Great video! It’s sad men were taught backwards, they think expressing emotions is weak, but in actuality it the total opposite. I wish they knew that Not knowing how to understand and express your emotions IS the Weakness. It’s not logical to bottle up feelings until you implode. Holding in negative feelings and anxiety creates sickness in your body. That could be the spiritual level as to why they die before woman, all that mental stress being mismanaged.
Its not good at all! I know! But I don’t even explode! I feel frozen. When it ever does come time to talk, I just put forth words that are few and I always try to choose my words so as not to be out of Gods favor. That’s how it feels to me. I think alot
A lot of these relationship in this community is built on bold face lies trauma and toxicity How can anyone expect peace happiness joy in a relationship built on that type of foundation
@@wshelby83 they all began to express themselves when their emotional capacity mature and for that reason of allowing them the safe way of expression it allowed them to choose a wife (Queens) who also knew how to allow the same as I had structured in my home
A lot of the struggles men have in expressing incredibly vulnerable thoughts and feelings is finding their audience isn’t trustworthy or it gets used against them. Lots of us suck at listening with suspended judgement. Something human beings need to work on.
Why can’t dudes just get out of the relationship when they feel this way? Staying single is place where dudes don’t have to express themselves. A woman shouldn’t have to pay for a male not being able to say how he feels. That’s not fair. Keeping issues off the road is fair
When a man admits to me that he's struggling in some way, I take that as a sign of strength, not weakness. We're all human -- we all need to lean on someone at some time in our lives. I think that women can often sense when their guy is having some kind of issue. If I see it in my man, and he doesn't ask for help in some way, then my feelings are hurt because I can see that he doesn't trust me to be there for him. Courage isn't the absence of fear; it's forging ahead when you're shaking in your boots.
Thank you and I sure did send to my man. I challenged him to communicate with me #1 How valid these issues are and #2 which ones he struggle with directly. I already know the ones but I want him to take the initiative to be open enough and love me enough as his soon to be life partner to open up and share his feelings. I love my dude and would fight battles for him. He's worth it Yelp. But I have to know what battles need to be fought.
More men need to work on their issues + becoming emotionally available + not toxic before entering a relationship. God designated men as the head. No woman is submitting to a man who is wishy washy, unsafe emotionally + not accountable. Get it togetha, go to therapy + work on yaselves!
I hear your heart. Thank you. I see this w my man. He is starting to really open up ..like over night he dropped his guard ..we've been together for 3 years and now it seems he totally trusts now .....
If you come across with respect ( body language, soft tone of voice ) that he don’t feel attacked or judged he may share with you his heart we women must realize how important is HOW we say things to them . Respect means a lot to them . We may mean well but this little things how we communicate plays a big part for them .
Most Men are self centered and immature Hate to say this but this is my observation Its very immature to decide to not communicate Refusal to communicate is rooted in pride
it is very challenging dealing with a man who is not vulnerable… how is a relationship suppouse to grow when you don’t even express your feelings being how you’re feeling mentally, things that’s bothering you etc. A lot of men don’t express and then they just get distant, act nonchalant, want to be by themself and it just makes a women feel closed out and take it personal like she’s the problem when the whole time he’s dealing with something but doesn’t express it or feels it makes him less of a man if he does. It’s very stressful I say if you know you are closed off and not vulnerable when dating you should stay away from people who are deal with people who are like you in that relationship way it will be a very surface level relationship but at least your on the same page 🤷♀️
Yeah your partner should be a safe space where you can communicate and feel safe. Sending love to the men out there. Being vulnerable allows you the chance to truly connect and discover a love that can be unmatched.
While I appreciate it this take, and I sincerely thank you Sealz for being vulnerable…. I just want to really highlight, intent versus impact. Your insight lets a lot of us know they don’t intend to be hurtful, but their inability to introspect, heal, and work on their pain, their impact is devastating to women. Men in pain really hurt women… badly. Especially emotionally. Imagine being hurt on the inside, because you have been rejected, lonely, abused, Abandoned, and hurt, only to turn around and inflict that on every person they meet. I understand that society has not created safe spaces for men to be vulnerable, it still is a society where everyone is accountable for themselves. The reality is they equate all those complex feelings with only women having them instead of seeing all humans have these complex emotions and that supporting each other or processing these emotions are vital to being emotionally and spiritually healthy. If I calculated ALL THE PAIN MEN INFLICTED on me and fellow women… the wrath of God wouldn’t even compare. The way men have treated me has scared so deep I feared love could ever exist because how could something so beautiful be so toxic and insidious? But I had to heal my own wounds and ensure you don’t meet men who are incapable of healing their emotional wounding. Unfortunately, we are literally getting killed, raped, and emotionally destroyed because men are not choosing to heal and let those emotionally injuries build up and project from their personalities. A lot of men have really awful personalities and don’t even know how awful they are because they are not the recipient of them. Heal intentionally so you don’t destroy unawarely. Again, I respect this, but with all this information and they way things are turning more men need to heal and process their trauma. Relearn how to relationship and seek mind, body, and spirit healing. Don’t date anyone until you heal.
I am so glad to come across this video. This is exactly what I do, to help men learn how to honor their feelings instead of turning them away. The “man up” dogma is the threat to their manhood. Thank you for what you do.
If you become vulnerable here and there with your man, especially if he has a wall up, then he will actually become more volunerable with you too. Happened with me. I expressed a few things that I was so embarrassed to say and was nervous/ felt stupid but I said screw it, I want him to feel it's ok to talk to me and that I won't judge him, reject him, and how I'll understand him. So in order to do that, I had to take a chance on him and do it myself first. Omg it was scary but when I did, he almost immediately started sharing more deeper volunerable emotions with me and I think it made us closer so much more faster. I know I actually felt special that he trusted me enough to let me in as much as he did. It was worth it.
This is so good to know. Thank you for sharing because sharing is caring. And one thing about it Sealz you love your Queens. Obviously!!!!!!! Have a super week!! 💜
Sealz, I applaud 👏 you for this awesome video. I would welcome my mate to tell me his deep thoughts, what he's feeling without judgment. I don't look at what he feels or think as weakness, I looked it as being honest, telling me what hurts him. I wouldn't want my mate to ever feel unwanted. Just communicate what's going on with you, and don't hide it..... If he wants my help ain't no way I will reject him.
My guy has hard expressing his emotions,we talk always and sometimes he expresses himself through his actions..seals your relationship advice is and will continue to help my relationship with my mister...asalawalicum my brother ☪️🇹🇹👍☺️
Your video just came down my feed , after reading the title I thought it wouldn't hurt to be a lil nosey lol lol This makes most women very sad to hear how men really feel concerning certain situations ...Thank you for this info..
I don't know who a man want a good relationship and the don't want to share their feelings , how we suppose to know how or what they need, nice video .
I just came across your page and this is my 3rd video and you’ve gained yourself a new subbie, it’s making me feel like 8-9:10 I never really had a real true male friend, I’m grateful for what I’ve heard thus far, God bless you and thank you Uncle 😌
I think men hate to look or feel vulnerable/emotional so they'll rather not discuss it, Even amongst themselves. Society says... Men don't cry. Society teach men to be tough & to express no emotion which in my opinion is completely wrong. I ALWAYS SAY IF MEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO CRY THEN WHY DID GOD GIVE THEM TEARS?. THANKS FOR THE VIDEO BROTHER👌🏿
"5 Things Men Struggle With" ....all lead to his ~ LACK OF COMMUNICATION. Trust, Loyalty, Commitment, & Communication is the foundation of a relationship.
Thanks for sharing i just love when a man trusts a women to open up to her and then in return she trusts and opens up to him that's positive energy and connections
Men need to know who to open up to. And learn to be comfortable with being vulnerable. We all need to be selective with whom we confide in and are transparent with. There are levels to being expressive. It’s 2022 men need to be emotionally mature.
OBSERVATION: All I can think is this refers to immature or underdeveloped men and it points to the need for EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. My heart goes out to them who have this issues but we all gotta do the work...nothing personal
Yes, it’s an individual responsibility to personally develop and express their emotions in a healthy way. It’s not fair to place that responsibility on a woman or partner. I have zero patience with under developed guys in general. It’s a lot of stress and I am not looking to be anyone’s baby sitter
Sealz...I salute you for always coming through with these informative vlogs that is so vital to us sisters ...knowledge is power and am loving these insights that you continue to share .....keeping the talk real you truly deserves a 👑
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for this video!!! You brought clarity to what so many of us women experience with the men in our lives. For those of us who desire to be in a whole, healthy and committed relationship with a man, we run into these road blocks that you mentioned. While this does make me more aware of what men think and how they express themselves, I believe our men need to help us by putting in the work to communicate with the women in their lives that show true interest and intention towards them. I’m rooting for all of us!!!
OMG! auuuuggghhh thank you sheesh he be killing me with this ... if l say something tht hurts his feelings he goes on this slient treatment retreat or these 1 word txt messages so l give him a week an he calls like nothing happened telling me his phone was acting crazy when he's the crazy 1
Wonderful insights of the men psyche. Certainly does explain a lot, this was helpful. It’s channel like these that give me hope for everyone to find love and build better relationships because happy/healthy/joyful couples contribute to creating a better world for tomorrow. 🙏🏼
To me, a rejection is the key to success basically! You will always get a better deal if you value yourself and keep looking for more options/opportunities, read books, study more. It takes time yes, but, for good/great things takes time. Just practice patience for no reason. If you do this without cutting corners, and if you master yourself, trust me, you wont stop laughing at your past, but only think ahead.
Real men to me are able to show emotions, even cry. They are not afraid to be open or rejected. They can take it. But thats my match. Did not meet him yet
🙏🏾♥️ I agree, we have much to gain and learn about our men, this insight is a valuable tool to help us women, better understand, love,support, and encourage them, especially our black men and boys. When they are whole and healed, we as a people are the same; finding this to be a better world now and for our collective future. Thank you for this wisdom. I will re-read this and implement it into my life and family and share it with others
Thank you for sharing such needed info for successful relationships Its an eye opener Now u are more aware of how man is wired and how to understand and treat him with tender love Not to add fire to the fury ...not to have the last word on..and not to win a war and caused more hurt n pain in a relationship
. . .in addition to show n give love respect appreciation n honor to a good good well deserving man And showing too that u have a special place reserved in your heart for that special man only
Preach to the choir please!!! My number 1 issue with men, No communication. Little do they know, more times than not, your woman will appreciate your vulnerability more than you will ever know. That's what is always missing, and I think that's why relationships don't always last. I'm definitely one of those women that appreciate and value when a man is vulnerable and expressive. We need more of that in this world. COME ON MEN!!!! 🤣
Yes I'm used to the dark days as what he does is shuts himself out from the world so I know when something is up. Try my utmost to help him through his toughest times
I’m struggling. My man is not romantic. Or shows emotions unless I’m sick or hurt. But he wants to know who I’m talking to on the phone. I always have to initiate holding hands or kissing. But he’s shows love by cooking for me or ironing. Which I’m not use to. But tells me he loves me every time we speak on the phone.
I think his love language is acts of service, that is why he thinks if he gives you what he wants you will appreciate. Tell him what your love language is...and iron his clothes and see how he might appreciate receiving his love language... Talk to him ... atleast he is trying...guide him to your heart..
5 things Men struggle admitting to Woman: 1. Rejection 2. When they are lonely, they don't tell you 3. Women and men on their phone too much. It might cause jealousy 4. When they are struggling. 5. When the woman hurt his feeling he don't speak
No one wants to be rejected. Women just deal with it differently. The struggles are what makes you who you are. It seems like these men just need to go and sit on a sofa. Commutation is what they need to work and their own insecurities. Grow up and deal with life in general.
@@deborahbroome8727 trust me, I’m all for ‘interesting’ I get bored easily anyway lol..we don’t have to be fully wired the same way but I think we should be for the important things like communication, love languages e.t.c things that make couples happy & stay together long term.. you have probably heard the term ‘ men are from Mars & women are from Venus.. that’s literally how I have felt in majority of my relationships. I have a twin brother that I don’t get along with & a teenage son that i ( sometimes) don’t understand.. sounds depressing, I know lol.. I just think we are too different plus life is already tough as it is, we don’t need this to add to the mix lol
I am so not a common normal woman after listening to this. I have all those exact feelings that your saying a man has. I have a very hard time expressing my feelings to the man. I don’t run my mouth off ever
Don't Kill the Messenger 😆 thank you for the message 🙏 Brother. You need more Bro Circles 🔵 🔴 so that men can help one another talk things out, release that tension and moved pass this "Superman Narrative" and build stronger 💪 healthier relationships. Superman became a better man once he became vulnerable enough to let Lois Lane know how he felt and accepted her help when needed, hence the word "HelpMate". 😉 Keep teaching, you're saving lives and relationships. ❤🙏❤
This video is about men, stop trying to make it about you. Yet another reason men don't talk to women, our feelings have to include your perspective to you but that's not how listening works ladies🙄
@@timjones3893 I apologize on behalf of all women if you’ve experienced being shut down or ignored by a narcissistic female. You’re right. When she makes it about herself, it destroys the man’s safe space to open up. Man or woman, we are all out here hurting, trying to heal/grow, so I’ve learned to show grace on ppl who make it all about themselves-they don’t know how else to handle their pain. I am continuously praying for you men…you guys go through so much, hold so much in & unnecessarily struggle alone often time.
i just keep attempting to reach the men in my life with reality checks, but they react so negatively, that i feel like giving up... very few even have the desire to have a meaningful discussion, most just criticize me in an effort to shift the focus from themselves... help!
Hi sir I hear you , all your videos opens my eyes and teach me good things I don't have a friends your videos all are my best-friends with my wi-fi I enjoy all your videos in my free time ,you change my life may god keep you cos I need more videos from you from your fan in south Africa @ Richards bay
I just broke up with a man and I see all of these. He accepted the breakup but he stared into space for like 30 minutes. I know he’s struggling :/ it sucks.
I wish men didn’t struggle to open up and express all of the very important examples above. Men don’t understand that there is nothing that can make them look like less of a man except when they deeply disrespect a woman. They’re men no matter what but insecurity cripples soo many guys :(
I had to listen to a boyfriend sniffling & crying all day today. Yea I had to put him in the friend box because he kept telling me no. No he won't take me to breakfast. He's a vampire & doesn't wake up that early. No he can't come over through the week because he works all day & he's tired. When I came over there he's watching wrestling. Not even football or basketball. & we only go eat if I offer to pay. & I always drive because he doesn't want to drive. No he won't come over on the weekends to give me quality time with my kids. Only wants to talk on the phone for hours. Gossip & talk about wrestling. I just want to watch the Browns & Cavs with a guy. Not Roman Reins.
Great video!
It’s sad men were taught backwards, they think expressing emotions is weak, but in actuality it the total opposite. I wish they knew that Not knowing how to understand and express your emotions IS the Weakness. It’s not logical to bottle up feelings until you implode. Holding in negative feelings and anxiety creates sickness in your body.
That could be the spiritual level as to why they die before woman, all that mental stress being mismanaged.
Perfectly said SIE 👑
Well said!!
Its not good at all! I know! But I don’t even explode! I feel frozen. When it ever does come time to talk, I just put forth words that are few and I always try to choose my words so as not to be out of Gods favor. That’s how it feels to me. I think alot
Totally agree 💯
“Your life partner isn’t your enemy!”
💯
So true 👍🏻❤️
A lot of these relationship in this community is built on bold face lies trauma and toxicity How can anyone expect peace happiness joy in a relationship built on that type of foundation
All 5 are very true. I raised 3 sons who are all married.
Good job mama
Wow that’s amazing!! I pray if I have sons that I will do a great job too!
So you allow them to express their emotions?
@@wshelby83 they all began to express themselves when their emotional capacity mature and for that reason of allowing them the safe way of expression it allowed them to choose a wife (Queens) who also knew how to allow the same as I had structured in my home
@@michellelogan9177 that’s awesome!!
A lot of the struggles men have in expressing incredibly vulnerable thoughts and feelings is finding their audience isn’t trustworthy or it gets used against them.
Lots of us suck at listening with suspended judgement. Something human beings need to work on.
I feel men should communicate and being vulnerable is a strength is not a weakness
It’s the oldest, but the best advice by far : Communicate!!!!
Why can’t dudes just get out of the relationship when they feel this way? Staying single is place where dudes don’t have to express themselves. A woman shouldn’t have to pay for a male not being able to say how he feels. That’s not fair. Keeping issues off the road is fair
right. sometimes it feels like we have to work harder than them to make things work, even though they bring more trouble into our lives.
Ash. You always have the choice to stay single or use real strength discernment in order to avoid toxic females
@@ash-js2bv ikr
Sealz THE MAN! In the building! Good to see a masculine in his energy fully aware and able to introspect, for himself and others
We here! Thank you for saying that Queen 👑
When a man admits to me that he's struggling in some way, I take that as a sign of strength, not weakness. We're all human -- we all need to lean on someone at some time in our lives.
I think that women can often sense when their guy is having some kind of issue. If I see it in my man, and he doesn't ask for help in some way, then my feelings are hurt because I can see that he doesn't trust me to be there for him.
Courage isn't the absence of fear; it's forging ahead when you're shaking in your boots.
Not me listening to Sealz while being distracted by the background ambiance😂but iDigress🤗.."I thank God for my No's & my Yes's" 🙌 preach Sealz!
Thank you and I sure did send to my man. I challenged him to communicate with me #1 How valid these issues are and #2 which ones he struggle with directly. I already know the ones but I want him to take the initiative to be open enough and love me enough as his soon to be life partner to open up and share his feelings. I love my dude and would fight battles for him. He's worth it Yelp. But I have to know what battles need to be fought.
I love it Sis, peace and blessings 🙌 🙏
More men need to work on their issues + becoming emotionally available + not toxic before entering a relationship. God designated men as the head. No woman is submitting to a man who is wishy washy, unsafe emotionally + not accountable. Get it togetha, go to therapy + work on yaselves!
I hear your heart. Thank you. I see this w my man. He is starting to really open up ..like over night he dropped his guard ..we've been together for 3 years and now it seems he totally trusts now .....
If you come across with respect ( body language, soft tone of voice ) that he don’t feel attacked or judged he may share with you his heart we women must realize how important is HOW we say things to them . Respect means a lot to them . We may mean well but this little things how we communicate plays a big part for them .
Life’s rejection is Gods protection.. thank you for the video 😊❤️
Thank you, I’m dealing with the silent treatment from my man now.
Most Men are self centered and immature
Hate to say this but this is my observation
Its very immature to decide to not communicate
Refusal to communicate is rooted in pride
Right!
Also fear
it is very challenging dealing with a man who is not vulnerable… how is a relationship suppouse to grow when you don’t even express your feelings being how you’re feeling mentally, things that’s bothering you etc. A lot of men don’t express and then they just get distant, act nonchalant, want to be by themself and it just makes a women feel closed out and take it personal like she’s the problem when the whole time he’s dealing with something but doesn’t express it or feels it makes him less of a man if he does. It’s very stressful I say if you know you are closed off and not vulnerable when dating you should stay away from people who are deal with people who are like you in that relationship way it will be a very surface level relationship but at least your on the same page 🤷♀️
Yeah your partner should be a safe space where you can communicate and feel safe. Sending love to the men out there. Being vulnerable allows you the chance to truly connect and discover a love that can be unmatched.
While I appreciate it this take, and I sincerely thank you Sealz for being vulnerable…. I just want to really highlight, intent versus impact. Your insight lets a lot of us know they don’t intend to be hurtful, but their inability to introspect, heal, and work on their pain, their impact is devastating to women. Men in pain really hurt women… badly. Especially emotionally. Imagine being hurt on the inside, because you have been rejected, lonely, abused, Abandoned, and hurt, only to turn around and inflict that on every person they meet. I understand that society has not created safe spaces for men to be vulnerable, it still is a society where everyone is accountable for themselves. The reality is they equate all those complex feelings with only women having them instead of seeing all humans have these complex emotions and that supporting each other or processing these emotions are vital to being emotionally and spiritually healthy. If I calculated ALL THE PAIN MEN INFLICTED on me and fellow women… the wrath of God wouldn’t even compare. The way men have treated me has scared so deep I feared love could ever exist because how could something so beautiful be so toxic and insidious? But I had to heal my own wounds and ensure you don’t meet men who are incapable of healing their emotional wounding. Unfortunately, we are literally getting killed, raped, and emotionally destroyed because men are not choosing to heal and let those emotionally injuries build up and project from their personalities.
A lot of men have really awful personalities and don’t even know how awful they are because they are not the recipient of them.
Heal intentionally so you don’t destroy unawarely. Again, I respect this, but with all this information and they way things are turning more men need to heal and process their trauma. Relearn how to relationship and seek mind, body, and spirit healing. Don’t date anyone until you heal.
I am so glad to come across this video. This is exactly what I do, to help men learn how to honor their feelings instead of turning them away. The “man up” dogma is the threat to their manhood. Thank you for what you do.
There's so much strength in expressing ur emotions
This was so awesome and refreshing to have a good quality man share this
If you become vulnerable here and there with your man, especially if he has a wall up, then he will actually become more volunerable with you too. Happened with me. I expressed a few things that I was so embarrassed to say and was nervous/ felt stupid but I said screw it, I want him to feel it's ok to talk to me and that I won't judge him, reject him, and how I'll understand him. So in order to do that, I had to take a chance on him and do it myself first. Omg it was scary but when I did, he almost immediately started sharing more deeper volunerable emotions with me and I think it made us closer so much more faster. I know I actually felt special that he trusted me enough to let me in as much as he did. It was worth it.
Thank you for your energy and content 🙏
My apologies for just now seeing this but I appreciate you Tina, hope you’re well! 👑
Yes, just SAY IT! 🤦🏾♀️
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This is so good to know. Thank you for sharing because sharing is caring. And one thing about it Sealz you love your Queens. Obviously!!!!!!! Have a super week!! 💜
Blessings to you Queen! 👑
Sealz, I applaud 👏 you for this awesome video.
I would welcome my mate to tell me his deep thoughts, what he's feeling without judgment. I don't look at what he feels or think as weakness, I looked it as being honest, telling me what hurts him.
I wouldn't want my mate to ever feel unwanted.
Just communicate what's going on with you, and don't hide it.....
If he wants my help ain't no way I will reject him.
My guy has hard expressing his emotions,we talk always and sometimes he expresses himself through his actions..seals your relationship advice is and will continue to help my relationship with my mister...asalawalicum my brother ☪️🇹🇹👍☺️
If you treat your partner like a piece of human garbage, you should expect the rejection, because it is unacceptable.
I’m enjoying your videos! Thanks for the positivity on the relationship topic.
Your video just came down my feed , after reading the title I thought it wouldn't hurt to be a lil nosey lol lol This makes most women very sad to hear how men really feel concerning certain situations ...Thank you for this info..
Thank you for watching, really appreciated
I don't know who a man want a good relationship and the don't want to share their feelings , how we suppose to know how or what they need, nice video .
Thank you. Men not being vulnerable with the ones they love. Not easy but worth it.
They are just bad communicators..period!! Thanks Sealz - from Zambia
I just came across your page and this is my 3rd video and you’ve gained yourself a new subbie, it’s making me feel like 8-9:10 I never really had a real true male friend, I’m grateful for what I’ve heard thus far, God bless you and thank you Uncle 😌
I think men hate to look or feel vulnerable/emotional so they'll rather not discuss it, Even amongst themselves. Society says... Men don't cry. Society teach men to be tough & to express no emotion which in my opinion is completely wrong. I ALWAYS SAY IF MEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO CRY THEN WHY DID GOD GIVE THEM TEARS?. THANKS FOR THE VIDEO BROTHER👌🏿
Amen to that. They forget they are human beings. Jesus wept and I know they are NOT better than Him.
"5 Things Men Struggle With" ....all lead to his ~ LACK OF COMMUNICATION.
Trust, Loyalty, Commitment, & Communication is the foundation of a relationship.
Thanks for sharing i just love when a man trusts a women to open up to her and then in return she trusts and opens up to him that's positive energy and connections
I'm a 1st time viewer of your page. I wish that more men had your mindset... 💔
Men need to know who to open up to. And learn to be comfortable with being vulnerable. We all need to be selective with whom we confide in and are transparent with. There are levels to being expressive. It’s 2022 men need to be emotionally mature.
OBSERVATION: All I can think is this refers to immature or underdeveloped men and it points to the need for EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. My heart goes out to them who have this issues but we all gotta do the work...nothing personal
Beautifully said
Yes, it’s an individual responsibility to personally develop and express their emotions in a healthy way. It’s not fair to place that responsibility on a woman or partner. I have zero patience with under developed guys in general. It’s a lot of stress and I am not looking to be anyone’s baby sitter
Thank you for sharing we need a man just like you to explain to women how men feel thank you great commentary I appreciate you 👍🏽👍🏽
Sealz...I salute you for always coming through with these informative vlogs that is so vital to us sisters ...knowledge is power and am loving these insights that you continue to share .....keeping the talk real you truly deserves a 👑
This made my day as this is my goal, thank you! 👑
@@SealztheMan you are welcome bro...Happy holidays🙏
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for this video!!! You brought clarity to what so many of us women experience with the men in our lives. For those of us who desire to be in a whole, healthy and committed relationship with a man, we run into these road blocks that you mentioned. While this does make me more aware of what men think and how they express themselves, I believe our men need to help us by putting in the work to communicate with the women in their lives that show true interest and intention towards them. I’m rooting for all of us!!!
OMG! auuuuggghhh thank you sheesh he be killing me with this ... if l say something tht hurts his feelings he goes on this slient treatment retreat or these 1 word txt messages so l give him a week an he calls like nothing happened telling me his phone was acting crazy when he's the crazy 1
EGO is in the way
There is strength in vulnerability & I encourage this if a man knows his woman won’t bash & hurt him even more.
Wonderful insights of the men psyche. Certainly does explain a lot, this was helpful. It’s channel like these that give me hope for everyone to find love and build better relationships because happy/healthy/joyful couples contribute to creating a better world for tomorrow. 🙏🏼
Very good. She is your ALLY not your enemy.
To me, a rejection is the key to success basically! You will always get a better deal if you value yourself and keep looking for more options/opportunities, read books, study more. It takes time yes, but, for good/great things takes time. Just practice patience for no reason. If you do this without cutting corners, and if you master yourself, trust me, you wont stop laughing at your past, but only think ahead.
Real men to me are able to show emotions, even cry. They are not afraid to be open or rejected. They can take it. But thats my match. Did not meet him yet
Wonderful wisdom📖🙏🏾👑
Love this video and all of the factors are true.❤
Yes!!! Tell us what you are thinking and want from us. I have to tell this to my Man as well. 😥
This was great, and so helpful. Thank you 🔥
🙏🏾♥️ I agree, we have much to gain and learn about our men, this insight is a valuable tool to help us women, better understand, love,support, and encourage them, especially our black men and boys. When they are
whole and healed, we as a people are the same; finding this to be a better
world now and for our collective future. Thank you for this wisdom. I will re-read this and implement it into my life and family and share it with others
Thank you for sharing such needed info for successful relationships
Its an eye opener
Now u are more aware of how man is wired and how to understand and treat him with tender love
Not to add fire to the fury ...not to have the last word on..and not to win a war and caused more hurt n pain in a relationship
. . .in addition to show n give love respect appreciation n honor to a good good well deserving man
And showing too that u have a special place reserved in your heart for that special man only
Mmmm Interesting…Women go through the Same Rejection. Great messages, 🤔 🌺
Your voice is so soothing to me
Preach to the choir please!!! My number 1 issue with men, No communication. Little do they know, more times than not, your woman will appreciate your vulnerability more than you will ever know. That's what is always missing, and I think that's why relationships don't always last. I'm definitely one of those women that appreciate and value when a man is vulnerable and expressive. We need more of that in this world. COME ON MEN!!!! 🤣
Yes I'm used to the dark days as what he does is shuts himself out from the world so I know when something is up. Try my utmost to help him through his toughest times
On point King... Thanks for sharing.
I appreciate you watching queen 👑
THIS BLESSED ME
I’m struggling. My man is not romantic. Or shows emotions unless I’m sick or hurt. But he wants to know who I’m talking to on the phone. I always have to initiate holding hands or kissing. But he’s shows love by cooking for me or ironing. Which I’m not use to. But tells me he loves me every time we speak on the phone.
He just shows love differently from how you want/need it shown. Communicate to him what your needs are without judgement.
I think his love language is acts of service, that is why he thinks if he gives you what he wants you will appreciate. Tell him what your love language is...and iron his clothes and see how he might appreciate receiving his love language...
Talk to him ... atleast he is trying...guide him to your heart..
5 things Men struggle admitting to Woman:
1. Rejection
2. When they are lonely, they don't tell you
3. Women and men on their phone too much. It might cause jealousy
4. When they are struggling.
5. When the woman hurt his feeling he don't speak
Thank you.🌹
Thank you for the notes 📝 Sis!
Huh!!! Hiding feelings is crazy men!
Thanks Sealz
Was a great help, thank you so very much
THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙌👍🙌
It could be personal issues , that's going on in a person's life , I'll just pray to God 🙏 that their alright 🙏
Men sure don’t have a problem asking a woman for money. How can they say I love you and don’t love you
🎯🎯 yeah, they easily communicate disrespectful stuff.....so I have no sympathy. They know what they’re doing 🤷🏾♀️
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No one wants to be rejected. Women just deal with it differently. The struggles are what makes you who you are.
It seems like these men just need to go and sit on a sofa. Commutation is what they need to work and their own insecurities. Grow up and deal with life in general.
Amen brother! MERRY Christmas brother!!!
Men open up to the love of your life, straight wisdom 💯
I wish we were wired the same way.. it will make life easier!!
But it wouldn't be as interesting ... I've heard that if we're both alike, one of us is not necessary. 😉
@@deborahbroome8727 trust me, I’m all for ‘interesting’ I get bored easily anyway lol..we don’t have to be fully wired the same way but I think we should be for the important things like communication, love languages e.t.c things that make couples happy & stay together long term.. you have probably heard the term ‘ men are from Mars & women are from Venus.. that’s literally how I have felt in majority of my relationships. I have a twin brother that I don’t get along with & a teenage son that i ( sometimes) don’t understand.. sounds depressing, I know lol.. I just think we are too different plus life is already tough as it is, we don’t need this to add to the mix lol
Amazing video! Much appreciated! ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you!
I am so not a common normal woman after listening to this. I have all those exact feelings that your saying a man has. I have a very hard time expressing my feelings to the man. I don’t run my mouth off ever
How is that going for you?
Don't Kill the Messenger 😆 thank you for the message 🙏 Brother. You need more Bro Circles 🔵 🔴 so that men can help one another talk things out, release that tension and moved pass this "Superman Narrative" and build stronger 💪 healthier relationships. Superman became a better man once he became vulnerable enough to let Lois Lane know how he felt and accepted her help when needed, hence the word "HelpMate". 😉 Keep teaching, you're saving lives and relationships. ❤🙏❤
Here listening...
What do you think rejection does to a women? Certainly doesn't make us feel good.
@@gloriousjohnson1807 Exactlyyy. 👏🏽
This video is about men, stop trying to make it about you. Yet another reason men don't talk to women, our feelings have to include your perspective to you but that's not how listening works ladies🙄
@@timjones3893 I apologize on behalf of all women if you’ve experienced being shut down or ignored by a narcissistic female. You’re right. When she makes it about herself, it destroys the man’s safe space to open up.
Man or woman, we are all out here hurting, trying to heal/grow, so I’ve learned to show grace on ppl who make it all about themselves-they don’t know how else to handle their pain. I am continuously praying for you men…you guys go through so much, hold so much in & unnecessarily struggle alone often time.
Men experience rejection far more than women.
Women aren't out here approaching men on the streets.
i just keep attempting to reach the men in my life with reality checks, but they react so negatively, that i feel like giving up... very few even have the desire to have a meaningful discussion, most just criticize me in an effort to shift the focus from themselves... help!
If you are afraid to express yourself to me, you are not the man for me!
Detracted by the smile 😀 I watched twice
Therapy is needed
Thank you, thank you , thank you!
Loved this video 🙂
Hi sir I hear you , all your videos opens my eyes and teach me good things I don't have a friends your videos all are my best-friends with my wi-fi I enjoy all your videos in my free time ,you change my life may god keep you cos I need more videos from you from your fan in south Africa @ Richards bay
exactly true!! i love this
Thank you! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🥇
A man with all these issues is unavailable. If he wants a relationship, he will be vulnerable with his mate. These are excuses
Right sis preach. These are the signs of emotionally unavailable men and that's a red flag 🚩
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
you're a rare gem
Thanks for this video ❤❤
I just broke up with a man and I see all of these. He accepted the breakup but he stared into space for like 30 minutes. I know he’s struggling :/ it sucks.
My man told me being Vulnerable gives his power to me and I can use that against him
BYE. RED FLAG. He doesn't trust you. He's immature and won't change. Ever.
Def helped!💜
Subscribed 👑🖤🙏
I wish men didn’t struggle to open up and express all of the very important examples above.
Men don’t understand that there is nothing that can make them look like less of a man except when they deeply disrespect a woman. They’re men no matter what but insecurity cripples soo many guys :(
I had to listen to a boyfriend sniffling & crying all day today. Yea I had to put him in the friend box because he kept telling me no. No he won't take me to breakfast. He's a vampire & doesn't wake up that early. No he can't come over through the week because he works all day & he's tired. When I came over there he's watching wrestling. Not even football or basketball. & we only go eat if I offer to pay. & I always drive because he doesn't want to drive. No he won't come over on the weekends to give me quality time with my kids. Only wants to talk on the phone for hours. Gossip & talk about wrestling. I just want to watch the Browns & Cavs with a guy. Not Roman Reins.
You deserve more if you desire more. Read your comment here, is this what you are willing to settle for Queen... 💝
Queen, let👏🏾 him👏🏾 go👏🏾. You deserve so much better! I am sorry he’s not worthy of friend zone. He is in the Boy Bye Zone. Hugs to you 🤗
@@kimtaylor2406 The Boy Bye Zone!! Love that phrase!! ☺️
the superhero analogy was great
Thank you
Hello
They say men are simple 🤣