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I don't see how getting a house you can't afford is an attention move? Hardly anyone can afford houses themselves. The dog thing, however, is abhorrent.
That's the point - She wants to show off to her poorer friends about how much richer she is, how she started from the bottom and now she's here, and THEN when she loses it all, she has a sob story about being homeless. Win win when you think about if from that perspective.
@@gokuxsephiroth4505 Ah, I see
It sounds like that young girl was possibly a victim of abuse .
A Saint Bernard in 37 degree weather is horrible? Dog probably loves it’s for frig sakes they’re from the Swiss alps
@@MessengermotorsportsNot giving attention, playing or interacting with your dog is horrible, and leaving your dog outside for 3 hours in bad temperature (dogs shouldnt be out in tempature below 45 or higher than 85) is neglect and in some places, can be considered abandonment since she never intended to go back out and get him.
I knew a girl like Paulina in high school. Parents cold and unfriendly. Girl always seeking attention and talking about sex from an early age. It turned out she was being molested by both her parents. They were cold towards whoever dared coming close to their daughter in an attempt of scaring them away so we wouldn't somehow find out what was going on, (I know because I tried being her friend in fourth grade when they moved into our neighborhood and they were so cold towards me and I never felt welcome in their home), and she was constantly talking about sex in hopes someone would catch on and find out what she was going through, and in a weird way this was normal to her. She didn't know it wasn't normal for parents to do those things to their children. She acted out more and more as a teenager and ended up being sent to a home for unruly children when she was 15. She found some sort of happiness in that place and didn't want to go back home. I don't know what became of her. I haven't seen her in 30 years, and I don't know if she's still alive. Her parents lived in my parents' neighborhood until a few years ago, and they turned into drunks that everyone disliked. We never saw their daughter or son visiting.
I DIDN’T EVEN REALIZE UNTIL LIKE 30 SECONDS IN THAT STORY TWO WAS MINE
I WAS DISTRACTED BY STUMBLING ONTO A SHINY DRATINI
ITS A GOOD DAY ALL OF A SUDDEN THANK YOU
ETA: Thank you for the thank you regarding her getting help. She was never overtly mean to me, and never actually interacted with me sans the cringe ‘Witch’ thing I mentioned. I think that’s why I felt bad, since while she was popular, you could always kinda tell she was seeking some kind of validation or attention. Seeing her parents at that parents night really cemented that in my mind, since they were such a contrast to how extroverted and talkative she was. I’m totally playing armchair psychologist with all this, but I think growing up in a screwed up household gave me a bit more perception when it comes to people’s true motives. Either way, I just hope she’s okay, whatever happened to her. (I’d look her up, but I don’t remember her last name.)
Did you get the shiny thou?
yeah she didn't come off as truly awful like story 1's attention seeker.
It's more like she wanted attention because her parents were terrible and never gave her any.
@@averyfields8183 Yes, it’s my instinct to just yeet quick balls at them when I see them, and thankfully it worked again. I named her Erdene! It means “jewel” or “treasure” in Mongolian (according to Behind the Name). ^^
@@stuffedninja1337 That is such a beautiful name for a shiny! My first ever shiny was a Shoomish but my 3ds broke and he is forever lost.
Lmaoooo shiny Dratini.
Once the attention seeker decided it would be cool to act gay and ask out a straight girl, (I have nothing against lgbtqia+ btw. ) so she did, and she was rejected. She got really mad and hit her, started making rumors and lies and went as far as putting up posters about her. The girl the attention seeker asked out switched schools, it was sad because she was really nice.
As a queer woman, we don't claim that
As a queer man, we don't claim that
I honestly don’t blame the girl that sounds awful but surprised the attention seeker we wasn’t reported for bullying and wasn’t expelled. But she was pretending so she must have had something against the girl who left to treat her that badly when she was just pretending.
As a Queer Ace Woman, we don't claim that
As a Queer Trans Woman, we don't claim that
Aside from my former friend who lied about being SA'd multiple times, I had a 'friend' who was absolutely terrible. We met when I was 7 and she was 6, I had just moved into my forever childhood home and she kived next door. We instantly hit it off and we would play all the time but I noticed that if we didn't do things her way, she would cry. And by cry I mean complete red face, snot dribbling down her nose and large drop of tears cry. She was born with a hormonal imbalance that led to her gaining large amounts of weight and she would have a beard on some occasions, it led to her parents spoiling her rotten and they would believe a single word she said without asking what happened.
She got me in trouble with her parents one too many time to where I didn't want to go to her house anymore. Being a little kid, I thought she was just being a cry baby so I continued to be friends with her. Things got worse when she got the game cube and at the time everybody wanted that so she became the instant popular kid in our straight for having it but she was a terrible person to play with on that thing. You play one-on-one withh her, she will immediately stop the game and replay it until she would win and it was just terrible. You try calling her out? She would immediately cry to her parents saying that we were bullying her and that always led to us kids getting kicked out. I stopped being friends with her when I entered high school because I could not take her crap anymore and she was developing a very very nasty attitude. That and her online boyfriend who her parents for some reason decided fly out to meet her started sending me pictures of his dick which let's me going to the police because we were minors at the time! We were 15 and he was 17. And then we graduated and she started developing the ' If they're doing it, I'm doing it too!' attitude. I get a boyfriend? She gets a boyfriend! My boyfriend proposed to me? Her boyfriend proposed to her a week ago! I'm planning my wedding? She immediately gets married. She invited my parents to her wedding and my mom called it the most bizarre wedding she had ever seen. She was morbidly obese and she decided to wear a spaghetti string wedding dress that stopped at her knees black tights and white heels. Most brides are smiling rightly at the idea of walking down the aisle and marrying the love of her life, She was scowling and waddling because she could not walk in those heels. Endlessly, I am moving out-of-state after my wedding? Well she's moving out-of-state too..... To the very state I'm living in right now! Thankfully she doesn't live in my town because if she did, I think I would never be rid of her.
Especially report self harm if it's for attention. They deserve everything that's coming to them. Let them see how serious that stuff is.
The one upsmanship on facebook is the reason I stepped back for the most part. I went so long without posting that my mom called me to check on me (I was in an abusive marriage for 5 years so she would literally monitor my posts as proof of life, and when I got out she still found herself doing out of habit). I now post a couple things a day so my mom doesn’t get anxious.
I hope that your out of that abusive marriage, and I hope your doing better now.
Man :( hope that part of your life is behind you
I knew a girl like that. Every big attention lie you could think of she told and the worst part was most people believed her.
Basically I left for college, came home on break and everyone's attitude had changed towards her. She got caught out on one lie and that caused the whole house of cards to topple.
Sad part is I've been around enough people with struggles let's call them to know a genuine case from a fake one. She genuinely is going through very bad depression and no one believes her now. I would reach out but some of the lies she told make me feel disgusted to just be in the same room as her.
In 6th grade I had "friend" that did self harm and showed us her arm covered in bandage and a bit bloody. When I asked her why she did this and If I could do anything to help she said, "I did it because I was bored." I have never felt so mad because my sister (who I am very close to) was also doing self harm (not for the same reason) and it hurt me because I could do nothing and I was afraid that something bad would happen If I told someone. (my sister is doing much better now) thanks for reading
[Insert the most insensitive "joke" that one could say]
Bro same 😭
Regardless of what she says about it being "because she was bored", that aint normal, it was likely a cry for help in some capacity.
how can someone do that because they are “bored”.
A girl I knew who used her MS to get what she wanted and she demanded attention a lot. One time running across the room (not knowing I could see her) then stopped, straightened her shirt then grabbed her cane pretending to "need" it while walking like she was about to tip over.
THEN when a group of my friends along with her went to a concert (my sister was there, not me) and they were going to go backstage to meet the band group. They were very close in the line to meet them when this girl decided it was a good time to say "We need to go" without saying why (later blaming her MS on making her feel 'unwell') and she insisted, making her "we need to go" louder and louder and a couple of the group felt sympathy to her while the others begrudgingly left with them. They were SO close to meeting these people they wanted to see a long time.
They fought in the parking lot and afterward online and this girl was an EVIL witch to them and her parents, who treated her like a princess, could not believe anyone who said anything bad about her. This girl COULD NOT understand how anyone could even not like her for even a second. But of course she wouldn't know cause if you "talked" with her it was a one way conversation from her for several minutes then when she was done, even if you had anything to say, she'd turn around and walk away from you cause only SHE was important and not you.
My sister hates her and she and many others have cut this wicked girl out of our life. What's rich is that this girl in her 30s acts the same way she did at 15. And I can't stand her laugh which she will laugh way loud at everything "funny" including the dad joke that was said for the 100th time. Heck, she even GULPED loud enough when she drank to make you were aware of her presence.
She had a boyfriend (who I was good friends with for a while) whom when she broke up with him would say they were broke up then back together EVERY DAY for three months cause she couldn't make up her mind what she wanted. It was frustrating and I couldn't stand that situation.
I haven't seen her in a few years and THANK goodness! Good riddance to her >:(
One of my coworkers is a chronic attention seeker. One story that comes to mind is that her aunt died (which I do feel bad for tbh). I don't remember how it got to this point, but she started a fight with one of my other coworkers saying, "You don't know what it's like to lose someone." The dudes mom died like 3-4 years ago, as of me commenting, and he was barely 30 at the time and the mom was late 40s to 50 to my knowledge (i never had the chance meet her). He was the one person there who could probably sympathize the most with her situation. Honestly, the rest of the stories are either her power tripping or proof she's a middle schooler in a mid-40 year old woman's body.
I have my own story,
So there is a mom of one of my sisters friends, whose son died in may. (Cancer I think)
So she posts on Facebook every single day about how much the family's missing him.
But this is the craziest part, in person everyone looks happy and relieved.
I even heard the friend say that they can finally go on trips together without worrying about the brother.
My family's not falling for their BS (she and my sister are still friends)
Thank you for your time people... ❤
I was that kid once… in middle school, I hit my head on the ground during recess and pretended to actually have a brain injury… I admit my cringe behavior and am happy to say I’ve grown as a person.
I was 26, finally had a decent job and car. Went to the local bars and was popular with women. UNTIL my father went to those bars and took over. I had to stop going because I couldn't even get into the var without people asking where he was, how he was, what he was doing. Women younger than me telling me they want to marry my dad. He was VERY abusive growing up, even rubbed his ball sweat on my face. Just more stuff I won't forgive.
I actually have a story for this. I used to be friends with this girl through highschool. She was a bit of a diva and I remember thinking then that she was really extra. We were friends but we also had that slight “my mental issues are worse” competition that a lot of young ppl have when they’re dealing with stuff and don’t know how to ask for help. We graduated in 2017. A few weeks ago, I saw her working at the grocery store and I went over to her and said hi. I thanked her for being my friend over the years and that I finally ended up watching a cartoon she badgered me to watch but I never did. The first thing she said was “thanks, I can see you’re still doing stupid sh like hanging out in a graveyard”. I’m a stereotypical goth with the big hair and black lipstick. I ignored that and asked how she was. She tells me she’s been diagnosed with ptsd, add, did, mania, oppositional defiance, ASPD, and bpd” and tbh when she said she had ASPD, oppositional defiance, and add that with NPD, I felt like I was watching a real case study. She said a lot of stuff to try and trigger me but I’ve been medically stabilized for 6 years now and go to therapy and it just didn’t get to me. Brought up my ex best friend, my previous set offs, my last dog dying, insulted my new partner, but I just knew it was to get a rise. Then she goes full yikes and shows me her new self h cuts. We are 25/26 years old and this is the middle of a grocery store. Her place of employment. I said “wow. You’re going through a lot right now. So have you watched the mandalorian?” I got my stuff and left but was a little jolted by that last effort. I hope she gets help but she’s gotta learn that this isn’t high school anymore. We aren’t going to cry and talk about our mental struggles in the school bathroom anymore. Someone is going to call the cops and you’re gonna get committed if you do that.
I used to get really upset and shittalk people who used self harming as an attention seeker, me and my fiends that hide ours used to call them fakers. And most other people did as well.
But you know then I got older and wiser and I realised that’s a fucked up way to think about it. Like I had one friend/acquaintance that used to cut herself in very visible places. Once she had cut several times over her upper arms and not even wiped off the blood and proudly walked around in a sleeveless top showing it off. And yeah, that is weird as fuck and clearly disturbing but it’s also very clearly not fake. She did hurt herself, faking would be claiming you do it for attention and or sympathy and not actually ever doing it, especially if someone does that to compete with someone that is seriously ill and self harming. There are many reasons to self harm. None of them are healthy or a sign of a sound mind. My “faker” friend that showed her off, she wasn’t faking it, she was clearly harming herself and even if it was just for attention; clearly that still means that there was something seriously wrong and she needed help. I didn’t personally do it as a cry for help, I did it because I need a break from the emotional pain and no matter the risks or the backlash or whatever I just needed to be able to breathe for a minute or two. I was ashamed so I hid it. Maybe she wasn’t faking but instead screaming for help by doing that. It doesn’t matter why, if someone actually harms themselves something is seriously wrong and they are not faking and they need help and support.
And we act like attention seeking behaviour is something super strange and unnatural and incomprehensible behaviour. But it’s not. As if anyone needing any kind of attention is self obsessed and self centred and twisted in some way. But they are not. It’s normal. We all need attention because we are human. Every single one of us absolutely need attention! And if you claim you don’t it’s because you are having that need fulfilled and does not understand what happens if one doesn’t get that need fulfilled. Lack of attention, if it is severe enough, can literally kill you. Children who doesn’t get any attention or human interaction dies. We have to have attention or our minds will break and then our bodies. People put in isolation for prolonged periods of time go insane. And the younger one is the more dangerous it is. You don’t know what someone is going through, maybe they have no one, maybe they are isolated and alone and ignored and going insane from it. Maybe there is a reason that someone is attention seeking and they just need to be seen and doesn’t know how to have that need fulfilled.
Story 9 made me feel a bit embarrassed when the person pretended to not understand simple common sense ‘cause I quite literally don’t understand common sense sometimes. Very hard for me to understand anything to be exact :’)
Most people don't understand common sense it's Uncommon Sense at this point 😂😂😂
@@spectra1096 I fully agree with that😆
Story 9 was my own story and they were very autistic which I felt bad and sympathized with them at first and tried to be patient with them until they would legit come into my room every day to wake me up on purpose for useless reasons (they were bored, their bf came over and wanted to show me, they did the dishes and wanted to show me, etc) even tho we had a fight about it every time I told them to stop and I’d put a lock on my door because I had bad insomnia and they wouldn’t leave me alone. They kept claiming they forgot yet they did it everyday for weeks or they didn’t understand what “no” means. They also said they didn’t understand boundaries or just everyday basic things I caught them doing perfectly fine when I wasn’t looking and if I pointed it out they would then cry and whine saying I was bullying them. I totally understand if it’s like something genuine like I have adhd and have had many friends with learning disabilities and are genuinely trying their best and I have total love and respect for them, but I lost all that with Alex when I found out they faked everything. We don’t talk anymore and their bf dumped them after the stalking, harassment, and being traumatized with the constant self harming and suicide threats that he would have to come and clean their wounds or calm them down in the middle of the night and now he’s in a much better and happier relationship and Alex is still plowing through friends and partners like usual. I just want them to get help at this point and find some kind of happiness.
@@raccoon.pies. Damn. After explaining that I don’t feel much embarrassed anymore. I have adhd as well and it is nice to see another person with adhd being so patient with others with any kind of disabilities. I hope you’re doing good now and I hope Alex gets their life together
@@NabbyBlooksterThankyou I’m learning to deal with mine in different ways as I get older and you really just have to be patient with yourself and give yourself time to grow and don’t let others pressure you to do better or do more than you’re capable. Take breaks often, take moments to breathe, give yourself space, do something that makes you feel better (I like watching movies and drawing) don’t feel bad for taking care of you. I don’t think Alex knew what they wanted in life, and I think they really needed a handler or someone to properly look after them but they came from an anti-mental health family, and needed help and there was nobody there for them the way that they needed. I feel bad for them in that aspect, but there’s no excuse for the way they hurt so many people. If anything, it just taught me to ask for more in a friendship, and don’t settle for disrespect and constant stress and harassment. It also taught me to reach out for help if I need it, and to value your mental health and make sure you have a good support system and proper treatment plan. I wish you luck in the future!
I’ve seen so many attention seekers go to far in my lifetime that I’ve lost count. But the some of the worst attention seekers I’ve seen are those damn “HAHA! [Insert Recently Deceased Celebrity Here] DIED! I MAKE BETTER CONTENT THAN THEM!” bots.
When I was in 4th grade, there was a girl who just decided one day that, while we were waiting in line outside our spelling/grammar class, she’d just start hollering about how she just found out she’s pregnant. Yes. In 4th grade. I KNEW she was a pathological liar. I got so tired of hearing her, and I stepped out of the line to look at her and ask her, “Have you ever had your period, Jordan?” She said no, and was all disgusted and asked me why the hell that matters.
See, I didn’t know the details of it, but once when I was in second grade, I saw that my mom had bled through her pants when she headed into her room to change, and got very concerned. So she explained to me that she was okay, and told me the bare basics of “Women go through this every month where they bleed for a little bit, and they have to do it in order to get pregnant and have babies.” So I knew that if Jordan hadn’t started her period, she wasn’t pregnant. She had no damn idea how any of it worked. Not even the faintest one like I did. Pretty sure she got her ass chewed by both the nurse and the guidance counselor for that. Only reason the principal didn’t is because he was a man and wanted to let the women handle the girl, while he contacted mom.
Lying about self harm is bullshit. I’ve dealt with it for years and that shits an addiction that takes a very long time to kick. Trying to stop it isn’t as easy as just deciding not to, cause you’ll deal with the cravings and urges for a long time and will need to be keep away from anything that can cause harm cause people with self harm addictions are smart and will find some way to do it.
On a different note, my ex was a compulsive liar. Would lie about being raped by teachers, students, etc etc. Would lie about having slept with certain people we knew constantly. When we finally broke up they lied about me raping them at a party but realized they fucked up when people who were at that party attested to the fact that it had never happened and that we’d in fact been looking at their geckos. Tried to say they’d slept with my best friend too, but my best friend is a virgin so that was a damn lie. Don’t date people who refuse to take their meds, they’ll lose their shit very quickly.
To be fair St. Bernards are built to withstand colder temperatures, so him being out in the cold isn't inherently cruel, however blatantly disregarding the dog's existence and neglecting him is terrible. She didn't deserve him.
I know a person everyone thinks is the sweetest and she’s really horrible and even creepy af. First of all she identifies as a straight woman but she flirts with me (a lesbian) and calls me her wife and is super inappropriate with me. But on top of that, I also found out she’s so desperate for attention from men and wants a husband so badly (not a boyfriend, a husband) that she stopped being friends with some of her best female friends because they all got boyfriends before her. Btw this isn’t some teenager…….this is a 30+ year old woman but she’s an extrovert and so bubbly and everyone thinks she’s just the best person in the world. If I call her out or cuss her out like she deserves, I’ll be the bad guy…….
You know she wants you to make a move on her, right? If one or both of you is intoxicated in any way, avoid being alone with her at all costs. Heck, avoid being alone with her period.
Isn't it sad when you know somebody like this?
@@Handsome_Blackyeah
First one.
THAT POOR DOG, OML THE PERSON IS HORRIBLE FOR NOT GIVING THE DOG ANY ATTENTION. I wanna hug the dog and give it so many pets
3:38 she bought a house she couldn’t afford. No bank in their right mind would let someone mortgage a house they absolutely could not afford. Seems to me that op is the attention seeker- exaggerating and making things up just to have a story to gain karma and pats on the back for putting up with such an awful person. People love to make themselves out to be a (very humble) hero. And the fact that people just believe it without questioning tidbits that make no sense, like a bank lending to someone who (“absolutely cannot”) afford the payments- is a blatant lie. Then she left the dog outside so she could have “awkward” sex with her boyfriend- lucky op was there to save the day. Op was there to save the day a couple times in the story. It’s just ridiculous!!
Yeah it sounds more like they just don’t like the girl than that she bought a whole house just for attention lol. It’s a lot more likely she’s just bad with finances than that she did it all for attention.
There was a friend I had since primary until college. We were inseparable and genuine friends. Though now I realize he was an attention seeker and well really mean, he was a class clown as well but I already knew that and I do believe some of this stuff was him going a bit too far with his jokes and not for attention. Not to me personally but to my other friends that I had during Secondary school, and I made the mistake of taking his side so I did some regrettable things. One time after being told off in school he threated to end himself but he never did. Eventually after secondary school we went to the same college and were there for a few years and made the same friends. Eventually in 2021 or 2022 he disappeared from the college and didn't know why. We thought he was sick or something (this was at that point where Covid wasn't that big of a problem, so when lockdown was slowly lifting). Eventually after he didn't show up for a while our tutor came out and told us the reason why he (my friend) didn't come back was because he used photoshop to make pornography of one of the female teachers and was expelled.
Despite that I still considered him a friend and was even subscribed to his TH-cam channel that he was trying to start. However this came to an end when he lied to the police saying that I assaulted my little sister. After that I just dropped him, blocked and removed him from my phone, unsubscribed from his TH-cam channel, and eventually much later after this my mom blocked his mom after she tried to defend him. For a short time after the lie he told to the police I was worried they would come knocking on the door to take me to a legal case or something. That never happened but I was still worried. I guess after that I finally realized his true colors something I should have realized sooner.
I couldn't believe that the same person who I shared sleep overs with, went to my first comic con with (the 2019 Birmingham comic con), and person who's mom dropped me off at home after college would do something like that. I was a full on betrayal of trust. It makes me wonder how many of those stories about his life and all the rough parts were lies or fabricated. The worst part was there were many times where I should have seen the red flags but I didn't. I guess because we were both on the spectrum and shared a lot of the same interests and went to the same schools for so long that I was blind to see the real monster until he targeted me as some form of last stand.
Luckily when I did realize I did the smart thing and cut all contact from him which isn't the worst thing I could have done because I learnt on the same day as the betrayal that my nan has some friends who would do much worse if I wanted them to. I have been able to luckily move on however and my old friend goes to a different college now where I hear from another friend of mine that is still in contact that he complains about all the weebs in his class. His TH-cam channel is also essentially dead and didn't even pull that many subscribers to begin with. I don't see this friend anymore and that is a good thing because I don't think I can be around someone who betrayed me in that way without wanting to knock him out.
If your wondering why he did that lie about me it was probably not for a joke but probably to try and get me into trouble because of him getting into trouble and trying to make me look worse.
I love that you put a trigger warning, i really appreciste that, but it came after a story already hat those themes in it 🫡 Maybe watch out next time! ♡
Weak. he should animate those with equestria character and go full graphics just to show how ridicule those are
I was an attention seeker but mostly because I was crying out for help. I was verbally and mentally abused by my mom on a daily basis and sexually and physically abused by my step father nightly. For a long time my mom didn't actually believe I was Suicidal and thought I was doing self harm for attention even after she gound out about my step father sexually assaulting me constantly and getting him arrested. When she said that to me, I did start doing it for attention, but because I was so desperate for someone to save me from myself because my mom wouldn't. I attempted several times and self harmed even more and I was definitely labeled an "attention seeker" because I tried to hint at it in every way I could to my teachers, peers, and guidance counselors in hopes of getting help because I was too scared to ask for it outright in case I was told I was faking it again. I only truly got the help I needed because mom realized I was serious about taking my life after I downed a bottle of sleeping pills and cold medicine.
I had a friend like this. I'll call her vitch (name started with a v). So we had been friends from 4th grade to 8th. She'd do little attention seeking things like pretend this ring I found on the bus floor was hers, even though it was my twin sister's. When I didn't give said ring to her she kept saying that it was her dead grandma's ring so give it back right now. I took it home and she, the next day name up a lie that I had been glaring at her and being very short tempered towards her. A shared friend we had (I'll call her dust.don't wanna give out names on the internet, kids!) So dust came up to me and asked why I was acting that way to vitch. I told her I wasn't, but said nothing of yesterday's events because even then I had anxiety. I told her it was my "thinking face" because I didn't want to further the drama. With a sceptical look she walked away. And the rest of the day vitch wouldn't look at me and gave me the cold shoulder.
Jumping to 5th grade she made a big deal that dust was moving, saying she had no friends now and would be all alone. When she had me, my sister, and this kid I'll call... Flip? Anyway vitch moved as well to Boston.
Okay now we're jumping all the way to 7th. Me and my sister didn't know anyone in our class, until we recognized vitch. She became our only friend. She'd have us follow her around and if we wanted to do anything she'd come up with some reason to not do that. She could hang out with anyone she wanted but if we wanted to even talk to anyone she'd feel like we were leaving her and replacing her. So during that year our step dad died. I didn't want to tell vitch because even then she made everything about her. But my sister told her anyway. She said "oh that's too bad" and then started to talk about her life and how it was just shit. She didn't even care. That started depression and terrible social anxiety in me. She never noticed. Shit started between us and my step dad's family. She didn't care. Vitch would just talk about how her parents we're abusive. And that her life was worse. Everything was a competition. A little later in the year we'd be telling her about our weekend and she'd just say "I never go anywhere. You guys are so lucky. You should have taken me with you" we could never talk about anything we did or that made us actually happy for once. She'd always turn it back to her HORRIBLE life. So bringing flip back she made us guess her crush. Like why? Anyway it was flip. She said he liked her back and had since 3rd grade. They started dating. He was not a good guy. So during the summer while we were out of state camping with our dad she texted us and said that her and flip broke up. We had to take time out of our day to comfort her and listen to her long ass rants. So that's a whole other story and I will not explain why or anything that followed. So I also came out to vitch as a lesbian and she had to make up the fact that she was bi because I couldn't have anything unique about me and it was her too. I told her my crush. This is important later.
Now to 8th grade. We reconnected with another friend (kai) and her girlfriend lyn. Still not reeal names here. Everything was always touchy with vitch. Like slapping, punching, kicking and shit like that. We'd tell her to stop and she'd just say that's how she is. We also became friends with someone in our class named london. My sister and London were really close. she got jealous of london. so she made up the fact that London wasn't treating any of us fairly and was favoring my sister. They had a crush on her. Anyway that started a fight. And this was all during 3 days. So I was forced all day to listen to vitch rant. About how this made her so upset that she almost went back to cutting herself like she did when she was 11. She said specifically on her arms. She was wearing a tee shirt. There were no scars. She had no marks during 5th grade or 6th. This was a lie. She made London write this long 3 page letter apologizing to all of us. And then said it was fake because they didn't go all they way from left to right to make it longer. Eventually this was dropped. But vitch dish have enough. She then got a new boyfriend who was best friend with flip. You could see how crushed this kid was. She liked that. I then told london, lyn, and kai that I was a lesbian. Then vitch told them my crush. Something only she and my sister knew. London was friends with said crush. That was specifically why I didn't tell them. And for Kai she is very judgemental of random people and will jold a grdge till she dies. But she didn't just tell them she said that if I didn't she would. A threat. I wasn't ready. She then started something else. That kai was touching her inappropriately. She was just doing what vitch did to her. This started something bigger. Kai and vitch fought via text and kai stopped hanging around us when vitch was there. Kai told us that vitch was toxic. We, sadly didn't believe her. Vitch and her new boyfriend both hated kai. They'd get so angry at us when we even talked to kai. This still wasn't enough. Vitch would run out of the class every day. And threaten us 24/7. She wanted the attention. Anyway. Putting that aside for a while we were in Spanish class. The teacher had no plans so we played this worldle based game. I was in a group with london, my sister, and one other friend. Vitch, flip, her boyfriend and one other boy were in a group. Behind them was my crush (just call her that because I'm running out of code names!) And 3 of her friends were in a group. One of those friends I'll call #1 (just numbering them because to many code names) started throwing pencils between vitch and her boyfriend. #1 and vitch were friendsish until she noticed vitch's attention seeking qualities. Another on in that group crushes frriend 2 joined in. This was a joke. Not meant to be harmful. Vitch ran out of the room. Boyfriend told us about this. And vitch and boyfriend hated 1, 2, 3, and my crush. My crush did nothing. They'd have done that if she cared or not. My crush was friends with vitch and would have never. Boyfriend called my crush a bitch. For being next to them. London and I kept telling vitch and him that crush did nothing. They said she was just as guilty. Vitch then said something that I'll never forget. That anyone who hurts her she'll make their life miserable. That she'd use everything that person every told her against them. This died down a little. Then vitch threatened my sister. This time it scared her. And she told london and already being fed up with this london took my sister to the counselor. Counselor made her file an incident report. She didn't want to but did anyway. She told vitch. She blew up. Saying this would destroy her (nothing was done about this but I circle.) She dragged everyone into this. I have so many screen shots of this. It went on for weeks. And then we ended it. All of us. Besides lyn who wanted nothing to do with the drama. Wherever we were she would run out. But still this wasn't enough. She told a shared friend or our, another friend who moved, flip, a person in our class, someone who we were friends with last year sort of. And then dust. Dust blew up at us. But the thing is vitch only told her what we did. Dust wouldn't listen to us. She took vitch's side. And anything we told her she'd shoot down with vitch's lies. Dust only knows how vitch acts with her. Not with us or at school. She has no idea what she's like. We lost dust because of this. Vitch made our lives miserable like she said. Her boyfriend would give us and my crush the nastiest looks he stopped after a while. Kai told him our side, something he never heard. And now he is on our side in the matter. But would never tell vitch. She joined track (she has asthma) and tried to get us to join with her. And would ask us to go with her places and go to her boyfriend's birthday party. Why? I have no idea. For attention probably.
Someday she'll hopefully realize what she did and all she lost. Not anytime soon though
Never underestimate the power of self-harm "gestures" I know two people who completed the act, I am convinced, without intending to. It was for attention.
I actually often get the compulsion to scratch at my arms/hurt myself when I get too emotional, it's like I said a compulsion so it only happens when I get far too angry or upset. I think the reason I do it is because I struggle to express myself and I come for a family that is full of communication issues so in my head if I hurt myself made someone will finally understand what I'm feeling. My twin doesn't like it when I do this.
Tw for anyone who reads, very heavy topic on self hurt/self deletion
When I was in church (no longer anymore because of *many* reasons) I was going through the lowest of the low of times. I had harmed myself, but never told anyone and kept it hidden pretty well. My "friend" from church somehow found out, told me I was doing it for attention, and if I was going to harm myself, I should just jump ahead to the next step and just end my life. I ended up attempting, succeeded, and was brought back. When I came back to the church, the same person acted like we were close and telling people she's the one who saved me. This same girl did whatever she could to get attention (i.e trying to sing louder than everyone else, donate money and loudly saying the high amount, and so many more things that I can't even say here) and acted like an entitled brat when no one paid her any attention.
Takes no shame to tell you to end your life and then act as if nothing happened. Hope you stay away from that pest.
Oww hoo hoo my favorite series! I have to go find some chores to do!
My late mother-in-law. From my understanding she snapped when her baby sister was born and took all the attention away from her dad. Ever since then she would fall down faint and things like that. By the time I met her in the early 90s she became a professional patient. I believe she purposely made herself chronically ill to get attention while her own mother was being diagnosed with dementia.
Every story out of her face was about how sick she was and how many surgeries she had and how she was on this and that church board, how she was such a good speech writer.
It was just my luck that my youngest child was born on her damn birthday.
They were two peas in a pod.
I have one but I don’t have Reddit 😭
Me and my friend group had a friend who would always say how she had cancer, she was pregnant, was raped, accused of raping, her mum hated her, she was abused, went out with LOADS of people then bragged about cheating on them, and hurt my friends. A lot I know, and I don’t know if she did more but yeah. Me and my friends avoid her like the f-cking plague when we see her. She also continuously glared on us when on a trip. My friends also got the police involved because they felt legitimately assaulted
These stories were from the comments on the last attention seeker video he did.
13:24 what about the third one which is. DONT DO ACID AT SCHOOL😂
One of my buddies was once on vacation with his girlfriend. They were kissing in a hotel room bed and she decided she was done kissing. So she told him so and rolled over to go to bed. He continued to kiss her on the neck. She told him to stop, and he stopped. Then later that day she started telling all of the friends that went with them that he held her down and fingered her without consent. Obviously this wasn't true and they broke up, but some of the friends still hate him because of the lie she told. He has since come out as gay.
Mine was a freshman that was straight out of a Dr. Phill show. Her parrents were taking her to college parties where she had a fake ID. When her parents found out they prosecuted many individuals for staturatory Grape. My friend was the sister of one of the guys and he even checked her fake ID and was fooled. She having other behavior issues was placed in our art class and at the table with me and my friend. All class she would ask me to draw and my friend to go to her bday parties. She eventually tried to fight another friend of mine and got her ass beat. Despite her starting the fight and getting a couple good hits in she got into less trouble then my friend. Because she has behavior issues.
someone i know was so desperate for attention they started a rumour about ME making people think i was D*AD just for the pity. my friends were apparently extremely worried to the point it was keeping them up at night ( their words not mine) and i still have to deal with these rumours and get harassed for it (being emo because as we all know its the worst insult ever). it was ALL because he wanted attention
I have some true things that happened to me that sound like something an attention seeker would make up.
Almost hit by a car on a trip to Dollar Tree, outside when lightning struck, and some more will happen soon.
so, i used to have one of these people in my last school, hell even old friend group.
they were cringy and they said things often and loudly but they were loved by most people even though they were kinda an asshole
they for starters faked being suicidal and made me and others worry just for attention, ive been suicidal for a while also so that cut deep when i realized that they were lying.
they also had the worst thing ive seen done which genuinely pissed me off.
For context ive been wanting to transition for a long time even before i knew what it was, i wanted to become female or at least look that way
and this fucker transitoned for attention and sexual gratification from women, specifically a few lesbians.
They were my irl form of Chris-chan as they were just the worst and kinda even looked like CC. they even did things like CC with fanfiction
also at the time they hit on my (now ex, then) girlfriend knowing i was dating them infront of me every god damn day. if i wasnt a pacifist and scared of what would happen they would have had a broken nose as i really, really wanted to hurt them
finally during the pandemic me and my friendgroup then got a discord and all talked on there untill they joined the discord server then it lasted less then a week before everyone ghosted and blocked me even though we had no problems before (the friendgroup was abusive but i act like a puppy dog and had no other friends so)
also i remeber once at a sleepover with my best friend they started fapping infront of all of us trying to sleep and eating the big party bag of chips, we avoided the chips after that
Sounds like a creep.
My Egg Donor (she doesn’t deserve to be called my mother) has a habit of texting her sister, the person I call mum, every year on MY birthday to fall tell her some sob story. So far there have been 2-3 DIFFERENT medical conditions that mean she’s ‘dying’ and she’s apparently been r-ed but can’t call the police for reasons. My mum just ignores her stories now.
When they started copying my genetic heart defect symptoms but couldn’t keep up with it after a few weeks because it meant giving up coffee apparently 😂
That first story. Makes me wanna steal the dog
I’ve got a close friend that has been accused of attention seeking. Maybe, maybe not. But I’ve felt like people think I should be told or not give her attention…I don’t care either way. Because it’s not to an annoying degree, if it’s even true. And she gives me more attention than most, so I’m content 😂
2 kids watched a very special kind of video during class on the school pc. And worse of all they were caught by the former principal and only got a c4 (an after school detention) they didn’t even hide it. They laughed and looked as sad as they could when caught
Amazing shirt you got there
The only time I was high on purpose was when the hospital had to reset my leg after I broke it. They gave me ketamine so they could reset it. The videos of people coming out of anesthesia, that's what ketamine essentially does to me. I don't have the stereotypical effects of anesthesia. I was high as a kite when they had to reset my leg.
Me and some of my classmates used to edibles before school and it'd usually kick in around 2nd period we'd plan it to be a cool teacher and as our class was tiny af im 100% certain the teacher and everybody else knew what we did but we always got good grades so either because of that or the teachers just didn't care enough but they never did anything 😅
I've always heard that cutting across the wrist isn't nearly as bad as if you cut up your arm (wrist -> elbow) but idk if that's true.
can you maybe do special episodes with the bad words
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Glad some people noticed the comments
The monster that I live with always is a compulsive liar who always pretends to be the victim, this monster I live with always acts fakenice in public, and most people don’t really enjoy how much she laughs and how disingenuous she is because she cannot relate to anyone because of how bad a narcissistic monster she is. This monster has kicked holes in doors, beaten me up multiple times, hit me with metal objects, impeded my movements, tried to swing me by my arm in a violent manner trying to get me to fall over, she tried to push me down the staircase, she’s pulled hair and punched me, she has pinned me to kitchen cabinets, touched my legs inappropriately, body shamed me with words, slut shamed me on my first time, called me fat, drained my phone battery more than 12x and I keep her blocked because of that. This monster I live with cannot relate to most people because of how narcissistic she is. She would lie to you about her being the empath when really she’s a domestic abuse criminal of violence, she’s been really uncontrollable and she is never ashamed of what she’s done and never apologizes at all for all the horrible dangerous life threatening things she did to my fathers, brothers and to me the daughter. If there ever was a way to erase her genetics from my body and to never carry her family line in the first place, I really wish that back in Highschool that I could have went into foster care, I really wish I had more of a voice this year. I basically have no job because I only get 5 & 1/2 hours of work each week. I need a sanctuary, I need a foster home, please.
"Hey, whats your deal? Why are you always doing these kinds of things?"
Then yeah. I am not an attention seeker, but I do put up with a lot of people who maliciously exaggerate me, and who like to speak their minds on things tat are none of their business, ruthlessly, until I lose my mind.
I feel soo bad for the doggo from the first story…
I'm so glad I'm not an attention seeker.
you can tell some of these people so very much has histrionic personality disorder and they are probably not getting help which is very sad to me :(
I went to middle school with a class clown one day he jumped on top of a philly Septa train electrocuted himself to dust everyone was just there watching traumatized at first laughing until the shock happened some people took pics and recorded was kinda sad
If you like stories like this, i recommend the podcast Scamanda. Its this dialled up to 11
he looks like dr phil, just *completely* bald.
My friend was quite the attention seeker. Like, nsfw attention. This was in year 7 btw. First year of highschool. I was 11 going on 12. Let’s call this girl Emma, and there are two other boys. We’ll call the first boy Emo and the other one (a year 8) Liam. Me, Emma and emo (btw Emo is obsessed w Emma) and in a group chat. Emma reveals she has £250 and we ask how she did it, she reveals he had a sugar daddy who was taking her on dog walks. After a while, it escalated to longer dates and while emo was like “that’s cool, can I be his role?” And theyd have an erp (btw that was disgusting, I already had trauma back then in y7 and they’re being that weird and just wtf) I was rly concerned. I asked Emma to stop bc I was scared she’d be in trouble. She never listened. Eventually she bragged to us and Liam abt it which was when me and Liam decided we literally had enough. She even started to go to his hotel and was at risk of *you know what*. So we went to mr safeguarding, which lead to the police. After the interview, I had a file of the transcript for my parents to sign when this fucker (who we’ll call James bc it’s close to his name) takes the file and spreads it to the class, leading to the entirety of y7 and 8 knowing and thinking she got *you know whatted* and she probs did too. Best part is that she tried to fight me bc she thought it was on purpose and ended up biting a teacher, getting a permanent iso for the rest of the term and also being isolated from all her friends for the next year. The worst part is my other friend we’ll call Hailey (another y8 who was “friends” with Emma) told me the case got called off despite the evidence.
thanks for coming to my tedtalk of why y7 spring and summer terms were both horrible 😍
This feller is awesome
That poor Dog
Kin-tah-ni-yah
Honestly, with most of the people here, I just feel bad for them... A lot of them are kids, and kids who grow up in loving, accepting homes probably aren't going to act like this. Even with the grown adults-sure, it's not exactly mature to act that way, but I feel like they could definitely benefit from some therapy, too. Mental illness and the relationship dysfunction that results often isn't pitiable or sympathetic; it can take the form of violence, manipulation, compulsive lying, etc. In that sense, most attention-seeking behavior is a cry for help.
In 2-3rd grade I had somone who was my friend and well she had blatter problems and had to have a diaper on, and then there was "them" the people that claimed to be are friends but were not.They would always try and get mf [my friend] to climb the monkey bars and always try and lift up her skirt or get her to show her diaper. Well one day and only that day a drop of karma came while they were bullying [mf] [ff] fake friend then PUSHED [MF] OFF A CLIFF (Kind of small one but still a cliff) the sad part is they did not get in trouble... Also [ff] Was the vice principal's daughter...
[ff] had a friend group that followed and did the almost same thing that she did.
To the story about the dude on acid at school with the cheerleader girl, rumors are so stupid and high school is so childish. I’m very unliked in my area because of some rumors from people I’ve never directly met/known/talked to/etc etc etc. False rumors but it ruined my life and reputation I still can’t make friends here 4-5 ish years later since rumors spread everywhere fast everyone’s heard it. Worst years of my life had to make a police report for harassment
Also I can’t stand the people who use self harm and suicidal tendencies for attention. I have a decade + long self harm addiction I’m recovering from and the fact people fake it to be noticed makes me so sad. Some people have genuine struggles but the people who use it for attention make people who do it seriously not be taken seriously. The amount of times I’ve been told I self harmed for attention is insane, I did it to mask the mental pain with physical. I’ve had plenty of attempts and I have a big list of mental illnesses including bpd which makes things extra hard. Just, don’t be a shitty person don’t mock serious topics like suicide only for people to notice you you’re pathetic and disgusting
So many preconceived notions get totally done away with in high school. Growing up in a small town and all the move/TV show cliches giving me the idea that popular kids are always stuck up and bullies, but realizing that some of my popular classmates were the sweetest most sociable people ever and I had a dual lightbulb moment that 1. Real life isn't always shown on screens and 2. Popular kids tend to be popular for a reason, lol
0:31 yikes bro.
Lol. I went to a Catholic school my freshman year.
Tbh, I was completely shocked at what girls would wear to school on non-uniform days. I was actually embarrassed to be going to a school where my classmates showed off...well, everything. And bragged about their s3xual exploits to everyone.
I vowed never to wear my regular clothes. Even on school wide non-uniform days.
Although, I would have loved to see my mom's face had she been there to see what I saw...seeing as she forced me, thinking it would make me a better Catholic girl....
No, mom. I was just a decent, reasonable person to begin with. I was an actual good girl, and had no need to pretend to anyone by going to a special school to prove it. Too bad she didn't believe that, though.
Someone i know... 6:11 if i can't have it, no one can
. I honestly don't think i have the time to go into everything. Copying my achievements (even tho she didn't do anything close to achieving it) lies all the time about getting caught in insane situations (like news, and make a movie about it insane situations, saving babies from burning cars while giving the driver life saving first aid and picking the car off the family pet... She interned for Kevin Hart 😂😂😂 she works at Amazon lives in Florida. This is just the last year.
Tried to break me and my husband up because her marriage is miserable and falling apart. So many more but I've got things to do today.
Waaaiiiit that’s what you look like??? You look like Dr. Eggman ohmagoooosh
My parents are alive and I was emancipated from them at an early age. I haven't seen either of my parents since I was a teen. I'm an only child.
I cant get over Selena Quintanilla💀💀
11:25 what was the cheerio's thing??
this mf (pardon the language) in my sophomore year was the kind of attention seeker to just talk over everyone to get attention. this year he was acting much better so we added him to the group chat and he would talk ALL DAY even during school time (we're homeschooled but it's a co-op) the climax of it was when he asked my best friend to send him a selfie because he recognized his name and my friend didn't want to because he wasn't comfortable taking selfies due to esteem issues but this guy kept pushing to get the selfie eventually he said "then send a picture of another body part😏" to which I lost my mind and flamed him for being such a creep and saying something insanely inappropriate to someone he doesn't know. hours later his dad made him leave the chat because of that coupled with other things.
0:00-7:22-27:46!❤😂😊😊😊😊
13:28 - I live in Canada. Totally legal here
Well I guess I got something here what am I dear friends? And I know he is an impulsive liar which I literally caught in today lying about something So we are at the mall waiting for GameStop to open. So he was talking about the Yu-Gi-Oh new holographic projection Yu-Gi-Oh card system which is currently being produced by Konami, which they didn't take me publicly released in public yet they are still testing. So my friend went on to say that he was technically at the event and had a chance to play with it and that's where I call his bull crap because I read an article about it. The whole event was only available to the press and people who had connections to somebody at Konami only. He kept trying and I called him to his Bull crap. Just the sound cool. So yeah, don't mess with a guy who reads the articles online. If the articles say that it was a press only event, don't try to lie. Also this friend of mine loves telling made up or over traumatic stories. So I just land blab as mouth to let it out of his system and at times when I know when he is lying like one example he said he just quote got off the phone. He never even picked up the phone in front of me. What a friend. I like having him around 😂
I adore kpop but the person in story 12 is going wayyyyy too far with it😵. Now I'm curious as to which song she was dancing to🤔
bro i swear ive heard this guys voie before
Nice mustache
No more bloopers in the end?
Bro why is it always the females?
Is the name in the second one a Danny Phantom reference? By some coincidence, Danny Phantom is my current hyperfixation. But, yeah, these people suck.
hmmm i know somebody named polina just we dont live in the us so idrk if its the same one.
My cat's name is Molly, lol, and yes, she's an attention whore.
1st story- this is weak. Seems like the person who wrote in just really doesn't like this lady. Sure she's probably attention seeking to a degree and not a great dog owner but it doesn't strike me as extreme seeing as this dog seems to be the main gripe to be found for a single woman with a special needs kid trying to make ends meet.
No
Hello
U talk waaaaaaay too much
i get high! but its legal here... just gotta be 21 and up smoke all ya want! MI ftw!