He forgave his wife for cheating and stayed.

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  • @dituri3127
    @dituri3127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1633

    Cheating is the most lowest form of disrespect!!! 😢 it’s painful AF !!!

    • @paulahayes428
      @paulahayes428 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes. I went through t too!!!

    • @shannonh2291
      @shannonh2291 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      It’s sooo painful! Your heart really hurts. I know that pain too.....

    • @shannonh2291
      @shannonh2291 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@paulahayes428 I’m sorry for your pain sister queen......

    • @flo-dd5sw
      @flo-dd5sw ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Trust me, it's not the lowest

    • @gemmacharles6416
      @gemmacharles6416 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      But forgivable

  • @Mano_jc
    @Mano_jc ปีที่แล้ว +437

    Cheating should be the end of the relationship

    • @Mr.McCann978
      @Mr.McCann978 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      That only applies to people who have respect for themselves,dude in this video clearly does not

    • @John-yh3je
      @John-yh3je ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah

    • @jamesrobinson3rdCoast
      @jamesrobinson3rdCoast ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When women cheat it's HIGHLY intentional. She WILL cheat again.

    • @ananardelli
      @ananardelli 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mr.McCann978true

    • @jabulanij.mabika6298
      @jabulanij.mabika6298 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How long are these two going to milk this for 😂

  • @Abigail-00
    @Abigail-00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    He has a good heart and deserves someone better.

    • @Locopueblo
      @Locopueblo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      People cheat for a multitude of reasons. Cheating doesn’t make you a terrible person. It makes you a human being. Offenses come but they can be overcome too. I think it’s cool that he didn’t throw her away like trash after cheating. I hope she is treating him better now

    • @Abigail-00
      @Abigail-00 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Locopueblo Loyalty is one of the foundations that hold a relationship together . Once that’s broken that relationship will forever be broken. Why would someone stay in a relationship knowing that loyalty has been breached. They are prone to doing it again and again.It’s a toxic cycle.Life is too short to be wasting on people who can’t stay committed to you.

    • @nolanbaptiste358
      @nolanbaptiste358 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      ​@@Locopueblo
      No cheating does make you a horrible person.

    • @eugenechelseafc89
      @eugenechelseafc89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@LocopuebloPathetic.

    • @st.toussaint4632
      @st.toussaint4632 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Locopueblonah it makes you ignorant and terrible. Lol get out of here so murder makes you human too?

  • @EdeSands-do6st
    @EdeSands-do6st 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    She cheating in her mind right now 👀

  • @Zayn913
    @Zayn913 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Takes a different level of strength to forgive someone for cheating especially as a man because the shot to our pride is overwhelming. I hope she’s treating him right and learned her lesson and remains faithful.

    • @hexicanx
      @hexicanx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Women lose respect even more for the man when the man takes them back after cheating, she would find him more attractive if he grew some courage and left.

    • @Zayn913
      @Zayn913 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hexicanx A lot of men do leave the woman that cheated on them but as time grows and the separation settles people who truly love each other do return to union sometimes. There’s nothing wrong with this. People make mistakes. If you want to reunite with someone who is the love of your life sometimes things get dark and mistakes are made. Especially after a lot of fighting and years of dissatisfaction with the current state of the relationship. People also sometimes need to time to grow. We are human. But if both people are humbled, they are committed to working on themselves, the marriage and heal what created the mistake in the first place than I don’t think it should be demonized when two people put their egos aside to make something beautiful happen by returning to love.
      We are beings of flesh, full of fault, imperfections, etc. even if you leave and never look back the next relationship will surely disappoint you in some way down the road as well. NOBODY is perfect. The only being who is imperfect and will never let you down is G-d. We are all children ultimately and children make messes. Doesn’t mean you stop loving the child. Now if the love is continuously taken advantage of then yes leave, but in the event their is sincere remorse and disdain for one’s own misguided actions you don’t have to be so prideful.

    • @OO9O9
      @OO9O9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Zayn913as woman if a male cheated on me I would hired a hit man like my grandma or poisoned his food. The mere thought of him looking at another woman let alone sleeping with her would've made me take a wrong decision, it's the reason I don't these males.

    • @slovelyyx7718
      @slovelyyx7718 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He’s a simp.

  • @GT-mc9eg
    @GT-mc9eg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    The Bible says divorce is acceptable under adultery. Please don't leave that part out.

    • @_hartwellfit
      @_hartwellfit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Didn’t leave it out you just have to watch the full episode to see it

    • @thSonk-vp3js
      @thSonk-vp3js ปีที่แล้ว +38

      The Bible says you have to divorce your wife if she cheats. Not doing so is sin

    • @jaredmiller194
      @jaredmiller194 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Jesus said It was because of their hardness of heart that he allowed divorce. Matthew 19:8

    • @jaredmiller194
      @jaredmiller194 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thSonk-vp3js please tell me where it says that

    • @thSonk-vp3js
      @thSonk-vp3js ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaredmiller194 read the next verse simp

  • @CA-br6nq
    @CA-br6nq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1261

    “I had to make that decision with God” that’s all we needed to hear! When you are following God, it doesn’t mean there won’t be a storm, it means He will be in the boat with you!

    • @linnag3117
      @linnag3117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Amen this is very true a lot of people seem to want the calm without experiencing the storm

    • @NM-yh5ek
      @NM-yh5ek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Sometimes there are too many storms and you have to get out to save yourself.

    • @bigdogg1206
      @bigdogg1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's for the streets. He needs to dump her back on the corner.

    • @CA-br6nq
      @CA-br6nq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@NM-yh5ek I think what he was saying, respectfully, is that God and him made that decision. If God had a say in it, and he stayed, then staying was the for the best.

    • @marcusjackson7515
      @marcusjackson7515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      We(men) don't forgive...we just push through accepting and understanding that we can't let this break is nor change is. If he's a good man he desires to stay that way regardless.

  • @Billiard-cp1my
    @Billiard-cp1my 2 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    To me cheating spells the end of a relationship. There is no going back because the trust is gone.

    • @bigdogg1206
      @bigdogg1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, put her back in the streets where she belongs. You can still forgive her, but she would be gone 👋.

    • @sonyap8253
      @sonyap8253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      as a person who has been cheated on in the past and have seen it in others relationships, there is always a reason and 99% of the time it is an insecurity. communication can heal that, but some people (especially ones struggling with inadequacy/insecurity) really struggle to talk about the ugly stuff or voice their needs. you can absolutely get through it and grow into better versions of yourself. I will also add I have NEVER been cheated on by anyone who has a sound relationship with their momma. deep rooted maternal trauma lasts a lifetime and shows in how men view, respect and handle all the women in their lives moving forward. just my 2 cents...

    • @success2089
      @success2089 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      ​@@sonyap8253 Men and women are not the same

    • @MichaelTheDon25
      @MichaelTheDon25 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@success2089yes Thaaank you

    • @CeeSparks
      @CeeSparks ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@success2089 who said they were? However, we're more alike than different. Cheating hurts men and womrn alike. Both parties have feelings and feel betrayed when cheated on. We go through anger, denial, (even sadness), frustration, etc. Me personally, I would leave someone who decides to stick their d&$k in someone else. I would never trust them again. It's not only disgusting but selfishness and outright disregard for me and my health. Pffft.

  • @peggychristman5878
    @peggychristman5878 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Forgiving is fine. Staying with her taught her you will forever allow her to disrespect you.

    • @KingofZionz
      @KingofZionz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Not always

    • @treasurearhewoh327
      @treasurearhewoh327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That's not true
      If she values his forgiveness and wants to make it work as much as he does, then it will work and she won't disrespect him again
      I wish them all the best

    • @Janeonthebrain
      @Janeonthebrain 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@treasurearhewoh327she didn’t value him when she was giving mega dome to her side nlgga

    • @JacodyJohnson
      @JacodyJohnson 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@treasurearhewoh327 yea most people don’t change…. if she cheats once there’s a high chance she’ll do it again

    • @GodOfMySalvationIsYeshua
      @GodOfMySalvationIsYeshua 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Not if she had a change of heart and seeks to recommit. Then it's grace.

  • @willdabeastdavenport1558
    @willdabeastdavenport1558 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    She got that still cheating face 😂

    • @saucykeyzpls
      @saucykeyzpls ปีที่แล้ว +23

      😂😂😂she really does

    • @unbiasedtv6525
      @unbiasedtv6525 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @mindfullytransformed448
      @mindfullytransformed448 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I can’t believe you said that 😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @twenty3_v777
      @twenty3_v777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I said the same damn thing when I seen her face

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FACTS

  • @adier1234
    @adier1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1163

    I would add a lot of men get cheated on and they stay, there just to embarrassed to say it.

    • @BeverlyAdaeze
      @BeverlyAdaeze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I was just thinking this.

    • @DarknessFalls29
      @DarknessFalls29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      For sure!

    • @mafamac4069
      @mafamac4069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      WHAT NO!!!
      THOSE ARE NOT MAN stop confusing Real Man WITH INSECURE BOYS.
      a lot of men don't stay.

    • @pReCiOuStHePiMpCeSs
      @pReCiOuStHePiMpCeSs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mafamac4069 that's not true honey. Majority of divorces are started by women. I would say a boyfriend would be the fastest to leave but not after a man has said his vows. Especially since most men are dumb enough not to get prenups.

    • @querlinestsurin
      @querlinestsurin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

  • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
    @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That man looks broken. This woman has been publicizing her affair all over tiktok. She is loving the clout at the expense of her husband's self esteem and manipulating him with God. He already forgave you, keep it to yourself.

  • @Jdeals14
    @Jdeals14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    He's in for a lifetime of anxiety

    • @Belladonas
      @Belladonas ปีที่แล้ว +27

      So are majority of women in for anxiety too😅

    • @Ra-vi7eu
      @Ra-vi7eu ปีที่แล้ว +52

      A lifetime of anxiety, nightmares, and triggers.

    • @success2089
      @success2089 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Belladonas Women deal better with cheating unlike men. It is something hardwired into a man's psychology

    • @MichaelTheDon25
      @MichaelTheDon25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      On bro

    • @tonytoni1303
      @tonytoni1303 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@MichaelTheDon25ESPECIALLY with her. Shes the one that cheated not him.
      So she doesnt have nothing to worry about until he steps out of line. Its her ungrateful ass thst needs to be WATCHED 👀

  • @barrybetts7960
    @barrybetts7960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    For any man that wants to forgive there wife for cheating think of this. She helped him put it back in when it slipped out. Someone save this brother

    • @MichaelTheDon25
      @MichaelTheDon25 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I said the same thing these niggas obviously had to make guidance

    • @Telvo24
      @Telvo24 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😂

    • @gritgodtv5101
      @gritgodtv5101 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Dang that hurts

    • @Finesser-94
      @Finesser-94 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂

    • @dank5219
      @dank5219 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This Ninja is crazy MAN😂😂😂

  • @juliusbrewster
    @juliusbrewster 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don't know what's more disturbing, her cheating or this fool coming on a platform to explain why tolerated such disrespect in the form of forgivness.

  • @MadAudi
    @MadAudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Don’t get married if you can’t keep to your vows. No shame in it. Stay single.

    • @missp8527
      @missp8527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Marriage must be tested dear,read your Bible. Trials and Tribulations, Temptations love are for our good,he passed the test.

    • @missp8527
      @missp8527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Even when you are single , meaning no sex,no kids etc. But I'm sure u r single and sinning judging God's kids

    • @gracefollowsme6314
      @gracefollowsme6314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sure the she didn't intend on cheating stuff happens

    • @MadAudi
      @MadAudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@missp8527 If you think adulterous behavior is ok.. that’s your interpretation of Gods word. It’s not my interpretation. Believing in Gods word is not a sin dear and calling me a sinner in comments, a woman that you’ve never met…that’s judgemental. You’re clearly not Jesus dear.
      I’ve prayed for you.

    • @MadAudi
      @MadAudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@gracefollowsme6314 “I accidentally had sex with that man. It was an accident.” That’s not an accident. It’s being unfaithful and not taking responsibility for your choice.
      Are you joking?

  • @marilyn8653
    @marilyn8653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    I love this channel. It's a positive direction for a change. The men are so refreshing.

    • @paulahayes428
      @paulahayes428 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too🥰😚🤗

    • @christopher7071
      @christopher7071 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheating in a relationship will destroy the foundation of what a relationship is supposed to be built on and so on. To be able to work through issues regarding infidelity is to Number (1) Being open and honest with your significant other about the act that was committed ( Acknowledge) Number (2) What factors that may have and ultimately played a role in stepping outside of the relationship that led to the cheating in the first place.Number (3) Honesty is always the best policy even when it is painful because that is where the process of healing and forgiveness begins which in turn can start the process of repairing and rebuilding the trust that was betrayed and broken among other things as well.
      Finally. For any relationship to survive, its foundation has to be a strong one which begins with TRUST, then all the other pieces will over time fall into place.

    • @B3Y.961
      @B3Y.961 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stop cheating

    • @marinpecheur9128
      @marinpecheur9128 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pffffffff
      Simps

    • @yugenn11
      @yugenn11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      there’s nthg good abt it. Chesting is the lowest most disgusting disrespectful thing she could do to him. He needs to build himself and his self respect up to leave.

  • @J3anie
    @J3anie ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm in the process of going through a bitter divorce after my spouse was unfaithful and trying to work through it with counseling and prayer. Sadly my story didn't end on good tome, but it's so liberating to see people accepting human fault and allowing God to step in and provide opportunities for forgiveness and to move forward under the covenant each of these people took with him. I'm loving this channel and the mature conversations it's inciting in an otherwise selfish world. Keep it up💛

  • @s.n.9485
    @s.n.9485 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    When you get cheated on, the hole it leaves in your heart can never be repaired. If you stay, you and your relationship will never be the same.

    • @funkmonster
      @funkmonster ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes it can be the same dude: you people catastrophize everything.

    • @timothykinoti7768
      @timothykinoti7768 ปีที่แล้ว

      it cant come on@@funkmonster

    • @bernadinetoussaint6176
      @bernadinetoussaint6176 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's not true. Sometimes the relationship ends up being better and stronger

    • @lmierl
      @lmierl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bullshit once they cheat it’ll always come back up someway somehow. It’ll never be the same

    • @paulanicolethomason7252
      @paulanicolethomason7252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@bernadinetoussaint6176 A relationship made stronger by cheating lol. The level of denial in these cases is sad.

  • @Godchaserforever1973
    @Godchaserforever1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    I know them from TikTok. This man really loves her. I can see it, I can feel it. It's real. She must have been truly sorry and repentant for him to take her back. She's blessed that he gave her another chance and she knows it. I see it all over her face.

    • @marymac1972
      @marymac1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Whatchu said!

    • @followGreatness
      @followGreatness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I think he already knew she was going to make a mistake or more . He is truly blessed with wisdom. I think he also knows he even when he wasn't married to her , he should never have left her side.
      With the help of God and the holy spirit he truly rationalized her behavior. But also what would make a married woman go and cheat?
      We should try to be guarded at all times.
      Cheating in some cases can bring a curse upon two peoples lives. Man or woman.
      It's really a foul thing and people normalize it.

    • @reginawheeler966
      @reginawheeler966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God is Good, Glory!!!❤️⭐🦋

    • @joypyne3467
      @joypyne3467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @joypyne3467
      @joypyne3467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Young man your heart is beautiful. You exemplify godly behavior. So proud of you.

  • @motivate668
    @motivate668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I believe I could work through anything except infidelity!!

    • @jeffbrown6533
      @jeffbrown6533 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!

    • @yung824
      @yung824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FACTS

    • @victoriacrudup3477
      @victoriacrudup3477 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I agree 💯 I just don't see anything happening after that. I feel forgiveness can happen overtime but that doesn't mean we have to stay in a relationship.

    • @jerushandungu6580
      @jerushandungu6580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Word!

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts.

  • @jleezy612
    @jleezy612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I don't think cheating by either sex deserves forgiveness. That's a conscious decision to hurt your significant other to their core. The trust would never be there again. I'm moving on regardless.

    • @bigdogg1206
      @bigdogg1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly. Forgiveness is fine, but she's going back to the streets. It's not ok for either to do that mess.

    • @AckeeandSaltfish
      @AckeeandSaltfish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s me too. Cheating is a deal breaker for me.

    • @roznichols371
      @roznichols371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If Christ offered forgiveness to the woman that they were about to stone for infidelity and the woman at the well for her indiscretions and we also want to be forgiven why wouldn't you give your spouse one more opportunity to make it right? This is how Christ treats His bride (us). We don't deserve the second chances we are given, but He gives them and we sure take them and continue to mess up daily.

    • @bigdogg1206
      @bigdogg1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@roznichols371 Back to the streets she goes. One time too is too many.

    • @yellowlemon5936
      @yellowlemon5936 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@roznichols371This is exactly why I have forgiven my husband. When we seek God for guidance, he can restore marriages beyond our comprehension. There's nothing God cannot do. These verses really made my decision on forgiving my husband and praying over him.
      'For we are not fighting against human beings but against the wicked spiritual forces in the heavenly world, the rulers, authorities, and cosmic powers of this dark age.' - Eph 6:12
      'The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full' -John 10:10

  • @dcfal817
    @dcfal817 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He rightfully wouldn’t have been wrong if he left. Adultery is breaking a commandment

  • @Sarah-xd4zi
    @Sarah-xd4zi ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Her smile looking at her man talk about how he forgave her pisses me off. She feels no regret or consideration for her man’s strength to forgive her. She just looks happy like “yep you’re dumbass forgave me hehe got you!”
    If I ever betrayed and destroyed a person, I could never smile as they talk about it. I don’t care if it’s years later, I will always be remorseful. And grateful that he’s even still here with me.

    • @shmellyhandsprod
      @shmellyhandsprod ปีที่แล้ว

      This is satans whispers I promise we can't tell or say what's running through there minds trust they dealing with it crazy pain its about YHWH'z plan all is put in place and falls exactly the way it should this is from experience satans after the KIDS step #1 split parents up 🥲🙏🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽

    • @olaakinlade4362
      @olaakinlade4362 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah see, that's the thing. It's not a great place to be. Most people would keep it under wraps, giving their spouse unsuspecting haymakers and uppercuts from time to tome when they are at their happiest and preferably in front of the kids. Wringing out a lifetime apology that reverberates far into the future and deeply into the past, cooking everything in its wake, drying the most luscious place and leaving arid conditions where emotional thirst is denied and never assuaged. Now this fella here has taken his skidrow accoutrements and is examining them closely, with members of the public. He is therefore as dense as molasses or as runny as treacle. Neither is good.

    • @desiree5895
      @desiree5895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      She's smiling bc her husband is speaking. She is being grateful he's still with her. She started shaking her foot when the guy interviwing them started talking ab it. I must still weigh on her conscience. She talks ab it more on her TikTok (Idr what it is).

    • @sharellmorning2118
      @sharellmorning2118 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How long is she supposed to punish herself…

  • @cewilliamsable
    @cewilliamsable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    He should have divorced her... cause I bet she's STILL cheating

    • @sterlinghines1240
      @sterlinghines1240 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Stop being negative damn it’s cool when yall do it, they worked it out

    • @cewilliamsable
      @cewilliamsable ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @sterlinghines1240
      But I don't do it, and he didnt do it... thats why he should divorce her.

    • @cewilliamsable
      @cewilliamsable ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sterlinghines1240 never accept a cheating woman

    • @sterlinghines1240
      @sterlinghines1240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cewilliamsable ok I see your point, but why he can’t have forgiveness in his heart

    • @cewilliamsable
      @cewilliamsable ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@sterlinghines1240 because the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked...

  • @ralphmiranda2077
    @ralphmiranda2077 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dude's making men look bad AND setting us back!!! DON'T RAISE YOUR SONS TO FORGIVE THIS!!!

  • @Coolcatguy92
    @Coolcatguy92 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So how many times she can cheat and its forgivable? Its the ultimate betrayal, lord help this man, he deserves better.

  • @annettewilliams1986
    @annettewilliams1986 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When did "Better or for Worst fall into that category.... losing a job,illness,irrvasable sickness is that sort of thing.Cheating is a choice...not something that just you just fall into...

  • @HollywoodDeliPodcast
    @HollywoodDeliPodcast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When the husband was asked what made you forgive her and she looked at him with smile, made me cringe. No where in this interview should she be smiling.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's called restoration. Many will never understand that.

  • @anthonymckenzie5182
    @anthonymckenzie5182 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What a clown 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ssticcfloe7408
    @ssticcfloe7408 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Broddie stay with the bro code💪🏾... never take a bird that feeds everywhere! Rat with wings! Pigeon! She cheated before she WILL cheat again if the opportunity presents itself. Sneaky and disloyal are traits that a being has just like honesty and confident are. Loss of respect also comes with it. I kno because i cheated on someone before. It never heals. I personally hate cheating now, i hate how it made me feel after the fact and my heart does not allow it anymore

  • @caseyparks3954
    @caseyparks3954 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This dude isn’t getting played. He’s just playing himself.

    • @MicMasterJ
      @MicMasterJ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂

  • @Takedownman
    @Takedownman ปีที่แล้ว +2

    NOPE!!!!

  • @wetradeoptions
    @wetradeoptions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Men are just not men anymore, women do not cheat on men they love and respect this is a fact. Once they do he is a dead man walking.

    • @success2089
      @success2089 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I can see the pain in his voice. He should leave. Men never get over cheating unlike women

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They most certainly do. All people cheat simply because they want to.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@success2089 Women don't get over cheating...🤡

    • @laurencameron3150
      @laurencameron3150 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jesusistheonlyway6978If this were reversed would he be facts?

    • @polokiller2489
      @polokiller2489 ปีที่แล้ว

      This. Lie! This bullshit! Women cheats on you even if she love you or not! Like nigga stop cap, the bullshit! The is marriage. And you don’t know what he going on in close door. You don’t know how long they been marry. Like let say she was marry for like 8 to 9 years. Like maybe she got bored. Maybe idk but yo. It just the fact that what can you do to make things better with her. Like I’m not trying to say I’m simp because I’m not but let say y’all been together for a long ass time. It not easy to just leave like come on but yeah 😊

  • @gabrielalohan728
    @gabrielalohan728 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So here's the thing about cheating for men that I'd like to say.
    1. That you send her away and probably remarry doesn't mean new wifey is incapable of cheating.
    2. If you decide to forgive (which I highly recommend for your sanity) her, it must be from a place of understanding; does she genuinely want the marriage AND is ready for the bitter road of recovery.
    3. You must understand point 2 because some women really don't want the relationship and will be in denial, some want the relationship but still can't work on it, and there's those that want it. (Understand where she belongs with patience, time will reveal all motive)
    4. In essence, forgiveness is thin-line different from recovery. So recovery is highly based on her ability to put in the work; if you do not sense this in her, then dissolving the marriage is fair.
    5. She cheating will most likely not be your fault, but there's always that room for assessment to see if you were a minor or major contributor. But many times often it ain't your fault.
    6. If your wife cheats, it's time to concentrate on your wellbeing in order to face the social construct of shame, irrespective of your decision to stay or not. With time you'd see that the embarrassment/shame is useless. Just keep being you and enjoy yourself.
    7. You must understand point 2-4 is unconventional for some women, because they've to actively be in pursuit of you. What you do with this understanding (in line with point 3) is up to you.
    Shalom.

  • @Therealgiantslayer
    @Therealgiantslayer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This couple is the exception and not the rule. They are amazing and have a solid foundation. Their love for each other and God is so pure. This is a true example of forgiveness, love, compassion, honesty and Godly wisdom. They have come through so much early in life and beat the odds. What would this world be like if people allowed themselves to heal within their relationships instead of taking their brokenness into another relationship to subject them to become an EMS.

    • @Ghesh-kg4dr
      @Ghesh-kg4dr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So when she does it again or he stop pretending it doesn’t bother him I’ll be looking forward to part 2😂

  • @AbronHawkins
    @AbronHawkins ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I wouldn’t forgive her. That happened to me 25 years ago. I’m still not married and I still don’t trust women for that reason

    • @YasminYoruba
      @YasminYoruba ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why do you think women are so forgiving then?

    • @olaakinlade4362
      @olaakinlade4362 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Then you've hurt yourself twice.

    • @dvn.pod.2023
      @dvn.pod.2023 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry that this happened to you @AbronHawkins, and that you haven't been able to trust again after that situation and let it go. I just hope that you don't let that one experience shape your perception of all women and your future relationships. Someone I dated in the past was cheated on by his ex. Because that one woman cheated on him and he couldn't get over it, he constantly accused me of cheating and got super possessive to the point where he wanted to isolate me from others, and started to display random signs of anger and aggression toward me and others. He had some unresolved trauma from his previous relationship that he didn't handle, and subsequently brough that into our relationship. Ultimately, we ended up parting ways, but it was not because either of us cheated. I hope you can find the healing you need, but not all women are like that.

    • @BigCrossVita
      @BigCrossVita ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You should've just married her in that case...

    • @olaakinlade4362
      @olaakinlade4362 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BigCrossVita hmm?

  • @Misterkennedy04
    @Misterkennedy04 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have no respect for that guy this woman showed him the ultimate disrespect and he forgave her so you deal with the consequences of your dumb decisions.

  • @hydroblast2209
    @hydroblast2209 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The brothers too kind hearted . He has a soft spirit .she doesn’t respect him.

    • @tinaj9621
      @tinaj9621 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, too kind-hearted for a woman like her. A decent hearted , appreciative woman would respect and cherish a gentleman like him. Good guy. I hope she doesn't ruin him.

  • @ninafernandez7339
    @ninafernandez7339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I feel what he’s saying but why wasn’t SHE held to that standard..why must we forgive people when they make it clear the vows and commitment WE made didn’t mean anything to them?

    • @victoriacrudup3477
      @victoriacrudup3477 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree with that because the whole time I'm thinking yes but she's still also made that commitment and said those vows so why didn't she stay loyal to it?

    • @LouisianaGoon337
      @LouisianaGoon337 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel like she was using him for financial gain she ain't really love him like that

    • @emmanueljohnwest9016
      @emmanueljohnwest9016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are u Christian? How many times have u prayed and asked God for forgiveness and he forgave u. U pray to God and u promise to do better but u still find urself doing the same shit and his Mercy continue to abide. Just return the favor to ur spouse

    • @timothykinoti7768
      @timothykinoti7768 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a reason why God allowed divorce incase of infidelity...Actually it was the only reason he allowed divorce. Even God knows infidelity cuts too deep. You must forgive as God commands but the trust may never return...God knows that and He understands and that's why He allowed it even though He hates divorce.@@emmanueljohnwest9016

    • @aaronmiles2802
      @aaronmiles2802 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emmanueljohnwest9016Was your father in your life?

  • @veraaddoyobo8482
    @veraaddoyobo8482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I hope this young lady knows how blessed she is

    • @Ginab3001
      @Ginab3001 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh yea, perfect wife now she looks truly sorry.😲

    • @sameer-up6yv
      @sameer-up6yv ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@Ginab3001 perfect wife she is the worstest

    • @angelawestby9178
      @angelawestby9178 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Apparently she doesn't! Because it would have never happened in the first place.

    • @tjc2824
      @tjc2824 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She doesn't!!

    • @BigCrossVita
      @BigCrossVita ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Lord

  • @frankbrown917
    @frankbrown917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Blessings to you and your family my brother. It takes a man of YAH to have this much strength. Good luck.

  • @leratomusi4595
    @leratomusi4595 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She's gonna do it again and have the same expectations from hubby 🤣

  • @local_bred3652
    @local_bred3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anybody who put dey hand in my food, i don't want to eat that again.

  • @lushisushiemushi
    @lushisushiemushi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Poor guy should've left. NEVER FORGIVE WOMEN.

  • @themessage6114
    @themessage6114 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    He was cheating the whole time 😂

  • @yvetteclarkjames1808
    @yvetteclarkjames1808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Ba-by… he’s a rare one though most men who cheat would want that same forgiveness. Girl tighten your game.

    • @Angela-cd9bj
      @Angela-cd9bj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes, this male is Extremely Rare on this matter. Majority of marriages end due to cheating among other things with no chance of reconciliation. Definitely a rare Young Man featured here

    • @LexRuger718
      @LexRuger718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Angela-cd9bj Disagree, finances are the main reason for ruin marriage

    • @kokolatte825
      @kokolatte825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes that's what I was thinking. She cheated on that big fine man with little feet!? She better get her life together

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kokolatte825 😂😂😂😂 lorddd

    • @querlinestsurin
      @querlinestsurin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Most men stay they just don't publicize it

  • @ladiesofiron
    @ladiesofiron 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Amen. This is HUGE. “For better OR For worse” Maaaan whew💪🏽🙏🏽

    • @hsand8178
      @hsand8178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank. You. My. Brother. For. Speaking. Truth.It. Goes. Both. Ways
      Each. Individual. Makesure. Mistakes. Keep. The. Most. High. At. The. Center. And. He. Will. Fix. Anything. All. Praises👏 To. The. Most. High.

    • @AryanHomeland
      @AryanHomeland ปีที่แล้ว

      Xristainity creates CHUCKolds aka wweeek men Wow निताइ Nitāi - - Abrahamic religions (CHRISTIANITY☦️✝️⛪️, ISLAM ☪️ 🕋☪️, JUDAISM🕍🕎✡️) --
      -- Creates chucks / wiiik men is confirmed
      निताइ Nitāi - LISTEN Śrīla Prabhupāda on YT. ORIGINAL UNCHANGED books (ONLY pre -1978) u will finally KNW the only ABSOLUTE truth. He will help you

    • @tripledo.g.2551
      @tripledo.g.2551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But we see she didn’t honor her Wedding vows so what’s the point you right thank you brother for making men look like simps… you cheating on someone for years isn’t a mistake you knew what you was doing

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@tripledo.g.2551Same goes for men but apparently they don't care when theyre cheating on us.

    • @jkashdamoneyman5870
      @jkashdamoneyman5870 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope, Bible says you can leave an adulterous man or woman, one time is more than enough, no need to work through anything

  • @letholamokhesi1253
    @letholamokhesi1253 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's going to do it again. Standard

  • @richardannor4114
    @richardannor4114 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Does she even look valuable in his eyes again. She dropped her crown and reduced her self to a peasant. Can't respect her again

  • @Kpips99
    @Kpips99 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    homie got no self respect

    • @layconbad5279
      @layconbad5279 ปีที่แล้ว

      #Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}

  • @dunkinpinderhughes7140
    @dunkinpinderhughes7140 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s hard to take a woman back from a situation like this because women are emotionally attached to the man they cheat with. I say this because a woman doesn’t just open her legs to anyone.

  • @TheHobby_Lobby
    @TheHobby_Lobby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You can tell she still feels shame. I’m praying for the both of them.

  • @BCAJ-FGC
    @BCAJ-FGC 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    BUGGING he don’t value himself, and that’s his decision to make, regardless of how goofy the decision.

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shorty is for the streets. Forgiving doesn’t mean STAY. You can forgive and leave.

  • @mirabanxx9218
    @mirabanxx9218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    There's for better and for worse. I agree. But there's also boundaries that are non-negotiable and infidelity is one of them for me. I will not tolerate toxicity, and I refuse to believe God wants me to suffer for the sake of tolerating other people who have shown they arent trustworthy. You want to take a cheater back, be my guest. But people have no right telling other people they're wrong for protecting their peace and choosing not to be associated with someone. Because surprise surprise, you can forgive someone and cut contact. ✂️

    • @Meandyouisnus
      @Meandyouisnus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      💯 agreed for better for worse does not include infidelity

    • @GT-mc9eg
      @GT-mc9eg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Meandyouisnus even the Bible speaks against adultery. And that you may seek a divorce for that reason.

    • @eddiewakes9425
      @eddiewakes9425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Maybe your opinion, but it’s not biblical. Even if you choose to divorce, scripture is very clear; if you don’t forgive others of their trespasses, God will not forgive you.

    • @mirabanxx9218
      @mirabanxx9218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@eddiewakes9425 ok. You can choose to forgive someone AND cut contact with them. Forgiveness doesn't mean tolerating toxic people who have no respect for you. Doing that just makes you the cause of your suffering at that point.

    • @sparky81181
      @sparky81181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel like I had to search way too far down these comments for this.

  • @lisagoode6888
    @lisagoode6888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    THIS right here is amazing! Love and forgiveness goes a long way ♥️🙏🏾 #keepGOD1st

    • @Sophia-cd6sk
      @Sophia-cd6sk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope the woman appreciates it. Sucks

    • @sameer-up6yv
      @sameer-up6yv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hate women who cheats.. I'll kick her out without a question

  • @lunnalocca9376
    @lunnalocca9376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can forgive but trust would be extremely hard to get past. I might give a second chance but if the trust isn’t being worked on, they aren’t remorseful anymore, acting like it’s not a big deal but was just begging for forgiveness and they’ll do better then I have nothing else left for that person. I’m not the one who broke it. I do think overcoming struggles is beautiful. That’s unconditional love to forgive a person for every mistake they’re going to make no matter what. However I can’t imagine most people being able to take the necessary steps to making it right, rebuilding trust and following boundaries

  • @butterflynessxoxo6104
    @butterflynessxoxo6104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was me and my loves situation. God saved me be giving me a man who believed first in him, and forgave me. Which then changed my life overall. God is so good. Thank you for sharing your story

    • @felosopha445
      @felosopha445 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂come on. I know your neighbors and the mail men are still cracking that behind your Goofy ass piece of a man.

  • @scottjarvis1974
    @scottjarvis1974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He doesn't listen to others and what fools say its ur marriage.

  • @dilondavis8264
    @dilondavis8264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I just couldn't do it, I don't care who the woman is. If she cheated....it means you are not enough and she's looking for your replacement

    • @MsBdoll87
      @MsBdoll87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s not the only or sole reason people cheat.

    • @dilondavis8264
      @dilondavis8264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MsBdoll87 women cheat when they are ready to leave, period

    • @queenlight1264
      @queenlight1264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MsBdoll87 Exactly! Every situation is not the same.

    • @success2089
      @success2089 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@MsBdoll87 That's the only reason women cheat. If you really respected your partner, you would never cheat

    • @12savage68
      @12savage68 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@MsBdoll87so why did you cheat?

  • @Michael0409
    @Michael0409 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I bet she’s still cheating, she’s just slicker. Never take back a cheater, they will continue to cheat. Period.

    • @layconbad5279
      @layconbad5279 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He probably cheated first

    • @IbraAsha
      @IbraAsha ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do u know

    • @Michael0409
      @Michael0409 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IbraAsha women will never respect a man who takes them back after she cheats, she sees it as he has no other women that find him desirable. So she will stay with him for the comfort, while fkn someone else still. That’s how I know.

    • @sensei-sama1410
      @sensei-sama1410 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@LisaLisaCJlol of course you'd back her up... Women never wanna take accountability

  • @lakithagoss897
    @lakithagoss897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wonder how she could have had the heart to cheat on him. He seems so caring and kind.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly ปีที่แล้ว

      Sex is pretty amazing.

    • @chodycho
      @chodycho ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s women for you

    • @hwillis8
      @hwillis8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s why she did it. She didn’t truly care and only took her needs into consideration. She’s selfish.

    • @daninwangabia6270
      @daninwangabia6270 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some when are used to toxicity. So they'll always seek chaos outside of a loving relationship

  • @Alkiel
    @Alkiel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this nicca down bad in the SUNKEN PLACE.

  • @DamianBurns-z9u
    @DamianBurns-z9u ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Could NOT be me. Cheating is an instant game over. No it’s what’s or buts. That is the highest (or lowest) act of disrespect you can possibly do to your partner

    • @Dracujosh
      @Dracujosh ปีที่แล้ว

      This man has no self respect anyway, taking back someone that screwed you over is the highest level of self disrespect

  • @TenOfDiamonds
    @TenOfDiamonds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Them vows also said you promise to be faithful. You said that in front of God. 😳

    • @zhouwenhola
      @zhouwenhola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hoo....it was deleted I think...if you not fine with the relationship,divorce respectfully and move on...it's better that way

    • @carolnichols2869
      @carolnichols2869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very true. It is the only reason Jesus said divorce is valid. However, there is nothing wrong with him choosing to forgive. It will take time to fully trust her again, because she broke the vow, and the trust.

    • @dlrowadkcuf
      @dlrowadkcuf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That part

    • @SpokenIntoExistence
      @SpokenIntoExistence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You know their vows?

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@carolnichols2869 he could have forgiven and still left her

  • @peytonsmith-bauer2203
    @peytonsmith-bauer2203 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    😂😂. Maaaaan, your parents ain't teach you that.

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I couldn’t do that to a person I supposedly loved and then be with them after it would be a constant reminder of what I did to that person even if they forgave me.

    • @SpokenIntoExistence
      @SpokenIntoExistence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s called guilt. You need guilt because you did something wrong. Live with it! And grow from it, to become better. You don’t run from your lessons, cause you run the risk of doing it again. So if he accepts you back stay and learn how to be better deal with the shit your actions caused.

    • @layconbad5279
      @layconbad5279 ปีที่แล้ว

      #Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

    • @wingknight7132
      @wingknight7132 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if u were forced to?

    • @kunntakentay
      @kunntakentay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @Lavidaloca1214
    @Lavidaloca1214 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Bitch is so chill and calm like hearing the question upfront didn't even phase her but props to this guy man has a very big heart to accept that kind of a women back into his life

    • @Mad-UpperCuts
      @Mad-UpperCuts ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She's knowing she'll cheat again and again. She can get away with it and be forgiven. Nothing to lose

    • @xii592
      @xii592 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@Mad-UpperCutsFacts.. he can forgive her but she gots to go 💯

    • @tripledo.g.2551
      @tripledo.g.2551 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That let you know she gonna cheat again any women that was truly sorry would be in tears 😢the whole interview she is to chill to be sorry

    • @tripledo.g.2551
      @tripledo.g.2551 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s a Str8 Simp

    • @avaliausd.
      @avaliausd. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@tripledo.g.2551That's kinda dumb thinking though. Why would she be crying on the podcast? They already hashed things out. You act like this podcast is the first time he discovered that she was cheating. She was probably doing all of the crying when she first got caught, not now.

  • @krxstian_9863
    @krxstian_9863 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Better man than me she would’ve hit the curb real quick😂

  • @lisac9440
    @lisac9440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    He has a heart of Gold!!! 💛💛Treasure him sis! Keep that bond tight with your man of God!!

    • @Ghesh-kg4dr
      @Ghesh-kg4dr ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Was before or after she jumped into bed with another dude😂

    • @THEoneandonlystika
      @THEoneandonlystika 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because he accepted evil.Be careful what ur saying

  • @SistaWorksFilms
    @SistaWorksFilms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    We expect God’s forgiveness and we want forgiveness, but we have a hard time forgiving others. He said something very important and people forget, marriage is a covenant with God, not a contract or a piece of paper, a covenant. You don’t have to stay after infidelity, or after forgiveness, but if you choose to then honor it.

  • @ExcuseMyPretty
    @ExcuseMyPretty ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BOY, JUST SAY YOU CHEATED BACK!😂

  • @akingwithwords2144
    @akingwithwords2144 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂 Imagine holding yourself to a standard that your spouse has already sh!tted on… 😂😂😂

  • @juanmatias41054
    @juanmatias41054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I wonder if he knows once a woman cheats and you stay she has a roughly 300% chance of doing it again.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Said NO proven statistics EVER. 🤡

    • @McFrappin
      @McFrappin ปีที่แล้ว

      You already know.

    • @juanmatias41054
      @juanmatias41054 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TomikaKelly here you go. Surely you can do the math. You need me to hold your hand while you read it? Maybe I can read it for you. Let me know.
      Someone is three times more likely to cheat if they have cheated in the past. A person is two to four times more likely to be cheated on if they have been cheated on or have suspected cheating in a prior relationship. Men and women are equally likely to cheat or be cheated on.
      University of Denver

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juanmatias41054 Simply SAYING something came from the University of Denver doesn't mean that's where it came from. 🤡

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@juanmatias41054Whats the study called?

  • @LOVE-HUMILITY33
    @LOVE-HUMILITY33 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nah. I say divorce her and go find you a real good girl that won't do that to you. Nope. She don't deserve him.

  • @leoneranger9348
    @leoneranger9348 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mature conversation for mature people. Wish them all the success 🙌🏾

  • @Jasonthehealer
    @Jasonthehealer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's a true man of God whom extended the Hand of Grace and forgiveness towards her because her body don't belongs not only to her BUT to her Husband and likewise. It takes a heart of Commitment, faithfulness, loyalty,monogamy and fidelity to work marriages like this to stand and survive.

  • @j5rebel
    @j5rebel หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is extremely dangerous ⚠️⚠️⚠️.
    If You ever accept a Woman back after she betraya you your life will be in jeopardy 1,000% of the ⌚.
    This is the Highest level of Disrespect from Woman which is "contempt".

  • @TimHerman81
    @TimHerman81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's not always easy. If you aren't willing to bail water while the ship feels like it's sinking rather that putting on a life vest and drifting away than you aren't ready. We went through this same exact thing. I love hearing these stories and I preach about the covenant. Much love to this couple. These things are hard on both sides but the fight is worth it and the more this can start happening the more values will return!

  • @greatvaluebleach1
    @greatvaluebleach1 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    That hat alone lets me know, she ain’t sh!t 🤣

    • @johnathanabrams8434
      @johnathanabrams8434 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pretty rough conclusion to cover to just off of that but this statement is hilarious.
      Most black men have an ingrained inner simp that was facilitated by momma. Momma always right.

    • @juvi4371
      @juvi4371 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thought it was just me, she did not dress supportingly

  • @Sheewealthy
    @Sheewealthy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She’s gonna do it again bless him

    • @Sheewealthy
      @Sheewealthy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Mr.Smile3000 You see that smerky look on her face! Then she holding on to his arm like a toddler who don’t wanna be dropped at daycare! I just don’t see the remorse. God help the next woman in his life.

    • @bigdogg1206
      @bigdogg1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That smirk said it all. Put her back in the streets bro. Move on.

    • @Sheewealthy
      @Sheewealthy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bigdogg1206 and this is exactly how good women and men end up writing each other off. Cause they’ll choose this trash. Let her take him through the ringer. Now all BW ain’t sh!t. He’ll have a I hate BW podcast in a minute. Because this girl is trash. She’s finna emotionally and probably financially destroy this man. Btw I know it happens both ways. Because she may be making him pay for something some fool in her past did. I feel bad for this guy! I wish he would leave and heal. Because this is a training wreck waiting to happen. I hope he don’t snap when she does it again. Because she’s gonna do it again. Especially if his seggs or size is trash.

  • @senecaduke
    @senecaduke ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mind and imagination would not let me stay. Just look at her, she probably thinking about dude now

  • @wonderwhy5824
    @wonderwhy5824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are set free now sir. Biblical grounds for moving on

  • @riettarichardson9485
    @riettarichardson9485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How commendable of this guy! I personally can not and will not forgive infidelity; to many unforgiving deceases, this behavior can cause loss of life or physical confrontations...even the production of a child, and for those reason Hell to the Naw!

  • @Juju-zl2vh
    @Juju-zl2vh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Once a cheater always a cheater 😂😂😂😂😂 women’s words exactly

  • @andrewoladokun4377
    @andrewoladokun4377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He said he had to make that decision with GOD. There is nothing more to be said. I just hope he doesn’t regret it

    • @taneishiacrawford1464
      @taneishiacrawford1464 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I suspect he will regret it
      She has a lot of trauma he thinks he can cover but idk

    • @oreballin
      @oreballin ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If God gives you a personal guarantee. You CANT regret anything. I wish I was able to be as honest with God as this man. Really ... the difficult things are stuff we are to share with him. God help us all

  • @reginalddebose-boyd1579
    @reginalddebose-boyd1579 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @BenHadem
    @BenHadem ปีที่แล้ว

    God would rather us put a stop to the bs than work through it realistically. That’s why these generational curses follow through so smoothly and it’s sad.

  • @elzerda5562
    @elzerda5562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow wow that’s a truly a man of God,I will definitely keep you guys in my prayers. Stay strong!!

  • @JBTHEJEWELER
    @JBTHEJEWELER 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Simp she gonna do it again 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  • @johnlmorse9068
    @johnlmorse9068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I would have liked to hear from her on why she wasn't committed to her vows she made with God.

    • @tonitwitty9529
      @tonitwitty9529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She messed up.. ppl mess up but I'm rooting for them especially if children are involved and I hope whatever had her step out of the marriage was addressed. U know this happens a lot especially with men and the woman forgives. Just shouldn't continue the cheating

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She disrespect God and her husband. He had the heart to forgive so he has more love than she will ever. Hope she realize her error

    • @layconbad5279
      @layconbad5279 ปีที่แล้ว

      #Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

  • @bigboi-dc2zo
    @bigboi-dc2zo 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The level of disrespect that a woman has to have for herself and her spouse for her to lay on her back and let a man enter her is crazy work Unforgivable

  • @thomasdimery6835
    @thomasdimery6835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is a true G because he know once she cheated all bets were off but he is remaining calm and collected and getting his. Is not about what you do its how you do it.

    • @aaronmiles2802
      @aaronmiles2802 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude is a weak man with no self respect, complete opposite of a true G🤣

  • @user-vi1os8of8p
    @user-vi1os8of8p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is a problem I’m praying for him

    • @sweettreatsoverload4296
      @sweettreatsoverload4296 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is it a problem? he has a right to decide to atay it's sad that you all think it's eight to use witchcraft against this man. Its qitchcrsgt if you try to force your will on a person.

    • @tripledo.g.2551
      @tripledo.g.2551 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If he cheated on her believe me she would have file for divorce

    • @tripledo.g.2551
      @tripledo.g.2551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Has nothing to do with witchcraft

  • @nca4794
    @nca4794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Well, THIS is going to make the rounds! I commend him for being obedient to God. A lot of people wouldn't be able to disassociate from their pride enough to make that decision. I'm such a person, but I don't judge him for not being like me. His love for God is really cool.

    • @Mayowafit
      @Mayowafit ปีที่แล้ว

      God forbids adultery wym?

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mayowafit and Jesus gave the example of grace that we either choose to follow or don't. Knowing he chose to stay, even though biblically he could've left, is an even greater witness to his love for God and his wife.

    • @Mayowafit
      @Mayowafit ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nca4794 I think if he chose to leave doesn’t take away his love for God because God ordained that as well. But I see what you trying to say. 💯

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mayowafit I agree.

    • @layconbad5279
      @layconbad5279 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

  • @Sees-v2p
    @Sees-v2p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Until death do us part is a serious vow to God almighty the creator.

    • @rowenaramsaran4256
      @rowenaramsaran4256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yassss!!!!!

    • @wonderwoman66dp
      @wonderwoman66dp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've been saying THE ALMIGHTY CREATOR for about 2 months now . . . THANK YOU

    • @Sees-v2p
      @Sees-v2p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sam huh??

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sam how to get out of that and get BACK to how God first saved us. This is a ruiner and I went too fast ahead of God HE DIDN'T do this and now I am not right and messed up a God given good Spiritual life LIES AND movies these people don't Kno me. Why waste my life WATCHING THEM???? NO MORE. TV OFF

    • @bigdogg1206
      @bigdogg1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, she's for the streets. And to the streets she shall return. Infidelity is the one reason biblically that you can drop her tail off on the corner for. 👋

  • @saige80
    @saige80 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s maturity! No marriage will ever be perfect. Who abandons a house because the roof leaks or plumbing is busted? You better call the repairman (Jehovah Rapha) and save your home!

  • @johnniejohnson6420
    @johnniejohnson6420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This man understands the meaning of for better or worst. God honored that.

    • @CeeSparks
      @CeeSparks ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Mr.Smile3000 what's not the same thing?

  • @aroucagirl1898
    @aroucagirl1898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Everyone has to watch this entire episode. Amazing testimony. It has been one of the most powerful things I've ever seen. I can't even explain. They literally are living for better or worse. It's more than you think.