That’s all modern women…everywhere. They are ahead on the most important jobs in Phillipines…owned….teaching…hospitals…lawyers…gov t jobs.. But they account for a very very large part of the worlds debt.And 37 percent suffering of loan stress. See how fast the friends vacate too. You guys bypass all that for them😊 Better hope they don’t change divorce. Under Peter there are a few reasons to do that. Get buried home…no one will come to visit much or keep paying. Oh and the mother Mary stuff…kinda like she became the saviour. And going to be replaced by another woman My wife died here in the westdied…nothing left to do now but collect her Cpp. Be glad you don’t have Madagascar hissing cockroach’s or mango fleas.Can’t say I’d live there. Too many loopholes and money grabs . Most law is not in your favour.
Real talk Sunshine Shoulder dropping the nitty gritty about "loyal" Filipinas 😅. You just expose the myths sold to betas 🤣. I knew this is as well about these paradise islands ladies.
Spitting facts as usual. My lady has shown me messages she’s gotten before. I’ve explained to her those men aren’t your friends they are just waiting for me to be out the picture. I trust her but I ain’t no fool either.
They throw around that young thing and these old dudes think they are in heaven. Old men to these young pretty girls are like fish in a barrel. You will be replaced immediately. Always make them depend on you to make those payments. Never be worth more dead than alive.
If she finds someone greater than me, then she should take the opportunity. I told her to not waste her time because life is short. There are plenty of Filipina beauty queens still living in a bamboo hut fetching water.
IMHO, the Filipina is in survival mode. If she comes from a history where life is a struggle, she better darn well have a back-up plan in order to survive. Appreciate the vlog brotherman.
Highly opportunism based towards anything/anyone not being part of their closeby family bases and/or clan-tied/linked local network . Neither inner sensitivity and deeper consciousness nor morally balancing and humanely orientating have any effects on that attitude towards opportunities and life encounters that suddenly came up on their life paths and that they found handling bars on to pick up within life flow for own purposes and active use. Certainly if life gains changer of fortunes opportunities show up and are presented through the presence and social behavior coming from foreigners that are considered more benefits/life blessings loaded. Heavily opportunistic life survivalism and flexible on needed involvement motivations SKILLED already from within the 17 to 27 age category they mostly have natural second nature abilities and capacities on those attitudes through and with daily life functional behavior attributes.
Hell yeah, i been checking that social media since we first met, and she willingly let me which let me know she was a real one. They definitely live on social media, and there are always men shooting their shot. You can't stop that. That's why you gotta know what kind of woman you have and what kind of relationship you have. She checks my phone too
Always on point. Men needs to take care of themselves, do not OVER INVEST and keep ALL OPTIONS open. It’s the same all over the world. A woman DOESN’T FALL OUT OF LOVE… she LOVES HERSELF MORE!!
Girls will be telling each other my foreign boyfriends or husbands bought me a car and a house and the coffee shop .what did your foreign boy bought YOU? 😂😂🤣🤣😏😏Cal you should make a video about girls breaking up with their foreign boyfriends or husbands b/c they didn't buy them a car or a homes and etc. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Anyhow, you slice it, that's called cheating!! If you were doing the same thing. Women would say that you're cheating! When you're with me, you shouldn't be talking to no other man, keeping him sweet. Just in case we break up. That's just ridiculous .
Also, your wife may be taking extra money and saving it for herself in case things go bad. Be careful with this too. Many women can be very deceptive. Just because they put on a show for you, always be cautious. Don't fall for their tears. Some use that to manipulate you.
Standby???.. I wouldn't give two shits. If she wants someone else, go please go. I will pay my child support and keep it moving. There are millions of single Filipinas in this country.
They monkey branch or have another bull in the ring. We've all met our replacement. I don't believe women can fall in love again after the 2nd heartbreak maximum. Unfortunately, love is for the young. Us old guys can't afford to.
Cal you look good brotha that no sugar is working, That's one thing my father told me never take another's man's left overs.i don't understand why men can't get their own women like they waiting for you and Marilyn to break up so disrespectful to me.
Once again Calvin spittin' truth. When me and my Mexican wife split up, it took her about 2 weeks to a month and she was moved in with him. I knew that she knew this vato (dude) before she ever met me. Yeah man, women have dudes waiting on standby.
That guy already know that Marilyn and Calvin are still together. That's one of the oldest tricks in the book. The good thing is Marilyn showed it to Calvin.
I respect that she told Calvin. But there is Nothing to show him if dude isn't being entertained. Why was any message from any man accepted? Responded to in the first place? Calvin is a class act and a top notch dude. Good character. She can do different but probably not better. I wanna sick dude for Calvin..lol
Same here in Thailand. I'm amazed how they can move on so quickly. Then you realize your just in queue and your number came up. I'm on social media and I wrote on my profile, "not interested in eating out of another man's rice bowl'. Young or old doesn't make a difference they all know the script. "Next"
If a man can give a woman, the big O. She will come back for the rest of her life. Does that make her a alpha widow? I don’t know. Call me an idiot, I do not hit on my friends, girlfriends or wives. A couple of my friends over the years offered me their wives. This was because their wives wanted to sleep with me. I declined the offer. I chose my brothers friendship over that. I’m at the point in my life now that if a woman leaves me. There are no comebacks. I have lost respect for her. I move on. Smitty
Once again, brother, you speak the truth. A lot of guys are confused with this. Just as you spoke about this life beyond. The sea was making the same comment on his TH-cam channel.
Calvin...Your a good man. That was a hard one for you to put out there. I thank you for it. I would say to some degree what you said is true in all of SE Asia. Its good to keep it real. Even if its real hard.....
Nice video Calvin, when your wife came and showed you the message the guy left on her Facebook, why didn't she just delete it. Because we are talking about this point in time you are a happily married couple, not a month from not two months from now right now at this point in time you are a happily married couple. So why would she accept his friend request, if the shoe was on the other foot and a female friend requested you, and you showed it to her what would she say. She would be all over you like white on rice. I'm just trying to look out for a fellow brother. Love your channel dude. Chester hixon
She did. But that's not the point of the video please don't miss it. Every woman we deal with here has a backup plan. If for nothing more than after we die. The age gaps here are brutal. BTW we're not married.
This is why my Filipina and I Do ZERO social media of any kind ! There will always be a man trying whether she is married or not and to avoid any problems we leave PANDORA'S BOX alone ! NO Social media! No Facebook! No communicating with anyone who is not immediate family!
Hi. I totally agree with you. The first condition I told my filipina girlfriend to be with me is NO SOCIAL MEDIA. Luckily, neither of us has social media of any kind. We both watch TH-cam only, if that's really social media. We have a peaceful, trusting relationship and we focus only on us and our future goals. No outside distractions whatsoever.
Simply because of the age gap alone she's going to have a backup plan. And Filipinas without social media is extremely rare. I wouldn't believe it for a moment.
@@calroach1Hi Calvin. I agree they are rare, but Filipinas without social media exist. Not everybody enjoys social media with all the negativity and toxicity it brings in peoples lives. My girlfriend hates social media however she spends a lot of time on the phone with her family that lives on another island. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not naïve. And I keep an eye on what she does. So far she has been very respectful of her alone time and our time together. She’s reasonable and intelligent about it.
Truth, same, same in Thailand. I don't sweat it, and I know that if I leave my lady, she will fall on real hard times and we are 40 years difference. I know I won't last long, my 4th Quarter. If our relationship lasts and I believe we will, I will set her up for life, as long as she lives responsible. I am mentoring her to make good future financial decisions. I stay out of her Facebook, I don't sweat her when she is away, but my eyes are open. If she wants to leave me, OK...LOL.
The backup plan changed since social media evolved . When I first became an expat in the mid 90's a backup plan took writing letters and waiting a month for a response through snail mail. Now a new boyfriend is just a click away. funny when I first went to thailand because of the language problem the girls would take care of me to write their messages for them in the internet cafes. smart phones changed the game again and not for the better imo
Uncool. But I'm not surprised. This is why wars are fought. Because another person wants something that another person has. But wisdom keeps us out of wars and teaches us to adapt. We will and must adapt. Thank you Cal.
I think the main thing that I worry about is disease and her meeting up with some crazy fool that's going to damage us or anything around us. Like you, I try not to worry. I get it while the getting is good. I won't be looking through her Facebook or social media stuff. If it gets crazy where the dude is bold enough to confront me then the silverback will have to show why it has that name.
I think they all have backup People, some times is an ex boyfriend that stayed friendly. Just watch, they all smile at the security guard as they enter or leave a store
@zvbx IF the Woman your in a Committed Relationships with don't have anything to hide why would she not let you check her phone??Because I would let her check mine especially if we're living together serious Relationship.
@@Kory8611 If you’re in a commitment relationship you should not have anything to search for. Now I’m going to be straight up with you…a man having to check a females phone being in a commitment relationship or not is some “ho ass shit”. If there’s need to do that either something is wrong or someone is unsure.
@zvbx The truth is always in a Woman's Phone 📱. That's why Calvin's Girl show him the message because she has nothing to hide.If she was hiding it from him that would be a Red Flag..
If a woman shows/tells you something your good. It is what she does NOT show/tells you that is the problem 🤣Just enjoy the ride and trust nobody but the person in the mirror.
Any smart person male or female should have a backup plan. Especially a women who is effectively dependent on her man. Can't blame them for that. However, if that backup plan is a specific man who's already a Facebook friend, well, that's a problem. If I find that out though, she's gonna need to implement that plan.
Before the digital age, it was clear cut if a person was deceiving their partners or not. Now it’s not so and some persons redefine online contact to suit them. My belief is that after you start steady dating, all the romance should only be directed at each other. If a woman needs to cultivate relationships online as a back up plan, I’ll give her the freedom to pursue those plans and avoid a train wreck later. God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy.
that's what irritates me the most about these asshole men that is always trying to get in with someone else's woman!....for me, if she is involved (even if she is unhappy in the relationship), i am not interested in communicating with her, trying to be involved with her, or even being a friend, because she has someone....i experienced this with my Filipina with a guy who she said she really liked, but he decided to get with another lady....when that relationship did not work out for him, he tried contacting her even though he saw all of her photos of me and her on her page....i simply told her i know the game of men like this and she can either tell him to move on and quit contacting her, or she can go back to him (or whoever she wants)....well, end result....we are still together....
Most channels I watch, I watch the video first before clicking the like button. This channel is the opposite. I click the like before the video even starts.
Yeah , spot on. Cell phones , i.e. social media accounts are not shared in relationships. Guys are on the hunt. Women are in the hunt. Lol. It is the human thing to do.
it's all a game Calvin even in the states. my experiences in and out in the philippines is that i will never be the only man in her life. i can only enjoy the time i have and let life be what it is.
The video is not about that transaction. Y'all taking this the wrong way. It's about women having a standby either consciously or subconsciously. Thanks.
Thats just female nature. I implement a no male friend rule anytime I get into a relationship. On the first date i ask if they have any guy friends and if the answer is yes I tell them straight that if they want a relationship with me, I gotta be the only man in her life besides family. I learned alot from my first marriage haha, its not controlling its having boundaries and placing protection around the relationship. Just like you lock your doors to your home, you gotta lock down the relationship, leave a window or door unlocked and another man will easliy slip in.
Calvin, Bro been married to my Filipina for 13 years. Your statement is not correct. Moving to Cadiz City this year. I'll watch a lot of your shows bro. Marilyn seems to be a good woman.
I agree and maybe she is wondering when will you marry her as you are living together for so many years and you have not married her.I have been married to my Filipina wife for 18 plus years and I was the one messing up and yet she fought to stay with me and now I'm a stay home guy not running to bars like I did when we lived in the Philippines back from 2006-2010 we have been living in America now for 14 years very happily married and she makes more money than me but still honors me as Head of the house so Calvin I think you are very wrong as I've watched you through the years not everything you say is correct and you need to make it Right with your mate and treat her like a Queen with would make you her King and find a way to marry her
Alphas think they have the prize 10 Beta bobs breadcrumbing A few sigmas dont give a shit about these women. Which are u, the alpha, the Beta or the Sigma?
the minute an expat goes home for whatever reason you can best believe that her Filipino man is waiting for you to leave. why is this because she never stops talking to him. expats you need to think you can buy her the world here in the Philippines but the Filipino man she loves for real. don't ever think because we have a little money than the filipno man she doesn't love him because she does trust me.
This video is about women having a backup plan and not men stalking. If you didn't know already we're seen as meal tickets out here. That's the game.
Not just the Philippines, women from other countries too.
I live in the Philippines. Period.
That’s all modern women…everywhere. They are ahead on the most important jobs in Phillipines…owned….teaching…hospitals…lawyers…gov t jobs.. But they account for a very very large part of the worlds debt.And 37 percent suffering of loan stress. See how fast the friends vacate too. You guys bypass all that for them😊 Better hope they don’t change divorce. Under Peter there are a few reasons to do that. Get buried home…no one will come to visit much or keep paying. Oh and the mother Mary stuff…kinda like she became the saviour. And going to be replaced by another woman My wife died here in the westdied…nothing left to do now but collect her Cpp. Be glad you don’t have Madagascar hissing cockroach’s or mango fleas.Can’t say I’d live there. Too many loopholes and money grabs . Most law is not in your favour.
My wife makes and has had her own money since she was 24
Real talk Sunshine Shoulder dropping the nitty gritty about "loyal" Filipinas 😅. You just expose the myths sold to betas 🤣. I knew this is as well about these paradise islands ladies.
More proof "that a woman is never yours, it's just your turn"
Well said.
That’s law
Facts!
Spitting facts as usual. My lady has shown me messages she’s gotten before. I’ve explained to her those men aren’t your friends they are just waiting for me to be out the picture. I trust her but I ain’t no fool either.
Keep them on notice. She can be replaced at any time here in the Philippines.
Everyone should have a backup plan
Facts
Plan B distracts from Plan A
They throw around that young thing and these old dudes think they are in heaven. Old men to these young pretty girls are like fish in a barrel. You will be replaced immediately. Always make them depend on you to make those payments. Never be worth more dead than alive.
Every woman on planet earth has a plan B. Most of these men don't even realise they are on the reserve bench.
I'm shocked that she answered the request without blocking him.
If she finds someone greater than me, then she should take the opportunity. I told her to not waste her time because life is short. There are plenty of Filipina beauty queens still living in a bamboo hut fetching water.
That's not what I'm saying. A backup plan just in case...
I love the imagery! 🎋🛖🪣
Great information brother. The Nextpat is always lurking around somewhere. Be well
A lady showing a message like that can also use that as a warning or a threat. To say “treat me better because there are others who may be willing to”
Man you guys are missing the whole point of the video focusing on that message. I can't help everyone.
Yep exactly! 😊
All women are the same way at least until they hit that undefeated wall.
IMHO, the Filipina is in survival mode. If she comes from a history where life is a struggle, she better darn well have a back-up plan in order to survive. Appreciate the vlog brotherman.
Highly opportunism based towards anything/anyone not being part of their closeby family bases and/or clan-tied/linked local network . Neither inner sensitivity and deeper consciousness nor morally balancing and humanely orientating have any effects on that attitude towards opportunities and life encounters that suddenly came up on their life paths and that they found handling bars on to pick up within life flow for own purposes and active use. Certainly if life gains changer of fortunes opportunities show up and are presented through the presence and social behavior coming from foreigners that are considered more benefits/life blessings loaded. Heavily opportunistic life survivalism and flexible on needed involvement motivations SKILLED already from within the 17 to 27 age category they mostly have natural second nature abilities and capacities on those attitudes through and with daily life functional behavior attributes.
She has 3 different Facebook accounts as well lol
Excellent Advice. All Women Have a Back Up Plan. Its not just Filipinas.
The information that you put out is so valuable, to those planning on living there should be very grateful for your channel. Much appreciated.
Hell yeah, i been checking that social media since we first met, and she willingly let me which let me know she was a real one. They definitely live on social media, and there are always men shooting their shot. You can't stop that. That's why you gotta know what kind of woman you have and what kind of relationship you have. She checks my phone too
Always on point. Men needs to take care of themselves, do not OVER INVEST and keep ALL OPTIONS open. It’s the same all over the world. A woman DOESN’T FALL OUT OF LOVE… she LOVES HERSELF MORE!!
Girls will be telling each other my foreign boyfriends or husbands bought me a car and a house and the coffee shop .what did your foreign boy bought YOU? 😂😂🤣🤣😏😏Cal you should make a video about girls breaking up with their foreign boyfriends or husbands b/c they didn't buy them a car or a homes and etc. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think most foreigners have a plan B, C, D, E, and F on different islands just incase it doesn't work out with their plan A Filipina. 😅
Anyhow, you slice it, that's called cheating!! If you were doing the same thing. Women would say that you're cheating! When you're with me, you shouldn't be talking to no other man, keeping him sweet. Just in case we break up. That's just ridiculous .
Ok
Also, your wife may be taking extra money and saving it for herself in case things go bad. Be careful with this too. Many women can be very deceptive. Just because they put on a show for you, always be cautious. Don't fall for their tears. Some use that to manipulate you.
I need to get over there. Living in hell with angry kaotic woman. Stuck in traffic 2hrs a day.
This is sooooo real Calvin..appreciate you keeping us woke in this crazy world of women💪👍
Standby???.. I wouldn't give two shits. If she wants someone else, go please go. I will pay my child support and keep it moving. There are millions of single Filipinas in this country.
Only if your relationship doesn't work.
What’s love got to do with it?
Well there more women out there than men so as a man you always keep a few women in escrow.
Abundance mentality
Love your self brothers 💪
They monkey branch or have another bull in the ring. We've all met our replacement. I don't believe women can fall in love again after the 2nd heartbreak maximum. Unfortunately, love is for the young. Us old guys can't afford to.
Spot on Cal it’s the same anywhere in the world, women crave attention and always have a backup plan
Cal you look good brotha that no sugar is working, That's one thing my father told me never take another's man's left overs.i don't understand why men can't get their own women like they waiting for you and Marilyn to break up so disrespectful to me.
Thanks it's tough but getting better.
just take ur turn than keep it moving..its peaceful yet very effective at avoiding unnecessary BS.
Once again Calvin spittin' truth. When me and my Mexican wife split up, it took her about 2 weeks to a month and she was moved in with him. I knew that she knew this vato (dude) before she ever met me. Yeah man, women have dudes waiting on standby.
Marilyn
Was letting you know on the sly I have other options to keep you on your toes.
She can replace my body but not my excellence 💪🏾
That guy already know that Marilyn and Calvin are still together. That's one of the oldest tricks in the book.
The good thing is Marilyn showed it to Calvin.
Men will be men. Foreigners think that they can have any woman over here.
That guy was dirty macking
I respect that she told Calvin.
But there is Nothing to show him if dude isn't being entertained.
Why was any message from any man accepted? Responded to in the first place?
Calvin is a class act and a top notch dude. Good character. She can do different but probably not better.
I wanna sick dude for Calvin..lol
My attitude is so be it !! We are the catch. No problem finding someone else.
I said YEARS ago that when a man finally determines he needs to take steps to protect himself in a relationship, the woman has already done so.
Yeap
For women a relationship is all about survival. They are always looking for a man who can protect and provide for them.
Same here in Thailand. I'm amazed how they can move on so quickly. Then you realize your just in queue and your number came up. I'm on social media and I wrote on my profile, "not interested in eating out of another man's rice bowl'. Young or old doesn't make a difference they all know the script. "Next"
You are doing well with diet Calvin, the energy that you give off as you speak is very noticeable. Keep up the good work. Thank you
Words of wisdom. I see you got a manicure Cal. No more biting those nails 😀
Maybe that is what they are talking about at the meet and greet
The consistency of a wallet is the backup plan
Why does she need a back up plan - don’t cheat one her anymore and stop telling us about your sex life with her --RESPECT HER
If a man can give a woman, the big O. She will come back for the rest of her life. Does that make her a alpha widow? I don’t know.
Call me an idiot, I do not hit on my friends, girlfriends or wives. A couple of my friends over the years offered me their wives. This was because their wives wanted to sleep with me. I declined the offer. I chose my brothers friendship over that.
I’m at the point in my life now that if a woman leaves me. There are no comebacks. I have lost respect for her. I move on. Smitty
Screw Facebook. It’s for beta losers. Lol
Once again, brother, you speak the truth. A lot of guys are confused with this. Just as you spoke about this life beyond. The sea was making the same comment on his TH-cam channel.
304 likes seemed like bad luck, on this video so I made it 305...hahahaha.
Calvin...Your a good man. That was a hard one for you to put out there. I thank you for it. I would say to some degree what you said is true in all of SE Asia. Its good to keep it real. Even if its real hard.....
Nice video Calvin, when your wife came and showed you the message the guy left on her Facebook, why didn't she just delete it. Because we are talking about this point in time you are a happily married couple, not a month from not two months from now right now at this point in time you are a happily married couple. So why would she accept his friend request, if the shoe was on the other foot and a female friend requested you, and you showed it to her what would she say. She would be all over you like white on rice. I'm just trying to look out for a fellow brother. Love your channel dude. Chester hixon
She did. But that's not the point of the video please don't miss it. Every woman we deal with here has a backup plan. If for nothing more than after we die. The age gaps here are brutal. BTW we're not married.
She's playing you wake up.
Thats awesome
I brought up the Shaq comparison situation to another blogger and he said it was apples and oranges 😂. Good points 👉 👈
Still keeping it real!!
You lose them where you find them.
This is why my Filipina and I Do ZERO social media of any kind ! There will always be a man trying whether she is married or not and to avoid any problems we leave PANDORA'S BOX alone ! NO Social media! No Facebook! No communicating with anyone who is not immediate family!
Hi. I totally agree with you. The first condition I told my filipina girlfriend to be with me is NO SOCIAL MEDIA. Luckily, neither of us has social media of any kind. We both watch TH-cam only, if that's really social media. We have a peaceful, trusting relationship and we focus only on us and our future goals. No outside distractions whatsoever.
You, “my Filipina” guys are a trip 😂
@@thebeachoflifeWhat would you like us to refer to a girlfriend of Philippines nationality? My Liberian girlfriend? Get a life and leave us alone…
Simply because of the age gap alone she's going to have a backup plan. And Filipinas without social media is extremely rare. I wouldn't believe it for a moment.
@@calroach1Hi Calvin. I agree they are rare, but Filipinas without social media exist. Not everybody enjoys social media with all the negativity and toxicity it brings in peoples lives. My girlfriend hates social media however she spends a lot of time on the phone with her family that lives on another island. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not naïve. And I keep an eye on what she does. So far she has been very respectful of her alone time and our time together. She’s reasonable and intelligent about it.
Truth, same, same in Thailand. I don't sweat it, and I know that if I leave my lady, she will fall on real hard times and we are 40 years difference. I know I won't last long, my 4th Quarter. If our relationship lasts and I believe we will, I will set her up for life, as long as she lives responsible. I am mentoring her to make good future financial decisions. I stay out of her Facebook, I don't sweat her when she is away, but my eyes are open. If she wants to leave me, OK...LOL.
Women fall in and out of love ❤️ everyday.
Great video/thought for the day Calvin!!
Look at the story on Kevin Costner and his ex wife .
The backup plan changed since social media evolved . When I first became an expat in the mid 90's a backup plan took writing letters and waiting a month for a response through snail mail. Now a new boyfriend is just a click away. funny when I first went to thailand because of the language problem the girls would take care of me to write their messages for them in the internet cafes. smart phones changed the game again and not for the better imo
Uncool. But I'm not surprised. This is why wars are fought. Because another person wants something that another person has. But wisdom keeps us out of wars and teaches us to adapt. We will and must adapt. Thank you Cal.
It's not about the men hunting it's about women having standbys. Just a heads up.
I think the main thing that I worry about is disease and her meeting up with some crazy fool that's going to damage us or anything around us. Like you, I try not to worry. I get it while the getting is good. I won't be looking through her Facebook or social media stuff. If it gets crazy where the dude is bold enough to confront me then the silverback will have to show why it has that name.
I think they all have backup
People, some times is an ex boyfriend that stayed friendly.
Just watch, they all smile at the security guard as they enter or leave a store
This is why yoy should check a Womens phone 📱 every now and then.If She dont want you too see their phone thats a RED FLAG
Hey man if you feel a need to do that either you need to let her go or you have insecurities within yourself.
@zvbx IF the Woman your in a Committed Relationships with don't have anything to hide why would she not let you check her phone??Because I would let her check mine especially if we're living together serious Relationship.
@@Kory8611 If you’re in a commitment relationship you should not have anything to search for. Now I’m going to be straight up with you…a man having to check a females phone being in a commitment relationship or not is some “ho ass shit”. If there’s need to do that either something is wrong or someone is unsure.
@zvbx The truth is always in a Woman's Phone 📱. That's why Calvin's Girl show him the message because she has nothing to hide.If she was hiding it from him that would be a Red Flag..
Preach!
Bro Calvin,
Great topic... Great delivery. Thanks for sharing and keeping it 💯. Stay Strong 💪
Facts. Double in Thailand.
Good video Calvin. I like these discussion formats.
If a woman shows/tells you something your good.
It is what she does NOT show/tells you that is the problem 🤣Just enjoy the ride and trust nobody but the person in the mirror.
Thank you for dropping knowledge!
Any smart person male or female should have a backup plan. Especially a women who is effectively dependent on her man. Can't blame them for that. However, if that backup plan is a specific man who's already a Facebook friend, well, that's a problem. If I find that out though, she's gonna need to implement that plan.
I don't unddrstand why guys feel the need to move them in
Before the digital age, it was clear cut if a person was deceiving their partners or not. Now it’s not so and some persons redefine online contact to suit them. My belief is that after you start steady dating, all the romance should only be directed at each other. If a woman needs to cultivate relationships online as a back up plan, I’ll give her the freedom to pursue those plans and avoid a train wreck later. God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy.
💯% facts!
Love makes the world go around but MONEY greases the axes .
its true trust me this happened to my ex she moved on the next week when we broke up.
Actions most important
that's what irritates me the most about these asshole men that is always trying to get in with someone else's woman!....for me, if she is involved (even if she is unhappy in the relationship), i am not interested in communicating with her, trying to be involved with her, or even being a friend, because she has someone....i experienced this with my Filipina with a guy who she said she really liked, but he decided to get with another lady....when that relationship did not work out for him, he tried contacting her even though he saw all of her photos of me and her on her page....i simply told her i know the game of men like this and she can either tell him to move on and quit contacting her, or she can go back to him (or whoever she wants)....well, end result....we are still together....
Amen bro. Enjoy your life.
Most channels I watch, I watch the video first before clicking the like button. This channel is the opposite. I click the like before the video even starts.
Get someone you can trust
Watch the video again cause you missed something. Trust is important but it has nothing to do with a backup plan.
Last time I trusted my right hand it cut my left hand while i was pealing a potato.
Where is the best place for surfing in the P.I.. Most videos by TH-camrs show flat wave beaches
Yeah , spot on.
Cell phones , i.e. social media accounts are not shared in relationships.
Guys are on the hunt.
Women are in the hunt.
Lol. It is the human thing to do.
it's all a game Calvin even in the states. my experiences in and out in the philippines is that i will never be the only man in her life. i can only enjoy the time i have and let life be what it is.
Whey do u have a spare tire in your car, think about ? Pete from Australia I love u mate, I don't use the word love easily ❤❤❤❤ ps I'm not gay.
Sounds just like home... it's not yours.. just your turn..
It's in the DNA, always looking for the better reproductive partner. Some are better disguising it than others - plain and simple.
You can too
🎶'Your body's here with me but your mind is on the other side of town.' Shabba Ranks.
That's from the O'Jays, long before Shabba Ranks 🤣
@@calroach1 Yes, that’s true.😂
😮yea. I believe that. Edit. Actually almost any woman.
My friend still live there with his wife. They have 4 kids together. Things is his wife is educated and work on the bank.
it can be anyone calvin a foreigner or even a filipino man. lets not forget that the filipino man is always around to.
Shaquille O’Neil don’t cRe if the lady don’t love him
She wants to see you jealous.
The video is not about that transaction. Y'all taking this the wrong way. It's about women having a standby either consciously or subconsciously. Thanks.
Thats just female nature. I implement a no male friend rule anytime I get into a relationship. On the first date i ask if they have any guy friends and if the answer is yes I tell them straight that if they want a relationship with me, I gotta be the only man in her life besides family. I learned alot from my first marriage haha, its not controlling its having boundaries and placing protection around the relationship. Just like you lock your doors to your home, you gotta lock down the relationship, leave a window or door unlocked and another man will easliy slip in.
Shes never yours. Just yr turn
Guys only have plan a, don’t have plan b
dont trust them i know trust me
Calvin, Bro been married to my Filipina for 13 years. Your statement is not correct. Moving to Cadiz City this year. I'll watch a lot of your shows bro. Marilyn seems to be a good woman.
What does that have to do with a backup plan? You think your wife doesn't have one? Think again.
We can disagree and still get along 💪🏾
@@calroach1 MY LAST PINAY WIFE FOR 13YRS CHEATED AND WENT BACK TO HER EX HUSBAND I HAVE THE RECIEPTS
I agree and maybe she is wondering when will you marry her as you are living together for so many years and you have not married her.I have been married to my Filipina wife for 18 plus years and I was the one messing up and yet she fought to stay with me and now I'm a stay home guy not running to bars like I did when we lived in the Philippines back from 2006-2010 we have been living in America now for 14 years very happily married and she makes more money than me but still honors me as Head of the house so Calvin I think you are very wrong as I've watched you through the years not everything you say is correct and you need to make it Right with your mate and treat her like a Queen with would make you her King and find a way to marry her
I don't think my Asawa has a back up plan
A man is suppose to have morals, ethics, principles and values. If she leaves, maybe, she wasn't for you. Secondly, what was her reason for leaving? 🤔
Alphas think they have the prize 10 Beta bobs breadcrumbing A few sigmas dont give a shit about these women. Which are u, the alpha, the Beta or the Sigma?
I'm me 💪🏾
the minute an expat goes home for whatever reason you can best believe that her Filipino man is waiting for you to leave. why is this because she never stops talking to him. expats you need to think you can buy her the world here in the Philippines but the Filipino man she loves for real. don't ever think because we have a little money than the filipno man she doesn't love him because she does trust me.