Love the defiance. I’ve heard the term for my combat boots ‘ man repellent’ women can choose their style and a good man will think they’re beautiful no matter what they wear. Great topic 🙏🏽
Lash extensions I think is a winner for both men and women but many woman are too extra with them that it can look 'ridiculous' at times. Less is more. I LOVE my lash extensions.
@@jeanellreynolds7291 that doesn't mean they NEED to wear them. They want to. Because it's a personal choice. And you don't need to adhere to beauty standards especially when you're going through something like chemotherapy.
My husband loves my long nails and gets so excited when I wear red lipstick. I also have fake eyelashes. Oh, and I just cut bangs. He also loves my Doc Martens. I guess I better keep him! ❤
I love this video! It’s so true! Girl you are hilarious! I actually wore one of those puffy, bedazzled headbands to work a few weeks ago and our president walked through our office and looked at me with a serious face and said “Hi Melissa, is it your birthday? Is that why you’re wearing a crown?” I said yes, you guessed it. 😬 He said “Really” and I was like, no not really. 🤭🫣😂 I don’t think he’ll be asking anymore apparel questions to anyone anytime soon. 🥴
@@StyleHard my favorite..... listen Mathew connect the beard!.... also hey guys.... I love a man in a slim pant suit with saville row shoes and a tench...... tres sexy but you guys are still rocking your baggy jeans and plaid shirts..... can I say Yuck any louder???
@@StyleHard bjr enchanté de vous connaître sur TH-cam je mapel Bernard je vie seul avec ma chienne câline je vivais au Canada au Québec été dans la gendarmerie de la marine nationale au Québec en retraite à 55ans été fonctionnaire jet vendu ma maison au Québec au Canada pour vivre en France à carentan les marais base Normandie France je recherche une relation pour refaire ma vie je suis très gentil correcte et poli décontracté doux calme je fume pas je bois pas acoll passé une bonne journée écrié moi un message bis de bernard de carentan les marais base Normandie France 💏💏💏💏💏💏et 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦et 🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I actually agree with men on all these except bangs. If you have a l-o-n-g skinny face, they help to shorten it and make it appear fuller. As for combat boots, I like the low heeled variety.
I HATE the freckle tend. Omg HATE HATE ALSO, I bought a Gucci bag yesterday because I wanted it and I thought you be excited for me. My friends aren’t into fashion so I have literally no one to tell 😂😂❤❤
I can’t with your hilarious commentary 🤣🤣 I 100% agree! Literally wore one of these beautiful headbands the other day and one of my friends kept looking at it while she was trying to talk to me! Funny you mentioned it 😂
I feel like that those strict opinions about "this doesn't look feminine" mean that the guy just objectifies women. Because those guys who fall in love with the personality of a woman understand those combat boots, those fringes, those red lipsticks because these attributes form style and self-expression, they tell a story about inner world of a woman.
Lol it's funny how you say you “can't be stylish” in Toronto because you just want to be warm, when I think the same thing about Jakarta because it's so hot/humid & I LOVE autumn fashion. 🍁🍂🧡✨💫 PS: i love headbands & i casually dated one guy who loved it when I wore them. Thank you for making this video 🙏🏼🙏🏼 who cares what the boys think lol
Love Urban Revivo look but I am one size too large to fit. So instead I'm making my own. Tbh I don't like these trends either, except the dark lip. But thats the point isn't it? Wear what you like and what suits you :)
I’m so glad I have the husband that I have 😄 he’s my biggest cheerleader 💕 he knows I like to experiment with fashion and is all here for it. He gets the details “I see what you did there” The one time he was hesitant was when I told him that I was going to get a pixie cut. He couldn’t imagine me with short hair. Once I showed up with the new cut, wearing what I wear he goes “ah yes, I get it now😍” I know that his favorite hairstyle on me is a short Bob, so when I grew out the pixie I kept a bob for a moment. Tonight we’re going out for his birthday and he asked me what cool thing I’m wearing. “Ah probably X with Y and Z” “oh, I’m gonna have to step up my game tonight”
I have to say that specially the first 3 that you mentioned when exaggerated are tacky! Big lashes, big nails (specially with crystals) are sooo tacky! The headbands always reminds me of the lady that use to judge the cakes in the Food Network🤣
I am 65. Not married. I love my chunky loafers, I just bought 2 pairs & my chunky combat boots. I dress for myself. If I could wear a headband & a red lip I would just not my style. Great video. ❤
I agree, everyone can wear whatever they feel good wearing, that being said, I want to wear what my husband likes, he wears what I like, fortunately we have very similar style however, we are 58 amd 60, We like being attracted to one another.
A lot of these seem like thing men don’t like because they scream high maintenance woman. But men treat LOW maintenance women like CRAP. So ignore the men in the cheap seats and go for those high value men who will respect a high value woman. Low value men are only looking for someone to exploit anyway.
Not a trend but the only thing guys ever comment to me on not liking is a short pixie hairstyle «you’d look so much cuter with long hair» 😑 Well, guess which hairstyle I have been rocking for years by now 😂😂😂
Love this and your approach.. spicy, direct and funny.. I love my chunky white loafers 😂 hate lashes except for when I'm going to a event and my plum lip in the fall. Keep up the good work.
I much prefer men in beards neat trimmed beards, neat trimmed hair,,neat short nails neat clothing not baggy not saggy not worn out not too downscale hoodies, sweatshirts, t shirts...no thanks on the other hand I dont like a man to look like it took HIM longer to get ready than it took me!
It’s funny because I def get approached more when I wear a lip, but I know most men don’t like when their girl wears it. Including mine haha. But he likes combat boots
💟 Enjoyed your take on what men hate! Yep, I agree... women need to wear what makes them feel beautiful & confident regardless of the negatIve male opinion !!! If your man has that much control over you then please do yourself a big favor & recognize it's a BIG " red flag" so time to move on !!! 💟💜💟
This is everything!! 👏🏼My toxic ex used to say babe why don’t you just bum it I said Babe you are with the wrong woman if you don’t like how I dress then you are the problem not me. My now husband although he doesn’t like bangs either is so supportive when it comes to my style choices I appreciate him❤ also your videos are so awesome, honest, and empowering thank you for your amazing content ✨
While I agree we should do what we like to make ourselves feel good… why wouldn’t you want your current partner or future potential partner to be attracted to your look? Seems to me many who say otherwise wouldn’t want their guy to walk around in clothing or looks they didn’t care for. How about your guy feels good in his sweat pants and feels good and thinks his tight workout shirt is attractive, wearing that to your office holiday party or even to the movies and dinner,,,,, have feeling shoe on other foot maybe a bit lil fitting as they say
The only things my husband has indicated not liking for style is sweater dresses and bandeau bikini tops, Mostly because he thinks they're not very functional. In his defense, I'm either freezing or sweating when I wear my sweater dress and spent at least a few days with my bandeau tied on my head to keep my scalp from burning at the beach. I'm a big fan of people wearing whatever the heck they want to.
My husband loves my chunky loafers and combat boots - so does he when I wear red lipstick - not wearing any of the the "other trends"... so I wouldnt know.
I had a guy say he doesn’t think black women should wear red 💄 that was the most offensive comment I ever heard. My husband said he doesn’t like to kiss red lips but I look amazing in it.
My husband just LOVES my lashes calls it my eyelash power he pays for me to have eyelash extensions he loves them I do too!! I have to be careful though because they bother my eyes. However I love relaxed jeans I showed them to my husband and he made a face 😂😂😂 And said I really love your skinny jeans they compliment your butt!!! Sorry babe skinny jeans are the thing right now!! I actually don’t care what he thinks because he dresses terribly and doesn’t listen to me!!!
Please do a video addressing the Balenciaga's recent add campaign. As an influencer there is a responsibility to point out the wrongs and disgusting things companies do. thx so much :)
I love this video so much 😂wear the loafers to lose the toxic man it’s so true! If you wear a combo of all of them he may bolt out the door even faster 😂bye bye 👋
I love the headbands too! It looks very feminine! Guys in general are practical beings and I think they don’t understand us woman who wear not practical, needed items. It confuses them and doesn’t make sense to them
Some women go overboard with the nails and the lashes....I can't even talk to someone who lashes are overpowering because all i see is the lashes going up and down and it's very distracting...Over extended nails are yuck and remind me of bacteria...I don't see anything wrong with bangs, red lipstick or chunky loafers....Nothing wrong with lashes and nails either but some women look crazy when they are over extended..
Urban revivo just isn’t size inclusive like, at all. Any time you’ve ever featured them I’ve looked at some pieces bc they’re beautiful and they go XS-L which is leaving a lot of us out unfortunately
I dont agree about fringe and red lipstick. Men looove red lipstick. And in general men love red on women.
They love it red lipstick from a far 😊but they hate to make out with it on
@@emilyc5625 then they should hate make up in general and wigs too
@@LTNZ1 they hate those too. They like the fantasy image but hate the reality of it. They are contradictory
@@rush5667 yes they are. Because they say one and like another. However men love red lipstick and red in general is very beautiful and eye catching.
I’d say maybe it’s about preference because I know numerous men who dislike red lipstick including my husband 😅
Love the defiance. I’ve heard the term for my combat boots ‘ man repellent’ women can choose their style and a good man will think they’re beautiful no matter what they wear. Great topic 🙏🏽
Lash extensions I think is a winner for both men and women but many woman are too extra with them that it can look 'ridiculous' at times. Less is more. I LOVE my lash extensions.
Agree. Some people that have lost their hair and lashes need to wear them.
@@jeanellreynolds7291 that doesn't mean they NEED to wear them. They want to. Because it's a personal choice. And you don't need to adhere to beauty standards especially when you're going through something like chemotherapy.
@@spacebar9733 no I agree. Everything is a personal choice. I personally want the lashes for the fullness.🤷🏽
Agree
My husband loves my long nails and gets so excited when I wear red lipstick. I also have fake eyelashes. Oh, and I just cut bangs. He also loves my Doc Martens. I guess I better keep him! ❤
Mine tooo! Red Lipstick and Red nails he's like wait is it My birthday because it's his favorite lol
@@shanequasauceda7251 Ha ha right! “Is it my birthday?” 😂😂😂
“You know what, Jason? I really don’t give a rat’s ass.” 😂😂😂😂😂
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I love this video! It’s so true! Girl you are hilarious!
I actually wore one of those puffy, bedazzled headbands to work a few weeks ago and our president walked through our office and looked at me with a serious face and said “Hi Melissa, is it your birthday? Is that why you’re wearing a crown?” I said yes, you guessed it. 😬 He said “Really” and I was like, no not really. 🤭🫣😂 I don’t think he’ll be asking anymore apparel questions to anyone anytime soon. 🥴
It is so funny when you make all the faces saying We dont care!🤣 Thank you, this is so refreshing and empowering! 😘🙌
Right?! 😂😂🙏🏼😘
@@StyleHard my favorite..... listen Mathew connect the beard!.... also hey guys.... I love a man in a slim pant suit with saville row shoes and a tench...... tres sexy but you guys are still rocking your baggy jeans and plaid shirts..... can I say Yuck any louder???
@@StyleHard bjr enchanté de vous connaître sur TH-cam je mapel Bernard je vie seul avec ma chienne câline je vivais au Canada au Québec été dans la gendarmerie de la marine nationale au Québec en retraite à 55ans été fonctionnaire jet vendu ma maison au Québec au Canada pour vivre en France à carentan les marais base Normandie France je recherche une relation pour refaire ma vie je suis très gentil correcte et poli décontracté doux calme je fume pas je bois pas acoll passé une bonne journée écrié moi un message bis de bernard de carentan les marais base Normandie France 💏💏💏💏💏💏et 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦et 🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
1. Headbands
2. Fake lashes
3. Long, fake nails
4. Chunky loafers
5. Fringe bangs
6. Chunky combat boots
7. Dark lipstick
I actually agree with men on all these except bangs. If you have a l-o-n-g skinny face, they help to shorten it and make it appear fuller. As for combat boots, I like the low heeled variety.
These are all facts. She hit it right on the head especially red lipstick .
Totally agree with the chunky boots and loafers!! Love them too and I hope they stay on trend for a long time!!
"Sir, DO YOU THINK WE'RE KISSING TONIGHT???" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please make this a series🙌 so good!
Gotta agree with the guys on the headband thing
Maybe next time you should do a video on what women hate to see men wearing? Loved this video, though!
Yes!!!! It’s a long list! But first Can they stop wearing things with holes from high school??
"Just do you," is the greatest fashion advice of all time! Keep on, keeping on!
You can pry the puffy-padded headbands from my cold, dead hands.
Another one: the Bottega pouch and the dupes. My bf keeps telling me it looks like a trash bag 😂 I’ve heard multiple guys trash the pouch clutch trend
I would never wear anything my husband REALLY hated. That said, most women dress for other women when it comes to style.
Love the chunky shoe trend and I do love a bang on others. I have curly hair also so it’s a lot for me.
I HATE the freckle tend. Omg HATE HATE
ALSO, I bought a Gucci bag yesterday because I wanted it and I thought you be excited for me. My friends aren’t into fashion so I have literally no one to tell 😂😂❤❤
Yay! I hope you enjoy your bag!
I can’t with your hilarious commentary 🤣🤣 I 100% agree!
Literally wore one of these beautiful headbands the other day and one of my friends kept looking at it while she was trying to talk to me! Funny you mentioned it 😂
I’m actually laughing so hard rn 😂😭🤣🤣
I feel like that those strict opinions about "this doesn't look feminine" mean that the guy just objectifies women. Because those guys who fall in love with the personality of a woman understand those combat boots, those fringes, those red lipsticks because these attributes form style and self-expression, they tell a story about inner world of a woman.
Fun topic. My husband hate a lot of trends but he has no choice but to bare with it lmaooo.
Chunky boots foreva
Lol it's funny how you say you “can't be stylish” in Toronto because you just want to be warm, when I think the same thing about Jakarta because it's so hot/humid & I LOVE autumn fashion. 🍁🍂🧡✨💫 PS: i love headbands & i casually dated one guy who loved it when I wore them. Thank you for making this video 🙏🏼🙏🏼 who cares what the boys think lol
Love that! Yes extreme heat, same problem!!
Love Urban Revivo look but I am one size too large to fit. So instead I'm making my own. Tbh I don't like these trends either, except the dark lip. But thats the point isn't it? Wear what you like and what suits you :)
My husband HATES anything that’s not a skinny jean. 😂
Same.
Mine too!
I’m so glad I have the husband that I have 😄 he’s my biggest cheerleader 💕 he knows I like to experiment with fashion and is all here for it. He gets the details “I see what you did there”
The one time he was hesitant was when I told him that I was going to get a pixie cut. He couldn’t imagine me with short hair. Once I showed up with the new cut, wearing what I wear he goes “ah yes, I get it now😍” I know that his favorite hairstyle on me is a short Bob, so when I grew out the pixie I kept a bob for a moment.
Tonight we’re going out for his birthday and he asked me what cool thing I’m wearing. “Ah probably X with Y and Z” “oh, I’m gonna have to step up my game tonight”
Dang that's pretty cool. I'm jealous of you guys lol
I get hit on soooo much with my cargo pants , combat boots and crop top haha
If uou're looking hot 'n' healthy and you feel comfortable, that's all it takes! 👌
I have to say that specially the first 3 that you mentioned when exaggerated are tacky! Big lashes, big nails (specially with crystals) are sooo tacky! The headbands always reminds me of the lady that use to judge the cakes in the Food Network🤣
I am 65. Not married. I love my chunky loafers, I just bought 2 pairs & my chunky combat boots. I dress for myself. If I could wear a headband & a red lip I would just not my style. Great video. ❤
Love the fabulous clothes! And you rock them pieces. You look like a 60s model but so 2000 👌🏽
I am rocking my gray & white, 70 year old fringy bangs. I’ve had no one tell me anything negative about them. 😁👍🏼
Yeah, I think bangs is a face thing, not a fashion trend thing. ( Maybe it was, like 60y ago, not now ).
I agree, everyone can wear whatever they feel good wearing, that being said, I want to wear what my husband likes, he wears what I like, fortunately we have very similar style however, we are 58 amd 60, We like being attracted to one another.
I love red lipstick (guys do too I think). And natural looking fake lashes. I like bangs only on some people.
I’m obsessed with hairbands! That one shocked me lol
Me tooooooo
😂😂 too bad for them 😂
@@javanesemystic 😂
@@StyleHard yes because I’m not stopping
This is kinda location specific. However I do agree the false eyelashes and nails is universal.
Girl you are not holding back and I am here for it 😂😂 I cannot stop laughing while watching this video 😂😂 You're hilarious 🤣
You are so funny 😘 I love the new generation of women who are so self assertive. They don’t think they exist to please men ❤️
Loved this video 🎉❤🎊I dress for myself because I feel confident in my clothes…Not to impress some guys I don’t even know!
I just came across your page. I love you! I wear what I want and don't care what men say. I always look good. You rock!
Love your videos and attitude! That's right, we girls have to do what makes us happy. Not pleasing men all the time! Amen to that!! 🤩🤗
High waist pants, colorful eyeshadows and uggs too 😂😂
Walmart has a houndstooth bag like that.
A lot of these seem like thing men don’t like because they scream high maintenance woman. But men treat LOW maintenance women like CRAP. So ignore the men in the cheap seats and go for those high value men who will respect a high value woman. Low value men are only looking for someone to exploit anyway.
Preach! You'll take my chunky loafers over my cold, dead feet
😂😂
Not a trend but the only thing guys ever comment to me on not liking is a short pixie hairstyle «you’d look so much cuter with long hair» 😑 Well, guess which hairstyle I have been rocking for years by now 😂😂😂
I recently heard some guys saying a trend they would love to see go is parachute pants on woman 😂😂😂😂
Matthew connect the bears 😂😂 ☠️
...and jumpsuits!
Love the tude Fashion Mom so needed a girl power boost as I spend hrs cooking today! YESSSS to all of it love them all rock them all 4EVER!
I’ve never met a man who likes red lipstick and most hate red nails too. They also hate baggy clothes… like those mom jeans for obvious reasons lol
My man loves my chunky loafers! He thinks they're cool! 😍
I loved this
Love this and your approach.. spicy, direct and funny.. I love my chunky white loafers 😂 hate lashes except for when I'm going to a event and my plum lip in the fall. Keep up the good work.
I much prefer men in beards neat trimmed beards, neat trimmed hair,,neat short nails neat clothing not baggy not saggy not worn out not too downscale hoodies, sweatshirts, t shirts...no thanks on the other hand I dont like a man to look like it took HIM longer to get ready than it took me!
Great video!!! What top are you wearing under the blazer? Also, is there extra duty charges besides shipping? Canadian here❤
Thank you for sharing.
Also, not every guy looks good in a beard.
Thank you love you keep up the great work.❤❤❤
Loved this! 🫶🏻
It’s funny because I def get approached more when I wear a lip, but I know most men don’t like when their girl wears it. Including mine haha. But he likes combat boots
I love this video. It was hilarious 😂😂
Chunky loafers are SO cute, so are all of the other things on this list. 🫶🏻
💟 Enjoyed your take on what men hate! Yep, I agree... women need to wear what makes them feel beautiful & confident regardless of the negatIve male opinion !!! If your man has that much control over you then please do yourself a big favor & recognize it's a BIG " red flag" so time to move on !!!
💟💜💟
LOL my guy hates the chunky shoes but I don’t care I’m a 90s girl.
This is everything!! 👏🏼My toxic ex used to say babe why don’t you just bum it I said Babe you are with the wrong woman if you don’t like how I dress then you are the problem not me. My now husband although he doesn’t like bangs either is so supportive when it comes to my style choices I appreciate him❤ also your videos are so awesome, honest, and empowering thank you for your amazing content ✨
I love your look book!!
While I agree we should do what we like to make ourselves feel good… why wouldn’t you want your current partner or future potential partner to be attracted to your look? Seems to me many who say otherwise wouldn’t want their guy to walk around in clothing or looks they didn’t care for. How about your guy feels good in his sweat pants and feels good and thinks his tight workout shirt is attractive, wearing that to your office holiday party or even to the movies and dinner,,,,, have feeling shoe on other foot maybe a bit lil fitting as they say
Regardless what guys don’t like they will , willingly speak to a beautiful woman with all of them 🤷🏿♀️
The only things my husband has indicated not liking for style is sweater dresses and bandeau bikini tops, Mostly because he thinks they're not very functional. In his defense, I'm either freezing or sweating when I wear my sweater dress and spent at least a few days with my bandeau tied on my head to keep my scalp from burning at the beach.
I'm a big fan of people wearing whatever the heck they want to.
I was laughing at your description of the sweater dress and alternative use of the bandeau! 😂😂😂
Toxic masculine guy? I love my chunky loafers!
My husband loves my chunky loafers and combat boots - so does he when I wear red lipstick - not wearing any of the the "other trends"... so I wouldnt know.
I had a guy say he doesn’t think black women should wear red 💄 that was the most offensive comment I ever heard. My husband said he doesn’t like to kiss red lips but I look amazing in it.
My husband just LOVES my lashes calls it my eyelash power he pays for me to have eyelash extensions he loves them I do too!! I have to be careful though because they bother my eyes. However I love relaxed jeans I showed them to my husband and he made a face 😂😂😂 And said I really love your skinny jeans they compliment your butt!!! Sorry babe skinny jeans are the thing right now!! I actually don’t care what he thinks because he dresses terribly and doesn’t listen to me!!!
Btw I don’t have the crazy OTT lashes.
My husband loves the way my lips look when I wear red/dark/bright lipstick but says he "haaates makeup".
9:25 Yes! I absolutely 100% dress for myself, idgaf what anybody else thinks.
Hilarious! 😂 my partner does love when I wear combat boots. Maybe his military service time has influenced that 😆 but all others I agree
Where is your beautiful mini skirt from the look book from?
Thank you!
Great video!
Please do a video addressing the Balenciaga's recent add campaign. As an influencer there is a responsibility to point out the wrongs and disgusting things companies do. thx so much :)
What top are you wearing??
ok where is that white chair from?
Hi Meytal 😊 just like you I live in Toronto; do you have to pay duties for Urban Revivo purchases ?
It’s hard to understand how Urban Revivos sizes are as follows: an X-LARGE is equal to size 10…..seriously 😢
Love you Fashion Mom. Thanks for your great video 👏🙌✨💕
Men love red lipstick.
That black and white short, tweed jacket with the gold buttons… was hideous 😔
I love this video so much 😂wear the loafers to lose the toxic man it’s so true! If you wear a combo of all of them he may bolt out the door even faster 😂bye bye 👋
YAAAAS...whether they like it or not. ❣XoX from another Ontarian 🙂
Where is your turtleneck from?
Hi! It’s Mugler ❤️
Just came across your page this is my first time and I think you are amazing love your vibes will defo be watching more 🥰
I love the headbands too! It looks very feminine! Guys in general are practical beings and I think they don’t understand us woman who wear not practical, needed items. It confuses them and doesn’t make sense to them
Yes yes yes love this vid I don’t give a **** I wear it for me and I much rather the girls say oh damn I like her fit
love this video!
😂😂 connect the beard love u, we don't care
Some women go overboard with the nails and the lashes....I can't even talk to someone who lashes are overpowering because all i see is the lashes going up and down and it's very distracting...Over extended nails are yuck and remind me of bacteria...I don't see anything wrong with bangs, red lipstick or chunky loafers....Nothing wrong with lashes and nails either but some women look crazy when they are over extended..
Happy Holidays My Love 🎉
You too ❤❤❤❤
You're so cool
Love the video ❤️ 💕
I love your content but you are hilarious 😅😊
Urban revivo just isn’t size inclusive like, at all. Any time you’ve ever featured them I’ve looked at some pieces bc they’re beautiful and they go XS-L which is leaving a lot of us out unfortunately
Your best video! ❤