PRISCILLA SHIRER & JERRY SHIRER: A Deep Dive into Faith, Marriage & Life | Dear Future Wifey Ep. 833

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  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb หลายเดือนก่อน +1602

    Priscilla made a great point that if you are thinking of marrying someone, check to see if they have an authority figure in their life who they submit to. This way, when you marry them and have issues in the marriage, you can turn to that authority figure for help. If your spouse has no one who they listen to, then they become a law unto themselves and go rogue anytime they want to. It's very difficult living with a person like that, because they don't take correction from anybody. It makes the marriage very difficult.

    • @RayRom1797
      @RayRom1797 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      So true 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@RayRom1797yes!🙏🏾

    • @sali6522
      @sali6522 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      True.

    • @mwright0428
      @mwright0428 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

      One of my favorite quotes from a pastor says “Never submit to a man that submits to no one” and I will never forget that

    • @blackqueen67
      @blackqueen67 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mwright0428wow!! I learn so much on this podcast

  • @AleenaGENISE
    @AleenaGENISE หลายเดือนก่อน +568

    This is a whole marriage masterclass. Also, we need Jerry to write a book, teach a course, lead a men’s conference or something!

    • @ZMS777
      @ZMS777 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes, this is amazing and it's a blessing

    • @Nkemknows
      @Nkemknows 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree

  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb หลายเดือนก่อน +1697

    Jerry is a very exemplary man. You don't usually see men submit to discipleship and mentoring like that. I was very impressed with Jerry's submission, as well as his leadership in his home. Him taking responsibility for the success and happiness of his wife and children is outstanding. Usually men want their wife to serve them, but he is out front serving his family. Amazing!

    • @tricialewin6972
      @tricialewin6972 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Amen n Amen

    • @commontruth7620
      @commontruth7620 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      God, please, grant me a husband with Jerry's character traits.

    • @lavondahawkins
      @lavondahawkins หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Discipleship is so important

    • @teresa28ist
      @teresa28ist หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I heard a man say if a man is looking to be served it's a no

    • @dw9054
      @dw9054 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      BUT don’t get it twisted she is a submitted wife, is in Godly order who serves her husband ALSO.

  • @preciousviolet2813
    @preciousviolet2813 หลายเดือนก่อน +508

    This brother right here needs to start a ministry in counseling young men before marriage. WOW 😮. What a man of God ❤

    • @sunkissed4ever399
      @sunkissed4ever399 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts 💯

    • @venathomas6378
      @venathomas6378 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah, he's clear that's not his thing/calling. Share the video.

    • @shirleynixon7270
      @shirleynixon7270 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      That’s the thing about God, when we submit to God goodness grows through us!

    • @victoriaparker401
      @victoriaparker401 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Agreed❗️❗️

    • @antoinycemathis
      @antoinycemathis 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely!!

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    Once I realized my husband held my heart close to his and did everything to protect it, I was willing to let down my guards and fully submit! Like Pricilla, I can’t imagine life without my covering. I THANK GOD for my person, my husband and my best friend. ❤

    • @Ben31Son
      @Ben31Son 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This is beautiful.

  • @user-wg9nm6hp1n
    @user-wg9nm6hp1n หลายเดือนก่อน +1064

    You married her but made a covenant with GOD!!! That’s a gem 💎 right there. ❤

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Listen!!!

    • @bethbrookes
      @bethbrookes หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Omg that part right there 💯

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That is a special message...#AndTheTruth

    • @DarkandRadiant
      @DarkandRadiant หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My heart! ❤

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🎯💯

  • @oyinb.8328
    @oyinb.8328 หลายเดือนก่อน +449

    This man is a SERVANT. It’s all over him. God bless you Mr. Shirer for walking in humility and meekness.

    • @Allthingsarepossibl3
      @Allthingsarepossibl3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I agree, he really adores her and I appreciate his honesty about how he felt her being in the war room movie

    • @Raray200
      @Raray200 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I love how Priscilla’s calling is different from her Mothers calling, and her mother ensured she remain free and authentic. Jerry was brought up in a home built on equality and was made humble and sacrificial by it. Because God knew he would need partnership over the traditional marriage she was modeled. For her to do what she was called to do. He made space for her to flourish.

  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb หลายเดือนก่อน +704

    Loved when Priscilla compared the husband to the shade of a tree. Women don't struggle to submit to a husband who is a shade, a comfort, a safe place. If a husband loves the wife sacrificially, she will submit easily; she will want to submit, you wont have to tell her to do it.

    • @TamTalkVloggy
      @TamTalkVloggy หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @WellnessForMoms
      @WellnessForMoms หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙌🏾

    • @Coco-og7zw
      @Coco-og7zw หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      FACTS!!!!!

    • @Raray200
      @Raray200 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I love how Priscilla’s calling is different from her Mothers calling, and her mother ensured she remain free and authentic. Jerry was brought up in a home built on equality and was made humble and sacrificial by it. Because God knew he would need partnership over the traditional marriage she was modeled. For her to do what she was called to do. He made space for her to flourish.

    • @ig6851
      @ig6851 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That was AMAZING!🙌🏾

  • @CherryeBess
    @CherryeBess 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +165

    I met my husband at his aunts funeral at my church in Florida. I was a member and the Director of Music for this church. His Mothers family were members of this church but I had never met him until his Mothers sister died. He was not a church going person. He said he heard the voice of God tell him I would be his wife, when he first saw me at the funeral. And he said he told God, "Oh he'll no, not this marriage shit again. I am not marrying anybody." However, his actions were not that. I was dating someone else who was a church man. He had a great job, and I loved him very much. We were talking about marriage. But James got all up in that thing and blew it out of the waters. My life improved just from getting to know him becuz he called so much and made me laugh, made my stress relief, and he cooked like a chef. My dad was ill and he came over everyday after hisnwork and cared for my dad. My dad got well in 3 days, no lie. Our house felt like.love when James was there. He was calm, quiet, he smiled alot. He did not fuss or argue. He just cooked. He was a great love that I had not known. We have 6 adult children 20 grands, 3 great grands. He is in heaven now due to covid-19. (He was a nurse, and a former Sgt. US Army, basketball star and sport fan). Great reader of the Bible. He also read all of T. D. JAKES books, Joel Noel, and another guy and wanted to talk about it. Everytime he read a book or 2, we had another baby. We were comfortable with each other with the good, the bad and the ugly, we loved each other regardless. And both of our lives improved and progressed. 😊 RIP Sgt. James Branch, Sr.

    • @diandrabri
      @diandrabri 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Beautiful story thanks for sharing ❤

    • @frem7
      @frem7 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thanks for sharing this with us.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sorry

    • @geneholmes4401
      @geneholmes4401 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@CherryeBess Sorry for your loss. I felt the love you all gave each other reading your story.

    • @angelagriffin6125
      @angelagriffin6125 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

  • @shush03
    @shush03 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    It takes a VERY secure man to be married to a Powerhouse Preacher like Mrs Priscilla. Love this episode. Now this is real relationship goals. ❤❤

  • @MSBJS2233
    @MSBJS2233 หลายเดือนก่อน +352

    When Jerry said he saw what his dad did by leaving his mom and he wasn't going to repeat it, it brought me to tears.

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too.

    • @carolinenjoroge1195
      @carolinenjoroge1195 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Right because most men see their dad treat their moms like trash, and they become even worse.

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carolinenjoroge1195 do you think it's MOST?

    • @carolinenjoroge1195
      @carolinenjoroge1195 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JMarie-th8xe I do

    • @DaniD-zy2rl
      @DaniD-zy2rl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes I love that!

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways หลายเดือนก่อน +600

    What Grandma said TOOK MY BREATH AWAY! 🥺🥰❤🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @beesknees213
      @beesknees213 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      I literally threw my phone across my bed at what Granny said. Dear Jesus..."the rest of your LIFE!!"

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      God sent my minister to tell me, take this one seriously!!! 17 years different....

    • @thessysasa
      @thessysasa หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @yonetteoneal5221
      @yonetteoneal5221 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Grandma was my country lady big up GUYANA

    • @lindaadams444
      @lindaadams444 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It's beautiful when you have seasoned individuals in your life with that discerning spirit that can speak into your life! I didn't have that coming up so I pray to be that seasoned discerned person to my village!

  • @browngirl2533
    @browngirl2533 หลายเดือนก่อน +280

    Aww, this is the first time I'm seeing Jerry Shirer, his presence fills the room with love submission and authority, you can see his heart is after Christ, no wonder Priscilla is free to share Christ in such a powerful way, she has a "godly man" at home, they shared so much wisdom and laughter, this is my favorite! Thank you having them Laterras, beautiful. #Couple Goals
    Whew... Jerry say, "once a woman knows that, she's more important than you, she doesn't have a problem submitting because she knows she will always be the priority" Jerry, you betta SPEAK!! 🗣
    And this is a MAN that grew up without a Father!! No Excuses!!

    • @norahmusinguzi8817
      @norahmusinguzi8817 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Am really humbled

    • @Fruit17-ip4vl
      @Fruit17-ip4vl 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This is such a beautiful couple! 😎❤️Pricilla is so beautiful, intelligent and she loves her husband very much! He is an honorable man! Lois Evans is smiling right now! ❤️😎When you put God first, he will order your steps in the right direction! This is the way it is supposed to be done! Jerry Shirer did it the right way! My husband went to my Dad and asked for permission to marry me! 31 years later we are still together! I want to see this movie with Pricilla in it and my 90 year old Mom wants to go as well! Great interview! 😎😎😎👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sheilabrown5422
    @sheilabrown5422 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    When Priscilla said grandma said, "He looks at you like he will love you for the rest of your life." I am in awe. I pray for that kind of look and love 😊❤

    • @annapaik8406
      @annapaik8406 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Grandmas have such a way of saying things. I miss both my grandmas😅❤

  • @patriciaaharkins9777
    @patriciaaharkins9777 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    My husband and I have been married 53yrs by God's amazing grace. This new season is difficult pray for us to keep focused on the Lord.

    • @christinelundy1043
      @christinelundy1043 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Holy Almighty Father, grant them your Covering and Keeping during this season. There is nothing impossible with You and for You, and you will see them through this time in Jesus Name and under His Blood. Amen and Amen.

    • @janiceoliverbelcher2285
      @janiceoliverbelcher2285 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Congratulations on the 53. May God undergird you both with the strength and understanding you both need to conquer the voices of the enemy. If you haven’t tried counseling, hopefully you will consider. God loves and ordained marriage, and HE knows life can can bring so many unpredictables. Continue to seek his direction. ❤

  • @markelianorris4209
    @markelianorris4209 หลายเดือนก่อน +458

    “Whenever you’re doing something for the Lord, the enemy will attack you.” FACTS 💯 Be ready to fight and have on the whole armor of God!!! Spiritual warfare is real!

  • @LaToya_here
    @LaToya_here หลายเดือนก่อน +312

    The integrity of the film makers… directing in SUCH A WAY to make sure temptation had no place on set, honoring the spouses, honoring GOD! YOOOO😭😭😭Beautiful, BEAUTIFUL!!🙌🏽…
    THIS WHOLE INTERVIEW HAS MY EYES LEAKING!!!

    • @therachelexchange
      @therachelexchange หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I thought that was amazing! Just WoW! ❤

    • @KerryRussell-ep4dd
      @KerryRussell-ep4dd หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yess my eyes teared up a few times!! I started speaking in tongues when Jerry spoke about submission!!!!!!! powerful!!!!

    • @laverneearl4622
      @laverneearl4622 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What an impactful experience this was. Praise God 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @makiebahatton2628
      @makiebahatton2628 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Isn't that Phenomenal!?!

    • @opaleyeruth4257
      @opaleyeruth4257 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This part got me wowed

  • @brendamoss4576
    @brendamoss4576 หลายเดือนก่อน +368

    The shade that your husband provides is unmatched

    • @robynlevel925
      @robynlevel925 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      The first time that I’ve ever considered a “shady” brother!!

    • @PRTEEGRL
      @PRTEEGRL หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This comment should be pinned!!! Awesome!

    • @NomsLoots
      @NomsLoots หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This is the second time I watch something today that’s making this very point and I think the Lord wants us to really rest 🥹

    • @courageoustracian3741
      @courageoustracian3741 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​so true

    • @aprilfragoza6447
      @aprilfragoza6447 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope I'm not being out of order and laughing, but at section 57:32 when brother Jerry yelled " he said cut !!!"cracked me up...that brother was serious and that paused look 🤨was priceless...😂😂😂😂

  • @sandranartey2646
    @sandranartey2646 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Glad Priscilla shared about how the Kendrick brothers care about the lives of the actors and actresses and their spouses. May GOD Bless them all.

  • @everythingalyb
    @everythingalyb หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    47:09 “I married her, but I made a covenant with God.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @PRTEEGRL
    @PRTEEGRL หลายเดือนก่อน +529

    LATERRAS!!! You have Priscilla AND Jerry on here!?!?!?!? I'm getting fired because I'm watching at work, ON MY WORK COMPUTER!!! Closing my door now. Putting an appointment on my Teams schedule so I'm not distracted. LOLOL. Can't wait to watch!!! I RESPECT Priscilla and her family so much.

    • @LstWorshipper
      @LstWorshipper หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Me too! I am just smiling at the computer and I just said "I need to close my door" LOL

    • @sharonibironke2163
      @sharonibironke2163 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Girrrrl! 😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      You just made me burst out laughing!!!!

    • @jladylove1
      @jladylove1 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I'm watching at work also and on my work computer!!! LOL It's a good thing I'm the Only One here in the office today. This is a blessing to me

    • @crystalroget4649
      @crystalroget4649 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Me too! Watching at work now . . . Shhh

  • @anitapatterson5813
    @anitapatterson5813 หลายเดือนก่อน +658

    What manner of man is this? God will bless us with the right spouse. Hang in there ladies. Hang in there. ❤️🙌🏾

    • @msbookiebb
      @msbookiebb หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Amen! I receive it.

    • @abaxter0326
      @abaxter0326 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen!!!

    • @ElisabethGermeus
      @ElisabethGermeus หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@anitapatterson5813 Amen! I receive it.

    • @ruphenamiller2245
      @ruphenamiller2245 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen... I am here Lord❤

    • @sapalokalembe9254
      @sapalokalembe9254 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      You have to work on yourself first to attract the right man. When you are still single ask God to mold and transform you so that you can attract the right person. Sometimes women/men don't find the right person because God says if I give a good woman/man to this lady/man with a bad heart the other party will suffer. You have to be willing to be a good wife/husband for God to give you a right person. God sees our hearts.

  • @Mzzg
    @Mzzg หลายเดือนก่อน +224

    Once a women knows that she is more important than you, she does not have a problem submitting! You betta preach/teach!🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @L4A1D1Y
      @L4A1D1Y 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That hit different!! Such wisdom!🔥🔥

  • @denicakouame3759
    @denicakouame3759 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Powerful episode. Glad to see Priscilla’s Guyanese tradition honored as well. In Guyanese tradition, before a man proposes, he writes a letter to the woman’s family asking for their blessing. This gesture of respect and love reflects the importance of family bonds and cultural values. By putting his intentions in writing, the man honors the family’s role in the woman’s life and lays a strong foundation for their future together.

    • @yardleymellon
      @yardleymellon หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love this

    • @hambeldishena193
      @hambeldishena193 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @denicakoume3759, in 🇳🇦 where I come from,that’s what we do too.

  • @serenamojela
    @serenamojela 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Having a husband that submits to authority is EVERYTHING! I thank God for the Father figures in my man's life 🙌❤️‍🔥 beautiful episode! I love this family ❤

  • @angelmariemusickc
    @angelmariemusickc หลายเดือนก่อน +215

    Jerry don’t play about Priscilla!! 🤣 I love it! This is really good and encouraging! Praise The Lord for this! 🙌🏾

  • @ayannarojas3973
    @ayannarojas3973 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    Please bring them on again for PART 2...
    The world needs this REAL LIFE example on the way Gid has designed marriage to be. Men aren't asking the dad's permission anymore. The moms and dad's are finding out at the same time he (or in this CRAZY world she pops the question to the guy).
    THANK YOU, they are a breath of fresh air

  • @billiechildress5731
    @billiechildress5731 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    Jerry is definitely a staple for the young black man of today. These two together are an example of what you can do with Christ in the Marriage. Real people letting God make them successful in life marriage and ministry.

  • @Treebee6009
    @Treebee6009 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Jerry's strong, masculine, but kind spirit is what many Christian women desire. I teach English at a graduate university for national and international military officers. Honestly, I think God moved me there to help keep hope alive. These men have come under authority for half their lives. Yet, they lead with such authority, gentleness, and kindness. I once dropped a pen while teaching, and three men from three different countries jumped out of their seats to pick it up. Chyle...

    • @Ejeomah
      @Ejeomah 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Aww 😊

  • @lakeshapenland2288
    @lakeshapenland2288 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Jerry is quiet but packed with power. His wisdom is awesome. Priscilla is publicly packed with power. Together they are a power house for the kingdom!! Wow I love this episode! So real and raw!

  • @markelianorris4209
    @markelianorris4209 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

    The Shirers are dropping so many wisdom nuggets! This episode is golden! I love Priscilla Shirer! She’s an anointed and talented woman of God and actor! I love me some War Room! She is a definitely a woman of strength and a prayer warrior in that movie! Laterras, you’re knocking these podcasts out the park! Your podcast ministry is LIT 🔥! God is definitely with you sir! 🙏🏾 Keep these podcasts coming. I’m learning so much and taking notes 📝 along the way! God bless you and your podcast ministry!

    • @tshidithebehli1546
      @tshidithebehli1546 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It will be the first full episode I watch

    • @eebz5
      @eebz5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@tshidithebehli1546 go back and watch ALL of his episodes. There are so many gems.

  • @ta-shasherm3302
    @ta-shasherm3302 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    This was an amazing interview. "We married each other, but I made a covenant with God." Awesome, couple.

  • @reneanorman
    @reneanorman หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    This episode. Idk why but I cried. So many gems to take away. One thing I noticed is that they are surrounded with Godly ppl. Ppl of wisdom. Ppl who poured into them. I was praying this week... I don't see this and I asked God are there ppl who will support and guide me without having an agenda or who is jealous. In the middle of this episode. The Holy Spirit just started talking to me.I had to pause and praise him. I said I surrender it all to you. Then I started to watch it again. This almost took me out because that's when she started talking about surrender. As I was typing this a message appeared on my phone saying God sees you.🙌🏽🙌🏽 We serve an awesome God. I can't make this up. 😢😢

    • @toshacobb4476
      @toshacobb4476 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree..Alot of Marriages could've already been together had it not been for jealously and lying tongues been the main thing

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Priscilla talking about her film choices made me think about Denzel Washington and his wife. He hasn't done a romantic role in decades. It seems as he's gotten closer to the Lord, he's chosen different types of roles. 🙂

  • @Superiguzman
    @Superiguzman 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I get emotional hearing every testimony on your podcast but this one had me crying the entire episode.
    I have raised my 3 children with no father figure and hearing him speak about his mom brought me to tears. I did the best I could to raise my boys right. Taught them to love God first.
    I pray for my children to break the curse of divorce and find a wonderful partner.
    I pray the lord will allow me to experience true love like this one day.
    Thank you for having them on your podcast, it blessed me and gave me hope ❤️

    • @rochelle5503
      @rochelle5503 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      May God bless your children tremendously, and may the desires of your heart align with His will, in Jesus name 🙏🏾

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +274

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You wont regret it

    • @alukoolubunmi4119
      @alukoolubunmi4119 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      There are universal principles to make all marriage work from Christianity perspective. Submitting to the authority of the word of God. Like a husband having an authority he's submitted to. Many times people don't know there are many struggles that could have been avoided if they realize that. You don't have to learn everything by experience. You can learn by examplars. Examples of good marriages how some things were well handled. You will actually be going farther in life with this.

  • @deg257
    @deg257 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    “Put it in writing” gave me chills… accountability is needed and it’s what’s missing in this world💙🙏🏽
    If you have a great dad cherish it because what’s little for you is a big thing for some of us who didn’t have fathers/covering.
    This episode was amazing❤

    • @BaileBaloyi
      @BaileBaloyi หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In most African countries that's the tradition

  • @Marysbraider
    @Marysbraider หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Her husband is DEFINITION of humility. If a MAN can take what may look like low blows to his ego, it is called humility. It will open your eyes to a positive out of the situation.

  • @OnlinewithMathuto
    @OnlinewithMathuto หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Jerry's integrity is on another level!

  • @marlanawright1211
    @marlanawright1211 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This was like therapy for me. I stopped this so many times to pray and ask God questions and journal. I really needed to hear this and it really fostered some deep introspection. I really look up to this couple.

  • @emilyomondi9247
    @emilyomondi9247 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Jerry is for real a cover to Pastor Priscilla. He's such a humble servant of God and his household. This podcast is a special one to me. I love this couple alot.

  • @tarinatyson1294
    @tarinatyson1294 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I think this podcast will be a real game changer for those who are and are seeking marriage. I love her husband's submission and leadership and how she submits while living her calling. This is a beautiful display of a man and woman becoming one. Priscilla and Jerry are doing things the way God ordained it. Thanks again LW💕

    • @Livie_Locs
      @Livie_Locs หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally agree!

  • @janashford7916
    @janashford7916 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    This is a first for me. I do not post comments. Jerry made the statement 'God does not call the equip. He equipped the call.' was everything to me. I texted that statement out to over 50 of my friends and they are replying how much that statement was right on time and really blessed them. Thank you for what you do. Have an amazing day

  • @Jurnee2Peace
    @Jurnee2Peace หลายเดือนก่อน +209

    I was first introduced to Priscilla Shirer in the " War Room". I later learned that she is the daughter of Pastor Evans. I read her book "Discerning the Voice of God" for a Life Group.

    • @almmason7
      @almmason7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I read her book, "A Jewel In His Crown" in college back in 2002-2004. It was very good!❤ I'm going to have to reread it.😅

    • @RaveB.
      @RaveB. หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg! Literally same.

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kendra G, ET, and now this man you everywhere. lol. ET coming up soon. lol.

    • @tabs-k
      @tabs-k หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊❤❤q❤😊❤❤❤q❤❤❤q11❤❤​@@almmason7

    • @deirdrelmclaughlin9598
      @deirdrelmclaughlin9598 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is so rich in the Word and living.

  • @MeridianJones
    @MeridianJones 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The Kendrick Brothers are AWESOME for taking care of their folks that way to preserve marriages and families. That is waking in the Spirit!!

  • @georgianacollington2104
    @georgianacollington2104 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    This was a phenomenal interview. This is the first time I've heard Jerry Shirer speak this much and what amazing gems he dropped. “I made a covenant to God, but I married her.” “The need for discipleship amongst men.” Mentorship, submission to God, man and each other. It is a testament to God, yes, because we need to hear all that he had to say… Thank you Laterras

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    This was soo good. I cried yall lol. I also paused and said a prayer about God sending me a proactively thoughtful man when Priscilla spoke about the values that she didn't even think to pray about. That's a character trait I've never prayed about and is so needed in a union. The importance of having elderly counsel, accountability partners, etc.
    I hope Jerry disciples Laterras as well. The importance of strong men holding one another down is so good.
    To the Shirers, yall are a tremendous blessing to us all. This was so good. It's one of my favorite episodes so far. You all were LIT in all sense of the words. ❤🎉

    • @MSBJS2233
      @MSBJS2233 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I had to pause it, too, and pray because I was crying.

  • @hopemcintosh6998
    @hopemcintosh6998 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I literally didn't want this to end!❤ If God has someone for me, I trust Him to give me His divine best for my life. Even if He doesn't, I can see that God is able and that God still has wonderful men for His daughters. God is wise enough not to give you anything before you are ready❤❤❤

  • @IAMQUEENMagazine
    @IAMQUEENMagazine หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    This was one of the richest episodes ever. This couple is anointed for the Kingdom of God. Pricilla is a powerful woman of God and her husband, wow, I thank God for them both. A man who submits under authority is a game changer for the family and in extension the world. True godly accountability makes submission easy. Submission, godly submission is automatic when the head is submitted to God and an earthly representative of God. We can not govern ourselves because our perspectives are limited. This podcast is God sent.

  • @missboateng
    @missboateng 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This episode just blessed me. I have watched it over and over again. Mr. Shirer has alot of wisdom to share. This is what we call KINDGOM MARRIAGE. This epsiode was therapeutic i could not believe it ended. Please we want PART 2 of this. Thank you Uncle Laterras. You are a blessing to our generation.

  • @shawna7227
    @shawna7227 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    This literally happened to me. God gave me a heart for my husband. I did not see it though he was handsome. I just had someone else in mind. God changed my heart and I’ve never known love like I have with my husband. ❤️‍🔥

  • @deonclaxton4638
    @deonclaxton4638 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    You know what… Aunty Cilla and Uncle Jerry needs to tag team more… also this was one of the most impactful podcast on this channel.

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    I can tell that Jerry does Not play about Priscilla! This man does Not want anything to get in between his marital relationship and family. I Love That❤

  • @cmblessed1877
    @cmblessed1877 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    What i like about this confession is that both have same amount of speaking turns. Man like this exist. Blessing to and for this couple.

  • @Luvisbeautiful2
    @Luvisbeautiful2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This episode touched me so much. I already loved Priscilla and see her as my aunty. But hearing her husband Jerry speak and see his posture as a follower of Lord gives me hope for the future of Christian men. So beautiful ❤

  • @chloecreate
    @chloecreate 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Her husband is such a resolved leader, he shows some real groundedness balance and relaxed in his self that I don’t see in most people.

  • @antoinycemathis
    @antoinycemathis หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    🤯🤯🤯 "once a woman knows that she is more important than you, she won't have a problem with submission." A woman has to KNOW that she can trust you, and then she will be GLAD to submit!! Y'all dropping GEMS!!!

  • @antoinycemathis
    @antoinycemathis หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    My dad did this for my husband (and my sister's husband)!! He actually made them complete several assignments also... what a legacy!!! I love the Evans family!!!

  • @lesleyaddison1999
    @lesleyaddison1999 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I cried so much during this episode. I realized that i hadn't fully surrendered every part of me that I was holding back and fully trust God in all areas of my life. Love, finances, and even in the grief of losing my sister. I give it all over. I know God has me. ❤

  • @KytiaLamour
    @KytiaLamour 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love the way they protect and honor their marriage. It was amazing hearing their story of how “War Room” affected their relationship.
    As an actress, many performers think I’m weird for not wanting to accept roles where I’d have to be undressed or have intimate scenes with another actor. All it takes is a logical thinking person to say “this isn’t right” if they really respect their spouse. I’m so glad to see someone talking about this. 🙌🏽

  • @mercyedith1383
    @mercyedith1383 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Jerry is walking wisdom, Jerry represents Christ in so many ways,and he has submitted all over in his life no wonder he keeps winning.
    Priscilla you are both blessed,thank you Latteras for bringing this two.
    Iam from Kenya and Priscilla's sermons are the ones I look for when I feel far away from God.
    I'll look for the other movies she has featured, Warroom is one of my favourite movies

  • @lolao4867
    @lolao4867 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    58:18 "you can say anything to a person, but until they experience it. Its totally different." So true... so so true.

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very very true

    • @mwright0428
      @mwright0428 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even the way he tied the physicality of Jesus. So powerful and I never thought of it that way.

  • @antoinycemathis
    @antoinycemathis หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I love Jerry's confidence in the position God has graced him for!! The love, protection, and support he provides for his wife is remarkable!! I love Priscilla's confidence to find security in her husband and the grace to submit to him also!!

  • @markelianorris4209
    @markelianorris4209 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    These panelists and this podcast are destined for greatness! 🤞🏾💪🏾

    • @mikag1137
      @mikag1137 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interestingly enough you mentioned! " Their is Certainly a Shift as The Dear Future Wifey podcast is Closing out its Season it also feels it's A Prelude to Upcoming Season of Elevation Revelation of God's first Command. The Fulfillment of Love

  • @NiNi-fp8zc
    @NiNi-fp8zc 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The covering/tree analogy in the first 5 mins has me in tears. Then when Jerry said I married her but I made a covenant with GOD 😮‍💨 so many gems in this episode it must be rewatched!

  • @LifeintentionswithKamellen
    @LifeintentionswithKamellen 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The chills I got when they spoke about War Room! Knowing that the directors warned them about the attack to come on their marriage! Oh! The way Jerry couldn't watch his wife be a wife to another person....Lord cover them they are a blessed union! Thank you Mr. Whitfield! #ministry

  • @KanitaRutley
    @KanitaRutley หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    LOVE the Shirers. So many nuggets of wisdom shared. Priscilla and I had so many similarities that gave me a good chuckle. I married a super-independent husband who washes his own clothes and irons his own suits (better than I do, lol); and he doesn't always need me to make his lunch. Yet he loves that I am highly domestic and love cooking, cleaning, and creating a loving home for our family. I also saw my husband's processing as withdrawal and would make matters worse feeling we needed to settle disagreements in that moment. So grateful to be learning these valuable lessons early on from seasoned couples. Celebrating 3 years this month ❤

    • @missboateng
      @missboateng 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So refreshing to read Kanita. Congratulations to you guys. I learned alot from your episode here too.

  • @shaakirasolomon8026
    @shaakirasolomon8026 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Beautiful, wholesome, mature couple. This is the type of dialogue by wise folk, in tone and clear mind, that many try and emulate but this is the real deal.
    Great interview! I love that Laterras is always laughing and finding the humor in everything. I also love that he doesn't shy away in asking the pressing questions, the questions that bring greater understanding. I love that!
    This interview has truly blessed me, it's filled with so many gems:
    "Once a woman knows that she is more important than you, she doesn't have a problem submitting because she knows she will always be a priority, even over yourself." Ding Ding!
    "If that brother is not submitting to authority that you can see, that is tangible, healthy, spiritual authority, and he thinks he can do everything on his own and he's just wise enough and smart - think very carefully about whether that is the person you want to be submitting to in your life."
    "Expectations are usually unrealistic because they are in your imagination and you don't realize that you are holding people captive to a script that they did not agree to."
    "There's always a simple solution if you want it and want to find it but if you want to make a big deal out of it, you can."
    "If you realize there is no out, you're going to figure out how to work it out".
    "Whenever you're doing something for the LORD, he (the enemy) is going to attack that".
    "Maybe that's why you should consider it and think about it because you can't do it".
    "God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the called."
    The LORD, submission and sacrifice in a relationship is imperative.
    My LORD is too magnificent, the circle moment of God changing Jerry's heart about film to him being in front of the camera, playing the role of his older brother who discipled him and his son playing the young Jerry. Generational blessings! Only GOD. Sooo beautiful!
    Loved how Laterras sought Jerry's covering, love, love, love ! Great choice! Mighty men of valor!
    New Sub!

  • @chrysteldavis6221
    @chrysteldavis6221 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This has absolutely has been my favorite episode thus far, as a 47 year old single woman for 12 years... This has been very uplifting & and hopeful for us who have not been sent out kings... And no shade to any of the other episodes but this hit my heart. Thank you

  • @masonartistry5956
    @masonartistry5956 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Brother Jerry, thank you for sharing Priscilla with us!!!

  • @ritahdedeng6889
    @ritahdedeng6889 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Jerry is a definition of a gentleman

  • @shirleydavis5060
    @shirleydavis5060 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The 32 min mark is what you need to write down and never forget while in the dating streets BECAUSE IT IS EVERYTHING that will keep ANY AND EVERY marriage going. ❤🎉

  • @CrystalTutton
    @CrystalTutton หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    MAN! Watching this episode has increased my love and respect for Priscilla Shirer and her family! #MarriageGoals ❤

  • @robenajefferson9447
    @robenajefferson9447 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This is one of THE best podcasts to date. Their honesty and authenticity were profound, encouraging, and inspiring. Thanks Latrius ❤️

  • @clarity32123
    @clarity32123 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    These conversations are SO important and should be required watching (as opposed to reading) for anyone contemplating a serious relationship. Thank you and abundant blessings!

  • @MinisterRickiLBlakeney
    @MinisterRickiLBlakeney หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am so grateful to have a husband who is also kind, loving, considerate, thoughtful. Whew... it's such a blessing from heaven to have a man who loves with intentionality.

    • @peaceeve11
      @peaceeve11 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen I receive by faith.....

  • @robynlevel925
    @robynlevel925 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Their relationship is a great example of what submitting to one another (AS you submit to God) looks like. They BOTH at some point asked God to change their hearts in order to line up with God’s will for their lives. ❤

  • @monicalouis8333
    @monicalouis8333 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am in tears. What a beautiful couple! Jerry is so powerful in that his wife can be herself and he can be himself and they are not in competition with each other. He doesn’t feel like he has to upstage her or get one up on her. He knows who he is and who he has in his life. So many marriages are not like this!!!

  • @jlee04
    @jlee04 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    "IN WRITING!!!! I WILL HAVE IT IN WRITING!!!!!" My God that's good!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @EvaGordonabetterlife
    @EvaGordonabetterlife 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Jerry said the scales fell of his eyes to see that his wife was happy with acting.

  • @shhs8815
    @shhs8815 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love how they sacrificed vulnerability sharing the difficult times to help someone else. Thank you!

  • @DeJureAfrikan
    @DeJureAfrikan หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I laughed. I cried. More importantly, I learned so much from their union. Thank you All for this Blessing!🙏🏾

  • @angelaaaron9253
    @angelaaaron9253 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The Shirers are examples of allowing God to direct you!!! I love this couple and love hearing Priscilla preach the Word!!!

  • @SheyB-sl5kg
    @SheyB-sl5kg หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The counterbalance and the sounding board of an older, wiser voice of wisdom. Marriage Mentors. That's so wise. Having a healthy spiritual authority. ❤

  • @mosesiraguha3189
    @mosesiraguha3189 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Wow!! Wow!! such a profound statement, " I married her but made a covenant with God".

  • @dianawilliams5193
    @dianawilliams5193 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thoroughly enjoyed this episode ❤️❤️! I just love the characteristics of Jerry. God bless this couple.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
    I’ve been fasting and praying to God for clarity and He led me to this episode. When Priscilla said she told God to change her heart if this man is her husband and He did, this hit me! Because this is what God is trying to tell me.. 🥹🥹

  • @mechellemoore9446
    @mechellemoore9446 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Mr. Jerry Shirer. On the couch. In person. Giving us the gems. I picked up every one that he dropped. Laterras, booooy the prayers you & your team have sent up for the guest to be on this show. I am toooo excited to see what God has next for you, not this podcast but for YOU!!!! Thank you for your obedience & transparency.

  • @dominiquelong9773
    @dominiquelong9773 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Omg this has been the Best one of 2024. The Pure Love and joy of the lord is all over them .😭😭🙏🏽💃🏽🙌🏼

  • @ov.ministries846
    @ov.ministries846 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Jerry, is indeed a man of accountability and integrity. I like his pattern

  • @lediawhiteside9964
    @lediawhiteside9964 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    An Episode that can be watched over and over again. “Wisdom for their marriage “. “The Counter Balance”, “If that brother is not submitted to someone you can see “. I have been Blessed. Thanks for sharing this. Blessings

  • @TreneaSays
    @TreneaSays 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    This was hands down your best interview. Thank you for all the gems I extracted from their experience.

  • @KOEKOEWITHASMILE
    @KOEKOEWITHASMILE หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love her silent meekness and humility towards her husband

  • @user-mg4fk2zx6r
    @user-mg4fk2zx6r หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    When he said I don't care about that had me on the floor cracking up 😅

    • @bethbrookes
      @bethbrookes หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @ivygrand9905
      @ivygrand9905 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😅

  • @lvc9835
    @lvc9835 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The way the Kendrick Bros. guided War Room, which by the way I absolutely LOVE and was introduced to Priscilla through, is awesome. Being meticulous, and intentional with the actors/actresses marriage is a ministry in itself. It's a God Thing. That's why War Room was so good.
    Also, many men won't submit to anyone, that's the problem.
    Great interview!
    BTW-Dear Future Wifey is a beautiful ministry as well.
    Kudos to you and keep the hits coming!

  • @OnyejelemAmarachi
    @OnyejelemAmarachi หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I first saw Priscilla and thought to download the video to watch later, because i never get to miss any of her content that come on my TH-cam feed, but seeing Jerry. I paused everything to LISTEN
    This is a power couple!❤
    So beautiful.
    Please do write a book on PARENTING.

  • @reneejones2183
    @reneejones2183 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I unexpectedly lost my loving husband of 29 yrs 176 days ago. 😢. This interview has so much godly wisdom. I can testify to the truths discussed.

  • @mercyalaofin5015
    @mercyalaofin5015 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Two people who are sincerely submitted to the Lord, to spiritual authority and committed to one another

  • @lorahill-carney4522
    @lorahill-carney4522 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This man literally had me in tears and trust me when I tell you that is not easy! I always knew that Priscilla was a power house but I never knew her husband was too. This is absolutely amazing to me!😊😊😊

  • @allofthenames77
    @allofthenames77 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I have replayed the part (21:42) about her grandmother's words a million times. Her grandmother's statement about Jerry was so powerful.

    • @Abishaiah
      @Abishaiah 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I've used the toold and TH-cam clipped it too,😊 to watch over and over. It's a gem❤

  • @mrs.muffett3982
    @mrs.muffett3982 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Beautiful interview. I’m so glad Jerry came around and allowed Priscilla to continue to thrive in her gifting because what God has for you IS for you. No man can stop that. Priscilla is gifted beyond measure. A powerhouse for our time. Prayers up for Jerry as he covers the Woman of God and powerhouse of gifting from the Lord.

  • @tracycooper9026
    @tracycooper9026 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This interview is priceless! I remember Priscilla sharing how she and Jerry got together in her book, A Jewel in His Crown. This very book helped me in my own singleness journey. Priscilla thank you for your transparency in sharing your hiccups, failed relationships and how God used them all to prepare you for Jerry.