Younger vs. Older Filipinas: Pros and Cons of Each

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    Embark on your dating adventure in the Philippines with clarity and purpose! Discover the pros and cons of dating younger versus older Filipinas and learn how to make informed decisions that align with your relationship goals. This video explores the different dynamics, energy levels, and experiences between dating women aged 20-35 and those over 35. Avoid common pitfalls and understand what you truly want in a partner before diving into the dating scene. Whether you're seeking youthful energy or mature companionship, find the insights you need to navigate the dating world in the Philippines successfully.
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  • @Lifebeyondthesea
    @Lifebeyondthesea  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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  • @Ron-oe7hg
    @Ron-oe7hg 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    In my opinion. Life and love is something that no one can figure out. Sometimes a 50 year old man can date 30 different 40 year olds and never make a connection. Then sometimes a 50 year old can date 10 20 year olds and find the perfect one. Life is a learning experience. Live it, love it and appreciate it.

  • @kingbeestacker873
    @kingbeestacker873 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm going to turn 50 at the end of October and my Filipina just turned 30. So we are 19 1/2 years apart. I knew from the beginning that she has a 10 year old son. I have 4 daughters so I don't have a problem with the kid. We get along great and the boy loves me very much. When I had to go back to the US for a little bit he started crying because I was leaving. I thought he was sad that his mom was going with me to Cebu for the week before I left but he told me that he was going to miss me. Good kid. I have a great partner and I didn't want a younger or older. I like the age she is. I was chatting with many Filipinas and 2 American professional women but I chose my lady out of them all. Great advice from you. Even with my lady some of the stuff you mentioned about the young ones applied.

  • @stopcensoringmen5044
    @stopcensoringmen5044 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Fellas, you need to sit down and ask yourself some tough, honest questions.
    As the saying goes, "If you don't plan your life, you will fall into the plan of others".

  • @36handy
    @36handy 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’ve always been particular to older Asian women 40+. More maturity, no kids, more freedom (more money), and doesn’t have a need to get settled down.

  • @UTubeVidWatcher
    @UTubeVidWatcher 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The dating environment in the West has conditioned men that you can't be picky about what you want in a woman, so a man is just open to whatever he can get.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      it's a nice adjustment in the PH, to survey one's options. :)

    • @ABurnKing
      @ABurnKing 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not me though, I am uber picky.

  • @garrettimes4548
    @garrettimes4548 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Younger, Teachable. I like it!

  • @brent2438
    @brent2438 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sage advice.

  • @JohnSmithNYC
    @JohnSmithNYC 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was an excellent commentary on older versus younger. And I’ve been listening to this type of content for a long time. Thank you!

  • @nineseven420empire3
    @nineseven420empire3 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    They are in adventure mode, not date with intent mode.

  • @USA_to_Asia_in_2024
    @USA_to_Asia_in_2024 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Great words brother.

  • @hp7639
    @hp7639 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I must say I'm impressed by your wisdom.

  • @CLCIII
    @CLCIII 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great advice! As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇

  • @jamesnichols2511
    @jamesnichols2511 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    a good analogy of dating different aged women in the Philippines. I, being 74, look like I'm 62, but feel my age, hahaha, if I find that special someone, I'd be looking for the older ladies. I don't want to deal with the immature younger women with all that energy. Even though older women seem to be more dominate, if it's a good blend, then communicating issues is a must. I would talk with her, and we'd decide together what we want. Also, because I'm much older, I don't want any more kids. So usually, the older Filipina's already have their kids and like you said, they're probably close to or already moved out. Even though I'm not looking for a partner, my daughter in-law, a Filipina, told me to be prepared once I get to Cebu. You don't have to look for them, they'll find you.

  • @enzopastore5811
    @enzopastore5811 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hahahahaha,a gentleman never kisses and tells Reekay.😊😊😊

  • @abtermpapers
    @abtermpapers 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Love your videos. Something to take into consideration is the age of the guy. A 70 year old man with a 21 year old Filipina vs. a 40 year old man with a 21 year old Filipina changes the dinemic.

    • @hp7639
      @hp7639 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Perhaps, but even at 40 you probably aren't far from ED if you don't already have it in your 40s.. Sure there are pills 💊 or whatever, but if you have ED and she wants it every day or almost every day, you will think you can keep up but you'll likely need a rest a couple days in the week at minimum and continue to find it more difficult keeping up as you age and while she is still in her prime. For example, she was 21 but now she is 34. 13 years later you are in your mid 50s hitting 60s.. It won't be the same as when you were 40.
      If you are part of that minority that is in your 50s still not experiencing ED and can do it, more power to you. But it would make more sense to find someone within 10 years or under gap from you.

    • @Ron-oe7hg
      @Ron-oe7hg 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree.

  • @oahuguy3918
    @oahuguy3918 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm looking for a hot young Filipina that has the energy level of a 40 year old. I guess that explains why I'm still looking...sheesh.

  • @christopher1423
    @christopher1423 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    30+ = baggage

  • @UberToeknee
    @UberToeknee 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Again you have hit the nail on the head again it's amazing that what you have said is exactly what I did and I think my unicorn is waiting for me now I just need to get there In August

  • @roberthertel5565
    @roberthertel5565 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Since I would have to take a chance either way, I might as well start with a younger woman :)

  • @mbclass1234
    @mbclass1234 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Whats wrong with 18-19? It is best to get the youngest, considering women are a depreciating asset.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      it's a trade-off.. younger women have no life experience. expect to be patient with their immaturity. as they gain freedoms they may want to explore other experiences so, be prepared to keep up with them.

  • @marcofluff
    @marcofluff 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I prefer older women and their kids are grown or nearly grown.

  • @UTubeVidWatcher
    @UTubeVidWatcher 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The older woman was once a young woman and during that period in her life she was taught by the men she was involved with on how to be the type of woman that he wanted her to be for him. So if you get involved with the older woman, you now have to retrain her to be the type of woman that you want her to be for you; but like you said, she is set in her ways or rather she is set in the ways she was taught by the other men before you.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      set in her ways can be a good, or bad thing.

  • @catchbay
    @catchbay 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The best option is polygamy. A strong bond with a woman who keeps the younger ones under control.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      good luck putting together a few women and none of them having jealousy issues. there will be drama.

    • @catchbay
      @catchbay 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LifebeyondtheseaI know, but I know one Thai woman who is older but 10 years younger than me, who lives in the same slightly kinky culture as me, so maybe my dream could come true. We've had occasional younger ones with us, but I'd like to find permanent ones. But everything can change if, for example, I find the perfect one in the Philippines.

  • @ronfrederico7251
    @ronfrederico7251 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Then there is the Sible ( multiple personalities) syndrome. When she is in that syndrome I have a name for her T.O.G. which means The Other Girl. Then I go in the room, turn on the AC watch something interesting or take a nap. Then she goes into her cleaning mode. Which is the good part about owning a home.

  • @spurgeonwrightjr.3115
    @spurgeonwrightjr.3115 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'll take immature over any older lady that has experience with other men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @anton2203
    @anton2203 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How old are you? Just to get an perspective on you experience or views

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i began dating my first filipina from the PH when i was 46, she was 32. (we stayed together almost 3 years.)
      i am now 62 and my wife just turned 26. we've been together over 4 years now.

  • @okbilly1
    @okbilly1 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Only issue someone younger would want kids, if you don’t what is the way around that?

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      you keep looking until you find a younger one that does not want kids. they do exist (i've met several, married to one) that takes patience.
      if you don't have patience, either date older women or change your mind about kids.

    • @USA_to_Asia_in_2024
      @USA_to_Asia_in_2024 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Lifebeyondthesea Well well, you have done/accomplished exactly what my goal to accomplish is. That is, at my age of 57, I want a younger woman (well under 30 and most likely under 25) who doesn't want to have kids. Well done sir.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      the good news is that there are far more filipinas choosing to not have kids these days than 12 years ago. with the internet, one good thing is that 'some' filipinas have learned is that having babies by the time they are 18 sets them on a path to poverty.
      never let some myopic person tell you, "all filipinas want kids". it's simply not true. i dated several before deciding on my wife. she's 26 now and has zero interest in having kids.

  • @markmadrid7476
    @markmadrid7476 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Neither, dont date hobbits that cant stop asking for money