My wife is the first person I got intimate with. I kept myself pure and there is no shame in it |LNN
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- Charles Dey knew he was only going to be intimate with the woman he would say I do to, and to him, this is the best decision he ever made. On this episode of LNS, he walks us through meeting Caroline Dey, who we previously featured on this platform and why vowed to always treat her right even after her previous abusive relationship
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Good morning team LNN,
Thank you for tuning in to our episode with Carol's husband Charles Dey
What is your take home?
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Thank you so much for watching
Good morning too LYNN plus all LNN community
I really waited for this show, beautiful and awesome,it has really encourage me,Thank you Charles family and Lynn
Wow, Pray God brings my own after this toxic one. Love this couple
@@anneanne893He is coming coz God is faithful.
Love is a beautiful thing when you find the right person
I'm here having vowed at age 14 after circumcision that i would keep myself pure now at 23 with my Sexual purity intact I'm praying to stand strong and honour God with it in my marriage
Keep it up🙏🙏...I rem signing purity pledge....❤... Purity makes one have peace within her/Himself ..🙏🙏
There is nothing that God can not do, keep on praying 🙏
Am 56 yrs so at our time we overcame.married at 25 yrs and I pray you overcome by God's grace
Congratulations and may God help you stay sexually pure coz it's not easy at all especially in our today generation.
Congratulations and may the God grace be upon you and carry you through,its not easy but also is for your own benefit....sex is a covenant and its a process to come out from soul ties....sex before marriage is a fornication,
your own body
Am one person who believes there are men out here with high level of morals and self respect.
I know one who also waited till marriage. They now have three kids..I fear being close coz I don't wanna be the person to make it break his vows. He has only slept with *one* woman. He is 35 and professionally accomplished too. ❤ ❤
❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
They are there, young and older!
Celibacy is strictly for virgins.. you can't be chewed and still claim celibacy! That's why most men don't take you serious when you bring the topic of celibacy till marriage coz they see you as a fraud
Me too. It gives you a certain peace
It’s very encouraging for us who has been called all names for years since our youths always see us stupid when we say we have kept ourselves for years. God keep holding me till that day .
one day God will pay you
kevin always be strong and GOD wil grant you one day,umetoka bali
It sounds very good to have a man feedback about no sex before marriage ! Thank you Lord 🙏
Charles story has saved my life today ..I have kept my self safe for 7 years but today I was these close to doing something crazy..
HalleluYah! Keep holding on, the wait is worth it.
@kusudijipya, don't lose your principles because of pressure. My son is also holding on. Keep it up. God will regard you at the end.
May God's Strength Carry You on...More Strength Ooooooooh.
God be praised
Thank God For Lynn's platform. Don't let anyone make you feel less valuable because you decided to honor God's word. We salute and celebrate you!!
Gosh. I love this interview. The man is so gentle, and the fact that he mentions God and then his wife means that truly he was blessed with whom he desired. Marriage is beautiful and it works. :-)
This is profound.
A rare breed of man.
Carol is blessed to have such a husband.
Please take care of each other ❤❤
At 49 years but still a virgin as a man , it s not easy abig thumps up to Charles.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
OMG this guy really understands purity, marriage and service to one another. I wish more men would listen to this story and if possible connect with him. Truly Carol is blessed to have him for a husband. For sure great men that love and fear God still exist. May God bless this couple and use them to transform this generation in Jesus' name!
Thank you Charles for loving our sister unconditionally, you are such a unique man and I applaud you for NOT using Carol's past to judge her. So many spouses use their spouse's past to hurt, judge, lower their self esteem, etc. You are a wonderful couple ❤❤❤
The pleasure is all mine. I've been blessed with a great wife. Just as Christ said he who is without sin should throw the first stone. Truth be told, we have all fallen short. And it is only the grace and love of God that makes our relationship with him possible. Had it not been for his death on the cross we would have all been doomed! But thanks be to God, who causes us to triumph in his name.
@@gentleman0678 Wow, this is amazing, keep up the good work and continue setting a good example in our generation 👏
I relate to this ! Sexual purity is very beautiful. This was deep! Thank you 🙏
This man must be invited as keynote speaker in 2024 men's conference in Kenya!
I can't keep calm about this topic Lynn. Being Celibate has so many benefits including clarity/objectivity in decision making. I wish everyone would join in and wait untill Marriage. Its tough but with God everything is possible.
wow.. congrats Carol. Unfortunately, this is a rare case in women and men
What if you don't get married
@@Moraa-b8s what if you get married unakuja na baggages? that marriage will struggle mama. Ask the right questions. Furthermore, whatever you don't know doesn't eat you
This story is so sweet I am smiling all the time, started yesterday. This man is a gem, I keep zooming on their beautiful photos together then go back to the story 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. God made them for each other.
You are not a lone zooming 😂
💯💯💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God bless you Man for having such a heart, it's not easy to get people like you be blessed much 🙏
Aki Lynn 😅me too l need to sit on this yellow seat having a second chance in marriage is great now over 10yrs,l feel like am 20 yrs n appreciated fully with my sweet husband ❤
OMG! 2 Minutes in and this is an excellent conversation Lynn. This is incredible! Integrity is Currency! I love it!
I like that .... integrity is currency. Amen.
Awww my dear one. I remember when Carol brought you to our house and you took out the trash, vacuumed the house🤣🤣🤣🤣!!! I knew you were the one. You are kind, you are gracious and you love Carol just the way she needs to be loved for the amazing woman she is. ❤
What a man Charles is, very encouraging and well spoken.
May he be an example for others to follow.
Thanks Lynn for hosting him 🙂.
When men genuinely honour and put God first, you can see it radiating in them right away! Charles stands out indeed.
What a beautiful, God honoring couple!!! My cup is full with so many nuggets of wisdom. May God continue to bless you Charles and Caroline, make your hearts glad and glorify Himself through your marriage. Pursuing sexual purity is worth it. May God continue to raise up a generation of godly men who love Him, honor their wives and lead their families graciously 🥳🥳🥳
He is a young William McDowell😀 powerful message
I couldn't pass this story...am hoping wait for mine as well, now at 26 and God has preserved me
Shikililia tu hapo. God is faithful
Don't compromise! It is worth it.
It's always mind blowing for me to see a handsome, well spoken and God fearing man, I love how he is grounded on God's word, Carol you are a lucky gal, best wishes to you both
I will let my children know that sex before marriage is a sin...God help me thanks Lynn be blessed
This is what I've been waiting for, most couples start their marriage with fornication that's why their marriages don't last.
Everything that you start on devil's foundation, cannot last unless you repent.
Marriages started with purity (sex after Holy matrimony) always last forever coz God honors the covenant of marriage❤❤ but fornicators & adulterers, God will judge😢😢 (Hebrews 13:4)
That's very true 😂
There's a lot more to failed marriages than sex before marriage. Some people married non-virgins, several but they are still together. I know several marriages that broke and yet people were virgins. Because there's a lot more and people assume virginity is all for a happy marriage. What I know is that God is very merciful to the worst of sinners. Even though Caro had fornicated before, He gave her a virgin of a husband.This good God we serve. Nonetheless, I'm heading to 40 and waiting as well
@@vernie7324 You never understood my comment my dear, someone you're supposed to marry whether virgin or not virgin, you're not supposed to have sex with them until you're wedded.
Most of us have received Christ after losing the relationship which we started on a foundation of fornication and we've learnt this truth in salvation.
Definitely the devil enters through one way of fornication and other problems follow leading to failure of marriages.
I agree 💯
your comment is not popular coz many people here started on that foundation. Though it's 100% true
This is very encouraging…may we have many men who believe in this principle in our society.
and women too
@@elijahm1717They are there believe you me though a rare
My Ghanaian brother you make me very proud 👏🏾👏🏾. Keep it up you and Caroline have a great relationship, she deserve to have a beautiful second chance at love 💗
Men who have kept themselves pure are patient and love the 1cor 13 way .. and they are grounded. What a lovely interview
So amazing Story Lyn
Thanks Charles for sharing your principles to us the today's celibate,we hear that we can remain intimate up to our marriage
May the God help us to this sweet journey
I really appreciate and enjoy this interview. I enjoy listening. I am an abused wife and now a widow.i am blessed.
I have been married for the last 12 years and so many things I could relate between Carol and Charles on their Relationship and that is Marriage is a team work which the role of it is to win 🏆 and a great Friendship should be there because there will come so many ups and down but because you are friends before lovers, both of you will be able to fight through together as one ❤.
Marriage works 💯
Marry your bestfriend
Marriage is not 50/50 you have to give your all. Submit to each other, serve one another and make one another happy 🎉 and no marriage is perfect 👍🏾 but as Team you work on your imperfections on and on 😊
Huyu ni mkikuyu wa uko Ghana 😅😅we are proud of you sir 4 learning to be romantic ❤❤
Thank you Lynn for hosting him, he has spoken much good to our generation and am keeping this for my son 9 years to come. It will will speak to him these words of wisdom and the love the love they both have for each other and God being the centre of their marriage
I wish i kept myself pure for my husband coz he is a great man to me but i promised him that i will give him the best gift ever which is being faithful to him and honouring him all the days of my life
being faithful is not a gift mama.. it is part of the arrangement of monogamous partnerships. Furthermore, it is very easy for women to stay faithful in healthy relationships. It would be a precious gift - faithfulness - if he was not that great or unfaithful. Otherwise, it's empty rhetoric. You are faithful because he is a great man for you
@@phillipsidhojapap1461😂 thanks for this reply.
@@Nonek214 we need to be real.. this lady would have just appreciated the content. But showing how she is holier than thou because of her faithfulness to a good man is ludicrous to say the least. Her husband is faithful to her and also she is getting sex in the relationship. Nothing special here, nothing a sacrificial gift
@@phillipsidhojapap1461 Exactly.
I was here waiting for this episode thanks to this gentleman for loving his wife
This is a complete sermon on purity and life.
Wapi wenye wanatumia YOLO to justify indulging in all kinds of......
Life in Christ is the real deal. It is not boring! It is the most fun-filled life i know yet.
Thank you brother
There's Something called Virginity without Character..I Support Purity But It Goes With Continued Respect Even After Marriage...
Exactly. Someone mighty be a virgin but their attitude,Crap!
@@lucyboboh3024
True ....
Aki Lynn😂😂😂😂dollars and the laughter 😂😂😂..Man of his words and also patient from the way he is communicating
am encouraged by this interview and I do believe there are good men out there with good morals and truly born again.......where is my 'Charles'
what about yourself. have you kept your morals. In this life you get what you have been
I also want my ‘Charles’
Wow Lynn! This Rebuilding series is mind-blowing.
Charles is a Unicorn! Very calm, principled, well-spoken and overall down-to-earth. A gem and a gentleman. Carol, thank you for modeling to us what a God-ordained, warm, loving marriage looks like. All the best as you both continue on your journey together.
This is a glorious testimony to the value of Biblical Christianity. God's way is still the way to go, and I pray all choose His way of life. Charlie, thank you for being such a great example of Christ. May your union with Carol bring you both God's very best. Best wishes from your fellow Ghanaian, Chrife brother.
Glory to God for having His remnants and using them to win souls to Christ 🙏. May God Almighty continue blessing your union for His glory. Currently in an emotionally abusive marriage and totally confused! Kindly pray for me.
Thank you Lynn for sharing this story of a couple choosing to live their lives to honor God. May the good Lord continue to keep and bless their union.
Praise God! good to know that there are still good men out there, pure men... many talk about ladies.. to remain pure... thank you for sharing and encouraging young people.
Yes, you enjoy a clean conscience, pleasing to God,your waiting merits you the Creator's favour for holding on to his righteous standards and principles. May God bless and bond this lovely couple 👫 the more🙏❤️❤️🔥🔥🫂⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️.
After watching this great episode. I can confidently say that Charles is a nice person and Caroline is so blessed to have him, I am so happy for her. Indeed God is faithful.
I think the notion of " testing out " before marriage is a very deceptive one to make people normalize fornication. If you're married to someone for a lifetime, you will eventually figure out intimacy interms of what works. Sexual intimacy was meant to be experienced with one person so you don't have to compare your parher with any other. I wish these conversations were held more. The world makes purity seem weird but it's beautiful. If you're waiting for marriage, don't lose sight. I am too. It's worth it living for Jesus
I love your show Lynn. I love your personality. Thank you so much for helping people the way you do. Praise God ❤❤
I enjoy your conversation with Charles and Carol I want to know whether they have children. May God bless you both❤
The truths from scripture that you share resonate with me totally. Flowers for you Charles 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. I celebrate you.
Beautiful conversation, sexual purity is very key in dating, @Lynn i was on the floor when you asked are those dollars 😂
Charles thanks for the Gem you are. Your Gracious and Dorsol. Love your spirit. Caroline indeed their's a God who knows to restore; compensate and reward. Just sincerely happy for you guys. Lynn thanks for the safe space and gentleness in how you orchestrate your craft. I salute you and your team 🙌👍🙏❤️
Lyn ua questions on point! The “elephant in the room”. He is a rare man n a keeper…nobody has ever died from celibacy😊
a man after God's own heart. thank you Charles am blessed
Glory be to God - This man is a God's gift to Carol - She really deserved to have a man like Charles! I really admire this couple!
I have watched all intimate conversations Lynn within your shows but this is great and incredible. Carol is really blessed with a specially God made man. All the best to the lives of this wonderful couple. May God remember me too.
Amen and amen.
May God grant you the desires of your heart 🙏
I receive@@wolliewolly131
This is great, I like it . Enjoy Kenyan love.Let our daughter mould your love life.A super family you have guyz .
A man that put God first get all the good blessings by serve God and obey his words paid off a wonderful powerful message keep your body until marriage serve your wife as Christ love the church amen thanks so much for sharing
What a great Show! Loved every minute of it. Thanks Carol and Charles for Sharing. Lynn, you're Awesome and we love you.
Was virgin for a long time till my husband came, fortunately he had also not had woman before,God will never let you down if keep pure
Amen. Thank you for your encouragement
In your case, both of you were pure. Is it fair for a pure man to be married to an impure man?
@@calphystylez5976
There's lot more into life
The wife of the above man for instance was married before but a huge blessing to her husband.
Everything happens for a reason,what she went through helped mold n shape her to being the woman she is today
@calphystylez5976 how will you fill when you buy a new thriller movie intending to watch it with your lover, only to be told "aah this one I already watched it 10 times, anyway let's seat and watch it"😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Amazing interview! Carol is indeed blessed to have a man who fears God and respects the aspect of a woman in marriage! we do have wonderful men out there!
Great talk Charles you're a true man to your wife. and I'm glad you are not one of those men would come home and put their feet up letting the woman to do everything in the house yet she's been working whole day same as you. Well done for the respect and understanding your wife as a woman. May God bless you both 😇
Lynn pls host Kimani Mbugua , he really needs help and I think his story will be a lesson to many many youths. Thank you
Wueh! Being a staunch Christian I was almost losing this! I married in church and what I have gone through only God knows. I have realized that even in church most people are in pretense. Thank God I have witnessed "one" faithful man...... Meaning they are there.
Since it was mentioned yesterday I was eagerly waiting for this interview....am sure it is gonna be a blast!
Carol Charles and Trudy Maya this is great our two girls married in Gharna we are happy for you us online family ❤❤
Thanks Lynn. Lord of another chance. Truly God wipes our tears. God bless this couple
Wow and the way I never miss online Lakewood church service on Sundays. This man is a great one, praying to God to raise a God fearing son like Charles.
Yes Lynn absolutely you open a door to very many spirits because the word says the two shall become one meaning you will share the spirits..
Good Day Lynn,
Love you so much for your inspiring presentation. Thanks Charles for such a truthful and brilliant presentation. I enjoy your frank presentation.
I must say that Ghanaians love proper,continue taking care of our child carol.God bless you charles
This gives hope, there are still men who believe in sexual purity
are there children among them??????????????????
Beautiful in her. You have a beautiful wife. 🥰😎 Kikuyu are hardworking people. No afforded
Aman to keep himself pure before marriage and speaking it publickly,,,,wow! I hope other boys and men will pick a leaf,,thank you for sharing ....bravoooo❤
This is confirmation that self-respecting men and men who honor God still exist
I apploud Charles! Joseph of today. May God reward him for his discipline
Very honourable Ewe man from the Volta Region of Ghana 🇬🇭👏and a true child of God.
Wooow...
Lord thank you for such Man in our Generation...
Thank you Carol for being vulnerable and sharing your story. May God continue to bless you and your family...Lynn, you are looking great! I love your hair like this the most...just saying. May God continue to bless you and your crew and open doors for you.
This is sweet, wish we can all be like him
Wonderful interview God still have saved people out there who are still living for Jesus Christ, Congrats to Carol & her husband. Thanks Lynn
This was a great session, glad to know there are still men that love and honour GOD Like Charles , GOD will surely Never Shame You and Your Family.Thank You for sharing your Authentic Story, GOD Bless You 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sorry for losing your dad due to aortic aneurysm. I also had it but underwent a successful open heart surgery at Tenwek Hospital in Bomet
When you walk with God you will never be disappointed
True, Lynn Ngugi....Sexual purity is not just a feminine product in the stores❤❤❤❤
Powerful conversations. Thank you Lynn for bringing Carol and Charles you are a blessed couple. Glad to see Carol my childhood friend, you are a blessing.
I tap into the Divine blessing of this couple ...🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Good men still exist
Thank you very much, Ms. Lynn... Thank you very much, Mr. Dey...
What a beautiful interview this has been! Praising God for gifting Carol with Charles and appreciate them both for sharing their story eith us. May God bless them much more abundantly.. Thanks a great deal Lynn for hosting this lovely couple.
Patience is the key🔥❤️💯
Im so impressed by Carols folks..esp their attitude of humility, Patience and love for their daughter
If there is anything I would like watching is successful marriage and true Love couple ❤❤❤
Whoever God has set aside for you will love you like it's a calling
This show is very insightful, inspiration ,touching ,educative and lots more...
Thanks for this show full of humor,dignity and lots more
Thanks for this show be blessed always 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Charles has really covered the topic well. It's is a topic many shy off from. I give thumbs up for marrying Caro which to be was noble of him. Philippians 4:8. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things.
I wish them nothing but God's blessings.
I love it when someone waits purely...
You wait purely na unakutana na gaidi inakupiga character development
@jeddymoon3803 it is WORTH
@@lonahmmbihi8764 Waah apo ndio shida sometimes
Sadly, its always men who wait.
@@sxc642 ooliskia wapi?
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