5 Ways to Tell if Someone's Lying - Catch a Cheating Partner

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    Dive into the complex world of relationships with our insightful video, "5 Ways to Tell if Someone's Lying." Discover effective strategies to detect dishonesty, especially in long-distance relationships, as shared from personal encounters and experiences. Focusing on interactions with women in the Philippines, our narrator breaks down five essential techniques to identify if someone is lying to you about cheating or other deceitful actions. Whether you're facing trust issues or just want to fortify your relationship against potential dishonesty, this video offers valuable advice to help you discern truth from lies. Watch now and enhance your understanding of trust in relationships!
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  • @Lifebeyondthesea
    @Lifebeyondthesea  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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  • @markAngel847
    @markAngel847 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    You know she's lying:
    1. When she says yes.
    2. When she says no.
    3. When she's awake.
    4. While she sleeps.
    5. When shes breathing.

    • @dbullard6886
      @dbullard6886 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You don't know much. Do you ?

    • @jimnech5066
      @jimnech5066 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It is really easier than that, if her lips are moving, she is lying!

    • @aCycloneSteve
      @aCycloneSteve 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So if you want her to stop lying she has to stop breathing? You better hope the prosecutor doesn't ever read this post. 🙂

    • @dbullard6886
      @dbullard6886 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @jimnech5066 another one that knows nothing

    • @Jason-ue9xz
      @Jason-ue9xz 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@dbullard6886 naw you don't or to stupid to realize it thr people in the philippines call it saving face

  • @adriver4471
    @adriver4471 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Don’t expect a filipina to ever admit that she lied to you
    They simply won’t admit lying even when proved 😮

  • @Gary-lj7pi
    @Gary-lj7pi 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Guys don't be a simp .

  • @JRINASIA
    @JRINASIA 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    My 47 years of the Philippines. Filipinos & Filipinas never take responsibility of anything period.

  • @PaulPelletier2025
    @PaulPelletier2025 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Always better to be alone than with the wrong girl, even if being alone is sometimes difficult.

  • @ronrichards6653
    @ronrichards6653 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    This video should play on a loop at Passport Control in Cebu and Manila....

    • @etfremd
      @etfremd 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ☝️☝️☝️ It’s that good! Spot on!

    • @ToddAndelin
      @ToddAndelin 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      haha

  • @TomScott__
    @TomScott__ 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Find a woman you can trust. If you constantly think she is lying, then she might as well be lying.
    You will not have peace in your relationship without trust. Once the trust is gone, let the relationship go.

    • @pcabraham2580
      @pcabraham2580 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I agree. Why date someone who you don't trust?

  • @albertocamossi
    @albertocamossi 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    5 out of 5. Thank you for telling me that my girlfriend has been lying to me for months. Now I finally know

  • @ExpatNTraining
    @ExpatNTraining 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    100% Spot On! Sadly, 99.9% of Filipinas I have encountered act precisely as stated in this video.

  • @Jcope-ce9ef
    @Jcope-ce9ef 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Your right ,innocent people Don't get angry or start to cry.

  • @garyt7232
    @garyt7232 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    When she can't keep her lies straight, then it begs the question what else has she lied about.

    • @gregwil694
      @gregwil694 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Would be gone before that question arose.

  • @user-pz2mj1cu8w
    @user-pz2mj1cu8w 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Thanks for the info. My filipina goes to the philippines sometimes to visit her children, she stays in a province that has bad wifi most of the time, Or I am led to believe that. One time I finally got through and got wifi long enough to visit with her. She got annoyed at me for asking a few questions about her visit there. She wasn't answering my text either. So I'm going to let it go and separate. Then she can have all the fun she wants with whomever.

  • @stopcensoringmen5044
    @stopcensoringmen5044 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Watch out for the projection, deflection and emotional manipulation.

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Great video. You may end up speaking to these ladies a lot longer than I would have. ;) I just don’t have time in my life for games. “You disappeared for 18 hours and can’t give me a good reason? Sorry you made that choice.”

    • @gregwil694
      @gregwil694 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too. Bye bye

  • @TomScott__
    @TomScott__ 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    22 hours isn't sleeping. 22 hours is a coma.
    Be careful how much you explain to her about why you know she is lying while confronting her. Too much of that is only making her a better liar.
    Save yourself some pain. If she doesn't admit she lied, tell you the truth and be better in the future, breakup with her right there. It's only going to get worse. You will lose more money and self-respect and your breakup pain will increase the longer you stay.

  • @johnbrown0224
    @johnbrown0224 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I caught a cheater who had committed to an exclusive relationship with me. I set up a fake profile and chatted with her using a pic of a better looking guy, a few years younger and a little wealthier. She took the bait big time. I copied and pasted all the cheating conversations and sent them to her. The fake profile did the same. Never heard from her again.

    • @BillyTimes-dw7vs
      @BillyTimes-dw7vs 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Dude if u haven't met in person she belongs to the world how old are you??? 10

    • @celuiquipeut6527
      @celuiquipeut6527 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@BillyTimes-dw7vsDid you miss the part where she was in a monogamic relationship with him? They both agreed to a LDR. Faithfulness and loyalty is non negotiable in ANY RELATIONSHIP.
      What she did is cheating. Good on him for testing her.
      Or maybe you are one of those who is ok with cheating?

    • @Jason-ue9xz
      @Jason-ue9xz 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the idea good way to check if she's faithful I'm gonna do the same

    • @aFoundingYouTuber
      @aFoundingYouTuber 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow, good job. I do feel bad for how you felt at the precise moment she took the bait. I sense happiness (that your clever trap worked) mixed with despair (that your relationship was over) and a sense of relief (that you found out early on that she was a cheat).

  • @ricktharuler7911
    @ricktharuler7911 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I just caught my girl cheating today 😭 crazy to see this video as I go on TH-cam 😳 but this video is so true. I’m 7000 miles away so LDR is so easy to cheat. But social media in this case helped me catch her. Hurts like hell but I will just lick my wounds and move on.

    • @troobix_s
      @troobix_s 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      How did social media helped you to catch her?

  • @markakira8988
    @markakira8988 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Personal experience, she always answers he texts in another room and constant late texts at night, past 11pm.

  • @jeremiethomas8005
    @jeremiethomas8005 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Never let a good kitten overrule your gut.

  • @bu5761
    @bu5761 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I know you know.
    But this is some old guy shiii..
    Been playing these BS games here in the west for years.
    Just don’t play the ‘no accountability’ game. Just like anywhere, if she’s doing something behind your back she’s already made up her mind.
    Leave it alone, just stop and walk away.
    Pushing the issue makes it worse. It’s not worth it fellas.

  • @etfremd
    @etfremd 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hitting the nail on the head with this one Reekay! As she stood to defend her boyfriend’s story (lie) and did not take my side…ask the question is this a woman in love? NOPE! All very clear…

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Well, she could well be in love but just... With some other dude lol

  • @paulfri1569
    @paulfri1569 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Great content 👍 Long distance relationship are frustrating as. Yeah sleeping patterns or they stay up all night is a big sign and then she says she might be pregnant even though you haven't seen her for 3 months + you see that she had her have period before you went back home..
    It's not good, They have too many options and temptations that's why it's so easy for a woman these days even a average looking one .

  • @Wistundra
    @Wistundra 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    you nailed it PERFECTLY !

  • @Ron-oe7hg
    @Ron-oe7hg 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    In my experience bro. It doesn't matter my testing her or questioning her to get to the bottom of things. Im simply not gonna do that confrontation type thing. If i feel something is wrong , im just gonna tell her i have to go, then leave. Its better if i leave while shes not there but im walking.

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A lot of gaslighting instead of owning up to what she did….

  • @wolfgangpagel6989
    @wolfgangpagel6989 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You cannot catch her and make her tell the truth. Your power is in walking away. You can't reach her? Walk away. She is not worth the effort.

  • @rlh125
    @rlh125 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    "There're that many drug dealers on the beach at 1:30 in the morning??" 😂
    All of the things you list in this video apply to women in the west just as well as they do in the Philippines.
    My nightmare scenario is getting with a Filipina that cheats on me. Been there here in the west with my ex wife. It didn't break my heart, but I don't like being made a fool. It also offends me that someone I treated so well and didn't cheat on when I could have betrayed me.

  • @andyburton8346
    @andyburton8346 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    It’s not just filipinos it’s All females!!! 😂

  • @michaelpalosaari9460
    @michaelpalosaari9460 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Accurate on all accounts and it goes both ways. Thanks again!! Peace ☮️

  • @mikelevesque9389
    @mikelevesque9389 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Listen carefully to the words she uses. Filipinas tend to use the same english words she's exposed to. If new words pop up and her syntax changes. You can bet shes chatting to another foreigner

  • @Jcope-ce9ef
    @Jcope-ce9ef 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    It's hard to know when their telling the truth.

  • @kenbeck6779
    @kenbeck6779 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Let's break up and were done" Ok peace out

  • @aFoundingYouTuber
    @aFoundingYouTuber 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Trust your gut guys. If you are suspicious of what your Filipina is up to, odds are your suspicions are accurate.
    Our host is correct. If you are in a love, affectionate, or exclusive relationship with your Filipina, it is NOT normal nor acceptable for her to, for example, "disappear" for five to eight hours (at least not without your knowing beforehand what she is doing). Disappearing acts are not what loving exclusive couples pull on each other.
    Bonus Tip: Mutual trust is the bedrock foundation in all love relationships. The old saying couples recite from time to time has been proven 110% accurate over the centuries: "Ours is a relationship built on a foundation of trust." If a love relationship does not have that, it is doomed to fail.
    Bottom Line: If after silent reflection you conclude your relationship is in a death spiral, it is time to pull that ripcord guys, and guide your parachute to land somewhere else.

  • @dunementat2191
    @dunementat2191 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    One lie is one too many… hasta la vista baby!

  • @jesustorralba2360
    @jesustorralba2360 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    People lie.
    The only way to avoid being affected by people lies is to not have anyone close enough to you that would then affect you with their lies.
    People can lie all they want as long as their lies won't affect you then they can accumulate enough lie points to qualify for hell and it won't worry or affect you.

  • @jtadventures183
    @jtadventures183 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Do you know how to tell when a Filipina is lying when there lips are moving.

  • @user-sm4ly8sx3r
    @user-sm4ly8sx3r 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    My thought is why anyone would be doing a distant of 7,000 miles away would be even online phone or dating program. If you want a lovely lady in your life there go live there. If you are not ready to move there why even waste your time or money feelings.

  • @aCycloneSteve
    @aCycloneSteve 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    How can you tell? Her lips are moving. 🙂

  • @emileneslo5695
    @emileneslo5695 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Keep in mind that in the Philippines blackouts or fallouts for electricity and internet/wife are the norm over there. So her saying I could not charge my phone and or I didn't respond due to no internet can be legit. Keyword: 'can'

  • @theone3774
    @theone3774 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Outstanding analysis..... Great topic. Well done. Thanks

  • @anteperic2836
    @anteperic2836 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I say when you catch them lying, let them lie, get one last piece of pie and have them go to their house… pack your stuff and leave first thing in the morning to another island and change your contact info and block her on all social media. Stay savage kings!

  • @user-sm4ly8sx3r
    @user-sm4ly8sx3r 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am not even on social media because don’t want it causing problems in a relationship. When I was on social media had thousands of ladies hitting on me. Just like opening three other businesses with my ex the ladies that were customers were hitting on me. Get rid of problems like that on both sides and live happily.

  • @Jcope-ce9ef
    @Jcope-ce9ef 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh God! When do they don't lie?

  • @hafiseanwar1366
    @hafiseanwar1366 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Another great video Reekay! Thank you for sharing youer experiences and wisdom on this very important matter!

  • @WallStreetCopperOfficial
    @WallStreetCopperOfficial 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve learned not to expect a reasonable, rational response when calling out someone in the Philippines about anything. Especially in the actual moment. You may, just maybe get them to own something they’ve done wrong at a much later date and time. But wouldn’t count on it. They are happy to leave most things unresolved and expect you to forget or let it go. My Filipina gf drives like a maniac, gets called out by me or other drivers and she just cant wrap her head around the idea that she was the one that did something wrong. She just gets angry and curses at everyone, never apologizes. Only to later admit wrong while blaming the way I confront her as reason she gets so angry. (Simply asking, “why would you do that”) 😮😅

  • @russellzigler2180
    @russellzigler2180 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video thank you.

  • @floribertosousa2251
    @floribertosousa2251 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Reekay.
    Thanks for a great video with great advice.
    I think from your list of 5 things to "watch out" for, mine would have to be number 4.
    Take care and keep up the great work.

  • @jonnyrouse830999
    @jonnyrouse830999 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting video!

  • @maxingaroundtheglobe
    @maxingaroundtheglobe 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    exellent advise.

  • @CLCIII
    @CLCIII 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    More Great Reekay advice from someone who both knows and cares. If I have reason to distrust a woman it will certianly be a good one and I'm not gonna play the 20 questions game. Just not gonna put myself in that position. Best way to avoid all this drama is to be there with this person and have eyes on the situation. To anyone that puts up with this kind of behavior, more power to you. As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇

  • @fedsaitam5755
    @fedsaitam5755 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Better install micro navigation on her phone or in her car so u could easely trace the where about of ur partner and u will easely know if shes lying

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      there are many apps for that on google-play.

  • @TheTreasureSeeker01
    @TheTreasureSeeker01 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Trust but verify!

  • @guardianmiketv1586
    @guardianmiketv1586 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good Job 👍

  • @Realstranded
    @Realstranded 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is true lol what you said there stories dont make sense

  • @user-sm4ly8sx3r
    @user-sm4ly8sx3r 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have heard those exact relationships that I was paying for half million dollar home on the lake they wanted so bad and that is exactly why I ended relationships with beautiful ladies.

  • @Jcope-ce9ef
    @Jcope-ce9ef 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There's more than 5

  • @ngothianhquy7561
    @ngothianhquy7561 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi reeky what do you use to generate these ai image model

  • @timhnc75
    @timhnc75 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There lips are moving 🤣

  • @Abelius
    @Abelius 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We have a saying here: "Se agarra antes a un mentiroso que a un cojo".
    The more prevalent issue is when we don't want to see the truth. And maybe that's why Point 5 is valid: they know there are more weak-willed guys than strong-willed ones.

  • @SmittyInVegas
    @SmittyInVegas 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ahh. there was a lot of deflect and project narcissistic behavior.
    Yeah. Just keep gaslighting me baby.Lol

  • @oahuguy3918
    @oahuguy3918 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Reekay, I've been following you ever since you started Vlogging in Bohol and I don't remember you ever being in a LDR... Did this instance occur while you were visiting family during the Chrismas holidays?

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      after Vi and I had spent all of 2020 and part of 2021 locked down together during covid in cebu, i had to go to calif for a while because my mother was having medical issues. so it took some time to get back into the PH after that.

  • @franksmith3602
    @franksmith3602 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don't, Believe she has.... 15 uncle's from five country's. Who always visit for a week.....and they stay in and just talk....😂😅😂😅😂, I love you no shit. Buy me Honda...WE do boom boom.....🎉😂

  • @rayleo529
    @rayleo529 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man.....thats just women in general. 😅😅😅😅

  • @BillysWild
    @BillysWild 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why do you have stretch marks around your mouth? Well I ate a whole watermelon.

  • @aFoundingYouTuber
    @aFoundingYouTuber 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Excellent presentation. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell. Congratulations on getting to 100K subscribers!!