Right. You can't objectify yourself either. The counter argument might be that women can do whatever they want, but unfortunately to change a culture you cant have both sides I feel like
@@vaIe_ its not because they cannot "stop". Its because they will have to realize that they were living a lie. Look how young people present themselves in social media. All of them are "Superheros", rich, good looking, tolerant, progressiv, virtuous and so on. The truth however is, they are just as "human" as anyone else and all these representations are nothing more then illusions, created to impress others of ones own virtues. Nature has a very very cruel way of showing us reality through the aging process. Once we get over a certain age, most of us must realize that we were not as good as we thought and that we were living a lie. The more lies you build up to that moment, the harder it will come crashing down. There never has been a greater Lie in the history of mankind then "Social" Media. Its very own name is a Lie.
As someone who grew up without all this i can say that constantly being inundated with airbrushed images does make you feel a little down, even if you are otherwise confident. The best thing for women and girls is to avoid all those posts of surgical perfection. I have found that it just makes you appreciate your body and 'imperfections'. Finding someone that loves you as you are, without make up or injections etc is also super important. 🥰 I am thankful for meeting such man, our relationship feels like the most natural thing in the world because we are enough for eachother. I hope more people can find that sort of thing and just love themselves so they can allow someone else to love them too.
I'm so grateful I live in a time when I could listen to such wonderful people just sitting there and discussing things I ask myself as a growing generation. I'm 22 and this felt like fresh air for me. I don't have a role model in that direction irl so it is very precious to me. Just show me that they're always another side even if you can't see much of an example around.
Tbf youtube can be fine depending what your watching and doing. I listened to this podcast while workouting out, and just figuring how to multitasking when. Ican
You dont need to control youtube...its just entertainment,its like watching tv but in this case you have the power to choose,its a powerful search and knowledge tool. Its like google with video,instagram cant make you much more smarter but youtube can.
This is exactly where the idea of teaching people how to treat you comes into play. When I raised my daughter, there was so many conversations about and examples of you can be attractive but have boundaries too. The girls that get their worth solely from their appearance are willing to erode their boundaries and are usually the ones that eventually complain about being objectified.
I’m 36 with a flip phone still. I actually went to T mobile to get a new one recently. The guy didn’t even know they still made flip phones and he said no one not even granny’s or kids get this anymore!! I still felt very pleased with my decision.
@@chaitanyasharma6270 a healthy life takes time to build. Fill the emptiness of social media with spiritual food and taking a walk on your street and begin to say hi to your neighbors and the people around you.
@@chaitanyasharma6270 I am 17 and just replaced my iPhone with a flip phone. No more Instagram and Snapchat for me. I have been feeling the same way sometimes. Usually I just try to call a friend to hangout. Getting into this habit has made me realize that in-person social interactions are actually a lot more fulfilling than what we experience online.
I myself struggled with body image issues as a result of social media. It seemed no matter how much skin I showed or how many filters I used or how many of my curves I showed off I just didn't get as much of the attention and likes that the pretty girls I knew got. Finally, after years of not feeling as pretty as the girls I knew, I took one hard look at myself and realized something very profound. I am a man.
I grew up in London and went to uni, so I was always wearing makeup, buying cheap crap clothes, and trying to keep up with trends. I moved to a small village in the french mountains where none of that exists - if you wear a face full of makeup, you're making way too much of an effort and you actually feel silly. Sports, nature, socialising (in person, not through a phone) and organic food are the important things here. I'm so glad I escaped the consumer environment that was taking my money and constantly making me think I wasn't good enough!
As a 20 year old woman, I teared up when she said "Can you imagine, right now being 20?" :,) It has come to a point where I accept that it may just be me, my plants, and some pets in this life
Me too. I would have been so much more insecure. In real life, people just say a lot less toxic shit to you so you have the chance to develop your identity. Early social media was also a lot less unhealthy. I remember when we just had fun posting and looking at selfies because it was literally a novelty, not social currency. It was the first time we got to see so many photos from people we knew. Before, you had to meet up and view it on their home computer (didn't happen often). So it was really cool at first to see any sort of photo from your friends and classmates. Then by 2013-ish things started to get old as people did it longer. And now photos and statuses are used as validation and social currency instead of novelty. The feeling completely changed.
@@RebornLegacy Yeah that's not the point of what I was getting at. It's different to be sexually attracted to someone and treat them with respect (That's normal). Then someone flaunting all they have in a purposeful manner to the world, then switching stances given the response they receive.
Great interview! Loved hearing her thoughts on smartphones and social media. I used to watch her play volleyball...no idea she was so smart and interesting. She is very impressive.
I’m turning 19 on Thursday. I realized what social media was doing to me so I deleted Instagram. Snapchat’s next but youtube is gold. I’ve learned so much from the content on here.
The amount of time on social media is what some consider the most damaging, not the app itself. TH-cam and Netflix prob do as much damage as Instagram or Snapchat, time wise.
@@rand0mletters1 The amount of time is what's damaging, because its an indicator of an addiction. If you browse Instagram for 5 minutes everyday as opposed to an 1-5 hours daily, you'll probably be less susceptible to the damage of it. Social media itself is not inherently detrimental because it provides an experiential service.
@@3Demon100 eh. I think it's damaging beyond that because it's a subversion of the basic social need that women have which drives them in most interactions. Men for instance at a base are sexually driven, or as Chapelle puts it "Men have nice cars not cause they like nice cars, but because women like nice cars." As a secondary force Men enjoy affirmation, bonding etc. It's easy enough to see how porn might subvert this basic driving force. Women on the other hand are in essence flipped. Their main driving societal force is a need for: affirmation, attention and provision. In the last 60 or so years the provision aspect has been moved from the shoulders of men, to women's own shoulders. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, women can provide for themselves. However only in about the last ten years has affirmation and attention been subverted by social media. I don't think I need to explain how social media has provided those two things for women. As a secondary drive, women are sexual. The subversion of these things I think has lead to higher female and male depression. See: incels. Lower drive to both males and females. Additionally the moral exodus of western women. (The good v bad aspect of the new morality is a debate for another time). So while yes an addiction to anything is an issue. Both the use of porn to fill a sexual motivating drive in men, and the use of social media to fill an affirmation/attention social motivating drive in women, can be harmful even when not addicting.
I quit social media a few years ago when I realized what a toxic pissing contest it is. 90% of it is posturing and I have 0 desire to compete for fake internet points.
erick alvarez not the person who posted the comment but I also quit social media maybe a year ago and it is wonderfulllllll. Less comparing in all facets of my life has made me happier and realize I really do have it good!
@@O_Canada Everyone is getting older. Doesn't change the fact that she's right. Thing is, the older you get the more you start to recognise toxic behaviour for what it is.
This woman is literally a retired pro beach volleyball player. Imagine being a hall of fame caliber athlete, while simultaneously playing the sport that so many people watch for the ass, and having the ability to completely disregard the stereotypes associated with your sport because you're just that intelligent
As a soon to be father in his 20s this is something I have considered bc my generation got smartphones when we were teenagers. Undoubtedly when they first came out they were limited but eventually tons of apps were made and you had to test the waters to see what was nonsense and what was useful. Growing up many kids had social media and strived for likes and objectified themselves and I see the same people doing that now as grown ups. It's insane how social media took away people's ability to be content with the people in their school or just the peoe the actually care about being enough to make them content; women especially strive to be noticed by hundreds to thousands of people they don't and will never know. I understand it's an addiction but it's just a sad reality. I see my younger siblings and my wife's younger siblings becoming addicted to the same plague. I don't use Facebook, TikTok, or Twitter. I have Instagram but it's to follow family and friends and that's it I decided to only have 1 social media and I haven't posted since I was 19. Seeing how negatively this has affected so many people especially women makes me very concerned for my daughter when she is eventually older. There needs to be stronger limitations on media access for younger people, especially teenagers and kids. I don't plan to allow my kids to have phones until they are 16 and can drive because that makes sense; maybe a flip phone before then but regardless I will be monitoring my children and what they text and who they text because of how scandalous adolescents are today.
@@Subuzgreatest Lmao spoken like a true bronze ranked come back when you're at least gold! /s I swear I had this exchange while playing an FPS to chill, there are people who consider themselves superior because of their in-game rank. Sad af.
I was watching this thinking “what is she talking about? She’s GORGEOUS” ...But I had no idea she was 50!! I tip my hat to you, madam. I hope I look half as good as you when I’m 50
THIS is the kind of women young girls SHOULD be looking up too. I love Gabrielle Reece and had her picture up on my wall. People should listen to her other interviews... Truly a intelligent, hard working and moral individual.
I’m glad we’ve gotten to a point where we talk about these things in a non judgemental and idealistic manner and instead come with an open mind and and try to understand the social norms of the new generation
Yeah I agree. It's not uncommon to hear about the dangers associated with Porn and Social medias but rarely is it about the addiction associated with both.
Yeah and all the stuff on it is fake. People post all these things making them seem happy. But when the camera isn't on them, they are a mess, and sad. Same with porn, it gives the wrong impression on what sex is. And its just terrible
Christianity does treat as such.. if one is truly following the path of Christ. For non-Christians maybe take a page from the book and learn to gain control of temptations that offer no fulfillment.
Yeah I'm not really sure what to make of that. Being popular snd having supportive friends makes life better. No duh. What about those who struggle to make friends snd sre always alone? Are they just screwed then?
@@KFrost-fx7dt of course not, theres many ways to be a great parent who raises healthy kids. I do think positive friendships are a good thing to strive for though. Doesn’t have to be a lot of friends even just 1 can be a positive impact on you and your children
But when it's all they see. Especially when you have snapchat and instagram curating what each user sees based on their previous views. So they are only exposed through this superficial facade. They don't know any better other than living vicariously through, what they believe is a satisfactory or "perfect" life.
For real, some younger people don’t understand that when you’re looking at social media they’re only presenting the highlights of their life and their qualities. Never any shortcomings so they feel incredibly inferior by comparison. It’s so fucked up
Yes but if you look around today, you’ll see that most people can’t be bothered by eating right or exercising. It’s actually rare for me to see a woman in good shape.
She's like my mom. I didn't always immediately take her advice, but it sunk in eventually. And my mom was smart and patient enough to know that's how it works.
That's how it has to work in good parent - child relationship. If you forced yourself to take her advice always even against your will, you would lose all sense of identity and legitimacy. You would soon start questioning every aspect of your identity, suspecting that you're completely irrelevant and incompetent because you have to be constantly life coached by someone else (it doesn't matter who) for the rest of your life because no matter what you do, someone else always knows better what's best for you. That would be destructive.
@@damasek219 this comment struck hard on me, grew up exactly like this and it's hard to find a solid ground of your identity if you don't do something about it before you reach adulthood.
@@topzki47 I had these moments too. But I didn't want to say it is bad to listen to the parents. On the contrary. I wish I listened more to them. But just to make up for the less obedient kids, those do make more mistakes, but as a rehabilitation, they often end up appreciating their parents more, because they find out their parents were right in the first place. Kids that do listen, won't need to find out and have easier life but they often don't appreciate how wise their parents were. But it is better to always consider the advice of the parents if it doesn't go against your determination. What would be wrong is to be life coached in all aspects of your life.
When Joe said “thirteen year olds don’t hear you (or understand what you’re saying) until later” I got that. Because he’s right, teenagers don’t do what you are telling them to do until they see the downside/consequence
That's the difference between Wisdom and intelligence. A wise man was once an ignorant child and learned through experience. An intelligent person listens to Wisdom and learns without the consequences.
"How do you get a 13 year old to talk about the long game?" The eternal question. How do you make teenagers appreciate the value of the next 60-80 years of their life? Responsibility and moderation is super important. Teach kids how to deal with stress, how to build self-esteem, how to moderate themselves. A teenager's capacity for self destruction is much greater than it used to be.
To me, this is where religion would come in. Sure everyone's trying to run away from it and people think it's stupid, but the core ideas were always be good to yourself and do good to others, resist temptations, and do the right thing are all life lessons that children *need* to hear, lessons that were once learned from their religion. The problem is, you can just tell this to your child, and they could quickly dismiss it as "dumb parents" but saying something like "The road to Hell is a super highway, while the road to heaven is a steep mountain path" always seemed to be more persuasive.
@@joumero7493 If their parents who are standing right in front of them can't convince them then how is god or hell going to convince them? Ruling through fear is a dangerous proposition.
My daughter and son, now 23 & 24, didn’t have cell phones until they could afford them on their own (at about 18). Old fashioned yes but appears to have worked.
@@clarkstelter7010 Governments allow it. Right about parents,although many are not strong enough to bring their children up healthy anymore, not having got it themselves. Competing with today's temptations on children is hard.
I love Garbielle Reece !! She is spot on about this generation,she is a good looking girl who reached the top of her ambitions but didn’t have to do it showing her butt.She was a professional athlete and a model
She did a shoot in Playboy naked and posed for well over 5000 sexy photos of her in a bikini, And don't get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with showing your butt and boobs for money, nothing wrong with it all, but she most certainly posed naked and half naked thousands of times.
your right. I don't want little kids having social media accounts, I personaly see it as damaging and making the kids growing up way too fast, they are not allowed to be silly kids cuz the internet will only call them "cringy". you can give ur kid an old AF nokia phone or whatever but if you give them a high end smartphone then social media will be unaviodable. I remember even back in 2006 when we turned 12 there was like a switch in our brain where everyone all of a sudden started acting more grownup and "cool"(aka peer-pressure) just because we where one year away from highschool. And I bet that number is even lower now. Probably 9 year olds are like OMG Lisa your clothes are so out of fashion... Like c'mon being a kid sucks when you feel peerpressured to grow up. Atleast my authistic ass gave me a longer childhood then others. When others started smoking and drinking at 12-13 I was still a playful kid up until 16.
Gabby is brilliant and should have a much louder voice for women. She's clearly had a full life of experience and is modest and powerful at the same time.
Absolutely. Such real dignity and strength by her values, maturity, and way she talks. So attractive compared to Only Fans "empowered sex workers" and tiktok/insta thots
As someone who is aware of these issues in beauty standards ill always go for the lady who hasnt plastered her face up with makeup. Not only on principle, but because i appreciate natural beauty and also theres a better chance she understands the issues surrounding this aswell.
I appreciate the sentiment, but a piece of friendly advice: you might have a better time phrasing that more like preferring a more natural look. For one thing, it expresses appreciation for the lady's own tastes and skill putting herself together, but for another thing. . . . The vast majority of the time, what guys are pointing at as "not made up" is a lady still very much wearing makeup. She just also appreciates a subtle, natural aesthetic and chooses to express herself that way.
I think how we grew up without phones and having strong social interactions is a very powerful and useful tool, but we need to accept new technologies and use them because that is how our population is progressing. We need to use it in moderation and still practice normal simple interactions. These poor kids can’t get away from everything that upsets or puts them in a bad headspace because it will be active on Facebook or other social media platforms. It’s nice to take a break.
It shows that social media is the worse thing ever created I work in a pub and the amount of friends and couples who come out to eat but all they do is sit on there phones on social saying nothing to eachother what is the bloody point even coming out and it's only going to get worse
Same here. It's taken a revectoring on my part to come even remotely close to what I'd consider to be a good social life. I'm glad it happened - I found Scripture and my own Path, but damn it would be nice if I just socialize with people that actually know how to be human beings sometimes.
i'm 37 people were socially awkward long before social media, it's a just a convenient excuse nowadays when before you were just considered to be a dork with a shit personality
I unplugged from Facebook a couple years ago. I spent ten years being so attached to the best and worst snapshots of other people's lives, and it set me up with unrealistic expectations of what my life should be. I couldn't reckon with how much less popular I was compared to others. 7 likes on a picture or post was a big deal to me at the time. My self-worth was so tied into something so worthless, at a time when my conscientiousness was highest. I feel like I wasted my best years, years I could have spent mastering something of real value to other people. The worst part, I can't blame anyone but myself, and I truly believe that, because it gives me the power to change things for the better, but it still hurts.
All through my life I wasn’t really addicted to my phone and it didn’t change me. But once the pandemic hit. I cannot sit still, I can’t watch a single video without wanting to just scroll through it and I solely blame it on the increase of social media that I use. My social life has been negatively impacted. Im lucky my girl understands me because social media has fucked my social
the topic at the end about doing what you love is so good. i think the right way is to create yourself space to try something youve always wanted to do in a way that if it fails or it isnt as great as you thought, it wont do you in: financially, socially, carreerwise. I would say im in the process of that. It can be done reasonably and with nice results that do open new avenues.
There’s a reason I woke up one day around 6 years ago and I deleted all my social media accounts. Commenting on TH-cam is about as much as I choose to interact with the internet “folks”.
as a parent with a daughter and a son, i think setting an example goes a long way. i'm not saying it's going to solve all the problems. however, if your kids see you on instagram all the time, posing, dressing up for these posts, dressing in certain ways, that's the example they will follow.
@cory Her typo doesn't make her any less smart. Furthermore, spelling abilities are completely unrelated to intelligence. Joe actually talk to an expert about this very thing in another podcast.
@@antoniettamancinelli6581 it tells you the meaning of life. Then you wake up and forget the answer. If you do remember you contend with your sanity for the rest of your life.
That "put my foot on the gas" quote actually resonated for some reason. Going fast in a new car is exhilarating right but obviously can be dangerous, makes a lot of sense actually. Good analogy.
Grew up in the MTV generation. That was my exposure. She is actually very introspective and thoughtful/deliberate. Could be that “simple” living. Wish everyone could unplug…as I type on social media. The irony is not lost on me.
So glad I was born in 1993. Got to experience the end of the 90s and early 2000s before everyone had a phone and I've gotten to watch the internet grow into what it is today.
I was just telling my Mother this the other day. I graduated High School in 2005 and Myspace didn't get popular (where I lived) till January 2006 and then Facebook 2007 etc.. but I'm glad I missed everything. I told her I wish I had graduated in 2000. I would have gotten a good 5 or 6 years away from everyone.
Born in 1978 ... your outlook gives me hope for the future. Keep your head up, carry yourself with great self esteem and care about what you think of yourself 1st ,2nd, and 3rd. Love you guys and your generation. Good luck!
It really did get out of control - we are a obsessed culture now and instead of re-evaluating how it affects our well-being, people are simply pushing it to make a profit.
Love your approach Joe on the Cell phone issue. We need a social reset. No phones until 15 ... ! My 10 year old has one and I hate it. Already had bullying issues. :(
She comes on and talks about strong women and standing up for oneself and having respect - Joe segues it into talking about Milf Porn.... classic Rogan
What she said about dating is so accurate. I'm almost 28, the problem with my age group is that we accept online dating but it still feels fucking weird to us
@@SharonVeeLee Not only that but you can be attracted to person beyond just looks but wouldn’t know it if you only online date. I’ve been with women I’ve had no business being with (looks wise) but they stick around cause i say funny in the moment stuff. and not to sound like a hippy but people give off certain vibes that you can only appreciate in person.
@@JeffWithAnF I don't think it's hippy at all. I think our brains pick up more cues than we consciously process. When we don't vibe, or we have a gut feeling about someone, our brain had usually picked up on something but it's not in conscious awareness.
Back in the late 90s, my company hosted a party that several celebrities attended. Gabrielle and her husband Laird were two of the. They were the most real people there. Very down to earth. I spoke to her for a few minutes, but I spoke to her husband a little longer. They were just really nice, normal people.
Also, when they keep snapping away with the stupid non-stop photo-taking for uploads, and when you tell them that NO, you cannot take a picture of me, they get offended. WTF?? You do NOT have the right to my face and image!!
From the ages of 21 to 41, I pretty much dated women around 22/model-ish... I realized I was only living for myself and got married. My wife's now pretty old and chubby...and I think she's the hottest woman I've ever know/love her/4 kids... women need to understand that who you are is WAY more important than the surface stuff...hard to explain.
I'm a teacher and one of the ways that I've seen parents get around this issue is the give the kids an old fashioned flip phone so they can communicate if needed, but not do all the other social media stuff.
The iPhone came out when I was in high school. At that time, I had a Nokia brick, and I think that was for the best. What use does a teenager have for a smartphone, a highly complex piece of technology?
Yea I just recently gave my 9 year old son a simple phone to call and text his friends to go out play soccer etc. No way anyone that age should be bombarded with everything smartphones have to offer.
flip phones can still send color pictures . how about set up parental controls on the phones? pretty easy to restrict content honestly i blame the lazy parents and people not being present in life. like for us kids get home at 4 tech off at 5 for dinner at the table and maybe if things go well they can have 30 mins before bed watching a show together
Yes, good point. But ever thought about the backlash the kid’s gonna get from the other kids in the class? Like you don’t want to put your kid in the position of being “that” weirdo and being eventually excluded.
I’m 25 and this woman talks so much sense...I’ve realised it for a while deep down but have still been engaging in the self destructive behaviour and time is passing fast and I know in my thirties I can’t rely on just looking nice or getting help from my family. I feel terrible I have been this way for so long
Be a teriyaki, perfect in every way teriyaki , no need to be buffalo haha . cuz people love teriyaki , but its less popular for sure. I will accept being teriyaki . why change for someone
You know, better late than never. I tend to sulk and willow in past mistakes, chances not taken. At 36, I can tell you my biggest regret 15 was gone by 25. Life had moved on. At 36, my biggest regrets, in plural, are gone. Now learning not to allow new regrets to fill my time.
I don't think they give more or volunteer more unless it gets them a "GOLD STAR" for participation and the whole world see's it on Instagram and every one cheers for them for being so humble and awesome.
I think it's less about that, more about the fact that educational inflation forces people to volunteer so that they can have some kind of experience needed to get into their program or job. This thing didn't exist in the last generation.
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@Victor Smith A mistake many (most?) parents make is praising their children far more for their attributes than for their efforts. It creates laziness and entitlement.
She is so right about the mixed message: "Look at me! Look at me!" - And at the same time "Don't objectify me - Treat me as an equal!"
Right. You can't objectify yourself either. The counter argument might be that women can do whatever they want, but unfortunately to change a culture you cant have both sides I feel like
@666 mgtowkayaker eh it’s not so bad
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@@twintorres1 u my good sir are an incel!!! dont do dat!!!
freaking attention seekers
the social media generation, once they get old enough, will have the toughest Midlife Crisis ever recorded in the History of Mankind.
Harry Houdini so true
Harry Houdini why exactly?
Apart from thw few who actually cannot stop and are incredibly addicted, no one is really going to have a problem.
@@vaIe_ its not because they cannot "stop". Its because they will have to realize that they were living a lie.
Look how young people present themselves in social media. All of them are "Superheros", rich, good looking, tolerant, progressiv, virtuous and so on.
The truth however is, they are just as "human" as anyone else and all these representations are nothing more then illusions, created to impress others of ones own virtues.
Nature has a very very cruel way of showing us reality through the aging process. Once we get over a certain age, most of us must realize that we were not as good as we thought and that we were living a lie. The more lies you build up to that moment, the harder it will come crashing down.
There never has been a greater Lie in the history of mankind then "Social" Media. Its very own name is a Lie.
@@harryhoudini714 LOOOOOL. What a joke
Tom Phelps already happening
As someone who grew up without all this i can say that constantly being inundated with airbrushed images does make you feel a little down, even if you are otherwise confident. The best thing for women and girls is to avoid all those posts of surgical perfection. I have found that it just makes you appreciate your body and 'imperfections'.
Finding someone that loves you as you are, without make up or injections etc is also super important. 🥰 I am thankful for meeting such man, our relationship feels like the most natural thing in the world because we are enough for eachother. I hope more people can find that sort of thing and just love themselves so they can allow someone else to love them too.
I'm so grateful I live in a time when I could listen to such wonderful people just sitting there and discussing things I ask myself as a growing generation. I'm 22 and this felt like fresh air for me. I don't have a role model in that direction irl so it is very precious to me. Just show me that they're always another side even if you can't see much of an example around.
Having an 11yo daughter in the Internet age is f***ing terrifying.
cbmtrx give her flip phone and thats that
@@rolo9263 I wish it was that simple. You also have to overcome the effect of that culture on their minds/self-esteem...
cbmtrx I have a 1yr old and 6yr old and I’m terrified of the world they’re going to grow up in..
Its a fucking minefield.
I feel ya man. I have 8 and 10 year old girls. Trying to explain and not get into great detail about child predators sucks
21 years old and I have deleted facebook, instagram and have never had TikTok... Now I just have to find a way to limit my TH-cam addiction...
The less I see of others fake lives... the better I feel in with my amazing life... It works!!
One tip I would give is to delete the YT app on your phone. In my case I end up using it on my phone's browser and it kinda helps me to use less.
Tbf youtube can be fine depending what your watching and doing. I listened to this podcast while workouting out, and just figuring how to multitasking when. Ican
Good for you YT if used responsibly, isn’t nearly as toxic as the others
You dont need to control youtube...its just entertainment,its like watching tv but in this case you have the power to choose,its a powerful search and knowledge tool.
Its like google with video,instagram cant make you much more smarter but youtube can.
This is exactly where the idea of teaching people how to treat you comes into play. When I raised my daughter, there was so many conversations about and examples of you can be attractive but have boundaries too. The girls that get their worth solely from their appearance are willing to erode their boundaries and are usually the ones that eventually complain about being objectified.
As a daughter dad in my 30s, this is key for me!
If your worth is solely from your appearance, you objectified yourself.
I’m 36 with a flip phone still. I actually went to T mobile to get a new one recently. The guy didn’t even know they still made flip phones and he said no one not even granny’s or kids get this anymore!! I still felt very pleased with my decision.
Either this is a lie or your sales rep is a n00b, Samsung has a galaxy flip phone that came out recently
Almost 21 years old and deleted all my social media. Lot happier
Well done. Cultivate your independence from the brainless mob. It will serve you well.
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You make 21 sound old. Jus saying. I was born in 1985 and never bothered with so called social Media ever
@@chaitanyasharma6270 a healthy life takes time to build. Fill the emptiness of social media with spiritual food and taking a walk on your street and begin to say hi to your neighbors and the people around you.
@@chaitanyasharma6270 I am 17 and just replaced my iPhone with a flip phone. No more Instagram and Snapchat for me. I have been feeling the same way sometimes. Usually I just try to call a friend to hangout. Getting into this habit has made me realize that in-person social interactions are actually a lot more fulfilling than what we experience online.
I myself struggled with body image issues as a result of social media. It seemed no matter how much skin I showed or how many filters I used or how many of my curves I showed off I just didn't get as much of the attention and likes that the pretty girls I knew got. Finally, after years of not feeling as pretty as the girls I knew, I took one hard look at myself and realized something very profound. I am a man.
@@nowyouseeme3402 thank you. I do it for the fans
Underrated comment 👍
Please 😂🤣 def laughed
Ngl you had me in the first half
lmao
I grew up in London and went to uni, so I was always wearing makeup, buying cheap crap clothes, and trying to keep up with trends. I moved to a small village in the french mountains where none of that exists - if you wear a face full of makeup, you're making way too much of an effort and you actually feel silly.
Sports, nature, socialising (in person, not through a phone) and organic food are the important things here. I'm so glad I escaped the consumer environment that was taking my money and constantly making me think I wasn't good enough!
Good for you!
If you don’t mind me asking, what is the name of this village?
As a 20 year old woman, I teared up when she said "Can you imagine, right now being 20?" :,) It has come to a point where I accept that it may just be me, my plants, and some pets in this life
Your a 20 year old woman, stop being dramatic and playing the martyr role , your young , you have so much time in front of you .
scott's right.
just make sure you're house doesn't smell of cat/dog pee.
it's a disqualifier for me.
@@Ghoster653 maybe she's sick off all this guys who just wanna fuck her?
That’s all you really need.
How do you know, empty cup?
I'm so glad I went through my early teens before smartphones took off.
I grew up my whole teen years with a smart phone, and I wish I never had one. Not giving my kids a phone.
Same.
Basic phone with messages and phone calls is just fine.
@Starscream91 fr, I liked that "scroll button", you could change colors on some, it was mindblowing at the time.
Me too. I would have been so much more insecure. In real life, people just say a lot less toxic shit to you so you have the chance to develop your identity. Early social media was also a lot less unhealthy. I remember when we just had fun posting and looking at selfies because it was literally a novelty, not social currency. It was the first time we got to see so many photos from people we knew. Before, you had to meet up and view it on their home computer (didn't happen often). So it was really cool at first to see any sort of photo from your friends and classmates. Then by 2013-ish things started to get old as people did it longer. And now photos and statuses are used as validation and social currency instead of novelty. The feeling completely changed.
"Respect me, but also look at my body and give me money for my body"
Social media values are destroying this world.
Also Instagram models: Stop objectifying me!
Yeah, because it's so difficult to treat someone like a human and be sexually attracted to them.
@@RebornLegacy Yeah that's not the point of what I was getting at. It's different to be sexually attracted to someone and treat them with respect (That's normal). Then someone flaunting all they have in a purposeful manner to the world, then switching stances given the response they receive.
@@RebornLegacy way to miss the point of the comment you bum
It's grooming girls for porn/sex work and just to be exploited by men generally
Great interview! Loved hearing her thoughts on smartphones and social media. I used to watch her play volleyball...no idea she was so smart and interesting. She is very impressive.
Gaby is a class act. What an amazing guest ❤
I’m turning 19 on Thursday. I realized what social media was doing to me so I deleted Instagram. Snapchat’s next but youtube is gold. I’ve learned so much from the content on here.
The amount of time on social media is what some consider the most damaging, not the app itself. TH-cam and Netflix prob do as much damage as Instagram or Snapchat, time wise.
@@3Demon100 nah I think social media is extremely damaging for women. It's basically what porn is to men.
Barona MnP Thank you 😭❤️
@@rand0mletters1 The amount of time is what's damaging, because its an indicator of an addiction. If you browse Instagram for 5 minutes everyday as opposed to an 1-5 hours daily, you'll probably be less susceptible to the damage of it. Social media itself is not inherently detrimental because it provides an experiential service.
@@3Demon100 eh. I think it's damaging beyond that because it's a subversion of the basic social need that women have which drives them in most interactions. Men for instance at a base are sexually driven, or as Chapelle puts it "Men have nice cars not cause they like nice cars, but because women like nice cars." As a secondary force Men enjoy affirmation, bonding etc. It's easy enough to see how porn might subvert this basic driving force.
Women on the other hand are in essence flipped. Their main driving societal force is a need for: affirmation, attention and provision. In the last 60 or so years the provision aspect has been moved from the shoulders of men, to women's own shoulders. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, women can provide for themselves. However only in about the last ten years has affirmation and attention been subverted by social media. I don't think I need to explain how social media has provided those two things for women. As a secondary drive, women are sexual.
The subversion of these things I think has lead to higher female and male depression. See: incels. Lower drive to both males and females. Additionally the moral exodus of western women. (The good v bad aspect of the new morality is a debate for another time).
So while yes an addiction to anything is an issue. Both the use of porn to fill a sexual motivating drive in men, and the use of social media to fill an affirmation/attention social motivating drive in women, can be harmful even when not addicting.
I quit social media a few years ago when I realized what a toxic pissing contest it is. 90% of it is posturing and I have 0 desire to compete for fake internet points.
Facts same here shit is toxic its a constant competition that you'll always lose shit destroys most ppls self esteem.
erick alvarez not the person who posted the comment but I also quit social media maybe a year ago and it is wonderfulllllll. Less comparing in all facets of my life has made me happier and realize I really do have it good!
@@O_Canada Everyone is getting older. Doesn't change the fact that she's right.
Thing is, the older you get the more you start to recognise toxic behaviour for what it is.
I agree with your comment so I gave it a thumbs up i.e. some fake internet points.
Yea, i stopped around 2018/2019, it just didn't benefit me at all.
GREAT conversation! As a father of 3 and 7 year old girls this hit me! REAL TALK! 💪💪
36 seconds in and this is already becoming more and more prevalent every day
This woman is literally a retired pro beach volleyball player. Imagine being a hall of fame caliber athlete, while simultaneously playing the sport that so many people watch for the ass, and having the ability to completely disregard the stereotypes associated with your sport because you're just that intelligent
thehudy1 _ it’s pretty great to know that those people exist. I have faith they can exist in my generation too (born in 2002)
She makes good points about tech though (as I comment from my iPhone)
its not intelligence as much as it class, a kind of intelligence.
I would call it dignity
OK, it's beach volleyball, not NBA. It's a low-level female sport.
how refreshing to hear a woman admit a double standard.
Louis van Zyl well than he should get better guests because it’s not rare and is a fair representation of most women
Definitely
Louis van Zyl Truly. People totally lack self awareness.
ultra rare, self awareness in a woman
Professor R. Chaos sure buddy 😂
She is the most interesting woman I've ever heard on a podcast. Beautiful, intelligent, insightful- so much fun to listen to.
As a soon to be father in his 20s this is something I have considered bc my generation got smartphones when we were teenagers. Undoubtedly when they first came out they were limited but eventually tons of apps were made and you had to test the waters to see what was nonsense and what was useful. Growing up many kids had social media and strived for likes and objectified themselves and I see the same people doing that now as grown ups. It's insane how social media took away people's ability to be content with the people in their school or just the peoe the actually care about being enough to make them content; women especially strive to be noticed by hundreds to thousands of people they don't and will never know. I understand it's an addiction but it's just a sad reality. I see my younger siblings and my wife's younger siblings becoming addicted to the same plague. I don't use Facebook, TikTok, or Twitter. I have Instagram but it's to follow family and friends and that's it I decided to only have 1 social media and I haven't posted since I was 19. Seeing how negatively this has affected so many people especially women makes me very concerned for my daughter when she is eventually older. There needs to be stronger limitations on media access for younger people, especially teenagers and kids. I don't plan to allow my kids to have phones until they are 16 and can drive because that makes sense; maybe a flip phone before then but regardless I will be monitoring my children and what they text and who they text because of how scandalous adolescents are today.
Guy : So what do you do?
Girl : I'm an Instagram model, and you?
Guy : Well, I'm a Call of Duty soldier..
Perfect fit for each other. Both live in a fantasy land.
@@Subuzgreatest Lmao spoken like a true bronze ranked come back when you're at least gold! /s I swear I had this exchange while playing an FPS to chill, there are people who consider themselves superior because of their in-game rank. Sad af.
😆😂 that’s spot on though with this generation
Accurate for both guys and girls
Key difference is that Instagram models get payed. If you get payed to do something, it's a real job, if you don't, it's not.
This woman is 50 years old and looks absolutely stunning.
I was watching this thinking “what is she talking about? She’s GORGEOUS” ...But I had no idea she was 50!! I tip my hat to you, madam. I hope I look half as good as you when I’m 50
Yeah she's beautiful for sure, she looks good for 30, not to mention 50
word
Some people have great genes and awesome health. Look across the table. Rogan's 50 and looks 30 as well.
@@JJ-mh3hb Joe does not look 30
THIS is the kind of women young girls SHOULD be looking up too. I love Gabrielle Reece and had her picture up on my wall. People should listen to her other interviews... Truly a intelligent, hard working and moral individual.
I’m glad we’ve gotten to a point where we talk about these things in a non judgemental and idealistic manner and instead come with an open mind and and try to understand the social norms of the new generation
"is MILF porn even a thing?" Gabrielle Gabrielle YOU HAVE NO IDEA
lol
It's pretty big in my house.
The porn is popular too
lol
@@guyprieto1593 hahahahaha
@@12345678909269 oh yes they do!🤣😈
Porn and Social Media should be treated as a addiction
Yeah I agree. It's not uncommon to hear about the dangers associated with Porn and Social medias but rarely is it about the addiction associated with both.
Yeah and all the stuff on it is fake. People post all these things making them seem happy. But when the camera isn't on them, they are a mess, and sad. Same with porn, it gives the wrong impression on what sex is. And its just terrible
Christianity does treat as such.. if one is truly following the path of Christ. For non-Christians maybe take a page from the book and learn to gain control of temptations that offer no fulfillment.
@@cimarronMC I I I hunter I
porn addiction is real
I loved what she said about having great female friends around you as a mother because they’ll be positive influences on your daughter 🤍
Yeah I'm not really sure what to make of that. Being popular snd having supportive friends makes life better. No duh. What about those who struggle to make friends snd sre always alone? Are they just screwed then?
@@KFrost-fx7dt of course not, theres many ways to be a great parent who raises healthy kids. I do think positive friendships are a good thing to strive for though. Doesn’t have to be a lot of friends even just 1 can be a positive impact on you and your children
@@bemydinosaur13 what about those who have no one?
this generation NEEDS to understand social media is NOT reality, but only HIGHLIGHTS of someone's life!
But when it's all they see. Especially when you have snapchat and instagram curating what each user sees based on their previous views. So they are only exposed through this superficial facade. They don't know any better other than living vicariously through, what they believe is a satisfactory or "perfect" life.
Highlights at best, sometimes it's just plain lies.
@@lissavalles780 well aint that the PARENTS job to make sure their kids know its not real real? 😂😂
Saham seriously dude
Highlights? Hmm.
Social media is training us to compare our lives,instead of appreciating everything we are. No wonder why everyone is depressed!
Wow man, comment of the month.
For real, some younger people don’t understand that when you’re looking at social media they’re only presenting the highlights of their life and their qualities. Never any shortcomings so they feel incredibly inferior by comparison. It’s so fucked up
You should not be appreciative about yourself if your severely obese and say hey Oprah was fat before or Hey rosy O'mcdonalds is fat .....
I was depressed before social media
"So you have a 10 year old gonna turn 11?" Uhhh...obviously 😆
You have to stay fresh with new butt ideas 🤣
If she's 50, she's proof that taking care of your body works wonders as you age.
Yes but if you look around today, you’ll see that most people can’t be bothered by eating right or exercising. It’s actually rare for me to see a woman in good shape.
Genetics help as well. But the combo of genetic + good hygien (sport or food or or or...) damn
@@billsimms2511 Look around NY and LA plus...they are out there
She’s bad as fuck for being 50 the fuck
@@billsimms2511 where do you live? Montana?
She's like my mom. I didn't always immediately take her advice, but it sunk in eventually. And my mom was smart and patient enough to know that's how it works.
That's how it has to work in good parent - child relationship. If you forced yourself to take her advice always even against your will, you would lose all sense of identity and legitimacy. You would soon start questioning every aspect of your identity, suspecting that you're completely irrelevant and incompetent because you have to be constantly life coached by someone else (it doesn't matter who) for the rest of your life because no matter what you do, someone else always knows better what's best for you. That would be destructive.
@@damasek219 this comment struck hard on me, grew up exactly like this and it's hard to find a solid ground of your identity if you don't do something about it before you reach adulthood.
@@topzki47 I had these moments too. But I didn't want to say it is bad to listen to the parents. On the contrary. I wish I listened more to them. But just to make up for the less obedient kids, those do make more mistakes, but as a rehabilitation, they often end up appreciating their parents more, because they find out their parents were right in the first place.
Kids that do listen, won't need to find out and have easier life but they often don't appreciate how wise their parents were. But it is better to always consider the advice of the parents if it doesn't go against your determination. What would be wrong is to be life coached in all aspects of your life.
absolute facts
She’s like every mom, or most hopefully
Our exposure to "pretend I have the perfect life" was Christmas cards with the family letter with smiling photos inside.
At least then it was only once or twice a year
“Damn look at her lashes!”.. said no guy ever 🙃
When Joe said “thirteen year olds don’t hear you (or understand what you’re saying) until later” I got that. Because he’s right, teenagers don’t do what you are telling them to do until they see the downside/consequence
Children must suffer the consequences of their own actions, to much over protection cripples their development
I agree that's how I feel I'm currently 17 but I need to live a little I need to feel those consequences so I can grow and learn as a person.
@@xinfinity1147 Within reason, and you really don't want to feel the sting of the worse ones.
That's the difference between Wisdom and intelligence. A wise man was once an ignorant child and learned through experience. An intelligent person listens to Wisdom and learns without the consequences.
Exactly. Some things are unforgiving.
"How do you get a 13 year old to talk about the long game?"
The eternal question. How do you make teenagers appreciate the value of the next 60-80 years of their life? Responsibility and moderation is super important. Teach kids how to deal with stress, how to build self-esteem, how to moderate themselves.
A teenager's capacity for self destruction is much greater than it used to be.
Amen. So well said
To me, this is where religion would come in. Sure everyone's trying to run away from it and people think it's stupid, but the core ideas were always be good to yourself and do good to others, resist temptations, and do the right thing are all life lessons that children *need* to hear, lessons that were once learned from their religion. The problem is, you can just tell this to your child, and they could quickly dismiss it as "dumb parents" but saying something like "The road to Hell is a super highway, while the road to heaven is a steep mountain path" always seemed to be more persuasive.
The capacity is the same. It just happens more often as the generations become more expectant and entitled
@@joumero7493 If their parents who are standing right in front of them can't convince them then how is god or hell going to convince them? Ruling through fear is a dangerous proposition.
@@kevinmarshall59 Yeah I guess the capacity is the same. You could always get addicted to drugs or find yourself poor in a ditch.
4:04 is the best JRE moment ever
My daughter and son, now 23 & 24, didn’t have cell phones until they could afford them on their own (at about 18). Old fashioned yes but appears to have worked.
The people that "like" you on social media aren't the type of people you really want to be impressing.
Most appropriate comment!
The fact that under 13 year old kids have access to gratuitous porn and violence is frankly disturbing
They do because their parents are allowing it basically
Fairly a gross, modern invention- don't you think?
Is what it is.
Kids are exposed to worse every day.
@@clarkstelter7010 Governments allow it. Right about parents,although many are not strong enough to bring their children up healthy anymore, not having got it themselves. Competing with today's temptations on children is hard.
I love Garbielle Reece !! She is spot on about this generation,she is a good looking girl who reached the top of her ambitions but didn’t have to do it showing her butt.She was a professional athlete and a model
She did a shoot in Playboy naked and posed for well over 5000 sexy photos of her in a bikini, And don't get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with showing your butt and boobs for money, nothing wrong with it all, but she most certainly posed naked and half naked thousands of times.
6:05 "Piece of dental floss sticking up your ass" Joe Rogan had me dead lmaoooooooooo
With Smartphones the high school popularity contest never ends even when going home.
stabinghobo57 this is a great perspective
your right. I don't want little kids having social media accounts, I personaly see it as damaging and making the kids growing up way too fast, they are not allowed to be silly kids cuz the internet will only call them "cringy". you can give ur kid an old AF nokia phone or whatever but if you give them a high end smartphone then social media will be unaviodable. I remember even back in 2006 when we turned 12 there was like a switch in our brain where everyone all of a sudden started acting more grownup and "cool"(aka peer-pressure) just because we where one year away from highschool. And I bet that number is even lower now. Probably 9 year olds are like OMG Lisa your clothes are so out of fashion... Like c'mon being a kid sucks when you feel peerpressured to grow up. Atleast my authistic ass gave me a longer childhood then others. When others started smoking and drinking at 12-13 I was still a playful kid up until 16.
@@zebnemma you're overreacting
Da truth
@@jperales423 protecting your kids from the corruptible addictive technology - yea, completely overreacting
Always cracks me up when I see an “Instagram Model” put “Public Figure” on their IG profile. lol 😂
you forgot "influencer" lol
Saniok Zhichkus Right??? lol
But they kinda are. Public figures free for all or those who don't have better use for their money.
Pubic figure
Cause their Figure is now Public
One of the best JRE interviews right here
'It's so worth trying' - YES
Gabby is brilliant and should have a much louder voice for women. She's clearly had a full life of experience and is modest and powerful at the same time.
Nah.. the public would rather have lizzo, amber rose, and Blac Chyna as voices for women.
Sensei Beats Lizzo is fucking disgusting
Absolutely. Such real dignity and strength by her values, maturity, and way she talks. So attractive compared to Only Fans "empowered sex workers" and tiktok/insta thots
Imagine Instagram disappears & you’re no longer a model?
linkedin model?
LinkedIn is business oriented.
even better@@justiceteachesAI
@dfss csss Well let's be real they won't have nothing they'll have millions of dollars
The apocalypse would happen
As someone who is aware of these issues in beauty standards ill always go for the lady who hasnt plastered her face up with makeup. Not only on principle, but because i appreciate natural beauty and also theres a better chance she understands the issues surrounding this aswell.
I appreciate the sentiment, but a piece of friendly advice: you might have a better time phrasing that more like preferring a more natural look. For one thing, it expresses appreciation for the lady's own tastes and skill putting herself together, but for another thing. . . . The vast majority of the time, what guys are pointing at as "not made up" is a lady still very much wearing makeup. She just also appreciates a subtle, natural aesthetic and chooses to express herself that way.
I think how we grew up without phones and having strong social interactions is a very powerful and useful tool, but we need to accept new technologies and use them because that is how our population is progressing.
We need to use it in moderation and still practice normal simple interactions. These poor kids can’t get away from everything that upsets or puts them in a bad headspace because it will be active on Facebook or other social media platforms. It’s nice to take a break.
It shows that social media is the worse thing ever created I work in a pub and the amount of friends and couples who come out to eat but all they do is sit on there phones on social saying nothing to eachother what is the bloody point even coming out and it's only going to get worse
Being 23, it’s depressing that people around my age have trouble making decent conversation, which is definitely linked to phones & social media
yup, help me
Same here. It's taken a revectoring on my part to come even remotely close to what I'd consider to be a good social life. I'm glad it happened - I found Scripture and my own Path, but damn it would be nice if I just socialize with people that actually know how to be human beings sometimes.
Well..good luck to you buddy...im almost 50 and trying to work with younger peolle is very difficult .
I mean, I'm 30, I've accepted most people are boring as fuck.
i'm 37
people were socially awkward long before social media, it's a just a convenient excuse nowadays when before you were just considered to be a dork with a shit personality
Honestly, I think she's an incredible podcast guest, and and intellectual.
@ArizonaXR how?
she's a great guest and lady but i wouldn't say she's an intellectual..
No bro
She stated " she's 10 goining on 11 ...." I wouldnt say this lady was intellectual
Okay guys, calm down. 😂 We can disagree without spears and swords, alright?
These guys are talking about success like its a piece of cake and I m out here stressing 24/7 trying to figure out, how to become successful.
I unplugged from Facebook a couple years ago. I spent ten years being so attached to the best and worst snapshots of other people's lives, and it set me up with unrealistic expectations of what my life should be. I couldn't reckon with how much less popular I was compared to others. 7 likes on a picture or post was a big deal to me at the time. My self-worth was so tied into something so worthless, at a time when my conscientiousness was highest. I feel like I wasted my best years, years I could have spent mastering something of real value to other people.
The worst part, I can't blame anyone but myself, and I truly believe that, because it gives me the power to change things for the better, but it still hurts.
"It's great that you have a nice butt but there are a lot of nice butts" Well said.
thank god for that....
Word
Sounds like something someone with a flat ass would say 🤷♀️
@@kendram13 lol ikr
@@kendram13 Sounds like someone whose only value is in their butt
The drug of 21 century: LIKES!
Spiridon Sinkov that's why Kylie Jenner is always posting lol
heroin
And clout chasing
YoU wOuLdN’t InJeCt LiKeS!?!?!?!?
I liked you comment to fuel the addiction
All through my life I wasn’t really addicted to my phone and it didn’t change me. But once the pandemic hit. I cannot sit still, I can’t watch a single video without wanting to just scroll through it and I solely blame it on the increase of social media that I use. My social life has been negatively impacted. Im lucky my girl understands me because social media has fucked my social
Jamie, can we get a source for that thumbnail real quick?
This is the kind of woman you should look for if you're going to be in a long-term relationship
she and Laird had their rough time too
I agree, plus she is 6´3 ayayyyy
she's a 10 in every way
Rare, too rare
I'd love to date a 6'3 woman.
"but if that's the card you're playing your card is done by the time you're 30/35"
- Gabrielle Reece, 50, super attractive
I thought the exact same, I'm only 27 and I look at her and I'm like damn, a real, beautiful woman.
you just named 1 woman, congrats. lmao I know there are plenty of other examples, but women in general do not age well.
@@purplestuffs5237 you just didn't get the joke, congratulations
I'd beat
She's just being modest. Which makes her even more attractive haha.
This is an important conversation.
the topic at the end about doing what you love is so good.
i think the right way is to create yourself space to try something youve always wanted to do in a way that if it fails or it isnt as great as you thought, it wont do you in: financially, socially, carreerwise. I would say im in the process of that. It can be done reasonably and with nice results that do open new avenues.
If she breathes, she is ... an Instagram Model
Or a fake ass
Klark Kent did you look at the last time that you got a new phone
I don’t get it
If she breathes, she’s a Thot.
lool
DMT at 12. Cell Phone at 14
Anon dmt?
What is dmt?
Ahah
@Ramona Flowers try making it sir i heard its not that hard
What's a DMT?
There’s a reason I woke up one day around 6 years ago and I deleted all my social media accounts. Commenting on TH-cam is about as much as I choose to interact with the internet “folks”.
as a parent with a daughter and a son, i think setting an example goes a long way. i'm not saying it's going to solve all the problems. however, if your kids see you on instagram all the time, posing, dressing up for these posts, dressing in certain ways, that's the example they will follow.
“Looks fade...develop a personality before you loose everything” - my mom every time I look in the mirror :) it’s true though
It is lose, not loose.
@@TheCoryGroshek she's trying dude sorry not everyone can be as smart as you. 🙄
@cory Her typo doesn't make her any less smart. Furthermore, spelling abilities are completely unrelated to intelligence. Joe actually talk to an expert about this very thing in another podcast.
@@ChristelVinot cory is a scumbag
@@ChristelVinot Can you provide a link of that podcast please?
Hes trying so hard not to talk about DMT
What's that?
@@antoniettamancinelli6581 it tells you the meaning of life. Then you wake up and forget the answer. If you do remember you contend with your sanity for the rest of your life.
It’s a super intense hallucinogen
Antonietta Mancinelli Google it you fucking waste of space
😂 that's hilarious.
Instant gratification is a killer.
I always tell my grandson for first date to take his date swimming!
yo she a really chill and smart woman real talk
Ziamangry, well said fellow internet user.
@Marco dude you dumb af
Marco idiot
Get out of the house more
@Marco lmao fucking incel. Do you cry when both women AND men reject you? Pathetic and hilarious.
That "put my foot on the gas" quote actually resonated for some reason. Going fast in a new car is exhilarating right but obviously can be dangerous, makes a lot of sense actually. Good analogy.
Grew up in the MTV generation. That was my exposure. She is actually very introspective and thoughtful/deliberate. Could be that “simple” living. Wish everyone could unplug…as I type on social media. The irony is not lost on me.
I went to the airport recently: NOT ONE PERSON SITTING AROUND ME WAS NOT ON THEIR PHONE..lunacy!..as I’m on the phone, I get it lol
So glad I was born in 1993. Got to experience the end of the 90s and early 2000s before everyone had a phone and I've gotten to watch the internet grow into what it is today.
I was just telling my Mother this the other day. I graduated High School in 2005 and Myspace didn't get popular (where I lived) till January 2006 and then Facebook 2007 etc.. but I'm glad I missed everything. I told her I wish I had graduated in 2000. I would have gotten a good 5 or 6 years away from everyone.
Born in 1978 ... your outlook gives me hope for the future. Keep your head up, carry yourself with great self esteem and care about what you think of yourself 1st ,2nd, and 3rd.
Love you guys and your generation. Good luck!
It really did get out of control - we are a obsessed culture now and instead of re-evaluating how it affects our well-being, people are simply pushing it to make a profit.
Same
@@conservativeshock7021 xxx
"...try getting a 13 yr old to be concerned about the long game'
The eternal problem of youth
A 23 year old is tough to talk to.
I wouldn't say it's a problem lol. I would say it's the gift of youth.
Awe yeah. I like winging it. Not good dont wing it.
@@ManScoutsofAmerica I'm 24 you can talk to me man
@@alexraia1377 oh it's a problem
Love your approach Joe on the Cell phone issue. We need a social reset. No phones until 15 ... ! My 10 year old has one and I hate it. Already had bullying issues. :(
You guys spelled her name wrong in the title
Gabrielle: “is MILF porn even a thing?”
Eddy bravo: “look into it, I’m just saying look into it. You have to find out for yourself, it’s real”
Lmao I read that in Eddie's voice 😂
That shits great. Laughed my ass off
I'm just asking questions, have you actually seen milf porn in real life? How do we know? I don't know, I'm just asking questions
Eddy Bravo: where you here that i don't know look it up
Alex Jones: Listen, . . . . it‘s been there all along, everybody knows this, . . . everybody.
She comes on and talks about strong women and standing up for oneself and having respect - Joe segues it into talking about Milf Porn.... classic Rogan
Yes, but his point was valid all the same.
I laughed when she questioned if milf porn was actually a thing
unstoppableExodia I missed that have to rewatch
unstoppableExodia She’s too pure 😂
@@unstoppableExodia she knows about it. She was taken a back... Lol
Wasn't gonna click till I saw Joe's face in the thumbnail
She is an amazing guest. I hope joe has her on again
What she said about dating is so accurate. I'm almost 28, the problem with my age group is that we accept online dating but it still feels fucking weird to us
AWKWARD AF my man. I think our gen still remembers face to face communication and what it was like to want to have literal love at first sight.
@@SharonVeeLee
Not only that but you can be attracted to person beyond just looks but wouldn’t know it if you only online date. I’ve been with women I’ve had no business being with (looks wise) but they stick around cause i say funny in the moment stuff.
and not to sound like a hippy but people give off certain vibes that you can only appreciate in person.
@@JeffWithAnF I don't think it's hippy at all. I think our brains pick up more cues than we consciously process. When we don't vibe, or we have a gut feeling about someone, our brain had usually picked up on something but it's not in conscious awareness.
Less embarrassing to be rejected online than in person.
@@antwto8784 you need to grow some balls, dude. Man up.
Back in the late 90s, my company hosted a party that several celebrities attended. Gabrielle and her husband Laird were two of the. They were the most real people there. Very down to earth. I spoke to her for a few minutes, but I spoke to her husband a little longer. They were just really nice, normal people.
"Could you imagine"
Joe: "No"
Fortunately I lived my teenage years with a Nokia 3310, where the best thing to do was playing Snake.
Indeed.
Yeah ..I remember that fucking thing 😂
Same. Born 1984.
Ahhhh snake. Classic.
hes not talking about on the phone either.
It’s interesting to see people get offended, combative or sometimes insulting when you tell them your not into social media.
People get offended over everything these days
Also, when they keep snapping away with the stupid non-stop photo-taking for uploads, and when you tell them that NO, you cannot take a picture of me, they get offended. WTF?? You do NOT have the right to my face and image!!
Joe!!! When she turns eleven, she can go to Hogwarts. She won't need no stinkin' cell phone. Get her an owl.
From the ages of 21 to 41, I pretty much dated women around 22/model-ish... I realized I was only living for myself and got married. My wife's now pretty old and chubby...and I think she's the hottest woman I've ever know/love her/4 kids... women need to understand that who you are is WAY more important than the surface stuff...hard to explain.
I'm a teacher and one of the ways that I've seen parents get around this issue is the give the kids an old fashioned flip phone so they can communicate if needed, but not do all the other social media stuff.
The iPhone came out when I was in high school. At that time, I had a Nokia brick, and I think that was for the best. What use does a teenager have for a smartphone, a highly complex piece of technology?
Yea I just recently gave my 9 year old son a simple phone to call and text his friends to go out play soccer etc. No way anyone that age should be bombarded with everything smartphones have to offer.
flip phones can still send color pictures . how about set up parental controls on the phones? pretty easy to restrict content honestly i blame the lazy parents and people not being present in life. like for us kids get home at 4 tech off at 5 for dinner at the table and maybe if things go well they can have 30 mins before bed watching a show together
Yes, good point. But ever thought about the backlash the kid’s gonna get from the other kids in the class? Like you don’t want to put your kid in the position of being “that” weirdo and being eventually excluded.
@@shaggys73 Any smart kid is able to get around content restriction.
I’m 25 and this woman talks so much sense...I’ve realised it for a while deep down but have still been engaging in the self destructive behaviour and time is passing fast and I know in my thirties I can’t rely on just looking nice or getting help from my family. I feel terrible I have been this way for so long
Be a teriyaki, perfect in every way teriyaki , no need to be buffalo haha . cuz people love teriyaki , but its less popular for sure. I will accept being teriyaki . why change for someone
Every journey starts with a single step
You’re on the right path accepting what you need to do. I believe in you.
You know, better late than never. I tend to sulk and willow in past mistakes, chances not taken. At 36, I can tell you my biggest regret 15 was gone by 25. Life had moved on. At 36, my biggest regrets, in plural, are gone. Now learning not to allow new regrets to fill my time.
@@bplayerr1 Thankyou wise owl x
He spelled her name wrong in the title. Jamie you're fired!
I don't think they give more or volunteer more unless it gets them a "GOLD STAR" for participation and the whole world see's it on Instagram and every one cheers for them for being so humble and awesome.
I think it's less about that, more about the fact that educational inflation forces people to volunteer so that they can have some kind of experience needed to get into their program or job. This thing didn't exist in the last generation.
"Smartphones remind me of my first DMT trip"
-Joe Rogan
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maybe you're just ugly
@@KendrickMan Eh, that would be no.
But think of the context of the statement, and try to keep up.
@Victor Smith A mistake many (most?) parents make is praising their children far more for their attributes than for their efforts. It creates laziness and entitlement.