I dated a guy that had a wandering eye and he would stare at women all the time. So I flipped it. When men walked by I leaned in and said, "he looks like he makes more money than you". Another guy walked by and I said, "yeah he probably makes a little more than you do". That's the equivalence of when men stare at other women, you give a stranger too much value, so in return I explained what that feels like. That feeling of a little bit of you being chipped away. He definitely understood. He was pissed but he got the message. It's one thing to look or glance casually but staring is ridiculous and disrespectful.
I can agree with most of these things, but staring at other women while in the presence of your woman is disrespectful and immature. It is gaslighting to turn it around on the woman because she feels a way about it. She didn’t ask the man to be disrespectful and sometimes the woman he’s staring at is embarrassed and uncomfortable. He can look at other women when he’s not with his woman. I don’t care if men hate being called out for being disrespectful. I enjoy being in the company of men who have better self-control than the ones who have their eyes glued to every ass trotting by.
When a man(real man) is with his woman, he has no business watching other women in from of her and then call it minor jealousy. It's not jealousy, it's disrespectful for him to watch other women and think she shouldn't say anything about it.
Yeah.... if a woman exhibits the same behavior, liking men's pictures, looking at other men out in public, showing "interest" in any other man but her own, she should say Oh! Don't be petty jealous! I'm sure that man's ego will be slightly bruised 😳
I appreciate the insight into a man's mind. I do wish men could understand a woman's mind too! What a wandering eye does to your woman's self worth is so damaging. Probably the biggest insecurity most women have is "Am I attractive enough?" When you are hanging on your man's arm loving him to the core and he is watching some random woman walk by, this is how it feels to your woman...I AM INVISIBLE TO HIM. Your "15 seconds" is a lifetime to a woman who feels invisible in that moment. "Petty" to a man can be heartbreak to a woman. Men, please remember, just like we don't always understand YOUR brains, y'all don't understand OURS either! RESPECT YOUR LADY just as you want her respect. Use your eyelids, your neck, and turn away from that hot woman walking by! Instead, turn your attention towards your woman, ignoring the others, and you will see an even deeper love start to surface from her! Keep up the good work, I am learning ALOT!
I hear ya... and I agree! But what I don't understand is why most men act like they like a dramatic woman? Like... they act Ike they don't like it but when presented with a good woman they find her boring or un-entertaining and always find themselves back with women who do the exact thing you are saying men hate? I really don't get it and I personally find that to be annoying.
I completely agree with everything except Petty Jelly. Sometimes it's not petty. Personally I've always felt like those examples you gave are unacceptable to me because I wouldn't do it to someone else. I simply call that respect. But it's not an insecurity to say something about him staring at someone so long that I actually notice it.
I agree with most of this video, but the “petty jelly” I have an issue with. I am a very strong, confident woman, so it isn’t a jealousy issue for me. When men are liking/loving other women’s pics on social media, there is a point which it becomes blatant disrespect to the woman he is with. It depends on the content itself, but I can tell you that when I’m in a serious relationship, I am not going to be liking other men’s pics based on looks. That is disrespectful to the man I am with. If it is a status/life change update, a statement or comment that you agree with, or a content related post, then yes by all means like it; but when you are just scrolling through hot women for their looks….NOT OK. That’s no different than him commenting “you’re sexy” on their pics.
I can see where you’re coming from on most of the points you made. However, the petty jelly sometimes can be intuition/gut feeling/red flag. I believe the petty jelly can at times can let a brother know you ain’t no fool & prevent him from getting jammed up. **see what I did there** 😂 Aside from that corny moment...I enjoyed the video & learned some things. You are appreciated.
number 3 for me relates to number 2. i say nothing is wrong in that moment because i dont want to appear petty and im trying to calm down. i hope this helps men to understand why women say this when you ask whats wrong.....
I really appreciate the time and energy you put into making these videos. I've just recently started watching videos on this kinda content. I feel like I needed to find myself again. I won't bore you with my own story. Your vibe comes across genuine. Like a good friend giving you the best advice for the best you.
Then there is no need for him to be staring at any other woman when he is truly satisfied, happy, pleased, love etc the one he is with. Let her be his eye candy; I am just saying. That man should respect the one he is with and vice versa. Petty to some serious to others. Some of us do so much to look nice for ourselves and our man let's keep it real. That's very disrespectful and an insult. Even if you look glance, do not disrespect by staring. Make a decision do you want who you are with or who you are staring or looking at( which easily turns into lust!!!!!) If it's 1 sec.! And I know these are only examples of what we shouldn't do.
A friend of mine was being repeatedly hit in the arm by his wife at a gathering, so eventually he did it back to her to show how it hurt and she went off her head calling him an abuser, telling everyone that he laid hands on her... completely ignored the fact that she regularly hit him and screamed at him while he just stood there helpless. I'm so glad they're divorced now.
@Qtagious do you trust him?... Personally my idea of a best friend is someone you can talk about EVERYTHING, exchange opinions and get solutions to whatever hard situation you could find yourself in; someone to back you up emotionally and morally more than physically.
Those scars are harder to heal from, and for me, changed me permanently. I had to deal with both physical and mental abuse. Everything is great now, but I am different. For the better.
No, it’s so much worse. Emotional abuse is far more damaging and so much harder to heal from than physical abuse. A narcissistic partner can destroy your life from the inside out - from the depths of your soul to turning ALL neighbors, friends and family against you. Even if you’ve had the greatest parents who stuck by you your whole life, your narcissistic person can destroy that bond you never thought possible leaving you feeling abandoned by your mom and dad and them taking your place as their newly adopted child. They’re that good.
I ams struggling with that in my current relationship and I struggle to be in a healthy relationshi because it seems too real and too perfect and I find myself comparing it to my previous relationship. I think I am wounded and struggle to separate the past and the present.
@@mariankuna1428 plz have a conversation with ur guy to help him better understand ur issue ... and plz try to heal and seek help . I was the same way trust me if will leave if u don’t communicate ur feelings . Mine was due to anxiety
A very large percentage of the concerns addressed in the video could be mitigated if each person in the relationship would just invoke the golden rule. Treat your partner the way you want and deserved to be treated. You can only control what you do and who you give your energy to, so decide wisely. I agree 100% that communication is the foundational key so we should be free to say what we are feeling at anytime. If you are in a relationship in which you can’t freely express yourself in a respectful and authentic manner, you may want to look into removing yourself from the connection.
I always say I would never hit man. That *man* is HUMAN first. His initial response/reaction may not be favorable. You don’t know what will happen. And if you can’t see yourself winning a real fight with that man then just don’t. Plus it’s just weird. Don’t do to another what you wouldn’t want done to you. I learned that in kindergarten....a lot of people have missed the memo
We appreciate the video! I take full responsibility for some of these things on this list. Therapy helped a lot with #3. I used to internalize a lot of things that happened in corporate America and sometimes I truly didn't know what was wrong when I got home. I found out some of those emotions are ones my mom and my grandma felt also. I believe trauma is shared in genetics, but I'm blessed to be able to be able to converse better now to my family and friends. As a DV survivor it's a great that you said that. I was analyzing how Dr Phil and others treat men vs women being the victims and It was shocking. Self-control is a salient aspect that missing in society. I pray everyone aligns with it. I was listening to Male vs Man today and he was talking about remaining calm in chaos. Thanks for this reminder. Whenever I decide to start dating again, I'll remember these principles!
I appreciate and respect you, you always speak with dignity and knowledge. Being a survivor of DV brings out something in a survivor that most experiences can't, you have a testimony to tell. Thank you 👑
@@SealztheMan Thank you. Adding value and accountability are salient for me. Yes, the testimony could help someone! Being vunerable allows one to feel. It's something society is missing.
This happens when a person have no mind of their own plus when a girl lack self awareness You need to know if you are in a relationship or third party consultant relationship
The petty jelly is bs! Partners are going to be jealous to an extent. If they’re not they don’t care, point blank period! You say men hate it? Yea they hate it cause they want to still validate these other women and don’t want their girl to say anything!
Because understand this, my husband is not going to let anyone sit there and stare at me, especially not for over 15 seconds, this dude is basic, and by that I mean he states the obvious🤔😉 I mean he literally is teaching things that EVERYONE wants, and then calls it "a man's perspective".
#2 is a matter of respect... there will be different things both parties will consider disrespectful, if that person is truly for you then stop the behavior or be with someone else or yourself. I am speaking as a wife of 5+ yrs, in a healthy mutually respectful relationship. Nice content.
I'm really glad that I found your Channel. I had many issues involving men and I have s male friend at work and he's been a real blessing to me he's a family man and we're nothing more than friends but thanks to your channel I'm able to understand things better even relating to our friendship. I really appreciate the content that you make.
Thank you brother, your insight is greatly appreciated. If anyone has any of those negative profiles you mentioned, LEAVE, WALK AWAY. When it comes to the matters of the heart, things can get complicated. There are no quick fixes to those kinds of issues. It's hardest maintaining your own.
THOSE DUDES LIKING MY PIC WHO HAV A GF OR MARRIED ALL UP IN MY DMS SOOOO SORRY BUT I DISRESPECTFULLY DISAGREE. a man can like a innocent photo but a sexy pic jus ain’t right.
It's called MATURITY King! When we are to a level when those negative things don't matter, is when we will change and prioritize what are most important.
I’m not jealous over a dude who doesn’t appear to be mine. A dude who cannot respect himself enough to keep his own eyes in head is not my man. I’m only territorial about protecting what is mine. If a dude has to stare at another female for 15 seconds whether I’m there or not, he needs to be single and probably stay single.
But what if you’re dating a guy that said he isn’t going to date other women and you catch him talking to a girl on social media, which he planned several dates with, after he told you that he wouldn’t. He calls it off with her once you catch him, right before the second date and claims he is now committed and doesn’t want to lose you, but he continues to search for and follow new females on social media. I say search for because he is following them, but they’re not following him. He claims they don’t matter etc. and spends pretty much all his time with me, but he spent all his time with me before and was going behind my back. Is it then petty to bring up the girls on social media? I would think it was a valid concern.
@Qtagious 🤦🏾♀️ it makes me so nervous to get married. I say all the time that I would love to be married, but in this day and age there is no benefit to us women. The men get all the benefits.
You don't have time for those games. Trust he's a boy still playing games. There are good men out there who played the game 🎯🎯🎮 and is now ready to settle down. Boys play no plans ahead, a real man provide and has a plan for his family's future.
Wow I’m very proud of you my brother,you’re a god sent to enlighten us women. I like your personality.All you speak is nothing but the truth.keep up the good work may god blessed you .🙏🏾
Hey Sealz I definitely understand your perspective regarding petty jealousy 💯 You constantly say on all your videos that you're speaking from a healthy male perspective & I agree with you 💯 I may have misunderstood the example you gave regarding the man liking another woman's picture I personally believe that's an area of concern especially in a relationship particularly on the Male's end as looking & liking other women's pictures can introduce unnecessary temptation & unintentionally cause relationship discontent as other options present themselves anything online these days needs to be engaged in with shrewd wisdom & in a relationship it's important for both parties to feel secure and to me online endeavors like that could be potentially harmful & endanger the integrity of healthy relationships 💛 I'm only making this statement based on your example I'm in no way trying to be rude or be accusatory I'm just sharing my thoughts about that subject particularly & why I personally think it's not such a good idea.... Especially if Faithfulness is the goal 🎁 & That goes for both parties because Women like other Men's pictures to Not to mention how it could make the woman feel ya know liking other womens pictures has the potential to say you're not enough We have to do our best on both ends to create the atmosphere we need in order for our relationships to thrive & be healthy Thank You for all you do Sealz 🏆 I believe your main goal is to make us more self aware & equip us to function better in life & in our relationships 😊 Thank you for Tonight's Share
Its sad men never comment underneath questions like this. I always wonder why men feels its terrible if their woman attracts attention yet a lot of those men have tons of beautiful woman on social platforms
@@sunflowerrayne6026 I definitely understand where you're coming from I realize that the question has a confrontational vibe However honestly I respect Sealz & what He is endeavoring to do I just wanted to know his perspective on that subject I knew when I commented that it was possible he wouldn't respond Sealz also has been saying on his recent uploads that he's been getting unnecessary negative feedback & I do understand it can be challenging I still However respectfully stand on my truth and that truth is if you want a healthy relationship that's safe for both parties don't engage in activities that could potentially damage the integrity of the relationship & if there are problems absolutely address them in honor honesty & love & do all that you can to be the partner you want someone to be to you & if you're not ready for that kind of commitment in wisdom just stay single 🕊
That petty jelly comes from the pain we feel when our man stares at another woman. We feel like we are not enough to keep his attention or interest if he's looking elsewhere and it hurts.
That look you gave on the Petty Jelly is the same look my man give me when I get like that. But ask me if I give a shit....Nope, cause Brada do the same shit to me
Thank you for telling me about this situation, I guess Its I who have trust issues. So Its easy to not trust in what he says. I Love this video, thank You
Dont beat the messenger right... Thank you for helping us to understand what men hate and how we can improve...however, it does go both ways and we all need to compromise on issues that are important to each of us. As women, we feel disrespected when a man needs more then just a glance. Many of us are confident ourselves. Thats not the issue...Its the lack of respect shown by our man while in his company, that we dont tolerate. It makes us feel disrespected. Please relate this information back to the boys as well.
We do the same thing... its natural for anyone to be drawn to look at something nice or attractive...take your look and be done with it. If your woman is in your presence, and you love her, a quick glace is all you need, otherwise it shows lack of respect.
Petty Jelly hmm🤔 I like that, Sealz. The Bible says to watch as well as pray. Preventative measures, along with godly wistom, has brought me much success. For example, an attractive women needs someone to talk too. A man should think long term and try to include another female, to help. Rather than trying to handle things him self and run the risk of causing problems in his own relationship. I don't think women care if an honest complement is given. It's when it's too often or starring too long or talking too long to another woman. People are tired of dealing with adults that don't use common sense and the thought of trying to put what you work so hard for, together, with them is SCARY.
I FEEL YOU....NO ONE SHOULD PAY FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S SIN!!! PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS TO QUICK TO PAINT EVERYONE WITH THE SAME BRUSH!!! WRONG JUST WRONG AS 2 LEFT SHOES!!!
I go to church try change my ways my heart or to not think about past move on to future who knows what I can bring honestly ia m not perfect but ia m striveing
I had never let anyone run my relationship. But I have had men or should I say boys have. And they never stood up. Thats why I choose to be single. No drama. Drama free with a peace of mind .
@Sealz the man Thanks for sharing your views with us women on the things we do as women that turns a man away from us and how to handle situations that we may or may not have been through
I hear you an i take some of what u say an my husband telling me how i change we talking now no cussing so keep coming with your teaching god bless u u save my marridge
"I'm Gucci" 😂😂 I'm guilty of that lol ever since I was a little girl with my parents and my brothers I've never been able to express my anger or disappointment with the person that caused it.. I'm working on it tho .. ty for the video. This helps 🙂
Hey 👋🏾 there! I’m a newbie to your channel and am already loving your content. I share it with my 23 and 31 year old daughters. Thanks for sharing Sealzzzzzzzzz the Man!! 😆 love 💕 it!
Your advice is so real and straightforward! It’s extremely helpful on how to look for reed flags in some men abs tell tell signs of “mr. no sir”Thank you!
Everything y’all hate we hate also 🗣meaning vise versa & none of my friends are allowed to have input in my relationship 😌 sooooooo um 😐 I agree with you… The women in my family knows not to tell a woman anything about her man or she’ll become the problem…
I dated a guy that had a wandering eye and he would stare at women all the time. So I flipped it. When men walked by I leaned in and said, "he looks like he makes more money than you". Another guy walked by and I said, "yeah he probably makes a little more than you do". That's the equivalence of when men stare at other women, you give a stranger too much value, so in return I explained what that feels like. That feeling of a little bit of you being chipped away. He definitely understood. He was pissed but he got the message. It's one thing to look or glance casually but staring is ridiculous and disrespectful.
Bm are killing bw...4 a day. Men are killing women. Not even hitting back.
😂😂
Girl u ruthless 😂
🔥💎🔥 noted‼️📝
Nope. It’s not good, smart, safe to make a person feel badly about themselves. It could be quite dangerous. Just leave.
I've had "best friends" of my boyfriends ruin our relationship. Men get jealous of their homeboy's relationships too.
So try men bytch up faster than we do. And will sleep W her as fast.
Is he on the Dl?
Yes they do
I can agree with most of these things, but staring at other women while in the presence of your woman is disrespectful and immature. It is gaslighting to turn it around on the woman because she feels a way about it. She didn’t ask the man to be disrespectful and sometimes the woman he’s staring at is embarrassed and uncomfortable. He can look at other women when he’s not with his woman. I don’t care if men hate being called out for being disrespectful. I enjoy being in the company of men who have better self-control than the ones who have their eyes glued to every ass trotting by.
Thank you!
I definitely understand!
I agree with you 💯 why would a man who says he loves you " like" other women's photos? It's just not right or necessary.
I love ur comment. Cud not hv said it better tho I tried.😆
I totally agree, when a man stares at another woman while he's with his own, this is telling his woman how much he values her ... very little.
When a man(real man) is with his woman, he has no business watching other women in from of her and then call it minor jealousy. It's not jealousy, it's disrespectful for him to watch other women and think she shouldn't say anything about it.
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Yeah.... if a woman exhibits the same behavior, liking men's pictures, looking at other men out in public, showing "interest" in any other man but her own, she should say Oh! Don't be petty jealous! I'm sure that man's ego will be slightly bruised 😳
🔥💯🔥 most definitely 😯
I appreciate the insight into a man's mind. I do wish men could understand a woman's mind too! What a wandering eye does to your woman's self worth is so damaging. Probably the biggest insecurity most women have is "Am I attractive enough?" When you are hanging on your man's arm loving him to the core and he is watching some random woman walk by, this is how it feels to your woman...I AM INVISIBLE TO HIM. Your "15 seconds" is a lifetime to a woman who feels invisible in that moment. "Petty" to a man can be heartbreak to a woman. Men, please remember, just like we don't always understand YOUR brains, y'all don't understand OURS either! RESPECT YOUR LADY just as you want her respect. Use your eyelids, your neck, and turn away from that hot woman walking by! Instead, turn your attention towards your woman, ignoring the others, and you will see an even deeper love start to surface from her!
Keep up the good work, I am learning ALOT!
If men liking women on the internet staring at women that's not petty that's disrespectful!
I hear ya... and I agree! But what I don't understand is why most men act like they like a dramatic woman? Like... they act Ike they don't like it but when presented with a good woman they find her boring or un-entertaining and always find themselves back with women who do the exact thing you are saying men hate? I really don't get it and I personally find that to be annoying.
I definitely understand, but unsure men act in unsure ways. Dont even waste time with unsure people in general
Constructive criticism can be healthy for any relationship!
Most definitely, when its coming from a good place, you should listen
Men, needs deliverance from generational curses, selfishness, pride, ungrateful
They don’t appreciate good woman or friend in their lives
@Dandy Fine the graphic illustration
I completely agree with everything except Petty Jelly. Sometimes it's not petty. Personally I've always felt like those examples you gave are unacceptable to me because I wouldn't do it to someone else. I simply call that respect. But it's not an insecurity to say something about him staring at someone so long that I actually notice it.
I agree with you
I agree with most of this video, but the “petty jelly” I have an issue with. I am a very strong, confident woman, so it isn’t a jealousy issue for me. When men are liking/loving other women’s pics on social media, there is a point which it becomes blatant disrespect to the woman he is with. It depends on the content itself, but I can tell you that when I’m in a serious relationship, I am not going to be liking other men’s pics based on looks. That is disrespectful to the man I am with. If it is a status/life change update, a statement or comment that you agree with, or a content related post, then yes by all means like it; but when you are just scrolling through hot women for their looks….NOT OK. That’s no different than him commenting “you’re sexy” on their pics.
why do men just dismiss women when they get upset about this? smh
Everything you're saying in this video is true but it vice versa on both ends. We get fed up with the foolishness, too.
That's a fact
True
New female subscriber here. You appear sincere, honest and while encouraging others, you practice what you preach. Nice channel.
I can see where you’re coming from on most of the points you made. However, the petty jelly sometimes can be intuition/gut feeling/red flag. I believe the petty jelly can at times can let a brother know you ain’t no fool & prevent him from getting jammed up. **see what I did there** 😂 Aside from that corny moment...I enjoyed the video & learned some things. You are appreciated.
I saw what you did there, love it 🤣🤣 and you are totally right, thanks for watching
That was clever 🤣🤣🤣 I agree with you!!
number 3 for me relates to number 2. i say nothing is wrong in that moment because i dont want to appear petty and im trying to calm down. i hope this helps men to understand why women say this when you ask whats wrong.....
I really appreciate the time and energy you put into making these videos. I've just recently started watching videos on this kinda content. I feel like I needed to find myself again. I won't bore you with my own story. Your vibe comes across genuine. Like a good friend giving you the best advice for the best you.
That means alot because that is exactly what I'm trying to do, I appreciate you
Then there is no need for him to be staring at any other woman when he is truly satisfied, happy, pleased, love etc the one he is with. Let her be his eye candy; I am just saying. That man should respect the one he is with and vice versa. Petty to some serious to others. Some of us do so much to look nice for ourselves and our man let's keep it real. That's very disrespectful and an insult. Even if you look glance, do not disrespect by staring. Make a decision do you want who you are with or who you are staring or looking at( which easily turns into lust!!!!!) If it's 1 sec.! And I know these are only examples of what we shouldn't do.
Thanks for this message, I sometimes don’t know what my man wants .He is the one who doesn’t want to talk about things 🙏🙏🙏
Definitely check out my previous video on men expressing their feelings, hope it helps some
A friend of mine was being repeatedly hit in the arm by his wife at a gathering, so eventually he did it back to her to show how it hurt and she went off her head calling him an abuser, telling everyone that he laid hands on her... completely ignored the fact that she regularly hit him and screamed at him while he just stood there helpless. I'm so glad they're divorced now.
So much crucial information- really appreciate this. And delivered in a loving, non-judgmental yet powerful way. Accountability needs be taken 🙏🏾
Totally! Thank you for that
Him being yours is the point. Looking and looking hard is disrespectful on either side.
He should get checked with no backing down.
Valid points; I’m taking notes.
I love the background music 🎶🎵 BTW
Thank you love 👑
That "petty jelly" situation is so annoying, also the lack of respect to self and your partner, who should be your best friend.
I definitely understand
@Qtagious do you trust him?... Personally my idea of a best friend is someone you can talk about EVERYTHING, exchange opinions and get solutions to whatever hard situation you could find yourself in; someone to back you up emotionally and morally more than physically.
Just because he didn’t him me physically, he can also put his hands on my soul, which is equally as bad.
Most definitely!
Those scars are harder to heal from, and for me, changed me permanently. I had to deal with both physical and mental abuse. Everything is great now, but I am different. For the better.
No, it’s so much worse. Emotional abuse is far more damaging and so much harder to heal from than physical abuse. A narcissistic partner can destroy your life from the inside out - from the depths of your soul to turning ALL neighbors, friends and family against you. Even if you’ve had the greatest parents who stuck by you your whole life, your narcissistic person can destroy that bond you never thought possible leaving you feeling abandoned by your mom and dad and them taking your place as their newly adopted child. They’re that good.
Yes it can be difficult at times to separate past relationship issues and not applying it to new relationships
I ams struggling with that in my current relationship and I struggle to be in a healthy relationshi because it seems too real and too perfect and I find myself comparing it to my previous relationship. I think I am wounded and struggle to separate the past and the present.
Don’t make the new person in your life pay for what the last one did . It will end the same way 🕊
@@coreyhaga2623 this is facts ... there are a lot of great men out here
@@mariankuna1428 plz have a conversation with ur guy to help him better understand ur issue ... and plz try to heal and seek help . I was the same way trust me if will leave if u don’t communicate ur feelings . Mine was due to anxiety
A very large percentage of the concerns addressed in the video could be mitigated if each person in the relationship would just invoke the golden rule. Treat your partner the way you want and deserved to be treated. You can only control what you do and who you give your energy to, so decide wisely. I agree 100% that communication is the foundational key so we should be free to say what we are feeling at anytime. If you are in a relationship in which you can’t freely express yourself in a respectful and authentic manner, you may want to look into removing yourself from the connection.
I always say I would never hit man. That *man* is HUMAN first. His initial response/reaction may not be favorable. You don’t know what will happen. And if you can’t see yourself winning a real fight with that man then just don’t. Plus it’s just weird. Don’t do to another what you wouldn’t want done to you. I learned that in kindergarten....a lot of people have missed the memo
Word to the wise, thats all true. A lot of people definitely missed the memo smh
We appreciate the video! I take full responsibility for some of these things on this list. Therapy helped a lot with #3. I used to internalize a lot of things that happened in corporate America and sometimes I truly didn't know what was wrong when I got home. I found out some of those emotions are ones my mom and my grandma felt also. I believe trauma is shared in genetics, but I'm blessed to be able to be able to converse better now to my family and friends.
As a DV survivor it's a great that you said that. I was analyzing how Dr Phil and others treat men vs women being the victims and It was shocking. Self-control is a salient aspect that missing in society. I pray everyone aligns with it. I was listening to Male vs Man today and he was talking about remaining calm in chaos.
Thanks for this reminder. Whenever I decide to start dating again, I'll remember these principles!
I appreciate and respect you, you always speak with dignity and knowledge. Being a survivor of DV brings out something in a survivor that most experiences can't, you have a testimony to tell. Thank you 👑
@@SealztheMan Thank you. Adding value and accountability are salient for me. Yes, the testimony could help someone! Being vunerable allows one to feel. It's something society is missing.
This happens when a person have no mind of their own plus when a girl lack self awareness
You need to know if you are in a relationship or third party consultant relationship
The petty jelly is bs! Partners are going to be jealous to an extent. If they’re not they don’t care, point blank period! You say men hate it? Yea they hate it cause they want to still validate these other women and don’t want their girl to say anything!
15 seconds is quite a long time to be staring at someone though 🤣🤣🤣
Because understand this, my husband is not going to let anyone sit there and stare at me, especially not for over 15 seconds, this dude is basic, and by that I mean he states the obvious🤔😉 I mean he literally is teaching things that EVERYONE wants, and then calls it "a man's perspective".
You're right, I tell him he has 3 seconds to appreciate the beauty,
that's it.
Every second after that puts in a time out box.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Wonderful reminder to be aware of our actions and roles as women in the relationship. Thanks.
... men who are in relationships shouldn't be liking other women's post, bb. Practicing for loyalty in marriage. ☺️
#2 is a matter of respect... there will be different things both parties will consider disrespectful, if that person is truly for you then stop the behavior or be with someone else or yourself. I am speaking as a wife of 5+ yrs, in a healthy mutually respectful relationship. Nice content.
I'm really glad that I found your Channel. I had many issues involving men and I have s male friend at work and he's been a real blessing to me he's a family man and we're nothing more than friends but thanks to your channel I'm able to understand things better even relating to our friendship. I really appreciate the content that you make.
I love this channel, it’s very helpful!!!!
Aaaww that part when asked what's wrong...really the way you turn your head and say "i don't know what am saying"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you killed me.
Be faithful be trusted be honest be truthfully be keep real
' I caught you staring at her for 15.6 seconds' hilarious
😂😂😂
Detailllsss😜👊
That’s a long time actually..👀👀
@@tiffanyspy exactly
So, let me get this straight,
if your lady stared at a man for over 10 seconds
you would not wonder what she's thinking?
Bull Fu...n sh..
Thank you brother, your insight is greatly appreciated. If anyone has any of those negative profiles you mentioned, LEAVE, WALK AWAY. When it comes to the matters of the heart, things can get complicated. There are no quick fixes to those kinds of issues. It's hardest maintaining your own.
THOSE DUDES LIKING MY PIC WHO HAV A GF OR MARRIED ALL UP IN MY DMS SOOOO SORRY BUT I DISRESPECTFULLY DISAGREE. a man can like a innocent photo but a sexy pic jus ain’t right.
Thirst trap pics are red flag 🚩
It's called MATURITY King! When we are to a level when those negative things don't matter, is when we will change and prioritize what are most important.
Your points are a
Yes I agree
I done watched and listened to this one yet again
Good job sir
Tks for your time
I’m not jealous over a dude who doesn’t appear to be mine. A dude who cannot respect himself enough to keep his own eyes in head is not my man. I’m only territorial about protecting what is mine. If a dude has to stare at another female for 15 seconds whether I’m there or not, he needs to be single and probably stay single.
Break the cycle of hurting people hurts people
Ephesians 4:31-32
But what if you’re dating a guy that said he isn’t going to date other women and you catch him talking to a girl on social media, which he planned several dates with, after he told you that he wouldn’t. He calls it off with her once you catch him, right before the second date and claims he is now committed and doesn’t want to lose you, but he continues to search for and follow new females on social media. I say search for because he is following them, but they’re not following him. He claims they don’t matter etc. and spends pretty much all his time with me, but he spent all his time with me before and was going behind my back. Is it then petty to bring up the girls on social media? I would think it was a valid concern.
@Qtagious 🤦🏾♀️ it makes me so nervous to get married. I say all the time that I would love to be married, but in this day and age there is no benefit to us women. The men get all the benefits.
You don't have time for those games. Trust he's a boy still playing games. There are good men out there who played the game 🎯🎯🎮 and is now ready to settle down. Boys play no plans ahead, a real man provide and has a plan for his family's future.
Wow I’m very proud of you my brother,you’re a god sent to enlighten us women. I like your personality.All you speak is nothing but the truth.keep up the good work may god blessed you .🙏🏾
Hey Sealz I definitely understand your perspective regarding petty jealousy 💯 You constantly say on all your videos that you're speaking from a healthy male perspective & I agree with you 💯 I may have misunderstood the example you gave regarding the man liking another woman's picture I personally believe that's an area of concern especially in a relationship particularly on the Male's end as looking & liking other women's pictures can introduce unnecessary temptation & unintentionally cause relationship discontent as other options present themselves anything online these days needs to be engaged in with shrewd wisdom & in a relationship it's important for both parties to feel secure and to me online endeavors like that could be potentially harmful & endanger the integrity of healthy relationships 💛 I'm only making this statement based on your example I'm in no way trying to be rude or be accusatory I'm just sharing my thoughts about that subject particularly & why I personally think it's not such a good idea.... Especially if Faithfulness is the goal 🎁 & That goes for both parties because Women like other Men's pictures to Not to mention how it could make the woman feel ya know liking other womens pictures has the potential to say you're not enough We have to do our best on both ends to create the atmosphere we need in order for our relationships to thrive & be healthy Thank You for all you do Sealz 🏆 I believe your main goal is to make us more self aware & equip us to function better in life & in our relationships 😊 Thank you for Tonight's Share
Its sad men never comment underneath questions like this. I always wonder why men feels its terrible if their woman attracts attention yet a lot of those men have tons of beautiful woman on social platforms
@@sunflowerrayne6026 I definitely understand where you're coming from I realize that the question has a confrontational vibe However honestly I respect Sealz & what He is endeavoring to do I just wanted to know his perspective on that subject I knew when I commented that it was possible he wouldn't respond Sealz also has been saying on his recent uploads that he's been getting unnecessary negative feedback & I do understand it can be challenging I still However respectfully stand on my truth and that truth is if you want a healthy relationship that's safe for both parties don't engage in activities that could potentially damage the integrity of the relationship & if there are problems absolutely address them in honor honesty & love & do all that you can to be the partner you want someone to be to you & if you're not ready for that kind of commitment in wisdom just stay single 🕊
A new Sub. Am glad am here. Your channel came in soo handy, adding soo much impact. Highly i appreciate all your doing on this channel.
Why are there so many men whos cheating with her best friend? I just wonder. I really like your honesty 🙂❤
That petty jelly comes from the pain we feel when our man stares at another woman. We feel like we are not enough to keep his attention or interest if he's looking elsewhere and it hurts.
Great video!!! I agree 100%
Pretty much just being happy carefree and think only positive things 😍
How do you tell your best that her husband cheat s with out losing your friend ship with her please do a video about it ok
That look you gave on the Petty Jelly is the same look my man give me when I get like that. But ask me if I give a shit....Nope, cause Brada do the same shit to me
🤣🤣 be nice!
@@SealztheMan yes sir
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is spiritual not normal
Deliverance
Inner healing
Repentance
Forgiveness
Take accountability for his actions
Thank you for telling me about this situation, I guess Its I who have trust issues.
So Its easy to not trust in what he says.
I Love this video, thank You
Love You too
Love the ambiance and smooth vibe. Thanks for your information.
Another thing eating his food when she has her's on the plate.🙈🙈🙈🗣🗣🗣.
Thanks for another great video.
Sealz the man the truth shall set you free
I love your channel. I am much older and have been through a lot. I know for a fact that what you say is very informative.
Dont beat the messenger right... Thank you for helping us to understand what men hate and how we can improve...however, it does go both ways and we all need to compromise on issues that are important to each of us. As women, we feel disrespected when a man needs more then just a glance. Many of us are confident ourselves. Thats not the issue...Its the lack of respect shown by our man while in his company, that we dont tolerate. It makes us feel disrespected. Please relate this information back to the boys as well.
Thank you🙏😇 so much clarity in this video, as always!🔥 love from Haiti🇭🇹🇭🇹
15.6 seconds is a looooong time!
It is!! That photo better be having a lot going on in the foreground and background or more people in it for him to be lookin that long🤣☠
We do the same thing... its natural for anyone to be drawn
to look at something nice or attractive...take your look and be done with it. If your woman is in your presence, and you love her, a quick glace is all you need, otherwise it shows lack of respect.
Yeah he's showing his colors on this one and they're faded as hell.🙄
Thank u✊I shall see to it that I am not hurting my men like that 😐
Petty Jelly hmm🤔 I like that, Sealz. The Bible says to watch as well as pray. Preventative measures, along with godly wistom, has brought me much success. For example, an attractive women needs someone to talk too. A man should think long term and try to include another female, to help. Rather than trying to handle things him self and run the risk of causing problems in his own relationship. I don't think women care if an honest complement is given. It's when it's too often or starring too long or talking too long to another woman. People are tired of dealing with adults that don't use common sense and the thought of trying to put what you work so hard for, together, with them is SCARY.
Alright, love the words you share Sealz!
I FEEL YOU....NO ONE SHOULD PAY FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S SIN!!! PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS TO QUICK TO PAINT EVERYONE WITH THE SAME BRUSH!!! WRONG JUST WRONG AS 2 LEFT SHOES!!!
Good Afternoon 😊👍🏾☀️🌋 Sealz.
Everything you said on this video is on point.. totally agree. You mentioned about 'Petty Jelly'? Lol ... some of us have huge problem with that.😂🤣
Its something that has to be dealt with 🤣🤣
I go to church try change my ways my heart or to not think about past move on to future who knows what I can bring honestly ia m not perfect but ia m striveing
Thank you for sharing.
Definitely do the late night intro.🔥 Your content is A1. Great points made. Thank you for making these videos! I appreciate you!
I'm gonna try and work on that lol thank you
Will you do a segment on narcissism?
Ohhh now thats a good topic...I got you
Have any of you read the definition of narcissism , this is like a four page read !
Thank you Sealz love you.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Sending love to you and Jamaica!
I had never let anyone run my relationship. But I have had men or should I say boys have. And they never stood up. Thats why I choose to be single. No drama. Drama free with a peace of mind .
you rock my world Sealz! kudos good job! watching from From Africa Kenya
OMG! Keep looking at me with those eyes!
Thank you for your great advice! You are full of wisdom.
I would rather be told this than relationship advice. Love ya man.
@Sealz the man Thanks for sharing your views with us women on the things we do as women that turns a man away from us and how to handle situations that we may or may not have been through
I hear you an i take some of what u say an my husband telling me how i change we talking now no cussing so keep coming with your teaching god bless u u save my marridge
Really good video sir!
Thank you ma'am
"I'm Gucci" 😂😂 I'm guilty of that lol ever since I was a little girl with my parents and my brothers I've never been able to express my anger or disappointment with the person that caused it.. I'm working on it tho .. ty for the video. This helps 🙂
Hey 👋🏾 there! I’m a newbie to your channel and am already loving your content. I share it with my 23 and 31 year old daughters. Thanks for sharing Sealzzzzzzzzz the Man!! 😆 love 💕 it!
Thank you for speaking the Truth!
#BLM #StayHonest #StopTheViolence
The movie always ends with the Kong being dead and the second hand man is in charge lol
True say though 💯
Those biases are destroyers
I hear you on the Petty Jelly...sheesh 🙄 call me out lol 🤣
Roger that
Oh no to the smear campaign though, that's hella petty
Best way to like her best friends is get to know them. Be their friend.
If you sense a dog bite, you don't go and buy a cage to take it home. Same as relationship, if it smells bad why tasting it.
Thank you. Be strong and first in everything in your life. Amen !
This Was great! Thank you!!
HELL NO!!!!!
A REAL MAN HAS RESPECT FOR WHO HE'S WITH .....LADIES THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE.
Thank you and I receive it !!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Your advice is so real and straightforward! It’s extremely helpful on how to look for reed flags in some men abs tell tell signs of “mr. no sir”Thank you!
Love you sealz!!!!
Now thats love!
When you pick the video to be entertained then you realize wait ✋ I used to do that. And that one, 😩 lol thanks for the pointers Sealz The Man
Everything y’all hate we hate also 🗣meaning vise versa & none of my friends are allowed to have input in my relationship 😌 sooooooo um 😐 I agree with you… The women in my family knows not to tell a woman anything about her man or she’ll become the problem…
Thanks alot for this wonderful video have learned so far from all your videos more wisdom 🤗🤗🤗🤗😍😍😍😍❤❤❤
I love to hear that, thank you 👑
God bless always you sir... For me this is the most fantastic advices ived seen, I salute you sir, take care...