Man Sends $500k; Gets Engaged Twice In Romance Scam!
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When I became single in my late 50’s I wanted to be loved unconditionally. I got a puppy, and yes, we are living happily ever after.
Best choice you made there! Have a great day !
I'm in my 50s too and happily single. I prefer the company of my dog and cat.
After I asked my useless partner of 5 years to leave I am alone with my dog....couldn't be happier.
Is it really that difficult to date again after 50? I'm curious about it because I don't know how you would meet people outside of the internet.
Smart man
Too bad this super, ultra, uber educated, well read, smart, informed, intelligent person didn't see any problem with purchasing a human being from a foreign country.
Must be his funny , sarcastic self that gets him into trouble 🤣
So True!!!
Exactly!! He should be in jail
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You're being sarcastic, right?
Intelligent people don't believe that a girl 1/3 of their age and drop dead gorgeous wants anything to do with them. That's asinine.
Especially when they look like him ...
then that just really means they are not that intelligent, at least not street smart, book smart can only get you so far
Thats the point - know your limitations , the other thing is why cant people reverse image search ? its like they dont want to find out cos online relationships ,are better than having to deal with real humans :/
Its like saying that intelligent people would never fall for conspiracy theories. Its a false analogy. Love isnt about logic and their scamming system is very thought out.
He glows over his BA in Psychology. LOL! That is one of the easiest degrees a person can get. This guy is a strange one and not bright.
“I’m pretty intelligent”.
Opinions vary.
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But he flew over “200 kilometers”🙄
@@somechick1980 actually he said 8200 km
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I understand him. As a balding overweight 60-year old man myself, nobody had warned me of all these supermodels that would throw themselves into my arms everywhere I go
Are you sure the young waitress was only being nice because she wanted a tip? How do you know she didn't want my old wrinkled balls?
Hahaha! No one warned you of these beautiful nubile queens waiting for you to be their king? That's unacceptable. 😂🤣
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At least you have humour.
Go on with your bad self Big Daddy!!! I'm crazy in love with my baby, 5'6", 310 lbs, 62 years young and so hot in bed we set the sheets on fire!!! Why do some people think only young folks fall in love? He fell for a good cook, sharp dresser and sexy 66 year old me. Find you some, good man. We're out looking.
Brian: "I'm an intelligent person"
Also Brian: here's 40,000 for a visa for a person I've never met.
Lol
That's hilarious tho 😅
As if any visa could cost more than 300!
He’s intelligent damnit. He reads books
LOL
"My wife died, so I thought it would be a good opportunity to buy someone young enough to be my granddaughter, who was desperate for money and a visa." 🤢
Greatgranddaughter 😂
What a weirdo disgusting man
I feel sometimes it’s a desperate attempt to reconnect with their own long past youth. Like getting to start your favorite book all over or restart a game/movie. But alas, it’s impossible. Paying to talk to someone is a huge red flag he just ran straight into and lived in delusion.
He must learned from the college of the indoctrination system. @@Pslm91v14n15
Taking away people's agency to virtue signal. Try living on 1000$ a year or not getting paid for months and years like some Ukrainians, and you also might be willing to marry someone with 500 000$ to spend and a green card to give. Easy to talk when you haven't been there.
Really nothing wrong with that as long as they're at least like 25. 18 is way too young though imo
"I'm pretty intelligent."
- Man with a bachelor's degree in psychology who fell for the most obvious scam in the world
Common sense is a flower that doesn’t grow in everyone’s garden.
He did twice lol
@@terryKessler42719 LMAO 😭😭
Unfortunately he wasnt thinking with the right head
The power of the cooch
Bachelor degree in psychology. Thanks for showing us that this mean literally nothing nowadays
And these scammers don’t even have a degree!
A bachelors in psych is almost as useless as a philosophy BA
A BA in Psychology and fuck all street smarts!
It means nothing in the US. No degree does. He couldn't have passed any exams in Europe.
@@blondecat666 Say that a degree doesn’t matter when you don’t have one. Most jobs, even the crappy ones, require some college education
Come on, guy. A young handsome man in the peak of his male attractiveness would be very lucky to meet and interact with a model looking woman who wants to be with them. It's like older people forget what the real world is like when they're talking to someone online.
not always true. The guy doesn't have to be young and attractive. He could be old and have lots of money. Look at Anna Nicole Smith's husband when he married her.
It doesn’t cost 42k for a visa anywhere in the world 🌎
@@kenmoreSF Yeah I'm referring to actual attraction and not prostitution, here. Hence why I said 'wants to be with HIM.' Not 'payed to be there until he dies.'
I know ,but he isn't millionaire...
They also forget how they look. No good looking young woman would ever be interested in him. That’s just reality not being mean.
The level of delusion you must have to think that absolutely gorgeous 25 year old would be looking for someone his age, in that kind of shape is absolutely mind boggling.
Right! Damn. This old codger has no idea what he looks like. 😂
Don't sleep on us OGs. Some of us got game.
Before he passed away Alan Roger Curry had a 23 year old wife and a newborn son. He was 58.
Well depending on the welth you have. Some girls are extremly worthless. They would marry a 60 years old ultra ugly and fat guy. Just for the life he can provite.
@christopherduffy You are an older man that is fit and keeps yourself in shape and attractive. That is vastly different than the man in the video who is obese and busted looking. An older man that still looks good can get it...but surely you agree the man in the video is not desirable by anyone's standards 😒
@@dovegoddess1100 Yea! It can also depend how socially skilled somebody is. If he at least had some decent social skills his looks wouldn't matter. Obviously he's not that guy either.
Wait, flies to Europe to get married to someone he has never met and DOES'NT KNOW THE FULL NAME, DOB, PHONE NUMBER, ADDRESS? Sits in a hotel for thirty eight freaking days, fly's home and continues the, by now, obvious fantasy (scam) dropping $100k in the process Then repeats the same thing with another but this time drops $250k.
This is mental illness 😵💫
Sad, isn't it? But all joking aside... I really love you
350 k could have bought some killer pussy
@@iamgroot4080Wait, not so fast! If you love me instead I'll buy you a yacht & let you in my chocolate starfish!
He could have saved a lot of money and just gone to Vegas.
Terminal stupidity.
So soon after his wife dies he goes shopping for someone his granddaughters age. He couldn’t wait long enough that he even calculated his wife’s time left.
Quickly replaced his wife's pics😢
@@loveandlight3486 ma Mom cried for my Dad for 5 yrs until her death i know they are now together again ❤️🙏
@@Funnycide777 I am yet to see a man not remarry or stay mourning for more than a year it's really hectic, I guess women are much stronger. My grandfather passed on in 1985 and my grandmother mourned him till 2019 of her passing. Can't say the same for this man who seemed to have been waiting for her to kick the bucket and quickly ran for a younging to ride with him on his bike!!!
@@Funnycide777 You are a strong and amazing person 😊
@@scythekarnival96 thank you very much
It's strange how some scammer victims describe themselves as smart intelligent people, but act dumb by giving all their money away to total strangers.
Not act dumb they are dumb
Anyone who tells you how funny they are....THEY AIN'T
Lol so true. I just left the same exact comment, basically, before I saw yours. Lol Intelligent people don't feel the need to tell people that they're intelligent lol
Right especially when he said he had a BA in psychology
I died.
Bro.
Come on.
Book smart not common sense smart. I am a double masters and BA and am book smart, common sense smart ah not so much. HUGE DIFFERENCE
He was sending a middle man money in order to see the woman. He was buying her. Problem here?
I lost all sympathy at that point.
I just made a similar comment. No sympathy for this guy.
Human trafficking? _(2/15/2023)_
It’s scary this company is willing to help men buy women… that’s what they are endorsing.
trying to exploit young women in economically disadvantaged parts of the world....end up getting exploited economically.
justice was done that day. catfished need to stop helping these creeps getting their money back
He stayed for over a month in a foreign country and flew back home AND he still thought this was a real person, for sale? Disgusting. He gets what he deserves
I agree . Surely they are scammers but this old man is a kind of predator
He needs more imo
He is obviously suffering from some kind of extreme mental illness, probably related to seeing his wife of 30 years slowly pass away from cancer. Pretty harsh.
He was “ missing having someone in his life….a partner”…. But he didn’t want a “partner” his age. He wanted a sexual fantasy and he paid dearly for that fantasy.
He wanted to spend that money. 😐
Absolutely. Wasn't looking for a companion
The money was his way of spreading his seed
He basically an 60 year old fuccboi
When she referred to him as a client, that should have been a red flag to him
It's ironic how he portrays himself as extremely intelligent, knowing more about his wife's diagnosis than her doctor, yet dumb enough to fall for such an obvious scam. Ignorance is bliss, as they say.
The human need for companionship will override any kind of intelligence. If this was happening to this guys friend he would probably see the scam right away and tell his friend to stop but he’s so lonely himself that even if he thinks he’s being scammed that slight chance that it’s real is enough for him to continue.
Unfortunately, love and intelligence have nothing to do with one another....but it would be nice!
Happens to the best of us..
Feelings are a heck of a thing
@@evoextremeX Yep. Especially when backed up by a millennia of DNA evolution, hormones and fine tuning the need to breed……
@@evoextremeX Not for hundreds of thousands it doesn't. That's a special kind of stupidity.
Really? Bragging that you got your wife of 30+ years remaining life span correct with literally NO sadness makes me sick! This is a nasty man! Gross!
I was looking for this comment. That part made me feel sick. No emotion or compassion and just desperate for a woman 😰🤮
He's just telling us "Look how smart I am!"
He didn't fall for a scam, he's covetous and lustful, and he reaped it.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if she's now under his floorboards.
I did think it was rather cold ...
Do you notice that everybody that gets scammed out of their life savings are a good judge of character, knows how to read people, and are very smart?
Loneliness is a terrible thing. This guy knew it was a scammer deep down. He just blocked it out
Dunning Kruger, the dumber people are the smarter they think they are because they are too dumb to know what real intelligence is. Rule on the internet should be DO NOT BELIEVE it until you have undeniable proof
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This guy thought he was buying an online bride though some foreign company. I mean there are legit online bride sights but you better do your homework fly to the country meet the girl and her family. This guy is lonely but was very foolish.
I'm a good judge of character, that's why I'm still single and not looking to change.
He wasn’t looking for love, he was looking for a mail-order bride.
Yep no sympathy. If he wanted love he'd be on a US dating site for older people.
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well he certainly got well and truly fucked
So what you see old rich dudes with hot younger girls all the time
In his brain, that was love.
The overblown egos of these victims is incredible
He's a total narcissist, he explains it all in the beginning, how smart he is, how funny he is, how successful he is.
Yes! Ridiculously overblown Ego! And Zero Self-Awareness!
@@paladinfoxx6574stop csaying undiagnosed people have narcissistic personality disorder. that’s not a word to describe someone who thinks highly of themselves, it’s a clinical diagnosis.
If they stood naked in front of a mirror and said to themselves. . She really wants me . If they could do that I’d be impressed. I sure could not do it .
@@paladinfoxx6574how gullible he is
Brian needs to get rid of his friends and family for lying to him and calling him “smart”.
They’re always “smart”
At least he has his looks…🥴🙄😂
Part of me thinks a lot of these people are super intelligent, but lack the faintest amount of common sense. He could probably do quantum physics, but couldn’t tie his shoes.
The money issue doesn’t shock me anymore. The blindness/arrogance/entitlement of some people still does. WHAT makes you imagine that the top models are in to you
They said so! 🤣
Exactly. I’m a 60 year old, overweight guy, but that Ukrainian 24 year old model is definitely real … let me send her hundreds of thousands of dollars. Gtfo.
I absolutely agree. I get some absolutely gorgeous men supposedly wanting me sometimes, now not putting myself down, I'm very attractive, but I'm realistic and also alot older than these men. Often times they are catfishers or scammers. How could he believe that women like them would really be into him?🤦♀️
Oh you know you want him!
He's a Chad.
As a 60 year old in the UK, I am always amazed by how many 20-30 year olds chase me around declaring love for me and wanting to start a family................. NOT
You have now micheal, hi my king!!!!
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@@doyouevendab77 My King i laugh everytime i read that shit. Someone wrote this shit to me and I said i do not believe in the monarchy, i prefer a democracy based on proportional representation and your insinuiation that i would align with an unelected monarchy is very insulting.
Hi babe!!!!! Youre so handsome!!!
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My boyfriend who works on an oil rig warned me about people like this.
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Really? My boyfriend,who is on a military mission in Syria warned me too😳
Lmaoooo good one
My fiancé was working undercover, but now works for the UN in Doctors Without Borders and has been kidnapped and his bank account has been frozen so I need to send money to get him released. Horrible news, the money was stolen and I have to send another payment. He’s starving because his kidnappers won’t feed him, so I need to send more money to bribe the guards to get him food. His attorney called says he owes a big bill to facilitate his release. I need to pay that too. If all this sounds good to you, he has a friend he’d like to introduce you to!
My boyfriend who's an orthopedic surgeon on a military mission in Yemen told me that your boyfriend is just jealous!
She told me that I was handsome........was the first clue to know she is telling lies ....
Yes I'm a 30yo, average-looking woman. When men I don't know call me beautiful or more, I'm already suspicious. x)
@@grenade8572 nah that can happen but if Chris Hemsworth or Henry Cavill say it, maybe it's a lie.
The delusion alone with these people is just phenomenal.
You are so right. He thinks he deserves a 20 something. He thinks the Ukraine being a war zone he can have his pick. I’ve never seen a beautiful young model with her wish list saying she wants a fat old lecherous man as her perfect mate.
I can’t fathom this silly old man actually thinking a girl a fraction of his age has any genuine interest in him. He’s just icky.
You are probably if not more delusional than them so I wouldn't be talking
Girl you have the profile picture and name of a certified catfish, you must be speaking from 1st hand experience 😂
I have watched quite a few videos about this phenomenon, and it seems every victim is a mix of ignorance, arrogance, and delusion..
Why is Brian not searching for women his own age no wonder he is getting scam.
I'm 67, and I wouldn't date him!
I know right? Maybe he thinks highly of himself, he keeps on talking about how smart he was, ..
I love Larry The Cable Guy but I don't think he is handsome.
@Donna Hilton lmaoooo.. this one made me laugh out loud lol
I find this question to be extremely hypothetical
I wouldn't dste this guy and I am in my 60's. He's an arrogant sounding b@stard. He's not physically fit, good looking by most women's standards and he's very superficial. I don't think that I would want him as a neighbor a friend. He's actually not that interesting to listen to. He has no insight on his actual physical appearance. I can't believe that he actually flew to the Yukran to meet her. Unbelievable p#tz
Makes me laugh when he describes her & 100% is about her appearance.
And he kept repeating how intelligent he was…Ummm not so much. I find it so sad that those being scammed don’t have common sense! They are so incredibly desperate for love and attention that they lose their minds!!
Exactly. He would probably have a heart attack if they met in that Kiev motel and she took her clothes off. 911 would have to be called at least to resuscitate him.
Hey! "We were supposedly in love!" If that doesn't spell "soulmate" to you, then I believe you are immune to real looooooovvvvvvvvvveeeee!!
Reminds me of my pervy ex.
Well, he hasn't actually got much else to go on, being as they've never met!
So he spend 100k+ on the first scam then 250k+ on another right after? This is pure insanity
Atp its his own fault😂
He should spent more to level up intelligence
Desperation and sexual frustration.
At least he's intelligent. He said it.
@@beardedentity 🤣
“I’m pretty intelligent” good. He cleared that up!
Exactly 😅😅
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Lol
Ikr😂😂😂
He’s r/verysmart
Why would you believe that a 25 year old woman that looks like that will want anything to do with you? Mind blowing
He got a medical background and psych background. He prob figured she's into dumb dirty fat old man as a kink....... yea... Idk either.
That's why bullying at school is an important step to suffer in the life of every human being.
It’s called narcissism.
@@AD-wi4fqyep, these scammers prey on narcissists for sure
So if she was less pretty it's suddenly plausible?
Him: "I'm pretty intelligent"
Flies to Ukraine and spends 38 days waiting at a hotel room.
Continues relationship.
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This is fucking ridiculous. 38 days, what a picture does and a few lying words.
I gotta laugh...
LOL!
Anyone else think it’s a bit odd that, when discussing his wife passing away from cancer, he used it mostly as an opportunity to talk about his education and how he could apparently read her charts better than her doctors?
@Testy Terminal I’ve known people that buy into conspiracies - and your description is very accurate
Serena these women aren't as beautiful as you , maybe you should do some modeling or scamming , lol , kind of !
It creeped me out.
classic narcissist
That weirded me out too- even at that moment he just wanted to show off unfucking believable some people
I can’t believe the scammers insulted his cat! That’s low, man.
Dude his cat probably hates him. He’s probably eating that cat food cause he ran through his retirement.
Him referring to himself as being an intelligent person legitimately made me laugh out loud.
I know, dear me. Dumb.
It should be a square on the Scamfish bingo board, along with UN doctors and oil rigs with broken parts and being trapped in Turkey for some reason
Me too , lol, higher education is just indocrination.common sense will take you further than a useless degree.
It's called Dunning-Kruger effect - some people have intelligence, others have confidence
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I was missing someone in my life, so I decided to go after a 25 year old instead of somebody my own age-
A beautiful looking 25yr old way out of his league at that. Mind you, men are led to believe & probably biologically primed that they can get any woman & should go after younger ones. And unfortunately, there are some very greedy women with no self esteem who will basically prostitute herself to a man she’s not attracted to because of his money or the security he can provide.
I mean, 25 year olds are hotter
He is a dreamer.
@@ChauncyCharm Thats right!
@@ChauncyCharm yea but they don’t want u tho…
This guy isn’t looking for an honest partner, he’s looking for a play thing. I don’t care what two consenting adults do but this dude set himself up to be scammed and has nobody but himself to blame.
Pretty intelligent? I’m not seeing it
Yeah, he can't be that age and seriously believe a 20-30 year old wants to travel the world for him, I don't mean anything by that but c'mon. And you know what? If he wants to be someone's play thing, that's fine, if some 25-year old doesn't wanna work and is happy playing "girlfriend" for money, then cool, but understand yourself that you want it, don't chat up "models" thinking they are real and want you. Equally, say what you will but he could of just hired a ton of hookers, at least they would be real and would give him what he is obviously after - wouldn't of costed even a fraction as much either.
@@DarkCobra88 so very true. Hookers will give the old pervert what he really wants.
@@emilythompson3605 yeah, it's sad to even think that's his goal but its undeniable, he is even got 2 on the run (both he claims to want to marry), both younger than half his age, he is as clear as can be, he wants one thing.
apparently it never crossed his mind that going public with this cry for help would only worsen his problems
Sometimes I feel like an an idiot. But after a few episodes of Catfished, suddenly, I feel much smarter.
The scammer even says “You are handsome” and he doesn’t even smell a rat then 😂
😅 I carnt belive they slagged his cat off
If she called him handsome then she needed more than a trip to Specsavers...........she needed an eye specialist.
I think he's a lovely guy........ I'm in my EARLY 40s!!!!!!!
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He sent 100K to several women??? Omg, I'm going to become a catfish asap. That's darn good money!
That would be a great hustle. 💰💰🤑💸
Seriously it s tempting. How some random people just send thousands and thousands like that 🤷♀️
There are many sharks waiting
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I'm saying if all they need it's someone to talk to.. shoot her I am I'm real and got all the time in the world 😅
The second hand embarrassment for this guy is off the charts! 📈
The fact that he does not feel humiliation and shame and wants to be recorded for the world to see this adds up, he has no self awareness.
Flip that chart upside down and you have his retirement fund.
@@JaimeMesChiens they have to act like that for views obviously 😂😂
@@JaimeMesChiens Yeah, that's ridiculous.
The part where they showed his framed photos of Eileen was my breaking point
Why should a young, attractive woman from Eastern Europe be interested in a strange old man? You can't be that naive.
He's not. He's lustful, covetous, and evil.
right😂
Hmm.... Melania and Trump??? 🙄
It's not naivite, it's narcissistic ego
He thinks being an American is a gift. His birthright entitles him to access to foreign women. 🤮🤮🤮
He could get high class escorts for the rest of his life with all that money 😂😂
100%. But he wants love and intimacy. As we all do. But ya. Hookers and cocaine 🤣
Exactly!! And got lots of action..
It's understood that no female alive will be sexually interested in a man my age, this is why I'm getting plenty of action with local, affordable playmates.
No shit
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Is it just me, or is it creepy of him in the first place to choose a Ukrainian or Slavic dating site over the other options that would come up for him like eharmony or our time that have women in his area or country? Deliberately picking a pay-to-play "dating" site known for older wealthier men to take advantage of women in other countries with less... I don't know his heart, but it always raises an eyebrow for me when people jump on these sites in the first place
👏👏👏👏 I wholeheartedly agree that it's creepy. I am having a hard time finding sympathy for him.
Ya and paying a third party to find her private info for him sounds like he was willing to involve himself in trafficking
It’s giving “mail order bride” 😅
@@DB-vt1kk it definitely is… therefore he’s getting what he deserves….
He wanted a mail order bride that he could control.
I’m a 76 year old widow. I’ve been alone a very long time. I’m perfectly happy to keep it that way and even if I WAS looking it certainly wouldn’t be Brian!
Me too!
What about a 25 year old model? Would you go for him?
🤣 I totally agree with you. No matter what age, it's a huge turn off!!
you are lucky to feel that way. some people really struggle being alone
@@youknow6607 Get a dog
I can’t even feel sorry for this man. It’s so gross when old men go after young women.
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Facts
Then women shouldn’t be gold diggers
Nope. Its literally how ALL men are. Every mans ideal woman is in her 20s. Cry about it. Its biology
@@theresurrection33 that is not how all men are so you might want to stop the b*******
A bachelor’s in Psychology is not a medical degree. Grandiose is this guy’s problem.
Yepp, far from it!
Dude bragged about knowing how long his wife had to die because of his incredible medical skills.LOL. He's a POS
In dog psychology.
From Phoenix college
Another 'victim'who is supposed to have a psych degree. He obviously is not putting his education to good use.
How can people like this even make it to that age in life, be that financially well off, and be so completely clueless and detached from reality that they would do something like this.
Yeah I mean really my same thoughts on the matter!!!
His wife obviously was the one taking care of everything.
clearly he inherited the money
Ignorance is bliss. Plus being lonely doesn't help. He needs to get outdoors. Golf, baseball something. ANYTHING but online dating. All these foreign woman (who prob are kidnapped just for this purpose) don't want him. Only his cash.
Because capitalism is not a meritocracy.
Him having actual photos of the woman the scammers used around his house is immensely creepy
Probably has some human skin lampshades too. 😏
@@TheTexorcist68😂😂
@@kerribernard4278 😉
SERIOUSLY!😳😳😳😳
Bizarre
These are the worst type of people. Right off the bat "I'm intelligent". Then he says that he has a bachelors in pych and human resources.....then he claims that there are drugs on the market that he had a hand in researching. None of his background would allow him to be a drug researcher in any significant wayt. He is obviously not intelligent and full of himself and deserves to be scammed
Dude ..HE IS THE ONE THEY DO TESTING ON THE NEW DRUGS ....hes a lab rat im sure who gets paid small amount of money to test new drugs that are poison on the dumb public ..he probably has 10 vaxs...dude part disabled obviously.
Exactly! A bachelor's in psychology and human resources is NOT a "background in medicine".
It’s possible he was involved in evaluating patients in some trials. Basically questionnaires he would fill out w patients if they were enrolled in a trial.
Thank you ! As a med student it makes me mad, no sir, psychology is not medicine.
You forgot: he can read xrays better than doctors.
Him saying that he has a medical background with a 4 year degree in psychology is a HUGE stretch. Insinuating that someone should believe him over a trained physician is laughable. It definitely shows that he is detached from reality. It could be grief but I’m more inclined to believe that it is arrogance.
Sorry Brian. I have similar education and practical experience,yet I don't think we're qualified to read and determine length of life. She seems to have been a lovely lady. You were lucky.
I thought that myself. When he was talking about his wife he was leaking his lack of respect all over the place.
I wonder if he said all that because he feels so stupid for falling for a scam, just to show us that he's not a total idiot 🤣
@@kerriannmatitsaroundalday2994 Ooh nice catch! That makes sense
He sounds incredibly pretentious. Plus, there are millions of people that have a bachelor degree and read voraciously. It's not exactly some rare combination indicative of superior levels of intelligence. Regardless of that, I find the viewing of young women as sexual objects to be purchased disgusting and believe it speaks volumes about his character. Human trafficking is a vile, despicable operation and the fact that some older men are so willing to engage in it for their own sexual gratification makes me sick. At its core, under their many layers of denial and mental gymnastics to the contrary, the belief that these young women will owe them a sexual relationship is their entire motivation. They should be ashamed of themselves.
So that person actually admitted she was working for a company and wasn't allowed to meet clients (admitting that he was just a client), and he still didn't get it.
@@elipotter369 And 40000 to get her a visa she never requested.
Don't worry, he said he was intelligent :D
I've never asked a visa for the US, but I asked one for two different countries outside the EU, and the most expensive one was 40 bucks top. Who are these people who think you have to pay thousounds upon thousands for a visa? A quick internet search would clear that up for them if they cared to investigate.
...you know, there's a line between body positivity and being outright *delusional.*
He identifies with sexy smart.
😂😂😂
hahaha so true.
In his case its 4XL
@opo3628 He’s probably thinking of his 21 year old self
The moment "she" told him that he was so handsome, he should have known what's up. He does have a mirror, I take it.
Damn😖🤣😂
"Even had photos put up in his house". Bro had a whole shrine LMFAOOOOO
So gross 😂
That was creepy
oh my god. ain't that for you. This man is delusional
That cracked me up 😅 could you imagine anyone coming over and seeing that 😂
hahah i done some stupid things but never cost me more than 30 quid.
Seriously,!!!!!A guy contacted me on Facebook. Dressed in full uniform, said he worked for the UN. Yeh right I asked him why he wanted to be in contact with me.Said because I was such a beautifull woman!! at 73 years old . So blocked him.
You're fully compos mentis ,Cotton Candy ! Well done !
@@lindafrancis1778 Thankyou ITS SO DARNED EASY.
Yeap, happened to me as well, muscular young hunks in the army, wanted to befriend me, Im a 48yr old middle-aged woman 🙄 Ehemmmm yeah right! I just blocked them all 🙅🏻♀️
@@elipotter369 Interesting! Well not with me......
She told you you were handsome, and as a psychology major, you believed her. You need to return your certificate to the school that gave you because there’s obviously an error somewhere.
my thoughts as well
This is SO damned true!!!!!
Agree.
Hahahahaha 😂😂
Bachelor's in Psychology is nothing, it is basically history and basics. It was not until graduate school that we learned anything.
I’m kind of glad this guy got scammed. He seems creepy.
Just desperate I think. Just lost his partner
Good god. Everything he says about her diagnosis and living with cancer is just brutal. Hes a classic narcissist.
it threw me off that the first thing he said about his wife passing away (only 2/3 years ago) was how he was so right about how long she had left to live. more right about it than the doctor! (wow! s/) And only after did he talk about her and her personality. it may have been the editing but it threw me off. why would "being right" about when your wife would die be the first thing you bring up?
@@no_i_dont_want_no_slugswhen he made his VERY recently passed away wife about him I had no sympathy
you can bet he made money exploiting people.
I`m sorry that you were scammed.... and sorry that the University where you got your degree in psychology scammed you as well. I haven`t got a degree and yet I knew seconds into the video that it was a scam
🤣 🤣 you're killing me man.....
You don't have to be smart to get a degree in psychology
😂😂😂😂
The site is called “Catfished” and it only took you seconds? My hat is off to you sir!
That was too harsh! I loved it! 👍😂
Yeaaaah no. This man is a creep. Paying someone to get her personal information sounds awfully close to trafficking 😑. If she was real and wanted to give you that info, common sense would tell you she would. I don’t feel bad for this guy.
Exactly.
Exactly. And the fact that he was willing to travel so far gave me the feeling he was looking for mail-order brides. I can't believe people feel sorry for this specimen.
@@lunaariane5713 lol, seriously he didn't get reached out to on Facebook like other people on this show. He specifically signed up for a "Slavic dating site" where you have to pay to message beautiful young women in poor Eastern European countries. Did he really get scammed? He really thought it was true love? Lol he knew he had to pay to message them when he signed up, he just had a dream of bringing his young bangmaid back to the US and didn't get it. I don't feel that bad for him.
He was definitely trying to stalk her at the very least.
@@lunaariane5713 and stuck around 1 whole month hoping to see her
Why are you not looking for women your own age? They are not good enough for you?
These men don’t want love… they want a fantasy. And that’s EXACTLY what these scammers give them. They are selling a product to an audience. These people deserve each other honestly smh
Excellent point!
No. He wants love. He believed that he could get that love from a beautiful girl. He is an old man who does not understand dating apps and less how photo theft works
@@nicolasapolo2122exactly. people keep blaming the victims for being dumb but notice how they’re all much much older
Yes these elderly people didn’t grow up with the internet. I don’t think they had cell phones or texting even. They just don’t understand
I rarely cuss too
He has a bachelor’s in psychology and has a “medical background” that enabled him to understand his wife’s scans better than her medical team. Hm. Okay. That’s pretty vague. Wish they asked him more about that.
@@JaimeMesChienshe’s disgusting and thinks a hot young thing would be attracted to him and think he’s handsome. Right. Unless these women approach you on the street you have to know no one like that is interested
Intelligence and street smarts are two different things.
@@JaimeMesChiens exactly 💯
I came to say the same.
Woof.
A bachelors in psych qualifies you to get a masters degree, and that's about it.
One can certainly use it wonderfully in HR, but it's far from a science degree. Good grief.
@@johntrevy1 intelligence and common sense are two different things
This man spends about a month in Kiev to meet the woman of his dreams - flights, hotel etc - costing a small fortune and she made up continual excuses not to meet him in person. That's a big enough sign alone that maybe she isn't the right one! The fact that he still pursued her after this via text-speak is frankly crazy
I wonder how old is this story, who'd come during the war to Ukraine?
@@cristibaluta he said that it was in 2021. The war started in 2022 (end of February)
But he claims he's so intelligent!
@@painterdawn2 they all do lol
And when he was there 'she' actually admitted that she was working for a company and that he was just one of her clients. That should have been enough for him.
The saddest part of the entire video is that he kept mentioning how smart he is 😒
The problem with these men is, they don’t face reality and realize that they’re older. They need to settle for a woman that is their age or within 10 to 15 years of their age not 40 or 50 years within their age. That’s just downright disgusting.
These older guys come from marriages where they haven’t had sex for 20 years and finding a woman 10-15 years of their age is going to be another older woman who doesn’t want to have sex anymore. But they think they can pull in 20 year olds. This guy should just find some friends to ride motorcycles with to kill time. then ride on down to the brothels to get his rocks off once in awhile.
So leonardo dicaprio needs to settle for a 35 year old? The difference is, you need actual wealth or fame and it works….you cant be joe blow with a couple hundred grand….
@@TheAcenightcreeper u do know Leonardo is only 48 which is only 13 years older than a 35 year old.. So if you actually throughly read my comment…… I stated men need to settle for a woman their own age or WITHIN 10-15 years of their own age NOT 40-50 years older. Your argument makes zero sense. 🤷🏼♀️
@@TheAcenightcreeper Now few is Hollywood actors but they probably pay for theyre young woman in other ways and can afford it plus the women get fame.
Beeing with an old man who is not famus is probably not the type of fame that this women wants.
Same with Cher and Madonna they date who they Want.
@@wormhole331 Another option is a hooker. Even if he ends up getting scammed, at least he actually got some sex and companionship out of it.
i predicted how long my wife would live with cancer better than the doctors but i couldn’t predict these online scammers 💆🏻♀️🔮
,😀😃😄😆🤣
😅😅😅
Boomers had such easy paths to success that they all think they're geniuses
@@joelglanton6531 I'm a "Boomer" born way back in the dark ages (1962) and I'm as dumb as a bunch of rocks. I never would think a 25-year old babe would give me the time of day and I have been told I'm dumb more times than I'm smart. My life has never been easy. Many young people have made millions from the internet and most people my age (60) are not sophisticated enough to make money that way. Making the money the hard way by doing manual labor until your body breaks down is the way most Boomers made a living. Now, that I'm old just getting around is tough.
@@stephendacey8761 Hey! I'm from 1967, don't call us ancient 😁. What young people don't understand is that before they know it, they will be older with the younger generation disrespecting them.
It's so embarassing to see these older people fall for model level beautiful young people like come on grow up. I can't feel bad anymore. Especially with these big creepy age gaps.
if he was some extremely rich old man that seeked companion in exchange for money (but aware of it), it would somewhat be okay. but he seems completely oblivious to this, makes me wonder how he went through life while being so naive lol
@@xxxxxxxxx1652 because your suggestion is fair. It's a fair contract. You offer to pay for youth and other "services". A woman accepts and provides "services" as discussed. No illusions, no strings attached. It's a fair deal for both adults.
He really believes she wants him & thinks he's handsome? Come on guy.
He thinks that telling a woman she has "the most amazing blue eyes" he's ever seen, is an original line. Face palm.
Yes! I laughed right out loud at that one.
I just posted the exact same comment L O L! I couldn't freaking believe that he honestly thinks that!
Common sense a person years younger would be not interested I old people me included
@@babalu757 Exactly 😒
He was married 30 years. He doesn't understand dating and how social media has absolutely DESTROYED dating for men. Even far girls have options.
It never ceases to amaze me how a person can go there whole life not taking care of them selves and then meet some more then half their age absolutely flawless and they think they are entitled to that. Like the ego must be so inflated to not consider anything otherwise. They might even know but just the fantasy or idea comforts the ego and worth the monetary loss. They just won’t admit it.
AMEN he's old slovenly and not tht bright and he believes he's entitled to somebody's info for a fee thts slavery or prostitution
I think these individuals need to start giving their private areas personal addresses, bank accounts, social security numbers, life insurance etc. because it seems they make every decision using that. Men, maybe not all but alot, tend to think that while their wives are getting old and frumpy they remain some type of Adonis. The wives are probably closing their eyes just as tight when the husbands remove their clothing as well. People need to wake and smell the reality.
I think many men have narcissistic traits and actually use such beautiful women to inflate their fragile ego. In some shape or form he was certainly aware that he is "buying" her considering on which site he found her. But yeah, doesn't make it any less disgusting.
Well, he was buying her. He knows no one like that would come along for free.
tends to be Americans in the middle states as they are sheltered with no clue
"I found a dating site for Slavic women"
Im struggling to feel bad for him.
I'm thinking that this guy thought of himself as Donald Trump and thought he could buy his own Melania....lol...
I don't feel bad for him at all. He is using a website/method that is advocating for human trafficking.
I right there with you stuggling.
Wouldn't call it human trafficking. More like come idiot and spend ur money on non existent ppl. 😂
He knew what he was doing… creep. He’s just mad his mail order bride wasn’t delivered
I lost it when the scammers said “your cats probably stink and smell like 💩 “ lmaaaooooooooo
Don't forget "you're a fat old man" lmao
Poor cats didn’t deserve to be insulted though 😂😂
ikr? Hilariously petty!
I had to rewind afew times to make sure I heard it right 😂
Man, knowing there are such intelligent people as Brian out there ready to give away such large sums of money for a song and dance, makes me wanna go register a domain name and pop up a romance site myself lol
Lmao! Facts
😂 me too
Unfortunately I don‘t have enough criminal energy for this…. 😞
Me too I’m ready. Let’s go
@@ohsoyouthinkyoucandancelet's do it lol
As soon as someone qualifies themselves as being "known for being really smart" you can rest assured that they're no stranger to doing something really dumb. I honestly didn't realize just how easily people are to part with thousands of their own hard earned dollars until I started watching these episodes. Can't let people or companies play on your heart for money. Smh
It usually happens when someone knows that what's being said about them is exactly the opposite and they will be in denial about reality.
Agree the dunning kruger effect.
Saying "hey handsome" instantly lowers IQ 100 points
Obama was like that. Dumb as dog food, hid behind affirmative action his whole life and thought he was some genius.
Would you like to round up to the nearest dollar for the children's hospital?
Me: Nope
My goodness! This man got everything he deserved and some. He was not looking for love, he was looking for a toy.
Toys are way cheaper.
Yuuuuuup. He's a disgusting creep, and I don't feel the slightest bit sorry for him.
Exactly 😂
he was looking for a trophy. The problem is he didn't look good for his age or take care of himself. So he would be hard pressed to find a younger woman.
Yeah, he wasn't looking for love, if he did it would have been around his age.
They didn't have to insult the cats like that
It was uncalled for!
RIGHT
I’m retired, exercise and eat right. I look good for my age, but if a guy 40 years younger wanted a relationship with me I would know that he was either a scammer or a serial killer.
Absolutely agree! I’m 70 and try to keep fit and make the most of myself but seriously why should someone half my age be interested in me? Get real!
@@sueharvey4747 well Im 31 and had a wonderful relationship with a 64 year old. It was fun and hot. I did not scam her or kill her
Me to,I did have one after me,I thought what's he after, never considered it for a second.
@@sueharvey4747 sayyyy want to go on a date? I just need your credit card info for Uber .😁😂😂😂 (Just messin)
Or your loaded and i need a hot sugar mama??🤣🤣
I have to say, the scammers insulting cats is a new one
They've gone too far
I know, how dare they!
🤣
I thought he said your pants probably smell bad, I had to rewind & wow! There was no need for that!😂😮😮
This is my favorite comment section🤣🤣🤣
I would never want this man reading and interpreting any of my medical tests or records 😂😂😂
It didn't matter much. His wife was dead by that time.
😂
At least the scammers can spend that money better then he did.
Not sure about that
I’m only a few seconds in but when someone says “I’m pretty intelligent” and “people say I’m funny” neither are usually true.
Right
Intelligence comes in different forms though. To go on a dating site especially when looking for a woman abroad that guy needs to be street smart and have common sense. He needs to keep his emotions in check and his wallet closed otherwise he's an easy target for the scammers. He could be a rocket scientist and still get scammed just because he's not clever enough with women.
It is possible that one or two people said that to him in 1958, and he thinks it still counts today ! 😊
Let’s pretend she’s real. Did he really think that this woman would be interested in him? Unbelievable.
His standards were unrealistically high.
If he stayed in his lane then he would have found someone who would have liked him for him.
That's a huge red flag I see in almost every one of these. If a 10 is interested in a two, something is fishy. Not to be mean, it's just the honest truth
I totally agree with you. I'm knock knock knocking on 60s door and would never believe some guy half my age was interested in me. It's effing bs.
@@AntonArmsberg I think older women are going to be making a comeback. IMHO.
He should be looking for a woman similar to his wife in beauty.... so about a 3 on a good day
I’m convinced these people getting scammed are narcissist. To believe they are so attractive and smart that these young models want to be with them.
That’s my takeaway too.
I’m figuring it’s one hand on the computer and another dabbling in the lube…
Oh yes, you are so right. You can see the signs there with him.
Agree
They have entitlement
Syndrome
more like a total lack of social intelligence.
I'm in the wrong business.
Me too
You and me both 😂
Honestly....it makes me want to be a catfish while im still young(-ish). Like I have morals so I dont want to scam people but maybe some brilliant entrepreneur wants to pay me for selfies?? :P
@@OrionDakota There's always Only Fans...or getting a sugar daddy, lol
"I'm pretty intelligent" Yet he gave half a million dollars to fake "young, pretty women" because they 'told' him he was handsome and asked about his cats. (EXTREME EYEROLL AND FACEPALM). 😣
Yep, the cats
Intelligence & common sense, being in touch with reality are two very different things.
As well as "They liked his motorcycles"
😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I don't feel sorry for him, I'm not sorry for anyone that gullible and delusional.
How anyone can get catfished in 2023 is beyond me.
You'd be amazed...
The number of stupid people on this planet far outweighs the smart ones. Examples: Reality TV shows, President Trump (I understand Trump as an entertainer, but not as a president)
Used to work at target and we had to stop AT LEAST 2 old people a day from buying gift cards for super OBVIOUS scams 😢
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Wait until they come out with AI filters
The actual fact that he was chatting and paying TWO women at once is richer than i'll ever be
No the scammers pretending to be those women using their pictures stolen are richer! Sad!!!!
That man's ego is off the charts..
Ride with you. ???????
I personally wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole.😅
Exactly!
They get exactly what they deserve.
They always go "Oh, I just want companionship and someone to love me". Uhm, no. You want a trophy and an ego boost that you can possibly control by dangling to them the prospect of a greencard. These people DESERVE to be scammed because they're creeps.
Yep. It borders on human trafficking. Disgusting man.
Everything in life is transaction
Exactly
They all share the (in my opinion) repulsive character trait of secretly believing they are "special". Basically, they believe they're better than me, better than you, and they deserve and are worthy of impossible standards in a partner. It's gross.
@@gregpettis1113 oof if thats how you live thats all youre ever gonna get. be careful
I feel like he has an overinflated sense of self. It’s usually peoples arrogance that gets them scammed because they think they know it all!
Being a victim of any scam requires the victim's participation.
I just don't believe that this man will not get scammed again by someone else
It's too bad he didn't learn his lesson the first time, cause he certainly got screwed over royally the second time around. I mean damn the first screw over should have been the last of his foolishness but nooooo he had to be like a glutton for punishment and do it again. I mean he was like DUH DUH DUH try this again, by golly gee I just might get lucky this time I reckon!!!!!
I really hope he's not that stupid!
Don't bet your house on that!!!
he is a willing 'victim'
I always wonder if these scammers watch these videos and use these people as their next victims
His poor wife must be spinning in her grave
he never betrayed his wife. he loved her.
I had a late friend who inherited over a million dollars from the sale of his mother’s farm. He went through that money in less from a year through scams exactly as they are talking about here. Phony businesses, women, and died penniless owing everybody in a small town.
God that thought makes my stomach hurt
His mother would have been so proud of him 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
God that’s embarrassing
The patience and professionalism of this team is unmatched!
For dummies
It’s super human isn’t it
It really is amazing.
I couldn't do it. I would be regulating these people!
They're so so good! I would not be able to keep my cool.
This is how the universe punishes you for being nothing but shallow. Start looking for other qualities instead and not just the looks.
Amen!!! I just don't get why people want to be so shallow in selecting someone to date!!! Don't they even CARE one bit about character???
That sounds so silly. So you’d just go and buy a car or shoes you don’t like? Not everyone is looking for the same thing in people.
@@pattskatoey3139 Say I would buy a pair of nice shoes. The fanciest in the whole store but then find out after wearing them that they do not fit me at all and just giving me sore feet. They can be fancy all they want but I would never wear it again. Chosing someone just based on looks is nothing but shallow and that is not an attractive trait to have. Period.
“She” is always a dude from India or Nigeria. It is hard not to judge. I’ve never had an actual real life girlfriend that asked me for money. It blows my mind that anyone would send a cent to another human being they’ve never met. Imagine the good these people could do by giving their money to charity or investing in a member of their family.