Men, Why Didn't You Want To Go On A Second Date ? | Viewer Edition
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Started listening to the story earlier today, got seconds in and realized you started with MY story. Out of excitement I immediately backed out and saved the video to watch with my husband so he could hear you read it. I'm pleased to say you emphasized everything exactly as I'd hoped you would! 😂😁🥰
Congrats sir. I hope you and your husband are happy. I’m glad your dad does not have old school opinions about his son- and he supports your same sex marriage. I hate when girls answer questions specifically for guys and vice versa, it’s almost like they don’t actually read the question right dude? Those types of girls are attention seeking twats, and feel everything is about them, right sir? I’m sure you know what I mean. Some people just have to put their 2 cents in- and they always get change bc their input is useless once people realize what horrible person answers a question not intended for them- creepy people do that- right, sir?
That's awesome!
I’ve always wondered if this happens to redditors 😂😂😂
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You did read the headline right? Men, Why Didn't You Want To Go On A Second Date ? | Viewer Edition. Are you a man?
Technically, it was a 3rd date, but...I asked for his last name after the 2nd date. I googled him and found a newspaper article from when he was arrested for assaulting his baby momma. He said she lied and exaggerated and what happened was far less dramatic than what shows up in the paper. (He said he just pushed her out of the way , while the paper said he straddled her in the driveway and tried to suffocate her with a plastic bag while their child wailed and said 'no daddy') He said charges were dropped and he could prove it. I asked to see the documents "just for my peace of mind." He never got back to me. The good part of it going down that way was that it was his choice to ghost me and made me feel safer.
Went on a first date to the first Hellboy film. I loved it. When it was over, I looked over to her, and she said "well, that was trite." We were obviously not compatible.
Yup, that would do it. Or if they didn't like Bedknobs and Broomsticks. That one's a deal breaker. lol
21:17 "she was friends with my last Xbox" huge red flag. Stay away
I love finding Mainly Facts typos.
6:10 This is my story. I can't believe you included it. 😁
Ho boy. I hope you’ve had better luck!
@@vanguardangel6912 Thank you! I've noticed every time I look for something resembling a knight in shining armor, I end up with a man-child covering up his series of red flags with tinfoil.
To all my fellow big girls in the apps: always include a full body photo that is current. In the short term it sucks not getting matches, but it the long run it saves everyone time. The thinking is that he'll be attracted to your personality while you chat and what you look like won't matter, but sadly it doesn't work that way. Besides, there are enough guys out there who prefer bigger girls, but you won't find them if your pic doesn't show all your voluptuous glory.
That is, unfortunately, a good idea to not waste time. If there's no physical sexual attraction, it doesn't matter how much he likes your personality, it's not going to work.
I still wonder why my tall boyfriend didn't want to date an equal tall woman. I'm like 1,6 m (it's probably 5.3 please learn metric America) smoll and my boyfriend is like 1,9 m (6.2) tall. But he says he likes small cute women. I don't mind. I am very picky about men. I honestly don't care about height. I need a Twink. A baby face! Less beard growing. And that's not easy to find if you don't live in east Asia...
Big or not, EVERYONE needs to do this. Some of the full body shots of guys by their Corolla helps me see that they are lying about their height.
I’m 5’7”, so not model height, but still above average. I’m not looking for 6’10”, but 5’9” would be nice. The amount of dudes claiming to be 5’10” but to be an inch or two shorter than me in person is a huge turn off.
Lying in the beginning, ends any potential future. Be comfortable with who you are.
You also can’t be picky about height if you get upset at them not finding you attractive for your weight
Met this woman on an online dating app. She was cute, not far from my age range, and only like 40 minutes from me. So we agree on a date and I go to pick her up.
First red flag, she wasn't there yet. We were kind of in the boonies and her home fit right in. I didn't judge this as I grew up in a similar situation. I sat in her driveway for like 15 minutes before her family and her pulled in. And I sat for another 10 before she came out. She was more curvy than she had let on in her pics, no judgement here, and when she got in she smiled at me.
2nd red flag- I try not to judge people on things they can't help, but it looked like she had eaten a bunch of strawberries while having glue on her teeth. I wouldn't have cared had she prepped me beforehand. Again no judgement, just shocking.
We go to a local coffee shop and sit a little awkwardly, trying to do small talk. It just feels more awkward, so I suggest we snag a bite to eat. We go to Wendy's. No biggie.
3rd red flag- she orders food for herself, and then after we sit tells me she's not supposed to eat this stuff because she's allergic to parts of it(gastro wise not anaphylaxis). Proceeds to eat it anyways.
4th red flag, we talk a little deeper than small and she tells me she had a kid that she gave up for adoption not long ago because she couldn't afford it and her ex was a druggie and she wanted to be able to do drugs herself....
We left and I realized it was getting later and I needed to get out of this. So I said I had a long drive home and needed to get her home.
She then tells me she's into BDSM stuff, again no judgement there as I am too, but the way she listed things off gave me vibes that she only learned it through 50 shades. I get into her driveway and try to be polite in "I had fun" and such. She then asks if we could kiss. After everything I just couldn't. I said we could hug, and then I left. Gave her the, I just did not feel a connection text the next day.
Between her and my toxic/abusive ex filtering their pictures like crazy, I almost need to be sure I see real selfies before I agree again to go on a date.
One of the times the words he is saying does not match up with the words on screen at 21:19; he said "ex-fiancée" while the word on screen was "XBOX"! I found it quite funny!
It always fills me with joy to see when my favorite Channel posts a new video. =)
Worked security at a mall for 2 years and thought one of the girls from the stores was amazingly beautiful but never talked to her. After I quit I ran into her at a restaurant with my then gf and talked for a minute about the mall. Got in touch with her after me and my gf broke up and finally asked her out. She continued to mention how my ex gf was fat and laugh about it. I tried to buy her food and she looked at me and said you don't even have a job. Feeling a little put off we went out to the patio to eat the a large girl walked by and she said "wouldn't you feel more comfortable over there with her?" I told her probably because she seems like less of a bitch. I then ended up shaking her elbow as she went in for a hug and I was trying a handshake. At the end of the night she text me to say she had a good time, I told her it was awful and we never went out again. We are actually still friends though after 12 years.
Technically a third date, but I didn't realise the second WAS a date and had already decided not to go out with him after thr first.
He was a very boring conversationalist and didn't seem very engaged. We turned out not to share many hobbies as well.
Of course, the worst part was that he blatantly ignored the fact that I was trans and told me I should transition because, "you're such a hot woman."
I'm not. He just wanted someone to screw. I am asexual
Casino Girl Story: Yeah she wasn't very cool at all, I wouldn't date her.
I wasnt haveing the best day, but then i listened to you. You're a great dude, mr facts! Keep it up! ❤
This man casually plauin' the campaign for background footage lmao
On the first story I kept thinking, "Don't let this be about me. Don't let this be about me." When they reached the part about being overly competitive at bowling I knew I was in the clear.😅
Men... first story isn't a man...
With questions like these, the chances are of women and non-conforming people adding their stories are inevitable. Don't be dumb, man.
It would be dam- stupid as a young female to go on a first date with someone you barely knew without telling your parents who it is and showing them a picture of him to be able to ID someone in case anything were to happen. In this world, it’s dangerous for a woman alone. Women have been stalked and murdered both in person and online that leads to a meet up. There was a woman from an online dating site go missing after a date with someone on that app in a city near me, and they found her murdered. He “s” assaulted and murdered her. The “date” was just a lure to get her alone somewhere. My own grandmother on my dad’s side was grabbed out in public by three guys who pulled her into a car and she was “r-ed” and strangled to death. We don’t even live in a big city and still this happens. It happens everywhere. A younger female cousin of mine was tricked into divulging her location to what she did not know was a registered sex offender who drove across three states to meet her the day after she turned 18. One guess how that ended for her. She had never had a boyfriend, so take “virginity” into consideration. He took her several states away, used her body, and then left her at a gas station crying her eyes out with zero money or a way home. Her parents had to get in a car and immediately drive there to go get her. And her parents were not told a thing about this guy and had no opportunity to protect their child. She’s lucky to be alive, quite frankly. You do not go meet someone new without expressly telling parents or SOMEONE who it is-to tell police in the event that you never come home again. It happens every day out there.
Hellooo! Whishing everyone an amazing day!
Same for you
I like dates, but the seeds are kinda big
Hello everyone I hope you have had a good day
After Story 18: The only option I can imagine that wouldn't make it super creepy and mental would be to have the tongue "rest" on the inside of the glass while drinking.
Holy heck whoever is editing now is _sassy_
I like it
Semi-related: earlier this year my uncle kept trying to set me up with his coworker, and would NOT take no for an answer. I’m bi, grey ace, and not looking for any romantic relationships anymore, so I finally just had to basically shout “I’M GAY” at him to get him off my back. Felt like the 1400’s and my uncle was arranging an advantageous marriage for the family. >
Gavid De Becker has a great point about saying no. If you say no 37 times, and yes on the 38th, that just tells the disordered person that they have to ask 38 times to get the response they want. It just encourages them.
I´m gonna say it Showing someone a picture of them before the first date should be normal, all for safety or incident follow up. Say if you disappear someone should know when, where and who you went to meet! especially you are a young girl!
I had a coworker who said he tells people that he's 6'1" because he said no one believes him when he says he's 6'.
A friend of mine recommended a girl to me, saying how we both liked anime and fantasy stuff so we went on a date. She shows up WEARING A TAIL. I don’t have a problem with furries, whatever makes them happy go ahead, and I admit they’re really good at exaggerated, stylized art. The date went relatively okay but I just couldn’t focus away from the tail and at the end of the day, she hugged me and said I could pet her tail. I REALLY didn’t want to but she already positioned it towards me and I just wanted to leave so I did. She made this UNCOMFORTABLE moan when I felt the thing and I never turned a corner and ran so fast to the bus stop to get away from that girl.
Again, no offense to furries, but that was FAR too much for me to handle.
Up until the moaning of you touching her tail she sounded fairly normal.
And this is why I try to distance myself from the term "furry" when talking about my costumes.
Story 1: The dude just wanted to be a pokemon. He needed a trainer to tell him what to do
About 5 years ago there was this really good looking girl I met on Instagram. Took her to a nice seafood restaurant and she was rude to the waitress and chef. I made her pay for her own meal and Uber herself home. I was not going to tolerate that behavior
Story 1: Stop pressuring people to go on second dates ppl. If I don’t like you after a first date, I don’t owe you another.
Story 18:
I went on a date with a guy and when we were chatting online, it was fluid. We did a video chat date before the meet up date, it was fine. We met up for sushi date and OMG….
1) he STABBED the sushi with the chop sticks, and I asked him if he wanted a fork and he said he was fine.
2) he sneezed INTO HIS HANDS AND WIPED THEM ON HIS PANTS (eww, I thought this date was with an adult, not a 3 year old)
3) the sushi he was stabbing, was after myself and the staff had to explain to him multiple times that the items with astricks contained raw fish. He was the one that picked sushi and said he didn’t know it came raw. We had to explain that not all of it does.
4) before we met up I told him I was paying for my own food (this is standard practice for me when in the early stages of dating) but when the 2 checks came like I had asked, he asked the server if she was trying to make HIM LOOK CHEAP!
I don’t give out my number until after a meet up and prefer all communication to be on the app, so I thanked him for his time but that I didn’t think we were compatible. He called me an “entitled b!tch” and walked off😂
I didn't even realize that I'm like first to this new video very Epic
It's sad how many of these women in this video either can't read or just cannot stand the fact this video isn't about them
“She ate the flowers I brought her and then said she didn’t want to be seen in public with me” I…. What? 😂 not as bad as mr penile implant but wow
23:50 lol
For the first story that how I feel whenever I hear a homegirl of mine or a women I know say "I need a man that can handle me" No miss lady handle yourself 😂
But doesn't knowing that you're very bad at gambling, and therefore not doing it, actually make you very good at gambling?
ATE the flowers?!? That's some next level hunt dropping there! I would have said dropping them in the trash can would have been sufficient, but I would have been wrong. He kept going even after she ate them!
Showing people a picture of who you are supposed to go on a first date with is something you do for safety.
Some people dont realise how dangerous dating can be.
Its still not the most important information you should give a 3rd party. (Catfish etc.) But definitely make sure to give a 3rd party the information needed to find the other person.
"So this is where you take your dates?" They got mad because it's true
Casinos can be a unique form of date, if both parties are the type who like the environment. Casinos are rarely just money pits, as they might be connected to fine dining or at minimum a buffet that serves alcohol, and venues may occasionally play host to live shows such as singers or comedians.
OP's date clearly had the itch to gamble as well, but considering she bilked him by intending to gamble on a "loan" and the clear withholding afterward, she wasn't interested in a second date either.
Woth the height thing, I am 6 ft 2 in in the morning. Depending on the day i have i have been know to be 5 ft 11ish at the end. Weird thing to learn about yourself, i know. So i just say about 6 ft. If i must be over 6 ft, i am not interested in meeting you, had a woman that demanded i stand upright and at my max height when we were together for "Reasons", ended it after the second or 3rd date, after seeing how she treated wait staff. This is a decent BS test, most women say i am taller than they expected/have a good presence so feel this is a nice trade off.
Mainly facts guy really pulling off the bald look
The taxidermy story and car story remind of two different people.
Even though the girl was nuts that the guy went gambling with, It is tacky to ask for that three hundred dollars. You definitely did dodge a bullet with her though
27:17 Gary Spindler, Malcolm in The Middle. 😖😖😖😖😖😖😖
Wow! This is the most hilarious video about noping the f out of any 2nd date. I'm sure glad that I didn't have any real first dates until I met my wife. We took it slow for 3 months before making it official.
Only 3 months, I new a couple who went so slow they waited over 3 years just to lose their v card to eachother in their very late 20s. No religious reason, they just didn't think it'd be fun. They were apparently highly upset when they finally did it and liked it and realized how much time they'd wasted.
@@tarrantwolf
We didn't lose our virginity after 3 months. It was after we were married. My fault for no extra detail. It was bedtime.
For story 19, he should have agreed to go on a date with her, then say later he changed his mind.
men
She said no.
story 18: i kind of do that but not nearly as dramatic as facts made it out to be.
Ok yeah he shouldn't show it off but if he asked me, I would've wanted to see it lol!?
Story 15 (aka short, implant guy): 5 feet, 8 inches were two seperate measures
You think these stories are crazy? I’m 65 and signed up for a senior dating service. At least several guys have been nice but the rest? Well, tonight I texted a new guy who wanted to move straight to phone sex tonight! He’s 70. Yes, I am a sexually active senior but I want to meet guys in person, not just phone it in! Yikes! This guy is looking for a free sex line and nothing else. Smh.
Men! If youre on a first date, and she keeps talking about her ex, bad or good, recognize that her ex got "under her skin," and she's still consumed. Seduce her quickly!!
Gotta be real. Btw this is my opinion so no one go shouting at me. I just dont care of this guys opinion aa much as the other guy. I continue to watch this guys voice overs tho because i like the content and clearly if im getting disturbed with your opinions then perhaps i should step back a bit. Although sometimes your opinions really do piss me off lol. Not like a barrelling rage, more of a "tf you say?"
Why are you looking up that way? It looks so damn creepy!!
Because there was no chemistry between me and the girl I was egged on to meet. A girl I didn't want to meet.
If you're ever confronted with a "If you break up with/ghost me I'll kill myself" say "If you *don't* break up with/ghost me *I'll* kill myself"
Or a healthier response, send an ambulance when u do break up
friends of my Xbox 21:15
Many reasons, often either bat-ish crazy, they put out on the first date so there's nothing left to learn about them (and there's nothing else there), or we don't click at all.
Like how it says men and almost all of them are from women
"Men, Why Didn't You Want To Go On A Second Date ? | Viewer Edition" First story is a woman telling her story. Why do females need to give their input eveywhere? This question was for men. I don't wanna hear another whiney woman cry about a "failed" date
It's almost as many women telling stories as there are men. Like the video about guys being horrible isn't big enough and they had to spill over here.
Gotta say I enjoy your content & have watched & liked a good amount of them. 😁
This is the first I’ve disliked.
If you’re going to title it “Men, why didn’t you go on a second date.”
It should be stories of men & their dating experiences.
Having the very first story be a woman’s dating experience is just baffling.
I understand at the beginning of the video you quickly said “women & non binary you get in here too.”
Why though? Just make them a separate category of stories instead of mixing them in.
It felt disingenuous, & extremely annoying.
It also makes me question if any of your other titles are genuine as well.
Point being, either separate them, leave them open like “What was your reason you didn’t go on a second date” or stick to whatever you title it as.
No love loss, just my personal opinion/feelings.
I still wish you the best! ❤
I think the titles are based on the original thread title/question. Nothing against your opinion of course, just a thought.
@@dragons_breath. Ahhh ok, that makes sense. Thank you for informing me.
Don’t get me wrong, I actually listen to all sorts of stories & enjoy them.
I enjoy listening to revenge on cheater’s stories & those include men & women, so that’s never been a issue.
Just turned it on expecting to hear bro stories while on my hour drive, & didn’t exactly get that. 🤣
I’ll live lol!
Yeah, the Reddit stories on this channel are very entertaining. Mr. Facts does a really good job. Good luck with your ride!
Good to know ^^^ I was thinking it is weird so many ladies are commenting their stories but sometimes titles get changed if the videos don't perform well at first too
What’s a non binary?
Some One Who Doesn't Identify As Male Or Female.
stupid people
Androgynous
You don't want to know. Bored people come up with weird ways to try to be special. Like goths 30 years ago.
@@tarrantwolf Nailed it. Back in high school I knew a girl who had a completely shaved head except for her bangs and a mullet. She wore almost no makeup, had a septum piercing, wore skinny jeans, dock marten boots and had natural, short bitten nails. If her style were to be labeled anything, it would be called androgynous. That's apparently what non-binary is now. We didn't say it was a different gender or that you were “in between.” This whole they/them crap. It's a lifestyle, not a gender. In fact, labeling someone back then was considered to be quite rude.
0:05 Only Two Genders
Male and Female
Don't Care if You Disagree
Bro you spend an entire minute talking after every one chill