Living in SURVIVAL vs. Living in CREATION - Dr. Joe Dispenza

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  • bit.ly/Watch_REWIRED_Now with Dr. Joe Dispenza as he brings together his many years of research into the brain and human biology to present the latest findings on what is humanly possible for creating massive transformation in our lives. In fact, you have a supernatural ability to create a new future, in your own image. We are not hardwired to be a certain way for the rest of our lives, nor are we doomed by our genes.
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    Dr. Joe Dispenza, is an international lecturer, researcher, corporate consultant, author, and educator who has been invited to speak in more than 32 countries on five continents. As a lecturer and educator, he is driven by the conviction that each of us has the potential for greatness and unlimited abilities. In his easy-to-understand, encouraging, and compassionate style, he has educated thousands of people, detailing how they can rewire their brains and recondition their bodies to make lasting changes.
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  • @ashleighmemarzadeh7638
    @ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6378

    He literally described childhood - not focusing on your body, time, your possessions etc. This is why I crave my childhood. I want to feel whole and at peace again.

    • @eliasmekki4238
      @eliasmekki4238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      True!

    • @herekitty791
      @herekitty791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Get a sugardaddy

    • @ashleighmemarzadeh7638
      @ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      @@herekitty791 lmao, I mean, it's an idea! Somehow I don't think an old man buying me fancy things for 'friendship' is going to solve the issue 😂

    • @ashleighmemarzadeh7638
      @ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@MrSidReal that's always an idea! Although I've heard some not so great experiences others have had some now I am too scared lol
      Edit: also, drugs/mushrooms aren't really my thing.

    • @ashleighmemarzadeh7638
      @ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@MrSidReal hahaha I had to google what a sea cucumber was 😂

  • @ProfessorIRONS
    @ProfessorIRONS ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I truly believe that depression is your body/mind saying “I’m sick of trying to play this role, it’s not me”’

    • @ratmon19
      @ratmon19 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is more ego who thinks it should have better.

    • @TheBigdog868
      @TheBigdog868 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are depressed. It means you need deep-rest. Just rest, my friend 🧡

    • @jean-marclamothe8859
      @jean-marclamothe8859 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Depression has been described as a refusal of what it is, a refusal of your situation, a refusal to accept the reality . A part of yourself aka your Ego (who’s not yourself) refuses to accept.

  • @JillKnapp
    @JillKnapp ปีที่แล้ว +794

    Having our phones connected to social media, plus watching the news (which is designed to rile you up) makes it so hard to escape these thoughts. I deleted Facebook, I turned off all notifications for my apps, and I basically did my best to turn turned my life into 1993 again. It's helped immeasurably.
    Every once in a while something happens and I'll convince myself I have a need to get back online more consistently, and within a day I'm back to being a stressed out mess who can't sleep. And for what?

    • @lchervilgilles1
      @lchervilgilles1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love this Jill!

    • @lorisminibrands
      @lorisminibrands ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I don’t use Facebook much anymore either. Too much negativity

    • @allihagen1180
      @allihagen1180 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I am doing the same thing. I leave my phone at work so I can go home and pretend I live in 1975

    • @RubiAlejandra_
      @RubiAlejandra_ ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I have also done this and it has cured my depression and anxiety significantly! I will be making a video on it soon!

    • @UnLugubreEquivoco
      @UnLugubreEquivoco ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm considering doing the same or at least reduce the social consume

  • @leonlee8524
    @leonlee8524 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    I'm disabled and living in my car. Been slowly teaching myself how to do this, and if I can do it while I'm homeless I can definitely do it while I'm back on my feet

    • @midnighttripper8573
      @midnighttripper8573 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Much love ram ram

    • @alecberghoef9223
      @alecberghoef9223 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You got it man!

    • @helendancelot
      @helendancelot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💕💗

    • @Davidsavage8008
      @Davidsavage8008 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm disabled to and found myself living in my truck...i had to work so hard because I never fit in at work being not white and not brown. I've lost everything .
      But because I worked 40 years. Plus.
      I finally can survive.

    • @adamshredder3142
      @adamshredder3142 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I hope you get to a nice home someday no one should be living in their car

  • @Alex-jo2oi
    @Alex-jo2oi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2525

    I get that childhood-like feeling every now and then. It’s very brief but when I do.. it’s amazing man.

    • @JoMunianga
      @JoMunianga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Get that as well

    • @live2seemc863
      @live2seemc863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same.

    • @beepboop29283
      @beepboop29283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      And it’s so funny bc I’m so much more curious now too similar to how I used to b when I was little

    • @luvinChrist-nx6ry
      @luvinChrist-nx6ry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Jesus said to inherit the kingdom of God we must become like children... also he says "God has not given us a spirit of fear but of love peace and a sound mind" he also says "do not worry about anything, instead pray about everything, thank God for all he has done, and then you will experience his peace" God bless all. I really like this video, definitely sharing this video.

    • @live2seemc863
      @live2seemc863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@luvinChrist-nx6ry Wisdom

  • @last5898
    @last5898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1089

    "a person who can't sit at ease is in a state of dis-ease" - sadhguru

    • @tekrina3700
      @tekrina3700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Quote - sadhguru

    • @hellatze
      @hellatze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sad
      Guru

    • @anshumansah1276
      @anshumansah1276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jagga ka hagga

    • @10HW
      @10HW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      that dude is a fraud

    • @last5898
      @last5898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@10HW yet over 1 million people work with him just volunteerly.

  • @TimeWizard727
    @TimeWizard727 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    It took me 11 years to learn all of this collectively and heal from immense traum, disease and a stroke, and I'm only 28, yet I just learned this all in 27 minutes on TH-cam. Bless the internet.

    • @evolveyourself9518
      @evolveyourself9518 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't bless the internet, please. There's far more negative and hell repercussions that you and your brain pays for the internet than the very few positives.

    • @bunk95
      @bunk95 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you applying that fiction to anything outside of the fiction itself?

  • @alexiav3394
    @alexiav3394 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I cured my stress by deleting social media, specially Instagram and tiktok

    • @alicece3696
      @alicece3696 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Instagram is so toxic. Constant stimulation and tempting comparison.

  • @themovingdance2744
    @themovingdance2744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1705

    I cured my stress by going to art exhibitions, painting beautiful tropical flowers and walking on the damp green grass. I feel so much more myself and not so alone …..I loved it.

    • @topneverstop
      @topneverstop ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Beautiful!!!

    • @SophiaTheRaven33
      @SophiaTheRaven33 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Grounding is wonderful yes 🙌

    • @emilemuntinga3794
      @emilemuntinga3794 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I think this is an example of how you can get out of the stressful state by simply doing things you love, for me it was programming. Suddenly I wasn’t feeling as depressed anymore and started caring for myself once i did something on my own daily that I liked.

    • @mmaya772
      @mmaya772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it it.*👌🏾​@@SophiaTheRaven33

    • @Blackman-np8mw
      @Blackman-np8mw ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@SophiaTheRaven33is grounding walking barefoot?

  • @EddieKM
    @EddieKM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2171

    That moment when you get stressed because you hear that stress leads to disease :O

    • @last5898
      @last5898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      a person who can't sit at ease is in a state of dis-ease

    • @Vibes.d
      @Vibes.d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Just let go bro

    • @m_tpa
      @m_tpa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yeah what a wonderful idea to help people by talking about an endless amount of problems. thats not how it works morons ^^

    • @astradivine7278
      @astradivine7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ahahahaha

    • @GurpreetKaur-oy2rc
      @GurpreetKaur-oy2rc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i feel what u said totally....:-P

  • @SholvaBeats
    @SholvaBeats 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    In my 40 years i cannot remember a single day without stress, fear, anxiety and an all consuming anger. I cannot even imagine life without it. I am also constantly sick. Got diabetes, cancer, my lung keeps collapsing, inflammation all the time, bones keep breaking, nerves in my eye are paralyzed and the list goes on. Lost about 45 kilo and i look like a zombie.
    I wish someone would have taught me these things when i was young.
    Thanks for this video.

    • @carougejeune7949
      @carougejeune7949 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Start now you are young 🙏🙏🙏meditations
      Sending love

    • @homelessdiaries3950
      @homelessdiaries3950 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww I'm happy to see this comment.

    • @Nivinhachem
      @Nivinhachem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's never too late✨don't lose hope

    • @MindGarden123
      @MindGarden123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you are only 40 and it's just in time for you to create the new YOU. You will get better !

    • @milkchan202
      @milkchan202 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      damn 😭

  • @thanhvanle3024
    @thanhvanle3024 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    A mind-blowing video. I used to be that type of student who always rushed in the last hour to study. Last semester, I studied for my final exam a night before the exam date. It was stressful, and I could even hear my body calling for help. Now that I have adapted a new study schedule and actually used it, I'm always a week ahead of the following lecture, and I feel good. Thanks to this video, I understand I used to be addicted to stress. It was scary; you can get out of it as I did. Trust yourself, and pull yourself together. You can do this!

    • @ratman8441
      @ratman8441 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'll try, thanks

    • @nihilisticnirvana
      @nihilisticnirvana ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i will :)

    • @renee8906
      @renee8906 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      could u tell me abour ur study schedule? i wanna be ahead too!

    • @thanhvanle3024
      @thanhvanle3024 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@renee8906 it takes place before the semester begins, and can be hectic while preparing, but it’s all worth it. Please give me your email so that I can tell you more about it, if you don’t mind ^^

    • @wongwailam0221
      @wongwailam0221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thanhvanle3024 I really want to know your schedule too! I am exactly like you as I am studying for my final exam now, and I am so stressed but weirdly “enjoying” the productive feeling 😢

  • @penelope-oe2vr
    @penelope-oe2vr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1059

    I have a terminal autoimmune disease and its from being so stressed my whole life, I literally fried my immune system from the stress and working 100+ hours a week at a super high stakes job. And financially taking care of my mom, and others. Too much. It wasn't worth it. Now, I stay to myself and ENJOY my days. Doing what I WANT TO. and it has healed me so much.

    • @randomhomosapien5798
      @randomhomosapien5798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      im so happy for you! :)

    • @veroniajackson786
      @veroniajackson786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      love and light on your journey - our cultures teach too much self denial so we have to get to a state of brokenness to realise we have been doing it wrong.

    • @elindapitsoulis9932
      @elindapitsoulis9932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's awesome penelope.. Best continued wishes to you. I have an autoimmune disease, as well, though it's not terminal. I've offset a high percentage of the effects stress has had on me. I've leverage the potential of the brain, like you lessened exposure to energy vampires and changed my food habits. Feel free to contact me through EnergizeYourBrain.org Love chatting with like minded thrivers

    • @curtisstevenson9950
      @curtisstevenson9950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How can I get my wife to do this

    • @akyna369
      @akyna369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tim Hoff breathing and ice cold

  • @ylowtus8483
    @ylowtus8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +851

    Quote of the year : if you’re going to create something new in your life, you have to crave the unknown!

    • @sgarrett9446
      @sgarrett9446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Okay. I don't wanna be "supernatural," though. I just wanna be stress-free.

    • @capitalisa
      @capitalisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Most impactful statement for me, really resonated.

    • @anonangel1938
      @anonangel1938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bruh I had to screenshot this cuz it reminds me of those people who are fearless and mark off shii of their bucket list because they love facing their fears and it’s EMPOWERING 😩

    • @youbigtubership
      @youbigtubership ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice reminder.

  • @lolpagedied
    @lolpagedied 2 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    As a recovering meth addict, I cannot begin to describe how much this video helped me. Knowledge really is power.

    • @normarodriguez5535
      @normarodriguez5535 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Many blessings to u!!🙏🙏

    • @maryprice8458
      @maryprice8458 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hang in there buddy, getting sober was one of the best things that ever occured in my life. It is more than worth the struggle bus!

    • @MMA_CAT
      @MMA_CAT ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay Strong and Pray

    • @AliMeetsWorld
      @AliMeetsWorld ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Supporting you, trying to fight my own sober battles too ❤️

    • @quogir1
      @quogir1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay there ,keep goin'. .

  • @myriamalejandra844
    @myriamalejandra844 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Wow I'm in tears as I'm writing this after watching the whole video. I've been way extremely hard on myself. Time to let things go, let things be, and no more living in survival more. And forgiving myself for being so hard on myself for almost 2 years straight. For all the extreme stress I put on my mind and body. I even feel like I can breathe better. Tysm for this video. Eternally grateful, you explained it so well.

    • @kaydimarco2802
      @kaydimarco2802 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stay strong you got this 💖

    • @luzikii823
      @luzikii823 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      How are things now? You managed to keep up the mindset?

    • @MindGarden123
      @MindGarden123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been living in constant fear and anxiety for two years too! had panic attack for a couple of times. so yes, I understand how you feel. Hope you are fully recovered and find the inner balance.

  • @FaithY3n
    @FaithY3n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1429

    Dr Joe Dispenza's book Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself changed my life. I learned to do the meditation he's talking about here and after 6 months I cured my chronic depression and panic attacks.

    • @azeminaay4971
      @azeminaay4971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      thank you for sharing this, I have the book on my shelf and you just gave me the motivation to start reading it!

    • @staceynoel1620
      @staceynoel1620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congratulations xx can you tell me what your medication regime was ?

    • @FaithY3n
      @FaithY3n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@staceynoel1620 I used to have to take high dosages of Prazosin to be able to sleep, and used to rely on Latuda to curb suicidal ideations. I've been medication free for 3 years now.

    • @FaithY3n
      @FaithY3n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@azeminaay4971 Yaaaay do it! Curing my depression was just the beginning. I still do the meditation from that book on other low frequency emotions and everything about my decision making is different. My internal dialogue is unrecognizable from what it used to be--in the best way!

    • @tamimhusain3376
      @tamimhusain3376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@FaithY3n Hi there happy to hear that you are in a better place, bless 🙏. I want to ask about the meditation....is it only in the book or something I can find on TH-cam?

  • @randyroche7969
    @randyroche7969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    Let's not forget the importance of real food as essential ingredients for our body to make the correct chemicals we need when we need them....

    • @bootscats366
      @bootscats366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U7

    • @TrelliessRose
      @TrelliessRose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah, and who can afford real food?

    • @kylapatriciac.salvador6532
      @kylapatriciac.salvador6532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@TrelliessRose well, illness is expensive than wellness.

    • @TrelliessRose
      @TrelliessRose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kylapatriciac.salvador6532 Still can't afford proper food.

    • @suprbonnie
      @suprbonnie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Food is medicine!

  • @sarahthegreat252
    @sarahthegreat252 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I find that excitement and anxiety evoke the same response. One way I’ve reduced my anxiety over the year was to train my brain into being addicted to optimism and happiness. I let my self feel more excited about things, the small things as well. Like coffee or rain…small inconveniences add excitement to the day. Something embarrassing? It’s not anxiety evoking but something funny to laugh back at

  • @MagickMulatta
    @MagickMulatta ปีที่แล้ว +148

    You can’t control your what happens in the outside world but you can control your inner world love it 🥰 i was feeling so hopeless and depressed over feeling out of control of my life and I can’t afford therapy right now but I swear the universe always gives me the most perfect answers that I need in the divine timing I’m so grateful 🙏🏽

  • @mandarinadreux9572
    @mandarinadreux9572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1635

    this is the message I tried to get my ex boyfriend to understand, he was so miserable and depressed - you gotta change the way you perceive the world. I tried but in the end, I had to leave. His negativity was starting to take a toll on my mental health. I am an artist normally, my life is painting and drawing. During our relationship, I completely stopped creating. I think this says it all, I was in complete survival mode, giving all of my self to the other person.

    • @Gahanika
      @Gahanika ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Too bad you could not understand depression is not always about changing perceptions. I suffered from sever depression since I was a kid and worked my ass off to rewire my brain. I have been depression free for 12 years now, however, you sound either very ignorant about depression or very selfish.

    • @williamburke9947
      @williamburke9947 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I feel you, my gf/Covid hook up has so much trauma so she is always wielding pain in all aspects of her life. Before we started being a thing, I was running everyday, I was extremely fit, studying/schoolwork 8-10 hours a day and was gardening since those are my studies. I’m now mostly caught up in reminding her to get a doctors help, go find new friend circles/outlets, and stop looking to festivals/drugs as the only release because it is too extreme of an outlet. It’s taking a toll on my sleep cycle with her always watching nostalgia/comfort shows all night. Finding a way to get out of where I am with her, live in a trailer on a piece of land and farm and flow with the long term neurological returns instead of always being in front of a screen.

    • @alexisbel3452
      @alexisbel3452 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      You can’t change him. He has to want to change himself first

    • @sarna060
      @sarna060 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel you 🙁

    • @Khiarika1
      @Khiarika1 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I had very much the same experience. I'm also an artist. I also had to leave him. It was starting to become exhausting watching him fight imaginary demons. I would go down and try to 'fight' with him, but towards the end it just started to look...silly and unnecessary. I ended up leaving.

  • @yeseniareyes538
    @yeseniareyes538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +643

    When I am drawing, coloring or sewing I don’t realize time I am zoned out and I love it I enjoy it so much!

    • @Badgerinthenight
      @Badgerinthenight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I'm a painter and I totally know what you mean. The Buddhists call it "flow".

    • @folorunshoibrahim6852
      @folorunshoibrahim6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's called flow

    • @trevorfranks69
      @trevorfranks69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Drawing, writing stories, game development... All that good stuff where fun and creativity intertwined together...

    • @thewanderingartists
      @thewanderingartists 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @nautilaz
      @nautilaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I get that when I'm in the zone playing bass. Out of body experience

  • @beezneez2056
    @beezneez2056 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Thank you for this. I’m a nurse suffering from extreme burnout. Last week I cried going to work..... and cried when I got home. There’s also stress at home, so no relief. It’s been like this for years, and it’s taken a big toll on my health and happiness. I have a lot of work to do in order to change my thoughts. At least now I see the connection.

    • @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500
      @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You need to take car of yourself. It is not egoistic. You need it to survive. Never feel guilty to take your time. Otherwise you will destroy yourself. Sports. Cook. Take a walk. Spend time with your people.

    • @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500
      @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is there anything you have always wanted to do? (Fun not stressful!#)

    • @peacefulfanpuppylover2311
      @peacefulfanpuppylover2311 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Please be nice to yourself. Consider taking baths. Using different types of scented soaps. I created a small altar by my door and it brings me lots of peace to light a candle and to light incense. Sometimes I cry it out. Sometimes I just breathe quietly by myself. You are not going crazy. You are human. Sending you so many blessings and prayers for support. And thank you for all of the work you do. I’m rooting for you.

    • @beezneez2056
      @beezneez2056 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peacefulfanpuppylover2311 Thank you! I appreciate it 💗

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beezneez2056 It's been proven that transcendental meditation really helps healthcare workers. How are you feeling now?❤💜 I'm trying every day to get rid of stress and anxiety, it helps. Yoga for the body, meditation for the mind. Be selfish this is your life💜

  • @JR-bi6lg
    @JR-bi6lg ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I lost my dad and my mum and my house before the age of 24 which I just didn’t expect to happen. So because of that I feel like my brain believes any bad can happen. So I’m just living in survival mode preparing for the worst and I’m really trying to get out of it but it’s hard, I’m struggling. But this video definitely makes perfect sense.

    • @rastamuff1
      @rastamuff1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Are you ok?

    • @allseeingotto2912
      @allseeingotto2912 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ahmoseh3718 I’d certainly like to hear your fathers side of the story .

    • @jenstorychannel5251
      @jenstorychannel5251 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got thread since I was 4 years old from my mentally ill adopted mother that she will die soon and I have to take care of her 2 sons alone and many more abusive growing up! So I carry on the traumatize and stress my whole life! I live in flight and fight mode till these days! Already got physical ill from autoimmune disease.

  • @kateevanz6818
    @kateevanz6818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1015

    society makes us depressed. we were born into this society and we dont have to live this way.

    • @archangelmichael2656
      @archangelmichael2656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      fr. this country was literally formed out of greed. (from how the colonists forced the native americans out of THEIR OWN land...its lowkey sad when u dive deep into it)

    • @somebody2310
      @somebody2310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He just described the phycology of the majority of people in every hood.

    • @TheCrazyman177
      @TheCrazyman177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@archangelmichael2656 While I don't disagree your point, what major country has not done unspeakable things to get to where they were now? That's not a justification I just don't get why America gets looked upon as some terrible people who came to power through greed and mass murder, almost every major country did that at one point in time. We were just the most recent.... so maybe that is why.

    • @archangelmichael2656
      @archangelmichael2656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@TheCrazyman177 and? we should strive to overcome the negativity and create positivity and prosperity for all. bc lets face it, who WANTS to live in what i would call hell?

    • @josefmuller1641
      @josefmuller1641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@archangelmichael2656 no it was formed in opposition of control and greed, that has nothing to do with the explorers and bad people who took advantage of it and did things wrong. Those are the greedy ones that turned this country in a wrong direction

  • @Virtual-Media
    @Virtual-Media 3 ปีที่แล้ว +835

    This video will literally save what's left of my life.

    • @Virtual-Media
      @Virtual-Media 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @Chi Personally It's help me realize why it is I'm always looking for problems to solve. It's addictive and highly stressful.

    • @dogzer
      @dogzer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @Chi Did you even watch the video? The things you choose to think about put your body in different states. Stress is addictive so you may find yourself thinking over and over about material problems, keeping your body in a state of survival, expecting danger and bad outcomes. That state of mind consumes tons of energy, it's how your body reacts when it's being chased by a predator and other dangers, taking away your body resources to focus on these problems, that often may not even have a short term solution. This state of mind will lower your immune system, make you depressed and reduce your energy. It is a habit you want to revert if you have it. Focus on non material things, think of gratitude for the things you do enjoy in life, stop trying to control every little aspect of your physical world, and be mindful about how much stress you put in your body.
      If you successfully reduce cortisol in your body by thinking less in material problems, this will improve your immune system, and your body will know it is safe to spend your body resources on being creative and productive.

    • @doruanadenuran5906
      @doruanadenuran5906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      No cap, this video has actually come to me at a point in life were I need it the most, this video has actually made life more manageable alone, Soo glad I came across it

    • @itzalejandro210
      @itzalejandro210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Learn to create a life where you can live only depending on yourself. No government, job, etc. Eat those electric foods and distilled water. Earthing. Back to basics we go weee

    • @bradley5788
      @bradley5788 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chi You Apply it to your life

  • @g2tegsown
    @g2tegsown 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This is absolutely profound. I am living in a heightened fear state all the time (anyone who works in IT will know what I am talking about). What I found so amazing is this explains why I am always in such an analytical state. I over analyze everything, right down to the way that people breathe and I "predict" their emotions or intentions in my mind. I desperately need to find the remedy to change my mindset. I lived like this for 42 years of my life and I want the change so badly. Thank you so much for this information, this is helping me to find the right path.

    • @mahmutsala4523
      @mahmutsala4523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can so relate to that 😢

    • @sgt.freyrpepper1871
      @sgt.freyrpepper1871 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The tech advancements have come rapidly in less than a couple centuries compared to hundreds of thousands of years of adaptation to hunting gathering, then perhaps several thousand years of rapid adaptation to agricultural/pastoral settlements, to now a break neck tech advancements from the enclosure movements to the industrial ages.
      Since you work IT, that is a profession where the tech exposure is ten fold.

    • @bunk95
      @bunk95 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you applying that fiction to something outside of the fiction itself there?

  • @wru-art
    @wru-art ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This just made me cry. My default state is stress and anxiety. I'm constantly being treated like shit by society, just walking out of my house. Why can't people be nice

    • @evolveyourself9518
      @evolveyourself9518 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for saying this. I'm so tired of the woo-woo culture telling me to be positive. No, the reality is, everytime I leave my house something bad happens to me, or someone's mean to me, or someone lies to me. And no, I'm not paranoid and I'm not being negative.

  • @camillalarosa1996
    @camillalarosa1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1412

    This channel is pure water in the desert.
    I’m so grateful for it because sometimes, even if I know what is right, I forget about it.
    I get lost in this life full of alienation. Then I come back here to this channel, and I remember again what it feels to be aware.
    Thank you

    • @AfterSkool
      @AfterSkool  3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Awwww this comment just made my day. Thank you! So glad to be of service!

    • @thadfreebourn5138
      @thadfreebourn5138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If all would attend after Skool

    • @mr.melontoyou
      @mr.melontoyou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      reinforcement, motivation, inspiration, reprogremming all the things that no longer serve you- remember, rome wasnt built in a day. the fact you are ope n to this is great, you are on the right path, keep your head up, you got this! trust the process.

    • @cupcakePOWER561
      @cupcakePOWER561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Couldn’t have said it better myself

    • @ReligionAndMaterialismDebunked
      @ReligionAndMaterialismDebunked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Ian Corral damn, haters gonna hate. I guess you hate science, meditation, George Carlin, Egypt, Graham Hancock literally changing archaeology views in the archaeology world, you're probably a fascist/statist, etc. Haha.

  • @magicminthm
    @magicminthm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    The weirdest thing happened. I listened to this in tje morning and then i moved on with my daily meditation. As i was meditating i felt uncomfortable, my back hurt and it was just not a pleasant feeling. I sat there trying to embrace it. And then i just heard this question ..are you in survival or creation? And as soon as i answered this my body stopped aching, i got relaxed, my breathing got deeper and easier. I am completely in awe of this

    • @Loopynesss
      @Loopynesss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It already happened to me! It's amazing how powerful our body is

    • @franz3810
      @franz3810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's like waking up somehow, it happened to me when I was 17

    • @thrivinpsilocybin7652
      @thrivinpsilocybin7652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Have any of you been baptized??

    • @douglascampbell4993
      @douglascampbell4993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Man, I’m 37, only been learning and living the lifestyle of all of this for the last 2 and a half years, but its insane how shit like that just happens every now and then, isn’t it? I had never experienced shit like that in all my life beforehand, it’s like something connected somewhere at some point and now I am gently being lead to where I need to go, just really subtle hints in unexpected moments… haha
      And about the baptised thing, I know what you’re thinking, and no, it’s nothing like that, hahahaa!
      I am baptised..

    • @apologeticministry
      @apologeticministry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@douglascampbell4993 The holy spirit. A person’s steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand their own way? Proverbs 20:24 .
      This is 100% the holy spirit and the voice of God leading and directing your steps.

  • @Weqmn165
    @Weqmn165 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have suffered depression , stress and anxiety for the past 8 years and I’m 33 years old women .. I became so sick last year thanks for TH-cam I found out I was making my self sick.. It was an aha moment for me .. I learned I have power to make myself sick and have the power to heal my self

    • @bunk95
      @bunk95 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Suffering is fictional. Are you applying that fiction to something outside of the fiction itself there?

  • @JimmyBlackhall
    @JimmyBlackhall 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “The unknown becomes the adventure. Why is that important? Because if we are going to create something new in our life, we have to crave the unknown”

  • @SamBassComedy
    @SamBassComedy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This is why I started smoking weed often. LIfe too stressful, weed brings me back to normality and the present. BUt now I use meditation to do it and that's way healthier.

    • @joeker6220
      @joeker6220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Weed + meditation way to go
      I do weed + oil art painting

    • @gregbors8364
      @gregbors8364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Use edibles. None of the damaging health effects of smoking

    • @d1s2l3a4w5
      @d1s2l3a4w5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do weed and cross stitch and listen to lectures😊

    • @patymoonkaraoke
      @patymoonkaraoke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Weed, music and gardening. 😎

  • @johannaklumi
    @johannaklumi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    "You can turn on your stress response just by thought alone, you can become addicted to your own thoughts. Your thoughts can literally make you sick." - Wow 😱

    • @ahmoseh3718
      @ahmoseh3718 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      These concepts are in the Bible ☺

    • @phamsumi8867
      @phamsumi8867 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because the more you think and be alone, the more it graviates to negative thought

  • @ginasteliana5676
    @ginasteliana5676 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This blew my mind. I’ve learned more about myself in this short video than I have in 37years. Living in creation for me has been my own self healing.

  • @KingTigh
    @KingTigh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    They way he describes being addicted to stress response is mind opening

  • @nicselectronics81
    @nicselectronics81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    I lived in fight or flight for 30 years, starting life at 39. For sure my dad was stuck in survival his whole life and I unfotunately inherited all that crap plus the endless projection onto me and manipulating my mind for his own f-ed up ego.

    • @squeezetentacles4212
      @squeezetentacles4212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yup, me too.

    • @TheMoon12390
      @TheMoon12390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm 33 and have bigger crows feet than my grandparents due to this.

    • @nicselectronics81
      @nicselectronics81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@tibbyc7674 my "family" (the problem) discarded me, but for the first time since I was a teenager. I can be myself and not be anxious nor have I had a panic attack "knocks on head"

    • @Dunkit691
      @Dunkit691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nicselectronics81 damm ma mang, i could never know how that would be like. Mind my asking, how did you become so indpendet on your self? Even after so much pressure, can only image a closed coke with too many mentos

    • @nicselectronics81
      @nicselectronics81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Dunkit691 I just turned away from people, if I can't trust my family in my mind who else is there? All I got was a punch in the gut for being alive so I learned to do it all alone.

  • @sergioreyes835
    @sergioreyes835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Min 16:50: “If you keep the same reaction lingering for hours or days, thats called the Mood.
    If you keep that same refractory period going for weeks to months, thats called the Temperament.
    If you keep that same emotional reaction going for years on end, thats called the Personality...”

    • @ninja23cat
      @ninja23cat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This part blew me away!

  • @ataelbizanti9998
    @ataelbizanti9998 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I grew up in so much household and war trauma, and now somehow I found myself completing my masters in neuroscience not knowing that in hindsight I was perhaps seeking answers to why I am the way I am. I found the brain fascinating but deep down it was that I wanted to understand my own. Now with the knowledge I have I can attest that the brain is indeed fascinating and capable of so much and is extremely plastic and less concrete than scientists wish to admit. It is sad that the recent narrative has been that mental illnesses are “hardwired chemical imbalances”. A definition that completely stripped a person’s self-autonomy and choice in the matter. We all have a choice and our brains are ready to listen to it and rewire accordingly. We just have to make it. I wish all a blessed existence ❤

  • @joymae
    @joymae ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I was living in Paris I was surrounded by art and creativity. My stress levels were significantly lower

  • @reaper31978
    @reaper31978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    It makes so much sense now. I can literally think about one wrong thing and it sends my whole system out of whack.

    • @bunk95
      @bunk95 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you using that fiction for something outside of the fiction itself there?

  • @mizjohnson123
    @mizjohnson123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    NEVER EVER allow anyone or even self trick you into believing that you aren't enough. And end up fighting a life long disease while they party their lives away. Really, never put anyone before YOU. Self Love is the only way you can truly love anyone else unconditionally.

  • @-www.chapters.video-
    @-www.chapters.video- 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    00:09 Placebo and Nocebo Effects
    01:33 Living in a State of Stress
    16:05 The impact of emotional reactions on mood, temperament, and personality
    19:09 Living in creation and the power of broad focus
    23:05 The healing potential of creating coherence in the brain and body
    26:36 Introduction to brain wave states and conscious control of brain waves

  • @freeflyer151
    @freeflyer151 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I grew up in constant stress, fear and actual torture. I have been very sick as an adult. I am 40 and I think I’m just starting to heal

  • @nicholasireland1027
    @nicholasireland1027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    Having OCD, my stress response never turns off. I’m so chronically stressed and this is helping me put things in perspective. I’ve done so much meditation but mental illness is real- also leading to more debt and job impairment. Sending love to all of those suffering.

    • @LotusRiseUp
      @LotusRiseUp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You should listen to abraham hicks. She teaches us how to re-wire our brain into having new thought patterns ultimately changing our reality over time thriugh daily practice. It took me years but I can look back now and see how dramatically my life has changed. And even thiugh it took hears, at least Im not still in the cycle.

    • @NewEarthAwakening
      @NewEarthAwakening 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Look into L-theanine! It’s life-changing for OCD & anxiety, and it puts the brain into calm focused alpha brainwaves while boosting neuroplasticity to help rewire our brains.

    • @nicholasireland1027
      @nicholasireland1027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@NewEarthAwakening I actually just started taking it! Weirdly enough, ADHD medication helps so much with my symptoms/executive dysfunction. It can be so bad for Simon people with anxiety though. Also taking L-theanine, NAC and inositol. And trying to reduce stressors. Thanks for the recommendation

    • @LDuke-pc7kq
      @LDuke-pc7kq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take high quality ashwagandha daily, it may help you relax natural but it will lower your cortisol levels being produced by stress and protect your health. Kava is also good for anxiety suffers, but make sure you try it safely at home to understand your tolerance and dosings with kava small amounts go a long way. Changing our perspectives also helps, do not allow yourself to believe you can't be healed completely or at least be in a place better than you ever expected, you can. Fear alot of times is a product of feeling unsafe when we were younger, so we try insulate ourselves when we're older with having other manifested issues to create a false structure of 'safety'. Best therapy: destroy fear by doing the things you do fear most, realign your mind that you are safe by proving to your mind and body you are safe by doing those things you fear and proving to yourself you can over come all self-imposed limitations both conscious and subconscious. Hope this helps the person it was meant to find

    • @JoseSantos-vn4nt
      @JoseSantos-vn4nt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      God bless. I had OCD. It doesn’t mean it was easy to leave it (and their will always be some struggle), but I want to share something. A psychology background didn’t help. Jesus did.

  • @Scottydye
    @Scottydye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I thought that I was addicted to the pain. This affirms my suspicions.

    • @NosesDea
      @NosesDea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you start to change your negative mindset? :)

    • @xiqueira
      @xiqueira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emdr and flash therapy by an actual therapist can help differentiate actual pain and pain that is expected. If that makes sense.

    • @valeriah.531
      @valeriah.531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! I’m also just addicted to being sad or just feeling sorry for myself

  • @TinyHouseOfHorrors
    @TinyHouseOfHorrors ปีที่แล้ว +222

    As someone with both these diseases, this was eye opening. I've been working for a yr to get out of survival mode.

    • @DJPacoRamirez
      @DJPacoRamirez ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Go all organic and alkaline foods. Treat your body like a temple and you'll love the results

    • @ethiopiazoldyk4667
      @ethiopiazoldyk4667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DJPacoRamirez sorry to bother you but could you give examples of alkine foods?
      I used to this more acidic was healther.

    • @niebieskimotyl3308
      @niebieskimotyl3308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's a diet called GAPS, helps with mental illnesses, arthritis and even autism.

    • @fuzzylogics139
      @fuzzylogics139 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ‘HRV Breathing’ or Heart Coherence Breathing. You can find it here on youtube. It’s an easy breathing technique that calms your nervous-system. Within 10/20 minutes. Easy, something anyone can do right now, for free. It did nothing short of a miracle for my mental and physical health!

    • @rebelliouslogic2705
      @rebelliouslogic2705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eye opening huh

  • @ukiyounmei
    @ukiyounmei 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i've been living with ocd, ptsd, complex grief, depression and things of that nature. trauma is inflated by the ruminating process my mind goes through to the point where i spiraled into alcoholism, drug addiction, etc. after sobriety wasn't any better. i had an extremely abusive, and stressful childhood. i feel my mind has never rested a day. i've been in an out of therapy and tried numerous medications from 12-19 years old. i'm now just turning 20 and this was what i've been wrestling with the whole time -- and never knew how to reassure myself of psychosomatic vs. reality vs. what the stress of being this way has made me feel like. i think this saved my life.

  • @javiervillacorta3847
    @javiervillacorta3847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    you mean i should change my gamemode to creative?

    • @elwoodwarren-kuelgen8874
      @elwoodwarren-kuelgen8874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nah, just download too many items.

    • @moogledoodles
      @moogledoodles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Simulation confirmed

    • @cate3268
      @cate3268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can tell that You sir, are going to live a long and happy life just from that comment

    • @samperry8386
      @samperry8386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And change the difficulty settings to Deity

    • @squid3065
      @squid3065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes

  • @adg5889
    @adg5889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was like a hug for a troubled mind

  • @ShadeandShadow4ever
    @ShadeandShadow4ever ปีที่แล้ว +17

    11:12 Take ten minutes a day to feel love for life, gratefulness, etc.
    7:26 "No organism can live in an emergency state for an extended period of time." (So it is important to turn it off and take time to relax, play video-games, meditate, sleep, etc.)

  • @Stephanie-cs6uv
    @Stephanie-cs6uv ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So casting all my cares and anxiety on to God will heal me. And living out my true freedom in Jesus gave me basically. Love it! God designed humans perfectly to heal ourselves.

  • @Alexandriafrancescakiel
    @Alexandriafrancescakiel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    This also sounds like faith to me. Because when I’ve been more faithful and have problems but I truly pray and give it to God and let it go, I don’t ever think about it again. And I feel free and not stressed. The older I get the harder that is to keep doing, however, because I think I can do it all on my own. Guess that’s what childlike faith means.

    • @TheCrazyman177
      @TheCrazyman177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am not a religious person by many standards, but I do think there are innate values and spiritual awareness's that are taught through the community, the faith, and the passion behind religion. Barring any of the terrible greediness and wretchedness that can plague religions. I personally believe down to their fundamental ideals religion is something that everybody should have, and I mean in any kind of form. It does not have to be believing in a "god", but the ability to step outside of your self and the modernistic problems you face, to truly become one with the universe that you live in and the people around you, is something that will bring you a sense of relaxation and wholeness in your life. Accompanying this with a passion in life (whatever that might be) and a yearning desire to grow in every realm of your life. I think many young people have given up religion and the spirituality attached with it, this in my opinion causes a person to be grounded for all of their lives. They are so wrapped up in modern problems that they are not able to see the bigger picture in life and the beauty of it. People have lost the way of our ancestors and think of any generation before the last 200 years and even some after them as inferior when in actuality they had some of the most profound understandings of human nature ever. I think if more people took the time to look into getting into a spiritual mind state and to consume and be consumed by modern society they would feel much happier. All of that being said I am aware that there is tragedy, mental illness, and many other terrible things in life. Life is not perfect and there is sadness, sorrow, and despair. I think the key is to understand that there are horrible things in life that will happen, but you have to do everything in your power to armor yourself up for when that day comes.

    • @cici3147
      @cici3147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I mean, this is the basis of faith, yes. To believe in something you cannot see, hear, feel, taste.... same concept

    • @brandonminor1412
      @brandonminor1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts it's easier to text on his promises also watch uplifting entertainment and comedy

    • @BlackSun6393
      @BlackSun6393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Faith is Guidance.

    • @squeezetentacles4212
      @squeezetentacles4212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheCrazyman177 I agree, a person can spiritually "free" themselves with or without faith. Religion is not a necessity, if the person feels more comfortable & strong enough to do it on their own. A lot of people don't, though, so doing it through religious faith just provides guidance and makes the changes feel more substantial, consolidated, and real. It's just unfortunate that _organized religion_ has many negatives. It's a lot like meditation...it's very easy to do on your own, and one can learn how to do it properly just educating themselves, either reading about it or watching some instructional videos. Yet there are always gurus and instructors who want to be paid for guiding people through it. Totally unnecessary. A lot of people _want_ instructors and guidance and don't mind paying, and of course those instructors will tell you that you _need them_ so they keep validating themselves.

  • @nicoletirado6768
    @nicoletirado6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I really want my thoughts and stress to not take over my life. I will practice mindfulness because the feeling of being stuck in a situation that you can’t get your mind off of is the worst.

    • @Virgolove
      @Virgolove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just have to catch yourself. Pause and change your thought. Reach for better thoughts, ones that make you feel good...

  • @emmyandboo
    @emmyandboo ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This explains perfectly so much behind how we are as humans. Be patient with others, behind every "Karen", is a stressed, possibly abused, lady in an unhappy marriage - overworked and living off of stress hormones - trying to control every little thing because in all actuality she feels out of control. That is why I'm nice to everyone - unless they're really bad obv.

  • @hannahh.tarindwa2749
    @hannahh.tarindwa2749 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I must confess, at some point i thought "This is too idealistic" but he did point out some real things that relate to me, from experience. I am glad that i kept watching this. Thank you, doc!

  • @nitipriyasingh1387
    @nitipriyasingh1387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Every time I don't analyse or think I perform better 💞

  • @stephenhay4878
    @stephenhay4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    This is the best piece of advice ever for any person where attention goes enegry flows

    • @griffinkennyboy4948
      @griffinkennyboy4948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is this the top comment? This is pretty half-baked, and the dude just left it misspelled as "enegry flows". The harvard guy had a way more thoughtful comment and then it disappeared.

    • @stephenhay4878
      @stephenhay4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Ήρθα για να γελάσω με εσένα dont need to be a scientist to have useful information and the placebo effect is a real thing so why wouldnt it work in reverse.

    • @stephenhay4878
      @stephenhay4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@griffinkennyboy4948 that is an alan watts quote. Who was a pretty enlightened guy. Sorry my grammar didnt satisfy you,

    • @stephenhay4878
      @stephenhay4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Ήρθα για να γελάσω με εσένα gonna have to agree to disagree do the Samaritans hotline have scientests manning the phones. Peoples mental health was just fine for thousands of years without science.

    • @stephenhay4878
      @stephenhay4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also why does this video have 24k like and only 397 dislikes must be helping some people.

  • @Maraeya
    @Maraeya ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a chronic pain condition & sometimes faking that I feel better to myself is the only way I actually do. The brain is amazing

  • @Ih8tepeople
    @Ih8tepeople ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been living with anxiety my whole life when though I am young. This helped me see things from a new perspective. Thank you

  • @anartisttravels9279
    @anartisttravels9279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” (2 Cor 4:18) "Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things." (Colossians 3:2)
    I love hearing neurological studies on God's Truth. The way we are created, our brains our wired, and this earth is made is SO COOL. Thank you for making this video (Y)

  • @tpmash
    @tpmash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    God bless to anyone reading this!
    You’ve got this🙏🏽

  • @sydneycarlson4386
    @sydneycarlson4386 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The amount of art put into this video is incredible. I couldn’t imagine how long it took. I am so thankful to have stumbled across this video!

  • @julliereyes214
    @julliereyes214 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is what the pandemic caused me. Until now, I'm still on Survival Mode. I noticed that whatever I'm feeling physically is gravely affected by the happenings around me. Thanks to youtube for recommending this video. I never thought I needed this. Really, the brain could be so powerful it's terrifying sometimes. Thank you for he enlightenment!! 💓

  • @avotydobon2529
    @avotydobon2529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I've have extreme anxiety my whole life. I grew up in placements, after leaving an abusive adopted home. I over came addiction and I really just want to learn to be happy, I'm almost obsessed with self improvement. This is everything, so much help and healing that isn't an unhealthy bs take on what life is supposed to be! Thank you so much! I will be watching this over and over

    • @kespo5358
      @kespo5358 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so happy for you! I worked in foster care and it was so difficult to see bad situations unfold in real-time and not be able to really help the kids, knowing if something doesn't change their future kids are basically doomed to repeat the cycle. I wish this self-analyzation and stress reduction was a part of fostering, but I get there are bigger fish to fry in most cases. Perhaps this could be useful in the independent living programs for those who never found permanency and are older.

    • @onelove_4301
      @onelove_4301 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing better! Sending hugs..

    • @iamthefiremanjj
      @iamthefiremanjj ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anthony d melo read book stop fixing yourself , also quit caffeine

    • @raycecil4643
      @raycecil4643 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My wife and I have 3 foster girls living with us currently. Im glad I ran across this video, and your comment. Im sad to hear you had an abusive foster home. Take peace knowing there are good homes out there. May you have peace, be healed from your experience, and create positivity wherever you go.

    • @couttsie
      @couttsie หลายเดือนก่อน

      i never went through anything like you did, and still was a permanently anxious child, now a permanently anxious adult. i still haven’t cracked the code to feeling okay, but knowing that someone with so much weight on their shoulders still has the power to try, encourages me to try. i wish u so much happiness x

  • @JadetheGoober
    @JadetheGoober 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    If your job stresses you out, *please leave*
    1) prepare your resume
    2) start looking for a new job/start turning your ideas into physical material
    3) schedule time for interviews/advertising
    4) accept the most logical position/work schedule and never look back

    • @simpleton2090
      @simpleton2090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you Kandy King. Man did I need to see this somewhere

    • @streamskat
      @streamskat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is the very mindset that he is trying to get us out of.

    • @JadetheGoober
      @JadetheGoober 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@streamskat emphasis on the second part of number 2

    • @ammumeme5789
      @ammumeme5789 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I stay because looking for a new job is stressful too :(

    • @JadetheGoober
      @JadetheGoober ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ammumeme5789 start turning your ideas into physical material. Even if you don’t think it will do well. Your universe will send you confirmation signs to keep going in that direction. ❤️

  • @superanonymous467
    @superanonymous467 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A happy heart is good medicine and a joyful mind causes healing, but a broken spirit dries up the bones. - Jesus

  • @pumpkinmonster5104
    @pumpkinmonster5104 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m gonna listen to this every single day for the rest of my life, I want to make significant changes in my brain for the sake of peace and balance. I want homeostasis

  • @davidkonevky7372
    @davidkonevky7372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Wall-E taught me that living the wonders of life is more important than just surviving in auto-pilot

  • @Dorasio0
    @Dorasio0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    i remember when i was a child i promissed to never have stress because it caused Cancer, but i didnt know what stress was at that time...now i feel it every day

  • @kawaiilordoftheducks
    @kawaiilordoftheducks ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ve been living in survival mode for so long. “When you continue those behaviors for years on end they become a personality trait” yeah that’s why I feel like a shell of a human being, because I’ve just been nothing but negativity and stress for so long that I’ve gotten lost. This journey is so difficult I feel like every time I start going up I end up coming back down.

  • @caricreate2208
    @caricreate2208 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This honestly made me cry a little bit. Last year i changed my studies to something way more „unstable“ and „risky“ (at least in my thoughts) than before, but i knew it was my passion. I felt stressed for the year i studied the wrong thing and the thought about „will the change be the right decision?“ Put me in tension all the time. I cared too much about social status, how people perceive me and if I could reach my own standards after the change.
    So I switched my studies to Design and after all the overthinking and decision making was through, I thrived in my new profession. After that, good things just kept falling into my lap that reassured me in my decision every day. I randomly met people who share my interests and work, people started telling me Im amazing in my work and I landed a job that I thought is out of my league. I am good in my field and I keep learning every single day with a motivation and passion I didnt have before. I love it and I am thankful that my own mindset has changed so much over the past year.
    Seeing this video also shows me that I am on the right path. Thank you.

  • @jakobwhaleart
    @jakobwhaleart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    I can't believe this is free to watch. So insightful! Thank you to everyone who put this together for us. I will be revisiting this every now and then until I've internalised the main facts, cos living in creation is exactly what I want to be doing and what I was looking to get help with when searching for a talk like this in the first place.

    • @tickledonions9483
      @tickledonions9483 ปีที่แล้ว

      They get paid by ad revenue obviously

    • @escher5083
      @escher5083 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you are feeling stressed or just want to improve yourself you should check out Stoism. I like this one channel call Einzelger or something he has plenty of great videos on it.

  • @themadgamer4571
    @themadgamer4571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have a friend that yell at their 8 yo kid all the time, about everything. Not doing homework fast enough, not eating all their food, not staying focused on things, cause they are a kid etc... Literally yelling habits about every little thing. They are not bad parents, the kid is not a bad kid, actually really smart and super sweet. But the kid starts to pull her hair and bite herself saying she is a bad kid (I must be bad, cause my parents wouldnt yell at me if I wasnt.)
    This is stress, poor self esteem and lack of confidence that is *AUTOMATICALLY* developing within the kid, with no bad intention. Just a lack of awareness and proper attention, habits of emotional conditioning being taught. Similar to this, is why a lot of people are at unease with themselves. Even if you are loving parents, be careful. Sticks and stones may break our bones but your words will shape their growing souls, for better or for worse. Then as we grow older we start to contemplate ourselves. Trying to build on a template that was given to us in sections by all the people while we were growing up. A kid doesn't have much of a reason to wonder what might happen to them tomorrow or try to figure out why they are the way they are. A kid doesnt have to try to figure out how to fix or solve their circumstances. They are already at ease with not knowing because they are growing. We don't need to be a kid to be at ease or at peace. We need to be less grown up. Perhaps we have stopped growing, keep on growing without ever being fully grown. No need to know why or how you will grow, just experience it. We will figure out things when needed so stop the NEED to understand anything. Stop interpreting yourself in comparison to others. If you notice something that you are envious of, that is because of interpretation. Find inspiration from it instead and grow towards it, without any mental dialogue about it. Not about how you wish you have it and why it sucks, no dialogue about how or what it must be like, no dialogue about how your life will be better when you get it. When I try to think back to my childhood. I can remember experiences. But that's it! I was a kid growing and just experiencing. A kid has circumstances and an adult has circumstances who worries about them more? Be a person who is growing and just experience, take care of things as they come, not getting ahead of yourself mentally. You may find that we still have this jovial part of us when we are not spending the majority or our time thinking about our circumstances, particularly when we are usually doing things daily that aren't related to them. We just carry it as burden into every moment of our life. Time to let go and be free.

    • @goodlifesince90
      @goodlifesince90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for this comment. Just what I needed to read

    • @themadgamer4571
      @themadgamer4571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@goodlifesince90 Absolutely 🙏

    • @VICTORIA-M-A
      @VICTORIA-M-A 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very well said. That's why when I found out about this, I tried not to sat anything negative to anybody specially to my children. If I have something that I don't feel good for them , I silently intend for things to work for the greater good

    • @susanmercurio1060
      @susanmercurio1060 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you try to talk to her to counteract the negativity that she's getting from her parents? (That's child abuse, BTW.)

  • @noahderstand
    @noahderstand ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This one good explanation of how higher emotions and feeling them, such as gratitude, work in your life. I never really got it before I felt it listening to you. Thanks . Intention + elevated emotion = transformation.

  • @krainey
    @krainey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was what I needed to hear this morning. I have been over thinking lately. In survival... thank you for posting . I really have been enjoying the videos the last few days .

  • @Faefair
    @Faefair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I actually started tearing up. I felt so moved to emotions. This was seen in divine timing thank you 💕

    • @princessjones34
      @princessjones34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @janelarson1812
      @janelarson1812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Divine timing for me too ✨

    • @SithCelia
      @SithCelia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'll second that emotion! I felt like I was crying because of the bad stuff, but then when he switched to talking about living in creation, I had to smile and even laughed a little. I watched this during a rather stressful time myself, when I'm about to move across country with rental stress and previous homelessness lingering in my mind. It's tough to move forward into the unknown and have a little faith to trust things will work out. This video helped nudge me into a healthier direction, I think. I feel better than I did before I started watching it. We are all loved!

    • @nelsikegaming
      @nelsikegaming ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't remember clicking on this video yet here I am watching it. This must be it.

    • @LumiMartinX
      @LumiMartinX ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here!

  • @randimcmillan3148
    @randimcmillan3148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Not everyone had a childhood with that experience. This is why long-term childhood trauma is soo damaging!

    • @susanmercurio1060
      @susanmercurio1060 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, I noticed that many people said that they wanted to go back to their childhoods, but mine was no picnic. Never again!

  • @TheEternalTaoist
    @TheEternalTaoist ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you, thank you, for explaining the different types of stress. Physical stress applies to me as I inherited a genetic condition called EDS that effects my joints, making them too hypermobile. I end up with a lot of injuries to my joints and having connective tissue that’s too stretchy has also impacted my heart. I use meditation to help support my body and mind and I also have physical therapy which helps me to build muscles around the joints to help prevent injuries from my loose joints.
    It is SO, unbelievably frustrating when people seem to think that these issues are emotional. Like if I rub a magnet on my head I will be healed. That level of misunderstanding is what I mostly encounter.
    Thank you for this insightful video which brings everything together, I will rewatch it again later. Physical stress is on the body is real and not everything is emotional such as a car accident, genetic issues such as Down syndrome etc, aging.
    Some things really are taxing on the body externally and if people want to know how to better support and encourage people, maybe start by not assuming their issues are all in their thoughts.

  • @ashleyclark4701
    @ashleyclark4701 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This has just blown my mind, I’ve been living in survival mode for the longest time and have recently been found to have hypothyroidism most commonly caused by an autoimmune issue and the prospect of fixing this with my mind set is an incredible concept

  • @smelskels
    @smelskels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I have myastheniagravis the disease he mentioned and i’m in shock. I’m watching this video and on this journey to heal myself from it and when i heard him say that i was speechless and started to cry lol i asked the universe for a sign and here it is. I am on the path to heal myself from this illness and get my happiness back and start living in creation. Thank you so much for this video.

    • @Dr.DianaBarrett
      @Dr.DianaBarrett ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dad also has MG & when he’s completely at peace & enjoying a more balanced life, his symptoms abate. I’ll share this video with him!

    • @8all8at8once8
      @8all8at8once8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aaaawww ❤️ I hope you’re better already 🤗

    • @afeb2010
      @afeb2010 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing now?? Please share

    • @FermentedZucchini
      @FermentedZucchini ปีที่แล้ว

      You can do it!!!

    • @Young3blu
      @Young3blu ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing now?

  • @Candice7042
    @Candice7042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I am reflecting my childhood a lot recently. Truly I had no focus on body nor the poor conditioned environment and time didn’t
    Exist. No cell phone to take attention away. All the focus is on day-to-day life itself. No assumption no insistence on how life ought to be. Open to all the changes and new things.

    • @incog
      @incog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If we never went through the system I believe this state could have never left. It was like it was stripped from us. Forced to live in our futures, especially in school man. You spend a stupidly large majority of your childhood 'preparing' for your economical future. Putting kids in a state of fear if they dont pass, completely putting all children in a deep state of illusion, creating a perfect robot ready to be a slave of the few. We need to make a change, it starts now

  • @truthcerum1222
    @truthcerum1222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I went through a period of pretending I was in a simulation and not to take anything seriously. People asked why I was constantly smiling. Some said I was disassociating when I told them this. I’ve relapsed somewhat in the last few years, but wish to go back to my simulation.

  • @ten_2_life58
    @ten_2_life58 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is no miracle people. It is the key to manifesting the realities you crave, and it is science. Study the hermetic principles. Study the laws of the universe. Know that all religions refer to a supreme entity. The source is among you, and within you. Continued curiosity is all you need. You must let go of the ego, accept that you know nothing about existence or the universe in the grand scheme of it all, and become a student. Your curiosity will create questions. Your questions have answers, and they are out there. Search and search and search. He who seeks will find. Tread careful traveler.

  • @LarissaYounis
    @LarissaYounis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    does anyone else get more anxious as they learn more about anxiety lmaoo

    • @almightyalan8942
      @almightyalan8942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Trust you not the only one bb

    • @Aishafp
      @Aishafp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Maseer Ghorab this is very helpful, I never quite looked at it that way. I've been feeling super anxious lately for no apparent reason, but this message really resonated with me. My body is telling me to slow down, stop neglecting the mind/body/spirit connection, and come back to my inner stillness. Yoga and meditation it is!! :)

    • @awanderingbrooke3926
      @awanderingbrooke3926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes lol my heart was beating so fast during this video 😂

    • @sarahadora4279
      @sarahadora4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a necessary process within self evolution

    • @sarahadora4279
      @sarahadora4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's all a matter of your perspective, and this is a prime example of yourself having a disempowering perspective of your own self, and others.
      If you had a more "empowering" perspective, you would have immediately thought of how grateful you are to have found this video, for the reason you have the ability to go and work- and fix yourself; before disease and other problems have hit you. This video is a safety net that we're all blessed to have, along with everything else this channel provides (and for FREE)

  • @alkggkla5643
    @alkggkla5643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I have MS, and I had a horrible abusive childhood from a very young age. Information about these subjects has been helpful in my journey to emotional health and spiritual recovery, and whatever comes after that i can handle

  • @laniya2121
    @laniya2121 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for this ❤️not only was it insightful but it was easy to understand and very helpful , I watched the video with no pauses or skips and enjoyed every second , I truly appreciate this and thank you because this gave me a lot of insight and advice towards my own spiritual journey ❤️the universe placed this video before us for a reason, keep it up

  • @johnjordaan7306
    @johnjordaan7306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    thank you Dr Joe for these insights. Many viewers may feel "my daily situation is just too stressful and it feels like there is no way out of it, because of my past/present situation - its very difficult for me to be positive and spend time thinking positive thoughts". If this is you - then my message to you is: start small. If you can be 5% more positive today - it will make a difference. Take small steps to get out of stress, debt, a bad work situation, etc. Rome was not built in a day; and you can move slowly from a bad environment to a good one, its a journey. try it. thank you

    • @phamsumi8867
      @phamsumi8867 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Good things take time"

  • @KewBlinkla
    @KewBlinkla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What a wonderful thing to stumble across during this unknown time we are living in. Thank you Joe, listening to you feels very natural and wise.

  • @tianadoucet3106
    @tianadoucet3106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Honestly, this channel is one of the main things that keeps me grounded. Thank you so much for sharing perspectives outside of the "norm".

  • @MidnightToker420
    @MidnightToker420 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been running my body and mind to their limit for more than a decade, with enough stress for a few lifetimes, and never gave myself the time for rest or consumed sufficient nutrition and it's definitely taken its toll. Finally got to a point where I decided to recharge myself and I'm already feeling my strength returning and health improving. Sometimes the hardest lesson to learn but you need to put yourself first, especially if you want to provide for, and protect, others.

  • @etiennegrizz1145
    @etiennegrizz1145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel so grateful for this video ! This channel is so wholesome, and I enjoy every moment listening to these videos because it lets me feel at peace inside

  • @solztice6460
    @solztice6460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    be positive. that's all you have to do! people tend to get caught up in the details, but it's so simple. turn to love.

    • @goodlifesince90
      @goodlifesince90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly, we really don't need to over analyse this.

    • @solztice6460
      @solztice6460 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goodlifesince90 the ego wants to over analyze everything! The soul just naturally lets it be

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson ปีที่แล้ว

      "Be PoSiTiVe!!" yeah,because it's that simple right,you ignoramus?

  • @sarahbatsford4791
    @sarahbatsford4791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So really, the way corporations force their employees to work in overload is utterly unethical & yet it is not questioned. Love this video, thank you.

    • @arunj17
      @arunj17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's right. We need to take care of ourselves.

    • @Araneus21
      @Araneus21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they reinforce this idea by calling their workers "human resources"

    • @cherylwilsherlimberlife7210
      @cherylwilsherlimberlife7210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Social conditioning into the dis ease system

  • @tmarie9609
    @tmarie9609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story really resonates with me and going back to school. Thanks so much for sharing. It means more than I can explain. Sending extra positive vibes to you and your wife!

  • @jfnoxus
    @jfnoxus ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Diagnosed with a burn out yesterday. This video made things so clear for me. Thank you.

  • @funnature8679
    @funnature8679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    True love is the solution for everything,

    • @goddesshundra7895
      @goddesshundra7895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      True love is self love 💕

    • @sbz666
      @sbz666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah your right, toll the first of the month comes n no money , No money No honey

    • @Amjad_y
      @Amjad_y 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goddesshundra7895 100%

    • @Hello-mr9ln
      @Hello-mr9ln 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sbz666 yea u right but if you love and get loved you will be financially stable and everything will be okay :)

    • @sbz666
      @sbz666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hello-mr9ln I hope your right

  • @karelhoogendoorn
    @karelhoogendoorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    One of the best, if not the best, lectures of Joe Dispenza. Beautifully animated as well. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @Roccetmann
    @Roccetmann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I find myself needing to watch this every couple of months and this truly changed my life 🚨

  • @csoniah4432
    @csoniah4432 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is true when I was dealing with trauma at 15, all I could think of was the trauma and stressful scenarios. I didn't have control over my thoughts and couldn't sleep either. Got to a point where I was starting to hear voices a few times and was scared I could become schizophrenic. That's when I decided to try to best to improve my life. I moved out and am living a good life , no more panic attacks, no more anxiety, etc.

    • @imogenreynolds8693
      @imogenreynolds8693 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am going through that right now, what helped you?

    • @thechurchofloops4510
      @thechurchofloops4510 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi, I know you didn’t ask me, but I’d like to hop in here and answer your question if I can. For me, there were a couple things that helped enormously. First to whatever extent you can, change your environment. That might mean something huge like quitting a job, leaving a relationship, or moving to another city/country. Or it might be as simple as cleaning up your room and getting rid of things you don’t need anymore. That’s the outer environment. You also have to attend to the inner environment, for me that meant taking control of whatever I could about myself… eating better, starting an exercise routine, going to bed earlier, and perhaps most importantly: practicing gratitude. Seriously it only takes a few minutes a day… just write down as many things as you can that you’re thankful for and really let yourself feel that gratitude. It is amazingly powerful. If you can only do one thing, I recommend doing that. And as for all the other things, do what you can and go easy on yourself. You’re doing your best.