🙏💯

    • @Q117-q5p
      @Q117-q5p ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you experience your anxiety and palpitations on a daily basis ? How do you cope with it ?

    • @tamzzy10565
      @tamzzy10565 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Q117-q5p Yes it's every day 😭 but some days are better than others , taking medication from doctor and drinking boiled avo leaves water as a remedy has decreased it to some extent

    • @davidshand4554
      @davidshand4554 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks.

    • @davidshand4554
      @davidshand4554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's really hard for me to cope with it. And this is my everyday life. I really wish I could make it stop, like stop. Gone for good. Sometimes it feels like I'm dying little by little everyday.

    • @sreelaxmir_
      @sreelaxmir_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tamzzy10565whats ur age if u dont mind?? im just 17 and i have both i feel so bad that at such young age im dealing with all this bs fr no reason

  • @0o0Anyuna0o0
    @0o0Anyuna0o0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Twinsies on the age of first panic attack. Main difference being I'm still at the, "We don't think you're sick enough," even though I have multiple other conditions. I'm also 36 now, so this crap has been going on a loooong time. Sigh. Her story gave me hope for future generations, if only I could feel some

    • @0o0Anyuna0o0
      @0o0Anyuna0o0 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jessicaj9743 Then that means I mustn't be righteous. I lost my faith in the fundamental Christian God a long time ago. I appreciate you're trying to help though, thanks and best wishes

    • @emilyjane6252
      @emilyjane6252 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jessicaj9743 Amazing verse from the bible.

  • @Sm00thCriminaal
    @Sm00thCriminaal ปีที่แล้ว +5

    started getting anxiety issues at 17. Now I'm 44 and still no further forward. My life has been ruined by this and the lack of help/support from GP's

    • @hilly451
      @hilly451 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      BTW I'm the same bit younger tho really want to ask the GP for help but know for a fact they will just palm it off

    • @Sm00thCriminaal
      @Sm00thCriminaal 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@hilly451You've got 5 mins with a GP lol not enough time.

    • @Christian.Raduescu
      @Christian.Raduescu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Antidepresants?

    • @Sm00thCriminaal
      @Sm00thCriminaal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Christian.Raduescu yeah, 17 years on citalopram. No good now

    • @oldschool8330
      @oldschool8330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same. 39 now and my world has shrunk and life is pretty dull.

  • @whythoidk
    @whythoidk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please can more people see self harm as a symptom of mental health as opposed to something that is to be seen as being shameful or toxic, people struggling with self harm/addiction deserve just as much help as someone who doesn't struggle with those things. Personally for me, PMDD is what has caused many of the instances when I've struggled with self harm, whilst I know some people have empathy for people with scars, I'm aware that often people do still get judged for showing scars even if they're healed scars. I'm trying to be positive but especially with it being summer, trying to live a life where I'm going out into town feels much more scary and exposing now that I have scars and I'm constantly anxious about someone potentially judging my arms.

    • @hannahmartha1625
      @hannahmartha1625 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally agree!!

    • @hannahmartha1625
      @hannahmartha1625 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Try not to worry about your arms, I have the same struggles and just know people really don’t notice it as much as you may think and mostly just have sympathy, and if they do judge you they are the issue not you ❤

  • @Gamerdestiny7
    @Gamerdestiny7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May every person reading this lines have love, happiness and abundance in life.

    • @AmaraEagle
      @AmaraEagle ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I wish the same for you ❤

  • @muddyboots2531
    @muddyboots2531 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing young lady. I know of someone in the same boat and have forwarded the video.

  • @huzaifa7936
    @huzaifa7936 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have also faced mental illness but my api helped me...she loved me and took caare of me...
    Now i am improving and recovering... Allah Almighty gave a supportive sister to me. .. And i love her....She is my Api 💓
    If u are reading this api...i love you 💖..you saved my life ❤️..I am thank ful to u...I love u for being my sister ❤️

    • @MAsif-ws1up
      @MAsif-ws1up 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same bro can you give me some advice how to recover from anxiety and depression

    • @huzaifa7936
      @huzaifa7936 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MAsif-ws1up I am myself improving and sometimes I feel very crying and down and stressed...but just focus on getting out...
      Find someone sincere and talk to him. Like ur best friend or ur siblings..and trust worthy person and just focus on getting small happinesses..and things which u enjoy... Inshallah u will recover...

  • @willyum3920
    @willyum3920 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has been so helpful. Its something that for me has become much more acute but I didn't realise I've been living with for years in various ways. I haven't been able to put it into words very well but you have brilliantly explained much of what I feel too. Thank you thank you for your eloquence and for sharing. Best wishes to you.

  • @ShaneBro
    @ShaneBro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also need to add the she does not owe the charity, she owes herself. She was the one that started talking and it was suggested she go to the non-profit. She put the work and time into herself. She has made the journey herself.

  • @Grapesforbananas
    @Grapesforbananas ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never really thought about this until I was diagnosed with anxiety and who I was and how I felt about it

  • @jackg3535
    @jackg3535 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I cry at night thinking about what could happen to me and my family just horrible thoughts spiralling from thinking I have a disease or my family have a disease

    • @ranahassan7477
      @ranahassan7477 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dr uromi on youtube channel can cure you, him is a herbal Doctor i was cured of Herpes and my sister cured of cancer with his herbs why not give is herbs a try today

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s okay ! We all have horrible thoughts, your not the only person.

  • @Hectorlovestotravel
    @Hectorlovestotravel 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have OCD and GAD. It's like it's mixed or something. I would worry like A LOT that I don't even know when I'm overthinking or not being normal BUT in specific situations that would shift into another topic. Like one month I would obsess over one topic than the next month I would obsess over another. It's exhausting!

  • @powerloveflowerlightlove-dv4lu
    @powerloveflowerlightlove-dv4lu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People can get anxiety from relatives bullying you

  • @VelvetBear
    @VelvetBear 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I struggle with really bad anxiety too i have all my life, i’m trying to not let it take over me, a big struggle for me is going to college but i motivate try motivate, and build up the strength to go, i’m here for all of u

  • @xzoxxPlays
    @xzoxxPlays 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ur strong very strong

  • @lisha4388
    @lisha4388 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    anxiety is an awful thing, i'm literally 15 and i suffer with panic attacks almost daily.. sometimes i don't even know what i'm panicking about.

    • @hepppy
      @hepppy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      anxiety about having anxiety is literally the most misunderstood aspect of the disorder. sometimes the reason you’re panicking is because you don’t want to panic and it’s extremely hard to treat. i feel you

    • @ariis_sketchbook
      @ariis_sketchbook 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hepppythis is so true 😭 everytime I feel the tiniest bit anxious, my mind convinces me it’s a big thing and I’ll never be happy again and then I get scared of being anxious which makes me even more anxious

  • @pixelprintpkuchannel1348
    @pixelprintpkuchannel1348 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Install this words in your mind system. you can defeat anxiety easily..
    "i don't fear the fear"
    "i commit loving myself and people around me"
    "this too shall pass"
    Relax.. Everything will be ok 😊.

  • @helenaxxxx5015
    @helenaxxxx5015 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anxiety coupled with being naturally quite, and introverted is the worst.

  • @kierangilly1
    @kierangilly1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a lovely girl. I hope she pulls through. Very pretty also. ❤

  • @KoalaB354
    @KoalaB354 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brave lady!

  • @TheAliyahQ
    @TheAliyahQ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    it is very hard. I try not to show my anxiety to the other people, but I cry from exhaustion from hopelesness and misery, asking myself why me and when does it end. I missed so many things and I try to convince myself everyday to not give up, that sth has to help eventually

    • @MissS87
      @MissS87 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is exactly how I feel. ☹️

    • @erikmajaron1247
      @erikmajaron1247 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      David R. Hawkins, dr. med.:
      "Patients often called me with reports of depression, anxiety and anxiety attacks, intense phobias, and sudden bouts of rage. I’d suggest they stop eating sugar until they come in for an appointment, and a quarter of them no longer would experience these symptoms by the time
      they saw me. One of the most misdiagnosed medical conditions is functional hypoglycemia. Medical professionals are quick to diagnose patients with these symptoms with ADHD or bipolar disorder without ruling out the possibility of functional hypoglycemia. In fact, low levels of blood glucose can lead to cerebral dysfunction and poor adrenal function, which can cause npredictable changes in temperament and mood swings. By eliminating sugar, patients can eliminate anxiety attacks, insomnia, depression, and even sudden rages."

  • @ShaneBro
    @ShaneBro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Am I the only one or does she seem like a very bright, beautiful girl? What she is saying does not seem to be her. I understand that the self is much different the what the outside world sees. She really has a handle on what she is going through and has had some very good help. She can describe exactly what she was going through at the time and all the aliments she has. I wish the best for her and her mom.

  • @angelartamesia2
    @angelartamesia2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t know what part of the spectrum my anxiety is on, but I’d like to think that most days it fluctuates between crippling constant thoughts, heart palpitations and sweating to worrying and being able to distract myself. It depends really. It’s funny, I’m up right now because all that’s in my head is becoming an adult and going to college and everyone else seems to be handling it well enough. As a child, I thought I was normal, but I’ve had to hide my anxiety at times because school, and classmates and peers would look at me weird.

  • @bensenior8559
    @bensenior8559 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done Rosie

  • @Hearts4barnes
    @Hearts4barnes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It kind of makes me sad to think that others had their first at older ages. I think that's because I had my first panic attack at the age of 7 after dreaming that my dad was paralyzed and I was all alone. I only found out recently that the part about my father didn't happen in real life, I spent so many years thinking that it actually happened but that's just anxiety. 😢❤

  • @myamulvey
    @myamulvey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can completely relate. I am a teen who struggles with anxiety so bad and developed an ED for 4 years and a reliance on SH for 6 years.😭

    • @hannahmartha1625
      @hannahmartha1625 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have struggles with all the same things, just know it defiantly does get better but it takes time :) I hope you are doing okay love

    • @myamulvey
      @myamulvey หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hannahmartha1625 thank u so much that means a lot 🥹🥰

  • @abshirohassen5
    @abshirohassen5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are strong because even me I had my first panic attack at 11/11/2020 and my first anxiety 21/11/2022.......GOD LOVES US. AND everyone loves us EVEN THE MOTHER NATURE LOVES US.......AND THE ANIMALS TOO. AM HAPPY 😊and I know am not alone.

  • @valentinanahh5614
    @valentinanahh5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how lucky of her that found the right people 😢i have a lot of ahit in my mind, im 20, now it is all pilled up

  • @stevenlupanko2983
    @stevenlupanko2983 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great you shared on this. I suffered silently for 30 years until I became so sick that nobody could ignore it. The general practitioners totally failed me it was wcada in swansea that pushed the doctors to get me a mental health assessment. They looked through my doctors records and said it was glaringly obvious I had GAD and MDD I had turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism but it's progressive if not treated or understood as was my drinking problem progressive. I just didn't know how to escape what I didn't know I had. I personally asked my mental health assessor if it was a easy diagnosis and she admitted it was. I was under about 20 different G P's in house shrinks too in my opinion they are pretty terrible with all mental health. We need to talk to likeminded people as other earthlings just don't understand our alien problems.if you tell someone you have a anxiety disorder they don't realise that it's grouped in with ocd and was once grouped with ptsd. GAD was previously grouped as one illness which was GAD and panic disorder. Now they tend to separate them and say GAD with panic attacks or panic disorder as a separate issue. They fail to mention much about really extreme muscle tension horrendous insomnia and punishing intrusive thoughts. It's clear to me alcohol is what added to my shut down but why wouldn't I drink when it seemed the cure. I quit drinking 4 years ago and attend A.A meetings now. Those meetings and the 12 steps are the best counselling for any mental health condition. The steps are not about alcohol really they are about a bridge to normal living and a coping mechanism for mental health. Since diagnosis changed for mental health in 2018 so many people in the A.A rooms have been diagnosed with other disorders. I was always going to try to take the pain away or perhaps I would have self harmed instead of drinking but now I can see clearly I was self harming with alcohol. I hope your future will be rewarding it's possible to cope and long as you don't use illicit drugs or prescription drugs e.g valium or sleepers, anti depressants are acceptable but not a cure. Psychotherapy (talking) to likeminded people is really the best help. I go on a walk and talk I found on Facebook and its been a revelation, absolutely lovely people and they make me laugh, I had stopped laughing at all.

  • @MangeTak-t6n
    @MangeTak-t6n ปีที่แล้ว

    I know how you feel. I suffering anxiety disorder,depression too. BUT I TRY ENJOYED MY LIFE AND I TRY TOO LOVE MYSELF THEN.

  • @TypicalDuffer
    @TypicalDuffer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel for you and i see my story in you like I use to breathe through my mouth and it made it worse. Breathe through your nose and it starts up your sympathetic nervousness system . Please try this because when I my anxiety was badi would catch my self breathing through my mouth especially when panicking.
    Please breathing through the nose in and out through the nose. It will make a huge difference. It calms you down and helps dental care. My mouth was always dry before this. Breathing through the mouth causes dry mouth and gum and tooth decay.

  • @tvall3980
    @tvall3980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good bless

  • @Kat-mu8wq
    @Kat-mu8wq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not that we're comparing or anything but I've had social anxiety since age 9, I'll be 31 this year and it's still with me. It's so severe I cannot work, I can barely leave the house.

  • @myamulvey
    @myamulvey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    People who have struggled with SH😭💔👇

  • @NickeySiegerman
    @NickeySiegerman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What hurts is reading these comments and seeing how uneducated we all were. I wasn’t believed to have anxiety until I was 17, after having dealt with it since age 5, but still wasn’t diagnosed until almost 21 by my primary before being diagnosed by my first psych at almost 23. Growing up told you’re fine and nothings wrong or believing you’re crazy. Like, the thoughts we are forced to struggle with. And we don’t even know what it is. It’s sad. It’s why I am so open now with everything.

  • @ivamorris1605
    @ivamorris1605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤ hard hard experience and horrible feeling

  • @AnnaE.3004
    @AnnaE.3004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's how I felt as a teenager too. So ugly and not worth loving. I was pretty though. I was even voted the most beautiful girl in the year. Great how she can reflect on that. I couldn't do that back then. Wonderful to have Alex supporting her. An important video. Many young people are like you. At the time I thought I was the only one.

    • @AnnaE.3004
      @AnnaE.3004 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @AvrilLavigne-xi1ce Thanks, I know. I follow him.

  • @BenPlaysShorts
    @BenPlaysShorts 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As someone who has been diagnosed with anxiety by a doctor I can totally relate. Sometimes you get so damn scared about nothing and I stopped eating for days at a time because I would like puke it up every time because of it