Such a great point! Ultimatums can feel harsh, but they can serve as a wake-up call-pushing us to grow, to communicate, to finally address the cracks in a relationship. But the key is what we do with them. Do we use them as a moment of self-reflection and transformation? Or do we stay stuck in resistance and fear? I’d love to hear from others-have you ever experienced an ultimatum that led to real growth? Or do you think they create more harm than good?
If a woman genuinely wants to connect, genuinely wants to. Ask your question. Wait, in silence, 30+ seconds. If he has no answer, thank him, wait a week, and ask again. If you are doing so just to manipulate....GFY
Thank you for your comment. I understand your perspective, and I want to address it with care. When I suggest waiting in silence and giving space for a thoughtful response, it's not about manipulation. It's about creating space for honest communication, where both partners can openly share their feelings. If there’s no answer, it may be worth exploring why. Sometimes there are deeper emotions or fears that need to be understood. Open dialogue helps both partners listen and connect more deeply. Ultimately, in a relationship, both people need to be willing to invest in understanding each other. The questions I share are meant to encourage connection, not control. If you have any more questions or need help with this, feel free to reach out. I’m always here to support you. Wishing you all the best!
This is soooo good! Exactly what I’ve been through with my husband. Things are getting better! Your videos help!
I'm so glad to hear this! Thanks for sharing! 💖
Ultimatums can be really challenging, but can also be life changing ! What are your thoughts?
Such a great point! Ultimatums can feel harsh, but they can serve as a wake-up call-pushing us to grow, to communicate, to finally address the cracks in a relationship. But the key is what we do with them. Do we use them as a moment of self-reflection and transformation? Or do we stay stuck in resistance and fear?
I’d love to hear from others-have you ever experienced an ultimatum that led to real growth? Or do you think they create more harm than good?
If a woman genuinely wants to connect, genuinely wants to. Ask your question. Wait, in silence, 30+ seconds. If he has no answer, thank him, wait a week, and ask again.
If you are doing so just to manipulate....GFY
Thank you for your comment. I understand your perspective, and I want to address it with care.
When I suggest waiting in silence and giving space for a thoughtful response, it's not about manipulation. It's about creating space for honest communication, where both partners can openly share their feelings.
If there’s no answer, it may be worth exploring why. Sometimes there are deeper emotions or fears that need to be understood. Open dialogue helps both partners listen and connect more deeply.
Ultimately, in a relationship, both people need to be willing to invest in understanding each other. The questions I share are meant to encourage connection, not control.
If you have any more questions or need help with this, feel free to reach out. I’m always here to support you.
Wishing you all the best!