5 Sexy Things Men LOVE to Hear in Bed!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ม.ค. 2022
- Want to make a man melt during sex? Here are some super-hot things men are dying to hear from you in bed... but are afraid to ask for!
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What do I say to a guy in bed? What to men like to hear during sex? What turns a man on when you're in bed with him? I have gotten a lot of questions about this from my clients and students over the years... so I created a video sharing 5 hot phrases that will make any man go WILD during physical intimacy! Try them out and let us know how it goes in the comments ;)
TIMELINE
01:47 - Rules for Communicating: Specifics are hot for men
02:06 - Rules for Communicating: We are invested on how you feel
02:25 - Rules for Communicating: You are leading by example
03:18 - 1. How turned on you are
04:37 - 2. How good what they're doing feels
05:52 - 3. Specific instructions
07:43 - 4. Asking for his body
10:11 - 5. Authentic moaning and nonverbal expression
12:19 - Bonus Tip
13:40 - Recap
16:44 - Outro
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QUESTION OF THE DAY - What are your favorite man melting dirty phrases you like to hear in bed? 🔥
Why don't you pin this comment, Mr S? 😀
Looking to see you
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Thanks for your input. Since ive been raped in my past and childhood i had issues with sex and doing things to a man and visa versa. Now finally im with a man who WON'T hurt me or rape me and i do so want to please him and also get pleasure from him. How tho can i stop having flashbacks when he does certain things to me like pat or touch my butt which is a hugh trigger for me.
Thank you for such an open topic. Every woman should listen
A woman will only respond like this when a man is a giver! A selfish partner is a huge turn off!
Great point!
Hehehe why are you shouting 😂😹
💯💯
100%!
True
Using these tips when my dream man comes into my life. A man moaning during sex is such a turn on.
Amazing! love hearing that!
Agreed. Period.
I love their primal sounds too!!
Knowing that he is also into the moment is great! Silence is a killer.
@@laurajohnson9753 Oh God yes, silence is a MAJOR turn off, especially during climaxing.
1. Specifics are hot for men! ( what turns you on and How turned on you feel, it raises the polarity)
2. Men are invested in how women feel ( share with him how you are feeling - men crave acknowledgement for their actions from women)
3. You lead by example, the way you communicate in vulnerability when in bed - give him instructions and requests, share your roadmap to pleasure, own your value)
4. Ask, beg for his body. eg ask for his lips, or lingam or beg for his come. Ask him for permission to do something, eg can I kiss you there?
5. Authentic moaning or other non verbal expressions (give yourself permission to express the pleasure you are feeling)
Great tips ! Thank you very much! 🎉❤
Many Thanks
True tht
Great thoughts! Thanks from a wife :)
This is the best dating coach. Not lame ass advice or PG stuff. Real advice and seems genuine. I love how he discusses sexual and emotional intimacy.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
Sorry, what does PG stand for, please? Google was not helpful...
I assume it's parental guidance
@@MsRamona7 It's a meme. It originates with movie ratings in the United States and Canada as follows:
G general audiences
PG parental guidance suggested
PG-13 parents strongly cautioned
R RESTRICTED - no unaccompanied minors
NC-17 (formerly X) NO CHILDREN (17 and under) - no minors, period.
In Canada:
G same as U.S.
PG same as U.S.
14A no one under fourteen unless accompanied by a responsible adult
18A same as U.S. 'R'.
R same as U.S. 'NC-17', and occasionally features a small black or red crouched cougar silhouette logo with the word 'RESTRICTED'.
I already do all of these and was told by my dude mid act “the way you talk to me drives me wild” so these tips are true 😏
Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!
These are extremely accurate. Though, men also get conditioned to not make any sounds, since it’s seen as weak, or not masculine. Personally, I love hearing what I’m doing is affecting my man. I love it when he requests/demands me for things, and moans when he goes down on me, it has similar effects of women as well, plus it does show enthusiasm which makes me feel more connected to him, and more appreciated as well. I also love hearing how turned on I make him. So while these tips work for women, to do on men, it works for men to do on women as well.
Thank you for sharing!
I agree .a man needs to participate fully. If I can't see you, I want to atleast hear you
Get to the point, too many dtaged out explinations🤔🤔🤩
I love when a man shows he likes it
@@seniorita3287YESS you said it!
This is such a great episode. So true! Thanks for talking about what we need to hear.
Yes, let your sound out, sometimes it’s emotional release and healing and you will feel better forever, I remember a partner who reopened my hips after shutting down after a heartbreak and I cried a lot and it was a huge physical and emotional breakthrough. I got him whimpering shaking and crying once as well years later and he was so happy with whatever it released
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new❤️
Reopen the hips 😂
reopened the hips? what?
since we are energetic beings we typically have blocked chakra centers. Especially the sacral & the heart chakra.. any repressed or unaddressed emotions can do that, and any not loving of our own bodies and not honoring and respecting it first and foremost... treating it well and spoiling it... can only bring in someone who does the same.
Like attracts like.
You're single and You're watching this video like me!!? Like, single matters
Welcome!
Well I have to definitely 100% agree with the girl who just commented on why does being single matter it doesn't it's so much better by yourself at least that's my perception of what her comment meant and I could be wrong but you know what majority of men out there they're not givers but they're definitely takers the main focus is getting off even if it's neglecting their partner the select handful of men I found in my lifetime that acted as if that's what they loved ultimately loved and that was their first priority before themselves that my dear is true they were exactly like that but you know what the hardest most excruciating pain in a relationship is from intimacy and lack of when touch human
I was not done yet I'll make this quick when you get in a relationship with someone who has met you in a state of constant trauma and sexual abuse and physical abuse and knows everything you've been through and they use à tool àl or a weapon of mass destruction that's exactly what it is you have not done to me what everyone else has done to me in my lifetime and the things you said you never do you did you took away my feeling of safety which I value so much security love and belonging which is all a lie I valued all of that and you used it to break me down to nothing but guess what I forgave you for that in case one of your ex's send this to you I forgive you I'm actually able to move forward right now on that part because I'm so tired of looking at TH-cam and saying nothing but stuff a narcissist and it's deceiving and it's sitting and it has everyone who looks at it wondering if she one is he one am I one I do that she does that who's who can à I actually started looking at what they were saying and said my God that's me in many ways but not because I'm a narcissist mind you it's because of childhood tramaanyways the whole point I was trying to make I've had the most mind-blowing or shaking orgasms I've ever had in my entire life by myself 1 because I didn't have to feel insecure or be someone I wasn't for someone else to love me or look different for someone because they're in the p*** and you have to look like that God forbid for them to want you know doing it by yourself is probably the most amazing sex you could ever have know if I could find a guy who actually cared about my feelings and didn't know a damn thing about me he's the one he will be the one the one who knows nothing about me but who cares about me first before p himself and he is definitely a keeper and what's funny is I am one of the most open-minded women a man could find and I believe they find it intimidating as hell hey I'm willing to have a threesome here and there I'm willing to get wild and crazy and do things that you would never think I'm capable of I like to watch p*** too I'd rather watch it with my man than by myself though locked in a room
Damnit! I was watching this at work on my lunch break and Meg Ryan's movie groaning came on! I about threw my phone!!! 😂 I'm so embarrassed.
Haha and i watching it now in office lucky me..i am using head set if not...haha will be same with you 😀😀
@@ernikaflower7654 least you're smart enough to use a headset. Good work. Lol
😂😂
Oh rip 😂
😅😅😂😂🤣
Yep, did all these with my late husband! 30 years together, 28 married. Sigh. Missing him every day!!!
He is in a better place now, Be strong Sandra🤗
Same here Sandra. My late husband and I were married for 36 years. I did everything that was mentioned in this video and it did drive him wild.
Married over 32+ yrs.. The big C took him. Now it's been 8 yrs!!! I'm getting back in the pool. Scared to death!!!!!! He says the phone sex is great! But I have one more area?lol. The place between the balls and back door entrance. That would make late hubby, explode!!!!! My tongue all over it. Just saying.
I'm a widow too, and am praying for you.
"Any man that is secure in himself " that's what's key
yessss❤️
Wow! Thank you Mat for being so open and real about sexual intimacy. We, as humans, need more of this for happier healthier relationships with our partners. The happier we are in our intimate relationship the happier we are overall -
the ripple affect…
I had to read that again I could have swore it said, "nipple effect".
OMG -dude, this was an extremely enjoyable video, I got so turn e d on, learned a few things and received validation for a few things so thank you very much - highly appreciated!
I think I’ll be watching this video a f ew times!
Wow! That’s what I say to him all the time even over the phone. This is not anything new to me.
Yeah that's true
This was so helpful! I have wondered what things I might do better with my partner and this was nicely explained without being coarse or crude. I’m going to start implementing these tips. Thanks Mat!
Glad it was helpful! You're welcome! ❤❤❤
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Those stuff were given naturally when we're with the person we love 😊
Thank you for the pointers, appreciated it 😊
You’re welcome 😊
I luv how you keep it real in the bedroom - straight from the man’s point of view- you are so awesome Mat ♥️
yasss you gotta keep it real in the bedroom!
I m New in here looking 👧👧💗💗😍😍❤🌷🌷
hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing
This entire video made me ‘blush’ 😂, I clearly have a lot of work to do.
You can do it! Haha you got this :)
@@Mat_Shaffer Mat!! It feels Great getting a response from you. Thank you! Well I look forward to practicing when I find that awesome, committed, relationship!
Yah same here, 🤭 talking so specific like this doesn't sound sexy to me but I guess they do!🤣
Its never too late to start my luv! Start now ;)
😂Omg me too
FINALLY! Real, knowledgeable and useful information that are almost like instructions towards a reasonably PG couple who are still in the innocent stage of their sexual journey. Regards!
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you🙂
No its not hes soeaking for himself. We dont love these things. I dont know where he made this stuff up. Never give instructions
Thank you for this. My man loves it when I "talk to him" in bed and I literally go silent in fear of saying something that will kill the mood. This is the video I needed!
So glad my content supports you :)
Lol I’m married and we started off as f buddies.. so after 2 years it all seems repetitive 😂 and I think the same that he will think I’m boring or I’ll kill the mood… but I also know his trigger words so idk..
@24carrots33 Exactly the same for me!!
I’ve been married 22 years and I’m here still wanting to please my husband 🥰
I love that he calls it “talk to him” so sweet and connected!!
Thanks for being straightforward and real. Great tips and advice! I’m glad I’m doing this! More on this subject would be even better!😊
Great suggestion!
Great content Mat 👌 keep them coming for valentines day 👍 👏 😀
Great video Mat (as always) - kudos for the video clips of Aladdin & When Harry Met Sally 😄
Love this. These are some things that I realized I was doing when I was in a relationship. I've been single for awhile and finally getting back in the game. This refresher is needed and appreciated. Thanks Matt
Thanks for sharing!
Me too. Thanks for sharing.😊
So glad this was trending on my feed.
Thanks
Same for me! I been single for awhile and I needed to hear this for this weekend with the guy I’m dating. Definitely excited!!!
These videos are great to know about. My late hubby showed me show much.But I wanted to please him. Boy did he return the favor.😊 Women were told sex was evil and just for baby making. Now we can enjoy it as much as they do!! It draws you closer as a couple especially verb communication.
Awww! So happy for you, beautiful!
Good for you. Well done!!!
My question is how the hell do you not moan!? Holding back is 10x harder than letting loose.
Yes! Holding back is so impossible.
No it’s not. Some people like it soft and quiet. A quiet orgasm can be amazing too. Doesn’t have to be animalistic always. Melting quietly is really nice.
When you're not into your partner - nothing feels good.
Ask a man
@@eo9806u r totally right. I am exactly like that. I moan then suddenly black out no more sound when i am about 5sec into coming, my guy looks into my eyes everytime because he knows he is doing the right thing . This feeling is so strong and intimate
This is good stuff. It's too bad we as a society don't talk about these things as openly. I have a question about eye contact though. I know as a woman, it's deeply satisfying to have a man giving me good eye contact when he's inside me. It's like the ultimate level of intimacy for me. I would like to know how men feel about it.
Yes this would be nice to know!
Thanks for sharing!
Well we have TH-cam now and we are having these conversations now and I love it because I can’t really express myself with people i know personally ❤any how maybe u should take some tips from the video and ask him specifically or jus tell him or you lead by example and look into his eyes first and see what happens
Oh yes, I ❤ the moaning and eye contact it drives me crazy.🤭
Was looking for the comments summary so here it is…
5 sexy things he wants to hear during intimacy:
1. How turned on you are - how you feel it and where you feel (he’s not a mind reader so let him know)
2. How good what he’s doing feels to you (give him acknowledgement for his actions and you’ll get more of what you like)
3. Give him specific instructions and requests (because men like structure but also aim to please)
4. Ask/“beg” him for his body - make him feel desired by letting him know which part of his body would feel great
5. Authentic sound or non verbal expression of your pleasure
Bonus: Make noise or moan when you’re giving him oral sex
To be effective when communicating this:
1. Be specific- the more specific, the better
2. Share your feelings so he can make you happy
3. Lead by example with your vulnerability - opens the door for him to share also
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** But definitely watch this video for specific examples of what to say for each thing and why it is effective. **
Thank you!
Ain't the guy suppose to moan getting head? Women moan when getting oral, you should to.
Thank you
Thank you for editing
I have never blushed so much watching your videos Mat! It was fantastic
I'm New here I'm looking for a beautiful wife 😍
I am happy to know that I do all those things and then some, grateful to be validated in how to love and be sexually happy with a man. You are so right, many women have been either told/taught/said something to about not expressing yourself in a most sexy, hot, intimate way with your partner many reasons why, but glad to see someone touching on these topics in a very pleasant and real way of communication. Thank you so much!
Happy to hear that, you are so welcome. ❤️
Oh God dont we really dont love these things.
hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing
" do all those things" with one person...
Yup same, I do all of these things however if the man is a natural giver he definitely will get more than this, naturally 😊
I’m laughing so hard cuz of that “rooster” clip
So glad you enjoyed it! :) Many more to come!
I'll bet I laughed harder Because the whole video was hilarious 😂😂
Same 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks for being so real and genuine.
You're very welcome.
This is very informative. I'm glad my boyfriend is open minded. It's amazing how mind blowing coitus can be when there's a mental, emotional connection.
Thank you so much, So glad you enjoyed it! :)
Wow Mat! I am a newbie here..... I am in a very happy relationship... And i randomly saw this, and thought why not improving that good thing? :) Thank you so much! I love your vibes!
Welcome aboard!
Love this!!! A lot of stuff I already do, but I feel like you put little extra! Thank you for being so candid! Would love to hear more of this…
So glad you enjoyed it!
@@Mat_Shaffer 🙃
Thanks for being so raw. Also I like that you review your content and with simple vocabulary.
Exactly 💯
Appreciate it hon!
hi 👋 pretty how are you doing
I was looking for these kind of instructions; also to, as you said, "filter out" or weed out ones who are not healthy minded individuals. Thank you!!!
Happy to help!
This kind or these kinds, not these kind.
@@judeirwin2222 LOL!!! "This kind" of attitude is what I was referring to in my comment.
Matt is absolutely correct! I did all the items on the list and when I saw the guy four days later he still had a gigantic smile on his face when he came and talked to me! Why wouldn't a female want to do all the items on the list when she's into a guy?
Thank you so much! 💓
Because we're taught to suppress our feelings.
Shyness/anxiety.
Before jumping into relationship it's really important to have this kind of knowledge for healthy relationship thank you mat Good job
I’m so glad this helped you!
Love that youare SOOOO damn honest. It has opened my ears and eyes!
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
I love ❤️ a man who gives as much as I give
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Thank you Mat, I haven't been intimate with a man in very very long time, have a new opportunity to explore again but lost confidence so this has been so helpful thank you
Many thanks!
That was brilliant
I been doing this with my other half cos we are so crazy about each other. It just comes naturally
Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!
Thank you for being Bold and Brave sharing that seems to be one factor of building relationships.
Our pleasure! 😊
Thank you, I loved it. A lot of your 'tips' are part of my practice, some don't until now. Greetings from Germany, C.
You are so welcome!
I watched the spiritual class for Vic and Aaron and you Mat 😉 and sure enough, I was already subscribed to your channel. Well I’ve been binge watching your videos, I’m single right now. It’s been almost 2 yrs since I’ve had any man 😞 my ex was a narcissist and co-parenting is a nightmare. He tried getting back together with me, but he’s still living at his moms, no job, same old shit just a different day!!! BUT I may have a date coming up and I’ve known him since we were teenagers, we’re now in our 40’s. I’m so nervous 😬 we hooked up a bit back in the day, but it’s different this time; we’ve got kids and crazy ex baggage. So I’m not looking for anything serious but I am super excited to hopefully hang out with him ❤️ we’ve been talking on the phone for the last 2 yrs, dealing with life issues.
So glad my content supports you :) and just keep the positive vibes always! :)
I wasn’t looking for advice when I came across your videos. Glad I found this. I’m a recent widow. I know that I will have to date sometime but after 20 years with the same man, I’m afraid to have sex with someone new. It’s good to know that men want pretty much the same things. Your openness about sexual language makes us older women more willing to open up, where in the past we were pretty unsure of ourselves and we’re afraid to open up to a man in the ways you suggest we should. Thank you for your honest approach.
So glad my content supports you :)
I'm a widow too and I'm in this channel. I wonder How many widows are here?
Me!
Me to after 32 yrs! However I'm ready now almost 5 yrs after. Met a Wonderful Man
I am also a widow. While I like to listen to these types of videos (and thank you Matt, for your openness), I also know that as an older woman (early 50s) who is in an undefined relationship with a much younger man (late 30s), I have no trouble expressing what I want, or being open to what he wants. At the end of the day, I think men AND women need validation and respect in the bedroom.
I think this video was meant for me thanks for sharing mat just subscribed today but really enjoying listening to your teachings
Awesome, thank you! Nekesa Babra🙌❤️
Very helpful thanks
This is the first time I've really paid attention I love you & appreciate what your doing
I so appreciate you saying that - that was so sweet of you!
You're so fabulous, Mat! So straight forward and fun and honest. These are the conversations we need to be having about sex.
Many Thanks!:)
Thank you, it’s great to finally know the reasons behind the compliments.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you ; blessed &gifted with all these skills &I am blessed the guys that I met were equally giving &the chemistry on bed was just on auto mode;not much efforts or struggles at all .May my love Angels continue this amazing chemistry in my love relation ahead too.The more natural it goes that much it brings complete joy to both &more deeper craving to get close more often .
Wonderful! You got it Dear😊
One of best informative videos ever. Well done!
Yesss love getting that feedback from the fellas! Haha
I love the way you explain this i have done all of this already it is fantastic
My pleasure! Glad to help.
Okay, so I can definitely award you with your teaching certificate today...Thanks for this video! 🔥💯
I appreciate that! Thank you!
It’s good to know what guys really want. I find it hard to say what I want and get embarrassed by that. Now it’s been a while so this is research for the next guy 😊🙏🏻❤️ hopefully sooner rather than later 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing, Gaynor Berry🙌 Don’t give up on love sister! ❤️❤️
Should I be concerned if I'm already doing all of these things? lol .. feels good to know that I am not weird after all. Love your videos
So glad my content supports you :)
I like your hair😍 Nice!
Thank you Matt! Your openness, practical advice and specificity are refreshing and appreciated!😊
I appreciate that! ❤️
Let it rip 😂so intimately helpful ❤Thank you 🙏for all these beautiful points to remember.Thank you.
You are so welcome Lilibeth🙏❤️
I've just celebrated 12 years single and I've just met a guy who it's going incredibly well with, but I'm a bit out of practice loll. These tips are now in my arsenal. Can't wait to meet him now. It's gonna be awesoooooome! Thank you so much!! xXx
Glad you like it my dear thanks!
12 years 🎉🎉
Hey Mat... I felt this video to the core... and that voice sounds so familiar it's hypnotizing me had me laughing in bed a whole new world 🌎 ha 😄 🤣 and that rooster 🐓. Trust me you are the best trending on TH-cam good job and keep growing ur hair- its looking thick and healthy 👏 more wisdom knowledge and understanding - Enlightment.
Excellent 100%
Aww, you're the sweetest! Thank you so much dear!
Hi Mat😊 Saying hi all the way from Philippines 🇵🇭 thank You for being so open More videos like this advice tips💋
Thanks so much my dear!
Wow I am so glad that I happened upon you Matt. I love your honesty and the way you say words we normally don’t use . You made it sexy . Not boasting here and I do all of those except for asking permission I found that profoundly interesting to say the least I never thought of that so that will be my next play for my lover. I also feel that what you taught me I need to be more vocal I’m not vocal enough . Thank you so much for your enthusiasm and your understanding of what a woman can do to turn your man I’m just a little bit more
Your kind words touch my heart
Excellent video❗❗❗
Mat you’re always on point , thank you for the points 😛
so glad you enjoyed it! :)
I'm here looking for a beautiful wife 😍
Finally the teacher I been looking for brings the knowledge! Can’t wait to start practicing ❤
You got this!
Love your video thanks you’re helping a lot of women realize that they need to be more open with their men in bed❤️❤️
My pleasure!
Great advice! Thanks. I'm diggin the long hair too 😀
Yay! Thank you! So glad you like the hair haha.. its been a labor of love :)
This is amazing advice. I’m a ‘professional girlfriend’ and can concur with everything said in this video, it is exactly what men like and want to hear. It’s not easy, but implementing a new tip every week or so will help get you into the habit of being a better sexual partner!
I’m so glad this helped you!
Great feedback Matt. Thank you. Very helpful and true.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you Mat for keeping it real and raw.. Loved watching ✌💥💜, greetings from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦
Happy to hear that my dear Thanks for watching😍
Thank you Matt! This is all such amazing advice! I feel more confident and empowered with all these! I can’t wait to try them out with my beloved❤️ also you are looking super sexy, confident, and more relaxed with this look!
Thanks so much my dear! I’m happy this resonated with you!
Thank you for telling like it is. I love that you don't dance around with your words. I have to say you know what you're talking about. I agree with everything you said.
I appreciate that 🥰
You’re more than welcome Matt. Thank you for your content and your reply.
Happy to hear that!
Thank you for sharing.
I had a good laugh at the "rooster."
You're welcome. Glad you enjoy it!
I can't say instructions during activities really helps... Maybe beforehand? Also, a lot of men lack interest/ desire for the level of foreplay needed for a lot of us to be/ do like you say. We want to have that experience, believe me!
Many thanks!
Great video!
I’m glad I came upon u.
I do these things and trust me, it doesn’t seem like it happens often for men.
It’s just truly being passionately into the present experience and voicing it.
We all desire that.
- I do appreciate the part when u explained HOW TO ask or instruct on something we like.
That has always been hard for me but complimenting then adding something that I prefer to it-- PERFECT ADVICE ♥️♥️
Thanks for sharing! 😍
I just saw this page and had to subscribe right away, coz why not🤣 Thanks for this video Mat and the ones to come...
Thank you! So glad you enjoyed it! 🙂 Many more to come!
@@Mat_Shaffer I subscribed, too!
Wow! I want to thank you so much for all the specifics & the explainations...it was REALLY what I wanted to know & it made so much sense!
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks Mat! This is very specific
Glad it was helpful!
I LOVE these tips!!! I always aim to please :')Thank you!!
So glad! You're welcome
FINALLY….Thank you Matt , your directness and specificity is refreshing, enlightening and fun. OUTSTANDING 🌹
Glad you enjoyed it!
hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing , I'm here looking for a beautiful wife 😍
Matt the Civil Servant of Female society sharing the laws of Love😉🙌🥇
Great advice! Thank you! ✨💕
My pleasure!
Enthusiasm over skill, that's new to me. Interesting tips. Welldone Mr M
Thanks! Happy I could be of help ❤
I love this and I'll be there for sure thank you for sharing I'm definitely doing.
Glad to hear that.
Vlogs like this gets me excited 😁
So glad you enjoyed it! Many more to come
wow, been intimate with my man for more than 4 years and I didn't know I had to voice out all these stuff. Thanks, hope this works the next time I get with him.
You got this!
How’s it going?
Thanks so much for the advice! The tips sound really good, can't wait to practice it ☺️
I’m so glad this helped you!
Thank you for all of the great tips! This was awesome and real.
Glad it was helpful!
I loved this Mat , give us more! Besides love the hair, background and the salt lamps are my thing. Thank you!
Thank you so much, that's very sweet. Many more to come!
Thank you so much it makes so much sense 🥰
you are so so welcome!
Oh WOW wonderful tips dear Mat ,have been looking for such tips ..as I wait for my soulmate to enjoy such moments.thanks once more...
Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much
This was the most helpful video I’ve heard on this subject. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for the great Tips😊
so so welcome!
I loved the honesty of this video I have a very dominant partner who's always asking me to ask him for specific things I would otherwise be to shy to ask this is probably the best advice I've gotten yet on dating u appreciate the honesty instead of all the stupid fluff all the other relationship guys give which is generally worthless useless bs that doesn't even work. We need more details like this that are actually helpful to our specific needs. Thanks for the tips I'll be trying them out tonight infact. Finally an honest video for the questions we want and have good job...I'm impressed 👏
😭😭 one of the most touching comments I’ve ever received!! Thank you so so much for your kind words, truly moved. It’s my honor and purpose to support you and I’m beyond grateful that I’ve inspired you to connect to your heart in a deeper way🙏🙏❤️✨ let me know what more you would like me to speak Into 🤗
@@Mat_Shaffer ah that's so nice. I got loads of questions. What I'm really interested in ATM is the Male Dominant psyche if you will. Why some men feel the need to be in total control and why and also how they unlike myself as a woman can cut off emotionally I find it fascinating being in a similar situation where my feelings are one sided and in the long run I get what I want sexually but not emotionally.
I also think that after not being single 20 years why I can't seem to get a date. Oh I can get plenty of sex from any man I come into contact with but if I hear we can have sex but I don't want a gf one more time. My reply can I at least get dinner first. Oh so many questions so little answers. Maybe these could be topics you could elaborate on. This dating in 2023 I'm so on the fence about even wasting my time honestly and online dating well let's just say I now know what catfish means. I wonder who has time to waste like that 🤔 Thanks for responding I can't yell you how much I've learned from yoytube during the pandemic .
@@Mat_Shaffer lol. Really?
Finally in informational video thank you so much for your straight forward advice
You are so welcome! Happy to help 🙌❤️
Wow thank you so much for the talk with us because I didn't know about some of the things you have talked about
You're welcome!