1. What are your goals? What's your end game with us? 2. Do you have any kids? How involved are you with them? Do you have any major responsibilities? 3. Tell him what you're looking for/ask how he feels about it. 4. How long ago was his last relationship? Are you ready to start a new one? 5. What are your morals, beliefs, interests? 6. How well are you with communication? (Listening and expressing) Are you easily frustrated or angry? 7. What do you think a good man is? 8. What's something you're working on to be the best version of yourself? 9. What are you afraid to lose? 10. What can't you live without?
I asked #2 on a date and the answer blew my mind. He said “well, I’m not proud of it but I have 8 kids with 7 different women” 😭😭😭. I was like sorry sir 👋🏿
@@sbaa83 'annnd you are ready for baby number 9, and baby mamma number 8? You must earn a huge sum to care for your children. Fortunately for me, I'm not ready, willing or able to take on those roles. Boy bye.
📢 NEVER TELL A MAN WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR! ...IF HE DOESN'T LINE UP TO YOUR STANDARDS, HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE'S EVERYTHING YOU'RE LOOKING FOR AND "FAKE-IT" UNTIL HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS WHETHER THAT'S YOUR COOKIE OR YOUR HEART!!! If he asks you "what are you looking for in a man," simply say that you prefer for a man to show you who he is and watch the expression on his face👀. This question works like a charm BELIEVE ME. Remain mysterious and guard your heart ladies. Let him tell you who he is without you giving him the keys to your heart by revealing too much too soon.
@@marquimazel70 Players from their OWN mouths told me that their number 1 question to ask women is "what are you looking for in a man?" They told me that when women reveal what they are looking for it makes it EASY for them because all they have to do is "pretend" to be everything she said she wanted to get what they want.
Girl's don't be afraid to be the BLOCK Queen. Don't be afraid to be alone. Don't settle for anyone who compromises your dignity. I will bring up my concerns one time & if it happens again, BLOCKED like I never knew ya.
You are a wise person by your comment. most people date individuals that do not do the same thing they do which is crazy. For instant, if you don’t smoke, why will you date someone else who does, if you don’t gamble why date someone who does and if you don’t drink or take any type of recreational drugs why would you date someone who does, if you’re not the type to go to clubs, why will you date someone who does… do not become unevenly yoked this is what I tell my sisters and associates.
Even when we ask men these questions and they answer us with words, be sure to turn up your discernment and watch what they DO. Some of these men have mastered mirroring what they know we value based on what they see in how we are and live. They can sometimes say all the right things so if his answers are seeming tooo perfect and you’re feeling oddly like wow we are sooooo similar…slow down and give things time
Exceptional advice!!! I wouldn’t even ask any of those questions because those answers require for me to actual witness it. I’ve been there done that. Now it’s all about seeing what is actually happening and occurring.
Sexual questions like this should come after you’ve been dating and determined that you like this person and your should definitely go to the doctor together. Asking before you start dating may give the person the wrong impression.
I asked my guy what he is afraid of? He said not been able to take care of me the way he would love to, that is his greatest fear. Those words got me in the heart and I believed him. We are yet to start dating because he isn't here with me.
I’m 26 and finally feel ready to look for a committed relationship and these are such great questions to ask! Not only for him but myself as well thank you!
Most of these questions are very important for you to ask yourself before you even go on a date at all. You might not be ready as an individual, and that’s fine. A date can become a forever friendship knowing more about yourself first
"anything ending in ship" yes. The rudder controls the way a ship goes, just as the tongue has so much control over self and others. I love that you said that
I love question 4. It goes both ways. After you have asked yourself if you're ready for a new relationship, surely do ask him too. Most guys haven't healed yet walking around all macho.
Thank you. These are some good questions to ask. I will definitely use some of them. I am 54 years old and time is too precious. I don't want to waste it.
Lots of good questions. I especially like “what can’t you live without”? And “what are you afraid to loose”? And ladies need to hav answers to the same question. Good luck to all
1.What are your goals, and what's the end game with me. 2. Do you have any kids how involved are you with their mother or the kids or major responsibilities? 3. Tell him what you looking for and how does he feel about that? 4. How long has it been since your last relationship and are you ready to move on? 5. What are your morals, beliefs,interests? 6. How well are you with communication, is he well in listening and expressing himself?. 7. Are you an angry person,are you triggered easily? 8. What do you think a good man is? 9. What's something u are working on to make yourself a better man? 10. What are you afraid to lose and what can't you live without?
I probably wouldn’t ask are you an angry person? I would probably just observe how he answer the question to see if he would get triggered by the questions because most of the time when you asked this question, they will say no I’m not an angry person at all just to look good.
🔥Thank you much Sealz! I honestly feel empowered, dating can be so hard! Not knowing what to look for... or if my standards are too high... and apparently they’re not. Thanks for my confirmation. I’ve written down every question in my journal that I carry with me daily. Keep the lessons coming👨🏾🏫💜!
Some foundational questions like who are your sheroes & heroes? Why do you look up to them? What were their weaknesses? Who instilled your morals and values? What are they? What did you like about your last relationship? What didn't you like? How have you grown from your past relationships? What behaviors did you learn to change?
LADIESSS... listen up to Sealz and these important questions he is saying to ask.. HE IS ON POINT!!!! I see so many women in my coaching with the WRONG men because they DIDN'T ask these questions... Time is the most precious commodity on this earth, don't waste it with the WRONG man.... GREAT VIDEO Sealz.... now if they only listen right? keep up the excellent videos.. Patti @ Get Balanced 2020
@@SealztheMan You are a good motivator to LISTEN UP AND PAY ATTENTION...:) lol I hope they do as it will save them A LOT of headaches and wasted time :)
Totally agree time is one thing that you cannot get back your energy or your health you can with hard work however, once your time is gone, it’s gone. Please count your steps ladies because unfortunately there’s no reverse
I absolutely love this! I've been talking to a man for 4 weeks and I've asked every question except for 9 and 10. I'm going to have to add those to the list lol
Also asked when was the last time he was intimate with a woman, but ONLY ask that question after asking how long ago was his last serious committed relationship. Don't ask the intimate question first, ask that next. The reason why you want to do that in that particular order is because that's how you can trip some of them up.
Sealz, and others. Those questions and their answers have save me from heartache. My aunt educated me, and also told me to ask any potential suitor(s) the same questions that he asks me. She told me that if he 'jokingly' pushed, etc. me to jokingly do the same to him. I have passed these on to my children. I have educated them that they should save some money to employ a private investigator to check him/her (women carry on too) before they invest their hearts. I told my son that when his bonafide married wife tells him she's pregnant, to stop having sex until he sees the pregnancy test done in front of him. There are some women who say they are pregnant when they are not. I also educate them and advocate for my son to get a paternity test done as soon as possible after the baby is born.There are many men who are falsely conned into believing that they are the fathers when in truth they are, as my grandmother would say, "holding a jacket."
These are really really great questions👍🏼. I think I will break them down by pieces. Ask a couple on day ask another section on another date. I don’t care how good looking you are. Our next date is contingent on your answers. We need to do better in this dating scene. This is a great way to start. 😉thanks for this !
I just love 💕 you!! You sacrificed being in cool air just for us? 🥰 Now that right there says A LOT about you Sealz 😄. Dating is collecting “data” and I LOVED those questions so much I had to share them with my daughters (I know they’re sick of me)😆, but they deserve to be informed by someone other than me and my husband. I’m tired of the “What chu think ma?” question when a new “boo” pops up in their lives.🤦🏾♀️ If they know what to ask then they’ll know the answer for themselves for the most part. My heart 💜 is genuinely rooting for those looking for and being found by love!!!
This is the type of comment that makes my day, one of my main purposes for making this channel was to help out my young nieces so that when they come of age and start dating and such, they'll have this information from their uncle to go on. So the fact you're passing it on to your daughters means everything, blessings to you and your family 👑
Procrastination has more to do with emotional discipline/ management than time management. I heard that the other day on these internet’s and I was triggered 😵💫
Sealz, thank you!🔥 You nailed this list, but 4B is huge. Ladies we have to know and understand this about men. " If you never healed from what hurt you, you will bleed on people who will never hurt you. Healing takes time"
Thanks man, those points are superb. Love you bro. God bless you and everyone that will practice this points of yours and I wish everyone good relationships and marriages .
WOW JUST WOW !!! I just stumbled across this video & im SO glad I did ! What valuable information 💯👏🏾 I feel like I should be purchasing info this good 🔥 lol . Instantly subscribed !! Keep this energy coming !! May God bless you & your hustle / business ❤️ I’m seeing a book in the near future 😍
What re your goals, aspiration Does he have kids Do you av major responsibilities Telling him what am looking for n see his reactions 4:how long its being since ur last relationship... 4b Do u feel re ready to start anew 5:morals, belief, intrest, .. 6;how well are you with communication.(well in listening and expressing) 7:
Sealz you make me laugh. "we definitely ain't got time for that mess" I love your candor and honesty and breakin' it down to the critical factors. Great job. Thanks.
@@SealztheMan Definitely. I wrote them down. I will commit them to memory. Your relationship advise is practical and forces you to activate your common sense. 👍 Ps.... I coined the 10 questions as the " BIG 10".... I guess, my love of the original NCAA came out🤣🤣🤣. Randomness... anyway, thanks for all the effort and time. We appreciate you!
It is sad I never thought about any of these questions. Wonder why I been single for 4 years, I asked the wrong questions. I gave up honestly, after this I'm ready to try again.
I think these are reasonable questions that any serious person should pose to a prospective mate,now whether they choose to answer honestly is a different story. Thank you for this.
Thanks for suffering through the heat to make the vid Sealz! Great list! It'll be good to go through with my current boyfriend. Although we're already in a relationship, I'm still vetting him so they're great ones to ask and it'll allow me to get to know him even better. As always, thanks so much! 😊🖤
This is SO wise. Unfortunately, a lot of the men I've dated would have lied their way through these questions! 😭 I seem to have a soft spot for con-men. On my journey, I've learned to watch actions, heed warnings, and trust my intuition. What are green-flag behaviors that good men exhibit?
Good questions. I am a question queen and have learned people can be very clever with answering questions. Watching their behavior is extremely important. Also, I suggest spending time with someone you are interested in. It is difficult for a person to hide who they are and intentions around you.
Excellent questions! My last major relationship, he'd been with his previous girlfriend and living together for 5 years. I didnt find out until 7 months in they had literally split only one month before he started dating me. I wish I'd asked that question on our first date. One month after learning that info he cheated and I left him.
Thank you so much for this. I’m in a spot where I’ve needed this kind of guidance on what questions to ask…Been away from the dating scene in years and this couldn’t have come more on time! 🙌🏽
Dating is soo HARD. This video came in time because I plan on taking things slow but I've never been on a date before and in a week it'll be my first time. I'm not letting him know that though because I can definitely play it cool. lol.
Your mental and emotional intelligence are refreshing. While tending to major responsibilities is a virtue, it 's also time consuming. I'm grappling with this now. In hindsight, I'd suggest a follow up question. Is he willing and able to make time for a relationship?
The smell thing is soo true, I walked into Midas this morning to get my oil change and this beautiful man walked up to me and told me I smelled really good. We talked and he asked me for my number. This is a grown man y’all, I look forward to getting to know him more
I rarely comment, but you had me glued to the screen with this video. Amazing questions to ask, even to oneself. I enjoyed and will be asking this questions soon! Thank you!!!
1. What are your goals? What’s your end games with us? 2. Do you have any kids/major responsibilities? 3. Tell him what your looking for and ask him how he feels about it. 4. How long ago was your last relationship? Are you ready to start a new one? 5. What are your morals, beliefs, interests? 6. How well are you with communication (listening and expressing) 7. What do you think a good man is ? 8. What’s something you’re working on to become the best version of yourself ? 9. What are you afraid to lose? 10. What can’t you live without?
Oooooo A WORD !!!!!!!!! And this will filter out the good the bad and the ugly !!! You will find a lot of men aren’t a match for you and it makes dating easier and faster . ! I definitely do this I love it !!
You’re a good relationship counselor and bravo👌🏾👌🏾 I have most of these questions as my compact-ability questions and it have help me in knowing if a guy is up to play or he means real business, and most times those that wants to play see me as been tough but hey I love been coz I have to protect myself and my body coz it’s my pride…
Oh heck yeah!!!!! Thank you for this post!!!! This is great insight on how to approach a man with important questions which reveals the truth behind the shenanigans they put women through. God bless you!!
I agree wholeheartedly one of the best videos you have done so important to deal with these 10 questions. I have used similar 10 questions over a two-week. And if the answers aren't going to work with us time for me to move on. Thank you for the humor and so sorry you had to sweat bullets for us. Keep up the good work
Thank you Seazl the Man for your videos. I have been watching you for the past 3 days and I appreciate the God - given wisdom you have and you are faithfully sharing with us. I took note of these great questions. May the Lord bless you as you fulfill your purpose.
Question 8 and 9 is dope. It really makes a difference. Tells the fake, unreal and unserious apart. Most fumble (from experience)🤣🤣 Just feeling this Sealz gentleman...you're doing good 👍
Thank you so much ! I’m starting a new relationship with someone I would truly love to know. These questions have open my mind to understanding what is needed to know if he is right or wrong for me . Bless you , your timing is perfect !
Hey Sealz …how are you? ☺️🙋🏾♀️ I love your videos !✨…honestly has saved me from headaches!…😮💨Dont really know how to word everything but I’ve been seeing a Good man for 3 + months and we go on dates ..we title them as “experiences” and we do “couple” things ..He’s a slave to work which I don’t have an issue with ..☺️ not in a goldiggerish type of way🥴😭 he does have a child ☺️( also have no problem with this)… throughout the weekdays sometimes even weekends I receive no texts or calls but when I’m around him he treats me as if I were his girlfriend but has not ask me to be his girlfriend … I believe myself to be a good woman ..He even shares his long term goals with me ..making me part of these goals all the time 🤧and so I guess my questions are …and sorry for going on a rant😮💨… Am I wasting my time ? ….I know he’s busy working but not one text or call throughout the week ? …do you think it’s harder for him to commit because of his child ? Am I overthinking this?😵💫 Am I asking the wrong questions?😭
TELL HIM WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR AND ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT IT. **personally I feel if you tell a man what u want, he could PRETEND to be what you want in the beginning and once u start having feelings, his true self will most likely emerge and u will have wasted your time. I feel like if u don't tell a man what ur looking for and just date one another, ur more likely to see the true man that he is rather than him "trying" to pass as the man u want him to be.
Wow this is really insightful, i regret not asking number 8 because i discovered leter in my past relationship that i was with an addict. Painful that he even used this as an excuse for all the wrong things he was doing
Its so important to ask men what they want? what are you looking for questions first before they ask you. This why the man cant just repeat what u r saying , so you know ihe is being genuwinely honest or just telling you what u want to hear to move ahead as soon as possible. This help to WEED OUT PLAYAS AND OTHER MEN WHO DONT HAVE YOUR BEST INTERESTS IN MIND. These men want YOU TO DO ALL THE TALKING ABOUT YOU. They ask you a lot of questions about you. All they are doing is trying to go the BLUEPRINT AND ROADMAP of how to get whatever they want from you. Playas will make you feels so speical and important ,like they are so interested in you. When they just be sneaky to get in your pants as soon as possible with as little investment as possible. DONT GIVE BLUE PRINTS to you. I
This has to be the best video I have ever viewed on this type of subject. Well thought through and gives the reasons why each question is important I have shared this and saved it to review and share again later. Thank You and Great Job
Ohhh what a great video!!!! I feel like you’re my best guy friend, love your sense of humor hahahaa. When you crack up at the dumb silly stuff you say!? Same. Ok, this is so good! Will def ask my crush these Qs😉
1. What are your goals? What's your end game with us?
2. Do you have any kids? How involved are you with them? Do you have any major responsibilities?
3. Tell him what you're looking for/ask how he feels about it.
4. How long ago was his last relationship? Are you ready to start a new one?
5. What are your morals, beliefs, interests?
6. How well are you with communication? (Listening and expressing) Are you easily frustrated or angry?
7. What do you think a good man is?
8. What's something you're working on to be the best version of yourself?
9. What are you afraid to lose?
10. What can't you live without?
Thank you 💛
I asked #2 on a date and the answer blew my mind. He said “well, I’m not proud of it but I have 8 kids with 7 different women” 😭😭😭. I was like sorry sir 👋🏿
@@sbaa83 😩😩🏃🏽♀️
@@sbaa83 'annnd you are ready for baby number 9, and baby mamma number 8? You must earn a huge sum to care for your children. Fortunately for me, I'm not ready, willing or able to take on those roles. Boy bye.
@@sbaa83 DAMN!!!
📢 NEVER TELL A MAN WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR!
...IF HE DOESN'T LINE UP TO YOUR STANDARDS, HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE'S EVERYTHING YOU'RE LOOKING FOR AND "FAKE-IT" UNTIL HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS WHETHER THAT'S YOUR COOKIE OR YOUR HEART!!!
If he asks you "what are you looking for in a man," simply say that you prefer for a man to show you who he is and watch the expression on his face👀. This question works like a charm BELIEVE ME.
Remain mysterious and guard your heart ladies. Let him tell you who he is without you giving him the keys to your heart by revealing too much too soon.
Totally agree!! Do not give away too much. Let them show you who they are with a timeline.
@@marquimazel70 Players from their OWN mouths told me that their number 1 question to ask women is "what are you looking for in a man?" They told me that when women reveal what they are looking for it makes it EASY for them because all they have to do is "pretend" to be everything she said she wanted to get what they want.
I've heard that too and agree 100%.
I was told this as well, I have made the mistake many of times telling a man what I want and got a fake.
This is good I’ll use this one
Girl's don't be afraid to be the BLOCK Queen. Don't be afraid to be alone. Don't settle for anyone who compromises your dignity. I will bring up my concerns one time & if it happens again, BLOCKED like I never knew ya.
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Yes ma’am!!! I’m not playing with these fools!!!!
Say Less 🎯
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That is great advice. Thank you for sharing this. It will help many of us women.
Endgame is important. Some people just date.. just to date and not be alone, no future plans in mind, just moments until the next.
Right, and thats a recipe for sadness, confusion and trouble. Gotta have a plan, thanks for watching 👑
This seems tiresome!. I agree
Reminds of the the type of guys who say, " let's just see where things go"... for me that's a red flag.
You are a wise person by your comment. most people date individuals that do not do the same thing they do which is crazy. For instant, if you don’t smoke, why will you date someone else who does, if you don’t gamble why date someone who does and if you don’t drink or take any type of recreational drugs why would you date someone who does, if you’re not the type to go to clubs, why will you date someone who does… do not become unevenly yoked this is what I tell my sisters and associates.
A good Man doesn't play mind games and knows his priorities and how to treat a woman well and honest and respectful.
Always!
A real man
@@Chosenoneforever not just our so-called perfect man. have to check ourselves
@@motherswhoempowerothermoth3272 I get it. My Dad, grand dad and uncle were good men.
Rip😷😓
@@Chosenoneforever great to hear, glad u had great influential men in your life A blessing. We need more men like that in this world. For real.
Even when we ask men these questions and they answer us with words, be sure to turn up your discernment and watch what they DO. Some of these men have mastered mirroring what they know we value based on what they see in how we are and live. They can sometimes say all the right things so if his answers are seeming tooo perfect and you’re feeling oddly like wow we are sooooo similar…slow down and give things time
This is good advice
Exceptional advice!!! I wouldn’t even ask any of those questions because those answers require for me to actual witness it. I’ve been there done that. Now it’s all about seeing what is actually happening and occurring.
So very true. There's a lot of Jokers out here 💯.
Thank you. 💯
Yes! Some are so good that they prep for these questions just to fool you .
You forgot, can I see your updated std paperwork ? Most people are forgetting this very necessary question.
Yessssss Queen!!! When they start talking bout intimacy, thats my #1 question and they be shocked. It needs to be asked.
Please, what's updated std?
@Abc Def
Thanks so much
Sexual questions like this should come after you’ve been dating and determined that you like this person and your should definitely go to the doctor together. Asking before you start dating may give the person the wrong impression.
Thank you for keeping it real.
I asked my guy what he is afraid of? He said not been able to take care of me the way he would love to, that is his greatest fear. Those words got me in the heart and I believed him. We are yet to start dating because he isn't here with me.
Those are real words from a real love
my guy??? don't put all your eggs in one basket, keep applying to other jobs....
I’m 26 and finally feel ready to look for a committed relationship and these are such great questions to ask! Not only for him but myself as well thank you!
I learned about the demons the hard way. Please ask before you get serious with anyone. These are all awesome questions to ask
Most definitely! Blessings to you 👑
Me too
Most of these questions are very important for you to ask yourself before you even go on a date at all. You might not be ready as an individual, and that’s fine. A date can become a forever friendship knowing more about yourself first
"anything ending in ship" yes. The rudder controls the way a ship goes, just as the tongue has so much control over self and others. I love that you said that
I love question 4. It goes both ways. After you have asked yourself if you're ready for a new relationship, surely do ask him too. Most guys haven't healed yet walking around all macho.
"What are you working on to better yourself?" That Part!!!
Thank you. These are some good questions to ask. I will definitely use some of them. I am 54 years old and time is too precious. I don't want to waste it.
I totally agree, time is precious and there's so many good things out there to use it on 👑
Lots of good questions. I especially like “what can’t you live without”? And “what are you afraid to loose”? And ladies need to hav answers to the same question. Good luck to all
Very important questions, those answers take thought and says a lot about the person, thanks for watching
1.What are your goals, and what's the end game with me.
2. Do you have any kids how involved are you with their mother or the kids or major responsibilities?
3. Tell him what you looking for and how does he feel about that?
4. How long has it been since your last relationship and are you ready to move on?
5. What are your morals, beliefs,interests?
6. How well are you with communication, is he well in listening and expressing himself?.
7. Are you an angry person,are you triggered easily?
8. What do you think a good man is?
9. What's something u are working on to make yourself a better man?
10. What are you afraid to lose and what can't you live without?
Thank you!!!!!!
Thank you for this! Bookmarking for Self!
I probably wouldn’t ask are you an angry person? I would probably just observe how he answer the question to see if he would get triggered by the questions because most of the time when you asked this question, they will say no I’m not an angry person at all just to look good.
🔥Thank you much Sealz! I honestly feel empowered, dating can be so hard! Not knowing what to look for... or if my standards are too high... and apparently they’re not. Thanks for my confirmation. I’ve written down every question in my journal that I carry with me daily. Keep the lessons coming👨🏾🏫💜!
Wow this made my day thank you for watching and supporting! 👑
I love the responsibilities question. Just because you don't have kids doesn't mean you don't some very significant other obligations.
Some foundational questions like who are your sheroes & heroes? Why do you look up to them? What were their weaknesses? Who instilled your morals and values? What are they? What did you like about your last relationship? What didn't you like? How have you grown from your past relationships? What behaviors did you learn to change?
LADIESSS... listen up to Sealz and these important questions he is saying to ask.. HE IS ON POINT!!!! I see so many women in my coaching with the WRONG men because they DIDN'T ask these questions... Time is the most precious commodity on this earth, don't waste it with the WRONG man.... GREAT VIDEO Sealz.... now if they only listen right? keep up the excellent videos.. Patti @ Get Balanced 2020
You nailed it, but like you said, they have to implement it. Thank you 👑
@@SealztheMan You are a good motivator to LISTEN UP AND PAY ATTENTION...:) lol I hope they do as it will save them A LOT of headaches and wasted time :)
Totally agree time is one thing that you cannot get back your energy or your health you can with hard work however, once your time is gone, it’s gone. Please count your steps ladies because unfortunately there’s no reverse
I absolutely love this! I've been talking to a man for 4 weeks and I've asked every question except for 9 and 10. I'm going to have to add those to the list lol
Also asked when was the last time he was intimate with a woman, but ONLY ask that question after asking how long ago was his last serious committed relationship. Don't ask the intimate question first, ask that next. The reason why you want to do that in that particular order is because that's how you can trip some of them up.
@@MrsNicolas guarantee you men lie about the sex partners
@@IVvOOvVI Virgins lie about sex partners.
Man I needed this message 11 years ago💯 Better now than never💎💎💎💎.
The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The 2nd best time to plant a tree is now! 👑
@@SealztheMan Amen.
Taking Notes !!! Thank-you "KING"
I appreciate you for watching Queen 👑
Gah! I haven’t gone deep enough with most of these questions and it would’ve saved me so much time and frustration. Thank you! 🙏
Sealz, and others.
Those questions and their answers have save me from heartache.
My aunt educated me, and also told me to ask any potential suitor(s) the same questions that he asks me. She told me that if he 'jokingly' pushed, etc. me to jokingly do the same to him.
I have passed these on to my children.
I have educated them that they should save some money to employ a private investigator to check him/her (women carry on too) before they invest their hearts.
I told my son that when his bonafide married wife tells him she's pregnant, to stop having sex until he sees the pregnancy test done in front of him. There are some women who say they are pregnant when they are not.
I also educate them and advocate for my son to get a paternity test done as soon as possible after the baby is born.There are many men who are falsely conned into believing that they are the fathers when in truth they are, as my grandmother would say, "holding a jacket."
These are really really great questions👍🏼. I think I will break them down by pieces. Ask a couple on day ask another section on another date. I don’t care how good looking you are. Our next date is contingent on your answers. We need to do better in this dating scene. This is a great way to start. 😉thanks for this !
Lol this made my day I really appreciate you saying that, thank you and blessings to you
@@SealztheMan ....add that women should ask if the men have ever donated sperm.
Well said, this is my same thought process.
I just love 💕 you!! You sacrificed being in cool air just for us? 🥰 Now that right there says A LOT about you Sealz 😄.
Dating is collecting “data” and I LOVED those questions so much I had to share them with my daughters (I know they’re sick of me)😆, but they deserve to be informed by someone other than me and my husband. I’m tired of the “What chu think ma?” question when a new “boo” pops up in their lives.🤦🏾♀️ If they know what to ask then they’ll know the answer for themselves for the most part. My heart 💜 is genuinely rooting for those looking for and being found by love!!!
This is the type of comment that makes my day, one of my main purposes for making this channel was to help out my young nieces so that when they come of age and start dating and such, they'll have this information from their uncle to go on. So the fact you're passing it on to your daughters means everything, blessings to you and your family 👑
@@SealztheMan your nieces are so blessed to have you in their lives 🥰
@@SealztheMan you
Procrastination has more to do with emotional discipline/ management than time management. I heard that the other day on these internet’s and I was triggered 😵💫
Communication is key.
Being GOOD is doing what's RIGHT 💯 PERIODt
TrustonlyintheproofofACTION 👏🏾
Thanks!
Thank you so much, really appreciate this 👑🖤
Sealz, thank you!🔥 You nailed this list, but 4B is huge. Ladies we have to know and understand this about men. " If you never healed from what hurt you, you will bleed on people who will never hurt you. Healing takes time"
Thanks man, those points are superb. Love you bro. God bless you and everyone that will practice this points of yours and I wish everyone good relationships and marriages .
I love this energy, keep shining Augustina👑
WOW JUST WOW !!! I just stumbled across this video & im SO glad I did ! What valuable information 💯👏🏾 I feel like I should be purchasing info this good 🔥 lol . Instantly subscribed !! Keep this energy coming !! May God bless you & your hustle / business ❤️ I’m seeing a book in the near future 😍
This made my day, I really appreciate you saying that, welcome! 😀
What re your goals, aspiration
Does he have kids
Do you av major responsibilities
Telling him what am looking for n see his reactions
4:how long its being since ur last relationship...
4b Do u feel re ready to start anew
5:morals, belief, intrest, ..
6;how well are you with communication.(well in listening and expressing)
7:
7:what do u think a good man is?
8:whats something ur working on to b the vest version of urself
8;what issues, problem re u working on
9;what re u afriad to lose?
10;what cant u live without?
Sealz you make me laugh. "we definitely ain't got time for that mess" I love your candor and honesty and breakin' it down to the critical factors. Great job. Thanks.
When I heard ... "Naw, bruh"...
I took my seat and prepared for class... Here for the lesson...
Lol thank you for your support, I hope I was able to help
@@SealztheMan Definitely. I wrote them down. I will commit them to memory. Your relationship advise is practical and forces you to activate your common sense. 👍
Ps.... I coined the 10 questions as the " BIG 10".... I guess, my love of the original NCAA came out🤣🤣🤣. Randomness... anyway, thanks for all the effort and time. We appreciate you!
Some of these questions I asked myself, very enlightening and helpful. Thank you!!
I really appreciate it, thank you!
Dating intentionally! Don't date, just to date. Great video ☺️👍🏽
It is sad I never thought about any of these questions. Wonder why I been single for 4 years, I asked the wrong questions. I gave up honestly, after this I'm ready to try again.
Much respect on how you ended your content. Blessings, it speaks a lot towards your character.
I think these are reasonable questions that any serious person should pose to a prospective mate,now whether they choose to answer honestly is a different story. Thank you for this.
Thank you for watching and I appreciate that
@@SealztheMan I just happened upon your channel and you seem like good people so Subscribed!! Stay blessed🙏🏿
These are great questions to ask in a respectful way they sure he cares about his mother that says a lot in a man
Thanks for suffering through the heat to make the vid Sealz! Great list! It'll be good to go through with my current boyfriend. Although we're already in a relationship, I'm still vetting him so they're great ones to ask and it'll allow me to get to know him even better. As always, thanks so much! 😊🖤
Its completely honor, thank you for watching!
Same
This is SO wise. Unfortunately, a lot of the men I've dated would have lied their way through these questions! 😭 I seem to have a soft spot for con-men. On my journey, I've learned to watch actions, heed warnings, and trust my intuition. What are green-flag behaviors that good men exhibit?
Good questions. I am a question queen and have learned people can be very clever with answering questions. Watching their behavior is extremely important. Also, I suggest spending time with someone you are interested in. It is difficult for a person to hide who they are and intentions around you.
In the "talking stage" with someone I'm very interested in, glad I found this before I move forward.
Excellent questions! My last major relationship, he'd been with his previous girlfriend and living together for 5 years. I didnt find out until 7 months in they had literally split only one month before he started dating me. I wish I'd asked that question on our first date. One month after learning that info he cheated and I left him.
Thank you so much for this. I’m in a spot where I’ve needed this kind of guidance on what questions to ask…Been away from the dating scene in years and this couldn’t have come more on time! 🙌🏽
Dating is soo HARD. This video came in time because I plan on taking things slow but I've never been on a date before and in a week it'll be my first time. I'm not letting him know that though because I can definitely play it cool. lol.
Had me on the definition of communication 😂 I was surely waiting patiently
Your mental and emotional intelligence are refreshing. While tending to major responsibilities is a virtue, it 's also time consuming. I'm grappling with this now. In hindsight, I'd suggest a follow up question. Is he willing and able to make time for a relationship?
The smell thing is soo true, I walked into Midas this morning to get my oil change and this beautiful man walked up to me and told me I smelled really good. We talked and he asked me for my number. This is a grown man y’all, I look forward to getting to know him more
I rarely comment, but you had me glued to the screen with this video. Amazing questions to ask, even to oneself. I enjoyed and will be asking this questions soon! Thank you!!!
I appreciate you!
Listen to this man , will save your valuable time
1. What are your goals? What’s your end games with us?
2. Do you have any kids/major responsibilities?
3. Tell him what your looking for and ask him how he feels about it.
4. How long ago was your last relationship? Are you ready to start a new one?
5. What are your morals, beliefs, interests?
6. How well are you with communication (listening and expressing)
7. What do you think a good man is ?
8. What’s something you’re working on to become the best version of yourself ?
9. What are you afraid to lose?
10. What can’t you live without?
Oooooo A WORD !!!!!!!!! And this will filter out the good the bad and the ugly !!! You will find a lot of men aren’t a match for you and it makes dating easier and faster . ! I definitely do this I love it !!
You’re a good relationship counselor and bravo👌🏾👌🏾 I have most of these questions as my compact-ability questions and it have help me in knowing if a guy is up to play or he means real business, and most times those that wants to play see me as been tough but hey I love been coz I have to protect myself and my body coz it’s my pride…
Oh heck yeah!!!!! Thank you for this post!!!! This is great insight on how to approach a man with important questions which reveals the truth behind the shenanigans they put women through. God bless you!!
Excellent advice! These type of questions helps to eliminate potential headaches! Thank YOU! ❤
Sooooo good! Thank you!
Thanks for this,but wish u wld give more light on the answers we should expect and what they say about him
I agree wholeheartedly one of the best videos you have done so important to deal with these 10 questions. I have used similar 10 questions over a two-week. And if the answers aren't going to work with us time for me to move on. Thank you for the humor and so sorry you had to sweat bullets for us. Keep up the good work
Happy to see that you mentioned “Demons” /Vices…..It’s a waste of time dating someone with KNOWN Vices ⚠️
Great Commentary 👏🏾
I LOVED IT! I wish i knew this before
At least you have today to know right? Thank you for that 👑
Thank you Seazl the Man for your videos. I have been watching you for the past 3 days and I appreciate the God - given wisdom you have and you are faithfully sharing with us. I took note of these great questions. May the Lord bless you as you fulfill your purpose.
Question 8 and 9 is dope. It really makes a difference. Tells the fake, unreal and unserious apart. Most fumble (from experience)🤣🤣
Just feeling this Sealz gentleman...you're doing good 👍
Thank you so much ! I’m starting a new relationship with someone I would truly love to know. These questions have open my mind to understanding what is needed to know if he is right or wrong for me . Bless you , your timing is perfect !
Thanks big bro you impressed me and I get the joke I from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 watching ❤❤❤
I agree with asking these questions! It will weed all the wrong ones out!
As A Woman Who Is 23 Years Young, I Approve This Message. ✅✍️
EXCELLENT! Taking notes and also applying same questions to myself !
Hey Sealz …how are you? ☺️🙋🏾♀️ I love your videos !✨…honestly has saved me from headaches!…😮💨Dont really know how to word everything but I’ve been seeing a Good man for 3 + months and we go on dates ..we title them as “experiences” and we do “couple” things ..He’s a slave to work which I don’t have an issue with ..☺️ not in a goldiggerish type of way🥴😭 he does have a child ☺️( also have no problem with this)… throughout the weekdays sometimes even weekends I receive no texts or calls but when I’m around him he treats me as if I were his girlfriend but has not ask me to be his girlfriend … I believe myself to be a good woman ..He even shares his long term goals with me ..making me part of these goals all the time 🤧and so I guess my questions are …and sorry for going on a rant😮💨… Am I wasting my time ? ….I know he’s busy working but not one text or call throughout the week ? …do you think it’s harder for him to commit because of his child ? Am I overthinking this?😵💫 Am I asking the wrong questions?😭
TELL HIM WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR AND ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT IT.
**personally I feel if you tell a man what u want, he could PRETEND to be what you want in the beginning and once u start having feelings, his true self will most likely emerge and u will have wasted your time. I feel like if u don't tell a man what ur looking for and just date one another, ur more likely to see the true man that he is rather than him "trying" to pass as the man u want him to be.
Men like you who are wise, self-aware and introspective seem to be rare…whoever your woman is- she’s LUCKY!
Thank you 🙏🏾 I’ll watch this again & write ✍️ these questions down in preparation for when I start dating again.
❤ Okay, great questions (advice). I appreciate the detailed explanations that followed as well. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this! Great reminder
Wow this is really insightful, i regret not asking number 8 because i discovered leter in my past relationship that i was with an addict. Painful that he even used this as an excuse for all the wrong things he was doing
Real talk. I needed to do a self check in and ask myself these questions.
You're a boom, I never came across a video like this. I learned something new ..wow!!..
I appreciate you saying that!!
You're saying it like these men out here are really going to answer the questions truthfully
Love you sealz communication is key for me u absolutely spot on xx
LOL so cool. # Yes we are down with the Get Down. Teach King we are ready to learn.
This means everything, thank you!
@@SealztheMan You are so very welcome my friend.👑
Just seeing this and MAN, is this GREAT. Deep, relevant, and necessary!!!
Its so important to ask men what they want? what are you looking for questions first before they ask you. This why the man cant just repeat what u r saying , so you know ihe is being genuwinely honest or just telling you what u want to hear to move ahead as soon as possible.
This help to WEED OUT PLAYAS AND OTHER MEN WHO DONT HAVE YOUR BEST INTERESTS IN MIND.
These men want YOU TO DO ALL THE TALKING ABOUT YOU. They ask you a lot of questions about you.
All they are doing is trying to go the BLUEPRINT AND ROADMAP of how to get whatever they want from you.
Playas will make you feels so speical and important ,like they are so interested in you. When they just be sneaky to get in your pants as soon as possible with as little investment as possible. DONT GIVE BLUE PRINTS to you.
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This has to be the best video I have ever viewed on this type of subject. Well thought through and gives the reasons why each question is important I have shared this and saved it to review and share again later. Thank You and Great Job
I’m new to your channel but staying connected for sure. Great recordings.
a better way to ask are you an angry person would be “how do you deal with stress?”
Comprehension is key
Wow 👏🏿 I am so glad I stumbled upon this video. I am not looking date anyone at the moment but its good to be prepared/informed 🔥 great video 👍
Thank you 💫 I really needed those questions to ask
It is totally my honor, thank you 👑
This is some amazing stuff!! I’m glad I stumble upon your page 🙌🏽
Gosh! U are AMAZING! Never listen to u before… BUT… u have TALENT… each word just insanely valuable… thank YOOOU ♥️♥️♥️♥️
A good man will always check on you.
Yoooooooooooo BEST ADVICE EVER!!!!! You just stopped me from an entire train wreck!!!!! Be blessed and thank you 🥰🥰🥰🥰
No you don’t start asking “What are your goals” … Num 1 is, “Are you single?” … Ans .. “No” … Bye then 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾… No more questions ….
The lightening in the back looks real good
Ohhh what a great video!!!! I feel like you’re my best guy friend, love your sense of humor hahahaa. When you crack up at the dumb silly stuff you say!? Same. Ok, this is so good! Will def ask my crush these Qs😉