She said that” through him, she was able to see the love God has for her.” I didn't know men like that existed, a man who put God in his decision, and I think God brought me to your channel to show me that there are men like that in his kingdom❤️🙏😇thank you so much!
True story..I experienced the same..experienced the mercy of God and his unfailing love through my husband. The love was tangible and undeniable..like she said the love you search for was there the whole time...it brings true repentance from your heart🙏❤
@@DearFutureWifey The reason why people walk away from marriage is that it wasn't built on God’s foundation. The Bible says what God put together, let no man break🙏 God chose them for each other❤️ and she said:” the marriage belongs to God.”
She said something very powerful that a lot of us have overlooked... Quote, when we say we love God, lots of people don't know what it truly means, Until the person, you love cheats or does something that so painful, YET YOU LOOK AT HE/HER AND STILL LOVE THEM, THE SAME WAY CHRIST LOVES US UNCONDITIONALLY.💯❤️❤️❤️
Why do people try to compare the love God has for us to the love humans have for us. We can never and will never be as perfect as him. You're only going to hurt yourself trying. Weird.
@@queenmeiika1 God designed earthly relationships with the purpose to reflect God's love. A husband's love is supposed to look like Christ's love for His church. The love between brethren should imitate the love of God. The relationship between a parental father figure should look like the heavenly Father figure. These are the purposes of those relationships. We should be able to see the love of God reflected in the people of God. It is not an insult to God to compare a husband's love to God's love, it is an honor and shows the faithfulness of that person. It is not weird at all, it is Biblical. For because of the love shown between the brethren, will others be able to identify them as children of the most high God. We can recognize God's love in people without expecting perfection out of them.
@@censaim Matthew 19:9, from the New Testament, states: "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery." This is biblical. A lot y’all be making up your own views. If he stays kudos to him, but loving unconditionally does not mean staying married. Even God won’t let you into heaven with his unconditional love unless you first accept him as your Lord and Savior
I just love how you handle your guests. You handle them with care and understand and respect each person's story. You even had respect for Ravens dad and how she shared her childhood pain. Much respect to you King.
Someone mentioned Raven’s voice being so gentle but at times almost sounding like she’s about to preach and I agree. Another observation I had is that when she spoke from herself (like when Laterras told her to look in the camera and speak), her words were brief… almost like she was timid or didn’t have much to say. But whenever she quoted scripture or talked about the goodness of the Lord or her her marriage, there was such power in her voice… even through her gentle tone. The Holy Spirit was definitely moving through this couple to tell their story. I don’t know if she has a women’s ministry but I feel like there are so many lessons we could learn from her.
This episode 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼😭🔥🔥 The reason why people walk away from marriage is because they don’t believe it will ever get better!!! Bruh!!!! THAT’S IT!!!! We triumphed and made it 20 years (this October 12) after bitter betrayal in our marriage at year 10. The night I looked over at my husband in hurt and disgust over what he did to me… to our family and said “celebrating 10 years should be the happiest day of my life and it’s not because of you,” I shall never forget. The pain was searing and if defeated was a person it would have been him that night. I exited the restaurant after resisting the urge to throw my plate of food in his face. As I sat in the car sobbing and looking at the droop in his shoulders through the window… I said Lord I can’t stay with him!!! But the Lord revealed that all the coldness, cussing him out and jabs he was enduring from me cause He knew my hurt was talking was the point at which most quit cause they don’t believe it will ever get better. He told me there was nothing I could do wrong in his eyes at that point. He offered to let me punch him in the face if it would make me feel better. I declined…. But he refused to believe I would always be in that space and HE WAS RIGHT! I healed, we rebuilt trust and cried a river together a many day. But here we are…. Just like these two. GOD IS AMAZING!!! He can restore and it won’t always be a mess if yall allow HIM in.
@@l.dozier1984 I’m fighting tears and taking deep breaths… cause God just spoke though you to me! I declared I would write my first book this year and He gave me a subject/insight just this morning. I’m amazed at His faithfulness!! God bless you! 💜🙏
What an Amazing testimony Thank you for sharing your story to us...God can restore any marriage if you let him In your life...He restored mines after 22 years married...We hurted each other for many years dranked and cheated and I did drugs too...He restored our marriage almost 5 years ago we fell back in love we stopped drinking together and I stopped doing drugs behind his back...We both even got baptized together one year ago...God saved us both I Thank you God...I always share my story to every one and I am not ashamed...Thank you for sharing this beautiful story I cried through the whole thing...💖🙏
I usually don't comment on TH-cam but I absolutely love this couple. I believe they are called to spread the word of God through their testimony. They have inspired with their story!
“I’ve always pray for God to send me the right wife but I never prayered for Him to prepare me to be the right husband”. THAT’S THE MOST DEEPEST THING IVE HEARD TODAY. He was raised right because for him to recognize that, means he knew what to work on. Sis, you got a good one. May God continue to bless your union guys! ♥️
I said it to you before Laterras, this is no ordinary space on youtube. The Holy Spirit was all through this broadcast. Tangibly so. I shed tears and laughed along at the same adjuncts. Most of all, I was deeply ministered to in ways I cannot share. This was healing, deliverance, breakthrough, and restoration felt in spirit. All I can do to honour this podcast is to share it with others. The Most High God, continue to use you and Keith and Raven for His glory, in Yeshua Jesus Mighty Name❤❤🙏🏽
LOVED THIS RAW EPISODE! I would have loved to hear more about the reason why she cheated and the link between her daddy issues, rejection, abandonment etc but nevertheless great episode as always!
Man this. Was awesome, it confirmed the truma most women that is absent of a healthy Father, manifest in unhealthy ways such as single parent households and the promiscuous Behavior
She said it was emotional neglect. That is how she felt and other dude slid in the cracks. It does happen - but look at this healing. 💕😊. These two are going to make it. This is what covering of the God on a marriage looks like. NOTHING can break that bond. They moving as one, as they should. 🙏🏽💕😊
To the parents that raised Keith, God bless you. You raised a king, and a unicorn in a generation like ours, and Raven exudes such beauty, femininity and gentleness. I pray our Lord Jesus continues to bless this couple and their children and family. We need to hear more from them, there is so much power in their story💛 also Laterras, as always you are a blessing to us TY!!
I went thru a similar situation where my wife cheated with a co worker and I took her back and it’s been a year and we have grown so much from that situation. I throughly enjoyed this story and this couple. When she said she called him immediately my body just got chills and that right there was beautiful because even after getting pleasure she still decided to contact her husband. My wife quit her job immediately and that’s what made me take her back as well she cut her hair immediately she just changed everything for me to forgive me and for god to forgive her. Healing has been hard and I was talking to myself today about this situation and this video had popped up because I was back in my feelings again. I’m not emotionally 100% healed because I feel like I will never be fully happy again because I can’t let myself be vulnerable again. Not that I don’t want to just my heart won’t let me be vulnerable again. I’m hoping it changes in a few years but this has spoke to me a lot. Thank y’all so much for letting me hear this I needed this literally TODAY.
@@kj7682 I was watching Hasani Pettiford who helped me heal him and his wife on TH-cam but he said trust is lost in buckets and trust is gained in drips and I felt that so much I know it’s a process and I’m willing to stand in my truth and be with the one I love
It takes time! Pray, fast, get help. It wasn’t your fault. Keep everyone out of your business. I went through the same thing & just one day I snapped out of it.
I truly enjoy your podcast. Each episode brings another level of understanding and growth. As a single woman, I can look back at past relationships and see where I could have been better. Praying now to receive my future husband.
Mr Whitfield, I think we need to have a forum for married, single and divorced. This couple is truly helping me and I’m old enough to be their mother. I love this couple!
Did you see how she looked to him when she felt like she was going to lose it emotionally talking about the losing of her child. She trusts her husband she leans on him for security that look was priceless oh my
Absolutely. Saw it too and he was right there. Also the hand on her thigh is the reassurance of support understanding and empathy and he had it on her through out. They are a very special couple. God's hands is all over them and their testimony
Men in general would have walked away after that level of disrespect. I was happy for once to see a man be as gracious to his woman as women have always been gracious to men. Homegirl got a good man. She knows men in general would have walked away so I bet everyday she's thanking God that he chose to stay
Laterras, I don’t know if there is an award you can win for your show on TH-cam but if there is I would totally nominate you and the show. I look forward to watching every episode. I’ve been married 17 1/2 years and I learn something new or connect with something said in every episode. Thankful for you and this show.
If Keith got an older brother, I need to be introduced. Just saying 😂. However, this is exceptional. Excellent work Laterrras. Well done for the content you're bringing on. God bless you.
Listen Mr sir Laterras it just keeps getting better and better each episode. This one hit so so close to my heart. I was married 23 yrs and my spouse cheated and we divorced. 4 children together he was my first everything. It didn’t take that long for me to release him in forgiveness but I said out loud during your podcast that I forgive her. I’ve prayed for them over the years but I’ve never said out loud that I forgive her. So just know that you’re blessing people and setting them free daily. 😢😢😢
Keith was so proud of his wife while she was exhorting the word of God. He looked like such a proud husband!!! This episode had me in tears. God is amazing!! What a beautiful testimony!!!
I'm a 70 yr young woman. I've been around and seen somethings in my lifetime. But I've seldom if ever seen or heard a testimony like this young couple. Awesome. Just keep on keeping on letting the LORD use you. Continue to be blessed and highly favored! Amen
I can relate to all that has been said in this video. I was married 18 years and when it ended I went on a journey of healing and the root cause of a lot of the issues in my marriage stemmed from rejection in my childhood. This is not talked about enough. This is how God is pushing me to write about it. I am grateful to just be walking toward my purpose. Thank God for you brother🙏🏾
This is very powerful for men! I love a trendsetter. Someone that stands 10 toes down in their decision and stands by it. I love how he protected her in the midst of it all... and I appreciate how their families minded their business!! All deep.
sorry....as a man, there's no way it will be that marriage will be the same Christ, Himself said that divorce was wrong....EXCEPT for the case of adultery.... If and when this man's (and others in a similar situation ) mental health starts being attacked... it'll be best to move on
@@dburnette6723 I agree with you. Most but not all men cannot extend the same grace that women give and deal with on a daily basis... in the perfect world neither would cheat and we wouldn't have to deal with any of this, but the unfortunate reality is it happens more than not...
How many noticed the power that came forth from Raven when she spoke about the Word, the Holy Spirit & God... Kingdom builder's!!! Thank you for sharing your journey & transparency❤️ #powerfulasone
Damn it now I'm crying. I'm dealing with my ex who cheated on me. That forgiveness is a hard thing to give but it's so needed. I still love this woman very much so because who she truly is a person. It's still a work in progress. We both have work and healing to do. I've learned and grown so much from this season of trials about myself that it actually helped me become a better man, a better husband, a better person, and a better father. I don't know what the future holds for us but going forward she will always be held as a Queen. Prayers
Man don’t do it . Tell her if she wants it to work , u want a no contest divorce and equal time with the kids . U might see how she really thinks . If she says yes , draw up the paper work . See if she signs . Then start again or rip it up and forgive her .
I was blown away by this episode. I was moved by how she called her husband to tell him that she violated their marriage as quickly as she did. I was always told that you take that to the grave. Although what she did was devastating to husband. He did not walk away from his marriage.. He chose to heal and rebuild. That is what I call true love.. Raven & Keith thank you for your courage to share your personal lives with so many. Continue to keep the faith in Christ Jesus.
That's what's really known as caring more for someone than you care about yourself. There's no amount of "rebuilding" that can erase a man's thoughts of his woman being with another dude that he found out about.
@@rgw1380rwIt’s very similar for women as well. But men treat women like just get over it but if he doesn’t make sure she’s okay after his infidelity that marriage isn’t going to last.
@@irenecheatom2601 Tbh, men have learned that it's the man with options that are the trophy man to an overwhelming amount of women. By women's design, that smaller group of guys is getting all the action.
I would forgive to. shows remorse verses going on like nothing happened. continuing to kiss me and make love to me only for me to find out myself which is how it usually goes. which is deceitful and continually lying
@@rgw1380rw I don’t see the overwhelming difference in the number of men verses women that people talk about. I’ve been literally approached by more than 2K men and I’ve stopped counting. I’m not the most beautiful woman in the world externally but I think when men get to know me they think I’ve got the qualities to be their wife. I’ve actually been running from men since before my teens. I don’t understand why women are finding it so hard to get a man. I got married at 18 and 16 years later my oldest son, as we were walking from the parking lot to the store, turned to me and said, “mama do you realize that everywhere we go men are looking at you?”All kinds of bells and whistles went off inside of me, I began to feel as if I was walking in slow motion, I didn’t know that my son could see it. That’s when I realized that if he could see it so could my husband. My friends also could see it although I’ve always kept my circle small with no more that 3-4 ladies because things could get messy otherwise. I was always shifting from friends because of the jealousy and even their boyfriends would try to hit on me. Although they know my integrity as a Christian woman there’s always a question about me crossing the line even after I tell them that I would never do that. It’s not that serious.
@@rgw1380rw They love it bro. Go outside the home and spread her legs for another man then forgive her? Not me. Not even Jesus could make me take this woman back.
So I always got recommendations from TH-cam about Dear Future Wifey and I always ignored them. What a disservice to myself! This is by far my favourite episode so far, my heart is full right now. These two epitomise the purpose of marriage, they truly are an example. The value proposition of this podcast is that it's Spirit-lead. Laterras you're a great interviewer, you ask the questions your audience wants to know so you bring the best out of your guests' stories. I thank God for you and what He's accomplishin through you. Glory be to our loving heavenly father! 🙌🏾
I was blown away by the maturity of this couple and the wisdom that Keith has on covering his wife. At 50 years old, I don't know what it looks like to be covered. I loved when Raven broke down "building in love". God continue to bless, keep, and use this couple to increase and heal your Kingdom!!!
I am even more blown away that this man did not go telling his family about his wife’s infidelity. And… and… of course notwithstanding that he said he knew her character vs a mistake that she made. And… and… she told on herself the same day the infidelity happened. That’s huge! Because like Laterras said, the lies that have to accompany infidelity are such a sucker punch (speaking as someone who was cheated on in an long term relationship and just how much more hurtful it was to unpack the lies I was told over the years). Your story is truly for God’s glory.
@@rgw1380rw So you're saying he's weak for staying? So if a man cheats on his wife should the wife walk away? Women are told to not leave their husband and when they do they are blamed for the high divorce rate. I think he is strong for staying after infidelity because it brings up trust which is something that they may constantly have to work on.
@@Izlandprincess1 Women don't always leave their husband because he's cheating, nor are all women told to stay with a man who's cheating. In fact, it's usually the player/man with options that an overwhelming amount of women prefer over the man that little to no women are interested in.
I'm in my 50's and this episode was a revelation for me. I was touched as a child and knew my father cheated on my mother. I said in my head that I wanted children but didn't want to get married and so said, so done. Sad part is I became the other woman and now I am taking care of my father. I resent him so much and it's because of what I saw and what he told me when I was taking care of my mother before she died. I asked God to take this hate from me and these 2 young people are the beginning of my breakthrough. I never thought I was worthy of a good relationship or forgiveness. I'll try to get into the bible and ask for healing and if I'm lucky, before I leave this earth, I can experience a relationship that is good. Through my tears I say Thank you to you all
Blessings to you. All things are possible with God. The Lord specializes in making a way out of no way. It's never too late as long as you have breath in your body. Be encouraged.
Arouca Girl Christ Jesus loves you so much that all of your sins, sicknesses, griefs, sorrows, & disappointments HE took them in HIS back for you!!!!!!! His bones in His back were exposed and by those stripes He endured He healed you!!!!!!!!!!!! There’s NOthing that Jesus has not already forgiven! You just need to receive His forgiveness by saying Lord, I receive your forgiveness for me! Our Father has already said that He will not withhold good from them that walk up rightly (Psalm 84:16) Our Father’s heart is LOVE!!!!!! He loves you with His everlasting love and His tenderness of mercy and compassion!!!!!!!!! May Holy Spirit who is our Comforter give you the living revelation and living knowledge of His love and forgiveness and newness of Life for you!!!!! Our Father turns a desert into an oasis and an oasis into a desert!!!!!!! “Nahum 1:9 What do you imagine (conspire) against the Lord HE will make an utter end of it! Affliction (trouble) shall not rise up the second time.” Nahum 1:9 is what our Heavenly Father said to His enemies and we can declare that against everything that will mount itself up against our minds!!!!!!!! Remember how Jesus utterly defeated satan all throughout His 33 1/2 years while in the fleshly body and then utterly destroyed satan and all his evil works on the cross while Jesus hung by LOVE on the cross!!!!!! Then Jesus shouted with a LOUD voice, “IT IS FINISHED!!!!” Then Jesus said, Father, Into You hands I commend My Spirit!” What a MIGHTY GOD AND FATHER who loves us and we get by His grace and faith to be in relationship and fellowship with Him everyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your body is the Living temple where your Father lives inside EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! Hallelujah to Our FATHER AND LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT!!!!!!!
I can relate to you ma’am although I am just 24 I too pray in Jesus name to experience the same despite what I grew up seeing. So I’m looking forward to healing. But I pray in Jesus name, God’s willing YOU ❤ will be blessed with a wonderful marriage with a husband who will love you as Jesus Christ loves the Church 🙏🏾
I’m so blessed to have stumbled across this video because I FINALLY feel like I’m not alone. Thank you so much! I needed this and I will continue to watch this video again and again. This video needs to be shared to everyone.
The couples' discussion about breaking covenants and generational curses was confirmation from God. I have been praying about generational curses in my family and God confirmed the curse stops with me and my children's children's children will not inherit the curses.
This was so good. Amazing maturity and wisdom from this young husband, and humility and gratitude from the wife. Walked thru this as the betrayed spouse 13 years ago after 18 years of marriage. (Just celebrated our 32nd.) I chose to forgive, heal and stay because my spouse was (eventually) repentant and also desiring to heal and stay. Restoration takes the Lord and BOTH spouses willing to go all in. We went *public* (without a real online platform) and people also tried to condemn us for sharing. But our testimony, like the Hartwells, was for the glory of God and for others to see that restoration is possible! May God continue to bless and grow Keith and Raven as they CLING to God and to one another. Thanks Laterras for bringing them to all of us. 🙌🏾
Raven talked about how her childhood affected their relationship, it’s actually crazy how this happens. I told myself I would not act like my parents in my marriage, now I’m realizing I have been doing the exact same things! I was complaining to my husband about my parents and when I said it, I thought, wow this sounds familiar 😔. But God has showed me where I need to repent and I am learning to be better to my husband and podcasts like this are teaching us new ways to think. Also it’s just amazing how this man is showing his forgiveness. I think so much of the reason people don’t want to forgive a spouse for cheating is because we don’t want to look like a fool. Seeing other people forgive and come out on the other side, it’s encouraging.
Beautiful video and testimony. I teared up when they started talking about their baby boy, oh my what a powerful moment how she still glorified God through it. I love this couple and what they stand for! God bless ❤️❤️
I saw her TikTok and instantly followed her. I was interested in her testimony and now here they are on your show. When I tell you that God showed up and showed all👏🏾the👏🏾way👏🏾OUT!!!! The Holy Spirit moved in a mighty way throughout this episode! God has big things in store for this beautiful couple. Excellent episode, Laterras 👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I really enjoyed this podcast. This man is such a solid guy at such a young age. I love they are so legacy minded. I can relate to that! That's a testimony to having a strong father in his life. It literally changes generations! Raven seems like she has a quiet confidence. I am so happy that God was able to restore their marriage and use them to help other people. Satan, you LOSE, you don't get this couple or their legacy 👊🏾 LOVE IT!!!
He's as solid as a toothpick. A testimony to having a strong father in his life wouldn't be forgiveness for someone who truly thinks he's a fool for her.
This was soooo impactful for married, single and all other! It is a lesson about forgiveness and loving unconditionally. Most of us don't know how because we allow our flesh to win instead of asking and allowing God to guide us. Thank you for sharing this story and keep allowing God to use you LW.
When ppl do wrong they a lot of times put Gods name in situations that have nothing to do with him and everything to do with their flesh. For me infidelity draws the line and are grounds for divorce. I will not stay married to someone who doesn’t respect our marriage, love, or me. But everybody is different.
@@RealJonIvy I’m telling you. I will not be manipulated by scripture OR somebody using Gods name after they showed me the real them. God doesn’t expose he reveals. If you use your free will to stay AFTER being shown whatever happens next is your own fault. #beingachristianisntbeingnaive
@@purposetalkswithgiftedley6570 i agree... Using God to justify or smooth over a transgression is very tacky. Different strokes for different folks but i wouldn't be able to stay around after something like that.
@@daphcajean2171 The great thing about God is that when he forgives us, he treats/views us as if we had never sinned. Though our sins may be as scarlet, He makes us white as snow.
This is news to me! I'm not even being sarcastic. I literally didn't think men stayed with women after cheating. That's so great, they could work it out. I wish them God's best for their lives! 🙂
Soooo many gems….. I didn’t even get married till 30… the maturity they are walking in proves that spiritual maturity is the degree to which one says yes to God and has nothing to do with physical age/years. Mind blown 🤯
This is the most beautiful representations of Gods purpose for marriage I have ever seen. Every revelation that I gained from sitting with Him alone to learn about love and marriage was confirmed here. EVERY single thing He showed me. I truly believe God is about to usher in a wave of Kingdom marriages and this union has served as a forerunner. It has served as a vision of where God is leading his children and why He is bringing us together in the first place...to to go out two by two and tear down generational strongholds. I love this so much, my heart is full!!
This couple here, MY God. I'm 37 divorced. I lost children, and now live life on a dialysis seat due to kidney failure. Hearing this testimony touched me. I can't stop crying. I'm a PK and this one help heal totally. Thank you and prayers to you and your family
Amazing story. Thank you for sharing such a life changing story with most of us. I'm a woman in my early sixties, divorced after many decades of marriage. Forgave, asked for forgiveness for my part in getting our marriage to what it turned into. It's difficult when you forgive someone who shows no remorse at all. He's moved on and I'm still holding on "to till death do us part" because then if get married , I'll be committing the same sin!! That's what the Word tells me...
Oh my this episode blessed me. l am watching this while my kids are in school and the Lord spoke to me about yelling at my son. I don't want to traumatize my son. I WILL apologize to him TODAY. I am in tears this couple have been used by God. Blessing to them. 🧡
That’s good! I was a holler when my kids were growing up due to unresolved trauma, bitterness and anger and it caused them to not know how to communicate. They are all grown now but they tell me how my hollering affected them. I also was a teenage mom and did not know anything about parenting.
It's beautiful to see a man forgive a woman who has cheated.. Hella lot of men cheat and are forgiven.. the percentage is more... so congrats man. God bless
Not even God can make me take a woman back who's spread her legs for another man. Typical to throw it back on the man instead of just holding her accountable.
@@ron.247 Facts! When women cheat it’s emotional and shows her bitter contempt for her relationship which is far worst than when a men cheats because it’s merely physical.
@@blackfire5179 that's the thing about you men yall swear you know everything about women. A woman cheating isn't always emotional and whether it's emotional or not it is WRONG and a violation of your relationship. If anything cheating, potentially throwing away your entire marriage/relationship JUST because you're horny is way more irresponsible than cheating because of emotional neglect.
This boy got something great in him. Lady you are great. Marriage is 2 imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other. The greater comes later. We are in the later greater part of our marriage. Thanks be to GOD and my trust in him.
Keith!!!! My goodness brother!! I know your obedience to God was to break generational curses in your family but you have a whole spiritual family you are helping take a stand! Shout out to you and your Queen for keeping it LIT! ❤️
With ALL of the countless videos and relationship “GURUS” that are out there discussing cheating and divorce, this video TRULY HITS HOME. While some would call this brother a SIMP, or SOFT for standing and fighting for HIS marriage, I call this a man a WARRIOR AND A KING for not allowing the enemy and or ANYTHING TAKE HIS QUEEN FROM HIM. I salute this couple and ALL couples recovering and healing from infidelity. MAY THE FATHER CONTINUE TO RESTORE AND STRENGTHEN YOUR UNION. For those who are currently suffering from infidelity whether you are the perpetrator or the victim, may the LOVE OF THE FATHER bring healing and restoration to your marriage and REDEEM AND RESTORE IT. SELAH 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@@lilrabbitcuzRejection trauma is absolutely the devil. Emotional intelligence and spiritual discernment is required to understand and make those connections. But those of us who have processed our childhood traumas and are self aware KNOW our weaknesses and vulnerabilities . But that takes wisdom and MATURITY to get there and a lot of time trail and ERROR.
"Redeeming Love"...it's not just a book by Francine Rivers, but also a physical manifestation presented here in a way that is so glorious. Yes, PLEASE read the book of Hosea. God truly continue to BLESS the Hartwells and Mr. Whitfield!!! Whew, my goodness TODAY!!!
What a powerful young couple!! Their testimony is life changing in itself. I pray they continue to stay in Christ, stay rooted and connected so God can use every piece of them as a whole, together as a pair. Many blessings to the beautiful couple and to this podcast 🙏 ❤
God is using both of them. Keith is truly loving her like Hosea. I love that Keith said that he remembers Raven who she married not the woman who committed adultery. You both have much to do with this testimony many men need to hear it. And many wifes are needing there husbands to hear this. God bless you. I agree this is just the beginning.
I never though I deserved it I never thought I was worth it.... I am forgetting my past and I am forgetting my pain and I am stretching myself towards my high calling a MARRIAGE that belongs to GOD. Amen🙌🙌🙌
I've adopted this couple in my head into prayer, I just love them together. Their love for Christ and their ability to incorporate every obstacle into both purpose and legacy is priceless! Letarras, you are truly walking in your purpose, keep up the remarkable work and following the unction of The Holy Spirit!
Wow! This is the version that God wants all to men to have. A man is the head of a home just as Christ is the head of the church. Therefore when we sin,as long as we repent Jesus Christ is ready to forgive us and receive us back no matter the magnitude of the sin!
Another great podcast Laterras 🙂 You asked all the right questions. But you did it in a tactful and honoring way.👌🏾 You are truly growing as an interviewer. Again, thank you for this beautiful content.
Or, because we know the social stigma that comes along with us being sexual with men we aren't in a relationship with, we weigh the cost more often than men.
This kingdom man right here just raised standards I didn’t even know I was supposed to expect. His fathers wisdom is helping bless many more people than just his children. Praying blessings over this beautiful couple!
Laterras, I just hollered when you said, “I almost spoke in tongues.” 🤣🤣🤣 I loved how her husband was looking at his wife when she was speaking. Simply love and God.
At the 1 hour and 8 minute mark, 1:08:50 the way her husband was smiling, was like “yeah my wife know her Bible!” It was like he was proud to be her husband at that moment 🥺❤️
Wow I m praying for this young couple for totally healing in their marriage ❤️🙏🏾it takes a lot to forgive your spouse when your heart has been broken. Your marriage can recover 😊
Thank you. Similar to my story, I'm grateful for this podcast. Women can be so ashamed and won't share and men can be so prideful that they won't talk about it. But somebody has to know that men are capable are forgiving and women are capable of falling. We make mistakes too. One day I believe we'll be able to share our story as well to bless other couples. God's grace in therapy and accountability. The infidelity part that's just brokenness manifested - healing is so necessary. Deal with the brokenness.
It’s just after 00:00 am and about to finish this podcast, in my 40thies and I have learnt a lot from Keith, am from South Africa 🇿🇦 and I love #Dearfuturewifey, I need to do a bit of research about the host, he is so anointed, I bless the lord for what he is doing with this podcast, I never thought I would totally heal,even shared this with the woman I wanna spend the rest of my life with, May God bless You Keith and your beautiful wife, you are both good examples of courage, perseverance and displaying so much meaning to life, God bless🙏🙏🙏🇿🇦
To be so young and have gone through SO much already... clearly God has a great calling on their lives. God bless them, they are amazing and have the potential to impact generations!
This interview just changed my life. There’s so much to take from the different levels of faith and tenacity from this couple that can be applied not just in romantic relationships but in life general. I was guided to this page from the funny video of sis’s wig falling off only to be lead to receive such profound word and guidance! I will say as inspiring as it is, I notice a staple point is the foundation that a man like Keith came from a strong strong parental background… i had some grief while watching in knowing that my struggle with my latest partner is so deeply rooted in lack there of this kind of up bringing and example 🙏🏾😭 it makes me want to bring so much more god into my life tho. That i will say! So much of a blessing within itself. Thank y’all!
This was such a powerful podcast ❤️! I was boohooing! Especially, when he talked about the his future linage. Blessings to you both!! Praying for healing for the two of you and the loss of your baby. You two are a strong young powerhouse couple for God’s kingdom ❤. When she said that ‘ She will continue to testify for what God has done’!!!!!! Powerful!!! Thanks for another great podcast!
I can hardly wait to listen to this! We are so used to the narrative that a man won’t even think twice when his woman cheats - he will send her packing immediately! I am typing this as I start listening…
90%%men I believe will leave you if you cheat....Women mostly forgive because we love deeply and want to make it right but a man will cheat and don't even care......my ex cheated I forgave him lots a time till I got tired and left.......Now he regrets it because he never thought I would leave as am the good Christian woman but he messed up being the Christian man. Everyday he thinks about what he lost when he lost me. Thing is forgiveness is good but when a person take ur forgiveness for granted then somethings got to give 💯
I rarely comment on videos on this platform, but JESUS TODAY!!!! There were so many lessons in this episode and so many nuggets. I'm twice their age and this blessed me. She is such a quiet storm in the Kingdom, she has no idea what God has in store for her. No words...they're a powerhouse together
He was great to me he was so nice and sweet if he was all that why did she go get dick down by somebody else all that light-skinned sweet being nice stuff don't pay off.. you got to be strong dark skin as she elbow type Ninja
Smh. When did we see difference of choice as weakness. As men we will never be able to see all of us rise to better positions because of this. Too much judgment without enough conversation to see and understand perspectives. I’ll be praying for you.
Keith and Raven God is really guarding your marriage; Keith I'm so proud of u. You are a God sent 🙏I don't know any young man that would forgive so easily . U r truly doing God's will I salute you. God bless your marriage...
Yesss praises to Keith Sr. May God rest his soul as he looks down and sees the fruit of his labor. This couple is wise beyond their years!!! This young man speaks like a wise 70 year old. May God continue to bless and protect them always ❤️ .
Teary eyes over here. I am speechless, just speechless. I know a lot of married couples and some are loving couples but, I have never seen such a pure representation of love. That kind of agape love is the reason why even after having been divorced, I still believe in the beauty of marriage. May God continue to bless this couple, their children and their ministry. 💕
This young man spoke life! God has given them both purpose through their experience. I pray they can help others heal and others think before they act. Great podcast Laterras!
I’m praying for this beautiful couple. You are right…they both have no idea what the LORD is about to do, they will be used even more than they are now. The enemy must be terrified.
"Financial infidelity" Wowwwwww! I thought I was so old fashioned to believe this. I think separate accounts in a marriage are insane! There should be NO secrets between us --what's the point of being married if I'm still living as if I'm single??. "Secret stashes" are traits of a single person! Ok, off my soap box lol Well said Laterras! Beautiful couple as well! 🥰
Good for them. Because I’m not forgiving a husband, boyfriend, significant other, partner, you name it. Nope! My trust will be gone forever. The cheater can move on and be a better partner to the new person they end up with in the future. It just won’t be me. They’ll never ever have an opportunity with me again! Cheating is the ultimate betrayal and is a deal breaker for me!
I can relate to her. The rejection from your father opens up doors for emotional trauma in your life. Those traumatic moments lead me to EEO “Expected Emotional Outcome”. I began to look for the worse in all relationships.
Rejection and Abandonment trauma is like a self destroying cancer that sabotages everything around you to fulfill its purpose. It takes your identity and becomes it at the same time. Dealing with this in marriage is just terrible, but God is faithful 🙏🏽
She said that” through him, she was able to see the love God has for her.” I didn't know men like that existed, a man who put God in his decision, and I think God brought me to your channel to show me that there are men like that in his kingdom❤️🙏😇thank you so much!
Well said
🤣😂 🧢'ing
True story..I experienced the same..experienced the mercy of God and his unfailing love through my husband. The love was tangible and undeniable..like she said the love you search for was there the whole time...it brings true repentance from your heart🙏❤
WHOA 🤯 I'm amazed!!
@@DearFutureWifey The reason why people walk away from marriage is that it wasn't built on God’s foundation. The Bible says what God put together, let no man break🙏 God chose them for each other❤️ and she said:” the marriage belongs to God.”
She said something very powerful that a lot of us have overlooked... Quote, when we say we love God, lots of people don't know what it truly means, Until the person, you love cheats or does something that so painful, YET YOU LOOK AT HE/HER AND STILL LOVE THEM, THE SAME WAY CHRIST LOVES US UNCONDITIONALLY.💯❤️❤️❤️
Yeah, love them BUT LEAVE.
Why do people try to compare the love God has for us to the love humans have for us. We can never and will never be as perfect as him. You're only going to hurt yourself trying. Weird.
@@queenmeiika1 God designed earthly relationships with the purpose to reflect God's love. A husband's love is supposed to look like Christ's love for His church. The love between brethren should imitate the love of God. The relationship between a parental father figure should look like the heavenly Father figure. These are the purposes of those relationships. We should be able to see the love of God reflected in the people of God. It is not an insult to God to compare a husband's love to God's love, it is an honor and shows the faithfulness of that person.
It is not weird at all, it is Biblical. For because of the love shown between the brethren, will others be able to identify them as children of the most high God. We can recognize God's love in people without expecting perfection out of them.
14:33 It was him the whole time...Awwwww❤❤😢❤❤😢❤❤
@@censaim Matthew 19:9, from the New Testament, states:
"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery."
This is biblical. A lot y’all be making up your own views. If he stays kudos to him, but loving unconditionally does not mean staying married.
Even God won’t let you into heaven with his unconditional love unless you first accept him as your Lord and Savior
FINALLY...This episode hits home for me because I'm still in the process of forgiveness for my wife. Thank you GOD!
Stay in prayer 🙏 God will mend your marriage ❤
This was beautiful, love it!!
Forgive her look how big Christ love is for humanity. The soul is bigger/greater than flesh
Don’t do it, when a women cheats she had to mentally in her mind get there to allow another man to enter her😂😂😂
@@TroyP20 No. Sometimes a woman Just wants new Sexual experiences.
Men get cheated on in their marriage by their wives and it’s kept a secret . I give her so much respect for her honesty
I just love how you handle your guests. You handle them with care and understand and respect each person's story. You even had respect for Ravens dad and how she shared her childhood pain. Much respect to you King.
Praise God!
Someone mentioned Raven’s voice being so gentle but at times almost sounding like she’s about to preach and I agree. Another observation I had is that when she spoke from herself (like when Laterras told her to look in the camera and speak), her words were brief… almost like she was timid or didn’t have much to say. But whenever she quoted scripture or talked about the goodness of the Lord or her her marriage, there was such power in her voice… even through her gentle tone. The Holy Spirit was definitely moving through this couple to tell their story. I don’t know if she has a women’s ministry but I feel like there are so many lessons we could learn from her.
Indeed 🙏🏽
Nope...I disagree...I come away with a lot of issues still unresolved in her life
Guess right there is her passion...calling..purpose.
@@dburnette6723 no one is perfect
@@yanilovee31 m
This episode 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼😭🔥🔥
The reason why people walk away from marriage is because they don’t believe it will ever get better!!! Bruh!!!! THAT’S IT!!!! We triumphed and made it 20 years (this October 12) after bitter betrayal in our marriage at year 10. The night I looked over at my husband in hurt and disgust over what he did to me… to our family and said “celebrating 10 years should be the happiest day of my life and it’s not because of you,” I shall never forget. The pain was searing and if defeated was a person it would have been him that night. I exited the restaurant after resisting the urge to throw my plate of food in his face. As I sat in the car sobbing and looking at the droop in his shoulders through the window… I said Lord I can’t stay with him!!! But the Lord revealed that all the coldness, cussing him out and jabs he was enduring from me cause He knew my hurt was talking was the point at which most quit cause they don’t believe it will ever get better. He told me there was nothing I could do wrong in his eyes at that point. He offered to let me punch him in the face if it would make me feel better. I declined…. But he refused to believe I would always be in that space and HE WAS RIGHT! I healed, we rebuilt trust and cried a river together a many day. But here we are…. Just like these two. GOD IS AMAZING!!! He can restore and it won’t always be a mess if yall allow HIM in.
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have a way of writing that's captivating and encouraging. Write the book!!!
@@l.dozier1984 I’m fighting tears and taking deep breaths… cause God just spoke though you to me! I declared I would write my first book this year and He gave me a subject/insight just this morning. I’m amazed at His faithfulness!! God bless you! 💜🙏
@Mary Mac yes mam he did! I was just being obedient with delivering the message. You got this!!
@@l.dozier1984 🥰🤗
This young man brought tears to my eyes. Even men in their 40s are not as wise as this young man. I see the favor of God in their lives. Love this.
Sad but true.
@@JusDiff Of course
Amen
If I was him, I'd only see another man on top of her. Not even God could make me take her back.
Even men in their 60s, because they are not totally dependent and submitted to God!
What an Amazing testimony Thank you for sharing your story to us...God can restore any marriage if you let him In your life...He restored mines after 22 years married...We hurted each other for many years dranked and cheated and I did drugs too...He restored our marriage almost 5 years ago we fell back in love we stopped drinking together and I stopped doing drugs behind his back...We both even got baptized together one year ago...God saved us both I Thank you God...I always share my story to every one and I am not ashamed...Thank you for sharing this beautiful story I cried through the whole thing...💖🙏
I usually don't comment on TH-cam but I absolutely love this couple. I believe they are called to spread the word of God through their testimony. They have inspired with their story!
He's spreading the decision of a man she truly believes is a sucker for her.
@@rgw1380rw Exactly. And ain't no god in divorce court either. I could never take her back.
“I’ve always pray for God to send me the right wife but I never prayered for Him to prepare me to be the right husband”.
THAT’S THE MOST DEEPEST THING IVE HEARD TODAY. He was raised right because for him to recognize that, means he knew what to work on. Sis, you got a good one. May God continue to bless your union guys! ♥️
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I said it to you before Laterras, this is no ordinary space on youtube.
The Holy Spirit was all through this broadcast. Tangibly so. I shed tears and laughed along at the same adjuncts. Most of all, I was deeply ministered to in ways I cannot share. This was healing, deliverance, breakthrough, and restoration felt in spirit. All I can do to honour this podcast is to share it with others. The Most High God, continue to use you and Keith and Raven for His glory, in Yeshua Jesus Mighty Name❤❤🙏🏽
I feel ya. I totally agree
Amen
Amen sista
SAMEEEEEE
This a beautiful channel- just subscribe. Love seeing people succeed. 😊
I love the way her voice gets gentle but firm and yet stern kinda like she's getting ready to preach. Soo much wisdom shared. Blessings.
LOVED THIS RAW EPISODE!
I would have loved to hear more about the reason why she cheated and the link between her daddy issues, rejection, abandonment etc but nevertheless great episode as always!
Man this. Was awesome, it confirmed the truma most women that is absent of a healthy Father, manifest in unhealthy ways such as single parent households and the promiscuous Behavior
She said it was emotional neglect. That is how she felt and other dude slid in the cracks. It does happen - but look at this healing. 💕😊. These two are going to make it. This is what covering of the God on a marriage looks like. NOTHING can break that bond. They moving as one, as they should. 🙏🏽💕😊
Breeny !!!!!!! Love youuuuuuuuuuuu🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
May I get to know u better?
She would have a reason for sure.
To the parents that raised Keith, God bless you. You raised a king, and a unicorn in a generation like ours, and Raven exudes such beauty, femininity and gentleness. I pray our Lord Jesus continues to bless this couple and their children and family. We need to hear more from them, there is so much power in their story💛 also Laterras, as always you are a blessing to us TY!!
She is a cheater and he is a fool
@@esromteklemariyam9427 Exactly. No way in hell I'd take her back.
😂😂😂
Anytime a woman take a man back for cheating yah demonize her, so why would you applaud a man for doing the same?
@@ron.247 Im sure this is being said by a hypocrite so calm down
I went thru a similar situation where my wife cheated with a co worker and I took her back and it’s been a year and we have grown so much from that situation. I throughly enjoyed this story and this couple. When she said she called him immediately my body just got chills and that right there was beautiful because even after getting pleasure she still decided to contact her husband. My wife quit her job immediately and that’s what made me take her back as well she cut her hair immediately she just changed everything for me to forgive me and for god to forgive her.
Healing has been hard and I was talking to myself today about this situation and this video had popped up because I was back in my feelings again. I’m not emotionally 100% healed because I feel like I will never be fully happy again because I can’t let myself be vulnerable again. Not that I don’t want to just my heart won’t let me be vulnerable again. I’m hoping it changes in a few years but this has spoke to me a lot. Thank y’all so much for letting me hear this I needed this literally TODAY.
Wow! Thank you for sharing. Proud of you king. Continue to walk in forgiveness. God can heal your broken heart
It takes time to trust again, y’all will get there
@@kj7682 I was watching Hasani Pettiford who helped me heal him and his wife on TH-cam but he said trust is lost in buckets and trust is gained in drips and I felt that so much I know it’s a process and I’m willing to stand in my truth and be with the one I love
Wow, thanks for taking the time to share this. May God cover you with a tranquility that surpasses all understanding and bless your marriage.
It takes time! Pray, fast, get help. It wasn’t your fault. Keep everyone out of your business.
I went through the same thing & just one day I snapped out of it.
I truly enjoy your podcast. Each episode brings another level of understanding and growth. As a single woman, I can look back at past relationships and see where I could have been better. Praying now to receive my future husband.
So true!
Me too! I’m ready for my godly king! ❤️💍
When she said ...We rose in love....that hit me. It resonated so much in my spirit. God bless this beautiful young couple 💑 🙏
Mr Whitfield, I think we need to have a forum for married, single and divorced. This couple is truly helping me and I’m old enough to be their mother. I love this couple!
I agree
That's the goal
@@DearFutureWifey 👌🏽
Yes! Same…,
Did you see how she looked to him when she felt like she was going to lose it emotionally talking about the losing of her child. She trusts her husband she leans on him for security that look was priceless oh my
Absolutely. Saw it too and he was right there. Also the hand on her thigh is the reassurance of support understanding and empathy and he had it on her through out. They are a very special couple. God's hands is all over them and their testimony
Never heard a man talk about accountability or let alone take a women back from adultery.. I’m happy for the both of them ❤
Men in general would have walked away after that level of disrespect. I was happy for once to see a man be as gracious to his woman as women have always been gracious to men. Homegirl got a good man. She knows men in general would have walked away so I bet everyday she's thanking God that he chose to stay
Men talk a good game but they take their women back too. I've never seen a man leave their lady for cheating even though they all say that they will!!
@@wildonez3076 you should get out the house more if you've never seen that
@@IRejectUrRealitylol like for real ain’t no way a man/woman schould accept or stay in this kind of situations.
Rarely see men take women back , I couldn’t
Laterras, I don’t know if there is an award you can win for your show on TH-cam but if there is I would totally nominate you and the show. I look forward to watching every episode. I’ve been married 17 1/2 years and I learn something new or connect with something said in every episode. Thankful for you and this show.
Thank you so much means a lot
TH-cam does have an award for content creators, where ppl vote for their fave to win
@@ToniaAlex13 do you know where that is? Or how you nominate someone? Thanks for any insight you may have.
@@ChastityStemmons no, you can look it up
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If Keith got an older brother, I need to be introduced. Just saying 😂.
However, this is exceptional.
Excellent work Laterrras.
Well done for the content you're bringing on.
God bless you.
What's your IG? I'm his younger brother.jk.
You found your match🤣🤣🤣
@@Rashaadthegr8 lol
What you said lol.
I was thinking the same thing
"And so, I will be obedient to the Lord. Always."
Yes, Queen.
Listen Mr sir Laterras it just keeps getting better and better each episode. This one hit so so close to my heart. I was married 23 yrs and my spouse cheated and we divorced. 4 children together he was my first everything. It didn’t take that long for me to release him in forgiveness but I said out loud during your podcast that I forgive her. I’ve prayed for them over the years but I’ve never said out loud that I forgive her. So just know that you’re blessing people and setting them free daily. 😢😢😢
Keith was so proud of his wife while she was exhorting the word of God. He looked like such a proud husband!!! This episode had me in tears. God is amazing!! What a beautiful testimony!!!
Keith Sr did a phenomenal job! Keith Jr is the type of man the Bible speaks about. I felt the anointing through the phone! My God!
As a woman praying to get married, this helped me to think beyond the fairy-tale and see Jesus in all things good or bad for his glory.JESUS Amen
I'm a 70 yr young woman. I've been around and seen somethings in my lifetime. But I've seldom if ever seen or heard a testimony like this young couple. Awesome. Just keep on keeping on letting the LORD use you. Continue to be blessed and highly favored! Amen
You're not young.
This episode was eye-opening and filled with so many positive insights to takeaway. Thank you all for your transparency
Rare gems. Rare gems. Thank you for sharing this. What a declaration of God's sovereignty and love and forgiveness.
I can relate to all that has been said in this video. I was married 18 years and when it ended I went on a journey of healing and the root cause of a lot of the issues in my marriage stemmed from rejection in my childhood. This is not talked about enough. This is how God is pushing me to write about it. I am grateful to just be walking toward my purpose. Thank God for you brother🙏🏾
write that book sis!
@@phillygyrl34 I plan to be finished with in by the end of the year if not sooner🙏🏾
@@paulashipman8281 Yas sis!
Paula!! Yes, how much childhood rejection destroyed my life and interrupted my marriage. Never would has fathom that was the root.
Amen keep walking with God. You will make 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is very powerful for men! I love a trendsetter. Someone that stands 10 toes down in their decision and stands by it. I love how he protected her in the midst of it all... and I appreciate how their families minded their business!! All deep.
Whatchu said!
Minded their own business.
So true 🙏🙏🙏 Amen. Can't God fix it. Hallelujah to the lamb .
sorry....as a man, there's no way it will be that marriage will be the same
Christ, Himself said that divorce was wrong....EXCEPT for the case of adultery....
If and when this man's (and others in a similar situation ) mental health starts being attacked... it'll be best to move on
@@dburnette6723 I agree with you. Most but not all men cannot extend the same grace that women give and deal with on a daily basis... in the perfect world neither would cheat and we wouldn't have to deal with any of this, but the unfortunate reality is it happens more than not...
How many noticed the power that came forth from Raven when she spoke about the Word, the Holy Spirit & God... Kingdom builder's!!! Thank you for sharing your journey & transparency❤️ #powerfulasone
So true!
Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!! Lord!!!!!
I sure did
Damn it now I'm crying. I'm dealing with my ex who cheated on me. That forgiveness is a hard thing to give but it's so needed. I still love this woman very much so because who she truly is a person. It's still a work in progress. We both have work and healing to do. I've learned and grown so much from this season of trials about myself that it actually helped me become a better man, a better husband, a better person, and a better father. I don't know what the future holds for us but going forward she will always be held as a Queen. Prayers
Wow!! I’m going through this exact same thing..
Man don’t do it . Tell her if she wants it to work , u want a no contest divorce and equal time with the kids . U might see how she really thinks . If she says yes , draw up the paper work . See if she signs .
Then start again or rip it up and forgive her .
Prayers for yall. Get counseling and therapy if that helps . ❤️❤️
Get Prof. couples counselling, it works. Invest in fixing things. 🙏🏼
Awww😢😢😢
I was blown away by this episode. I was moved by how she called her husband to tell him that she violated their marriage as quickly as she did.
I was always told that you take that to the grave.
Although what she did was devastating to husband. He did not walk away from his marriage.. He chose to heal and rebuild. That is what I call true love..
Raven & Keith thank you for your courage to share your personal lives with so many.
Continue to keep the faith in Christ Jesus.
That's what's really known as caring more for someone than you care about yourself. There's no amount of "rebuilding" that can erase a man's thoughts of his woman being with another dude that he found out about.
@@rgw1380rwIt’s very similar for women as well. But men treat women like just get over it but if he doesn’t make sure she’s okay after his infidelity that marriage isn’t going to last.
@@irenecheatom2601 Tbh, men have learned that it's the man with options that are the trophy man to an overwhelming amount of women. By women's design, that smaller group of guys is getting all the action.
I would forgive to. shows remorse verses going on like nothing happened. continuing to kiss me and make love to me only for me to find out myself which is how it usually goes. which is deceitful and continually lying
@@rgw1380rw I don’t see the overwhelming difference in the number of men verses women that people talk about. I’ve been literally approached by more than 2K men and I’ve stopped counting. I’m not the most beautiful woman in the world externally but I think when men get to know me they think I’ve got the qualities to be their wife. I’ve actually been running from men since before my teens. I don’t understand why women are finding it so hard to get a man. I got married at 18 and 16 years later my oldest son, as we were walking from the parking lot to the store, turned to me and said, “mama do you realize that everywhere we go men are looking at you?”All kinds of bells and whistles went off inside of me, I began to feel as if I was walking in slow motion, I didn’t know that my son could see it. That’s when I realized that if he could see it so could my husband. My friends also could see it although I’ve always kept my circle small with no more that 3-4 ladies because things could get messy otherwise. I was always shifting from friends because of the jealousy and even their boyfriends would try to hit on me. Although they know my integrity as a Christian woman there’s always a question about me crossing the line even after I tell them that I would never do that. It’s not that serious.
Keith is a unicorn you hear me!!! This young brothers mindset,heart and soul is just WOW! God bless this union!
Another man blessed his woman. There's no hearsay character that would make me forgive that flesh and blood being for doing me dirty.
I am so disgusted by what's going on in the body of Christ.
Exactly. More young brothers need to learn to forgive their woman and take her back after she gets dicked down by another man
Very rare for men to forgive
@@rgw1380rw They love it bro. Go outside the home and spread her legs for another man then forgive her? Not me. Not even Jesus could make me take this woman back.
He said he knew that the person he married was still in her and he knew God could pull her out. 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Whew Chile, I hollered😭😭
@@Tammy1579 Me too!! 😩
BABYYYYYYYY… Now THATS LOVE ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV Period ‼️💯💖
😂 What a joke!
So I always got recommendations from TH-cam about Dear Future Wifey and I always ignored them. What a disservice to myself! This is by far my favourite episode so far, my heart is full right now. These two epitomise the purpose of marriage, they truly are an example. The value proposition of this podcast is that it's Spirit-lead. Laterras you're a great interviewer, you ask the questions your audience wants to know so you bring the best out of your guests' stories. I thank God for you and what He's accomplishin through you. Glory be to our loving heavenly father! 🙌🏾
I was blown away by the maturity of this couple and the wisdom that Keith has on covering his wife. At 50 years old, I don't know what it looks like to be covered. I loved when Raven broke down "building in love". God continue to bless, keep, and use this couple to increase and heal your Kingdom!!!
I am even more blown away that this man did not go telling his family about his wife’s infidelity. And… and… of course notwithstanding that he said he knew her character vs a mistake that she made. And… and… she told on herself the same day the infidelity happened. That’s huge! Because like Laterras said, the lies that have to accompany infidelity are such a sucker punch (speaking as someone who was cheated on in an long term relationship and just how much more hurtful it was to unpack the lies I was told over the years).
Your story is truly for God’s glory.
Say again. Amen
His decision to remain in a relationship with her is that of a weak fool. Her character is sneaky.
She told because the sex from the nigga she cheated with was wack and she felt guilty
@@rgw1380rw So you're saying he's weak for staying? So if a man cheats on his wife should the wife walk away? Women are told to not leave their husband and when they do they are blamed for the high divorce rate. I think he is strong for staying after infidelity because it brings up trust which is something that they may constantly have to work on.
@@Izlandprincess1 Women don't always leave their husband because he's cheating, nor are all women told to stay with a man who's cheating.
In fact, it's usually the player/man with options that an overwhelming amount of women prefer over the man that little to no women are interested in.
I'm in my 50's and this episode was a revelation for me. I was touched as a child and knew my father cheated on my mother. I said in my head that I wanted children but didn't want to get married and so said, so done. Sad part is I became the other woman and now I am taking care of my father. I resent him so much and it's because of what I saw and what he told me when I was taking care of my mother before she died. I asked God to take this hate from me and these 2 young people are the beginning of my breakthrough. I never thought I was worthy of a good relationship or forgiveness. I'll try to get into the bible and ask for healing and if I'm lucky, before I leave this earth, I can experience a relationship that is good. Through my tears I say Thank you to you all
Praise God 🙏🏽
Blessings to you. All things are possible with God. The Lord specializes in making a way out of no way. It's never too late as long as you have breath in your body. Be encouraged.
Sending you a hug 🤗
Arouca Girl Christ Jesus loves you so much that all of your sins, sicknesses, griefs, sorrows, & disappointments HE took them in HIS back for you!!!!!!! His bones in His back were exposed and by those stripes He endured He healed you!!!!!!!!!!!! There’s NOthing that Jesus has not already forgiven! You just need to receive His forgiveness by saying Lord, I receive your forgiveness for me! Our Father has already said that He will not withhold good from them that walk up rightly (Psalm 84:16) Our Father’s heart is LOVE!!!!!! He loves you with His everlasting love and His tenderness of mercy and compassion!!!!!!!!! May Holy Spirit who is our Comforter give you the living revelation and living knowledge of His love and forgiveness and newness of Life for you!!!!! Our Father turns a desert into an oasis and an oasis into a desert!!!!!!! “Nahum 1:9 What do you imagine (conspire) against the Lord HE will make an utter end of it! Affliction (trouble) shall not rise up the second time.” Nahum 1:9 is what our Heavenly Father said to His enemies and we can declare that against everything that will mount itself up against our minds!!!!!!!! Remember how Jesus utterly defeated satan all throughout His 33 1/2 years while in the fleshly body and then utterly destroyed satan and all his evil works on the cross while Jesus hung by LOVE on the cross!!!!!! Then Jesus shouted with a LOUD voice, “IT IS FINISHED!!!!” Then Jesus said, Father, Into You hands I commend My Spirit!” What a MIGHTY GOD AND FATHER who loves us and we get by His grace and faith to be in relationship and fellowship with Him everyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your body is the Living temple where your Father lives inside EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! Hallelujah to Our FATHER AND LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT!!!!!!!
I can relate to you ma’am although I am just 24 I too pray in Jesus name to experience the same despite what I grew up seeing. So I’m looking forward to healing. But I pray in Jesus name, God’s willing YOU ❤ will be blessed with a wonderful marriage with a husband who will love you as Jesus Christ loves the Church 🙏🏾
I’m so blessed to have stumbled across this video because I FINALLY feel like I’m not alone. Thank you so much! I needed this and I will continue to watch this video again and again. This video needs to be shared to everyone.
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When she said God was the only one to deliver you from grief and to restore
That was God speaking through her ❤❤❤
The couples' discussion about breaking covenants and generational curses was confirmation from God. I have been praying about generational curses in my family and God confirmed the curse stops with me and my children's children's children will not inherit the curses.
My God today🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾this was so good! If you didn't feel the move of God watching this, I don't know what to say. This was a blessing.
This was so good. Amazing maturity and wisdom from this young husband, and humility and gratitude from the wife. Walked thru this as the betrayed spouse 13 years ago after 18 years of marriage. (Just celebrated our 32nd.) I chose to forgive, heal and stay because my spouse was (eventually) repentant and also desiring to heal and stay. Restoration takes the Lord and BOTH spouses willing to go all in. We went *public* (without a real online platform) and people also tried to condemn us for sharing. But our testimony, like the Hartwells, was for the glory of God and for others to see that restoration is possible! May God continue to bless and grow Keith and Raven as they CLING to God and to one another. Thanks Laterras for bringing them to all of us. 🙌🏾
AMEN!!! Your testimony is what people need to hear. God can do anything especially when two people are walking together in agreement.
@@JusDiff , indeed. Nothing is impossible! 🙌🏾❤
@@charisgrace2614 Amen! Congratulations on your 32 years of marriage!!! 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️
@@JusDiff thank you. Glory be to God! #Jesusglue
Powerful! Thank you for sharing! This is true love! True humility. True faithfulness in Christ!
Raven talked about how her childhood affected their relationship, it’s actually crazy how this happens. I told myself I would not act like my parents in my marriage, now I’m realizing I have been doing the exact same things! I was complaining to my husband about my parents and when I said it, I thought, wow this sounds familiar 😔. But God has showed me where I need to repent and I am learning to be better to my husband and podcasts like this are teaching us new ways to think.
Also it’s just amazing how this man is showing his forgiveness. I think so much of the reason people don’t want to forgive a spouse for cheating is because we don’t want to look like a fool. Seeing other people forgive and come out on the other side, it’s encouraging.
Beautiful video and testimony. I teared up when they started talking about their baby boy, oh my what a powerful moment how she still glorified God through it. I love this couple and what they stand for! God bless ❤️❤️
I saw her TikTok and instantly followed her. I was interested in her testimony and now here they are on your show. When I tell you that God showed up and showed all👏🏾the👏🏾way👏🏾OUT!!!! The Holy Spirit moved in a mighty way throughout this episode! God has big things in store for this beautiful couple. Excellent episode, Laterras 👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I really enjoyed this podcast. This man is such a solid guy at such a young age. I love they are so legacy minded. I can relate to that! That's a testimony to having a strong father in his life. It literally changes generations! Raven seems like she has a quiet confidence. I am so happy that God was able to restore their marriage and use them to help other people. Satan, you LOSE, you don't get this couple or their legacy 👊🏾 LOVE IT!!!
He's as solid as a toothpick. A testimony to having a strong father in his life wouldn't be forgiveness for someone who truly thinks he's a fool for her.
@@rgw1380rw Everyone is entitled to their opinion and we differ on that
@@rgw1380rwHave you ever cheated?
@@rgw1380rw Women stay on code. They co-sign each other's BS. He's "solid" because he took a cheating woman back😂
This was soooo impactful for married, single and all other! It is a lesson about forgiveness and loving unconditionally. Most of us don't know how because we allow our flesh to win instead of asking and allowing God to guide us. Thank you for sharing this story and keep allowing God to use you LW.
When ppl do wrong they a lot of times put Gods name in situations that have nothing to do with him and everything to do with their flesh. For me infidelity draws the line and are grounds for divorce. I will not stay married to someone who doesn’t respect our marriage, love, or me. But everybody is different.
Facts... there would be no other option but divorce
@@RealJonIvy I’m telling you. I will not be manipulated by scripture OR somebody using Gods name after they showed me the real them. God doesn’t expose he reveals. If you use your free will to stay AFTER being shown whatever happens next is your own fault. #beingachristianisntbeingnaive
@@purposetalkswithgiftedley6570 i agree... Using God to justify or smooth over a transgression is very tacky. Different strokes for different folks but i wouldn't be able to stay around after something like that.
Raven just exudes a purity and authenticity!! Keith is the epitome of a real Godly man!! You addressed him correctly, KING.
She cheated 💀💀 how is she pure🤣
@@daphcajean2171 The great thing about God is that when he forgives us, he treats/views us as if we had never sinned. Though our sins may be as scarlet, He makes us white as snow.
@@daphcajean2171 Right?! 🤣🤣
@@anng7514this is not true at all
Man! People just say any damn thing! 😂😂
This is news to me! I'm not even being sarcastic. I literally didn't think men stayed with women after cheating. That's so great, they could work it out. I wish them God's best for their lives! 🙂
lots of guys stay with women that cheat, most guys just wont disclose that information of of embarrassment!!!
Many do. They just don’t want others knowing they do.
God bless them for this transparency.
Soooo many gems….. I didn’t even get married till 30… the maturity they are walking in proves that spiritual maturity is the degree to which one says yes to God and has nothing to do with physical age/years. Mind blown 🤯
This is the most beautiful representations of Gods purpose for marriage I have ever seen. Every revelation that I gained from sitting with Him alone to learn about love and marriage was confirmed here. EVERY single thing He showed me. I truly believe God is about to usher in a wave of Kingdom marriages and this union has served as a forerunner. It has served as a vision of where God is leading his children and why He is bringing us together in the first place...to to go out two by two and tear down generational strongholds. I love this so much, my heart is full!!
This couple here, MY God. I'm 37 divorced. I lost children, and now live life on a dialysis seat due to kidney failure. Hearing this testimony touched me. I can't stop crying. I'm a PK and this one help heal totally. Thank you and prayers to you and your family
Blessings to you and may God heal your body completely!
I pray God stretches his healing hands towards you and heal you inside and out in Jesus name Amen
I pray God Heals you soon, pls do well to connect to @Streams of Joy (NSPPD) online prayer platform.
Amazing story. Thank you for sharing such a life changing story with most of us. I'm a woman in my early sixties, divorced after many decades of marriage. Forgave, asked for forgiveness for my part in getting our marriage to what it turned into. It's difficult when you forgive someone who shows no remorse at all. He's moved on and I'm still holding on "to till death do us part" because then if get married , I'll be committing the same sin!! That's what the Word tells me...
Sending you lots of hugs and prayers of healing🫂🫂🫂🙌🙌🙌
Oh my this episode blessed me. l am watching this while my kids are in school and the Lord spoke to me about yelling at my son. I don't want to traumatize my son. I WILL apologize to him TODAY. I am in tears this couple have been used by God. Blessing to them. 🧡
That's amazing
Don’t coddle him either
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That’s good! I was a holler when my kids were growing up due to unresolved trauma, bitterness and anger and it caused them to not know how to communicate. They are all grown now but they tell me how my hollering affected them. I also was a teenage mom and did not know anything about parenting.
It's beautiful to see a man forgive a woman who has cheated.. Hella lot of men cheat and are forgiven.. the percentage is more... so congrats man. God bless
Not even God can make me take a woman back who's spread her legs for another man. Typical to throw it back on the man instead of just holding her accountable.
@@seedofabraham0149 They don't understand that women and men are different.
@@ron.247 Facts! When women cheat it’s emotional and shows her bitter contempt for her relationship which is far worst than when a men cheats because it’s merely physical.
@@blackfire5179 Exactly.
@@blackfire5179 that's the thing about you men yall swear you know everything about women. A woman cheating isn't always emotional and whether it's emotional or not it is WRONG and a violation of your relationship. If anything cheating, potentially throwing away your entire marriage/relationship JUST because you're horny is way more irresponsible than cheating because of emotional neglect.
This man is only 29 y'all...God has indeed raised up a New Generation!👏👏👏
He's weak. He should have let her go Asap
This boy got something great in him. Lady you are great. Marriage is 2 imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other. The greater comes later. We are in the later greater part of our marriage. Thanks be to GOD and my trust in him.
I love this..thank you!!
Keith!!!! My goodness brother!! I know your obedience to God was to break generational curses in your family but you have a whole spiritual family you are helping take a stand! Shout out to you and your Queen for keeping it LIT! ❤️
With ALL of the countless videos and relationship “GURUS” that are out there discussing cheating and divorce, this video TRULY HITS HOME. While some would call this brother a SIMP, or SOFT for standing and fighting for HIS marriage, I call this a man a WARRIOR AND A KING for not allowing the enemy and or ANYTHING TAKE HIS QUEEN FROM HIM. I salute this couple and ALL couples recovering and healing from infidelity. MAY THE FATHER CONTINUE TO RESTORE AND STRENGTHEN YOUR UNION. For those who are currently suffering from infidelity whether you are the perpetrator or the victim, may the LOVE OF THE FATHER bring healing and restoration to your marriage and REDEEM AND RESTORE IT.
SELAH 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
The fact she cheated, she’s already gone! 😂 that was a solid decision not the devil lol
Well put amen 🙏
For real!!!😂 @@lilrabbitcuz
@@lilrabbitcuzRejection trauma is absolutely the devil. Emotional intelligence and spiritual discernment is required to understand and make those connections. But those of us who have processed our childhood traumas and are self aware KNOW our weaknesses and vulnerabilities . But that takes wisdom and MATURITY to get there and a lot of time trail and ERROR.
"Redeeming Love"...it's not just a book by Francine Rivers, but also a physical manifestation presented here in a way that is so glorious. Yes, PLEASE read the book of Hosea. God truly continue to BLESS the Hartwells and Mr. Whitfield!!! Whew, my goodness TODAY!!!
I agree! The book was a great depiction of God’s redeeming love for us.
What a powerful young couple!! Their testimony is life changing in itself. I pray they continue to stay in Christ, stay rooted and connected so God can use every piece of them as a whole, together as a pair. Many blessings to the beautiful couple and to this podcast 🙏 ❤
Won’t catch me shackin up! I’m #SavedSanctifiedSubscribedAndNotified
I am stealing that!!!! I'll give you a shout out when I do.
Love it!
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Lol 🔥
God is using both of them. Keith is truly loving her like Hosea.
I love that Keith said that he remembers Raven who she married not the woman who committed adultery.
You both have much to do with this testimony many men need to hear it. And many wifes are needing there husbands to hear this.
God bless you.
I agree this is just the beginning.
Yo. I literally thought that. Hosea and his wife.
I never though I deserved it I never thought I was worth it....
I am forgetting my past and I am forgetting my pain and I am stretching myself towards my high calling a MARRIAGE that belongs to GOD. Amen🙌🙌🙌
I've adopted this couple in my head into prayer, I just love them together. Their love for Christ and their ability to incorporate every obstacle into both purpose and legacy is priceless! Letarras, you are truly walking in your purpose, keep up the remarkable work and following the unction of The Holy Spirit!
Yes absolutely. ❤🙏
Wow! This is the version that God wants all to men to have. A man is the head of a home just as Christ is the head of the church. Therefore when we sin,as long as we repent Jesus Christ is ready to forgive us and receive us back no matter the magnitude of the sin!
Amen
Exactly! To God be the Glory
Only if the person is willing to change and us truly repentant. In this case she was.
Another great podcast Laterras 🙂 You asked all the right questions. But you did it in a tactful and honoring way.👌🏾 You are truly growing as an interviewer. Again, thank you for this beautiful content.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love them because they're dedicated to doing the work. This is rare to see in folks these days. God bless them. 🙏🏽
Men cheat the most is a complete fallacy...when women cheat, men dont say anything which gives the illusion women dont cheat
Or, because we know the social stigma that comes along with us being sexual with men we aren't in a relationship with, we weigh the cost more often than men.
This kingdom man right here just raised standards I didn’t even know I was supposed to expect. His fathers wisdom is helping bless many more people than just his children. Praying blessings over this beautiful couple!
Wow . My first time hearing of a man forgiving because normally women are expected to forgive even the unforgivable
Laterras, I just hollered when you said, “I almost spoke in tongues.” 🤣🤣🤣 I loved how her husband was looking at his wife when she was speaking. Simply love and God.
At the 1 hour and 8 minute mark, 1:08:50 the way her husband was smiling, was like “yeah my wife know her Bible!” It was like he was proud to be her husband at that moment 🥺❤️
Wow I m praying for this young couple for totally healing in their marriage ❤️🙏🏾it takes a lot to forgive your spouse when your heart has been broken. Your marriage can recover 😊
Thank you. Similar to my story, I'm grateful for this podcast. Women can be so ashamed and won't share and men can be so prideful that they won't talk about it. But somebody has to know that men are capable are forgiving and women are capable of falling. We make mistakes too. One day I believe we'll be able to share our story as well to bless other couples. God's grace in therapy and accountability. The infidelity part that's just brokenness manifested - healing is so necessary. Deal with the brokenness.
It’s just after 00:00 am and about to finish this podcast, in my 40thies and I have learnt a lot from Keith, am from South Africa 🇿🇦 and I love #Dearfuturewifey, I need to do a bit of research about the host, he is so anointed, I bless the lord for what he is doing with this podcast, I never thought I would totally heal,even shared this with the woman I wanna spend the rest of my life with, May God bless You Keith and your beautiful wife, you are both good examples of courage, perseverance and displaying so much meaning to life, God bless🙏🙏🙏🇿🇦
@Robert, that's so beautiful. So good to see fellow South Africans on this channel😇. Blessings to you and your lady🙏. #Team🇿🇦#
Shout out fellow Southy 🇿🇦❤️🙏🏾
Location sila 🇿🇦 🇿🇦
My people 🇿🇦
We are here and learning alot from this pod 🇿🇦
To be so young and have gone through SO much already... clearly God has a great calling on their lives.
God bless them, they are amazing and have the potential to impact generations!
This interview just changed my life. There’s so much to take from the different levels of faith and tenacity from this couple that can be applied not just in romantic relationships but in life general. I was guided to this page from the funny video of sis’s wig falling off only to be lead to receive such profound word and guidance! I will say as inspiring as it is, I notice a staple point is the foundation that a man like Keith came from a strong strong parental background… i had some grief while watching in knowing that my struggle with my latest partner is so deeply rooted in lack there of this kind of up bringing and example 🙏🏾😭 it makes me want to bring so much more god into my life tho. That i will say! So much of a blessing within itself. Thank y’all!
This was such a powerful podcast ❤️! I was boohooing! Especially, when he talked about the his future linage. Blessings to you both!! Praying for healing for the two of you and the loss of your baby. You two are a strong young powerhouse couple for God’s kingdom ❤. When she said that ‘ She will continue to testify for what God has done’!!!!!! Powerful!!!
Thanks for another great podcast!
The fullness of God's power and love exudes from this couple! They will surely bless the nation!
simp lol
😂 thanks and God bless you
@@_hartwellfiti couldn't do it brother. I would have dropped that heifer like a bad habit... Have a blessed week
I can hardly wait to listen to this! We are so used to the narrative that a man won’t even think twice when his woman cheats - he will send her packing immediately!
I am typing this as I start listening…
LOL...Nope. Don't try it: keep that 'gina away from other men if U married because this don't happen everyday.
90%%men I believe will leave you if you cheat....Women mostly forgive because we love deeply and want to make it right but a man will cheat and don't even care......my ex cheated I forgave him lots a time till I got tired and left.......Now he regrets it because he never thought I would leave as am the good Christian woman but he messed up being the Christian man. Everyday he thinks about what he lost when he lost me. Thing is forgiveness is good but when a person take ur forgiveness for granted then somethings got to give 💯
I rarely comment on videos on this platform, but JESUS TODAY!!!! There were so many lessons in this episode and so many nuggets. I'm twice their age and this blessed me. She is such a quiet storm in the Kingdom, she has no idea what God has in store for her. No words...they're a powerhouse together
Exactly
He was great to me he was so nice and sweet if he was all that why did she go get dick down by somebody else all that light-skinned sweet being nice stuff don't pay off.. you got to be strong dark skin as she elbow type Ninja
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If a woman is sooo good to a man why he go out and cheat? I know what your going to say.....go on. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No no no she will do it again man - why do we raise WEAK MEN!!!!????
Smh. When did we see difference of choice as weakness. As men we will never be able to see all of us rise to better positions because of this. Too much judgment without enough conversation to see and understand perspectives.
I’ll be praying for you.
@@_hartwellfitHis comment is right. That man is weak.
@@_hartwellfitnah fooh he weak, She did the ONE thing Jesus said warrantee divorce, he need to run damn
@keithlenail we don't want those prayers. You might put a simp spirit on us, lol
Super dope couple, can't believe they are still so young. Hopefully their story impacts several people and encourages people to be faithful in love!
Keith and Raven God is really guarding your marriage; Keith I'm so proud of u. You are a God sent 🙏I don't know any young man that
would forgive so easily . U r truly doing God's will I salute you. God bless your marriage...
Yesss praises to Keith Sr. May God rest his soul as he looks down and sees the fruit of his labor. This couple is wise beyond their years!!! This young man speaks like a wise 70 year old. May God continue to bless and protect them always ❤️ .
Teary eyes over here. I am speechless, just speechless. I know a lot of married couples and some are loving couples but, I have never seen such a pure representation of love. That kind of agape love is the reason why even after having been divorced, I still believe in the beauty of marriage. May God continue to bless this couple, their children and their ministry. 💕
This young man spoke life! God has given them both purpose through their experience. I pray they can help others heal and others think before they act. Great podcast Laterras!
I’m praying for this beautiful couple. You are right…they both have no idea what the LORD is about to do, they will be used even more than they are now. The enemy must be terrified.
"Financial infidelity" Wowwwwww! I thought I was so old fashioned to believe this. I think separate accounts in a marriage are insane! There should be NO secrets between us --what's the point of being married if I'm still living as if I'm single??. "Secret stashes" are traits of a single person! Ok, off my soap box lol Well said Laterras! Beautiful couple as well! 🥰
Her healing is taken place right before our eyes! I love this for her 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Rarely do we hear about women getting CAUGHT cheating.
Good for them. Because I’m not forgiving a husband, boyfriend, significant other, partner, you name it. Nope! My trust will be gone forever. The cheater can move on and be a better partner to the new person they end up with in the future. It just won’t be me. They’ll never ever have an opportunity with me again! Cheating is the ultimate betrayal and is a deal breaker for me!
How is your current marriage/ relationship?
Do you have one?
If so, what kind of things have you all been through?
@@lelo46 no marriage…And I’m probably never getting married. Relationship yes, we haven’t been through anything major though.
I can relate to her. The rejection from your father opens up doors for emotional trauma in your life. Those traumatic moments lead me to EEO “Expected Emotional Outcome”. I began to look for the worse in all relationships.
Rejection and Abandonment trauma is like a self destroying cancer that sabotages everything around you to fulfill its purpose. It takes your identity and becomes it at the same time. Dealing with this in marriage is just terrible, but God is faithful 🙏🏽