@@godfirst3709 It was challenging for me to leave because he was refusing to let me go… He started doing better for a few months then he was back to normal…I told him numerous times that I no longer wanted to be with him he was refusing to listen….
We should have a no contact competition. I hear others saying 15 days 8 days well I’m 26 days in going strong. But while I was in no contact I got a new home and a new car and got blessed with upgraded in my career position. It’s what you do in the dark of no contact at the end of the day don’t wait on them. Open doors!
YOU LIVE! YOU GAIN YOUR HEALTH BACK, MENTAL HEALTH BACK AND YOU LIVE! LIVE FOR YOU, YOUR CHILD/CHILDREN IF ANY. YOU WILL BECOME THE HAPPY VERSION OF YOU AGAIN! SEEK GOD & THANK HIM THAT YOU @ LEAST MADE IT OUT ALIVE!!!
You’re definitely talking to me on this topic today Lee 😊 literally going though this in real time. “Can never do enough for the wrong person.” So true … so very true.
Lee, this was very challenging for me…I caught my nasty narcissist urinating in our mouth wash ( he didn’t know I was watching him)…Afterwards I threw the mouthwash away and had taken my toothbrush and our children’s toothbrushes out of the bathroom…I thought this nasty asshole was probably doing this for quite awhile…I truly can’t remember what our disagreement was about I believe I was telling him politely about his selfishness and I was raising our children all by myself and not getting a break…
These people live by the same playbook their life is one big game, they don't take life or themselves seriously, they love everybody they lay with, they live to lie. When u know who they are u can just laugh cause they are jokers
U know something I really don't want to expose anyone I could but I just stay quiet and allow people to live very fake and continue to play games and live in they own world but I find myself looking back at how I believed the things I did I literally have to laugh. My God😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MentalHealness and because they never to step in my direction again is y I'm sparing them but if they ever try me again that be the worst day of they life
There are real people that take life seriously and don't take things as a joke they blame things on childhood trauma well I just don't pity that cause that's that woe as me my mom didn't hold me, my daddy wasn't in my life No cut it out
Now that you are aware of your narcissism, how have you changed? Do you have to stop yourself from falling back to old ways, or are you pretty fluid and able to realize you're getting ready to do something wrong...and pull it back instinctively?
Thanks for the info man....Is it possible to be well adjusted & know my own self & go back to the narc., & we just cheek ...?. I don't mind helping with her folks at all..... And , & emotionally ,very, strong....can deal with anything...
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I say no. I am a formidable opponent. My narc took my ass down like a lion takes down a wilderbeast. Playing with Narcs thinking you can win is like engaging in global thermo nuclear war. The only way to win is not to play. But go ahead. F around and find out. When your life is in ruins you'll remember I told you so.
They literally hate themselves u can't anything with these kinds of people so y on earth would you keep believing the games these people are special and I do mean special in ur own way 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I found the best way was to just be happy. He hates it when I'm happy. So, I have decided to be happy all day long.
Or you could leave, hun. And then just be happy because you’re not not dealing with abuse.
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@@godfirst3709 It was challenging for me to leave because he was refusing to let me go… He started doing better for a few months then he was back to normal…I told him numerous times that I no longer wanted to be with him he was refusing to listen….
Moving on ,be successful and never let back in your life
Absolutely
I did just that -heal. No anger or bitterness. No contact. Just heal and make yourself better.❤
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Silence is the best revenge!!!
def can be
We should have a no contact competition. I hear others saying 15 days 8 days well I’m 26 days in going strong. But while I was in no contact I got a new home and a new car and got blessed with upgraded in my career position. It’s what you do in the dark of no contact at the end of the day don’t wait on them. Open doors!
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I saw this somewhere saying, "Be your own beautiful and heal."
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Pray and ask God to give you the strength to not letting them back in your life and leave the revenge for God himself.
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100%
Walk away, give it to God, and live your life in full joy.
YOU LIVE! YOU GAIN YOUR HEALTH BACK, MENTAL HEALTH BACK AND YOU LIVE! LIVE FOR YOU, YOUR CHILD/CHILDREN IF ANY. YOU WILL BECOME THE HAPPY VERSION OF YOU AGAIN! SEEK GOD & THANK HIM THAT YOU @ LEAST MADE IT OUT ALIVE!!!
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Go No Contact And Heal
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You’re definitely talking to me on this topic today Lee 😊 literally going though this in real time.
“Can never do enough for the wrong person.” So true … so very true.
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I’m in an agreement as well nothing I did was good enough for him…
None let the streets have them, pray for them, glow up and keep it moving❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽
Thanks for the laugh 😂 BANG BANG ‼️
😂 you’re welcome and thank you
@@MentalHealness how do I contact, via email?
Move on! Silence is golden. 😊
Lee, this was very challenging for me…I caught my nasty narcissist urinating in our mouth wash ( he didn’t know I was watching him)…Afterwards I threw the mouthwash away and had taken my toothbrush and our children’s toothbrushes out of the bathroom…I thought this nasty asshole was probably doing this for quite awhile…I truly can’t remember what our disagreement was about I believe I was telling him politely about his selfishness and I was raising our children all by myself and not getting a break…
Question: How do you hurt a narcissist? Answer: achieve genuine success & happiness for yourself...without them! 🥰🥳🥂🌠🎉🥇💗
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I removed access to me the following day less than 24 hours he moved out and started a relationship with someone else.
that happens
As soon as I took away the supply he was gone 😂
As soon as I said “no” they were out
@PrettyLola-mm4uxand we’re left all perplexed
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😂😂😂 I was sad for a second that changed 🤣
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These people live by the same playbook their life is one big game, they don't take life or themselves seriously, they love everybody they lay with, they live to lie. When u know who they are u can just laugh cause they are jokers
Right? When you figure them out, they go from cool, admirable, seeming to have it all to pathetic, tantruming children. Their behavior is laughable.
The playbook is out
@MentalHealness all the way out when I tell you I literally sat back and look at the game I really feel for. It's wild
@MentalHealness I c everything and I do mean everything. I just not fall for games so notice when I said I c everything that means everything
N they lie so much they actually start believing their own lies, even with proof!!
Walk away NO contact✌️
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No response is a response
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I m on doctoral degree darling! I m really thriving!
Congrats‼️ Are you able to disclose your area of study?
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You're so dang funny 😂
Seriously, you have a great show!
Thank you
They are full of it pure drama I run so fast I don't care who got that damn problem good for them.
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@MentalHealness I am so glad that it belongs to someone else cause I don't have to worry about that
lol I kept saying you remind me of a Comedian and you nailed it! John Whithersooon! A young version of him!
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Why would you wanna hurt anyone. Two wrongs don’t make a right 😊
That's what my ex npd did after we broke up , with my family and family friends
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Bang bang bang bang bang 😂😂 I’m done
Hhaahaha
@@MentalHealness lmfso when I tell u I had a moment of sadness then seen this 🤣🤣 that was great. Thank u
So true. Only tough and mean with me.
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Work on yourself 💪.
Always!
😂 Bang bang bang!
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#1 Best revenge is to
Let them NOT have u...
then ul be "the one that
got away" they'll think of! 😂
U know something I really don't want to expose anyone I could but I just stay quiet and allow people to live very fake and continue to play games and live in they own world but I find myself looking back at how I believed the things I did I literally have to laugh. My God😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@MentalHealness and because they never to step in my direction again is y I'm sparing them but if they ever try me again that be the worst day of they life
@MentalHealness and lers just say nall I'm just going to keep my peace cause these people really will try me no they thought they did.
😂 Creighton, I thought I was the only person that uses that word for people
😂 welcome lol
There are real people that take life seriously and don't take things as a joke they blame things on childhood trauma well I just don't pity that cause that's that woe as me my mom didn't hold me, my daddy wasn't in my life No cut it out
Now that you are aware of your narcissism, how have you changed? Do you have to stop yourself from falling back to old ways, or are you pretty fluid and able to realize you're getting ready to do something wrong...and pull it back instinctively?
have a playlist called self aware sundays
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg i actually contemplated doing this lmaooooo
What happens when the narcisist has no supply?
These people are hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@MentalHealness the things they do and the games they play Jesus
lol bang bang bang hahahhaa
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I’m hoping for more info about non-romantic relationships, especially family
Access and glowing up still work
Thanks for the info man....Is it possible to be well adjusted & know my own self & go back to the narc., & we just cheek ...?. I don't mind helping with her folks at all..... And , & emotionally ,very, strong....can deal with anything...
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I say no.
I am a formidable opponent. My narc took my ass down like a lion takes down a wilderbeast. Playing with Narcs thinking you can win is like engaging in global thermo nuclear war. The only way to win is not to play. But go ahead. F around and find out. When your life is in ruins you'll remember I told you so.
What purpose does revenge serve
Revenge is not good.
They literally hate themselves u can't anything with these kinds of people so y on earth would you keep believing the games these people are special and I do mean special in ur own way 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s sad
@MentalHealness very sad
These people are a joke they will be going with people on they job and have u coming on they job. Yo these people are hilarious bro i mean literally
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@MentalHealness when I found that out all I do was shake my head and just know that I can't be around people like that