It sounds like the harsh comments come from people who've been in a relationship or closely interacted with another untreated/undiagnosed person with struggles with intimacy. CPTSD and other conditions look and feel like BPD. Promiscuity is not limited to only a property of BPD, neither is anger or mood swings. Also BPD is a spectrum+ there are 4 subtypes. Quiets usually just do most harm to themselves. Also, take a look at yourself. We typically attract people about as emotionally as healthy as we are. BPD people are catnip to NPDs. Hmmmm??? A person with BPD is so much more than their diagnosis. All of the BPD Bunch own your past untreated poor behavior. People with DBT skills have so many tools others could use! ❤❤
i feel like i need to leave a judgmental comment now lol , you guys have helped me so much to see and work on what is making my life harder, so big thank you from me, and yes i have been hurt with people with personality disorders but i cant change them only me and so again thank you for helping me see the truth about me 🥰
@@noturbo that's a very true statement and also very kind. I saw explosive temper modeled and that was what I did for my 1st 30 years. I always hurt myself worse---the shame I used to feel after blowing up kept me in a loop of pain. I'm so sorry you were ever treated poorly. Thank you for compassion. 💗
I just want to say I appreciate you Xannie and all of the members of this channel for the time and effort you all put in so that others with BPD can get educated and feel less alone. I've struggled with undiagnosed BPD for a long time. Was only the last couple years I found out I had quiet bpd. Explains so much. Not everyone gets it. But hearing you all talk about everything that comes with bpd means so much to people like myself. So thank you truly.
If you're in remission long term, then there's no need to bring it up immediately upon getting to know a person. If you're still actively struggling, then it's important to not overshare or trauma dump if you're starting a new relationship.
I aas savages badly sexually abused as a child and got Bpd and ocd, anxiety and panic disorders. Medication im on pregablin and citalopram and valium. My boyfriend was schizophrenic recovering well. We absolute love each other xx
I think the people making these comments don't even know what BPD is. It's a spectrum. We're not all Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction. I don't know about you guys, but I've never boiled a live rabbit. I'm probably dating myself with this reference, but you never know. And it is so egregious that some of these comments are full of sweeping generalizations, as if they know every person on the planet that has BPD. Shameful ignorance.
I´ve seen in my life people with bpd, who were even "adorable" to me, however those people with bpd who does such a terrible things may be on the more of the "arogant side of spectrum." Those I also seen and it makes big difference.
Zannie your sudden yelling loud sqealy voice in the beginning of the videos freaks my BPD trigger...But I usually just fastforward thru it then decided I will put it out there. So maybe if you have a microphone maybe you should Not you definely don't need one.😸
It sounds like the harsh comments come from people who've been in a relationship or closely interacted with another untreated/undiagnosed person with struggles with intimacy. CPTSD and other conditions look and feel like BPD. Promiscuity is not limited to only a property of BPD, neither is anger or mood swings. Also BPD is a spectrum+ there are 4 subtypes. Quiets usually just do most harm to themselves. Also, take a look at yourself. We typically attract people about as emotionally as healthy as we are. BPD people are catnip to NPDs. Hmmmm??? A person with BPD is so much more than their diagnosis. All of the BPD Bunch own your past untreated poor behavior. People with DBT skills have so many tools others could use! ❤❤
Aw, thanks for your support and you are so right about everything you said. ❤
i feel like i need to leave a judgmental comment now lol , you guys have helped me so much to see and work on what is making my life harder, so big thank you from me, and yes i have been hurt with people with personality disorders but i cant change them only me and so again thank you for helping me see the truth about me 🥰
@@noturbo that's a very true statement and also very kind. I saw explosive temper modeled and that was what I did for my 1st 30 years. I always hurt myself worse---the shame I used to feel after blowing up kept me in a loop of pain. I'm so sorry you were ever treated poorly. Thank you for compassion. 💗
I just want to say I appreciate you Xannie and all of the members of this channel for the time and effort you all put in so that others with BPD can get educated and feel less alone. I've struggled with undiagnosed BPD for a long time. Was only the last couple years I found out I had quiet bpd. Explains so much. Not everyone gets it. But hearing you all talk about everything that comes with bpd means so much to people like myself. So thank you truly.
If you're in remission long term, then there's no need to bring it up immediately upon getting to know a person. If you're still actively struggling, then it's important to not overshare or trauma dump if you're starting a new relationship.
Those are some of the nicest mean comments i’ve heard lol
We get some meaner ones, but they don’t really have a lot of substance to respond to! 😂
Love Mo's hair!!! Looks amazing, as does the whole makeup job, the lipstick. Such a hot look! :)
Aw. Thank you!😊
Another great video and who doesn't love Xannie's "jazz hands" (no hetero!)
Xannie❤Heavy Cream
I aas savages badly sexually abused as a child and got Bpd and ocd, anxiety and panic disorders. Medication im on pregablin and citalopram and valium.
My boyfriend was schizophrenic recovering well.
We absolute love each other xx
Xannie, try this... Microwave milk combined with honey and butter.
I think the people making these comments don't even know what BPD is. It's a spectrum. We're not all Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction. I don't know about you guys, but I've never boiled a live rabbit. I'm probably dating myself with this reference, but you never know.
And it is so egregious that some of these comments are full of sweeping generalizations, as if they know every person on the planet that has BPD. Shameful ignorance.
Bro hell yeah heavy cream 🤣🤣🤣 its what whipped cream is made of why not
I´ve seen in my life people with bpd, who were even "adorable" to me, however those people with bpd who does such a terrible things may be on the more of the "arogant side of spectrum." Those I also seen and it makes big difference.
They're only human, just like all of us are. There are good people and bad people, whether you have BPD or not.
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Heavy cream 😂wat x love from the uk 🇬🇧 xx
These all sound… very personal? 😅
What's with these awful comments!!!
bpd is not your fault but it is your responsibility
Absolutely!
Zannie your sudden yelling loud sqealy voice in the beginning of the videos freaks my BPD trigger...But I usually just fastforward thru it then decided I will put it out there. So maybe if you have a microphone maybe you should Not you definely don't need one.😸
I don’t have a microphone that’s just my voice 🥲
@@xannibelleI think your voice is warm and welcoming. It’s obvious that you’re excited and proud of this show/community that you’ve created. ❤